Ryan Holiday: Think Like a Stoic, Timeless Leadership Principles for Modern Entrepreneurs | Leadership | YAPClassic

Ryan Holiday's approach to leadership was shaped through patience and years of unglamorous work. After dropping out of college at 19, he apprenticed under bestselling author Robert Greene, learning writing, research, persuasion, and human nature before becoming the marketing director of American Apparel at just 21. Those experiences laid the foundation for his rise as a bestselling author and one of the world's leading voices on Stoicism. In this episode, Ryan shares how Stoicism can help entrepreneurs strengthen leadership skills, sharpen decision-making, and maintain a resilient mindset during tough times. In this episode, Hala and Ryan will discuss: (00:00) Introduction (01:32) Robert Greene’s Influence on Ryan’s Career (09:52) Provocative Marketing Lessons From American Apparel (18:18) Ryan’s Path Into Stoic Philosophy (19:44) The Stoic Approach to Life and Business (27:13) The Four Stoic Virtues for Personal Development (32:21) Mastering Clear Decision-Making Under Pressure (38:18) The Dangers of Ego in Leadership (40:34) How Stoicism Drives Productivity (41:52) Building Ethical Habits and Leadership Skills (50:41) Stoic Habits for Profiting in Life Ryan Holiday is a bestselling author, entrepreneur, media strategist, and one of the leading modern voices bringing Stoic philosophy to mainstream audiences. He served as director of marketing at American Apparel before founding his creative agency, Brass Check. Ryan’s books, including The Obstacle Is the Way and The Daily Stoic, have sold more than 2 million copies in 30 languages. His work helps leaders and creatives apply Stoic principles to overcome challenges. Sponsored By: Indeed - Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job's visibility at Indeed.com/profiting Shopify - Start your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/profiting. Northwest Registered Agent - Get a complete business identity with Northwest. Visit northwestregisteredagent.com/YAPFree and start using free resources to build something amazing. Mindstone - Master practical AI skills without the complexity with Mindstone’s AI Competency Programme. Head to experience.mindstone.com/yap and get 10% off. AT&T - Stay connected with reliable, secure internet built for entrepreneurs. Switch to AT&T Business at business.att.com. Quince - Make your summer wardrobe feel easier. Go to Quince.com/profiting for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too. Resources Mentioned: Ryan’s Book, Trust Me, I'm Lying: bit.ly/TrustMeLying Ryan’s Book, Right Thing, Right Now: bit.ly/RightThingNow Ryan’s Podcast, The Daily Stoic: bit.ly/DailyStoicPod Active Deals - youngandprofiting.com/deals Key YAP Links Reviews - ratethispodcast.com/yap YouTube - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting Newsletter - youngandprofiting.co/newsletter LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ Social + Podcast Services: yapmedia.com Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com/episodes-new Entrepreneurship, Entrepreneurship Podcast, Business, Business Podcast, Self Improvement, Self-Improvement, Personal Development, Starting a Business, Strategy, Investing, Sales, Selling, Psychology, Productivity, Entrepreneurs, AI, Artificial Intelligence, Technology, Marketing, Negotiation, Money, Finance, Side Hustle, Startup, Mental Health, Career, Leadership, Mindset, Health, Growth Mindset, Networking, Goal Setting, Strategic Planning, Time Management, Team Building

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  The Stoics would say that the greatest empire is command of yourself. It's not things that upset us, it's our opinion about things. And realizing like as an entrepreneur, there's no such thing as a good market or a bad market. There just is, that life is objective. That's what the discipline of perception is about. What is the point of doing your own thing if you're not going to do it right? You're the boss. You get to decide what you pay people, what materials you use. If you're not gonna use that to make a positive difference in the world, what are you doing? There's so many ways you can make money. And if money was all you cared about, you should just go work in finance. It's less risky and the upsides are probably higher.

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  How do you define a good life in Stoic terms?

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  The Stoics believed that life was-

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  What's up, Yap gang? On Monday, Ryan Hock reminded us that excellence has a price tag. It costs comfort, consistency, humility, and the willingness to keep showing up long after the excitement wears off. And that's what makes this Yap classic with Ryan Holiday such a perfect follow-up. Ryan is a bestselling author, the host of The Daily Stoic, a philosopher, entrepreneur, and one of the leading voices bringing ancient Stoic wisdom into modern life and business. In this conversation, Ryan breaks down how to turn obstacles into opportunities, how to stay steady under pressure, protect your time, and focus on what you can actually control. So if Ryan Hock gave us the price of becoming, Ryan Holiday is about to give us the mindset to pay for it. Yap, fam, let's get right into my amazing conversation with Ryan Holiday.

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  Ryan, welcome to Young and Profiting Podcast.

• 2:26Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's good to be here.

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  I'm so excited for this conversation. And when I was researching for today's episode, I found out that you started your career with an apprenticeship when you were 19. You ended up dropping out of college at 19, which is the same thing that I did. I actually interned for Angie Martinez, who was like the biggest radio personality in the world at the time when I was in college.

• 2:48Speaker 01

  From the Breakfast Club, right?

• 2:49Speaker 00

  She's at 1051 now, but she was at Hot 97.

• 2:53Speaker 01

  Yeah.

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  And so apprenticeships are so important. You did it under Robert Greene. I had him on the show, one of my favorite episodes of all time. And so I want to start there. I want my listeners to get a really good understanding of your career journey because it's the first time on the show. So tell us about that apprenticeship. What did you learn? How did it impact your future career?

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  Well, let's say two things about it. So one, these things become clear after the fact, right? They start as a job, somebody gives you a shot, somebody gives you something to work on. It only becomes a mentorship or an apprenticeship afterwards. After a long time has passed, you can come to understand that's what it was. What I, what really happened is I got a job as a research assistant for this writer that I really liked. And in a world before AI, I transcribed interviews he was doing for a book that he was writing. And so it was just this kind of mundane task that I did well enough that it led to another one and another one and another one. And all the while I was learning from him, I was able to ask questions, was able to work on other projects.

