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0:32 Speaker 01 This is a Global Player original podcast.
0:41 Speaker 02 Hello and welcome to my therapist ghosted me with me Vogue Williams and Joanne McNally. And Joanne, we've a follow up conclusion to the five year ghosting. We've been asking for her for weeks and she has written back to us.
0:52 Speaker 03 We're very excited.
0:55 Speaker 03 What's going on guys? How are we?
0:58 Speaker 02 Hello.
0:59 Speaker 03 What's great. What's the news? What's the gossip? What's the scandal? What's the, what's the news at the time of going to press as my mother says every time I call?
1:07 Speaker 02 Well, I,
1:09 Speaker 02 I, I have been momming, as you said, this week quite a lot. And I just took the kids to Amble Park today, which is amazing. But I am, I like, you know, when you're so tired, it's like when you're coming down with the flu or something, I'm so tired after it. I'm just like, whoa. And they didn't want to leave and I'm like, how have you got energy to stay here?
1:31 Speaker 03 Well, I'm writing like a bastard at the moment. So I took one of my ADHD meds this morning and my brain feels dry. I don't know what it is. It just makes me feel dry. My brain feels dry and itchy.
1:41 Speaker 02 Sounds quite nice. Oh no, I want to be a bit moister, the brain to be a bit moister.
1:45 Speaker 04 You want a nice wet.
1:46 Speaker 03 You need a bit of mental lubrication and I guess it is, but it's like just being on speed. By the way, speaking of writing, the peanut fog starts this week. A tiny little plug for Barcelona, Bournemouth, Liverpool. That's it. Everywhere else I think is pretty much gone at this stage, at this, at this side of Christmas anyway. Obviously in Killarney and Castlebar, but they know what they're doing to me, so. And when this airs, it'll be starting tomorrow in Glasgow.
2:09 Speaker 02 Wait, oh, I love Glasgow.
2:12 Speaker 03 I know.
2:13 Speaker 02 That's a really nice place to start, wow.
2:16 Speaker 03 King's Theatre, yeah, it's a stunner. It's a stunner, we did it. Remember? Huge orchestra pitch, remember?
2:22 Speaker 02 Yeah, it was amazing. I do remember. And everyone does just so much crack in Glasgow. We're gonna have a great time.
2:27 Speaker 03 It's a great start, but if anyone around the Barcelona area, because we've gone to a bigger room, tell your mates. October 9th, I think. What date is your birthday?
2:37 Speaker 02 October 2nd.
2:38 Speaker 04 October 9th, you're in Chester.
2:40 Speaker 03 Oh, let's not go down this rabbit hole. They've got Google, do you know what I mean? I'm in October.
2:48 Speaker 02 Oh my god, this is where I go back to, I actually, you'll never get so much web traffic from me on joannemcnally.com. I'm like, where is she? I forgot about this. This was like the last time you were doing it, I was like, where is she? Always, Jo, I don't know why you're laughing, you're gonna be up the fucking walls.
3:05 Speaker 04 I am the one who visits that site the most. During records, before records, after records, a lot of the time, just see what's to be tomorrow.
3:13 Speaker 03 Chip me, chip me.
3:14 Speaker 02 Please, check her internet connection in the hotel, someone help us, god.
3:21 Speaker 03 We should, do you know what the three of us should do, we've never done, we should put each other on Find Our Friends, wouldn't that be sweet?
3:26 Speaker 02 No.
3:28 Speaker 03 Wouldn't that be cute?
3:29 Speaker 02 I will, if you want. I would love to tag you, Joanne.
3:33 Speaker 03 I'd love to watch you running around as I rot away in my bopas.
3:38 Speaker 02 I'd absolutely love to have you on, but come on, Joanne, let's do it, I'm just worried about you, I'm just, I wanna keep an eye on you.
3:45 Speaker 03 We're like the three bears. You move too much, Vogue, I move too little, and Jo's kind of in the middle somewhere. Yeah, that's what it is.
3:55 Speaker 02 I think we've spoken about being the three bears before and it really makes sense.
