Pod Insights Call Her Daddy Podcast Alix Earle: Secrets, Sex & Scandals (FBF) About this episode Travel to New Jersey to meet Alix’s entire family and step inside her home to experience the chaos up close. For the first time, Alix opens up about the years of embarrassment and bullying after a public scandal tore her family apart. She addresses the rumors head-on regarding a certain NFL player and her alleged role as a homewrecker. She invites Alex Cooper to her first post-grad apartment in Miami to experience life from her POV. The girls get ready for a night out and talk about Alix’s dating life, her A-list DMs, her most toxic traits, and more! Alix spills the tea during a game of truth or drink and talks about her sex life for the first time ever. From the club to the beach to the deep hungover talks the morning after - this episode takes you on a full journey. Prepare to get to know Alix Earle like never before.
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2:37 Speaker 04 People have like 100 million followers on TikTok. That's insane. I never really got that until Alex Earl. And I'm like, she deserves that. I feel like I actually know Alex Earl. Alex Earl. She was at the Kardashian's. Just after my wedding. She was at Bray's. To talk about Alex Earl.
2:55 Alex Cooper? Daddy gang, it is your founding father back at it again for another season of Call Her Daddy. We made it, baby. Okay? We fucking made it. Season four. I don't know if you're ready for what I have planned for you, but I am really, really fucking excited. I have now officially been doing Call Her Daddy solo for four years. And I can't thank you guys enough because I literally wouldn't be here without you. So to my OG daddy gang, I love you. To the new people that have come along the way that have become daddy gang, I love you. And I have a feeling, just a, just a little feeling, that maybe, probably, absolutely,
3:36 Alex Cooper? this year, season four, is going to be the best yet. Because, as you know, on Call Her Daddy, we like to get into it, okay? Over the past few years, we really have gotten deep with every guest we've had on the show. And we've gotten to know so many people in really fun and intimate ways. Every episode, I feel like I actually get to know the person sitting across from me. I really get to know them. And based on my Instagram comments, it seems like you guys agree. It seems like you guys are kind of having a good time, right? I think. So I was thinking,
4:19 Alex Cooper? I'm always up to something. You're like, Alex, what the fuck now? What now? Let's sometimes.
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4:54 Alex Cooper? When has your father ever failed you?
4:58 Alex Cooper? So, let's go hang out with the internet's biggest it girl. Daddy Gang, here we fucking go.
5:35 Alex Cooper? What is up Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call Her Daddy.
5:54 Alex Cooper? Hi.
5:55 Speaker 04 Hi.
5:56 Alex Cooper? It's happening?
5:57 Speaker 04 It's happening.
5:58 Alex Cooper? Okay. Alex Earl, welcome to Call Her Daddy.
6:07 Speaker 04 Welcome to New Jersey!
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10:10 Alex Cooper? and plan required. Visit tmobile.com. Okay, so Alex, to people that are tuning in being like, who is Alex Earl? What is happening in this episode? During your senior year of college at the University of Miami, you absolutely blew up. You got a huge following online. And you are now arguably one of the most famous people on the internet. Everyone's obsessed with you. Everyone's talking about you. They want to know who you're dating. They want to know about your life. And I'm sitting here in your hometown of New Jersey, meeting your family, your parents, your siblings. And I'm like, what do you think that they think about all of this craziness?
10:45 Speaker 03 First of all, that is so crazy to even hear you say. I'm like, oh, my gosh, no, I'm not. But they have kind of been with me through it all. Like, when I blew up was over the holidays. So it was Thanksgiving and Christmas. And I was literally sitting with them. And as much as I'm watching this, they are too. And people are calling them, contacting them. I remember there was something around Christmas of me, like, on the news on ESPN. And my dad's like, Alex? He's like, what is going on? What are you posting on TikTok? And then they kind of downloaded the app. They started to learn about it all. And they got really involved. But, yeah, they've been super supportive throughout it all.
11:22 Alex Cooper? I'm curious, obviously, like, this is not your home. This is your dad's house. You live in Miami. When you're in Miami, what do you miss most about being home in New Jersey?
11:31 Speaker 03 I love just hanging out with my family and bantering with them, having dinner. Like, you'll get to see, but everything is very chaotic over here. And there's always a lot going on.
11:45 Alex Cooper? Hello?
11:46 Speaker 03 I have someone here.
11:47 Alex Cooper? Oh, my gosh, there's so many. Hi, guys.
11:50 Speaker 03 Hi, this is Alex.
11:52 Alex Cooper? Hi, everyone. Oh, my goodness, are you Thomas? I've seen you in the TikTok videos. Are these your dinosaurs? What are their names?
12:00 Speaker 05 Trabosaurus and Albertosaurus.
12:05 Speaker 05 I'm Thomas. I'm Alex's younger brother. I'm six years old. I love Alex pretty proud of me. And I really love her a lot. And I appreciate that she plays dinosaurs with me.
12:18 Alex Cooper? It's so nice to meet you. Hi, Ashton. Ashton, it's so nice to meet you.
12:26 Alex Cooper? Hi, I'm Ashlyn. I'm Alex's little sister. I'm 20 years old and I'm gonna be a junior at Tulane University. I feel like I know all of you because I see all of you on TikTok. What's your name?
12:35 Speaker 06 My name's Penelope.
12:37 Alex Cooper? Penelope. Oh, oh my god.
12:42 Alex Cooper? What am I, Penelope? What am I supposed to do, Penelope?
12:46 Speaker 06 You can hold him.
12:47 Alex Cooper? Okay.
12:50 Speaker 06 I'm Penelope. I'm Alex's little sister and I'm 8 years old. Alex might be the TikTok star now, but wait until you see me. And this is my lizard and I think Alex Cooper really likes him.
13:06 Alex Cooper? This is great. Hi, nice to meet you. Hi. What's your name? Isabel. Isabel, I love your hair.
13:13 Speaker 07 Hi, I'm Isabel and I'm Alex's younger sister. You guys might see her get ready with me, but I see the behind the scenes. And it's a hot mess.
13:22 Alex Cooper? The moms, come here.
13:23 Speaker 07 I can't come near you.
13:26 Speaker 04 My mom's such a bad guy.
13:27 Alex Cooper? I'm gonna give you a hug.
13:29 Speaker 04 Hi.
13:30 Alex Cooper? I didn't anticipate this.
13:31 Speaker 04 Thanks for coming. No, no, no time.
13:34 Alex Cooper? Oh, careful.
13:37 Speaker 08 Hi, I'm Ashley and I'm Alex's stepmom. Alex is so great with all the kids and having a free babysitter is always nice.
13:45 Alex Cooper? Hi, nice to meet you. So nice to meet you, finally.
13:50 Speaker 09 Hi, I'm Alyssa and I'm Alex's mother. I believe Alex got her craziness, her kindness, and her energy for having fun from me and all the other good stuff from her dad. My house is a little cleaner when she's not around, but other than that, we miss her energy.
14:07 Alex Cooper? Mr. Earl, come on, I need a hug. Come on.
14:10 Speaker 10 Nice to meet you.
14:14 Speaker 10 I'm really happy Alex is making her own money now, even though she's still spending mine. Excuse me, I gotta take a call.
14:21 Speaker 03 Hello?
14:22 Alex Cooper? Is this just a normal day at the Earl household?
14:25 Speaker 05 Yeah.
14:26 Speaker 06 After, can I show you around the house?
14:29 Alex Cooper? Please, yes, I would love that. You can give me a little tour?
14:39 Alex Cooper? Oh.
14:40 Speaker 03 So they're not.
14:40 Alex Cooper? Oh my god.
14:41 Speaker 03 Cut it.
14:42 Alex Cooper? Okay. I'm watching your siblings and they're like, they are scrolling TikTok over there. And I'm thinking like, how does it make you feel that they are watching your content?
14:53 Speaker 03 You know, sometimes I forget and they'll text me something like so niche that's going on in my life. They're like, what? Like, you're wearing that top out tonight, Alex? Like, oh my god. And I'm like, I forget that they are watching this.
15:05 Speaker 03 But it's honestly nice because I feel like even if we don't have the time to catch up, they're always keeping up with me.
15:10 Alex Cooper? Okay, well, Alex, I am so excited to go on this little adventure with you and get to really know you. We're in your hometown right now, so let's go see a couple of places that are memorable and meaningful to you.
15:31 Speaker 03 Alright, we're off. We're going to see my high school. This is like where I grew up, my town. Welcome.
15:36 Alex Cooper? Okay, wait, so you didn't grow up in that house?
15:39 Speaker 03 No. That house, we moved in probably when I was in like 8th grade, I think. But that's not where I grew up. I grew up with my mom like 30 minutes away from there.
15:49 Alex Cooper? Do you have a good voice?
15:51 Speaker 03 I have the worst voice you've ever heard in your entire life. Like, I can't sing. Like.
15:56 Alex Cooper? Give me a, give me a tune.
15:59 Speaker 03 Well, this one I've actually been practicing. I can show for you. Baby, it's you.
16:08 Speaker 03 I was inspired after we went to the Beyoncé concert.
16:12 Alex Cooper? Okay, give me, give me.
16:12 Speaker 03 I thought it was good.
16:13 Alex Cooper? Give me it again.
16:14 Speaker 03 Baby, it's you. That was good. See? Can you sing?
16:20 Alex Cooper? What is it? I don't, I think I can impersonate.
16:23 Speaker 03 Okay.
16:23 Alex Cooper? Like, if I was doing Christina Aguilera, it'd be like.
16:30 Alex Cooper? But it's, but I can't.
16:31 Speaker 03 You're kidding me?
16:32 Alex Cooper? But if someone, but if someone told me to sing like myself, I'd be like.
16:37 Alex Cooper? Heh, like, I couldn't.
16:38 Speaker 03 How do you just do that?
16:42 Speaker 03 That was good.
16:43 Alex Cooper? That was yours.
16:43 Speaker 03 Yours. I always say, I said to my friends,
16:48 Speaker 03 if I ever come out with music, or you see like, just know like, I have been ambushed, like, I'm being held against my will, or auto-tuning me, like, this is not something I could ever do.
16:59 Alex Cooper? I think it's good that you are self-aware.
17:02 Speaker 03 You're the...
