Pod Insights My Therapist Ghosted Me MTGM EXTRA! "My mole used to have its own fan account." About this episode Joanne dials in from New York with strong views on deafening sirens and a very large bottle of Barefoot, while Vogue weighs in on panic attacks, punch the Monkey’s new girlfriend (or beard) and reveals the possibility of her mole getting its own memorial. Plus, they discuss the horrors of donating your body to science, unsolicited videos, and one listener whose husband’s gaming habit is killing the mood completely.
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Transcript 0:10 Speaker 00 Hello and welcome to My Therapist Ghosted Me, the bonus episode of myself with Joanne McNally and with Jo. And my name is Vogue, I forgot to say.
0:21 Speaker 01 Fair play. Yeah, it's like she skipped herself there.
0:26 Speaker 00 That is, like, is that a regular glass of wine or was that, is that a large glass of wine?
0:30 Speaker 02 It's a regular glass.
0:31 Speaker 00 I'm not shading you. I actually just, I'm just trying to figure out if that's a regular sized glass of wine. I just feel like when I'm in restaurants, I see them pour like a slither and I'm like, what's the fucking point? They've just given them a shot of wine.
0:42 Speaker 01 Yeah. Jo, Jo and me, we're, we like a mega pint, don't we, Jo?
0:45 Speaker 00 Oh, wow.
0:46 Speaker 02 Yeah. I mean, if you're gonna pour a wine, you have to, you pour a wine, right?
0:49 Speaker 01 Pour fucking wine.
0:51 Speaker 00 Yeah, but you two, you two obviously drink it before it gets warm. People, some people who drink it like at a normal pace, theirs gets warm, but yours is just warped.
1:00 Speaker 01 Yeah, yeah, yeah. By the way, the sirens in New York, I honestly think if I was having a heart attack and there was an ambulance coming to save me, the noise of the sirens would kill me off. They are so loud. I don't understand. I thought London was bad. This is out of control.
1:17 Speaker 00 You know, when one goes by in London, I'm literally blocking my ears. I think it's-
1:20 Speaker 01 Imagine being in the throes of a stroke in the back of a, in the back of an ambulance.
1:27 Speaker 01 And you have to deal with the noise.
1:28 Speaker 00 God, I never thought about that. That would be awful. You'd just be like-
1:32 Speaker 01 Shit's bad enough. Like, I'm, these are potentially my last moments on this earth and-
1:38 Speaker 00 For God's sake, give me some peace and quiet. I'm trying to have a stroke here.
1:42 Speaker 01 Yeah, exactly. Some slow pond, like kind of water dripping or something more relaxing. I, I can't get my head around it.
1:49 Speaker 00 What's the most ridiculous thing you've ever gone to hospital for?
1:52 Speaker 01 Well, I mean, the obvious answer is trying to revert to my birth weight of three pounds and seven ounces, but I'm trying to think of physically.
1:58 Speaker 00 That's not ridiculous.
2:02 Speaker 00 That's fair enough.
2:04 Speaker 01 Trying to, yeah, trying to fit back into my christening dress, but apart from that, I don't know.
2:11 Speaker 00 Ah, Joanne, it's important to have goals.
2:13 Speaker 01 Listen, we all need a purpose in this life, okay?
2:17 Speaker 00 Mom, what did I leave the hospital in? Because I just wanna see if it beats.
2:26 Speaker 01 Well, why, what, what about you?
2:31 Speaker 00 I was just thinking.
2:32 Speaker 01 Unwell, like physically.
2:36 Speaker 00 Mentally.
2:38 Speaker 01 Physically, I'm very above average, I would say, actually.
2:43 Speaker 00 I once went to hospital with, I was having a panic attack and I genuinely thought I was having a heart attack and I was like sitting there collapsing in the, in the hospital and then eventually like, and they had to do all tests on me and everything. They're like, you're not, because I was like, my dad died of, like, he had loads of heart attacks and now I'm having one for being associated with him. And then it was like, no, you're actually just having a panic attack.
