Your Brain Is Addicted To Worst-Case Scenarios (3 Ways To Break The Habit)

Jay breaks down why our minds are so quick to jump to the worst-case scenario, from the evolutionary roots of anxiety to why uncertainty can send us into a spiral. He shares three practical ways to interrupt anxious thinking, including separating fear from actual evidence and bringing yourself back to what’s true right now. Jay also introduces a simple “then what?” exercise to help you stop fearing what could go wrong and trust yourself to handle whatever comes next. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Mazda crafts cars for people who do more than simply move. Visit Mazdausa.com to learn more. Consumer reports does not endorse products or services. PURPOSE10 for 10% at altrarunning.com/onpurpose. Free Shipping and Free 30-Day Trial. JAY’S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe here: https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:24 Your Brain Is A Terrible Fortune Teller 02:42 Where Does Anxiety Come From? 06:14 How Your Brain Predicts What Could Go Wrong 09:32 Why Bad News Sticks in Your Mind 11:10 The Uncertainty Spiral 15:03 Stop Assuming the Worst, Look at the Evidence 18:11 Come Back to What’s Actually True 22:58 Getting Comfortable With The Unknown 26:35 The “Then What?” Exercise for Worst-Case Thinking 31:11 The Two Backpacks Analog Episode Resources: This episode is for general educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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• 0:00Jay Shetty?

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• 0:44Jay Shetty?

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• 1:30Jay Shetty?

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• 2:02Jay Shetty?

  Hey, it's Jay. I don't know what your day's been like, but I was just thinking about you for a minute. And I hope you're being a little patient with yourself, because you deserve it. And yeah, I'll talk to you soon.

• 2:25Jay Shetty?

  Have you ever noticed that your brain is a terrible fortune teller? Think about how many times it has confidently predicted the future, only to end up completely wrong. It convinced you the relationship was over because they didn't text you back for a few hours. It told you you were definitely going to embarrass yourself before the presentation, only for it to become one of the best meetings you've ever had. It kept you awake the night before your performance review, certain you were about to be fired, when your boss was actually preparing to give you praise. If your weather app got tomorrow's forecast wrong, as often as your anxious mind does, you'd delete it immediately. And yet, every single day, most of us continue treating our brain's predictions as if they're facts.

• 3:11Jay Shetty?

  The strange part is that our minds rarely predict average outcomes. Your brain almost never whispers, "This conversation will probably be fine", or "There's a good chance everything works out". Instead, it jumps straight to catastrophe. One unexplained symptom becomes a serious illness. One awkward silence becomes evidence someone secretly dislikes you. One mistake at work becomes the beginning of the end of your career. It's as though your mind skips over every ordinary possibility and heads directly toward the worst one it could possibly imagine. It's extreme. If you've ever wondered, "Why does my brain always do this? Why can't I just think normally? Why do I always assume the worst?",

• 3:56Jay Shetty?

  then today's episode is for you. Because the answer isn't that you're broken, pessimistic, or weak. In fact, your brain is doing exactly what it was designed to do. The problem is that it's running on software made for a world that no longer exists. By the end of this episode, I want to completely change the way you think about anxiety, overthinking, and worst-case scenarios. We'll explore why your brain is constantly trying to predict disaster, why those predictions feel so believable, and most importantly, three practical shifts that can help you stop treating every fearful thought like a glimpse into the future. My hope is that the next time your mind starts telling a scary story, instead of immediately believing it,

• 4:40Jay Shetty?

  you'll pause and reconsider. Here's the thing. One of the biggest misconceptions we have about anxiety is that it's the enemy. We think anxiety is trying to sabotage us, ruin our confidence, or steal our peace. But what if I told you that anxiety is actually just trying to protect you? The problem isn't its intention. The problem is its strategy. Anxiety is like an overprotective friend who believes every stranger is dangerous, every bump in the road is a disaster, and every uncertainty is an emergency. It loves you enough to warn you constantly? It just has a terrible sense of scale. That's because your brain has one primary job.

• 5:25Jay Shetty?

  And it may not be the job you think it is. Your brain wasn't designed to make you happy. It wasn't designed to make you confident. It wasn't even designed to help you tell the truth. Long before humans cared about fulfillment, or purpose, or personal growth, the brain had a much simpler responsibility: keep you alive. Every part of your nervous system evolved with survival in mind. That means your brain is constantly scanning your environment, asking one question over and over again: "What could hurt me next?". This idea becomes much easier to understand when you think about the world our ancestors actually lived in. Imagine walking through a forest thousands of years ago and hearing something rustling in the bushes.