17:05 Speaker 03 You're the one I love. You know what? Why don't we try a different game?
17:12 Alex Cooper? She is a woman of many talents, folks, but it is not gonna be the carpool karaoke today.
17:19 Speaker 03 We're gonna enter this town right now, it's called Bread Bank. Okay, anyway, here's our high school.
17:34 Alex Cooper? Obviously, so much has changed in your life since leaving this high school, leaving this town, moving to Miami, you know, becoming so well-known. But it's interesting to meet your family, be in New Jersey. I feel like the world looks at your family, and it looks like, you know, your mom and your stepmom are getting along, everyone's drinking and partying, and it looks like this unified family. And it wasn't always this family that was bonded together. Can you take me back to the moment when you were in second grade? And your life essentially flipped upside down?
18:07 Speaker 03 I've never talked about this online before. I was kind of waiting for the right platform or moment. I remember the day very clearly. Paparazzi had shown up at my house, and my mom quickly kind of got me and my sister out of the house, over to our cousins, we stayed there for a few days, and I had no idea what was going on. I didn't know they were paparazzi, I thought news broadcasters were interviewing the neighbors, like, I really had no idea. And for anyone listening who doesn't know my family, or doesn't know what I'm talking about, my dad had an affair with...
18:45 Speaker 03 Someone who was well-known for her job having sexual relations with high-class people and one of them was even the governor of New York. She was very well-known from that and in turn, my dad's affair became a very public situation.
19:05 Alex Cooper? Did you find out about like the news coverage and everything happening first? Or did you find out that your parents were getting a divorce first?
19:12 Speaker 03 So a year after this affair happened, my parents sat me and my sister down and we were going out to dinner. It was right before dinner. They said, "We're gonna be living apart." My dad got a house like 10 minutes away. They were gonna try and, they were gonna see how that was kinda working. They never said it was like a final divorce, but in that moment, we kind of knew. And I had speculations that something was up because for the past year, they had started to fight and bicker with each other. And I would sit at the top of my staircase, listening to it. And before that, they never really fought. Like, I think it was like a pretty good, normal family dynamic.
19:54 Alex Cooper? When did you realize, because you were so young at this point, like, when did you realize that this scandal essentially was getting media coverage in the news?
20:02 Speaker 03 It was in like 4th grade. I started to kind of hear commentary from people and I had an iPad at the time. And I remember Googling, like, you don't know that many people. I'm Googling my family and all of a sudden, I see that the past 2 years of my life had been a lie. I am reading articles about what had happened, about the times that my dad's taking me to go get ice cream and it's really because there's paparazzi outside my house and he's hiding us from them. Like, I had just felt like my world crashed down in that moment. I didn't know the severity of what had happened between my parents because my mom was super, super mature about it and didn't speak to us about it and didn't put that stress that she was going through onto us.
20:48 Speaker 03 Um, but that's, I kind of figured it out myself and then I proceeded to deal with it myself and...
20:56 Alex Cooper? I was gonna say, did you tell anyone that you saw that on your iPad?
20:59 Speaker 03 I had talked to my mom after and, but you're so young. Like, I didn't even fully understand what it was that, why this woman was such a big deal that my dad had slept with. I didn't understand.
21:13 Speaker 03 The severity of it and I was confused still, but I knew from that moment on that I wanted to protect my little sister from feeling the way that I felt in that moment.
21:25 Alex Cooper? What were you like mentally doing every day? Like you're going to school? Like, how were you even comprehending this?
21:33 Speaker 03 I would try and just push it down a lot of the times. Like, I would try not to comprehend it. Um, I knew that I loved my family and issues would come up. And a lot of the time, my family really tried to just be as normal as possible and we wouldn't really talk too much about these issues or that if we did, like, there was nothing that we could really do about him or when my stepmom started to hang around with my dad after he had moved out, um, she came into his life and we were introduced to her, which was super weird. And
22:12 Speaker 03 I was told that I had to be respectful to this woman and we had to be nice to her and this, I wanted to rip her head off. It was very weird because I felt like I was a ten-year-old, having to be more mature than someone twenty, thirty years older than me. So, I don't know, like, in the moment, I didn't realize how much that would have affected me. And now I look back and, whoa.
22:40 Alex Cooper? Obviously, you're dealing with this at home, but like, when you talk about school, like, I can only imagine what you were dealing with. Obviously, parents talk, kids hear, like, what was the dynamic in school for you?
22:54 Speaker 03 I mean, you can imagine, middle school is like peak. People are bullying each other, like, tearing each other down, so obviously, they had a one-up to just shit on me and shit on my family. And besides that, besides people making comments about it, which happened, um, people weren't allowed to hang out with me. People weren't allowed to like come over to my house. Like, if I wanted to invite the girls over, I remember one day, I was like, oh, we should go have like snacks and like, I don't know, Gatorade at my house before we go to this middle school dance. And we weren't allowed to host this, I'm gonna call it a pregame, but obviously, we were not drinking. Host this pregame at my house because people didn't want their kids around my family.
23:37 Alex Cooper? How was that articulated to you? How do you know that?
23:39 Speaker 03 Um, the parents would kind of tell my mom and she would tell me kind of the harsh truth of like why this can't happen. She would have to sit, sit me down and be like this, like, you know, they don't really respect us.
23:52 Alex Cooper? Oh my god. How, like when you say that out loud now, like, what do you feel for like your younger self? Like having to deal with that for like a peer dynamic because of something that was happening with your parents?
24:05 Speaker 03 I feel, I feel bad for her, but I feel like I wish I had someone to kind of lean on in that moment. I feel like I was leaning on myself a lot of the time because I didn't want to stress anyone else out. Um, and I was trying to look out for everyone else maybe but myself in the time. So I was just like, okay, we're just gonna bottle this up and not talk about it. But I, I wished that I could like go back and have her talk to someone about what was happening in that moment. Because I just was like, okay, this is like life, this is normal, like this is what's happening, like, whatever. We're not going to my house for the pregame.
24:43 Alex Cooper? First of all, like, hearing that you couldn't have people over for like sleepovers or get togethers, like, because everyone else was so involved in this and this was like town gossip essentially, like, did it prohibit you from being able to actually like have your own opinion of the situation? Or do you think it just like really amplified your feelings toward it?
25:05 Speaker 03 I think it definitely made me have a lot of hatred towards the situation. And it was, it's just weird because I obviously felt a lot of emotion and I was super upset. And I couldn't let that out, kind of like there was nowhere for me to kind of go or talk to or like, I don't know. Like I didn't really ever let that out. So I just would deal with these emotions within myself. My high school teacher, because this was such a public affair, especially for anyone living locally in my town. You kind of knew who she was and knew the situation that had happened. My teacher in high school was talking about this.
25:45 Speaker 03 Governor's affair and said exactly what had happened, who it had happened with and like looked me in the eyes while this was going on in class. And I remember my classmates looking at me and like laughing because this was like about my family and this is something he was literally teaching in history class because I don't, I forget what the lesson was there, but I left school like bawling my eyes out. I was so embarrassed. But like this is so nice to be able to talk about this publicly because I really never.
26:14 Alex Cooper? Yeah, Alex.
26:16 Speaker 03 I mean, it's embarrassing, but I am stubborn and I would never let people know that. So I would kind of put up that wall and I would kind of go the way of being very defensive. I'm like, okay, like, yeah, but so like I looked like a hardo, but obviously that's not the way that I felt on the inside. And I even think now like that sometimes I can be a little bit like brutal with things or brutally honest because I would just have this like wall up where I was just like, these emotions are not going to get to me. Um, wow, this is like really crazy right now. I feel like I'm in a therapy session. I'm like realizing things I didn't even realize before.
26:52 Alex Cooper? Is there anything that you have recognized recently in your twenties that you're like, fuck, I've got to work on this because of the shit that you dealt with as a kid?
27:01 Speaker 03 Yes. Uh, this has actually been a realization for me like the past few months, past six months, past year, whatever. Um, with relationships, romantic relationships, I've always been kind of one foot in, one foot out. Like I've always been a little closed off and I've always been like, wow, I'm the girl who like doesn't care. Like I'm like, to my friends, it always was looked at as like, oh, she's really good with dealing with guys because like they can leave and she like doesn't care. She's like, okay, next, like whatever. But taking a step back and realizing that like I've actually never, besides maybe my first like love and then he cheated on me and that went to shit. So like, of course, and then I'm going back to this like little shell
27:46 Speaker 03 of a human and I'm like putting this wall up. I never allow myself in relationships to be like a hundred percent committed and vulnerable and like all in because I'm so afraid of getting hurt like that.
27:58 Alex Cooper? How has maturing and getting older helped you to see everything maybe in a different light?
28:06 Speaker 03 I think especially the past few years, I've taken a step back and realized that my parents are just humans as well and you know, at the time, like your parents are like your world, like you think they are these perfect people, but like they're experiencing life for the first time too, like they fuck up, they make mistakes. People grow and people learn like it's it's been like reassuring and stuff to like realize that.
28:33 Alex Cooper? Yeah.
28:33 Speaker 03 You know, just because someone makes a mistake, they're not evil, like they're learning, it's their first time with marriage, with kids, so.
28:41 Alex Cooper? Everyone gets fucked up by their parents somehow. You can be so affected from it, but then it also does help, I agree, when you get older to look at people and be like damn, like we're making risks, mistakes right now, I'm like what's the next phase of life gonna be that like we're going to have, if when we have kids one day, like what are we gonna do?
28:57 Speaker 03 Exactly.
28:57 Alex Cooper? Trying to find the silver lining, because at the end of the day, you gotta survive, you gotta move forward, you love your family, obviously. There's been hardships, but it's like, how do you move forward? I guess that is kind of my next question is like, you do have this beautifully blended family now, like what is the best part of it?
29:13 Speaker 03 So with the divorce, I feel like the main thing, and anyone whose parents are divorced, I feel like you can relate to this, is you feel like you don't have that like core family anymore, like your Christmases are kind of split up and separated and like it's just not the same, like you're not having family game nights like all together, like your family, like really to me was like my mom, my dad and my sister. And now that my family is so well blended and they get along so well, like I get to do all these events in my life where it's like my mom, my dad, my little siblings and my stepmom and it's a new feeling because it's a different type of family to me, but like having my mom around with my dad, like it's just
29:53 Speaker 03 that feeling is like the best feeling in the entire world and I'm so grateful that You know, they were able to do that for us.
