Jimmy O. Yang is the Hong Kong Taylor Swift

Comedian and actor Jimmy O. Yang returns to the studio and gets dragged into Bobby’s chaotic dating philosophy. We chat Asian tour stories, Hong Kong comedy speicial, a Chow Yun-Fat suprise, Jimmy O. Chang, crushing every minute, Terrace House, Bobby's dating show. For simple, online access to personalized and affordable care for Hair Loss, Weight Loss, and more, visit www.hims.com/belly https://www.hims.com/belly Get 10% off your first month of BlueChew Gold with code BELLY. That’s promo code BELLY. Visit www.bluechew.com https://www.bluechew.com for more details and important safety information, and we thank BlueChew for sponsoring the podcast. Join the loyalty program for renters at www.joinbilt.com/belly https://www.joinbilt.com/belly See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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• 0:59Bobby Lee?

  Hi, I'm Bobby Lee, and I created a graphic novel with my friend Matthew here. It's called Deadweight. Look at how beautiful this is. Wow. Wow, amazing. Dude, this looks great. Look at that. Oh my God, dude. You can get it everywhere books are sold. Barnes and Noble, Amazon, and gunnerbooks.com. It's rated R Kung-Fu Panda meets Kick-Ass. It's from my heart. And so, please check it out.

• 1:48Bobby Lee?

  What are the side effects? I don't even know. There's a delay in my responses to on podcasting. Like, I'll think of a joke, and then like 20 seconds later, I'll say it. But then we've already talked about another topic. Damn, he's taking your move. Yeah, yeah, that's your move, dude.

• 2:04Speaker 02

  20 minutes late?

• 2:05Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 2:06Speaker 02

  Hey, Merry Christmas.

• 2:11Speaker 00

  That's really good, man.

• 2:17Bobby Lee?

  You're dandy, dude. If there's one word to describe, hi man, it's dandy.

• 2:22Speaker 02

  If there's one word to describe Bobby.

• 2:23Bobby Lee?

  What is it?

• 2:25Speaker 02

  Messy.

• 2:27Speaker 00

  Nice.

• 2:28Bobby Lee?

  In what way?

• 2:29Speaker 02

  Your little toy collections? I'm sorry.

• 2:33Bobby Lee?

  In what way am I messy?

• 2:34Speaker 02

  No, you're not messy.

• 2:35Bobby Lee?

  Then why would you say that?

• 2:36Speaker 02

  I don't know, man. Why do people say things that don't even make sense, man?

• 2:41Bobby Lee?

  That's true, man. That's true.

• 2:43Speaker 02

  They're just... I feel like everybody's just saying things out of their ass.

• 2:47Bobby Lee?

  Out of their ass. Yeah.

• 2:49Speaker 02

  Like, what's real, what's not anymore, you know?

• 2:51Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 2:52Speaker 02

  Like, the other day, I was at a red-

• 2:53Bobby Lee?

  You're not real.

• 2:53Speaker 02

  I am real.

• 2:55Bobby Lee?

  You're real?

• 2:56Speaker 02

  I'm real, man.

• 2:56Bobby Lee?

  Prove that you're real.

• 2:57Speaker 02

  I'm at, okay, I'm at a red light in Dallas.

• 3:00Bobby Lee?

  Okay.

• 3:00Speaker 00

  Here it goes.

• 3:01Bobby Lee?

  Here it goes.

• 3:02Speaker 02

  It's 2:00 in the morning, I'm going to get the pizza. And there's a Waymo behind me. And there's nobody in there, but there's a passenger. And it's a green light. I stay, and I just wanted to see how long the Waymo would honk.

• 3:15Bobby Lee?

  Oh my god, you do exist.

• 3:18Bobby Lee?

  Oh my god.

• 3:18Speaker 00

  That was all the evidence.

• 3:19Bobby Lee?

  That was all the evidence I needed. Oh my god, you are real. My god, everybody, let's clap your hands.

• 3:26Speaker 02

  You ever thought about, like, like-

• 3:29Bobby Lee?

  Killing you? Yes.

• 3:30Speaker 02

  No, break checking a Waymo?

• 3:32Bobby Lee?

  No, I've never thought about it.

• 3:34Speaker 02

  I did.

• 3:35Bobby Lee?

  You break checked a Waymo?

• 3:36Speaker 02

  Yeah, you ever think about that? Like, how smart-

• 3:38Bobby Lee?

  I just said that, I don't fucking think about it.

• 3:40Speaker 02

  You never driving? Oi!

• 3:43Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 3:44Speaker 02

  How's it going? How you doing, man?

• 3:46Bobby Lee?

  What's up, Jimmy?

• 3:47Speaker 03

  What's up, what's up, what's up?

• 3:49Bobby Lee?

  It's been, what, 5 years?

• 3:52Bobby Lee?

  It's been 5 years, man.

• 3:53Speaker 03

  It's quite the upgrade.

• 3:55Bobby Lee?

  What's up, man?

• 3:55Speaker 03

  From the-

• 3:56Speaker 00

  It's been a while.

• 3:57Speaker 03

  From the apartment over there, this is awesome.

• 3:59Bobby Lee?

  Wait, you haven't been here since the apartment?

• 4:00Speaker 03

  No, I haven't.

• 4:01Speaker 00

  He was here when we were in your condo for Mad TV days.

• 4:05Bobby Lee?

  No.

• 4:05Speaker 02

  Yeah, and was that 5 years ago?

• 4:06Speaker 00

  That was like 7 or 8.

• 4:08Bobby Lee?

  8 years ago, oh my-

• 4:10Speaker 00

  Early, yeah, he was one of the first in the-

• 4:11Bobby Lee?

  How many times did he did it 1 time?

• 4:13Speaker 02

  Yeah, you never called me back. I would've done it any time. I'm like, did I offend Bobby?

• 4:18Bobby Lee?

  We've been calling you every day. Apparently, we were calling Ronnie Chang. We saved it different on the phone.

• 4:25Speaker 00

  It was John Cho, yeah, yeah.

• 4:28Bobby Lee?

  So where do you, where do you live now?

• 4:30Speaker 03

  I live in LA and Vegas, actually.

• 4:32Bobby Lee?

  Oh, cool.

• 4:33Speaker 03

  Split my time.

• 4:33Bobby Lee?

  You wait, you have a pad in Vegas as well?

• 4:35Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 4:36Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I love it there.

• 4:37Speaker 03

  It's awesome. And also LA, I don't know, there's always a pressure when you come back, you're like, I gotta do this, I gotta answer this call. When you're in Vegas, it's just chill.

• 4:44Bobby Lee?

  You chill.

• 4:45Speaker 03

  You stay out of casinos, you know?

• 4:46Bobby Lee?

  You do.

• 4:47Speaker 03

  I mean, I, I don't.

• 4:48Bobby Lee?

  Great restaurants, great restaurants, right?

• 4:50Speaker 03

  Yeah, I live close to Chinatown over there and it's nice. Food is great, Japanese, Chinese, Korean.

• 4:55Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 4:55Speaker 03

  Everything.

• 4:57Bobby Lee?

  Well, I, I don't like that.

• 4:58Speaker 03

  Why?

• 4:59Bobby Lee?

  I don't like in a Chinatown that they have all these other one places.

• 5:02Speaker 03

  Oh, you only want Chinese?

• 5:03Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't like that at all. Yeah, why'd you even say that?

• 5:06Speaker 03

  Don't let the other Asians in.

• 5:08Bobby Lee?

  That's not it, have your own town!

• 5:10Speaker 03

  Do you get offended when you see a Chinese?

• 5:12Bobby Lee?

  I'll go to Japan Town, I'll go to Japan, if I want Japanese food, if Korea Town, I'll go to Korea Town.

• 5:16Speaker 03

  Yeah, do you get offended with Chinese restaurants in Koreatown?

• 5:19Bobby Lee?

  Well, I like, I like Korean Chinese restaurants.

• 5:23Speaker 03

  Oh.

• 5:23Bobby Lee?

  There's a place called, um, Young King on Olympic.

• 5:26Speaker 03

  Oh my, was that us?

• 5:28Bobby Lee?

  2017. My god. Before the stadium rise.

• 5:32Speaker 03

  My outfit was atrocious. God. I don't wear glasses anymore.

• 5:38Bobby Lee?

  You look the same, though. You haven't aged, Doc. Yeah.

• 5:41Speaker 03

  Thanks, man.

• 5:41Bobby Lee?

  You're just more successful now.

• 5:46Bobby Lee?

  Glasses. Yeah.

• 5:47Speaker 03

  I can afford my eye surgery.

• 5:49Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 5:50Speaker 03

  You know, that was huge.

• 5:51Bobby Lee?

  Wasted. I mean, you were doing great, but now it's a completely different level.

• 5:55Speaker 03

  It's, it's been fun, man, it's been fun.

• 5:58Bobby Lee?

  But it hasn't been stressful?

• 5:59Speaker 03

  A little bit, but generally, I would say, like...

• 6:04Bobby Lee?

  You have little fingers! Anyway, go ahead, sorry, my bad. ADHD, ADHD? I have ADHD, sorry.

• 6:11Speaker 03

  I think, I find acting very stressful. Big or small roles, because it's, you put it on TV or movies and, and you see it forever. And it's not always the material you connect with, and you work so long. But stand-up, doesn't matter how busy my stand-up schedule is, they're like, man, it must be crazy, you travel. I find that great, that, that's my thing.

• 6:29Bobby Lee?

  That's fine.

• 6:30Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 6:30Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah. Um, you have no control when you're doing television, film.

• 6:33Speaker 03

  Yeah, and so many moving parts, the hours are so long. Stand-up, we have the best jobs in the world, man, an hour a night.

• 6:40Bobby Lee?

  It is, it is the best, it is the best job in the world. I, I, I, you know what? I think you're right. Yeah.

• 6:45Speaker 03

  It has to be.

• 6:46Bobby Lee?

  It has to be the best job in the world. Yeah.

• 6:48Speaker 03

  Especially in entertainment. I mean, if you worked at the movie TV, whether you're in the crew, behind the camera, director, man, just the hours, the sheer hours and the grind, it's tough, man.

• 6:58Bobby Lee?

  Oh, you're just there all day long. They don't even really, sometimes they don't even use you. Have you ever had that happen?

• 7:05Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 7:06Bobby Lee?

  You have?

• 7:06Speaker 03

  Yeah, you're sitting in your trailer for like five hours.

• 7:08Bobby Lee?

  Five, yeah. Or even longer. I call that nap time. I always nap.

• 7:12Speaker 03

  I always nap.

• 7:13Bobby Lee?

  You nap? You nap trap? A nap trap. Yeah, yeah. Do you know this, um?

• 7:18Speaker 03

  I don't think we met. How's it going?

• 7:19Bobby Lee?

  How you doing? But have you heard, have you heard of this person? This creature?

• 7:22Speaker 03

  Uh, should I have? Should I?

• 7:23Bobby Lee?

  No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. No one knows.

• 7:25Speaker 03

  Oh, okay, okay, okay.

• 7:26Bobby Lee?

  And no one needs to know. You might know my best friend.

• 7:28Speaker 03

  Who?

• 7:28Bobby Lee?

  Ralph Barbroso.

• 7:29Speaker 03

  Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Ralph is awesome.

• 7:31Bobby Lee?

  He's awesome. He says what's up.

• 7:32Speaker 03

  Oh, yeah, yeah.

• 7:33Bobby Lee?

  Did he really? Yeah. I don't think so. Call him right now and ask him what's up. Yeah, yeah. He knows Ralph.

• 7:38Speaker 03

  No, no, I know.

• 7:39Bobby Lee?

  I know, but no, but honestly, did Ralph, did Ralph really say what's up? Yes. I, I don't know. People say that? I don't, I don't believe it.

• 7:44Speaker 03

  No, no, but also that's a weird thing to do. And also they do it in Chinese culture. It's like, hey, when you see an uncle, tell him I said hi. Or like, you know, and then everybody say what's up. But then now the pressure's on you to say what's up, like.

• 7:55Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 7:56Speaker 03

  And now.

• 7:57Bobby Lee?

  But, but I don't believe.

• 7:58Speaker 03

  Just text him.

• 7:59Bobby Lee?

  I don't believe that that happened. Yes, look, he's here and, yo. No, I'll, I'll ask. Ralph. Ralph, Bobby Lee.

• 8:05Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 8:07Bobby Lee?

  Ralph, it's Bobby.

• 8:09Speaker 02

  Hi Bobby.

• 8:10Bobby Lee?

  How you doing? Uh, do you know who our guest here at, on Tiger Belly is?

• 8:14Speaker 02

  No, sir.

• 8:15Bobby Lee?

  Exactly.

• 8:16Speaker 03

  Ralph, I told you.

• 8:16Bobby Lee?

  No, no, no. Hi, man, hi, man.

• 8:18Speaker 03

  No.

• 8:19Bobby Lee?

  Ralph, turn the phone. No, no, no.

• 8:21Speaker 03

  No, Ralph, I told you.

• 8:23Bobby Lee?

  Hot, red handed. Hang it up, hang it up, hang it up, hang it up. Ralph, what the fuck was that?

• 8:28Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 8:29Bobby Lee?

  No. This is, yeah, yeah, yes, yes. This is, this is what I'm talking about, Jimmy, right?

• 8:33Speaker 03

  No, I get it, I get it.

• 8:34Bobby Lee?

  It was a lie. It was a full blown lie.

• 8:36Speaker 03

  You gotta be good.

• 8:37Bobby Lee?

  No.

• 8:37Speaker 03

  And Bobby, why, why'd you go into a Spanish accent?

• 8:40Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 8:41Speaker 03

  When you, when you, when.

• 8:42Bobby Lee?

  I, I cater to my friends.

• 8:44Speaker 03

  No, no, I, I, I get it. Sometimes I do that with my, like, like people around me too.

• 8:48Bobby Lee?

  I swear. I call Lisa Gilroy, I'm like, what's up, girl? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 8:52Speaker 03

  Love Lisa Gilroy. Shout out to Lisa Gilroy.

• 8:54Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. He says, she says hi.

• 8:56Speaker 03

  I, I'm sure, I'm sure she says hi. I'm sure.

• 8:59Bobby Lee?

  Call Lisa, call Lisa right now.

• 9:00Speaker 03

  Call Lisa, right now.

• 9:01Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, so we, Jimmy and I caught you in a lie, honey.

• 9:05Speaker 02

  No, I, look, he, he's a busy man, you know that too.

• 9:09Bobby Lee?

  See, see, that's when you know they lying.

• 9:11Speaker 02

  No.

• 9:12Bobby Lee?

  When they talk about, you know, he, he busy. You know, he, he's busy. You know he's busy, yeah. Yeah, you know. We're all busy.

• 9:18Speaker 02

  Yeah. He's busier.

• 9:20Bobby Lee?

  Than me?

• 9:20Speaker 02

  No.

• 9:21Bobby Lee?

  He's busier than both of us.

• 9:23Speaker 02

  Well, he, he knows you.

• 9:24Speaker 03

  Just stop, just stop.

• 9:27Bobby Lee?

  He busy than, than. Yeah, yeah.

• 9:30Speaker 02

  No, I'm.

• 9:30Bobby Lee?

  So, so he doesn't say.

• 9:31Speaker 03

  It's alright, it's alright.

• 9:32Bobby Lee?

  We just proved he doesn't say.

• 9:33Speaker 02

  Okay, we're at, we're at, um, an Addison Improv. He had shows. Addison Improv, Ralph did four shows. I said, oh, I'm going to Tiger Brother next week, I'm doing Jimmy O Chang. Oh, yeah, tell him I said what's up.

• 9:44Speaker 03

  Jimmy O Chang, I'll take it.

• 9:45Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 9:46Speaker 03

  This whole thing is going downhill.

• 9:48Bobby Lee?

  Oh, I.

• 9:49Speaker 03

  This is all fake. It's fine.

• 9:51Bobby Lee?

  You just said hi to the wrong guy.

• 9:53Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 9:54Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, Jimmy O Chang's here next week.

• 9:56Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 9:57Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, here's your phone back, but don't call Ralph back, okay?

• 10:00Speaker 02

  He's worried now.

• 10:01Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. No, he's not worried now. Just text him or something. But, well, I apologize for that, Jimmy O Chang.

• 10:10Speaker 03

  Yeah, it's gonna be your new, like, stage name.

• 10:11Bobby Lee?

  I apologize.

• 10:12Speaker 03

  It's fine, it's fine.

• 10:13Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. Um, seeing someone new?

• 10:15Speaker 03

  Uh, no, no, no, no, single, single.

• 10:18Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 10:18Speaker 03

  But I'm taking it slow, man, I'm.

• 10:20Bobby Lee?

  Take it slow.

• 10:21Speaker 03

  Hey, how's it going?

• 10:22Bobby Lee?

  Remember, uh, Khalyla?

• 10:23Speaker 03

  Hey, Khalyla, how's it going?

• 10:24Speaker 04

  Good, how are you?

• 10:25Speaker 03

  Yeah. Of course I remember, you look coolest.

• 10:27Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 10:28Speaker 03

  I get cursed, right?

• 10:29Bobby Lee?

  Very Olympics, right? Yeah.

• 10:30Speaker 04

  Thank you.

• 10:30Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, it's very Winter Olympics. Winter Olympics.

• 10:32Speaker 04

  Winter Olympics, yeah.

• 10:34Bobby Lee?

  What, are you a snowboarder always, that what's going on?