• 6:10Jay Shetty?

  Your brain had two options. It could assume it was probably just the wind, or it could assume there might be a predator hiding nearby. If it guessed wrong in the first direction, the consequences could be fatal. If it guessed wrong in the second direction, the worst outcome was that you experienced a few unnecessary moments of stress before realizing there was nothing there. Evolution constantly rewarded the people who erred on the side of caution. This is what psychologists call the negativity bias. Our brains naturally give more attention, more emotional weight, and more mental energy to potential threats than to neutral or positive information. Thousands of years ago, this bias dramatically increased our chances of survival.

• 6:54Jay Shetty?

  The people who remembered where danger lived, who stayed alert to possible risks, and who assumed the worst often lived long enough to pass those instincts on to the future generations. Those future generations are us. The challenge is that while the world around us has changed almost beyond recognition, our brains have not evolved nearly as quickly. Most of us are no longer worried about predators hiding behind trees. Instead, our threats have become psychological rather than physical. This episode of On Purpose is presented to you by Mazda. Peace of mind doesn't happen by chance. It's created through the habits we build before we ever need them. That's the philosophy behind every Mazda.

• 7:37Jay Shetty?

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• 8:21Jay Shetty?

  a job interview, a first date, a text message that simply says, "Can we talk?". Your brain responds to these moments of uncertainty using many of the exact same survival systems that once protected your ancestors from physical danger. One of the most fascinating developments in neuroscience over the last couple of decades is something called predictive processing. Scientists increasingly believe that your brain isn't simply reacting to reality as it unfolds. Instead, it's constantly trying to predict what will happen next. Before you've consciously interpreted what's happening around you, your brain is already generating expectations, filling in missing information, and making educated guesses about the future.

• 9:06Jay Shetty?

  And those predictions don't remain neutral ideas in your head. They influence what you notice. If you enter a meeting convinced that your colleagues don't respect you, you will be more likely to notice the person who checks their phone than the person nodding along. If you believe your partner is pulling away, one distracted response may feel more meaningful than 10 moments of affection. The prediction silently becomes a filter, highlighting anything that supports it and minimizing anything that doesn't. Once your brain has predicted danger, it begins collecting evidence for the danger it already expects to find. You may believe you're objectively reading the situation. When you're actually reading it through a conclusion,

• 9:51Jay Shetty?

  your mind reached before all the information arrived. The more frightened you feel, the more certain that conclusion can seem. What's interesting is that your brain doesn't actually care whether the story it writes is accurate. It cares whether the story keeps you alive. In other words, your brain would rather make you anxious than risk making you vulnerable. This is why I don't think the goal should be to eliminate anxiety. Anxiety is a normal human emotion. Every person you admire has experienced it. Every successful entrepreneur has wondered if the business would fail. Every athlete has worried before a competition. Every parent has imagined something happening to their child.

• 10:34Jay Shetty?

  Every person who has ever fallen in love has feared losing it. The goal isn't to become someone whose mind never imagines the worst. The goal is to become someone who no longer mistakes those imagined futures for inevitable ones. One of my favorite observations about the human mind is that it almost never predicts boring outcomes. It doesn't tell you, "Your flight will probably leave on time, you'll have an average trip, and nothing particularly memorable will happen." That's statistically the most likely scenario, but instead it asks, "What if the plane crashes?" Your brain doesn't say, "Your date will probably be pleasant, you'll learn a little about each other, and you'll decide whether you want to meet again."

• 11:17Jay Shetty?

  It says, "What if they think you're awkward? What if there's no chemistry? What if you embarrass yourself?" The brain is drawn to dramatic stories because dramatic stories are easier to remember and more memorable dangers helped our ancestors survive. Psychologists have a name for one of the reasons this happens. It's called the availability heuristic. And once you understand it, you'll start seeing it everywhere. The availability heuristic is our tendency to judge how likely something is based on how easily examples come to mind. If your brain can quickly think of an example, it assumes that event must be common. If it struggles to think of one, it assumes the event is rare.

• 11:58Jay Shetty?