30:03 Alex Cooper? I know you are going to talk more about this on your own podcast, Hot Mess, because I think so many people are probably like, how did we get here?
30:10 Speaker 03 I could talk about this for days. Like, this is scratching the surface on what had happened. And like, there's so many stories to be told. Like, there is a lot that went on to get our family to the place that we are in today. Um, it was not always perfect. And I think to anyone listening that's going through this, know that like, it's okay if it's not perfect right now, because trust me, it was not for a while, and it's still not at times. But that's the thing with social media is you sometimes don't know any of this. Like, I'm posting my family hanging out and dancing, and people are like, oh, wow, this is so great, they're such a blended family. And I'm like, you don't even know the half of it.
30:49 Alex Cooper? Totally. People are like, oh, I'm so jealous. Like, I want to have this huge, big family. And it's like, you've had to deal with your own shit. Like, it's not all perfect. We're sitting here talking about how you dealt with, in your childhood, in your family, an affair, essentially. And this past summer, you were getting scrutinized on the internet. People were calling you a mistress. Some people were calling you a homewrecker in regards to the NFL player that you were hooking up with. Can you confirm, were you hooking up with him when he was in a relationship?
31:19 Speaker 03 It is so triggering to even hear you say that. Or when I was reading these comments, I was bawling my eyes out to my friends, and they're like, hello, Alex, like, this stuff does normally not get to you. But like, from what we just talked about, I spent my childhood thinking this is basically the worst thing you could do to another human. So why the fuck would I do that? Like, no, they were not together.
31:40 Alex Cooper? So why do people even think that he was cheating with you?
31:43 Speaker 03 So I guess the ex-girlfriend had started posting things alluding to unfaithfulness and the relationship online. And I was seen hanging out with this guy, so everyone kind of just pointed fingers at me. And you know I was asking for the receipts, like, right away. Like, I was probably more psycho than she was. I was like, there's just no fucking way this happened. Like, I was checking everything. We have been over this probably 110 times, because I was like... If you did that to a person, obviously, of course, like you'll probably do that to me too. And if I did that to someone else, like I wouldn't be able to live with myself. This is why I'm so excited to have a podcast coming out tomorrow. But this is just the beginning of me being able to talk about things in my life.
32:28 Speaker 03 And I haven't had like a platform really where I've been able to let these things out and like tell the truth or tell my truth, you know, so I'm excited.
32:37 Alex Cooper? I'm so proud of you. I need a fucking drink, okay?
32:40 Speaker 03 Me too. I need 10.
32:42 Alex Cooper? I'm looking in your eyes and like, we need shots, we need to go out.
32:45 Speaker 03 We need tequila right now.
32:47 Alex Cooper? We're like both crying. We're like, we did not intend to get this emotional, but I think it was only right that we kick off Call Her Daddy. We're both crying now. We're like, let's go get fucked up. I have to say, Alex, as much as I would love to go out with you in New Jersey,
33:01 Alex Cooper? I think that maybe instead of going out where you were raised and born, I think we should go where you became famous, where you really became Alex role that the internet knows. Let's go to Miami.
33:13 Speaker 03 The 305, baby.
33:15 Alex Cooper? Oh, Miami, let's go.
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36:03 Alex Cooper? Alex?
36:05 Speaker 03 Hi.
36:07 Alex Cooper? What are you doing?
36:08 Speaker 03 I didn't have any furniture, so I got these last minute for us. I figured this would be good to sit on.
36:14 Alex Cooper? Yeah, I mean, for sure. I love what you've done with the place.
36:18 Speaker 03 Welcome.
36:19 Alex Cooper? Alex, these chairs are everything.
36:22 Speaker 03 They're kind of comfy.
36:23 Alex Cooper? Yeah, they're like, kind of a vibe. Like, they're setting the vibe of like, you just moved in, this is all you have.
36:28 Speaker 03 Yeah.
36:29 Alex Cooper? This is all we have. Okay, so let's, let's talk about, this is your first apartment post-college. How did you even decide to stay in Miami?
36:38 Speaker 03 It was never a question that I was gonna say. The first week of school, my parents were like, hey, like, after they left, they're like, are you homesick? And I was like, no, like, I'm never leaving. Like, they knew. I never got homesick once. I was like, this is the place for me, like. You can go out all the time, there's so many things to do, it's beautiful. You can go to the beach, you can get a tan. I was just like, this is meant for me and I'm not leaving.
37:00 Alex Cooper? I think you're like, when I was coming here, I was like, I'm so excited because we are gonna go out tonight. And I was like, you really have become, in my eyes, and I think in everyone's eyes, like, the mayor of Miami.
37:10 Speaker 03 Oh geez.
37:10 Alex Cooper? Yeah, that's like a...
37:12 Speaker 03 I don't know about the mayor.
37:22 Alex Cooper? Okay, let's make a fucking drink. What are we making?
37:26 Speaker 03 Um...
37:27 Alex Cooper? Tequila, like, what are you drinking today?
37:28 Speaker 03 I'm gonna probably have vodka sodas or tequila sodas. And we just gotta pick, maybe let's do tequila, because if we're gonna take shots, I should just...
37:37 Alex Cooper? I'm not taking vodka shots.
37:38 Speaker 03 We, yeah, and I need to stick to one.
37:40 Alex Cooper? Yeah, yeah, yeah, let's stick to one. No blacking out, and no throwing up.
37:43 Speaker 03 Tequila also makes me crazy, so...
37:44 Alex Cooper? Oh! Are you, you're gonna do a chaser?
37:47 Speaker 03 Yeah, I'm just gonna do club soda.
37:50 Alex Cooper? Okay.
37:50 Speaker 03 I like can't drink sweet drinks.
37:53 Alex Cooper? I can't either.
37:54 Speaker 03 I only...
37:55 Alex Cooper? I think I'm just gonna go on the rocks. Wait, here.
37:58 Speaker 03 Okay.
38:00 Alex Cooper? Okay! This is what we've all been waiting for, guys.
38:03 Speaker 03 Now it's gonna be fun.
38:04 Alex Cooper? Cheers.
38:04 Speaker 03 Cheers.
38:05 Alex Cooper? Woo! Let's go get ready.
38:16 Alex Cooper? I think every single person online is like, I wanna go out and party with Alex Earl. I'm getting the honor. You're kinda taking me out of retirement, because I just get fucked up in my home now. While we're getting ready, daddy gang, I'm gonna ask Alex some questions because we need to get to know her. Did you always know how to do makeup really well?
38:32 Speaker 03 I, so I was a dancer, so a lot of the time we were traveling for competitions, and they make you cake on all this makeup, so I was literally like, 10 years old and I'm like, smokey eye, like, here we go. You know, the fake lashes, everything, so that's where I feel like I got my start with makeup.
38:47 Alex Cooper? Okay, but also, don't you feel like when you have acne, like, you come up with the most innovative ways to cover that shit?
38:53 Speaker 03 I'm like, no one's gonna see this. I will take this to the grave.
38:56 Alex Cooper? You just learn how to do it, it's more of like, out of survival, rather than like...
38:59 Speaker 03 You know what I used to do?
39:01 Alex Cooper? Tell me.
39:01 Speaker 03 is disgusting.
39:02 Alex Cooper? No, tell me.
39:03 Speaker 03 But like when I would like talk to a guy or get with a guy or whatever and I'm staying over. I would sleep in my makeup and if my skin was having a point like at my like very, very bad points, my acne, I'd bring my foundation and concealer in my purse. Before he gets up in the morning, I'm sprinting to the bathroom and I'm like applying more foundation and he's like probably like waking up like, why is this girl like bright orange right now? Cause I was like, he will not see these pimples on my face.
39:30 Alex Cooper? Isn't it crazy too? Because you think like, oh my God, he won't notice. Meanwhile, we just look orange. I did the same thing, but if, did you ever do this? Because you knew that your like breakouts would get so much worse. I used to go in and I would take a makeup wipe. And right when I knew he was asleep, mid-sleep, I would go and take it off. And then I would make sure to wake myself up before he.
39:48 Speaker 03 I wasn't that responsible.
39:50 Alex Cooper? You're like, no, I just, I just triple caked it.
39:52 Speaker 03 Taking it on and you know, then it's embarrassing too when his sheets are like orange or like the pillow I sleep on, I'm flipping it over. I'm like, that was not me. That was not from me. I'm not sleeping in my makeup.
40:05 Alex Cooper? And you just leave and you're like, you will never see me again. Um, okay. Speaking of boys. Alex Earl, are you currently single?
40:16 Speaker 03 Yes.
40:17 Alex Cooper? Oh, I love how fast you just said that. Were you an NFL man ever exclusive?
40:25 Speaker 03 We weren't, but I don't know. It's been weird. Starting to talk to someone while kind of having like a following, I guess. Just because people would see us out together. So naturally they're like, oh, they're dating. But I'm like, we've been hanging out for two weeks and you're catching us on our first date and everyone's like, they need to be dating or whatever. She's lying to us. So it's been kind of weird in that sense. Um, just cause like keeping things private is hard if you wanna like go out and.
40:55 Alex Cooper? Right. You wanna like live a normal life. You wanna go get sushi. You want him to like take you out. But you're also like, we, everyone thinks we've been fully dating. This is our first date. Did you ever want to be exclusive?
41:07 Speaker 03 No. Listen, I just have.
41:16 Speaker 03 I don't know, we started talking at like a very weird point in my life. I was finishing college, so obviously like my friends and going to college parties, like that came first and then we had graduation and then I was kinda traveling for the summer, so like as much as we were hanging out, like it never felt like the right time to start a relationship.
41:37 Alex Cooper? Mm-hmm. Would you say that you're more of like a relationship girl or more of like a dating girl?
41:41 Speaker 03 So this is my problem, and I don't know like what is wrong with me, but I say I'm not a relationship girl, but I'm always kind of in a relationship situation ship just because I feel like I'm not as attracted to someone. If I don't know their personality and like I like to get to know them first, but I also kind of like my freedom and I'm very independent, so I struggle with that a lot.
