Common mistakes parents make when installing a car seat

If you're a new parent, picking out a car seat can be stressful. Do you need to spend extra on special features to keep your kid safe? How long should your child be rear-facing? How do you know if the car seat is secure enough? In this episode of Life Kit, we cover common mistakes parents make when installing car seats. Follow us on Instagram: @nprlifekit https://www.instagram.com/nprlifekit/?hl=en Sign up for our newsletter here. https://www.npr.org/newsletter/life-kit Have an episode idea or feedback you want to share? Email us at [email protected] mailto:[email protected] Support the show and listen to it sponsor-free by signing up for Life Kit+ at plus.npr.org/lifekit http://plus.npr.org/lifekit See pcm.adswizz.com https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for sponsorship and to manage your podcast sponsorship preferences. NPR Privacy Policy https://www.npr.org/about-npr/179878450/privacy-policy

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• 0:23Marielle Segarra?

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  There's a lot of decision making as a parent and especially as a new parent. And it's very overwhelming. And it's important because you don't get to choose your crash. You don't know when a crash is going to happen. You don't know, you know, what direction it's going to happen. So you have to make sure that your child is protected for every single car ride. And, right, like, we're all doing the best we can.

• 1:11Marielle Segarra?

  That's Emily Thomas, the Associate Director for Auto Safety at Consumer Reports. She's also a mom and she has a PhD in Pediatric Injury Biomechanics. She says kids are a lot safer in cars than they used to be in decades past, but traffic crashes are still a leading cause of death for children in the US and around the world. The research shows that car seats and booster seats significantly lower that risk, but it can be hard to know where to start and there are endless options to choose from.

• 1:41Speaker 02

  There are a lot of things that you have to take into consideration, but ultimately, as a parent, you can rest assured that, one, every car seat that's sold in the United States has to meet a federal minimum safety standard.

• 1:52Marielle Segarra?

  Meaning that any new car seat you buy has been rigorously crash tested. It's got clear height and weight limits, plus labeling to help you install it safely.

• 2:01Speaker 02

  So they're all considered safe. And, two, the safest car seat is going to be the one that fits your car and fits your child every single time.

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  On this episode of Life Kit, how to pick a car seat and use it safely. Reporter Andy Tagel will talk to Emily about what features matter most, what's just window dressing, and the most common mistakes parents make when they're installing those seats.

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  Would you like us breaking down for us the different stages, the different types of car seats available that people are going to be looking at?

• 4:02Speaker 02

  Sure. So, most people start off with an infant car seat. Most children are going to outgrow their infant car seat, probably around six to nine months old, either by height or weight. Oftentimes, it's by height first. So when your child outgrows their infant seat, you're going to want to move them into a convertible or an all-in-one and use it in the rear-facing orientation.

• 4:23Speaker 04

  Convertible refers to a car seat that converts from rear to forward-facing. All-in-one, one seat that can do it all. Infant to rear-facing to forward-facing to booster.

• 4:36Speaker 04

  No matter which you go for, plan to keep your child rear-facing until they're at least two years old. And if it's possible, hold out for longer. As in...

• 4:46Speaker 02

  You're gonna wanna keep your child rear-facing as long as you can up to the manufacturer height or weight limit for the rear-facing mode. And really, that's because their bodies are still maturing, especially their skeletons. And so, you want their bones to be stronger, you want their neck and spine to be able to support their head. The most common type of crash is a frontal impact. And so, when they're rear-facing, those crash forces are gonna get spread out across the back of that car seat shell, and it's going to distribute less forces to your child, and it's gonna really protect the head and spine.

• 5:28Speaker 02

  Now, if they're forward-facing too early, those crash forces are going to be applied across the harness onto your child's body, and their heads, they're still getting stronger. You know, their bodies are still growing. And so, you're putting more strain on that head-neck complex, and so there's a greater likelihood for head and neck injury.

• 5:50Speaker 04

  When they've reached the max height or weight limit of their rear-facing car seat, it's time for a front-facing seat with a harness and tether. Then wait again until they reach max capacity there before leveling up again to a booster. Once they go out of that one, you're still gonna wanna keep them in the back seat until they're at least 13 years old.

• 6:09Speaker 04

  So, takeaway one: it sounds deceptively simple, but make sure you've got the right chair for your child. For infants, it's pretty straightforward, but as they get older, you can quickly hit some gray areas. The expert advice: take your time. For example, maybe your six-year-old son is right in between his forward-facing chair and the booster and has been begging for a big-boy seat like his older brother.