3:07 Speaker 01 Panic attack. They're kind of wild. Like, I have two, two friends of mine both went to hospital and, and you, so three, thinking they were having a heart attack and it was a panic attack. I remember on my 21st birthday, one of my bestest friends, we went out just the two of us and she was wearing like a heart monitor and everything. And I was like, and we were like drinking and smoking in pegs. Do you remember pegs?
3:29 Speaker 00 No.
3:30 Speaker 01 Sorry, not pegs, legs.
3:35 Speaker 00 I was like, pegs? Where's that?
3:37 Speaker 01 Legs, yes, legs. Legs at this, legs at this club in town, Joe, where you could drink and smoke. Like, it was, you know, it was the 40s or whenever the fuck we were in there. I can't remember.
3:47 Speaker 02 I would like that very much.
3:48 Speaker 01 Yeah. And we were like, we went to, we went to Legs for my birthday and she had had, what we didn't understand, we were so young, but she had a panic attack. So she thought she was having a heart attack. Anyway, she rocked in, she was wearing a heart monitor and.
4:01 Speaker 00 Yeah, they get you to track it. Yeah. But like I say, the alcohol and, and smokes were really helpful towards the accuracy of that heart monitor.
4:09 Speaker 01 She's sitting, she's opposite me doing like the trolley dance, like the, like packing the shelves.
4:14 Speaker 00 She'd do a couple of yokes as well, just to see if it would really test his taste.
4:22 Speaker 01 She's like, oh, according to the data, I'm coming up. I'm like, yeah, I can see in your eyes you're coming up, to be honest.
4:30 Speaker 00 As soon as you told me you loved me, I knew you were.
4:38 Speaker 01 Yeah, it's the only time she really spoke to me that openly. Anyway, so I, I understand. I, I've heard that the panic attack thing is, is a problem. What about you, Jo?
4:48 Speaker 02 Well, I'm, I'm not old, but I was born in the very early nineties, which means I'm male and old enough that if there's ever anything wrong with me, I just don't do anything about it and deny it. And that's probably why I'll die.
5:00 Speaker 01 You'll get prostate cancer, Jo, but I'll tell you, you'll die with it, not from it.
5:04 Speaker 02 That's it. That's the way, that's the way we do it.
5:08 Speaker 01 Yeah, you get the really, really slow one. You'll die with it, not from it. Best case scenario.
5:12 Speaker 00 I just had to take Autumn to the doctor because there's, there's the final injection they get is, um, is this a pre, pre-skill booster. And I'm like, and he was really happy when we got there. He was really excited and he walked in and he was like, can I have a plaster? And she was like, not yet, not yet.
5:29 Speaker 01 Hold on, is that child not vaccinated?
5:31 Speaker 00 Oh, he is vaccinated, but this will be his final one. Um.
5:35 Speaker 01 So he's not fac, so he's not vaccinated. So I've been at Rick the whole time.
5:39 Speaker 00 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. He has, yeah, he has put you in ver, in harm's way, Joanne. You have been playing with fire, hanging around with that boy.
5:47 Speaker 01 He should be wearing a badge.
5:50 Speaker 01 What's he not vaccinated from? Am I, am I going to get measles, measles, mumps and rib? I don't know.
5:55 Speaker 00 You might get polio, you might get polio.
5:59 Speaker 02 That'll be a nightmare.
6:00 Speaker 00 Imagine, imagine Joanne in an iron lung for the rest of her life. She'd probably enjoy it in there.
6:07 Speaker 01 It's the Baphos, but with like healthier boundaries.
6:11 Speaker 00 They get me this.
6:14 Speaker 00 Just, you piss me off. There'll be a power outage, gone.
6:18 Speaker 01 Spun around in like a cement mixer kind of vibe, just like making demands on people, yeah.
6:23 Speaker 00 But he was so polite when we left because I, I was like, my kids are really polite. So he was kind of crying and I was like, and say thank you. And he's like, that here. Bye.
6:33 Speaker 01 This doesn't bode well for him. This kid is going to get into a van. He's going to go.
