Hey Alix and Ashtin Earle!

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• 2:43Speaker 00

  Jonas. Gentlemen.

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  Yeah. What's up, Nick?

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  What a week it's been.

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  Yeah.

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  Another week of shenanigans and what have yous and whatnots.

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  All the things.

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  You guys have your cue cards?

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  I have paper.

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  Yeah, I've got cue cards.

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  Yeah, yeah.

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  What do you want to know?

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  The official Hey Jonas cue cards, which will be available in our holiday pack coming to you in time for Christmas, Hanukkah, and what other holidays you may celebrate. This pack will include the Hey Jonas cue cards, the red solo cups where you can put your own name, Joe's soundboard, in addition to many other fun things. What it will not have in it is these paddles, which we will, you know, explain more once our guest arrives today, but it is two paddles that say Dis Earl Grey or Earl Grey.

• 3:31Speaker 02

  I feel like that gives it away.

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  Earl Grey?

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  Be.

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  Yeah. Are we getting more Jersey in this podcast right now?

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  It couldn't possibly be more Jersey than your guns out for no reason today, Kev.

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  I was in the pool. I didn't want to, I was, I'm literally in my swimming suit.

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  Wow.

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  Must be nice.

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  Like it.

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  Yeah.

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  Our guests today on the pod are from the great state of New Jersey, which we'll be talking a lot about, but their, their new show, Earl Meets World is, is out now. It is hilarious, fun, family ride and Jersey stuff and all the things in between. Think we should get them out here.

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  Let's do it.

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  Alex, Ashton, welcome to Hey Jonas, the pod. We're so glad to have you.

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  Thanks for having us on. Yay, I'm so excited.

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  So we're going to soundboard, who will be interrupting the entire interview with, with different sounds.

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  I love it.

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  They're good.

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  They're solid.

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  I'm not going to interrupt. He's going to add to the conversation.

• 4:28Speaker 00

  Before we got going, I asked you how long you've been in town because I'm dying to know, do you, do you live in California now or are you still based in New Jersey?

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  Uh, I don't actually really know exactly where I live. I kind of pop around between like LA, Miami, New York. But she's in New York.

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  I'm in New York.

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  And obviously Jersey is like very important to us, our roots.

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  Let's talk about Jersey.

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  Let's talk about it.

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  We'll probably start with New Jersey. I'm here right now.

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  Where in Jersey?

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  So we're up a little in the Northwest. Yeah, me and the family, Danielle, my wife, and my two daughters are here. They're in the pool, that's why I dress the way I am.

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  Do you believe that there's such a thing as, as like central Jersey or is it just northern?

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  I do because I think we're from central Jersey.

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  You are from central Jersey, right?

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  Right?

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  Yeah.

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  You believe in the central.

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  It exists.

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  Where are you from exactly? Don't you have to say exactly where, but what, what part?

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  Monmouth County.

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  Monmouth County. Okay, so that's, that's kind of central.

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  Definitely central Jersey.

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  What do you think central is?

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  I just, I stopped keeping track. It's basically like northern Jersey and then all of a sudden it just becomes Philly.

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  See, that's the problem, I think.

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  I think people in central Jersey don't want to be North Jersey and don't want to be Philly.

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  Yeah.

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  So we.

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  They're gonna revolt.

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  Yes.

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  They're gonna start a revolution to be seen.

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  Okay, but I have an important question for you guys.

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  I have a question.

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  Do you say Taylor ham or pork roll? It's gonna be Taylor ham.

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  It's Taylor ham.

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  Oh my gosh.

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  You guys say pork roll?

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  See, because you're North Jersey.

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  I'm North Jersey, yeah.

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  Do you judge people from North Jersey?

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  I don't judge people, but I think you guys are really brutal.

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  It depends, person to person, but I think you guys are really brutal about the Taylor ham and pork roll.

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  How so?

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  Because it's like.

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  Pork roll and you say Taylor ham.

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  I actually say pork roll.

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  Yeah, Joe, you started doing that and that's not how you were raised.

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  What do you mean I started doing this? What did I say?

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  Never.

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  You've never said that.

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  You guys eat pork roll or Taylor ham or no?

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  Oh yeah, 100%.

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  But the problem is that Kevin always brings it before we go on a plane.

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  Oh.

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  And then you've got basically 400 grams of sodium.

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  It's a lot.

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  Making your palms and your face blow up, which.

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  But they're so good.

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  They're so good.

• 6:25Speaker 01

  Alex, I believe I'm aware of your bagel order and I'm sorry, but I can't not get behind it.

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  Kevin studies celebrity bagel orders.

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  Yeah.

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  He specifically looks up.

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  Have you had a pork roll and cream cheese?

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  Criminal.

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  That is just, I'm sorry, I won't judge your pork roll.

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  Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

• 6:41Speaker 06

  No, you can judge it, it's okay.

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  Wait, what is your, what is both of your, your orders for bagels? I'm curious now.

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  An egg bagel with pork roll and cream cheese. And I have taken it on a plane before, so now that you said that, I feel really bad. And I am aware it probably smells.

• 6:58Speaker 02

  No, no, no, it's not bad. Kevin, have you tried it before, before you judge?

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  You know what, I'll be honest, I have not, so I'm gonna give it a try.

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  There you go.

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  Can't judge until you've tried it.

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  True.

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  Okay.

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  And Ash, what's your, what's your order?

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  I'll do an egg everything bagel with pork roll, egg and cheese, super basic.

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  That's my, that's my order, my go-to order. Well, I'm gonna go try it. There's a Goldberg's not far from where I am currently and I might have to just go try it.

• 7:22Speaker 01

  But you're in New York currently and the Hamptons bagel is not the same.

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  Yeah.

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  First of all, Kevin Jonas.

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  In your bathing suit. What I will say to you is that there's a Goldberg's down the street here in the Hamptons.

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  Different Goldberg's.

