Donald Miller: The Storytelling Framework Top Brands Use to Crush Marketing Goals | Marketing | E358

Donald Miller didn’t set out to build a $100 million marketing empire; he just wanted to master the art of storytelling. While writing memoirs, he uncovered a powerful truth: every great story relies on a hero and a guide. That insight led to the creation of the StoryBrand framework, now used by thousands of businesses to clarify their message and scale. In this episode, Donald returns to unveil StoryBrand 2.0, an AI-powered upgrade of his classic framework. He shares how to position your business in a way customers can’t ignore, using seven messaging soundbites to cut through the noise and transform your marketing, sales, and advertising goals. In this episode, Hala and Donald will discuss: (00:00) Introduction (02:26) The Captivating Power of Storytelling (04:37) The Birth of StoryBrand and StoryBrand AI (07:05) How Storytelling Helped Him Build a $100M Business (12:51) His Daily Routine and Productivity Tips (14:27) How the StoryBrand Framework Transforms Marketing (19:12) The 7 Soundbites Entrepreneurs Need to Drive Sales (31:43) Controlling Ideas vs. Taglines in Marketing (36:08) Leveraging Stakes for Greater Marketing Impact (39:49) Crafting Irresistible Story Gaps in Your Communication (45:38) Analyzing Brand Taglines and Messaging Strategies Donald Miller is the CEO of StoryBrand, Business Made Simple, and Coach Builder. He is the bestselling author of Building a StoryBrand, How to Grow Your Small Business, and his latest, Building a StoryBrand 2.0. Donald has helped over a million businesses, from scrappy startups to top brands like Chick-fil-A, scale through clear and compelling storytelling. He recently launched StoryBrand AI, a platform that combines his proven framework with artificial intelligence to generate sales marketing assets in minutes. Sponsored By: Shopify - Start your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/profiting. Indeed - Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job's visibility at Indeed.com/PROFITING OpenPhone - Get 20% off your first 6 months at OpenPhone.com/profiting. Airbnb - Find a co-host at airbnb.com/host Boulevard - Get 10% off your first year at joinblvd.com/profiting when you book a demo Resources Mentioned: Donald’s Book, Building a StoryBrand 2.0: bit.ly/StoryBrand2_0 Donald’s Book, Blue Like Jazz: bit.ly/Blue_LikeJazz Donald’s Book, Building a StoryBrand: bit.ly/Building_aStoryBrand Donald’s Website, StoryBrand AI: storybrand.ai Donald Miller: Storytelling for Business | E120: bit.ly/Storytelling_Business Donald Miller: Be Your Own Hero | E153: bit.ly/BYOH-apple Donald Miller: How To Make Your First Million | 214: bit.ly/MakeFirstMillion-apple Active Deals - youngandprofiting.com/deals Key YAP Links Reviews - ratethispodcast.com/yap YouTube - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ Social + Podcast Services: yapmedia.com Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com/episodes-new Entrepreneurship, Entrepreneurship Podcast, Business, Business Podcast, Self Improvement, Self-Improvement, Personal Development, Starting a Business, Strategy, Investing, Sales, Selling, Psychology, Productivity, Entrepreneurs, AI, Artificial Intelligence, Technology, Marketing, Negotiation, Money, Finance, Side Hustle, Startup, Mental Health, Career, Leadership, Mindset, Health, Growth Mindset, SEO, E-commerce, LinkedIn, Instagram, Social Media, Digital Marketing, Content Creator, Social Media Marketing, Video Marketing, Social Proof, Marketing Trends, Influencers, Influencer Marketing, Marketing Tips, Digital Trends, Content Marketing, Online Marketing, Marketing Podcast.

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• 0:00Speaker 00

  Anybody who doesn't like life, what they're actually saying is they don't like their story. Story is the most powerful tool to compel a human brain. I mean, people cannot tune out when it comes to stories.

• 0:12Hala Taha?

  Donald Miller is a bestselling author, the CEO of StoryBrand, and he's one of the world's leading voices on brand clarity.

• 0:19Speaker 00

  Everything that you have ever spent money on is a survival asset in some way. Because the brain is always looking to survive, you need to position your product as a survival asset. And you need a soundbite that explains why it's a survival asset. If you position yourself as the hero of the story you're gonna lose, I promise you, the StoryBrand framework will help you generate seven soundbites. The reason these soundbites work are because the two things the human brain is always trying to do. The first thing the human brain is trying to do is

• 0:50Speaker 00

  people are more motivated not to lose something than they are to gain something. If you stop talking about your customers' problems, they're gonna stop paying attention to you.

• 0:58Hala Taha?

  So walk us through this seven-step framework. Like, what are the key soundbites that we need for all of our messaging for our business?

• 1:05Speaker 00

  Sure. Well, the first one is...

• 1:21Hala Taha?

  Yap, fam, what if the reason your customers aren't buying isn't your product, but actually your story? In today's episode, we're joined by somebody who knows exactly how to fix that. Donald Miller is a bestselling author. He's the CEO of StoryBrand, and he's one of the world's leading voices on brand clarity. His work has helped thousands of businesses, from startups and giants like Chick-fil-A and Pantene, cut through the noise and connect with customers through powerful, clear storytelling. Now, Donald has been on Yap several times, three times to be exact. If you guys want to check out my previous episodes with him, they're in the show notes. Now, in today's conversation, we're gonna be focusing on his classic seven-step StoryBrand framework. He recently came out with StoryBrand 2.0. There's been some changes related to AI and having a controlling idea.

• 2:05Hala Taha?

  We're gonna break down the seven steps. You're gonna learn the difference between a hero and a guide, and so much more. If you want a masterclass in messaging, this episode is not gonna disappoint. So without delay, here's my conversation with Donald Miller. Donald, welcome to Young and Profiting Podcast.

• 2:22Speaker 00

  Good to see you again.

• 2:23Hala Taha?

  I am so happy that we're reconnecting. I'm really excited to learn more about StoryBrand 2.0. But I first want to warm up my listeners because some people might not have heard of you before. And so I want to talk about your career journey because you started off with personal storytelling. You wrote some spirituality, personal development books like Blue Like Jazz. And then you went into business strategy and you've created this amazing StoryBrand brand. You have so many awesome podcasts in the business space and you've really crushed it in the business space. And now you're getting into tech with StoryBrand AI.

• 2:59Speaker 00

  That's right.

• 2:59Hala Taha?

  I want to know, what is the through line between all of these endeavors?

• 3:04Speaker 00

  It's really story. I'm a geek when it comes to studying story and story structure, how to tell stories. I started studying them when I wrote memoirs because I needed to write a better book. I just needed to keep people turning the page. And so I would study story and story structure in order to write better books. Ended up writing a screenplay that got a national theater release and I just kind of geeked out on it. And so from there, story is the most powerful tool to compel a human brain. I mean, people cannot tune out when it comes to stories. In fact, it's almost an addiction, the amount of interest that you can pay to a story. In fact, most nights, my wife and I will get 20 more minutes into something that we're binge watching before we're about ready to fall asleep.

