Ask, Tell, Confess: How Did I Not See His Red Flags??

Ask, Tell, Confess is back and this week we’re getting into the red flags y’all saw, ignored, and somehow still said, “Yeah, but he’s hot.” Bunnie, Meme, and Hailee kick things off with a wild L. A. cop bar story, some Del Taco drive-thru scheming, and why a pretty face will have you out here making decisions you know d*mn well you shouldn’t be making. Then the gang gets into your confessions, and baby… some of y’all really put up with some sh*t. We’re talking mattress-on-the-floor men, crusty yellow pillows, secret girlfriends, cheating boyfriends, validation smashes, and dating app disasters with enough red flags to fill a whole parade. At some point, we gotta stop calling it “potential” and call it what it is. If the red flags are waving, believe them. Raise your standards, trust your gut, and stop letting somebody being fine make you lose all common sense. Want to be part of the next Ask, Tell, Confess? Send your stories to our Instagram DMs and make sure you’re following along. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Dumbblondepod

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:17Bunnie XO?

  Hello friends, welcome to another Ask Tell Confess.

• 0:26Bunnie XO?

  How's everybody doing today?

• 0:27Speaker 01

  Some crazy tongue action.

• 0:29Bunnie XO?

  It's so hot in this fucking studio. Mimi has me in here just working up a storm, let me tell you. Freaking prison in here.

• 0:37Speaker 01

  No days off.

• 0:38Bunnie XO?

  No days off. We literally have only been away from each other for 24 hours.

• 0:41Speaker 01

  I know, I saw you like last-

• 0:43Bunnie XO?

  No, I saw you yesterday, but yeah, me and Haley only 24 hours. And I'm trying to go out with her tonight and she's like, "No."

• 0:49Speaker 01

  Get the fuck away from you guys.

• 0:51Bunnie XO?

  Please, no.

• 0:52Speaker 02

  Turned off my location.

• 0:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 0:55Speaker 01

  The way I watch your location, I don't watch anyone's location like I do Haley's. I get so worried and if you're like in one spot for too long, I'm like, "You good, bro?"

• 1:04Speaker 02

  Good.

• 1:04Speaker 01

  You make me worried.

• 1:06Bunnie XO?

  We gotta worry about our little bambina.

• 1:08Speaker 01

  I feel like you end up with like a lot of red flags and that just worries me.

• 1:11Bunnie XO?

  Oh, this weekend in LA. Should we talk about what happened in LA?

• 1:16Speaker 03

  Oh, with the light?

• 1:19Speaker 01

  Guys, that was crazy.

• 1:21Bunnie XO?

  So, we're at this bar. We're gonna leave unnamed and we're there and we're just having a fun- we're just having so much fun.

• 1:30Speaker 01

  We're having a great time.

• 1:30Bunnie XO?

  Cause it's literally like our local bar that we just hang out at and have a blast. There, I turned to this dude who is so cute, I mean like gorgeous, right? And I'm like, "My friend Haley would love you." Cause he looked like a book talk boy, you know? And he's like, "Oh, who's your friend?" And I'm like, "Oh, she's over there playing darts." And he's like, "Oh, we're already hanging out with them." And I was like, "Oh, of course you are. Okay, cool."

• 1:55Speaker 01

  I didn't know this happened.

• 1:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:57Speaker 01

  I just learned this piece of information.

• 1:59Bunnie XO?

  So this is what started the whole thing.

• 2:00Speaker 01

  All I saw happen was you at the bar and you said- And I said, "That's all I know that happened."

• 2:08Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, so I was like, "Cool, we'll be over there in a minute." Well, I was having a deep conversation and we were at the bar just having this conversation. And 20 minutes later, the dude comes back and sits next to me, but his friend stands right here next to pretty little baby, right? And so I turn and I look at his friend and he goes, "You're really hot." And I was like-

• 2:32Speaker 01

  To you?

• 2:33Bunnie XO?