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  And it sort of developed into this relationship that continues to this day. But through it, I learned the art of writing, the art of researching, how to manage a brand, how to put out a book. I learned all the things that I do in my actual job now. And I guess that's sort of the other thing, though, is that an apprenticeship or having a mentor, it sometimes can seem glamorous, but often a lot of it is just shit work. You know, you're doing, you're doing the things that they don't want to do, that their time is too valuable to do. And you're glad to do it because their time is so valuable. You think about what an hour of this person's time would cost, if it even could be purchased. And you get access to that for free.

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  What I, what I understood is that I was getting to work with Robert and occasionally I could ask him questions that could teach me things that I wanted to learn. And that what he was paying me was extra on top of that.

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  Yeah. So when Robert came on the show, I remember he distinctly told me that he feels like young people don't spend enough time in the learning phase. And he feels like it's so important for mastery. So what do you have to say to all the young people tuning in about getting training, gaining skills, before they go on and try to do the thing?

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  Yeah, there, there's a Zen story about this young student who, who wants to, you know, learn under this great master. I, I forget exactly what it was, but he says, you know, hey, how long is it going to take? And the master says it'll take 10 years. And he says, well, if I work really hard and I'm really focused, how long will it take? You know? And he says, okay, 15 years. And he goes, uh, no, no, no, I'm going to work really hard. I'm going to be really focused. I, I, I'm going to, I'm going to do this faster than anyone. How long is it going to take? And he says 30 years. And the point is that what Robert is saying, and what I think is a truism throughout history, is that this is the part of your life that you can't rush. I started working for Robert when I was 19, let's say.

• 5:55Speaker 01

  And I would say I learned something from him a month ago when we were chatting. Like the, the, the process continues on to this day. But, but my first book didn't come out until I was 25 or 26. So at a minimum, it was, you know, six plus years of working for him. And I still felt like there was a lot left for me to learn and still think that there is. So these processes take time. I wrote every day on my website for free for six, seven, eight years before I ever got a dollar for anything that I was paid to write. I'm thousands of episodes into the Daily Stoic podcast, thousands of emails into the Daily Stoic email. I'm 12 or 13 books in as a professional author.

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  And I feel like I'm just beginning to understand certain things. Like I'm, I wouldn't say I'm just starting, uh, but I would say that I'm, I'm just starting to hit my stride. And so one of the problems when you're young is, is you're impatient. You want it now because you don't have it. And you want to stop doing the shit work. You want to make your name. You have things you have to say, you want to say. And you end up rushing that process. And as a result, you either don't learn things that you need to learn, or you alienate people or parts of the process that are really essential.

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  I feel like that's so true. I align with everything that you said. So you often say that Robert Greene taught you how to think, taught you how to write. But I haven't really heard you talk much about how much he influenced your persuasion skills, your influence skills, and how that impacted how you marketed later on.

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  What I really admired about Robert and what I still think is, is impressive about him is here you have a guy who writes about these obscure stories from ancient history. These things that, you know, most people don't wake up and say, hey, I want to know about this 14th century prince in, you know, in Holland or France, or I want to know about some samurai whose name I can't pronounce. And Robert has managed to not only make those things really compelling and interesting, but he's done it in these enormous books. And, and they're extremely popular with people who don't read a lot. I mean, his books are often the most checked out books at libraries.

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  They're the most shoplifted books. They are incredibly popular in the prison system. Robert has done a really good job of making these ideas, these things that are really interesting to him, interesting to people who don't think they would be interested in those things. And anytime you can, anytime you see someone doing something that shouldn't be possible, I'm really impressed by that. Like if you see someone, hey, this person, they're not tall enough, and yet they're thriving in the NBA. Or they're old and their, their career as a runner is still going on. Or they don't have a traditional education and yet they managed to do X, Y, or Z. I think you want to look at those kind of exceptions because they clearly figured out what actually matters.

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  Where they figured out how to do something in a unique way. And so what, what struck me about Robert's books that I've taken in my own is that Robert doesn't tell the reader a lot, he shows the reader. Robert's books are stories that illustrate timeless things about human nature, about seduction, about power, about politics, about life. And so when I sat down to write about what I wanted to write about, which was ancient philosophy, one of the things I looked at was, okay, I can describe this philosophy and tell people what it's about, or I can show them what it's about through stories. And that's probably the way that Robert's work influenced me the most.

• 9:43Speaker 01

  And then as his research assistant, I really learned how you do that well.

• 9:49Speaker 00

  I love that. And I totally agree. I feel like when I read Robert's stuff, I feel like I'm figuring out a secret, right? This like secret of life and figuring it out on my own through all the stories that he tells.

• 9:59Speaker 01

  Yeah. And, and, you know, one of his books is basically like 500 books. Like he read all this stuff and he's distilled it down into a single volume. And, and going, okay, that's the job of the author is to take all these different ideas, all these different cultures, all these different lessons, and, and put it in one package, kind of condense it down, boil it down to its essence. Robert wants to go read 500 books. I love reading 500 books. But your average person does not have time to do that. They're not a history nerd. And so how do you take what's interesting to you and put it together in a format that can work for someone who's busier or not so inclined?

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  So after Robert Greene and your work with him, you went on to become the Marketing Director at American Apparel. And you were known for these bold advertising campaigns, controversial, disruptive. So what was your marketing philosophy when you were leading those campaigns? And can you share some examples of how you got media attention?

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  Well, I would say the biggest hustle that I pulled off is that I got paid to work for Robert Greene as he was actually teaching me. And then I went on and I did digital marketing for American Apparel and then ran much of their traditional marketing as well. But all the while, I was learning from Doug Charney, who was at that time, a marketing genius, who'd sort of figured out how one generates earned media with sort of provocative advertising campaigns. So I did a lot of campaigns, but I also learned from him. And that's kind of how I've gone through my career is like, who's someone who's doing something really interesting? Who's doing something that I don't know how to do? And how can I take something that I do know how to do,

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  add value there and then take value in terms of learning how to do it in a different or a better way? And just basically, the philosophy at American Apparel was, if you're boring, you have to spend a lot of money to get people to see what you're doing. If you play it safe, you have to spend a lot of money to catch people's attention. But if you do things that are provocative or transgressive or different or unusual or experimental, well, not only is that stuff often cheaper, but it breaks through the noise. And so at American Apparel, you know, they didn't use, they didn't use professional models, they didn't use Photoshop, they didn't use celebrities. They used regular people, men and women.

