Voicemails with the Brothers

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  I've noticed you guys really like Almond Breeze almond milk. Who has the most specific way of drinking it?

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  Ooh.

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  Kevin's, you know what I've found very interesting is how you will drink a carton to yourself.

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  Yeah, straight out the dome.

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  And he usually does it before show.

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  Yeah, just really getting myself going.

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  He needs it on stage. Why do you guys like Almond Breeze so much?

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• 2:12Speaker 02

  Jonas. Let's listen to some voicemails, boys.

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  Yeah, let's do it, voicemail time.

• 2:17Speaker 01

  We need to jingle for this segment.

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  I agree. Do you guys know any musicians?

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  Something that tees it up in a really fun and, you know, lighthearted way.

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  Maybe we can write one right now, and then we can get it composed in post.

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  Yeah, go ahead.

• 2:32Speaker 00

  It should be like, ba-da-bum. All right, ba-da-bum. Voicemails with the brothers.

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  Voicemails with the brothers.

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  If you've got a question, just leave it at the beep.

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  I love that.

• 2:55Speaker 00

  Yes. Voicemails with the brothers. We need to have a jingle on that.

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  A lot of bass slapping.

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  So much bass.

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  If you've got a question, just leave it at the beep.

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  And it plays.

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  Love it.

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  Let's play the first one.

• 3:17Speaker 04

  Hi, my name is Anna, and I have a little story followed by a question. So, on the Greetings from Your Hometown tour, I was lucky enough to be selected to shoot a surprise song. But while I was talking to you guys, specifically Joe, he said, like, what's your mother's name? And I thought he said, what's your brother's name? And I was like, I don't have a brother. The thing is, it's not embarrassing, but it is one of those moments that what I'm, sometimes like, when you're trying to get to sleep at night, your brain keeps you up and it's like, hey, remember this cringey thing you did? My question for you is, what is something in the last year that would be one of those cringey things that you did that could keep you up at night? Is that too dark? Okay, oh well, I can't, I can't delete this.

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  All right, love you, bye.

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  You have an amazing character voice.

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  Yeah. She should be on like.

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  You would be fantastic on a.

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  Rick and Morty.

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  Bob's Burgers.

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  Or Rick and Morty.

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  There's countless things that we've done embarrassingly or cringey in the last year. Or I should speak for myself.

• 4:19Speaker 01

  Why don't you start then?

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  I said something today that I felt was cringey. And I was waiting in line for my smoothie, post-workout. Little creatine in there. And I was reaching over, and I was in mid-conversation, so I don't know, brain fart, brain farts happen. This is called, what's called brain fart, it's okay. A BF. Not to be confused with boyfriend. I reached over to grab a straw and I said, and to the lady that was right there, I said, excuse you.

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  I said, I'm so sorry, I meant to excuse me, and she just looked at me, she's like, it's okay. And I was like, I know, I, and I'm like, that was, brain fart. Excuse you, excuse you.

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  That's funny. I have a similar one where I was playing golf recently, and golf, I think it's a whole thing, right? As you all know, but for those that don't, there are unspoken rules and things you don't do. If someone hits a bad shot, it is in good form to throw them another ball and be like, we're not setting the course record today, like, have a good time, hit another ball.

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  Unless you're actually in a competition.

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  Unless you're in a competition, but if it's just free play, just fun, there are things you do to make the other person feel like, we're not good enough to be taking this that seriously.

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  Yeah, we don't need to care that much.

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  The person I was playing with, I didn't really know very well, hit a shot, but just as they had hit the putt, which didn't go very well, I had taken a sip of my sparkling water and one of the carbonation bubbles hit the back of my throat and I went.

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  Oh no.

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  Just as they missed the putt to like make par or birdie or something. And they kind of looked back like, damn, this guy sucks.

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  And you were like, sorry, sorry.

• 5:53Speaker 01

  No, I wasn't laughing at you, it was, I had a carbonate, you know? So I just kind of went to go. I might have overcompensated a whole lot to later, I was like, hey, it's a tough course out here, the greens are really running, run fast, huh?

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  All right, that's a good one. Unless Kevin, you've never been cringey in your life.

• 6:08Speaker 02

  Yeah, I was gonna say, I have too many to count, I don't even know where to start, it's just too, like, every time I open my mouth, I have an issue. So, let's just move on.