4:00 Speaker 03 Her chip is broken, it's just frantic moving up and down. Like, she just ran to Liverpool this morning, what is her fucking deal? Whereas Jo's just kind of doing his bits and bobs, going about his business, and then I look like I'm dead. You'll be sending the medics and my mother to the flat, like, she hasn't moved, she hasn't even turned in the bed in three days.
4:20 Speaker 02 Someone go and do the bed sores.
4:22 Speaker 03 Thank you, folk. Someone do the bed sores, please.
4:26 Speaker 02 I went, I was so, I was put back in my box. I thought I've been getting really good at running. I was running with my friend who was 27 weeks pregnant. Now, she is an amazing runner. And I was just still behind her, a woman who's 27 weeks pregnant.
4:40 Speaker 03 Really?
4:41 Speaker 02 It's gonna have to stop running soon. And I was like, right, that's me. That's my start again. I still haven't improved.
4:47 Speaker 03 Yeah, but there's pace and stuff, you know? Like, I watch people from my window exercising just so I can, you know, lap it up. I like to, I like to pedal, but I do, I don't, I watch them run. And someone, they run like they're on air. Like, I can't, they just make it look so easy. And it's really inspiring to watch. And then you get out there, and it's really hard.
5:07 Speaker 02 It's rea- sorry. And sorry, I get out there, first of all, and if I, if I'm running with Sven or something, I'm like, listen to how hard they're stomping their feet, like I'm some, like I'm Linford Christie. And then I go out with my mate, he's like about to give birth, and I just drag along behind her. I was like, we can probably walk. We walk for this bit, Hannah.
5:24 Speaker 03 She's probably very, you know, established and experienced. Run with me, folk. You'll feel like Usain Bolt.
5:33 Speaker 02 No, I remember I ran many ones.
5:35 Speaker 03 I just heard Jo pushing, pushing the bed along beside you. It's like just two laps of Battersea Park. Jo behind the bedhead, just like wheeling me along.
5:45 Speaker 04 Faster, faster, we're losing her. Push me faster.
5:47 Speaker 03 I need water, Jo, I'm so thirsty.
5:51 Speaker 02 Do you not remember that time, that time we ran together in Battersea Park, and we'd gone out to do the run? We hadn't even gotten to that, like, pagoda thing, and you had stopped about three times. And you were like, I don't wanna run with you anymore. I'm going, I'm going this way. And I was like, oh, the run's over.
6:06 Speaker 03 Yeah, I was like, you just run along there, because I can't, firstly, like, the fact that you chat and run is terrifying.
6:12 Speaker 02 I don't think you thought you were putting your headphones in when I was going to, we were having, we were on a date.
6:19 Speaker 03 Sure, I used to do that with my ex when we were on holidays.
6:22 Speaker 02 That's fair enough though, I would have too.
6:26 Speaker 03 One of my exes. I used to make him walk ahead so that I could put my AirPods in and listen to podcasts. Isn't that terrible? I'd be like, I'll give you a head start. He'd be like, I don't want one. I was like, no, no, you're having one. Just have a head start. And I meet at the restaurant, which is an hour walk from here. I just want to listen to my podcasts. Yeah, I want to catch up on the world.
6:44 Speaker 02 And they'd go to the restaurant and she'd order her wine and then put the headphones back in.
6:48 Speaker 03 Yeah, yeah.
6:49 Speaker 02 Oh, we're not talking.
6:50 Speaker 03 I've got him a colouring book. I'm like, I've got you a colouring book. You doodle away there, mummy's going to read the papers.
6:58 Speaker 03 Holidays are, are, are, holidays are testing for most relationships, friendships, parental relationships, romantic relationships, you know, it's a lot of time with one person. But yeah, I mean, you shouldn't really be sending them off with a head start, but there you go. Look, love is love and life is life.
7:15 Speaker 02 You would find it desperate to be on holidays with me because you wouldn't. And I, I'd struggle with you because you'd try and ignore me all the time, but I would be like a dog, like humping your egg, just trying to get your attention.
7:26 Speaker 03 You just, you just, you're never, yeah, off as such.
7:31 Speaker 02 I love having the chats. Oh, I am off at about half seven.
7:34 Speaker 03 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. Yeah, I'd be putting you down early.
7:39 Speaker 02 Half six bedtime for you. You didn't have a nap today.
