The Neuroscience of Flourishing: Four Practices for Turning Stress and Anxiety Into Clarity and Calm | Richard Davidson and Cortland Dahl

The Dalai Lama's longtime collaborator on achieving fundamental okayness, transforming daily annoyances, and rewiring your brain. Richard J. Davidson https://www.richardjdavidson.com/, PhD, is a Professor of Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. He is also the Founder & Director of the Center for Healthy Minds https://centerhealthyminds.org/about/overview and Founder of the non-profit Humin https://www.humin.org/. Cortland Dahl https://cortlanddahl.com/, PhD, is a scientist, author, translator, and meditation teacher for the Tergar community. Davidson and Dahl's latest book is Born to Flourish https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Born-to-Flourish/Richard-J-Davidson/9781668066232. They also author the Substack newsletter, Dharma Lab https://dharmalabco.substack.com/. In this episode we talk about: What it really means to flourish How difficult emotions like anxiety, fear, or grief can coexist with well-being Why flourishing is a trainable skill set, not a personality trait or a self-improvement project An introduction to the Healthy Minds Framework and its four pillars: awareness, connection, insight, and purpose Why short, informal "micro-practices" can be just as effective as formal meditation How to cultivate purpose Related Episodes: How a Buddhist Monk Deals With Anxiety | Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche https://www.danharris.com/p/how-a-buddhist-monk-deals-with-anxiety?utm_source=publication-search The View of American Turmoil from the Other Side of the World | Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche https://www.danharris.com/p/the-view-of-american-turmoil-from-8d8?utm_source=publication-search Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here https://app.danharris.com/membership Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here http://www.danharris.com/ Follow Dan on social: Instagram https://bit.ly/3tGigG5, TikTok https://bit.ly/3FOA84J Subscribe to our YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3FybRzD Join Dan and Emmy Award-winning journalist Allison Gilbert at 92NY on May 17th for a live conversation about how mindfulness can deepen connection and combat loneliness, available in person and via streaming. Register here. https://www.92ny.org/event/dan-harris-with-allison-gilbert Join Dan, Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren for Meditation Party, a 3-day immersive retreat at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, NY, October 16–18, 2026. Register here. https://www.eomega.org/workshops/meditation-party#9851 This episode is sponsored by: Fast Growing Trees — America's largest online nursery, with plants guaranteed to arrive healthy. Get 20% off your first purchase with code HAPPIER at https://www.fastgrowingtrees.com https://www.fastgrowingtrees.com/ BetterHelp — Online therapy, matched to your needs. Get 10% off your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/happier Spark — Clean energy and focus with zero sugar. Get 30% off and free shipping with code HAPPIER at https://www.drinkspark.com https://www.drinksparkcom/ To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris

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• 0:04Dan Harris?

  This is the 10% Happier Podcast. I'm Dan Harris.

• 0:18Dan Harris?

  Hey, hey, how we doing? So today, we're going to talk about some quick and simple practices from neuroscience and Buddhism, designed to rewire your brain, change your genes, transform the annoying little tasks you have to do every day, and boost your overall okayness quotient. I've got two guests today. My guests are Richard Davidson, PhD, everybody calls him Richie. In my view, Richie is truly a historic figure. He's the neuroscientist who pioneered the research into what meditation does to your brain. He's a professor of psychology and psychiatry at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, where he also founded an incredible center called the Center for Healthy Minds. Richie has a new book called Born to

• 1:02Dan Harris?

  Flourish, which he co-authored with my other guest today, Cortland Dahl, PhD, who is a scientist, author, translator, and meditation teacher. In this conversation, we talk about what it really means to flourish, how difficult emotions such as anxiety, fear, or grief can actually coexist with well-being, why flourishing is a trainable set of skills, not a personality trait, or a self-improvement project. We get an introduction to the Healthy Minds framework, and its four pillars, awareness, connection, insight, and purpose. We talk about why short, informal, micro-practices, free-range meditation, as I sometimes call it, can actually, according to the data, be just as effective as formal meditation. And we talk about how to

• 1:46Dan Harris?

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• 2:29Dan Harris?

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• 4:13Dan Harris?

  Richie Davidson, Cortland Dahl, welcome back to the show. Well, in Richie's case, welcome back.

• 4:19Speaker 03

  Wonderful to be here. Thanks for having us, Dan.

• 4:22Dan Harris?

  Pleasure. Well, Richie, let me start with you. What is flourishing? That seems to be a central concept in this new book. What do you mean by flourishing?

• 4:32Speaker 03

  Well, what we mean by flourishing is when a person is fully present, is connected to the people and the place around them, has insight into their thoughts and beliefs and expectations, and understands how they are shaping their perception of the world, and has a strong sense of purpose.

• 4:57Dan Harris?

  Okay, so you just named four things that I want to talk a lot about in the course of this interview, and they really are part of your Healthy Minds framework. That is the entirety of the framework. But I'm going to press you, not in an attempt to be obnoxious, although that's definitely in my wheelhouse. But just to make it really concrete for people, if you were on the elevator with somebody and you had a couple of seconds to explain or to inquire as to whether somebody is flourishing, how would you make it simple?

• 5:28Speaker 03

  That everything is fundamentally okay. That anything can come down the pike, and it's really going to be okay.

• 5:38Dan Harris?

  So interesting you say that because I have not had many meditative breakthroughs in my life. A few, you know, big or big to me moments on meditation retreats. And the common denominator among the maybe three times where I've had notable moments in my meditation practice, the common denominator is a feeling of everything's okay.

• 5:59Speaker 03

  That's great.

• 6:01Dan Harris?

  It's counterintuitive because we look at the world, we look at the news, we look at the problems in our own lives, and fundamental okayness can feel either delusional or dangerous. And yet somehow, actually, it's kind of the truth.

• 6:16Speaker 03

  Yeah, exactly. I think it's kind of a radical stance, if you will. And it's not denying all of the adversity and challenges. And it's also not saying that you're going to be happy all the time, but that you'll be okay. It's really quite different than that. So it's a nuanced kind of okayedness, if you will.

• 6:43Dan Harris?

  Yeah, and it seems important to you, and I'm basing this on our past conversations, to not get happiness and flourishing confused.

• 6:51Speaker 03

  Yeah, definitely. So, you know, it would be, if someone lost a loved one, particularly if they lost them unexpectedly, a natural response would be grief. And that would be very appropriate. It would really be bizarre, even maladaptive in some sense, for someone to be happy in response to that. And, you know, Dan, you and I have both seen the Dalai Lama on a number of occasions, and he's not happy all the time. But I would say he's fundamentally okay all the time.

• 7:27Dan Harris?

  Yeah. He strikes me as somebody who is responding appropriately and spontaneously to what's happening at any given moment.