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  Well, my favorite of yours is the condolences to the chef.

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  Yeah, that's like the ultimate one, it's carried with me for a very long time.

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  Our like first nice meal was at a Four Seasons. It was also probably our first nice hotel.

• 6:28Speaker 02

  It was the Ritz in Dallas. I remember exactly where I was.

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  And the Jonas Brothers were, were somebody, the people were paying attention to us. Somebody put us in the Ritz, and we were like, oh my gosh. And we had a concert that night, and they kept the restaurant open late for us to have a meal. And we all had a delicious meal, and on the way out, we saw some of the staff, and Kevin.

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  Said to the GM, he goes, uh, meal's fantastic, my condolences to the chef.

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  Walked out.

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  You know?

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  And I think you, at the time, you probably had a summer scarf and you flipped it back as you said it too.

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  Definitely summer scarfed it at that point. The thing I don't tell about the story was, I looked up the word condolences, and I believe I like read the definition wrong and used it. I like intentionally used the word, which was like an absurdity.

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  So you were like, I'm looking this up, I'm going to, I'm going to the Ritz Dallas tonight.

• 7:26Speaker 02

  Yeah, like I like did a whole thing and like did a, you know? And I don't think it was the Ritz, I think it was St. Regis, if I'm now correcting myself.

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  So many hotels in Dallas.

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  Next voicemail, let's hit it.

• 7:39Speaker 05

  Hello, my name is Heather, and I've been a fan for 21 years now. So I am in a relationship, we've been together for seven years. And we talk a little bit about marriage, but just, just the normal, like, when are you gonna get me a ring? What are you doing? And, um.

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  Normal.

• 7:58Speaker 05

  Wanted to know how long it took, uh, Kevin to decide that he wanted to buy Danielle a ring? And how long it took actually to go through like the whole process? Um, asking the parents and everything. And it's seven years, way too friggin' long. Just kidding, he lets me go to Jonas Brothers concerts whenever I want. So, I've never missed a tour, so he's a good person.

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  Great person.

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  Um, love you guys, bye.

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  It remind me of Delilah, her voice. Remember Delilah?

• 8:28Speaker 02

  Oh dude, she's still on, bro.

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  Can we just play the first, like, when she introduces herself one more time? I'm gonna add something.

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  Hello, my name is Heather, and I've been a.

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  No.

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  That's a different, I'd say like a different, uh, that's like a, I don't know. That's like a, like a commercial you see on television past like 2:00 AM. The question's for me.

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  It took Kevin all of two minutes to decide if he wanted to marry Danielle?

• 8:56Speaker 02

  Kinda, no, it, it was about a year in. I said, a year in, I was like, I definitely want to marry this girl. And about six months later, I started working on a ring, and then I asked her parents. It was pretty straightforward, it was like two years into everything, two and a half.

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  Just a normie engagement to wedding pipeline.

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  That's, that seems normal. You, Nick, though, like, you're, you went, how do you, you were a couple of months?

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  Before I bought the ring?

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  Yeah.

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  Like 48 days or something.

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  Interesting, I should've asked me, um, that's weird.

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  I feel like you should start being more obvious with your questions to your partner. It's time to get real. I know she's not asking, she's asking like, how long did it take for you, Kev? But I'm, I think there's also the elephant in the room, meaning.

• 9:50Speaker 02

  Seven years is a long time.

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  The diamond ring in the corner, uh, pear shape, that I feel like she should probably be like, like, oh man. The fucking plan.

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  Yeah, seven years is like a little past the window.

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  No more hinting. I think it's time for, I think it's time for the chat.

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  Yeah, you're about to finish college and finish your master's degree. Like you need to, you need to figure it out.

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  And be like, yo, bro.

• 10:14Speaker 01

  Or how about just, everyone has their own timeline. Chill. You guys are being judgy. I don't like it. The audience is gonna love me for that.

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  I don't know. I'm just trying to keep things interesting. You know, let's have some real conversations. I think, I don't know. Why not?

• 10:28Speaker 02

  I kind of agree. It's like, at a certain point, is it gonna be too long where that, at that point, you spent seven years, maybe more with someone that doesn't? If that's your plan for your future, like you want to get married, then there needs to be a real conversation, I think.

