We Knew He Was Toxic.....and Did It Anyway

Red flags are easy to spot… until they’re attached to somebody hot. This week, the gang is back in Nashville getting into the red flags we ignored, justified, and probably should’ve run from immediately. From questionable street meets and tour bus stink to secret relationships, suspicious condoms, ankle monitors, Snapchat men, and hygiene habits that should be criminal—your DMs did not disappoint. Things get deeper as the girls talk toxic relationships, domestic violence, trauma, and why walking away isn’t always as easy as it looks. Plus, we’re getting into turn-ons, instant icks, relationship patterns, and why the internet can’t seem to understand that women can actually support each other without agreeing on everything. Some red flags whisper. These were screaming. Content warning: This episode includes discussions of domestic violence, sexual trauma, and emotionally abusive relationships. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Dumbblondepod

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:11Bunnie XO?

  Is this thing on? Hello friends. Welcome back you sexy motherfuckers. We are in the house. We are in the studio. We are back baby. We are back. Back where it all started.

• 0:29Speaker 01

  Someone's walking into work right now. Someone's a little late to work.

• 0:32Bunnie XO?

  I don't know what he's doing, man. He doesn't want to get up here because it's fucking eighty-five degrees. He's over here fucking dying. I think our AC is out or some shit.

• 0:41Speaker 02

  A little hot, a little hot in here.

• 0:42Bunnie XO?

  It's always something, man, with these houses.

• 0:44Speaker 01

  If you don't move, it's not bad.

• 0:46Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 0:49Bunnie XO?

  Literally, don't move and you don't feel how fucking hot and thick the air is. How's everybody doing? I feel like I haven't seen you guys in forever and it's been twenty-four hours.

• 0:58Speaker 03

  Yeah, it seemed like a week.

• 1:00Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:01Speaker 02

  Feels good to be home.

• 1:02Bunnie XO?

  I saw you yesterday.

• 1:04Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:08Bunnie XO?

  I saw you yesterday, but I've been, I've been leaving Haley alone. Just letting her enjoy her, letting her enjoy her silence because she needed to recharge. But yeah, we're back in Nashville, baby, and I could be happier.

• 1:22Speaker 01

  It's so different. Now that we're here, I'm like, the difference between here and LA is crazy.

• 1:33Speaker 03

  I've definitely done like my socialization here for sure. I've shopped as much as I possibly could. I went to Ross.

• 1:41Speaker 02

  Ross is good. They got good stuff in there.

• 1:43Bunnie XO?

  They got a fucking great Ross in LA right by the house. There's a big ass Ross in LA right by the house.

• 1:49Speaker 01

  It's not the same. I don't know what it is.

• 1:51Speaker 03

  Yeah, I don't know. I feel like everything's so different.

• 1:52Speaker 01

  Maybe it's because there's no parking lots there.

• 1:54Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. See, I'm the opposite of you guys. Like, I love Nashville. Like, it's always gonna be home, but I really prefer LA. Everything is right there.

• 2:05Speaker 03

  I know. I feel like it's always a mission.

• 2:07Speaker 01

  If the parking situations were better and if I knew how to read the parking signs there, I'd be good.

• 2:12Speaker 02

  You don't drive down there at all.

• 2:14Speaker 01

  Yeah, no, I won't. I refuse to drive there.

• 2:17Speaker 03

  Did you drive one time this past month?

• 2:18Speaker 02

  No.

• 2:19Bunnie XO?

  Nope.

• 2:20Speaker 02

  You took Uber down the block. I saw her get in an Uber and go half a block and get out. I saw it.

• 2:28Speaker 01

  Also, I'm not driving, you know, tanks, those cars. Those cars are too big for me. I have bad that perception. I'd hit everything. I don't think you guys want me to drive.

• 2:38Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 2:38Speaker 02

  I think we should be thanking her then.

• 2:40Speaker 01

  Yeah, at least I'm aware, you know?

• 2:48Bunnie XO?

  Oh, God.

• 2:53Bunnie XO?

  I mean, it's a big ass fucking car.

• 2:55Speaker 01

  Imagine me driving it.

• 2:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 2:58Speaker 03

  I may have bumped it a little somewhere at one point. It was just a lot.

• 3:02Bunnie XO?

  I feel like.

• 3:03Speaker 03

  Making U-turns. We were chasing people down highways and streets.

• 3:08Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. You guys want to share with the class?

• 3:11Speaker 03

  She saw this hot guy. Wait, no, I am sharing with the class.

• 3:14Speaker 01

  Okay, so we were literally sitting at dinner and I was like, I wish just like a hoted, tatted guy would walk in.

• 3:19Bunnie XO?

  Hoted?

• 3:21Speaker 01

  What the hell is, is that like hot meat? What is that? I don't know. Just gonna make that up. I was like, I just wish a freaking tatted guy would walk in. Like, there was like, I was just trying to find my type somewhere. And then we're on the way home and I see one walking on the street and I said, Mimi, I said, stop, flip a bitch. Flips it around, goes past him and they, he like waves at me and I like waved back. Also, I'm kind of blind. So he looked, he looked cute for, actually, I think

• 3:56Speaker 03

  When you're driving past fast.

• 3:58Speaker 01

  All I saw was tattoos.

• 3:59Speaker 03

  I get it. No, I get it. Like, we were driving quickly past him and then, so we ran the block.

• 4:07Speaker 01

  And then she goes around.

• 4:08Speaker 03

  Because he didn't look the same. I said, I didn't know which one was him.

• 4:12Speaker 01

  She was pulling up and I'm about to like talk to him and she keeps going. I said, Mimi, he was right there. She's like, I, I didn't see him. So we had to flip around again. And I was like, I said, this is embarrassing now. And she's like, do you still want me to go? I said, yeah. And I had my phone like out, like to get his number. She pulls up, the window rolls down and I'm, I like have my phone here and I look at him and I was like, oh shit. And I like slowly lowered my phone. I was like, eh, what's up?

• 4:49Speaker 01

  It was the most awkward conversation ever. And I was like.

• 4:51Bunnie XO?

  That's what you guys, that's what you get for fucking, that's what you guys for even cooperating.

• 4:57Speaker 03

  Part of the problem. I'm so sorry.

• 4:59Bunnie XO?

  For fucking trying to pick dude, a dude up off the street.

• 5:02Speaker 01

  I'm sorry.

• 5:03Bunnie XO?

  You never, you don't even know where he was coming from.

• 5:05Speaker 01

  Yeah, I know. It was a good street.

• 5:08Bunnie XO?

  Street meat.

• 5:09Speaker 03

  It was a nice, it was a nice street.

• 5:12Bunnie XO?

  Well, I think that's a red flag. And speaking of red flags, speaking of red flags, we asked you guys today, what's the biggest red flag you ignored because they were hot? And oh my God, my DMs are fucking on.

• 5:30Speaker 01

  I don't even need my DMs.

• 5:31Speaker 03

  You are.

• 5:33Speaker 01

  I, I have my own testimonies.

• 5:34Bunnie XO?

  Oh, all right. We're gonna let you, we're gonna let you.

• 5:37Speaker 03

  What's something that you put up with just because the guy was hot?

• 5:39Speaker 01

  There's so many, like all of them.

• 5:43Speaker 03

  She said all of them.

• 5:44Speaker 01

  Almost all of them. The biggest one that you guys know would be.

• 5:50Speaker 03

  I know this one.