7:41 Speaker 03 Folks, yeah, and you missed your nap now. I really felt that.
7:48 Speaker 03 It's been all day, folk. It's been all day.
7:51 Speaker 02 Have a bucket of carrot sticks and shut up.
7:55 Speaker 02 Folks, you need a bit of screen time, love. A bit of screen time, a bit of Peppa Pig.
8:02 Speaker 03 It's whatever you're used to. Some people are just really big chatterers. Like I was doing the, when we were filming that Dermot Bannan thing that, that we were talking about the other day. Like we, I had, the, obviously her makeup started about half seven. And then you're chatting, I was chatting with Liv, obviously in the morning, then chatting all day, like doing the, like the filming and then chatting with the crew when we weren't filming, you know? And by the end of the day, I was like, I, my, to use the term, to use the zeitgeist term, my social battery was. Dead.
8:31 Speaker 02 Even mine was, after that long day. Mine was gone. I mean, I had people come and drop and stuff up for the party and I was like, oh, can you just, can you just leave it in private?
8:40 Speaker 03 Yeah, you do. Even you, Vogue, do run out eventually.
8:44 Speaker 02 Yeah. I do. I do stop talking after a while, but then everyone thinks there's something wrong with me. They're like, oh, what's wrong with you? Like, cheer up. I'm like, I'm fine. Just leave me alone.
8:54 Speaker 03 Yeah, look, I've just stopped talking for three minutes. Yeah.
8:57 Speaker 02 No, I'm not dead. I'm still here.
8:59 Speaker 03 It's a great gift. Any other news?
9:02 Speaker 02 Well, the house is back to normal. Everything's cleared up. They took the glasses. I tried, Joanne.
9:08 Speaker 03 That's pricks.
9:09 Speaker 02 They took them. I only kept three, but I know that this is.
9:14 Speaker 03 I have no idea. I have no idea what you're talking about, to be honest.
9:17 Speaker 04 Absolute left them love the glasses.
9:19 Speaker 02 I loved them so much.
9:20 Speaker 04 Ten of them.
9:22 Speaker 02 You'd love them. I actually got them. There was a, there was a photographer up. I was like, get a picture of those cups, will you?
9:32 Speaker 02 We have an email back from the five-year ghoster. So the woman who got ghosted after being with somebody for five years, didn't really give us the whole story. She's been back in touch.
9:43 Speaker 03 She's finally, she's seen our back call beaming out of Leicester Square, dying for an update.
9:52 Speaker 02 Jo texts us about it and I was like, I can come on the pod early today if you can. Dying to do this.
9:58 Speaker 03 She was dying to do it, Jo.
10:00 Speaker 04 Have you read it already?
10:01 Speaker 03 No.
10:02 Speaker 04 No. First time seeing it. Okay.
10:03 Speaker 02 Oh, I had to do it in real life, IRL. Okay, ready? Okay.
10:07 Speaker 03 We can't act, Jo, remember. No, we can't act. We've established that.
10:11 Speaker 04 All genuine here, then?
10:13 Speaker 02 Okay. Dear Vogue and Joanne, I'm back in touch after your request with a few more details around my ex of five and a half years who ghosted me. Some context, it happened in June. Oh my God, there's loads. It's a big email. It happened in June. It was a Friday night. I don't think you should dump anyone in the evening time because that really affects their sleep. I'd rather be dumped in the morning and allow myself to like, deal with it and then possibly get a good night's sleep.
10:38 Speaker 03 Yeah, fair.
10:39 Speaker 04 That's the first issue.
10:40 Speaker 03 Yeah.
10:41 Speaker 02 Yeah.
10:42 Speaker 03 Asshole. We, we, we need to keep, need to keep the flow of this because I'm, I really, as much as I love chatting about your sleep, I'd really love to hear about the email. If that, if that's cool.
10:53 Speaker 02 Okay, eight hours solid last night, only woke up once. Um, I got home from work and expected him back within a couple of hours. The evening rolled on and I assumed he was out for drinks, which was fine, but I was a bit annoyed he hadn't mentioned it. Eventually I messaged, messaged him, why do I keep going into Sean Connery?
11:09 Speaker 03 Messaged, there's something, it feels like a Friday evening, there's a bit of a giddiness in the air, if I may.
