What I Love: A Listener Summer Special

How do I love thee? For this special episode, we asked you to send us a voice message about something you love. From gas station coffee to tap dancing to rocks to the inner lives of rats, you answered—and showed us that when we experience the things that other people love, that love starts to feel like our own. Edited + produced by Miranda Zickler Original music in this episode is brought to you by Miranda Zickler and AJ McKinley, otherwise known as Magpie Cinema Club More You're Wrong About:Bonus Episodes on PatreonBuy cute merchYWA on Instagram Support the show Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• 0:08Sarah Marshall?

  Welcome to You're Wrong About. This week, we are bringing you a listener special, which means that you are the guests. A little while ago, I asked you all to send in voice memos telling us about something you love. It was a very open-ended prompt. I was looking for hobbies, things, times of day. I specifically asked also for stack shoes of fictional characters, characters from children's literature, if any of those were available, and they were. You all sent in your answers, and we have put them together with some music by Magpie Cinema Club. And I did want to tell you, there's a little

• 0:52Sarah Marshall?

  section in the middle, about 27 minutes in, where we talk about babies and pregnancy, trying to get pregnant, and pregnancy loss. And if you want to skip over that, you can skip about seven minutes ahead, and we will return to our pets. These are my very favorite episodes to make. I love hearing from all of you. And I hope that in this time, when we are constantly hearing about people being angry and scary and refusing to learn, this can also remind you that there are great people in our midst, who are not on the news, and yet are still out there. And here are just a few of them.

• 1:40Speaker 01

  Hello, Sarah and the You're Wrong About team.

• 1:43Speaker 02

  Hello, Sarah.

• 1:44Speaker 03

  Well, hey there, Sarah Marshall.

• 1:46Speaker 04

  Hello, Sarah Marshall. Hello, You're Wrong About listeners. Hey, You're Wrong About.

• 1:50Speaker 01

  Hi, Sarah and You're Wrong About family. Hi, Sarah. Hi, Sarah. Hi. Hi, Sarah. Hello, Sarah and Sarah's cadre. Hi, Sarah. Thanks for opening up this prompt.

• 2:01Speaker 05

  Hi, my name is Miriam. I live in northern central Pennsylvania in a little town called Benton. And I really love that time in the morning, the moment when you just wake up and you're still laying in bed, just slowly opening your eyes, and the day could still be anything. I really love that moment.

• 2:24Speaker 01

  This is Paige from Chicago. Something that I love the very, very most is springtime in Chicago. As probably many folks know, winter in the Midwest can be pretty brutal. It's generally much longer than you expect it to be. It's often very gray. It is very cold. And my favorite time of year, the thing that I love the most, is when you look outside one day and you see tiny, teeny little buds on trees. You start to see color again, and the smell of a lilac means that warmth is close.

• 3:06Speaker 01

  Warmth is here, and that there is light and hope and blue sky coming towards us, which sometimes it feels like the winter will never end.

• 3:19Speaker 06

  My name's Cassidy. I was the fifth generation raised in a family farmhouse. I'm about to only turn 30 years old, so this farmhouse was built in 1909. Every year, we get to get some spring paper action going on, and it's just a sound I love. Every time I hear them, it takes me right back to being at home. I don't live there anymore, but it's probably one of my favorite sounds, and it's part of who I am in growing up, and just a sound I really love and appreciate. It tells you what time of year it is. You know, the world spun around again, and there's always rebirth. So, spring papers is my answer.

• 4:00Speaker 07

  Hi, Sarah Marshall. This is Amy Davis calling from where I'm at. I love when you go in to smell a flower and the petals just brush across your lips.

• 4:12Speaker 07

  Hmm, yes.

• 4:17Speaker 04

  Hey Sarah and Co, this is Marina. I live on the west coast and I wanted to talk about a thing that I love, which is summer. I love going to the beach. I love enjoying the smell of the sand and surf, the clear water, the gentle waves, the warm sand between your toes, the seagulls, the pigeons on the beach. There are always beach pigeons, which is very cute. I love the smell of the smoky barbecues and the greasy night markets and I love music festivals. It's all in the summer. It's all just joyous people coming together and having a good time and they're all strangers, but they're all here for the same thing and it's to enjoy being outside and alive and warm. It's rapturous. I love summer and I can't

• 5:02Speaker 04

  wait for it to come this year.

• 5:04Speaker 07

  I've had a good breakfast and a cup of coffee. The sun is just coming up here in central Kansas and me and my 15-year-old dog are out here on the small acreage where I live and we are standing in the perennial flower beds and no matter how hard I try, I always have some weeds coming up in the spring. So we're out here listening to podcasts and I'm pulling weeds and making way for the flowers to come up. So now I'm gonna be quiet so you can hear what I hear.