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  What do you mean different Goldberg's?

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  Different Goldberg's.

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  It's the commercial Goldberg, it's not like the, the real hometown. Now, we just recently did a thing that we file under weird collaborations we've done over the years.

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  We've had a couple.

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  Papa Bagels?

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  We did Papa Bagels. And, and I thought it was great. We had a great time. We popped up, no pun intended, into one of the places and, and saw some fans. It was great, but also kind of bizarre to be like handing out bagels. I've seen that you guys have, have had quite the, the summer together, traveling different places. You mentioned Miami, Joe's actually living in Miami these days.

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  Really?

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  And I gotta say, Miami has a lot of appeal. For those of us living in California where, where you're just kind of worried each day about the heat, lots of different factors I won't say because then it might happen, but things, you know, in California are intense. Now Miami seems like a good, good place to be.

• 8:27Speaker 05

  And you know, living there is actually a lot more chill and relaxing and healthy than when you think of like vacationing in Miami. It's like when I'm there, I'm just like on my routine. It's nice weather all the time, go outside, walk my dog.

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  We love that.

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  It's beautiful.

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  We have a lot of mutual friends. Dave Grubman's a good friend of ours as well.

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  Yeah.

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  Oh, fun. We love Dave.

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  Dave's so fun and I know he is a part of the new show that you guys have launching. Congratulations. It's so exciting.

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  Thank you.

• 8:54Speaker 02

  Please tell us about the show.

• 8:56Speaker 05

  Well, what do you want to know?

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  All right, well.

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  How is it working with your family?

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  I want to know that, I want to know the tea and obviously this has to do with your family. And I thought of both of you this morning because I saw a baby deer and then it made me think, wait a minute, these two had a pet deer, am I right?

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  Yes, we did.

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  You have a lot of pets.

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  We have like.

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  Whoa, you had a pet deer?

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  We had a pet deer. The ending was a little tragic and it's also, I think it's sort of.

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  There's a movie about that.

• 9:23Speaker 05

  Well, I think it is illegal to.

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  To domesticate a deer.

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  Was this sort of like, of like an official matter of business or this was just?

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  It had a collar, it was on the couch with us.

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  It was a dog, essentially.

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  It was an indoor pet.

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  Yes.

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  Okay.

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  It was, it was lost from its, its mom and it came to our doorstep and we helped it. And then fun fact about deers, once you touch them, they're.

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  As a baby.

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  Like the moms can like.

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  Yes.

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  Sense it and the mom didn't want the baby back, so we took her. So she didn't die.

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  So we adopted a deer.

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  That's pretty cool.

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  That's pretty incredible.

• 9:56Speaker 02

  You have a lot of pets as a family, am I right?

• 9:59Speaker 06

  Yes, we do.

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  So can you walk through this list of pets? I'm very curious.

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  Well, every time we come back to our dad's house in New Jersey, they have a new animal. So it's kind of hard to keep track, but we have two goats.

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  Four goats.

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  Four goats.

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  Two pigs.

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  Two pigs.

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  A lot of like chickens, turkeys, roosters. I don't even know if they're, if that's.

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  Does your father live on a farm?

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  They've built a farm basically in the backyard. There's dogs, cats, a bearded dragon, there's a snake, there was a bunny. Or did I make that up?

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  A guinea pig?

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  It wasn't there.

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  A guinea pig. There was a guinea pig.

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  Oh no, we had a bunny.

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  A rabbit.

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  We just got it, my, my daughter just got a ham.

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  It's a big, big thing in our household right now.

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  Oh, hamsters are fun.

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  Now, we spoke to Millie Bobby Brown recently, who also informed us that she has lots of pets.

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  Yeah.

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  Like thirty plus pets. Is it not, and I don't, I don't mean this, this is probably a question to ask your dad, because you said he lives in this property. Is it not a ton of work? Having a dog is like a full-time job, right?

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  It is. No, it is.

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  Twenty-five pets.

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  You know, who actually loves to take care of all the animals is our little sister Penelope. She's eleven. She goes out there three times a day feeding them. She's on top of it. She's got the checklist.

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  Our parents like put the little ones to work with taking care of them.

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  Smart.

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  She'll like remind my dad and my stepmom. She's like, we need to go feed the animals. She's like the one who runs the show.

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  He is really good at the farm and yeah, the little siblings kind of like Thomas is in the reptile area. Isabelle's in the cats.

• 11:34Speaker 06

  Oh, the wiener dog and the cats.

• 11:36Speaker 05

  There's a wiener dog.

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  Are we going to be able to get to see all of this on the show?

• 11:40Speaker 05

  Yes.

• 11:41Speaker 02

  Okay, so you're going to see a home life with your family and your parents, and of course, your travels and your work as well. Is this kind of what the vibe is going?

• 11:47Speaker 06

  Yes.

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  Our producer had a chance to watch a kind of pre-screen of the show and said it is going to be a massive hit. Very excited for you, first of all.

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  Nice.

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  And weirdly, beyond the Jersey connection, I do feel like we have a bunch of sort of mutual friends. We've heard great things about you guys as a family, but what we want to get into with, you know, with respect to the show and what we're going to see is really the sibling dynamic.

• 12:12Speaker 05

  Right.

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  We work together, we have for a very long time. We've had our fair share of situations we've had to navigate. What are we going to get to see, if any, sort of fights that are, you know, verbal or even potentially?

• 12:26Speaker 02

  Everyone knows siblings don't fight, so you're obviously going to have a lot of acting, I'm sure.

• 12:30Speaker 00

  Yeah, of course. Kevin did a reality show, so he knows there's a balance of some real and then some things you have to sort of make.

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  Amplify.

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  Beyond the show, have you guys had any, any sort of big family fights before?

• 12:44Speaker 05

  Of course.

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  All the time.

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  I mean, yeah, our, our family too, like we, it's an interesting dynamic because my parents had gotten divorced and then, you know,

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  they are remarried, or my mom's still dating, but like they all hang out now and things,

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  Which is beautiful.

