Pod Insights The Daily Stoic | Wondery+ It Doesn’t Take Long to Do This | Mark Manson's Reading List (From Ryan Holiday) About this episode It was a bad year. You picked up some bad habits. You let some good habits slip. You wasted time on stuff that didn’t matter. But just because that’s true doesn’t mean things have to continue that way.
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Die With Zero https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/die-with-zero-getting-all-you-can-from-your-money-and-your-life?_pos=1&_sid=c1a21534b&_ss=r Range https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/selfhelp17?_pos=1&_sid=3798164b0&_ss=rGoing Infinite https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/going-infinite-the-rise-and-fall-of-a-new-tycoonMontaigne https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/biography17?_pos=1&_sid=fd6bff463&_ss=rPontius Pilate https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/pontius-pilateConundrum https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/conundrumThe Daily Drucker https://www.thepaintedporch.com/products/daily-drucker-366-days-of-insight-and-motivation-for-getting-the-right-things-done
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0:56 Speaker 00 It doesn't take long to do this. It was a bad year. You dropped some balls, you picked up some bad habits, you let some good habits slip. You wasted time on stuff that doesn't matter. You made plans for a creative project, but no progress on them. But just because that's true doesn't mean it has to continue that way. As Marx Reels writes in Meditations, "Now they see you as a beast, a monkey, but in a week they'll think you're a god if you rediscover your beliefs and honor the logos." A week! A week is all it takes to turn it around. Maybe it's more, maybe it's less, but the point is, it doesn't take long
1:40 Speaker 00 to get going in the right direction again. It doesn't take long to turn things around, to pick up the balls you dropped, to replace one bad habit with a better one, to recommit to your principles and begin acting like the person you know you can be. And that's what we built the Daily Stoic New Year, New You Challenge around. It's just three weeks, 21 days, to start the year right, to create momentum, to transform you from whoever you are right now to who you're capable of being in 2026. 21 days of Stoic-inspired challenges, one per day, to help you be what you're capable of being.
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3:28 Speaker 00 What have you been reading or what do you like?
3:31 Mark Manson? Dude, everything, so speaking of podcasting, like most of my reading is just whoever's coming up next.
3:37 Speaker 00 Oh, yeah, yeah. That is nice because it forces you to read new books that you probably ordinarily would take like a long time to get away from.
3:44 Mark Manson? Yeah, so I just went back and read some of Cal's stuff, read his new one. And then I'm doing, interviewing Noah tomorrow, so I just.
3:51 Speaker 00 Noah Kagan?
3:52 Mark Manson? Yeah, so I'm.
3:52 Speaker 00 We had that around, he was here. He did like a thing at the store.
3:55 Mark Manson? It's down here, it's the bright green.
3:57 Speaker 00 Oh, there it is.
3:58 Mark Manson? Yeah, I actually need to finish.
4:01 Speaker 00 Have you read Die with Zero? I've been raving about that lately.
4:03 Mark Manson? Yeah, actually, my wife's reading that right now.
4:05 Speaker 00 Really?
4:05 Mark Manson? And it's blowing her mind.
4:06 Speaker 00 Yeah.
4:07 Mark Manson? Yeah.
4:09 Mark Manson? Yeah, it's fantastic. Gets you thinking about a lot of interesting stuff.
4:12 Speaker 00 He's gonna come in. Did you end up going? So people don't know, we were in sort of writing group that met before the pandemic that was Shane Parrish.
4:22 Mark Manson? James.
4:22 Speaker 00 James Clear, before he'd done any books.
4:25 Mark Manson? Tim Urban.
4:25 Speaker 00 Tim Urban.
4:29 Speaker 00 Nier.
4:30 Mark Manson? Nier.
4:31 Speaker 00 His book is here, Hooked.
4:34 Ryan Holiday? Steve Cam, you, me, I think we're forgetting some, oh, David Epstein.
4:40 Mark Manson? Oh yeah, David, yeah.
4:41 Ryan Holiday? For Range. Did you go?
