Pod Insights The Oprah Podcast Dog Behavior Explained: Scientist Alexandra Horowitz Reveals Your Dog's Mind to Oprah About this episode One of the great joys of Oprah’s life has been her dogs – she’s loved 21 one of them! For all the dog lovers, have you ever wondered what’s really happening inside the mind of your dog or how they experience the world? Oprah talks with canine cognitive scientist and New York Times bestselling author Alexandra Horowitz, whose groundbreaking book Inside of a Dog has transformed how we understand our dog companions. From the astonishing power of a dog’s nose to how they interpret our words, emotions and intentions Dr. Horowitz reveals what life looks like from a dog’s point of view. She also explores how dogs form memories, how they learn and solve problems and why their low-to-the-ground perspective influences everything, from how they experience sound and scent, to how they navigate the concept of time in a human world. Oprah and Alexandra also take questions from our listeners like: Do dogs feel anxious when we leave them alone? Can they form deep soul bonds with their humans? What do they understand about aging, illness and the end of life? The episode also checks in with a passionate dog lover whose social media mission has helped rescue hundreds of senior dogs, giving senior pups a second chance with a family. This episode is presented by our fantastic partners at The Farmer’s Dog. Their real, human-grade food has been clinically shown to help dogs age well, so you can have more good years together.
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00:00:00 - Welcome Alexandra Horowitz, author of “Inside of a Dog”
00:05:22 - Do dogs have intelligence like humans?
00:06:50 - Their most important sense
00:08:40 - Detecting diseases and emotions
00:11:50 - Dogs track our movements
00:13:10 - What your dog remembers
00:17:30 - Do dogs feel a soul connection?
00:21:40 - Having a dog changed her life
00:22:30 - Do dogs have a concept of time?
00:27:00 - Showing your dog you are boss is harmful
00:30:30 - Do dogs get bored?
00:32:40 - Do dogs understand when it's their time?
00:34:40 - How do humans know when it's time?
00:37:28 - Meet Steve who adopts senior dogs
00:39:00 - Do dogs know their name?
00:48:23 - Adopting older dogs
00:49:38 - What Alexandra wishes people knew about dogs
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0:00 Oprah Winfrey? This episode of the Oprah Podcast is presented by our fantastic partners at The Farmer's Dog. So you say that a dog's sense of smell is so powerful that they can detect, listen to you all, a teaspoon of sugar dissolved in a million gallons of water. That would be two Olympic-sized swimming pools.
0:24 Speaker 01 There are dogs who can detect a picogram of explosive, which is a trillionth of a gram. So they can be trained to detect drugs, or COVID, or the smell of cancerous cells.
0:37 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
0:37 Speaker 01 But even the dog we live with, they can smell all those things.
0:42 Oprah Winfrey? And they can smell emotions. They smell our emotions. So everything that's happening in our body emotionally and physically, biologically, health-wise, creates its own scent.
0:54 Speaker 01 They can sense the change.
0:57 Oprah Winfrey? Hi, everybody. A warm, warm welcome to you. Thanks for hanging out with me here on the Oprah Podcast. I have to say, one of the great, great joys of my life has been that I've been able to share my life with dogs since I was an adult. I think that they make life so much sweeter and richer in all the ways. Every single one of my dogs has been a teacher for me. I've had 21 dogs.
1:25 Oprah Winfrey? Sadie is my 21st dog. And I've, before Sadie, I had 11 dogs at one time. And that was the happiest I ever was in my life, was when I had, was living in Chicago and had a farm in Indiana. And we'd drive to the farm in Indiana on Fridays. And I had two dogs, Sophie and Solomon, who lived with me in Chicago. And the other nine dogs would be waiting at the farm. Just the best, best, best days of my life, walking through the woods with my dogs. And I've often wondered what is really happening inside their minds. And I know those of you who are dog lovers, as I am, have wondered the same thing about your dogs.
2:08 Oprah Winfrey? How do dogs experience the world? Well, my guest today has spent her career trying to answer that question. And she's not just a dog lover, like all of us. She's actually a dog lover and a scientist who studies their cognition.
2:25 Oprah Winfrey? And their behavior. And she's the author of the number one New York Times bestseller, Inside of a Dog, and director of the Dog Cognition Lab at Barnard College, Dr. Alexander Horowitz. Welcome to the podcast.
2:41 Speaker 01 Thank you so much.
2:42 Oprah Winfrey? Thanks for coming to this front porch.
2:44 Speaker 01 It is my pleasure.
2:46 Oprah Winfrey? I've been on the porch here with many a dog. I've roamed these fields with many a dog.
2:51 Speaker 01 I feel their presence.
2:53 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah. And now I know why they love being out here so much because I learned so much about what smells mean to the dog. So when we let the dogs out here, it is like, wow.
3:08 Speaker 01 A whole different universe than we experience.
3:10 Oprah Winfrey? It's a whole different universe, yes, yes. So when you started writing about dogs, there really wasn't, I don't know if there was there, a lot of scientific research. How did you understand what's going on inside a dog, inside of a dog?
3:24 Speaker 01 Yeah.
3:24 Oprah Winfrey? Every dog owner, you should have this book. So you know what your dog is really thinking.
3:29 Speaker 01 Thank you.
3:30 Oprah Winfrey? Yes.
3:31 Speaker 01 Well, I mean, I ask the dogs, really. I became a scientist of dog cognition, which is really just looking at their behavior in a scientific way.
3:40 Oprah Winfrey? And how do you do this? You have bunches of dogs in a space?
3:43 Speaker 01 Sometimes I have dogs. I'll bring dogs into a laboratory space, which is just a boring room with nothing in it and just the one thing I want to show them. Or I'm observing dogs in the wild, as it were, which is just interacting with each other or interacting with people and coding their behavior for certain patterns to see what do they need to know in order to be able to do that? Do they anticipate someone else's behavior? And so when I started this, yeah, there weren't a lot of people studying dogs at all. I lived with a dog, but it never occurred to me to study dogs. But once I started turning my gaze toward them, I never looked back.
4:18 Oprah Winfrey? Once you started studying and you turned your gaze toward your own dog, who has since passed, that first dog, you saw and experienced them differently, correct?
4:28 Speaker 01 Completely, completely. And when I started studying them, it's very different because living with dogs... You sort of feel like you know what their experience is like.
4:37 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
4:38 Speaker 01 I mean, it's a little bit analogous to our experience, we figure.
4:41 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
4:41 Speaker 01 But then when I-
4:42 Oprah Winfrey? But I realize from reading Inside of a Dog that I have been projecting what I think onto what I think they're thinking.
4:48 Speaker 01 Yeah, the very natural thing to do, right? We all anthropomorphize. That's how we make sense of the world, is we sort of imagine that others are thinking of the world the way we are. And so, too, with those furry little faces looking at us, and as it turns out, when you start to understand it from their point of view, right, it's a completely different world, it's a smelly universe, they have a different understanding of the world. What's amazing is that they're also able to understand the human world and live so smoothly with us nonetheless.
5:19 Oprah Winfrey? Is it true that they have human-like intelligence? That's what dog lovers already want to believe?