• 3:50Speaker 00

  But our daughter, she turns four in about a month. She wakes up in the morning and asks if she can watch Spidey and Friends or something. Of course, we say no, because we limit the amount of screen time that she's able to watch. But she wants to sit in front of this moral universe and watch these characters try to accomplish something and overcome challenges. So I got really fascinated with story as an attention-getting device. I got fascinated with why the human brain cannot resist a good story. And I noticed in my own work that if I used story and story structure, if I told stories in my books, my books would sell five and six times as many copies

• 4:32Speaker 00

  as they would have if it was just a lot of bullet points and ideas. And from there, I accidentally stumbled upon the StoryBrand idea. I thought, you know, if you could create a filtering framework that would help small businesses come up with several soundbites that would allow them to invite customers into a story, those brands might actually get a lot of traction from this. So I wrote a book called Building a StoryBrand. That book sold a million copies and all of a sudden I found myself in a completely new career consulting with brands on how to get attention using soundbites. And I've been doing that for about 10 years and I'm extremely grateful because I'd written

• 5:17Speaker 00

  about seven memoirs. I didn't want to write an eighth one.

• 5:22Speaker 00

  Nothing else that actually happened. And so I didn't have anything to write about. I really got lucky when Building a StoryBrand took off because for the last 10 years, that's all I've done is help brands clarify their message. And then with the advent of artificial intelligence, we began playing with AI to write your soundbites for you. You know, the first book, you'd read the book and you'd brainstorm and come up with your own soundbites. But I noticed that AI was doing a pretty darn good job coming up with those soundbites for you. And so I wrote about 110 single spaced pages of instructions and rules. And we created various prompts to lay over OpenAI. And now we've got storybrand.ai, which will write those seven soundbites that you actually need.

• 6:07Speaker 00

  It'll give you a tagline, a controlling idea. It'll wireframe your website. It'll create lead generators for you. It will write your emails, but it's all done heavily instructed by me. And then I have a team of about four in the department that gets user feedback and improves almost every day, the platform gets stronger and stronger. So that's been a really fun, new. Venture for me, you know, I never imagined myself as the CEO of any sort of tech. I can't call us a tech company because I don't think that's what we are, but it looks like that from the outside.

• 6:40Hala Taha?

  Yeah.

• 6:41Speaker 00

  And that's been a blast. And as we all know, AI, it feels like magic. I mean, in the old days, you might spend sometimes four and five months trying to come up with your messaging campaign. And that can now be done inside of maybe an hour, hour and a half. It's really incredible.

• 6:57Hala Taha?

  AI is incredible. I use it every day. I can't wait to dig deeper into the AI piece and how we can use it with StoryBrand AI. But first, I want to understand your personal transformation story because I know that actually laid the foundation for StoryBrand and I feel like it will help people understand the key concepts of the StoryBrand seven piece framework.

• 7:18Speaker 00

  Yeah.

• 7:18Hala Taha?

  So talk to us about your personal transformation and what you went through.

• 7:22Speaker 00

  Well, story has also informed my personal transformation. I live in Nashville, Tennessee now with my wife and our daughter. And we love it here, but when I was writing memoirs, I lived in Portland, Oregon, which is a long way from here. And I was single until I was 42. So for those of you who are in your 30s and you're single, you got a ways to go before you catch me, but I had the discipline, I had the drive, I should say. I really enjoyed writing. I wanted to write. Writing a book is very, very hard. And I was driven to do that, but I didn't have a whole lot of discipline. I was guilty of giving in to whims and I would literally go to a coffee shop and start writing. If the words didn't go well, I would leave and go to a different coffee shop, thinking the words were somewhere else.

• 8:05Speaker 00

  Which is just, now that I think about that, this is the dumbest thing in the world. But a guy read a couple of my books. And he called me, he said, he's coming to Portland. He got in touch with me and he said, can we get breakfast? And I did. And that guy's name was Scott Harrison. He runs an organization called Charity Water. It is now a hundred million dollar organization that is drilling wells in Sub-Saharan Africa. And I sat across from Scott and I just thought, this is a fascinating human being. And in comparison to what he was doing with his life, I was doing nothing, nothing at all. And I thought, I am not a very interesting person. And I realized, well, what makes Scott so interesting is he's actually living an interesting story. And by that, I mean,

• 8:48Speaker 00

  he has a selfless ambition that is extremely difficult to accomplish. He's overcoming challenges left and right in order to accomplish that ambition. And that's the stuff of a really good story. And I thought, well, maybe I need to work on the things that I want. And I need to work on my relationship with conflict and my tendency to avoid conflict. Maybe I need to be more disciplined. Maybe I need to wake up and define a little more closely what I want my life to be about. And that was transformative for me. Because I realized that anybody who doesn't like life, what they're actually saying is they don't like their story. Life is fine. Life is stunningly beautiful.

• 9:31Speaker 00

  It's got a lot of conflict in it, but it's got enormous amounts of beauty. It's got some pain, but so do good stories. And so I began to see life through the lens of story. And of course, we can't control a lot of life. We can't control when we're born, where we're born, who our parents are. You know, we don't get to control a lot of that stuff. But we can control what we decide to spend our time on. We can control what we daydream about. We can control whether or not we're ethical people. We can control the decisions that we make. And so in other words, you actually can control the story that you live. And there are rules that make a story good, and there are rules that make a story uninteresting. And if you disobey those rules, your movie will fail at the box office. And so I began to translate some of those rules into rules for my life.

• 10:16Speaker 00

  And that was transformative. And I really mean, I mean transformative. When I was playing with these ideas, I weighed more than a hundred pounds more than I do right now. I had trouble paying bills or being disciplined with money. My dating life was a complete, you know, awful. It was just terrible. Like, women should just stay away from me. And they did, thank God. And I started thinking, well, wait, if you were a hero in a story, you would be lazy. You would not be a dreamer who dreams about really important things. You would probably be perceived as a little bit selfless, and nobody would like this movie. Because it's not about anything. And so I decided to change that. And I began creating vision statements for my life. I began embracing the challenges.

• 11:01Speaker 00

  I mean, when I say I was heavy, I was 387 pounds and I'm 180 pounds now. I'm 200 pounds lighter.

• 11:08Hala Taha?

  You look great, by the way. Like, you look younger than ever.

• 11:11Speaker 00

  Yeah, well, you know, it happens when you lose weight. You just, you feel like you're aging in reverse. And I met a beautiful woman and we began to date and we started a family and now we have a kid. And I started a company that has made over a hundred million dollars. And even the idea of StoryBrand was a story that I could step into in terms of a story about a guy pivoting his career. And it's been really, really wonderful. It doesn't take away some of the existential crisis of the existence of death and the fact that we all have to go and it doesn't make time stop and some of the things that we wish that we could do. But a hero in a story embraces those challenges and accepts them. And so I just remember the rules of story and how they apply to life. That's been dramatically transformative for me.