• 6:35Speaker 04

  Hold out. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, every time your child moves up a stage, they're a little less protected.

• 6:42Speaker 02

  It's tempting to want to rush through the car seat stages, but we strongly advise you to not because you want to make sure that your child is properly protected for every single car ride.

• 6:56Speaker 04

  Emily, there's a huge range of price points for car seats, and it can be really unnerving, I think. I remember being like, am I a bad mother for not paying $700 for this infant car seat? Why do costs vary so much?

• 7:09Speaker 02

  So a lot of times, the costs can be dependent on, you know, perhaps the types of fabrics that they're using or other materials. You don't need to have an expensive car seat to have a safe car seat. Now, a more expensive car seat might get you perhaps some more premium fabric choices, maybe some nicer ease-of-use features. But when it comes down to crash protection, you know, just because you have a more expensive seat does not necessarily mean that you get better crash protection.

• 7:42Speaker 04

  Is it okay to use someone else's car seat or to buy one secondhand as long as it's not expired?

• 7:47Speaker 02

  Our recommendation is that you don't purchase car seats secondhand unless you are getting it from somebody that you really trust, that you also know as being truthful about the history of the seat. Because you want to make sure, it's not just about expiration. You need to check recalls on the seat to make sure there's no open recalls or they've been addressed. You also want to make sure that the car seat hasn't been in a crash. And so, you know, just picking up a seat in a tag sale or, you know, that someone's just put out to the curb or, you know, a discount store or something like that, you're not going to know those things. And so, really, we don't recommend doing that unless, of course, you can really verify the history of the seat.

• 8:32Speaker 04

  Takeaway two. You don't have to break the bank to find a safe car seat for your child. Luxury options are often just that. They offer features that can make travel for a kid or a parent that much easier. And that's not insubstantial. Things like a swivel bottom, for example, so you don't have to contort yourself in and out of that tiny backseat. Or more plush padding, magnetic buckle holders. Only you can decide if those things are worth the cost. One great tool for comparing and contrasting is Consumer Reports Car Seat Ratings. They're free online and based on their own independent lab testing, including crash testing.

• 9:13Speaker 04

  You can filter by things like ease of use or fit to vehicle and read the pros and cons for lots of different car seats, broken down by experts like Emily. Just generally speaking, though, Emily says a lot of seats come with additional safety features like flame retardant fabrics or enhanced side impact technology. Not just the fancy ones.

• 9:32Speaker 02

  The one that I will say probably has the most benefit for crash protection that we've seen in our testing is what's something called a load leg. So essentially, this is a support leg that extends off of the front edge of the infant car seat base to the vehicle floor. And what this feature does is that in the event of a crash, it reduces the forward rotation and motion of the car seat. And so really, the car seat is going to bear down on that leg. And as it does that, the leg is really absorbing a lot of the crash energy, which means that there's less crash energy being transferred to the child in the car seat.

• 10:11Speaker 04

  The data on this is pretty striking. Depending on the type of car seat, studies have found load legs can reduce the risk of head injury from anywhere from 25 to 65%.

• 10:24Speaker 04

  Here's another one.

• 10:26Speaker 02

  A lot of car seats now also come with some sort of, you know, belt tensioning or a belt lock off.

• 10:33Speaker 04

  This is a feature. Sometimes it'll look like a big clamp or a shoe buckle that ensures your car seat is locked into that seatbelt real nice and tight every time.

• 10:44Speaker 02

  Where it doesn't move more than one inch side to side or front to back when you pull at that belt path.

• 10:49Speaker 04

  The one inch rule can be really frustrating sometimes, but it's super important to get right. Imagine if your driver's seat shifted or slid every time you took a big turn or caught a bump on the road. That's what you're trying to avoid happening to your child's car seat.

• 11:03Speaker 02

  The more secure that installation is, the more tied the car seat is to the vehicle, which means that it's going to work together as a system and the car seat and the child are going to experience the benefit of the vehicle's crash management systems.

• 11:16Speaker 04

  The car seats that I have right now, neither one of those have that feature.

• 11:19Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 11:19Speaker 04

  And I didn't know that before I bought the car seats. And I cannot tell you, I cannot tell you the pain that I experience every time we have to take those things in and out.

• 11:30Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 11:30Speaker 04

  Okay, what about design features?