42:09 Alex Cooper? Dude, I relate so much, I feel like all the time in college, I would feel the same, like I never wanted to just hook up with a guy to hook up with a guy, like I needed to make sure I liked him. And then naturally, I feel like people pose women so much more emotional than men and I'm like, that's actually just not true. We may be more outwardly emotional, but when you get into a relationship, guys get fucking sappy with it. And so I would start hooking up with guys and I'd obviously wanna get to know him better. And then all of a sudden, I'd be like, okay, now I can actually like fuck him and like him because I'm like, I know his personality. But then when you do that with them, then they're like, we're ready to date, I'm like.
42:41 Speaker 03 Yeah, that's not what that means.
42:42 Alex Cooper? No, I just wanted to make sure I like your personality before like you go down on me.
42:46 Speaker 03 Yeah.
42:46 Alex Cooper? So, yeah, like, yeah, exactly. So I relate to that and I think it's okay, I just think it's annoying, obviously. I think I've seen a lot of things in the media about people being like, oh my god, like he would never date her because she's like going out and partying and I no shade to him, but I think it's important sometimes to be like, it's not always that the woman is waiting for the man to pick him, like as I've been snooping around talking to your friends behind your back, I'm hearing like you're very much so in control of these dating situations and you're just trying to like, keep it chill.
43:15 Speaker 03 I don't know, we're having fun, but there's just, there's no pressure and I've expressed kind of my Reasoning for that and just, I actually brought it up before because the media was starting to scare me before he, we had never had like a dating conversation. I was just like, um, like I, I just really, I want to talk about this, like I am, I'm not ready to date. He's like, okay. He's like, uh, yeah, I didn't say, did I say that to you? And I'm like, uh, no, but I'm not ready. And he's like, that's totally fine. Like he gets it, you know?
43:45 Alex Cooper? I think that sometimes it's actually really good to just establish that, even though it seems weird to word vomit. That I think what you need to do is 100% talk about this on your show because the behind the scenes details of how you
43:57 Speaker 03 A lot.
43:59 Alex Cooper? Guys, Daddy King, if you're not aware, Alex started to kind of like see this NFL player. And let's just say she got herself stuck into a little bit of a love triangle. And I'm assuming on Hot Mess, you are going to talk about the whole thing, which I think is appropriate. Just because you're just gonna, you gotta clear your name, girl.
44:17 Speaker 03 I will give all of the details, um, but yeah, we're gonna save that for my podcast. Because I'll end up taking up the whole episode with that.
44:27 Alex Cooper? I love it. Okay. So if you met the right person right now, would you be open to a relationship? Or are you really trying to stay single right now?
44:34 Speaker 03 Like, that's the thing is that I just don't, I'm just not dying to be in a relationship right now. Like this is a very, you know, new time in my life. And I just want to be able to get to know myself before entering a relationship. And I've done that before where I get into a relationship too fast or whatever. And it's not even about the person, but I just like, right now, I'm like, okay with not being super like in a relationship, seeing that person 24/7. Like I'm having fun with my girls and I'm getting to like know this new chapter of my life.
45:12 Alex Cooper? Isn't that so weird too? When like you get out of college, don't you have feel like this pressure where like, I have to figure everything out. And it's like, you're still 22 years old. Like you have time, you can date around, you don't need to get into a serious relationship unless it feels like, oh my God, I'm so in love with this person. Are you sweating like a fucking psycho?
45:29 Speaker 03 I'm
45:30 Alex Cooper? I'm, you guys, I have to get out of this robe.
45:32 Speaker 03 Well, that's why I'm like, I'm gonna need a lot of powder on my face right now because I'm like.
45:36 Alex Cooper? No, we need to change. We need to change. I'm sorry.
45:39 Speaker 03 Wait, no, it's wet. It's wet.
45:42 Alex Cooper? Alex, I'm literally drenched. Okay.
45:44 Speaker 03 I'm so happy you said something.
45:45 Alex Cooper? I saw you and me. I'm like, I'm my, I'm gonna, I'm literally drenched. Okay, we're gonna be right back. Let's continue. So Alex Earl, answer this question and just, you know, what comes to the heart? What is your type on paper?
45:59 Speaker 03 Uh, tall, dark and handsome.
46:02 Alex Cooper? Hmm, you're not dating someone that looks like that?
46:04 Speaker 03 Because, I, because, okay, that's my like stereotypical type. I don't know, getting to know someone, that's when I'm really attracted to them and I'm always attracted to like a loud personality. Which can also be kind of horrible, but like just maybe not the best guys sometimes, but like someone who is like loud and energetic and fun when we're going out, like the guy who's quiet in the corner is just like not ever been my type.
46:33 Alex Cooper? Your vibe. Like you want someone that can like match your energy. Like you don't want to feel bad when you're having a good time partying and you look over and the guy that you're fucking is like standing in the corner being like, why is she going crazy? You want him like right next to you.
46:43 Speaker 03 Yes.
46:44 Alex Cooper? I think I saw a video of you with someone doing that with you.
46:46 Speaker 03 What?
46:47 Alex Cooper? A guy, like at a concert, I think I saw him doing that next to you. Yeah. He was dancing with you. He's matching your energy.
46:52 Speaker 03 What the fuck was he doing?
46:53 Alex Cooper? What? What was that creeper doing? So, okay, so you like someone loud, which can sometimes come off as like cocky?
47:00 Speaker 03 Mm-hmm.
47:01 Alex Cooper? So you have to kind of balance finding that? Okay, so tall, dark and handsome. You know, you're getting roasted on the internet right now already. What is your emotional type? Okay, aside from being loud, like what are you actually looking for from a guy?
47:14 Speaker 03 I just like a guy that can like get things done. Like if we want to go to dinner, there's like a reservation booked. He has, like, he knows the plan, like he is kind of like taking control. I don't know, I like someone that like, you know, behind the scenes can like get really down to earth and have deep conversations.
47:31 Alex Cooper? Cause meeting you, I feel like your life is a lot of like, you're calling the shots, you're running a lot of things in your life. So it's kind of hot to have a guy that like knows what he wants.
47:39 Speaker 03 And also just someone who's driven with their own career and their own aspirations.
47:47 Alex Cooper? And if they're good. How would they do?
47:51 Speaker 03 And if they're not sitting on the bench.
47:54 Alex Cooper? And as long as they're not warming that bench up and they're riding that bench, then we're good to go. If you're on the field, we love you. If not, we're so fucked.
48:04 Speaker 03 I'm gonna get roasted for that one.
48:05 Alex Cooper? No, it's okay. Um, okay, what is the best and worst part? I can participate in this of dating an athlete?
48:14 Speaker 03 Um, well,
48:17 Speaker 03 I think the,
48:20 Speaker 03 maybe let's start with the worst because that's what comes to mind first, I feel. The worst part I feel like is that they can kind of get really insecure, um, because a lot of what they're doing is based on how they're performing. So I think it's hard kind of not to be. Um, but, you know, an insecure guy can cause other issues.
48:41 Alex Cooper? Like what? Like what? Stan, come on, Alex. Get in there with us.
48:45 Speaker 03 I mean, you know, just basically taking it out on you and trying to kind of look cooler than they are because they're putting on a show. Um, I think that all kind of comes with just being really insecure and not leading to really like a healthy relationship. Uh, also it depends like, but I think the schedule is different for, I mean, I know the schedule's different.
49:11 Alex Cooper? Let's talk about the MLB versus NFL versus the NBA.
49:14 Speaker 03 Baseball's schedule just sucks.
49:16 Alex Cooper? It's a motherfucker.
49:17 Speaker 03 It's crazy. Definitely like not fun, especially if they're like traveling and leaving a lot. But maybe the best part is,
49:28 Alex Cooper? Say it.
49:28 Speaker 03 Um, I think the best part is like getting to like go to the games and it's exciting and like, I don't know, if you're like, yeah, that that's my guy, like whatever. When he does something good, that's, I think, pretty cool.
49:42 Alex Cooper? It's not like, you know, it's really nice because like when he comes home like is it you're like so being on that sideline. It gives no, I love it. I think the answer is right. I think my answer is similar of like, I feel like.
49:54 Speaker 03 When they're doing good, it's really good.
49:55 Alex Cooper? Yeah, I think the worst part is like their whole life is very much so focused on like no one telling them that they're doing anything wrong. It's like you're doing great. So like when they're having a bad game, it's like we need to, I used to have to sit in silence on the couch with him as he was like.
50:11 Speaker 03 Oh, my God.
50:12 Alex Cooper? Like that was fucking awful. And you're just like their fucking therapist as they cry and you're like, I have a life too. Like we had dinner plans.
50:18 Speaker 03 I also think with athletes, like weirdly, I never really got into the athlete thing until like. Later in college, like before I had always hated athletes for the reasoning of they could. Never kind of like go out and party and get drunk because they have to be up in the morning and like they're being responsible. So like for me, I never found that fun. And someone just when you're like, you're young, you know, you're going out. So that's a big thing for why I didn't.
50:44 Alex Cooper? I also think on camp, this is like fucked up to say, but we'll just say it. I think also on campus. The athletes to me started to become on like in actual college land are not as fun because they're like. On campus, they're sitting in the dorms, but then when you do meet professional athletes, like they actually do go out a little bit more than you would anticipate.
51:00 Speaker 03 Yeah.
51:00 Alex Cooper? And they also are like living a nice lifestyle and like have nice apartments and like have things that like they're kind of more a little bit more in the real world. I do think the NFL schedule is great for you, sweetie.
51:10 Speaker 03 It's a lot better than baseball.
51:12 Alex Cooper? Is it like sixteen games in a season?
51:15 Speaker 03 Um, I don't know the answer to that yet, but. We're not going that far.
51:20 Alex Cooper? We'll figure it out this season, but I agree. It's a lot easier. Um, and then the MLB schedule fucking sucks.
51:26 Speaker 03 You did game almost every day.
51:28 Alex Cooper? Every day. It's it's awful and they're just all crazy. Do you prefer the MLB or the NFL?
51:33 Speaker 03 NFL.
51:35 Alex Cooper? Okay, so let's tell the story of what you told me about my ex and what I told you about your ex the first time we met.