• 11:56Hala Taha?

  I feel like something that I always say is you're never too old to take on your dreams and to learn something new. And I feel like you are the epitome of that, basically having this big transformation at 40 plus years old. Now you've got this, you know, you said your, your company made a hundred million dollars. How many employees do you have?

• 12:16Speaker 00

  We have about 800 in our certified community. So I feel like the company is much bigger than it actually is. And that hundred million is, by the way, it's over the last seven or eight years. So we're still a small business. But if you would have told me 20 years ago, you're going to be the CEO of a company and you're going to be working with giant clients and helping them figure things out, I would have thought you were absolutely mad because I didn't have the skill set to do that. But you know, when you jump into a story that forces you to become a better version of yourself, you become a better version of yourself. You have to.

• 12:50Hala Taha?

  Just for fun, I want to know if you weren't in this interview right now. So happy, grateful that you took the time for this interview. But as CEO, what would you be doing right now? Where would you be? What is your role of CEO like now for the company?

• 13:05Speaker 00

  I would be home. I've made a commitment because I got married older and became a dad, actually at forty-nine. I think I understood a lot more than I would have in my early twenties. In my early twenties, I was, you know, hell-bent on defining myself and figuring out my identity, which is, by the way, is a very good thing if you find yourself in that position. But, you know, as I've gotten older, I've realized I knew that if I was a workaholic, my daughter would suffer. And so I made this commitment that I would be home between four and five and that I would leave my cellphone in a bowl at the front door and I wouldn't touch it again till she was asleep. And so, right now, I would be home before five because we started this interview early. So, that's what I would be doing. However, I'm up very

• 13:50Speaker 00

  early in the morning. I do a cold plunge, I work out, I do a sauna, I go to the same coffee shop, sit at the same table, order the same food, and do two and a half hours of writing. My office is across the street. I'm in meetings most of the day. And then, at about two o'clock, I start taking outside interviews and outside meetings. And so, I'm a Groundhog Day guy. If I can just live the exact same day over and over and over again, I would do it because that's the secret to incredible productivity. And that's how I would probably be spending my time.

• 14:22Hala Taha?

  I love that. I feel like that gives some really great insight into how your world works. So, you've got this new book called Storybrand 2.0. And you first released Storybrand, I believe, like, eight years ago or so. So, what made you release this new version of Storybrand?

• 14:39Speaker 00

  Well, it had done well. It had sold a lot of copies. And when I wrote the book, I didn't have a lot of case studies. It was theoretical. I had a few, but I didn't have very many. And in the eight years, seven, eight years since the book came out and I was able to rewrite it, I basically took the existing book and just rewrote it from beginning to end. And by the end of it, it was ten thousand words longer than the original. And what those ten thousand words were, were case studies and stories, so that people could have way more examples of the soundbites they need. And Stories about what happened to those companies when they started using those soundbites. I think the book is much, much better. And then, of course, storybrand.ai

• 15:22Speaker 00

  as an accompanying tool, it was also necessary to add to the new book. So it's a much, much better version of it. It's actually selling more copies now than it sold in any previous year. So I'm very, very grateful for that.

• 15:37Hala Taha?

  Every marketer knows Storybrand, even like business owner. It's so popular. So it's a seven-part framework. Can you walk us through at a high level what that SP7 framework is?

• 15:49Speaker 00

  Before I do that, let me explain why soundbites are so important, because the Storybrand framework will help you generate seven soundbites. And those seven soundbites are designed to attract customers and invite them into a story in which they use your product to save the day. So everybody's struggling with a problem and we want them to solve that problem using your product. And so there's ways that you have to word things in order to entice customers in that way. But the reason these soundbites work are because the two things the human brain is always trying to do. The first thing the human brain is trying to do is survive. I mean, the job of your mind, your brain, is to keep you alive. And so because of that, you're constantly scanning your environment, scanning information for

• 16:34Speaker 00

  survival assets. I call them survival assets, and there's a billion of them. Food is a survival asset for obvious reasons. Water is a survival asset, but so is friendship. Friendship is a survival asset. Status is weirdly a survival asset. Hala, if you're at a store and you see a beautiful purse that you really want, and you know, it's, I can't remember the name of purse companies my wife would

• 16:57Hala Taha?

  Louis Vuitton, Gucci Dior.

• 16:59Speaker 00

  Yeah. And you know that, okay, if I use this purse, if I walk around with this purse, people will assume I'm a certain kind of person, whatever. Sometimes it's inappropriate. Sometimes I wear my Rolex, sometimes I wear my Seiko, most often the Seiko. But everything that you have ever spent money on is a survival asset in some way. It's building relationships, it's building friendships, it's creating memories, it's getting rest, it's getting rid of your headache, getting rid of your toothache. It's a beauty product that's making you look better, which we want to do because we're convinced, like it or not, that if we just look better, we'll get more positive attention, whatever it is. And so because the brain is always looking to survive,

• 17:42Speaker 00

  You need to position your product as a survival asset. And you need a soundbite that explains why it's a survival asset. And we've seen companies double, literally double in revenue when they figured that out. When they figured out, you're not selling whatever it is that you think you're selling. You're selling survival. And if you make your customer think too hard about how your product can help them survive, they won't do it. So what they'll do is they'll just pass you by. And that's the second thing that the human brain is always trying to do. The second thing the human brain is always trying to do is conserve calories. You burn four to 600 calories a day just processing information. And if you process a bunch of information you don't need, you will run out of bandwidth to protect yourself.

• 18:24Speaker 00

  So the brain is always trying to not process information. It ignores almost everything. What will pique its interest is a survival asset. So it's very important that you have soundbites that break through that filter, that barrier, that desire that your brain has to not think. Your brain wants to ignore everything except for survival assets. And so when I have to think about how you can help me survive, because you haven't said it in a soundbite, you're gonna have a very tough time growing a business. And so the framework gives you seven soundbites that people will not ignore.

• 19:02Hala Taha?

  I love that you gave us that explanation. I feel like it's so true. People make all their decisions based on status and things that are gonna improve their relationships or how people perceive them. So walk us through this seven-step framework. What are the key soundbites that we need for all of our messaging for our business?

• 19:20Speaker 00

  The first one is you need to define what your customer wants. And this soundbite needs to be very specific. For instance, if you say, well, my customer wants fulfillment. That's too vague. Your customer wants fulfillment, I don't know what that's about. I can't get my mind around it. For instance, let me do a little quiz with you. I have a client and their soundbite was defending our freedom, protecting the future. Who do you think I'm talking about?

• 19:45Hala Taha?

  Protecting our freedom, defending the future, maybe like immigrants or freedom of speech or something like this, like just regular people.

• 19:54Speaker 00

  Yeah, so the reason that you're getting it wrong is because it's a terrible soundbite.

• 19:59Hala Taha?

  It's unclear, yeah.

• 20:01Speaker 00

  It's unclear. The agency is national security.