4:43 Mark Manson? No.
4:43 Ryan Holiday? Okay.
4:44 Mark Manson? It's actually this coming weekend.
4:46 Ryan Holiday? Oh, right, right, right. That's why I'm not going. Yeah, it's spring break. Shane's book is good.
4:53 Mark Manson? Yeah, I still need to have him on.
4:55 Ryan Holiday? Yeah, he came out, he did it.
5:00 Mark Manson? Did you read the Michael Lewis one?
5:02 Ryan Holiday? Of Going Infinite?
5:03 Mark Manson? Yeah.
5:03 Ryan Holiday? So good.
5:04 Mark Manson? Is it?
5:05 Ryan Holiday? I think people, people gave him.
5:08 Mark Manson? So much shit?
5:09 Ryan Holiday? Yeah, he fillets the dude. He comes off as a complete clown.
5:13 Mark Manson? Really?
5:13 Ryan Holiday? Yeah, totally. The only thing, his somewhat contrarian argument is, like, okay, first off, he spent about $5 billion in investments.
5:26 Mark Manson? Yeah.
5:27 Ryan Holiday? And one of them, he invested in, was it Ethmorphic or what, the big AI company that's now worth like a trillion dollars?
5:36 Mark Manson? Right, right, right.
5:37 Ryan Holiday? So like, that one investment?
5:38 Mark Manson? It's gonna make us for, yeah.
5:40 Ryan Holiday? So, so like, it's hard, his argument is like,
5:45 Ryan Holiday? at the end of the day, there may not be that much fraud there.
5:50 Mark Manson? Yeah.
5:50 Ryan Holiday? Uh, which is, which is not in any way a clearing him. It's just that it's not, it, like, $40 billion didn't evaporate, or whatever, that, it's a little, it's a little different. But he comes off as a great example of a person who's very smart, but also a moron.
6:08 Mark Manson? Yeah.
6:08 Ryan Holiday? Like, he doesn't read, he thinks he knows everything, he doesn't think personal or soft skills matter, he's actually a horrendous manager, he's not on top, like, so he comes off as someone who,
6:23 Ryan Holiday? yeah, I thought, I thought the book was really interesting. I liked it. And then it's all, you're just watching one of the greatest of all time, just, I would, I would, he could write about, there's a Malcolm Gladwell blurb where it's like, if I found out Michael Lewis wrote a book about staplers, I would read that book. And like, it's true, I would, I would read him about anything.
6:40 Mark Manson? I, uh, he got, Lewis got destroyed because he gave a 60 Minutes interview and defended SPF on it and, and.
6:47 Ryan Holiday? The interview was not great.
6:49 Mark Manson? Yeah.
6:49 Ryan Holiday? But it's not the book.
6:50 Mark Manson? It was a bad look. I actually just read a news story recently that said that SBF has been giving his prison guards crypto trading advice and the prison guards are already up like 10x.
7:01 Ryan Holiday? Yeah, that's hilarious.
7:03 Mark Manson? I was like, that's awesome.
7:05 Ryan Holiday? Yeah. Yeah, it's fascinating.
7:08 Mark Manson? Yeah.
7:08 Ryan Holiday? I thought it was good. I thought it was good. I'm gonna use him in the wisdom book as like an example of a smart student person. Musk being another great example of that.
7:16 Mark Manson? Oh, yeah.
7:17 Ryan Holiday? Yeah. Of a person whose brain is apparently so open that, or whose mind is so open that their brain falls.
7:24 Mark Manson? Well, it's also, Musk is a great example of like domain brilliance, right?
7:29 Ryan Holiday? Yes, of course.
7:32 Ryan Holiday? What else? Did that Montaigne book come in yet? Do you know, Tristan? We don't?
7:40 Ryan Holiday? So the weirdness of the bookstore is that a lot of the books that I really love are not super popular and so they are constantly out of print. And it's hard to get them. Like this, I've been raving about this book, which I think you would like as a, it's a biography of Pontius Pilate.