  Yes. And I go, "Oh, thank you. That's so sweet." I was like, "But I'm here with," you know, and he goes, "I think you just met him tonight."

• 2:41Speaker 02

  So weird.

• 2:42Bunnie XO?

  And I said, "No, actually, it's, we've been together for two months."

• 2:46Speaker 01

  Clearly never seen TMZ.

• 2:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, fuck. And I was like, "No, we've been, you know, talking for two months." I was like, "This is my guy, you know, like we're just hanging out, having a blast." And I turn and I look and his friend is pushing up on him like this close to his face. And I put my hand in between him and I pushed him back. I go, "Dude, leave room for the Holy Spirit." I was like, "What's happening?" You know? And so that's when we got up and we walked over to you guys. And I was like, "Dude, these dudes are tripping. Like what is happening?" And so then that's when they got all crazy or whatever. So anyways, Haley was already solidifying the homie. They had a third homie.

• 3:28Speaker 01

  Okay, so wait, wait, I have to ask a question. The guy who pushed up on you, was that the cop?

• 3:32Bunnie XO?

  The cop, yes. No, not on me, pushed up on-

• 3:36Speaker 01

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but like, so the cop did that?

• 3:39Bunnie XO?

  Yes.

• 3:42Bunnie XO?

  Yes, and I put my hand-

• 3:43Speaker 02

  They were just like so chill and cool.

• 3:45Speaker 01

  They were so nice to us, yeah.

• 3:47Speaker 03

  I was literally just talking to one of them about the wings.

• 3:49Bunnie XO?

  But they had the weirdest energy with us. It was so weird. So that's why we came over to you guys. And then that's when it kinda like popped off a little bit. And luckily, we had our cop friend there with us.

• 3:59Speaker 01

  I literally was like, "Guys, he's a cop." And then Zach goes, "So am I."

• 4:05Speaker 01

  My bad.

• 4:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 4:07Speaker 01

  I joke a lot that he's not a cop and I kinda believed it for a second.

• 4:11Speaker 02

  I like to do that.

• 4:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, so anyways-

• 4:15Speaker 01

  Poor cop. The poor cops in our lives, guys.

• 4:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, so anyways, Haley was already solidifying the third dude. And after that, we were just kinda like, "Let's just go home." Cause obviously fucking, you know, the energy's a little off. Let's just go home. So we all go home and Haley's like, "No, I'm not going home. I'm going to fucking hunch on this dude." And I was like, "Okay."

• 4:39Speaker 02

  Hunch is crazy.

• 4:42Bunnie XO?

  And I was like, "Okay, so I'm helping Haley call." I'm like, "You're not bringing him to the house because the friends are fucking weird." And I was like, "You're not going to his house because the friends are fucking weird." And she's like, "What do I do?" I'm like, "Get a fucking hotel room." So me and Haley are trying to call hotel rooms.

• 4:57Speaker 01

  In the Del Taco drive-through, she's like, "You got any rooms?"

• 5:01Speaker 03

  We're waiting for our order. I'm ordering Del Taco. I'm hearing, "Yeah, do you got like a king bed or?"

• 5:07Speaker 01

  And he's like, "What the fuck do you guys want? Just give me your order."

• 5:10Speaker 03

  I'm like, "So two grilled chicken tacos."

• 5:12Bunnie XO?

  And so anyways, Haley ended up going and getting smashed by the homie and fucking had a blast.

• 5:18Speaker 01

  I was watching her little location during the whole thing.

• 5:20Bunnie XO?

  But we were worried about her. This circles back to why we worry about her. Because she does end up in these crazy situations. Yeah, oh, we know. You walk right into the line of fire, sister.

• 5:31Speaker 03

  And the next morning, I was cleaning up the Del Taco. And I just hear a door open and just footsteps and something's dragging. And I just see her come into the doorway. She's like, "I got his belt."

• 5:45Bunnie XO?

  She's like a serial killer. She collects items from her fucking conquests.

• 5:50Speaker 01

  You took his belt?