• 20:05Hala Taha?

  Hmm.

• 20:05Speaker 00

  So the National Security Agency, that was their tagline. By the way, they hardly ever shipped it. It was on one brochure. They never said it. It just got stuck in a drawer somewhere and they forgot about it. Their new tagline, we think that we're gonna ship, is intelligence means victory. And that tagline does two things. It says what they offer, which is intelligence. And it says what the stakes are if you don't have it. If you don't use our intelligence, you're gonna lose a war. People are gonna die, literally. And they will. You need this intelligence. And so that tagline going into Congress is gonna get congressional authorizations passed much quicker. It's gonna get funding happen a lot faster. It's gonna get the Pentagon

• 20:46Speaker 00

  to cooperate. It's gonna get the military to make sure that the channel that where they're getting their intelligence from is always open. It's actually something you could take, if you worked at the NSA, you could take to your family. And your family all of a sudden says, Dad's more important than I thought he was, right?

• 21:03Hala Taha?

  Yeah.

• 21:03Speaker 00

  So it's an extremely effective tagline. And so defining what it is that you offer and what it is that your customer wants, in the case of the NSA, it's intelligence, is really important. So that's one soundbite that you've gotta have down. The next soundbite you've gotta have down is arguably even more important, and that is the problem that you solve. We spend money to solve problems. That's it. And again, every dollar you've ever spent was spent to solve some sort of problem. If you paid to go to a movie, you were solving the problem of boredom or something to do that day, or needing to check out and relax. If you bought a beautiful dress, you solved the problem of wanting to look better and not having anything in your closet for summer. Everything that you spend money on

• 21:48Speaker 00

  is to solve a problem. So if you've defined the problem that you solve in a soundbite, you can expect your business to go up if you repeat it. And again, you cannot be vague. You have to be very, very specific. It needs to be as specific as a toothache or a gluten intolerance, whatever that is. So the problem is the second soundbite. The next soundbite is really fascinating and is the soundbite that positions you as the guide in your customer's story. You know, as you know, Hala, we say never play the hero, always play the guide. And the guide is the character that helps the hero win. And if you position yourself as the hero, you're positioning yourself as a weak character

• 22:27Speaker 00

  in need of transformation, ill-equipped, desperate for help and unwilling to take action. That's every hero in every story, by the way. So why would you make the story about you? You want to make the story about the customer because the customer is looking for somebody to help them in their story. They're not looking to hear your interesting story. So when people come to me and they say, Don, we really need help telling our story. I say, you don't. I mean, I can do it. I can put it on a napkin and you can tell your story. What you need to do is you need to invite customers into a story. Because if you play the hero, you're going to lose. Jeb Bush lost a presidential primary with the tagline Jeb can fix it. Well, he made himself the hero of the story. And by the way, what's he fixing? It. So he broke two rules already, made himself the hero, and he offered something that was

• 23:11Speaker 00

  elusive and ambiguous. Hillary Clinton lost a presidential election with the tagline, I'm with her. So I'm with her, she's the hero. And by the way, we're with her going where? Doing what? There's no offer there. She didn't define what it is that she's going to bring to the country. Now, she did in various speeches and that sort of thing, but not in the one line that she needed people to memorize. And so the stakes of this are very, very high. If you position yourself as the hero of the story, you're going to lose. I promise you. We don't like narcissists. We don't like people who make it all about themselves.

• 23:42Hala Taha?

  It's interesting because I feel like I interview a lot of marketers and there's this concept of the hero journey, the epiphany bridge story, right? That everybody always talks about. I use it in some of my materials when I'm trying to sell courses or something like this, this hero story idea. So do you advise we don't put our hero's story within our marketing materials?

• 24:02Speaker 00

  No, I do. I actually advise that you do, even though I just said never do it. There's a place for it. There's actually three levels of messaging. The first is the curiosity soundbites. Next are the enlightenment collateral, and next is commitment collateral. So if you think about the curiosity soundbites, those are the soundbites that invite you into a story. And then the enlightenment material is where I do my due diligence to find out if you're somebody I want to work with. And then the commitment soundbites and the commitment material are where I ask for the money. Where most companies get it wrong, and most businesses get it wrong, they get the curiosity soundbites wrong. And so I think it's okay to tell your backstory. It's called the guide backstory. It's okay to tell your guide backstory, probably

• 24:46Speaker 00

  though, after somebody has done business with you. Because when you tell your story, it does create a bond, but it's only after you've earned their respect and become their guide. Then your story matters. But I would never, ever, standing on a stage in front of an audience that I've never met, I will not tell my story. I just won't do it.

• 25:05Hala Taha?

  Okay. First impressions, it's about them.

• 25:08Speaker 00

  That's right.

• 25:09Hala Taha?

  Okay, got it.

• 25:11Speaker 00

  So the soundbite that you need to position yourself as a guide is twofold. You need to express empathy and competency. And empathy means I feel your pain, I understand your pain, and I know how to get you out. And so for me, I would say something like, I know how hard it is to look at a blank screen and come up with the soundbite that you need. And so I spent 10 years developing a framework that comes up with a perfect soundbite that will grow your business, and I can do the same for you. So I expressed empathy toward their problem, and then I described the competency that I've built up to solve that problem. So in that way, it's okay to talk about yourself, but you got to talk about why you care so much about your customer's problem, and you got to talk about why you're

• 25:54Speaker 00

  so qualified to solve it. So those are the two soundbites, or the single soundbite with two parts, that positions you as the guide. The next soundbite is easy. It's a three-step plan. Break down the process that it takes to do business with you into three steps. You almost need it for every product. You want to say, look, I do an intake where I just ask you a bunch of questions. I give you a custom report on what I think you should do. And if you want me to hold your hand and you want to pay me on a retainer basis, I enter into your story and we make this thing better. The brain loves and understands three steps. And it also creates a bridge from your customer's problem to your solution. And it dramatically increases the number of sales that you make. Because people don't want to move into a fog. They're like, give me baby steps, give me baby steps. So those three steps are the baby steps.

• 26:39Speaker 00

  And then there's the call to action. This is where you ask for the money. And there's a specific way that I want everybody listening to me to ask for the money from here on out. Because you're going to see an improvement in the number of people who make a purchase. The way I want you to ask for money is this. If you're struggling with this problem, it's the right decision to buy this product. If you're struggling with this problem, the right decision is to buy this product. So if you're struggling with a terrible toothache, it's the right decision to take X medicine. When you actually word it that way, what you're alleviating is the confusion that the customer has, which they can't put words to. But the question that they have, especially if it's an expensive item, is simple.

• 27:23Speaker 00

  Is this the right decision? Is this the right decision? Think about the last thing that you purchased. What was it? And try to reverse engineer why you purchased it. I bought a pair of boots, bought a pair of double RL boots. They're nice boots, they're black boots. The only pair of black boots that I had was a pair of hiking boots. And they just didn't work very, very well. And I'd seen some sort of Instagram or something that said, have you ever seen a world leader in brown shoes? I thought, no. Never seen a world leader in brown shoes. I've got a pair of black dress shoes, but I don't have a pair of black boots. This is a hole in my closet. And it took me, by the way, three months to buy these shoes because, you know, they're not cheap.