51:41 Speaker 03 Okay, yes.
51:42 Alex Cooper? So, what is this, like four months ago?
51:45 Speaker 03 Yeah, four or five months ago.
51:46 Alex Cooper? Okay, Alex and I go to a brunch together and we're like having Bloody Marys and we're like getting cozy talking to each other. And then finally randomly like you bring up one of your exes that played in the MLB.
51:57 Speaker 03 Because I think I was like, I feel like you would know him. And I had messaged you one time on Instagram being like, something is fucking weird here and I need advice. And I like messaged her and then I was like, wait, that's so embarrassing. Like, why would she answer me ever? So I like unsent it. But I was like, they might know each other. And then we met and I I brought it up just because, whatever. And you were like, I do.
52:18 Alex Cooper? I do. Okay, so I remember, this is where I was like, wow, his type hasn't changed and like he's really just still getting after that game. When I was in college, I remember he messaged like me and like any girl in Boston that had blonde hair, like he would message. And
52:33 Speaker 03 Oh, he messaged us every once.
52:36 Alex Cooper? He's in there, he's really active, he's determined. So I tell Alex, I'm like, oh my God. So I remember your ex messaged me so often and like not to be a dick. And this is like me being the most surface level human being, but when you're in college, you're just looking for like the best time and like who can give you a good time. So like if you're not on the actual MLB roster, if you're like down under, like in the um,
53:00 Alex Cooper? what is it called? The MLB and the
53:02 Speaker 03 Miners?
53:03 Alex Cooper? Miners. If you're down in the minors, like you're literally living in dorm rooms. So like not to be a dick, but like I don't have interest in dating you because you're like, you're going through what like the college guys are going through. So anyway, so he keeps messaging me, he keeps messaging my friends. And I'm pretty sure like I messaged him back like a few times, but I was always because I wanted to get to his more interesting teammates. And then whenever he would get sent down from the Yankees, I would like stop answering them when he would come back up. I'm like, what's up today? And so then finally I remember meeting you and being like, Alex, like I think it's for the best that you move on because he's just looking, he's like, almost like he's like he's obsessed looking for a girlfriend.
53:39 Speaker 03 I was his like first girlfriend, which I think also was another one of like maybe the biggest shoes. But like I was his first like serious girlfriend and like. Since high school.
53:51 Alex Cooper? Right, like you were the first victim. And didn't he play on the same team as my ex, or what was the story you told?
53:56 Speaker 03 Yes, so, um, I was always like a color daddy fan. And I knew who you dated and they were on the same team. So obviously I was like, you know, like that's Alex Cooper's ex. And he's like, I know, like they bring it up, like they tease him, whatever. And I was like, well, that sucks because she's so much more successful than him. And he's like, and I was like, well.
54:21 Alex Cooper? Doesn't it, it can give us like a little peace of mind. Alex, like for everyone shitting on us for our jobs, like to know that people in the MLB locker rooms are going to forever maybe be chanting our names until they fucking retire, which I'm sure mine is like about to on his way out. He can't get a fucking contract. But, um.
54:39 Alex Cooper? It's not that I look, people just send me this shit. They're like, whoa, you're on your way up, he's on his way down. But, um, it is funny to think that our ex has crossed paths. So now you're on to like a different experience. And listen, guys, we're like lightly talking shit. It's, we're not, it's fun. Have you dated anyone in the NBA? That we don't know about?
54:56 Speaker 03 No.
54:59 Alex Cooper? No, really?
55:00 Speaker 03 But I have a funny story. So I told you I was never really into sports. And also like, I don't, my family is not into sports. Like my dad has never watched a sports game in his life. Like this was just not their culture. So like, I don't know, I didn't grow up like super involved in this either. And my freshman year of college, I get a DM from someone who was on the Miami Heat, is on the Miami Heat. And he sends me a DM, whatever. And my dumb ass was like, I answered saying like, oh, you on the Miami Heat? Like something like, cause I literally genuinely didn't know. And now knowing who this person is, I'm like, what? And then I left him on red. I didn't even answer him because I didn't care.
55:44 Speaker 03 And now I'm like, Alex!
55:46 Alex Cooper? Wait, we're gonna believe this, who was it?
55:50 Alex Cooper? Wait, what?
55:51 Speaker 03 I know.
55:52 Alex Cooper? And you just left him on red?
55:53 Speaker 03 I literally didn't give one fuck.
55:55 Alex Cooper? And it's just sitting there in your DM still?
55:57 Speaker 03 Yes.
55:59 Alex Cooper? Is he in a relationship now?
56:00 Speaker 03 Yes, he's okay.
56:06 Speaker 03 I'm such a dumbass.
56:07 Alex Cooper? I'm fucking dead. Okay, do any of your exes have similarities?
56:13 Speaker 03 I honestly don't think so because I think as well. They haven't gone better maybe, but like I, when I don't like something about that guy, I make sure. I think you learn from each relationship.
56:28 Alex Cooper? Yes.
56:28 Speaker 03 So I'm like, that cannot be happening in the next relationship.
56:31 Alex Cooper? Right.
56:31 Speaker 03 They've all been their own, they've all been their own demons.
56:37 Speaker 03 I don't know.
56:38 Alex Cooper? Wait, I was gonna ask, cause you said like in the beginning days of college, you weren't really like into the athletes. I'm like, so who the fuck was Alex Earl dating her freshman year of college?
56:47 Speaker 03 Um.
56:50 Speaker 03 I dated like a frat guy.
56:52 Alex Cooper? Oh, does he like ever like try to clout chase and like say he dated you?
56:56 Speaker 03 Yeah.
56:56 Alex Cooper? Oh, are there any videos online?
56:59 Speaker 03 Um, I don't know. I don't have videos, but he put up his pictures with me like back on his Instagram. So I was like, great.
57:07 Alex Cooper? No.
57:08 Speaker 03 I'm so embarrassed.
57:09 Alex Cooper? Is it embarrassing? Like, is that one of the relationships you're like, please, I don't want like people to know about that?
57:13 Speaker 03 Yeah, and it was kind of more so like a fun relationship, I think. Like, it was like a social, like we would go out together every night and like, I found him attractive, like, so you know, it was kind of like, it just made sense, but it wasn't so like, I was in love with his personality. Well, also at Miami, let me preface this by saying the guys are not the cutest.
57:36 Alex Cooper? Okay.
57:36 Speaker 03 So like, it's always, and I just think that school has like, it breeds like hot girls.
57:42 Alex Cooper? It's crazy.
57:42 Speaker 03 And I think a lot of the times, like, there's all these pretty girls getting with like all these gross guys and they could do so much better. But like for me, like this was like a guy like I found attractive. So I was like, I'm sticking. Wait, sticking in him?
57:56 Alex Cooper? Sticking in with my hand up his asshole. That's what I'm up to. You're sticking with him. Wait, can I ask you, when you were in college, did your, once you started to actually pop off, did your teachers ever fucking say anything to you? Like, did they know what was happening?
58:11 Speaker 03 Um, no, they actually never said anything until right around graduation. I had one professor say something, but it was never kind of like.
58:22 Speaker 03 I don't know, it was, it never felt like that in school.
58:24 Alex Cooper? What was it like in class? You have to be honest.
58:27 Speaker 03 In class, sometimes, um, most of the people, like the business school is pretty small at Miami, so like, the people that I had classes with, I had classes with for like the past three years.
58:37 Alex Cooper? Yeah.
58:38 Speaker 03 So like, they knew me, but I think there were some classes or like walking to class, having people like ask to take pictures with me was just crazy, like exciting, but also I was just like, this is nuts. Like, I'm sitting in my class and I look like a rat and like you wanna take a picture with me, like, okay.
58:57 Alex Cooper? That is kind of crazy.
58:58 Speaker 03 When I was graduating, one of my teachers had said something to me, asking about, um, influencer marketing and they might start a class about it. A few have asked me to come back and speak at classes.
59:12 Alex Cooper? Alex!
59:13 Speaker 03 I might be a professor.
59:15 Alex Cooper? Imagine kids taking notes as you're speaking. She's too powerful. She's getting too powerful. Um, okay, Alex, what is the most toxic thing that you are attracted to? Go.
59:27 Speaker 03 Um, everything. I, I love a guy who like gives me no attention. I love it. Like if you text me or call me too much, like I will never speak to you again. I love a guy, I love it.
59:43 Alex Cooper? I love how like fine.
59:44 Speaker 03 I love, love, love it.
59:45 Alex Cooper? I, you're like, I am obsessed when they treat me like on some shit and then also guys all in Miami taking notes right now.
59:51 Speaker 03 I'm being dramatic, like, I just don't like someone who is too mushy, gushy and all over, you know? And just like, give me some space because, I don't, do you like horoscopes? Like, do you believe in that at all?
1:00:05 Alex Cooper? Yeah, yeah, I do, I do. What are we, what are you?
1:00:07 Speaker 03 I'm a Sagittarius.
1:00:07 Alex Cooper? What does that mean?
1:00:08 Speaker 03 I feel like I like to be very like independent and like, I don't like to be bothered, I don't like to feel like trapped.
1:00:16 Alex Cooper? Smothered.
1:00:17 Speaker 03 If someone makes me feel smothered, I will run so far away, don't ever see them again.
1:00:21 Alex Cooper? Dude, I'm a Leo, I'm like, if I feel like I can dominate you, like, I will literally eat you alive and I will never speak to you again. Get out of here with that little fucking bitch boy energy.
1:00:32 Speaker 03 Match your energy and like test you. I love someone who like flirt flirt.
1:00:38 Alex Cooper? Flirtedly?
1:00:39 Speaker 03 Flirtily shits on me, kind of. Do you know what I mean? Not like too much, cuz there's guys in Miami who will go in on you and actually make you feel like the biggest piece of crap in your life.
1:00:49 Alex Cooper? Right.
1:00:49 Speaker 03 Cuz that's their way of flirting. But I, just a little bit of like a tease. Also, a thing for me is I have a hard time giving or receiving compliments. So that works better for me if we can like shit on each other and that's our way of flirting. For me, like if I say something nice to a guy, immediately, and I've caught myself and I'm working on this.
1:01:09 Alex Cooper? Yeah.