• 7:36Speaker 03

  Exactly.

• 7:38Dan Harris?

  Court, sorry to neglect you in these opening moments. Anything to add on this notion of flourishing? What are we missing?

• 7:45Speaker 04

  Well, I think in very ordinary language, you can just simply think of it as being at your best across a range of contexts. And I think that's the key thing we're hitting on here, is that when you're at work, it looks like focus. It looks like creativity. When you're hanging out with friends, especially if somebody's suffering, it looks like empathy and care. If you're at a peak moment of life, you know, when your child is being born or you're graduating, then of course, it might be joy or elation or awe out in nature. I think that's one of the things that Richie and I talk about a lot. We touch upon in the book, is getting away from the idea of positive and negative emotions, positive and negative experiences, and just thinking about everything as contextual. Everything is healthy, unhealthy, adaptive, maladaptive,

• 8:28Speaker 04

  really just based on the where you are, who you're with, what you're doing. And that's a key feature. The other thing that we've already talked about. Is viewing this not from the point of view of like some massive self-improvement program where we're endlessly trying to fix ourselves, fix our relationships, fix the world, but actually we're trying to get in touch with the parts of ourselves that were never broken.

• 8:48Dan Harris?

  Hmm.

• 8:49Speaker 04

  And that actually it's easier to do that than we think, but a lot of it is kind of a mindset shift. It's just getting out of the problem, solution mentality into like, okay, what's already going on here? And that just goes back to this idea of being fundamentally okay, which sounds totally unrealistic when you first hear it, but there's something quite important and powerful about it from the point of view of mental health and flourishing.

• 9:10Dan Harris?

  You don't want to talk about positive or negative emotions and that, I think I can get behind that, but I want to make sure I understand it. So how can you be fundamentally okay, as Richie said, the Dalai Lama is, when you're experiencing, let's say, a difficult emotion, we won't label it good or bad, but a difficult emotion like fear or grief?

• 9:31Speaker 04

  Richie and I just had a great conversation yesterday about anxiety and I struggled a lot with anxiety. In fact, what got me started on the path of meditation, very similar to your story, Dan, when I was a college student, you know, back in the early nineties, I had a genuine phobia of public speaking to the degree that I fainted on stage in front of my entire high school. That is a true story. In front of all my friends, not only that, my mom leapt onto stage to take care of me. It was perhaps the most uncool thing that could ever happen to a teenage boy. So anyways, I was very anxious, so I know a lot about anxiety.

• 10:06Speaker 04

  And you might think that there's nothing redeeming about anxiety. When you're experiencing it, it's just toxic. It feels horrible. It has such negative repercussions for one's life. But from another point of view, what's really going on with anxiety is it's a protective mechanism. And in certain circumstances, it's exactly what you need. You need to sort of mentally rehearse a threatening situation so that when you're in that situation, you'll respond appropriately. The problem is our biology just switches the anxiety reaction on perhaps abundantly, way more than it needs to, you know? It's like we have this big bodyguard that we need sometimes, but the bodyguard is accompanying us when we just want to go to sleep or when we just want to have a relaxing moment. Still, that protective mechanism is kicking into gear.

• 10:50Speaker 04

  Actually, it's a very wholesome thing and in certain contexts, it's exactly the right thing. It's just that that switch is being flipped way more than it needs to be. So a lot of it is again, just switching the view on it.

• 11:00Dan Harris?

  Well, I can totally get down with the switching the view, as you say, on anxiety. It is, as our mutual friend Jack Kornfield says, it is the organism trying to protect itself. And so I like that. And I'd just be curious to go a click deeper on what it would look like to execute on the simultaneity of anxiety and fundamental okayness.

• 11:24Speaker 04

  That's a great question. I'm sure Richie, you have a lot to say on this, too. I think a lot of it is just the switching how we relate to it. And the four strategies that Richie mentioned are four different ways we can do it. But Richie, I'd be curious to hear what you would say about that.

• 11:37Speaker 03

  Yeah, I mean, I think that when we express anxiety in the presence of fundamental okayedness, or for that matter, other difficult emotions, there are certain characteristics that are associated with them. And I would say one of the hallmark features is that the emotions, they're not sticky. They're context appropriate. Even in an emotion like anger, you know, I've seen the Dalai Lama be angry, but the next moment, just like that, he starts laughing at something funny. And there's a kind of fluidity, a flexibility, and not a perseveration.

• 12:18Speaker 03

  And so when difficult emotions occur in the context of a fundamental okayedness, they don't stick. They're serving a function in the context, but then they go away. It's like clouds in the sky.

• 12:35Dan Harris?

  Richie, I'm gonna ask a self-centered question, abusing my privilege as the host of this show, but I'm doing this hopefully in the service of the listener because I'm trying to understand it. So I think of myself as largely okay. And yet there are moments, especially with anxiety, where I lose it. I lose the fundamental okayness. You know, I'm in the city today, in New York City. Instead of recording this from my home, I'm having to take a lot of elevators today, and it's making me nervous. And mostly I can just be with the anxiety and it's not a big deal. But, you know, I've had a few moments of like not wanting to get on the elevator. Just to by way of an example. So can we think about fundamental okayness as a spectrum?

• 13:16Dan Harris?

  Where I feel like I have a much higher level of fundamental okayness than I did, say, 15 years ago, but it's not perpetual. Am I hunting in the right direction with this line of questioning?

• 13:27Speaker 03

  Yeah, absolutely. So I think it is definitely on a continuum. And this is really what can change as we train our mind and cultivate these qualities of flourishing. And all of us are on a continuum. And so, you know, I think it's only the kind of really rare examples like the Dalai Lama, who may be sort of displaying this kind of fundamental okayedness continuously. But I see those people as an inspiring example of what may be possible. But for the rest of us, we're on a continuum. I think that that's absolutely normative.

• 14:09Speaker 04

  And even from the point of view of just a snapshot and experience, or even a day, like you're saying, Dan, we're moving back and forth between different experiences. You can think of almost three stops along the way of inner experience when it comes to relating to anxiety, or really any difficult experience. The first one, which we all know well, is we're just lost in it. If we're angry, we are the anger. If we're anxious, we are the anxiety. Our field of perception is narrowed to the degree that the anxiety or any emotion, it just colors the whole field of conscious experience. It's just coloring everything.

• 14:44Speaker 03

  And just to interject, we've used the term that we call experiential fusion to describe what Court is saying.

• 14:52Dan Harris?

  I like that term.

