Session 116: Adéla

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• 0:00Speaker 00

  Ugh, I hate Mondays.

• 0:01Speaker 01

  King's Hawaiian Cinnamon Swirl Bite?

• 0:03Speaker 00

  Uh, Taylor Hansen? Sure, I'll try one. Mmm.

• 0:09Speaker 01

  Hey, let's get back to work, please.

• 0:10Speaker 00

  But Taylor Hansen's making my day way better with these new soft and swirly King's Hawaiian Cinnamon Bites.

• 0:15Speaker 01

  Taylor Hansen? Nice. Try one. Mmm.

• 0:22Speaker 02

  King's Hawaiian Cinnamon Bites. There's nothing like it.

• 0:41Speaker 03

  Adella is on Therapist tonight. We are so excited. I, my bo, like, the-

• 0:48Speaker 04

  Uh huh.

• 0:49Speaker 03

  I, um-

• 0:51Speaker 04

  Uh huh, I can see your struggle.

• 0:52Speaker 03

  I, I'm really, I've been very manic today and like, I feel good, like, when I was on a call, me and Louise had a call earlier, and I kept asking for like, pats on the back throughout the entire call.

• 1:05Speaker 04

  Uh huh.

• 1:05Speaker 03

  Like, I kept texting her, being like, "I'm doing good, right?" Cause like, and that's how manic I was.

• 1:09Speaker 04

  I feel like you're not manic today. You're not giving me manic energy at all. You're actually giving me good energy.

• 1:15Speaker 03

  No, but, so that's the thing is-

• 1:16Speaker 04

  I've seen mania.

• 1:17Speaker 03

  But that thing, you see it?

• 1:18Speaker 04

  I've seen your mania, this is not it. It is like, nothing I've ever experienced with anyone else.

• 1:24Speaker 03

  What, what is it like? How would you describe it?

• 1:26Speaker 04

  I would, it would be, I would be sitting here for 30 seconds, I'd look at my phone, 46 texts.

• 1:31Speaker 03

  Shut up.

• 1:32Speaker 04

  You do that. You're a spammer, and you're very impulsive. You know that about yourself, come on. You're the most impulsive person ever. Jake will decide that he wants to do something so random, and then, he won't consult anyone, he won't think about it for more than 15 seconds, and he does it, and then instantly, he's like, "What have I done?" We're like, "We told you to fucking breathe, and you never do." Um, Friday night. What happened Friday?

• 2:00Speaker 05

  That is a great way to put what happened Friday night.

• 2:03Speaker 03

  I started if I-

• 2:04Speaker 04

  I hate when you do that.

• 2:05Speaker 05

  I said, "You need to breathe." He starts spam texting him. I'm like, "Put your phone down, enjoy the concert, and we'll call him tomorrow."

• 2:12Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 2:12Speaker 05

  Like, that's all, that's all that you need to do.

• 2:15Speaker 03

  And by the way, the lack of impulsion because I listened to my friends led me to a moment of realization the next day that I actually wasn't that mad. I was just-

• 2:25Speaker 05

  You weren't that mad.

• 2:25Speaker 03

  I was insecure.

• 2:26Speaker 05

  Uh huh.

• 2:27Speaker 03

  I just, every time I have this brief moment of insecurity, I like really, like that is like my most manic.

• 2:34Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 2:35Speaker 03

  And it's like, but I don't have a problem saying I'm insecure, but I guess I do sometimes.

• 2:40Speaker 04

  And I feel like you do listen. You'll take the criticism, you take the clock, and then you're like-

• 2:44Speaker 03

  I do listen to the clock.

• 2:46Speaker 05

  You clocked it on Friday. You did. I was proud of you.

• 2:49Speaker 03

  But like, I used to not.

• 2:50Speaker 04

  Cause you weren't in a place to listen.

• 2:55Speaker 04

  Neither was I, my love.

• 3:01Speaker 04

  It's beyond. Every time I'm fucking doing this with you, I'm congested. Like, the way I know that you'll fucking clock my ass if I like snort right now and I need to so badly. It's like right here.

• 3:18Speaker 04

  I don't feel well.

• 3:22Speaker 05

  It's not okay today.

• 3:24Speaker 04

  And I'm in these pajama pants. Oh, we were just at Coachella. Like, we're not giving a timeline.

• 3:29Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 3:29Speaker 04

  We just got home from Coachella, an hour ago.

• 3:31Speaker 03

  Dare I say?

• 3:34Speaker 04

  Can you tell? I'm in merch.

• 3:35Speaker 03

  That was the Coachella. We-

• 3:38Speaker 05

  That was the best Coachella we've ever done.

• 3:40Speaker 03

  Ever, ever, ever. We, I, I used, I've seen one artist max a day.

• 3:46Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 3:47Speaker 03

  And it's like, why not lean in? Why not go at 3pm?

• 3:53Speaker 04

  Well, I know why. Cause it's too fucking long, but-

• 3:58Speaker 04

  3pm for you, my love. I go when I go. And I will meet you there. Everyone did their own thing.

• 4:06Speaker 03

  Charlie went at 4.

• 4:07Speaker 04

  Charlie went at 4. I also still am like, I'm racking, racking my brain. When did you go at 3? Jake never went early. The earliest you went was maybe 5.

• 4:19Speaker 03

  What time did we leave for the festival that day? No, you came early on Friday. I came early.

• 4:24Speaker 04

  We went at 5:30.

• 4:26Speaker 03

  5:30.

• 4:27Speaker 04

  5:30, not early. 2 and a half hour difference.

• 4:32Speaker 04

  But we party all night.

• 4:34Speaker 05

  Yeah.

• 4:38Speaker 04

  That's why, like, if you're gonna go at 3, like, you can be asleep by 1. Follow your bliss. We're gonna go at 5 and we will see you at 8 in the morning.

• 4:48Speaker 04

  Why are you laughing at me so much today?

• 4:50Speaker 03

  You're making me laugh. Okay, so my favorite set of the weekend?

• 4:53Speaker 05

  Septronics.

• 4:56Speaker 05

  No. You guys don't know what happened to me there. My soul left my body.

• 5:03Speaker 04

  No. Cass was in her Chrome Hearts beanie? And she had that beanie and...

• 5:09Speaker 03

  A dream.

• 5:10Speaker 04

  And a dream.

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  It was the best thing I've ever experienced.

• 5:15Speaker 03

  No, I'm sure it was.

• 5:17Speaker 05

  I'm not even kidding. My soul left my body. I was looking around, like, it was euphoric.

• 5:23Speaker 03

  So the reason I'm so shocked is because this was Sunday.

• 5:27Speaker 05

  Sunday night.

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  Sunday night, the last set we went to.

• 5:30Speaker 05

  10pm, Sunday night.

• 5:31Speaker 03

  I am shocked, like, I wasn't alive Sunday morning. I had to go home. I had to, because I knew from my mental health this week, if I did not arrive home in my bed on Sunday, I would need Wednesday to recover as well. I can't afford a Wednesday.

• 5:47Speaker 04

  But you knew, I, you knew. And that's why, it's like, you know yourself, go home.

• 5:50Speaker 03

  I'm shocked, good for you, I'm so happy for you. I had...

• 5:54Speaker 05

  Today it's hitting me, clearly. I've slept all day. I haven't

• 5:58Speaker 04

  I think you're just low on sleep, but like, do you feel really horrible?

• 6:00Speaker 05

  Yes.

• 6:01Speaker 04

  I honestly like

• 6:02Speaker 05

  I've never felt worse.

• 6:03Speaker 04

  Not to be a bitch, but I feel awesome.

• 6:05Speaker 05

  Well, you stayed in last night.

• 6:07Speaker 04

  I went to Subtronics with you.

• 6:08Speaker 05

  Yes, but after.

• 6:10Speaker 04

  Her and Will went out till four in the morning and that's where I drew the line. We get back.

• 6:14Speaker 05

  So let me explain why this happened, because this is not my fault.

• 6:17Speaker 03

  You after partying three nights in a row? Are you fucking clinical?

• 6:23Speaker 05

  I'm, I'm seriously not well.

• 6:25Speaker 03

  Let me tell you a highlight for me from this weekend.

• 6:27Speaker 04

  Should we peak and pit? Or peak and peak?

• 6:29Speaker 03

  Okay, I have a pet, but let me go with my peak first. My peak, aside from the Bieber Vidal, which is just in a league of its own.

• 6:38Speaker 04

  Right.

• 6:38Speaker 03

  I would say, like, it really was Bieber, Chella, Start to Finish.

• 6:41Speaker 04

  Right.

• 6:42Speaker 03

  At the Strokes, I understand that that is not your type of music and baby,

• 6:46Speaker 04

  Why are you like?

• 6:47Speaker 03

  No, but I understand it is not yours.

• 6:49Speaker 05

  It's not mine. I had a good time. I had a good time.

• 6:52Speaker 03

  It didn't even matter to me that I knew like this wasn't your type of music. I've never in my life had more fun. Ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever in my life, except when I was on Will's shoulders for Sunday. I already feel insecure about like, sometimes I feel like my ass is a little fat.

• 7:11Speaker 04

  Your ass is not fat.

• 7:13Speaker 03

  What, but I did keep.

• 7:14Speaker 05

  You kept asking Will, do you need a break? And I was like, holy shit, Jake, just if he needs a break, he's gonna tell you.

• 7:22Speaker 03

  I knew the Strokes was amazing. Um, I would also say Disclosure.

• 7:26Speaker 04

  Disclosure was euphoric.

• 7:28Speaker 05

  Latch.

• 7:28Speaker 03

  And did I not call that? I said, not many people are gonna go.

• 7:31Speaker 04

  You know.

• 7:32Speaker 03

  Also, everyone went. It was one of the more

• 7:33Speaker 04

  I loved this.

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  The entire weekend.

• 7:35Speaker 04

  It was so awesome.

• 7:36Speaker 03

  When Latch happens.

• 7:38Speaker 04

  My soul left my body. I don't even remember it.

• 7:39Speaker 05

  That was the best.

• 7:40Speaker 04

  Remember it. I blacked out.

• 7:41Speaker 03

  Let me just tell you one thing. I need to make one shout out here and right now, actually two. Sydney and Kayden.

• 7:50Speaker 04

  Are fucking girls.

• 7:53Speaker 03

  If I could send you my soul in a bucket, I would.

• 7:56Speaker 04

  I would.

• 7:57Speaker 03

  I would send you anything.

• 8:00Speaker 04

  They saved us this weekend, single-handedly.

• 8:02Speaker 03

  Our lives. So shout out you for being great company.

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  And perfect.

• 8:08Speaker 03

  Perfect. Made me, literally, every time I saw you both, highlighted my weekend. I was so, listening to music with you guys was some of the most fun I ever had. And also, shout out Poppy for sending that up. Really and truly thank you, like, it was, it made my Coachella. And I understand, that's not normal. It, to me, I am so grateful that it happened, that has never happened. Thank you, and thank you Sydney and Kaden.

• 8:35Speaker 04

  Mic drop. Obviously, you know my peak, and I just can't pick another one. I am the biggest belieber ever. Ten toes down belieber. Cardboard cutout in my room, purple beats in my backpack, Justin Bieber, like, tatted on my wrist, obsessed.

• 8:51Speaker 03

  I've never in my life, I will be honest, ever, ever, ever in my life, had a bigger belieber in the entire world than you.

• 8:59Speaker 04

  I am-

• 8:59Speaker 03

  Every YouTube rabbit hole, every YouTube rabbit hole, you've been down.

• 9:03Speaker 04

  And I love him down, and my love has never died, so obviously, this was so important to me. No, no, no, Bieber-tella. And it's that serious, for me. High swag. I took, I took Jake's sweatshirt, and he's telling me I can't keep it, but I just might have to.

• 9:17Speaker 03

  She can't, cuz I don't know when the next time I'm gonna be able to get my hands on this merch is.

• 9:21Speaker 04

  Anyway, my biggest peak was the whole setlist, but special shout out to when he was doing the songs from Never Say Never.

• 9:32Speaker 03

  Okay, what moment of when he was doing that YouTube DJ set, which I thought, actually, genuinely, was so fucking cool?

• 9:40Speaker 04

  He started on YouTube. He was discovered on YouTube, all of his videos were on YouTube. Like, the video when he did the, um, when he did So Sick, that is like a famous video of him singing to Usher-

• 9:52Speaker 03

  Did people not under-

• 9:53Speaker 04

  On YouTube.

• 9:54Speaker 03

  Did people not understand that moment?

• 9:55Speaker 04

  I don't think people are clocking, and it's like, yeah, you're fucking fake.

• 9:58Speaker 03

  Looking at him, his younger self, to the video, oh, my full body chills, to the- That was insane. No, it was so sick. It was so sick for me, when he did So Sick, and looked at himself, and I was like, I felt like he was really healing himself, and it was one of the more beautiful things I've ever seen.

• 10:15Speaker 04

  I was having an out-of-body experience, and he looked so happy.

• 10:18Speaker 03

  So happy!

• 10:19Speaker 04

  So happy.

• 10:19Speaker 03

  So happy. It was great.

• 10:22Speaker 04

  And you could just tell that that's what he wanted to do. Like, that is the way he wanted to perform, and it's like, yeah, do whatever the fuck you want. And if you're a real fan, and you wanna hear him sing, you will be happy with him, sitting on the laptop, and singing whatever the fuck he wants.

• 10:36Speaker 03

  I agree, and I think if anyone's thinking like, oh, he kept cutting the songs early, duh, so he could play all of them.

• 10:43Speaker 04

  Right, he didn't want to have, he can't have a three hour set.

• 10:46Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 10:46Speaker 04

  Enough.

• 10:47Speaker 03

  It's a little strict.

• 10:47Speaker 04

  And now I'm pissed.

• 10:50Speaker 03

  But what was your favorite moment aside from the Usher one?

• 10:54Speaker 04

  Okay, when my, like, hair was standing up on my body is when he went to click a video, and I think it was Fall, was like, an intro for five seconds, and he clicked off the video and the whole crowd was singing it, and then he started like, lip syncing it, and it's really like, if you know, you know moment, which you obviously didn't know, because you have no idea what I'm talking about.

• 11:11Speaker 03

  What is Fall?

• 11:13Speaker 04

  You fall in love, ooh, my voice is really bad right now.

• 11:19Speaker 03

  Wait, it's never good.

• 11:20Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 11:21Speaker 03

  What? What's Fall?

• 11:23Speaker 04

  I'm pretty sure that was the song.

• 11:24Speaker 03

  Is that like an unreleased song?

• 11:26Speaker 04

  No, no, no, no, no.

• 11:27Speaker 03

  Because that's like, is it like-

• 11:28Speaker 04

  Unbelievable.

• 11:29Speaker 03

  Oh, so it's like a real deep cut? Okay.

• 11:32Speaker 04

  Yeah, and also, I have so many moments, obviously, when he sang Favorite Girl, because that started the throwbacks, and I really, it was a toss-up.

• 11:40Speaker 03

  I was honestly shocked he did Favorite Girl.

• 11:42Speaker 04

  That he was gonna do that.

• 11:43Speaker 03

  And so, for me, would that be like Taylor Swift doing Coachella, and seeing, and when, if she like, drops the archer?

• 11:50Speaker 04

  No.

• 11:52Speaker 03

  Okay, what would it be like then, related to Taylor Swift for me?

• 11:54Speaker 04

  Maybe a Pictures to Burn? Picture to Burn? Yeah, something from Debut, it's very OG, it's from his first album. It's Debut, or like, I'm Only Me When I'm With You. Not Fall, Favorite Girl is from his first album. Yeah. Yeah. It's OG, OG, OG shit. That's one of his best songs.

• 12:12Speaker 03

  It, Should've Said No.

• 12:14Speaker 04

  Yes, yes, yes.

• 12:15Speaker 03

  Should've Said No.

• 12:16Speaker 04

  Yes.