• 5:51Speaker 03

  I said, "Why do you have his belt?" She's like, "I grabbed it." And I said, "Why?" He said, "Cause then he'll have to call me." And she just walks away.

• 6:01Speaker 01

  Did he ever call you?

• 6:01Bunnie XO?

  Nope.

• 6:05Speaker 02

  Guess it wasn't an expensive belt?

• 6:07Bunnie XO?

  He's like, "Rip, R.I.P., baby."

• 6:09Speaker 01

  Oh my god. That's crazy.

• 6:12Speaker 02

  Well, I was trying to get under someone to get over someone else.

• 6:16Bunnie XO?

  Who are we getting over?

• 6:17Speaker 02

  I'm not saying that on-

• 6:19Bunnie XO?

  Just, we'll bleep it.

• 6:22Bunnie XO?

  Oh god.

• 6:23Speaker 01

  Wait, I thought you guys were literally talking like two seconds ago.

• 6:27Speaker 02

  Anyway.

• 6:28Speaker 01

  By the way, we do nickname. Anyone that is in Haley's life.

• 6:32Speaker 02

  Yeah, and sometimes I'll mention-

• 6:34Bunnie XO?

  We nickname everybody that's in each other's lives.

• 6:35Speaker 01

  Yeah, yeah.

• 6:36Speaker 02

  I'll mention the guy's actual name. They'll be like, "Who?"

• 6:39Speaker 01

  There's been times you've said a name and I was like, "I don't know who that is." And then you'll be like-

• 6:43Speaker 02

  This?

• 6:44Speaker 01

  This is like, "Oh, yeah." Yeah, no, I'll nickname a motherfucker in a heartbeat.

• 6:48Bunnie XO?

  That dude's a weirdo. I've already told you this and I'll go on the record to say he's a weirdo. You've given him ample opportunity to come out and see you. Dude's playing with you. Dude is literally, he is one of these stories that we're about to fucking read today.

• 7:02Speaker 01

  He is a walking red flag.

• 7:04Bunnie XO?

  Walking red flag, sister. So we put in our stories, which we'll, we got so many of them. We'll probably do a continuation podcast episode of it.

• 7:12Speaker 01

  So many, you guys.

• 7:13Bunnie XO?

  So many. Like I didn't realize we all fucking had the same type.

• 7:16Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 7:19Bunnie XO?

  What were some red flags that you ignored because they were hot? And you guys fucking filled up our DMs. So we're gonna kick it off and we're gonna read a few. And then because Ask Tell Confess is our little short, we're gonna go into it and do an entire episode on them.

• 7:35Speaker 01

  You guys really sent it with things.

• 7:37Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no, these were-

• 7:39Speaker 01

  Just go to our Instagrams. Submit them to Jaime too, guys. Cause I feel like Jaime needs to be a part of reading the stories.

• 7:45Speaker 03

  Throw me my inbox.

• 7:47Speaker 01

  Jaime, get into his DMs. But yeah, the DMs were flooded with this one. I'm excited.

• 7:52Speaker 02

  Bro.

• 7:52Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 7:53Speaker 02

  So funny.

• 7:54Speaker 01

  And people we knew. Should we call a friend?

• 7:56Bunnie XO?

  Sure.

• 7:58Speaker 01

  Call Amber and Dims.

• 8:00Speaker 02

  Yeah, Dims for sure.

• 8:01Bunnie XO?

  I'll call Dims right now.

• 8:02Speaker 01

  Right now, please.

• 8:04Bunnie XO?

  All right, do we FaceTime her?

• 8:05Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 8:06Bunnie XO?

  She knows I never, every time I FaceTime her, she gets worried. She's like, "Why are you FaceTiming me?"

• 8:11Speaker 03

  Not liking cats is a red flag.

• 8:13Speaker 01

  That's your red flag is not liking cats?

• 8:16Speaker 03

  I can go deeper. Well, a little red over there.

• 8:22Speaker 02

  He said, "You know what? I'm packing my shit up."