7:58 Mark Manson? Oh, wow.
7:58 Ryan Holiday? Which like you don't think of as a guy who had a shitty job.
8:02 Mark Manson? Yeah, right.
8:03 Ryan Holiday? He's just the governor of a province of the Roman Empire and there's like a troublemaker in it. And we don't know that much about him.
8:12 Mark Manson? Yeah.
8:13 Ryan Holiday? But like she does like, she's the obituaries editor for The Economist. So she's like a really interesting writer and it's like one of the greatest biographies I've ever read in my life.
8:21 Mark Manson? Really?
8:22 Ryan Holiday? So good.
8:25 Ryan Holiday? Like, and it's a good example, like multiple times he tries to do the right thing, but it would have required just like 10% more spine.
8:37 Mark Manson? Yeah.
8:37 Ryan Holiday? Like he kept trying, like, because basically at the end he says like, you guys decide.
8:41 Mark Manson? He tried to let Jesus go.
8:43 Ryan Holiday? Yes, but then at the end he goes.
8:45 Mark Manson? All right.
8:46 Ryan Holiday? You guys do it. You know what I mean? He says, I wash my hands of it.
8:48 Mark Manson? Yeah.
8:49 Ryan Holiday? Right? That's what the expression comes from. But like he, if he had had just, if he just said like, my job is to make the decision. That's my job.
8:56 Mark Manson? Yeah.
8:57 Ryan Holiday? And a good chunk of people are not going to be happy with the decision. Like all of history might have turned out differently.
9:02 Mark Manson? Yeah.
9:02 Ryan Holiday? And then at the same time, she does talk about it, which I don't think about from a biblical standpoint, which is like.
9:08 Ryan Holiday? Or is he the fall guy? Because the prophecy was that he would come and be put to death, right? So somebody had to do it. So he actually didn't have a choice.
9:18 Mark Manson? Yeah.
9:18 Ryan Holiday? Like, he, he was just the guy. Like, his number came up and God said, you have, like, you know what I mean? Like, so the other, the other way is that, like, it couldn't have happened any other way? And so, I don't know, it's really interesting. I love that book. I think you'll love, you'll like it. Trying to think what else.
9:41 Ryan Holiday? What else have you, what have you been into? Or have you read any of these recently?
9:48 Mark Manson? What have I read recently?
9:50 Ryan Holiday? Ooh, okay. Talk about the best way to understand the present is to read from a long time ago. Do you know who Jan Morris is? So Jan Morris was, fuck, what's his name? What's his actual name? Is it, oh, James Morris?
10:05 Ryan Holiday? Is the journalist who climbs Everest with Hillary. He is the great historian of the British Empire. And then in, like, nineteen, what year is it? I don't know, nineteen sixty, nineteen seventy?
10:20 Ryan Holiday? Gets gender reassignment surgery, like?
10:23 Mark Manson? Super early, yeah.
10:24 Ryan Holiday? Yeah. But so, so it's a memoir of what it is like to be trans. But from, like, three generations or multiple generations before any of the things that are now made that discussion toxic. You know?
10:40 Mark Manson? Yeah.
10:40 Ryan Holiday? So you're like, oh, this is just what, like, you know what I mean?
10:43 Mark Manson? Yeah, yeah.
10:43 Ryan Holiday? So you're just like, oh, this is what it's actually like and how hard it would be and
10:51 Ryan Holiday? what you would feel and all of these things.
10:54 Mark Manson? Yeah.
10:54 Ryan Holiday? But none of the political, none of the culture war stuff. It's ju, and, and you can't possibly say that, like, this wasn't a dude.
11:02 Mark Manson? Yeah.
11:02 Ryan Holiday? You know what I mean?
11:03 Mark Manson? Yeah.
11:03 Ryan Holiday? Who, like, this was like a man's man who's in the army, like, all this stuff. But, like, deep down, knew he was someone and something else. I, I thought it was incredible. It's one of the best books I read last year.
