Pod Insights Dumb Blonde Ask, Tell, Confess: Should Hailee Date Pauly Shore? About this episode The coven gives an update on Hailee’s sketchy Facebook Dating dude (he’s somehow even worse than they thought), which leads to a convo about why she should just date legendary comedy hottie Pauly Shore. Then, the gals weigh in on the Theo Von lawsuit drama, share their favorite comfort movies and TV shows, and read a shocking confession from a listener whose husband accused her of being born a man. Watch Full Episodes & More:
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2:26 Bunnie XO? Ask, Tell, Confess.
2:46 Bunnie XO? Hello friends, welcome to Ask, Tell.
2:59 Bunnie XO? Chachi said confess.
3:02 Speaker 02 It was good to hear him though.
3:04 Speaker 03 It was great, I heard it.
3:05 Speaker 02 I heard it, yeah.
3:06 Bunnie XO? How is everybody doing?
3:07 Speaker 02 Oh, it's a good week.
3:09 Speaker 03 Doing alright.
3:10 Bunnie XO? Been a long time, my loves. Long time since I've seen you. So, who wants to kick off today's Ask, Tell, Confess? All of our sweet Patreon members, you guys send in so much stuff.
3:22 Speaker 02 Oh, there's some good shit.
3:25 Bunnie XO? I had people on my Snapchat, if you're not following me on Snapchat, please go follow me on Snapchat. It's oh hey, it's Bunny. I had a bunch of people, I did a Q and A over there and a bunch of people asked me how to send in Ask, Tell, Confess.
3:38 Speaker 03 Yeah, I get that in the comments all the time. I'm like, bro, you gotta be a Patreon, this is the only people we let be a part of this.
3:44 Bunnie XO? Even a $5 sub, you're good.
3:45 Speaker 03 You, all Patreon members, get to be a part of this.
3:48 Bunnie XO? Yeah, totally. So who's gonna kick it off?
3:51 Speaker 03 I feel like we need a little update, because something unraveled.
3:55 Bunnie XO? Oh Jesus.
3:56 Speaker 03 Give a quick update, real quick.
3:57 Speaker 02 We got more from Facebook Dating Guy.
4:00 Speaker 03 Give it a quick little update.
4:01 Speaker 02 So I got, actually Mimi got a DM.
4:04 Speaker 03 I got the DM. I didn't, I don't think I told you that. I got a DM from a girl, who says, hey, I don't know how else to contact you guys, but I think that what you guys talked about on the podcast the other day, was a guy I was talking to. And after he told me about some medical history, he ghosted me and I don't know how else to go about this.
4:25 Bunnie XO? I'm sat, ready?
4:27 Speaker 02 So she messaged me.
4:28 Bunnie XO? Sending it to her.
4:29 Speaker 02 And I was like, oh, I have a message number too. It says, I just listened to the podcast, the episode where he talked about Facebook dating. The guy who I had matched with on Facebook dating, he bartends in Nashville, also lives in Virginia. You remember me telling you guys that he was visiting family in Virginia?
4:46 Bunnie XO? Yes.
4:47 Speaker 02 Okay. Also completely goes to me too. So I had to reach out and see if this is the same guy. I'm in Georgia though, and matched with him. She said, I would really hope it's not the same guy, but it sounded like him. And if it was the same guy, we both dodged a bullet because he is HSV2 positive.
5:06 Speaker 02 I said, awesome. Do you have a picture of him?
5:08 Bunnie XO? Not shaming anybody who has that.
5:11 Speaker 02 No, but.
5:12 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
5:12 Speaker 03 That's something you should have been upfront about.
5:14 Bunnie XO? Absolutely.
5:14 Speaker 03 When you were talking and potentially wanting to have said relationship with someone.
5:19 Bunnie XO? It's just crazy to me. Like, what did he just offer up this information to her, but not you?
5:23 Speaker 02 In three days. They only talked for three days.
5:25 Speaker 03 That's what I'm talking about. Like you chose her to give the information, but not Haley?
5:29 Bunnie XO? So they were obviously having more sexual conversations.
5:32 Speaker 02 Probably. Yeah, I definitely wasn't. Mine was more dumb.