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  Things were a little rocky at first. It wasn't like things didn't go down the best that they could have, you know? So there was some unresolved feelings, I think, for a while between us and our stepmom, my mom and my dad and stepmom and everyone. So it took a while for us to like get to a really good place, but of course there's still times where like,

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  Yeah.

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  it just, you know, comes up, we fight, sisters fight like no other. I'm sure you guys know, it's just like,

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  Yeah.

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  fighting with your family. There's something nice to it though, because I'm like, you can scream and fight with each other and say the nastiest things, but two seconds later you're like, okay, like let's go get a fight.

• 13:37Speaker 02

  What movie, okay, we're going to go see The Odyssey or Spider-Man?

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  We've always said that it's, it's weird that, you know, when you're as siblings and, you know, I think this is reserved for sibling relationships. You, you can have a fight about a situation. It can get really intense. And, and then your friends who are not siblings or don't have siblings, like they don't understand how you can just jump back to normal.

• 13:59Speaker 02

  Totally.

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  Yeah, like I feel like there was a time when we first started hanging out around Jake and we would like scream at each other and he would be so scared and he was like, wait, guys, please like calm down. And we're like, wait, no, we're fine. Like, don't worry. He's like, girl, stop. We're like, oh.

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  All right. Who started drinking almond breeze almond milk first?

• 14:44Speaker 02

  Actually, I think that was you, Nick. I think it was. Yeah, you're like, you know, guys, I tried this almond breeze in my coffee today.

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  Changed the game for me. All right, who's the most likely to finish the last carton of almond breeze and not replace it?

• 14:55Speaker 02

  That's Kevin.

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  Kevin, of course.

• 14:57Speaker 02

  Yeah. That's someone else's job. Take it, Kev.

• 14:59Speaker 00

  What's the most random place you drank almond breeze?

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  The last time I visited the Empire State Building.

• 15:04Speaker 00

  Ah, that's a random place for sure. I've noticed you guys really like almond breeze almond milk. Who has the most specific way of drinking it?

• 15:11Speaker 02

  Ooh. Ooh, Kevin's, you know what's I've found very interesting is how you will drink a carton to yourself. Yeah, straight off the dome. And he usually does it before show. Yeah, just really getting myself going. He needs it on stage.

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  Okay, last question. Why do you guys like almond breeze so much?

• 15:27Speaker 02

  Oh, it just tastes great. It's a great alternative. It is great. It's simply because it's really good.

• 15:31Speaker 00

  True. Try almond breeze. Trust us. It's really good. You've probably heard that good things come in threes.

• 15:37Speaker 02

  No, I've never heard that. Kevin. Yeah, you have. You've got bacon, lettuce, tomato, rock, paper, scissors.

• 15:43Speaker 00

  Joe, Nick, Kevin.

• 15:44Speaker 02

  Yeah, and that is a good one. Or because it's cold season, Kleenex lotion tissues. There's no three in Kleenex tissues. That's where you're wrong, Kev. My friend, listen, Kleenex lotion tissues have three-in-one skin-loving benefits. It protects hands, soothes and moisturizes your skin. I never realized you were so into skincare, Joe.

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  Come on, who doesn't love to moisturize?

• 16:06Speaker 02

  You've got a good point. Oh, and don't forget to tell them about the three thick layers made with coconut oil and aloe.

• 16:11Speaker 00

  Wow, good things really do come in threes.

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  For whatever happens next, grab Kleenex. What's the longest the two of you have gone without speaking when you've had like a really big disagreement? You're like, okay.

• 16:21Speaker 05

  So let me tell you, there was a time where she was dating this, I don't know, this guy and um,

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  I like it.

• 16:30Speaker 05

  I thought.

• 16:31Speaker 02

  Wisely there.

• 16:34Speaker 05

  I glanced at the publicist in the corner and said, wait, let me rephrase that.

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  This person.

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  This person that she dated and um, we didn't get along, like the two of us kind of butted heads.

• 16:46Speaker 06

  Him, he didn't like her.

• 16:47Speaker 05

  And he would like talk about me to her and it's sort of just like dampened our relationship. It was like, I feel like a year and a half, a year that like, not that we didn't speak ever, but now we're best friends. We speak all day, every day.

• 17:01Speaker 00

  But that's a long time, about a year.

• 17:03Speaker 05

  We just like, didn't really know what was going on in each other's lives.

• 17:06Speaker 06

  Yeah, we were just like family, you know, we'd see each other on the holidays, but we would not really speak.

• 17:11Speaker 05

  Really sad, actually.

• 17:12Speaker 06

  I know, it does make me really sad, but it was one of those situations where Alex didn't like my boyfriend. So she was like, you have to break up with him. He sucks. And then I was like, I hate you. Don't talk to me. Cause I was in love. It was my first boyfriend, but I feel like, yeah, have you guys ever had a situation like that with like, you don't like someone's significant other?

• 17:30Speaker 02

  Yeah, we've had, oh, yeah.

• 17:35Speaker 05

  You don't have to give details, but you know.

• 17:37Speaker 02

  There, there's been that moment where you're just like similar to the two of you, like I've said my piece. Let's, I'm going to leave it with them and whatever. I'll see you at Christmas. And it's just a good timing.

• 17:48Speaker 05

  Right.

• 17:48Speaker 02

  Christmas cup.

• 17:49Speaker 06

  Wow.

• 17:49Speaker 05

  Oh my gosh.

• 17:51Speaker 06

  Merry Christmas.

• 17:51Speaker 02

  There, Joe. This is the Christmas episode. I forgot to tell you guys. Yeah, we've had moments where, you know, and then sometimes where it's going to be brought to the family courtroom.

• 18:01Speaker 06

  Right, sometimes.

• 18:02Speaker 02

  And you know.