• 8:25Bunnie XO?

  He's like, "I'm not working for you anymore."

• 8:26Speaker 01

  And he said, "And I quit."

• 8:28Bunnie XO?

  Dims never reply, answers.

• 8:32Bunnie XO?

  All right, hold on.

• 8:32Speaker 01

  She said, "I'll take my cats."

• 8:34Speaker 03

  I'll take my cats.

• 8:35Speaker 01

  Little cat statue behind you.

• 8:36Speaker 02

  He has like only two things.

• 8:38Speaker 01

  Two things.

• 8:39Speaker 02

  I'm gonna pack my stuff and go. People like pack a box on a TV show.

• 8:43Speaker 01

  It's just that picture in that clock.

• 8:50Speaker 01

  Who are we calling now?

• 8:51Bunnie XO?

  Amber.

• 8:51Speaker 01

  Oh, she's got an answer.

• 8:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Hi, beautiful. What are you, what are you wearing? Cause we're going to dinner after this. What are you wearing?

• 8:58Speaker 04

  I'm wearing, let me show you one second.

• 9:00Bunnie XO?

  Okay, you're on air right now too, by the way. Native in Nashville, shout out nativein Nashville.com. Go buy your fucking merch right now.

• 9:08Speaker 01

  Ooh, Amber.

• 9:09Bunnie XO?

  Oh, Amber looks hot, baby.

• 9:14Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, always wearing heels, you sexy slut. All right, so listen, we wanna put you on the podcast. Tell us, yeah, tell us a red flag that you ignored because they were hot.

• 9:28Speaker 02

  D E.

• 9:30Bunnie XO?

  It's always the big dicks.

• 9:32Speaker 01

  I get it.

• 9:33Bunnie XO?

  So it's like for women, literally, they will always just put their feelings aside for a big dick.

• 9:39Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 9:42Bunnie XO?

  It's never worth it. I'll take a little. I'll take a little schmeckel that treats me good over a fucking big dick that treats me bad.

• 9:49Speaker 02

  Yeah, any day.

• 9:50Bunnie XO?

  Any day.

• 9:51Speaker 01

  Any day.

• 9:52Bunnie XO?

  All right. I love you. I'll see you soon. Bye.

• 9:57Speaker 01

  That was good.

• 9:58Bunnie XO?

  All right, let's read one. I'm gonna hop into my DMs really quick. Damn, that one's long. Not gonna read that one. Hold on.

• 10:05Speaker 01

  Long ones hurt.

• 10:07Speaker 02

  There's some that are novels.

• 10:11Speaker 01

  Yeah, someone did send me a book the other day. I said, hey, I can't read that on the episode. If you would like to summarize it to a paragraph or so.

• 10:19Speaker 02

  Had to summarize them before.

• 10:20Speaker 01

  Yeah. Rough.

• 10:23Speaker 03

  Oh, you know, uh, when a girl says, I don't like the taste of water, that's a red flag to me.

• 10:27Bunnie XO?

  Ew, that's weird. That means she has a toxic puss.

• 10:31Speaker 01

  Damn.

• 10:31Speaker 03

  Red flag. That just means you're nasty. Sorry.

• 10:34Bunnie XO?

  All right, this guy. She definitely didn't have the Aquafina. She had the fucking Mountain Dew.

• 10:41Speaker 01

  Mountain Dew puss is wild.

• 10:44Bunnie XO?

  His mattress on the floor with no sheets on it, one crusty pillow with no pillowcase, but I was post divorce. He was hot and I needed a validation smash. I love that.

• 10:55Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 10:55Bunnie XO?

  Did I leave with possibly some salmonella and regret? Maybe. But did I go back because his snake slither left me like a giraffe on roller, like a giraffe on roller skates? You bet your sweet ass I did.

• 11:08Speaker 01

  I love her.

• 11:09Bunnie XO?

  That's Kayla. She's great.

• 11:11Speaker 01

  We love you. That was fantastic.

