How Your EGO is Causing Failure!

Ego is ALWAYS FALSE! Doubts, fears, and insecurity are what cause an EGO to rears its head! The most self-confident people do NOT have big egos!!! Can you believe that? It is REALLY the people who are most insecure and fearful that have the biggest egos. This is something I’ve struggled with myself and so I can tell you from first-hand experience how to recognize and CHECK your ego! When your EGO takes control of you, you become someone else! It takes you outside of your character and the truth of the matter is… YOU CAN’T LOVE YOURSELF IF YOU’RE NOT BEING YOURSELF! It’s the EXACT thing that could be holding you back from WINNING! It’s almost like your alter-ego taking control of your life and causing you PAIN, STRESS, WORRY, ANXIETY and to ultimately LOSE in life! In this new release, I’m teaching you the 5 signs you need to look out for to tell if your ego is taking over AND the 8 ways you EGO may currently be controlling your life! It’s time to GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY!!! Stop letting your EGO control your life. Your breakthrough is here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• 0:00Ed Mylett?

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• 0:45Ed Mylett?

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  This is The Ed Mylett Show.

• 1:45Ed Mylett?

  Welcome back to Max Out, everybody. I'm Ed Mylett, and I want to start out today's show by just reminding you of something about you, because maybe no one's told you in a little while. You were born to do something great with your life. You're supposed to do something special, and you're gonna. I can promise you that you have all the potential in the world within you. And I know the rest of the world is probably telling you constantly to be average, to be ordinary. You know, there's different haters you have in your life. There's people who put you in your box. There's people who overlook. Look you that make you feel invisible. And it's important that you hear from me that that's not who you are. And by the way, you're not even who you've already been in your life. Your past does not equal your future, your present does not equal your future. And I just want to remind you officially that you can do something great with your life. And that you're destined to do something great with your life and that you were born for a reason.

• 2:30Ed Mylett?

  So important that you know that, that you hear that from me today. And that you begin to believe it about yourself. Because if you don't believe that about yourself, there's no chance it's going to happen. You can't achieve something in your life that you don't believe strongly, certainly, that you can achieve. And I know that I find many of you today, some of you are listening to this today. You've got momentum in your life and things are going well and you're looking for a key. Or you want to hear about a mistake you might make that you can miss because I warned you about it. And I'm going to give you all those things, you know, that on every program. But I know there's many of you that arrived here today, you're just not in the, in the groove. Things aren't going great, maybe you're in a down cycle in your life. Maybe there's some letdowns and some hurts that are happening right now. And maybe a little bit of, you know, a little melancholy, little anxiety, little fear, maybe all the way to some depression.

• 3:15Ed Mylett?

  And I just want to be that person who reminds you that you can do something special and that you're going to. And that you have everything you need within you right now to make your life great. And you can turn it around at any time you decide to. You know, what you allow is what's going to continue in your life. I put out a post about this several weeks ago. It's hard to accept this, but what's happening in our lives, we're allowing it to happen. And to some extent, we almost believe we deserve it because we produce in our life. What we really believe we're worth, what we really believe we deserve. And it doesn't, it's hard to accept that because it seems coincidental. You know, that the wrong person in our life, or there was a business setback, or our car broke down. Or, you know, our company went out of business, or whatever it might be. One of your clients just quit and changed their mind. And it seems coincidental.

• 3:59Ed Mylett?

  But you really truly are getting out of your life what you believe you're worth, what you believe you deserve. And you're allowing it to happen. And I'm going to challenge you today to stop that, stop allowing it and know that you deserve better. And so we're going to talk about something very ironic today that doesn't seem connected to it. But it's absolutely connected to it, and that's ego. See, the truth is ego is always false. Ego is always something that raises its head when we're insecure, when we're fearful. If you meet people that you think are egomaniacs, that are constantly bragging about themselves, these are the most insecure people that you know. They're the most fearful people that you know. They're the most scared, and they're usually the least happy. And so, but I'm gonna say something to you. I want you to consider as I go through ego today. I know you think, wow, I'm so down on myself, how could I have an ego?

• 4:44Ed Mylett?