• 10:35Speaker 04

  I am, yes.

• 10:36Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 10:36Speaker 03

  Placing Lindsey Vonn?

• 10:37Speaker 04

  I saw, she took a big crash.

• 10:39Bobby Lee?

  Oh, that was tough. That was tough to watch.

• 10:41Speaker 03

  Tragic, tragic.

• 10:42Speaker 04

  What do you think about Jake Paul's, um, reaction to his wife winning?

• 10:46Bobby Lee?

  Who, his wife's an Olympic? Is in the Olympics?

• 10:48Speaker 04

  Yeah, she, um.

• 10:49Bobby Lee?

  She won gold.

• 10:50Speaker 03

  I think generally we should just stop talking about Jake Paul.

• 10:53Speaker 04

  I know.

• 10:53Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 10:55Speaker 03

  You know?

• 10:55Speaker 04

  Do any of you guys think you'd be good at any winter sports?

• 10:58Bobby Lee?

  Oh, my God, so many of them.

• 10:59Speaker 03

  Like what?

• 11:00Bobby Lee?

  Curling.

• 11:01Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 11:02Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 11:02Speaker 03

  I can see it.

• 11:03Bobby Lee?

  Have you seen me do this?

• 11:04Speaker 03

  Yeah, I, I've seen you do that.

• 11:05Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, I mean, cause I practice, but, uh, people think I'm gay, right? But I'm practice curling. Oh. Oh. With a, with a penis in your. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, I'm constantly doing.

• 11:17Speaker 03

  Very large two-hand penis.

• 11:18Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, you gotta find those.

• 11:20Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 11:21Bobby Lee?

  And I practice, and I'm like, are you gay? I go, no, I'm, I'm, I'm a curler. Stop looking at me now.

• 11:27Speaker 03

  Can I practice on your penis?

• 11:28Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. There's two people that do that sport. Do you know that sport, Jaime? Curling?

• 11:34Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 11:35Bobby Lee?

  Okay, what is it?

• 11:36Speaker 02

  The little, uh, Canadian thing with a tube, like a broom?

• 11:40Bobby Lee?

  It's a tube.

• 11:40Speaker 04

  Yes, exactly.

• 11:41Speaker 03

  We'll take it, we'll take it.

• 11:42Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, we'll take it.

• 11:43Speaker 02

  It's like a sphere.

• 11:44Bobby Lee?

  It's a sphere, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 11:45Speaker 02

  They gotta make it into the...

• 11:46Speaker 03

  What is the criteria for you to be good at curling? You have to be, have good eyes, steady? You have to have a strong core for sweeping?

• 11:53Speaker 04

  I feel like it's similar to golf.

• 11:55Bobby Lee?

  It's not, it's really the opposite of golf.

• 11:58Speaker 04

  Because there's a precision, no, I think there's still precision.

• 12:00Speaker 03

  Well, but golf, if you're tall and you, i- if you have a muscular, like, back and hip, like, that's really helpful.

• 12:06Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 12:06Speaker 03

  Like this, where's the talent and where's the muscles?

• 12:10Bobby Lee?

  That's true.

• 12:11Speaker 03

  Do you need, do you need really strong hands?

• 12:13Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 12:13Speaker 04

  I'll be the first to say, I don't think that I could sweep in that speed for that long.

• 12:19Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, but you're be, you're a good pusher, probably.

• 12:23Speaker 04

  Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that I could do.

• 12:25Bobby Lee?

  But the pusher has to, he, they act as a coach.

• 12:29Speaker 04

  Maybe, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 12:31Bobby Lee?

  Right, right, right, right, downward, downward, like, right? Yeah.

• 12:34Speaker 03

  Like the spotter.

• 12:35Bobby Lee?

  The spotter, yeah.

• 12:36Speaker 04

  What about, um, bobsled, either of you?

• 12:38Bobby Lee?

  Hmm, amen.

• 12:40Speaker 03

  You need to be able to run fast. Remember when Lolo Jones tried to go bobsledding?

• 12:44Speaker 04

  She did, yeah.

• 12:45Speaker 03

  Didn't work out.

• 12:45Bobby Lee?

  Why?

• 12:46Speaker 03

  I think you have to be an athlete.

• 12:47Speaker 04

  She was a track star, right?

• 12:47Bobby Lee?

  You have to run fast?

• 12:48Speaker 04

  You gotta be the one, yeah.

• 12:50Speaker 03

  Run and then jump into the sled.

• 12:52Bobby Lee?

  Oh, I would miss it entirely, I think.

• 12:54Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 12:55Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I mean, wow.

• 12:56Speaker 03

  I tried to not do any winter sports. I was just in Park City, everybody's like, oh, skiing. I'm zero interest. Like, why would you go out there? It's cold, it's wet, it's just terrible.

• 13:06Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 13:07Speaker 03

  Just let me stay on flat ground.

• 13:09Bobby Lee?

  That's how I like it, my women.

• 13:10Speaker 03

  On the flat ground. Cold and wet.

• 13:12Bobby Lee?

  And flat ground, on flat ground. No, um, that sounds crazy, um...

• 13:16Speaker 02

  Yeah, it does.

• 13:17Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, that one I like, but you know what I love the best, Jimmy? Is the figure skating.

• 13:23Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 13:24Speaker 03

  Oh, yeah, that's cool.

• 13:24Bobby Lee?

  That is really... It's very artistic.

• 13:27Speaker 03

  And Asian people excel.

• 13:28Bobby Lee?

  They really do excel with the emotions, too. Uh, and they're very clinical, you know? The Filipinos are good?

• 13:36Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 13:36Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 13:37Speaker 04

  Why you gotta always try to take a jab?

• 13:41Speaker 04

  Why you always gotta say some shit about my country?

• 13:43Bobby Lee?

  That's mean, that's mean. Do we do Winter Olympics?

• 13:47Speaker 04

  We don't.

• 13:48Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, we do summer.

• 13:48Speaker 04

  Because where do we train?

• 13:50Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah. We should add some sports that you'd be good at then.

• 13:54Speaker 04

  It's just not for us, Kay. Like, we have good boxers.

• 13:57Bobby Lee?

  Vine swinging in the cold. That's so racist. No, we gotta keep it in. No, no, no.

• 14:02Speaker 04

  You gotta expose him.

• 14:03Bobby Lee?

  No, no, expose me. We have to expose you. I'm very racist.

• 14:07Bobby Lee?

  Jimmy's like, I wanna leave.

• 14:09Speaker 03

  No, it's fine. I'm just like watching an episode.

• 14:12Speaker 04

  Speaking of the Philippines, not to put you on the spot, but my friend has been begging for you to, um, perform there for like a long time.

• 14:21Bobby Lee?

  The Philippines wants you, dude. It's great.

• 14:22Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 14:23Speaker 03

  I would love to go. Uh, my tour this year started off just like twenty cities in America, and I keep adding stuff, and I'm like, man, I'm so dumb having never done Asia. So I went to Hong Kong first. That's my hometown. They went crazy over there. I end up shooting my special there.

• 14:39Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 14:39Speaker 03

  And then...

• 14:40Speaker 04

  But you shot it in Hong Kong?

• 14:41Bobby Lee?

  That's cool.

• 14:42Speaker 03

  I wasn't planning on it.

• 14:43Bobby Lee?

  How many people?

• 14:44Speaker 03

  It was, uh, the arena there, it's eight thousand people. I sold out five shows.

• 14:48Bobby Lee?

  Oh my god.

• 14:49Speaker 03

  I could've sold more, but like, the tickets were going like seconds. It was, I've never experienced anything like that.

• 14:54Bobby Lee?

  Oh my god.

• 14:55Speaker 03

  And, I mean, because that's my hometown, that's my people.

• 14:57Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 14:58Speaker 03

  And, man, all my like childhood heroes showed up and stuff like that.

• 15:01Bobby Lee?

  Which one? Jet Li?

• 15:02Speaker 03

  Uh, Dae Whong, Wong Jiwa, I don't know, you know, um, uh, and then I met Chow Yun Fat separately.

• 15:06Bobby Lee?

  Nooo! Oh, I'm a Chow Yun Fat fan!

• 15:10Speaker 03

  Yeah, huge fan, huge fan. I met like everybody there, uh, that I grew up watching.

• 15:15Bobby Lee?

  Did you come backstage?

• 15:16Speaker 03

  Uh, Chow Yun Fat wasn't backstage, but Dae Whong was there, and, uh, many, many people, and it was just crazy. I'm like, I can't recreate this, you know, and it was, it was kinda spectacular. I'm like, so I just had ten cameras, my Hong Kong people shot it, and I'm just cutting it together myself.

• 15:31Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 15:32Speaker 03

  My director. Yeah, yeah, so I was like, let's do that, because originally I planned on doing it in Seattle.

• 15:36Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 15:37Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 15:37Speaker 03

  But then I'm like, Seattle is awesome, maybe my next one... You know, I'll do a Netflix one for Seattle, but this one, I have to, I have to do it for like my people.

• 15:45Speaker 04

  I feel like that's the right move.

• 15:46Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 15:47Speaker 04

  And also just Asia in general, they're so just like hungry and ready for like stand up in a way that's more like rabid.

• 15:54Speaker 03

  It was wild and I was like, man, I'm so stupid. So I did Hong Kong, I did Macau, I did Tokyo. I've done, uh, it was the biggest stand up show in Tokyo ever.

• 16:03Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 16:04Speaker 03

  And the love I got there was so cool. And then so like this tour is winding down, so the next tour, I got Philippines, I got Korea, I want to go to Thailand, many cities. Then I'm like, man, I would rather hit that than say another American city, you know? Yeah, I mean, those are your people too. I know, and it's, it's, that's what I'm saying, I was dumb, right? Cause you see my crowd, it's, it's even in New York, it's like say 70% Asian. But if you go to Asia, everybody's Asian, there's so many, so many tickets to be sold. Yeah, there's so many. And I feel like I'm really serving my people because they, they're underserved. Like Hong Kong don't really have a new big comedian and, and Tokyo don't really get big comedians, you know, especially ones that speak English. So it was, it was pretty cool to go, to go back there.

• 16:49Speaker 03

  So when you do Tokyo, are you scared that they're not going to get your jokes or no? I mean, they know when they buy the tickets, you know, it's in English. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Um, and I have, I have some Japanese material. They know. Like in Hong Kong, everybody's asking, is it in Cantonese, is it in English? I'm like, I'm a English speaking comedian, but I added like about 20% Cantonese in there. Wow. Yeah, so that, that's in the special too. Yeah. Well, when we played London, Andrew and I, you guys sold, you sold more tickets than the both of us. Did I? At the O2. I did, uh, the Wembley, yeah. Yeah, the Wembley thing. Yeah, it was, it was cool. I didn't expect it. Yeah. It was my first time there too. I was backstage and go, yeah, Jimmy did better. No. Yeah, we were like, good for, I was so proud of you. That was amazing. Thank you. You're blown up all over now.

• 17:31Speaker 03

  It's, it's kind of crazy. Um, and, and honestly, it's, it's. I do El Paso, 200 seats. Pretty good.

• 17:38Speaker 04

  But both of you, both of you would absolutely crush in Manila. Bobby, you love the Philippines.

• 17:42Speaker 03

  Have you done it?

• 17:44Bobby Lee?

  There's no proof that I'm gonna sell tickets there.

• 17:47Speaker 04

  He is.

• 17:48Bobby Lee?

  I'm not like him. He's an international star.

• 17:50Speaker 04

  I know Jimmy like sell out multiple.

• 17:52Bobby Lee?

  He sell out multi, multi, multi. Yeah, yeah.

• 17:55Speaker 05

  No, you crush it, Bobby.

• 17:56Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. Yeah, he will. In a different venue, probably.

• 17:58Speaker 04

  No, but the Philippines is, they so has your back.

• 18:01Bobby Lee?

  Wait until my special comes out.

• 18:02Speaker 04

  Okay.

• 18:03Bobby Lee?

  And then see if I, you know, and then, you know, we'll see what happens. Cause I've never done a special.

• 18:06Speaker 05

  Yeah.

• 18:06Bobby Lee?

  I just did one.

• 18:07Speaker 05

  Yeah, how was that?

• 18:08Bobby Lee?

  It was fun, so get that out there.

• 18:10Speaker 05

  Yeah.

• 18:10Bobby Lee?

  You know what I mean? If, if the people are like, oh, we like it.

• 18:13Speaker 05

  So stressed, why do you seem so stressed?

• 18:14Bobby Lee?

  I don't know, I'm on the Lexapro's kicking.

• 18:16Speaker 05

  Okay.

• 18:16Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 18:16Bobby Lee?

  It makes me mad.

• 18:17Speaker 04

  I'm also applying pressure.

• 18:18Speaker 05

  Oh.

• 18:19Speaker 04

  Yeah, he doesn't like that.

• 18:20Bobby Lee?

  What do you mean?

• 18:21Speaker 04

  And I'm like, you gotta play this.

• 18:22Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I'd be, I would be a bad hostage. I'd give away all the secrets, I think. Yeah, yeah, yeah, the government's gonna do this and this, yeah, but part six, they're gonna come.

• 18:30Speaker 05

  Cool.

• 18:30Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, I, I'm not good at it.

• 18:43Bobby Lee?

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• 18:50Speaker 05

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• 18:50Bobby Lee?

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• 19:08Speaker 05

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• 19:09Bobby Lee?

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• 19:17Speaker 05

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• 19:18Bobby Lee?

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• 19:19Speaker 05

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• 19:21Bobby Lee?

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• 19:22Speaker 05

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• 19:23Bobby Lee?

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• 19:25Speaker 05

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• 19:35Bobby Lee?

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• 20:11Bobby Lee?

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• 20:15Bobby Lee?

  And my pee pee don't work.

• 20:17Speaker 05

  No.

• 20:18Bobby Lee?

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• 20:20Speaker 05

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• 20:22Bobby Lee?

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• 20:23Speaker 05

  It's gold.

• 20:24Bobby Lee?

  Fellas, you already know what time it is. It's time to level up.

• 20:28Speaker 06

  Okay.

• 20:28Bobby Lee?

  And BlueChew just dropped something crazy.

• 20:30Speaker 06

  What is?

• 20:30Bobby Lee?

  I'm talking next level championship belt, gold plated energy.

• 20:33Speaker 06

  Oh.

• 20:33Bobby Lee?

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• 20:50Speaker 06

  Mixed with apomorphine and oxytocin to turn up the arousal.

• 20:53Bobby Lee?

  That's what I said, guy.

• 20:54Speaker 06

  In your brain and body.

• 20:56Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 20:56Speaker 05

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• 21:10Bobby Lee?

  Right, so I get my BlueChew Gold here delivered to my house in a discreet package.

• 21:14Speaker 05

  Yeah.

• 21:14Bobby Lee?

  Right, and then, um, it luckily came here on time and I had a very dandy time.

• 21:19Speaker 05

  Was your friend happy?

• 21:20Bobby Lee?

  My friend was happy. He was, he had a blast.

• 21:23Speaker 05

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• 21:50Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm not good at it.

• 21:51Speaker 03

  Can I, can I interview, like, can I ask you about your special? Cause you're such a veteran of the game. It's your first time shooting a special.

• 21:59Bobby Lee?

  Oh.

• 21:59Speaker 03

  Like, how was it? Did you edit it yourself? Like, you know, how was the experience?

• 22:05Bobby Lee?

  They're editing it now. I don't even know where they are.

• 22:06Speaker 03

  You don't, you gotta go in there, Bobby. You gotta go in there.

• 22:09Speaker 06

  He can't look at it.

• 22:10Bobby Lee?

  I can't look at it.

• 22:10Speaker 03

  I can't look at it. I hate it. It stresses me out, but you gotta do it.

• 22:14Bobby Lee?

  No, here's what.

• 22:14Speaker 03

  It's huge.

• 22:15Bobby Lee?

  Jim, Jim, Jim. Can I call you Jim?

• 22:16Speaker 03

  Sure.

• 22:17Bobby Lee?

  Okay.

• 22:18Speaker 03

  Call me Jimmy, uh, Jim O'Chang.

• 22:20Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, Jim O'Chang. That's what he called him.

• 22:22Speaker 04

  Yeah, he got it.

• 22:23Speaker 03

  Alright.

• 22:24Speaker 04

  I get it, I get it.

• 22:25Speaker 02

  I'm dyslexic.

• 22:26Bobby Lee?

  He also lied. See, he got excuses, this guy.

• 22:29Speaker 03

  Good, dude.

• 22:30Speaker 04

  He's dyslexic.

• 22:32Speaker 02

  I hear things differently. Jimmy O'Yang.

• 22:34Speaker 03

  They can, no, no, it's fine.

• 22:35Bobby Lee?

  It's totally fine. Oh, you, you, oh, you, you felt, you've been thinking about that since, huh?

• 22:39Speaker 02

  Well, Ralph texted me.

• 22:41Speaker 03

  And he's like, it's not Jimmy O Chang, dude.

• 22:43Speaker 02

  I'm telling them that Ralph, when I saw Ralph this past week, he's like, oh, tell him I said what's up.

• 22:47Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 22:48Bobby Lee?

  Right, so then we called Ralph on the phone.

• 22:50Speaker 02

  But Ralph's busy, man.

• 22:51Bobby Lee?

  Right, and I go, do you know who I have a guest on, um, this, right now? And he goes, no, man. So it was a, it was a lot, stop, stop, I get it.