• 11:14Bunnie XO?

  That was hilarious.

• 11:15Speaker 02

  I get it.

• 11:16Speaker 01

  Can we talk about men and their pillows?

• 11:18Bunnie XO?

  Can we talk about men and their mattresses?

• 11:20Speaker 02

  Can we talk about men and no pillowcases on the pillows?

• 11:23Bunnie XO?

  I've told this.

• 11:24Speaker 01

  Yellow.

• 11:24Bunnie XO?

  I've told this story. I've told this story before. I was talking to this guy. He was so fucking hot. It was right before I got with Jay. He was so hot, um, tall, skinny. You know, guys know my type. Baby arm. You guys know baby arm. I never stayed the night at his house. The one night I stayed the night at his house.

• 11:44Speaker 01

  I know what happened.

• 11:45Bunnie XO?

  I wake up the next day and bedbugs have ravaged my entire back. I'm talking like I got bit from shoulder blades to butt crack.

• 11:54Speaker 01

  You had hives. It was so bad.

• 11:56Bunnie XO?

  It was so bad. Bedbugs fucking ate me the fuck up. I bought that motherfucker a new mattress and never stayed the night over there again. I was like, bro.

• 12:03Speaker 02

  Bought him shit.

• 12:04Bunnie XO?

  I didn't listen. I like to do charity work. All right.

• 12:08Speaker 01

  That's crazy.

• 12:09Bunnie XO?

  I like to do, I mean, I was gonna still keep fucking him.

• 12:12Speaker 01

  Yeah, you needed a new mattress to fuck on.

• 12:14Bunnie XO?

  I didn't know if I was gonna stay the night over there again.

• 12:16Speaker 01

  What if he brought them to your house?

• 12:19Bunnie XO?

  I don't know, man. I've never, I've never had bedbugs.

• 12:21Speaker 02

  Crazy.

• 12:21Speaker 03

  Bed frame?

• 12:23Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, he at least had a bed frame for sure.

• 12:25Speaker 03

  Took me a minute to get that.

• 12:26Speaker 01

  No, the bedding thing is crazy though. Like I've literally.

• 12:29Bunnie XO?

  Guys, wash your fucking sheets.

• 12:30Speaker 02

  Your pillows like every couple of months.

• 12:32Bunnie XO?

  I know. Or how do you guys sleep on the thin ones? The thin crusty ones?

• 12:36Speaker 01

  Literally yellow and you know those started white.

• 12:39Bunnie XO?

  It's like two hots in a cot. Like they fucking are in jail.

• 12:44Bunnie XO?

  You know how they call it like two hots in a cot? You get two hot meals and you sleep on a cot when you're in jail?

• 12:48Speaker 02

  I haven't been in jail.

• 12:50Bunnie XO?

  I have a few times. Obviously you guys have seen all my mug shots.

• 12:53Speaker 01

  There's literally a mug shot t-shirt right there. That's crazy. All right, go ahead Haley.

• 12:57Speaker 02

  It's crazy because my story was he had bedbugs but failed to tell me until I was on my back getting fucked. I wonder if it was the same guy.

• 13:05Bunnie XO?

  Wait, did he tell her mid-stroke?

• 13:08Speaker 01

  I'm sure she saw them. Imagine.

• 13:10Bunnie XO?

  Saw them? You don't see bedbugs?

• 13:13Speaker 02

  If they're big, yeah.

• 13:14Speaker 01

  Yeah, if they've been for a while, you can see them.

• 13:18Bunnie XO?

  Hold on.

• 13:19Speaker 01

  Yep.

• 13:19Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 13:20Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 13:21Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 13:22Speaker 01

  You check the crevices of like hotel beds for them.

• 13:26Speaker 01

  You can literally see them.

• 13:27Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 13:28Speaker 01

  Yes, you can. Little black dust.

• 13:31Speaker 02

  Shine your flashlight and you'll see like little.

• 13:33Speaker 01

  Crawlys.

• 13:35Bunnie XO?