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  And then they took sort of risky and risque photos that we then put in unique placements. So billboards, which I think were often underrated at that time. We bought on websites that people weren't buying on. We bought on social media when that was new. We bought on the back page of sort of weekly newspapers that, you know, your traditional brands didn't think were big enough, didn't think were shiny or fancy enough. We were trying to look for the underexploited opportunities. And when you take risks and when you push the envelope, you often get what is called earned media, which is really the only media that matters. If you're paying to put your boring television commercial in front of people over and over and over again,

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  you have to spend a lot of money and your impact ceases the second it goes away. But if you can do something that's interesting and provocative that crosses over and becomes a news story, or it gets banned, or it gets graffitied, or somebody rips it out of the magazine and puts it on their wall because they think it looks so cool, that's what we were trying to do. And so I just try to think about how am I going to stand out? And I just always remember that, that being boring is really expensive.

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  And that was like 2012-ish, 2010, 2011, right?

• 16:55Speaker 01

  No, I started at American Apparel in 2007, so.

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  Oh, 2007. So that was before like social media was even that huge. Do you think all this stuff really works now?

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  Well, it worked because of social media, right? So, you know, if you buy a billboard and people pass by it on the way to work, you're going to reach however many people pass by that freeway or that street corner. What we figured out at American Apparel and what I think about and have thought about for campaigns, you know, in the years since is like, if I can make a billboard that's so interesting or so provocative that people take a picture of it and post it on Twitter or on Instagram, or they make a YouTube video about it, or it gets banned and then a news story writes about it. Now people who will never drive in that side of town or don't even live in your country, now they're hearing and talking about it.

• 17:49Speaker 01

  And so, so what social media does is it makes things shareable. So if you can create things that are shareable and interesting and provocative, then you can tap into that energy and force and you, it can be a force multiplier.

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  Yeah, and it's free, right? It's free, it's a scrappy way to get the word out there. Did you ever feel like you went too far with the stuff at American Apparel?

• 18:12Speaker 01

  Of course, American Apparel went way too far, way too many times. And one of the problems with courting controversy is that sometimes you get it for things that you don't deserve. I remember one of the things that was sort of an eye opener for me is, is this sort of activist or artist or whatever, they started making fake American Apparel ads. And they would Photoshop this like onto billboards and street corners, onto pictures of them. And then they would, they would send those pictures to websites and then people would get mad about American Apparel ads that didn't exist. And then you go, okay, well, on the one hand, it's cool that we've created something that's so provocative and newsworthy that people are willing to talk about it.

• 18:56Speaker 01

  But here we are getting in trouble for something that not only we didn't do, but is fake, right? And so I talk about this in my first book, which is about media manipulation. You know, you can feed a monster and it starts off really small and friendly, but then it becomes this big, scary, dangerous thing and then maybe it eats you. And I think that that definitely happened at American Apparel.

• 19:20Speaker 00

  Yeah, so you just mentioned this book that you put out. So you went from like media manipulator to media whistleblower in this book. And you were just talking about how you can basically manipulate the media. And now everything's gotten so much worse. That was 2012 when you put out that book. Now we have AI, social media is way bigger than it was. And people not only can manipulate what clothes you buy, but also politics, the economy, all these things. So talk to us about, you know, how things have gotten worse since then or some of the concerns that you may have.

• 19:50Speaker 01

  Yeah, I remember when Elon Musk took over Twitter and he eliminated the verified checkmark, right? That day, a sort of a prankster created a fake account for Eli Lilly, the drug company, and he put out a tweet that said, insulin will now be free. And their market cap dropped billions of dollars in an instant. And so what I was talking about in that book is, is the way that, on the one hand, the sort of exciting and unregulated world of social media and new media and all these tools, it makes it really easy to break through the noise and to stand out and to, to create a brand from nothing. It also creates a lot of vulnerabilities. If you have a big and valuable brand, to be attacked, to screw

• 20:32Speaker 01

  up, to have things that are not true get spread about you. And so, uh, yeah, what I was trying to do in that book is kind of tear back the curtain and go like, look, this is how it really works. And this is probably not an ideal system for anyone. And, and my goal in writing that book was really like, I just didn't, that's not what I wanted to do with my life. And so I took all the things that I knew, that I'd seen, that I'd sort of read about, and I, I sort of put it all in, I just said, look, this is it. And, and that was part of it for me. That was my first step towards becoming a professional writer, which is what I'd always wanted to do.

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  And is there any way to use like these concepts that you use to infiltrate the media for good?

• 21:16Speaker 01

  Of course. A tool is a tool. You can use an axe to chop down a tree, or you can use it to murder someone, right? Or you can accidentally cut off your hand. But the tool is not good or bad. It simply is. And if you're, you know, trying to change public opinion, you have to understand how public opinion is formed. If you don't understand the sort of levers of power, if you don't understand the logic of, of where people get their information, you're going to be doing what I think a lot of good people who are trying to do good, unfortunately, find themselves struggling with, which is they go, my work is so important. It matters so much to me. It's going to make a positive difference in the world, but nobody cares. And I, I can't get anyone to write about

• 21:59Speaker 01

  me. I can't get anyone to talk about me. I can't get anyone to, to try what I'm doing. If you don't have a good eye for marketing and the ability to break through, you know, and, and communicate what you're doing, it doesn't matter how great your product is.

• 22:13Speaker 00

  Yeah, it's so true. So you went to writing about the media to then Stoicism and personal growth. So what was the turning point there? How did you find out about that philosophy? And what made you kind of switch to talking about personal growth?

• 22:28Speaker 01

  I always wanted to write about ancient philosophy. That was what I was fascinated with. That's what I loved. That's what something Robert and I connected over is sort of, we just love, you know, ancient history. But I understood that, you know, publishers weren't exactly lining up to give book deals to kids in their twenties who had dropped out of college to write about an obscure school of ancient philosophy. And so I, I went and I had a career where I made money. Uh, I developed a bunch of relationships. I developed a platform. I published a book about a different topic. All of this was setting up, you know, getting in a position where I could have a little bit of power and say about what I

• 23:08Speaker 01

  did next. And that's, that's what that transition was designed to do. So I think, you know, some people go, how'd you go from, uh, writing about, you know, public relations and marketing to ancient philosophy? Well, it wasn't like I just woke up one day and said, hey, I want to do the opposite of this. It was, it was a plan. I was working towards having the freedom and the leverage to control my own destiny and to talk and write and, you know, make content about the stuff that I wanted to make content about.