• 22:58Speaker 02

  Jimmy, look.

• 22:59Speaker 03

  It's fine, dude. Dude, it's fine.

• 23:03Speaker 02

  Sorry, dude, I forgot who you said it was.

• 23:06Speaker 03

  This guy's gonna get fired by Ralph.

• 23:07Speaker 02

  Look.

• 23:08Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 23:08Speaker 02

  I tune out when you talk a lot.

• 23:12Speaker 03

  You don't tune out when you talk?

• 23:13Speaker 02

  It's fine.

• 23:14Speaker 03

  It's fine, it's fine.

• 23:15Bobby Lee?

  It's fine for you, not for me.

• 23:17Speaker 02

  Why?

• 23:18Bobby Lee?

  Because he's an extension of who I am.

• 23:20Speaker 03

  I see.

• 23:21Bobby Lee?

  You know what I mean?

• 23:21Speaker 03

  Yeah, is he on the payroll?

• 23:22Bobby Lee?

  He's on the payroll, so it's like, it's a little...

• 23:24Speaker 02

  Ralph again?

• 23:25Speaker 03

  No, please.

• 23:25Bobby Lee?

  No, no, no, we're not calling. We're not calling Ralph again. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 23:30Speaker 04

  I believe you.

• 23:31Bobby Lee?

  We believe you, we believe you, honey.

• 23:32Speaker 03

  Stop, don't call him.

• 23:33Bobby Lee?

  Don't call him again.

• 23:33Speaker 03

  Don't call him.

• 23:34Speaker 02

  He's at the Grove, he's at the Grove.

• 23:36Speaker 03

  You guys' location, don't, don't, don't blow up his spot.

• 23:40Bobby Lee?

  What is going on, dude?

• 23:41Speaker 03

  Motherfucker's at the Grove.

• 23:41Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 23:42Speaker 03

  He's at the Gap store.

• 23:44Bobby Lee?

  Is he your girlfriend? What is going on here?

• 23:46Speaker 02

  It's my best friend.

• 23:47Speaker 03

  Who shares a location? I don't share a location with anybody.

• 23:49Speaker 04

  You don't share with anyone?

• 23:50Speaker 03

  No, is that dangerous? Should I?

• 23:52Speaker 04

  I think with one, at least one person.

• 23:54Speaker 03

  Yeah, I feel like dudes don't really do that.

• 23:56Bobby Lee?

  I don't do that, dude.

• 23:57Speaker 04

  We have to be.

• 23:58Speaker 03

  Yeah, girls are very good at that.

• 23:59Bobby Lee?

  Jimmy have, and I have a motto, if you're gone, you're gone.

• 24:04Bobby Lee?

  Am I not right or no?

• 24:05Speaker 03

  You guys should share a location.

• 24:06Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, I would, I would love to share a location, yeah, yeah, yeah. But yeah, if we're, if you're gone, you're gone. I don't think anyone cares enough where I'm at.

• 24:12Speaker 04

  Oh, you're so dramatic. I hate when you do this. You're like fishing for...

• 24:16Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I want people to go, no.

• 24:17Speaker 04

  Who's gonna be at my funeral?

• 24:20Bobby Lee?

  Where is everybody? I go, you're supposed to go, no.

• 24:23Speaker 03

  No, Bobby, come on.

• 24:24Speaker 02

  Bobby, come on, I'll take your location.

• 24:26Bobby Lee?

  It's too late.

• 24:27Speaker 04

  You're the type of guy who would have a live funeral. Like, you need to hear everyone's eulogy about you while you're still alive, so you're gonna be like, I'm asking.

• 24:36Speaker 03

  Yes, I totally, we should all do that.

• 24:37Bobby Lee?

  Thank you, Jimmy.

• 24:38Speaker 03

  We should all fake our own death.

• 24:40Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 24:40Speaker 03

  And see how much we're loved.

• 24:41Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 24:42Speaker 03

  Don't, don't come, like, Seinfeld, don't come through, like, if I'm dead, I wouldn't even know.

• 24:47Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 24:48Speaker 03

  I don't even know Seinfeld, by the way. Ralph Barboza, don't come through when I'm dead. I wouldn't even know.

• 24:53Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. I mean, I would fake my own death. And then, like, live, live my, but people, but I wanna hear what people have to say. So, oh my god, my bad.

• 25:06Speaker 02

  What was that?

• 25:07Bobby Lee?

  It's a Lexapro. Excuse me, say it again?

• 25:12Speaker 02

  Like, what would you do? Like, oh, yeah, that's how he died.

• 25:15Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, probably a car accident or something.

• 25:17Speaker 04

  Oh, that's hard to fake.

• 25:18Bobby Lee?

  It is?

• 25:19Speaker 04

  Yeah, you'd have to police report, like, public records.

• 25:22Speaker 03

  What's easiest to fake? Disappearance?

• 25:23Speaker 04

  Yeah, disappearance, kidnapping.

• 25:25Speaker 03

  Kidnapping.

• 25:26Bobby Lee?

  I was frozen in the Atundra.

• 25:28Speaker 04

  Oh, yeah, he went, he went there.

• 25:30Speaker 03

  Avalanche drowning, you know, you can go to, like, whatever, you climb, you know, Kilimanjaro and then you died or something.

• 25:36Bobby Lee?

  But also, you can have, like, a manic, or like, you know what I mean, like, a a waxed version of me in ice, right, and take photos of it, or bring it. Bring it to the funeral, so.

• 25:48Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 25:48Bobby Lee?

  You know what I mean? Like this, and then I'll hear what people say, and they'll pop out and go, you're a bastard, man. You know what I mean? You didn't really love me, you know what I mean?

• 25:57Speaker 04

  Like, we were never friends.

• 25:58Bobby Lee?

  We were never friends, or something, you know what I mean?

• 26:00Speaker 03

  But how would you come back from your death? How would you explain that?

• 26:03Bobby Lee?

  Oh, I would tell everyone, I lied. I lied, this, this is all, cuz I wanted to see what you guys had to say. Some of them said good things.

• 26:12Speaker 03

  Yeah, you're cool, you're cool.

• 26:14Bobby Lee?

  You're cool, you're cool, yeah, you're out.

• 26:15Speaker 03

  Yeah, you've been right, you know?

• 26:17Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, what's wrong?

• 26:18Speaker 04

  What do you mean?

• 26:20Bobby Lee?

  You're looking at me like I'm off a little bit.

• 26:22Speaker 04

  I am literally locked in to what you're saying.

• 26:25Bobby Lee?

  What's up with these glasses?

• 26:26Speaker 02

  It's Ray-Bans.

• 26:27Speaker 04

  Thank you, Jaime.

• 26:29Speaker 02

  Great observation.

• 26:30Speaker 03

  What's up with these?

• 26:31Speaker 04

  I've been having horrible migraines and I need to, like, block off the light. But thank you, Jaime.

• 26:38Bobby Lee?

  Thank you.

• 26:39Speaker 03

  Yeah, blue hoodie, blue. Wait, back to your special. Yeah, back to.

• 26:42Bobby Lee?

  Oh, yeah, go ask, ask.

• 26:43Speaker 03

  I do want to talk about that.

• 26:44Bobby Lee?

  You haven't even asked.

• 26:45Speaker 03

  I did. I was like, so have you been editing it? You don't want.

• 26:47Bobby Lee?

  Oh, yeah, yeah, you have. You have.

• 26:48Speaker 03

  Are you nervous? How do you feel?

• 26:49Bobby Lee?

  So this is what's gonna happen, okay? I'm letting them edit it so they, they could have a pass at it.

• 26:55Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 26:55Bobby Lee?

  And then I'm gonna come in.

• 26:57Speaker 03

  Okay, great, great, great.

• 26:57Bobby Lee?

  Right, right, right.

• 26:58Speaker 03

  But you gotta go and sit there for like a week, man.

• 26:59Bobby Lee?

  Shh, shh, shh. Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna go in. Why a week?

• 27:02Speaker 03

  You gotta, you gotta get into all the nooks and crannies. I've heard so many comics, they go in, they give notes, and then they dip.

• 27:08Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 27:08Speaker 03

  But I, the editing is so important.

• 27:10Bobby Lee?

  It is.

• 27:11Speaker 03

  Because the editors might not even be there at the show. Your director might not even feel the way you felt of like, oh, man, that joke actually hit here.

• 27:17Bobby Lee?

  Oh.

• 27:17Speaker 03

  Or like, ah, should we switch shows here?

• 27:19Bobby Lee?

  So if you shoot, if you shoot, how many, um, shows do you shoot for your special?

• 27:24Speaker 03

  Usually two, but the Hong Kong one, I ended up shooting all five.

• 27:27Bobby Lee?

  All right. So do you watch all five?

• 27:29Speaker 03

  Yeah, I, I mean, I've been editing for months now. That one, that one's a beast.

• 27:33Bobby Lee?

  I think you're acting crazy.

• 27:34Speaker 03

  It is. But I think I'm making improvements. There you go. Yeah.

• 27:38Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, because what people perceive and what you perceive are two different things. Like, sometimes it's like, you know, I, I won't, I'll think I didn't have a good set, and people go, no, you actually did have a good set. You know what I mean? So how would you?

• 27:49Speaker 03

  I screen it for my friends sometimes.

• 27:51Bobby Lee?

  Oh, you screen it?

• 27:52Speaker 03

  For this one. The other two were pretty easy.

• 27:54Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 27:54Speaker 03

  Two shows, one show was better, uh, and if I flubbed the line, you go to the other show, come back. Right?

• 27:59Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 27:59Speaker 03

  You choose angles with your director.

• 28:00Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. Do you ADR yours?

• 28:02Speaker 03

  No.

• 28:03Bobby Lee?

  Okay.

• 28:03Speaker 03

  I, I want to. I really want to treat it like a movie in ADR, and like, I'm like, can I put in? They wouldn't let me.

• 28:08Bobby Lee?

  Oh.

• 28:09Speaker 03

  They're like, that's never gonna work.

• 28:11Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 28:11Speaker 04

  But people have done that with ADR?

• 28:13Bobby Lee?

  No.

• 28:14Speaker 04

  Okay.

• 28:14Bobby Lee?

  I'm just wanting, I wanna.

• 28:15Speaker 03

  I think it could. Like, I've heard Eddie Murphy, was it Raw? He shot one show or two shows, but then he shot when there's no audience, just a close-up of him. Just so they get that footage to cut around.

• 28:26Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 28:27Speaker 03

  Yeah. I don't know how that works, because, I mean, for me, you feel the audience's energy.

• 28:32Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 28:32Speaker 03

  Even on a close. Do you wanna direct? I, I, I think so. I think it'll be fun, but it has to be, it has to be something like I'm really into. But I, I love that idea. Like, we're missing one, like, wing angle in the special. Rebuild the Hong Kong. And I wanna go back to Hong Kong and shoot it.

• 28:48Speaker 04

  I support this 100%. Yeah, that's where my head would go.

• 28:52Bobby Lee?

  No one's gonna watch and go, "Where's the wing shot?"

• 28:55Speaker 03

  I would. It doesn't matter. I would. I would. And it's the flow. They might laugh harder if there's a wing shot.

• 29:00Speaker 04

  It's, I totally understand what you're saying. I would go through extremes too, to get the perfect thing in.

• 29:06Speaker 03

  Right, right, right.

• 29:07Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I can't get it, because...

• 29:09Speaker 03

  No, no, I'm not saying go that crazy. I'm not saying go that crazy.

• 29:11Bobby Lee?

  You gotta reshoot the whole thing. You're gonna freak me out right now.

• 29:14Speaker 03

  No, no, you're fine. You're Bobby. You're fine.

• 29:16Bobby Lee?

  I'm just gonna...

• 29:17Speaker 03

  I'm just saying, I've heard comics, they don't even go into the edit room. They give notes, and then they out. And I'm like, "Come on, man."

• 29:22Bobby Lee?

  And they never see it, until it comes out?

• 29:24Speaker 03

  Yeah, because I understand you're nervous about it, but you gotta go in.

• 29:27Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 29:28Speaker 03

  Yeah, but I'm sure you're...

• 29:29Bobby Lee?

  I'm too critical, though. That's the problem.

• 29:31Speaker 03

  But that's good.

• 29:32Bobby Lee?

  How is that good?

• 29:33Speaker 03

  That's good. You gotta be critical to, like, improve, no?

• 29:35Bobby Lee?

  No, because I based it on, like, you know, when we did it, I got offstage, I go, "What happened?" And they're like, "It was really good." I mean, I based it on other people watching it. Because I have, you know, I can't watch myself... What's wrong, George?

• 29:49Speaker 04

  No, no, I'm thinking. I'm... He has dysmorphia.

• 29:52Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, what?

• 29:53Speaker 04

  You have, like, the version of dysmorphia where, like...

• 29:56Bobby Lee?

  Oh, you have stand-up dysmorphia? Oh, I have dysmorphia.

• 29:58Speaker 04

  Where it's like, he'll crush, and he'll walk out of there being, no one laughed.

• 30:02Speaker 03

  But you can't hear it. You can hear it. You can feel the audience, right?

• 30:05Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I felt it in my bones.

• 30:06Speaker 03

  Yeah, that's great. That's it. Yeah.

• 30:08Bobby Lee?

  To me, I have to trust that instinct, no?

• 30:10Speaker 03

  That's it, yeah.

• 30:11Bobby Lee?

  Like, I heard it, I felt it, I saw the people around me. Alex, you were there.

• 30:15Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 30:15Bobby Lee?

  Right? So it's like, um, already after it was done, the reason I got depressed afterwards is because, in my mind, I was like, "I should have done this, I should have done that."

• 30:24Speaker 04

  I'm gonna rebuild a set.

• 30:26Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 30:27Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 30:27Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I was thinking that. I was like, you know what I mean? What was the thing? Coming out on stage, I did kind of the same thing over and over again, and I regret that I didn't have one where I just came out normal.

• 30:40Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 30:41Bobby Lee?

  You know what I mean? I did this... It was a lot of power poses. He did a lot of this. Yeah. Commit. Yeah, I was, yeah, I was doing a lot of that. It's amazing.

• 30:49Speaker 04

  But I like when you do that.

• 30:51Speaker 03

  Yeah, maybe subconsciously you did it so the editor don't have a choice to use it.

• 30:54Bobby Lee?

  Oh!

• 30:55Speaker 03

  You know, actors do that, you know?

• 30:57Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 30:57Speaker 03

  And you give me this, I'm like, "No, I'm just gonna keep doing this shit, because I like it."

• 31:00Bobby Lee?

  Yeah!

• 31:01Speaker 04

  I mean, it's better than how you came out onstage on our live show, how you, like, rolled into.

• 31:07Bobby Lee?

  See?

• 31:08Speaker 04

  What if you did that?

• 31:10Bobby Lee?

  So, when I asked you, was that embarrassing that I did that? You were like, "No, it was fine," and now you're saying that it was very weird.

• 31:15Speaker 04

  I thought it was funny, it just didn't get the pop I think you thought it would.

• 31:19Bobby Lee?

  It was a death roll.

• 31:22Speaker 00

  Alligator death roll.

• 31:23Bobby Lee?

  When I was rolling, I go, "I'm not getting a pop."

• 31:26Speaker 00

  You just kept...

• 31:28Bobby Lee?

  I kept rolling, and then I stood up like this, and no cheers. And I'm like, "I'm gonna kill myself." It was like, so, you lied.

• 31:38Speaker 04

  I personally thought it was funny.

• 31:40Bobby Lee?

  Okay, but no one...

• 31:41Speaker 03

  You can put some fake cheer in there, it's fine.

• 31:42Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, it was a live show, so I don't care about that. So, ask me some more questions. Editing, let's move on from editing.

• 31:48Speaker 03

  Yeah, where'd you shoot it?

• 31:50Bobby Lee?

  San Diego.

• 31:51Speaker 03

  San Diego, Babo?

• 31:52Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 31:52Speaker 03

  Beautiful, great theater.

• 31:54Bobby Lee?

  Great theater, I did four shows there.

• 31:55Speaker 03

  Four shows, do you feel in your bones like this is the show that is the show?

• 32:00Bobby Lee?

  You said bones, are you the one that first brought up bones, or am I the one?

• 32:03Speaker 03

  You said it!

• 32:04Speaker 04

  Yeah, you did.

• 32:05Bobby Lee?

  Really?

• 32:05Speaker 03

  I'm trying to speak your language.

• 32:07Speaker 00

  He's hearing you, dude.

• 32:08Bobby Lee?

  Oh, you are?

• 32:09Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. Is there one show you're like, "Man, the first..." I'm like, you're like, "This is it."

• 32:12Speaker 00

  Yeah, did your bones feel it?

• 32:14Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, did my bones?

• 32:15Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 32:15Bobby Lee?

  Uh, do you get itchy bones?

• 32:18Speaker 03

  No.

• 32:21Bobby Lee?

  Where it's like, you don't know where the itch is?

• 32:23Speaker 04

  Yes, I hate that.

• 32:24Bobby Lee?

  And you think it's in your bones?

• 32:26Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 32:26Speaker 03

  Really?

• 32:27Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 32:27Speaker 03

  Usually my itch is on my skin. I just know where it is.

• 32:31Speaker 00

  Normal itches?

• 32:32Speaker 03

  Yeah, I got normal itches.

• 32:33Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. No, normal...

• 32:35Speaker 03

  Maybe you got psoriasis.

• 32:38Bobby Lee?

  No, normally I do have normal itches, or I even can see a bump, I'll go, "Oh, that was a little..."