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  There you go. And if you don't want to get married, then-

• 10:43Speaker 01

  Just let people live their lives, guys. I don't get where you're going.

• 10:45Speaker 02

  That's the problem. What if his version is, I don't want to get married, but hers is. They should know now.

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  That's what I'm saying. She definitely wants to get married. She didn't call to be like, hey, guys. Why do people want to get married?

• 10:55Speaker 01

  I know. She, she wants to get married. I'm just trying to make you guys look bad. That's all.

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  That's fine. Wow.

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  King.

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  I'm in my villain era. This is Nick Jonas.

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  This is Kevin Jonas.

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  And Joe Jonas from Hey Jonas.

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  Lucky good neighbor, State Farm is there. Hey Jonas is brought to you by Almond Breeze. It's time for some questions from the producers.

• 11:38Speaker 01

  All right. Who started drinking Almond Breeze almond milk first?

• 11:41Speaker 02

  Actually, I think that was you, Nick.

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  I think it was.

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  Yeah, you're like, you know, guys, I tried this almond breeze in my coffee today. It was great.

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  All right, who's the most likely to finish the last carton of almond breeze and not replace it?

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  That was Kevin.

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  Kevin, of course.

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  Yeah.

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  That's someone else's job.

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  Take it, Kev.

• 11:56Speaker 01

  What's the most random place you drank almond breeze?

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  The last time I visited the Empire State Building.

• 12:01Speaker 01

  Ah, that's a random place for sure. I've noticed you guys really like almond breeze almond milk. Who has the most specific way of drinking it?

• 12:08Speaker 02

  Ooh.

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  Ooh. Um, Kevin's, you know what I found very interesting is how you will drink a carton to yourself.

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  Yeah, straight after dawn.

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  And he usually does it before show.

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  Yeah, just really getting myself going.

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  He needs it on stage.

• 12:21Speaker 01

  Okay, last question. Why do you guys like almond breeze so much?

• 12:24Speaker 02

  Oh, it just tastes great. It's a great alternative.

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  It is great.

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  It's simply because it's really good.

• 12:28Speaker 01

  True. Try almond breeze. Trust us. It's really good. You've probably heard that good things come in threes.

• 12:34Speaker 02

  No, I've never heard that.

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  Kevin. Yeah, you have. You've got bacon, lettuce, tomato, rock, paper, scissors.

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  Joe, Nick, Kevin.

• 12:41Speaker 02

  Yeah, and that is a good one.

• 12:43Speaker 00

  Or because it's cold season, Kleenex lotion tissues.

• 12:47Speaker 02

  There's no three in Kleenex tissues.

• 12:49Speaker 00

  That's where you're wrong, Kev, my friend. Listen, Kleenex lotion tissues have three-in-one skin-loving benefits. It protects hands, soothes, and moisturizes your skin.

• 12:58Speaker 02

  I never realized you were so into skincare, Joe.

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  Come on, who doesn't love to moisturize?

• 13:03Speaker 02

  You've got a good point.

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  Oh, and don't forget to tell them about the three thick layers made with coconut oil and olive.

• 13:08Speaker 01

  Wow, good things really do come in threes.

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  For whatever happens next, grab Kleenex.

• 13:13Speaker 01

  Okay, next one.

• 13:15Speaker 04

  It's Haley from Arizona. I'm a big fan, and I have kind of a predicament. I'm the youngest of four siblings. My oldest brother and I have been estranged for a few years now. He recently got married and moved across the country. Uh, I was not invited, which I completely understand, but my parents knew about it, along with another brother. They knew about it for months. They attended the wedding, they helped him move, and kept it all a secret from me and my sister, all because he asked them to. What hurts isn't what my brother did. I have totally come to expect that. What hurts is feeling like there's a pattern where everyone accommodates the difficult sibling.

• 13:59Speaker 04

  And the rest of us are just expected to deal with the fallout. So my question for you is, as brothers who have worked through conflict and rebuilt relationships, what advice would you give for healing a family wound when maybe it seems like accountability is one-sided? And the people you're most disappointed in aren't the difficult family member, but maybe the family members who helped enable the behavior? Would love to know your thoughts on this. I love the podcast. You guys are awesome. Thanks.

