Is your phone becoming a time suck? Try a boring phone

Phones can be addicting: There are endless texts to answer, notifications to check and games to play. We often end up on our phones without intending to. But Jose Briones, author of Low Tech Life: A guide to Mindful Digital Minimalism, says there is a solution. This episode, tips on quitting your smartphone in favor of simpler technology. This episode originally published July 30, 2024. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

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• 0:17Marielle Segarra?

  You're listening to Life Kit from NPR. Hey, everybody. It's Marielle. I am in a constant battle with my phone because I don't want to live inside of a device, right? I want to live in the world, among the trees and the sky and the people. Okay, only sometimes the people. But I, like so many of us, spend so many hours scrolling through stuff on my phone. And often, it starts like this. I pick up the phone to look at something for work. I see, oh, my friend texted. Oh, I have an email. And then I'm sucked into a black hole.

• 0:53Speaker 02

  That's the allure of smartphones. It's essentially you went to your smartphone, you open it up to do something, and you end up doing something else.

• 1:03Marielle Segarra?

  And it's hard to quit because my phone plays so many roles in my life. It delivers messages. It's my alarm clock, my GPS, my camera. It's what I use to quickly get a ride to the other side of town. But we have learned there is a path forward here to something less hectic, less all-consuming, and more human.

• 1:22Speaker 02

  My name is Jose Briones, and the title of my book is Low-Tech Life: A Guide to Mindful Digital Minimalism.

• 1:29Marielle Segarra?

  Jose is the guy to talk to about this. He had this problem himself right after college. He realized he was spending 12 to 13 hours a day tethered to screens, especially his phone. What he needed was for his phone to be less interesting. He needed a boring phone. Yeah, a boring phone or a simple phone as opposed to a smartphone.

• 1:48Speaker 02

  They look like a smartphone, but they don't have access to all of the apps that a regular, non-filtered, non-customized smartphone will have. So essentially, anything with an app store would be a smartphone to me.

• 2:03Marielle Segarra?

  And anything without would be a simple phone or a transition device. On this episode of Life Kit, we're going to talk about how to make that shift from a smartphone to a simpler device. This may be the kind of thing where you split your time between two devices, or you might transition completely. It depends on your needs, but you have options. And if you decide you don't want to buy another phone, we have tips for you, too. There are lots of ways to strip down the one you're using and reclaim some of your precious time.

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• 4:06Marielle Segarra?

  Okay, Jose, why might someone who currently uses a smartphone want to get a more basic phone?

• 4:12Speaker 02

  There are many reasons. I think one of them is you just want a simpler lifestyle. You want to maybe take a break from the digital world. And maybe you don't want to do it all the time. Maybe you just want to do it in the evenings or over the weekend. Maybe you're tired. Maybe you're actually experiencing difficulties by using smart technologies in your life, and they are un抵mountable. Maybe they're affecting your health, physical or mental. And you just need a change of lifestyle that allows you to integrate something slower, something simpler, something that is more humane.

• 4:47Marielle Segarra?

  Yeah, let's talk about that for a second. Like, because I think a lot of us, we move so quickly through this world that we don't even realize how we feel in our bodies. We're not in touch with our bodies. We're not in touch with like whether we're fatigued by something or what's making us feel bad. How can people check in with themselves and decide if their current smartphone usage is too much or if it's weighing on them?

• 5:16Speaker 02

  This happened to me when I had around 12 to 13 hours of connected devices and smart devices used. I felt stressed. I felt anxious in a way that I hadn't. And that was difficult. I started to notice differences in the way that I acted with my friends, with my family. Maybe I was a little bit shorter, angrier. So what I have done since I switched to a more basic phone is I go for walks. Every two to three hours, I have a dog that is quite active and he helps me in this. So I go on a walk with my dog in the neighborhood and I just take that time to recompose, think about what's just happening in my life and processing all of the different aspects of it.

• 5:59Marielle Segarra?

  Yeah, it's almost like, I don't know if people know they're allowed to do that.

• 6:04Speaker 02

  I think that we have adopted a new default of life. We are defaulted to online behaviors. Let it be searching the web, let it be responding to emails, let it be working from home. We all have this screen in front of us most of the time. And then our offline life is relegated to a secondary place. But the reality is that as humans, we have lived in the offline default for so long that we crave it, we miss it. We need to realize that once again. And maybe a return to a more boring phone will be the start of a different journey for you. Or maybe it's just turning off your phone. When was the last time that you actually turned off your phone?