• 12:17Speaker 03

  Should've Said No. If I heard my, if I heard the intro drums to Should've Said No and saw her rocking out on the Coachella stage on a Saturday night to Should've Said, Taylor, ha-

• 12:31Speaker 03

  To do Coachella. When I tell you it would change my life in ways that I would only see her, I wouldn't go anywhere else.

• 12:36Speaker 04

  I know.

• 12:37Speaker 03

  Okay. A peak of mine.

• 12:40Speaker 04

  Did you not already have five peaks?

• 12:42Speaker 03

  No.

• 12:43Speaker 04

  Is it not Cass's turn?

• 12:44Speaker 05

  It is my turn.

• 12:47Speaker 05

  Cat's eye with you, Charlie and Will. And that's crazy because I'm not. It was, that was my, one of my peaks. But that was actually the best time of my life because you guys were like, just come, whatever. I came with you and I was feeling that music so hard. And I think it was just like the night with my gays.

• 13:08Speaker 04

  Yes.

• 13:09Speaker 03

  What do you mean the night with your gays?

• 13:10Speaker 05

  You, Charlie and Will.

• 13:12Speaker 03

  How was the night with your gays? I thought you got real philosophical about like, oh my God, life is so beautiful. This is the first night of Coachella. Like the party's just begun.

• 13:22Speaker 04

  Why would that have meant that?

• 13:25Speaker 05

  I don't know how that.

• 13:26Speaker 04

  A night with my gays, how would that lead to that?

• 13:30Speaker 03

  Gaze, G A Z E. Like the night was my gaze.

• 13:34Speaker 04

  As if Cass is saying the Friday night gaze.

• 13:38Speaker 05

  I don't, I don't even understand that term. So I don't think I would put it that way.

• 13:44Speaker 03

  I had this moment where I was really shocked for a second.

• 13:47Speaker 05

  Sometimes I think you think I have zero brain cells.

• 13:50Speaker 03

  Dude, that was an example of me thinking you had brain cells. Everybody else in the room. Including you.

• 13:58Speaker 05

  What am I saying?

• 13:59Speaker 03

  You said, I don't even know what that means.

• 14:00Speaker 05

  Yeah, you just caught yourself.

• 14:02Speaker 03

  What does gaze mean to you?

• 14:04Speaker 05

  Like gaze, like vision.

• 14:06Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 14:07Speaker 05

  Yeah. What the fuck?

• 14:13Speaker 05

  Like, when would, first of all, when would I say that? Second of all, that night with my gays, my boys.

• 14:19Speaker 03

  I get it.

• 14:19Speaker 05

  Was amazing. Also, my other peak was, I don't know if this really stands as a peak, but you were on the best form of your life this weekend.

• 14:27Speaker 04

  Agreed.

• 14:27Speaker 05

  And like, actually, I was speaking about that with Will 50 times this weekend. He was in, I've never seen him this happy.

• 14:35Speaker 04

  Not one crash out, like no negative energy.

• 14:38Speaker 05

  Best energy you've ever had. And I know you kept saying you didn't want to be a host, but like, you basically did all that for us.

• 14:45Speaker 04

  You were an awesome host.

• 14:46Speaker 05

  You were an awesome host. You were the, I've never seen that energy so high from you ever before. Like that was amazing.

• 14:52Speaker 04

  Yep.

• 14:53Speaker 05

  So.

• 14:53Speaker 04

  You were awesome.

• 14:54Speaker 03

  Can I tell you my worry?

• 14:55Speaker 04

  You carried a vibe.

• 14:56Speaker 03

  That feeling. Cannot be long lasting.

• 15:00Speaker 04

  I knew you were gonna say that.

• 15:01Speaker 03

  I am very concerned that now that I know what that feels like, it is going to make feeling shitty this week that much worse.

• 15:08Speaker 05

  I know. I feel, I get the same way.

• 15:11Speaker 01

  Pause. You should tell him about the power going out.

• 15:14Speaker 03

  Oh, I wanna hear about the power going out because I,

• 15:18Speaker 01

  You don't even know.

• 15:19Speaker 03

  I got in the car. I said, Stella, Elliot, get in the car. We're leaving. The power had just gone out and I just, get home.

• 15:26Speaker 04

  Uh huh.

• 15:27Speaker 03

  What happened?

• 15:28Speaker 04

  We were sitting there. All of a sudden, obviously, everyone's phones stopped charging. The wifi goes out. My cell service is just horrendous. I cannot send a text without wifi. AT&T, fix that. Anywho. I literally, my phone didn't work for two hours. I had to go outside. Obviously, we're in the desert. The house is getting hot. Your worst nightmare.

• 15:52Speaker 03

  It was hot.

• 15:53Speaker 04

  It's getting hot. Ryan's shutting the doors. And Cass is lying outside. My phone doesn't work.

• 15:59Speaker 05

  I had no thoughts this day.

• 16:00Speaker 04

  No thoughts.

• 16:01Speaker 05

  I couldn't even comprehend what was happening. My phone was at 5% and I was like, I'm just gonna let it die. Like, nothing matters.

• 16:08Speaker 04

  And you know, like, I'm like really good at just going with the flow. I usually don't get super stressed. I start to panic. I am walking around in the backyard, holding my phone up. I start lying on the tennis court because I'm like, this is an open area, lots of sky. Maybe I can catch a fucking vibe out here. Maybe I can send a text or two. No. I'm lying on the tennis court. It is blazing fucking sun. I'm dripping fucking sweat. I'm so hot.

• 16:39Speaker 04

  I'm miserable. My phone's dead. I haven't had a text in two hours. But notifications are rolling through. Jake mentioned you in the story. Henry mentioned you in a story. Julia mentioned you in a story. I'm like, what is being posted of me? My phone's not working. And then I go inside, and this is when I know it's bad. The boys were in a bad vibe.

• 17:00Speaker 05

  When Ryan's in a bad vibe, that's when you know it's bad. And that's when I was scared.

• 17:05Speaker 03

  Like, how was he behaving?

• 17:06Speaker 04

  Like, usually, like, when we're like, oh my god, Ryan's like, it's fine, like, let's get you an Advil, let's get you a bagel, let's get up, let's play music, like,

• 17:15Speaker 03

  Right.

• 17:16Speaker 04

  I walk in there. Ryan is staring, blank, sitting on the chair, holding his phone.

• 17:25Speaker 04

  Is your, is your phone working? He goes, no, but you can try to use it. I go, uh-uh.

• 17:34Speaker 04

  And then he was like, I feel really sick. And I was like, this is making me really anxious that you don't feel well because I need you to be there for me.

• 17:40Speaker 03

  What were Luke's vibes?

• 17:42Speaker 04

  He'd ask us a question and we'd answer and he'd still have his noise cancelling pods on and he'd be like, what? I'm like, well, I just answered. Your headphones are still on. It was just like, and it happened for two hours. It was just like, honestly not great.

• 17:56Speaker 03

  Was water working?

• 17:57Speaker 04

  Yeah, but like, obviously when I'm sitting dripping sweat, my phone's not working. My phone's dead. I'm not gonna try to fuck a shower. That won't be blissful for anyone.

• 18:08Speaker 03

  I would have showered.

• 18:09Speaker 05

  I don't know what you would have done. I actually would have been terrified. You would have been pacing around the house, back and forth.

• 18:15Speaker 03

  So moral of the story is Coachella was the best weekend ever.

• 18:18Speaker 04

  The best weekend ever. And this is us being positive. Like, Coachella was awesome.

• 18:23Speaker 03

  Yeah. Enjoy the episode with Adella. It's amazing. She's amazing. Her new song, KGB, is out this Friday. It is fucking fantastic. She is actually so unbelievable. I cannot say enough positive things about how incredible I think she is.

• 18:38Speaker 05

  She's so hot.

• 18:38Speaker 04

  I'm so excited to listen.

• 18:40Speaker 03

  Okay. I love you pussies. Enjoy the episode.

• 18:45Speaker 03

  Hi pussies. Welcome back to Therapists. And tonight we have on pop superstar, Adella.

• 18:52Speaker 06

  Thank you for having me, Jake Shane.

• 18:54Speaker 03

  Thanks for being here. I'm so excited. I adore you.

• 18:58Speaker 06

  I adore you. This is like a dream come true for me.

• 19:02Speaker 03

  To be on Therapists?

• 19:03Speaker 06

  Honestly, honestly, yes, it is.

• 19:06Speaker 03

  Well, thank you.

• 19:07Speaker 06

  It's like winning a Grammy. I like have a speech for this. Imagine.

• 19:09Speaker 03

  Imagine.

• 19:10Speaker 06

  I'm like crying.

• 19:11Speaker 03

  Hi pussies.

• 19:12Speaker 06

  Well, honestly, okay, can I just tell you something?

• 19:14Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 19:15Speaker 06

  When I first like heard of the show Therapists, when it first came out, I was like, kind of, I was like, wait.

• 19:21Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 19:22Speaker 06

  And then you say hi pussies. And I was like, I'm so confused. And then I got into it and I understand it now.

• 19:28Speaker 03

  The octopus.

• 19:29Speaker 06

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I get it. But I'm kind of, wait. I think I know, like, did you review octopus?

• 19:35Speaker 03

  I reviewed octopus. I would like eat it.

• 19:37Speaker 06

  That's

• 19:38Speaker 03

  And then, and then, then I just needed a name for the podcast and it kind of just

• 19:42Speaker 06

  Is that your favorite food? I'm interviewing you.

• 19:45Speaker 03

  No, no, please, I mean, I appreciate it. It is. I love it. I just don't eat it as frequently as I used to.

• 19:50Speaker 06

  That's totally understandable.

• 19:51Speaker 03

  In college, I would do it like four times a week.

• 19:53Speaker 06

  Wow.

• 19:53Speaker 03

  Like when I was like in the height of my review era.

• 19:56Speaker 06

  Wow, four times is a lot. I love octopus too.

• 19:58Speaker 03

  You do?

• 19:59Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 19:59Speaker 03

  How do you like it prepared?

• 20:01Speaker 06

  Grilled.

• 20:01Speaker 03

  Me too.

• 20:04Speaker 06

  But sometimes it gets a little tough, doesn't it?

• 20:06Speaker 03

  Yes. That's what I say. It gets tough and chewy.

• 20:09Speaker 06

  That's right.

• 20:10Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 20:10Speaker 06

  So you have, you do have to actually review.

• 20:12Speaker 03

  Yes, thank you. That's what I said, but then every, yes, yes.

• 20:15Speaker 06

  It is a niche food though, I, but I like that you, you found your niche.

• 20:19Speaker 03

  I appreciate it.

• 20:21Speaker 06

  Really, really, and it really worked out.

• 20:23Speaker 03

  It really did. Somehow, some way, it really worked out. We need to talk about the fact that I just watched a music video for KGB.

• 20:30Speaker 06

  Oh, yay.

• 20:31Speaker 03

  And it's amazing. And it was filmed at the LA Theater.

• 20:34Speaker 06

  Thanks. It was shot at the LA Theater downtown.

• 20:37Speaker 03

  And how many looks in one day?

• 20:38Speaker 06

  Nine.

• 20:39Speaker 03

  Wow.

• 20:39Speaker 06

  I think. We didn't have budge for more than one day.

• 20:42Speaker 03

  Uh huh.

• 20:43Speaker 06

  And that's okay. And that's okay. We said we have one day. Okay.

• 20:48Speaker 03

  And you made that shit work.

• 20:49Speaker 06

  And we made it work. And it was so fun. It was so scary also, but you know, that's fun too. Getting a little bit scared. I just was like, okay.

• 20:59Speaker 03

  What was like scary about it?

• 21:00Speaker 06

  The, the, the schedule.

• 21:01Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 21:02Speaker 06

  It was just like, okay, we have one day. Nine looks. It was just insane. I like had to dance and I had like two takes for every dance shot, um, because they were like, okay, next look. I was like, oh, okay. Um, so I was just like, I better get this shit right.

• 21:17Speaker 03

  Right.

• 21:17Speaker 06

  And I did. At the end of the day, I did.

• 21:19Speaker 03

  And you always do, by the way.

• 21:22Speaker 06

  So, yeah, mostly. I try.

• 21:24Speaker 03

  You really always do.

• 21:26Speaker 06

  Not in rehearsals. Right now I'm rehearsing for tour and I had a, I had a mental breakdown yesterday because it was the first month in and I was like, oh my God, I suck, I suck, I suck. But I have those moments in private. And then people, and then people can just be like, oh, that looks really good.

• 21:38Speaker 03

  How do you feel better when you have those moments?

• 21:41Speaker 06

  Um, I actually don't feel better.

• 21:45Speaker 06

  I actually currently want to, um,

• 21:49Speaker 03

  Die? Yes, that's okay. Me too. Me, and by the way, I woke up, looked at Louise. Louise was trying to talk to me and I just kept going like this.

• 21:59Speaker 06

  The other day I did a run through of my show and it sounded so bad that I just was literally like I was doing a chore like this.

• 22:07Speaker 03

  It's kinda cunty though.

• 22:08Speaker 06

  I was like, call me the KG bitch. I was just like, whatever. Like, whose fault is that that I sound bad? Mine.

• 22:15Speaker 03

  No, you don't. You are your harshest, own harshest critic.

• 22:20Speaker 06

  Right, but then I was like, okay, you know when I'll start feeling better? When it, um, sounds better and looks better. That's when I will start feeling better, honestly. So it's like-

• 22:29Speaker 03

  That's that, that's that Russian training.

• 22:31Speaker 06

  That is that.

• 22:32Speaker 03

  That's that Russian training. That's that Moscow training.

• 22:34Speaker 06

  That's that Soviet training. So, so, you know, I think I just keep rehearsing and when it starts sounding better, I'm like, okay, okay. And then I enjoy when it actually is, is looking good. But everything before that, scary. So scary.

• 22:52Speaker 03

  Were you this scared before you did, you did like a bunch of-

• 22:55Speaker 06

  Like little shows.

• 22:56Speaker 03

  Little shows. But by the way, can I tell you, when I knew you were like something special, I mean, like, I really think you were something so beyond special. I mean, I know, like, who am I to say, like, I have no skin in the game, but I was at-

• 23:10Speaker 06

  You have all the skin in the game, please keep going.

• 23:12Speaker 03

  I was at dinner. I was at dinner and I looked to my left and there was this whole group of people just watching your tour video at dinner. And they were like, and look at her do this and this. And I looked at my best friend Will and I was like, do you see that?

• 23:29Speaker 06

  Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

• 23:31Speaker 03

  And I was like, everybody is talking about her.

• 23:33Speaker 06

  Perfect, perfect, perfect. I need more people to be talking about me.

• 23:36Speaker 03

  Wait, no, I was at dinner with you.

• 23:37Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 23:38Speaker 03

  I was at dinner with you. And Owen Thiel. And Owen Thiel.

• 23:41Speaker 06

  Yes, I love Owen Thiel.

• 23:42Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 23:43Speaker 06

  And I love everybody that watches those videos at dinners. I love it.

• 23:48Speaker 06

  I love it. That's really amazing. That's really sweet.

• 23:51Speaker 03

  Yeah, and it was such a cool moment. It felt like this like cultural moment where like everybody was watching. Cause like, did you have any expectations for that tour?

• 23:59Speaker 06

  Yes, I always have huge expectations, but it's like, but on myself, like, I know that when I get on stage, I will gag people. So I had an expectation of like, I think people don't quite understand that I can gag, the way that I can gag, which is a good thing to, to have, but, um- I also was just like, I felt zero pressure going into that tour because also I was like, oh, this is like the first time that people are buying tickets like. I've been a performer my entire life. I've like done ballets. I've like done the show that I was on, but it's always like. You dance in a ballet like and you get to, you get to like dance the part, right? But it's like about the story.

• 24:41Speaker 06

  Like this was the first time that like people were spending their money and time to go see me. Just be me. So I was like, oh, perfect. I actually feel zero pressure at all because I can just fuck around. Like they paid to see this.