• 14:53Speaker 04

  Exactly. It's just like you become one with it. And this is most of what's happening in our lives until we start meditating. And then there's this magical shift, which basic mindfulness practices are brilliant in helping us navigate, which is we uncouple. That fusion kind of gets teased apart. And usually is what it starts as. You could just be aware of the experience. But like for me, as an anxious college student, I was doing this practice all the time. I would bring my awareness into my body. And just notice, what does anxiety actually feel like? And just rest like with curiosity, with openness. That's a inner revolution, just that alone. There's something else that deepens from there, which is we start to shift into the field of awareness itself.

• 15:36Speaker 04

  So it's not so much what we are aware of, but into this just open space of being itself. And that probably sounds hopelessly abstract and esoteric if you haven't practiced this, but it's a profound shift. In a word, it's the shift from doing to being. And in that space of being, there's all sorts of things that we discover about ourselves that we're blind to when we're contracted into the emotional reaction. And that's, I think, the true fundamental okayness is in that space where we see, oh, there's this part of me that's available in any moment that I can drop into and grow familiar with. And there's no problem. Like, everything else seems inconsequential from the point of view of that space of being. Again, it's abstract, but it's incredibly powerful as a practice.

• 16:19Dan Harris?

  But how accessible is that, though? Because I started this conversation by saying I've had three moments in my 16-year meditation career, which I know compared to you guys is nothing, but it's non-trivial for your average person. I've had three moments, usually on day six or seven of a meditation retreat where I've really dropped into that sense of fundamental okayness. So this abstract, abstruse experience that you're describing, Court, how accessible is that to our average listener?

• 16:51Speaker 04

  I think it's much more accessible than we often think. And there are simply different traditions and different forms of practice and training that tend to focus on different things. So there are some, the ones that Richie and I are most deeply trained in, really focus a lot on effortless presence. And so you get a pretty heavy dose of that, the quality of being. How do you access that? How do you get in touch with that? How do you grow familiar with it so you don't lose touch with it? You actually get that on day one. I mean, you've had Mingyur Rinpoche on the podcast. He teaches that, that's like literally the first thing he teaches. And it's always paired with other things because it's hard to stay with that. There's other practices where you don't get to that until much more advanced stages, but you get other things that are different than that.

• 17:34Speaker 04

  Like you get deep insight into just the workings of the mind, the causes and conditions that shape experience. So all the traditions have their own beauty and their own secret sauce. But for the ones that focus on that, I would say you can actually get in touch with that pretty easily and it just kind of depends on what you're working with in terms of practice. But our mantra, I'm sure we'll hear it out of Richie's mouth a few times in this is that it's easier than you think and that the science really backs that up. Actually, it's pretty small doses will get you there pretty quick. It's just sustaining it is the real practice.

• 18:04Dan Harris?

  So you mentioned Mingyur Rinpoche, who's an eminent Tibetan Buddhist teacher. He's been on the show several times. I will drop some links to his appearances in the show notes if anybody wants to check him out. But he's not here, so Court or Rich, whoever wants to do it. You said it's easier than you think and it's, you know, you do it on day one. Can you just describe to the listener so that they don't have to take your word for it? They can check it out in their own minds?

• 18:29Speaker 04

  Well, should we do it?

• 18:32Speaker 04

  Let's do it. Let me just guide a super brief kind of micro practice, as we like to say, and just as a little taste of this. So just, you know, for us and for anybody who's listening, tune into your breath. You don't even have to change your posture. Just imagine you're going about your day. You just notice your breath. Most of us have probably done mindful breathing. So just feel the breath, maybe breathe a little deeper, really feel it coming in and out.

• 18:55Dan Harris?

  And this is safe to do while driving, just to say, because many people are driving.

• 18:59Speaker 04

  Absolutely. The thing that this is not a concentrated practice. So keep an open spacious awareness. You're still tuned into your environment. You're just breathing. It's not a lot of efforting in the mind. You're just noticing what's going on and you're including your breathing that, right? You're just noticing that perhaps a little deeper than normal. So as you do this, start to notice what happens very naturally and spontaneously on the exhalation.

• 19:25Speaker 04

  What you'll feel is just a little subtle opening, a subtle relaxation, just like a little loosening that happens naturally every time you exhale. It especially happens when you start noticing that. So just feel that. This is just easing into being. And next, notice how at the end of each exhalation,

• 19:46Speaker 04

  there's just a little gap, a little pause before you breathe in again. It's just a little natural rest stop between each cycle of breathing.

• 19:56Speaker 04

  And what you can do is just imagine yourself, you're just kind of relaxing into that space and just resting there, just for a few seconds. You're not holding your breath. It's not anything that's super intense.

• 20:10Speaker 04

  And what you'll see is that it's the most ordinary thing in the world. There's no special state of mind that is happening or needs to happen. It's just a little taste of being.

• 20:23Speaker 04

  Very ordinary in a sense,

• 20:26Speaker 04

  but you can learn to tap into that and you just rest with that. And then slowly, as you grow more familiar with that, that quality of openness, this effortless presence, you can just stay with that even when the next breath happens. So just try that for a moment. You just relax with the out breath.

• 20:44Speaker 04

  You rest there. And almost imagine that next in breath is just happening within that space. There's no effort required. You're not even really meditating in any kind of effortful way.

• 20:57Speaker 04

  So there's a million ways to do this. It's just getting used to what it feels like to be.

• 21:04Speaker 04

  And you can do this 100 times throughout your day and you have a little 100 mini retreats throughout your day. Eventually, this becomes like a home. And that's the fundamental okay-ness because your home is now the open space of awareness. That's always there for you. And then anything else that happens is it's just on the surface.

• 21:24Dan Harris?

  Richie, I've been picking on court for a while. Anything you want to jump in and add?

• 21:29Speaker 03

  Well, I think that the slogan, which we're using a lot these days, "It's easier than you think," is not just a kind of ideological claim, but it's actually based on a whole lot of evidence. And so we've done a number of serious randomized controlled trials, the kind of gold standard of clinical research over the last few years, showing that five minutes a day of practice like this is sufficient to produce measurable changes in our experience, in our behavior, and in our biology. And it's kind of remarkable.

• 22:12Speaker 03

  Five minutes a day over the course of one month. Now, this is not to claim that these changes are gonna be enduring if we stop practicing. Our aspiration, of course, is that when people taste this, they will be motivated to keep doing this. And it's like brushing your teeth. You don't brush your teeth for a month and then stop. This is gonna be a lifelong practice. But the data really show that it doesn't take much to get these circuits in our mind and our brain going. And we think it's because we're born to flourish. This is part of who we are as humans.

• 22:54Speaker 03

  We're actually predisposed to rest in this kind of way. This is our nature. And when we meditate, we're not doing anything sort of weird with our mind. What we're doing is we are getting in touch with our fundamental nature, becoming more familiar with it.