• 6:49Marielle Segarra?

  Yeah, well, because when you have this phone, especially if you have a lot of apps that are connected to your job, but any social media messaging, it starts to feel compulsory. You pick it up because you feel like someone might be contacting you and you owe them an immediate response. And so you have to take this thing with you everywhere because if you don't answer, then people are like, are you dead? Or they're going to be like, are you mad at me? So part of this is about saying no.

• 7:20Speaker 02

  Yes, absolutely. No is a very important word and you have to create that boundary with yourself, with your employer, with your family. And you also have to explain. I have had a lot of people that say, I want to switch, but because of my family, because of my friends, I can't. And I tell them, well, you need to advocate for yourself. You need to say, this is something that I'm doing for me, for my health, and I'm going to try to do this so I can change my lifestyle for the better. I can actually focus on my tasks instead of being distracted every other minute because I'm having a conversation in the seventh group chat.

• 8:00Marielle Segarra?

  So takeaway one, reflect on what appeals to you about digital minimalism. You know, why do you want a boring phone? Do you want more time to take care of yourself, more calm in your life? Answering that question will help you set the boundaries you need.

• 8:16Marielle Segarra?

  So we talked about what is a smartphone. What would a more basic mobile phone be? Like, what kinds of capabilities do those have?

• 8:25Speaker 02

  So you have the smartphone, right? You have access to all the apps. Then you have what I call "simple phone." So you will get an old Nokia device, maybe with 4G LTE. That's a very important portion nowadays because a lot of providers like AT&T or T-Mobile will not activate older 2G or 3G devices. So you need at least 4G LTE. But Nokia device, a flip phone device, something like that will be extremely basic, something that is lifestyle change oriented. And then you have a transition device, something that may look like an older phone or a boring phone, like a flip phone, but it still has access to a few apps. Or something that is customized, maybe maps, or maybe music, or even email. It is allowed.

• 9:09Marielle Segarra?

  Okay. And with the simple phones, those can access the internet?

• 9:15Speaker 02

  Some of them can, and to different capacities. There are some simple phones that have a browser, but it's not that usable. It's very basic, essentially a Google search, something super simple. There are other devices in the transition category, like the middle category, which essentially do have more smartphone-like features. But because they have a small screen, you probably will not be tempted to spend as much time in them.

• 9:42Marielle Segarra?

  All right, so let's talk about the how to do this. When people make the switch, do they generally switch to using a basic phone all the time and like never use their smartphones? Or is it a, you know, 60/40 kind of thing? What device I bring depends on the situation?

• 10:00Speaker 02

  A lot of them do use simpler phones all the time. Others, what they do is they just select the phone that actually allows them to get the job done for the day. So for example, when I go on international trips, I recognize that a smartphone is extremely useful because I'm in a new place, maybe I don't know the language, so I'm going to bring that. And it's usually a week, maybe a week and a half. So it's not that big of an issue. But when I come back to the States, when I come back to my house, I know how my environment works. Some people completely switch, others half and half. Or sometimes even eighty, twenty. I'm going to use it for the most of the week. I'm going to use my smartphone.

• 10:44Speaker 02

  And then during the weekend, I'm going to use a more boring phone.

• 10:48Marielle Segarra?

  So how do you actually do that split? Practically speaking, because you have to have, do you have to pay for phone service on two different phones then?

• 10:56Speaker 02

  You don't have to. I choose to. So I have a work device and I have a personal device. You can have two different phone numbers and pay for two different plans. Or what you can do is just switch your SIM card and just experiment and see if that works for you.

• 11:15Marielle Segarra?

  Takeaway two. Decide on how minimalist you want to go. Maybe you want a more advanced work phone and a simpler personal phone. Maybe you just want to turn your smartphone off on the weekends and use something simpler then. Jose has a free quiz on his website, josebriones.org or dumbphones.org. And you can use that to get recommendations based on your needs. You can also talk to your provider about how this would work for you, right? Can you swap out your SIM card easily or would you need to have multiple plans?

• 11:45Marielle Segarra?

  Making the switch is a lot to think about because a lot of us rely on our phones as a camera, as a GPS, as a music player, as an alarm clock. You know, we used to have separate devices for all of these things. And so now if I'm going back to a more basic phone model, how do I think about which of those functions I need my phone to provide?