11:15 Speaker 04 Actually a Tuesday afternoon.
11:17 Speaker 03 I know, yeah.
11:18 Speaker 02 Is it? Oh my God, I usually hate Tuesdays, I'm having the best Tuesday I've ever had.
11:22 Speaker 03 It's freelance life, no one knows if they're alive, what day of the week it is, it doesn't matter. Sorry folk, now I've done it, please continue.
11:31 Speaker 02 Eventually, can you imagine what mine and Joanne's conversations are like when we actually go out with each other?
11:35 Speaker 03 Oh my gosh, have we just done like, even Jo's now rolling his tiny eyes.
11:41 Speaker 02 Eventually I messaged him, but notice, message is only going to be one tick, weird. Dead battery, maybe? I called, also no luck. Then I got worried, so I called his friend who said he didn't know anything. I called his folks and they said they hadn't heard from him. So yeah, I basically thought he'd died. No sleep that night, no sleep that night. And at 8am, Saturday morning, his mother sent me a really short message. He's okay, I've spoken to him. What a bitch.
12:16 Speaker 02 I called her.
12:18 Speaker 03 The mother's, the mother's involved. Didn't I say this to you, didn't I say this to you before? I said, we spoke to someone else about this, well via this medium. And I said, the mothers, they'll always back their sons at the end of the day. You think they're your friend when you're going out with their sons, they'll always back their sons.
12:34 Speaker 02 I just feel like I wouldn't, I wouldn't allow that. I'm sorry. I think there's a level of being, saying to your son and then being like, cop the fuck on and don't be a carrot and deal with this like a man.
12:45 Speaker 03 Yeah, yeah, but they will, publicly, they will always have their sons back. Not always, most of the time, from my experience. Always, always with me.
12:53 Speaker 02 Okay. I called her for more information, but she didn't pick up. I've messaged her loads and she's just been really cryptic. And eventually, she's cut contact. Well, like mother, like son.
13:05 Speaker 03 Two wankers.
13:07 Speaker 02 I worked out he wasn't coming back by Saturday night and then drowned myself in a bottle of vodka. Oh, God. Never do this, girls. It's dangerous.
13:16 Speaker 03 Thistle milk after and you'll be fine. You can get it down in Hart, Holland and Barretts. Please drink responsibly. Do, do, do drink responsibly.
13:24 Speaker 02 Yeah, it depends if it was a 70 CL or a litre as well. A 70 CL over the course of a night isn't like the worst thing you could do.
13:30 Speaker 03 Jo, why, why are you blaming the woman? You should be saying, date responsibly. Date responsibly.
13:34 Speaker 04 I mean, everyone. I don't mean this woman.
13:36 Speaker 03 No, you're victim blaming.
13:37 Speaker 02 Okay, come on, we're gonna get some good shit here. I've been waiting since two o'clock.
13:43 Speaker 03 Thistle milk. Go on, Vogue.
13:45 Speaker 02 Sure, but the hangover from a bottle of vodka on its own and no food should be illegal. In the time since, his dad came round, oh God, another arsehole, that whole family, full of them. His dad came round and picked up a load of his stuff while I was at work. Oh.
13:59 Speaker 03 The dad's in on it too. It's a family affair.
14:03 Speaker 02 Oh, and I've had to cover the rent on my own. I'm hopefully going to recover my money through small claims. Yes, the small claims court, but all contact is being completely ignored.
14:14 Speaker 03 We're going to court. Sorry, did I miss something here? The mother just said he's okay. She didn't say like, she just said he's okay.
14:20 Speaker 02 Yeah, I've spoken to him and then, and then just sent like very cryptic messages back and forth and then basically cut contact. But all contact has been completely ignored. Other than that, I know as much as you. The mad thing is that if I was hearing this being read out, I would think, I bet she's a fucking nightmare. But like, honestly, I'm not. I'm pretty normal and if anything, I let a lot go, more than my friends would. Thanks for your advice on the pod and don't worry if this is too long to read out. Oh my God, she's so nice.
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16:27 Speaker 02 Nobody deserves something like this. And even if you were a bit of an arsehole, you still don't deserve it.
16:33 Speaker 03 No, you don't.