6:38 Speaker 00 Yes, sorry, Johan. We've had this conversation before. How many people's cars have I gotten into by accident? I now have to make a conscious effort. I'm like, and I ask them, I'm like, where are you going? Just to make sure.
6:49 Speaker 01 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
6:50 Speaker 00 Because if I tell them, then they might say, oh, yeah, of course, let's take her.
6:54 Speaker 01 Yeah, yeah, of course. Yeah, we need to be, yeah, aware. Oh, my, oh, my God.
6:59 Speaker 00 Because I'm looking well. And look at my hair. It looks great. I have to be extra careful at the moment when I'm getting into cars. My hair looks fantastic.
7:05 Speaker 01 Now, sorry about the sirens, but I've huge news.
7:10 Speaker 02 More?
7:10 Speaker 00 Oh, yeah, go on.
7:13 Speaker 01 Punch the monkey has a girlfriend.
7:18 Speaker 00 I saw. I know.
7:21 Speaker 01 She's a beard.
7:22 Speaker 00 Oh, you think he's a gay, you think he's a gay monkey?
7:24 Speaker 01 Listen, I know a gay. When I see a gay, he's gay. And he's, he's gay. And this is, this is the next PR stunt, because people are losing interest in him. Like now, you know, you can only watch a monkey get punched so many times before you like zone out. She's a beard. I've said it here first.
7:43 Speaker 00 So you think he's gonna show his?
7:45 Speaker 01 I'm very good with predictions. I've, I've, I've very rarely been proved wrong. This woman is a beard.
7:53 Speaker 00 I mean, sorry, can I just, I have to ask one thing. When have you ever been proven right? Remember that day and she was like, oh, no, I'm sure of that. And then Joe fact checked it. He was like, no. Completely. I, I think you've mixed it up here.
8:06 Speaker 01 Well, Vogue, obviously I'm gonna be wrong if someone fact checks me. That's obviously then.
8:10 Speaker 02 Yeah, that's the, that's sort of the trouble.
8:13 Speaker 01 Yeah, yeah, yeah. But when, when no one, when no one involves themselves.
8:16 Speaker 00 Oh, okay. Well, then I believe it.
8:20 Speaker 01 Yes. Also, I'm gonna say, I've had some drinks.
8:24 Speaker 00 Are you gonna show us? We've been waiting nine and a half minutes for you to show us the size of the bottle of wine. She told us she had a surprise and it's been sitting on the side. I'm waiting for her to pull it out.
8:34 Speaker 01 I woke up this morning and I was like, oh, my God, I'm off all day today. Like, it's, I'm buzzing, like, what? Even though I love my job, blah, blah, blah. But I was like, oh, it's so nice. I'm off. Of the hell are I off? And then I did an Instagram story talking about the fact that I was off. And then I got like immediate emails from all sides being like, you're not off. You've. Meetings.
8:53 Speaker 00 I was watching that and I was like, oh, we're not doing the pod later.
8:56 Speaker 01 Yeah, I know, I know.
8:57 Speaker 02 Meetings schmeetings.
8:59 Speaker 01 Meetings, yeah, and then obviously ewes. And I was like, well, I've made plans of myself now, so it's very hard, I don't let myself down. Anyway, look, so I had three wines, like, whatever.
9:11 Speaker 00 Ah, Joanne, you've been way more drunk on this podcast. This is sober, Joanne. Oh my god.
9:15 Speaker 01 Look at the size of that bottle of Barefoot.
9:18 Speaker 02 Is that a, what are we saying? Is that a Magnum or a Balthazar?
9:22 Speaker 01 It's the size of a child.
9:25 Speaker 00 How much is in that? How many litres?
9:27 Speaker 01 So, okay, now, bearing in mind, look, I'm not greedy, like, I like a, I like a crisp glass of Barefoot or something.
9:35 Speaker 00 Yeah.