  The fascinating part is that what comes to mind most easily isn't necessarily what's happening most often. It's simply what has captured your attention the most. Think about what social media has done to this process. You open your phone intending to check in with friends, and within a few minutes, you've seen someone talking about being laid off. Another person sharing a story about infidelity, someone describing a frightening medical diagnosis, and a creator explaining why artificial intelligence is about to replace millions of jobs. None of those things are imaginary. They happen, but because your brain has been more exposed to them over and over again, they become mentally available. Suddenly, they don't just feel possible, they feel probable.

• 12:42Jay Shetty?

  Maybe you've noticed this after watching a documentary about a rare disease. For the next few days, every small ache or unusual sensation suddenly feels significant. Rationally, you know the odds haven't changed. Emotionally, however, your brain now has a vivid story to reference. The same thing happens after hearing about a relationship ending unexpectedly. If you're dating someone, your brain quietly starts scanning for evidence that your relationship might be next. Nothing in your reality has changed, but the stories available to your mind have. Algorithms have become incredibly good at exploiting this tendency. They don't necessarily show us what's most representative of reality. They show us what's most emotionally engaging.

• 13:26Jay Shetty?

  Fear keeps us watching. Outrage keeps us commenting. Uncertainty keeps us scrolling for one more answer. Over time, our brains begin mistaking emotionally charged information for statistically normal information. Your brain hates open loops. It craves completion, it wants answers, it wants certainty. That's why waiting is so emotionally exhausting. Waiting for test results, waiting to hear back after an interview, waiting for someone to define the relationship, waiting for an apology, waiting for closure. In each of these moments, your brain is faced with something it dislikes more than almost anything else, not knowing.

• 14:06Jay Shetty?

  And rather than tolerate that uncertainty, it begins inventing explanations to fill the silence. Notice how rarely those explanations are generous. Your brain doesn't usually say, "They're probably busy." It says, "They're ignoring me." It doesn't say, "The hiring manager is interviewing several candidates." It says, "They've already decided you weren't good enough." It doesn't say, "Your friend has had a difficult week." It says, "You must have done something wrong." When information is missing, fear is often the first author your brain invites into the room. That's because uncertainty itself feels...

• 14:46Jay Shetty?

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• 15:29Jay Shetty?

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• 16:11Jay Shetty?

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• 16:52Jay Shetty?

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• 17:35Jay Shetty?

  Their nervous system would almost rather receive bad news than remain in suspense. That's why unanswered questions become breeding grounds for catastrophic thinking. The brain thinks, "If I can just figure out what's going to happen, I'll finally be able to relax." The irony, of course, is that the search for certainty rarely creates peace. More often, it creates spirals. You search online about a frightening current event, which leads to an article, then another article, then another forum, then another video, until you've spent two hours investigating a future that doesn't exist. You replay one conversation in your head looking for clues, only to leave feeling even more confused than when you started.

• 18:19Jay Shetty?

  The brain mistakes this activity for progress. It feels like you're solving something, but you're not solving a problem. You're feeding a prediction. There's an important difference between thinking about a problem and solving one. Solving produces something, a decision, a conversation, a plan, or a next step. An anxious spiral can consume enormous amounts of energy without producing any new information at all. You finish in the same place you started, except now you're more exhausted and the imagined outcome feels even more familiar. Familiarity can then be mistaken for likelihood. Because you've pictured a disaster 50 times, it begins to feel as though it is approaching rather than merely repeating.

• 19:03Jay Shetty?

  I once heard someone describe anxiety as paying interest on a debt you may never owe. And I think that's exactly what many of us do every day. Your brain mistakes worrying for working. Every time you replay the same fear, your mind gives you a subtle feeling that you're accomplishing something. You're being responsible, you're getting ready, you're staying vigilant. But if worrying actually prevented bad things from happening, the most anxious people would also be the safest, healthiest, and happiest. We know that's not true. So here's the first shift I want you to practice. The next time you notice yourself spiraling, don't ask, "Could this happen?" Your anxious brain has already answered that question.

• 19:46Jay Shetty?

  Instead, ask, "How likely is this based on the evidence I have right now?" It's a deceptively simple question, but it forces a completely different part of your brain to engage. You're no longer reacting emotionally. You're reasoning, you're moving from fear into curiosity. The words "based on the evidence I have right now" are the most important part of that question. Anxiety often treats the intensity of a feeling as evidence. I feel afraid, so something bad must be happening. But a feeling can tell you that your alarm system has been activated without telling you whether the alarm is accurate. Try giving your prediction an actual percentage.