5:24 Speaker 01 I mean, certainly, in many respects, they do, right? Their brains work in the same way that ours do. They have memories, they learn like we do, they solve problems like we do. They can even, even though it's not their first language, understand some of our language, which is pretty impressive, I think. But I think the most interesting thing about their intelligence is the way it also differs from ours, and that has to do with their perceptual experience.
5:50 Oprah Winfrey? I think, I think it's interesting how you talk in the book, Inside of a Dog, you talk about how legally we are all dog owners, but because they are property. But how would you describe your relationship with your dog?
6:04 Speaker 01 I say I'm my dog's person.
6:07 Oprah Winfrey? Yes.
6:07 Speaker 01 Right?
6:07 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
6:07 Speaker 01 They're my dog in a way, but I'm their person, right? We are family. Sometimes people use the word guardian, I think that also works. Property, ownership, that's legal, it doesn't represent how we feel about each other.
6:19 Oprah Winfrey? I know, and I think, you know, when I see a dog tied up in the backyard somewhere, I always feel like, oh, that dog owner thinks he is the owner in, in, in the way that he controls completely that dog.
6:33 Speaker 01 That's right.
6:33 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
6:33 Speaker 01 Yeah.
6:34 Oprah Winfrey? Is there anything worse than seeing a dog being tied up in the backyard?
6:38 Speaker 01 Captive to that moment in time, right?
6:41 Oprah Winfrey? Yes.
6:41 Speaker 01 Not in a relationship with someone at, at every moment, which is what they want and should be.
6:47 Oprah Winfrey? So you say that a dog's sense of smell, this is what I learned from reading Inside of a Dog, y'all, that the nose is everything to the dog. And it made me understand how, over the years, having had 21 dogs, I've had every kind of illnesses. I had five golden retrievers who all had a strain of cancer. I have had dogs who lost their sight and dogs who lost their, you know, ability to hear. You know, Sadie can no longer hear. But as long as that nose is working, the sense of smell is so powerful, you say, that they can detect, listen to you all, a teaspoon of sugar dissolved in a million gallons of water, that would be two Olympic-sized swimming pools. So how is that possible?
7:31 Oprah Winfrey? They can detect the smell of a teaspoon of sugar in a million gallons of water? That's how, how they're...
7:39 Speaker 01 I might notice if some sugar is in my coffee.
7:41 Oprah Winfrey? Yes.
7:42 Speaker 01 But...
7:43 Oprah Winfrey? I would notice if there is a teaspoon of sugar in this glass.
7:45 Speaker 01 That's right.
7:46 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
7:46 Speaker 01 Right.
7:47 Oprah Winfrey? But in a million gallons of water?
7:48 Speaker 01 Their whole anatomy is set up to be such strong smellers. Everything about how they sniff, their nose, their brain, is set up to be smellers. So yeah, there are dogs who can detect a picogram of explosive, which is a trillionth of a gram, you know, unimaginably small amount.
8:07 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah. That's why they're so great for drug detection.
8:10 Speaker 01 Absolutely, right? But they could be, and these are dogs who are trained.
8:14 Oprah Winfrey? Yes.
8:14 Speaker 01 So they can be trained to detect drugs or COVID or the smell of cancerous cells.
8:20 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
8:21 Speaker 01 But even the dog we live with, even untrained, right? They can smell all those things.
8:27 Oprah Winfrey? And they can smell emotions. They smell our emotions. But you say it goes even further than that in smelling emotions. As you just said, they can detect cancer, they can detect COVID and even PTSD. How is that? How are they smelling cancer? How are they smelling COVID?
8:44 Speaker 01 These bodily changes have an odor. Really, almost everything has an odor.
8:49 Oprah Winfrey? Oh.
8:50 Speaker 01 It's just we're not sticking our nose up to it and detecting it.
8:54 Oprah Winfrey? And also don't have the ability to detect it.
8:56 Speaker 01 Our noses are pretty good, but nothing like theirs. And they also behaviorally.
9:00 Oprah Winfrey? Because I couldn't smell if someone had cancer.
9:02 Speaker 01 Hmm, no, but there is a woman who smelled Parkinson's disease and her husband. And doctors did use to smell people's breath, their bodies, for certain kinds of illnesses.
9:14 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
9:14 Speaker 01 And dogs are just on that all the time.
9:17 Oprah Winfrey? So everything that's happening in our body emotionally and physically, biologically, health-wise, creates its own scent, is what you're saying.
9:27 Speaker 01 There are changes in cells, and then there are things like perspiration or hormones in our sweat.
9:32 Oprah Winfrey? And the dog smells that and senses that.
9:34 Speaker 01 They can sense the change, yeah.
9:35 Oprah Winfrey? That's how they know you're sad. They're not just looking at your face.
9:38 Speaker 01 That's right. I mean, they do look at our face as well, right? Which is neat, they can read our emotions.
9:43 Oprah Winfrey? I love the fact that it's the one animal that actually gives you eye contact.
9:46 Speaker 01 Right, right. You can, you can look at a dog and they're looking back at you and you feel that understanding, right?
9:52 Oprah Winfrey? Yes.
9:52 Speaker 01 And that intimacy.
9:53 Oprah Winfrey? And for other animals, that is like aggressive behavior.
9:56 Speaker 01 I wouldn't do it with a wolf.
9:57 Oprah Winfrey? I wouldn't do it with a wolf, yes, yes.
10:01 Speaker 01 Yeah, that's a threat to a wolf.
10:03 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
10:03 Speaker 01 And, I mean, for us, it's part of what it's like to have a conversation with somebody. It's part of what it's like to have an intimate relationship with somebody. And they kind of bootstrap on that.
10:14 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah. So do they understand language? I've always heard that they can understand words as well as a toddler. Is that true?
10:22 Speaker 01 Yeah, in some ways.
10:23 Oprah Winfrey? Do they have a vocabulary?
10:24 Speaker 01 I mean, they're not speaking, they're not producing words, but their perception is actually surprisingly good. If we talk to them clearly, most dogs will learn dozens of words. And there are some amazing dogs who have learned hundreds of words.
10:41 Oprah Winfrey? Okay, so do they understand "let's go for a walk" because they understand the word "walk"? Or do they understand "let's go for a walk" because usually when you say "let's go for a walk", you get the leash and you're headed out the door?
10:52 Speaker 01 They see both those things, but also the prosody of the sentence, or the sing-songiness of the sentence. When I say "let's go for a walk", Finnegan, that's a certain sound that they associate with the thing that's going to happen.
11:05 Oprah Winfrey? So are they like toddlers in that they... Because I notice babies, and we all notice this, that babies react to your sing-songy voice. That's why people talk in your baby talk voice. And they react to the vibration, they act to the energy of your words, as well as the words.
11:25 Speaker 01 We use something called "dog-directed speech" with dogs typically, women more than men, but it's like a kind of baby talk. And it lets the dog know that of all this bubbling speech around them, some of it is directed to them. And that's the part they should pay attention to.
11:40 Oprah Winfrey? And they get that?