• 28:07Speaker 00

  And I finally just went, I need a pair of black boots. I'm just gonna do it. I think three months ago, if somebody would have said, if you're looking for a pair of black boots that you can wear with a great suit or blue jeans and get a lot of use out of the double RL black boot is gonna do all of that for you. It's the right decision. I'd have bought it three months ago because for three months, what I'm sitting there doing is going, gosh, this is expensive. Should I do that? I mean, is that, you know, is that the right decision? But if somebody else who had some authority would have said to me, no, it is the right decision. I would have gone, okay, thanks. I learned that, by the way, when I bought a nice watch. I'd been looking for years for a nice watch.

• 28:50Speaker 00

  And I'd gone to jewelry stores. I'd seen some that I liked, but I always backed off. And finally, somebody just said, Don, do you have the money for this watch? And I said, yes. They said, do you like the watch? I said, yes. They said, do you have a good reason to buy it? Because they knew why I was buying it. I was buying it because my company hit a certain revenue point and I was gonna buy a watch. I said, yeah, I got a good reason for it. He said, then I think this is the right decision. Do you want me to box it up? And I went, yeah.

• 29:15Hala Taha?

  Thanks for thinking for me.

• 29:16Speaker 00

  Yeah. So you need a soundbite that affirms that your product is the right decision. Now, you can't just say, hey, this is the right decision. You actually have to say, if you are struggling with this, then this is the right decision. So you want to make sure you get the problem right. You also want to make sure that your product actually solves that problem. Otherwise, you'll get a bad name. Then there's two more soundbites, and that's the success soundbite and the failure soundbite. The success soundbite is the soundbite that says, here's what your life will look like if you buy this product. And of course, that's gonna be good, right? You're gonna have a great pair of black boots that you love putting on, look fantastic with a suit. But when you gotta change into jeans, you just use the same boots. The failure soundbite is going to be, Don, the suit looks okay with a pair of black dress shoes.

• 30:00Speaker 00

  Would look a lot better with black boots. And you're gonna feel like you're not quite dialed in this outfit without these boots. And I'm going, you know, I just sold myself of the boots.

• 30:13Speaker 00

  And so those are the seven categorical soundbites that you need. And at storybrand.ai, those seven soundbites, plus something we call a controlling idea, which is the idea that dominates your business, that this is what the whole idea is. Like, my controlling idea is clarify your message so customers will engage. And also, a tagline. I write all of that for you for free at storybrand.ai. And then if you want, there's a paywall and you can get lead generators and pitch decks and proposals and keynote presentations and wireframe websites and all sorts of other really great.

• 30:51Hala Taha?

  I definitely want to use it, to be honest, because I feel like I just want to revamp all my marketing materials. And this is the perfect time and the perfect tool.

• 30:59Speaker 00

  How we just launched. It's a blog generator, but you can use it for LinkedIn or Instagram posts or whatever you want. The great thing about this is you don't have a blank square that you type anything into, although we have that asset at storybrand.ai. But it asks you questions. So you're writing a blog entry. And so it says, hey, what's the main problem that you're trying to solve today? How are you trying to solve it? How's this problem make people feel? What's some wisdom that you've encountered that helps people solve the problem? Do you happen to have a story of somebody who used this idea to solve? It asks you those questions. It asks you the right questions in order to get the best possible output. And then you can use that for anything you want.

• 31:41Hala Taha?

  It sounds awesome. I have a bunch of follow up questions. So you mentioned the controlling idea. I know this is something new that sits on top of the framework. So talk to us about what makes a good controlling idea? How do we come up with one? Or is there like a certain framework that we should use?

• 31:58Speaker 00

  The controlling idea is less of a framework and more the moral of the story or the point of the story. So that idea, the controlling idea, comes from screenwriting. And when you're writing a screenplay, you want to define the controlling idea before you begin, because it creates a filter. So let's say I'm writing a story about a woman who owns a bookstore in New York. Who, without knowing it, has an anonymous pen pal who owns a chain of bookstores that are very corporate and is killing all the little mom and pop bookstores. Of course, we know this movie, right? So the controlling idea is two people who should be enemies

• 32:44Speaker 00

  fall in love before discovering they should be enemies. Well, now that's a filter for the rest of my story. So it can't be a story about winning a marathon. It can't be a story about adopting a dog. It can't be a story about running for office. It tells me what to leave out. And when you actually know the controlling idea of your organization, again, mine is clarify your message so customers will engage. Once I know that that's the controlling idea of my book, if I'm writing a book, everything in that book has to defend the controlling idea. And I can really come up with a great joke or a great whatever. But if that joke doesn't actually defend the controlling idea, I have to leave it out. It's a wonderful filter.

• 33:28Speaker 00

  And so, for instance, I helped a brand recently come up with the controlling idea that kids love aquariums. You know, they sell aquariums, they sell fish tanks, they sell everything that goes into the fish tank. And that controlling idea also became their tagline. It doesn't have to, but that one became their tagline. And when they started putting that on fish tanks and fish food and signage on shelves and PetSmart and Petco, they saw a 99% increase in sales in the test market where they tested that controlling idea. Because finally, customers could walk in the door and know why they should buy it. They should buy it because they have a kid who's gonna love this. That's it. Don't overthink it. And so that's where the power of a controlling idea comes in. It tells everybody what to focus on.

• 34:14Speaker 00

  And more importantly, it tells you what to leave out.

• 34:17Hala Taha?

  And so, tagline is more like external, maybe something that's easy to remember, fun. Controlling idea can be something internal that we use as a filter for all of our communications. Is that right?

• 34:27Speaker 00

  Yeah, and half the time, your controlling idea becomes your tagline, half the time it doesn't.

• 34:31Hala Taha?

  Yeah.

• 34:31Speaker 00

  The difference between a controlling idea and a tagline is the tagline is memorable. Your tagline needs to be able to be repeated. I like three-word taglines. Eat more chicken sells about $20 billion worth of Chick-fil-A chicken every year, right? So what's the controlling idea of the whole Chick-fil-A effort? It's get people to eat more chicken. We're not gonna do anything else. That's what we do. That's our focus. We're never bringing a burger in here. And so, you know, I think the controlling idea is really important. The difference is the tagline needs to be something that is very, very easy to remember. It also, in my opinion, it cannot be unclear. It has to be extremely clear what it is that you offer and why it matters.

• 35:14Speaker 00

  And it's amazing. You can actually get that done with three words. Kids love aquarium.

• 35:18Hala Taha?

  Can I tell you mine for my podcast?

• 35:21Speaker 00

  I would love it, Hal.

• 35:22Hala Taha?

  Listen, learn, profit. Is that good or no?