• 5:57Sarah Marshall?

  I'm speaking to you from Melbourne, Australia, to tell you about the thing I love and that's when I get to go back home. Well, I'm from Tasmania. Tassie is a really remote, beautiful, wild, dramatic, isolating place. And I go home maybe, maybe once a year and I stay in my childhood home with my family. That's where they still are.

• 6:31Speaker 03

  And after, you know, a busy day of catching up with people I haven't seen for a year and seeing family members and, you know, just all that, that busyness that you have to do when you go home. I look forward so much to my twilight walk around my childhood neighbourhood. I walk for maybe an hour and the air is crisp. I, I always try and go in September around springtime because it's beautiful. The flowers are in full bloom, but it still gets dark early and that's an important part of it.

• 7:11Speaker 03

  I don't find it spooky. It's so remote. There's no one to be, there's no one to be afraid of except for maybe a, a potteroo, which is like, kind of like a kangaroo, but a lot smaller. And yeah, I've got to be rugged up in a polar fleece, like, and it's, it's important. It's one of my mum's that I've borrowed. That's integral to the enjoyment of this walk. And I just have the best daydreams and I feel so removed from everything, but also specifically back in place and held in a place that I know so well. And also it's not my life anymore.

• 7:54Speaker 03

  And that is such an intangible and wonderful feeling that I get to experience for an hour every day for the week that I'm there.

• 8:05Speaker 05

  My name's Jolene and I'm from Wales in the UK. And something that I love, other than my baby that you can hear playing right now, um, is the Welsh word harith. So there's no direct translation in English. It describes a uniquely Welsh longing and yearning, like a really intense homesickness. But often the place you feel it for is like beyond the physical. It's more like a spiritual mourning for a Wales that once was or never really was because it's like a idealized idea of a past Wales that once existed.

• 8:39Speaker 05

  And we've lost now. I hear they were growing up a lot. And when I moved away from Wales, I actually felt her life. There was nothing else that could describe it other than her life. I wanted my Wales as I knew him, the people, the land, my hometown, and this distinct feeling of belonging that I didn't even know I felt at home until I moved away and missed it very, very much. But then I found when I came back all these years later that I still felt her life because the thing that I wanted didn't really exist anymore. It was like an intense nostalgia for something that was really, really precious to me, but also like a grief that it was never coming back. And perhaps I slightly romanticized this place in my head. And the places have changed, the people have changed, and people have moved

• 9:24Speaker 05

  on with their lives. And I have such an appreciation for her life now because it's just for me and it's just for us in Wales. And I think there's something really beautiful that there's this little country of people that can all feel something, but also have such a like intense feeling that is both a collective and such an individual case each time.

• 9:50Speaker 03

  I live in Washington and I love road trips. I was on I eighty four during the episode, which is between Ogden, Utah and Twin Falls, Idaho. I think it's one of the most beautiful stretch of the highway. I think it's a beautiful place. I'm calling from Chattanooga, Tennessee. One of the things that I've grown to love being back in my hometown is a park and it's called Enterprise South Nature Park. One thing I love is my college campus. I'm an undergraduate student at the University of Washington, Seattle, and it is beautiful here.

• 10:29Speaker 02

  This is Lynn up in the Michigan U P. The thing I've always loved is looking out at vistas of wild country.

• 10:41Speaker 02

  Uh, my name is Isabel. I am from outside of Washington DC in Maryland and you may or may

• 10:50Speaker 07

  Not know that Jim Henson, creator of Kermit and the Muppets, was from Maryland. He spent a lot of his formative years here, including his teenagehood and the beginning of his career. And he attended the University of Maryland in College Park. And on that campus now is a statue of him and Kermit. And the way it's arranged is you can sit down with them and hang out on the bench with Kermit and Jim Henson. And I think that's just really, really sweet.

• 11:19Speaker 05

  My name is Casey. I live in Bloomington, Indiana. And outside of the Wonder Lab Children's Museum here, we have a statue of Captain Kathryn Janeway, who was born in Bloomington, Indiana on May 20th, 2336. So it is the future birthplace of Captain Kathryn Janeway. And she is a character from Star Trek.

• 11:45Speaker 03

  I love driving past the shipping cranes in Seattle where I live. I drive past them just about every day. And I love driving past them because I think they're very beautiful. And I also think they look like dinosaurs, right? You know, like a brachiosaurus or something like that. And so I sort of enjoy imagining that I live in like a dinotopia world with dinosaurs sort of living and working amongst us, though.

• 12:25Speaker 03

  I suppose I don't believe dinosaurs should be used for industry labor. From an animal rights perspective, politically, I am against it. But it's a fun thought and it brings me a little bit of happiness when I'm going to and from work.