• 20:28Jay Shetty?

  Is this outcome 90% likely, or does it only feel 90% frightening? What other outcomes would fit the same facts? If a friend brought you this exact situation, would you reach the same conclusion? You may not arrive at perfect certainty, but that isn't the assignment. The assignment is to move from "this is going to happen" to "this is one possibility, and I don't yet know whether it will happen." This is one of the reasons cognitive behavioural therapy has been so effective for decades. It doesn't ask you to become blindly optimistic or pretend everything will be okay. It asks you to examine your thinking like a scientist instead of accepting it like a fortune teller. Imagine your anxious thought walking into a courtroom.

• 21:13Jay Shetty?

  Anxiety immediately acts like the prosecutor. It presents one dramatic argument, one emotional witness, one frightening conclusion. And because we're so identified with our own thoughts, we often hand down the verdict before the defence has even spoken. What would happen if you become your own defence attorney? Instead of immediately believing the accusation, you started asking for evidence. What facts actually support this prediction? What facts don't? Have I been wrong about something like this before? Those questions don't eliminate uncertainty, but they stop uncertainty from automatically turning into catastrophe. I've noticed something about people who seem emotionally resilient.

• 21:55Jay Shetty?

  They don't necessarily experience fewer frightening thoughts than everyone else. They simply don't give every thought equal authority. In the same way you wouldn't believe every headline you read or every rumour you hear, you don't have to believe every story your own mind tells you. The great thing is that this skill gets stronger with practice. Every time you interrupt an anxious prediction and ask for evidence instead of immediately accepting it, you're teaching your brain a new pattern. You're reminding it that uncertainty doesn't automatically equal danger. You're slowly retraining the prediction engine itself. And that matters because the goal isn't to stop your brain from making predictions.

• 22:40Jay Shetty?

  It's to stop fear from being the only writer in the room. The second shift is the one that changed my own relationship with anxiety more than anything else. It begins with a question that's so simple, you'll almost always underestimate it. What problem actually exists right now? I think one of the biggest reasons anxiety becomes so overwhelming is because it tricks us into living somewhere we don't actually exist. Your body is sitting in your living room. You're drinking coffee, walking your dog, driving to work or lying in bed. But your mind has travelled three weeks into the future. It's already living inside a conversation that hasn't happened yet, a diagnosis that hasn't arrived or a rejection that may never come.

• 23:24Jay Shetty?

  That's one of anxiety's greatest tricks. It convinces you that your imagined future deserves more of your attention than your actual present. One of my favourite quotes from Seneca is "We suffer more often in imagination than in reality." I think that's one of the most psychologically accurate observations ever written. Notice he doesn't say we never suffer in reality. Of course we do. Loss is real. Heartbreak is real. Grief, disappointment, illness, failure, these are all part of being human. But so much of our suffering isn't created by what happens. It's created by what we repeatedly imagine might happen. We become attached to stories about how things should unfold

• 24:08Jay Shetty?

  or we become consumed by futures that haven't arrived. Instead of inhabiting this moment, we begin negotiating with moments that don't exist. The mind keeps trying to solve tomorrow's uncertainty while completely abandoning today's reality. So here's the question I come back to whenever I feel myself spiralling. Let's say you're waiting to hear whether you got the job. Your mind has already imagined not getting it. Falling behind financially, disappointing your family and never finding another opportunity. But what problem exists right now? Right now, you're waiting for an email. You may feel uncomfortable, but you've not been rejected. You do not need to rebuild your career tonight.

• 24:51Jay Shetty?

  You only need to live the evening that is actually in front of you. If a real problem does exist, bring it down to the size of the next available action. Maybe the bill is due, the conversation needs to happen or the application has to be submitted. Anxiety wants you to solve the entire future at once. Reality usually asks you for one phone call, one honest sentence, one decision or one hour of focused work. The present may still be difficult, but it is almost always smaller than the life-size catastrophe your mind has constructed around it. This episode is brought to you by Altra. Making space for ourselves matters. Having time and room to try new things. Our feet benefit from more space too.

• 25:36Jay Shetty?

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• 26:21Jay Shetty?

  Planning is necessary and preparation is wise. The difference is that planning works with reality while anxiety works with imagination. One leads to action, the other leads to exhaustion. On one side, write down what you know. On the other side, write down what you're assuming. It's amazing how often the second list is dramatically longer than the first. We confuse assumptions with facts because our brains present them in the same emotional tone. That's why writing them down can be so clarifying. Once they're on paper, you realise how much of your suffering has been fuelled by sentences that begin with "maybe" or "what if". Then look back at the first list and ask what it requires from you.