• 35:26Speaker 00

  I think that's actually really good, especially the word profit. And the reason is you have immediately told me, one, I love a tagline that tells me what to do. Eat more chicken, right? But then you added something else in just three words. You added a survival asset. So if I'm a small business and I listen and then I learn and then I make money, you are offering me a chance to survive. So it wakes my brain up and says, hey, you should pay attention to this. I think it's very strong.

• 35:57Hala Taha?

  Thank you. You also mentioned stakes, right? Early on in the conversation, when you were breaking down the framework, why is it so important to help people understand what there is to lose?

• 36:08Speaker 00

  Because it's more important to let people know what there is to lose than it is what there is to gain. And the reason is loss aversion theory. So loss aversion theory has been tested and it's been proven that people are more motivated not to lose something than they already gained something. In other words, you are more motivated to not lose a hundred dollars than you are to make a hundred dollars. If somebody offered you the ability to make a hundred dollars, you would be motivated on a scale of 10 at three, a scale of one to 10, maybe three or four. If I said, hey, let me tell you how not to lose that hundred bucks that's in your wallet, you're motivated at level seven or eight. So the reason that you want that soundbite of here's what can happen to you if you don't buy my product is it drives much more action than a vision of a better future.

• 36:53Hala Taha?

  Got it. So you should really think through not only the benefits of your product, but what's going to happen if they don't use my product? And then how can I weave those things into my messaging?

• 37:04Speaker 00

  Yeah, the two most important things in your messaging, the two most important messages, if you will, are what is the problem that you solve? And what failure am I going to experience if I don't buy your product? Those are the only two negative messages out of the entire seven, and they're more powerful than the other five combined. They're that important. And the reason is pretty obvious. If you turn on your favorite movie, Holly, what's your favorite movie? I'm curious.

• 37:31Hala Taha?

  Favorite movie of all time, The Wedding Singer.

• 37:34Speaker 00

  Wedding Singer, that says a lot about you, and I absolutely love it. I'm here for that. It makes me want to go back and watch it again tonight. It's been a minute. Okay, so if you pause The Wedding Singer 18 minutes in, 23 minutes in, 40 minutes in, 47 minutes in, 62 minutes in, and 83 minutes in. Now, I have no idea what's happening in those minutes, but I'll tell you what's actually happening in those minutes. Adam Sandler's up a creek.

• 38:02Speaker 00

  Adam Sandler is having a lot of trouble with something. The reason is if Adam Sandler isn't up against a challenge or experiencing some kind of pain, the story isn't interesting. It's just not interesting. And a good screenwriter will never, ever, ever let that happen. What you'll notice in a movie is it's negative, hard, hard, hard, hard, hard. Okay, we overcame it. And then there's six seconds, maybe six seconds of rest for the hero before something bad happens, and he's at it again. And the moral, the lesson, if you will, that we can learn as business owners is if you stop talking about your customers' problems, they're going to stop paying attention to you.

• 38:44Speaker 00

  You've got to keep talking about the fact that interior design shouldn't be so expensive. You can't stop talking about the fact that your tomatoes might not come up this year because it's going to get really hot unless, right? You can't stop talking about the fact that your kid is probably going to be really screwed up unless you look them in the eye and say, I love you, you know, whatever. It's the negativity that drives interest and action. And then people say, well, no, I don't want to be a negative brand. That actually won't happen. Nobody will perceive you as a negative brand if 99% of your messages are negative. The reason they won't is because you sell a product that solves the problem.

• 39:26Speaker 00

  So if you sell a product that solves that much darkness, everybody sees you as light. They don't see you as darkness. If you didn't have a product to sell that solved the problem, then you're a negative brand. But the more negative the problem is that you solve, the brighter and the better the product actually is and the more hopeful people associate their emotions, their hopeful emotions with your product.

• 39:49Hala Taha?

  Okay, one more follow up about the framework. You talk about a story gap. Why is it important to have a story gap and what is that?

• 39:57Speaker 00

  A story gap is a question in the consumer's mind that your product hopefully will answer. So let's actually look at it in the screenplay.

• 40:08Hala Taha?

  Okay.

• 40:09Speaker 00

  Let's say that we're writing a rom com, a romantic comedy, and there's a gentleman, he's sitting in a coffee shop, a young woman comes in, he notices her and maybe she's beautiful or something like that, and she spills a little bit of coffee right next to him, so he uses her napkin to pick it up and she sits down and they begin to have a conversation. There's a story gap already. You know, what's going to happen between these two people, but it's not a very good one. So let's actually raise the story gap even more. And the story gap is the interest we have to close this gap. We want these people to be together. She talks for maybe 10 minutes, the chemistry is off the charts. I mean, it's just like, these two need to get married like fast.

• 40:53Speaker 00

  And suddenly she says, I'm so sorry, I shouldn't be here. I shouldn't be talking to you. This is inappropriate. And she gathers her stuff, puts it in her briefcase and jets out the door. He doesn't have her name, doesn't have her phone number. Now we got a story gap. The story gap is, how are these two going to end up together? It's also called an obligatory scene, or the foreshadowing of an obligatory scene. The obligatory scene is this, you are obligated to bring those two together by the end of this movie. If you don't do it, you're gonna have an audience that's really, really mad at you.

• 41:23Hala Taha?

  Yeah.

• 41:23Speaker 00

  They want them to be together. So, that's a story gap. Now, let's make it even worse, or better, from the perspective of the moviegoing audience. This guy gets a call from his mother. He's brokenhearted. He has found the woman that he loves. He doesn't know nothing about her, doesn't know her name, but my God, he's smitten. His mother calls his little cubicle about an hour later and she says, you should come over for dinner tonight. Your brother is in town. And he says, I hate my brother. You should hate your son. He's a con artist. He's a liar. He's a narcissist. He's the worst human being who has ever walked this planet. I have no desire to go to dinner. And the mother says, he's changed. And you need to come.

• 42:06Speaker 00

  Some things have happened in his life and he's really trying hard. Will you please give him a shot? So he goes to dinner that night. The brother is there. And he says, listen, I know I've been an ass, but it's different now. And, knock, knock, knock. Somebody knocks at the door. He says, in fact, the reason it's different is right outside. Opens the door and introduces his fiancee. And who do you think it is?

• 42:27Hala Taha?

  The girl from the coffee shop?

• 42:29Speaker 00

  Now we've got a story. Now we've got a story, right? Because the story gap is, how are they gonna get together? We've got a villain, the brother, who's a con artist and still a jerk to this day. And of course, we see that as the movie unfolds, how horrible he is. We have this wonderful young woman who deserves to be with the other brother, not the con artist. And the audience is going, how's this gonna work out? How are they gonna get together? How's this? That's the story gap. And in screenwriting, you should never, ever, ever, not for a second, not have an open story gap. Because as soon as you close that gap, the story's over. It's over. Let's say in that first scene, she would've said, you know what? I'm engaged to this guy. He actually kind of looks like you. But I'm realizing he's a con artist and I want to marry you. We've ruined the movie.