11:41 Speaker 01 And they get that, right? That's what they're... They're little anthropologists watching us all the time, looking for cues from us. So if we use language carefully with them, they can pick up on it.
11:52 Oprah Winfrey? Time for a break. Do you ever wonder how your dog seems to know they're going to the vet? Why do they love sticking their heads out the car window? And what is a soul dog? I have so many questions for Dr. Alexander Horowitz, and our listeners do too. So stay with us, dog lovers. Hello, listeners. I always say that one of the great joys of my life has been my dogs. So I am deeply committed to their well-being, just like our friends at The Farmer's Dog, from my golden retrievers to my cocker spaniels. I've had 21 dogs over the years. Their smiles, they do smile, you know. Their snuggles, their spirits remind me to slow down, to be present, and to appreciate the small comforts in life. Listen to this.
12:35 Oprah Winfrey? The Farmer's Dog makes human-grade food for our dogs with real ingredients and minimal processing. So I've been feeding The Farmer's Dog to my cocker spaniel Sadie for a while now. Sadie's 17 and 1/2, because it supports healthy aging. And I think- I think it's giving us more good days together because every time I feed her the Farmer's Dog, I know I'm giving her safe, quality food. To all my fellow dog lovers, you know, our beloved companions give us so much, and that is why the Farmer's Dog helps us do our best for them. Welcome back to the Oprah Podcast. I have had 21 dogs in my life, so I wanted to talk with cognitive scientist and bestselling author of Inside of a Dog, Dr. Alexander Horowitz.
13:20 Oprah Winfrey? We're learning about what's really going on inside the mind of your dog and how they experience the world. I find this so fascinating. Let's get back to it. I read in Inside of a Dog that they track our movements. How are they doing that?
13:38 Speaker 01 They're really attuned to us all the time. I mean, think of what's happening ordinarily. If you're sitting in a room with your dog, nothing is happening for them. So they notice all the associations between when you get up and you're going to the refrigerator versus when you get up and you're going to get the leash and go for a walk. We're moving differently, right? As anyone who sat in the corner of your room and studied you could start to tell.
14:04 Oprah Winfrey? That you move differently when you're going to the refrigerator?
14:06 Speaker 01 Yes.
14:06 Oprah Winfrey? Or you're going to get something out of the closet than you do when you're going to get ready to go for a walk?
14:11 Speaker 01 Right. Our intentions are in our movement, right?
14:14 Oprah Winfrey? And the dog senses that?
14:15 Speaker 01 Yes. They're great observers.
14:18 Oprah Winfrey? Ah.
14:19 Speaker 01 I wish we'd be better observers of them, but they're great observers of us.
14:22 Oprah Winfrey? And aren't they great observers because they're so fully present?
14:28 Speaker 01 Yeah. Yes. They, I mean, sometimes people like to say, well, dogs just live in the moment. I mean, I do think they have a real feeling of their past. They have memories and they think about the future, but they're great observers of the moment.
14:42 Oprah Winfrey? Okay. Okay. You just said you do think they have. So do they have memories of their past? Do they think about the future?
14:48 Speaker 01 Yeah. Yeah, they absolutely do. It's very tricky in animal cognition research to try to ask an animal who's not answering your questions in language, you know, what do you remember? But all of their behavior indicates that they remember episodes, they remember people.
15:04 Oprah Winfrey? Tell me how. Tell me how.
15:05 Speaker 01 Well, I mean, does a dog recognize someone when they return home after being absent for a month? Absolutely. They might not recognize them by sight right away, but they'll recognize their smell.
15:14 Oprah Winfrey? Their smell.
15:14 Speaker 01 Yeah, so they're thinking about and know about things that happened in the past.
15:18 Oprah Winfrey? That's right. And if you have ever hit a dog, the dog will, or like I've bought many dogs from the shelter. You raise your hand, the dog, you know, cowers because the dog remembers being hit.
15:30 Speaker 01 That's how they learn anything, is learn associations and remember it. So, yeah, they'll, they'll remember who hit them, that it happens, what preceded it, and how they felt afterward.
15:41 Oprah Winfrey? They remember, you took me to the beach and we had a good time, me going in the water.
15:45 Speaker 01 That's right. Or, I don't want to go to the vet, and this is the route to the vet.
15:48 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah. And one of the reasons they don't want to go to the vet is because they remember the route to the vet because of the way it smells.
15:55 Speaker 01 Yeah, absolutely. Exactly right. They remember the way it smells. And the vet smells a certain way, too, right? The veterinary office smells like stressed dogs who've been there before.
16:05 Oprah Winfrey? Right. And they're smelling all the stress of all the dogs who've been there.
16:07 Speaker 01 Yeah.
16:08 Oprah Winfrey? Unbelievable. And is that why when we get off the freeway, just even when we're exiting the freeway, I notice, and Sadie's in the backseat, she stands up and she, is she smelling things? Or does she, or does she recognize this is our road?
16:23 Speaker 01 I think all the cues, right? If you turn off the main road, you're slowing down, it's, it's slower. The road might be different, under the tires. Suddenly, the air comes in, the windows slightly different, and the smell of every place is distinct. And dogs are good observers of that.
16:40 Oprah Winfrey? You say that simply being closer to the ground, the fact that the dogs are closer to the ground, changes how dogs experience sound, how they experience smell, and even their personal space. I, I just never thought of it that way before, before.
16:56 Speaker 01 I think one of the great ways to start thinking about what it's like to be a dog is to just get down on their level, right? Where they're among human knees and ankles and, and clanking shoes, and sound travels differently down there, right? Bounces more, the rumbling of a fan you put on the floor will be felt. And then, of course, there are all sorts of smells on the ground. Most smells are in the air and they land on the ground over time. And so it's full of information about who's been there.
17:27 Oprah Winfrey? So when the dogs, when the dogs are walking, you see these people pulling their dogs along when their dogs are trying to, you know, sniff, sniff, sniff, sniff.
17:35 Speaker 01 Yeah.
17:35 Oprah Winfrey? You're doing the antithesis of what that dog really is going for the walk for. After reading Inside a Dog, I thought, oh, the dogs aren't walking to get exercise. Everybody's trying to get the dogs out to exercise. The dogs are walking for the smell sensation. It's a smelling universe for them.
17:55 Speaker 01 Exactly, right. The walk is for them, right?
17:57 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
17:57 Speaker 01 And we think, oh, we have to make good time. We have to exercise you. You have to go relieve yourself. But as soon as you walk outside and the world has changed, the scent has changed a little bit. There's evidence who's been there in the past. That's what the dogs want to notice. If there's another dog, they want to sniff that dog, see who they are, where they've been, if they're healthy. So I love to take my dogs on smell walks, where one of the walks just is me letting them sniff whatever they want to sniff for as long as they want.
18:27 Oprah Winfrey? Why do dogs love this? We've all seen this, and my dog does too. When Sadie puts her head out the window, she looks like Farrah Fawcett, I have to say. Why do dogs love sticking their head out the car window? Because when humans do it, we can't breathe, all that. Why do they love it?
18:42 Speaker 01 I think it's like olfactory fireworks, right? Every smell at once, all at once, which is just like a delicious experience.