• 14:31Speaker 00

  Wow. Well, I think you are therapized.

• 14:36Speaker 02

  For sure.

• 14:36Speaker 00

  She's, this person is, I think, already working on themselves, which I think is incredible. Number one, you're doing a great job. Because the way you're just communicating how you're feeling about the situation, it's very impressive. And I feel like this situation obviously is very complicated, and I'm sorry that you didn't get invited to the wedding, and I'm sorry it's estranged, your relationship, that's tough.

• 14:59Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 14:59Speaker 00

  Your family, that's, that's tough. But yes, there is some moves being made on your behalf, which is a little strange. And I feel like at least the family members that you're close with, there's gotta be some sort of family meeting and, and just be like, guys, we gotta figure this out. More of like an intervention, but, right?

• 15:17Speaker 02

  Well, yeah, I, I agree with you, Joe, but I also like, the relationship might not be, not healable. Like, that's fine.

• 15:25Speaker 00

  The family members that, that are, she's good with, I mean, it should be like finding out that you're hiding something with an estranged family member to make it less of a blow for you. Like, that's weird.

• 15:35Speaker 02

  I totally agree.

• 15:35Speaker 01

  Yeah, I also think that, you know, it's especially painful when it's your parents and you feel like they're prioritizing, you know, another child over you. And it's, it's a really complicated thing for all, all parties. However, I think, you know, given the fact that you're, Haley is processing this the way, you know, you are, it means that you're coming to the conversation with balance and thoughtfulness and, and, uh, you know, at least some empathy and compassion, knowing that it's so tricky. But I do think a conversation is warranted. And just to put it in the context of our dynamic and our experiences, there've been plenty of times where one of us felt a certain way and, uh, including Franklin, you know?

• 16:19Speaker 01

  And, and the fact is, we're still mom and dad's kids, and they, they have to champion each of us in different ways, even if they might feel like, well, that one's clearly in the wrong in this situation, or it's too nuanced to say someone's wrong or right. They gotta sort of be Switzerland and love all their children equally, even when there's conflict. And I think I've taken a lot of learning from that, you know, and, and applied it to even our, our brotherhood. And there've been times I've been like, all right, you know what? I get it. They need to, to like prioritize that right now and, and their feelings and hurt, even if, if I might feel a certain way.

• 16:54Speaker 02

  Right.

• 16:55Speaker 01

  I think the conversation's due, and it should happen in like a, a place that doesn't feel like an intense environment, just like, as you said, Joe, like a hang, just, or maybe Kevin, it was you. A hang to just air it out and, and have a conversation.

• 17:08Speaker 00

  I think that's smart. It's tough, but smart. Next up.

• 17:11Speaker 04

  Hi. Okay, I had a question. Um, so my husband and I are married of eight years and in a multicultural marriage. He's from Guatemala, and I'm, as he says, all American, born and raised in Washington State. We have two little boys. But, um, one challenge we faced is realizing we had different expectations around simple things like cooking, cleaning, parenting, because of our cultural and family backgrounds. I'm just wondering, have any of you experienced cultural differences or family differences showing up in everyday married or relationship and family life, and what helped you work through them as a couple?

• 17:57Speaker 04

  Thank you so much. Bye.

• 17:58Speaker 02

  Wow, great question.

• 17:59Speaker 01

  Thank you.

• 18:00Speaker 02

  Yeah, I think, I think a lot of people would probably deal with this.

• 18:03Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 18:03Speaker 02

  Yeah, like, I think cultural differences, I can only imagine, but like, even just how you were raised as people, like, you know, if you're used to expecting something in a relationship, I think that's a poise for disaster, in my opinion. I think if you expect something of someone without ever communicating that that's what you're looking for, I think that's going to head towards disaster pretty quickly.

• 18:25Speaker 01

  Expectations are the blueprint for disappointment. It's something our father always used to say.

• 18:31Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 18:31Speaker 01

  Um, so that's true in marriage, but as far as cultural differences, I mean, I'm also in a multicultural, multi-religious family. My wife being from India. There's a lot of things, as you guys know, early in our relationship, that, that took some kind of figuring out.

• 18:47Speaker 02

  Right.