• 32:43Speaker 04

  Can you look that up, you have phantom itches?

• 32:45Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, phantom itches, you never have a phantom itch. I thought that's for people like, that's missing a limb.

• 32:50Speaker 04

  Phantom limbs, yeah. But I do know what you mean, where you're like, "I think that's itchy, you go to scratch and it doesn't relieve it." It's like, too deep?

• 32:57Bobby Lee?

  It's too deep.

• 32:57Speaker 04

  Yeah. I think we both have diabetes or something.

• 33:01Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 33:01Speaker 04

  It's like...

• 33:02Speaker 00

  So, yeah, it comes from amputation, that's pretty common. Shingles, multiple.

• 33:07Bobby Lee?

  Anyway, let's go back to the special. Nerve pain. So, when I...

• 33:11Speaker 02

  Is there itching like...

• 33:12Speaker 03

  He's trying to go back to the special.

• 33:13Bobby Lee?

  No, no, no, go ahead.

• 33:15Speaker 02

  Is there itching like...

• 33:18Speaker 04

  What itch? What?

• 33:20Speaker 02

  I told you about an itch?

• 33:21Speaker 00

  Oh my god.

• 33:22Speaker 04

  What the fuck?

• 33:23Speaker 00

  Call Ralph right now.

• 33:24Speaker 02

  I thought she was talking about something else.

• 33:27Speaker 02

  No, you think itching is like, just in your head?

• 33:32Speaker 02

  Like, it's just not real? You know what I'm talking about?

• 33:36Speaker 04

  I know what you're talking about.

• 33:37Speaker 02

  You know, like, it's not really there.

• 33:39Bobby Lee?

  Vagu- vaguely, but let's move on.

• 33:41Speaker 02

  Okay, I'm just saying.

• 33:42Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, I know you were saying.

• 33:43Speaker 02

  No, like, you know what I'm saying, right?

• 33:45Bobby Lee?

  I don't.

• 33:46Speaker 02

  You know what I'm saying, Jimmy?

• 33:47Bobby Lee?

  Jimmy?

• 33:47Speaker 03

  Is he like your son?

• 33:50Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 33:51Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 33:51Bobby Lee?

  Kind of. It's sort of like a Big Brother thing.

• 33:53Speaker 03

  Okay, okay.

• 33:54Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah. So I, um...

• 33:56Speaker 03

  Oh, it's good, it's good, it's good, yeah, anyway.

• 33:58Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, so I went, uh, there was some shows where I thought, I, that couldn't have gone better.

• 34:03Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 34:04Bobby Lee?

  Probably one and four. One and four? Yeah. Uh, the second and third one is fine, you know, but, um, so I, I wish I could have made some choices, you know? Um, I also, um, I should have taken more risks.

• 34:18Speaker 03

  Hmm.

• 34:18Bobby Lee?

  You know, that was another thing.

• 34:20Speaker 03

  Like, once you killed the first show, you're like, I should have tried some other shit?

• 34:23Bobby Lee?

  Yes, yeah, this, this thing that, you know, I mean, that I have in my catalog, you know, I mean, that I, you know? But I wasn't intending it to be in it, but like, I should have just thrown it out there.

• 34:32Speaker 03

  Right, because how much material do you have after how, how many years now?

• 34:36Bobby Lee?

  Okay, Jimmy.

• 34:37Speaker 03

  No, no, I'm saying...

• 34:38Bobby Lee?

  What, what are you doing, Jimmy?

• 34:39Speaker 03

  It's an honest...

• 34:40Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a very good question.

• 34:41Speaker 03

  Honest, uh, honest question.

• 34:43Bobby Lee?

  I'm so picky about, um, my material that I, I only, I only did like thirty-eight minutes of material.

• 34:51Speaker 03

  Oh, wow.

• 34:51Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, and I did another ten minutes of others, other things.

• 34:55Speaker 03

  Specialty.

• 34:56Bobby Lee?

  Specialty, device stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, um, because for me, it's like, it has to go bam, bam, bam, bam, which is like a terrible way of looking at it, and the next special is gonna be completely different.

• 35:06Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 35:06Bobby Lee?

  I'm gonna take my time, more point of view, whatever.

• 35:09Speaker 03

  This is great, so you are gonna do a next one?

• 35:11Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 35:11Speaker 03

  It's awesome.

• 35:12Bobby Lee?

  I want...

• 35:12Speaker 03

  Very exciting.

• 35:13Bobby Lee?

  Because in my mind, it's like, it's not that hard. You know, in my mind, it's like, oh my god, it's gotta be this and that, but then when I saw Chappelle's, I mean, the last one, he, he just leaves so much room, he, he's so comfortable with silence. And not having laughs every fucking five, ten seconds, right, that it's like, to me, that's okay. That means that they're listening, and he can really, um, talk about how he feels about things, you know what I mean? We've had this argument many ti- not argument, discussion where it's like, you know what I mean? I think my joke writing, I, I... Carlos Mencia fucked me up.

• 35:48Speaker 03

  Oh, how so?

• 35:50Bobby Lee?

  Because he's so bam bam bam bam. As a kid, I used to watch him in rooms, you know what I mean? Just go bam bam bam and crush.

• 35:55Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 35:56Bobby Lee?

  In my mind, I'm like, oh, it has to be like that.

• 35:58Speaker 03

  But that's great. I think that is what the audience wanna see.

• 36:01Bobby Lee?

  Crush, crush, crush?

• 36:02Speaker 03

  Yeah, but now with the whole Netflix thing, it becomes more storytelling.

• 36:06Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

• 36:07Speaker 03

  More like one man show. So both are valid, but I do think the audience wanna see crush, crush, crush.

• 36:12Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah. Yeah, because you wanna crush, but it's like, so what else do I have? The clothing, I maybe I should have thought more of it.

• 36:20Speaker 03

  Yeah, it's fine. Did you think a lot about your clothing? Not really. The first special, I just dressed myself and I was really comfortable. I did think about the lighting and the color there go with my clothing.

• 36:30Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 36:31Speaker 03

  And the second one, I hired a stylist and it was too, it's not so much me. Uh, but I have had people still till today, it's like, where'd you get that jacket? I want that jacket. I'm like, okay, whatever.

• 36:40Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. And for, um, Hong Kong, was it?

• 36:45Speaker 03

  The Hong Kong one.

• 36:45Bobby Lee?

  The Hong Kong one? That's where you get a stylist?

• 36:47Speaker 03

  No, no, no. This is the third one.

• 36:49Bobby Lee?

  The third one, no.

• 36:49Speaker 03

  That one hasn't came out. But that one, I've regret with my T-shirt. My T-shirt was too loose, like the collar was too.

• 36:55Bobby Lee?

  Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 36:56Speaker 03

  You know, and I wasn't, yeah, that's the second one.

• 36:59Bobby Lee?

  That's the second one.

• 36:59Speaker 03

  And this is the first one? Yeah, the first one. See, that's super simple. Oh, but I like that. Right? That's just like Jimmy O. And it kinda pops, like, within the color. Yeah.

• 37:08Speaker 04

  I do think that's it, though. It is, color is everything. I don't even think it's the style because, like, you just have to pick the correct color for you.

• 37:15Speaker 03

  Yeah, so the.

• 37:16Speaker 04

  That's cute, too, though.

• 37:16Speaker 03

  Yeah, so these, I planned everything and I worked with my director, shout out to Marcus Ray Boy. But the Hong Kong one, I just shot it on a limb.

• 37:23Bobby Lee?

  Hmm.

• 37:23Speaker 03

  There was some great camera work by the Hong Kong team, but then,

• 37:26Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 37:27Speaker 03

  the deep, there's no DP there, there's the, you know, the lighting's not perfect. So there's a lot of imperfection, but it's more like a rock concert than anything. So I, I took the whole hard drive home. It's in a suitcase. And I've been editing it in Editbay with Marcus.

• 37:40Bobby Lee?

  It's a Chinese thing, the way you're doing it.

• 37:42Speaker 03

  I, well.

• 37:43Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 37:43Speaker 03

  It's, it's a, it's, it's a hard special to cut this one.

• 37:46Speaker 04

  Who's our favorite director from Hong Kong, Bobby?

• 37:49Bobby Lee?

  Wong Kar Wai.

• 37:50Speaker 03

  Oh, he's awesome, yeah.

• 37:51Bobby Lee?

  What?

• 37:52Speaker 04

  He knows now.

• 37:53Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, Wong Kar Wai's my favorite. And I've been trying to get you to get into him.

• 37:56Speaker 04

  I'm gonna hurt him so bad right now, Jimmy.

• 37:59Bobby Lee?

  Some people aren't open to, like, real pure art. You like Wong Kar Wai?

• 38:04Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, I mean.

• 38:04Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, what a man.

• 38:05Speaker 04

  For ten, for an entire decade. I've been trying to introduce him to In the Mood for Love, which was like standard.

• 38:12Speaker 03

  Beautiful.

• 38:13Speaker 04

  And then Chungking Express, Fallen Angels, and he was just like, nah, nah, nah, I don't want. But he calls himself like a cinephile, but I'm like, how do you not know Wong Kar Wai if you call yourself a cinephile? After we broke up, he texts me, he was like, you should watch In the Mood for Love.

• 38:30Speaker 03

  You forgot she was the one that told.

• 38:32Speaker 04

  And I was like, who introduced you to that? And he had watched it with, I think, a girl you were dating. Yeah, on a hinge date.

• 38:40Speaker 03

  Hey, that's a deal closer. In the Mood for Love, that's a deal closer. She Asian?

• 38:44Bobby Lee?

  No, a white girl.

• 38:45Speaker 03

  Oh.

• 38:46Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 38:46Bobby Lee?

  I think when Asians push Asian shit, when a white girl pushes Asian shit, then I'm more.

• 38:50Speaker 04

  You gotta listen.

• 38:51Bobby Lee?

  I have to listen.

• 38:51Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 38:52Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 38:52Speaker 03

  She, she told you about In the Mood for?

• 38:54Bobby Lee?

  I, I honestly forgot that you even said it.

• 38:57Speaker 04

  I'm so mad. I'm so mad.

• 39:00Bobby Lee?

  So I forgot, so when this white girl was like, in the, in my mind, I was like, that doesn't sound familiar.

• 39:05Speaker 03

  Wait, the white girl also told you, you're saying?

• 39:08Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, this is years after, you know, we had broken up. So she's at my house.

• 39:11Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 39:11Bobby Lee?

  You know what I mean? We're in bed, let's watch a movie.

• 39:13Speaker 03

  Like, you didn't suggest it, the white girl suggested.

• 39:15Bobby Lee?

  I know, you know, she suggested it, yeah. And I'm like.

• 39:17Speaker 03

  You're fucking, you're fucking. Like, if a white girl's on a date.

• 39:22Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 39:23Speaker 04

  She chooses that movie, like, that's an in, for sure.

• 39:25Speaker 03

  Hundred percent.

• 39:26Speaker 04

  That is such like a slow, romantic, beautiful movie.

• 39:30Bobby Lee?

  It's beautiful. I mean, it, I just don't like the way it ends. You know what I mean? I, I want the, I don't want to give it away, but it's like, I want them to.

• 39:39Speaker 04

  Yeah, of course.

• 39:40Bobby Lee?

  You know what I mean, that?

• 39:40Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 39:41Bobby Lee?

  But I think, I think this is cool, too.

• 39:42Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 39:43Bobby Lee?

  You know what I mean? It's, it's love that doesn't actually happen. It's there, it's the feelings are there, and they do love each other, but they can't for some reason, yeah.

• 39:51Speaker 03

  Beautiful.

• 39:52Bobby Lee?

  I think that's what I want, maybe. That's why, I mean, how old are you now?

• 39:56Speaker 03

  Thirty-eight.

• 39:57Bobby Lee?

  Oh, you're so young. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But do you want forever love this, like?

• 40:01Speaker 03

  I think so. I'm, I'm starting to date more seriously now. You know, I, I, I give myself maybe like, uh, two years, and then I think I'm ready.

• 40:08Bobby Lee?

  Whoa.

• 40:08Speaker 03

  Yeah, and I'm.

• 40:10Bobby Lee?

  You think Asian or white? What do you think?

• 40:11Speaker 03

  I, I do think Asian now, you know, I, I've dated girls of every ethnicity.

• 40:16Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 40:16Speaker 03

  I haven't dated a half Asian girl, just as a transition, you know? But. I do think culturally, it's very important to share the same cultural values. Speaking the same language is very important to me, you know, my kids will speak the same language, they can communicate my parents better. So, yeah, I'm especially this, so this last year, 2025, when I went back to Hong Kong, that was my first time going back in 15 years. Wow. So that was how I got in touch, you know, and I stayed there for like two months and it just felt like I, I filled this void in my heart that I've been avoiding for a long time. And I think that speaks to the dating part of it too, you know, because I was trying to assimilate to be American.

• 40:56Speaker 03

  But then when I went back, I'm like, man, I've been missing this part of my life and this is who I was and still who I am and who I want to be. Yeah, there is a comfort there, no? Yeah. Yeah.

• 41:07Speaker 04

  I think there's something also really special about like the 1.5 generation, like you, Ronnie Chang, or even like Zhao Ying, or even Andrea Jin, right? Where it's like you come to America at a little bit of an old, a little bit later in your life. There is that feeling of like you understand both places so like intimately.

• 41:27Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 41:28Speaker 04

  And when you go home, you're like, oh, fuck, like I tried a little too hard to assimilate.

• 41:33Speaker 03

  Hundred percent.

• 41:34Speaker 04

  Right?

• 41:35Speaker 03

  And you feel that with every little thing, like in American dating is so different than Asia dating. I don't know even the difference, tell me. So when I came, first came to America, I was 13, right? I didn't know, I thought I would date to get married when I turned 16, 18, whatever, right? But then when I watched a like American pie, they were like, you gotta get laid on prom. You know, average age, you get laid first and then you go to college frat boy party, you know, and I was like, oh my God, I'm such a loser, I gotta, I gotta get behind this, you know? Yeah, yeah. So then I started like kind of that, you know, get, getting into that, I'm like, how do I, you know, like, Young Jimmy, it's like how to like hookup culture, like how do I navigate that? And then the dating even as a And I find it, it was, was it harder for a little Asian, like you're Hundred percent dude. It's so much harder.

• 42:20Speaker 03

  I didn't get any, any action. Me either, me either, me either. Until I started doing stand up. It's me too, me too. Yeah, exactly. That was, that was our saving That's the whole reason why I'm doing it. Yeah. Yeah, let's be honest. If I was tall and white, I would have never done stand up. I would have never done it. You know? I'd be like, welcome to Kinko's, you, you want, um, that'd be me. And especially that time when I was You want dry paper? I don't know what they sell there, but Like 20 years ago, like Asian wasn't cool yet, you know?

• 42:44Speaker 04

  Yeah, we were fobs. So you came here right around the same time I did.

• 42:48Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 42:48Speaker 04

  I was a fob. Even the Filipinos rejected me. They're like, your accent's a little bit too hard on the consonants.

• 42:53Speaker 03

  Yo, I remember Korean kids in my school in LA rejected me. They're like, hey, China boy, what's up? Oh, they called you that? Yeah, cuz I was like, I was like, okay, these are the only Asians in my school.

• 43:04Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 43:04Speaker 03

  Let me go hang out with them. And then they, I mean, they became my friends eventually, but they made fun of me cuz I was so foreign. They probably called you Jimmy O Chang. Yep.

• 43:14Speaker 04

  Wait, was like, was it different? How was it like in Hong Kong? Um, like in the Philippines, the courtship has levels and steps.

• 43:21Speaker 03

  So I'm, I'm just learning this, right? So like, you know, you can talk to someone in Asia, whether it's Hong Kong, like whatever, right? For weeks, for months, you go on dates and you don't do nothing, right? Like you don't, you don't make out, you don't even do nothing. Like it's not, you don't lead with cuz here in America, after like three dates or whatever, say you hook up, you have sex, you know, and then you, you have this three month period of deciding, are we exclusive now? Are we boyfriend, girlfriend? Everything, it's like backwards. See, okay, I'm glad, I'm glad you brought this up.

• 43:52Speaker 04

  That's why situationships happen so much more often here where it's

• 43:56Speaker 03

  And then people get hurt.

• 43:57Speaker 04

  And it's more clear, like, like cut and dry over there. It's like because you follow these steps and these rules, there's kind of less confusion about where are we at?

• 44:05Speaker 03

  But you know what's crazy? Because I'm so Americanized, I got confused. Like I'll hang out with a girl, we obviously are like liking each other, but then we haven't made out, haven't had that physical like assurance. And I'm like, how, how do I know she likes me? Oh, right, right. What if I'm friend zoned? What if I'm a loser?

• 44:21Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 44:21Speaker 03

  But then they're like, no. Like I was talking to a female friend of mine and then she was like, no, like, what do you mean? You, you don't need sex to, to, to know if someone likes you. Is she hitting you up all the time?

• 44:32Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 44:32Speaker 03

  Are you guys like having a good time going out? Yeah. And is she making moves to try to hang out with you again? You know what I mean? Cuz I dated a girl here, like

• 44:42Bobby Lee?

  Three or four dates, Chinese girl from China. And I went in for the fourth date, I went, kinda went in for a kiss and she was like weirded out by it. Yeah. You know what I mean? And in my mind, I was like, oh, she doesn't like me. You're done, yeah. But I think I fucked up then. Because in the culture, you're saying that like, you know what I mean? Courting, a lot of courting. Yeah.