1:01:10 Speaker 03 Okay, but I will like immediately then say some, or I'll be like, oh, whatever, like whatever.
1:01:15 Alex Cooper? Wait, can we talk about that for a minute? Because I wonder if this is literally like just women in general. Like, I feel the same way where I have literally talked about this with my therapist. Where like, Matt will always be like, oh, my god, like, you look so gorgeous in the beginning of our relationship. I would just be like, where are we going to dinner? And like completely, almost like.
1:01:32 Speaker 03 Cuz it's awkward to be like.
1:01:34 Alex Cooper? Thank you.
1:01:34 Speaker 03 Yeah, I do, or thank you, you know?
1:01:36 Alex Cooper? Yeah, we fucking look amazing, bitch, obviously.
1:01:39 Speaker 03 It's just like, I don't know, I don't, I don't like it. But as much as I do say it, or I won't be with you, but I also just, I can't like admit that I, I don't know, it's weird.
1:01:47 Alex Cooper? Right, no, no, I get it. I'm also laughing as I'm thinking about that cuz I'm like, when someone says that to you, also I'm thinking like, I put a lot of fucking work into whatever I'm doing if I'm going on a date. I should at least say thank you cuz like, yeah, I did put in work. We should work on that, okay? Everybody listening and watching, you guys.
1:02:03 Speaker 03 Say thank you with confidence.
1:02:04 Alex Cooper? We're gonna just like, thank you. Thank you so much, you look great too, or if they don't look good, just don't say it back. But just be like, thank you. I think that's a good thing to work on. Okay, ready for this little flip flop? What is your most toxic trait?
1:02:19 Speaker 03 I will ghost you. That's like my number one thing, if like, I'm, when I'm over something, I'm over it and like, I'll just leave. Like, I, I don't.
1:02:27 Alex Cooper? Okay, wait, but will you ghost in terms of like, will you block or will you ghost like?
1:02:32 Speaker 03 No, no, I just won't answer. I I'm not a big blocker, honestly.
1:02:36 Alex Cooper? Okay. Let him just keep getting that blue and they just like never get the answer.
1:02:41 Speaker 03 Just like when I'm over something and I don't even really realize that I'm doing it, but I will just like not, I don't know. I I feel like it doesn't even register in my mind that they're talking to me and I'm like, it's just not there.
1:02:51 Alex Cooper? You're done.
1:02:51 Speaker 03 I don't care.
1:02:52 Alex Cooper? Okay, well, some people would say that's a superpower because I think a lot of girls are gonna be like, Alex. So what's going on upstairs? Cause I need a little bit of that.
1:02:59 Speaker 03 Well, that's like.
1:03:00 Alex Cooper? When they slide in, I can't not say hi, even if they just fucked my best friend last week.
1:03:05 Speaker 03 Yeah, that's where I kind of feel like I'm like the advice person, um, or I don't know, when it comes to like my friends and not caring about a guy too much. Like I'm really good at like letting go, but maybe I'm too good at that. So maybe I need a balance.
1:03:19 Alex Cooper? Okay, what gives you the ick?
1:03:21 Speaker 03 Um, oh, one time I got the ick. I brought this guy back to my place. Um, we were kind of like making out all night. I bring him back, we're like sitting in my kitchen. I go to like make us a drink and he just smiled like.
1:03:41 Speaker 03 He was way too happy. You know what I mean? Like he just gave off the vibes like he was not playing cool. He was like, I'm here. And he was just grinning from ear to ear and I was like out like I was, I literally was like, I have to go. I feel so sick. I'm so sorry, but like. You can't.
1:03:58 Alex Cooper? Wait, you turn the corner and he was like.
1:04:01 Speaker 03 Like, you know, I just, I don't know. It was.
1:04:03 Alex Cooper? He was eager beaver.
1:04:06 Speaker 03 I think it's cool when a guy is kind of like suave and whatever, like, I don't know. He just really gave off the vibes of like.
1:04:13 Alex Cooper? Right.
1:04:13 Speaker 03 And maybe I sobered up a little bit. Maybe that was at two and I was like, wait, what is going on right now? No, but. He was way too happy and like too big of a, like you're not feeling.
1:04:27 Alex Cooper? I get it. I, you're like, how do I explain this? Give this, give the smile to the camera.
1:04:35 Speaker 03 Like, that's not someone I wanna fuck, no.
1:04:37 Alex Cooper? No, no, you're like, I'm, you're giving nothing but like, get the fuck out of my house. I get that. I also, ooh, is that what I should be doing right now? Alex, I'm not gonna fuck that. What, do we have the same one?
1:04:49 Speaker 03 Oh, God.
1:04:50 Alex Cooper? Okay, at least we did the same thing.
1:04:50 Speaker 03 Okay, we did one thing.
1:04:51 Alex Cooper? I've been like going slow because I'm like, I need to do my eyes. Oh, you're done. Okay, okay. I've been just going like this for a really long time. I've just been going like this.
1:05:00 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:05:01 Alex Cooper? Um, okay, so this is the goal. I'm gonna finish because I was patting my face for so long. We're gonna go play a drinking game and we're gonna play truth or drink.
1:05:09 Speaker 03 Oh, God.
1:05:10 Alex Cooper? I feel like you haven't had your fair share of, let's, let's know a little bit more about Alex and her sexual escapades. And I feel like obviously this is Call Her Daddy, so we're gonna have a couple more drinks.
1:05:23 Speaker 03 We have to.
1:05:24 Alex Cooper? We're gonna sit down, get you take a drink, and we're gonna get into it, and we're gonna get a little wild.
1:05:29 Speaker 03 This is a side no one knows of me.
1:05:31 Alex Cooper? No one.
1:05:32 Speaker 03 Which is kind of crazy.
1:05:33 Alex Cooper? Are you ready?
1:05:34 Speaker 03 I'm gonna jog this really quick.
1:05:37 Alex Cooper? Let's go.
1:05:46 Alex Cooper? We have nothing to wear! No, I think this, show the bodysuit to the camera. I mean. It looks good. You're nervous the nipple will come out? We censor it.
1:05:57 Speaker 03 Okay, I have.
1:06:00 Alex Cooper? Okay, we're gonna be back. We're gonna try on our outfits and then we'll come out.
1:06:05 Alex Cooper? We're ready. Barely. Full mental breakdown. We hate our outfits. Let's go. Okay. I am so fucking excited. Alex?
1:06:16 Alex Cooper? We are gonna play truth or drink.
1:06:18 Speaker 03 Okay.
1:06:19 Alex Cooper? Get ready to get fucked up, bitch. Okay? Here we go. First, let's just start out with an easy, li- light little softball. When is the last time you blacked out?
1:06:27 Speaker 03 Like, two weeks ago.
1:06:28 Alex Cooper? What is your go-to drink?
1:06:30 Speaker 03 A vodka soda.
1:06:32 Alex Cooper? Okay, what is your tolerance level? Like, if we're going out tonight, what should I expect?
1:06:35 Speaker 03 Um, I can take a lot of shots. But, then I might not. I actually, I have a good tolerance, but it depends.
1:06:44 Alex Cooper? But you may like blackout, but like, are you the type of person that no one knows you're blacked out?
1:06:47 Speaker 03 Yeah, I'm, I'm kinda wanna, I mean, I get googly eyes, but I'm never gonna be the like, puker, falling over. I'm jinxing myself right now. I'm gonna be a mess. I know it.
1:06:54 Alex Cooper? When was your, oh, this is fucked. When was your last dance floor make-out?
1:07:01 Speaker 03 Um, my last dance for make out was like a month or so ago in Montauk.
1:07:08 Alex Cooper? I think it's good that you drink too. Yeah, that's good. That's good. Okay. When is the last time that you drunk texted an ex?
1:07:16 Speaker 03 I'm not a big drunk ex texter, so like has to be over a year, years. I don't know.
1:07:25 Alex Cooper? If you were, God forbid, sliding in, what are you saying? Are you sending paragraphs or you're just like hi?
1:07:29 Speaker 03 I'm a hi. I'm like a hi girl.
1:07:32 Alex Cooper? I remember I used to just do like the peach emoji and then the phone. So like a booty call. And it just like, it usually worked, but like I wasn't happy in the morning, but I was happy. I didn't send like a paragraph.
1:07:42 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:07:43 Alex Cooper? So, okay, you can like, if it's short, you shouldn't be that embarrassed. If it's long, just, you know, go to church and repent. Um, how many guys did you fuck your freshman year of college?
1:07:59 Speaker 03 Two.
1:08:01 Alex Cooper? Love. Were they good?
1:08:03 Speaker 03 Uh, one, no. Oh my God. Very, very bad. Very bad.
1:08:08 Alex Cooper? How many times you had sex with him?
1:08:10 Speaker 03 Uh, two.
1:08:12 Alex Cooper? Two times?
1:08:12 Speaker 03 Yes.
1:08:13 Alex Cooper? Okay.
1:08:13 Speaker 03 And then I tried afterwards. I was like, you know, I'm just gonna give him head because this is so bad. And he told me that he didn't like that. So I just was like, I don't know what's going on here and I'm running away. And that was the like one and really only like frat guy. I was like, we gotta get out of here.
1:08:29 Alex Cooper? It didn't work. Okay, too. That's a good solid number. Um, what is your total body count?
1:08:38 Alex Cooper? I'll drink with you.
1:08:38 Speaker 03 You know, I'm just gonna drink for privacy, but it's, it's nothing like crazy.
1:08:45 Alex Cooper? I think that's fine. Okay. Who is your celebrity crush?
1:08:51 Speaker 03 Jacob Elordi, but he was a girlfriend. So maybe that's controversial.
1:08:54 Alex Cooper? No, it's okay. It's okay. They can be even like married.
1:08:56 Speaker 03 Actually, you know what?
1:08:57 Alex Cooper? Oh.
1:08:58 Speaker 03 It was always Zac Efron for the longest time.
1:09:01 Alex Cooper? So it used to be Zac Efron. Now it's Jacob Elordi. Okay, that's good. Um, who is your athlete crush?
1:09:11 Speaker 03 Travis Kelsey.
1:09:21 Alex Cooper? Let's just drink to that because why the fuck not?
1:09:25 Speaker 03 I definitely shouldn't have said that.