9:36 Speaker 01 Michelle's always slagging me, she's like, if she comes over, she brings around wine. I was like, why are you bringing around wine? I have loads of wine. She goes, I don't want to drink wine with feet in them, Joanne. I was like, fine.
9:47 Speaker 00 I wouldn't say Joanne is a sommelier, to be honest with you.
9:50 Speaker 01 Oh, no, no, no, no. Like, I have a very, very cheap palate. Like, I, I, my palate hasn't developed since the student days. And I don't care, I'm happy with that.
9:58 Speaker 00 Yeah, well, I mean, it saves you loads of cash, so fuck the Sancerre, you stick with the Barefoot.
10:03 Speaker 01 Sancerre? What a fucking rip. Look at this fat boy.
10:08 Speaker 00 Tell us how much, like, what's the literage there?
10:10 Speaker 01 It's the size of a Honda Civic. Are you looking at it? Can you see it?
10:13 Speaker 00 We can, we can hardly miss it. You're shoving it in front of the screen. How much is in it?
10:17 Speaker 01 1.5 litres.
10:19 Speaker 00 Oh, it looks bigger than that.
10:21 Speaker 01 Do you think?
10:22 Speaker 00 Yeah, I think it looks like, I think it looks like two litres at least. Now, I'd like to know something about wine, right? I don't drink wine.
10:30 Speaker 01 Vogue, as a woman with huge hands, if you held this now, your hands would look miniature.
10:34 Speaker 00 Yeah, they would, actually.
10:36 Speaker 01 You'd love it, yeah.
10:36 Speaker 00 That's what Svenny says.
10:37 Speaker 01 What?
10:45 Speaker 01 Oh, I forgot he's hung. I totally forgot about that.
10:47 Speaker 00 Have you seen it?
10:48 Speaker 01 No.
10:49 Speaker 00 No.
10:52 Speaker 00 Not that we do weird stuff, but there is potential that she could have seen it.
10:56 Speaker 01 He sends me photos, but I never open them, Vogue. I had a respect for you. I never open them.
11:01 Speaker 00 That's how I know you're, I said, I test you.
11:04 Speaker 01 I'm a girl's girl.
11:05 Speaker 00 Cause I asked him, I told him, send her a wank video, get her with that. And if she opens that, that's it, we're finished.
11:10 Speaker 01 Yeah. When he sends the wanking videos, I just send a thumbs up in a really passive aggressive show, not to encourage anything else, but like to acknowledge respectfully, because obviously we have a personal relationship.
11:22 Speaker 00 She puts on airplane mode and watches it and then turns her phone back on.
11:26 Speaker 01 Is that a thing?
11:28 Speaker 00 I think so. Well, I don't know. I wouldn't test it because I'd be too scared.
11:31 Speaker 01 Yeah, I'd be too scared. Yeah.
11:33 Speaker 00 I don't even watch people's stories. Like, you know, like someone has sent me stories of exes of mine and I've, and I've just clicked on to it not thinking because I'm like, why'd you do that? They'll see that I've seen this, but I don't know if they'll actually, do they, do they see that you've seen it then?
11:46 Speaker 01 Yes, that happened to me as well. Do you remember, I told you this before, someone sent me a video of an ex of mine, his story. And I was really annoyed with her. I was like, why did you do that? And she was like, oh, sorry. I was like, I've just watched his story now.
12:01 Speaker 00 No, thanks a lot.
12:03 Speaker 01 Yeah.
12:04 Speaker 02 Before we move too far past it, I do need to say, please drink responsibly and don't send unsolicited wank videos.
12:10 Speaker 00 No, no, Joe, sorry, sorry, Joe.
12:10 Speaker 00 Okay. Well, Joe, how about you stop sending me wank videos then?
12:13 Speaker 02 No, no, no, no, no.
12:17 Speaker 00 No, I've had enough. I don't want any more wank videos. I've told you.
12:20 Speaker 02 No.
12:21 Speaker 00 I've blocked you.
12:21 Speaker 01 Preach what you choir, Joe. Preach what you choir.
12:34 Speaker 00 So we were talking about, um, The manosphere last week.