• 18:03Speaker 06

  You just want to tease the button.

• 18:04Speaker 02

  What do you have to say, mom? You know, she'll usually say what's on her mind too.

• 18:08Speaker 05

  So out of you guys, who's the one that's like a little bit more outspoken, gonna be aggressive? Who's the one that's gonna like let things slide? Cause that's, she's definitely the like let things slide.

• 18:18Speaker 02

  Not gonna let things slide. Yeah.

• 18:20Speaker 00

  Who, me?

• 18:21Speaker 02

  Yeah, you. Nick will just say, if something's bothering Nick, he'll just go like this.

• 18:26Speaker 02

  I just gotta, I just gotta, I gotta, I gotta tell you this, or I have to, I have to get it off my chest. Yeah. Cause he's not going to be able to hold it in. I think Kevin will probably be the last person to just say.

• 18:38Speaker 00

  He'll hold it in, let it bottle up for years and then one day explode.

• 18:42Speaker 06

  That's me.

• 18:42Speaker 02

  I'm working on it.

• 18:45Speaker 00

  And Alex, what's, what's your situation? What's your role in this?

• 18:49Speaker 06

  She likes to control everyone and tell everyone what to do.

• 18:51Speaker 05

  Okay, well, control is a harsh word. I would say that's a harsh word. I am more outspoken. And I think like growing up, a lot of the times because she was so quiet, like if there was ever a problem she was having with like my family and what's going on, I would speak for her because she wouldn't say the problem. Like she would complain to me, but she wouldn't say it to my parents. So I would speak for like the both of us. So, you know, now I'm working on like taking a moment, really, not in, thinking before I speak.

• 19:20Speaker 00

  Beautiful.

• 19:21Speaker 02

  And Ashton, are you now speaking up for yourself a little bit more and especially in the show?

• 19:25Speaker 06

  I'm working on it. I feel like.

• 19:27Speaker 05

  She was like forced to speak, you know?

• 19:28Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 19:28Speaker 05

  They're like, we'll tell us the issue.

• 19:30Speaker 02

  You in that position for sure.

• 19:31Speaker 06

  I was forced to talk a lot more than I'm used to.

• 19:34Speaker 05

  We actually learned a lot about her in the show. I was like, oh my God, I'm watching it back. I'm like, I don't even know these things.

• 19:38Speaker 06

  Like, I didn't know you had these thoughts. And I was like, oh.

• 19:40Speaker 02

  And you were in the room the whole time. You're just like, wow, I didn't even say that to you.

• 19:42Speaker 06

  She's like, wasn't listening. She was just.

• 19:44Speaker 02

  That happens to us on occasion where we're like, I had no idea that that offended you. You're like, yeah, it bothered me for days. And you're like, what? Well, yeah, one thing we definitely, one thing we've learned from working together, but also filming together and doing some, in our own version, therapy on camera, where we're just talking about stuff, is that we have a different account for situations and how they went down. Like 99% of the time, I'll, I'll say, for example, I'll say like, oh yeah, when you said that to me, that really hurt my feelings. And then I kind of held resentment towards you for a couple of years. The other person was like, I thought we had a great conversation. I thought that was great. I thought that we were totally fine.

• 20:20Speaker 06

  Everything was awesome.

• 20:22Speaker 02

  Yeah, exactly. Do you find that as well? Where you, your accounts of, of storylines are a little different?

• 20:27Speaker 05

  Right, or you just remember things different ways. I'm like, I, I know that I'm right in this situation and I remember it this way. And she remembers it a different way. And sometimes like we just have to agree to disagree and, and keep on moving.

• 20:40Speaker 06

  But there's definitely been times where like things have happened and you're like, I didn't know that offended you. And I'm like, no, it did. And you're like, wait, what? You weren't joking? And I'm like, no. But you know, we're siblings, so it's fine.

• 20:51Speaker 02

  Well, I think that's actually a perfect segue for, for you guys to help us with this little game we have that we have to make sure that we are all on the same page. It's called, are we in earl agreement?

• 21:03Speaker 06

  Ooh.

• 21:03Speaker 00

  I've thought long and hard about this and ran it through many different AI.

• 21:09Speaker 02

  AI.

• 21:10Speaker 00

  With the very best name.

• 21:11Speaker 05

  Perfect. Are we in earl agreement? Do we get a soundboard click for that?

• 21:14Speaker 00

  We actually have paddles for you.

• 21:16Speaker 05

  Oh.

• 21:16Speaker 06

  Oh, wow.

• 21:18Speaker 00

  Yeah, that is.

• 21:19Speaker 02

  Oh, we even have a.

• 21:19Speaker 06

  Oh my gosh, you even made paddles?

• 21:22Speaker 00

  Here, there you go. We're all girl dads. And so our producer's going to ask us a series of questions, which we will answer and figure out if we're in earl agreement or dis-earl agreement.

• 21:35Speaker 06

  Got it.

• 21:35Speaker 00

  For whatever the question is.

• 21:37Speaker 05

  This is good. We like need these paddles in real life. We should keep these after.

• 21:40Speaker 02

  They're our gift to you.

• 21:41Speaker 05

  Thank you. Instead of fighting, I'll just say dis-earl agreement.

• 21:45Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 21:47Speaker 02

  In earl agreement. All right, it's time for earl agreement or dis-earl agreement. Kevin, we'll start with you. Your daughters want to wear. Something that feels way too grown up for their age. What do you do? We, this just happened to us with my oldest daughter. We went to, we were in California and we went to Revice and she's obsessed with their denim.

• 22:06Speaker 06

  Oh hell.

• 22:07Speaker 02

  So you know what I'm dealing with. We walk into Revice and the, the girls all working there are super sweet to her and they're like, we got this, we got this. They pull, they're like, this is a great pair, the whole outfit. She puts it on and I look at the girl that gave it to her. Mind you, she is 12. I go, yeah, we are not buying that. What in the God's earth do you think is happening right now? How do I handle it? I say, uh, not when they're 12. I think that I literally.