• 23:43Speaker 00

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• 24:26Speaker 00

  has doubled. So if you've got products to sell and you're looking for a new way to reach customers, search Whatnot, W H A T N O T in the App Store. Download it and you can start selling right away. That's Whatnot in the App Store.

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  Go to GetMark'sBook.com/Yap, buy one copy for $32 and get a second copy free. So you can keep one for yourself and give the second to a friend, future co-founder, or someone who needs a little push. So we've never covered Stoicism on the show. And I know very little about it. Like I, just researching for this interview is when I learned about it. So we're going to go deep on this. I want you to tell us about all the different principles. So first of all, how do you define a good life in Stoic terms?

• 26:55Speaker 01

  Well, the Stoics believed that life was unpredictable. Life, uh, would be full of adversity and challenges and difficulties. And that one had to cultivate kind of an inner strength, an inner sense of purpose and values that could guide you through the inevitable ups and downs of existence. And so Stoicism, to me, my, my definition as I, as I've tried to introduce, you know, people to it over the years is this idea that, look, we don't control what happens, but we control how we respond to what happens. And so I actually do think it's a, it's a, a philosophy, it's an approach to living

• 27:36Speaker 01

  that works well as an entrepreneur, as an artist, as a creator, as a small business owner. And so what I, what I've tried to do is take these ideas from the Greeks and Romans, you know, going back 23 or 24 centuries, and make them applicable and accessible to the kinds of things I was going through as an executive, the things you might be going through, you know, running your own show, or that, you know, somebody who's just trying to figure out their way in the world is, is going to need, but not think, hey, what can ancient philosophy teach me about?

• 28:09Speaker 00

  Yeah. And it is ancient, right? It's 2,000 years old. So what makes this stand the test of time? How is this still relevant 2,000 years later?

• 28:17Speaker 01

  Well, I think sometimes we think that the ancient world was this thing that happened for like a brief period. But the ancient world was thousands of years old, right? So Marcus Aurelius, the Emperor of Rome, one of the most well-known Stoics, he comes to Stoicism like 500 years after it was started. So, so it was ancient philosophy to him.

• 28:41Speaker 01

  A man whom to us is an ancient philosopher. So for hundreds of years and now thousands of years, the Stoics were entrepreneurs and athletes and actors and soldiers and politicians and husbands and wives and sons and daughters, human beings trying to make their way through an unpredictable, random, frustrating world. And these lessons survive to us, you know, they weren't just speculating about stuff. They learned it running the Roman Empire. They, they learned it leading troops into battle. They learned it recovering from a shipwreck or being sent into exile.

• 29:23Speaker 01

  So what the Stoics teach us is not like abstract ideas, but really sort of hard one practical wisdom about how you deal with the hand that life deals you.

• 29:36Speaker 00

  So I thought a way that we could kind of break down some of these complex ideas is to do it quickfire style.

• 29:42Speaker 01

  All right.

• 29:43Speaker 00

  So you have three main disciplines and then you have four cardinal virtues. So I thought we could kind of go through each one. You could tell me what is the key, take away the key learning for each one. Does that sound good?

• 29:56Speaker 01

  Let's do it.

• 29:57Speaker 00

  Okay, so discipline, let's start with the three main disciplines. Discipline, number one, perception.

• 30:02Speaker 01

  So in the obstacle is the way I sort of break this art of, of turning difficulty or problems into an advantage or into an opportunity. And it's built around these, these three Stoic disciplines, which is first the discipline of perception. That's how we see things. That's our judgment about things. Then there's action. What are you going to do about it? And then will is like, how do you endure? How do you survive? How do you get through tough stuff? So a quote from Marcus Aurelius that sort of encapsulates this, he says, objective judgment now at this very moment. Then he says, unselfish action now at this very moment. Then he says, willing acceptance now at this very moment. That's all you need.

• 30:47Speaker 01

  That's a Stoic formula for taking something that is challenging or heartbreaking or painful or discouraging and flipping it upside down and turning it into something that, you know, in retrospect, you're like, I'm glad this happened. I was able to do X, Y, or Z because of that thing happening.

• 31:09Speaker 00

  Can you go deeper on just how to turn obstacles into opportunities? Cause I know that you talk a lot about that.

• 31:14Speaker 01

  Yeah, that, that's the idea is, is you go, okay, look, there are always things that we can do in response to a situation. Is every obstacle a chance to succeed professionally and, and, you know, increase our profit margins? No, sometimes, right? Sometimes, but, but every situation is a chance to learn. It's a chance to grow. It's a chance to change. It's a chance to connect with people. It's a chance to be a good person. And so what the Stoics are saying is that every situation in life is an opportunity to practice virtue. It's an, it's an opportunity to be excellent, not always in the way that you want, right? A business partner, you know, robs you blind.

• 31:58Speaker 01

  Is that a chance to grow your business? No, your business is going to be negatively affected by this. But is it a chance for you to practice standing up for yourself? Is it a chance for you to practice forgiveness at some point? Is it a chance for you to practice determination and creativity as you dig yourself out of this hole? Yes, you can do all of that. So when we say the obstacle is the way, what we mean is this situation is going to present you opportunities to do things that you wouldn't have done ordinarily. And in that you can be made better.

• 32:35Speaker 00

  Can you talk about related to perception, how it shapes our reality?

• 32:39Speaker 01

  Yeah, the Stoics have this great line. They say, you know, it's not things that upset us, it's our opinion about things. And realizing like as an entrepreneur, there's no such thing as a good market or a bad market. There's no such thing as a, a good call or a bad call. There just is, life is objective. And then we have opinions about things. We put things into categories. We say, oh, what they said was rude, right? Or a reporter writes an article about you and you go, was it a good article or a bad article? No, it's just words on a page, right? And then we decide that we've been helped by it or hurt by it. And understanding that you have the power to, to define things and to decide what they mean to you, that's what the discipline of perception is about.