18:50 Oprah Winfrey? All those smells at once. That's why they're all grinning when their heads are out the window. It's like, oh, come on, baby. Bring it to me, baby, yeah. We have a few dog lovers joining us with questions for Dr. Horowitz. Rachel, hi.
19:06 Speaker 02 Hi, thank you so much for having me. I enjoyed this conversation thoroughly. So I have never been a dog person. I am married to a man who rolls around on the floor with every dog that he sees. And about two years ago, our daughter came to us and begged us to rescue the sweet Saddest, most scared, but very sick dog. I reluctantly agreed to adopt him and I spent the next year and a half going to every vet, every specialist, hospitalized him to try to help and make him feel better. And his name is Bo. So Bo has been on his health journey now.
19:51 Speaker 02 He's doing much better for the past six months. But what I've come to realize is that I love him like he is my part of my soul. Like he is my soul dog.
20:01 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
20:01 Speaker 02 The same way that I feel about my husband. Like my husband is my soulmate. So my question is, is this Bo think that I'm his soulmate or soul person also? And Oprah, I know that you've had 21 dogs. Have you ever had this feeling?
20:17 Oprah Winfrey? Oh, my God, yes.
20:19 Speaker 02 Soul knows.
20:20 Oprah Winfrey? Oh, my God, yes, Rachel, I've had this feeling. But so, yes, I don't know if. And my soul dog also knew that he was my soul dog. I could start crying right now.
20:32 Oprah Winfrey? I really could.
20:35 Oprah Winfrey? My soul dog was Luke. And I still, I still think of him. And I think when I transition, Luke will be there to greet me on the other side. That's what I think. So, yeah, that's, that's, that's what I feel. And I, and I knew he knew. I knew he knew. He knew.
20:55 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah. So Dr. Harrell, what do you want to say?
20:57 Speaker 01 Yeah, I mean, I've also had, I think, more than one soul dog, actually, for different times in my life.
21:03 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
21:03 Speaker 01 And for different me's, in a way, different ways that I was being in the world. And this, this is, there's a real basis to this, right? Just, it's analogous to the child parent relationship in that dogs feel attachment, just like children feel attachment to their caregivers. And they attach to a person or persons.
21:23 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
21:24 Speaker 01 And that connection is the basis of this dog-human bond. And it's a real physical connection, you know? People and dogs, when they are bonded like this, they'll sit together and their heart rhythms synchronize with each other, right? By just looking at each other in the eyes, they, their oxytocin levels rise. So this is a real experience that you're having. It's not just something that you're concocting, right? And it's the basis of why dogs are so great with people.
21:54 Oprah Winfrey? And how is Bo now? You said he's going through health issues.
21:58 Speaker 02 So for the past six months, he's healthy. People come up to me all the time to tell me they can't believe he's the same dog. So knocking on every veterinarian's door in our town worked.
22:08 Oprah Winfrey? Really? Yeah.
22:10 Speaker 02 Yeah.
22:10 Oprah Winfrey? Well, we're going through it with Sadie. I mean, I think we're in the last days of Sadie. And I would have to say, I was on tour in Australia in December, and my dog caregiver was like, we don't think, you know, she's gonna make it. So I rushed home. I thought I was gonna have to put her down. And then when I got here, she was, she perked up, you know? But I would have to say that nearing the end, and knowing it's the end, because Sadie is 17, so we know we don't have a whole long time, that there's something really quite precious about these days, too. Because you know you're in the, in the, in the final days. So it's a thing.
22:53 Speaker 01 Yeah, enjoy, enjoy all those years of Bo that you have ahead of you.
22:56 Oprah Winfrey? I want to know, how has Bo enhanced your life? How has he changed you?
23:01 Speaker 02 I'm a different person. I am not the same person that you would have met two years ago.
23:07 Oprah Winfrey? How? How so? How so?
23:09 Speaker 02 I joined my husband rolling around on the floor with all the other dogs.
23:13 Oprah Winfrey? Yay.
23:14 Speaker 02 I actually think it's made my marriage even stronger. Because it was a love that he had that I didn't understand. And now I understand how you can love from the bottom of your heart, like really love an animal more than yourself.
23:29 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah, yeah. Well, God bless you for that. I think that's a wonderful thing to have that as, as another soulmate in the world. Thank you, Rachel.
23:37 Speaker 02 Yes, thank you.
23:38 Oprah Winfrey? Thank you. Marissa, dog mom to 10-year-old Harvey is joining us from Texas. Hi, Marissa.
23:44 Speaker 03 Well, I'm so glad to be here. So, yes, I am the lucky mom to Harvey. He will be 10 later this year. Harvey and I actually met 10 years ago, but I'm quite positive we were family in a past life. I just know it.
24:03 Speaker 03 But we met. We met in San Diego. Back when I lived in California, I was volunteering for a foster organization. I was his foster mother and as the story goes, of course, I meet him and I know instantly that I've known him for many times.
24:20 Speaker 01 You're his person. You're his person.
24:21 Speaker 03 Oh, yeah. He is my person. So, yes, I was a foster win, as I like to call it. So Harvey and I have now spent the last nine years traveling the United States together. We've lived in California. We lived for a little bit in Minneapolis. We were in Chicago for four years. And now we're down here in Dallas, Texas. So I swear he has more airline miles than most people do. But it's been really fun to just travel this country with him and kind of explore with him. But my question for you, so we've been together a long time. And whenever I get ready to leave or head out the door,
25:03 Speaker 03 Harvey seems to do the same thing. So whether I'm going out to the mailbox for a minute or maybe I'm going for some errands that I'm running for the day, Harvey will get anxious. So my question for you is more on the concept of time. So do dogs understand the concept of time? Does he understand that when I'm gone for five minutes or the full day, does he know how long I've been gone? Because it seems like either way, it has the same emotional impact on him. When he sees me getting ready to leave out the door, he seems to get that same emotional reaction. So I'm curious just what he's thinking about as I'm getting ready to leave out the door.
25:45 Speaker 01 Great observation. You know, the flip side of that attachment we were talking about is that in separation, dogs are stressed. They're anxious, right? And that's part of the bond. Actually, it's the kind of negative side of the bond, which is that when you're attached to someone, you don't want to see them go. And I do.
26:04 Oprah Winfrey? And when you're gone, they're stressed.
26:05 Speaker 01 And when you're gone, there's some stress involved, probably why Sadie perked up when you returned, right? There's the relief of that. And it is a really cool question to say, well, does that mean they don't have a sense of how long you're gone? And there actually was research that looked at this question. What they did was they looked at the greeting behavior that you get when you come back in the door, right? That great enthusiastic reply. And they had people leave their dogs for a few minutes, or a half an hour, or several hours, and they looked at the intensity of the greeting. And they found that the longer the people were gone, the more tail wagging, licking, shaking, intensive greeting they got.
26:46 Speaker 01 So dogs, in their behavior, look like they do appreciate the distant, the time you've been gone from them. And in that way, they're kind of marking time. Yeah, it's definitely different, even though they're, whatever, excited every time you come back in the door.