• 45:01Speaker 04

  Yeah, courtship really is like a long, drawn out process.

• 45:04Bobby Lee?

  I kinda like that. It's, that's how it's supposed to be. That's how it's supposed to be.

• 45:08Speaker 04

  And it also just feels so much safer for me even, like even like a physical sense, like an emotional sense. Where it's like, alright, there's a real pursuing and he's pursuing because, you know, four or five months in and, you know, he likes me as a person, right? But also, I think there's also just like.

• 45:24Bobby Lee?

  Four or five months?

• 45:25Speaker 04

  But in the Philippines, it's different, okay? Our thing is like you also have to harana. Harana is like you actually have to do a public display of like a serenade or a public display of like.

• 45:35Bobby Lee?

  Before anything.

• 45:36Speaker 04

  You have to make an announcement.

• 45:37Bobby Lee?

  It's like a bird's, like a bird's paradise. Yeah.

• 45:40Speaker 04

  Yes, there has to be.

• 45:42Bobby Lee?

  Right, yeah. Please do that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 45:43Speaker 04

  But like back in the day, they used to like sing underneath like your window, so like if it's not.

• 45:51Bobby Lee?

  Why would Bobby Lee do it? Okay.

• 45:54Speaker 04

  Yeah, but like look it up, Gil, like the, the steps of courtship.

• 45:57Bobby Lee?

  But, but can I ask you that? Can I ask you guys this though? How do you know when your friend's on though?

• 46:06Bobby Lee?

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• 46:10Bobby Lee?

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• 46:54Bobby Lee?

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• 47:08Speaker 05

  Yeah.

• 47:08Bobby Lee?

  Beanies. And beanies.

• 47:10Speaker 05

  Any of these right here?

• 47:10Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, Lyft rides for sure, gift cards, I do that. Um, and you know, my select restaurants that I really enjoy.

• 47:17Speaker 05

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• 47:43Bobby Lee?

  Can I ask you that? Can I ask you guys this though? How do you know when your friend's on though?

• 47:48Speaker 05

  Well, she says friend.

• 47:48Speaker 04

  There's no confusion because

• 47:50Bobby Lee?

  Because if you're That's what I'm trying to

• 47:55Speaker 04

  Can I tell you the first step in courtship in the Philippines is asking if I can court you. It's not immediate courtship. So if I say, Bobby, I'm really interested, can I court you? And then you say, yes, then it's like there's a mutual interest here and then we can proceed.

• 48:11Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 48:11Speaker 04

  Because if you're like, nope, I don't want you to court me, you're done. Already friend zone, there's not even gonna be

• 48:16Bobby Lee?

  But in America, right? Women use guys for meals, right, and different things, right? So if they said, I'm gonna, can we court, right? You know, okay, we have an understanding. Six months later, right? You spent, you're eighty thousand dollars deep, right? First of all,

• 48:33Speaker 05

  Eighty thousand?

• 48:34Bobby Lee?

  Eighty thousand in six months? Yeah, yeah. What a flex. Yeah, yeah, yeah. She's basically a Gucci store. Yeah. Okay? And then she's basically like, yeah, I just wanna be friends.

• 48:43Speaker 04

  But I feel like

• 48:45Bobby Lee?

  That's, that's all I'm You just got played, like Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. How do you know if you're getting played? Friend zone is different.

• 48:51Speaker 05

  Cause you're spending eighty thousand dollars.

• 48:52Bobby Lee?

  Oh, is that what it is?

• 48:53Speaker 04

  But also, like, that's on you. You love to spend eighty thousand dollars and blow your money and show her

• 48:59Bobby Lee?

  No, I don't, no, I don't.

• 49:00Speaker 04

  Yes, you do.

• 49:01Bobby Lee?

  No, I don't. That's the thing.

• 49:02Speaker 04

  You love

• 49:03Bobby Lee?

  Not when you fucking spend eighty thousand dollars. You just said eighty thousand. It was as, as, it was hypothetical. Oh sure.

• 49:09Speaker 03

  Hyperbole.

• 49:09Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, hyperbole. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Sixty thousand. Yes, whatever.

• 49:12Speaker 04

  But you know Papa likes to flex that he's got money.

• 49:15Bobby Lee?

  But babe, how do you know though that it's, it really is a courtship? Even though she said, are we cour-, you know what I mean? How do we know?

• 49:22Speaker 03

  Maybe there's an honesty and, and.

• 49:24Speaker 04

  Yeah, I.

• 49:24Bobby Lee?

  It's a risk though.

• 49:25Speaker 04

  Of course, there's gonna be a risk. If you say you court me, you wanna court me and I say, yeah, because I'm like, oh, he's attractive. And then there's, that's why it's a five step program. The next is you have to announce interest and you're not even official yet. The third step is.

• 49:40Speaker 03

  What is announcing interest? Like, I like, can I court you?

• 49:43Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 49:43Speaker 03

  And then a couple of days in, you're like, I, I like you.

• 49:46Bobby Lee?

  Hairy, hairy, hairy.

• 49:47Speaker 04

  It's gonna probably be a couple like weeks.

• 49:48Bobby Lee?

  And you make it an outward like, hairy, hairy, hairy.

• 49:50Speaker 04

  Yes, yes, yes.

• 49:51Bobby Lee?

  Everyone gather.

• 49:52Speaker 04

  So after you make legal, which is the actual courting somebody, right?

• 49:56Speaker 03

  What is courting, by the way? Like, is it going out on dates, having dinner?

• 49:59Speaker 04

  Going out on dates. Um, gestures of like sweetness and like flowers and like.

• 50:05Bobby Lee?

  Chocolate.

• 50:05Speaker 03

  But you don't touch her.

• 50:06Bobby Lee?

  How many, yeah, no touch.

• 50:08Speaker 04

  You don't touch her.

• 50:09Bobby Lee?

  Okay.

• 50:09Speaker 04

  I mean, you, you.

• 50:10Bobby Lee?

  How about public, you know what I mean, affection? Like, you know, like holding their hand.

• 50:13Speaker 04

  Holding hands, I think is okay, yeah.

• 50:15Bobby Lee?

  Okay.

• 50:15Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 50:16Bobby Lee?

  Okay, okay. So when, when do we, Jim, when, when does Jimmy and I know when the courtship part is over?

• 50:23Speaker 04

  If we're.

• 50:23Bobby Lee?

  Give me the signs.

• 50:24Speaker 04

  Okay, so there is always going to be a point where you have the conversation. Like, over here in America, everyone avoids the conversation, are we, aren't we, right? Where are we? Everyone's like, I'm not ready, whatever, whatever.

• 50:35Speaker 03

  You have sex first and then you decide six months later, like.

• 50:38Speaker 04

  Yeah, so once you, once you create, once you say, yes, you can court me, you are committing to that conversation down the line of we have to come back together and, and figure out if we're gonna be, you're gonna be my Joa or not, my boyfriend or not.

• 50:51Speaker 03

  But are, are, are you expected to only court one person? And is the girl only being court about one person?

• 50:56Speaker 04

  Yes.

• 50:56Speaker 03

  Oh, okay.

• 50:57Speaker 04

  You have to be very respectful in your courtship.

• 50:59Bobby Lee?

  Whoa, so, whoa, what you're saying to me.

• 51:01Speaker 04

  Further down the line, you also have to let her parents know that you're courting her.

• 51:04Speaker 03

  Whoa.

• 51:05Bobby Lee?

  Whoa, dude.

• 51:06Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 51:06Speaker 03

  So it's all backwards, because you don't meet the parents until like a year, two years in here.

• 51:10Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 51:10Bobby Lee?

  Okay, well, um, can I ask you some other questions, if I may?

• 51:14Speaker 04

  Mm-hmm.

• 51:14Bobby Lee?

  Okay. So, um, let's say the court is, so when the courtship is over, is it marriage and then?

• 51:20Speaker 04

  No, marriage is like, you know, you can, that's a negotiation you can make.

• 51:24Speaker 03

  You're just boyfriend, girlfriend.

• 51:25Bobby Lee?

  Your boyfriend and girlfriend, right.

• 51:27Speaker 04

  But to get there is like, I think it just eliminates confusion, you guys. I think America has it all wrong. That's why everyone's stuck in fucked up situations.

• 51:35Speaker 03

  I totally agree.

• 51:36Bobby Lee?

  I think it takes the mystery away too.

• 51:38Speaker 04

  Everyone's confused here. Everything happens at like lightning speed and then everyone wants the dopamine hit.

• 51:44Speaker 03

  Yeah, you don't even know if you like hanging out with that person without like outside of say hooking up.

• 51:48Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 51:49Speaker 03

  Here in America.

• 51:50Bobby Lee?

  I think you, I think you're on to something here.

• 51:52Speaker 03

  So when your boyfriend, after I don't know how many months of courtship, we go through five steps. Then the end of five steps is boyfriend, girlfriend.

• 51:58Speaker 04

  Yeah, you're joa, like we are together.

• 52:00Speaker 03

  And then you can have sex.

• 52:02Speaker 04

  You can do whatever you want. If you, you know, you can even have sex probably.

• 52:07Bobby Lee?

  What'd you say? What'd you say?

• 52:10Speaker 03

  Go ahead.

• 52:11Bobby Lee?

  Go ahead, what'd you say?

• 52:12Speaker 02

  And she said anal?

• 52:14Speaker 03

  Bro, what the?

• 52:16Bobby Lee?

  You go from courtship straight to anal?

• 52:19Speaker 03

  He doesn't want to kiss?

• 52:20Speaker 04

  Yo, keep him on your payroll. He's hilarious, man. Amen.

• 52:25Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, amen. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you will go straight to anal without kissing and stuff like that?

• 52:30Speaker 03

  Not even, not even.

• 52:31Bobby Lee?

  Wow, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 52:33Speaker 03

  That's where your mind was at.

• 52:34Bobby Lee?

  That's where your mind was at.

• 52:35Speaker 02

  Well, she said anything and he had sex, so like.

• 52:37Bobby Lee?

  Oh, yeah, okay, I understand, I understand.

• 52:40Speaker 04

  But not everyone follows these rules back home. I'm just saying this is usually, yeah, there is hookup culture, but I think it's more confusing over here for sure.

• 52:48Speaker 03

  That's also another question. It's like, still, we live in a modern, you know, Philippines who live in a modern Hong Kong, Japan. There are people to hook up. There are people that are into old school courtship. How do you know who's who?

• 52:59Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, how do you know?

• 53:01Speaker 03

  But then I guess you can, you can kind of vibe it out, you know?

• 53:03Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. I think that you're on to something because it's like, um, I'm stuck in a lot of relationships where you meet somebody, three days later, you're having sex. It's a lot, a lot of sex, right? And then six months down the road, you're like.

• 53:16Speaker 03

  We're all like, how much, bro? How much sex you got? How much sex? How much you fucking? Like, you know, three times a day? Like, what are we talking about? How much, hey, how much you curling?

• 53:24Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm curling, um,

• 53:27Bobby Lee?

  I'm curling maybe three or four times a week.

• 53:29Speaker 03

  Wow.

• 53:30Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 53:30Speaker 03

  Okay, that's, yeah.

• 53:31Bobby Lee?

  Three or four times a week. And then it's like, six months later, you're eating eighty grand in debt.

• 53:38Bobby Lee?

  Somebody else. God, eighty grand, that's a lot, you're right. And then you realize you don't even like this person, so I think reverse engineering it, right? Maybe the right, you're right?

• 53:47Speaker 03

  But I like the announcing intention early.

• 53:50Speaker 04

  Yeah, I think.

• 53:51Speaker 03

  I don't think necessarily, I don't know, I don't know Hong Kong culture, like the modern culture as well, but I, I'm not sure if you do that super early, I don't know.

• 53:58Bobby Lee?

  So when you were in Hong Kong for two months, shooting your special, this and that, were you courting anybody there?

• 54:03Speaker 03

  I, I went out, like I just checked it out.

• 54:06Bobby Lee?

  You checked it out.

• 54:07Speaker 03

  But also, it's like, Hong Kong is such a small city-state, you know, it's seven million people, it's like Manhattan, New York. Whatever I do could end up in the newspaper. If I walk around, it could be, you know, pictured, so I couldn't like go to a club, neither did I want to.

• 54:20Bobby Lee?

  Oh, right, right, right. There's no strip clubs out there, right?

• 54:22Speaker 03

  No.

• 54:23Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, there's no way.

• 54:24Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. That'd be crazy. Yeah.

• 54:28Bobby Lee?

  So you, you, you checked out.

• 54:31Speaker 03

  I checked it, I just wanna get a vibe, and sometimes I, I would talk to a girl from Japan, from Hong Kong, just to ask. Like, not even like trying to hit on her, like, I'm very much like, I don't know, maybe I'm just old and like chill now.

• 54:43Bobby Lee?

  You're inquisitive.

• 54:44Speaker 03

  Yeah, I would, I would go ask a stripper what's going on, and not trying to hit on her.

• 54:48Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 54:49Speaker 03

  You know, or I'll go ask a nice girl what's going on, not try to hit on her, and then we'll see what happens. I don't, I just don't wanna like mess around, waste time anymore, you know?

• 54:57Bobby Lee?

  I think you both are on to something, that dopamine hits is what, you know, I think that's the problem. I'm looking for a feeling of quick fix.

• 55:04Speaker 03

  For sure.

• 55:05Bobby Lee?

  And a relationship isn't a quick fix.

• 55:06Speaker 04

  Yeah, Papa the muffin only, that's what you eat and chase.

• 55:10Bobby Lee?

  Papa the what?

• 55:11Speaker 04

  Papa the muffin.

• 55:12Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 55:13Speaker 04

  With a.

• 55:13Bobby Lee?

  The crispy part on the top? I love the crispy part, though. You know, it's burnt too.

• 55:17Speaker 04

  Sometimes.

• 55:18Bobby Lee?

  A little bit, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, wow. How long would you wait until the sexual, would you wait three years?

• 55:25Speaker 03

  Well, three years seems like a lot.

• 55:28Speaker 03

  I'm a little older.

• 55:29Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 55:30Speaker 03

  But it's like, um, I don't mind waiting anymore.

• 55:34Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 55:34Speaker 03

  I don't really care.

• 55:35Bobby Lee?

  But what's the time, though? I mean, you can't do three, you know what I mean?

• 55:38Speaker 03

  Look, I think if there's progress, it's fine, you know?

• 55:40Bobby Lee?

  Oh, like four months in and we kissed?

• 55:42Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 55:43Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, there's signs.

• 55:44Speaker 03

  There's signs, there's progress, I'm going the right way. I'm not just spending eighty grand.

• 55:47Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 55:47Speaker 03

  I'm not just like bleeding out.

• 55:50Speaker 02

  There's a difference here.

• 55:51Speaker 04

  You gotta slow play it. Apparently, all the younger kids are about sides now. Have you heard this?

• 55:55Speaker 02

  Side piece?

• 55:56Speaker 04

  Nope, not even that.

• 55:58Speaker 02

  Anal, anal, right? Just lots of anal?

• 56:00Speaker 04

  Side, so like basically taking it back to junior high and just doing side stuff, not intercourse, more like kissing, foreplay, dry humping, things except for intercourse. It's kind of like to build the moment, you know, to build the thrill, yeah.

• 56:15Speaker 03

  Yeah. I like the anticipation part of a lot of this, you know?

• 56:18Bobby Lee?

  I love the anticipation.

• 56:20Speaker 03

  Like, I get nervous, I, you know, like, I'm like, does she like me? She's not going on, I really like her, but I think there's a vibe. I, I like that, it's nerve-wracking.

• 56:28Bobby Lee?

  But isn't that still dopamine?

• 56:30Speaker 04

  The sides?

• 56:31Bobby Lee?

  No, the, the mystery part.

• 56:33Speaker 04

  Of course.

• 56:34Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, that, yeah, that's all still dopamine.

• 56:36Speaker 04

  But that love, that deep, the deep knowing of someone, like, that's irreplaceable for me.

• 56:41Bobby Lee?

  But here's some, a little story I'd like to tell you.

• 56:44Speaker 04

  Okay.

• 56:44Bobby Lee?

  Everyone in the room. And it was something really, a story, it's something I witnessed. So, a long time ago, when I started doing comedy, I hung out with this girl, and she's very funny. I don't want to say her name. And, uh, very attractive, we never did anything, we were just friends. And, um, then she met somebody, many, many years ago, and she got out of the comedy business. And she had children with this guy.

• 57:08Speaker 03

  Nice.

• 57:09Bobby Lee?

  And she was very much in love, and I just ran into her, I hadn't seen her in many, many years. And I go, "What's up?" And she, and you can tell something was up, she's like, "I'm just stuck." I go, "What are you stuck in?" And she's like... I just, I'm so unhappy in my marriage, but I can't leave, you know.

• 57:25Speaker 04

  Because of the kids?

• 57:26Bobby Lee?

  Kids and the house, you know what I mean? So, and my kids are, there's another 10 years before they leave the house. You know what I mean? So, in my mind, I'm like, that just sounded like torture, you know? I don't want to be trapped in that situation. You know what I mean? And, you know, and I know that people change in relationships and, um, I guess that's my biggest fear, man, is to be in a situation where I can't get out.

• 57:51Speaker 03

  Yeah, well, I think that's everyone. I don't think that's, you know, exclusive to Asia dating or American dating.