• 12:55Speaker 03

  I love gas station coffee. Now, hear me out. A lot of gas stations give you a lot of coffee options. They all have dispensers where you can get your

• 13:06Speaker 07

  Black coffee or your decaf coffee or even iced coffee. And then a lot of them will have a dispenser for specialty coffee like vanilla lattes. And then they'll have a station where you can get your creamer and your sugar. And they even have special syrups with like vanilla and hazelnut flavoring. A lot of options. It's essentially you get to go behind the counter of a specialty coffee shop at a gas station. And so if you're like me and you get anxiety in a coffee shop where the menu is really vague and you're, you're not sure what your options are, gas station coffee, perfect. Cause you just get to make it yourself and you have all your options in front of you.

• 13:48Speaker 07

  And I will pay less than $2 for a small cup of coffee that I created myself at a gas station. Gas station coffee gets dissed on a lot. People are wrong about gas station coffee. It is great.

• 14:11Speaker 06

  Hello from the state of Victoria in Australia. When I was thinking about the prompt for this episode of, you know, something that you love or a hobby. Um, the only thing that came to mind that I thought really suited the you're wrong about vibe is actually my dog Mac. And, you know, you would think dogs are great, you know, we all love dogs, right? Or most people do, but look, Mac is a hard dog to love at times as we all are, I think, you know? And I thought that was really emblematic of some of the lessons that I've taken from you wrong about where we are all, you know, more than one thing, right? You know, we can be crazy annoying, but also super sweet.

• 14:55Speaker 06

  And that is my dog Mac. So Mac is a blue healer, an Australian cattle dog. Mac is five years old. Um, like all cattle dogs, he's short, he's stocky. He has the softest ears and the softest little head to scritch. And he does love cuddles, but because he's a cattle dog, while he loves being close to you, he also can't help but put His mouth on you like almost at all times. So he's like gnawing on you. He's like licking you, you know, that that can be annoying, right? But he also loves a cuddle, right? Who doesn't like that? Um, he's also reactive, which means that he's an anxious boy, right?

• 15:35Speaker 06

  He's on furoxate again, as a lot of us are, and he manages his anxiety by lashing out and barking and really looking aggressive towards other dogs, right? So that makes it hard to walk him. We can't just walk him around the neighbourhood because he gets so anxious and overwhelmed and stressed. And also it's embarrassing and drives us crazy. However, this means we can also walk him in the Australian bush. Which means we get to walk him, you know, amongst our unique landscape, our beautiful wildflowers that come up every spring. Our beautiful eucalyptus trees and our um ironbark and box gum trees that grow

• 16:16Speaker 06

  in this central Victorian region. So Mac kind of pushes us out of our comfort zone. We've learnt a lot about dog ownership, being with him, and he also is the best friend probably that you could ever ask for. He's funny, he's sweet, and he loves a lot.

• 16:36Speaker 05

  My name is Sophie. I'm calling from Portland, Oregon, uh specifically on my couch next to a very old twenty year old frail tabby cat. I am calling to tell you about something I love. Uh it is springtime here in Portland. Which means that soon I get to start going on trails in the Columbia Gorge to look for my favourite little creature, which is a pica. If you're not familiar with the Portland or Gorge area, the Columbia Gorge is a natural area that runs along the Columbia River between uh the states of Washington and Oregon, and it's beautiful. It's one of my favourite places in the world.

• 17:14Speaker 05

  But inside of the gorge are little colonies of these little rabbit, guinea pigs, squirrel type things called pica.

• 17:26Speaker 05

  Which are the size of a russet potato and they have these big round ears and they live in boulder fields. Uh, usually in high altitude areas, but there are some colonies that live in lower altitudes, um, specifically in the Columbia Gorge. So. I love to, in the morning or the evening, when I, uh, don't have work or during the weekends. Take a hike out to one of those boulder fields and I sit for 10 or 15 minutes, very, very quietly. And I wait for there to be a little sound. It's like a little meep kinda sound.

• 18:03Speaker 05

  And I didn't do it right, but um, if I'm really lucky, there will be a pika or honestly, sometimes multiple pika that will come out from between the boulders. And I bring my binoculars and I get to sit and I get to watch these really, really cool little. Uh, creatures come out and tell each other that there is a big scary human that is sitting there silently. And it's just one of my favorite peaceful activities.

• 18:32Speaker 06

  I live in Augusta, Maine, and something I really love is going to the dump. That's because, you know, I throw all my recycling in the back of my car and I drive up there. All this ephemera of our human life. Boxes of the things we probably shouldn't have ordered. You crest this hill and suddenly straight up before you is like at least thirty eagles. I don't know why our dump supports this large population of bald eagles. And I think somebody smarter than me should probably study it. I can't imagine it's great for them, but in a lot of ways, it's weirdly beautiful. And I think, you know, there's the obvious joke about a democracy within the story, but same time, it's weirdly beautiful and.