  Eyes? You guys.

• 13:39Speaker 01

  Have you never checked a mattress for bedbugs? Clearly.

• 13:42Bunnie XO?

  Obviously not. I've never fucking been in situations like until that one that fucking needed it. I've never fucked a dude with a mattress on the floor. Hold on, let me think about this.

• 13:51Speaker 02

  I can't say the same.

• 13:52Speaker 01

  I can't say the same.

• 13:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no, I've never fucked a dude with a mattress on the floor.

• 13:55Speaker 01

  I definitely have.

• 13:58Bunnie XO?

  I fucked a dude on a floor, but never because he had a mattress on the floor.

• 14:02Speaker 01

  Mom, you really gotta stop watching these.

• 14:04Bunnie XO?

  I know.

• 14:06Bunnie XO?

  But then again, I've also fucked dudes who don't even have their own places to live. So that doesn't make me better than anybody.

• 14:12Speaker 01

  And ask her to confess in my DMs the other day, you guys. And this one said, this one literally said that the guy told her it was his apartment. And then when he walked out, when they were done, the people were outside waiting to go inside and go to bed.

• 14:34Bunnie XO?

  Can we all have a moment of silence?

• 14:39Bunnie XO?

  Amen.

• 14:39Speaker 01

  She fucking said silence, bitch.

• 14:45Bunnie XO?

  All right, who's next? Go memes.

• 14:46Speaker 02

  Me in silence. Do not ever.

• 14:48Bunnie XO?

  You tell Haley you want her to be quiet and she gets louder.

• 14:51Speaker 03

  Oop, another red flag for a dude. If you wear flip flops with your pants, red flag.

• 14:56Speaker 02

  Excuse me?

• 14:57Speaker 03

  If you're a man and you show your feet, if you're not.

• 14:59Speaker 01

  Oh, men's toes out?

• 15:01Speaker 02

  I'm not even a woman.

• 15:02Speaker 03

  No, no, a woman, that's perfectly fine. If a man has his feet out at any point, unless you're by the beach or by a body of water, red flag.

• 15:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I'm not. I don't like men's toes that much. So when the toes are out.

• 15:16Speaker 01

  Insert photo here.

• 15:17Speaker 02

  Insert the clip.

• 15:21Speaker 01

  No, I, I agree. Okay. But also there is a type of sandal a man is okay to wear.

• 15:25Bunnie XO?

  A little Tyrannosaurus Rex foot.

• 15:27Speaker 01

  There's a slide that has the big top and then there's the one that goes between the toe.

• 15:32Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 15:33Speaker 01

  Why are we wearing the one between the toe?

• 15:35Speaker 03

  The thong one, the thong flip flop. Don't wear that.

• 15:37Speaker 01

  I'm so upset about it.

• 15:39Speaker 02

  A lot of California dudes do that though.

• 15:41Speaker 03

  They do.

• 15:42Speaker 01

  Wear a slide like a man.

• 15:43Speaker 03

  Wear a slide like, well, yeah.

• 15:45Speaker 02

  Go get a van. You know what? No, it's even hotter. Socks with your slides.

• 15:48Speaker 01

  Thank you.

• 15:49Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 15:50Speaker 02

  Hot.

• 15:50Speaker 01

  Hot.

• 15:50Speaker 03

  Yeah, you love that.

• 15:53Speaker 02

  That's some D one athlete type shit.

• 15:55Speaker 01

  Okay, that's not what I was thinking. I was thinking like, I was thinking like Dickies with a high sock and a slide. Hot. Two different styles. Guess what? We're close.

• 16:04Speaker 03

  That's where she was going.

• 16:06Speaker 01

  The thing between the toe pisses me off.

• 16:09Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 16:09Speaker 03

  I don't think that should be a thing.

• 16:10Speaker 02

  Grilling? It doesn't bother.

• 16:14Speaker 02

  It doesn't bother me. Staying in front of a grill. That's the only other exception.

• 16:17Speaker 01

  But what?