• 23:16Dan Harris?

  My 11 year old son, I think, would argue, you know, pound the table and argue that you can brush your teeth for a month and stop. But having said that, draw a link, if you will, Richie, between the exercise that Corten, thank you Cort, guided us through and handling our everyday vexations. Yes, I noticed. Oh, yeah, it's, I felt calm and awake and aware when he directed me to notice that space between the breaths, the in-breath and the out-breath, and then to subsequently stay with the next in-breath. Draw the link, for those who might not understand it, between that experience and doing life better.

• 24:00Speaker 03

  Yeah, so eventually, one of the things we talk about in our book are things that happen every day in life to virtually all of us. So, for example, humans eat. We need to eat to live. So eating is a regular part of most people's lives. We can use these activities of daily living as reminders. To do these, we call them micro-supports or micro-practices that you can sprinkle throughout your daily life. And we actually have evidence to show that you don't need to put your butt on the cushion or a chair

• 24:39Speaker 03

  and formally meditate. The data show that at least at the beginning stages, the benefits are as strong if you do these practices actively as you're going about your daily life, or if you do them formally as sitting meditation practice, doesn't matter. So you can use these activities of daily living as reminders, as we use this fancy term that comes from neuroscience.

• 25:14Speaker 03

  Which is a zeitgeber. A zeitgeber is something that occurs with biological rhythms on a regular daily basis. And there are social zeitgebers. So eating is a social zeitgeber. We do that every day. Brushing your teeth is a zeitgeber. And so we can piggyback these activities on daily living. You brought up the kind of challenges that we experience in our daily lives. Eventually, the challenges themselves become triggers as reminders. So rather than the challenges being times when you lose it, when you are getting hijacked by your anxiety or whatever it is,

• 25:58Speaker 03

  eventually, as you practice more and more, the anxiety itself can become a reminder. That's when you can have this just infuse all of your everyday life.

• 26:15Dan Harris?

  Coming up, Richie Davidson and Cortland Dahl talk about the four ingredients that predict whether you'll be at your best in any situation.

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• 26:56Dan Harris?

  I just want to push on that again. And Court, I'll go back to you. I want to acknowledge I love the fact that we can do these free range instead of a formal meditation practice. I think that's liberating for a lot of people to hear, especially people who feel time-starved or who just don't want to fold themselves into the Lotus position or whatever it is. So that's great. So I don't mean to brush past that, and I will come back to it. But just on the question of the mechanism here, Court, for all of us who went through your exercise, how does doing that help me with fighting with my son over brushing his teeth or fighting with my boss over giving me more work than I can handle, et cetera, et cetera?

• 27:35Speaker 04

  This is really the central question. So, you know, going back to this idea of the, really, what are the central ingredients, you could say? What are the main factors that lead us to flourish in some circumstances and to be overwhelmed, knocked off balance, not at our best in other circumstances? And you can almost look at this as like four questions, and I think this gets at what you're pointing to, Dan. So in any circumstance, say you're with your family and there's a stressful situation, or you're at work and you're having a tough day, you really could imagine any circumstance and just say, "Am I going to be at my best in this situation if I am aware and fully present, or if I'm just unfocused and distracted?"

• 28:19Speaker 04

  Obvious answer. Second question, "Am I going to be at my best in this situation if I feel connected, if I feel like I'm there for other people and I feel like they are there for me, or am I going to be at my best if I'm feeling alienated or isolated?" Obvious question. That's the second factor that we refer to as connection. The third one is insight. "Am I going to feel better? Am I going to be at my best while I perform better? If I really understand the dynamics of the situation, especially the dynamics of my own mind in the moment, if, for example, I can see clearly what emotions and thoughts are playing through my mind, and I can see how they're shaping and influencing my perception?" Again, better or worse. And lastly, "Purpose. Am I going to feel more

• 29:03Speaker 04

  on my game if I really feel like I'm connected to my north star in my life? I have clear values, I feel like I'm living them, I'm conscious of them, I'm connected to them, or would I do better if I feel that it's meaningless and I don't have those?" These are just obvious questions. I think what's missing to people is it's not, we just feel like we're doing well in some circumstances and we're not in others, but the ingredients aren't so clear, and it's even less clear. How would we actually practice so that each of those things happen, so that I'm more aware, I'm more connected, I'm more insightful and wise, I'm more purposeful and I feel things are meaningful? These are skills. There's brain mechanisms, there's biology behind it, it's easier than you think. I think it's

• 29:44Speaker 04

  just the roadmap isn't so clear. So what we practiced, to just boil it down to a fine point, that was one of maybe the most fundamental skill in the awareness category. And I think what I would personally put my money on is the most bang for your buck in terms of... An awareness skill that can just radically change your inner experience, specifically because these days we have no being in our lives. We are doing 24/7 and we're constantly force-feeding our mind information. And I'd say that's a more vital, it's always been a vital skill. But learning how to be and to find our value and worth as human beings in this quality of being, I think is just a vital skill in the 21st century.

• 30:28Speaker 04

  So this is equally applicable in all these situations. It's just the roadmap. Nobody ever gave us the map.

• 30:34Dan Harris?

  Just to restate the map for folks, and we've said this a few times, but I just want people to have their bearings here. The Healthy Minds framework, the spine of your new book, it consists of these four pillars. The first is awareness, which we've talked about and you taught us how to train very quickly. And again, it's not a one and done. It's a move we want to integrate into our lives to wake up and be right here, right now. The second is connection. The third is insight or self-knowledge. And the fourth is purpose. Let's talk a little bit about how we train these others. With connection, we all know, and this is something I talk about a lot on the show. We evolved as social animals and yet we've somehow created a world that militates against connection at pretty much every turn.

• 31:19Dan Harris?

  And I don't think it's a coincidence that we have unprecedented levels of anxiety, depression, suicide, addiction and loneliness, I think largely as a result. So how do we operationalize connection and take it beyond sort of bland exhortation?

• 31:36Speaker 03

  Yeah, I'm happy to jump in. Connection, again, we would say is easier than you think. Let me actually just back up and first say that in 2023, we had a really visionary Attorney General of the United States who issued a health advisory, the first time a public health official ever issued a health advisory of that sort in our country on the epidemic of loneliness and social isolation. And in that report, Vivek Murthy showed evidence that loneliness is actually a greater risk factor for mortality

• 32:20Speaker 03

  than is smoking 15 cigarettes a day. So loneliness and social isolation is not just a subjective quality of the mind, but it also affects our biology in ways that seriously affect our health. So that's one element important to keep in mind. With respect to cultivating this, one of the easiest things to do and something I do every single day, you know, I have this little practice I do after I meditate where I on workdays, and it takes me about not more than a minute, maybe a minute and a half. I'll go through my calendar. I did this this morning and you're in my mind and heart,

• 33:02Speaker 03

  Dan. I just go through my calendar and see what I'm going to be doing that day and just appreciate the people I'm meeting with. Really a simple little practice. Think of something positive about them. And we are predisposed to feel a connection. It doesn't take much. We just need to be intentional about how we use our minds. And so it's readily available. And it's remarkable. We've shown in neuroscientific research that after just a few hours of doing this practice over the course of a few weeks, our brains change. We can see measurable changes in our brain.