1:09:28 Alex Cooper? Okay.
1:09:30 Alex Cooper? What you know we appreciate is the motherfucking honesty, Alex Earl.
1:09:34 Speaker 03 And the problem with this game is I'm just gonna keep answering.
1:09:38 Alex Cooper? No, I love it. Okay. In the spirit of last night, maybe we'll bleep the name. Someone who ended things with you when you were still very into him.
1:09:52 Speaker 03 Okay. What about him?
1:09:54 Alex Cooper? Give me a D. What did you say that? Sleuths go in. How many nudes have you taken in your life?
1:10:02 Speaker 03 Um, I don't know the exact number. A good amount.
1:10:07 Alex Cooper? Are you proud of your nudes?
1:10:08 Speaker 03 Yeah. Like if they got leaked, I'd be like, okay. Actually, I don't know. Don't leak.
1:10:14 Alex Cooper? Don't come for me. Be like, they're literally fire. Everyone's now like hacking. Um, what is your best skill in the bedroom?
1:10:23 Speaker 03 I think, and I think I give a lot of credit to you, but I think I'm pretty good at giving head. I have been told. And wait, but not always. Okay. Uh, the first, my first boyfriend, the first one I gave a blowjob to, whatever. Oh my God, I'm being so awkward because I never talk about this stuff. He was like, that was the worst thing I've ever experienced in my entire life. He's like, you were biting my dick. Like that was horrible. So I literally was petrified and I was determined. So.
1:10:56 Alex Cooper? You played episode three.
1:10:59 Speaker 03 I studied and then Call Her Daddy came out and I was like, I'm determined to do this.
1:11:06 Alex Cooper? And now you take pride in your work.
1:11:07 Speaker 03 Yes.
1:11:08 Alex Cooper? I am so, cheers. Let's do cheers again.
1:11:10 Speaker 03 Thank you so much.
1:11:12 Alex Cooper? That makes me so fucking, the Gluck Gluck 9000 goes very far. It does wonders for your dick. So you're welcome, everybody. I'm so proud of you.
1:11:20 Alex Cooper? Okay. Top two favorite sex positions?
1:11:23 Speaker 03 I love missionary. I don't know. I just think.
1:11:26 Alex Cooper? Are you making eye contact?
1:11:28 Speaker 03 Yeah, or like kissing. I love, or I like kind of like spooning on my side.
1:11:34 Alex Cooper? The best. Fuck, marry, kill. Athlete edition.
1:11:39 Speaker 03 Can't say this seriously.
1:11:42 Alex Cooper? Aaron Judge, Braxton Berrios, and Travis Kelsey.
1:11:49 Speaker 03 Okay, um, kill Aaron Judge.
1:11:55 Speaker 03 Um, fuck Travis Kelsey, marry Braxton Berrios.
1:12:01 Alex Cooper? Will you be attending any Dolphins games this season?
1:12:04 Speaker 03 I think so.
1:12:07 Alex Cooper? Love that for you.
1:12:07 Speaker 03 I think so.
1:12:08 Alex Cooper? Okay, are you an anal virgin?
1:12:10 Speaker 03 I am. I actually...
1:12:14 Alex Cooper? Your face.
1:12:15 Speaker 03 You just said that? I am, because I feel like I want to save that for marriage. Ah, I don't know, is that weird to say? But I'm like, I want them to have something. Less of me. Oh my god.
1:12:31 Speaker 03 I didn't mean it to come off like that. I just meant, I don't know, oh my god. No, this is good, this is good. You want them to be less of me. I'm sweating.
1:12:40 Alex Cooper? Ted, okay, Alex, ready?
1:12:43 Speaker 03 Mm-hmm.
1:12:43 Alex Cooper? The most famous person in your DMs.
1:12:50 Speaker 03 Okay, well, you have to tell me.
1:12:53 Speaker 03 Okay, later.
1:12:55 Alex Cooper? Wildest place you've ever had sex?
1:12:58 Speaker 03 In high school, you know, when I feel like you're just all horned up. It was like a football game, whatever. It was like on, like, behind the bleachers, but like on the side of the field. And like, I don't know what was going on and why I did that, the what was necessary about that. And, yeah.
1:13:19 Alex Cooper? Just fucking like rabbits. But when you think about high school sex, aren't you like?
1:13:22 Speaker 03 Oh my god.
1:13:25 Alex Cooper? Like, was that even sex?
1:13:26 Speaker 03 No, I don't know. You're just, I feel like you're so horny when you're young like that.
1:13:30 Alex Cooper? Yes, but like, it's actually not sex. You're just like drying, like, humping, and you're like, is it over?
1:13:35 Speaker 03 It's horrible, it's horrible, it's horrible.
1:13:36 Alex Cooper? Bad, bad, bad. Okay, last time you faked an orgasm, don't fucking lie to my face, go.
1:13:39 Speaker 03 Um, probably like, in the past few months.
1:13:44 Alex Cooper? Okay. Do better. Do better for our girl, okay? Tell the daddy gang a secret.
1:13:54 Alex Cooper? Anything. Take your time.
1:13:56 Speaker 03 Oh my god, like a sexual secret?
1:13:59 Alex Cooper? Maybe. Anything sexual. Maybe like a little fantasy, or like a secret, maybe something like you've tried that you're like, "Ooh, I kinda liked it."
1:14:08 Speaker 03 Oh, I have one.
1:14:11 Speaker 03 I, um, oh my god, dad, please, if you're listening, turn this off.
1:14:16 Alex Cooper? No, you know what I'm gonna do? For the point that we just talked about this, I'm gonna put little sub captions of like, Earl family, like mute this, and now unmute. Mute it. Mute it at this point.
1:14:25 Speaker 03 Dad, family, grandma, she watches everything I do. Okay, I recently, like, within the past week, have experimented, I tried a butt plug for the first time, and I loved it.
1:14:39 Alex Cooper? Is your orgasm better?
1:14:41 Speaker 03 Yes.
1:14:41 Alex Cooper? I get it, cuz it's like, we aren't taught to do these things, but when you put it in there, it's kind of like a really good feeling.
1:14:48 Speaker 03 It is, and they like it too. Uh, maybe a little finger.
1:14:54 Alex Cooper? What finger are you using in there, Alex?
1:14:57 Speaker 03 That's a...
1:14:59 Alex Cooper? That's why the nub...
1:15:00 Speaker 03 Why do you think I have no nails on?
1:15:02 Alex Cooper? It's crazy when the daddy gang sees you with no claws, they're like, "Oh, so you're fingering Matt's asshole?" I'm like, "Uh, what?" Sorry, Matt. Um, so what finger are you using?
1:15:11 Speaker 03 I think my middle.
1:15:12 Alex Cooper? It's good. It's a good finger. It's solid.
1:15:14 Speaker 03 Because like, then you can... I don't know, I'm just gonna stop talking. I've never talked remotely about any of this online.
1:15:21 Alex Cooper? How do you, is it freaking you out a little?
1:15:23 Speaker 03 It is. It feels fine right now, cuz I feel comfortable and I feel like we're having a conversation, and when I see this, I'm gonna be like, "Oh my god."
1:15:29 Alex Cooper? Yeah, when it airs, you're gonna fling yourself off the balcony and be like, "Why did I do that?" Okay, I am satisfied. We got a little bit of tea. There's obviously more to come. This is not the last time we're podcasting together, but this is just to like, give everyone a little taste, and thank you for sharing with us, because I know you've never really talked about your sex life, but obviously, it's only appropriate that you do it here on Call Her Daddy. We're gonna go out tonight.
1:15:49 Speaker 03 Yes.
1:15:50 Alex Cooper? We're gonna party with all of our fans, all of our friends, all of our followers, we love you all, and I'm excited to see like, how does Alex Earl party in Miami?
1:15:59 Speaker 03 I'm excited to see how you party.
1:16:02 Alex Cooper? Let's go. Cheers.
1:16:04 Speaker 03 Cheers.
1:16:04 Alex Cooper? Love you. Let's go.
1:16:47 Alex Cooper? Holy shit.
1:16:51 Alex Cooper? Oh my god.
1:16:53 Speaker 03 Did you sleep here last night?
1:16:56 Alex Cooper? Oh yeah, you didn't know? I brought my air mattress. I obviously wanted to like get the full experience.
1:17:01 Speaker 03 Last night was a little blurry for me.
1:17:03 Alex Cooper? Dude, okay, here we go. Let's podcast. Can you hear this?
1:17:11 Alex Cooper? Okay, here I come. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my fucking god. I don't want to put these in your bed. You were...
1:17:20 Speaker 03 Dogs out last night.
1:17:22 Alex Cooper? Dude, dude. I took my shoes off the minute we got in the club.
1:17:26 Speaker 03 Immediately her shoes come off. I was like, um...
1:17:29 Alex Cooper? We're giving them the recap. I think that I have glass in my foot. There is it? I don't want...
1:17:35 Speaker 03 This is really gross.
1:17:38 Alex Cooper? I don't want you to have to get too close, Alex, but I'm not lying when I say...
1:17:42 Speaker 03 I keep looking over. The more I see going on on that foot.
1:17:45 Alex Cooper? What is this?
1:17:46 Speaker 03 That's blood. Like dried blood.
1:17:50 Alex Cooper? Oh. So I won't put them on your bed. I'll just go like this. Um, okay, so last night, we got fucking wild.
1:17:57 Speaker 03 I got like really drunk.
1:18:00 Alex Cooper? I was also laughing. So when we went to that dinner, I turned to Alex and Alex was like, ooh, like I can't tell if I'm getting tired. And I was like, Alex.
1:18:08 Speaker 03 That's when it all went downhill.
1:18:10 Alex Cooper? Then we started just taking shots.
1:18:11 Speaker 03 We took so many shots.
1:18:13 Alex Cooper? Did we get in trouble?
1:18:14 Speaker 03 They, I think they were glass shot glass.
1:18:19 Speaker 03 They were glass shot glasses and I think people were like dropping them on the floor so glass was shattering so that makes sense why your foot is cut open.
1:18:25 Alex Cooper? This was like our first time ever going out together.
1:18:27 Speaker 03 It was.
1:18:28 Alex Cooper? It was very fun partying with you.