• 16:20Speaker 03

  Not in a, wear shoes, you're a grown man.

• 16:22Speaker 02

  Know the food's gonna be bomb. If he has those dad grilling shoes, it's gonna be bomb.

• 16:27Speaker 01

  You can grow just as good in slides.

• 16:28Bunnie XO?

  I love a dude who wears like a flowy shirt with jeans and like flip flops in Cali by the beach or something.

• 16:35Speaker 02

  Maybe if we're in Europe.

• 16:37Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

• 16:39Speaker 03

  Weird.

• 16:40Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 16:40Speaker 03

  Or if they wear the sandals with all the individual toes.

• 16:43Speaker 02

  Hot. Doesn't matter.

• 16:45Speaker 01

  That's your red flag?

• 16:47Speaker 02

  I'm not even looking at the feet. Not looking.

• 16:50Speaker 01

  What if they're just like, err?

• 16:52Speaker 02

  Not looking.

• 16:53Bunnie XO?

  Don't.

• 16:55Speaker 02

  I'm not gonna look.

• 16:56Speaker 01

  Back to it.

• 16:59Speaker 01

  The biggest red flag I ignored because they were hot. I used to work as a server at a fine dining restaurant in my area. The head sous chef was my crush and always let me get free food. Made my food first and then we would sneak into the elevator and make out on the way up to the walk.

• 17:12Bunnie XO?

  Hot.

• 17:12Speaker 01

  Just to have a few minutes of intimacy. As far as I knew, he was single, but I thought he was odd. He had a girl at work come up to him very often. He told me she was his sister. He invited me to hang out one night after work for drinks and after I left, I invited him over to my place. We had a great night together. A little too much fun, but that's for a different story. Then the next morning I wake up, he's laying next to me and someone is pounding down my front door.

• 17:37Bunnie XO?

  Damn.

• 17:38Speaker 01

  Come to find out his girlfriend had his location. He forgot to turn it off. He let me escape out the window. And let himself out.

• 17:47Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 17:48Speaker 01

  I ended up moving up north later because she was stalking me.

• 17:51Bunnie XO?

  Oh damn. So he was with The Real Life Obsession.

• 17:55Speaker 01

  Ooh, great movie by the way.

• 17:57Bunnie XO?

  Good movie.

• 18:00Bunnie XO?

  Crazy.

• 18:01Speaker 01

  Well, um, you know.

• 18:02Speaker 02

  I got one. Uh, when I was 18, I wanted out of my parents' house so bad, I downloaded Tinder. Met this hot guy. We hit it off and because apparently I'd lost my damn mind, we got married after two months. Everything was heaven until one week after the wedding, my mother got a screenshot of him trying to hit her up on Plenty of Fish. I confronted him and he said, someone's impersonating me. And I believed him. Three weeks later, my cousin sent my mom a screenshot of him trying to send her a dick pic on Plenty of Fish.

• 18:36Speaker 01

  He has a type.

• 18:37Speaker 02

  That's when I said, oh, that wasn't an imposter.

• 18:41Speaker 01

  Imposter.

• 18:42Speaker 02

  Immediately cut that shit and moved my ass back home.

• 18:46Speaker 01

  Why is dude sending dick pics on Plenty of Fish?

• 18:48Speaker 02

  Why are we on Plenty of Fish?

• 18:49Bunnie XO?

  I thought Plenty of Fish was so 2002. I didn't even know that shit was still around.

• 18:53Speaker 01

  It might be an old story.

• 18:54Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 18:55Speaker 02

  Yeah. Yeah. Cause she said when I was 18. Yeah.

• 18:58Speaker 01

  Off.

• 19:01Speaker 01

  That's crazy. You're sending the mom and the cousin. Dan?

• 19:03Speaker 02

  Mom is crazy.

• 19:04Bunnie XO?

  The mom is wild.

• 19:05Speaker 03

  Crazy, yeah.

• 19:06Speaker 01

  I wonder if they all kind of look alike and he's got like a type and he's like, mm.