• 19:12Speaker 06

  I don't know. I kinda love to see them swooping around, eating trash, being majestic, but also acting like seagulls. And I really love the dump eagles. I think it might also be a good band name.

• 19:25Speaker 05

  Hi, my name is Louis. I'm a trans dude from Portland, Oregon, and I love my rats. Currently in my home, I have nineteen rats. Um, fifteen of them are my own personal sanctuary residents. And four of them are fosters for the Small Animal Rescue Little Critter Crew, which I have the joy of working very, very closely with. I get to process adoption applications and sometimes.

• 19:52Speaker 06

  I even get to do stuff like going into people's homes and doing a behavioral consult to help them work out behavioral issues that are happening with their rats. They are just such social, fascinating, and empathetic creatures. I've seen young rats bring old or sick rats food to make sure that they are eating. I have seen them be so resilient. I have worked with many rats who have been abused and the way that they can bounce back and form deep relationships with their human caretakers and with other rats is just so lovely. I don't know if you just heard them in the background there a little bit squeaking at each other.

• 20:38Speaker 06

  I've seen them experience love stories. Some of the first rats that I adopted, Potato and Gravel, separately, they had lived alone in small cramped cages. Very similar stories, but they came from different caretakers. I adopted them both and when they met, they fell in love. They would not leave one another's side. They slept together and ate together and played together. And when Gravel unfortunately died before Potato, Potato took these strips of newspaper that I give them to nest with

• 21:16Speaker 06

  and he went in one of his hides and he built a great big nest blocking up the door. And he barely left for days. He, he just deeply grieved and I saw that happen and he was a bit depressed after that and just not quite himself until we brought home some babies. And he met these babies and he just perked right up. He played with them and helped correct and discipline them and he was always so gentle and loving towards them. And he ended up living another year after that. He lived to be three years and three months old, which is a very respectable rat age.

• 22:01Speaker 06

  I think everyone should love rats. If you are thinking about getting rats, please research proper care because there's a lot of misinformation out there. Yeah, go rats.

• 22:21Speaker 05

  When I first heard this prompt, I immediately thought of my beautiful friend who's having her 50th birthday party on Saturday. I've been looking forward to this party for weeks. I bought a new dress. I helped pick out a gift. I just feel so crazy happy to be celebrating her. She's so strong and smart and so giving of herself. She's just terrific. And thinking of Mary made me think about all of the wonderful women in my life and just how much joy I get from being around them, being impressed by them and rooting for them. And they're also perhaps the people in my life who most reflect back to me someone I can easily love. They widen my universe so I can see the space I have to grow and to be. They are unconditional love and I could not be more grateful to have found them.

• 23:05Speaker 02

  This is Topher. I live in New York City and I love a good fun fact. And so I love all of the fun little odd facts that I learn from your podcast all the time. So I thought I would share some fun facts about my particular area of expertise, which happens to be musical theater. So Stephen Sondheim and Angela Weber, they are objectively two of the most influential musical theater writers since Rodgers and Hammerstein. They share a birthday, which is kind of common knowledge, at least within the theater community. But one other thing about them that they share, which is pretty implausible, is the fact that they both won an Oscar for Best Original Song and that song was sung by Madonna in the movie.

• 23:50Speaker 02

  So for Stephen Sondheim, it was Sooner or Later for Dick Tracy. And then for Angela Weber, it was You Must Love Me from the Avita movie. I just think it's so interesting because, first of all, obviously, winning an Oscar for Best Original Song is something that so few people have accomplished. And the fact that these two people who happen to share a birthday and are very influential musical theater writers, wrote that song for somebody who you don't necessarily associate with musical theater is just very surprising, but it's a true fact.

• 24:19Speaker 06

  My name is Annie and I love teaching middle school. When you tell people that you are a middle school teacher, immediately people say, "Oh, God bless you," or you know, some other comment about, "Oh, how do you handle it?" And I genuinely believe that early adolescents are some of the most wonderful people to work with. They still have that playfulness and curiosity of children, but they are starting to think about and wonder about far more serious things. And even though it doesn't look like it, I promise you, kids today are paying attention.