• 11:33Speaker 02

  So something like a no rethread harness is really helpful. As your child grows and you have to change the harness height in the car seat. So a no rethread harness basically just allows for you to make those harness adjustments so that the harness is fitting your child properly without having to uninstall your car seat.

• 11:53Speaker 04

  Okay, what about car seat accessories? They sell like cushions to make the car seat level or they have those pads. Sometimes they're made out of cloth or rubber to protect the backseat.

• 12:05Speaker 02

  You don't want to ever be using third-party or aftermarket accessories with your car seat. So, you know, it's a shame that like when you go to a store and you're in the baby aisle or you're in the car seat aisle, there's like lots of different accessories that you can buy, you know, cute little harness covers or toys for the carry handle and all that kind of stuff. However, you know, anything that you're adding to your car seat, you're now changing the dynamic performance of the car seat. And so you don't want to be doing that. You don't want to add anything to the carry handles that could turn into projectiles during a crash. So. Really, the recommendation across the industry is to only use the accessories

• 12:47Speaker 02

  that come with your car seat or that are approved by the car seat manufacturer.

• 12:51Speaker 04

  I have one of those car seats where the user manual says if it's not quite secure, you can stick something underneath the base of it. It really worried me. It still, it still worries me because I'm like, I'm making it as secure as I possibly can. But they basically leave it up to a parent's discretion to figure out the best thing to stick under your, your kid in your car seat. Any advice on how best to go about that?

• 13:13Speaker 02

  Yeah, so typically that's, you're going to add a pull noodle or a roll towel when you're trying to achieve the proper recline. There's so much variance in vehicle seat design and in car seat design, right? So having perfect compatibility, like the way, with the way that our industry and regulations are, is not always guaranteed. So if, if that's what's prescribed by your manufacturer and it will say in the car seat manual, then yes, you know, that's fine. If you're really struggling, many of the manufacturers, you can call their customer service, they have certified car seat technicians available that will like go through your

• 13:56Speaker 02

  installation with you, help you with any tips and tricks. So that's really the best advice is follow whatever your manual says. You know, if the manual does not allow for a pull noodle or roll towel, then I would not introduce it and I would definitely contact the manufacturer's customer service.

• 14:13Speaker 04

  All right, so we've gone down the car seat aisle. We know what features might be worth considering and what accessories to leave behind. Now it's time to actually install the thing. When we come back, we'll go over what that should and should not look like.

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• 15:21Speaker 04

  All right, we're back with Life Kit, and it's time to talk about car seat installation. If you're a parent-to-be, maybe at this point you're tempted to tune out. You're thinking, surely the process can't be all that hard. We're gonna be great at this.

• 15:35Speaker 02

  No.

• 15:37Speaker 02

  We're not. So car seat misuse rates are pretty high. Right now, the postnatal misuse rate is 72% according to this digital dashboard of car seat installations across the country.

• 15:54Speaker 04

  72%

• 15:55Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 15:57Speaker 04

  of people with car seats misinstall their car seats.

• 16:00Speaker 02

  Right, and it could be, it could be how it's installed to the vehicle. It could be how they're using it with their child, or how they're harnessing it. It could even be that they don't have the appropriate car seat for their child's age, height, weight.

• 16:17Speaker 04

  Takeaway three. Most people are using their car seats incorrectly. So don't stress if you're confused, and don't assume you got it right on the first go. Get your car seat checked by a local expert, and feel free to consult another one when you feel unsure, or if it's just been a while. The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, or NHTSA, can offer you resources by zip code. Find them at nhtsa.gov. That's N H T S A dot G O V.

• 16:47Speaker 02

  You can also look at Safe Kids worldwide to find where there's going to be car seat check events in your area. A lot of people think that if you just show up at the fire station or the police department, that somebody's going to be able to check your car seat. That could be the case, but you do want to make sure that they're actually a certified car seat technician, and they know what they're looking for.

• 17:09Speaker 04

  Now, moving into the most common mistakes that parents make when installing a car seat. There are a lot of them. And Emily has written about this extensively, so you should definitely look her up for a full breakdown. But generally, we can fit them into a few buckets. First up, the paperwork. Your car seat comes with a few important paper items in addition to all the hardware, so don't accidentally toss them out with a box. One is the card you need to fill out to register your car seat. Take the time to do that first thing, so you can be directly informed about any recalls on your chair. The other...

• 17:43Speaker 02

  Hold on to your manual, actually look at it, keep it with your car seat, there is a storage pocket for it.