• 19:09Speaker 02

  Well, if she was 18, mom had to be like, what? Probably maybe like.

• 19:13Speaker 01

  Who knows?

• 19:14Speaker 02

  Thirty, I don't know.

• 19:17Speaker 01

  Elf. Are we doing?

• 19:18Bunnie XO?

  All right.

• 19:18Speaker 01

  Math right now?

• 19:19Speaker 02

  I am being math a man.

• 19:21Bunnie XO?

  He had a Twitter full of him with other guys, but told me it was old and he needed money. It was happening behind my back the whole time.

• 19:29Speaker 03

  Nope.

• 19:30Bunnie XO?

  Hmm.

• 19:31Speaker 01

  Got it.

• 19:32Bunnie XO?

  That's so hurtful.

• 19:35Speaker 02

  Damn.

• 19:36Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, that's super hurtful. I don't know. I feel like if.

• 19:39Speaker 01

  That also you can be giving shit to other people.

• 19:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, you're jeopardizing somebody's health, their life. Like there's just so many things that go into that. Like just be honest. Just be like, I still need money or I like it. I do it because I like it.

• 19:51Speaker 01

  You guys can be passionate about it together.

• 19:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, exactly. Or she can choose to leave. Like always give somebody the choice to stay or go.

• 19:58Speaker 01

  Always.

• 19:59Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 19:59Bunnie XO?

  Don't take that, don't take their free will away from them. They don't deserve that.

• 20:04Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 20:05Speaker 03

  Look, I've, I've needed money, but ain't nothing going in my ass. Just saying that.

• 20:10Speaker 01

  I don't know. We heard a story the other day.

• 20:12Speaker 03

  About something going in my ass?

• 20:13Speaker 01

  Near it.

• 20:15Speaker 03

  That's different.

• 20:27Speaker 01

  So funny, bro.

• 20:29Speaker 03

  That was crazy.

• 20:30Speaker 01

  That was crazy work. Go ahead Haley.

• 20:35Speaker 02

  We were only allowed to hang out on Sunday because he was busy the rest of the week. We dated a full year. You also would frequently sing Chris Brown's These Hoes Ain't Loyal to Me while he was cheating on me the last three months.

• 20:48Bunnie XO?

  He sounds like a real fucking gem.

• 20:50Speaker 02

  Sounds like one of my exes.

• 20:52Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, he sounds like a, he sounds like a real sweetheart.

• 20:54Speaker 01

  That's crazy.

• 20:55Bunnie XO?

  That is crazy.

• 20:56Speaker 01

  Two times in a year. Wow.

• 21:00Bunnie XO?

  In a year. That's, that's some serious time. Like ladies, stop fucking wasting your time for fuckboys, dude.

• 21:06Speaker 01

  People who said they stuck around for a year.

• 21:08Bunnie XO?

  Is crazy.

• 21:09Speaker 02

  And I've never stuck around that.

• 21:11Bunnie XO?

  If I might have, if I might have like put up with some shit, it's because that person was in my life daily. You know, like there's no way you're gonna see me twice in a year. And I'm just gonna be okay with it. Yeah, not happening. Like ladies, let's go. It's fucking 2026. We are raising our standards.

• 21:28Speaker 01

  Move on.

• 21:29Bunnie XO?

  Move on or fucking just let go. Let the dude go. They don't deserve you.

• 21:35Speaker 02

  Yeah. I feel like this topic is, you know, kinda.

• 21:40Speaker 01

  Let them go.

• 21:41Speaker 03

  This is an intervention, actually Haley.

• 21:45Bunnie XO?

  We did this topic for you Haley.

• 21:47Speaker 02

  Damn it.

• 21:47Speaker 01

  Yeah, so let him go.

• 21:49Speaker 02

  I'm gonna head out.

• 21:51Bunnie XO?

  All right, guys, we're gonna continue this into another podcast and it's gonna be a lot longer. So you guys go watch that. Love you guys. See you next week.