5:35 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
5:35 Speaker 02 But also he gave her a fake name. She was like, no wonder I couldn't find him because I was looking up a different name. So he gave her a fake name and now said he bartends, which he told me he does construction.
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6:56 Speaker 03 Yes.
6:57 Bunnie XO? Yes.
6:57 Speaker 02 He's just lying to everyone.
6:59 Bunnie XO? I feel bad for his girl, man.
7:01 Speaker 03 Yeah.
7:01 Bunnie XO? I feel like this is like.
7:02 Speaker 02 If he has one, I don't know. He's too.
7:04 Bunnie XO? I think he does have a girl. Oh, to keep lying and changing your name and your occupation.
7:09 Speaker 02 He has multiple.
7:10 Bunnie XO? That or he fucking just has fucking meat suits in his fucking basement.
7:14 Speaker 03 Wow, that seems more accurate.
7:15 Bunnie XO? Sewing together from each girl that he fucking makes a new victim, you know, like he's either like to be on that level of crazy and not have a girlfriend or somebody else in your life. You're a fucking psychopath.
7:28 Speaker 03 Yeah.
7:28 Bunnie XO? You kill people for a living.
7:29 Speaker 03 Yeah.
7:30 Speaker 02 Yeah. I've never faked my name to someone.
7:33 Bunnie XO? Yeah, that's so weird. I mean, like, well, stage names.
7:37 Speaker 02 Yeah, when we're pranking someone.
7:39 Bunnie XO? No, but stage names like Bunny or like my stage name that I've gone with.
7:43 Speaker 03 You're creating a whole different personality.
7:45 Bunnie XO? Like I, that's my brand. That's a difference.
7:47 Speaker 02 Actual Catfish, the show.
7:49 Bunnie XO? Yeah, it's, I wonder if we should call Neve and get him involved.
7:52 Speaker 03 Oh.
7:53 Bunnie XO? I feel like whoever he's with needs to know what kind of piece of shit he is, dude.
7:57 Speaker 03 Yes.
7:57 Bunnie XO? Like, he's really a gross human.
8:01 Speaker 03 I hope I run into him.
8:02 Bunnie XO? I mean, if he's. I hope you don't. He sounds like a psychopath.
8:05 Speaker 03 That's true.
8:06 Bunnie XO? Yeah. He might want to cut your skin off and wear it to his birthday.
8:09 Speaker 03 Oh, okay.
8:11 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
8:12 Speaker 03 And he said, yeah.
8:14 Bunnie XO? Yeah, he sounds crazy, right?
8:16 Speaker 05 Yeah, the first thing that came to mind was, damn, he took it that far. I remember him showing, or you showed us he had a picture of him and his niece. I think that's his daughter.
8:27 Speaker 03 Could have been.
8:28 Bunnie XO? He might be married.
8:30 Speaker 03 Oh wow.
8:31 Speaker 05 Yeah, I think he is full blown, just having a whole secret life.
8:35 Bunnie XO? That's disgusting. Why bring your kids into your fucking lies?
8:37 Speaker 03 This is a whole weird thing.
8:39 Bunnie XO? Even though we are speculating.
8:40 Speaker 03 I know. We just created an entire scenario and this guy could just be innocently like.
8:46 Bunnie XO? Obviously, we're not that far off, though, if this lady reached out and has the same story. So we're definitely on to something.
8:52 Speaker 02 Crazy. I hope, I hope more reach out.
8:54 Speaker 03 Much needed update. She dropped like a little sizzle on TikTok and people were immediately blowing her phone up.
9:00 Bunnie XO? Oh, I bet.
9:01 Speaker 03 Tell me now.
9:02 Bunnie XO? Dude, not only that, but we got an update with Monica too, but I'm gonna wait till Monica comes back. A girl reached out to Monica that. Yep.
9:09 Speaker 03 Yeah, it's crazy how much we talk about on here and like the reach that we have because these people are coming out of the woodwork.
9:16 Bunnie XO? Coming forward to out these disgusting humans.
9:19 Speaker 03 And I'm glad we're creating a, a coven. It's a coven that like.
9:23 Speaker 02 That should be a new, a new show we have.
9:25 Speaker 03 Exposed.