• 57:57Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 57:57Speaker 03

  Like, you know, after a while, like, your marriage could just not work.

• 58:00Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And there's no way to know and prep that.

• 58:03Speaker 04

  No.

• 58:04Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 58:05Speaker 04

  There's really no way.

• 58:05Bobby Lee?

  There is no way.

• 58:06Speaker 03

  But there's also, I've also heard opposite examples where someone has been on the road so long, next thing you know, they 45, they never really seriously dated, they want kids, but it's a little too late, and they're super depressed because they missed that timeframe. They wish they never told that.

• 58:20Bobby Lee?

  Me!

• 58:21Speaker 03

  I've heard, no worries.

• 58:21Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 58:22Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 58:22Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. Wow. So I'm in pain now, anyway.

• 58:27Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 58:28Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 58:28Speaker 04

  Yeah, I don't know what you're waiting for. I think you're so ready for something great.

• 58:33Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 58:33Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 58:34Bobby Lee?

  That's true.

• 58:35Speaker 04

  Mm-hmm.

• 58:35Speaker 05

  I have a show idea. Jimmy and Bobby go to Asia to court.

• 58:38Speaker 03

  Courtship.

• 58:39Speaker 04

  Courtship.

• 58:40Bobby Lee?

  Courtship.

• 58:40Speaker 05

  Unscripted.

• 58:42Speaker 03

  Yeah, unscripted, like a dating show.

• 58:43Bobby Lee?

  He's gonna pull so much more than me.

• 58:45Speaker 05

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• 1:00:53Speaker 03

  Yeah, when it's courtship, it doesn't matter. You're gonna get the one before my one. No, no, that's not it.

• 1:00:58Speaker 02

  Absolutely.

• 1:00:59Speaker 04

  Can I coach you in Asian courtship?

• 1:01:01Speaker 03

  It's like the opposite of popping a balloon. That's like so quick, so like whatever. This is just courting. Yeah, yeah. Coach us now. All right, all right. So we've been in Hong, does it have to be Hong Kong? No, no, let's just say. Yeah.

• 1:01:13Speaker 02

  Glendale.

• 1:01:14Speaker 03

  What?

• 1:01:14Speaker 02

  Yeah, Glendale.

• 1:01:17Speaker 03

  We're in Monterey Park. Yeah, Monterey Park. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's say, let's say in Japan. Just because it's mutually.

• 1:01:25Speaker 04

  Okay, so first off, I have two rules for the both of you. Number one, delete all your dating apps.

• 1:01:30Speaker 03

  I just did.

• 1:01:31Speaker 04

  Oh.

• 1:01:31Speaker 03

  I just think.

• 1:01:32Bobby Lee?

  There you go.

• 1:01:33Speaker 03

  Cause I'm like, I'm gonna take this seriously. Like, it gives you dopamine here to like, talk, but it never works out.

• 1:01:38Bobby Lee?

  It never works out.

• 1:01:39Speaker 03

  It's about hooking up and you know other people on fifty talking, fifty messages anyways. I deleted it.

• 1:01:45Speaker 04

  And once you match, that's the hit, right? You don't care anymore after that. Once you get the match, you're like, okay, cool, I got the dopamine hit.

• 1:01:51Speaker 03

  Mm-hmm.

• 1:01:51Speaker 04

  Don't care to have the conversation. Okay, so delete.

• 1:01:54Bobby Lee?

  Okay, delete the maps.

• 1:01:55Speaker 04

  Okay.

• 1:01:56Bobby Lee?

  I'm not gonna do it now because it's hypothetical.

• 1:01:58Speaker 04

  Second, um, you're gonna both meet people in the wild, right?

• 1:02:03Bobby Lee?

  Oh my god. In Japan, I don't know Japanese.

• 1:02:06Speaker 04

  Doesn't matter.

• 1:02:07Bobby Lee?

  There's expats, dude. What?

• 1:02:08Speaker 04

  Um, number, number three rule, you are not allowed to tell anyone your profession and what you do for the first month.

• 1:02:14Speaker 03

  Whoa, wait a minute.

• 1:02:15Bobby Lee?

  Whoa, well, I have no skills then.

• 1:02:18Speaker 03

  That's the only way I get laid, what are you talking about?

• 1:02:20Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, that's my thing.

• 1:02:21Speaker 03

  No, but what if say, what if, what if they know who, who, who we are?

• 1:02:25Bobby Lee?

  Already.

• 1:02:26Speaker 04

  Okay, that's fine.

• 1:02:27Bobby Lee?

  They're not gonna talk to me unless they know who I am.

• 1:02:29Speaker 03

  Like, I'm not saying I met her at a show, right? Like, that's unfair.

• 1:02:32Speaker 04

  If we're just going for, for the sake of actually just coaching you to be good quarters, I would have you approach women who don't know who you are.

• 1:02:42Speaker 03

  In Japan, actually, most would be possible.

• 1:02:44Speaker 04

  So that you can really practice skill of like, you know, because I feel like that is really important for you, for either of you to feel like this person really likes me.

• 1:02:52Speaker 03

  Yes, yes, yes, yes.

• 1:02:53Speaker 04

  It's never gonna be about like, how shiny you are as Jimmy.

• 1:02:56Bobby Lee?

  Forget it.

• 1:02:57Speaker 03

  And then, okay, and then do we, do we ask them out on dinner? And then, or do we announce like, hey, I'm feeling you right now, can I court you?

• 1:03:06Speaker 04

  Well, it depends.

• 1:03:08Speaker 03

  I'm feeling you right now, can I court?

• 1:03:09Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:03:11Speaker 04

  The next thing is, you're gonna, you're gonna give, actually, you know what? I never know what the correct answer is if you give your number, if you ask for her number. I think you ask for her number.

• 1:03:21Bobby Lee?

  I see you ask. Can I give her a business card?

• 1:03:24Speaker 04

  No, no business card.

• 1:03:25Bobby Lee?

  Why? A black and white headshot. It won't say comedian. Aye, Bobby Lee.

• 1:03:30Speaker 04

  Comedian Bobby Lee.

• 1:03:31Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:03:32Speaker 04

  Yeah, but those are my three rules.

• 1:03:33Bobby Lee?

  Okay.

• 1:03:34Speaker 04

  That's, that's, those, we'll start there. And then we'll, we'll graduate on to, once you get past actually being able to ask a girl and like, garner her interest without all of that, then, you know, we'll, we'll move forward from there.

• 1:03:46Speaker 03

  And we cannot have sex anyway.

• 1:03:48Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:03:48Speaker 04

  No.

• 1:03:49Bobby Lee?

  Okay.

• 1:03:49Speaker 04

  No.

• 1:03:50Bobby Lee?

  And how long?

• 1:03:51Speaker 04

  A month, you can't tell him for a month.

• 1:03:53Bobby Lee?

  One month, one, one, one.

• 1:03:54Speaker 04

  Yeah. And you just court her, you take her out on dates.

• 1:03:56Speaker 03

  What if, what if Bobby got a side piece he's having sex with, just to keep his mind off it?

• 1:04:00Speaker 04

  Oh yeah, that's another thing, one at a time, no side pieces.

• 1:04:02Speaker 03

  Yeah, I see, there you go.

• 1:04:03Speaker 04

  So full-fledged.

• 1:04:04Speaker 03

  I know you was gonna ask about that.

• 1:04:05Bobby Lee?

  Bobby's still gonna do it, a lie.

• 1:04:06Speaker 03

  I'm not, I'm not, I'm not doing it.

• 1:04:08Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah. I mean, no side piece, I'm gonna tell you, I'm, I'll be honest with you.

• 1:04:12Speaker 04

  Okay.

• 1:04:12Bobby Lee?

  I think that if me and Jimmy were in Japan, he would be courting first. I, I, I do believe that.

• 1:04:18Speaker 04

  They end up kissing.

• 1:04:19Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I think, um, four weeks later, I, I'd just be looking at you like, ah, no courting yet, you know what I mean? And then the show, thing's over.

• 1:04:27Speaker 03

  The show's over?

• 1:04:27Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, the show's over.

• 1:04:28Speaker 04

  I don't believe that, I don't believe that at all.

• 1:04:30Bobby Lee?

  It's gonna take me six months to court.

• 1:04:31Speaker 03

  No, but I think, like, that's a great thing about courship, it's like, people are dating you for you, it's not just like, like you're skilled.

• 1:04:37Bobby Lee?

  Oh my god.

• 1:04:39Speaker 03

  And they're like, getting laid or whatever, you know what I mean?

• 1:04:40Bobby Lee?

  But my assets, right, is that I'm, you know?

• 1:04:43Speaker 04

  That you're funny.

• 1:04:44Bobby Lee?

  I'm funny, yeah.

• 1:04:45Speaker 03

  That's not, that's not gonna do with being a stand-up comic, you're just funny.

• 1:04:48Speaker 04

  Yeah, that has nothing to do with your profession, you just are funny, Bobby.

• 1:04:50Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:04:50Bobby Lee?

  And I have an IMDB.

• 1:04:53Speaker 03

  You've shown that?

• 1:04:54Bobby Lee?

  Oh yeah.

• 1:04:55Speaker 03

  On dates?

• 1:04:56Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:04:58Bobby Lee?

  What I've done.

• 1:04:58Speaker 03

  Rule number four, no showing your IMDB.

• 1:05:00Bobby Lee?

  I've done animation too, you know?

• 1:05:02Speaker 03

  Well, but I, I think once you, if you do the courship stuff, it kinda like, I think you're much more than that, Bobby. You know, you're not just, you know, funny and, and rich or IMDB or whatever. But I think once you do the courship, you really get to know each other, you're like, man, I'm actually a good dude, I'm actually different than that guy because of this. It's not about getting laid, those are your assets for like, you know, trying to, trying to sleep with some woman in Miami or something.

• 1:05:27Speaker 04

  I think it's also gonna eliminate this idea in your head that your only value is your profession.

• 1:05:31Speaker 03

  That's right, and the only value is money, fame, or like, you know, whatever.

• 1:05:35Speaker 04

  Cause that's, that's all shallow and it's not sustainable.

• 1:05:37Bobby Lee?

  Okay.

• 1:05:37Speaker 04

  It's not.

• 1:05:39Bobby Lee?

  Oh, here's another thing, I think, maybe we have to lower our standards too.

• 1:05:42Speaker 04

  No, I don't think so.

• 1:05:43Speaker 03

  No, have high, have high standards, what are you talking about?

• 1:05:45Bobby Lee?

  Higher standards.

• 1:05:45Speaker 04

  High standards for character, and you are who, you're attracted to who you're attracted to, you cannot, you know, but, I would say, like, dig deep and really go for people with, like, character.

• 1:05:55Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:05:56Bobby Lee?

  Ah, character.

• 1:05:59Speaker 04

  Which I think you do a good job with, I think that you, you do date hot girls, but you also, you date everyone.

• 1:06:03Speaker 03

  Well, then hot girls don't seem that important anymore if you really gotta spend four months with this person, you know what I mean? Like, you gotta look at her character too.

• 1:06:11Bobby Lee?

  Oh, I see.

• 1:06:11Speaker 03

  You know?

• 1:06:12Bobby Lee?

  Yes, sometimes their char, and all the time the character is sexy.

• 1:06:18Bobby Lee?

  I like that one. You like that? Yeah. Sometimes, all the time. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You're right. What are some traits that I find sexy? What are some traits that you find sexy? Non-physical, you mean? Yeah, non-physical.

• 1:06:32Speaker 03

  Non-physical, I think if someone shares some of the same interests, you know, like, just chill stuff, like gardening, cooking, or sense of humor.

• 1:06:41Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:06:42Speaker 03

  Not just saying like they have to be super funny, but you understand humor.

• 1:06:45Speaker 04

  You can laugh at things together.

• 1:06:46Speaker 03

  Yeah, and, and, you know, this sounds super basic, but like kindness, honesty, and like stuff like that.

• 1:06:51Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:06:52Speaker 03

  You know, like, are you gonna argue with me about everything?

• 1:06:55Speaker 04

  Oh, I hate contrarians.

• 1:06:57Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:06:57Speaker 04

  So exhausting.

• 1:06:58Speaker 03

  Or even, it's like, okay, if you don't agree, there's a way to talk about it, you know, can we just, you know?

• 1:07:03Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:07:04Speaker 03

  Stuff like that.

• 1:07:05Bobby Lee?

  Okay, so that.

• 1:07:06Speaker 03

  And family values.

• 1:07:07Bobby Lee?

  Family values is important.

• 1:07:08Speaker 03

  Family.

• 1:07:08Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:07:09Speaker 03

  You know?

• 1:07:09Bobby Lee?

  My thing is, I like when they have, like, they're obsessed with a weird thing.

• 1:07:13Speaker 03

  That's really cute.

• 1:07:14Bobby Lee?

  Like, I like 17th century yo-yos.

• 1:07:17Bobby Lee?

  And you're like, what? You go to their house, and they have every style, and from every... They're passionate.

• 1:07:22Speaker 03

  That's awesome.

• 1:07:22Bobby Lee?

  This one's from the Gilded Age.

• 1:07:24Speaker 04

  Someone that they, like, something that they geek out about.

• 1:07:26Bobby Lee?

  They geek out about it, I really like that.

• 1:07:27Speaker 04

  That's super cute.

• 1:07:28Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, that's really cute.

• 1:07:29Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, something they're passionate about.

• 1:07:31Bobby Lee?

  Something passionate.

• 1:07:31Speaker 03

  And smart, you gotta be able to carry a conversation, something, it doesn't have, not high IQ, but like, conversationally.

• 1:07:37Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I like weird rituals too.

• 1:07:39Speaker 03

  Oh.

• 1:07:39Bobby Lee?

  No, what does that mean?

• 1:07:40Speaker 04

  Like, that ritual sounds scary.

• 1:07:42Bobby Lee?

  Like witchcraft. What? No, like, a daily ritual, like a weird thing. OCD. Yeah, yeah. You know, like, I have to stick my toes in the swimming pool for five minutes, right, you know, every morning.

• 1:07:51Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 1:07:51Bobby Lee?

  Something cute like that.

• 1:07:52Speaker 03

  I'm looking for quirky, quirky.

• 1:07:53Bobby Lee?

  Quirky, yeah, yeah, yeah. I love rituals. On the spectrum.

• 1:07:57Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:07:58Speaker 04

  Humiliation rituals?

• 1:08:00Bobby Lee?

  Like a pentagram.

• 1:08:04Bobby Lee?

  It's so cute. Yeah, it's so cute, no. Or like, you know, I saw a TikTok where a girl wakes up every morning, and she, she, she, um, puts her butthole to the sun, and she needs that.

• 1:08:13Speaker 04

  Oh yeah, be-hole sunning?

• 1:08:14Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:08:14Speaker 03

  That's probably good for you.

• 1:08:15Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's good for you. Yeah.

• 1:08:16Speaker 03

  Where's some of my sunscreen, though?

• 1:08:19Bobby Lee?

  What?

• 1:08:20Speaker 03

  Put some sunscreen on.

• 1:08:20Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, you have to put some on the calamari. Yeah, yeah. So what else do I look for? Um, shared interest is good too. Like, here's what I can't do. When they have no passion. That I don't like.

• 1:08:32Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:08:33Bobby Lee?

  And they, here's another thing. Is, everything is typi- atypical. Like, I like Taylor Swift. You know what I mean?

• 1:08:41Speaker 03

  Ah, they got no personality.

• 1:08:43Bobby Lee?

  No personality, I mean. Yeah, at pumpkin spice.

• 1:08:46Speaker 03

  Yeah, and they don't know what they want. Sometimes that's really hard.

• 1:08:49Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:08:49Speaker 03

  I'm not there to try to figure it out with you.

• 1:08:51Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, and if all they want is a baby, that's also a red flag for me.

• 1:08:54Speaker 03

  Ooh.

• 1:08:55Bobby Lee?

  All I want is, all I want is babies.

• 1:08:57Speaker 04

  I get that now that I have one. I totally get it.

• 1:09:00Bobby Lee?

  You do?

• 1:09:00Speaker 04

  Yes, because I used to be like, why would anyone just want a baby? And then you have a baby and you're like, why would anyone not want a baby?

• 1:09:06Speaker 03

  Right, right, right.

• 1:09:07Bobby Lee?

  Oh.

• 1:09:08Speaker 04

  Right, George?

• 1:09:09Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. Are you being real?

• 1:09:11Speaker 04

  I'm being so real.

• 1:09:12Bobby Lee?

  It's a trick.

• 1:09:13Speaker 04

  No.

• 1:09:14Bobby Lee?

  It's a trick?

• 1:09:15Speaker 04

  Listen, all respect to people who never want to have children. I totally get it. But once you have your own baby, you're like, I can't believe I was that person who never even cared for babies before. Like, I'm obsessed.

• 1:09:27Bobby Lee?

  You are.

• 1:09:28Speaker 04

  Like, true obsession.

• 1:09:30Speaker 03

  I get it.

• 1:09:30Bobby Lee?

  Well, you got a good one, that's why.

• 1:09:32Speaker 04

  No, it doesn't matter.

• 1:09:34Bobby Lee?

  Sometimes you don't get a good one.

• 1:09:35Speaker 03

  It's a sense of purpose and it's the most.

• 1:09:36Bobby Lee?

  You know, no, you know.

• 1:09:37Speaker 03

  God-given purpose you could have.

• 1:09:39Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 1:09:39Speaker 03

  More than money, more than anything.