  It's actually the people that are down on themselves that actually have their ego materialize and show up more often than they think. And it's their ego that may actually be holding them back. You think, wow, how could someone with low self-esteem have a big ego? Well, trust me, they do. And so egos are not part of people with high self-esteem. The people in my life that are the most self-confident typically don't have big egos. And so I want to talk to you about that today. By the way, I'm covering this today like many things I cover because it's something I struggle with. My ego will step forward often in my life, and it usually steps forward when I'm the most scared. It could be when I'm achieving, I'm starting to be pretty full of myself, right? But a lot of times when you're achieving and you're full of yourself, what's really happening in your mind is you're afraid you're gonna fall down. You're afraid you're gonna lose something. You're afraid there's gonna be a setback.

• 5:27Ed Mylett?

  So often our friends where we see their ego is when they're doing good. Or she thinks she looks so good, she's showing herself. Actually, she doesn't think she looks good, and she's looking for validation from other people. You guys that have a friend, you know, he's really winning, he's making a lot of money, he's just not the same, he's got a big ego all of a sudden. You'd be surprised, that money he's making, that car he's driving now, he's so afraid he's gonna lose it. He's so scared, he so believes his results have exceeded who he really is. He's so out over his skis that that ego shows up because he's afraid. When you see ego, know it usually means fear. And I know that sounds counterintuitive, but it's true. So we're gonna talk about just recognizing our ego when it shows up. Because for me, either someone else points it out to me, close to me, or I see it in myself.

• 6:11Ed Mylett?

  If you have to wait around for other people to tell you, hey, your ego's out of control. It's too late usually. So we've got to be able to see our ego when it rears its head, be aware of it, and it loses its power over us. We can go back to being our real selves, which is point one today. You can't love yourself if you're not being yourself. You can't love yourself if you're not being yourself. And when our ego shows up, and in a minute, I'm going to show you some not-so-subtle ways ego show up, and you're going to see what I mean about maybe your ego is present. But remember this, when ego shows up, we're not ourselves. We're not connected to God. In other words, if you can let go of your ego, you can let God in. When you can let go of your ego, you can let your real confidence in. When you let go of your ego, you can go really become who you were born to be. And so oftentimes, this is so important you get,

• 6:57Ed Mylett?

  you may be losing right now because of your ego. Because of your ego, because you're not feeling good about yourself. And so let's get into some of the things that are indicative of big egos, the really obvious ones that I want you to look at when they rear their head sometimes for you or others. But then we're going to go to the not-so-obvious ones, and then we'll talk about a solution. So here we go. Here are some of the signs that your ego is taking over in your life. Number one, defensiveness. It's not one you'd think of, is it? Defensiveness. You ever meet somebody who's very defensive, very reactive, about whatever their situation is, or whatever you're asking them about? Their ego is rearing its head. Sometimes we need to respond to criticism to get better, and when we're defensive about it, that's our ego rearing its head. So in yourself and in other people, do you see any defensiveness patterns for you? This is an ego issue.

• 7:41Ed Mylett?

  Number two thing that's ego issue is always trying to be right, or prove what you're saying to be true in excess. If you ever meet somebody who's kind of going out of their way to prove what they're saying is true, this is usually their ego taking over because they know what they're saying may not be true, and this is their ego rearing its head. The second thing is the need to always win in a disagreement, the need to always win in a fight. This is an ego issue, that somehow, if you concede to somebody that they've made a great point, and maybe you need to make an adjustment or a change, that somehow you're weak. This is made out of a position of insecurity. So believe it or not, that's an ego move based out of the insecurities you have. You don't always have to win every disagreement. It's okay to say I'm sorry. It's okay to admit. Admitting you're sorry, admitting you're wrong, being open to criticism.