11:13 Mark Manson? I've been reading a lot of business shit lately.
11:15 Ryan Holiday? Because of the podcast?
11:16 Mark Manson? I've been hiring a lot.
11:18 Ryan Holiday? Oh.
11:18 Mark Manson? So I'm, like, hitting that point where I'm like, sure, I should, like, kinda know what I'm doing when I, like, when it comes to...
11:25 Ryan Holiday? Yeah, like, people?
11:26 Mark Manson? Right, yeah, dealing with people, managing.
11:28 Ryan Holiday? What do you, what have you liked? Because that's a section I don't have a lot of great books.
11:32 Mark Manson? I, so...
11:35 Mark Manson? I just finished Ben Horowitz's The Hard Thing About Hard Things.
11:37 Ryan Holiday? That book's great.
11:38 Mark Manson? Yeah, I really liked that one. I read some of Drucker's stuff.
11:41 Ryan Holiday? Have you read The Daily Drucker?
11:43 Mark Manson? I have not.
11:44 Ryan Holiday? That was the inspiration for The Daily Stoic.
11:46 Mark Manson? Really?
11:46 Ryan Holiday? My agent Steve did that book.
11:48 Mark Manson? No shit?
11:48 Ryan Holiday? Yeah, you go like, people know Peter Drucker is a leadership expert, but like, they're like, where do you start?
11:54 Mark Manson? Yeah, yeah.
11:54 Ryan Holiday? And there isn't like a class, it's not like, like if you're like, I want to read Jim Collins, you read Good to Great, that's just a classic book. There isn't one for Peter Drucker.
12:02 Mark Manson? Yeah.
12:02 Ryan Holiday? And so you could, you could get the wrong one. And so he was like, why don't we just do one page a day of the best stuff?
12:07 Mark Manson? Yeah.
12:08 Ryan Holiday? And it was a huge hit. And so that's, when he suggested The Daily Stoic, that's the model he was using, because he had done it as a publisher.
12:14 Mark Manson? Wow.
12:15 Ryan Holiday? So it's pretty good. You might like that.
12:16 Mark Manson? Nice.
12:22 Ryan Holiday? I, I don't flip through it enough, but I should.
12:28 Ryan Holiday? No asshole rule is good.
12:29 Mark Manson? Is this a...
12:32 Mark Manson? Is this like bonus footage of you pitching me books to buy from your bookstore?
12:39 Ryan Holiday? So we do this, it's so funny, we do this every time, like, the whole point of the bookstore is like, I love all these books. Like, these aren't like, like, we should have, if this was like a regular bookstore, none of these books would be in it, probably. And, or some of them would be, but most of them would not be in it. And we'd have way more books.
12:52 Mark Manson? Sure.
12:53 Ryan Holiday? A bookstore this size should have 15,000 books in it.
12:55 Mark Manson? Yeah.
12:55 Ryan Holiday? Uh, like titles.
12:57 Mark Manson? Sure.
12:57 Ryan Holiday? Not inventory.
12:58 Mark Manson? Yeah.
12:58 Ryan Holiday? And so, so it's mostly like, I just, I love all the books. So I could, you could ask me anyone, I'd tell you why it's amazing.
13:03 Mark Manson? Yeah.
13:03 Ryan Holiday? But, so we do this, like, we just go, like, we just started doing a recommended, and then they'd like walk, they'd walk up at the end and try to pay. And I was like, I did not just trick you on camera into buying seven books or whatever.
13:15 Mark Manson? I didn't, I didn't think you were gonna make me pay for it.
13:17 Ryan Holiday? No, when Admiral McRaven was here, he was like, no, no, no, I'm gonna pay. And I was like, well, but I wasn't picking the books based on like, what I think you should buy. I was just saying, like, I was just picking all my favorite, like, I maybe wouldn't buy this one if I was paying for it. Like, because I think you just might get one thing out of it. So, yes, I'm not, this isn't me on camera bullying you into buying.
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