27:03 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah, I noticed this with Sadie, that, especially when she was really well, that if you're gone for a few minutes, I remember coming saying, look, I've only been gone for a few minutes, and you're this excited. But if you're gone for a long time, she would like go around in circles and bark and yelp and do all the things like-
27:23 Speaker 01 Pull out all the stops.
27:24 Oprah Winfrey? Pull out all the stops.
27:25 Speaker 03 The toys, yes.
27:27 Oprah Winfrey? Run and get a toy and all that.
27:29 Speaker 03 He wants to run and go grab something and bring it back to me and show me right when I get back.
27:34 Speaker 01 Yeah, yeah. I also think they mark time through smell, right? Smells change over time. And our spaces smell like us, right? The longer you're gone, everybody has a smell, it's a perfectly normal thing, and our dogs know it, they'll recognize us by our smell alone. The longer you're gone, the less your space smells of you being there. So time is kind of marked in the passage of odor during the day.
28:01 Oprah Winfrey? Everything is, when you read this book, Marissa, everything is through the nose, everything, everything is about the smell.
28:09 Speaker 01 I mean, because it's how they see the world, right?
28:12 Oprah Winfrey? They see the world through their nose.
28:14 Speaker 01 Yeah. And that's how their brain works, olfactory cognition, yeah.
28:18 Oprah Winfrey? Thank you, Marissa.
28:20 Speaker 03 Thank you.
28:21 Oprah Winfrey? All the best to you and Harvey. You and Harvey, 10 years together. That's beautiful. Listeners, is your dog sitting in the window waiting for you to get home before you even pull in the driveway? How do they know to do that? For older dogs, do they know their time is coming to an end? More dog questions for Dr. Alexandra Horowitz after a quick break. Hello, listeners. I always say that one of the great joys of my life has been my dogs. So I am deeply committed to their well-being, just like our friends at The Farmer's Dog. From my golden Retrievers to my Cocker Spaniels, I've had 21 dogs over the years. Their smiles, they do smile, you know? Their snuggles, their spirits remind me to slow down,
29:04 Oprah Winfrey? to be present, and to appreciate the small comforts in life. Listen to this. The Farmer's Dog makes human-grade food for our dogs with real ingredients and minimal processing. So I've been feeding The Farmer's Dog to my Cocker Spaniel Sadie for a while now, Sadie 17 and 1/2, because it supports healthy aging, and I think it's giving us more good days together. Because every time I feed her The Farmer's Dog, I know I'm giving her safe, quality food. To all my fellow dog lovers, you know, our beloved companions give us so much, and that is why The Farmer's Dog helps us do our best for them. Thank you for joining me here on the Oprah Podcast for my conversation with dog expert and bestselling author Alexandra Horowitz.
29:49 Oprah Winfrey? We're having so many "I never thought of it that way" dog moments, so go ahead and share this episode with the fellow dog lovers in your life. And while you're at it, hit subscribe to the Oprah Podcast. Won't cost you a thing. So you believe that trying to show your dog that you're the boss can be harmful?
30:08 Oprah Winfrey? And we know that there are lots of trainers who do that, you know, like you're "I'm the one in charge." Right. Why do you not condone that?
30:15 Speaker 01 Well, again, I look at the science. You know, people are looking at wolf behavior to try to explain how you should be with your dog. And there's very old science that said, oh, when you look at wolves in a captive environment, they establish a dominance hierarchy and there are leaders or alphas who have access to all the resource. But then when people could actually study how wolves behave naturally in the wild.
30:37 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
30:37 Speaker 01 It turned out they live in family packs. And there are leaders of the group. It's the parents who live with their offspring, and their offspring's offspring. And so they're not maintaining their leadership by force, by being bossy. They're not bullying, right? They just know more, and so they tend to be in charge. And we are also in that kind of situation. Dogs are our family. They view us as parents, essentially, in that pack. And we control all aspects of their life already, right? We don't need to worry that they're going to try to threaten our leadership and boss them or bully them around for it.
31:15 Oprah Winfrey? I notice that sometimes your dog knows that you're coming even before the car pulls up, or if the car's in the driveway. Or we've seen these stories on social media of the dog waiting in the window for the kids to come home, or the dog knows that the school bus is coming long before the school bus comes. How do they know that? Are they smelling it? Or are they, they just know it's this time of day?
31:38 Speaker 01 I think both things are true, right? Again, they're great. They understand our habits. So if we create a habit, they learn that perfectly right away. That's how you can train a dog, just by creating relationships.
31:50 Oprah Winfrey? That's how Pavlov trained the dogs.
31:52 Speaker 01 That's right, right? Like, they learn associations. So if you come and go at the same time every day, they know when that time is, and they're ready for you.
31:59 Oprah Winfrey? And if you feed them at the same time every day.
32:01 Speaker 01 They know that as well, right? Even if we don't think we're doing it, you know, the dog will show up, ready to be fed.
32:06 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
32:07 Speaker 01 But also, I do think the smells of the room change over the course of the day, and they're attuned to that, just like it gets dark outside and we notice that the day is ending, right? It's a totally normal thing for us to notice. They're also noticing the day in odors.
32:23 Oprah Winfrey? I think, I think this is so interesting, because, you know, for years, we were told that your dog doesn't know the difference between five minutes or five hours. So what you were saying to Marissa. Really changes all that. That your dog does, your dog isn't saying, oh, well, 7:07. Or it's been 25 minutes.
32:42 Speaker 01 No.
32:43 Oprah Winfrey? Or it's been an hour.
32:43 Speaker 01 Right.
32:44 Oprah Winfrey? That's, that's.
32:45 Speaker 01 That's a human concept.
32:46 Oprah Winfrey? That's a human concept.
32:47 Speaker 01 Yeah.
32:47 Oprah Winfrey? They do know the difference between it's been five hours, or it's been five minutes, or it's been five days.
32:54 Speaker 01 That's right, right.
32:55 Oprah Winfrey? They do.
32:55 Speaker 01 They feel that, and they're noting all those changes of the day and as, as we'd expect, right?
33:01 Oprah Winfrey? And when you're not there, they're stressed.
33:03 Speaker 01 Yeah, it's stressful to be a part, right? But they also can calm from that stress.
33:07 Oprah Winfrey? And for some dogs, it's more stressful than others. I had a dog, Sophie, who just literally, you couldn't, I couldn't leave her anywhere. She had such anxiety.
33:14 Speaker 01 Yeah, I mean, in children.
33:15 Oprah Winfrey? Howling in the hotel rooms.
33:17 Speaker 01 It's like an insecure attachment, right?
33:19 Oprah Winfrey? Yes.
33:19 Speaker 01 But with a dog who has a secure attachment, when you come, they calm, right? The stress is transient. It's just they want to be back in that relationship with you.
33:28 Oprah Winfrey? What are they doing all day? So there's so many people who are listening to us right now, who have pets and they obviously have to leave home. And what are those dogs doing all day?
33:37 Speaker 01 Yeah, well, often not a lot. We don't usually give them a lot to do. So they'll try to make work. Yeah, dogs get, absolutely get bored during the day, right? I think it's a great, they'll, they'll rest. So it's not that they have to be at work all day, doing something. But if we give them nothing to do, they'll find things to do. I think a lot of what we think of as misbehavior, pulling out our, our shoes and chewing on them and so forth, that's because they were bored, they didn't have anything to do.