12:39 Speaker 01 Guess what?
12:41 Speaker 00 HS Ticky Tocky Tik Tok.
12:44 Speaker 01 HS Tik Tok, yeah.
12:45 Speaker 00 Did a video about S. Penny's manosphere post. He's flying off the handle a bit. He's really losing control. I never noticed how much he spat when he spoke. You'd need a fucking windscreen in front of you if you had to go for dinner with him.
12:59 Speaker 01 Can I wa- can I watch it now?
13:01 Speaker 00 Yeah, and then he did, and then he said, he slagged off my mole. That's all I got. That's it.
13:10 Speaker 01 Sorry, I need to see this stat.
13:13 Speaker 02 So for context, Spencer had done quite a long post, hadn't he? That was very well thought out and he'd said that it was all, it was all quite disgusting.
13:21 Speaker 00 About the manosphere, yeah. And then, and then HS Ticky Tocky was, was saying that Spencer was like himself, which I can attest to that he is most certainly not.
13:32 Speaker 00 And then HS Ticky Tocky slagged my mole.
13:34 Speaker 01 Hold on, so I'm following, so I've looked up HS Ticky Tocky. This obviously isn't the right account. Cause he only has like 30,000 followers, I'm assuming.
13:43 Speaker 00 He doesn't have that many followers on Instagram.
13:46 Speaker 00 Maybe everyone.
13:47 Speaker 01 That can't be, that can't be him.
13:49 Speaker 00 Maybe everybody stopped following him.
13:51 Speaker 01 No, fan account, a fan account.
13:54 Speaker 00 Oh God, that's like, imagine, imagine like you grow up and you're like, what was the most embarrassing thing you did as a child? Well, I was, I created a fan account for HS Ticky Tocky. How creative, like you could never live that down.
14:05 Speaker 01 Everyone has a fan account, Vogue. I think we're the only people who don't, to be honest.
14:10 Speaker 00 Remember my mole used to have its own fan account? Now that fan account's even gone off the mole.
14:14 Speaker 01 Oh, I'd be very upset about that if I was here.
14:16 Speaker 00 I don't know. I don't know if the mole can stay. I'm not sure. I'm worried. But I have been in touch with Kim, who, Kim from the Dublin makeup, basically she.
14:26 Speaker 01 Browed. You're gonna have eyebrows put on it.
14:30 Speaker 00 Just getting a tash. Just getting her to do a full tash.
14:34 Speaker 00 She she tattoos areolas on women's breasts when they've had breast cancer and stuff like that, if they've had to have a mastectomy. And I thought, well, if she can do areolas, which are very difficult, if I had to get rid of the mole, which I'd be very sad about because it's just like part of my face, maybe she could draw, like tattoo a mole on. And she says she thinks she could.
14:55 Speaker 01 Hold on. So so you're saying if you removed it, you'd have it replaced immediately by?
15:01 Speaker 00 Yeah, with a tattoo. So I'd still have the mole, but it would just not be, it would be a pretend.
15:07 Speaker 01 If you get rid of that.
15:08 Speaker 00 And she could do freckles on your nose.
15:10 Speaker 01 If you get rid of that mole, I will come down and I will decapitate you myself. Do not crack. Do not bow down to these trolly wankers.
15:18 Speaker 00 No, I'm not cracking. That's not, it's actually because someone told me that I might have to get rid of it.
15:25 Speaker 00 We're in the keeping an eye on it stage, like just because they tend to get bigger and bigger and bigger. Yeah. And then it's like, oh, well, it's kind of nay, we can't see your face.
15:34 Speaker 01 But it's not like, it's not like, it's not like.
15:36 Speaker 00 It's not definite.
15:37 Speaker 01 Cancerous.
15:38 Speaker 00 No, no, no, no, it's not cancerous. No, no, no. But it's also not definite. But if it did happen, we'd have to have a little funeral for it.
15:43 Speaker 01 Oh, yeah, we'd freeze it off and bury it in the garden. I would actually like to cremate it and I would like a few ashes myself.