• 24:55Speaker 03

  Right, right.

• 24:56Speaker 06

  Okay, like you know what this is, like it's me. So.

• 24:59Speaker 03

  It's Adela.

• 25:00Speaker 06

  It's Adela. It's the Adela Show, really.

• 25:02Speaker 03

  Really, at the end of the day?

• 25:04Speaker 06

  At the end of the day, it's the Adela Show. So I was like, oh, amazing. Like this is just all about me and I can do whatever I want. And so, um, that made me feel really calm. This tour is gonna be different because I'm opening for Demi, but she has been such. An amazing, like supportive, welcoming mentor that I'm like. Shit, I feel welcomed too.

• 25:26Speaker 03

  Right.

• 25:26Speaker 06

  Like the Levotix.

• 25:28Speaker 03

  The Levotix, great. Do you have a fandom name?

• 25:31Speaker 06

  Um, no, this is a story subject.

• 25:33Speaker 03

  Okay, tell me, tell me more.

• 25:35Speaker 06

  Like people love names that I hate.

• 25:37Speaker 03

  Like what?

• 25:38Speaker 06

  Adivas. Hate it. I hate it. That's the worst name ever. I think like Adalians is funny.

• 25:46Speaker 03

  Ooh, I like Adalian.

• 25:48Speaker 06

  That people don't like it.

• 25:49Speaker 03

  Wait, what?

• 25:50Speaker 06

  I don't know. It's like we, like my, me and my fans are like.

• 25:53Speaker 03

  I feel like you just need to decide and be like, this is it.

• 25:56Speaker 06

  That's what I say. I'm like, this is the Adela Show. Like. Again, like, hey, what I say goes.

• 26:02Speaker 03

  Right.

• 26:02Speaker 06

  Clearly it doesn't. Like, I guess my fans is like the one thing that doesn't really.

• 26:07Speaker 03

  Adivas is giving like, hey bestie.

• 26:09Speaker 06

  Adivas is giving like. Like cunt.

• 26:13Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 26:15Speaker 06

  Okay, like, sometimes, but not all the time. I also like Adelphants, but that's like, people hate that one.

• 26:22Speaker 03

  Adelphants is funny.

• 26:23Speaker 06

  But I love that one, because to me, that's like stupid.

• 26:26Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 26:27Speaker 06

  Like, I can just go like, what up, Adelphants, and then...

• 26:30Speaker 03

  It immediately disarms people as well.

• 26:31Speaker 06

  It disarms, like, what did you just call me?

• 26:34Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 26:34Speaker 06

  An Ad elephant, obviously.

• 26:35Speaker 03

  I will say, I like Adelians.

• 26:37Speaker 06

  I like Adelians too, or like, there was like Adelarinas.

• 26:41Speaker 03

  Ooh, that's cunt.

• 26:42Speaker 06

  Oh.

• 26:43Speaker 03

  Yeah, Adelarinas is cunt.

• 26:44Speaker 06

  Right, because I am a ballerina, it's like topical.

• 26:47Speaker 03

  Yeah, yes.

• 26:48Speaker 06

  Topical.

• 26:48Speaker 03

  And you can be like the ADRs, like, Adelarinas.

• 26:53Speaker 06

  True.

• 26:54Speaker 03

  Right?

• 26:55Speaker 06

  Right, right.

• 26:55Speaker 03

  I can be creative too.

• 26:56Speaker 06

  Right, right.

• 26:57Speaker 03

  I can be creative too.

• 26:58Speaker 06

  Maybe, maybe that's, maybe that's the one, I don't know, I'm like actively looking, but I think most fandom names are terrible, to be honest.

• 27:05Speaker 03

  Really?

• 27:05Speaker 06

  Like, I enjoy very few.

• 27:07Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 27:08Speaker 06

  Beehive I love.

• 27:09Speaker 03

  I get most fandom names, the one I don't get, there are actually very few I don't get, because when they are delivered with enough passion, I believe them. Do you know what I mean? Like, if the fandom delivers it, like, this is who we are, oh, I got you.

• 27:23Speaker 06

  I think most of them could be, but Ariana sucks. It's, it's so hard to pronounce, and I know that she doesn't even like that. She wanted them to be called like, oh, she wanted them to be called tiny elephants.

• 27:34Speaker 03

  She did?

• 27:34Speaker 06

  Back in like, whatever, my Ariana Grande history knowledge, like...

• 27:38Speaker 03

  But can we talk about Ari for five seconds?

• 27:40Speaker 06

  Yes, let's talk about that.

• 27:40Speaker 03

  Because I am in a very big, we spoke about this the other day when we were going into each other. And I was, I get yelled at every single day when I'm at the gym and I put on, because I put on Ari like, front to back.

• 27:51Speaker 06

  You should never get yelled at.

• 27:52Speaker 03

  And she walked in and she said, who put this on? And I said, me!

• 27:56Speaker 06

  Wait, can I like sit like this?

• 27:57Speaker 03

  Yes, please, sit however you feel.

• 27:58Speaker 06

  But shoes on the couch?

• 27:59Speaker 03

  Yes, I'm gonna take my shoes off, honestly.

• 28:01Speaker 06

  I would, but my dogs would be out, so...

• 28:03Speaker 03

  No, don't worry, don't worry.

• 28:04Speaker 06

  I don't feel that.

• 28:05Speaker 03

  And also, you're wearing Louboutins.

• 28:06Speaker 06

  True, but they're like scuffed up.

• 28:08Speaker 03

  But isn't that how they should be?

• 28:10Speaker 06

  And that, and, and I agree.

• 28:12Speaker 03

  Isn't that how they should be?

• 28:13Speaker 06

  And I agree. Red bottoms should be scuffed up.

• 28:16Speaker 03

  That's it.

• 28:17Speaker 06

  That's cunt.

• 28:17Speaker 03

  That's cunt.

• 28:18Speaker 06

  Okay.

• 28:19Speaker 03

  But you put me on to Touch It. I like, I never heard Touch It, I guess I'm like a bad Ari fan in that sense.

• 28:26Speaker 06

  Ariana.

• 28:27Speaker 03

  But I, I love Ari, I just had never given Touch It really the moment it deserved, and you covered it at your show, and it was, I was like...

• 28:33Speaker 06

  It's so good. It's my favorite Ariana song. One of my favorite ones.

• 28:37Speaker 03

  What makes it your favorite?

• 28:38Speaker 06

  Ah, the passion. I also saw it at the Dangerous Woman tour. I was with my mom. How old was I? Like twelve, thirteen. It was monumental. Like I, it's ingrained. And she was like doing the whistles at the end. She was like really putting her fucking Ariane see like her ponytail into it. Like she like really like there was a growl. I was like, wow, this is just the best song ever. And then I also kind of like, growing up, like liked not being like the other girls. Like I was like, ooh, touch it. Like I'mma put you on.

• 29:09Speaker 03

  No, you did.

• 29:10Speaker 06

  You guys don't even know.

• 29:11Speaker 03

  And you did.

• 29:12Speaker 06

  And I did. At the end of the day, I did.

• 29:14Speaker 03

  What are your other favorite Ari songs?

• 29:16Speaker 06

  Leave Me Lonely, same album.

• 29:17Speaker 03

  Mm-hmm.

• 29:18Speaker 06

  So good, by the way. Um, I love my hair from Positions. Cause she does the outro all in whistles. It's amazing. Um, what else? I love Honey Moon Avenue, Always Tattooed Heart.

• 29:33Speaker 03

  Always, always, always. I used to listen to that on the way to school every single morning, back to back, Honey Moon Avenue and Tattooed Heart.

• 29:40Speaker 06

  Oh, yes. I love, I love Ghostin'. It's, it's, it's like historical. It's a period piece. Like you had to be there. It was a time to be alive. I don't, I think like people who are like, you're gonna regret this. Why would you regret it? Everybody knows that she was engaged to Pete Davidson.

• 29:57Speaker 03

  Right.

• 29:58Speaker 06

  And that she said that he has a huge schlong. That's fine.

• 30:02Speaker 03

  And then she said, God forbid something happen.

• 30:05Speaker 06

  God forbid something happen.

• 30:06Speaker 03

  At least the song is a smash.

• 30:07Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 30:08Speaker 03

  And it was.

• 30:09Speaker 06

  Made fucking history. Like it's honestly sickening. Like name, be messy. Like music is the place to be messy.

• 30:15Speaker 03

  I agree. I feel like a lot of people don't agree these days. Cause I feel like, um, this, like the, like the Peanut Gallery is very loud. And they're very loud. And it's, it takes someone like Ariana to just like, be like, I care, but I'm gonna keep doing it despite the fact that I care.

• 30:35Speaker 06

  Right. Exactly.

• 30:37Speaker 03

  You know what I mean?

• 30:38Speaker 06

  Like you just need to like, even with like, Eternal Sunshine, like she spoke about her divorce. It's like, that's what makes people like.

• 30:45Speaker 03

  Feel something.

• 30:46Speaker 06

  Like, that's why people ride for that bitch.

• 30:48Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 30:49Speaker 06

  That's why I will ride for that bitch. That's why I would ride for Beyonce for the rest of my life. Like, these, these women, like, they said Jay-Z cheated on me lemonade.

• 30:58Speaker 03

  Right.

• 30:59Speaker 06

  Oh, oh, okay. And like, everybody knew everything. And that's so sick.

• 31:04Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 31:05Speaker 06

  Hey, like, there's people out there that have been cheated on. I, I, I wasn't when I first watched that, but I felt it.

• 31:11Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 31:12Speaker 06

  Spiritually, I felt it. I was there with my sister.

• 31:14Speaker 03

  That's how I felt listening to, like, Thank You Next the other day. Like, I literally, two-week situationship ended, front to back. And I was like, I know we're in different situations, but like, the way that they're able to chronicle, like,

• 31:26Speaker 06

  It's all.

• 31:27Speaker 03

  highs and lows of a relationship because the experience is so personal to them and you know what they're talking about. It helps you relate more.

• 31:35Speaker 06

  Right.

• 31:35Speaker 03

  You know what I mean?

• 31:36Speaker 06

  Music. That's the magic of music, baby.

• 31:41Speaker 03

  That is. And do you find it difficult ever with, like, the people, like, talking online? And like, do, like, how does that affect you?

• 31:52Speaker 06

  Um, not really, because I think I, I like, wouldn't be doing my job if I let anybody telling me anything affect me. Like, my job is to be me to the fullest extent and like, put that into my music. And obviously, like, sometimes you look at the internet and people have so many opinions, but it's like, I was actually talking about this with my friends. Like, me and Laura were talking about this. And we were like, we need to stop, like, looking up our own names on TikTok. I do not have Twitter. That place is forsaken.

• 32:35Speaker 03

  Okay, I recently have gone off Twitter.

• 32:38Speaker 06

  And you shall stay that way.

• 32:40Speaker 03

  And I used to really love it.

• 32:42Speaker 06

  No, no, no, no, no. It's really scary.

• 32:44Speaker 03

  It's.

• 32:45Speaker 06

  It's really funny when you're not the butt of the joke. And then it gets really scary and sad.

• 32:50Speaker 03

  It gets really, really scary and sad. I'm like, oh, oh my god. Oh my god.

• 32:55Speaker 06

  And it's like, oh my god, these people, like. They don't know me and I don't know them and anything that you could say it's like try to make them understand you more will just they'll somehow twist it to they already have a preconceived idea of who you are. So it's like there's no use to fight it like it's like, okay, just let them just let them but that's it's gonna free you cuz you like it genuinely is like

• 33:20Speaker 06

  I think it's like the worst thing ever to understand that you're being perceived by so many people and like hear what they have to say about you like I'm gonna be honest like do you know who two Hollis is?

• 33:31Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 33:32Speaker 06

  He would like talk about this and he was like I'm off social media like whatever whatever and I was like, okay Hollis like you're off social media.

• 33:38Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 33:39Speaker 06

  But I was like fuck Hollis you're right like I should be off social media like he was on on to something cuz I was like I started writing this album and then there was a point in time that people started saying something on the internet and it like I was thinking about writing songs differently because somebody said something and I was like, oh oh.

• 33:59Speaker 03

  Right.

• 33:59Speaker 06

  Wrong I was like that's wrong I can't do that so I just I'm kind of off like I'm very on the internet but I'm off Twitter I do look up my own name on TikTok.

• 34:12Speaker 03

  Every morning.

• 34:13Speaker 06

  Still.

• 34:13Speaker 03

  Every morning.

• 34:14Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 34:15Speaker 03

  Every morning.

• 34:16Speaker 06

  But I should stop doing that I'm like thinking of honestly blocking you know how you can like mute certain words?

• 34:21Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 34:21Speaker 06

  I might mute my own name but also like I'm not lit enough yet to be like really not looking if people are talking about me cuz the conversation is important like I think once I'll get like really famous then I'll be like well fuck it like

• 34:33Speaker 03

  Right now I can mute it.

• 34:34Speaker 06

  I know people are talking.

• 34:36Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 34:36Speaker 06

  And I'm like at peace with that.

• 34:38Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 34:38Speaker 06

  And now I can just like move completely like I don't have to look myself up but right now I have to keep checking I'm like is Owen Thiel watching my video at dinner?

• 34:46Speaker 03

  Right and we were.

• 34:48Speaker 06

  And you were and that's great that's great you know what I mean?

• 34:52Speaker 03

  Was was it hard would did you delete after the like the after the documentary came out or did you delete like more recently?

• 35:02Speaker 06

  Honestly I've had like um waves like I

• 35:09Speaker 06

  Was looking myself up. When the document documentary came out, it was really interesting. Cause a lot of people, when you're on a reality show. And you're a young girl, people love to tear young girls into shreds, like they, this is just like their favorite pastime. Um, they just like think that like we're the villains, which is like.

• 35:31Speaker 03

  I think they also think you guys are like easy vulnerable targets.

• 35:35Speaker 06

  Right, but then also at the same time, everybody like tries to be super woke and is like.

• 35:39Speaker 03

  Well, if you're so woke, then you shouldn't be on Twitter.

• 35:42Speaker 06

  That part, I think, that part, but, but, um, yeah, so people were really tearing into us and not just me, like. My best friends who made it into the group, my friends who didn't make it into the group, like everybody, all these young girls who at the end of the day. Spent almost two years of their life away from their families. Doing some really hardcore fucking bootcamp training. And like situat- going through situations that you guys will never know, cause obviously not everything was shown in the documentary. We're now also getting torn to shreds on the internet by strangers. So I was like. This is so insane, obviously, and so crazy, but also I was like.

• 36:27Speaker 06

  It is not the time to be depressed about this. Um, it is time to put out music about this, because people are talking about it, so they wanna hear what I have to say. And I don't like talking, I like singing, so I shall sing about it. And that's kind of how my career started, so really I was just like, I didn't delete it. Um, I didn't delete Twitter, I didn't delete social media, I was like looking at it, but I also had the understanding that I was like, okay, these people just don't understand me at all and know me. And that's okay, because they haven't gotten the chance to. And I think still, like I have some songs out, like people don't really know me, like I think they'll get to know me. Eventually through like all my work, but.

• 37:08Speaker 06

  And they'll, I mean, they will never know me, like we'll never be friends, really.

• 37:13Speaker 03

  We can't be friends.

• 37:14Speaker 06

  We can't be friends.

• 37:17Speaker 03

  But I like to just.

• 37:19Speaker 06

  Pretend.

• 37:21Speaker 03

  I used to think that song was about her. Ex-husband, but I was convinced and swayed that I actually think it's about the press and the fans.

• 37:30Speaker 06

  I've heard.

• 37:30Speaker 03

  And I really believe it.

• 37:32Speaker 06

  I believe it too, because you have a love hate relationship, it's like. You are so thankful for your fans and for the people that give you the life that you've ever wanted. You know, like the life that you've dreamt for yourself. But also, it's like, being parasocial is like a double edged sword, honestly. Cause to me, like, as a girl from Slovakia, like, I was really parasocial with, like, the Arianas. And like the Beyoncés and the Gaga's and like. And it honestly really helped me, the Miley's, like, it really helped me growing up and like not being where I wanted to be. And like, if there was a tough situation at home, like, I had a place to go to.