34:03 Oprah Winfrey? Nothing to do. Is it better to have, as I said, at one point, I had 11 dogs at one time. That's too much, unless you do have a farm. But I've always thought that having at least another dog is good for the dog.
34:20 Speaker 01 I think it depends on the dog and, and the person, the type of relationship you want to have. I mean, now you live with one dog.
34:25 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
34:26 Speaker 01 You know, that's a very specific relationship. When you have many dogs, they get to have relationships with each other, right? Which is great.
34:34 Oprah Winfrey? Right.
34:34 Speaker 01 Companionship.
34:35 Oprah Winfrey? So if you're a working person, is it better to have two dogs? Because that dog has a relationship with something, that dog has something to do during the day.
34:41 Speaker 01 Right, it does give them social companion. So for a lot of dogs, that's great. I mean, some dogs don't want to be with any other dogs. So I would, you have to know your dog. But yeah, social companionship during the day. Come over, bother me, come over, play with me. That's much better than being left alone if you're a social creature.
34:59 Oprah Winfrey? Mm-hmm. Jaime is zooming in from Houston. Welcome Jaime. Hi there.
35:04 Speaker 04 Hi. Thank you so much for having me. This has been a wonderful conversation. Um, my dog Lennox was 14. He died on December 10th of 2025. And, sorry, I'm gonna try to get through my question without crying.
35:18 Oprah Winfrey? I know.
35:18 Speaker 04 Um, he was, um, the most amazing dog. And he was with me through every life milestone, the birth of my children, my wedding, um. And, um, when he passed, we had a week of time before we were going to have to euthanize him. Um, he was deteriorating and the vet said that that was the best decision. Um, and my question is just, did he understand that that was his time? Because obviously, we made the decision for him. And I feel a lot of guilt that I took time away from him. So I just want to understand if he understood that it was his time and that it's okay.
36:01 Speaker 01 Hmm, that's so hard. You know, and I think, you know, what you're experiencing, we experience, right? And this is a normal, grief is a normal part of, of a strong relationship ending. Um, and I think a lot of people do have to unfortunately be in that situation where they're making a decision about the end of their animal's life, right? Um, I, I think that's very hard. So don't make yourself feel guilty about it. Now, your dog, Lennox, probably knew that he was aging, right? He could feel, I can't jump up. I don't hear as well. I can't run as fast as I used to. So they're experiencing their own aging process.
36:42 Speaker 01 Um, as we've said before, you know, I don't think that they really live in the moment. I think they're thinking ahead and they're remembering the past. But they're such great observers of that moment and the things you were doing for him in his final week. He would have been completely gladdened by those things, right? Those were terrific things. And having you there and being with him, that's what he would have noticed. Not felt suspicious or worried or anticipating something horrible happening, right? So he knew where he was and what he wanted was to be in that space with you and that's what you gave him.
37:18 Oprah Winfrey? So don't feel the guilt, you know, Jaime. Uh, if you've been listening, I was sharing, I'm going through this right now. And, you know, I was just asking myself the question this morning. If we didn't have all of these medications trying to keep her from having pain, would she have already gone on her own? And so I'm wrestling with this question right now. When is it time? How did you all come to the decision that it was time?
37:49 Speaker 04 Um, when we went to the vet, he was just like having a lot of trouble, like holding on to his bowels and just like having a regular, normal life.
37:59 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
37:59 Speaker 04 And, um, we basically like tried to explore other options. And the veterinarian said that regardless of the other options, he would never be the same Lennox he was when he was like running and jumping and doing all the things. And so it was just the decision of we can keep him on this medication regimen, but he still could not have the best quality of life. Um, so that that was the choice to make to give him peace.
38:24 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah, it's the quality of life that matters.
38:26 Speaker 01 Yeah, and the spirit, when you say this not going to be the same Lennox, right? When you see that this person, this dog you know, is, is lost themselves at some level, right? They're not the same spirit. That's when you know it's time, right? And it's so horrible that we have to oversee this part of their life. Um, but it sounds like you did as much as you could for Lennox.
38:53 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
38:53 Speaker 01 And he would have looked in your face and known that.
38:55 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
38:56 Speaker 01 Smelled it.
38:57 Speaker 04 Thank you.
38:57 Oprah Winfrey? We would have looked in your face and smelled it, yes, yeah.
39:00 Speaker 04 Yeah.
39:01 Oprah Winfrey? How are your family and your kids doing?
39:04 Speaker 04 They're doing well. There's a really awesome book about dogs going to heaven. And my son loves to read it. He's four years old and he loves to read it at bedtime during his prayers. He still prays for him every night. Um, so he's still very much with us, um, even though he's not with us physically. Um, but he's, he's always going to be a constant, I'm sure. Um, even if and when we do decide to adopt another dog, um, he'll always be a part of our family.
39:32 Oprah Winfrey? I was going to say, are you, will you, will you be adopting another dog?
39:36 Speaker 04 It's such a hard choice, Oprah, because we, before, my husband and I said, like, oh, I can't believe people like lose a dog and then immediately adopt. But now that we're in this position, we're like, the house is way too quiet. We need a dog immediately. So we're thinking about it. We just, we don't want to rush into it, but we're definitely thinking about it.
39:58 Oprah Winfrey? Okay.
39:59 Speaker 01 You'll get to meet a totally new person, you know?
40:02 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
40:03 Speaker 01 That's the thing. It's not the same one, again. It's a new, it's a new relationship.
40:08 Oprah Winfrey? It's a new energy and new relationship.
40:10 Speaker 01 But it does fill that space and that silence.
40:13 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
40:14 Speaker 04 Yeah.
40:14 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah. Well, thank you. Thank you so much, Jaime. Thanks for sharing. Thank you.
40:19 Speaker 04 Thank you for having me.
40:20 Oprah Winfrey? While we were working on this show, my team came across an Instagram that caught our eye. Listen to Steve's story.
40:26 Speaker 05 I had a little dog named Wolfgang. He just went everywhere with me. When Wolfgang died, I think he was 12, it was just devastating.
40:38 Speaker 05 So I thought, well, if something good could come out of these deaths, maybe it would make it better. I decided I would go to the shelter. I would find the oldest dog that wasn't going to get adopted. So I adopted a 13-year-old Chihuahua. And he was so happy. It was immediately healing. I had plenty of room, so I adopted another one and another one, and I ended up at nine. I started an Instagram called Wolfgang2242. It wasn't started out as a senior rescue page. It just grew organically. I realized what I was doing with these dogs was very fulfilling to people because people get to see this dog come from the shelter with its final few years left and get to live out a happy life.
41:24 Speaker 05 What I found out after adopting senior dogs is it's just the best situation. They have settled into the best version of themselves and you get to enjoy that. If you're reading, they want to be right there by your feet. They're great for movie nights. They want to be with you. It's always hard on me when one goes. A lot of people say, how do you keep doing this? But I bring it back to being about the pet. I made sure that they were in a safe, happy, love home. It's a win. Every time is a win.