• 25:04Speaker 06

  They're really paying attention. Their attention spans might be very short, and the way they communicate might look and sound a little bit different, but they are some of the fiercest friendships you will ever see. They absolutely love each other. They're creative and curious, and they are just silly as hell. There's a lot of ups and downs in being there for them on any given day. And a middle school can be a really busy, noisy place, the sheer quantity of social interactions that they have to have all day long. And every hour, somebody different is saying, "Sit down, pay attention, this is important." It's no wonder that by the end of the day, they have so little left to say to their

• 25:48Speaker 06

  parents when they ask, you know, "How was your day?" And then they give a one-word answer. I know that for many people, this age group can feel like a bit of a mystery, you know, not really understanding who they are or what's happening for them. And it's not that they don't have anything to share, it's that they're just sharing it all day long in other places. They can solve algebraic equations, they're learning new languages, they can name the three branches of government. And while it's always complicated, I have to say that from where I sit, Monday through Friday, 180 days a year, the future's actually looking pretty bright. So, in defense of middle schoolers everywhere.

• 26:51Speaker 07

  I am sending you a voice memo to tell you that I love my daughter. She is the best thing that's ever happened to me. And as I'm recording this right now, she has officially been living outside of me longer than she ever was living inside of me. And I think that's pretty wonderful. And I love being a mum. It's not for everyone, I have to say, you know? I think being a mum is like climbing a mountain or eating a comically large pizza, you know? Like, you've got to want it, but I want it and I love her.

• 27:29Speaker 05

  Kia ora from a very rainy Aotearoa, New Zealand. I'm calling in to say that I love my daughter, my one-year-old daughter, more than I thought it would ever be possible to love anything. And to add context to that statement, because I feel like that's a very normal thing to say, and it's kind of what I feel I should say as a parent, as a new parent, and what we encourage parents to say and how we encourage people to have kids and all of that kind of thing. But to illustrate why that's so significant to me, I'm transgender, I'm a trans woman,

• 28:12Speaker 05

  and I'm autistic and I have ADHD. And I'm a musician and playing music feels like flying for me. It's the most wonderful feeling in my life. And somehow, this tiny bundle of screaming and cuddles has become even more wonderful. That's absolutely wild to me. We put a lot of work in to have a child. Being transgender and having children is something that our institutions here in New Zealand kind of encourage.

• 28:59Speaker 05

  We are funded to preserve our fertility, but then not funded to use it. And um, yeah, it's so nice being a mother and calling myself a mother. It's so joyous. And at the same time, just, I have another autistic friend who's thinking of having a child and I, I told them to be prepared for the highs and lows of every day to triple. Like every, everything that's wonderful about every day gets three times as wonderful. And everything that's terrible about every day gets three times as bad. And that's kind of the maths that I think you have to do before deciding to become a parent.

• 29:44Speaker 03

  Hello. So just finished up listening to the last episode. And I am feeling inspired by the prompt. It feels really personal, which I suppose, something that you love is always personal for somebody, but um,

• 30:05Speaker 03

  two, almost three years ago, my baby was stillborn and um, he was essentially full term. So I, you know, got to hold my son. And he was born at seven o'clock in the morning on the dot. And one of the days after I was home, um, and I had to go back to work, I was just feeling really upset. And I looked out the window at the sunrise and the sunrise was just at 7:00 AM. And it was the most beautiful orange and pink colors that I had just experienced in so long.

• 30:50Speaker 03

  And I see those colors every now and again in the sunrise. One of my favorite things that I love is watching the sunrise in the morning now, because it's one of those weird things where I feel connected to that moment.

• 31:25Speaker 05

  Hi, my name is Zach and I live in New Jersey. My wife and I got married last year and we came into 2026 very optimistic. We were hoping this would be the year that we would have a baby. But suddenly my job got very less secure. So we decided that reproducing would be very irresponsible for the foreseeable future. But this created a hole in our hearts that we needed to fill. I have never had a pet before. I have always been a dog person, but neither of us are home enough for a dog.

• 32:07Speaker 05

  So before I knew it, there are now two cats in our apartment, Diamond and Trevor. Diamond is about two, she's a lovely little black cat, and Trevor is four, and he is orange. And they have just taken over our lives. I never thought I could love two cats this much. Trevor is not beating the orange allegations. He is just mostly confused all the time. He waxes tail like a dog and he is highly food motivated.

• 32:49Speaker 05

  Diamond, we like to call her Shadow because she just wants to follow us around and see whatever we're doing, but we can't pet her every time we get close, she runs away. And it's just so amazing to see every little milestone of them getting closer to us, every little barrier that gets broken.

• 33:16Speaker 05

  Our lives have just become so much fuller. So we like to say that we thought we were gonna have a baby. And so we ended up with two wonderful, adorable, sweet babies. I love when my friend Sean sends me updates about a cat called Cleo, who he does not own. She is infamous in her neighborhood for beating up every single dog. And every day she meows and yells outside his door until he opens up and feeds her treats and gives her attention. I think she's amazing. She is an icon and I love hearing about her adventures.

• 34:01Speaker 05

  Hi Sarah, this is Will from San Francisco. I wanted to share something I love. And that is the sound of my partner and I's 11 year old French Bulldog Calvin sleeping away on the couch next to us.