• 18:47Speaker 01

  You know, just ways in which the culture is just different. It's all, you know, communication and just, um, certain, um, ways in which things were done. Uh, rituals and, and otherwise, whether that's, you know, US, uh, the way we do things here, or the way they do things there. It took, you know, a bit of a learning curve, but I, I came to love kind of learning and, and, and finding kind of our rhythm within it. And, um, there's, it just, it just makes life so much more exciting and, and the experiences you have so much more fulfilling when, when you're, when you're experiencing

• 19:25Speaker 01

  something that your, your partner, uh, grew up doing or, or, or loves about their culture and, and how you apply that to your own life and the world you build together. So I think it's, it's sort of twofold. There's one version where it's like, I think there's a conversation to be had around expectations around who's carrying what responsibilities in the relationship, and then a separate one around, how can we embrace things that you love about your culture and, and that I love about mine? And celebrate these things together and make it a part of the fabric of who we are as a team. And, um, you know, that, that can be an exciting journey to go on.

• 19:56Speaker 02

  I agree.

• 19:56Speaker 00

  I actually disagree.

• 19:58Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 20:00Speaker 02

  I will say that I do think that like it's hard when you have a lot of people expecting certain things in a household just because of either gender or like role. Like I don't necessarily, I do not agree that that's how it should roll. So it's definitely difficult when that's like embedded in a lot of people based on where they're from.

• 20:20Speaker 01

  That's a great point. This is Nick Jonas.

• 20:22Speaker 02

  This is Kevin Jonas.

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  And Joe Jonas from Hey Jonas.

• 20:25Speaker 02

  This episode is brought to you by State Farm.

• 20:27Speaker 01

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• 20:38Speaker 02

  State Farm can help personalize coverage that fits your life and your budget because your insurance coverage should feel right for you.

• 20:45Speaker 00

  Lucky good neighbor, State Farm is there. Hey Jonas is brought to you by Almond Breeze. It's time for some questions from the producers.

• 20:51Speaker 01

  All right. Who started drinking Almond Breeze almond milk first?

• 20:54Speaker 02

  Actually, I think that was you, Nick.

• 20:56Speaker 00

  I think it was.

• 20:56Speaker 02

  Yeah, you're like, you know, guys, I tried this almond breeze in my coffee today.

• 21:00Speaker 01

  Changed the game for me.

• 21:00Speaker 02

  It was great.

• 21:01Speaker 01

  All right. Who's the most likely to finish the last carton of almond breeze and not replace it?

• 21:05Speaker 00

  That's Kevin.

• 21:06Speaker 01

  Kevin, of course.

• 21:07Speaker 00

  Yeah.

• 21:07Speaker 02

  That's someone else's job.

• 21:08Speaker 00

  Take it, Kev.

• 21:09Speaker 01

  What's the most random place you drank almond breeze?

• 21:12Speaker 00

  The last time I visited the Empire State Building.

• 21:14Speaker 01

  Ah, that's a random place for sure. I've noticed you guys really like almond breeze almond milk. Who has the most specific way of drinking it?

• 21:21Speaker 00

  Oh, Kevin's, you know what I found very interesting is how you will drink a carton to yourself.

• 21:28Speaker 02

  Yeah, just straight up the dome.

• 21:29Speaker 00

  And he usually does it before show.

• 21:31Speaker 02

  Yeah, just really getting myself going.

• 21:33Speaker 00

  He needs it on stage.

• 21:34Speaker 01

  Okay, last question. Why do you guys like almond breeze so much?

• 21:37Speaker 02

  Oh, it just tastes great. It's a great alternative.

• 21:39Speaker 01

  It is great.

• 21:40Speaker 00

  It's simply because it's really good.

• 21:41Speaker 01

  True. Try almond breeze. Trust us. It's really good. You've probably heard that good things come in threes.

• 21:47Speaker 02

  No, I've never heard that.

• 21:48Speaker 00

  Kevin. Yeah, you have. You've got bacon, lettuce, tomato, rock, paper, scissors.

• 21:53Speaker 01

  Joe, Nick, Kevin.

• 21:54Speaker 02

  Yeah, and that is a good one.

• 21:56Speaker 00

  Or because it's cold season, Kleenex lotion tissues.