• 22:33Speaker 00

  We are not buying that is what.

• 22:35Speaker 02

  Yeah, but I actually said to her was go, go ask your mother is what I said.

• 22:39Speaker 06

  Okay. Honestly, I feel like that's great to be like, go ask your mother. I'm in ear agreement.

• 22:45Speaker 05

  I was gonna say I'm in ear agreement as well. And also like, you're her dad, obviously you're gonna be like, no, you know? But I think that's where like, we have little siblings. Our younger sibling Isabel's 13 now. And she's sort of starting to get into this phase. She wanted to go to like the fair and my parents are like, oh my God, there's gonna be boys there and like, we're not letting, they're like, we want to walk her to the front door of a party and like, meet the parents. And I was like, so that's where sisters, we kind of step in and I'm like, okay, well guys, don't make her a loser. Like let her go, you know? So like, there, there's a good balance. But I would say with that, like.

• 23:19Speaker 06

  I'm in ear agreement.

• 23:20Speaker 05

  We would, we would be in ear agreement.

• 23:22Speaker 02

  Especially with the Revice clothing.

• 23:23Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 23:25Speaker 02

  Unanimous ear agreement on that one. Wow. Uh, Joe, you're up next. Your daughters get into a full on fight in the middle of a restaurant. Are you separating them? Letting them work it out or getting everyone out of there? Getting everyone out of there? That'd be interesting.

• 23:38Speaker 06

  Clear the building.

• 23:40Speaker 02

  I think he means you guys, like you leave. Oh, right. Uh, I'm taking them out of there. I think.

• 23:45Speaker 00

  Post the whole restaurant.

• 23:47Speaker 05

  Everybody needs to leave.

• 23:49Speaker 02

  Yeah. I'm gonna probably go with, you know, it's a little, it's a little bit of both. I want to know what this context is, but I'm probably, they're quite young, so I'm probably gonna break up this fight. And we're just gonna try to talk it out. But for the sake of the fun, I'm gonna clear every single person out of this restaurant. I'm gonna flip tables. I'm gonna make a scene. And it's their problem now.

• 24:13Speaker 05

  Well, we would say ear agreement if that could be, um, filmed, that would be great.

• 24:17Speaker 06

  For the show.

• 24:18Speaker 05

  Kick everyone out.

• 24:20Speaker 02

  Yeah, cause we could film it for the show.

• 24:22Speaker 06

  Exactly. Great content for the show.

• 24:24Speaker 02

  Come on your show and then I'll, you should fight. You put some tables.

• 24:27Speaker 05

  We should have a collab episode.

• 24:29Speaker 02

  Exactly. And then I flip out to cover the fight. Cause somebody's filming you guys and you're like, oh no, we don't want this on camera, even though we're filming for a reality show.

• 24:36Speaker 05

  Right, right. Like turn the cameras off, I can't do this.

• 24:38Speaker 02

  I'll create a scene, you know? Distraction.

• 24:41Speaker 05

  Okay, perfect. I'm excited for this. I can't wait.

• 24:44Speaker 02

  Two for two. Two for two. Let's see if we can go three for three. Nick, your daughter asks you to keep a secret from mom. Are you keeping it between you two or are you telling? This one's tough.

• 24:54Speaker 05

  You got a hard one.

• 24:56Speaker 00

  We have a rule in our house. There are no secrets between mom and, and dad.

• 25:03Speaker 00

  That is a rule because you, you know, we don't want her to ever feel like she can't talk to us about anything. However, I think there are some little fun things that each parent can share with their kid that are harmless, that are truly categorized as fun. We're talking about like.

• 25:17Speaker 05

  Candy.

• 25:18Speaker 00

  Candy or whatever. I'm gonna let you watch two more minutes of this episode of, of her favorite show, but it has to be in the harmless category.

• 25:27Speaker 06

  I'm in ear agreement.

• 25:28Speaker 00

  Okay.

• 25:29Speaker 05

  Like I'm, I want to be in ear agreement too, but I'm like, is this then, do we have no dis ear agreement? Should I just like fight for the sake of fighting?

• 25:36Speaker 06

  So aligned.

• 25:37Speaker 05

  I'll counter that, I guess. Yeah. Okay.

• 25:40Speaker 06

  Alex just wants the drama.

• 25:41Speaker 00

  Alex is like, it's a gateway drug.

• 25:45Speaker 02

  Here, I'll give you one.

• 25:48Speaker 05

  It's not even about the children at this point. It's about your partner. How are you keeping secrets?

• 25:52Speaker 02

  I'm gonna throw in one.

• 25:56Speaker 02

  The two of you have a dinner plan. Okay. Alex, let's just say you pick the restaurant. Cause this is something me and my brothers, we deal with a lot. You pick the restaurant and you're like, all right, we're gonna go here. Friday night. Perfect.

• 26:08Speaker 00

  Friday night comes. I'm gonna interrupt you already because I know where this is going. He hasn't asked you what kind of food you want or, or what, you know?

• 26:17Speaker 02

  Hold on.

• 26:17Speaker 00

  Kind of vibe is. He's just, he's taking it upon himself. He's like, oh, I'm gonna book the restaurant. And he's already pissed off that we are gonna be pissed about which place he picked. But go ahead, Joe. We know where this is going.

• 26:27Speaker 02

  I wasn't even finished yet. So then, you know, nobody responds to group texts. I'm like, all right. And everybody, some people like it in the group texts. All right. So I assume this is, we're gonna get, we're gonna go. Friday comes in there and I'm like, hey guys, so the reservation's set for 8pm. And then now you get the text like, ugh. I'm like, what? And they're like, oh, just like, we, we didn't even get a chance to pick a spot, but you guys never even hit, hit me up. Alex, are you in agreement that you should stick to the plan here and you go to this restaurant?