• 27:05Jay Shetty?

  If you know your friend hasn't replied, the fact may require patience. If you know you made a mistake at work, the fact may require an apology or a correction. If you know you have a medical appointment next week, the fact may require writing down your questions. This returns you to your actual responsibility. You stop trying to control the answer and start responding to the information you truly have. I also think there's something incredibly freeing about accepting that not every question deserves an immediate answer. We live in a culture that encourages instant certainty. We can track our food deliveries, watch flights move across a map in real time and get answers from our phones within seconds.

• 27:48Jay Shetty?

  We've become uncomfortable with not knowing. But emotional life doesn't work that way. Relationships don't offer constant reassurance. Careers don't come with guaranteed outcomes. Health doesn't promise certainty. Part of being emotionally mature is developing the capacity to sit inside unanswered questions without allowing your imagination to answer them for you. That brings us to the third and perhaps most important shift. We need to learn to stay present in the inevitable uncertainty of our lives. We tell ourselves, "I'll feel better once I know." Once I know whether I got the job, once I know how they feel about me, once I know the test results, once I know whether this relationship is going to last.

• 28:34Jay Shetty?

  We spend our lives chasing certainty because we believe certainty is what creates peace. But if you really look at the happiest, strongest, most resilient people you know, you'll notice something surprising. Their lives aren't more certain than yours. They're just more present, living within the unknown. Think about every meaningful decision you've ever made. Falling in love wasn't certain. Starting a business wasn't certain. Moving to a new city wasn't certain. Becoming a parent isn't certain. Pursuing a dream certainly isn't certain. The moments that shape our lives almost always begin with incomplete information. If certainty were a prerequisite for living well, none of us would ever do anything courageous.

• 29:18Jay Shetty?

  Psychologists have a term that I think deserves far more attention than it gets. Self-efficacy. It was developed by psychologist Albert Bandura and it's one of the strongest predictors of resilience, motivation and long-term success. Self-efficacy isn't the belief that bad things won't happen to you. It's the belief that if they do, you will be capable of handling them. That's a completely different source of confidence. Your peace isn't reliant on the future going the way you hope it will. It is reliant on the person you will become, regardless of what the future brings. You build that self-efficacy by remembering specific evidence. Think of a moment you once dreaded

• 30:02Jay Shetty?

  that eventually became part of your history. At the time, you may not have known what to say or how you would recover. You learned while living it. You found resources you couldn't see in advance, accepted support you didn't know you would have had access to and made decisions as new information arrived. Your past does not prove that nothing difficult will happen. It proves that you do not need every solution before the difficulty begins. I think that's one of the most liberating shifts we can make. Instead of asking, "How can I become more certain?", we can start asking, "How can I become more capable?" Because here's the truth. Capability is something you can build every single day.

• 30:46Jay Shetty?

  You can't guarantee you'll never lose a job, but you can become someone who knows how to adapt. You can't guarantee your heart will never be broken, but you can become someone who trusts they'll heal. You can't guarantee life won't surprise you, but you can become someone who believes they can meet those surprises with wisdom, courage and support. This is where I want to leave you with one final exercise that's had a profound impact on the way I respond to anxiety. The next time your mind starts spiralling towards the worst-case scenario, instead of trying to stop the thought, simply ask yourself, "Then what?" Let's say your brain says, "I'm gonna lose my job." "Okay, then what?" "I'll have to start looking for another one." "Then what?"

• 31:30Jay Shetty?

  "I'll update my resume and reach out to people I know." "Then what?" "I might have to cut back on expenses for a while." "Then what?" "I'll find another opportunity." "Then what?" "I'll look back and realise I learned something I couldn't have learned any other way." Notice what happens as you keep asking, then what? Anxiety wants the story to stop at the pain point. It wants you to believe the worst moment is also the final chapter. But life almost never works that way. Human beings are remarkably adaptable. We've survived heartbreaks we thought would destroy us. We've recovered from failures we were convinced we'd never overcome. We found joy again after seasons that felt impossibly dark.

• 32:15Jay Shetty?