15:49 Speaker 00 Yeah, I could get a necklace made for you just out of the mole ash.
15:52 Speaker 01 Like Elton John's kneecap.
15:54 Speaker 00 Exactly. Why don't, do you know what? Actually, hang on. Why don't I get you a tube of formaldehyde and I'll just pop the mole in there and you can just like wear it as a chain, like that ring that you wear.
16:04 Speaker 01 So I, by the time this airs, the show will have been gone, but I was on the Claudia Winkleman chat show on, yeah, last week. I was on MacGuss Khan. Oh, sorry. I was on MacGuss Khan, Niall Horan.
16:16 Speaker 00 Rachel Zegler.
16:17 Speaker 01 Rachel Zegler. Have I told you this already about who Rachel was named after?
16:22 Speaker 00 You didn't say who she was named after.
16:24 Speaker 01 So sorry. So I won't go on about it. But Rachel Zegler was named after Rachel from Friends.
16:31 Speaker 00 Really?
16:32 Speaker 01 That's how young she is.
16:33 Speaker 00 Oh, my gosh, yeah.
16:35 Speaker 01 Anyway, it's not insane. Anyway, Gus Kambe telling the story that he rented an Airbnb somewhere in Phoenix, America or something, and the house was really weird and the cameras were kind of following them. And then they opened a wardrobe and there was just vials of blood, like loads of vials of blood.
16:48 Speaker 00 People are odd, aren't they? I'm scared of people.
16:51 Speaker 01 They're odd.
16:52 Speaker 00 Really, I am. I read, I follow this really scary Instagram page and it starts telling me about these terrible murders. And I'm like, this can't be good for me. But it's so fascinating to read and to see like the sentences and stuff people get. But it's like, it's definitely not good for the mind.
17:07 Speaker 01 One of my favorite Instagram accounts is for a crime scene account where it's just, I watch videos of people cleaning up like brain matter off walls.
17:17 Speaker 00 Do you know what, though, as well? I like, not that I was planning on doing it, about donating your body to medical science. Do you know, sometimes they pull those bodies out, like, out after like 30 years and people are still like going through stuff and dissecting stuff. So you're, you're just like, yeah, it's not like, oh, here's the bod, like, have a go on it and then it's done. It's like, here's the bod, let's read, like, let's freeze it again and then take it back out. And they're like,
17:41 Speaker 01 No.
17:43 Speaker 00 I know, I just don't, I just, I'm all for like advancements in medicine, but I just think, use Joanne's body, please. I'd appreciate that. Yeah.
17:50 Speaker 02 Sometimes if you donate your body to science, they can actually end up using it in the army and they shoot ammunition at it and stuff just to see what happens.
18:01 Speaker 00 Yeah. Sorry, do you not remember the woman who got shot out of a cannon? We spoke about this. She donated her body to-
18:07 Speaker 02 They'll shoot you with a tank and all sorts.
18:08 Speaker 00 Yeah. This woman, basically, her son tried to stop it. She donated her body to medical science and they shot her out of a cannon. And he was like, I don't want my mother's body being shot out of a cannon. And they were like, well, she's donated it. And that's what they did. Yeah. And sometimes they leave you just to rot in the, in the, in the open. So they can see the decomposition of, of a body. So they see how long it takes. And like, this body's been here for 10, 10 years, or this body's been here, or all those kinds of stuff.
18:34 Speaker 01 If I'm, I'm donating my body to science.
18:36 Speaker 00 Anyway, we do an email.
18:38 Speaker 01 My body to science, not the circus. Like, why are they shooting me out of a cannon? Jesus. Because I would have done that, but now I won't.
18:46 Speaker 00 Well, do you know, like, they, they test car crashes as well with bodies. So they place a body in a car and then it has a car crash and they, and they see like the force of it going through the windscreen or like, yeah, all that kind of stuff. I know.
18:58 Speaker 01 And you wouldn't mind if they shot you out of a cannon and pulled your eyes out?