• 38:13Speaker 03

  Always, yeah.

• 38:13Speaker 06

  So I actually love, like, being a parasocial figure to people. Because I'm like, this is something that I needed, so I get to be that for people that need it. But also, sometimes it does affect you when those people start to like, feel like they have some sort of like deciding power in your life.

• 38:31Speaker 03

  Right. That's when it gets really tricky. Cause I also, um, can relate to what you were saying, like, when I was a kid, like, I would go to these pop stars as like, those were my worlds.

• 38:42Speaker 06

  Right.

• 38:42Speaker 03

  Like, I would, I feel like, I, I felt like I was them. In a sense, you know what I mean? Like, I would watch Ariana, I would watch Taylor, I would watch Beyonce, and I, I would like, become.

• 38:52Speaker 06

  Daydream.

• 38:53Speaker 03

  Yeah, I would daydream and like, become that confidence that they exuded.

• 38:57Speaker 06

  Mm-hmm. Which is so beautiful. Like, that's why I love pop music, cause I'm like, this is like, it's so, it's such a powerful thing. And I think a lot of people love to think about, especially the music that I do, like, think that it's fucking stupid and it's like, whatever. But it's like, I know from experience that it means so much to so many people. But then, you know.

• 39:20Speaker 03

  And then you have.

• 39:20Speaker 06

  There's the pros and cons.

• 39:21Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 39:21Speaker 06

  But I'd much rather be that for somebody and deal with the cons than not do what I do, you know what I mean? So, you'll never catch me, like, complaining about it.

• 39:32Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 39:33Speaker 06

  I'll just be like.

• 39:34Speaker 03

  You'll just recognize it.

• 39:34Speaker 06

  Yeah, I'll just be like, okay, I get it, you guys think that.

• 39:39Speaker 06

  We have a special bond and like we do. But you.

• 39:43Speaker 03

  But you can't decide what, how my life is gonna play out.

• 39:45Speaker 06

  Yeah. Yeah.

• 39:47Speaker 03

  And that's why you like me. You like me because I make my own decisions and I have my own autonomy. So when you guys come and tell me how to live my life, that's when things change.

• 39:56Speaker 06

  Yeah, that's when things, if I, if you listen to the people, I think that's when things stop working.

• 40:00Speaker 03

  Yeah, I agree.

• 40:02Speaker 06

  That's what, that's when, like, the difference between a pop star and like a true pop star is, you know what I mean? It's like the people that like then get swayed by the audience and like start not being authentic to themselves. Or you're an Ariana and then you write a thank you next about it. You know what I mean?

• 40:18Speaker 03

  When you say those words to me, like my entire body gets covered in chills.

• 40:22Speaker 06

  I love it. I love, I love what I do. I love pop culture. It's so fun.

• 40:26Speaker 03

  I love pop culture.

• 40:27Speaker 06

  It is so fun.

• 40:28Speaker 03

  Did, and so you were a big Hannah Montana fan?

• 40:31Speaker 06

  Huge, massive.

• 40:33Speaker 03

  Okay, so was she, like biggest.

• 40:35Speaker 06

  Massive.

• 40:35Speaker 03

  Of all time. So what was that like when you went to the 20th anniversary? Did you meet Miley?

• 40:39Speaker 06

  Um, I didn't talk to her. She just passed by me, which by the way, didn't even expect I would see her like up close like that. So I'm totally fine with not talking to her. Honestly, I might have preferred it because I think I would have shat myself. Like I genuinely think I would have like, I would have malfunctioned. She passed by me, Sam, my manager, immediately tears. I immediately tears. I had to wait because it was photo time, so I couldn't tear up yet. So I was like,

• 41:08Speaker 06

  that's Miley Cyrus. I was like, oh my God. And she was like blonde and had a little bit of a bang. I was like, oh my God, that's like Hannah Montana.

• 41:14Speaker 03

  No, she was really Hannah. I've seen the special twice now.

• 41:17Speaker 06

  No, no, no. It's, it's really fucked up.

• 41:19Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 41:20Speaker 06

  And so then I went, did the photos. I passed by her. I was like, oh my God. Like I literally like

• 41:27Speaker 06

  heart in my ass. Like I was like, oh. And then I went and sat down. Jojo Siwa sat, sat right in front of me. So that was like also fire.

• 41:39Speaker 06

  Like I got to hear JoJo's voice, like singing along to the songs. I was like, this is honestly my dream come true. I'm not fucking kidding. Like I was like, and she, that girl was meant to be a star. I don't give a fuck. Like everyone was singing along, singing along to This Is The Life, but you could just hear, this is life. Like JoJo's voice, like it fucking cuts through. Like she has a voice.

• 42:07Speaker 03

  She does.

• 42:08Speaker 06

  She has a voice.

• 42:09Speaker 03

  She's JoJo.

• 42:10Speaker 06

  She's Joelle.

• 42:15Speaker 06

  It's like, I was so hyped. I was sitting right behind her. I was like, yes.

• 42:20Speaker 03

  And without people like her, what would we do?

• 42:23Speaker 06

  What would we do? And you love to watch her and that's what entertainment is about, isn't it?

• 42:29Speaker 03

  Yes. Karma fire song.

• 42:31Speaker 06

  Karma fire song.

• 42:33Speaker 03

  Karma fire song.

• 42:35Speaker 06

  What is it?

• 42:36Speaker 03

  Karma's a bitch.

• 42:37Speaker 06

  Betty Davis.

• 42:40Speaker 06

  Fire, fire cover. She covered it and brought it to the new generation. Now the new generation knows Betty Davis.

• 42:47Speaker 03

  You heard her through the whole crowd?

• 42:50Speaker 06

  It was palpable. I think, I think if I sat on the other side of the theater, I would have heard her, but like genuinely, like, like it was, cause I'm saying like she has a voice. Like there's something, she was meant to be a fucking star.

• 43:01Speaker 03

  And she can dance.

• 43:03Speaker 06

  She can dance. No more JoJo Siwaslander. I'm, I'm sick of it. Like she's a, she's a personality and she figured it out. She found her niche. Boz and raspy vocals.

• 43:13Speaker 03

  Yeah. And like, what would we do without her? Like it really like, really what would we do without her?

• 43:20Speaker 06

  What would, what would you do with all that free time?

• 43:22Speaker 03

  Doesn't she make you smile?

• 43:23Speaker 06

  Yeah. Doesn't she make you smile?

• 43:25Speaker 03

  It's true.

• 43:26Speaker 06

  She's, she's everything to me. Like whatever. So JoJo was sat right in front of me.

• 43:31Speaker 03

  Joelle.

• 43:32Speaker 06

  Joelle, Joelle. And um, I just like balled through the entire thing. Cause I just love Miley and it was so emotional. And I was like, I can't even believe that I'm like in, in this theater. Like, like being invited to this. Like I really grew up. Thinking that Hannah Montana was like some Slovak girl, because they dub it over.

• 43:53Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 43:54Speaker 06

  And so, so I was like, oh, I thought that she was just Slovak.

• 43:56Speaker 03

  Oh, oh, oh, sorry. Oh, they, they, when you watched it in Slovakia, it was like.

• 44:00Speaker 06

  It was in, it was in Czech, but it's like Czechoslovakia used to be like, we used to be girls, like we used to be together.

• 44:06Speaker 03

  Right.

• 44:07Speaker 06

  So, so I was just like, oh, she's like from a neighboring country, like she's like down the street, like down the block.

• 44:12Speaker 03

  What would she, how would she say sweet niblets?

• 44:14Speaker 06

  I don't remember actually, but I like didn't know that was sweet niblets for like the longest time.

• 44:20Speaker 03

  Right.

• 44:21Speaker 06

  But yeah, like to me, that's who, who, who she was, and that was my introduction to being a pop girl. And then my older brother was like, oh no, honey, she's American. And I was like, oh shit. Like, I have to learn English.

• 44:33Speaker 03

  And that's how you started learning English, right?

• 44:35Speaker 06

  Yes, it is.

• 44:36Speaker 03

  That's crazy.

• 44:36Speaker 06

  And so to me, it's like, again, parasocial, but so needed, like when my parents were fighting, I would turn that shit all the way up. Blast me some Hannah Montana and like learn English in my, on my, like in my AirPods, because I was like, I'm gonna be that one day. Like it was, it's genuinely the catalyst for my career and for my life and for what I love to do.

• 45:00Speaker 03

  How did you learn English by watching Hannah Montana? Would you like?

• 45:04Speaker 06

  So I basically, I found out through her that they were speaking English, so then I switched it to English, like on, on TV. And then I started watching all of her interviews. And then I genuinely would just watch everybody's interviews. I would do like, I was, I was eight when I was like, okay, I have to learn English because I had a whole plan. I was like, I'm eight years old, I have a couple of years to learn English. By fifteen, I'm gonna fly out to California. I like looked up the address of the Disney Channel headquarters. I was like, okay. Wrote it down. I was like, period. Um, I'm gonna, or I'm gonna audition during pilot season. I was like, why the fuck do you know what pilot season is? Like you're eight years old in Slovakia. It's like so strange, but I was just like, I had a whole vision. I had a plan. So I was like,

• 45:50Speaker 06

  it's now, like the time is now. I have to learn English. And so I was like, okay. So I was watching her interviews, I was watching Ariana's interviews, I was watching um Beyonce interviews like Gaga. And then um slowly but surely like. I honestly don't even know what happened. I think one day I just realized I had the subtitles on. So I could read and slow back what it meant. But I think one day I was just like, wait, I just understand. Like I was like, it's also because you're eight.

• 46:21Speaker 03

  And your brain is still developing, so it's developing with that.

• 46:23Speaker 06

  It's like a sponge, you know what I mean? Like I was like soaking it all up.

• 46:27Speaker 03

  I mean, in a sense, you lived with them.

• 46:29Speaker 06

  Yes, like I, it's all I would do. And I would like then act like. Once I realized I can understand, I was like, let me try talking. And so I would like see them on Ellen and so I would like.

• 46:49Speaker 06

  But I would just like.

• 46:50Speaker 03

  It was a moment.

• 46:50Speaker 06

  It was a moment in time.

• 46:52Speaker 03

  It happened, we can't pretend that it didn't. We can't pretend that it didn't.

• 46:56Speaker 06

  Okay, on Fallon, like I would see them on Fallon. And I would sit in my room and I'd be like, yes, Jimmy, like whatever, like I would act like I was being interviewed. And then I would like hear how they're saying their words and I would like mouth it with them. I was like, one, two, Jimmy Fallon. Ellen DeGeneres. I was like, that's like, that was my thing. And then. Within a year, I just could speak English. It was really strange.

• 47:18Speaker 03

  If you ever need a check, you should really reach out to Duolingo. I think that they would really give you.

• 47:25Speaker 06

  The thing with Duolingo is I don't think it works.

• 47:27Speaker 03

  You don't think Duolingo works?

• 47:29Speaker 06

  At all. I, I think it's fake news.

• 47:31Speaker 03

  Tell me more because I'm pretty sure Manny is trying to learn Spanish through Duolingo right now.

• 47:36Speaker 06

  I think it's fake news. As somebody who's learned an English really well, like people sometimes don't know that I'm not from here. I think the only way you can learn a language is just like what I did. Like you need to like immerse yourself. You need to be watching movies in Spanish.

• 47:50Speaker 03

  I mean Manny's phone is in Spanish now.

• 47:52Speaker 06

  Good.

• 47:54Speaker 06

  Good. That's what she should be doing. But I don't know if Duolingo is doing that work for her. I'm like, it probably keeps her accountable. Like, it's like, you need to do it.

• 48:03Speaker 03

  Right.

• 48:04Speaker 06

  But that's really the only way. She should honestly go to Spain. Not that I want you to lose her.

• 48:09Speaker 03

  No, I, I, I would go with her. I would, I would go with her.

• 48:12Speaker 06

  Got it.

• 48:12Speaker 03

  That's my girl.

• 48:13Speaker 06

  Got it.

• 48:14Speaker 03

  Girl.

• 48:14Speaker 06

  So you guys should just go to like Spain, or you know, like South America and just like figure it out.

• 48:20Speaker 03

  And figure it out.

• 48:21Speaker 06

  Because she wants to learn Spanish. I think that's the only way, really.

• 48:24Speaker 03

  What I was gonna ask you was, because when I was watching, not to bring it back to Hannah Montana, but when I was watching the special, I was like, so many of these songs, really to me, like stand the test of time. And I don't know if that's the writing, if that's the composure, if that's Miley, or if it's all of it. But like, I was like, listening to This Is The Life.

• 48:45Speaker 06

  So good.

• 48:46Speaker 03

  And I was like, because I remember when I was a kid and my dad would hear Know A Lot, he would listen to The Climb as like a 50-year-old guy. And that's when I realized that like Miley was very universal and like her delivery and appeal and like, I thought The Climb was kind of the only example of that. But then when I was watching the special and I heard This Is The Life, I was like, yeah.

• 49:08Speaker 06

  It puts things into perspective.

• 49:10Speaker 03

  Hold on tight.

• 49:12Speaker 06

  The hold on tight line really gets you, huh?

• 49:14Speaker 03

  Hold on.

• 49:15Speaker 06

  I mean, when she sang it, like Sam will tell you, I was bawling. I was like, oh my God, because these songs, honestly, when I heard them as a kid, I didn't know what they meant.

• 49:25Speaker 03

  Not one bit.

• 49:26Speaker 06

  Because.

• 49:27Speaker 03

  But you're not supposed to.

• 49:28Speaker 06

  Well, you didn't know, but I really didn't know because I didn't even speak English. So I was like, this is the life. Like, I was like, I was like, really like, I was like, off my rocker. Like, it was like, it was really sounding like a foreign, I thought that it was like music language. I was like, oh, this is just like what you do when you sing.

• 49:46Speaker 03

  Blah, blah, blah.

• 49:47Speaker 06

  Blah, blah, ble, right? So I was like, okay, but now I listen back and I was like, these songs are so A well-written. She was singing down and performing and selling as a 12-year-old. Like, she had it in her to be like, this is the life, like, as a 12.

• 50:05Speaker 03

  She meant that shit.

• 50:06Speaker 06

  She meant it. But I'm like, wow, like, what a, what a protege you were to be able to do that at such a young age. It's so good.

• 50:15Speaker 03

  Is that your favorite Hannah song?

• 50:18Speaker 06

  No, I kind of love, um. Um, oh my god, what is that one that like? Sounds like a Britney song, kind of. Like, oh. Not, it's actually not the one that I'm.

• 50:30Speaker 03

  Gonna get this?

• 50:32Speaker 06

  No, no, no, no, no, but that's a good one.

• 50:33Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 50:34Speaker 06

  I like, I like, "Life is just a party, so come as you are." Like, I love.

• 50:39Speaker 03

  Everybody's rocking.

• 50:40Speaker 06

  Never forget your guitar.

• 50:42Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 50:42Speaker 06

  Ow!

• 50:42Speaker 03

  Which one is that, Louise?

• 50:44Speaker 06

  I don't know.

• 50:45Speaker 03

  Everybody's rocking like a, oh, yeah.

• 50:49Speaker 06

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 50:50Speaker 03

  My favorite is The Climb, just because I feel like that.

• 50:55Speaker 06

  It's, it's.

• 50:55Speaker 03

  It will always like resonate with me, like I was really depressed in a car with her and my tour manager, Matt, and I was like so depressed and all, and I had this moment where I was thinking about like the next thing, and then The Climb came on and I looked around.

• 51:13Speaker 06

  You cried.

• 51:13Speaker 03

  And I, well, no, but I, but I was like, I looked around and I was like, but once I get to that place, I'm gonna think about the moments that, th- this, these moments.

• 51:24Speaker 06

  Right, right.