41:57 Speaker 05 To know that the Instagram is having an effect on people and more senior dogs are getting adopted, that gives me purpose.
42:04 Oprah Winfrey? Wow. I hear because of Steve's Instagram page, hundreds of senior dogs have been adopted. That's really incredible. Steve is joining us from Ohio. Hi, Steve.
42:15 Speaker 05 Hello, hi Oprah.
42:17 Oprah Winfrey? I'm so glad to hear your story because I have a friend, Sally Jordan, in Santa Barbara, who's done the same thing over the years. She's adopted, you know, disabled dogs and senior dogs and you go to her house and dogs are like in their little wheelchair carts and they, yeah, it's really, it takes a magnanimous heart to do that. Really wonderful. And why do you, because everybody loves the puppies. Everybody loves the puppies. And why are you attracted to the seniors, do you think?
42:50 Speaker 05 Well, I think I wasn't originally because, you know, I've had dogs my whole life. So I've had puppies and that whole experience. But I specifically adopted the senior, you know, to give my dog's death meaning. Another dog would get to live because he died. And then I found out how incredible they are. They're so grateful. And as I said in that piece, I think, you know, as we get older, we become, hopefully, the best versions of ourselves. And I think that's what happens with dogs. You know, they just settle into who they are and they're just so easy. It's just so easy and they're so grateful.
43:30 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah, you know what I've noticed too? I realized the reason, one of the reasons why I have such peace about getting older myself is because I've watched so many dogs go through that process. Do you find the same thing?
43:45 Speaker 05 I do. And something you'd said earlier that I thought was so important. You know, you said, understanding that you don't have that much time left with Sadie.
43:55 Speaker 01 Yes.
43:55 Speaker 05 And that it's, it's special.
43:57 Speaker 01 Yeah.
43:58 Speaker 05 And I believe that. I believe it's, you know, it's an honor. You are, you get to guard this, you know, living being through the end of their days. And I think that's just a terrific honor and there's some beauty in that. I really do believe that.
44:12 Speaker 01 Do you have a question for Dr. Horowitz?
44:14 Speaker 05 Actually, it's kind of a two parter. Um, I've been, as I said, rescuing senior dogs for almost 15 years now. And when they come to me, um, they either don't have a name or they've got their name from, you know, their previous life and I always change it, almost always change it. There's been one or two that I kept. Um, my thought was, you know, new life, new name. But I read once that a dog associates their name with you, not with themselves. So, you know, like, like Moira here would be like, okay, this tall, skinny old man calls me Moira. And therefore it has no ill effect on them by renaming them because they associate it with you.
44:58 Speaker 05 Um, and I wondered what your thoughts were on that.
45:00 Speaker 01 I mean, I think that's a really great, cool observation. There is something to it in that, you know, who is saying their name and how they are saying it? I think it's part of what their name is to a dog. In other words, it's not words on a page to them.
45:17 Oprah Winfrey? Say it again. Who is saying their name?
45:19 Speaker 01 Who is saying their name and how they're saying it is what their name is. Right? And we know this actually kind of intuitively because if you've lived with dogs, you give your dogs nicknames, right? My Pumpernickel, who is in Inside of a Dog, she's Pinnacle and, and Nick and Pump and Kiddo. And, you know, and she came to all those names, right? And just dogs learn their names really quickly, but they're also very much associating it with who's saying it to them and how they're saying it to them. And so, yeah, they can pick up on this new name, which means a new life.
45:53 Oprah Winfrey? Yes.
45:53 Speaker 05 Yeah, that makes sense. Um, the, the second part of the question is, I have never, in all the years I've been doing this, I have never once had trouble bringing a dog into the group. I've never had my group not accept a dog, and I've never had the new dog not accept the group. My, I don't know whether that's because they're all seniors and they're just kind of laid back and chill, or is it because that there's so many dogs, they're not as territorial over me as if I just had one dog.
46:25 Speaker 01 Hmm, I think they probably do establish their own social group, which includes you, right? But includes each other, and they're seeing that when they come in. But I think probably my speculation would be the main part of it is that when we mostly meet dogs, they're puppies or adolescents. And at that time in their life, you know, their body has far outpaced the development of their brain. They have not grown into their brains yet. And as adult and senior dogs, their, their brain has caught up, right? And they can just be the flexible social companions to each other that they're so good at being and the reason we domesticated them.
47:04 Oprah Winfrey? Every time I was introducing a new dog, I remember introducing Sunny and Lauren to Luke and Leila and Sadie and that, and that group. And I would put my T-shirt on the new dogs, let my, let the new dogs sleep in my T-shirt overnight and introduce the new dogs to the old dogs in my T-shirt. So there would be my scent combined with the, combined with the scent of the dogs.
47:30 Speaker 01 So you were all, already a smell scientist. I knew.
47:33 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah, there was something about my scent.
47:36 Speaker 01 Yeah.
47:37 Speaker 05 That's interesting. I'd also heard that if you take them for a walk.
47:41 Speaker 01 Yeah.
47:42 Speaker 05 Together, immediately. That, that establishes they're in the same pack. And that gets rid of any, you know, I, I've never had that issue, but when people have asked me about it, you know, and they're probably got two dogs and bringing a third one in, that's usually what I tell them to do.
47:58 Speaker 01 That's a great, that's great advice, right? Like, it's like having a conversation with, a hard conversation with a child. You want to sit both in the car and face the same direction. You know, go on a walk together, let the dogs kind of experience the world in parallel for a moment before they come back into the space where somebody has their special bed, or someone likes a certain spot and doesn't want to have it, someone else be in there.
48:22 Oprah Winfrey? How many dogs do you have right now? How many dogs? Who's on the couch?
48:26 Speaker 05 It's funny because I laughed when you said that you had 11.
48:28 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
48:29 Speaker 05 At one point. I, I keep nine. That's my number. That's the number I can deal with the best. And having said that, um, there's a rescue group that I work with in Florida a lot, and, and they just talked me into taking another one. So right now I have 10, although my normal number is nine.
48:45 Oprah Winfrey? And you feed?
48:46 Speaker 05 And it is different.
48:47 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
48:48 Speaker 05 Because they're seniors. So it's, you know, it's a different, their, their activity level is different.
48:51 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah. Well, yeah, I had no seniors. It was crazy all the time and feeding time was always, was always crazy. And, you know, I, I have to say this, for, for years, I was making all the food for my dogs. And for years, Sadie has had homemade, fresh food, and now she only eats the farmer's dog.
49:11 Speaker 05 Oh, that's, that's exactly what I feed too.
49:14 Oprah Winfrey? You feed, you feed your dogs the farmer's dog?
49:16 Speaker 05 Yeah, and I just, I tried to do with my dogs what I do with myself, you know, the, the more, the less processed the food is.
49:25 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
49:26 Speaker 05 You know, the fresher the food is.
49:27 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
49:28 Speaker 05 And I've seen dogs come to me from a bad situation and they start eating, you know, less processed, fresh food, and they just come to life. It makes such a difference.