19:01 Speaker 02 But, but do donate your organs because it's really important. Do.
19:05 Speaker 01 Oh, sorry.
19:06 Speaker 00 Oh, yeah. The organs, like, fair enough. I'm even giving the eyes. Do you know, I don't mind. Everything can go. And I've got 2020 vision, so they can go too.
19:17 Speaker 00 One last thing that I saw on that page, this girl who was doing crystal meth all day and she was in like a 96 hour psychosis and hadn't slept. She gouged her own eyes out.
19:26 Speaker 01 Well, Vogue, is this like the time you tell me that someone went to a party, took an E and peeled himself like an orange? And then do you remember?
19:31 Speaker 00 No, that was acid. That was acid.
19:36 Speaker 01 And do you remember we Googled it and it was an herb myth? It's on Reddit. It's been going around for years.
19:40 Speaker 00 How dare you? Have I fact checked you today? How fucking dare you?
19:45 Speaker 00 Let's do an email. I've had enough of you.
19:47 Speaker 01 My bare foot's gotten warm.
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20:28 Speaker 00 Bloody love you guys. Seeing you on tour. Had a bloody blast. Fumbled Joanne's penophile tour dates. Any, anywho, help a girl out. I say girl, I mean a nearly forty something, two kids and married.
20:41 Speaker 01 Girl.
20:41 Speaker 00 That's a girl. Let me tell you, I adore my husband. Not very great at showing it. We were married more than ten years ago. I've experienced some atrocious highs and lows, all of which he and his extended family have been beyond amazing. But behind closed doors, the past few years, he's been gaming.
21:00 Speaker 01 Oh, no.
21:01 Speaker 00 Not just computer gaming. I'm talking one earbud in, watching his fat, single friend streaming kind of gaming twenty-four seven. And my husband that ignores me and the kids most of the time is complaining about the lack of intimacy.
21:17 Speaker 01 Hold on, sorry. Who's, who's complaining about intimacy?
21:20 Speaker 00 The husband.
21:21 Speaker 01 Got it.
21:22 Speaker 00 As soon as he whipped out that gaming chair, the Sahara whipped up. There was a sandstorm in between her legs. That is not gonna change.
21:30 Speaker 01 We've been very clear on our stance on gaming chairs.
21:33 Speaker 00 Do you know, Alexander, now he grew out of it, my brother, but like, he used to lock himself in a room and he would have this long extension lead, leaving his room. Lock in and he'd be on one of those like headphone things and he'd be talking to randomers on the internet, playing the Call of Duty stuff and we'd be like, you loser.
21:52 Speaker 01 Oh, God. Yeah. You're like, this guy's gonna shoot up a skill.
21:55 Speaker 00 We once unplugged it as a joke and oh my God, I swear we'd killed his firstborn child.
22:02 Speaker 01 I'll say one thing first, though. One thing we're consistent on is our disdain of gaming chairs. It's probably the only thing we're consistent on.
22:09 Speaker 00 Yeah, that's fair. We could change our mind on absolutely everything else. Just not gaming chairs. Cut to me posting a video in a gaming chair saying hashtag gift.
22:19 Speaker 01 Yeah, fun collab. Yeah, of course.
22:20 Speaker 00 Okay. Joanne, Joanne will be like, I'm saving for the gaffe. I had to do it. I had to.
22:29 Speaker 00 Okay.
22:31 Speaker 01 Okay.
22:31 Speaker 00 My husband that works less than me a week but does not pick up the slack or make an effort, never cooks me a decent meal, has complained about the lack of intimacy. Am I losing my mind? I genuinely do not feel I can have these conversations with my friends. He doesn't show up on the, on the daily and just turns his computer off to grope me. And I coerce sex.
22:53 Speaker 01 Oh.
22:54 Speaker 00 And it gives me the biggest ick. As I said, he was not a gamer when we met and this is a new thing, but he is not present day to day. It just drains me. I'm sorry, if you're in a relationship and you're not getting attention and then they just turn around and expect the ride later on.