9:26 Bunnie XO? We need to, we need to find out what the legal repercussions can be. But I would love to out dudes all day. Fucking hire us. We'll do it, man.
9:34 Speaker 03 Have you seen the girl on TikTok who does them lives?
9:37 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
9:38 Speaker 02 She's like, catch up me this and I'll text them right now.
9:40 Speaker 03 Yep.
9:40 Bunnie XO? Yeah. And then, but she shows their fucking profile pictures and everything.
9:44 Speaker 03 Is your doxie like though? Like can't you get banned for that?
9:47 Bunnie XO? I don't know. I think if you have enough money, people can come after you for whatever they want. Look at the whole thing that's circulating with Theo Von.
9:53 Speaker 03 Poor Theo Von. That is my favorite clip on the internet right now.
9:56 Speaker 02 What happened?
9:57 Bunnie XO? Cause so Kai the hitchhiker, um, smash, smash, smash. That's Kai the hitchhiker. He said that Theo illegally used a clip of him and he asked Theo to take the clip down. And Theo responded to him in a Theo way, but he called it bullying and didn't take the clip down. So dude was like, okay, fuck you. I'm gonna take you to fucking court and tried to sue him for thirty million dollars.
10:24 Speaker 02 Yeah. What is up with thirty million? It's always like thirty million.
10:27 Bunnie XO? Well, because what happens is they go really, really high and then you end up settling for really, really low. So that's why all these lawsuits you hear that are like astronomical, nobody ever really pays that because you end up settling for like. Fucking sixty thousand dollars in court or something like that. Like it's it's wild. Unless they have like a really hardcore case. But anyways, um, yeah. So and then he was like defending some girl too. Saying that Theo was like a bully and like was like, you know, harassing some girl on his podcast. But then all knowing that Theo is a fucking comedian, like that's all Theo does is fucking joke around, you know? Like leave Theo the fuck alone.
11:01 Bunnie XO? Don't ever go to a comedy show. Like leave Theo alone. You're literally fucking famous for fucking, didn't he kill somebody? Kai, isn't Kai the hitchhiker, the guy that's in jail? Hold on, we gotta Google this. Give this a go, bro. Yeah, because that dude, if it's the one I'm thinking about, he's actually in prison, right? For killing somebody. So is he trying to sue Theo from fucking prison? Today's episode is brought to you by Vinted. Y'all know how it goes. You open your closet and have a million things hanging up, but somehow still feel like you have nothing to wear. That's me. And let's be real, half that stuff hasn't been touched in forever. Instead of letting all those clothes just sit there taking up space, you might as well make a little money off of them.
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13:17 Speaker 03 Anyways, I heard that-
13:18 Speaker 02 He witnessed the crime?
13:20 Speaker 03 Oh.
13:21 Bunnie XO? Oh, he witnessed it? He didn't do it?
13:23 Speaker 03 I think he witnessed. My favorite part of that clip.
13:25 Bunnie XO? Oh, no, he had a hatchet.
13:26 Speaker 03 I'm a Florida Ranger.
13:27 Bunnie XO? That's what I thought, because he's a smash, smash, smash, and he like smashed some dude.
13:32 Speaker 02 Yeah, he uh, he went viral for taking down a man who attacked an innocent civilian.
13:40 Speaker 03 Oh, so self-defense?
13:41 Bunnie XO? But he's still, isn't he in jail still or no? I heard it got dropped, though.
13:46 Speaker 02 He was convicted and sentenced in 2018. He was found guilty and sentenced to 57 years in prison.
13:53 Bunnie XO? Yeah, so he's in prison right now.
13:56 Speaker 03 So it's whoever owns his rights.
13:56 Speaker 02 Yeah, he's currently incarcerated at New Jersey State Prison.
13:59 Bunnie XO? So it's trying to sue Theo for 30 million? Who is his fucking lawyer?
14:03 Speaker 03 I mean, it's whoever owns like his ownership of like product and stuff, because you wouldn't-
14:07 Bunnie XO? He killed an attorney.
14:09 Speaker 03 Yeah, you wouldn't be able to keep the money in there. So you know, it's like when they make new Michael Jackson stuff, it's like it goes to the estate. So it's whatever his estate is.
14:17 Bunnie XO? That dude does not have an estate. He was homeless.