1:18:31 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:18:31 Alex Cooper? You are the life of the party. You have, you, I didn't tell, I couldn't tell you were that fucked up.
1:18:38 Speaker 03 Yeah, I feel like same with you.
1:18:40 Alex Cooper? Really?
1:18:41 Speaker 03 But, well. I could definitely, I was like, oh wow, like she really like can drink. I was shocked by that.
1:18:48 Alex Cooper? Really?
1:18:48 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:18:49 Alex Cooper? Oh my, Alex thought I was gonna be a grandma.
1:18:52 Speaker 03 She went full force.
1:18:53 Alex Cooper? Oh my god, do you remember when the bouncer like caught my limp body? So I'm fucking standing, jumping around, just like having a time. And I don't know what happened, but at one point it was as if I was like literally about to belly flop onto the center table with all the drinks and everything and my body just like literally levitated over and I just started falling and randomly the bodyguard just comes in and with his arms like this, I just do a plank onto his body as if I was gonna crush the entire table and he just like picked me up and I turned around and Matt was just like, what the fuck?
1:19:35 Alex Cooper? I can't decide if I'm about to vomit or shit myself.
1:19:40 Speaker 03 I'm definitely gonna puke at some point today and I'm sweating and I really don't feel good.
1:19:45 Alex Cooper? Um, I think that we should go for a walk. How far is the beach from you?
1:19:50 Speaker 03 It's right there, like over, right over that bridge.
1:19:53 Alex Cooper? Oh, over the bridge?
1:19:55 Speaker 03 It's right there. Hop on over there.
1:19:58 Alex Cooper? A hop, skip and a jump over the fucking bridge. Um, okay, yeah, I think we should go maybe get some like coffee, more Pedialyte and let's uh.
1:20:07 Alex Cooper? You're like, oh yeah, it's just right over there over that bridge.
1:20:11 Speaker 03 All the way over there.
1:20:14 Alex Cooper? Okay guys, we're gonna get our lives together. I'm gonna clean my foot. I wonder if I can even stand.
1:20:20 Speaker 03 I can't really. Everyone came in here and it started, my ears started to ring.
1:20:26 Alex Cooper? I think there's glass in my foot.
1:20:29 Speaker 03 Oh, you actually can't stand?
1:20:31 Alex Cooper? No, no, I.
1:20:31 Speaker 03 I'm like, I'm hungover. You're like, no, I have an injury.
1:20:34 Alex Cooper? I think I had to go to urgent care.
1:20:54 Alex Cooper? Call Her Daddy is brought to you by Airbnb. So the other day I was just scrolling on my phone and one of those one year ago today notifications popped up. I usually don't pay much attention to them, but when I saw it was from my Napa trip with Lauren, I obviously had to go back through every single photo. I remember we drove up to Napa for a weekend and found the cutest farmhouse on Airbnb to stay in. The location could not have been more perfect. It was right by a vineyard and overlooked this beautiful golf course, which yes, Matt was very jealous of. During
1:21:35 Alex Cooper? the day, we went wine tasting like a little cute couple. Then we brought our favorite bottles back to the house at night for cozy, long girl talks on the couch. Obviously, I haven't had a drink in forever since being pregnant, so I cannot wait for wine nights again soon with my girlfriends. And now that holiday travel season is finally here, all of my group chats are going off with everyone trying to coordinate dates and just figure out where we're going to stay and where we're going to go next. But looking back through those photos reminded me that some of the best parts of a trip happen back at the house, right? Like, that's why I love booking a home on Airbnb. It literally gives
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1:24:33 Alex Cooper? Okay guys, we fucking lied. Alex and I are like, "Let's go walk." We went right back to bed. We went back to bed, it's now 7 o'clock at night. So, just pretend it's still the daytime, we're not degenerates, we're fine.
1:24:47 Speaker 03 Flash forward 8 hours.
1:24:48 Alex Cooper? Exactly. So, Alex, I have to say, I have been having the most fun for the past 48 hours. Getting to like, live in your life has been so fucking cool. And it's been so fun getting to know you. I feel like obviously, people on the internet look at you and are probably like, "That girl doesn't have one problem in the world. She just gets to go party, have the best life, and that's it." And I think that's the beauty of podcasting, is like, we get to know you a little bit more. So, in the spirit of getting vulnerable and podcasting, I want to ask you a few final questions before I leave you in Miami on your own. What is the hardest life lesson that you've had to learn?
1:25:28 Speaker 03 The hardest life lesson I think I've had to learn has been around jealousy and fake, maybe friends, fake people in your life.
1:25:42 Speaker 03 People have, you know, it's been a thing kind of my whole life, even since I've been little. Like, I feel like finding good people to like, stick around. And a lot of people don't want to hang out for the right reasons, or don't want to stick around for the right reasons. And I think that that has been something I've had to learn, especially recently, over the past year with things happening. Or I've had people that, you know, didn't hang out with me before, or would say no if I asked to do something. And then all of a sudden, they all come swarming back around. And I'm just like, it just honestly hurts, like, as much as it is annoying, whatever. But it hurts to see... Someone be so shallow and like actually just not care about you as a person.
1:26:26 Alex Cooper? What do you think is the biggest misconception about you?
1:26:30 Speaker 03 Um, probably the biggest misconception about me, I feel like I'm quiet at first until you get to know me. And I have kind of a big personality online, um, but I take a minute to warm up to people. And I've had people be like, this is not who we know. Like, oh, you're being so quiet and reserved. I don't know. I like to kind of like read the room a little bit first. I think when I'm like getting to know people, I'm just like not walking in. And obviously what I post is kind of me crazy all the time or whatever. But I'm not like that 24/7. I'm not, you know, doing backflips around my apartment all the time. Just sometimes.
1:27:04 Alex Cooper? Just sometimes. That is why I'm so happy that you're about to start this podcast. Because I feel like there's a difference between like commenting back on a comment and being like, that's not true, but looking into a camera and being like, let me tell you guys the situation, what happened? And just like talking through something I think like is a way to actually connect with more people. Your podcast, Hot Mess, comes out tomorrow.
1:27:28 Speaker 03 First of all, I'm so excited for this and I've gotten comments throughout the whole past year being like, you should start a podcast, you should start a podcast. Being kind of in front of the camera more and talking, I love connecting with my audience. And I think there's a lot that they don't know about me. There's a lot that they do know, but there's so much that they don't know. And I am ready to kind of share more of my life with them. I just wanted to be my friends, my family, people that are close to me in my life and sit on the floor of my room and talk.
1:28:00 Alex Cooper? I love it. I think it's gonna be so dope. Are you nervous?
1:28:03 Speaker 03 I'm a little nervous, um, but honestly filming this has made me feel a little bit better. And I feel like I'm getting to learn from the best and I have a good coach.
1:28:12 Alex Cooper? It's been so fun working with you because we both love our fans and our content and what we're doing. Like it's been cool to work with you and just be able to like watch you about to literally kill it. And people just be like listening to you every week. I can't wait for you.
1:28:26 Speaker 03 I can't wait.
1:28:27 Alex Cooper? So Alex, oh, this is like sad, like it's ending, like I don't want to end it, but it feels like a really perfect ending to an incredible episode. I'm so excited.
1:28:39 Speaker 03 What? I need help with one last thing before we end this.
1:28:42 Alex Cooper? Okay.
1:28:43 Speaker 03 Really strange request.
1:28:44 Alex Cooper? Okay.
1:28:45 Speaker 03 So you know how I just graduated? I just moved out of my college house.
1:28:49 Alex Cooper? Yes.
1:28:50 Speaker 03 Well, probably the only nice thing that we had in this house was our fridge. We had like a smart fridge that has a big screen. And on that fridge, you're able to upload photos. So my friends and I thought it'd be funny. We did like photos of the week. And this, this fridge has basically our private stories on it. And we have our nudes on there. We have, I don't know, we're shit talking ourselves. We're, I don't know what is on that fridge. We got a glimpse because this group of frat boys has moved in now. And they see what is on our fridge. All, all the other girls are in New York besides me and Kristen, so I think it's only fair that we go there. And we break in, enter, and we delete the photos on the fridge.
1:29:35 Alex Cooper? You're saying that it's a smart fridge, like there's, it's almost like a built-in iPad?
1:29:38 Speaker 03 Yes.
1:29:39 Alex Cooper? And all of your guys' nudes are on this fucking thing? Like Tuesday, like hump day with Alex's ass?
1:29:44 Speaker 03 Not the cute ones, not the cute ones. The ones where it's like, oh my god, your nipples hanging out of the shirt. Oh my god, I have a double chin. Oh my god, I'm hungover here. It's a complete joke in our most embarrassing photos, and now these guys have access to literally our most secret photos.
1:30:00 Alex Cooper? So we're gonna get in the car, we're gonna drive there immediately, and we're gonna show up with the cameras. And they're gonna be like, what the fuck? And we're like, we're just filming for-
1:30:06 Speaker 03 I need you to distract them.
1:30:07 Alex Cooper? We should literally be like, oh, we're just filming for Call Her Daddy.
1:30:09 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:30:10 Alex Cooper? Um, I wanna see your room. Can you guys show me the room? They'll bring me into the room. You go to the fucking fridge and delete that shit. Okay Daddy Gang, one last adventure, one more little hurrah with Alex and I, here we fucking go. Let's go. Let's just do it right now. Let's go.
1:30:27 Alex Cooper? Alex, how are you as a driver?
1:30:29 Speaker 03 I'm a good driver, but sometimes if I'm like speeding, don't worry.
1:30:32 Alex Cooper? Oh, okay.
1:30:34 Speaker 03 Oh my gosh, we're gonna fall! Guys, I have butterflies in my stomach. Can we even pull in? Should we actually just drive by? I think you just fucking pull in. There's grass! We didn't have grass like this! When did they get grass? I see the front door. We just have to infiltrate. I'm literally shaking. Oh my god, it's fratified. It's fratified? No, I'm not fratified. No, it's, they have, they have three TVs in there.
1:31:03 Speaker 03 I'm gonna throw up.
1:31:09 Speaker 03 Hi. I just wanted to give you guys a housewarming gift. We used to live here.
1:31:15 Speaker 08 Come in.
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