• 51:25Speaker 03

  Because it really is not about where you go, it's about how you get there.

• 51:31Speaker 06

  You wanna know the craziest part? My boyfriend's dad made that song with her.

• 51:36Speaker 03

  Shut up!

• 51:38Speaker 06

  I know, I know.

• 51:40Speaker 03

  Shut up!

• 51:41Speaker 06

  That's really like, when my boyfriend told me that, I was already like, oof, like, you are so sick, like, I wanna be with you, and then he was like, my dad, my dad made The Climb, I was like, oh, it's raps. Like, I'm, I'm in this family, I love it here, like, I was like.

• 51:55Speaker 03

  Isn't your boyfriend a producer as well?

• 51:57Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 51:57Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 51:58Speaker 06

  Jackson Chinks, shout out to him.

• 51:59Speaker 03

  Yeah, I met him outside of Pachay once.

• 52:01Speaker 06

  Yes, you did, you did.

• 52:03Speaker 03

  I was like, do I know you? He said, mm-mm. And I said, totally got it.

• 52:08Speaker 06

  Yes, he told me, he told me. He was like, he thought he knew me, I was like, hmm, maybe he did, I don't know.

• 52:14Speaker 03

  He looked weird, he looked so familiar.

• 52:16Speaker 06

  He's just like, hot, white guy, tall.

• 52:18Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 52:19Speaker 06

  They all kinda look alike.

• 52:21Speaker 03

  How'd you guys meet?

• 52:22Speaker 06

  Our producer set us up, so he signed to Blake Slotkin, who's executive producing my, um, album, and so I had just gone through an ugly, ugly breakup. I was like four months into it or like three months out of it. I was just like, oh my god, like I'm over this guy, but also I met him on Hinge. I was like, I'm not ever gonna be on Hinge again. Like, I'm not going there. I'm not going on fuck ass Raya. Like, I'm not doing that shit. So I was like, where am I even gonna like meet a man? And he was like, you should just get set up by somebody. I've always been set up by people. And I was like, well why are you talking about it instead of doing it? Like, come on, set me up. And he set me up with my boyfriend and now we've been dating for almost a year.

• 53:08Speaker 03

  Happy almost one year.

• 53:09Speaker 06

  Thanks.

• 53:10Speaker 03

  That's amazing.

• 53:11Speaker 06

  Thanks. It's actually, it's been, he's been so sweet and um, so silly.

• 53:16Speaker 03

  Yeah, he's lovely, very kind.

• 53:17Speaker 06

  He's very kind, very kind. And we don't make music together because I said nuh-uh.

• 53:21Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 53:22Speaker 06

  Except when it's not scary. Like, I love when somebody like collabs with their boyfriend. And then it's also like a test of time. Like, it, it, like once they're out of it, like, I just love the whole thing. I honestly

• 53:37Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 53:38Speaker 06

  I honestly would want to one day, this is my like big plan, one day I wanna like collab with an ex on a song when we're broken up. And we're like getting hella ugly on the song together about each other.

• 53:51Speaker 03

  So Silver Springs?

• 53:53Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 53:54Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 53:55Speaker 06

  But I think it was just her singing. Like, I want both POVs.

• 54:00Speaker 03

  Oh, like at each other.

• 54:01Speaker 06

  Like, you know, somebody, somebody that I used to know?

• 54:03Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 54:04Speaker 06

  Like that.

• 54:05Speaker 03

  Yeah, but like

• 54:06Speaker 06

  At each other.

• 54:07Speaker 03

  I love like how you're so open and honest about like your dreams and being like, I'm gonna get this because you have got, you are getting it.

• 54:17Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 54:20Speaker 03

  But a lot of people are so like scared to say what they want. And then when you send people, when they say what they want can get like so like, well, they're never gonna get that. So I think it's like super cool for like young girls to see you be like, I want this and I'm getting it.

• 54:35Speaker 06

  I think that's the vibe. I think also like, there's a lot of things that I want that I haven't said, like I would love to take care of my mom one day financially. And that's really a big goal of mine. Like, all this like success, whatever, is really like for me to do that one day. So it's like, and obviously I love singing, but it's like, there's things that like, I think people don't know that are like way more personal things where I'm like, I mean, it's clear, like, I'm trying, I'm fucking Popping my puss on stage, I'm trying to sing all the songs, I'm trying to hit all the notes, like you can see what I'm trying to do here, like I'm not gonna-

• 55:06Speaker 03

  You're hungry for it.

• 55:07Speaker 06

  Yes, like I'm not gonna act like I'm not, um, but there's also like a lot of like human ness and goals that I don't like necessarily talk about that much, but it's like, why would I not say that I want it when I clearly want it? Like, I wouldn't be doing

• 55:23Speaker 06

  like little club shows where I'm like belting my heart out and like dropping into a split and like doing a backbend, like whatever, if I didn't want it.

• 55:30Speaker 03

  I also think there's this like inherent thing with female musicians where the world thinks that they need to give it to you. Do you know what I mean? It's like you have to be like humble and like gracious and not say what you want, whereas like a guy can get on there and be like,

• 55:48Speaker 06

  Right.

• 55:49Speaker 03

  I'm the best, I'm the baddest, I'm the best, I'm the best. And I think it's like-

• 55:53Speaker 06

  When the male's like-

• 55:54Speaker 03

  It's very Gaga of you to get up there and be like, this is what I want.

• 55:58Speaker 06

  Well, because doesn't everybody want that?

• 56:01Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 56:02Speaker 06

  And that's the gag is you think like there's some artists that like don't care about it, everybody cares about it. Everybody wants to saw an arena, everybody wants to do it. And it's not like it's a bad thing to wanna be successful. Like to me, that's why I, again, loved Beyonce growing up, cause she was like, I always wanted this. But she also shows you how much work she puts into it. Like, I've seen the Homecoming movie

• 56:27Speaker 06

  thirteen times. Seriously. I've like, like, and I think who else is doing that? Like, Zara Larson is also doing that right now. And like, she's been somebody that's been working on it for so long and she's finally fucking getting her flowers, God bless. And like, for a good reason. She's so good at what she does. And I think that's, I think essentially it's like, if you put in the work, not saying that you want it feels like stupid. It's like, so what am I like putting all this work to like not get anywhere?

• 56:59Speaker 03

  Right.

• 57:00Speaker 06

  No? And I think honestly, for a lot of men, they don't have to put in that much work to get there. So maybe that's where, like, like-

• 57:10Speaker 06

  And then they're the ones that get to brag. It's like, okay, like, what are we, what are we talking about here? Like, I'm just so confused.

• 57:17Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 57:18Speaker 06

  But anyways.

• 57:22Speaker 03

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• 58:07Speaker 03

  Everyone on that team was so incredible to be around. Me and my friends had the best time. I'm the most anxious host, and you guys made it so that hosting a big group of people was so enjoyable. And on that note also, thank you, Popery.

• 58:29Speaker 03

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• 1:00:34Speaker 01

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• 1:00:39Speaker 03

  Can we, can I ask you about your album?

• 1:00:41Speaker 06

  Yes, I guess. Right?

• 1:00:43Speaker 03

  How's it going?

• 1:00:45Speaker 06

  My album is going so good. I'm actually so excited about it. I'm actually talking

• 1:00:49Speaker 03

  Yeah, well, thank God!

• 1:00:51Speaker 06

  No, thank God. Um, no, I, so with this album, my big

• 1:00:58Speaker 06

  Um, goal was just to make music that I would want to listen to. And I know everybody always says that. But with my EP, I think everybody, everything was so like, I was almost trying to catch up to the momentum that had come my way. Cause I had zero support from a label for a good chunk of the first releases, like I was indie, I had just come off this documentary where very publicly got rejected from being a part of Cat's Eye.

• 1:01:27Speaker 06

  Like it's, it was just like a thing. And so I was like, okay, like I gotta keep putting shit out to like prove something to people. And I think those were also some of the first songs that I've ever written. And I had to put them out right away. And so not written, but like made.

• 1:01:40Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:01:41Speaker 06

  So, and I had to.

• 1:01:41Speaker 03

  Cause you wrote that one song in the documentary that I loved, by the way. Dream Bitch?

• 1:01:46Speaker 06

  That might've been one of my first songs that I ever.

• 1:01:48Speaker 03

  It's called Dream Bitch, right?

• 1:01:49Speaker 06

  I think so.

• 1:01:50Speaker 03

  I really loved it. And I was like, I need to ask her if she's ever planning to put that out. Cause I really was moved by it when they were playing it.

• 1:01:55Speaker 06

  I am not planning to put that out ever.

• 1:02:00Speaker 06

  Okay.

• 1:02:01Speaker 03

  Oh, too great. I'll find it online.

• 1:02:03Speaker 06

  Yeah, you can scroll down on my TikTok. Um, but I always loved songwriting. I just like never was in the studio and like made a song. And then as soon as I started making them, I started putting them out. So anyways, all that to say, the EP, as much as I think those songs,

• 1:02:20Speaker 06

  you know, they served a purpose at the time and got me to where I needed to get. I don't think it was like the most authentically me yet, like sound yet. And also like, I don't think they were.

• 1:02:37Speaker 06

  They're not necessarily songs that I listened to, honestly. Like, I really wanted an album that I was like, I want to play this every day. And I think that's what these songs are for me. Not, not to shit on my old songs, because I hate when artists do that. Cause those songs can mean so much to so many people. But I think to me, it was just like.

• 1:03:00Speaker 06

  I don't think I was like quite there yet and it wasn't completely my taste wasn't refined yet.

• 1:03:06Speaker 03

  But that's okay.

• 1:03:07Speaker 06

  Yeah, and hey, I think like with this album, it's more refined, but probably my next album will be even more refined. Like that's how it goes, right? So, um, with this album, I just, I'm, I really love the songs. I listened to them, I was listening to them on my way here. It's really, um, it's really girly, it's really fun. I think my EP was a lot of like messaging and like there was like a lot of like, this is what it's about and it was like, there was a lot of like, like, I needed to take a stand on some things and like, there was like a lot of like, like, like, I was just like, th- this is my message, right?

• 1:03:46Speaker 03

  But that was your message at the time?

• 1:03:48Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:03:48Speaker 03

  And that's how you felt at the time?

• 1:03:50Speaker 06

  And I did. This time, there's songs where I get very vulnerable, but I also like explore like, love and like, you know, just feeling hot and then also feeling heartbroken and etcetera. So I think it makes me a little bit more human. Instead of, I think my EP was such a response to what had happened on the show and like, what the people and the, the people were saying about me and like my first experience of being exposed to like, an audience. This album is just like me fucking around and being a person, which I like more, you know?

• 1:04:23Speaker 03

  I'm so excited.

• 1:04:25Speaker 06

  So I, I really, really am so excited and I can't wait to perform it everywhere. Um, yeah, I'm really, really happy with it, honestly.

• 1:04:35Speaker 03

  I'm so happy for you and selfishly, I'm really excited to listen to it.

• 1:04:39Speaker 06

  Not selfishly, like, please listen to it, please.

• 1:04:42Speaker 03

  I'm so excited for you. I will say, I don't think you're giving yourself enough credit for how vulnerable those songs are.

• 1:04:50Speaker 06

  They are very vulnerable.

• 1:04:51Speaker 03

  And I think you really should give yourself more credit for that, cuz it's not how you feel right now, but it's how you felt then and you were really honest at a time where you could have hid away and I think that was something really cool and something people really resonated with.

• 1:05:05Speaker 06

  It's true. I actually, it's true, I did eat, actually.

• 1:05:10Speaker 06

  You're right, you're right. I mean, it's just hard when you're an artist and like, now I'm so out of that where I'm like, because they're also like the only seven songs I have out. So I think now like, the people that have listened to that EP, I think they might expect something from the album that's kind of similar. And I just, I think I wanna make it clear like, I'm a person and like that was something, the EP and the messaging of that was something that was pressing to me at the moment. But overall, like, I have had more experiences than that and like, there's also more to me than just, you know, everything that that was about. So, I mean, I don't know, I think I'm gonna like,

• 1:05:50Speaker 06

  get a lot of new people listening, cuz it's a, it's a, I think, a lot more, I would say, relatable. It's like a general audience, which is really good.

• 1:05:59Speaker 03

  Are you still working with Alex Chapman?

• 1:06:01Speaker 06

  No, not on this album, but I love Alex.

• 1:06:04Speaker 03

  I love Alex. He did what, Sex on the Beat?

• 1:06:07Speaker 06

  Yes, he did Sex on the Beat. I love Alex.

• 1:06:08Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:06:09Speaker 06

  He's a key and I love Gag. I love Gag the party.

• 1:06:13Speaker 03

  Who's, oh, tha- that's his party that he puts on. I thought Gag was a person for a second and I was like, who is that?

• 1:06:19Speaker 06

  In LA, in LA, it would be.

• 1:06:20Speaker 03

  Yeah, I love Gag. I would've been like, okay, great.

• 1:06:24Speaker 06

  Me too, I love him.

• 1:06:25Speaker 03

  What are you therapist about today?

• 1:06:28Speaker 06

  I'm therapist about my ass hurting.

• 1:06:33Speaker 03

  From dancing?

• 1:06:34Speaker 06

  Mm-hmm, and my workout the other day that I saw you at.

• 1:06:38Speaker 03

  My ass hurt, it was leg day for me.

• 1:06:40Speaker 06

  Leg day. My ass has been hurting so badly for the past few days, I can't sit down straight.

• 1:06:47Speaker 03

  You need a massage.

• 1:06:49Speaker 06

  Um, yeah, but I'm also rehearsing, so it's like, I can't really get a massage. Like, there's no time. I have zero time to do anything. But, I like literally have to sit down like this.

• 1:06:59Speaker 03

  You're sitting like as you just got a BBL and you're back on the plane?

• 1:07:05Speaker 03

  Do you know the people that like go and travel to get BBLs and they have the BBL seats and they sit like this?

• 1:07:10Speaker 06

  I'm on the Turkish Airlines flight from, from, from my BBL appointment.

• 1:07:16Speaker 03

  Have you seen the BBL seats? Is there something, it's a sight to behold.

• 1:07:21Speaker 06

  Yes, but that's what it is.

• 1:07:23Speaker 03

  Whenever I'm sore though, I feel like, oh, like at least I moved.

• 1:07:27Speaker 06

  But I just, I'm like, there's way.

• 1:07:30Speaker 03

  But you move a lot.

• 1:07:31Speaker 06

  I move a lot and I also, like, literally today, I was, I woke up and I like, immediately, the first thing that I did, I felt pain. Like immediate, I went, I was like, ow. And I was, I was kind of pissed because I was like, this is gonna be the rest of my life. Like, I'm, you, you never stop being sore, like when you work out.

• 1:07:49Speaker 03

  No, but you should take care of yourself. You should find like thirty minutes in a day.

• 1:07:54Speaker 06

  No, no, no, no, no, but I'm, it's genuinely like right now because we're like rehearsing for the tour. I have to like cut vocals for the album and I'm trying to also like, um, I had to have therapy yesterday.

• 1:08:06Speaker 03

  I do, and I was just screaming, like screaming. I was like screaming.

• 1:08:12Speaker 06

  That's really good.

• 1:08:12Speaker 03

  It felt good. I left and I was like, I feel better. She was like, well, why don't you write a pros and cons list about them? And I was like.

• 1:08:18Speaker 06

  Word.

• 1:08:19Speaker 03

  Okay, so I wrote a pros and cons list and then I called him after and I was like, I just talked so much shit about you during therapy. Here are my pros and here are my cons.

• 1:08:27Speaker 06

  You're my favorite person ever. Wait, that's amazing.

• 1:08:31Speaker 03

  It was pretty awesome. And then he was like, he tried to come back at me. I said, uh, uh, uh, uh, you're gaslighting me. He said, well, did you tell her about it? I said, sure did.

• 1:08:38Speaker 06

  No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. What is he, a straight man?