14:19 Speaker 03 I know, but like someone could have swooped in, some like person was like, oh, I can monetize off this person, sign me over all your rights.
14:25 Bunnie XO? Maybe.
14:26 Speaker 03 That, you know, taking advantage of the person.
14:27 Bunnie XO? We would need to definitely research that, because all I've read is that it's Kai that's doing it.
14:32 Speaker 03 That's crazy.
14:32 Bunnie XO? So, I don't know, but Kai even said that you need to, we need to stop supporting people like this. And it's like, Theo's the most harmless fucking human in the world. He gives us the most banger soundbites too, like leave Theo the fuck alone.
14:45 Speaker 03 One of the funniest comedians, like Theo was my exact comedy type. I could obsessively watch him because he is just good-hearted and so funny.
14:54 Bunnie XO? He's a sweet boy too, when you meet him in person.
14:57 Speaker 03 Yes, he is.
14:58 Bunnie XO? So sweet, so courteous and like so humble like Theo like and what did he say in the clip? He said, I drive a Ford Ranger.
15:04 Speaker 03 Yeah, I'm like, bro, that's so funny. He's like, what am I supposed to do?
15:08 Speaker 02 Yes, I have seen that.
15:09 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
15:10 Speaker 02 Ford Ranger.
15:11 Bunnie XO? The way that he was so upset in the call, like you could really see how upset he was.
15:15 Speaker 03 My favorite moment with him is we were backstage at the, were you with me? The LA show with Theo?
15:20 Speaker 02 I was, uh, with Paul.
15:22 Speaker 03 Oh, oh, yeah.
15:24 Speaker 05 I think it was me.
15:25 Bunnie XO? Oh, I was trying to get you to hook up with Pauly Shore.
15:27 Speaker 03 Yes, and Theo's backstage, he's like, how the hell do I get out of this place? I was like, oh, I'll walk you to the docks. And then he stopped midway of our walk and goes, you think Jolly's gonna be okay if I leave? Jolly's performing at this moment. And I was like, Theo, I'm pretty sure he's gonna be okay. And he's like, all right, let's go.
15:43 Bunnie XO? Um, I, I still think you and Pauly Shore would be the cutest couple, Haley. He's the sweetest man.
15:50 Speaker 03 He is the sweetest.
15:51 Bunnie XO? That's the fucking weasel. Like, bro, he is an icon.
15:55 Speaker 03 The greatest part is Haley has no idea who he was.
15:57 Bunnie XO? I know.
15:59 Speaker 03 At all.
15:59 Bunnie XO? I know. It's like we do and we're like, Pauly.
16:02 Speaker 03 We're hanging out with him. We get home and I'm like, Haley, we just hung out with Pauly Shore. And she goes, never seen a movie. I said, we're watching Son-in-Law right now.
16:13 Bunnie XO? When we travel, let's have a Pauly Shore night. You will fall in love with young Pauly.
16:18 Speaker 02 I thought he was cute when he was young, yeah.
16:20 Bunnie XO? Yeah, young Pauly is fucking a legend, dude. I mean, old Pauly's a legend too, but like, young Pauly was fucking born.
16:27 Speaker 03 His new comedy stuff is so good. I love him.
16:30 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
16:30 Speaker 03 Such a sweet soul.
16:31 Bunnie XO? For sure. All right, who's gonna kick this shit off? Cause I need to go home and snuggle with my fucking cow.
16:35 Speaker 02 There you go.
16:36 Bunnie XO? No, mine are depressing. No, I'm unhappy.
16:38 Speaker 02 I got a quick ask.
16:39 Bunnie XO? All right, cool.
16:39 Speaker 03 Oh, okay, go ahead.
16:40 Bunnie XO? Go ahead.
16:42 Speaker 02 Okay, Lexi wants to know, if I have a ticket to Stagecoach, are you guys gonna be doing a meet and greet?
16:50 Speaker 03 No, we can't do that. It's not our show. So I'mma answer that from the business side of things.
16:55 Bunnie XO? No meet and greets.
16:55 Speaker 03 No, there's like nothing like that when it comes to Stagecoach. We can't facilitate things like that.
17:02 Bunnie XO? But yeah, we'll wave.