• 33:24Speaker 00

  And I know emotions is core to all this and figuring out how to deal with our emotions. What do we need to know about that?

• 33:31Speaker 01

  Well, I think when people hear the word Stoic, they often think emotionlessness. I don't think that's what it is. Were the Stoics trying to be less emotional? Yes, because we very rarely make good decisions out of emotion. Our emotions can blind us. So the Stoics were trying to put those emotions to the side for a second and see what we're really dealing with, to see it as clearly and as objectively as possible. But, but they still love, they still get excited, they still get afraid, they still have the full spectrum of human emotions. They just try not to be blinded by those emotions, particularly when we're making tough decisions.

• 34:08Speaker 00

  When I was, you know, learning about Stoicism and I know a lot about Robert Greene's stuff, there was parallels.

• 34:15Speaker 01

  Sure.

• 34:16Speaker 00

  But Stoicism is kind of like manipulating yourself. And Robert's stuff is kind of like manipulating other people's perception to persuade them or influence them.

• 34:26Speaker 01

  That's interesting. Yeah, you know, uh, one of the things the Stoics say is that the greatest empire, right? Like Robert's books are like how to build an empire. That's what he's talking about. But the Stoics would say that the greatest empire is command of yourself. How many people are extremely powerful, extremely wealthy, extremely famous, but they're not in control of their own lives. They're not in control of their moods. They're not in control of their desires. They're not in control of themselves, period. And so for the Stoics, sure, they, they wanted to be important and significant and achieve things, but they tried to conquer themselves first. And I, I think that's a really important part of the philosophy that, that you noticed there for sure.

• 35:11Speaker 00

  So you also talk about these cardinal virtues of Stoicism. There's four of them. Do you want to tell us about that?

• 35:17Speaker 01

  Well, look, the Stoics are saying that everything is an opportunity to practice virtue. Well, what, what do we mean by virtue? The Stoic virtues are really simple. They're courage, self-discipline, justice and wisdom. So when we say that everything's an opportunity, that's what we mean, that, you know, a, a business setback is a chance to practice self-discipline. Now you really gotta, you know, run this operation lean. Somebody just stole money from you. This is a chance to practice justice, right? Either holding them accountable or forgiving them. Courage, this is the chance to, to stand up, to keep going, to put ourselves out there. And then wisdom is, is sort of the trump card, I think here, because wisdom is our

• 36:01Speaker 01

  ability, wisdom always allows us to turn obstacles into opportunities because we can use them as a chance to learn, if only about ourselves, right? And so that's what the Stoics mean when they talk about how, how we always have the chance to practice virtue. We, everything is going to demand from us or has a chance for us to demonstrate courage, discipline, justice and wisdom.

• 36:25Speaker 00

  Like you just mentioned, these philosophies are really great for entrepreneurs because we have uncertain environments. We've got to keep our cool in the highs and the lows. So I want to ask you some follow up questions related to entrepreneurship in particular. So you talk about amor fati, if that's how you say it, is that how you say it?

• 36:43Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 36:44Speaker 00

  Tell us about that and why entrepreneurs can use that as they, you know, come across failures and setbacks.

• 36:50Speaker 01

  Well, you know, acceptance, which is what amor fati is about. Acceptance means a love, amor fati means a love of fate. Acceptance can be a hard sell to entrepreneurs because they're sort of like, well, I didn't get here by just accepting things. And so it feels passive or it feels weak. But actually you did get here because of acceptance. You accepted that it's raining outside. You accepted that you're going to need to raise money to start your business. You, you accepted that, uh, most people are busy and don't care about what you're doing. And that's why you designed a marketing plan. That's why you designed a fundraising plan. That's why you got an umbrella, right?

• 37:30Speaker 01

  Like, like when you have to accept reality before you can set about changing it or you can set about succeeding despite it. And so amor fati is this idea that instead of resenting things, instead of dreading them, instead of wishing they were otherwise, you accept them for what they are, you embrace them and you're like excited about it. You love, it's like turning the have to into get to's. It's deciding to, to embrace it and love it and to love the challenge of it. To me, that's what it's about anyway.

• 38:05Speaker 00

  So it's, it's love of fate is the translation, right?

• 38:09Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 38:09Speaker 00

  And so basically it's, it's saying it's gonna, like, it's gonna happen no matter what and you should just be okay with it. Like why get, why be upset about it?

• 38:17Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 38:17Speaker 00

  Am I understanding that correctly?

• 38:18Speaker 01

  I think that's part of it too. Like, look, did you think you could start a business and never have a down quarter? Did you think you'd never have to fire anyone? Did you think you'd never be criticized? Did you think you'd never make any mistakes? Like that's, that's preposterous. This is part of it. This is what you signed up for. This is how it goes. You should love that. You should, if you really love this, if this is really what you're meant to do, you love that shit too. And you love that it's all part of it. And you're excited about the no's and you're excited about the setbacks and you're excited about the problems that you get to solve because that's part of it.

• 38:54Speaker 00

  It's hard when you're like, I'm an entrepreneur. I have a business. I have a social agency. I have a podcast network. And in the beginning, it really is hard. You feel like, oh, no, I lost a client. The first time is always hard. And then after a while, you're just like, it doesn't matter. Like, this is just the ebbs and flows of a business, you know, nobody's gonna stay forever. No employee is gonna stay forever. And that's just how it goes.

• 39:15Speaker 01

  Yeah, that's, that's life.

• 39:16Speaker 00

  So, decision making is something that Stoicism can really help us, and especially making clear-headed choices.

• 39:23Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 39:23Speaker 00

  Tell us about that.

• 39:24Speaker 01

  Yeah, to me, a key part of Stoicism, like, like, when you hear someone is philosophical, you don't mean that they know a lot of ancient philosophy. Like, when we say, oh, that guy's really philosophical, or she's really philosophical, what we mean is like, oh, she sees the big picture. She's calm. She's not easily rattled, right? And, and that's what Stoicism is really helping us get towards, the ability to see, to see the forest for the trees, to see what's really going on, to sense what's actually important, what's actually true in a given situation, as opposed to what a lot of people are, which is blinded by what's happening around them right now,

• 40:07Speaker 01

  distracted by noise, blinded by their emotions, you know, and, and they're not philosophical, you know, they are only seeing part of what's in front of them. And so, yeah, I think Stoicism is about making good choices, seeing things clearly. That's what the discipline of perception is really supposed to help us do.