• 1:09:40Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, you have to pad the walls because yours is a little, you know what I mean, nuts. Right?

• 1:09:45Speaker 04

  Even I would, like.

• 1:09:46Bobby Lee?

  You gotta lock the knives in the house.

• 1:09:48Speaker 04

  Even those babies are cute.

• 1:09:49Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:09:50Speaker 04

  Oh, gosh.

• 1:09:51Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I, I, I want a good one.

• 1:09:53Speaker 03

  I would say at my age, my life would make a lot more sense if I had a baby. All my friends got married, got babies, they hang out in parks.

• 1:10:00Bobby Lee?

  Oh, yeah.

• 1:10:00Speaker 03

  You know, like, I got nobody to just, like, hang out. Like, I'm still trying to, like, should I still try to go to that, this bar? You know, like, I got, I got nobody that, oh, I heard this bar's cool, but I ain't got nobody to, like, hang out with.

• 1:10:12Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:10:12Speaker 03

  I'm not gonna hit, hit up, like, you know. A twenty-two-year-old dude I just met at the improv. Hey, man, you wanna go to the bar?

• 1:10:20Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah. I mean, the other night even this happened, I was at the Comedy Store. I was in the main room, I had already gone up. And I was walking out, you know the main room where you're like, I'm walking out, you know the back row? And there was like a group of girls there from out of town. And they're like, "Sit with us," right? So I sat down, they had an empty seat, I sat there, and they're, "You're so funny," you know what I mean, all that stuff. And they're, "Hey, you wanna hang out afterwards, after the show's over?" I'm like, "Yeah, I'll meet you over here," you know what I mean, when the show's over, right? When they met me over there, I was at home playing video games.

• 1:10:51Speaker 03

  That's right, that's a sense of peace, man, don't let them disturb your peace.

• 1:10:54Bobby Lee?

  I know, but what I'm saying is, I'm on, like, back in my thirties,

• 1:10:57Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:10:57Bobby Lee?

  I would've stayed. And I would've, you know what I mean, taken the risk, you know what I mean? But now it's like, I can't even do that anymore. Yeah. You know?

• 1:11:06Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:11:06Bobby Lee?

  It's, it's like...

• 1:11:07Speaker 03

  Tired, like tired?

• 1:11:10Bobby Lee?

  What?

• 1:11:10Speaker 03

  Are you tired, like tired of it?

• 1:11:12Bobby Lee?

  I think it's like, i-if it's guaranteed smash, I would've stayed.

• 1:11:17Speaker 03

  Right.

• 1:11:17Bobby Lee?

  I'm not willing to like, stick around.

• 1:11:19Speaker 03

  But also smashing doesn't mean that much to you anymore.

• 1:11:21Speaker 04

  Yeah, Coach doesn't like to hear this.

• 1:11:23Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, what's this?

• 1:11:24Speaker 03

  Oh, wow.

• 1:11:25Bobby Lee?

  Here we go. Coach.

• 1:11:29Bobby Lee?

  You guys look like a gay couple.

• 1:11:32Bobby Lee?

  The Asian Burton Ernie.

• 1:11:34Speaker 03

  This show would be a hit in Japan, like with the visuals, like it's kinda like, cute.

• 1:11:37Speaker 04

  Honestly, can we just try? Because I feel like this actually might be a go for the both of you.

• 1:11:43Bobby Lee?

  Let's get Howie Mandel on this. Yeah, yeah, Howie, maybe Howie. Howie Mandel. Yeah.

• 1:11:46Speaker 03

  Yeah, that's, that's really cute.

• 1:11:48Bobby Lee?

  You like Howie Mandel?

• 1:11:50Speaker 03

  Yeah, I met him a couple times, he seemed nice.

• 1:11:51Bobby Lee?

  Very nice.

• 1:11:51Speaker 04

  But do you, Jimmy, have you ever watched Terrace House?

• 1:11:54Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 1:11:55Speaker 04

  Okay, so.

• 1:11:55Speaker 03

  Yes, I love Terrace House.

• 1:11:56Speaker 04

  Me too, obsessed, right? But you know how everything is like, non-dramatic, it's just chill, but we're like locked in?

• 1:12:02Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 1:12:03Speaker 04

  I need this show to have that same kind of like...

• 1:12:05Bobby Lee?

  All right, both of you pitch to me Terrace House, because I've, I, I remember we used to watch it.

• 1:12:09Speaker 04

  All day long.

• 1:12:09Bobby Lee?

  I didn't understand why people watch it.

• 1:12:11Speaker 04

  Okay, so.

• 1:12:11Bobby Lee?

  The pitch to me why Terrace House is good.

• 1:12:13Speaker 03

  You go.

• 1:12:14Speaker 04

  I'll go first.

• 1:12:14Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:12:15Speaker 04

  I'll say...

• 1:12:16Speaker 03

  I'll chime in, I'll chime in.

• 1:12:16Speaker 04

  Okay, so, the, the concept of Terrace House is very much like the real world, except that the, things... They're not, it's not overproduced. Things, they're six kids, are they six?

• 1:12:29Speaker 03

  I, I forget how many.

• 1:12:30Speaker 04

  Six just live in a house and then they go about their-

• 1:12:33Speaker 03

  They're very pretty Japanese people.

• 1:12:34Speaker 04

  They go about their regular lives, they go about their regular jobs. And then the camera just captures their little interactions with each other. Sometimes they date each other. But it's a very quiet, non-dramatic show. But you become so heavily invested because you learn about who they are. Their dreams, their passions, why they're in that house. What they have to achieve before they leave the house. And nothing happens. It isn't like Bad Girls Club where people are beating the shit out of each other.

• 1:13:01Speaker 03

  Jumping in the hot tubs, fighting, fucking. There's no fucking in this show. They work jobs.

• 1:13:07Speaker 04

  They have real jobs. They go to school.

• 1:13:08Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 1:13:09Speaker 04

  And then, I'm telling you Bobby, you know, like in heated rivalry, just that, the finger touching?

• 1:13:15Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:13:15Speaker 04

  Okay, so in Harris House, when, when, when two people, when two people kiss. It's like, I'm a little teenager again. Cause it's like, nothing happens.

• 1:13:23Speaker 03

  That's like season finale, if they like even have a little peck. Oh, the greatest thing, every ten minutes, they cut to commentaries.

• 1:13:31Speaker 04

  That's where they're the best, the best commentary. They're so funny.

• 1:13:34Speaker 03

  Oh, those are- And then, and then you really see the Japanese courtship happening. Like, there'll be like, episode seven, like, there's only maybe ten episodes. Episode seven, or it's twenty episodes, episode like fifteen. The guy knocks on the girl's door with a flower and be like, "I am actually very interested in you. Would you be interested in actually going out with me?" You know? It's the complete opposite of Real World when they fuck in in the hot tub.

• 1:13:57Speaker 04

  And then one of the episodes of one season, this guy takes this girl Senna, this gorgeous girl. He takes her to a church with like a big bouquet of roses. And he gets on his knees and he's like, like, "Date me?" And she just stands there and she's like, "Nah." And it is-

• 1:14:11Speaker 03

  Oh, oh, no! Yeah, see, heartbreaking.

• 1:14:13Speaker 04

  But it's like, he, he goes through these extremes, like that's courtship. He got suited up, he got the flowers, he chose a church, and it was hilarious. It was hilarious.

• 1:14:24Speaker 03

  Yeah, and then, and then two days later, he hairy carried.

• 1:14:28Speaker 04

  But I really feel like you guys should do something like a dating show, but with that same tone of Terrace House.

• 1:14:33Speaker 02

  Okay.

• 1:14:33Speaker 06

  Yeah, but the goal of everybody in the show is to find love, right?

• 1:14:36Speaker 04

  Yes, yeah.

• 1:14:36Speaker 06

  So that's the very deep, you know, it's like very serious. They take it very seriously. It's not the surface level American game show.

• 1:14:42Speaker 04

  And when a girl checks out, like in Terrace House, and a new person comes in, knock on the door.

• 1:14:48Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:14:48Speaker 04

  And you're like, oh, who is she? And you only see like this part of her hair at first.

• 1:14:51Speaker 02

  They never show the face, yeah.

• 1:14:52Speaker 04

  Who's Jimmy's next, you know?

• 1:14:54Speaker 03

  But then it's so polite, but then you start seeing some spark, oh, he, she's spending a little more time with him.

• 1:14:58Speaker 04

  Yes.

• 1:14:59Speaker 03

  But like, ah, they're spending time, but she, she's not really feeling him, you know?

• 1:15:02Bobby Lee?

  Hmm. So let me ask you something. Are they still doing the show?

• 1:15:06Speaker 04

  They had to stop for a little bit because one of the cast members, um, no, she, um, sadly analyzed herself. She was getting a lot of hate from the fans, and she was awesome. She was this wrestler girl.

• 1:15:18Speaker 02

  Oh, wow. I haven't known about that.

• 1:15:19Speaker 04

  Yeah, it was so sad. I hate the internet, but this girl was incredible on the show.

• 1:15:24Speaker 02

  Dang.

• 1:15:25Bobby Lee?

  Oh, no. And so when did they end?

• 1:15:28Speaker 04

  Um, a couple, and then Takui, one of the comment, I think he had tax fraud, so there was, you know, issues there.

• 1:15:32Bobby Lee?

  There's tax fraud.

• 1:15:33Speaker 03

  I do think, uh, Terrace House is, uh, the definition of Asian old school dating.

• 1:15:39Speaker 04

  Mm-hmm.

• 1:15:39Speaker 03

  And then Real World is the definition of American modern hookup culture.

• 1:15:44Bobby Lee?

  Oh, I see, I see.

• 1:15:44Speaker 03

  You know?

• 1:15:45Bobby Lee?

  And I think I want old school.

• 1:15:47Speaker 03

  I think so. I think as we get older.

• 1:15:48Bobby Lee?

  I think there's something to it.

• 1:15:49Speaker 03

  And I, I do think even when we're in our twenties, you know, the old school would have been better. We just got tricked by the media, by everything, that, by the MTV culture of it, that we're like, no, man, you're, you need to be a man and go get laid, you need to be cool, you know? But who actually wants that?

• 1:16:06Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, cuz there's an, ultimately, there's an emptiness that happens. What'd you say?

• 1:16:11Speaker 03

  He just named another TV channel.

• 1:16:13Bobby Lee?

  Oh, but I wanna hear, I wanna hear everything.

• 1:16:16Speaker 02

  Old school reference.

• 1:16:17Bobby Lee?

  What did you say?

• 1:16:18Speaker 02

  Uh, Spike TV.

• 1:16:19Speaker 04

  I love Spike TV.

• 1:16:20Speaker 03

  Spike TV was sweet.

• 1:16:21Speaker 04

  It was the first, like, bro, bro-y TV.

• 1:16:24Bobby Lee?

  Oh, that's right. That was a good reference. Yeah, I do remember.

• 1:16:26Speaker 02

  Oh, yeah, for a man. Oh, yeah.

• 1:16:32Speaker 03

  I love black TV, they had like robot fights.

• 1:16:34Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 1:16:35Speaker 03

  I think they aired like MMA.

• 1:16:36Speaker 04

  They did.

• 1:16:37Speaker 03

  They had a, it was like, bro, not even like hook up, bro, like, just like, bro.

• 1:16:41Speaker 04

  Really bro-y.

• 1:16:42Speaker 03

  They had a slam ball, do you guys remember that? Slam ball. When they trampolines and you dunk the basketball, it's amazing.

• 1:16:48Bobby Lee?

  How far you do you think you'd get at American Ninja Warrior?

• 1:16:52Speaker 03

  Oh, we can go try, my buddy's, uh, my buddy's an assistant director.

• 1:16:56Bobby Lee?

  Really?

• 1:16:57Speaker 03

  Yeah, we should go try.

• 1:16:57Bobby Lee?

  That seems so hard.

• 1:16:59Speaker 03

  I, I wouldn't go far, like, all the grip strength stuff, I wouldn't get it.

• 1:17:02Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:17:02Speaker 03

  I, I can do all the quick, quick, like, jumpy stuff, I think.

• 1:17:05Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:17:06Speaker 03

  Alright, and you show Bobby and Jimmy play slam ball?

• 1:17:11Speaker 03

  This is one of the date activities we're doing.

• 1:17:13Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:17:15Speaker 03

  Playing slam ball.

• 1:17:16Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah. I mean, I think I'd really hurt myself, but that's a thing, huh?

• 1:17:20Speaker 03

  Slam ball?

• 1:17:20Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:17:21Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:17:22Bobby Lee?

  What, what's the matter?

• 1:17:22Speaker 04

  No, I'm still working on the show in my head.

• 1:17:24Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. You think it would work?

• 1:17:26Speaker 04

  Yeah, I think so.

• 1:17:27Bobby Lee?

  Could you, could you do this, can you line up, because we're doing a TV show, can you line up people?

• 1:17:32Speaker 04

  That's what I was thinking too.

• 1:17:33Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:17:34Speaker 04

  It's like, I got a mixture that I vet, vet girls who literally, like, do not know who the fuck you are. I think that, um, that would be a little hard, but I think we can find them.

• 1:17:43Speaker 03

  Or you can, I guess we can set up like a bar situation, with like willing participants, and it's like a social mixer. Mmm. Something like that, like, we set up a couple mixers.

• 1:17:52Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:17:54Speaker 04

  But you can't let them know that we're filming a TV show where you're looking for love.

• 1:17:58Speaker 03

  But they have to be willing participants, yeah?

• 1:18:00Bobby Lee?

  Mmm.

• 1:18:01Speaker 04

  Yeah, that's true, we'll figure it out, we'll figure it out.

• 1:18:03Speaker 03

  I wanna blur their face, yeah.

• 1:18:04Speaker 02

  I just saw Bobby did that episode with the button?

• 1:18:08Speaker 04

  Oh, the button, yeah.

• 1:18:08Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, the button, yeah.

• 1:18:09Speaker 02

  That was a funny one.

• 1:18:10Speaker 04

  You were really good, yeah.

• 1:18:11Speaker 03

  Oh, was it like pop the balloon type thing?

• 1:18:13Bobby Lee?

  It was kinda like that, yeah, yeah, yeah. Um, that was fun to do, to watch and observe.

• 1:18:17Speaker 02

  You should do it.

• 1:18:18Bobby Lee?

  You know, the re-

• 1:18:18Speaker 04

  I was there.

• 1:18:19Bobby Lee?

  She was, she was already there.

• 1:18:21Speaker 02

  No, like, she should do one for you.

• 1:18:22Bobby Lee?

  Oh, yeah.

• 1:18:23Speaker 04

  Oh.

• 1:18:24Speaker 03

  Oh, you do it for other people?

• 1:18:26Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:18:26Speaker 04

  Yeah, it's a good idea, I mean.

• 1:18:28Bobby Lee?

  I, here's the thing, I hate rejection when it comes to the opposite sex, it hurts me. You know what I mean? And I have to get over that, I think. I'm 54, will I ever get over it?

• 1:18:40Speaker 03

  No. But I don't think anybody gets over it.

• 1:18:42Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:18:43Speaker 03

  You know?

• 1:18:43Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:18:44Speaker 03

  I think that's normal.

• 1:18:45Bobby Lee?

  Somebody go, immediately do that in front of your face, eh, yeah, like that, yeah.

• 1:18:49Speaker 02

  You know him?

• 1:18:51Speaker 04

  Oh, those guys remember that day.

• 1:18:52Speaker 03

  Wait, so you're doing it for all, you're.

• 1:18:54Bobby Lee?

  He's coaching them. That was coaching, yeah.

• 1:18:55Speaker 04

  But see, it was crazy.

• 1:18:56Speaker 03

  You're coaching the girl or the guy? This guy doesn't need your coaching.

• 1:19:02Speaker 03

  But, I mean, look, like, he's a very good-looking guy, but if, and, and if he gets some, like, cool lines and comebacks from a comedian, that's actually the perfect combo.

• 1:19:10Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. I don't think I gave him much help, but, um. Passed on her? Anyone? Yeah, he passed, yeah.

• 1:19:16Speaker 04

  No, but you know what? Bobby had really good instinct. He knew when someone was gonna hit the button before they hit the button.

• 1:19:21Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah. I couldn't know vibe.

• 1:19:23Speaker 03

  He's actually better-looking than any of these girls.

• 1:19:25Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:19:26Speaker 03

  He's a very handsome guy.

• 1:19:27Bobby Lee?

  He's a very handsome guy. And he's also cool. He's got a Sung Kang kind of vibe to him.

• 1:19:32Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:19:33Bobby Lee?

  He's quite Asian. Did he find anybody? What?

• 1:19:35Speaker 04

  Yeah, they got a couple matches.

• 1:19:37Bobby Lee?

  A couple matches, yeah. This kid, kid, kid, this kid was cute, too.

• 1:19:39Speaker 04

  This kid was super cute, yeah.

• 1:19:41Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, look at this kid.

• 1:19:41Speaker 03

  This is K-Town?

• 1:19:42Bobby Lee?

  This isn't, no, just Hollywood. Look how cute this guy.

• 1:19:45Speaker 03

  How come everybody's Asian?

• 1:19:47Speaker 04

  Oh, so it's, um, Asian dudes dating white girls.

• 1:19:51Speaker 03

  Oh, oh, that's a thing.

• 1:19:51Speaker 04

  Or dating outside non-Korean.

• 1:19:53Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. And they thought I would be the master of that, which is like.