• 5:52Speaker 01

  That I'm still obsessed with him. I think he put a spell on me. I really think he did something to my brain. But he, we met at a bar after like not talking for a week and he, I was with a friend who he knew and he invited us to a hotel that night and ended up going upstairs with her and told me that I couldn't come up and they ended up banging. He's not my fucking friend anymore, but I somehow, I like, I didn't talk to him for like over a year and then I'm, we became friends again and talked again. And then I was a girlfriend, so I'm not talking to him, but I'm still fucking

• 6:37Speaker 01

  stinky feet.

• 6:38Bunnie XO?

  Oh, fucking stinky tinks. That dude had the fucking smelliest feet. I don't even care. I want to out him right now. I want.

• 6:47Speaker 01

  No, got that.

• 6:52Bunnie XO?

  I, listen, let's tell the real fucking story about how he came on the tour bus and he couldn't fit inside the bunk because the bunk was so big. And weren't you like giving him head or something? And this motherfucker, this motherfucker kicked his shoes off and his feet were hanging out of the bunk, okay? And literally all you could see was these fucking paws just hanging out in the fucking, in the alleyway right there. And I'm in my bunk, which is in the back, and I could smell this motherfucker's feet, dude. And it didn't smell like Fritos. It smelled like sour puss.

• 7:27Speaker 03

  Yeah, and we were all in the bunks with her, by the way. There was like three on each side. We are all in the bunks, living in the stink. And this bitch, no, no, no. This bitch tried to be like, no, guys, it was my shoes. And we said.

• 7:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, she tried to take the blame for his stench.

• 7:47Speaker 01

  It could have been mine.

• 7:49Bunnie XO?

  Your feet weren't hanging out, dude. It smelled like mildew.

• 7:54Speaker 01

  Feet were hanging out. You guys know how drunk I was that night?

• 7:56Bunnie XO?

  No, his feet were hanging out and it was so.

• 7:58Speaker 03

  We were in Dallas too. And fucking Amber starts playing Dick in Dallas during.

• 8:04Speaker 01

  We were sitting on the bus and you walked in and set down your phone that was playing Is This Love?

• 8:10Speaker 01

  And left. And we're just sitting there.

• 8:14Speaker 03

  Do your phone.

• 8:15Bunnie XO?

  I was trying to set some mood. I was trying to set the mood.

• 8:17Speaker 03

  Yeah, I was trying to watch it underneath the door before we all went to bed. I gotta be with it.

• 8:21Bunnie XO?

  I mean, we didn't care. We were holding our breath, watching.

• 8:23Speaker 03

  Or I was rooting you on just like this.

• 8:26Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, listen, we're homies. We were riding with you, dude. We were like, you know what? If this motherfucker is gonna smell like shit and she loves him or likes him, we're, we're there. We're all the way there. But yeah, that bitch that did that to you, I don't, I still don't like her because of that. Yeah. Yeah, she's a Skankavelli. We don't like her.

• 8:43Speaker 01

  Yeah, but that's a red flag and I still, still like him.

• 8:47Speaker 02

  To be honest, I don't think.

• 8:49Speaker 01

  I, I, I literally think he did some kind of voodoo on me.

• 8:53Speaker 02

  I don't think you crashed out enough. I would have put my hand on that door. I would have been like, where are we going, guys?

• 8:59Speaker 01

  No, they would not let me up. It was one of those like elevators. You have to like have a key or someone let you up.

• 9:04Speaker 02

  But the door was open at some point, right?

• 9:05Bunnie XO?

  No, no, no. She went with him. And when she showed up, because she wasn't with the girl.

• 9:10Speaker 02

  She didn't go, oh, I thought you literally physically saw them.

• 9:13Speaker 01

  I was like waiting in the hotel lobby. They went up before me.

• 9:17Bunnie XO?

  And then said.

• 9:17Speaker 01

  And then another girl that I met that night, she came down and she was like, she's like, hang on, let me get them to let you up. And then she goes, they said only I could come up. And I was like, got it.

• 9:27Bunnie XO?

  I know. I was so pissed for you.

• 9:29Speaker 02

  I would have stayed with her. I'd be like, we're both going.

• 9:32Bunnie XO?

  I was so fucking pissed for you when she did that to you. I was like, that's not a fucking friend. All right. Well, I'll kick this off. You guys were all up in the DMs being crazy.

• 9:42Speaker 01

  I just got mad all over again.

• 9:44Speaker 02

  I just saw you. I saw you look over, dude.

• 9:51Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no, that was a fucked up situation. Okay, this one I thought was gross. He was a bouncer at a club and only ever showered in the morning regardless of working all night and had no pillowcases and flared toothbrush bristles.

• 10:06Speaker 01

  Not the flared.

• 10:10Bunnie XO?

  Toothbrush?

• 10:11Speaker 01

  Why do they brush so hard?

• 10:13Bunnie XO?

  It's not that they brush so hard that they've had that toothbrush for ages. They've literally probably not changed that toothbrush out for like two years.

• 10:20Speaker 02

  I can guarantee most men don't know when the average time to throw away toothbrushes.

• 10:24Bunnie XO?

  Excuse me?

• 10:25Speaker 02

  Yep.

• 10:26Speaker 01

  I do like a month unless I'm like sick, I'll throw that out like right after.

• 10:30Speaker 03

  I just be buying them on a casual Tuesday all the time. I've got a whole stock in a drawer just because I'm like, I need a new one.

• 10:36Bunnie XO?

  I have them in my purse. Yeah, I have them in my purse. Like literally, I'm so.

• 10:40Speaker 03

  I just be buying them to buy them.

• 10:41Bunnie XO?

  I accidentally brushed my teeth with Dylan's toothbrush last night.

• 10:46Bunnie XO?

  And I haven't told him. This is my confession right now.

• 10:50Bunnie XO?

  It was an accident because they both fucking look alike. Huh?

• 10:53Speaker 03

  I said, clip that, I'm gonna send it to him directly.

• 10:55Bunnie XO?

  Dude, it was a fucking accident. And I was like, oh my God, how do I tell him? But then I thought about it and I was like.

• 11:00Speaker 01

  I mean.

• 11:01Speaker 03

  I mean, the toothbrush is the least of the words.

• 11:03Speaker 02

  When did you find out? Like, was it like in the beginning or at the end?

• 11:06Bunnie XO?

  It was mid-stroke.

• 11:07Speaker 02

  Oh, you were like.

• 11:08Bunnie XO?

  I was like, I was like. You know, like when you look in the mirror and you're like, fuck. And so I like pulled it out and wiped it off and washed it as good as I could and I.

• 11:17Speaker 03

  And then puts it back.

• 11:18Bunnie XO?

  Nicely set it back. And I was like, fuck, that thing happened. Yeah, I was like, fuck, I hope he doesn't come in and try to brush his teeth and be like, why is my toothbrush wet right now?

• 11:25Speaker 03

  Yeah, I feel like there's been a lot.

• 11:27Speaker 01

  She uses a hairdryer on it.

• 11:29Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 11:30Speaker 01

  That's some shit I would do.

• 11:32Bunnie XO?

  Let us scrape it on a towel.

• 11:35Speaker 03

  Damn, dude needs a new toothbrush. Maybe you could have bought him like pillowcases and toothbrushes and talked about his hygiene.

• 11:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I mean, but she stayed with him because he was hot. So I mean, bitch, you were fucking, you were kissing on that bristly toothbrush mouth.