• 1:08:41Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 1:08:43Speaker 06

  When a straight man, a straight man always think that they're eating when they're not eating.

• 1:08:47Speaker 03

  I told him I was sad yesterday and he said, just feel better. What?

• 1:08:51Speaker 06

  Why didn't I think of that?

• 1:08:52Speaker 03

  Why didn't I think of that? I said, I hate when you say that.

• 1:08:54Speaker 06

  Why didn't I think of that? Thanks so much.

• 1:08:56Speaker 03

  Thank you so much.

• 1:08:57Speaker 06

  Thanks so much. Straight men just have the audacity.

• 1:09:00Speaker 03

  They really do. Well, because they've never had to worry.

• 1:09:02Speaker 06

  They've never had to worry. Everything has been quite easy for them. And I've said this to my boyfriend too. I was like, you have, like, you guys just need to fucking, like, you guys need to struggle. Especially when a straight man is hot.

• 1:09:16Speaker 03

  It's unfair.

• 1:09:17Speaker 06

  Unfair. And somehow my boyfriend is also funny.

• 1:09:19Speaker 03

  No, that's not fair.

• 1:09:22Speaker 06

  It's not fair and it's tough sometimes because they, they really have.

• 1:09:26Speaker 03

  So he's funny, straight.

• 1:09:27Speaker 06

  Talented.

• 1:09:28Speaker 03

  Talented.

• 1:09:29Speaker 06

  He has it all. I was like, do you understand who you're dating? I was like, I'm a, I'm from Slovakia. Like, I'm not supposed to be in this bed right now.

• 1:09:36Speaker 03

  Right.

• 1:09:37Speaker 06

  I was supposed to be in Slovakia.

• 1:09:41Speaker 03

  You did say you wanted to try Conchess.

• 1:09:43Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:09:44Speaker 03

  And that wasn't from me.

• 1:09:45Speaker 06

  No, no, no, no, no.

• 1:09:46Speaker 03

  She saw them. Do you like sour?

• 1:09:49Speaker 06

  Yes, I love sour.

• 1:09:50Speaker 03

  Here, these are the sour gummies. They're great. These are the non-sour.

• 1:09:53Speaker 06

  So wait, it has no gelatin?

• 1:09:55Speaker 03

  Yeah, they're vegan.

• 1:09:56Speaker 06

  Wait, should we do ASMR?

• 1:09:57Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:10:03Speaker 03

  Do you want help?

• 1:10:07Speaker 03

  They're really good. Yeah, they're vegan. I'll give you the full, the full story.

• 1:10:11Speaker 06

  Kachas, sour, gummy, sparkly, vegan.

• 1:10:21Speaker 03

  You like?

• 1:10:22Speaker 06

  I love kachas. They're actually really good.

• 1:10:24Speaker 03

  Right? They're fire, right?

• 1:10:26Speaker 06

  They're really fire. Wow!

• 1:10:28Speaker 03

  No, and then you can't stop. And the aftertaste also hits.

• 1:10:32Speaker 06

  Wow!

• 1:10:33Speaker 03

  Yeah, that's the best flavor. Go for that one.

• 1:10:35Speaker 06

  Mmm!

• 1:10:37Speaker 03

  Right?

• 1:10:38Speaker 06

  Mm-mm.

• 1:10:38Speaker 03

  Right? Right.

• 1:10:41Speaker 06

  This is fire.

• 1:10:42Speaker 03

  I know. I feel like I got very lucky.

• 1:10:45Speaker 06

  Wait, congrats!

• 1:10:46Speaker 03

  Thank you.

• 1:10:46Speaker 06

  Good product.

• 1:10:47Speaker 03

  They were looking for a US partner, and I was like, wait, I, I, because I've actually, my best friend Brett brought them home from a snack expo two years, three years ago, and I was like, no way. He was like, this gummy? Yep, right? And I was like, wait, please float my name by them. I'd love to meet with them. And now we're making candy magic happen.

• 1:11:11Speaker 06

  This is really good.

• 1:11:12Speaker 03

  No, it's really good.

• 1:11:14Speaker 06

  This is amazing.

• 1:11:15Speaker 03

  Uh-huh. We'll give you a few packs.

• 1:11:19Speaker 06

  Fuck yeah.

• 1:11:20Speaker 03

  They're fire, fire, fire, fire, fire.

• 1:11:22Speaker 06

  I'm so excited for you.

• 1:11:23Speaker 03

  Thank you.

• 1:11:23Speaker 06

  And I don't see anything bad.

• 1:11:25Speaker 03

  And like, I just like, really like aligned with like the company's like morals and like their, like the way that they view life and like, and I know that sounds silly, but like when I met with the team, like the way that they viewed the world was like very similar to like the way like I want to like, approach the world and like, it just really was kismet at the end of the day. And it worked. And now we're working together.

• 1:11:48Speaker 06

  This is so good. I also only ate... A bar and this is my like real first food of the day.

• 1:11:54Speaker 03

  No, they're fire.

• 1:11:55Speaker 06

  It's really good. I could eat this entire thing right now.

• 1:11:58Speaker 03

  I'm so happy. We have um many a packs.

• 1:12:01Speaker 06

  And there's a unicorn.

• 1:12:02Speaker 03

  Mm-hmm. We'll send them. We'll send you a big box for your tour.

• 1:12:06Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:12:07Speaker 03

  For your rider.

• 1:12:08Speaker 06

  Yes. Wait, I'm actually obsessed.

• 1:12:11Speaker 03

  No, they're good, right? Like they're, they're like fire, fire. If you go to an AMC, you can get them at AMC.

• 1:12:16Speaker 06

  Really?

• 1:12:17Speaker 03

  Yeah, so have you seen Project Hail Mary yet?

• 1:12:18Speaker 06

  No.

• 1:12:19Speaker 03

  Okay, if you go to see Project Hail Mary.

• 1:12:21Speaker 06

  Wait, which one is that? Cause aren't there, aren't there like two Hail Mary movies right now?

• 1:12:24Speaker 03

  No, it's just that it's that big. So you're probably thinking that there's two, but like everybody, everybody is talking about it and like I was like, okay, I'm gonna, I'm gonna go to the movies. And I saw it last night.

• 1:12:36Speaker 06

  It's the one with Ryan Gosling.

• 1:12:36Speaker 03

  Yeah, and I was very moved.

• 1:12:39Speaker 06

  Really? Because I was not gagged by the billboard. I keep seeing it and he's like, it looks like um, like a Marvel movie.

• 1:12:46Speaker 03

  No. So there are elements where it can be confusing, but you kind of just have to go with it. Would you agree?

• 1:12:53Speaker 06

  Yeah, it was fantastic.

• 1:12:54Speaker 03

  Like, I was so, I was, I was, I like cried. I like, a few tears were shed. Like, I was very moved. I was very, very, very moved.

• 1:13:02Speaker 06

  Have you seen Hamnet?

• 1:13:03Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 1:13:04Speaker 06

  Oh.

• 1:13:04Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:13:05Speaker 06

  Oh.

• 1:13:06Speaker 03

  Oh.

• 1:13:07Speaker 06

  Oh.

• 1:13:08Speaker 03

  That one was deserved, to say the least.

• 1:13:10Speaker 06

  It was disastrous to me. I was like.

• 1:13:13Speaker 03

  Yeah, it was guttural. When she like that whale she lets out when her son dies, aye.

• 1:13:18Speaker 06

  Aye, aye, aye. I've never seen anything like that. I was like, I feel like I'm watching a documentary.

• 1:13:23Speaker 03

  That's how I felt during that moment. That's, I felt, I was like, do they know the cameras are rolling?

• 1:13:27Speaker 06

  Yeah, I know. I was like, I forgot that they're acting. That was the first time I met that.

• 1:13:30Speaker 03

  And that little kid acting down.

• 1:13:32Speaker 06

  Acting down.

• 1:13:33Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:13:33Speaker 06

  It was so good. I watched it in a movie theater and I was like, I wish I honestly didn't because I wanted to literally go like, ugh. Like, I wanted to like let out a whale. Like, I was like, oh my god.

• 1:13:44Speaker 03

  I wish I saw it in a theater, so.

• 1:13:45Speaker 06

  But instead I had to be like, like I was like shaking.

• 1:13:48Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:13:50Speaker 03

  Any other movies you've seen lately that you love? What are you watching right now?

• 1:13:53Speaker 06

  Um, I never watch anything, because I actually lie. I started to watch a lot of, a lot more movies this year, but usually I would be like completely bone dry. Like, I'm not watching anything.

• 1:14:03Speaker 03

  Interesting.

• 1:14:03Speaker 06

  Kind of. And it was a really bad trait because I think obviously movies are a great outlet for like inspiration or whatever. But I just like, I never like, shows too much of a um. Too much of a commitment?

• 1:14:17Speaker 03

  I'm a, I'm a show guy.

• 1:14:19Speaker 06

  It's just that if I watch a show, I'm so obsessed that I'm gonna need to binge watch it.

• 1:14:23Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:14:24Speaker 06

  And I can't do that.

• 1:14:26Speaker 03

  You don't have the time.

• 1:14:27Speaker 06

  I don't have the time. And so it would be, it would be detrimental. It would be detrimental to my business if I started a show. Like, I can't do it. And then movies, I just like never got into it for some reason. Like, I was like, I never, never in my head. I'm like, oh, like, I should watch a movie. But this time I did. I watched, um, um, Virgin Suicides. Have you seen?

• 1:14:44Speaker 03

  Never seen.

• 1:14:45Speaker 06

  Really great.

• 1:14:46Speaker 03

  It's great.

• 1:14:47Speaker 06

  Really great. I watched Girl Interrupted.

• 1:14:49Speaker 03

  Also never seen, but have, it's been on my mind lately.

• 1:14:52Speaker 06

  You said, because, um, I remember when I, when I was fifteen, I cut micro bangs on accident. And I posted a thirst trap on TikTok. And somebody trying to make me feel better was like, oh, you kind of resemble Angelina Jolie in Girl Interrupted. And I was like, okay, I should probably watch that movie. Do I think that I resembled her? No. I think they were lying to me. But they, it was a great, at the time, it really picked my spirits up.

• 1:15:13Speaker 03

  Okay, maybe I'll watch it in bed tonight. I was, I'm not really drinking right now, so I think I'm gonna.

• 1:15:18Speaker 06

  Yeah, you should.

• 1:15:19Speaker 03

  Lay in bed, smoke a joint, and watch Girl Interrupted.

• 1:15:21Speaker 06

  Honestly, you should. It's a really, it's a really good movie. What else? Moonrise Kingdom. Have you seen?

• 1:15:26Speaker 03

  Have I seen?

• 1:15:27Speaker 06

  So good.

• 1:15:28Speaker 03

  What's it about?

• 1:15:29Speaker 06

  It's like, I can't even explain it to you. You just have to watch it.

• 1:15:32Speaker 03

  Moonrise Kingdom, why does it sound so familiar? Wes Anderson coming of age. Yeah. Oh, no, I have not seen that. I've seen Moonlight.

• 1:15:39Speaker 06

  Haven't seen that.

• 1:15:40Speaker 03

  It's great.

• 1:15:41Speaker 06

  Budapest, Grand Budapest Hotel.

• 1:15:43Speaker 03

  Haven't seen that.

• 1:15:44Speaker 06

  Another, another Wes Anderson. I really got into that.

• 1:15:46Speaker 03

  Uh, maybe I haven't seen Wes Anderson stuff is what I'm thinking.

• 1:15:49Speaker 06

  You should, you should, because it's really nice to look at.

• 1:15:52Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 1:15:52Speaker 06

  It's awesome. It's like kind of strange. Like, it's whimsical as fuck.

• 1:15:56Speaker 03

  You know what I, um, also recently saw that I was like, I really, really, really, really, really enjoyed this was, um, Train Dreams.

• 1:16:04Speaker 06

  Oh, okay. I've been actually wanting to watch it.

• 1:16:07Speaker 03

  It's, it takes a.

• 1:16:15Speaker 06

  Not again.

• 1:16:19Speaker 03

  No, this happens? What is this? Oh, it's my fake doctorate.

• 1:16:26Speaker 06

  No, no, no, no!

• 1:16:31Speaker 03

  Oh, and the fake plant.

• 1:16:34Speaker 06

  It's okay. You handled that gracefully.

• 1:16:35Speaker 03

  That fly said...

• 1:16:37Speaker 06

  You handled that really...

• 1:16:41Speaker 06

  You handled that really gracefully.

• 1:16:42Speaker 03

  Moving on from movies. Should we get into the tell me what's wrongs?

• 1:16:45Speaker 06

  Wait, yes, but before we do that, you need to go watch Hoppers.

• 1:16:48Speaker 03

  Hoppers?

• 1:16:49Speaker 04

  Oh, I've heard.

• 1:16:50Speaker 06

  Hoppers is amazing.

• 1:16:52Speaker 03

  Wait, I've heard of this. What is this?

• 1:16:54Speaker 06

  Animated movie. You need to watch it. It's awesome.

• 1:16:57Speaker 03

  What's it about?

• 1:17:00Speaker 06

  Like, the environment. It sounds kinda...

• 1:17:05Speaker 06

  Like animals.

• 1:17:06Speaker 03

  Right.

• 1:17:07Speaker 06

  Like, the environment, but honestly, like, I don't even... Like, it's kind of like Avatar. Like, it's kinda like Avatar, but Pixar about the environment. It's awesome.

• 1:17:16Speaker 03

  Pixar? Done. Sold.

• 1:17:17Speaker 06

  It's awesome.

• 1:17:18Speaker 03

  Sold.

• 1:17:18Speaker 06

  It's like the first Pixar movie in a while that I was like, this was brilliantly done. Meryl Streep is voicing a...

• 1:17:24Speaker 03

  She is?

• 1:17:25Speaker 06

  Yes. She's voicing a character. I might be wrong, but I don't think I'm wrong.

• 1:17:29Speaker 03

  You're not. No!

• 1:17:30Speaker 06

  Right? Meryl Streep, the Franco, voicing a character.

• 1:17:34Speaker 03

  Oh, love the Franco.

• 1:17:34Speaker 06

  Yes. Amazing. Go watch it. It's honestly funny. I giggled. I laughed. I almost cried. The animals' animation is so cute. It has everything.

• 1:17:44Speaker 03

  Okay. I'm gonna try to convince my friends, instead of going out tonight, that we should go back to her house, get high and watch Hoppers.

• 1:17:50Speaker 06

  I think you should go...

• 1:17:52Speaker 03

  See it in theater.

• 1:17:52Speaker 06

  I don't know if it's on streaming.

• 1:17:54Speaker 03

  It's not. Not yet.

• 1:17:55Speaker 06

  You have to go to the theater.

• 1:17:56Speaker 03

  You are a little cinephile.

• 1:18:02Speaker 06

  He said, "It's not."

• 1:18:04Speaker 03

  Do you have a letterbox?

• 1:18:05Speaker 06

  Um, no, I don't. I actually do. I lied.

• 1:18:09Speaker 06

  I do.

• 1:18:09Speaker 03

  And you know what, keep that shit, keep that shit close to you.

• 1:18:11Speaker 06

  I actually.

• 1:18:12Speaker 03

  Keep that shit close to you.

• 1:18:13Speaker 06

  I actually do have a letterbox, but do I really like, I mean, I haven't logged like the last 15 movies.

• 1:18:19Speaker 03

  I don't log anymore. I used to and then I stopped.

• 1:18:20Speaker 06

  Yeah, I did like three movies. I was like, oh my God. And I wrote like an essay for each one and then I forgot.

• 1:18:25Speaker 03

  Right. You're, you are well versed in movies.

• 1:18:28Speaker 06

  I've been trying to.

• 1:18:30Speaker 03

  Okay. Do you know about the Tommy what's wrongs?

• 1:18:31Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:18:33Speaker 03

  Also, we do have to FaceTime Emily and say hi to her.

• 1:18:35Speaker 06

  Yes, we do.

• 1:18:35Speaker 03

  Cause I love her down.