17:03 Speaker 03 Yeah, you'll probably see us in the passings.
17:06 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
17:06 Speaker 03 You will normally always pull her out on stage, stuff like that.
17:10 Bunnie XO? There was another question about meet and greets at post show and we don't.
17:14 Speaker 03 No.
17:14 Bunnie XO? Yeah, somebody asked me that on Snapchat last night and I just told them that I'm not doing meet and greets ever again.
17:21 Speaker 03 No.
17:21 Bunnie XO? Not that I don't want to meet people. It's just so much energy.
17:25 Speaker 03 It's a lot.
17:26 Bunnie XO? And I, I want to be able to pour myself into each person, you know, like, and if we do meet and greets, it's going to be a different way.
17:33 Speaker 03 Yeah, I was gonna say for the book tour and things like that, when it comes to like your podcast book touring type stuff, we are going to give you guys a very VIP experience.
17:43 Bunnie XO? Yeah, Patreon members for sure.
17:45 Speaker 03 Yeah, that's all going to be in that kind of.
17:48 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
17:48 Speaker 03 But that's a bunny thing. When we go on to do these things, when it's like a Post Malone tour or Stagecoach and music festivals, we can't facilitate stuff like that.
17:57 Bunnie XO? Can't do it.
17:58 Speaker 02 Sorry.
17:59 Bunnie XO? All right, go ahead memes.
18:00 Speaker 03 This is an ask. Um, what are y'alls comfort TV shows? You know, the ones you have watched every episode at least twice, the ones you have on in the background kind of shows. So I will go first.
18:12 Bunnie XO? Give it.
18:13 Speaker 03 The Office.
18:14 Bunnie XO? Really?
18:15 Speaker 03 Yeah. Yeah. That's my like background noise.
18:20 Bunnie XO? Are you?
18:20 Speaker 03 You're too young.
18:21 Bunnie XO? I know. Not an office girl.
18:23 Speaker 02 Not my type of humor.
18:24 Speaker 03 You would appreciate the humor now.
18:26 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
18:27 Speaker 03 You have to be in a certain part of your life to appreciate The Office.
18:30 Bunnie XO? So I don't watch anything twice. That's like a rule I have unless it's like a movie, like beaches or like, you know, like a nostalgic movie, but I refuse to watch anything twice. I can't do it. My ADD can't handle it. Unless I watched it and just didn't comprehend it, then I can watch it again. But if I watch it and I know the ins and outs of it, I don't see the point. Like my brain gets really bored and I can't watch it. So I watch literally anything true crime. So forty eight hour, um, like forty eight hours.
19:02 Speaker 02 You can re-watch them?
19:03 Bunnie XO? No, I just let them play on a loop.
19:05 Speaker 02 Do you have a comfort movie?
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20:12 Speaker 02 Beaches.
20:12 Bunnie XO? Beaches.
20:13 Speaker 03 What was that movie you had?
20:14 Bunnie XO? Steel Magnolias. I still haven't watched that.
20:17 Speaker 03 You had us watch with the little girl.
20:19 Bunnie XO? Beaches.
20:21 Speaker 03 That's Beaches?
20:21 Bunnie XO? The Best Friends.
20:22 Speaker 02 The one we watched at, at the beach?
20:24 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
20:25 Speaker 03 Yeah.
20:26 Bunnie XO? I like that movie a lot.
20:27 Speaker 02 It's so good.
20:28 Speaker 03 So cute.
20:28 Bunnie XO? Yeah, like, I love, like, old movies like that. So, yeah, comfort movies would be like the old movies from back in the day.
20:35 Speaker 03 I love that Disney has put, like, a lot of the old Disney movies on there. I know, like, It Takes Two. Love that movie.
20:41 Bunnie XO? Good movie.
20:42 Speaker 03 What's yours?
20:46 Speaker 02 Two ends of the spectrum. SpongeBob and Gossip Girl. Yeah, I love Family Guy. I'll watch Family Guy all the time, too. Or American Dad.
20:55 Speaker 03 SpongeBob's just running in my house all the time.
20:57 Speaker 02 SpongeBob, I just, I quote that on the daily, too.
20:59 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
20:59 Speaker 03 Yeah, what's yours, Haimi?