• 1:19:58Bobby Lee?

  Let's call Bobby the master of dating. The master of white girls.

• 1:20:01Speaker 03

  This is a good show. I, I'm gonna go home and watch this, this is good.

• 1:20:03Bobby Lee?

  So, um, uh, do you have anything coming out? Like, are you working on anything or what's going on?

• 1:20:09Speaker 03

  Yeah, so the special should come out soon. Well, okay, let's talk about Rock Springs first. My wife loved it. Premiere to Sundance.

• 1:20:13Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:20:14Speaker 03

  Uh, Me, Benedict Wong, Kelly Marie Tran. Uh, it's a really cool movie. That's a horror film, but it also flashes back to 1885, uh, and we're two, um, Chinese miners. And it was based on a real story where they got massacred by these white people.

• 1:20:28Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 1:20:29Speaker 03

  Quite sadly, it's like a timely movie, you know? Uh, but, you know, with Sundance, I think you gotta sell it and then you gotta find distributors. So I don't know how it works.

• 1:20:37Bobby Lee?

  Was it, um, his production company made it?

• 1:20:39Speaker 03

  No, um, it's Macro, Macro made it.

• 1:20:41Bobby Lee?

  Oh, Macro did, yeah.

• 1:20:42Speaker 03

  Yeah, they're awesome.

• 1:20:43Bobby Lee?

  I love that guy.

• 1:20:44Speaker 03

  Yeah, and then my Hong Kong comedy special. Uh, it's coming out March 20th in the theaters in Hong Kong.

• 1:20:51Bobby Lee?

  Hmm.

• 1:20:51Speaker 03

  Um, I haven't announced it yet.

• 1:20:53Speaker 04

  Theaters there.

• 1:20:54Speaker 03

  And then, and then I'm gonna find some theater distribution here, and then I'll figure it out how to distribute it worldwide.

• 1:20:59Bobby Lee?

  I wish I had your ethic.

• 1:21:01Speaker 03

  Oh, man, this is so much work.

• 1:21:03Bobby Lee?

  You have a good work ethic.

• 1:21:03Speaker 03

  This is so much work, it's driving me crazy, actually. It'd be so much easier if I just sold it to Hulu, Amazon, Netflix, this one, but then I'm like, it's too, this one is too special, meaningful for me, especially for my people in Hong Kong. I was like, I gotta, I gotta do this myself.

• 1:21:15Bobby Lee?

  So you're gonna do it, but you're not gonna sell it to a streamer?

• 1:21:18Speaker 03

  Maybe on the secondary market, but I I wanted to have that theatrical release.

• 1:21:22Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 1:21:23Speaker 03

  Cause it looks, it's a huge, like concert film. I sing Cantonese in there.

• 1:21:29Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 1:21:29Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:21:30Bobby Lee?

  Do you get nervous doing these gigantic venues?

• 1:21:33Speaker 03

  This one I did because it was 20 minutes, brand new, like Cantonese material, there's Cantonese song.

• 1:21:38Bobby Lee?

  Wait, wait, wait. You went up in front of all those people and tried material you'd never tried before?

• 1:21:43Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah. But I knew it was kinda gonna, I kinda knew it was gonna work.

• 1:21:47Bobby Lee?

  Oh.

• 1:21:48Speaker 03

  Cause the structure of the joke is gonna work, but also it's Cantonese, like, you know, they're gonna like it. Cause there's a familiarity. It's like, you know, the five minutes, every comedian does it every city, Hawaii or whatever. And you talk about Spam Musubi. And of course they're gonna laugh.

• 1:22:02Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:22:04Speaker 03

  You know?

• 1:22:04Bobby Lee?

  Oh, I see, I see, I see. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You kinda know, do local references and you have an instinct about that. Yeah, yeah. And then, so you, so you said you prefer stand-up over film and television?

• 1:22:15Speaker 03

  I think so. I think I'd, um, like I've always, cause, cause acting was always a challenge and I wanna do what, I set so many goals. I try to prove myself as a dramatic actor. I've done a lot of that, but then now I'm like, man, why did I ever like, I never quit stand-up, but why did I ever take a break from stand-up to try to act? This is what we do best.

• 1:22:33Bobby Lee?

  But the acting helped your stand-up. I think it made you super famous.

• 1:22:36Speaker 03

  Like on Silicon Valley, stuff like that.

• 1:22:38Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, also I think Crazy Rich was huge.

• 1:22:41Speaker 03

  Crazy Rich. But I mean, do you know how many things I do that you, you don't even remember or you never heard of?

• 1:22:47Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I, I know all, everything. Easter Sunday, you do that?

• 1:22:50Speaker 03

  So that, that's the Hong Kong show. I popped up out of stage like Psy.

• 1:22:53Bobby Lee?

  My god, dude.

• 1:22:54Speaker 03

  Yeah. It's, it's a whole thing. Like you guys, you guys will see it. That's why I, I.

• 1:22:58Bobby Lee?

  Zoom in on, zoom on Jimmy here.

• 1:23:02Speaker 03

  So high.

• 1:23:02Bobby Lee?

  That is crazy, dude.

• 1:23:04Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:23:05Bobby Lee?

  Wow, that's, and people went crazy.

• 1:23:07Speaker 03

  Yeah, it was pretty cool.

• 1:23:07Bobby Lee?

  You're like the Chinese Michael Jackson here, dude. It's amazing.

• 1:23:12Speaker 03

  The Hong Kong Taylor Swift.

• 1:23:13Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:23:14Speaker 03

  You know?

• 1:23:14Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, that's, and how many people you said?

• 1:23:17Speaker 03

  Eight thousand.

• 1:23:17Bobby Lee?

  Eight thousand. That's a lot of fucking people, dude. Give, give, give next photo. Let me see the next photo.

• 1:23:23Speaker 03

  Oh, these are just different pics. That's me in Texas, I guess. That's Wembley.

• 1:23:28Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. Wembley oh two? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:23:31Speaker 03

  That's just a picture, yeah.

• 1:23:33Bobby Lee?

  Jesus Christ, you've going from the first time we saw you. That's Singapore.

• 1:23:38Speaker 03

  Yeah. This is Australia, this is Sydney.

• 1:23:42Bobby Lee?

  Wow. It's it's when you're when you do big shows like that, do you stay in that town for a couple of days? Or do you go show different cities?

• 1:23:51Speaker 03

  I try, but like Australia was like Sydney and then Melbourne. I did Radio City, which was so beautiful, so awesome.

• 1:23:57Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:23:58Speaker 03

  But I had to do Atlanta like two days before, so and then I had to fly back to Vegas for Super Bowl. I was like hosting a Super Bowl party, so it was like.

• 1:24:05Bobby Lee?

  That's the thing, it's like when we did Australia, it's like it was so back to back. We weren't able to go and like.

• 1:24:10Speaker 04

  Oh, that sucks, yeah.

• 1:24:11Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, enjoy it.

• 1:24:12Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:24:13Speaker 04

  When you do Manila, I implore you to leave a couple of days afterwards to explore.

• 1:24:18Speaker 03

  That's what I want to do on this next tour. I want to plan it a little better, you know, more focused on the cities. And then give myself more time to kind of hang, you know?

• 1:24:26Bobby Lee?

  I think in about three or four years, what's gonna we're gonna do a mega Asian show.

• 1:24:30Speaker 03

  I've been I've been wanting to do that. I think that would be great.

• 1:24:33Bobby Lee?

  I think I think imagine.

• 1:24:36Speaker 03

  Like a Kings of Comedy thing.

• 1:24:37Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, like five or six people, maybe.

• 1:24:40Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:24:40Bobby Lee?

  You, Coy, Ally. How great would that be?

• 1:24:43Speaker 03

  Yeah, that'll be fun.

• 1:24:44Bobby Lee?

  That'll be so fun, but who closes? That's hard.

• 1:24:47Speaker 03

  I think you just draw, it doesn't matter. Oh, that's fun.

• 1:24:50Bobby Lee?

  What?

• 1:24:50Speaker 03

  Drawing straws. Well, every show can be different.

• 1:24:52Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. I'm not following you guys.

• 1:24:57Speaker 03

  You you host?

• 1:24:58Bobby Lee?

  I'll host the fucking, I'll host the fucking thing.

• 1:25:02Speaker 03

  Yeah, that would be fun, too.

• 1:25:03Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:25:03Speaker 03

  Steve Harvey was one of the funniest parts of Kings of Comedy.

• 1:25:06Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:25:06Speaker 03

  So a lot of the Hong Kong special, my mom and dad were in three of the five shows. So a lot of shots kind of pan back to them, seeing their reaction, I give them shout outs, you know? So it's all it's like I I introduce you and actually you see the characters in my special that I talk about.

• 1:25:21Speaker 04

  I love that.

• 1:25:21Bobby Lee?

  Wow, that's so cool.

• 1:25:23Speaker 03

  Is your dad still acting a bunch? Yeah, man, yeah, he's he's crushing it.

• 1:25:26Bobby Lee?

  Your dad's an actor?

• 1:25:27Speaker 03

  Yeah, SAG-AFTRA acted, dude.

• 1:25:29Bobby Lee?

  Wow, this is, did you help him get into the business?

• 1:25:32Speaker 03

  Uh, yeah, I he started like commercial acting and then I wrote an episode of Space Force.

• 1:25:38Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:25:38Speaker 03

  And he was opposite Steve Carell. He was mostly opposite John Malkovich, actually.

• 1:25:42Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 1:25:43Speaker 03

  He wasn't nervous, he crushed it, and John loves my dad, like, he's the coolest guy.

• 1:25:47Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:25:47Speaker 03

  And and my dad's very cool, too. But uh.

• 1:25:50Bobby Lee?

  You give him a lot of lines or no?

• 1:25:52Speaker 03

  Yeah, he had a good amount of lines.

• 1:25:53Bobby Lee?

  Wow. Does he have an accent?

• 1:25:56Speaker 03

  Naturally, he has a bit of an ac- but it's interesting, cuz I think he studied proper British English.

• 1:26:02Speaker 08

  Yeah.

• 1:26:02Speaker 03

  So it's almost like a British with a little touch of Chinese accent.

• 1:26:05Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 1:26:06Speaker 03

  Yeah. Yeah, there's John.

• 1:26:07Bobby Lee?

  That's amazing.

• 1:26:09Speaker 03

  Oh, he was the dialect coach for Kerry Washington.

• 1:26:12Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:26:12Speaker 03

  On, I think, Little Fires Everywhere or something.

• 1:26:14Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:26:15Speaker 03

  Um, yeah, man.

• 1:26:17Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, you're the future, Jimmy. I mean, you're just, who's, okay, Mark Wahlberg?

• 1:26:23Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:26:24Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 1:26:24Speaker 03

  So it's at the premiere, and then, and then they flew to Singapore, like, go to the next one, they flew to Singapore for the Crazy Rich Asians rap party.

• 1:26:31Bobby Lee?

  My god.

• 1:26:32Speaker 03

  You know, Michelle Constance.

• 1:26:33Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:26:33Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, he, he loves it. Like, I don't really care, you know, to be, like, it feels nice to be recognized, you know, I just kinda wanna chill, you know, hang out with my friends. My dad loves the attention.

• 1:26:43Bobby Lee?

  He does.

• 1:26:44Speaker 03

  Way more than that.

• 1:26:44Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:26:45Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:26:45Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, I, when I saw, I, when I, I observe you a lot, in the wild, yeah, yeah, and you like to chill with regular people and just hang.

• 1:26:52Speaker 03

  All my friends, my best friends in my fantasy football league.

• 1:26:55Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 1:26:56Speaker 03

  Dudes from like, high school, when I first started stand-up, you know, college buddies, uh, yeah, man, I don't, I mean, I have like, cool friends, too.

• 1:27:04Bobby Lee?

  Hmm.

• 1:27:05Speaker 03

  But I don't really go out of my way to go to.

• 1:27:07Bobby Lee?

  Do you have beefs?

• 1:27:08Speaker 03

  Beefs? No, I don't really have.

• 1:27:10Bobby Lee?

  Who do you hate?

• 1:27:10Speaker 03

  I don't, I don't go out, I don't go out enough to have beefs.

• 1:27:13Bobby Lee?

  You have no hatred toward anybody? It's not like your generation, man. Nah.

• 1:27:17Speaker 03

  I know, his, why, why do we have wars?

• 1:27:19Bobby Lee?

  I can just look at that one poster and have so many stories already, from the Kims of comedy.

• 1:27:23Speaker 03

  Yeah. Oh, wow.

• 1:27:24Bobby Lee?

  When you have so little to fight for, and they don't give you a lot of spots, you, they, they make us fight. You guys pit against. Yeah, yeah, over the crumbs. But now it's different, you know?

• 1:27:32Speaker 03

  It is, it's truly, yeah, even just my generation of it.

• 1:27:36Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:27:36Speaker 03

  It's been, like, I was lucky to be in this time where, also, I met, even Crazy Rich Asians, I met so many people that I'm, I'm so proud of, and they're like, peers and, you know, contemporaries that I would have never met, doing, say, another TV show.

• 1:27:49Bobby Lee?

  Hmm.

• 1:27:49Speaker 03

  Cause usually we'll be the only Asian person on there.

• 1:27:52Bobby Lee?

  Michelle Yeoh's a nice person.

• 1:27:53Speaker 03

  The best.

• 1:27:54Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, yeah, I did a movie with her once.

• 1:27:56Speaker 03

  Yeah, she's amazing.

• 1:27:57Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, nobody saw it. Nobody saw this movie. It's fine. I was there. I can't remember the story. I don't even know what the story was.

• 1:28:04Speaker 04

  You know what, I do.

• 1:28:05Bobby Lee?

  I do. What was the story?

• 1:28:06Speaker 04

  It's wire work.

• 1:28:07Bobby Lee?

  Oh. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, that story. Yeah, that's what I'm watching. But, um, alright, so Jimmy, everyone, listen, watch, check out his dates. Right?

• 1:28:16Speaker 02

  JimmyComedy.com.

• 1:28:17Bobby Lee?

  JimmyComedy.com. Um, he's a nice kid.

• 1:28:21Speaker 02

  Thanks.

• 1:28:21Bobby Lee?

  Super talented. And I can't believe, what?

• 1:28:26Bobby Lee?

  Did you ever say something?

• 1:28:27Speaker 04

  The thing was honking, ambulance outside.

• 1:28:30Bobby Lee?

  Oh, yeah.

• 1:28:30Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 1:28:31Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 1:28:31Speaker 02

  What?

• 1:28:32Bobby Lee?

  It's crazy.

• 1:28:33Speaker 02

  Hame, what did you learn from the dates?

• 1:28:34Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, what'd you learn about this?

• 1:28:35Speaker 02

  From current culture to courting culture.

• 1:28:38Bobby Lee?

  A lot. Like, what?

• 1:28:39Speaker 02

  Jimmy effect. Um, wait five months for sex.

• 1:28:43Bobby Lee?

  Mmm.

• 1:28:44Speaker 04

  Okay.

• 1:28:45Bobby Lee?

  Amen.

• 1:28:46Speaker 02

  Jimmy Oh Yang. Yes, sir.

• 1:28:48Bobby Lee?

  Memorize his name, that's good.

• 1:28:49Speaker 02

  You memorized the whole pot.

• 1:28:51Bobby Lee?

  That's good.

• 1:28:52Speaker 02

  Um, yeah, that's pretty much it. Courtships.

• 1:28:56Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:28:56Speaker 02

  Like medieval times. Like, like, have you heard of courtships before? From medieval times? Oh, wow.

• 1:29:02Speaker 04

  Medieval.

• 1:29:03Bobby Lee?

  What do you mean medieval?

• 1:29:03Speaker 02

  Like that? Medieval knights and jesters. Right, right, right, right.

• 1:29:08Bobby Lee?

  Right, right, right, right, right.

• 1:29:09Speaker 02

  Oh, he's right.

• 1:29:09Bobby Lee?

  How do you, how the fuck do you know about that?

• 1:29:11Speaker 02

  Medieval? We have medieval times in Dallas. Oh, like the actual theme part? He's not talking about the era.

• 1:29:16Bobby Lee?

  Oh, you're not talking about the era?

• 1:29:18Speaker 02

  The theme part.

• 1:29:19Bobby Lee?

  Oh, I see. Okay, I see what you're saying, yeah.

• 1:29:22Speaker 02

  Are we the jesters of this?

• 1:29:23Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:29:24Speaker 02

  No, right? Probably.

• 1:29:25Bobby Lee?

  Yeah. You don't know anything about history, do you? Industrial Revolution.

• 1:29:30Speaker 02

  We're making history right now. Yeah.

• 1:29:32Bobby Lee?

  Wow.

• 1:29:34Speaker 02

  Yo, keep paying this man.

• 1:29:36Bobby Lee?

  You should write a book, dude.

• 1:29:37Speaker 04

  I would, I'd buy that.

• 1:29:39Bobby Lee?

  I would buy it too. Yeah, yeah. A self-help book.

• 1:29:42Speaker 02

  Yeah, for people?

• 1:29:43Bobby Lee?

  Yeah.

• 1:29:43Speaker 04

  For peoples.

• 1:29:45Speaker 02

  For horses, bro.

• 1:29:48Bobby Lee?

  Marsupials.

• 1:29:49Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:29:50Bobby Lee?

  Yeah, they would love it, yeah. She gives Jimmy a round of applause, everybody.

• 1:29:54Speaker 02

  Thank you, guys. That was so fun.

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