• 11:49Speaker 03

  I'm not mad at any. Thing you found in a guy's bathroom.

• 11:53Bunnie XO?

  Pregnancy test. Kidding, I just made it up.

• 11:57Speaker 01

  Girl shit?

• 11:58Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 11:59Speaker 02

  Wait, like a girl shit in the toilet?

• 12:01Speaker 01

  No.

• 12:01Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 12:02Speaker 03

  I may.

• 12:03Speaker 02

  She just said girl shit.

• 12:04Speaker 01

  Actually, I think I have found shit in the toilet one time and I was like, yeah, I'm gone.

• 12:08Speaker 02

  Wait, was it because he forgot to flush?

• 12:10Speaker 01

  Yeah, forgot to flush.

• 12:11Bunnie XO?

  I cannot stand a motherfucker who doesn't know how to flush a toilet. I know somebody who was like that. I lived with somebody who was like that and it is the most disgusting fucking thing to live with. Just fucking big old shadoobies. Just melting away.

• 12:28Speaker 03

  Use the toilet either, uses other things.

• 12:30Speaker 01

  Shit with the lid open.

• 12:34Bunnie XO?

  It's fucking nasty.

• 12:36Speaker 03

  I will say I had an ex one time and it was when I first met him and I went in his bathroom and he had cigarette butts in the shower.

• 12:43Speaker 01

  That's kinda hot.

• 12:44Speaker 03

  Smoke in the shower.

• 12:44Bunnie XO?

  That is not fucking hot. That's so gross.

• 12:47Speaker 01

  Oh, that's great.

• 12:48Bunnie XO?

  Can you imagine what it would smell like in there? What's the point of the fucking shower?

• 12:52Speaker 03

  Yeah, it was like a whole little like thing of cigarette butts.

• 12:55Bunnie XO?

  I had an ex who would drink beer in the shower.

• 12:57Speaker 01

  I had an ex roommate who used to put her backwards guts in the sink.

• 13:04Speaker 01

  Like it'd be like full with like wrappers and backwards guts and.

• 13:07Speaker 02

  But she wouldn't wash her hands?

• 13:10Speaker 01

  No, I know, or she used mine.

• 13:13Speaker 03

  I don't like that. The amount of DMs though, I got from men who said mentally ill about girls.

• 13:20Speaker 01

  Ill.

• 13:20Speaker 03

  Okay, all right.

• 13:21Bunnie XO?

  I didn't get any dudes. I like that you guys dudes.

• 13:24Speaker 03

  Yeah, I got dudes and almost all of them said they were mentally ill. They were crazy. I stayed with her.

• 13:29Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, you guys made them that way. I don't believe shit you say.

• 13:34Speaker 03

  Great movie, by the way, Housemaid. Did you watch Housemaid?

• 13:38Speaker 02

  Oh, was it Sydney Sweeney? Yeah, it was good.

• 13:40Bunnie XO?

  You only watched it for tits.

• 13:41Speaker 02

  No, I didn't. It was my idea. Just saying. Yeah. But it was a good movie. I liked the, the script was really good.

• 13:48Speaker 03

  You like the plot, huh?

• 13:49Speaker 02

  Yeah, the plot was great. Uh, the, mm-hmm. It was a great, great story.

• 13:53Speaker 01

  Got it.

• 13:54Speaker 02

  Great story.

• 13:55Speaker 01

  What's the main guy's name?

• 13:56Speaker 02

  Huh? The guy? There's a guy in there?

• 14:01Speaker 01

  I can't.

• 14:02Speaker 03

  I thought it was a solo.

• 14:05Speaker 03

  All right, this one said, um, my ex from teenagers years always had condoms, but they would be gone a lot faster than they should have been for us. I had questioned him. He got his dad to tell me that as men, we take care of our business at times alone and we use condoms to come in because it feels better than a sock. Fast forward a few weeks, caught him jerking it, no condom and asked, I thought you used a condom for this. He replied, why the fuck would I use a condom to jack off and waste a condom? At the end of that sentence, he realized the bullshit story they had told me had tied back and was now tracking. I dumped my soda all over him. He was still hard and ruined that nut. He took off and never went back.

• 14:50Bunnie XO?

  It's a lot to unpack there.

• 14:51Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 14:52Bunnie XO?

  How do we even start?

• 14:54Speaker 02

  So he was jerking off in the condom or he wasn't?

• 14:56Speaker 03

  He was not. She caught him not jerking off in the condom.

• 14:59Bunnie XO?

  So where the fuck were the condoms going?

• 15:00Speaker 02

  In another woman.

• 15:02Speaker 03

  Yeah. In another woman.

• 15:05Bunnie XO?

  Got it.

• 15:07Speaker 03

  That's crazy.

• 15:08Speaker 02

  It took me a second. Wow.

• 15:10Speaker 03

  But like, what a fucking lie to come up with, man.

• 15:13Speaker 02

  It's actually, I mean, it makes sense.

• 15:14Speaker 01

  But did you stay with him? Because that's the point of a red flag. Like you ignored that, but you still stayed.

• 15:21Bunnie XO?

  I'm sure a lot of these people stayed.

• 15:23Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 15:23Bunnie XO?

  You know, we all, we have all done some, we listen and we don't judge because we have all fucking stayed.

• 15:29Speaker 01

  I'm a tourist. I'm a bull. I literally run into red flags.

• 15:32Bunnie XO?

  Red flags, yeah. Listen, I love a good fucking, I love a good.

• 15:37Speaker 01

  I mean, green flags are boring.

• 15:40Bunnie XO?

  Listen, I love an amusement park, okay? And I will ride every ride, all right?

• 15:45Speaker 01

  You guys, anytime I'm like, this guy's being so nice to me and he wants to take me out.

• 15:51Speaker 03

  Literally happened. You were laying in my bed the other day. She, she sprawled out in my bed. She's like, oh, he wants to go get coffee. I said, Haley, that's like a great sign. Like go get coffee. She's like, but it's raining and like, he just wants to have coffee. And I said, that's a okay thing to do. And she was like, nah. I said, where do you want to meet?

• 16:11Bunnie XO?

  I understand that because Dylan and I one time, uh, we had like a, we needed, we needed to talk about something. And he was like, okay, well, let's just go get coffee in the morning. And I go, absolutely the fuck not. I'm not going to get coffee with you.

• 16:24Speaker 01

  Coffee. So I'm like.

• 16:27Bunnie XO?

  I was like, there's a place right around the corner. What am I gonna sit there and shit my brains out while we have a fucking serious conversation?

• 16:31Speaker 01

  In the daylight?

• 16:32Bunnie XO?

  And have anxiety like.

• 16:33Speaker 01

  In broad daylight.

• 16:34Bunnie XO?

  How do people just sit there and they're like, you know, like fucking having coffee? There's no way. Like lunch, cool. Dinner, absolutely. Coffee?

• 16:42Speaker 01

  That's what I was thinking, but he was like, oh, I already ate. And I'm like, okay.

• 16:47Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 16:47Speaker 03

  So coffee was like the next, I mean, you're not going for the coffee. You're going to meet the guy.

• 16:52Speaker 02

  Yeah, I like this. I like the sexual.

• 16:53Bunnie XO?

  Coffee shops are bright. It's like, maybe you sit outside and yeah, like, I agree with you on that one.

• 17:00Speaker 01

  I look better at the park.