• 26:55Speaker 00

  He hasn't checked with us besides telling us we're going here.

• 26:59Speaker 02

  I just said, hey guys, this place, this place looks good. And they're like thumbs up and they never said really.

• 27:03Speaker 00

  No, now you're changing the story.

• 27:05Speaker 02

  Yeah, you changed the story. You just gaslit both of us.

• 27:10Speaker 05

  I'm gonna say if you guys liked the restaurant, what's the problem?

• 27:13Speaker 02

  No, no, no. We didn't like the restaurant.

• 27:14Speaker 00

  Let's back it up one degree. He's, he's.

• 27:16Speaker 02

  See Alex, be on my side here.

• 27:18Speaker 00

  He said, I picked the place, booked the reservation. He's basically saying, I did all this work, found the place. He hasn't actually asked for our opinion or like if we were feeling that kind of vibe for dinner. And so we've just said, oh, it would've been nice if we could be involved.

• 27:32Speaker 05

  But you liked it?

• 27:33Speaker 00

  He gets upset because he did all this legwork. As if it's hard for Joe Jonas to call a restaurant and make a reservation. Sorry.

• 27:39Speaker 05

  Was there a like involved? Do you like, you liked the restaurant?

• 27:42Speaker 02

  Did you like the lot? Do you like it last time? We never liked it. It was just like, uh, hey guys, I, I booked this spot for us on Friday. I mean, you never liked it. You liked it, Kevin. Is that what happened? Yeah, you liked that text.

• 27:52Speaker 05

  Here we go again, remembering things differently.

• 27:54Speaker 00

  It's true. What would you do in this scenario? Even though it's very unclear what the scenario is.

• 27:58Speaker 06

  A little bit confused, but.

• 28:00Speaker 02

  Do you stick to the plan?

• 28:01Speaker 05

  Really picky with your food.

• 28:04Speaker 00

  It's true. Yeah. Well, the most recent example, and maybe this will help make it more clear, is that we were trying to decide on a place to, to do an after party for one of our shows. And Joe.

• 28:14Speaker 02

  Here we go.

• 28:14Speaker 00

  Took it upon himself to reach out to the owner of the place and it was really nice for him to do all that work. And we ended up being very excited that it was all set up by the end. But we were like, hey, before you did that work to have set it up, it would've been nice for us to.

• 28:26Speaker 05

  Okay. See that? I agree with.

• 28:30Speaker 06

  She ear agrees.

• 28:31Speaker 00

  Alex.

• 28:33Speaker 05

  Different scenarios. Dinner and after party are two different things.

• 28:37Speaker 02

  He did, he did, um, you know, set up the conversation to be better in his favor on that one for sure. Well, kind of.

• 28:44Speaker 05

  That is the thing though. Like when I'm telling a story, I say all the points that are gonna make me sound right and better. And I leave out anything that could be like, well, you know, and then if she remembers, she remembers.

• 28:55Speaker 00

  Yeah, that's the best way to do it.

• 28:57Speaker 06

  That's how siblings play.

• 28:59Speaker 00

  And then.

• 29:00Speaker 06

  Leave out all the things that make you sound negative.

• 29:03Speaker 00

  Yeah. I mean, I guess I could, I've sort of done that too. And say, I didn't even, Kevin liked the message. I didn't even respond, which is, anyway.

• 29:10Speaker 05

  And then what did you learn for next time? Did we, did we settle on something moving forward?

• 29:15Speaker 02

  What we learned from next time is that the third place that we, that Nick chose, I will say was the best place of the, it was one of the better spots.

• 29:23Speaker 06

  So.

• 29:24Speaker 02

  Whoa. But I, but my spot was, was awesome too. But Nick had an outdoor space, which was, and that makes a difference, you know?

• 29:33Speaker 06

  An outdoor space is nice.

• 29:35Speaker 02

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• 30:01Speaker 00

  All right. Who started drinking almond breeze almond milk first?

• 30:04Speaker 02

  Actually, I think that was you, Nick. I think it was. Yeah, you're like, you know, guys, I tried this almond breeze in my coffee today.

• 30:10Speaker 00

  Changed the game for me.

• 30:11Speaker 02

  All right. Who's the most likely to finish the last carton of almond breeze and not replace it?

• 30:15Speaker 00

  That's Kevin.

• 30:16Speaker 02

  Kevin, of course.

• 30:17Speaker 00

  Yeah.

• 30:17Speaker 02

  That's someone else's job.

• 30:18Speaker 00

  Take it, Kev.

• 30:19Speaker 02

  What's the most random place you drank almond breeze?

• 30:22Speaker 00

  The last time I visited the Empire State Building.

• 30:24Speaker 02

  Ah, that's a random place for sure. I've noticed you guys really like almond breeze almond milk. Who has the most specific way of drinking it?

• 30:31Speaker 00

  Ooh.

• 30:31Speaker 02

  Ooh. Um, Kevin's, you know what? So I found very interesting is how you will drink a carton to yourself. Yeah, straight up the dump.

• 30:39Speaker 00

  And he usually does it before show.

• 30:41Speaker 02

  Yeah, just really getting myself going.

• 30:43Speaker 00

  He needs it on stage.

• 30:44Speaker 02

  Okay. Last question. Why do you guys like almond breeze so much? Well, it just tastes great. It's a great alternative. It is great.

• 30:50Speaker 00

  It's simply because it's really good.

• 30:51Speaker 02

  True. Try almond breeze. Trust us. It's really good. You've probably heard that good things come in threes. No, I've never heard that.

• 30:58Speaker 00

  Kevin.

• 30:59Speaker 02

  Yeah, you have. You've got bacon, lettuce, tomato, rock, paper, scissors. Joe, Nick, Kevin. Yeah. And that is a good one.

• 31:06Speaker 00

  Or because it's cold season, Kleenex lotion tissues.

• 31:09Speaker 02

  There's no three in Kleenex tissues.