• 1:18:36Speaker 06

  She would not, um, she would not forgive me if I didn't do that.

• 1:18:40Speaker 03

  It makes me really happy that you guys are still really close. Cause that moment at the end of Dream Academy.

• 1:18:43Speaker 06

  We're extremely close.

• 1:18:45Speaker 03

  And comfort her was like really something special.

• 1:18:47Speaker 06

  One thing the show gave me is friends for life. Like Laura, Megan, Emily, like this.

• 1:18:54Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:18:54Speaker 06

  Those are my girls. Truly.

• 1:18:56Speaker 03

  That's beautiful.

• 1:18:57Speaker 06

  Yeah. We are, we are heavily involved.

• 1:18:59Speaker 03

  And it's hard to make actual friendships when you're fighting for the same spot.

• 1:19:05Speaker 06

  Right, but.

• 1:19:06Speaker 03

  But.

• 1:19:07Speaker 06

  I knew that I wasn't gonna make it into the group. So I was like, oh, whatever.

• 1:19:10Speaker 03

  You felt like they had their people and then.

• 1:19:12Speaker 06

  I was like, this is not the place for me. But really it was just like, you can't, like honestly, all of us were so different. So it's like, you can't compare each other.

• 1:19:22Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:19:23Speaker 06

  And we only had each other. Like the girls had to, had to stay tight. Cause we couldn't tell anybody about anything.

• 1:19:29Speaker 03

  Right. You guys got in so much trouble that one episode.

• 1:19:32Speaker 06

  Yeah, for the Finstas.

• 1:19:34Speaker 03

  I was like, really?

• 1:19:35Speaker 06

  Really?

• 1:19:35Speaker 03

  They came in that we have never seen anything like this before. I thought somebody brought a gun into the dance studio. Like I was literally like, what could have possibly happened?

• 1:19:47Speaker 06

  And it's a Finsta. Like who cares? Like we know what, like what are you talking, whatever. I'm not gonna get mad at this, but we got two weeks off. So. And the girls, and the girls were so shook. They were like, oh my God, like. And I was like, girl, you think we just spent a year and a half training? Like, you think that they're gonna, what, fire all of us and rehire and train for two more years?

• 1:20:07Speaker 03

  Yeah, not happening.

• 1:20:07Speaker 06

  Spend all this budget? Not happening. I'm taking my two weeks off, honey.

• 1:20:11Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:20:12Speaker 06

  I was tanning. I was like, yes.

• 1:20:15Speaker 03

  Oh, you had a great time. FinstaGate was great for you.

• 1:20:18Speaker 06

  FinstaGate was awesome. I broke up with my boyfriend during that time at the time. Like, it was like, I had shit to handle. Like, I was like, I have a business.

• 1:20:27Speaker 03

  Watching that, I, cause like, for those that haven't seen, like, the way they set up that episode, they march into the studio and they go, it's giving, like, I've never yelled at a girl like this in my life. Like, I was literally, like, you would think somebody, like,

• 1:20:41Speaker 06

  Died.

• 1:20:42Speaker 03

  Died.

• 1:20:42Speaker 06

  Somebody died.

• 1:20:43Speaker 03

  You would think somebody died.

• 1:20:44Speaker 06

  And it was us, it was us posting on close friends.

• 1:20:46Speaker 03

  And like, God forbid.

• 1:20:48Speaker 06

  I have some trauma to share with my friends over here, okay?

• 1:20:51Speaker 03

  Almost like they didn't, it was like they didn't want you, like, interacting or like finding friends. It was weird, the whole, it was weird.

• 1:20:58Speaker 06

  They were just scared that, like, people were gonna somehow, like, hack us and, like, find out information about the project and whatever, which, like, yes, like, did we break the NDA? Yes, like, yes, like, like, we did break the NDA.

• 1:21:11Speaker 03

  But NDAs are so this and that these days.

• 1:21:14Speaker 06

  They're, they're a suggestion.

• 1:21:16Speaker 03

  They're a suggestion, really? In the day of the internet, NDAs feel like a suggestion.

• 1:21:22Speaker 06

  Just getting to all the brands that I've worked with and that I had to sign NDAs with, they're not a suggestion. I follow them wholeheartedly.

• 1:21:28Speaker 03

  Right.

• 1:21:29Speaker 06

  Okay, let's do this.

• 1:21:30Speaker 03

  Yeah. Do you know about these?

• 1:21:32Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:21:33Speaker 03

  Okay. My best friend met this man abroad, and after only a month of knowing him and being back in the States, he's moving here and they're getting married. Oh, come on. Like, girl is engaged currently, one month. I wanna be a good friend and support her because I get it, the man is hot. But I also know from experience, it's a bad idea, no matter how you shake it, what do I do?

• 1:21:52Speaker 06

  You shake it. You, you shake her.

• 1:21:55Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:21:55Speaker 06

  You shake her and be like, wake up.

• 1:21:57Speaker 03

  He's trying to get a green card.

• 1:21:59Speaker 06

  Oh, my God, so true.

• 1:22:01Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:22:01Speaker 06

  He's trying to get a green card. I can't believe that I didn't think of that. I'm trying to get a green card. God, yes, girl, run.

• 1:22:09Speaker 03

  He's trying to get a green card. It sounds like the beginning of like a investigation discovery doc.

• 1:22:13Speaker 06

  You need to be a good friend and you need to be like absolutely not. You need to have like an intervention set with her family. Like it needs to be like hella serious.

• 1:22:22Speaker 03

  I think some like that is a situation that calls for intervention, like you're in psychosis.

• 1:22:28Speaker 06

  Intervention.

• 1:22:29Speaker 03

  You're in psychosis, like we're like, I don't like, you got it, like this has got to end now.

• 1:22:34Speaker 06

  I've had friends that get matching tattoos with their boyfriends after two weeks and already I'm like, it's almost intervention time.

• 1:22:39Speaker 03

  Oh, that's me. That's me. I made TikTok edits to my situation last night. TikTok edits. It was about you.

• 1:22:49Speaker 06

  You made them?

• 1:22:50Speaker 03

  Wait, yeah, where's my phone? I'll show it to you. I'll show it to you. It is so bad.

• 1:23:03Speaker 06

  You are an insane person. I really, I'm enjoying it here. No.

• 1:23:09Speaker 06

  I'm enjoying my time. This, that's insane though. But like, yeah, I mean it's.

• 1:23:15Speaker 03

  It's intervention.

• 1:23:16Speaker 06

  Listen, does it harm anybody? No, but her situation is harmful. She needs to get out.

• 1:23:21Speaker 03

  But now.

• 1:23:22Speaker 06

  Right now.

• 1:23:22Speaker 03

  Watch like an episode of Intervention. That's what I prescribe and like sit her down. Or like show her like a scary investigation discovery show. There's like plenty of that.

• 1:23:32Speaker 06

  I feel as though you're right. I feel as though you're right.

• 1:23:35Speaker 03

  That's what I would do and I would, and if she's like, I can't see it, I can't see it.

• 1:23:39Speaker 06

  I'm pres, I'm prescribing, I have never yelled at a girl like this.

• 1:23:43Speaker 03

  Yeah, that, that, that episode of America's Next Top Model.

• 1:23:46Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:23:48Speaker 03

  I've been dating a man who is, who is an identical twin for about eight months and now my sister has been getting really close with my boyfriend's brother.

• 1:23:57Speaker 03

  I was a little weirded out by this, but obviously it's fine, but now, but now she is also beginning to dress a little like me. Should I sound the alarms? Is she trying to copy my life? It's honestly a little creepy.

• 1:24:07Speaker 06

  Sound the alarms. I'm always about sounding the alarms. You guys need to speak up. You guys need to sound the alarms every time, please.

• 1:24:16Speaker 03

  Please.

• 1:24:17Speaker 06

  That's scary.

• 1:24:18Speaker 03

  It's giving a single white female.

• 1:24:21Speaker 06

  Don't know what that is.

• 1:24:21Speaker 03

  Okay, it's a movie. Like that.

• 1:24:24Speaker 06

  Hmm, exactly that situation. So that's your prescription.

• 1:24:27Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:24:27Speaker 06

  That's our prescription.

• 1:24:28Speaker 03

  That's our prescription.

• 1:24:29Speaker 06

  Well, I think also, um, I think it's fine. I've had to like talk to friends before where you're like, hey, like, love you sis, right? This is freaking me out a little bit.

• 1:24:40Speaker 03

  Really? You've had people like copy your stuff?

• 1:24:43Speaker 06

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:24:45Speaker 03

  And how do they take it? When you have those, I've never met someone that's been able to have a conversation like that. How do they take it?

• 1:24:51Speaker 06

  Well, the thing is, is like, here's the thing. It's a really hard conversation to have and to lead because, like, you don't invent things, but you do invent like the mixture of things, right? So it's like, okay, like I didn't invent dressing like this. And like, I met this person, but like dressing like that and like dating this person, that's like my combo. And you're like drinking my smoothie a little bit too much. Like, like, you're like, like, is, are you know, do you, and I think a lot of the times you won't get what you want from that conversation because that person was, is not gonna go, oh yeah, I've been copying you.

• 1:25:30Speaker 03

  But at least you got it out.

• 1:25:31Speaker 06

  But you got it out and they know that you see it. And so they're being clocked and that they know. You need to just like kind of assert your, your dominance a little bit.

• 1:25:39Speaker 03

  Oh, I love that. I think I needed to hear that, honestly.

• 1:25:42Speaker 06

  You need to go a little bit like,

• 1:25:44Speaker 03

  Uh huh. This is who I am.

• 1:25:46Speaker 06

  A little like,

• 1:25:47Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:25:48Speaker 06

  This is it. Like, like, I'm, I see you these.

• 1:25:52Speaker 03

  These.

• 1:25:52Speaker 06

  These see you.

• 1:25:53Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:25:54Speaker 06

  And they're here.

• 1:25:55Speaker 03

  Eyes.

• 1:25:55Speaker 06

  Eyes.

• 1:25:56Speaker 03

  Eyes.

• 1:25:57Speaker 06

  Another set, another set, spiritual.

• 1:26:00Speaker 03

  Wow, good for you.

• 1:26:01Speaker 06

  Thanks.

• 1:26:01Speaker 03

  Good for you.

• 1:26:02Speaker 06

  And good for you, because you need to do that, sister. You have to do that. They won't stop.

• 1:26:08Speaker 03

  There's this random Twitter account that has been tormenting me in my friend group for the better half of a year. Like just some random account commenting nasty shit on all of our posts. Block them. Fast forward to last week, I'm cleaning my apartment and wanted to help my roommate out, so I went into her room to take out her trash and saw that account logged in on her laptop.

• 1:26:29Speaker 06

  Where do you find these people?

• 1:26:31Speaker 03

  Guys! I just went through them last night.

• 1:26:35Speaker 06

  Oh my god!

• 1:26:38Speaker 06

  Sickening!

• 1:26:39Speaker 03

  Yes, that's giving Catfish the documentary like-

• 1:26:42Speaker 06

  That's my gossip girl!

• 1:26:43Speaker 03

  Wow!

• 1:26:45Speaker 06

  Well, obviously-

• 1:26:47Speaker 03

  Oh, you better come up with the nastiest confrontation of your life!

• 1:26:53Speaker 06

  You need to like, this is the time to be petty.

• 1:26:56Speaker 03

  Yeah, hold it to yourself, come up with a very clever way.

• 1:27:00Speaker 06

  Tell all your friends in secret.

• 1:27:02Speaker 03

  But you need to like, record proof.

• 1:27:04Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 1:27:05Speaker 03

  I really hope you recorded proof.

• 1:27:06Speaker 06

  Yes, because this person is gonna lie.

• 1:27:08Speaker 03

  Be like, "What? That's not true, I was just on their account."

• 1:27:12Speaker 03

  So, record everything.

• 1:27:14Speaker 06

  You need receipts.

• 1:27:15Speaker 03

  What I would be doing is like, something real nasty. I'd be like, "Let's have a movie night." And we all watch movie and then like, airplay the movie, and then it's like, that.

• 1:27:25Speaker 06

  Oh my god, you're so much better at this shit than I am. Like, I would just be like, I think immediately as I would see that, I'd be like, "What the fuck?" And I would just like, whatever.

• 1:27:33Speaker 03

  That's crazy.

• 1:27:34Speaker 06

  But that's so much better.

• 1:27:35Speaker 03

  No, that, I mean, but that's some real nasty petty shit.

• 1:27:38Speaker 06

  I think-

• 1:27:39Speaker 03

  She deserves it though. If she's been calm, if she's been tormenting you, really for, that's psycho, that's psycho shit.

• 1:27:46Speaker 06

  That's insane.

• 1:27:47Speaker 03

  That's psycho shit.

• 1:27:48Speaker 06

  That's psycho shit.

• 1:27:49Speaker 03

  That's like, no empathy.

• 1:27:51Speaker 06

  She needs evaluation. No, you need to extract those people out of your life immediately.

• 1:27:55Speaker 03

  But yeah, it's not cra- that's crazy. That's what I would do, that's my prescription, be nasty and petty.

• 1:28:00Speaker 06

  Be na- like, really put your heads together and be like, "How can we get this bitch?" And you really need to like, bulletproof- receipts. And I don't think you should show them, like, I think the accusation needs to come first. You need, you need to give her a chance to like-

• 1:28:20Speaker 03

  Oh, I have so many prescriptions for this, I'm like, so ready to just go for it.

• 1:28:24Speaker 06

  Do it.

• 1:28:25Speaker 03

  Salt Lake City, Monica, um, Reality Von Teese season, you have to watch that episode. Have you ever seen Real Housewives of Salt Lake City?

• 1:28:34Speaker 06

  No.

• 1:28:35Speaker 03

  Okay, so basically, there is a character named, there was a, there were characters. Sometimes it's hard in reality television, it's very, because people view you as a character and like it's.

• 1:28:44Speaker 06

  See?

• 1:28:45Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 1:28:46Speaker 06

  See?

• 1:28:46Speaker 03

  Yes, but you're not, you're a person. So there is a, um, a housewife named Monica. And she ran a smear account called, or she ran a gossip account called Reality Von Teese. That tormented the girls like, or in earlier seasons and in the, I have full body chills. In the final episode of the season, they, have you ever heard receipts, proof, timeline?

• 1:29:09Speaker 06

  Yes, yes.

• 1:29:10Speaker 03

  That's where that's from.

• 1:29:11Speaker 06

  Wow.

• 1:29:12Speaker 03

  And they all sit her down at dinner and they're like, we have everything. We have your perfect formula, receipts, proof, timeline, screenshots, fucking everything to prove that you are a liar and da, da, da, da, da, da. So I would prescribe that, then I would also prescribe like, uh, that song, what's that Cardi B song? Pretty and petty as fuck.

• 1:29:33Speaker 06

  Well, you would play it as they're like, as they're confronting her about it.

• 1:29:38Speaker 03

  And then to make yourself.

• 1:29:40Speaker 06

  You have a soundtrack for it?

• 1:29:42Speaker 03

  And then to make yourself feel better at the end of the day, like, you know, like, listen to Mean Girls by Cat's Eye, because God bless them.

• 1:29:49Speaker 06

  God bless them.

• 1:29:50Speaker 03

  Cause God.

• 1:29:50Speaker 06

  The mean girls. God bless the sweet, uh, sweet girls.

• 1:29:54Speaker 03

  And yes.

• 1:29:55Speaker 06

  God bless even the mean girls.

• 1:30:04Speaker 03

  Because at the end of the day, God bless them, but before you bless them, you have to get a little nasty.

• 1:30:09Speaker 06

  I prescribe, um, God, I don't have like a.

• 1:30:14Speaker 03

  Those all just came to me in like a real.

• 1:30:16Speaker 06

  Like a real like.

• 1:30:18Speaker 03

  Rush.

• 1:30:18Speaker 06

  I think I prescribe the nastiest, filthiest reading. You also need to call out her fucking stupidity to be logged into the account.