• 17:02Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 17:02Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, me too. Give me a moody atmosphere. Give me a bar.

• 17:06Speaker 01

  That's why, oh, cut that. I don't.

• 17:08Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 17:09Speaker 01

  But red lighting.

• 17:12Bunnie XO?

  Maybe we should go there tonight.

• 17:15Speaker 03

  You just perked her up.

• 17:17Speaker 01

  No, I was already going.

• 17:18Bunnie XO?

  Oh, you are?

• 17:19Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 17:19Bunnie XO?

  I don't want to, I don't want to intrude on your date.

• 17:22Speaker 01

  Oh, I'm, I'm gonna be all over him. So you guys walk in, I'm.

• 17:27Bunnie XO?

  You're fine.

• 17:28Speaker 01

  Making out in the corner.

• 17:29Bunnie XO?

  You're fine.

• 17:29Speaker 03

  Gotcha.

• 17:30Bunnie XO?

  We'll figure it out. Um, all right, your next memes.

• 17:34Speaker 01

  Just wait.

• 17:35Bunnie XO?

  Oh, wait.

• 17:37Bunnie XO?

  Sorry.

• 17:38Speaker 01

  Okay, I have one. I'm gonna tell you guys the name, but we have to cut it.

• 17:45Bunnie XO?

  Oh yeah, she wrote me one too. Go ahead.

• 17:47Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 17:47Bunnie XO?

  I know who it is too.

• 17:49Speaker 01

  Mm-hmm. Cause I was like, can I use your name? She's like, no. Okay. Uh, wearing my lingerie and wanting to get strapped every time we fooled around. Also using my dildos when I was at work.

• 17:59Bunnie XO?

  Yes, and that dude is now a woman and they're best friends and he, yeah, and he works for her. Yeah, crazy, right? Yeah.

• 18:09Speaker 03

  I'm a little confused of who this is.

• 18:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 18:11Speaker 01

  Said it.

• 18:12Speaker 03

  Yeah, who's that? Gotcha, okay.

• 18:15Bunnie XO?

  She only knows her, I always call her. She also likes pretty boys that are like, you know, she's like me. We like, we like the gay guys. We love the gays. I really think I was a gay dude in a past life because I am so attracted to gay men. Like I.

• 18:30Speaker 01

  Well, and like makeup wise.

• 18:31Bunnie XO?

  Yes, I love.

• 18:32Speaker 01

  More like dramatic, kind of almost like.

• 18:35Bunnie XO?

  Wear more makeup than me. I will smear it. Like I love it. Yeah. That's why I was, that's why I loved Chris Motionless for so long. Cause he was so hot. Like, please don't, I don't need the headlines to pick that up, but he was a perfect example. Or like Marilyn Manson, you know, like he was hot.

• 18:51Speaker 01

  What about Kiss?

• 18:53Bunnie XO?

  No, Gene Simmons. No, that's too old.

• 18:56Speaker 01

  Only band I can name that.

• 18:57Speaker 03

  Face paint, not makeup.

• 18:58Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah, that's face paint. But I met Gene Simmons. I actually did a lap dance for Gene Simmons one time at Olympic Gardens and he licked my back.

• 19:07Speaker 03

  That's kind of odd.

• 19:09Bunnie XO?

  He didn't have fucking makeup on. He did. He didn't have makeup on and I didn't believe it was him and he goes, bleh. And put his tongue out and I was like, it is you. So.

• 19:19Speaker 01

  So funny.

• 19:19Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, we went to VIP and Tasha and I gave him lap dances and he fucking licked our backs.

• 19:26Bunnie XO?

  With his long ass tongue.

• 19:30Bunnie XO?

  I've got a lot of lore I've never talked about, but yeah.

• 19:32Speaker 03

  Are we gonna talk about the lore one day?

• 19:35Bunnie XO?

  Which lore are we talking about here?

• 19:36Speaker 03

  That right there.

• 19:37Bunnie XO?

  Which one?

• 19:38Speaker 03

  Those kind of lore.

• 19:38Speaker 01

  Yeah, I want more stories like that.

• 19:40Speaker 03

  I feel like maybe one day you should write a book about those.

• 19:43Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah. Speaking of, book number two is in the works, baby. We had a meeting yesterday. I'm so excited. It's a.

• 19:51Speaker 03

  It's gonna be. All right, anyways. You're next. I mean, you got a red flag? You ever stayed with a bitch?

• 19:59Bunnie XO?

  I feel like you're a green flag.

• 20:02Speaker 03

  I mean, like a girl.

• 20:04Speaker 02

  But I'm Latino, so I definitely got my red flags. But I'm definitely, yeah, oh, I argue like a woman. That's my red flag.

• 20:11Speaker 03

  Not your red flag. I said a red flag about a girl that you were with.

• 20:15Bunnie XO?

  But you still stayed because she was hot.

• 20:16Speaker 03

  But you stayed.

• 20:17Speaker 02

  Oh, plenty.

• 20:20Speaker 03

  The fact you said plenty is crazy.

• 20:22Speaker 02

  Yeah, cuz you kind of look back past the crazy a little bit, you know?

• 20:30Speaker 02

  Red flag, red flag.

• 20:32Speaker 03

  Did someone ever throw anything at you?

• 20:36Speaker 03

  I feel like we just sparked a memory. He said that was kind of hot. She threw something on my head.

• 20:43Speaker 02

  Oh, I don't. No, it's hard. Hard to think of them on the spot.

• 20:48Bunnie XO?

  I feel like Jaime is a green flag, so he only attracts green flags.

• 20:51Speaker 02

  No, I've definitely attracted my crazies.

• 20:54Speaker 03

  What's the craziest thing that's ever happened to you?

• 20:57Speaker 02

  With a woman? That's so, that's such a broad question.

• 21:01Speaker 03

  And he ever throw something at you?

• 21:04Speaker 02

  Sure.

• 21:06Speaker 03

  Sure.

• 21:06Speaker 02

  I think it was like a tennis racket.

• 21:08Bunnie XO?

  I think he liked it.

• 21:10Speaker 03

  Yeah, he was like, wait, was this a turn on or a red flag?

• 21:12Bunnie XO?

  He said, is this a red flag? I thought that was.

• 21:14Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 21:17Speaker 02

  I was like, wait, I was pretty excited. No, I can't even, it'll hit me. Once it hits me, I will.

• 21:22Speaker 03

  Raise your hand when you're ready.

• 21:23Speaker 02

  Oh, yeah. She got Snapchat, definitely a red flag for me.

• 21:27Bunnie XO?

  I swear, that's actually a topic I wanted to talk about. There was a girl who wrote me in and said that this guy would never answer text messages, but would always reply on Snapchat. And I think it is such a red flag when a dude has a Snapchat.

• 21:39Speaker 02

  Guys, too. Yep. Guy and girl for me.

• 21:41Bunnie XO?

  I feel like I only have one just to make money on it and I don't even fucking use it.

• 21:45Speaker 03

  Talk to me through, Haley talks to me through Snapchat.

• 21:47Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Yeah.

• 21:48Speaker 02

  Yeah, but we're adults.

• 21:50Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 21:51Bunnie XO?

  We don't count. We're the minority.

• 21:53Speaker 03

  Haley literally sends me two minute long videos on Snapchat of her grandpa.

• 21:57Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 21:58Speaker 02

  Like, yeah.

• 21:59Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, or me in the most dumb filter I can find.