16:33 Speaker 02 You just don't after five years. Like just...
16:36 Speaker 03 And we don't, we don't let Malters listen to the podcast. Send me his address.
16:41 Speaker 02 Send me his address.
16:43 Speaker 03 She'll get the houth massive on him.
16:46 Speaker 02 Send us his Instagram.
16:50 Speaker 03 We could ruin him. Oh, we will.
16:53 Speaker 02 What an arsehole, though. That is just, I actually think that that is just so.
17:00 Speaker 03 I'm just making some calls.
17:03 Speaker 02 You'd, you'd, you'd, you'd, you'd say you wouldn't, then you'd forget about it.
17:07 Speaker 03 Well, do you know, we could certainly do. Yeah, I know, you're right. Okay, I'm not the best person to follow through. What we could do is completely cockblock this man, but we won't because it's not our business.
17:16 Speaker 02 And he is gonna cockblock himself, so.
17:19 Speaker 03 She should put him up on, no, no, no, John, stop. She put him up on, um, are we dating the same lad? You know that thing where all the women, but, but I think some of the men are suing now and stuff. I think it's gone a bit, it's gone a bit toxic.
17:29 Speaker 04 She's already taking him to court. She doesn't need him to take her to court as well.
17:33 Speaker 02 I would say definitely, yeah. Bring him to the small claims court, though, because that little bit of justice will make you feel better. And he signed a contract to live in that house with you for a certain amount of time. He owes half that rent and you get that money and you take yourself on holidays.
17:47 Speaker 03 Small claims for a small man.
17:49 Speaker 02 I bet you he gets his dick filled with filler.
17:51 Speaker 03 Yeah, hung like a pigeon's foot, I'd say.
17:55 Speaker 02 Yeah, and I'd say he has bad breath as well.
17:58 Speaker 03 Halitosis.
18:02 Speaker 02 And bleeding gums as well, because the halitosis is so bad.
18:06 Speaker 03 Corn, corn, corns. What do you call those lumps on your toes? Disgusting.
18:12 Speaker 02 No, let's go verrucas. Corns aren't as bad as verrucas.
18:15 Speaker 03 Are they not as bad?
18:17 Speaker 02 I think verrucas are worse. Yeah.
18:19 Speaker 03 Yeah, probably. He's probably got syphilis.
18:24 Speaker 02 I'd say super syphilis and super gonorrhea, that's what I'd say.
18:27 Speaker 03 Telling the plague's back and it's coming for him.
18:30 Speaker 02 Right after it knocks on Joanne's door, it's coming for him.
18:33 Speaker 03 Well, I want it for the, for the social status.
18:39 Speaker 02 And so you can stay in your house more. Can't go out.
18:43 Speaker 03 Hear ye, hear ye. Once I'm not ringing my bell, ringing a bell outside, I'll have her to stay away. She's fucking riddled. That is just absolutely awful. Like, and as well, when the family get involved, it's, it's extra hurtful because you do want the parents to see. But like I say, they'll always take the side of the child. I had a similar situation with a man I once went out with who, because I wasn't communicating enough with him. He decided to drop off communication with me all day for a day and kind of suggest that he was dead, basically. And I did that as well. I contacted his mother and was like, is he okay? And she, she came back and said, I'm gonna go check. And then she never came back to me. And I was really, really, I was, I was genuinely checking like traffic accidents and stuff.
19:29 Speaker 03 And I was really worried. Then I tried to contact her again and she never came back to me. And then when I eventually had an out with him, he had told her not to contact me and she didn't.
19:36 Speaker 02 I mean, there's only so much that you can really like defend someone who's just doing something really wanky. And they're actually defending him. Yeah, but you don't know what he's said to them.
19:45 Speaker 03 You don't know.
19:46 Speaker 02 Could have said complete.
19:47 Speaker 03 Exactly.
19:48 Speaker 02 To them.
19:49 Speaker 03 And they're like.
19:50 Speaker 02 She's awful.
19:51 Speaker 03 When you're not. Or they're like, yeah, or they're like, we're not getting involved. But I, I do think if it was my son, I would, I would say, listen, FYI, he's grand. He's just trying to teach you some sort of weird lesson. I would, but that's me.