• 34:33Speaker 05

  I hope you enjoy.

• 34:40Speaker 05

  Something I love is when you wake up on a day where you have nothing to do. I live in Michigan and so we're very close to the beach. I really love when I have nothing to do and the weather is nice and I can go out to the beach and look for rocks. This is Izzy calling from North Carolina and I love sitting outside. I am pretty unemployed at the moment and just going out with something nice to eat or something nice to drink, something nice to read is just absolutely incredible. It's feeling really good. And every time I'm like, but everything sucks. This is terrible. I'm like, no, I'm gonna take a minute, go sit on the grass and I love it.

• 35:25Speaker 05

  It sounds terrible, but I've been loving this. Period of unemployment in my life. I looked this up. There are five point eight million young people out of work in the UK. And I imagine in the US, it's not much better. I've been unemployed for about a month, but the weather's turning and the sun is out. And I've just been having the best time, really. Just waking up naturally in the morning, walking through the park. And doing nice things for other people because I have the bandwidth to see and notice what they need. Um, when I am in work, I tend to go for those kind of high-stress

• 36:09Speaker 05

  jargon-filled corporate offices. And so this time has been really important for me to consider how much longer I'm sort of willing to forsake my arts, my soul, um, what my personal limit is.

• 36:28Speaker 05

  And I will obviously get another job and quite possibly another corporate job. And that's okay. That's absolutely okay. But I'm just loving this period of my life. And as ridiculous as it sounds, I genuinely hope that everyone has an experience of a period of not working because as human beings, we're meant for so much more than that.

• 36:57Speaker 06

  I'm Su Shi and the thing that I love is an old anime. I find fan comics in Japan from the eighties and nineties where artists would write little notes in them about how they're neglecting their studies or putting off dental work to finish their comics in time. It just makes me really feel warm and fuzzy when I read these notes from these ladies who are probably sixty years old now, who are doing the same stuff. That's like fans do all over the world and um, it makes me feel connected. And I love the joy and silliness of all of it. And I'm working on that same sort of stuff myself right now. Um, all to make stuff that's. Just really goofy and gay and frivolous stuff.

• 37:42Speaker 06

  You know, it's not that important, but it it's fun and special. And I don't know, it's it's really wonderful to feel connected to something. And maybe add a little bit to the legacy of making stories about characters that are older than I am. And getting to meet people who love it too, all over the world. And it just reminds me that love keeps ideas alive, it keeps people alive. And that you can really make special stuff when you love something. And I like doing it, even if it's not for money. Um, it's not profitable in any way, but that's what makes it really fun.

• 38:22Speaker 06

  And a lot of people have been doing it for so long, despite it being completely unprofitable. And that's that's what I love. It makes me really happy when people do things just because it's fun. And everybody out there, I hope you spend some time on things that you love that aren't worth any money. Because that's really the only way to make the world better, in my opinion.

• 38:48Speaker 05

  This is Joy. I am calling from Stone Mountain, Georgia. And something that I love is rocks. I think I have always loved rocks. Like, I have some core memories from childhood, um, where I was sitting on big rocks, like boulders in the woods, um, on various adventures. And those are just magical, peaceful memories. And it's like about the rocks. I always dreamed of going to a rocky beach. Since I grew up in the southeast, our beaches were always, you know, the nice sandy beaches. But I wanted to see a beach, like the beaches in Maine with the rocks.

• 39:29Speaker 05

  And that's where I took my honeymoon, to Maine, mostly so I could see those rocky beaches. And I am lucky enough that I happen to live in a house where there are tons of rocks. It's just a kind of a strange thing. It's just as cool. Coincidence that this house that made sense for us to live in. Um, the yard is, some people might say littered with rocky debris and lots of little rocks and all kinds of rocks. And so I have gotten really into the rocks in my yard and I'm making a rock garden and I like to go out and dig in the dirt and find cool and unusual rocks. Like I found a

• 40:11Speaker 05

  little one that's actually shaped like a heart and it has some black and some brown and some white. It's the best. And I've also learned how to tumble rocks. So I got a little rotary tumbler and it's like this long, slow process and you've got to put in different levels of grid and check the rocks every week or so. It takes like two months, but with patience, those crusty yard rocks come out smooth and shiny. And to me, they are precious jewels. And um, I'm in love with them.