• 22:01Speaker 03

  A hundred percent. It's great.

• 22:03Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I just feel like men, cuz there was, okay, when I first started, when I first was single, there was a dude who's super cute. He's in a band. And I was like, okay, this will be fun. You know, whatever. He's out here in Nashville. And he immediately wanted to go to Snapchat and sexted. And I was just like.

• 22:22Speaker 03

  Immediately?

• 22:23Bunnie XO?

  Immediately. It was like such a turn off.

• 22:26Speaker 01

  Ask for number, not snap.

• 22:27Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, well, he had my number and we were texting. And then he's like, let's go. Let's go to snap. And I was like, ew. And that right there, I was just like. I didn't, I stopped even communicating with him after that. Cuz I was just like, oh, you're that type. Huh?

• 22:43Speaker 03

  Is it who I think it is?

• 22:44Bunnie XO?

  Say it. We can bleep it.

• 22:47Speaker 03

  That's exactly what I thought.

• 22:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:49Speaker 03

  Damn, believe that.

• 22:50Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:51Speaker 03

  Yeah, okay.

• 22:52Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 22:53Bunnie XO?

  All right, this one said, which I don't even know if this is a red flag because, I mean, I was turned on when I read it.

• 22:59Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 23:01Bunnie XO?

  We're the worst people to judge.

• 23:05Bunnie XO?

  He threw me up against a wall and choked me when I walked through the door after a girl's night out. His reason was, I just miss you when you're not spending time with me. I was eighteen, he was almost thirty and really hot.

• 23:18Speaker 03

  We could have gone without the age thing, but.

• 23:22Bunnie XO?

  I, I mean, listen, if my man throws me up against a wall after I've been out with my girls and bangs me and chokes me, I'm completely fine with that. As long as it was consensual. Yeah. As long as she wasn't like scared and it wasn't like deviant, which she didn't make it sound like it was deviant. She said he was really hot, so.

• 23:39Speaker 03

  It's like the one time you got smacked and you didn't want it and you cried.

• 23:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, Haley got fucking slapped and almost.

• 23:45Speaker 01

  Was that a red flag?

• 23:46Speaker 03

  The fact you stayed, yeah.

• 23:49Speaker 01

  No, I called my Uber.

• 23:51Speaker 03

  After he slapped you?

• 23:52Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 23:53Speaker 03

  What'd you do after he slapped you?

• 23:54Speaker 01

  Cried and called my Uber.

• 23:56Bunnie XO?

  You cried while his dick was in you? We didn't have sex. Oh.

• 23:59Speaker 03

  No, they were just making out and he just.

• 24:02Speaker 02

  Wait, slapping somebody while making out crazy?

• 24:04Speaker 01

  It was a rear back and.

• 24:06Bunnie XO?

  Okay, that's crazy.

• 24:08Speaker 01

  Shit, I mean, he was so drunk. It was just like, it was.

• 24:11Bunnie XO?

  He said, what? His fucking intrusive thoughts won.

• 24:15Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 24:16Speaker 03

  It's like one thing if you've got her like by the face and you slap her.

• 24:19Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 24:19Speaker 03

  That kind of thing.

• 24:20Speaker 01

  Yeah, but no, this was like WWE.

• 24:22Bunnie XO?

  I feel like if it's consensual and somebody is aggressive with you, then that's hot. But also, I was having this conversation the other day is a lot of people's trauma becomes fetishized through their life. So like, shit, what?

• 24:42Speaker 03

  It just happened at the fuck. You guys, Zach and I were walking through the haunted house and I said, when I was a teenager, I was a scare like these people, right? And I was like, until a grown man like got his hands on me and he was like, that explains a lot.

• 24:59Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 25:00Speaker 03

  Does it?

• 25:01Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Yeah. But like a lot of people that have been through trauma in their lives, they normally turn that trauma into like their sexual fantasies.

• 25:11Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 25:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, so.

• 25:12Speaker 03

  For sure.

• 25:13Bunnie XO?

  I think mine is aggression cuz, you know, I grew up in a very violent home and then I was, you know, if you read the book, I was raped. There's like a ton of things in there. So I think in some people's healing journeys, that's the way that they take their power back.

• 25:27Speaker 03

  I get that. That's crazy.

• 25:30Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Well, I like psychopathic clowns, you know, like I'm just woo woo. All right, go ahead.

• 25:40Bunnie XO?

  Wait, also, I want to talk about something. I have been seeing videos that people have been making talking about how you guys agree with everything I say. Have you guys seen those yet?

• 25:52Speaker 03

  Sure the fuck do you not?

• 25:54Bunnie XO?

  Okay. That's what I, I, we, we have to clear the air because I will always stand up for you guys.

• 26:00Speaker 01

  Yeah. This shit pisses me off.

• 26:02Bunnie XO?

  You guys will see it online. Of course, they're gonna, we're gonna laugh and kiki cuz we are best fucking friends.

• 26:08Speaker 03

  Best friends do.

• 26:09Speaker 01

  Do they want to see us just argue and disagree with each other the whole time?

• 26:13Speaker 03

  That's what like TV shows and stuff have portrayed for so long is like friend groups who argue and that's like reality shows. They create that drama. Real friendships don't have.

• 26:22Speaker 01

  Sorry, I agree with my best friend.

• 26:24Bunnie XO?

  We never fight, but I also want to clear the air because they're always like, oh, well, those are her friends that she pays. First of all, I need you guys to understand something. When I first started this journey, Mimi worked for me for a year, for free. For fucking free.

• 26:41Speaker 03

  No one knows that.

• 26:42Bunnie XO?

  And Haley, literally, I had to pay her per face when we first started out. So I just want to clear the air, like you guys have no fucking idea the journey we have been on together and like, these are my motherfucking sisters. And if you guys have a fucking problem with it, fuck off.

• 26:59Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 26:59Speaker 01

  And like, what, I don't get what's wrong with, that's like, I don't know, I don't get what's wrong with like you being friends with your boss, like at other people's jobs.

• 27:07Speaker 03

  Yeah, and they go hang out after work.

• 27:09Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. But the crazy thing is, is we don't look at each other like boss and employee. We look at each other like fucking sisters.

• 27:15Speaker 03

  A hundred percent.

• 27:16Bunnie XO?

  You know?

• 27:17Speaker 01

  So sorry, we're friends, guys.

• 27:18Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, sorry that we actually get along and love each other. Sorry, you guys have never had real woman friendships.

• 27:24Speaker 03

  And you brought us up with you too. Like, that was the other thing. You were talking about like how we have built our followings and stuff and it was like because we all did it together. Like, you didn't just like put us behind you and be like, oh, my God. Like, and there is a lot of artists who do that. I'm not talking shit, but it's like, they won't shout out their makeup artists, ever. Like, you'll go look at their tags and it'll tag like management and they'll tag like their label and things like that in the music.

• 27:46Speaker 01

  Like what designer they're wearing.

• 27:48Speaker 03

  The designer, but then they won't say the face.

• 27:50Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. There was literally a conversation that we all three had and I was like, look, dude, all boats float.

• 27:55Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 27:55Bunnie XO?

  I was like, you guys need to start posting more and you guys need to start showing your personalities more aside from me. And you guys both did that. You guys both built your platforms.

• 28:03Speaker 01

  Switched cuz I, well, I mean, I had a following, but it was just makeup.

• 28:07Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 28:08Speaker 03

  They didn't even know what you looked like cuz you didn't post yourself.