• 1:30:30Speaker 03

  Right.

• 1:30:31Speaker 06

  Like you are stupid. If you're gonna be mean, you can be stupid, huh?

• 1:30:36Speaker 03

  Uh huh.

• 1:30:36Speaker 06

  That's like, what, like.

• 1:30:38Speaker 03

  Right, right. So like the fact that you were both.

• 1:30:41Speaker 06

  You were both.

• 1:30:42Speaker 03

  Like you should feel like a fool.

• 1:30:44Speaker 06

  You're mean and stupid and an idiot?

• 1:30:47Speaker 03

  Yeah, you're a fool.

• 1:30:48Speaker 06

  You are a, you're a fool.

• 1:30:51Speaker 03

  Yeah, fool is such a nasty, nasty, if someone sat there and said, you are a fool.

• 1:30:56Speaker 06

  You are a damn fool.

• 1:30:58Speaker 03

  You're like, "I am."

• 1:30:59Speaker 06

  I'm prescribing you a damn fool.

• 1:31:01Speaker 03

  But can I say, "Please, like, follow up with code word Adella." And tell us what happened, because I need to know. Just say, "This is from the Adella episode." Like, "Please, I need to know, and don't lie." Don't get up on the internet and lie and say that this was you.

• 1:31:17Speaker 06

  I would love to know.

• 1:31:18Speaker 03

  I need to know what happened.

• 1:31:20Speaker 06

  This is kind of upsetting, because you get into these situations, and you never get the result.

• 1:31:23Speaker 03

  Sometimes, sometimes I do. But in this case, I really, yeah, sometimes they'll come back, like, they'll, like, at a live show. They'll be like, "That was me that submitted that."

• 1:31:31Speaker 06

  Oh, my God.

• 1:31:31Speaker 03

  Yeah, it's really full circle, it's really awesome.

• 1:31:33Speaker 06

  Wow, that's awesome, that's epic.

• 1:31:34Speaker 03

  Like, when I was doing, I did a, like, a Broadway show for three weeks, and like, when I, I, um, I would sign playbills during stage door.

• 1:31:41Speaker 06

  They would tell you.

• 1:31:42Speaker 03

  And this girl was like, "You called me during the Glenn Powell episode two years ago, and I was supposed to give you a birth chart reading, here's your birth chart reading." And like, that's those moments, that I'm like, "Life is really beautiful."

• 1:31:55Speaker 06

  Wow.

• 1:31:56Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:31:56Speaker 06

  Impact.

• 1:31:57Speaker 03

  Impact.

• 1:31:58Speaker 06

  You're impact.

• 1:32:00Speaker 03

  Our impact.

• 1:32:01Speaker 06

  Our impact.

• 1:32:02Speaker 03

  "My psychotic ex broke no contact to tell me his dog died. I do not want to speak to this man again, but I also love that dog, I also love that dog as my own. They're doing a sort of ceremony for the dog on the weekend, and he invited me, he was genuinely the worst, and I'm worried if I go, it's a surrender to no contact, and I do not want to do that. But I feel heartless otherwise, what do I do?" You honor that dog in your own way.

• 1:32:27Speaker 06

  I say, "Fuck the dog."

• 1:32:29Speaker 03

  Really?

• 1:32:31Speaker 06

  No.

• 1:32:32Speaker 03

  No, but that dog, but you can look at old photo, you can have your own ceremony. You don't need to have a ceremony with your ex.

• 1:32:38Speaker 06

  Here's my thing.

• 1:32:41Speaker 06

  If you go to the ceremony, and then you still keep ignoring him, and like, don't give a fuck about him, I think that's worse.

• 1:32:50Speaker 06

  Somebody once told me,

• 1:32:53Speaker 06

  "One thing that's worse than hate is apathy. Not caring about him at all." Like, the fact that, if you don't show up, you might seem a little bit bothered still.

• 1:33:04Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 1:33:06Speaker 06

  If you show up, and you do not give a fuck, and then you just leave, and still don't talk to him ever again?

• 1:33:12Speaker 03

  Show up in all black.

• 1:33:14Speaker 06

  Show up in all black.

• 1:33:16Speaker 03

  Dressed down for the dog's funeral.

• 1:33:18Speaker 06

  Have the like little net.

• 1:33:20Speaker 03

  Shades on.

• 1:33:21Speaker 06

  Shades.

• 1:33:22Speaker 03

  This dog meant so much to me.

• 1:33:24Speaker 06

  Wear the like Ariana Grande mini dress that she wore to Aretha Franklin's funeral.

• 1:33:28Speaker 03

  Uh huh.

• 1:33:28Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 1:33:30Speaker 03

  My girlfriend never wants to go out like ever. This was one of the things I liked about her when we started dating. But now almost four years later, we're in New York, starting a new chapter. And I'd really like to get out there and have new experiences. She genuinely won't budge and is super passive aggressive if I go out anyways. That's, that's the issue. We just got an apartment together, so don't tell me to break up. Sorry.

• 1:33:50Speaker 06

  Oh, she said, "Don't tell me."

• 1:33:54Speaker 06

  I mean, I gotta say, I don't like going out either. So I guess I would be the girlfriend in question. So...

• 1:34:00Speaker 03

  I'm not, I'm not in my going out era either.

• 1:34:02Speaker 06

  Yeah, so...

• 1:34:07Speaker 06

  I think... Maybe just like find a way to make her enjoy it. For me personally, I don't like going out when it's with people that I don't enjoy. So you need to maybe like really like introduce her to some really nice people. And like really like make sure that there are people that she would fuck with. And then you can be like way like they're going out to a bar like you know, the people that you like.

• 1:34:32Speaker 03

  Right, maybe.

• 1:34:32Speaker 06

  Like...

• 1:34:33Speaker 03

  Maybe this isn't black and white and it's not like she doesn't like going out, I like going out. Maybe it's I like going out. I'm with people that she doesn't fuck with.

• 1:34:40Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:34:41Speaker 03

  Do I fuck with these people?

• 1:34:42Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:34:43Speaker 03

  Do we have the same values?

• 1:34:44Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:34:45Speaker 03

  What's going on here, really?

• 1:34:46Speaker 06

  If you value your girlfriend, you're gonna, you're gonna listen to, but also like we don't know her, so she might just really not like leaving her house for some reason.

• 1:34:54Speaker 03

  This person said that that's what they liked about their girlfriend. At first. So something obviously shifted and it's strange that it shifted when they moved to New York, the city of going out. When I go out, I'm, I go to New York.

• 1:35:07Speaker 06

  But you like this about her in the first place. I mean...

• 1:35:12Speaker 06

  Girl, these are the cars that you've been dealt with from the start. She was real with you from the start, I gotta say. Maybe the issue was you.

• 1:35:19Speaker 03

  Oh, they liked that she wouldn't go out.

• 1:35:22Speaker 06

  She doesn't like going out.

• 1:35:23Speaker 03

  Oh.

• 1:35:25Speaker 03

  I read it wrong.

• 1:35:26Speaker 06

  Yeah, maybe you're the issue.

• 1:35:28Speaker 03

  Maybe you've changed.

• 1:35:28Speaker 06

  Maybe you've changed, and then it's like, okay, well,

• 1:35:33Speaker 06

  does she have to change with you, or, sorry to your new apartment, do you guys have to break up?

• 1:35:39Speaker 03

  I know, and that's what they said for us not to say, but if they're art, if they're, if you're telling me, don't say breakup, that means people in their life are saying breakup.

• 1:35:48Speaker 06

  And the people in your life know you better than me and Jake, so, at the end of the day, we're telling you to break up, the people in your, sorry sis, you shouldn't have gotten that apartment.

• 1:35:59Speaker 03

  I agree.

• 1:36:00Speaker 06

  How long has it been, he said?

• 1:36:01Speaker 03

  Four years.

• 1:36:02Speaker 06

  Long.

• 1:36:03Speaker 03

  Long. I need some advice on how to be more punctual. Oh, I feel like you will be, I feel like you are very punctual.

• 1:36:09Speaker 06

  Nope.

• 1:36:10Speaker 03

  What? Oh, you're.

• 1:36:13Speaker 06

  Wrong.

• 1:36:14Speaker 03

  Wow, you're giving punctual.

• 1:36:16Speaker 06

  I, I am giving that, but

• 1:36:19Speaker 06

  to some things I am punctual, like if there's a meeting, I'm punctual, but if I know that I have a session and we have like a full day, I will be possibly fifteen to thirty minutes late.

• 1:36:30Speaker 03

  Oh, that is punctual still.

• 1:36:31Speaker 06

  In LA.

• 1:36:32Speaker 03

  Yes, fifteen minutes late, traffic, things are weird, there's a, restaurants give you a fifteen minute grace period for a reason.

• 1:36:41Speaker 06

  Okay, thanks, so maybe I am punctual, actually.

• 1:36:43Speaker 03

  You are punctual.

• 1:36:44Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 1:36:44Speaker 03

  I need some advice on how to be more punctual. I love my job, but I can't seem to ever be on time. I just can't seem to wake up earlier than I already do. And even when I do get up earlier, I somehow still manage to run late because I'm so scatterbrained. I would love any advice on how to fix this because I really don't want to ruin my relationships or job over it.

• 1:37:02Speaker 06

  See, this is the thing that I wouldn't be late for, like rehearsal, when it's like timed, like, or like a performance, like you need to be on time.

• 1:37:10Speaker 03

  I need consequences.

• 1:37:12Speaker 06

  There's con, yes. There needs to be consequences for you, I fear.

• 1:37:17Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:37:19Speaker 06

  Maybe like. Sis, like, I don't know, like, what are you scatterbrained about? Like, what is, what is?

• 1:37:25Speaker 03

  Avoiding something.

• 1:37:26Speaker 06

  Like, maybe, I don't know, lay out your outfit the night before? I don't, like...

• 1:37:31Speaker 03

  For me, it's like, the one thing I'm always on time to is like, like, I have like a workout every morning.

• 1:37:38Speaker 06

  Right.

• 1:37:38Speaker 03

  That I'm like, I know I'll get yelled at if I'm late, because other people are ahead of me.

• 1:37:42Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 1:37:43Speaker 03

  So, I started to think, like, like, these people would like, if I was 10 minutes late, like, I'm like, oh, wait, like, this person, like, if I'm doing an 8 a.m. workout, this person got up early and they made it there, so why shouldn't I be able to make it there?

• 1:37:56Speaker 06

  And the thing is, is like, if it's your job too, it's like, all of your colleagues are doing that.

• 1:38:01Speaker 03

  You can't be the only one. You kind of just have to do it.

• 1:38:04Speaker 06

  You kind of just...

• 1:38:05Speaker 03

  It's ripping a band-aid off.

• 1:38:06Speaker 06

  It's your only job, it's like, you need to just go, honey, like, figure it out. I say, find it.

• 1:38:13Speaker 03

  I would say,

• 1:38:14Speaker 06

  Find it.

• 1:38:14Speaker 03

  Last some music in the morning, put on, just put on your fucking clothes.

• 1:38:18Speaker 06

  Yeah, like-

• 1:38:19Speaker 03

  Put on your clothes and leave.

• 1:38:20Speaker 06

  You cannot, well, honestly, sometimes music makes me...

• 1:38:24Speaker 03

  Oh, really? Distracted?

• 1:38:26Speaker 06

  Distracted.

• 1:38:26Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:38:27Speaker 06

  And like, everything takes a little bit longer. So, honestly, remove everything that you're distracted by, lay your, like, literally pick an outfit the night before, get your bag set up, you wake up, you brush your teeth, you put the outfit that you picked out, you take, take your bag and you just go, honey.

• 1:38:41Speaker 03

  But also, maybe you wake-

• 1:38:42Speaker 06

  Go, go, go, go.

• 1:38:42Speaker 03

  Maybe just try to wake up a little early or just open your eyes and get up, get out of bed.

• 1:38:47Speaker 06

  Just go.

• 1:38:48Speaker 03

  Just go.

• 1:38:48Speaker 06

  Just go.

• 1:38:49Speaker 03

  Just go.

• 1:38:50Speaker 06

  Set, like, do you have an iPad? Like, maybe one alarm on your phone, one alarm on your iPad, like, you have to get up, you have to get out of bed to get your alarm.

• 1:38:59Speaker 03

  Have you ever heard the song "Jump" by Blackpink?

• 1:39:01Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 1:39:02Speaker 03

  Wake up to jump.

• 1:39:03Speaker 06

  Wake up to jump.

• 1:39:04Speaker 03

  Yeah, I think that would get me out of bed.

• 1:39:05Speaker 06

  I used to wake up to "Be Alright" by Ariana Grande, for like,

• 1:39:08Speaker 03

  One of the best.

• 1:39:09Speaker 06

  Three years straight.

• 1:39:10Speaker 03

  God, at the end of the day, it's Ari forever. Are you excited for the Eternal Sunshine Tour?

• 1:39:16Speaker 06

  Am I excited? Oh, my god.

• 1:39:18Speaker 03

  I said, clear the space.

• 1:39:19Speaker 06

  I said-

• 1:39:22Speaker 06

  You don't understand, I mean, I don't have my tickets yet, but...

• 1:39:24Speaker 03

  Neither do I, but I'll figure it out.

• 1:39:26Speaker 06

  But I'll figure it out? Because I was like, "I'm not gonna win that Ticketmaster War, like, it's just not happening." I really am like... I've been to every single one of her tours that she's ever done, like, I'm like, "This is it for me, I am gonna cry." Although I am interested in seeing what it's gonna be like, like, seeing Seven Rings performed.

• 1:39:45Speaker 03

  I think it's gonna open with intro, Under the World Extended.

• 1:39:48Speaker 06

  Okay.

• 1:39:49Speaker 03

  And then what? And then that's, and then like, that sets us up for like... Yeah, like, and then, I said, for me, when We Can't Be Friends comes on, and I don't even care if that's basic, if that's the choice, like, clear the space.

• 1:40:05Speaker 06

  Clear the area.

• 1:40:06Speaker 03

  Clear the area, like, I need my moment, that was like, me and Louisa's album, Eternal Sunshine, like, front to back, like...

• 1:40:12Speaker 06

  It's gonna be monumental, I also am like, I really am interested, because Eternal Sunshine, she's in her era.

• 1:40:19Speaker 03

  Okay, well, those were it for the Tell Me What's song.

• 1:40:21Speaker 06

  Okay, yay!

• 1:40:23Speaker 03

  Well, Adella...

• 1:40:24Speaker 06

  There's a lot of wrong with these people.

• 1:40:26Speaker 03

  Yeah, somewhat. What did we learn today?

• 1:40:29Speaker 06

  We learned that, um... Hoppers is a great movie.

• 1:40:36Speaker 03

  Lubitons should be dusted up.

• 1:40:38Speaker 06

  Lubitons should be, Red Bottoms should be dusted up. Um, what else?

• 1:40:43Speaker 03

  Don't be ashamed of your dreams.

• 1:40:45Speaker 06

  Do not be ashamed of your dreams, um, and yeah, just follow your dreams.

• 1:40:55Speaker 06

  Follow your dreams, guys. Therapists.

• 1:41:01Speaker 03

  Adella, I love you so much. Thank you for coming on.

• 1:41:04Speaker 06

  Thank you for having me.

• 1:41:04Speaker 03

  I love you. Uh, stream KGB, Out Friday.

• 1:41:08Speaker 06

  Out Friday. What, April 17?

• 1:41:11Speaker 03

  April 17.

• 1:41:12Speaker 06

  That's it.

• 1:41:28Speaker 00

  Ugh, I hate Mondays.

• 1:41:30Speaker 01

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• 1:41:32Speaker 00

  Uh, Taylor Hansen? Sure, I'll try one. Mmm.

• 1:41:37Speaker 01

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• 1:41:39Speaker 00

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• 1:41:43Speaker 01

  Taylor Hansen? Nice. Try one. Mmm.

• 1:41:50Speaker 00

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