• 40:47Speaker 06

  Hi Sarah, this is Chelsea in Seattle. And what I love is when farms turn themselves into little Halloween wonderlands every year. I love haunted houses so much. I love the detail and I think of the tenderness of people decorating these horrifying scenes together. Uh, and I love corn mazes. I love haunted corn mazes when there's people in there to scare you. But I also love just walking through a corn maze during the day, looking at each and every individual

• 41:28Speaker 06

  ear of corn, because each one, if you really look at it, the silks, they form kind of different hairdos. You know, they can be really long. You know, they could look good in a ponytail or a bob. They look like they're wearing these beautiful green gowns. And I just think it's so amazing that you can walk through this field and everything can look exactly the same. And every ear of corn, you think, oh, that's just an ear of corn. But then when you look, you know, that every corn in that field.

• 42:03Speaker 05

  Is a glamorous woman. The thing that I love is movies. I love every kind of movie. I love good ones. I especially love bad movies. And the thing I love about them is that they're essentially a way of experiencing a collective dream. And they're a form of art that is an inherently collaborative process. I think that making art in a world where we are having machines make art for us is a precious

• 42:43Speaker 05

  thing. And since the proliferation of AI art, it's made me appreciate movies even more than I already did. There's something about watching something that's bad, but that was made because a person made a choice to do it that way. I think that that feels special now in a way that it didn't before.

• 43:15Speaker 05

  Hi Sarah, this is Tegan. I'm coming to you from Nam, Melbourne, Australia. And I wanted to tell you about something I've fallen back in love with recently, which is tap dancing. So I'm what I half jokingly, I guess, refer to as a recovering dance child. I did jazz, ballet, and tap dancing from the ages of about six to seventeen, before I stopped to focus on my final year of school. I'm doing air quotes, in case you can't tell. In reality, I just didn't want to do it anymore. I guess to paraphrase Maureen from one of my favorite

• 44:00Speaker 05

  dance movies, Center Stage, I just didn't have the heart. So I stopped and kind of just accepted that that part of my life was over until about four years ago, when I was looking for a non-screen based hobby. And I thought I might try to start dancing again.

• 44:21Speaker 06

  Shout out to Ms. Caroline's School of Tap in Preston. Ms. Caroline, she runs it all by herself and she's such a great teacher. She manages this really good balance of, you know, encouraging you to learn new things and become a better dancer, but making sure you're still having fun. It really feels like I'm reconnecting to a part of myself that I thought, I thought I'd lost, or maybe didn't even know that I'd lost.

• 45:02Speaker 03

  I was very moved to speak to you today about something that I love, but also that I think fittingly, a lot of people are wrong about, which is compost. I do love compost. You know, for the last six years, I've run a community compost, all volunteer on the east side of Los Angeles. Together, we've composted maybe 20 to 25 tons of organic waste a year. And we've also had a kick ass time in our community, playing around in the dirt and using the fertilizer to grow food that we give away back to the community for free.

• 45:42Speaker 03

  And I think in that time, I've really grown this deep and profound sense that compost is this connective tissue between how we conceptualize life and death as connected or not, how we act as consumers in society, how we conceptualize throwing things away and what that means, and how that's connected to the responsibility we take in the world as consumers versus givers. In addition to the fact that it's super fun. It's super fun to just get in the dirt with your friends and mess around and be filthy and silly and just have all this permission to mess up. Compost kind of has this reputation, I think, is this rigorous scientific.

• 46:27Speaker 03

  And complex process when in fact it's just the absolute fate of all biological material is that it will decompose and recreate the conditions for life in the process. And as the composter, it's your job to steward those conditions. But there's very little you can do to to mess them up. There's so many forms and types of compost that exist as a result. And it's kind of just our job to be around and witness it. And perhaps put our hands in it from time to time. You can kind of just get in there and fuck it up and mess around. And you're still going to end up with this like beautiful, great end product that's going to literally create life for you. And I just think it's so magical and people don't realize.

• 47:13Speaker 06

  I wanted to tell you about something that I love, which is watching live sports, especially hockey and basketball. I love being in a room full of people who feel the same way as me, like a huge amount of people who feel the same way as me. Just like with live theater, even if you really think you're not into it because you don't like watching sports, go to a live game. It will change your mind.

• 47:44Speaker 05

  Something that I have been loving lately is organizing exchanges with groups of women that are friends of friends or close friends, or maybe they're groups of people that haven't met each other before. Everybody brings something that they're trying to get rid of, whether it's clothes or books or even a tricycle that somebody else turned into a little library. We all get together, we drink tea or wine or whatever anybody's feeling like. And the goal is for everybody to leave with a new friend. I hope that this inspires other people. It's one of the ways that I've met my really good friends here on the tiny island that I live on.

• 48:33Speaker 05

  Something I love is grabbing a late night fight with friends after a concert, a game, or another outing. There's something about being at a diner with good company. They're determined to make the night last a little bit longer, even if it's past our usual bedtimes. Maybe it's because I like Twin Peaks, or because there's a Waffle House nearby, no matter where you are in the city. But I feel a calm, tired joy when I'm with the people I care about, and we're all enjoying each other's company too much to say goodnight.