  The story almost always continues. Anxiety just forgets to tell you that part. Not trust that everything will go according to plan. Not trust that life will always be easy. But true trust in yourself that no matter what happens, you will figure it out when you need to. I've found that this exercise doesn't magically erase fear, but it does reveal something far more valuable. It reveals your resilience. When you follow the story all the way through, instead of stopping at the disaster, you begin remembering how resourceful you actually are. You remember the people who would help you, the skills you've already developed, the challenges you've already overcome. The anxious mind is excellent at imagining future pain,

• 33:00Jay Shetty?

  but it's surprisingly poor at imagining future strength. Whatever happens, you won't experience it as the version of yourself sitting here today. You'll experience it as the version of yourself who has grown through every challenge between now and then. That's an important distinction because your anxious mind always imagines tomorrow's problems using today's strengths. But it forgets that you'll keep learning, adapting, healing, and becoming wiser along the way. Today's seven day challenge is brought to you by Chase Sapphire Reserve. One of the most meaningful things we can invest in is an experience that changes how we see the world. The meals that become memories, the places that shift our perspective,

• 33:43Jay Shetty?

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• 34:27Jay Shetty?

  thinking about something you're genuinely looking forward to about that experience. Maybe it's the meal you'll share, the person you'll be with, the place you'll discover, or simply how it might feel to step outside your normal routine. Because your brain is incredibly good at imagining everything that could go wrong. It can take one uncertainty and create an entire future around it. So this week, we're going to practice using that same imagination differently. Not to convince yourself that everything will be perfect, but to remind yourself that the future can hold things you're excited about as well. At the end of the seven days, ask yourself, what changed when I gave myself something to look forward to instead of something to worry about?

• 35:09Jay Shetty?

  One experience, one plan, seven days of anticipation. That's your challenge this week. With Chase Sapphire Reserve, every experience feels as rewarding as the destination itself. Earn four times the points on flights and hotels, three times the points on dining, enjoy award-winning airport lounges, reserve exclusive tables, and no foreign transaction fees. Learn more at chase.com/sapphirereserve. Cards issued by JP Morgan Chase Bank. N A Member FDIC. Subject to credit approval. Terms apply. I want you to imagine carrying two backpacks through life. In one backpack, you place every worst-case scenario your brain has ever invented.

• 35:52Jay Shetty?

  Every imagined rejection, every possible failure, every disaster you convinced yourself was coming. It's unbelievably heavy because your mind has invented an endless number of painful failures. In the other backpack, you place what actually happened. When you compare the weight of everything you feared with the reality of what unfolded, the second backpack is always lighter. Most of us spend our days carrying the first backpack, even though the second contains the truth. What actually happens is rarely as impossible to handle as what anxiety asks us to carry in advance. So the next time your brain starts predicting the future, I don't want you to ask whether the prediction is frightening. I want you to ask whether your fortune teller has actually earned your trust.

• 36:38Jay Shetty?

  Remember its track record. Remember how many conversations it got wrong. How many sleepless nights it created over problems that never arrived. How many stories it confidently narrated that reality never bothered to follow. Your brain is going to keep making predictions. That's what healthy human brains do. But it's now on you to stop confusing its guesses with the truth. So the next time your mind starts spiraling, come back to the present. Remind yourself that your brain is wired to find this worst-case scenario. But that worst-case scenario is not always the most likely one or the last one. Remind yourself of where you are right now. Remind yourself that the present moment is the only one that truly exists.

• 37:23Jay Shetty?

  And remind yourself that no matter what happens, you are stronger than you realize, more resilient than you know, and completely capable of trusting yourself to get through whatever life throws your way. Thank you for watching. Remember, I'm forever in your corner.

• 37:39Speaker 01

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• 38:08Speaker 02

  Mr. President, my company told me of the explosion on our rig on October 2nd. Causing massive water displacement and triggering a tsunami. They all keep the blame on me. Tom Cruise is.

• 38:19Speaker 03

  Digger got us into this mess, and Digger's gonna dig us up. From the director of Birdman and The Revenant.

• 38:24Speaker 04

  What would happen if I stopped drilling? You're stalled, you're freezing there, that's what.

• 38:29Speaker 03

  With great power comes great deniability.

• 38:32Speaker 04

  I'm not the first nanny.

• 38:33Speaker 03

  Digger. See the trailer online. Only in theaters October 2nd. Rated R. Under 17. Not a minute without parent.

• 38:38Speaker 05

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• 39:05Jay Shetty?

  Always rooting for you.