• 40:27Speaker 00

  So, I know you tell a story in your new book, which we're gonna get into later on, but I think it's relevant right now, about Truman making a really hard decision. How is this related to being clear-headed, justice, all the things that we talked about?

• 40:40Speaker 01

  I mean, that's what leaders do. That's when, when Truman has that sign on his desk, it says, the buck stops here. That's what he's talking about. Like, when you're low up in the organization, you can kick, you can kick the decisions up or down. You can make it your employee's problem, you can make it your boss's problem. But ultimately, the boss is the decider. The boss has to choose. And if you don't have a strong set of values, if you don't have good judgment, if you don't have, you know, the ability to, to see things clearly, what they actually represent, what, what, what they mean, you're gonna not make good decisions, you're gonna get in trouble. And so, you know, look, the Stoics weren't these sort of academic philosophers who just read books. They were leaders. They ran organizations.

• 41:24Speaker 01

  They ran empires. They led troops into battle. They, they were making real decisions in the real world. And, and they understood that this was a skill you develop, the only really way you can, which is by experience.

• 41:37Speaker 00

  I love our listeners to hear stories. And you talk about Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius.

• 41:45Speaker 01

  Marcus Aurelius.

• 41:46Speaker 00

  Marcus Aurelius. I only read it. I never heard it. So.

• 41:50Speaker 01

  You know, it's funny, I tell that story, I tell a story about that with Truman in the book. Truman was famous for mentioning, mispronouncing words, and people would make fun of him. And then somebody realized, oh, it's because he grew up not around a lot of smart people. He didn't have a traditional education. He'd never heard these words said aloud. He'd only read them. And I always consider that a badge of honor. That means I'm, that means I'm like, reaching, you know, it means I'm punching above my weight. And so I love that. Yeah, it's Marcus Aurelius.

• 42:22Speaker 00

  Marcus Aurelius. Yeah. So, he was an emperor, which kind of is like being a CEO, running a company. So, share the story about him in general. Like, what leadership principles can we take from him? What can we learn from him?

• 42:35Speaker 01

  Well, I mean, look, he's the chief executive of the largest empire in the history of the world. He oversaw something like 50 million people, thousands, tens of thousands of square miles. It was enormous. He was the most powerful, important person in the world. And he struggled, as I think we all do. I mean, his reign was an unending series of troubles. There was floods, there was a plague, there were natural disasters, there were wars, he had health issues. He was also a father and a husband, and he had to deal with, you know, Murphy's Law, what can go wrong, will. But he tried to see this as an opportunity. He tried to,

• 43:17Speaker 01

  to, he said, good fortune is what you make for yourself. It's one of my favorite quotes from him. He's like, by doing good things, by thinking good things, by treating people well. And so, what we see, and Marcus is one of the few examples, you know, there's that expression about how absolute power corrupts absolutely. It's one of the few examples where that doesn't happen. And it doesn't happen because of his grounding in Stoic philosophy. He would journal every day. He was still reading. There's a famous story about Marcus Aurelius, towards the end of his life, he's seen leaving his palace in Rome. And a friend stops him, and he says, you know, where are you going? And he says, I'm off to see Sextus the philosopher

• 43:56Speaker 01

  to learn that which I do not yet know. So, even, even as an old man, he still saw himself as someone who was learning on the job, who could, who had room for improvement, that he was a work in progress. And, and in this way, he's one of the greatest human beings who ever lived.

• 44:13Speaker 00

  That makes me feel like, man, like, I wish, like, Trump would get into Stoicism or something.

• 44:18Speaker 01

  I'd be happy if.

• 44:18Speaker 00

  Leadership.

• 44:19Speaker 01

  I'd be happy if he read one book ever. I don't think that's gonna happen. Look, so, there's a, there's a great Stoic line that I think applies, not just to him, but to so many leaders. Epictetus, who wasn't the Emperor of Rome, Epictetus was a slave, who, whose philosophical writings would influence Marcus Aurelius. But Epictetus would say that it's impossible to learn that which you think you already know. So, if you're someone who is humble, who is hungry and trying to learn, you will continue to learn. If you are someone who thinks that you're just naturally brilliant, if you think you're better than everyone else, if you think you're perfect, you can't learn. You become frozen

• 45:02Speaker 01

  in place. And I think that's a trait that defines a lot of really mediocre to outright bad leaders, which is, they're so egotistical that they can't get any better.

• 45:14Speaker 00

  I was just gonna say, it sounds like you're talking about ego. And I feel like entrepreneurs have a lot of problems with ego. A lot of the times, it's what got us to where we are now, but it's not gonna help us get to where we want to go. So, talk to us about how ego can be our enemy as entrepreneurs.

• 45:28Speaker 01

  Well, I, I think it's important we make a distinction between confidence and ego. I think confidence is something you learn. Confidence is something you develop. And ego is like, you know, is stolen, or ego is, is on much shakier ground. So, again, look, Socrates is considered wise because he knows what he doesn't know. Egotistical people think they know everything. They think that everything is about them. They think they're better than everyone else. They think the rules don't apply. And this is why they end up almost always overreaching, causing drama, getting sucked into conflicts, you know, missing warnings. And it's also, I think this is a big thing, egotistical people are very easy to manipulate

• 46:12Speaker 01

  because you can flatter them. You can deceive them. You can tell them what they wanna hear. A humble person, a confident person, they don't mind being disagreed with. They, they seek out divergent opinions. They're not threatened by talented people. Look, that was one of the problems at American Apparel. Dove, who was brilliant and very successful, was reluctant to hire other competent people around him, because he thought they would constrain him, he thought they would challenge him. He wanted to, like, like, look, on, on one level, it was absurd that I was the director of marketing at a publicly traded company

• 46:54Speaker 01

  at 21. It worked out okay in my case, but, but there were just a lot of people there. And again, myself included at times, who were just unqualified to be there. But because we were less threatening, that's why we were there. And that is a recipe for building a dysfunctional organization and team.