• 43:14Speaker 00

  Because you closed the gap too soon. And so the idea is, when you're promoting a product, you want to talk about the pain and the challenge that the customer is experiencing. Because it opens a story gap. And when you say, look, when you actually do business with me and buy my product, that's how you close the gap. And then people are motivated to close that gap, so they pay you money to close the gap. If the story gap is undefined or vague, you'll have a lot harder time selling your product.

• 43:43Hala Taha?

  And then how does the three-step plan not close the story gap?

• 43:47Speaker 00

  The three-step plan tells them how to get to the closing of the story gap.

• 43:51Hala Taha?

  That's how you close the gap, but you don't actually tell them how, because it's gonna like scare them away. So it's more high level, you mean?

• 43:57Speaker 00

  No, it's the path. You know, let's say that you're an at-home chef. You'd want to say to people, hey, you know how most families don't eat together anymore? When they do, they don't eat healthy. I'm an at-home chef. What did I just do, by the way? I started with the problem and positioned myself as the solution to the problem. Now, that's gonna make people want to do business with me. However, they don't know if it's the right move and nobody likes to move into a fog. So what you say is, by the way, I work in three phases. I come to your house and I do an intake session. I find out what your food allergies are, what your favorite restaurants are, what kind of meals you like, when your family likes to eat. The second step is I cook only one meal. And we see if we like each other. If you like the way it tastes, if you like the leftovers and they're good the next day, if you like the fact that you can sit down

• 44:41Speaker 00

  and connect with your family and not have to worry about a meal at least one night a week, then we take step three. And step three is, I enter into a retainer. I can work with you twice a month and that's it, because I'm very busy. But I'd love to work with you. Would you like me to come over for that intake session? You can even hear how much more likely somebody is to take the risk-free step of an intake session and the slightly risk-free step of getting one meal done. And then it feels like baby steps to close this story gap. Now, when I said, do you know how most families don't eat together anymore? And when they do, they don't eat healthy? I opened a story gap in your mind. Because you went, holy crap, that's us.

• 45:23Speaker 00

  We don't eat together. We definitely don't eat healthy. We eat on the run. We eat with the TV on. And the kids are going off to college in about seven years and we're never going to have that opportunity again. Now there's a story gap and I'm going to close that story gap when I come and cook for you.

• 45:39Hala Taha?

  I want to do some games. Does that sound like a good idea?

• 45:42Speaker 00

  It sounds terrific.

• 45:43Hala Taha?

  Okay, so I want to test hero versus guide with some really popular companies that I'm sure you know a lot about. You tell me, do you feel like they're positioning themselves as a hero or guide and why or why not it's working? Okay?

• 46:00Speaker 00

  Sounds good.

• 46:00Hala Taha?

  Let's go with Apple. Think differently.

• 46:03Speaker 00

  Okay, a couple of things about Apple. The reason think different works for Apple, but not for you. Let's talk about that. The reason think different works for Apple and not for you is because Apple is the largest company in the world. Everybody knows what an Apple computer is. Everybody knows what an iPhone is. Everybody knows what an Apple Watch is, on and on and on. We all know those things. And so when people know what a Coca-Cola is and what it tastes like, you don't have to be as specific. And so a major mistake that small businesses make or people starting their personal brand is they look at Apple and they go, think different. Right? Or have a Coke and a smile or whatever. And they go, okay, I need one of those. You don't.

• 46:44Speaker 00

  When your product is a household name, you can start doing what I call branding. Until then, you gotta do marketing and marketing is explaining what you offer and why it matters. So let's just stop there and say, think different worked because it launched in a Super Bowl commercial. That's where it launched. If you have the money for a Super Bowl commercial, have fun. That's great. But however, they are positioning themselves as the guide and they're telling the hero what to do. Think different. That's a plus for them. Another plus is they're actually offering you a differentiation of your identity.

• 47:22Speaker 00

  Notice that think different doesn't sell a computer. It sells an opportunity for you to become different than everybody else, which makes you stand out, which is a survival asset. So two words, very powerful, won't work if you are an unknown brand, worked great for Apple. I give it like a C plus.

• 47:41Hala Taha?

  C plus. Okay.

• 47:43Speaker 00

  A plus for them, F minus for you, C plus is in the middle.

• 47:49Hala Taha?

  Nike.

• 47:51Speaker 00

  Just do it. Identical. Just do it says that we are a brand for people who don't make excuses. We are a brand for people who have a bias toward action. We are a brand for people who are active. Very, very powerful. Unless you know what a Nike shoe is, it's completely ineffective. So it works very well for a known brand, not at all for you.

• 48:15Hala Taha?

  Tesla.

• 48:16Speaker 00

  What is Tesla's tagline?

• 48:18Hala Taha?

  I don't know what their tagline is, but everybody just knows Elon Musk. Is that problematic for them?

• 48:24Speaker 00

  No, because Elon is such a character who is incredibly different. Elon Musk has overcome more challenges this afternoon than you and I may overcome in a lifetime. Now, I'm not saying, you know, I admire his politics or any of that, although I'm very curious about how Doge is going to work out. Because a lot of that stuff is really good. We've got to bring manufacturing home and we waste a lot of money as a government. But there's all sorts of shady stuff happening. Let's be honest. I think Tesla, I don't actually know what their tagline is. I know that when they created the Roadster, it stood out as an electric car, so it's a differentiated brand.

• 49:05Speaker 00

  What was really interesting about it, it was an offer right at the height, probably of the environmental movement. So it gave people a chance to have a product that would help them do what they wanted to do. It was like Apple in the sense that this is an alternative, which is really, really good.

• 49:22Hala Taha?

  I could read you the tagline if it's helpful.

• 49:24Speaker 00

  Yeah, let's hear it.

• 49:25Hala Taha?

  Accelerating the world's transition to sustainable energy.

• 49:29Speaker 00

  Well, there you go.

• 49:30Hala Taha?

  So clear. I feel like it follows your.

• 49:32Speaker 00

  It is clear, but again, if I said to you that tagline, you would say, it sounds like a solar panel company? So it only works because we know what a Tesla is. That's not a good tagline for anybody listening to my voice.

• 49:46Hala Taha?

  Got it. Another game, I'm calling it the SB seven speed round. I'm going to give you the name of a product or a service. And then you basically say the key soundbites for them.

• 49:59Speaker 00

  Okay.

• 49:59Hala Taha?

  Let's do a meal kit for busy families.

• 50:04Speaker 00

  Okay, a meal kit for busy families would be it shouldn't take an hour to cook an amazing meal. So now we get an amazing meal and we get to save time. We get two things. So whatever the name of the company is, because it shouldn't take an hour to cook an amazing meal. Now I've combined some soundbites. One is what the customer wants, which is an amazing meal. The second is the problem, which it takes too long to make an amazing meal. And so the controlling idea of it shouldn't take an hour to cook an amazing meal is a pretty good one. I think that would work. Another one is what you actually need for dinner tonight in one box. You know, or something like that could be good. Well, what problem I'm solving?