49:38 Oprah Winfrey? Do senior dogs need a special diet?
49:39 Speaker 05 Um, only if they, like, I have one that's in kidney failure too.
49:45 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
49:46 Speaker 05 And that one needs a, a special diet.
49:48 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
49:49 Speaker 05 Um, generally speaking, the rest of them all eat the same thing.
49:51 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah. And your dog that's in kidney failure, what are you doing special for that dog?
49:57 Speaker 05 We do fluids.
49:58 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
49:59 Speaker 05 Um, and then I have a renal diet because it's, it's lower in protein and it's lower in, um, a salt, I believe. Um, so, you know, she has to be on that. Um, and then I have to do the fluids like three times a week. And then we just found out that she's got a low-grade heart disease now, which is Really tough because what you do for heart disease, it conflicts with what they've got with kidney disease. So the heart disease does not want fluids. And yet I have to do the fluids. So I just have to back off the fluids and do less of them.
50:36 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
50:36 Speaker 05 But maybe more often.
50:38 Oprah Winfrey? I don't want to see your vet bill. I don't want to see your vet bill. Oh, honey chow.
50:43 Speaker 05 It's funny, I was just there today and I have to go back in the morning. It's just, yeah, it's. And then, but to be fair, there will be months and months where I don't have to go at all. And everybody's great, you know, and then sometimes it rains.
50:56 Oprah Winfrey? That's what I was gonna say, Steve. I think a lot of people fear adopting a senior dog because they'll be set, number one, set in their behaviors. Or you think that the dog is gonna soon die. Or you think you're gonna have all kinds of medical problems. What do you want people to know about what it's like to adopt an older dog?
51:13 Speaker 05 Yeah, to me, it's really just, it's that they're so easy. They fit into your lifestyle very easily. And then as far as the vet, I mean, if you're not crazy like me and you don't have nine of them, then, you know, it's affordable to get insurance.
51:28 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
51:28 Speaker 05 You know, so if you've only got one or two, then you can get insurance to prevent that. But I had a dog recently die at seventeen. She was only at the vet a couple of times and it was for teeth cleaning. So you just, you know, it's luck of the draw and that's true with a puppy as well.
51:44 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah, yeah. Wonderful to talk to you. Thank you so much. We love your Instagram. It's so great. It's so great. Thank you, Steve.
51:52 Speaker 05 Oh, thank you. I appreciate that.
51:53 Oprah Winfrey? And all ten dogs now.
51:56 Speaker 05 Ten dogs now.
51:56 Oprah Winfrey? You don't make it to eleven. It'll happen.
52:00 Speaker 05 Two of them are seventeen, so I think we're walking a tight rope right now, too.
52:05 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah, I understand. Thank you so much, Steve. Thank you.
52:09 Speaker 05 You bet. Thank you.
52:10 Oprah Winfrey? What do you most want people to, you wish they knew about? The inside of a dog?
52:17 Speaker 01 I mean, I want people to let dogs be dogs, realize that they're not little furry humans, right? They're not stuffed things.
52:24 Oprah Winfrey? They don't care about being dressed up.
52:26 Speaker 01 They don't care about being dressed up, except for maybe if they don't love it, or if you give them a lot of attention. And, you know, the reason we love them is because they're different than us. And so I think we should celebrate those differences and let them be themselves.
52:39 Oprah Winfrey? Okay, when I first started reading this book, I was fascinated because I've seen people out with their dogs with raincoats. When I lived in Chicago, I had a raincoat. And reading this book, I know that's the last thing the dog wanted, was a raincoat.
52:57 Speaker 01 The only thing interesting about the raincoat is if it means they're being taken out, right?
53:02 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
53:03 Speaker 01 But other than that, right, it feels like someone pressing on their back. They don't need a raincoat. Their body is suited for that.
53:09 Oprah Winfrey? Say that to everybody. We're thinking you're putting the coat on them because it's going to keep them warm, or keep them dry, or keep them that. And for them, it feels like pressure.
53:17 Speaker 01 For the dog, it's like someone is pressing on their back to have a raincoat on, right? And in wolves, we know that that's done when they're being scolded, maybe.
53:26 Oprah Winfrey? Yes.
53:27 Speaker 01 For misbehavior by an adult, an older dog. And so your dog is accepting the raincoat, but no dog is like, putting it on themselves.
53:36 Oprah Winfrey? It's really glad to get it off, right?
53:37 Speaker 01 They're glad to get them off. And they'll deal with it like they deal with a lot of nonsense from us, right? Dogs put up with a lot. And they're flexible, and they can. But if we were really interested in what they want, you know, I think we'd look at their behavior, instead of just assuming that they're little furry humans.
53:54 Oprah Winfrey? Well, I think when they get together, they must say, can you believe what my human did today? She had me dressed up in a Halloween costume, and I look ridiculous. Yes. I think that, do they also, it seems like as soon as I would give the dogs a bath, they would go find, especially out here, some cow dung to roll in.
54:15 Speaker 01 Yeah, yeah. They don't want to smell like, you know, your coconut shampoo. They want to smell like where they've been and who they are. And that's actually how they recognize each other, right? They can smell who Who someone is, a person or another dog by their scent. So they'd rather not be perfumed, right? They'd rather smell like something fantastic.
54:35 Oprah Winfrey? So even if you, obviously, we have to bathe our dogs. But if you're gonna bathe your dog, you should bathe your dog in a scentless shampoo.
54:41 Speaker 01 I think that would be better, yeah. And just put up with, you know, their being unshowered once in a while, right?
54:49 Oprah Winfrey? Because they don't like to get bathed.
54:51 Speaker 01 They don't tend to, right?
54:53 Oprah Winfrey? Yeah.
54:54 Speaker 01 You know, if your dog is hopping in the bath, then go for it. Otherwise, I think they would rather not.
55:03 Oprah Winfrey? But we want them to be clean. We want them to be clean coming in the house.
55:07 Speaker 01 Yeah. If they're rolling in cow dung, you have my permission.
55:11 Oprah Winfrey? Cow dung is where it ends. Thank you. Dr. Horowitz's book, Inside of a Dog, is now fully revised and updated and available everywhere books are sold. It's gonna change the way you take your dog on their next walk. A big thank you to The Farmer's Dog for partnering with us on this episode. Their fresh food has been clinically shown to help dogs age well, so you can have more good years together. And as I said, for years, I made all of my dogs' food. And I ran into somebody from Farmer's Dog, and they said, "Have you tried Farmer's Dog?" And I was like, "No, never tried that, because we make our dog food fresh from scratch." And I can tell you that we put a bowl
55:55 Oprah Winfrey? of the freshly made food that we had done, and the fresh food from Farmer's Dog. And now that's all Sadie's eating. Pretty amazing. Thank you, Dr. Horowitz, and Rachel, and Marissa, for being with us here in Jaime, and Steve for joining us today. Inside of a Dog. If you have a dog, you need this book. Or give it to a friend. It's a great gift for a friend who has a dog. Go well, everybody. You can subscribe to the Oprah Podcast on YouTube and follow us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. I'll see you next week. Thanks, everybody.
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