• 47:15Speaker 00

  It's so true. You really gotta make sure you've got smart people around you that know more than you. But to your point, if you're too egotistical, you end up with people, knuckleheads, that don't know what they're doing, so that you can just tell everybody what to do.

• 47:27Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 47:28Speaker 00

  So, we're entrepreneurs. A lot of the times, you don't have a boss. And it's sometimes hard to have any sort of accountability. We gotta just wake up and decide, we're gonna do this, have our own motivation. Can Stoicism help us with that?

• 47:42Speaker 01

  Yeah, look, that's what this virtue of self-discipline is all about. And I do find people struggle with that. I think a lot of people experienced that during the pandemic. Suddenly they were working from home. Suddenly there wasn't a boss looking over their shoulders. And then they realized, oh, I have to be the boss. No one can make me do any of this. No one can remind, no one's gonna remind me about any of this. I get to choose what order I do things or what I do and don't do.

• 48:07Speaker 00

  Mm hmm.

• 48:07Speaker 01

  There's a part of me that doesn't want to make the right choices. And Stoicism is about holding yourself accountable. It's about doing the hard thing. It's about pushing yourself. It's about growing. And so, yeah, that requires that willpower. One of Seneca's lines, which I think about a lot, he says, "We treat the body rigorously so that it's not disobedient to the mind." One of the reasons I have like a physical practice, I run or bike or swim every day or I lift weights. I do hard stuff because I don't want to do hard stuff, right? Like what you learn in the gym, what you learn, you know, on the road is that there's the part of you that doesn't want to do it, that wants to huddle under the covers and the part of you that's glad afterwards that you did it.

• 48:51Speaker 01

  And you have to fight to get from here to there, right? The part of you that wants, that doesn't want to make one more call, that doesn't want to do one more draft, that doesn't want to have interview one more candidate. That's the part that you have to conquer, you have to get over to get to the other side, to get to that next level of performance or success.

• 49:12Speaker 00

  Okay, so last question on Stoicism, then I want to get into your new book for a little bit before we close. Is there one principle that you wish that you'd known in your twenties or thirties during your career? I know you're still in your thirties.

• 49:25Speaker 01

  Oh, that's a good question. I mean, look, I would say that my twenties were very intense and my thirties have been very intense. But the more I slow things down, the more deliberate I am, the more intentional I am, the better I seem to do, and then also the happier I am. And, you know, I just look back and I go, why was I freaking out about that? Why was I in such a rush back then, right? Um, why did I, why did I think this was such a huge deal? And it's only with time and experience that you are able to slow down a little bit and get that perspective. So if I could, if I could give myself the ability to relax a little bit, I don't mean relax my standards.

• 50:09Speaker 01

  I just mean to not be so high strung. I think I would have done better and I would have enjoyed it more.

• 50:15Speaker 00

  I remember when I was 25 and I was like, um, I used to feel like I was so old. And I'd be like, oh, I'm too old to do that. I feel so old, I'm too old to do this. And looking back, I'm like, what was I thinking? You know, I wasn't too old to do anything. And I feel like young people feel older than they are all the time. And it's not till you're in your thirties when you're like, what was I thinking?

• 50:36Speaker 01

  Yeah, look, especially if you're ahead of the curve, right? Like especially if you're a driven, talented young person, you feel like, uh, you feel old already because you're doing stuff when your friends are out partying or whatever. But yeah, you have so much time and you're still so early in the game. Um, but it's only with the passage of time that you can understand the passage of time, right? And so, uh, that, that perspective that I have now, I wish I could give to myself a little bit more earlier.

• 51:06Speaker 00

  Okay, so you have a new book. It's called Right Thing Right Now. What was the aim in writing this book? What was the new information that you wanted to share with everyone?

• 51:13Speaker 01

  Well, I've been working on this series about the cardinal virtues now for almost six years. So I did one on courage, I did one on, uh, on discipline. And then this was the one about justice about, and I think when people think of justice, they tend to think of the legal system. They think of whether something is against the law or not. But justice is how you treat people, the standards you hold yourself to, the morals you adhere to. And I just, I guess I would ask every entrepreneur on this call here, what is the point of doing your own thing? If you're not gonna do it well and if you're not gonna do it right? Like you're the decider, you're the boss. You get to decide what you pay people, what materials you use, the quality, uh, control that you insist on.

• 51:58Speaker 01

  If you're not gonna try to use that to make a positive difference in the world, like what are you doing? You know, there's so many ways you can make money. And if money was all you cared about, you should just go work in finance. You know, it's less risky and the upsides are probably higher. If you've decided to make something, it's because you, you want to make something that doesn't exist. You want to do something the right way and you should let that guide you.

• 52:25Speaker 00

  I know in the book that you argue that doing the right thing is the hardest path. So why do you think that leaders, entrepreneurs struggle with making the most ethical decisions?

• 52:35Speaker 01

  Well, because we also have a bottom line, right? We're also trying to be profitable. And, uh, if, you know, you're, you're deciding between using this supplier, which, you know, is made in a sweatshop in some foreign country, and then this one, which makes a higher quality product, but pays its workers a living wage, that suddenly is not simply an ethical issue, but it's also a P and L issue. And I actually remember at American Apparel one time, someone was suggesting that Dove moved the factories overseas. And he, he looked at him and he said, if all I cared about was making money, I'd have become a drug dealer. And I think about that all the time.

• 53:15Speaker 01

  It's like, oh yeah, I chose not to, I, by definition, you've already chosen not to do a bunch of super unethical, but potentially, uh, profitable things. So here, as you're making a decision, don't let profit be the only thing you're thinking about because you have other values. And, and as a, as an entrepreneur and as a, as a leader, I think you have an obligation to, to try to make the world a better place.

• 53:41Speaker 00

  Do you feel like there's a difference between doing the right thing and doing the smart thing?