20:02 Speaker 02 Or, yeah, but.
20:03 Speaker 03 We can't blame the mothers. It's the, it's the sons that are the problem. We can't be bringing the mothers into this.
20:07 Speaker 02 No. God, he's desperate. Yuck. You're, you're, you're well rid of him, which I know you don't want to hear right now, but in a, in a while you'll think to yourself, thank God I ditched him.
20:17 Speaker 03 I always think though, and I like, maybe, you know, obviously I'm a comic, so it's different. But I always think, great fucking story though. Like, come on, that's a great story.
20:25 Speaker 02 Sharing it.
20:26 Speaker 03 And thank you for sharing it with us.
20:28 Speaker 02 And I hope that you start to feel a little bit better and drink is not the answer. It will just make you more anxious. It will, it just makes you more anxious. It's fine for a little while, but it will just like make you more anxious when you're going through something like that.
20:38 Speaker 03 Tissle milk, you'll be grand.
20:40 Speaker 02 When I tried to do that with a breakup, just go in the piss for ages and then just everything came crashing down. I was like, oh no, that wasn't a good idea.
20:47 Speaker 03 Yeah, when you're, when you're in a sad place, you don't care about your tomorrow self or your future self. You only just care about the now and the numbing and stuff. And you're like, I'm not ours dealing with the other thing.
20:55 Speaker 02 Generally, I try and keep drinking as a happy thing. Drink when you're cheery rather than.
20:59 Speaker 03 Yeah, that's not really how drinking works, Jo.
21:02 Speaker 02 I know, I'm aware. I sort of realised it as I said it.
21:04 Speaker 03 Yeah. Do you know what I mean? We're not the Care Bears.
21:11 Speaker 02 Does that have a banana on it?
21:12 Speaker 03 Only they drink with it, yeah, a banana. It is a great story, but like I've had those breakups where you're like, every time I open my eyes, I was like, oh my God, I need to be.
21:20 Speaker 02 I want to be asleep again.
21:21 Speaker 03 Yeah.
21:21 Speaker 02 It does, that does happen, but like I find that when I've had relationships break up where you do feel like that and you honestly wake up and you're like, God, why couldn't I be asleep for longer? And obviously you can only sleep for a certain amount of time a day. And I suppose in a way you would rather just not exist because it's such an awful feeling. But I find that level of it lasts about three weeks. And then you kind of, I would come out of the dark a little bit then. Where like, obviously you still feel horrendous, but like you can manage the day.
21:49 Speaker 03 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:50 Speaker 02 To yourself.
21:51 Speaker 03 Yeah, there's no way, there's no way around it, only through us. But this woman's, to be fair to us, it kind of sounds like she's, she knows how ridiculous it is, which I think is the main thing. She's not saying, like, you know that that's such, it's such, it's such a barbaric way. It's such a terrible way to behave and an awful way to end a relationship. There's no way of looking at that and not thinking that lad's got serious problems.
22:16 Speaker 02 Yeah.
22:16 Speaker 03 And, and that's all, and that's all you need to move forward, to help move forward, to take the power back, to know that you've done everything. Your side of the street is clean. You've done everything by the book. You've done everything right as far as you could do it. He has to live with that behaviour now and like scarlet form. And you're, you're, you are in his DNA now as some, a big mistake, like something terrible he has done.
22:38 Speaker 02 Yeah.
22:39 Speaker 03 And you get to move on and be like, I am the better per, I won this round.
22:44 Speaker 02 Yeah. He'll never be happy.
22:47 Speaker 03 And then he'll be met by the final boss. Is he still around?
22:50 Speaker 02 Who, Bruce Springsteen?
22:51 Speaker 03 No, the final boss. See, she's won that round. That's the last round of the game. What was your man's name? Final boss?
22:56 Speaker 04 I beat the final boss.
22:57 Speaker 03 I beat the final boss.
22:58 Speaker 04 Getting ready to hibernate for the autumn.
23:01 Speaker 03 I beat the final boss.
23:02 Speaker 02 He'll be back at O Beach next year.
23:03 Speaker 03 Did you see Bonnie Blue flirting with him? My god, that woman has the game of a bin. Sorry.
23:09 Speaker 02 Stop trying to get her back in.
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