• 17:48Speaker 04

  Next, seat tightness. This refers to the installation of the car seat to the car, so that no moving more than an inch rule that we were talking about earlier. Emily says often that seatbelt will just be too loose. Another common mistake with seatbelts is using the wrong belt path. That's where you feed the seatbelt through to connect the car seat to the car. If you're using a convertible or an all-in-one, there's usually one belt path for rear-facing and another for forward-facing, so look closely.

• 18:17Speaker 02

  Because the belt paths are designed so that depending on which orientation you're using the car seat, it's going to really pull the car seat close to the vehicle seat. So if you're using the wrong belt path, you're introducing more room into the installation, essentially.

• 18:33Speaker 04

  For front-facing seats, make sure to actually attach the tether. People often look at that part as optional. And for rear-facing seats, there's one more hurdle.

• 18:42Speaker 02

  You want to make sure that you're adjusting the recline of the car seat so that you're in the proper range. This is especially important for small babies, right? Where their necks are not strong enough to hold up their heads alone. And so if the car seat is overly upright, their heads are going to flop forward and then they're going to obstruct their own breathing. If they're overly reclined, then that can increase their injury risk.

• 19:06Speaker 04

  Next up, harness height. The rule on this changes depending on which way your child is facing. So if they're still facing the rear...

• 19:12Speaker 02

  You want to make sure that that harness strap is at or slightly below your child's shoulder, where it goes into the car seat. If they're forward-facing, it should be at or slightly above your child's shoulder. You also want to make sure that the harness is snug enough that when you go to pinch the harness webbing at your child's shoulder with like your thumb and your forefinger, you can't actually get any webbing between your finger.

• 19:37Speaker 04

  Once that harness is tight enough, take a look at the chest clip. That's the extra connection point on each arm strap above the center buckle.

• 19:44Speaker 02

  You're going to move that chest clip up to armpit level. And what that does is it helps to ensure that the car seat straps stay over your child's shoulder in a crash and help restrain them and keep them within the protection of the car seat shell.

• 19:58Speaker 04

  Hmm. And then what about the bottom part of that five-part harness? Because I feel like I always hear about the chest clip, but I don't know what is their best or worst thing to do with their legs.

• 20:11Speaker 02

  Yeah, so crotch buckle placement, it's going to be in your owner's manual and most will say, you know, it should be close but not underneath the child, right? So you don't want to be where the crotch buckle goes into the car seat shell. That should not be underneath the child. So there's typically multiple slots that that crotch buckle can be in. So you'll make the adjustment appropriately for that.

• 20:33Speaker 04

  Last up, harness tightness and final checks. Here's how Emily does it.

• 20:39Speaker 02

  What I often do is I kind of just press down on the crotch buckle area to remove the slack from around their hips, slide the chest clip all the way down to like where the crotch buckle is, and then tighten the harness strap. Because as you do that, the chest clip's going to ride up anyways. And then you can make the final adjustment. But doing that kind of just allows for you to get all the slack out of the hips first and then get the rest of the slack out of like the torso area. And then you can finally move the chest clip into the right position.

• 21:09Speaker 04

  And this is with no jackets, right?

• 21:11Speaker 02

  Correct. So you want to make sure that if your child is, you know, wearing any extra layers or they're wearing a coat, that it doesn't introduce any slack into their harness system. So we typically recommend to not wear coats underneath the car seat harness. So in a crash. You know, that fabric and that puffiness, whatever, is going to compress. And so now it's going to create extra room between your child and their harness, which means there's extra room for them to be able to move and not be like fully protected by their car seat. And we, I understand parents are concerned about like, you know, keeping their child warm in the car and stuff. And so, you know, for small babies, we recommend after you have them harnessed properly,

• 21:53Speaker 02

  that you can, you know, drape a blanket over their harness. Um, for older kids, and I do this with my own, right? You can put their coat on backwards over their harness. So it's like a blanket kind of. And so that can just kind of help with keeping them warm in the car as well.

• 22:09Speaker 04

  So takeaway four here. There are a lot of ways to incorrectly install your car seat. We only need the top few here. So read your manual, keep it with your car seat and refer back to it as often as you need. Check that your child is safely secured for every ride and be sure to check the integrity of your installation every so often. Because another thing to remember is that even a perfect professional install can loosen over time and growth spurts can hit quick. Also, all car seats have an expiration date. Most are around six to seven years, some are up to 10. Emily says that shelf life ensures that all the components of your seat are still up to current safety standards,

• 22:54Speaker 04

  which is another reason, by the way, she suggests buying a new car seat and using your own whenever possible, rather than say renting one from a rental car company. Because you just can't know for sure about the crash history of a stranger's car seat.