• 8:25Ed Mylett?

  and changing is a sign of confidence and strength, lack of ego. Ego is when we're weak and insecure and we have to win, we have to prove what we're saying is true. We have to prove we're right. If you see this tendency in someone that you're in a relationship with, you're in business with, or in yourself, this is their ego rearing their head and they're never going to fulfill their full potential. I know many of you right now, that's so and so at work, that's my spouse, that's my girlfriend, that's my boyfriend, that's my dad, that's my mom. And that's great that you see it in other people, but is it you? Just ask yourself honestly, is it you? It's easy to see these egos in other people. But the real winners in life, the real achievers are so self-aware, they see these things in themselves. Number three, ego issue, pride and boasting, constantly bragging about themselves,

• 9:08Ed Mylett?

  boasting about their achievements, boasting about what they have going, being very prideful in their behavior. The Bible talks often about, you know, the maladies of having pride in our life. But if you're bragging, if you're boastful, if you're prideful all the time, this is someone with a big ego. That's one of the more obvious ones, we go, I know that, but do you see that in someone you love? Do you see that in someone in business? Do you see prideful and boasting in yourself? The next one's a not so obvious one, revenge. Do you seek revenge against people? Do you want to get back at somebody? Do you know people who are constantly getting back at somebody? Revenge is ego every single time. Next, possessiveness. Possessiveness is an ego thing. We don't own people and our desire to control people, control situations, to possess people almost is an ego issue.

• 9:52Ed Mylett?

  And when you see this in other people in your life, someone's trying to be possessive of you in your business or in your personal relationships, know this is an ego out of control happening and they better get that ego in check, or it's going to make your life miserable being in a relationship with them. And if you have this issue, you're going to make people around you miserable trying to possess them as well. Be honest, does this fit you or someone you love or no? Talking poorly or gossiping about other people, number one sign of insecurity, and that's ego. You think, wow, he's right. Insecurity and lack of confidence is actually ego, and it is. And so people who gossip, who talk about others, try to go an entire day of your life without talking about another person in a negative way. Actually, try to go about an entire day of your life without talking about another person.

• 10:34Ed Mylett?

  Just try to not talk about another person to other people for an entire day. And it'll begin to reveal to you how often maybe even you do it. And I say this because it's true of me. I always say I'm positive. I never talk bad about people. But that's not true. I have moments of weakness, especially when I'm with other people who sort of do that. I start to behave more like them, and maybe you do too. When you're around gossipers, do you gossip or do you stay above it? This is a sign of insecurity. It's a sign of weakness. Do you see this in you? Be honest, where you talk about other people in the presence of other people? Or do you know somebody who's like this? Either you or them have an ego issue. Next is what I call the gym weirdos. You ever been at the gym and you see that woman or that guy constantly flexing in the mirror all the time? Like that, it makes you almost uncomfortable, doesn't it?

• 11:18Ed Mylett?

  Or maybe you have a friend who's constantly looking in the mirror, constantly checking their phone, constantly posting only filtered pictures on social media, right? They're just constantly obsessed with what they're looking at themselves. These are out of control ego people, right? So ask yourself a question. Is that you or somebody that you care about? Bullying. Bullying is an ego issue. Only insecure and weak people bully people. When I say bully, I'm not just talking about children in school. I'm talking about at work. You may have a boss that's a bully. You may have somebody in your department that's a bully. You may have a leader that's a bully, that their only way to get you to move and perform is bullying. This may surprise you, but as a child, I was bullied regularly because I was undersized and they'd call me Eddie Spaghetti and I just didn't have confidence.

• 12:01Ed Mylett?

  Bullies figure out who the unconfident kids are, don't they? And so I got picked on a lot. Not only did I not have any confidence, I was insecure, I was also small. So I was a great target for bullies. But honestly, when I became a businessman, I think I became a bit of a bully when I was young. Now, this is 20 years ago. But my style of leadership was intensity, was almost beating people up into performing rather than elevating them with recognition. And so bullying can be easily sloughed off, but I want you to look at your style in business and in your family. Do you get people to elevate because you recognize, praise, and believe in them? Which is what I think I'm great at now in my life. Because I recognize the pain it caused other people when I was in my early twenties, when I was more of a bully, push people type leader.

• 12:42Ed Mylett?