21:01 Speaker 05 It's gonna have to be New Girl. You ever watched that?
21:04 Bunnie XO? What? No, we've never watched that.
21:07 Speaker 05 You've never watched New Girl?
21:08 Bunnie XO? No.
21:08 Speaker 03 No. You know what? I've watched the first season, the girl who moves into the apartment.
21:14 Speaker 05 Yeah, with Zooey Deschanel.
21:15 Speaker 03 Yes, that, that gives Jaime vibes, I get it.
21:18 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
21:19 Speaker 03 I get it.
21:19 Speaker 05 It's a comedy, easy watch, easy watch show. It's my comfort show. Brooke hates it, but I love it.
21:28 Bunnie XO? Was a girl in another life.
21:31 Speaker 05 I think so too.
21:31 Bunnie XO? So in tune with his feminine side. And I don't mean that like disrespectful because he's not like, he's very manly. There's somebody who's very sensitive.
21:39 Speaker 03 There's something said about men who were raised by single moms.
21:42 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
21:42 Speaker 05 That's what it was.
21:43 Speaker 03 Jason was raised by a single mom. There is something, and I'm telling you, like, there is a special sparkle in people.
21:50 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
21:50 Speaker 03 Raised by moms. Yeah.
21:53 Bunnie XO? If you think about it, the past 12 years, yeah.
21:55 Speaker 03 Is, yes, there's something, and I love all these.
21:58 Bunnie XO? He's masculine, but he's very, yeah.
22:00 Speaker 03 There, they have such a sensitive side and open and acceptance of just like the world and, and women. It's beautiful. I love it. Or ones that have sisters.
22:10 Bunnie XO? Yes.
22:10 Speaker 05 I had both of those.
22:11 Bunnie XO? Yes.
22:13 Speaker 03 I know, a sister and a single mom.
22:15 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
22:16 Speaker 03 There's something about those boys that are just so special.
22:19 Bunnie XO? I love it.
22:20 Speaker 05 Love you guys.
22:20 Bunnie XO? All right, moving on. I would like to be anonymous. Three years into my marriage, my husband started accusing me of being born a man because I'm tall, Scottish to broadly shoulders, and what the fuck ever made him think this, even though I have children from a previous relationship? And he knew me while pregnant. He would not leave me, he would not leave me alone about it. It's so much that I had to do a 23 and me. I was obsessed to prove it to him. So obsessed that I lost myself for a long time. Not that I'm being a victim. I'm still married to him going on nine years total. Yes, he did finally drop the subject, but I will never be the same mentally. First of all, ma'am, that's not a victim mentality. What your husband did to you was abusive.
23:04 Speaker 03 That's abuse.
23:05 Bunnie XO? That's abuse. That man literally has a skeleton in his closet. Something triggered that and he's projecting it onto you. Somebody said something to him, something happened to him, something.
23:19 Bunnie XO? Triggered him abusing you like that. And if I were you, I would have left him a long fucking time ago.
23:25 Speaker 03 Why are we still together?
23:26 Bunnie XO? Why? He's probably gonna do that to your kids.
23:28 Speaker 03 And he's gonna do this in another subject.
23:31 Speaker 02 Behind your back.
23:32 Speaker 03 Yeah, if he's saying that to your face.
23:34 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
23:34 Speaker 03 No, there's, that's not going to end right there.
23:37 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
23:37 Speaker 03 That is going to resurface in another way, may have nothing to do with that subject. He's going to abuse you again in another subject.
23:44 Bunnie XO? I mean, he's seen your vagina. Like, how was he gonna say that you're, that you were a man, dude? Like, that was, he was literally bullying you.
23:51 Speaker 03 Yes, bullying is always been in my mind.
23:54 Bunnie XO? Yeah. And you deserve to feel the way that you do. You are right in every way that you feel. Your feelings are valid. If you need to go talk to a therapist to kind of work through it, do it. But the first thing you need to do is drop that fucking dud.
24:07 Speaker 03 Yes.
24:07 Bunnie XO? Fuck that dude.
24:08 Speaker 03 Man, fuck that guy.
24:09 Bunnie XO? Fuck that guy. All right, well, we're gonna end it there. I love you guys. See ya next week. Bye bye.
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