23:08 Speaker 01 Sizzling.
23:08 Speaker 00 Absolute, you need to work for that in different ways as in like, empty the dishwasher. Let's be a team. Let's actually get on with each other during the day or else forget it.
23:19 Speaker 01 Yeah, Esther Perel, my good friend and confidant who does know I exist, has always spoken. She's been very clear that it starts in the morning. Like if you want to ride your partner in the evening, you have to start that sexual, put in the sexual shift from the morning. Now, obviously I as a feminist incel, don't have a lot of knowledge on the, on the kind of situations at the moment. Kind of the fact that people are still riding kind of blows my mind, but that's what I would, that would be my opinion on it. I'm like, is that still happening or people still riding? But that would be my opinion on it.
23:53 Speaker 00 I know people nearly in their eighties.
23:55 Speaker 01 You can't just drop the hand on your wife at the end of the day. It's like when you've been fucking.
24:01 Speaker 00 When you've been gaming.
24:01 Speaker 01 When you've been gaming, like firstly, gaming isn't, it's, it's not attractive in, of itself. And you can't just drop the hand. It's, there's nothing worse. Ugh. I remember going out with a guy years ago and I would dread going to bed because I was like. And this, and like, I'm not a frigid Fiona, I'm saying, because like there was no, there was no, there was no rapport during the day. Like there was no rapport. And then it was just, you just put in this shift at night, just get ridden by this lad. Like you're like, I'm not, this isn't fun for me. This isn't.
24:36 Speaker 00 No, I, I know. And I think that.
24:38 Speaker 01 I just want to watch Love is Blind, like leave me alone. Or like, let's engage this conversation half an hour before we get into the bed. Yeah, I feel this woman.
24:47 Speaker 00 I know, but there's such a like.
24:50 Speaker 00 I just, I just, no, he does, he needs to put in more of a shift and make more of an effort not that you feel like that you're doing most of the heavy lifting and just the gaming, the gaming has to stop. I couldn't bear it. I couldn't bear it.
25:02 Speaker 01 I don't, is he making money at the game? And I wonder. Now, Vogue, you did do an ad for Nintendo.
25:06 Speaker 00 I know, but I gave that up because I couldn't stop the gaming. I understand what's happened to this man. Listen, it's an easy, it's a, now, I, I am, I was gonna buy a couple of arcade games for our new house. Is that bad? I can't do that either. There's no chair.
25:19 Speaker 01 I don't know what that means.
25:20 Speaker 00 Like Pac-Man and stuff like that. Like, you know, arcade. Anyway, it doesn't matter. I, I, listen, the point is, it's, it's a bit gross what he's doing. Also, sometimes when something gives you the ick, you have to stop. Spenny Kev gone on about his new car. He's so obsessed with it. And it got to the point where I was like, you're grossing me out. Like, you keep, you keep telling everybody about it and you're talking about it all the time. It's too much.
25:40 Speaker 01 I didn't even know he could drive.
25:42 Speaker 00 Yeah, he can drive.
25:43 Speaker 01 Fair play to him.
25:48 Speaker 00 Well, what's, what's the plan for today?
25:50 Speaker 01 I'm off to LA this evening.
25:52 Speaker 00 I'm, Joanne's off to LA and I have to finish by saying, oh, well, I'm gonna go to bed around half seven. But, um, yeah, have a great, what a great finisher.
26:01 Speaker 01 I thought I was off today and, and, and I'm not. So I haven't put my best foot forward, but I'm, I'm here.
26:08 Speaker 00 Well, I'm glad that you're here and thank you. And I appreciate you. Okay. You have a nice time in LA. And thanks for all the New York tips. And it was really nice to hear about your trip.
26:28 Speaker 00 I'm glad I know about those pesky sirens because god damn it, I won't be visiting there anytime soon.
26:33 Speaker 01 Guys, I gotta go. I gotta, I'm gonna head to the Rockefeller Center.
26:38 Speaker 00 Say hi to the Statue of Liberty for me, okay?
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