• 31:12Speaker 00

  That's where you're wrong, Kev, my friend. Listen, Kleenex lotion tissues have three in one skin-loving benefits. It protects hands, soothes and moisturizes your skin.

• 31:21Speaker 02

  I never realized you were so into skincare, Joe. Come on, who doesn't love to moisturize? You've got a good point. Oh, and don't forget to tell them about the three thick layers made with coconut oil and aloe. Wow. Good things really do come in threes.

• 31:33Speaker 00

  For whatever happens next, grab Kleenex. Should we go on to our next bit, which is, uh, we've got some voicemails, uh, here from some of our, our listeners on the Hey Jonas podcast.

• 31:42Speaker 02

  I've got some questions for you.

• 31:44Speaker 00

  Either for you or just, just general questions, kind of asking advice on things that none of us are really qualified to answer about.

• 31:50Speaker 05

  Awesome. Let's do it.

• 31:50Speaker 00

  Legal problems.

• 31:51Speaker 06

  I'm horrible at advice. Let's do it.

• 31:53Speaker 00

  Roofing issues, you know, whatever it may be.

• 31:54Speaker 02

  Hey Jonas. Ah, okay. First of all, I love you guys so much and I'm really loving this podcast. So thank you guys for making it. This is awesome. And I think that all the advice you guys have been giving has been really awesome. So I thought I would call in and see if maybe you could help me. So my husband and I have been together for a really long time. We've been married for six years and lately we've just had like no intimacy, like at all.

• 32:27Speaker 02

  It's, it's just been a minute and we just haven't been intimate and I honestly don't know what to do. I mean, I love him more than anything. I love him so much and I truly cannot imagine not being with him, but this is also like.

• 32:46Speaker 05

  You know, it's a big deal and I'm really not happy. So I just, I was just wondering if you think that this is something that as a couple is possible to work through? Or do you think that lack of intimacy sometimes is a sign that their relationship isn't working? Or I, I don't know. I would love to hear what you guys think, though.

• 33:09Speaker 06

  A great question.

• 33:10Speaker 00

  It's a great question. Well, first of all, I hope your husband or doesn't listen to the major podcast.

• 33:14Speaker 06

  I was thinking about that, too.

• 33:15Speaker 02

  Your voice is very well. Yeah. Or, or you know what? Or they need to, they need to hear that.

• 33:22Speaker 01

  They need to hear it out. Yeah, that's good.

• 33:23Speaker 02

  I'm curious, ladies, would you like to start?

• 33:26Speaker 05

  Well, right. We're not married.

• 33:27Speaker 06

  We're not married, but.

• 33:29Speaker 02

  But I think it depends.

• 33:30Speaker 01

  In any relationship.

• 33:31Speaker 05

  I mean, I would say, though, maybe setting up something like a romantic night, a romantic date night together, like maybe making some time for something.

• 33:43Speaker 02

  That's always a great place to start.

• 33:44Speaker 05

  I don't know. Like, at least making, I don't know what she's done, but like, making the efforts to set up something and put yourself in that sort of like romantic scenario and see what happens.

• 33:59Speaker 06

  If you're like stuck in a routine, trying to like, do something a little different and like, exciting, like throw on a wig and be like, hey.

• 34:06Speaker 05

  A wig?

• 34:08Speaker 06

  I love a wig.

• 34:10Speaker 02

  Why not? To that point, there's like, there's a, what's that place in New York where it's like, you're kind of cosplaying as someone?

• 34:20Speaker 06

  Wait, I don't know, but I don't know.

• 34:24Speaker 06

  Please tell us.

• 34:24Speaker 02

  Come on, you go, uh, see, oh, see no more, it's called. You're the mask.

• 34:29Speaker 00

  You're cosplaying as somebody. You just wear a mask and go see a.

• 34:32Speaker 02

  No, you obviously have not gone. Usually you play a character while you're there. So there's a little bit of that. Spice it up.

• 34:38Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 34:39Speaker 00

  There's a new one of those. That's the Phantom of the Opera, but it's an immersive experience. You have to.

• 34:42Speaker 01

  I've heard this Phantom of the Opera show is incredible.

• 34:44Speaker 02

  And do you play, do you play a character?

• 34:47Speaker 00

  You get to play the Phantom of the Opera. No, you don't. Um, I.

• 34:51Speaker 02

  So, yeah.

• 34:52Speaker 05

  I feel though this has to be a very common issue.

• 34:54Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 34:55Speaker 00

  Yes, definitely.

• 34:55Speaker 01

  For sure.

• 34:56Speaker 05

  Do you know any advice from your married friends?

• 35:00Speaker 00

  Well, um, Kevin and I are also married and, and I can say that both, I think both of your advice is great to, to make a romantic gesture, change things up. It's easy to fall into certain patterns, not just in, you know, the romantic sense or, or intimate sense, but in general with, with your person. And that's both a good thing and at times can be a roadblock if you're trying to keep things fun and light. And as the pressures of adulting for, for anybody, they're in a serious committed relationship or not, mount up in life. Um, you can easily lose sight of that fun aspect that keeps a relationship fresh. And, you know, the whole point is that you should be enjoying your time with the person and,

• 35:43Speaker 00

  and it should be a, a great ride and spending life with them. So I, I, I think your points are great. And then also I think sometimes it's as simple as, and, and, you know, this is, this is something that anybody can access. It's as simple as just sitting down and just thinking of new questions to ask your person about life and about your romantic relationship that like, change up the energy. So you don't fall into, how was your day? How was this? And I think, I think those are, those are keys.

• 36:13Speaker 06

  That's great advice.

• 36:14Speaker 01

  For me, I think it would need to start with communication between the two. Straight up be like, these are the things that I'm feeling. These, you may not be feeling them, but it's causing a hurdle for me to get over. And I think if we can talk about it, it will at least break the tension. So we like, stop like, kind of hiding around the, you know, elephant in the room kind of thing. And I think that that's important. I think communication in that regard, of course, is key. Everyone says that. But I like, I truly mean like having a very upfront conversation. Like, I'm a little unhappy and I don't know if this means that something's wrong, but we should talk about it.