• 33:45Dan Harris?

  I'll add another practice. I don't know what you think of this research, but I found it compelling. I don't have a as critical a lens as you do, Richie, but Barbara Fredrickson's research into microinteractions, the power, the massive power, apparently massive power of just having pleasant passing interactions with the barista, somebody in an elevator, your coworkers you may not be especially close with. Hey, how you doing? Eye contact. Keep it moving. This can really ladder up and scale up to apparently quite significant benefits and happiness. Do you agree with the direction I'm going in here?

• 34:21Speaker 03

  Totally. Absolutely. I think that's important work and I think there's the important truths to that.

• 34:28Dan Harris?

  So we're marching through the four, I'm calling them pillars or aspects of the framework you lay out in the book. The first, again, is awareness. The second is connection. We've talked about how to practice both of those in ways that don't require you to reinvent your life and your schedule. The third, and we've talked about this a little bit, but I think it's worth going a little bit deeper here, is insight. And I think this can be a tough one for people to grok. You use a word that's not going to help, but it's interesting, and you can unpack it in ways that will be helpful. The word de-reifying. Court, what is that?

• 35:01Speaker 04

  So de-reification, you could say, is the second part of an inner movement, inner process, in which you first simply become aware of your own thoughts, feelings, emotions, and so forth. You just know you're having them versus you're fused with them, as we discussed before. That's the first thing. But you can be aware of a thought pattern and still believe it. And this is a very important point. I had a lot of this, again, going back to my own anxiety, where I was learning to step back and feel what I was feeling, to notice the inner narratives. But part of me still believed it. It's like, okay, I know I'm having this thought, but it's kind of true. That's kind of how I felt at the time. De-reification is seeing that thoughts are nothing more than mental habits,

• 35:42Speaker 04

  and they are not necessarily true or real. In fact, they are oftentimes distorted, sometimes wildly distorted. You know, any anxious thought, by definition, is going to be a magnet for negative information, and it will repel positive information. So insight is a lot of just knowing that. The de-reifying, it's like the de-rigidifying, if that's a word. I don't even know if that's a word. But loosening up the mind, right? The things that are locked and stocked, you know, old habits just seem so entrenched. This is a way to loosen that up and to see that the mind is much more fluid than it often seems.

• 36:18Dan Harris?

  There's a reference in your book, Richie, in this part of the book, on the aha moment. What do you mean by that?

• 36:25Speaker 03

  Well, the aha moment is a moment of insight that many people have experienced, even in sort of pedestrian sorts of ways. So if you're doing a crossword puzzle and you suddenly recognize the word that fits in a certain context, there's a little bit of an aha moment, you know, you got it. It just occurs to you just like that. And when there is that aha moment, research shows there's a burst of a certain brain rhythm that can be measured with EEG, with electrodes on the scalp surface, non-invasively. That burst is a burst of gamma oscillations.

• 37:08Speaker 03

  These are very fast frequency waves. They typically last less than a second. You know, they correspond to the sort of timing of an aha moment. It could be like a quarter of a second. And what we see in long-term meditators who do a lot of this inside practice is that they show these gamma oscillations that last a long time. They're really enduring. I mean, this is a little bit hard to imagine. And what we're talking about now is really long-term practitioners. People like Mingar Impati were participants as subjects in this research. They're showing continuous activity like this.

• 37:50Speaker 03

  It's as if their phenomenological world is a continuous aha experience. A number of years ago, I wrote a book with Dan Goldman called Altered Traits. It's a play on altered states. And the idea is that as we train our mind, these qualities that once were short-lived become much more enduring. For very long-term meditators, this quality of insight becomes really enduring.

• 38:18Speaker 04

  There's a great analogy for this in the tradition, which is a candle flame with a glass enclosure around it. And this also speaks to how the four factors of awareness, connection, insight, and purpose work together. So in this analogy, awareness is like the glass enclosure. So you can imagine a moment in life, we've all had these, where you have a sudden epiphany. Something clicks into place about your life that you see that you didn't see the moment before. And it feels like your life is totally different. Like you've just now seen something that's going to change your life forever. And sometimes it does, but oftentimes what happens is although it feels like your life has changed indelibly, the next day, the next week, the next month, it's just a memory. It's not embedded for some reason.

• 39:03Speaker 04

  And that reason is because awareness is unstable. Our attention, we're distracted, there's a million influences on our mind. And so that epiphany, that deep insight is lost. So awareness practices give us that inner stability where we can nurture those moments. But we also need the flame itself, which is insight. This is classically what we would think of as wisdom. We need to see clearly the dynamics of our inner experience, the dynamics of our lives, and we need to be able to embody that so we act skillfully in a way that supports our own and hopefully others' ability to thrive and flourish. So we need that, but we kind of need all of these. It's like not enough just to have awareness or just to have insight, any one of these. You actually need all four of these, and they're all skills that are mutually supportive and reinforcing.

• 39:47Dan Harris?

  So insight, the fundamental promise of the book is that there are micro-practices that can help us develop all four of the skills that are at the core of the book. What are some of the ways that we can, throughout the course of our day, develop insight?

• 40:03Speaker 04

  Richie, I'd love to hear kind of your go-to practices. One that I find super helpful, super easy to do is the wise friend kind of analogy. So in any situation, especially things that are challenging, difficult, stressful, I just stop and ask myself, what would my wisest friend? I mean, for me, I've known Mingi Rinpoche for many years. He's one of my guiding teachers. So oftentimes we'll think of him. I would just kind of imagine, what would Rinpoche say about this? And that does something very interesting. The answer doesn't obviously come from Mingi Rinpoche. What it does is it shifts me from that getting locked into my own perception of the situation. It immediately unlocks that. And it unlocks the feeling that whatever story I'm telling myself,

• 40:45Speaker 04

  which usually we're always telling ourselves stories about whatever the situations are, it just loosens that up. And suddenly I'm looking at it from a different vantage point. So it's not that I'm tapping into some other form of wisdom. It's not like, obviously I have some direct channel to Minga Rinpoche. I am tapping into my own wisdom and insight in that moment. I'm just getting a fresh perspective and a wise perspective on whatever that situation might be. So it's really just that asking the question and then coming back to whatever's going on from that new vantage point. So simple, just takes a moment to do. And it's kind of game changing in the way it loosens up the old habitual patterns that most of us are carrying with us into these difficult situations.