• 50:47Speaker 00

  Well, first of all, I've said what it is. It's everything you need for dinner tonight in one box. And the problem that I'm solving is I don't have to go to the grocery store and buy a bunch of stuff. I could do another one. If you have a family of four, shouldn't you have nothing left over when you make dinner tonight? You know, solving the problem of every time I go, I get six of these, eight of these, four of these, 10 of these, and nothing is ever exactly what I need. So I could choose to solve that problem. This is a conversation that I would have around a boardroom with that company and then I would force them to choose. You're going to choose a problem that you solve and then we're going to corner the market on that problem. Do you want to solve the problem of not having to go to the grocery store? Do you want to solve the problem of it takes too long to cook? Do you want to solve the problem of dinner never tastes good when we cook it at home? Which by the way is a pretty good one.

• 51:33Speaker 00

  And if so, we're going to come up with a controlling idea and a tagline and brand script talking points based on what you have chosen.

• 51:39Hala Taha?

  So.

• 51:39Speaker 00

  And you can't choose two. You can't choose two. You gotta choose one.

• 51:42Hala Taha?

  Love it. Let's do a recruiting firm for startups.

• 51:46Speaker 00

  Recruiting for, okay, startup employees are different. Let us help you find the ones that work. So now I'm convincing people that startup employees actually have to be wired a certain way and you're not going to find them at any other recruiter. By the way, I kind of believe that. But if you've ever been around a startup, right? You've got to be scrappy. You've got to be comfortable with an ambiguous future. And you've got to wear five hats, not one. That ain't the modern workforce. By the way, I just wrote the copy for their website. Just literally what I just said would do very, very well for them.

• 52:17Hala Taha?

  Yeah, you did do a good job. So for any recruiters out there listening, you're welcome. Yeah. Donald, this has been such an amazing conversation. I am my show with two questions that I ask all of my guests. And you don't have to answer them based on the topic of today. It can just come from your heart. So first of all, what is one actionable thing our young improfitters can do today to become more profitable tomorrow?

• 52:39Speaker 00

  I almost always answer focus. Focus is the key to everything. When you look back on your life, I want you to answer the question, what should you have left out? And then start leaving that out. And when you find yourself focusing really on what matters, the rewards are compounding.

• 52:57Hala Taha?

  I love that advice. And what is your secret to profiting in life? And this can go beyond business stuff.

• 53:05Speaker 00

  The secret to profiting in life is to make sure that your life mission is mutually beneficial. And what I mean by that is that you're going to get a lot out of your mission, but so are other people. And if you don't take people with you. Now, I hear people say, no, my life mission is only about others. You're lying. You're lying. We are selfish human beings. We are trying to survive ourself and you're not telling the truth. But when it's mutually beneficial, when I say I want the most enjoyable relationship any dad has ever had with their daughter, two of us benefit.

• 53:50Speaker 00

  And that's a good ambition. And I would actually say, first of all, it motivates me because I get to enjoy a wonderful relationship with my daughter. And she gets to enjoy that, hopefully. I don't have a whole lot of control over that, but hopefully she does. And so I try to choose ambitions that are mutually beneficial, that I benefit, but so does somebody else. And there have been plenty of opportunities to make a lot of money, but only I benefit. And I've pretty much have always said no to those things because they're always empty. Unless we can actually do something together that really helps each other out, it's probably not going to be a very meaningful ambition.

• 54:27Hala Taha?

  I really like that mutually beneficial goals really smart. So if somebody wants to get started with StoryBrand, where should they go first? Should they go grab the new book? Should they go to StoryBrand AI or where should they go first?

• 54:38Speaker 00

  Storybrand.ai is the place you want to go and start playing around to get your controlling idea, your tagline. There's a link there if you want to go buy the book. It's on Amazon. It's called Building a StoryBrand. You can read about it. It's on Audible. You can read about it there or listen to it there. But Storybrand.ai is where you should go.

• 54:54Hala Taha?

  Awesome. Where can everybody learn more about you and everything that you do?

• 54:57Speaker 00

  Well, if you want to know about me and you want to see pictures of my daughter and our garden and my beautiful wife, Donald Miller on Instagram is where I get personal.

• 55:07Hala Taha?

  Donald, it's always a pleasure to have you on the show. Thank you so much for joining us on Young and Profiting.

• 55:11Speaker 00

  Wonderful, wonderful to be with you again. Thank you so much for having me.

• 55:19Hala Taha?

  Yeah, fam. What an unforgettable episode with the one and only Donald Miller. Now, this was the fourth time that Donald came on the show, but he brought us into a whole new world with StoryBrand 2.0. And I honestly think a lot of us are walking away with a totally different understanding of how to connect with our audience. One of the most powerful takeaways from this conversation was Donald's core belief. If you don't like your life, you probably don't like your story. That simple shift in perspective gave him the power to lose over 200 pounds, become a husband and father at nearly 50 years old, and build a business that's made over $100 million. It's proof that the rules of storytelling aren't just for marketing. They apply to our own lives, too.

• 56:02Hala Taha?

  We also broke down Donald's seven-part StoryBrand framework, which helps entrepreneurs turn confusing messaging into clear soundbites that customers actually care about. And Donald reminded us that if your product isn't positioned as a survival asset, people won't pay attention because the brain is wired to conserve energy and focus on only what it needs to thrive. I especially loved when Donald said, "If you stop talking about your customer's problem, they're going to stop listening." That's the kind of truth that every entrepreneur, marketer, or creator needs to hear on repeat. You can be repetitive and you've got to talk about solving your customers' problems all the time. Donald also gave us the inside scoop of StoryBrand AI, a new AI tool that helps you build your tagline,

• 56:47Hala Taha?

  controlling idea, emails, and even your website in just minutes. It's based on the same principles and practices Donald has used to help thousands of businesses grow for over a decade. So young improfitters, I'm going to leave you with this. If you're tired of confusing messaging or feel stuck in your own life story, remember this, you can change the script. You can start a new chapter, one where you're clear, intentional, and in control of your narrative. Thanks for listening to this episode of Young and Profiting. If you listen, learned, and profited from this conversation with the amazing Donald Miller, then please share it with somebody who needs a little push to step into their next chapter. And if you had a good time and picked us something valuable, then show us some love with a five-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to the show.

• 57:32Hala Taha?

  It's the best way to help us reach more people. And if you'd rather watch this podcast on video, all of our episodes are on my YouTube channel. The channel's growing so fast, so make sure you subscribe there, drop us a comment, and you'll find all of our episodes on that channel. You can also connect with me on Instagram, at @yapwithhala, or LinkedIn by just searching my name. It's Halataha. And of course, I've got to thank my incredible Yap production team. There's so many of you guys that helped put on this show, and I couldn't do it without you. This is your host, Halataha, AKA The Podcast Princess, signing off.