• 22:00Speaker 02

  There's no three in Kleenex tissues.

• 22:02Speaker 00

  That's where you're wrong, Kev, my friend. Listen, Kleenex lotion tissues have three in one skin-loving benefits. It protects hands, soothes, and moisturizes your skin.

• 22:11Speaker 02

  I never realized you were so into skincare, Joe.

• 22:14Speaker 01

  Come on, who doesn't love to moisturize?

• 22:16Speaker 02

  You've got a good point.

• 22:18Speaker 00

  Oh, and don't forget to tell them about the three thick layers made with coconut oil and aloe.

• 22:21Speaker 01

  Wow, good things really do come in threes.

• 22:24Speaker 00

  For whatever happens next, grab Kleenex.

• 22:26Speaker 02

  Moving on.

• 22:27Speaker 04

  Hey, so my name is Sabrina and I live in Pensacola, Florida. So I just got married two years ago and I moved from Rome, Georgia to Pensacola. And I was wondering how y'all managed to like move away from like your parents? Cause I know for me, it's kind of hard living with it, like living without them. But now I have with a loving husband who I love so dearly. But it's just so hard, like visiting my parents and then leaving, kind of getting that homesickness again. But I was just wondering how y'all manage your time with like your parents of like separating and having your own families now?

• 23:07Speaker 00

  Thank you for this question. We, we share our parents now. Our parents are currently, I can hear them. They're in the other room and dad, you know, is on the phone.

• 23:19Speaker 02

  Walking around.

• 23:20Speaker 00

  Obviously not everybody has that luxury of being able to get your parents to visit as often and you have to go visit them a couple of times a year. If you're lucky, there was definitely seasons where, you know, we got the taste of it, COVID and all that, where we didn't get to see our parents for quite a while.

• 23:33Speaker 02

  Right.

• 23:34Speaker 00

  And that can be really tough. I mean, just even, I moved pretty far a couple of years ago from where my family was and felt so lonely. Like the first time in my life where I felt like, wow, I feel pretty alone, like pretty separated, pretty far from fam. But I found ways to look forward to seeing them and making a proper plan, either meeting them halfway or whatever. And also finding a good community for yourself, you know, finding some good friends is important. And if you can do that, I think it's great. And also I think there's been like a lot, some fun things on Zoom came out of COVID. We were doing a lot of like game nights on Zoom and even with my parents, I don't know if

• 24:15Speaker 00

  your parents are tech savvy, but there's a game called Code Names. It's a good one for the family online. You should do it. You can play on Zoom. Try that out with your parents.

• 24:25Speaker 01

  I think adulting can be a really liberating experience too. And when you, you know, move out on your own, you start to think about, you know, what do I want to put on my grocery list? And what's my laundry day? And you start to build those, those systems, even if you don't stick to it and don't put the pressure on it. Cause there's, there's going to be chaotic moments, but you, I think you can find ways to sort of gamify it and be like, you know, this can be fun. Defining who I am as an adult and what my home looks and feels like. And then, you know, FaceTime is a, an incredible tool for all relationships. So FaceTime as, as much as you can and try to, you know, kind of offset some of that homesickness.

• 25:07Speaker 02

  I just got one of those TVs that roll around that you get all those ads for and it's got Zoom on it. It's the greatest thing ever. It's so cool. So when, if you see me rolling you around my house and like you're there in the room, that's what's going on. So get one of those TVs. They're pretty great.

• 25:23Speaker 00

  You should buy her one, Kev. Let's go.

• 25:25Speaker 01

  Kev's got that solo artist money now. You're just buying TVs that roll around the house.

• 25:29Speaker 02

  I wish.

• 25:30Speaker 01

  All right, we got time for one more.

• 25:31Speaker 06

  Hi Jonas Brothers.

• 25:33Speaker 01

  Hi.

• 25:33Speaker 06

  I might be a little bit of an older fan. I'm 27 and I recently got braces. I wasn't able to afford it as a kid and now I can and I'm trying to fix my teeth so I can be more confident. So I was wondering to you guys, how do you guys stay so confident? I know Joe has had some things in the past, like for example, in eighth grade when he, you know, crapped himself at school and then had to go back and clean it up. But then only a few years later is performing with the Jonas Brothers and just exuding confidence. How do you guys do that?