• 41:26Speaker 03

  And in that kind of little exercise or practice, we don't need to have necessarily a Minga Rinpoche in our lives. It could be just, imagine this from another person's perspective, just to loosen the grip that your perspective has and appreciate that there are other perspectives that would see this situation differently.

• 41:51Speaker 04

  Yeah, it's like the shift itself is the important thing. Not so much, that is just an example, but it's so easy. There's so many ways you could do it. It's quite remarkable and how easy and simple it is.

• 42:01Dan Harris?

  Joseph Goldstein often says, don't side with yourself.

• 42:04Speaker 03

  That's a good one.

• 42:05Dan Harris?

  That's great.

• 42:06Speaker 03

  I love that.

• 42:10Dan Harris?

  Coming up, Richie and Court talk about the importance and how to of cultivating purpose and how small, consistent practices can change your brain and even influence the expression of your genes.

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• 43:02Dan Harris?

  So again, we're walking through the four pillars of the Healthy Minds framework and then talking about how we can integrate micro practices into our life that help us train these skills. Again, they are awareness, connection, insight. And let's talk about purpose. How are we defining and understanding purpose? Let's start there, Richie. What do you say?

• 43:25Speaker 03

  So, purpose, the way we use it, it's not so much about finding something grand and really more purposeful to do with your life, like some big life shift. Rather, how can we find meaning and purpose in our daily activities without changing any of the external features of our lives? Now, it could be that there are times when we may want to change those external features, and that's important. But it's also possible to nurture purpose in the context of our daily lives by connecting meaning and purpose even to the most pedestrian activities of daily living. So I'll give you an example from my own life,

• 44:09Speaker 03

  and this may sound really corny, but I do this every day I'm home. So as long as I'm not traveling, I do this every day. We have a cat at home, and there's a litter box. The litter box is in the corner of the big living room, and I am the one that scoops the litter every night. And I do it as a practice. I really do. And, you know, as I kneel down to go to the litter box, I just reflect on how this is helpful to my wife, because I'm the one that's dealing with this. For people that come into the living room, they don't have to smell the cat litter. For the wonderful Siamese cat, who's now 14 years old,

• 44:53Speaker 03

  this is a benefit to her life. It's just... A way to have this connect to being of benefit to others. And it's so simple, so simple. And I do something similar when I take out the garbage. These are things that we do every day. And often people regard them as chores. Yeah, gotta do this. And it's a kind of grind that people feel they have to do. But it's so easy to connect these simple activities to altruistic motive. And that changes everything.

• 45:36Speaker 04

  So if you look at the active ingredients, just to interject for a second, there's two things in what you've just said, Richie, that I think are like the key ingredients. One is there's a sense of clarity about the motivations and values that are most nourishing. Like in this case, being of service, kindness. You could see a bunch of things kind of wrapped into that, that one experience. So the inner clarity is one. And then the other is embodiment. Like it's not just you have a nice, warm, fuzzy thought in your mind. It's linking that to something you're doing. So you're thinking, I'm now going to put this value, this guiding aspiration or motivation, whatever it might be, I'm going to live that in this moment, in this activity. And this too can just be a simple practice.

• 46:17Speaker 04

  You do like something Richie, because we are often recording things and doing things together. We have a little ritual, just to give another example, where we pause before we hit record. We do just like a one minute motivation reset. And Richie, you can speak to what's going on in your mind. I know in my mind, I'm simply thinking that may whatever comes of this conversation we're about to have, in fact, I did it before we hit record here with you, Dan. May whatever comes of this, may this really do some good in the world. May this reach somebody who really needs it. May this provide some clarity or some inspiration for somebody who really could use a little boost in their lives. May this just do good in the world. May whatever is happening here, may it somehow be of benefit and be of service. So again, just takes a moment.

• 47:00Speaker 04

  It doesn't have to be something grand or positive. Like you said, Richie, you can be washing the dishes or taking out the garbage or the most mundane things. You can link anything to a value that's nourishing to you.

• 47:12Speaker 03

  Eventually, everything really. Minga Rinpoche has been teaching this introductory course, anywhere, anytime meditation. And a friendly amendment is everywhere, all the time.

• 47:26Dan Harris?

  Yeah, and in the book, I think you call it reframing the mundane, which I love. Richie, say a little bit about the science here. From a biological standpoint, purpose isn't just a nice to have.

• 47:38Speaker 03

  Yeah, so there's a lot of science of particular kinds and also a lack of science in other ways. So there's a lot of research on naturally occurring variations among people in their, quote, "level of purpose in life" that is assessed typically through a simple questionnaire and its relationship to many other factors. One of the factors that it's been related to is health. And so among people 65 years and older, having a strong sense of purpose in life is the single most important psychological factor in predicting longevity.

• 48:24Speaker 03

  And that's, you know, after carefully controlling for other factors. People who have a stronger sense of purpose live longer. And so clearly this gets under the skin and affects our biology. The other thing we found is that purpose is an enormous contributor to resilience. And resilience here is defined in a very specific way in a neuroscientific context. And the way we define it is simply the rapidity with which you recover from adversity. If you recover quickly from adversity, you're said to be more resilient.

• 49:03Speaker 03

  And people who have a stronger sense of purpose, in their brain, they recover more quickly from adversity. So it's really directly affecting brain circuits that are critically involved in our response to adversity and in what we might think of as emotion regulation.

• 49:25Dan Harris?

  And just to be clear, I think you explained this before, but I want to make sure I've got it. I think you're saying that we don't need to have a clear rally and cry slogan of a purpose that's tattooed on our chests. It really can be, no, I'm just gonna try to reframe the mundane all day long.

• 49:44Speaker 03

  Exactly.

• 49:46Speaker 03

  And I should say that some of this is still uncharted in terms of scientific research, just to be clear and appropriately cautious and humble about it. What is clear is the research that shows that people who have a stronger sense of purpose do better on lots of different things, including living longer, showing more resilience, and so forth. There's been virtually no research on cultivating this sense of purpose. And these little practices are really meant to do that. And so there's still a lot to be discovered about how these kinds of micro interventions

• 50:31Speaker 03

  may impact our experience and our biology and change our sense of purpose.

• 50:39Dan Harris?

  Got it. Well, speaking of the science, you've referenced this a couple of times, that rewiring the brain is a thing we can do, and it doesn't take a ton of time. Can you just say a little bit more about the types of changes we can see to our brain, and what kind of investment is required for said changes? And then maybe also, while you're at it, Richie, talk a little bit about how we can not only change our brains, but also our genes?