• 28:10Speaker 01

  I literally didn't post myself.

• 28:11Bunnie XO?

  She wouldn't even let us take pictures of our hands.

• 28:13Speaker 03

  Yeah, she's like, hold on, my hand looks fat. Let me go like this.

• 28:15Speaker 01

  To be known for my work and not me. And now that I feel like I became successful from my work, I was able to like show myself now.

• 28:22Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, exactly.

• 28:23Speaker 01

  But you guys really helped me like come out of my shell with that.

• 28:26Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 28:27Bunnie XO?

  I feel like we've all. I feel like we've all glowed up together and we are on this journey together. Like, we were fucking scraping by. I was showing my butthole. I was selling butthole pictures.

• 28:38Speaker 03

  Good times.

• 28:39Bunnie XO?

  You know, a great time, great time. And everybody keeps asking if the OF is coming back. Absolutely not, guys. Anyways, I just had to clear the air with that because I'm never gonna let people pick on you. And the women who fucking make these videos, you guys are fucking clowns, dude.

• 28:51Speaker 03

  Yeah, why?

• 28:52Bunnie XO?

  Like, why would you ever try to tear down two beautiful fucking souls who literally have helped me build my fucking brand from the ground up, dude? Like, I just think that's so crazy.

• 29:02Speaker 03

  Maybe, maybe they don't have people in their lives like us, so they can't actually understand.

• 29:06Bunnie XO?

  They don't know what it's like. They can't relate to actually loving another woman for who they are and through, through their journey together.

• 29:13Speaker 03

  Yeah, it's like people who get mad at people in like the food industry and you're like, clearly you never worked in the food, food industry over something like, oh, they forgot my ranch. And like, they're gonna yell at a waitress for it. It's like, have you ever been a waitress? She also got asked five other things between that fucking ranch and the soda, you know?

• 29:26Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 29:27Speaker 03

  And it's like, I feel like it's the same thing. Maybe that lady is literally angry cuz she's never been loved.

• 29:31Bunnie XO?

  Clip that bitch. I don't care. I'm tired of people. I really don't care. I'm so tired of people being fucking disrespectful and just saying shit. It's like, dude.

• 29:40Speaker 01

  They just know they're gonna get views off your name.

• 29:43Bunnie XO?

  Listen, and I'm fine. Make all the videos you want. I fucking do not care what.

• 29:47Speaker 03

  You said, I'm just happy living life over here.

• 29:49Bunnie XO?

  I don't care what people say about me anymore, but when they start coming after you guys, that's when I'm like, okay, you know, like, come on, dude.

• 29:56Speaker 01

  I'm literally just doing our job and having fun.

• 30:00Bunnie XO?

  You guys have no idea behind the scenes if I actually fuck up and do something wrong.

• 30:04Speaker 01

  We, we all check each other, but like also like, I have so much respect for you guys. I wouldn't do that in front of millions of people and embarrass you or be mean to you

• 30:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 30:14Speaker 01

  on the podcast. Like, I don't know why people want to see that.

• 30:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it's so weird.

• 30:17Speaker 01

  So weird to me.

• 30:18Speaker 03

  And we do it so respectfully when we do check each other.

• 30:21Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 30:21Speaker 03

  If there's something, we, we don't get into drag out fights. Like, you would see on reality shows and stuff, that's just not us cuz we know how to communicate.

• 30:29Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, we had one argument one time and that was, that was public. And that was actually a real fucking argument cuz people are like, we think they just did it for the, the show or whatever. No, that was a real argument. That was really unfolded.

• 30:42Speaker 01

  Since then, that like completely changed our communication.

• 30:45Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, absolutely. And then Mimi and I have a fucking come to Jesus once a year.

• 30:49Speaker 03

  I feel like we're on like every couple of month basis now. Let's just check each other. All right.

• 30:55Bunnie XO?

  As the brand, but the thing is, is when you go to a friend and you're like, hey, man, you're not doing your job, you're fucking up, or hey, you're not, you're doing this, or you're doing this and you shouldn't do that. You, you don't meet it with like, you're wrong.

• 31:09Speaker 03

  No.

• 31:10Bunnie XO?

  You always take constructive criticism and you're just like, okay, cool. I'll do better. And that's literally how we operate. We're just like,

• 31:16Speaker 03

  All of us talk like that.

• 31:17Speaker 01

  Yeah, but like, what, why would we say that right here on the pod? Like,

• 31:20Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 31:20Speaker 01

  That's not the point of the podcast.

• 31:22Bunnie XO?

  It's fucking so weird.

• 31:23Speaker 03

  It's so crazy.

• 31:24Bunnie XO?

  It's so fucking weird.

• 31:25Speaker 03

  I did read a comment that said, I'm in love with you.

• 31:28Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I do.

• 31:30Speaker 01

  Hold on, I think it's Haley.

• 31:31Bunnie XO?

  I wish.

• 31:32Speaker 03

  I am in love with you.

• 31:33Bunnie XO?

  I wish.

• 31:33Speaker 03

  I love you so much.

• 31:34Bunnie XO?

  I love you too.

• 31:35Speaker 03

  Wait, I love, wait, I love you.

• 31:36Bunnie XO?

  I love you. I love you.

• 31:38Speaker 03

  I mean, we do love you too.

• 31:39Bunnie XO?

  I mean, listen, I try to make out anytime I get a little tequila in my system.

• 31:44Speaker 01

  The other night, it wasn't a kiss. It was straight. She said, kiss me.

• 31:50Bunnie XO?

  I'm the biggest lover.

• 31:51Speaker 03

  You are a lover.

• 31:53Bunnie XO?

  I am such a lover. I'm just like, I want to just love everybody.

• 31:56Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 31:57Bunnie XO?

  Literally when I drink, I'm just like, oh, come to me.

• 32:01Speaker 03

  She makes other people love each other. You two love each other. Yeah. In a bar, you guys should kiss.

• 32:07Speaker 01

  Do you guys remember when I was out and I somehow was walking from Barstool to an Uber? And there was a couple on the corner and I told him, I was like, you guys are so hot. You guys should make out. And I fell.

• 32:20Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 32:22Speaker 01

  And I fell getting into my Uber.

• 32:25Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Haley is notorious for drinking and falling.

• 32:30Speaker 03

  I don't think she even drinks sometimes when she falls. Cause she was sober the other day and she busted her knees so bad.

• 32:35Bunnie XO?

  That was me yesterday. I kept fucking hurting myself.

• 32:37Speaker 03

  That one time we were walking in Cleveland.

• 32:39Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 32:39Speaker 03

  And you,

• 32:40Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 32:41Speaker 01

  I tried to forget about that.

• 32:42Bunnie XO?

  That scraped off my tattoo.

• 32:44Speaker 03

  And it took the tattoo with it. It was a fresh tattoo and she hit that pavement and she like bounced.

• 32:49Bunnie XO?

  And one thing about Haley, she's gonna let you, one thing about Haley, if she falls, she's gonna let you know about it for two weeks.

• 32:55Speaker 01

  Yeah. Cause I'm so embarrassed. I need you guys to also laugh.

• 33:00Speaker 01

  It's the biggest thing that happened in my life. Need you guys to go through it with me.

• 33:03Bunnie XO?

  Yes, absolutely. So I just wanted to clear the air with that because I just, we just had to address that because I'm just fucking over people talking shit.

• 33:11Speaker 01

  I have one, my nanny wrote in.

• 33:13Bunnie XO?