• 23:10Speaker 04

  Okay, speaking of car crashes, do you always need to replace your car seat when you get into a crash?

• 23:15Speaker 02

  Every car seat manufacturer has slightly different guidelines. You should always check what your manufacturer specifies. Um, there's many that say that if it's been in any type of crash, that you should replace the car seats because. You can't always see the damage that's been done to the seat. Other manufacturers follow the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration's recommendation for if a vehicle has been in a moderate to severe crash.

• 23:40Speaker 04

  But to be clear, the answer isn't a hard and fast, yes, you must replace every car seat for every crash, which was news to me and could save you a nice chunk of change. One more helpful tip for you. What should people consider about their cars before choosing a car seat? Are there certain seats that are more or less compatible with certain cars?

• 23:59Speaker 02

  So it's challenging because there's so many options and vehicle seat geometries can vary so widely.

• 24:07Speaker 04

  Right.

• 24:07Speaker 02

  But ultimately, what I tell people is if you have kids and you're shopping for a car, take your car seats to the dealership. Whatever car you are considering buying, take your car seats with you. And when you go for your test drive, install your car seats. Make sure that you can actually get them securely installed with the vehicle belt, with the lower anchors, especially if your kids are rear facing. Make sure you can get that rear facing car seat to fit in that rear cabin space and you are still able to comfortably sit in front of them, whether as the driver or the front passenger. Right? Those are all important things that you need to know before making that vehicle decision.

• 24:47Speaker 04

  And that's in keeping with our last takeaway, number five. Always choose safety over convenience or what other people think you should be doing. Set the same standard no matter where you are or who you're driving with.

• 24:58Speaker 02

  Just having that consistency in the safety messaging for your child is also really key. Right? So like, you know, even if they're just doing a short car ride down the road, right? To grandma's house or whatever, like it's still the same rules. Everybody buckles up. Everybody is, you know, properly restrained.

• 25:18Speaker 04

  Final thoughts, words of advice, words of comfort for all the very tired parents out there on their car seat journeys.

• 25:26Speaker 02

  Ultimately, parents have a lot going on. This is something that like is super important. So take the time, educate yourself. I know it's inconvenient. I know it's hard. You're doing great. And what you didn't know before, that's okay.

• 25:44Speaker 04

  Emily, thank you for that. I needed that today.

• 25:48Speaker 04

  Emily A. Thomas, such a pleasure. Thank you so much for your time.

• 25:50Speaker 02

  Thanks for having me.

• 25:53Speaker 04

  All right, let's throw it in a verse and go back through what we learned. Takeaway one, make sure you have the appropriate chair for your child. Every stage up means a little less protection. So if your kid is in between stages, opt for the lower one. Takeaway two, you don't have to break the bank to find a safe car seat for your child. If you're looking for special features to separate one car seat from another, here are Emily's picks. A load leg, a no rethread harness, and seats with a belt lock or belt tensioning. I second that last recommendation by like infinity, by the way. Takeaway three, most people are using their car seats incorrectly. So please do yourself and your family a favor.

• 26:35Speaker 04

  Put on your seatbelt and then go and get that chair checked by an expert. Takeaway four, know the common seat installation mistakes and keep your kid as safe as possible. Read your manual, keep it with your car seat, check your kid's fit every time, and take the time to make adjustments before you get moving. And finally, takeaway five, choose safety over convenience. That means maintaining a safety standard that applies no matter where you are, who your kid is driving with, or how short the ride. We'll all be safer for that in the long run.

• 27:07Marielle Segarra?

  That was reporter Andy Tagel. By the way, I know you're listening to an episode about car seat safety, but did you know Life Kit covers so much more? Money, mental health, cooking, your career, you name it. The best way to never miss an episode? Tap the follow button now. This episode of Life Kit was produced by Claire Marie Schneider. Our digital editor is Malika Gharib, and Megan Kane is our senior supervising editor. Beth Donovan is our executive producer. Our production team also includes Margaret Serino, Sylvie Douglas, and Mika Ellison. Engineering support comes from Damian Herring. Fact checking by Tyler Jones. I'm Mariel Segarra. Thanks for listening.

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