• 53:45Speaker 01

  Yeah, sure. I mean, look, if, if all I was thinking about was selling books, would I have written a book about justice? No, there's way, you know, there's other topics that are more straight down the middle. Like, uh, my book on discipline, you know, a lot of people want to learn about discipline. Uh, a lot of people need discipline. A lot of people are trying to overcome obstacles. You know, there, there are other topics that I can write about that I know will do better. But this is the one that I felt called to do. This is the one that was important to me. This is the one that was creatively fulfilling. This is the one that I think no one else has done. So it's weighing those other concerns. So is it, is it the smartest thing to do? No, but is it the right thing to do?

• 54:30Speaker 01

  Is it what I want to do? Yes, so that's why I'm doing it.

• 54:34Speaker 00

  Back to stories, Harry Truman.

• 54:36Speaker 01

  Mm hmm.

• 54:36Speaker 00

  He ended up dropping two atomic bombs on Japan.

• 54:41Speaker 01

  Mm hmm.

• 54:41Speaker 00

  And he became a very hated president.

• 54:44Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 54:44Speaker 00

  Talk to us about that decision-making and how it's related to justice.

• 54:49Speaker 01

  Well, Truman is a, is a character in the book for precisely this reason. He's in some ways, one of the most ethical and least corrupt of the American presidents, one of the most thoughtful, in, in, in some ways, one of the most progressive. He desegregates the armed forces. He challenges the Southern Democrats in his own party as, as he begins to tackle race. Uh, and, uh, you know, one of the only presidents not to make himself very rich while holding the office. Um, in fact, the reason there is a presidential commission is that Harry Truman was so principled out of office and refused to cash in on having been the president that they thought he might end up bankrupt and so Congress allocated a pension for him.

• 55:34Speaker 01

  On the other hand, as president, he had to make a lot of, uh, difficult decisions. That's what being the president is. And the decision to drop the atomic bomb is one of the obviously most morally consequential choices of the 20th century. Uh, one of the, one of the flaws for Truman is that I don't think he ever really thought of not doing it. It was a project he inherited from his predecessor. The military was united in its, uh, recommendations that they drop it. Uh, and so he sort of, I wouldn't say went along with it, but never, never really contemplated the idea that there might be another way to end the war. On the other hand, you know, he would say, if you asked him, he would go, look,

• 56:16Speaker 01

  my obligation is to the mothers and fathers of American soldiers who, as per the, the current estimation, several hundred thousand of them would die in a potential invasion of Japan. And so as the American president, who is my obligation to when I make this decision? Is it to the, the men and women who voted me into office, whose children I am, you know, sending into battle? Or is it to, you know, the people of Japan? And, and we would say that there's a tension between these two choices. And ultimately he makes the decision. Um, I don't say in the book whether I think it was the right or wrong one, but it, but without a moral compass,

• 56:59Speaker 01

  without a sense of our obligations and our duties and responsibilities, a country, a nation in the world is, is in very rough shape. And I think we're seeing now what happens when you put someone in the Oval Office whose primary obligation seems to be to themselves.

• 57:16Speaker 00

  Yep.

• 57:17Speaker 01

  And doesn't see themselves as really having any ethical constraints in any way and actually has kind of a, a penchant for revenge as a list of enemies they want to punish. You know, that's where you really get yourself into trouble.

• 57:31Speaker 00

  Well, let's end this interview on a high note.

• 57:34Speaker 01

  All right.

• 57:35Speaker 00

  So what is one daily habit or mindset shift that we can do to do the right thing, even when it's difficult?

• 57:42Speaker 01

  Look, the most basic practice in Stoic philosophy is journaling. The Stoics spend time every day thinking about things, talking to themselves, talking to the page about what they're struggling with, about what their values are, about what's important, about what their options are. And I think adding a journaling practice into your life as an entrepreneur is not only going to help you slow things down, not only help you get perspective, but it's going to root you in your values, in your principles, in what's important, in a way that basically nothing else can. And so if I could leave everyone here with something, it would be this idea of a journaling, a philosophical journaling habit.

• 58:27Speaker 00

  So philosophical journaling habit, like what questions would we ask ourselves? Like, what's, how does that differ from regular journaling? Just because I never heard of it.

• 58:34Speaker 01

  Yeah, yeah, look, if, I'm not talking about, here's what I had for breakfast, you know, here's what so and so said to me yesterday. Here's what my goals are. It's more like, how can I be better? Where am I falling short? What's my duty here? How can I resist this or that? How can I do more of this or that? To me, it's kind of having a dialogue with the self, where we're trying, as we said earlier, to fight from where we are to where we want to be. That's what we're trying to journal about and ask ourselves about.

• 59:10Speaker 00

  That makes sense. Okay, so I end my show with two questions that I ask all of my guests. This has been an awesome conversation. What is one actionable thing our young improfitters can do today to become more profitable tomorrow?

• 59:22Speaker 01

  Well, look, is profit simply making more money? Or is profit also getting more efficient? And so I would ask myself, hey, where am I wasting a lot of time? Like, where, what are the biggest time sucks in my life? And this is a very key Stoic practice. The Stoics talk about how we'd never let someone steal money or property from us, but we let people steal our time. And so how can we be more protective of our time, which is our most precious of resources? That's, I try to do an audit of my schedule and my time and get more effective and efficient with my time, because that creates the ultimate form of profit.

• 1:00:04Speaker 00

  And so your time is the most valuable asset that we have. What is your secret to profiting in life? And this can go beyond financial.

• 1:00:14Speaker 01

  What's my secret? I don't know if I have a secret, but I'm trying, I try to, I try to do what I'm supposed to do every day. I try to show up, try to work hard, I try to give my best. And then I don't think that much about outcomes. I just focus on what I control, which is what I'm putting out there, what I'm putting in there, and I let the rest take care of itself.

• 1:00:35Speaker 00

  It's obviously working for you, Ryan. Where can everybody learn more about you and everything that you do?

• 1:00:40Speaker 01

  Yeah, I send out a Stoic-inspired email every day at Daily Stoic. There's a podcast version of it also. And then I do a parenting one as well. It's called Daily Dad, which you can check out at DailyDad.com or Daily Dad on wherever you get your podcasts.

• 1:00:54Speaker 00

  Amazing. I'll stick all those links in the show notes, Ryan. Thank you so much for your time.

• 1:00:57Speaker 01

  Oh, my pleasure.