  Okay, let's go.

• 33:15Speaker 01

  Yeah. She said,

• 33:16Bunnie XO?

  Nano, Nano.

• 33:17Speaker 01

  God, I love her. She said, senior year, went out with this super hot guy off and on for a month or more. Found out two weeks before prom, he was a, oh, he'd asked a freshman to go with him. Like an idiot, I still went out with him the next weekend.

• 33:32Speaker 03

  Nanny.

• 33:33Speaker 01

  That's my girl. But then she said, he, um, then like later got that girl like pregnant and then they like divorced or whatever. And I was like, it's okay, because then you wouldn't have met Papa. So.

• 33:43Bunnie XO?

  And then you wouldn't be here.

• 33:44Speaker 01

  I know. Well, no, I'm, my mom's adopted.

• 33:47Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 33:48Speaker 03

  But they wouldn't have adopted your mom.

• 33:50Speaker 02

  Still, you wouldn't, you still wouldn't be here. That's a timeline.

• 33:52Speaker 03

  You wouldn't be here. Cause they wouldn't have, yeah.

• 33:54Speaker 02

  Yeah, it's a timeline.

• 33:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Hmm.

• 33:58Speaker 02

  Got you.

• 33:59Speaker 03

  Thanks.

• 33:59Bunnie XO?

  All right. You guys ready? Oh, wait, who's next? Who's next? Is it me or you? Me? Okay. What?

• 34:08Speaker 03

  She's so stupid. Did you get that? She said, I said, you wouldn't be here. And she goes, my mom's adopted. I'm like, you still wouldn't be here. They wouldn't have adopted your mom. That wouldn't have met your dad. That wouldn't have met you, stupid.

• 34:20Speaker 01

  Uh, anyway, carry on.

• 34:21Bunnie XO?

  All right.

• 34:22Speaker 01

  Keep going.

• 34:23Bunnie XO?

  Oh my God. I ignored the GPS alcohol ankle monitor. Met a super hot professional bull rider on Tinder when it first came out. Met up and he had the monitor. I was like, okay, cool. No worries. Just a one-off. Well, ended up in a relationship with this dude. Come to find out, he has a revoked license for DUI two, violated probation, then started drinking again. Then the physical abuse came. Couldn't get out of the relationship, gets DUI three, doesn't, does the jail time, ankle monitor again, and the cycle repeats itself for another three years. The last time he got locked up, I left and moved to another state. He gets out, starts calling me from different phone numbers. Then I go to look him up,

• 35:06Bunnie XO?

  which is an Otis, which is the offender tracking system. Got arrested for domestic violence on his new girlfriend with multiple counts of resisting arrest. Anyways, he was super hot and I let him alienate me from my family for the longest. I felt like I had nowhere to go. I mean, like a solid nine. And at the time, I didn't think I could pull that.

• 35:25Speaker 03

  Okay. I didn't think ankle monitor was that bad in the beginning and it just kept getting worse.

• 35:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 35:31Speaker 02

  You're right.

• 35:32Bunnie XO?

  Soon as the domestic violence comes in, that's where it's like, that's rough, man. But I get it. You know, as a DV survivor, you know, sometimes, I think what it is, is you get, um, most domestic violence relationships are super passionate. And you get addicted to the passion, let alone the majority of them, not all of them. This is me speaking from my personal experience and some of my girlfriends that I know who have gone through it. And the sex is always like fucking amazing. So you get addicted to the push and the pull. And that's the passion. Yeah. Because it's something that, you know, I'm a very passionate person. Like I want to be just, loved on all the time. So when somebody does that, it's like, and then,

• 36:15Speaker 01

  You mistake that for love.

• 36:16Bunnie XO?

  Yes. And then physical abuse comes into the picture. It's like, it's so hard to leave because you just think about the good times and like, oh, they're gonna change. They're never gonna do it again. So.

• 36:26Speaker 03

  Yeah. It's that addictive thought, thinking that they're gonna change every single time.

• 36:29Bunnie XO?

  Every time. Cause they always apologize and probably fuck the shit out of you after they do it. Cause I know that's how it was in my relationship. And it just becomes a fucking vicious cycle that you cannot get out of. It's literally a spider web that you just cannot fucking get out of.

• 36:43Speaker 03

  It's a really good analogy.

• 36:44Bunnie XO?

  But it's not okay. And if you guys are in any situation like that, please talk to somebody, call somebody. Do, start planning your escape because they're, that shit does never, it never ends well. You know, you're, you're probably gonna end up having to leave that relationship with your life. So don't ever let a fucking dude put his hands on you.

• 37:04Speaker 03

  Hell no.

• 37:04Bunnie XO?

  You're too pretty for that.

• 37:07Speaker 03

  Looked at. That was great.

• 37:08Bunnie XO?

  Who's next?

• 37:10Speaker 03

  All right. This one says, I was never introduced to his real life. Not friends, not family, not social media, nothing overlapped with his real world. At first it was very casual, so it wasn't an issue, but as things got more serious, he would deflect when I'd ask him about it. I was basically completely hidden over a year. Okay. First off, you let that go on for a year and you knew nothing about the dude's life?

• 37:34Speaker 01

  I get it.

• 37:34Bunnie XO?

  I'm nosy.

• 37:36Speaker 03

  I would have,

• 37:36Bunnie XO?

  I want to know everything.

• 37:37Speaker 03

  Imaged his selfie.

• 37:38Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. I want to know everything about you.

• 37:41Speaker 03

  I was basically completely hidden for over a year as he continued to pull me in deeper emotionally. I knew it was a huge red flag, but he was so hot that I chose to ignore it. Over time, it outweighed the hotness and I kissed him goodbye. He continued to chase me, but I did never look back.

• 37:57Speaker 03

  I want to look back.

• 37:59Speaker 01

  I would have said, I would have looked back.

• 38:02Speaker 03

  Within two weeks, how did you not find?

• 38:04Speaker 01

  No, I would have already known his entire family history before date number one.

• 38:10Speaker 03

  What are we talking about? You went a year and that guy never even gave you a social media?

• 38:15Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, that's crazy.

• 38:17Speaker 03

  That's like nowadays, I feel like,

• 38:19Speaker 01

  Maybe that was like a long time ago. Cause like, I feel like you can't do that nowadays.

• 38:23Speaker 03

  What?

• 38:24Speaker 01

  Not like give someone a social media.

• 38:27Speaker 03

  I mean, she said social media.

• 38:28Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 38:29Speaker 03

  Like one of the things he wouldn't give her.

• 38:32Speaker 03

  Yeah. That's wild.

• 38:35Speaker 01

  That means he's hiding something.

• 38:36Speaker 03

  Oh, yeah.

• 38:37Speaker 02

  No, no way.

• 38:39Speaker 01

  More than,

• 38:40Speaker 02

  No way. You think?

• 38:41Bunnie XO?

  More than likely, he was like married or fucking, you know, baby on the way.

• 38:46Speaker 01

  Stayed a year. Okay.

• 38:47Bunnie XO?

  Listen, that's Haley's type.

• 38:48Speaker 03

  Uh, she said,

• 38:49Bunnie XO?

  She likes a little mysterious.

• 38:51Speaker 01

  I love mysterious.

• 38:52Speaker 03

  And I feel like nowadays, like,

• 38:53Speaker 01

  Because I feel like the more you know, the less like, I mean, a crush is just a lack of information.