• 26:16Speaker 01

  To poop your pants to Jonas Brothers pipelines.

• 26:18Speaker 06

  So thank you guys. If you answer my questions, sending love and I hope you guys have a blessed day.

• 26:23Speaker 02

  Joe, how do you stay so confident after you've pooped your pants and now I'm a Jonas Brother? How do you do it?

• 26:29Speaker 01

  Someone like you being confident, how does that?

• 26:31Speaker 02

  How does that happen?

• 26:32Speaker 01

  Someone as.

• 26:36Speaker 00

  Well, good on you getting braces and feeling your best self.

• 26:40Speaker 02

  Yeah, I think that's awesome.

• 26:41Speaker 00

  That's good. It's great. And now braces are way cooler than they were when we were younger.

• 26:46Speaker 02

  We're doing the whole Invisalign thing right now. It's working out great for everybody.

• 26:50Speaker 00

  We are? Meaning are you?

• 26:51Speaker 02

  Our daughters are.

• 26:52Speaker 00

  Oh, got it.

• 26:52Speaker 02

  I got good ass teeth right now.

• 26:54Speaker 00

  Good ass teeth.

• 26:59Speaker 02

  Straight.

• 27:00Speaker 00

  You know, there are days we don't feel our best and don't feel that confident or, you know, you catch your reflection, selfie cam pops up and you see a triple chin and you'll go, well, I'm going to the gym today. But I think probably like little things help.

• 27:20Speaker 00

  Honestly, I like a little, little morning walk, clear my head. And I just also try not to poop my pants as much anymore.

• 27:28Speaker 02

  It's probably step one of your day. Just don't poop my pants.

• 27:32Speaker 00

  So sometimes it's unexpected.

• 27:33Speaker 02

  I did send that to our, our group chat. Days without pooping your pants. Zero. When it happened to me a couple of years, maybe a year ago.

• 27:40Speaker 01

  Yeah, I had this thought recently. It's more related to like social environments and, and you know, big groups or group setting, whatever it is. And, and it was advice that I gave somebody else. And I was like, man, I should listen to my own advice, which I never do. But it was basically like, hey, just, just keep in mind that everybody else in this room is probably having the same self-talk thoughts that you're having about what they just said, or how they look, or how, you know, their, their stature in the room socially, like all those things, we're all doing it in real time. And the first person like, I'm not, I'm just a hundred percent confident. Like they're full of shit.

• 28:16Speaker 02

  They're lying to you.

• 28:17Speaker 01

  I think just, it's that old thing of like, imagine that everyone else in the room is, is not wearing clothes, like that thing, but apply it to the fact that everyone else is probably feeling some level of insecurity at every, every given moment. It should take some pressure off and allow you to just be yourself and know that confidence isn't just about the way you look or how you feel or whatever. It's a frame of mind. It's a, it's a mindset.

• 28:37Speaker 02

  I love that.

• 28:38Speaker 01

  You have to adopt and you have to choose to be confident and happy and, and to feel the best version of yourself each day. And when you don't, to that point, Joe, I think taking a walk's a great call. Watching something that's going to make you feel uplifted and happy. There's so much like doom scrolling that happens and it only weighs in further into your confidence. Or one way to really confidence boost, listen to the Hey Jonas Podcast right here on iHeart Radio.

• 29:03Speaker 00

  Proven by most, most.

• 29:06Speaker 01

  Nine out of 10 scientists say.

• 29:08Speaker 02

  Bill Nye says.

• 29:09Speaker 00

  One out of, one out of 10 scientists.

• 29:11Speaker 01

  He's actually the one that didn't.

• 29:12Speaker 02

  The one that didn't. He's like, nope, not these guys.

• 29:14Speaker 00

  Check this, check this out. He's the one that didn't.

• 29:16Speaker 01

  All right. Thanks for all your amazing questions and calls.

• 29:19Speaker 02

  Make sure to keep them coming.

• 29:21Speaker 01

  Yeah, keep them coming. That is our hotline. It is 1-840-HEY-JONAS or 1-844-395-6627. As always.

• 29:30Speaker 02

  Bye-bye.

• 29:31Speaker 01

  Bye-bye.

• 29:32Speaker 02

  Bye-bye.

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