• 12:09Speaker 02

  I think you start by making an inventory of everything that you actually use and that is actually essential in your life. And then you start looking for solutions that may integrate most of those aspects. And maybe you need to carry a small camera with you or an MP3 player, just because it's going to be a better experience. Or an old school GPS like a Garmin or a TomTom. Whatever it is that you want, you will find a workaround because you want to be untethered from one single device doing all of these different things.

• 12:41Marielle Segarra?

  What about the apps that a lot of us have come to rely on? Ridesharing apps like Uber or Lyft. Those can be kind of a lifesaver if you can't catch a cab or you're in the middle of nowhere. Are there any more basic phones that have those apps on them? Or what's the workaround here?

• 13:00Speaker 02

  Luckily, in the United States, there are a couple of options. Yes, there are transition devices that you could buy that do have the ability to install Lyft, Uber, some of those tools. But there are also services. You can call an Uber. There's actually a phone number, 1-833-USE-UBER. And if you call that number, you're able to get an Uber via talking to a real person. There is another company called Tramp. And that one, you can text and you can call, and they will get an Uber for you. And of course, if you live in a bigger city, you can always use public transport at the same time.

• 13:36Marielle Segarra?

  That's good to know. Another app that I was thinking about is WhatsApp. Because if you have friends or family in other countries, it's an easy way to message. And that seems like a bummer to give up.

• 13:49Speaker 02

  Yes. If you're using a boring phone or something super simple, you probably will not have access to WhatsApp. But you can have access to it on a different device, something like a desktop or maybe a tablet. And that's what I see a lot of the community do. They don't have to have WhatsApp access all the time. Because most of the time, if you're talking to somebody outside of the country, they may be in a different time zone, or they're living their lives and they're not really integrated with the things that you have to do. So you can relegate those conversations to a certain segment of the day, like we used to do with landlines.

• 14:22Marielle Segarra?

  Hey, everybody. Popping in here for a second to say, I have since learned that Meta, the company that owns WhatsApp, is an NPR sponsor.

• 14:31Speaker 00

  I didn't know that when I asked the question.

• 14:33Marielle Segarra?

  Okay, back to the episode. I was thinking also, a lot of people's jobs require them to have a smartphone with an authenticator app to log into the company's internet or email, or even just on your laptop.

• 14:49Marielle Segarra?

  What can we do in that case? Like if you don't have a smartphone as your primary device?

• 14:54Speaker 02

  This is one of the areas where people can learn to advocate for themselves. So there are different solutions like hardware, security keys. So you can ask your IT department if they have the possibility of enabling that for you, or if they will be willing to consider a hardware token instead of an app for you to access all of these services that you need for your work and to factor authentication, et cetera, et cetera.

• 15:20Marielle Segarra?

  Okay, takeaway three. Make an inventory of all the apps that you use on your current phone. And then come up with solutions so they're not all on one device. You know, get a GPS or a physical authenticator token. Download WhatsApp on your laptop. Buy a journal to take notes in.

• 15:40Marielle Segarra?

  In general, if you make this switch, how can we navigate the pressure, especially from work, to be reachable at all times on apps like Slack or email?

• 15:53Speaker 02

  That's a, that's an excellent question and it's such a reality. Essentially, the way to talk to your employer about it is, I'm going to do an experiment. I just want to do this for maybe a week or two, and I want to see what happens with my productivity, what happens with my mental space, what happens with my relationships at work. If everything improves, that's an argument to use and say, hey, it is improving. My mental health, my productivity, my clients are more satisfied. I am personally more satisfied. I'm going to continue in this direction. This is a moment where you kind of have to say, I'm doing this for myself. I am maybe slowing down in my communication practices, and I want you to respect that.

• 16:35Marielle Segarra?

  Takeaway four, set expectations with friends, family, and employers about what they can expect from you now. You know, how quickly can they expect you to respond to messages? What hours will you be available? And how can you be reached?

• 16:51Marielle Segarra?

  I just took Slack off my phone. I took Outlook and Gmail off my phone. And I let people know, like during the day, you can reach me on Slack because I'll be on my computer. But after work hours, if something is urgent, call me or text me.

• 17:06Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 17:07Marielle Segarra?

  So, okay, let's say this all sounds good and I'm ready. I want to get a more basic mobile phone. How much might that cost me?