• 38:59Bunnie XO?

  Hmm.

• 39:01Bunnie XO?

  I don't know about that.

• 39:03Speaker 03

  Damn.

• 39:03Bunnie XO?

  My crush is, I wanted to crawl into your rib cage and sleep. Like that's how I am. I'm like, so like, let's merge souls. So there's no way that I could ever just not,

• 39:14Speaker 03

  What is wrong with you?

• 39:17Bunnie XO?

  I'm the opposite of the spectrum of Haley.

• 39:19Speaker 01

  Have you seen that little video of like, I don't know if it's a movie, a new movie or something, but they like go to hug and their skin starts melting together. Their eyes go together.

• 39:28Bunnie XO?

  That's what I need. That's what she wants. That's the kind of love I want.

• 39:31Speaker 03

  No.

• 39:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 39:33Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 39:33Bunnie XO?

  No, that's the exact kind of love I like and want. You have to have that. I could, I can't not have that. It has to be like so passionate, you know?

• 39:42Speaker 01

  Yeah, but like, I don't know. I get over it.

• 39:44Speaker 03

  Yeah, sticky.

• 39:45Bunnie XO?

  Listen, I know what it's like to not have passion and now I have passion again, and I'm never not gonna have fucking passion again. I'd rather be in the most passionate relationship that's healthy than ever go through a relationship that has zero passion again. There's no fucking way. It's like licking a wall.

• 40:07Speaker 01

  Never heard of that analogy, but.

• 40:09Bunnie XO?

  That's literally what it's like. Have you ever licked a wall?

• 40:12Speaker 03

  No.

• 40:13Bunnie XO?

  Okay. Well, Matt, okay. Close your eyes right now.

• 40:14Speaker 03

  Wait, have you?

• 40:16Bunnie XO?

  Yes. Close your eyes. Cause I, I was a kid once. I licked walls. You guys didn't practice French kissing on walls?

• 40:23Speaker 01

  No.

• 40:23Bunnie XO?

  I did.

• 40:24Speaker 01

  Practice on a dude.

• 40:25Speaker 03

  Wait, wait, I take that back. In the shower, one time I did.

• 40:28Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 40:29Speaker 03

  Yeah. I was so young though. And like my boyfriend at the time was like, I really want to kiss you. And I was like, yeah, for sure. I was like, I don't know what I'm doing. I did for sure. I, you know what?

• 40:41Bunnie XO?

  We've all licked a wall before. Well, I have.

• 40:43Speaker 03

  Yeah, we have.

• 40:44Bunnie XO?

  Literally, close your eyes and envision just going up to a wall and licking it. How does that feel?

• 40:49Speaker 03

  Hard.

• 40:50Bunnie XO?

  Boring.

• 40:51Speaker 02

  Cold.

• 40:52Bunnie XO?

  Empty, cold.

• 40:54Speaker 02

  Rough.

• 40:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 40:55Speaker 03

  All right. What kind of texture am I feeling?

• 40:57Bunnie XO?

  It's like a popcorn ceiling.

• 40:59Speaker 03

  It's like the velvet on the wall over here.

• 41:01Bunnie XO?

  If it's a bathroom wall, then it's soft. No, we're not fucking joking. It's a furry wall. Yeah. But that's what I'm saying. Like I would rather have passion than nothing. So. All right. Who's next? Me?

• 41:12Speaker 03

  That was fun.

• 41:13Bunnie XO?

  Oh, this one was crazy. Okay. I met this guy off Tinder. He was very nice and hot. He was a firefighter, which I had a weak spot for. On our first date, he brought his stepsister. He told me they were just friends, but then I saw her hand go to his thigh. Later in the night, she gave him a kiss when we were leaving. I asked him why he did that. He said it was just how they greeted and said goodbye to each other. I ignored it for a month, then caught them having sex in our bed. Then I cut him off.

• 41:45Speaker 03

  I don't think I like that.

• 41:48Bunnie XO?

  So I had a guy, which if you read my book, I had a guy who told me that this girl that was around was his best friend. Come to find out, they had been together for like 20 years and they were into like having relationships with other girls and just didn't tell. Yeah, no.

• 42:06Speaker 03

  That's crazy.

• 42:07Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. So I mean, I get it. I understand that she was probably like, okay. But I mean, the first night, you're seeing them kiss in her hand on his thigh. Like, come on.

• 42:14Speaker 03

  A hand on the thigh is wild.

• 42:16Bunnie XO?

  Stepsister is wild.

• 42:18Speaker 03

  I mean, that was clearly a kink for him.

• 42:20Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. I mean, that's a Pornhub category.

• 42:23Speaker 03

  Yeah, that's so weird to me. I can't watch those porns. If it has anything to do with like family, can't do it.

• 42:28Bunnie XO?

  No, that's weird. Yeah, I've never gotten into that either.

• 42:31Speaker 03

  No, and I don't yuck anyone's yum. Well, I mean, personally, I just can't.

• 42:36Speaker 01

  Isn't it illegal?

• 42:37Bunnie XO?

  I just like.

• 42:40Speaker 01

  I'm pretty sure it's illegal.

• 42:41Bunnie XO?

  I just like oiled up bodies and.

• 42:43Speaker 01

  Maybe not Alabama.

• 42:44Bunnie XO?

  Passionate sex.

• 42:45Speaker 03

  Yeah, you like a lot of wetness.

• 42:50Speaker 01

  My friend that works downtown wrote in and she said, uh, they would leave their closing gig from Broadway and go swim naked every Saturday in Percy Priest at like 3 a.m. I said, excuse me. She said, uh, good news. I never hooked up with him because I was like, your dick definitely has flesh eating shit, probably.

• 43:15Speaker 03

  I don't like that.

• 43:16Speaker 01

  Swimming naked in Percy Priest is.

• 43:19Speaker 03

  Okay, but I'm sorry. Wait, hold on. What's the difference between naked and not naked, though?

• 43:25Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, there's so many people.

• 43:26Speaker 03

  The water is still inside.

• 43:27Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 43:28Speaker 03

  You're still wet on underneath the.

• 43:30Speaker 01

  So why are we naked at 3?

• 43:32Speaker 03

  What's the difference? Maybe he just doesn't carry his swimsuit around.

• 43:36Speaker 02

  I'm very confused. So she would go skinny dipping, right?

• 43:39Speaker 03

  No, the guy would.

• 43:40Speaker 02

  Oh, he would.

• 43:42Speaker 01

  I don't know if it's by himself.

• 43:43Speaker 02

  But why, why would she go skinny dipping with somebody and then be like, oh.

• 43:47Speaker 03

  No, that's why she didn't want to fuck with him. But I'm sorry. It's even if he had board shorts on, the water's still on his dick.

• 43:58Speaker 03

  Not a wet suit.

• 43:59Bunnie XO?

  I agree. Cause when you jump in the water, you still get fucking vagina juice.

• 44:03Speaker 03

  Yeah, that lady got a fucking frog in her puss.

• 44:06Speaker 02

  Frog puss.

• 44:07Speaker 01

  Yep, the old toad, toad, toad in the hole.

• 44:10Speaker 03

  Toad in the hole.

• 44:11Speaker 01

  Hole in the hole is crazy.

• 44:14Speaker 02

  Isn't that a book?

• 44:17Speaker 02

  No, Frog and Toad is a book.

• 44:20Bunnie XO?

  All right, guys. We love you. We will see you guys next week. Bye.