• 51:04Speaker 03

  Sure. So when we talk about changing our brain in this general category of neuroplasticity, there are many different kinds of neuroplasticity. And so we can get really nerdy about exactly what specific parameter of plasticity we're referring to. But broadly speaking, there are two big buckets. One, we might call functional changes in the brain. The other, we might call structural changes in the brain. Structural changes are anatomical changes. They're changes in the actual anatomy. Areas may grow larger or smaller. Connections may become larger or smaller.

• 51:47Speaker 03

  Whereas functional changes are changes in the activity patterns of the brain. Changes in activity patterns of the brain can occur really quickly. The kind of practice that Cort let us through, I guarantee that if we had people hooked up to the right equipment, you would see changes in their brain just like that. Functional changes.

• 52:11Speaker 03

  But that doesn't mean that those changes will endure. The structural changes, we think, are changes that occur that are the correlate, if you will, of the more enduring changes that we see. But the structural changes are easier to produce than we think as well. And I should just give some context, not from meditation. There have been studies of people who are learning to juggle. And after a 90-minute class in juggling, the wiring in your brain changes, just after 90 minutes. We have new data now, not yet published,

• 52:53Speaker 03

  that shows that less than 150 total minutes over the course of a month of practicing these four pillars produces structural changes in the brain. So that's not very much. But again, it doesn't mean these structural changes are really dynamic. They can revert back. It doesn't mean they're going to persist. You know, it's like weight or weight loss. It could be very variable. And so it is our strong intuition that in order for these changes to endure, we need to keep practicing.

• 53:32Dan Harris?

  Yeah. And Richie Orcourt, whoever wants to take it. What about changing our genes? In this case, it's G E N E, not J E A N.

• 53:42Speaker 03

  Let me say just a little bit about that. And then Court can add whatever he might say. There are two aspects to our genes, broadly speaking, that are relevant here. One is the sequence of base pairs that constitutes our DNA. For the most part, for most people, that's not going to change, no matter how much meditation we do. You know, radiation exposure and spending a lot of time on airplanes can change that. But for the most part, it's not going to change. But what will change is our epigenetics. And epigenetics is the science of how our genes are regulated.

• 54:24Speaker 03

  And you can think of genes having little volume controls that go from low to high. And that's very dynamic and those volume controls can be modulated. And they can be modulated by meditation and other kinds of experience. And so there's good evidence now to show that even over the course of a single day of intensive practice in an experienced meditator, six to seven hours of practice is enough to produce a measurable change in gene expression.

• 55:02Speaker 04

  One thing to piggyback on what Richie's sharing here. If you bring these two principles of neuroplasticity and the insights from epigenetics together, what this is showing is just the dynamics of our inner experience and of our lives. It's much more malleable than previously we understood scientifically. But that kind of cuts both ways. We are living in a world right now that is engineered to produce distraction, emotional imbalance and social division. And so if we're not intentional about what we are surrounding ourselves with and what we are filling our minds with, that epigenetic capacity and neuroplastic capacity is just a recipe

• 55:45Speaker 04

  for the epidemic levels of distraction and mental health concerns that we see. We're living through a grand experiment that we can see the results of this. So it just invites the importance of really taking charge of this. So we can see that actually we all have a role to play. And none of us can afford individually or collectively to just be passive about this. Maybe one very specific point to mention is just the information diet. If you think about information being like food to our minds and brains in the way that physical food is for our body and physical health, you would think immediately about how much you're eating and the quality of the food you eat. And think about how much information we ingest.

• 56:27Speaker 04

  It's insane compared to 20 years ago, 50 years ago, 100 years ago. We are consuming information at a rate that's just totally unprecedented. And that would be questionable in any circumstance, but the quality, the second question is the quality. Is that healthy? Is the food healthy? Is it unhealthy? We can just look. I mean, most of the information we're consuming is making us more distracted, more anxious, feeling more us, them kind of feelings in society. We really need to get a handle on this and work on these inner skills so we can just be intentional about what's happening in our minds and brains and with our nervous systems, because we can just see the, what happens when we don't. We're just living through a collective experiment of what happens when we're not intentional.

• 57:11Speaker 03

  And so just to say one other thing about what Court just said, to make this clear, neuroplasticity and epigenetics are neutral with respect to its impact on our mind, brain and body. If we are exposed to all this toxic information that Court is referring to, it will harness our neuroplasticity and epigenetics to produce the catastrophes that we're experiencing right now. And so we can harness these same mechanisms of neuroplasticity and epigenetics

• 57:50Speaker 03

  in a virtuous way to cultivate wholesome qualities of the mind that will help to counteract this.

• 57:58Dan Harris?

  Well said. This is really one major area I'd like to touch on before I let you both go. We've touched on this a little bit, but I want to hit it head on because it's a question I get all the time. I have live meditation and Q and A sessions that I do for my app community once a week. And almost every time I get the question.

• 58:21Dan Harris?

  X event just happened in the news. What good is meditation? Or what's the, they don't use this word, but in the context of your book, I'll put it in, I'll use this word. How can I flourish in a world where X just happened? Trump did or said this or whatever. Yeah. So how do you respond to that question when you feel it?

• 58:43Speaker 03

  Court, do you want to go first and then I can go?

• 58:45Speaker 04

  Yeah, sure. Well, I mean, I'm living my, a current version of this because I'm from Minnesota. I grew up in Minneapolis and it's a place I love dearly. And, um, man, I was just watching some stuff last night that was heartbreaking, honestly. I'm even emotional just thinking about it now. The community I grew up in is almost unrecognizable, kind of what's going on. And so if you take a situation like that, like here's a very real situation in a community I love. I'm very emotionally invested in this. And a question is sort of, what does flourishing look like at a time like this? So to go back to one point that Richie made, that is super important. Flourishing doesn't mean happy. Clearly seeing what's going on, in this case, in my own community, where I'm from, where I grew up.

• 59:29Speaker 04

  Being happy is not the response to that, right? I want the magical alchemy of wisdom and compassion to be driving me. Right? I can see rage. I can see frustration. I can feel powerlessness. I can see how any of those things would be totally understandable. It feels so overwhelming. I feel so disconnected. What could I possibly do in this? And I'm so disheartened by what's happening. That's not helpful. Like, I'm not going to be at my best if I'm just overwhelmed or hopeless. So it's how do I get in touch with this part of myself where I'm just simply seeing the dynamic more clearly? It's not the narrowing of perception when our conscious experience is totally hijacked by anxiety or fear or anything else.