• 49:01Speaker 04

  What I love is making dinner with my friends. In between, sharing stories and thoughts and feelings. Asking like, okay, like, what other spices should I throw in here? Do you think, should we put in the tomatoes now? And getting to alter your recipes and learn things from each other and nourish each other. I want to talk about how much I love onions, particularly the smell of them when they're cooked. My dad used to come home smelling like cooked onions and cooked garlic. He was a chef growing up. I find myself noticing that smell more and more nowadays. There's an apartment building next to mine, and sometimes when I walk out to my car,

• 49:46Speaker 04

  they have their patio door open and that onion smell is wafting out of the door and just filling the entire complex. It's lovely. I'm sure other people may not feel the same way. But onions feed into so many different types of cuisines. And that smell and that flavor can transform into so many other cuisines. Their smells and flavors. I think that's why I have a particular love for this root vegetable. That finds itself being transformed into so many things too. I mean, who doesn't love an onion ring?

• 50:22Speaker 05

  What I love is the French toast at my favorite local breakfast place. So I wrote this song to celebrate it.

• 50:33Speaker 05

  Geraldine, you really know how to French a toast. Pamperdew, but your bread is not lost on me.

• 50:48Speaker 05

  When the waitress with the pretty earrings rattles off the specials, I'm only hearing the topping of the day. Oh, please be peach.

• 51:03Speaker 05

  I greatly enjoy growing vegetables and herbs and being able to take them straight into the kitchen. And it also means I get to give people homegrown flowers, fruit, vegetables, and herbs as gifts, which I love. My favorite type of flowers are Banksias, which are native to Australia.

• 51:20Speaker 01

  And their flowers smell like freshly baked bread. Some of them are only perfumed at night. What more could you want than a flower that smells like a freshly baked loaf of bread? I love horses. Knitting.

• 51:35Speaker 01

  I'm calling in to say that I love bush turkeys. Pruning fruit trees. I love the water. I love my wife. I love my wife very much. I love plant galls and the insects that induce them. And the thing I love is the show Mystery Science Theater 3000.

• 51:59Speaker 03

  I realized that I love my wife. I love the.

• 52:03Speaker 05

  Show, I love the feeling of connection and community I get with so many like-minded listeners, from the comment sections through to Sarah's wonderful sharing of other people's experiences and stories. It just makes for a real sense of togetherness and belonging, given how disconnected and fractured the world can feel. Thank you so much for creating something that feels so meaningful and has spawned, of course, the You're Wrong About Extended Universe. She grew up with the children of the corn. At a pumpkin patch in the autumn morn.

• 52:48Speaker 05

  The farmers grew her field big and created a maze. They invited all the kids and the parents and the teenagers and the Halloween days. Her silk looks good in a ponytail or a bob. But from the maze I can tell that she's feeling down, that she's just a cobb.

• 53:23Speaker 05

  But right before she hangs her ear to weep, I sing to her a melody I sing. Every corn is a glamorous woman. Every corn is a glamorous woman. Every corn is a glamorous woman. Say goodbye, say goodbye, say goodbye.

• 53:58Speaker 05

  Find her by the haunted house off the fifteen. Down that lane about a mile. Housewalk. And other people tell her that no corn is unique. That she'll never be a big star, that she's better off being jiffy pop. But she just flips her hair, her silky gold mane.

• 54:33Speaker 05

  She's seen her share of monsters in this Halloween maze. Every corn is a glamorous woman. Every corn is a glamorous woman. Every corn is a glamorous woman. Say goodbye. Say goodbye. Say goodbye.

• 55:26Speaker 05

  I told her, "You're the best thing about this maze." "I see you in your gorgeous green gown with that gold-cornold face." "I know it feels like everybody's got a sickle." "But their hearts are dead, girl, like a cornfield in the winter." Every corn is a glamorous woman. Every corn is a glamorous woman. Every corn is a glamorous woman. Say goodbye. Say goodbye.

• 56:40Sarah Marshall?

  And that was our episode. Thank you so much for helping us make it. Thank you to everybody who sent in a submission. We listened to all of them. We love getting the opportunity to just learn more about you and the things that you care about. Thank you for sharing your lives and your joy and your sorrow and all of your love with us and with each other. This episode was edited and produced by Miranda Zickler with original music by AJ McKinley. And you can hear more of Miranda and AJ's music, including this full version of "Stocka Bye" featuring Chelsea Weber-Smith at the link in our show notes.

• 57:23Sarah Marshall?

  And I have to say, I can't think of a better song than this one. Thank you to our administrative assistant, Nicole Ortiz. And thank you to you for listening, for being part of this community, and for getting lost in the corn with us. We'll see you next time.