• 36:45Speaker 00

  Excellent.

• 36:46Speaker 06

  You guys are really good at giving advice.

• 36:48Speaker 02

  So you can get back to the.

• 36:49Speaker 00

  So are you.

• 36:50Speaker 06

  I said, wear a wig.

• 36:52Speaker 01

  Exactly.

• 36:55Speaker 02

  Yeah, figure it out. Intimacy is very important. Any type of relationship. Okay.

• 36:58Speaker 00

  We have bold questions. We ask all our guests to pull a question. They're totally random. They have nothing to do with your, your life or career, uh, your, your TikToks. Um, they are just purely random.

• 37:09Speaker 02

  What'd you get?

• 37:10Speaker 05

  What's a food you'd still eat after it fell on the floor? Probably anything.

• 37:14Speaker 06

  Alex will eat anything.

• 37:15Speaker 05

  I am not super like. Well, maybe not that actually, because the cream cheese could like stick to something on the floor, but like, let's say, like a little pretzel, a little something, as long as it's not sticky in any regards, like, I'm not super like a big germaphobe.

• 37:35Speaker 06

  She's, she's the opposite of a germaphobe, actually.

• 37:38Speaker 05

  Okay, well, I'm not disgusting, but I, I don't know. I don't think it's the biggest deal in the world to me.

• 37:46Speaker 00

  I'm with you.

• 37:47Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 37:48Speaker 00

  I think it's like the five to 10 to 15 second rule.

• 37:50Speaker 05

  I also am, okay, well, this isn't going to help the.

• 37:54Speaker 01

  Non-disgusting.

• 37:55Speaker 05

  No argument here. But I also think sometimes building up your immunity is good.

• 38:00Speaker 00

  I agree.

• 38:01Speaker 05

  Like the people who are wiping down every single little thing. Like, I really never get sick. I just came back from a trip. Everyone has the flu after. I'm here.

• 38:10Speaker 06

  I'm here.

• 38:11Speaker 02

  Knock on wood. I'm, by the way, I'm right there with you. I'm right there with you. Everybody got hit with something. And.

• 38:16Speaker 05

  Yeah.

• 38:16Speaker 00

  Sometimes you gotta rub some dirt in it. That's what mom used to say. Yeah. You know, four boys growing up, she was like, they'll be fine.

• 38:23Speaker 02

  Yeah, no, you know, I know. The first, first child, you're like, ah, second, you're like, they're fine. Yeah. Fourth child, it's like.

• 38:30Speaker 06

  Who are you?

• 38:31Speaker 02

  Who? Yeah, it's like, he's, he, he comes and goes.

• 38:35Speaker 06

  He'll be around maybe next week.

• 38:36Speaker 02

  We'll see him by Christmas. Um, okay. Nash, what do you got?

• 38:41Speaker 06

  You have to convince an alien that you're important enough to keep alive. What's your argument?

• 38:45Speaker 00

  It's a great one.

• 38:46Speaker 01

  It's a great question.

• 38:47Speaker 02

  These are good.

• 38:48Speaker 06

  My argument would be that I have so many good outfits that I haven't gotten to wear and show the world yet. And I would be doing a disservice to everyone if I didn't get to do that.

• 38:59Speaker 02

  That's the right answer.

• 39:00Speaker 00

  That's a great, great answer.

• 39:03Speaker 02

  I love that. You just haven't seen me with all my new fits that I just put together.

• 39:08Speaker 01

  You don't understand.

• 39:09Speaker 06

  I'm not done yet.

• 39:10Speaker 01

  I'm doing, they still have the tag on them.

• 39:12Speaker 02

  A disservice.

• 39:13Speaker 06

  I have a five-year plan of all my looks and we're building on it. You can't, you can't cut it. No, but I'm.

• 39:20Speaker 01

  That would be incredible.

• 39:21Speaker 06

  I might. You never know.

• 39:23Speaker 05

  Don't doubt her.

• 39:24Speaker 00

  But we appreciate you both coming on. Congrats on your show.

• 39:26Speaker 05

  Thank you guys so much for having us.

• 39:28Speaker 00

  We look forward to meeting your big Jersey family at some point. And all your, uh, your pets.

• 39:33Speaker 06

  Yeah, we should do a 25.

• 39:36Speaker 05

  We'll do a big family outing.

• 39:37Speaker 01

  That'd be great.

• 39:39Speaker 00

  We'll do it at Kevin's house.

• 39:40Speaker 05

  Oh, my gosh. I forgot to tell you guys, fun fact, you were my first concert I've ever, ever been to.

• 39:46Speaker 02

  What?

• 39:47Speaker 01

  That's how you end this?

• 39:48Speaker 05

  PNC, you know it. And I was like 13 and afraid to dance in front of my parents. So I stood there like this the whole time. Didn't move, didn't sing. My parents were like, hello. And I was like embarrassed to dance in front of my dad. So I didn't do anything, but I had the best time ever.

• 40:03Speaker 02

  Wow, that's, that's.

• 40:03Speaker 05

  Next time we'll be dancing.

• 40:05Speaker 02

  Thank you so much.

• 40:06Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 40:06Speaker 01

  Yeah, we'll have to come and see the next one.

• 40:08Speaker 00

  Thanks for coming.

• 40:08Speaker 05

  Well, thanks for having us on.

• 40:09Speaker 06

  Thank you.

• 40:10Speaker 01

  Thanks for joining us.

• 40:11Speaker 05

  Nice meeting you guys.

• 40:12Speaker 01

  Thank you as well.

• 40:14Speaker 00

  Bye bye.

• 40:14Speaker 06

  Bye.

• 40:15Speaker 02

  Bye bye.

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