• 1:00:14Speaker 04

  And yet it's infused with care. This again, goes back to really nurturing the care and connection and nurturing the awareness. It's the combination of all of these things together. That when something like this happens, it gives us the space to step back, not from some cold clinical gaze, but from a place of deep care to just say, okay, what's going on here? What can I do? I'm not going to single-handedly fix this situation. I know it, it feels terrible just to kind of drown in hopelessness. And so what can I do, right? And then again, you can take simple steps, even just little things in my immediate orbit. Like, okay, I'm not, I'm not even in Minnesota right now. I don't live there currently. I live in Madison.

• 1:00:57Speaker 04

  So at least in my next interactions, I want to just send some kindness out into the world, some understanding and maybe even people who I disagree with. Like, okay, I don't condone a lot of the stuff that's happening. I vehemently disagree with it, but I do want to understand it so I can engage with people who I disagree with. It's just unthinkable to me how people have the opinions they do. And they probably look at me and feel the exact same way. And so there needs to be some unilateral disarmament here, an attempt to just actually talk and understand. And that doesn't come from hopelessness and being overwhelmed by the emotions. So it goes back to those four questions and the four qualities we've been talking about. These are precisely the superpowers that give us the ability

• 1:01:41Speaker 04

  to navigate these situations well and to be at our best the more challenging situations are. And we're never going to be perfect, but what we can do is view them as opportunities to practice and to learn and grow. So, you know, somebody like Viktor Frankl, who wrote A Man's Search for Meaning, A Victim of the Holocaust is just, you know, a great example of even the worst possible things that can happen to us as human beings. Obviously, we wouldn't wish them upon anybody, but they can be sources of learning and growth and self-discovery and coming together in ways. But we need to be intentional about it. It all comes down to practice.

• 1:02:17Speaker 03

  You know, I just add one other little thing, and that is that particularly for those who are on the front lines of social change and social activists who are trying to produce system change that is so sorely needed in many parts of our country and the world, burnout is so prevalent. And the kinds of practices that we're talking about are really important in giving people a kind of resilience and vitality that is going to be necessary to be effective in the work that they do.

• 1:02:56Dan Harris?

  Yes, and the way you're describing these practices, it's not some massive project add to your to do list that will further stress you out. These are things you can integrate into the course of your day. Before I let you go, two questions I always ask at the end. Is there anything either or both of you were hoping we would get to that we haven't yet gotten to?

• 1:03:16Speaker 03

  There is one other thing, and I can just very briefly introduce it. And in addition to the conviction that it's easier than you think, there's another slogan, if you will, that is at the heart of some of what we write about in our book, Born to Flourish, and that is that flourishing is contagious. And there's a lot of really good, hard-nosed scientific evidence for this. And so when we cultivate these skills of flourishing, we not only are benefiting ourselves, but we're benefiting all of those that we touch

• 1:03:57Speaker 03

  because they actually benefit from being around us.

• 1:04:02Speaker 04

  I would add to that another kind of key insight that drives our work and message that we want to get out into the world is that these factors, these four things we've talked about, awareness, connection, insight, and purpose, these are not things we need to develop that we don't have. This is actually who we are. Moments of awareness, moments of connection, moments of insight and purpose. This is actually here all of the time. And it's actually the fact that these things are so omnipresent that makes them hard to see in the sense that we notice what's different. We notice what's out of the ordinary. It's much more difficult to notice the stuff that's always present. And so it just goes like we all have the raw ingredients to flourish.

• 1:04:45Speaker 04

  It's getting in touch with what we have rather than, again, some never-ending self-help project, self-improvement paradigm. And I think that's super important. It's right here, and every moment, it's right here.

• 1:04:57Dan Harris?

  I think and talk about what I'm about to say a lot. So many listeners will have heard me say this before, and I'm sure my staff has a drinking game every time I say this. But my understanding is the Tibetan word for enlightenment translates roughly into clearing away and bringing forth. So we're just clearing away a lot of the clutter. That naturally occurs in a human brain and mind and also that is injected into us by this incredibly dysfunctional modern environment that we've somehow built. Clear that away. What comes forth are these innate factors or qualities that you're both describing in your new book Awareness Connection Insight Purpose. Okay, so the second question I always ask at the end is, can you please plug everything?

• 1:05:42Dan Harris?

  Rich, I'll start with you. You mentioned the book, but also your center in Madison, your app. Just give us everything, please.

• 1:05:50Speaker 03

  Yeah, so the book is called Born to Flourish. It's coming out March 24th. It can be pre-ordered now. It has rich descriptions of all of this. Our app is called the Healthy Minds Program and it is freely available and it was created by our affiliated nonprofit, which used to be called Healthy Minds Innovations and has just been rebranded and is now called H U M I N. And so please, if you're interested, check it out and let us know what you think. And Court, please.

• 1:06:29Speaker 04

  Yeah, in addition to those things, we've mentioned the name Mignoire Boucher. Many times, both Richie and I are quite involved with Targor, which is a meditation community with lots of amazing programs, especially The Joy of Living, which is one of the trainings that both Richie and I have done many times over. And a recent venture, actually somewhat inspired by you, Dan, and your work is a Substack and a podcast called Dharma Lab, where it's just a space for us to kind of geek out and have the kind of conversations that we have behind the scenes and just to share those conversations with others. It was very much inspired by us going for walks and just catching up about the things we're most excited about. And we thought, well, why not have some of

• 1:07:13Speaker 04

  these conversations in public? That's another one that's available on Substack and the podcast is of course available on all the different channels.

• 1:07:21Dan Harris?

  Listeners, I will post links for every single one of those in the show notes. Court and Richie, congratulations on your new book. Thanks for all the work you do in the world and thanks for coming on the show.

• 1:07:32Speaker 03

  Thank you, Dan, and thank you for all the work that you do to bring these teachings out to so many people.

• 1:07:39Speaker 04

  Yeah, absolutely. A real joy to join you both.

• 1:07:46Dan Harris?

  Big thanks to Richie and Court. We did, in the course of that discussion, talk about Mingyur Rinpoche, and I have dropped links to a couple of episodes that I did with Mingyur, if you want to check them out. Don't forget to check out my new app, 10% with Dan Harris. We've got an awesome and growing community over there. Lots of great meditation teachers, lots of live events, opportunities to connect with other people who take this weird meditation thing seriously. You should come check it out. DanHarris.com. There's a free 14-day trial. Finally, thank you so much to everybody who works so hard to make this show, and they really do work hard. Our producers are Tara Anderson and Eleanor Vassili. Our recording and engineering is handled by the great folks over at Podpeople.

• 1:08:28Dan Harris?

  Lauren Smith is our managing producer. Marissa Schneiderman is our senior producer. DJ Cashmere is our executive producer. And Nick Thorburn of the band Islands wrote our theme.

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