• 17:17Speaker 02

  That depends. The cost of a simple phone can go all the way down to $20 if that's what you really want. There are some compromises that you will have to make with a $20 phone versus a $100 phone. So I would say, look for the research. I personally recommend a few devices, like for example, the Sunbeam F1 is a flip phone. It's a little bit more expensive, but the company is really behind it. They listen to the feedback. They make updates. They make sure that the phone stays up to date. And you're just not going to get that experience with a $20 phone.

• 17:53Marielle Segarra?

  Mm hmm. Okay. And if I'm not quite ready to make the switch, but I do want to make my smartphone less enticing, what can I do to strip it down and make it more basic?

• 18:05Speaker 02

  Perfect question. A lot of people cannot switch to a simpler phone for whatever reason. Maybe it's work, maybe it's family, maybe it is a health condition. So if you need that app, but you don't want to be sucked in by Facebook and socials and all of the other stuff that is available on your smartphone, there are some methods that you can do. The first one is to trust somebody else with your screen time passcode. So if you want to go into your iPhone and you want to use the app and you set up a screen time limit, maybe it's 10 minutes, maybe it's 15, and you went to it, right now, you probably can beat that with two taps. You say, yes, I want more time. Are you sure? Yes, I'm sure.

• 18:47Speaker 02

  So if you give your screen time passcode to somebody else and they don't give it back to you, then you will have closed that loop for yourself. The second option is to get a software blocker or maybe a hardware blocker. So there are some companies like Clear Space or OneSec. They introduce delays and some reminders to not use your phone. And there's also a puck that I'm holding right now and it's called Brick. It's a getbrick.app. When you tap it, you block all of your apps. When you tap it again, you allow yourself to use all of those apps again. So introducing these points of friction, deleting the app, signing out of the App Store, that one is, does wonders because if you sign out of the App Store,

• 19:32Speaker 02

  then you don't have access unless you want to put in your password and your email. And then it sends you a text message for confirmation. So again, there's a lot of steps, a lot of friction. The more friction you introduce into your life, the harder you're making it to use all of these services and devices. Your brain is going to say it's not worth it.

• 19:52Marielle Segarra?

  Takeaway five, digital minimalism isn't all or nothing. If a simple phone is too daunting right now, there are ways to strip your smartphone down to get rid of some of its addictive qualities. Add some friction to your device.

• 20:07Marielle Segarra?

  Okay, Jose, what did you get out of this? Right? How is your life different now that you've transitioned to using a simpler phone most of the time?

• 20:15Speaker 02

  So the way that my life changed is that I was able to get a sense of calmness and better habits for my life. Since I switched to simpler phones and I started on this journey to find out what's the best path for me, I've been able to recover a lot of those habits that I used to have in university. Reading books, just taking time, better sleep, exercising, walking, just going out and thinking about my day and having better relationships. And I was able to, at the same time, start a hobby to help people find what's the best path for them. So I guess I gained a lot of skills and a lot of different things during this time period that have made my life more satisfying.

• 20:57Marielle Segarra?

  Yeah, I love that. That's a long list of benefits. Well, thank you so much, Jose. I hope people are able to do this and carve out some space for themselves in their lives.

• 21:09Speaker 02

  Thank you for having me. I really appreciate this time and I really hope people do find what's best for them in the digital or the offline.

• 21:21Marielle Segarra?

  All right, it's time for a recap. Takeaway one, reflect on what appeals to you about digital minimalism. Takeaway two, decide on how minimalist you want to go. This doesn't have to be all or nothing. Takeaway three, make an inventory of all the apps you need or use on your current phone so you can find the workarounds. Takeaway four, set expectations with the people in your life. And takeaway five, if you're not ready to switch over completely to a simple phone, there are ways to strip down your current phone as well.

• 21:53Marielle Segarra?

  For more Life Kit, check out our other episodes. We've got a quiz on how to know if you're spending too much time online and an episode on rethinking your relationship with social media. You can find those at npr.org/lifekit. And if you love Life Kit and want even more, subscribe to our newsletter at npr.org/lifekitnewsletter. Also, we love hearing from you, so if you have episode ideas or feedback you want to share, email us at [email protected]. This episode of Life Kit was produced by Margaret Serino. Our visuals editor is Beck Harlan, and our digital editor is Malika Gharib. Beth Donovan is our executive producer, and Megan Cain is our supervising editor. Our production team also includes Andy Tagel, Claire Marie Schneider, and Sylvie Douglas.

• 22:35Marielle Segarra?

  Engineering support comes from Ted Mebane and Robert Rodriguez. I'm Marielle Segarra. Thanks for listening.