  You'll get far more out of your life and other people by pulling them with you than by pushing them. So ask yourself this of yourself as a leader in business, in your work, in your family, or the people around you. This is an ego issue. Now, let's go through some of the less obvious ego issues that you may be suffering from or people you know. Number one, seeking outside approval and reward. The addiction to other people's approval is an ego issue on your part. You have an out of control ego if you're seeking the approval of other people. Remember what I said to you earlier. You can't love yourself if you're not being yourself, and you can't be yourself if you don't believe in yourself. Remember that again. Let me say it to you again. You must hear this, okay? You can't love yourself if you're not being yourself, and you can't be yourself if you don't believe in yourself. And so, when you're looking at the addiction of other people's approval and seeking that all the time,

• 13:27Ed Mylett?

  that's the symptom. The disease is you're suffering from lack of personal belief, not being able to be alone. People who are afraid of being lonely usually have an ego issue. They're afraid to be alone. They don't like to be in their own company and own presence. Ask yourself, are you comfortable in your own presence and your own company? Again, that'll indicate to you whether you love yourself. Another ego issue is that you only hang around people who agree with you.

• 13:50Ed Mylett?

  You only hang around people who believe exactly politically what you believe, exactly what you believe religiously, exactly what you believe about society. You know, a rich life, a confident person, is willing to associate with people who have different opinions and express them. An unconfident person can only surround themselves with people who think exactly like them. And that's a formula for a really boring life. It's a formula for no growth. There's no one to challenge you. There's no one to stretch you. There's no one to make you think differently. There's no one to help you express your opinions. One of the great things about having a different opinion than a friend is you get to express that. And maybe it reinforces your strength. Maybe they persuade you. Next level is really subtle is you're offended by criticism. If you're offended by people's criticism, you really have an ego issue. You need to look at that or the people around you that do. I'm gonna give you two more that are ego issues that you need to look at. Are you stuck in the past?

• 14:35Ed Mylett?

  Are you constantly telling old stories from your past? Because that's an ego issue. That's a lack of self-esteem issue. Nobody wants to hear about your past. No one wants to know where you played quarterback or what you got in college or what promotion you once had or when you were once on TV. No one wants to know about the past or what you once did anywhere in your life. They want to know where you're going and what you're doing. If you're constantly reciting the past... That means you're not living in the present. And this is an ego issue, and it's a formula for not winning. The next thing is insecurity and self doubt. That's an obvious one, but believe it or not, people who are insecure and have self doubt have an out of control ego. Because they lead with ego, they lead with this false self. Ego is false self, so they lead with the false self because they're so insecure and they've got so much self doubt. Constantly apologizing.

• 15:20Ed Mylett?

  Believe it or not, if you're someone who chronically apologizes, you have somebody in your life who's constantly apologizing, but then they make the same mistake all the time. This is someone with an ego, because you'd rather take the easy way out and apologize than fix your behavior. And so, these are people that I don't want in my life. You keep apologizing for the same thing over and over again. Stop doing it, you don't need to apologize. The big E. Worrying about what everybody thinks about you. If you're constantly worried about what everybody thinks about you, you have an out of control ego. That sounds crazy! What do you mean, if I had a big ego, I wouldn't care what everybody thought? No, exactly the opposite. People with out of control egos are so insecure, they're constantly obsessed with what people think about them. People with no ego love themselves. As we've talked about. People with the smallest ego are connected to God, and they love themselves because

• 16:05Ed Mylett?

  they know they come from God, in my opinion. And so, because that's the case, you don't need the approval of other people, because you've got God's approval, you've got the universe's approval, and you've got your approval. And once you have that, you don't need other people's approval. These are all ego issues that impact our lives. So, those are all different issues with the ego, right? Some of them are very obvious, some of them are not so obvious. But let's just talk about you and finishing today. Wouldn't the ultimate version of you not brag, not boast, not tell stories about the past, not worry about what other people thought about you, right? Take criticism very well, all the things that we've discussed today. The ultimate version of you would have none of those things, wouldn't he or she? And that would be the removal of your ego. I believe the way we remove our ego is we love ourselves.

• 16:49Ed Mylett?

  And we believe in ourselves, and that way, we know ourselves. And so, what I want to challenge you to do today is just to start to give yourself a little bit more credit. And just know, when you see these symptoms arising in your life, these are indications your ego's out of control. And check yourself when it happens. If you have people in your life who embody these symptoms, it's often easy to see the ego things that really repel us in our life. But the fact of the matter is, for me, every single time in my life when my ego gets the better of me, I have a setback. So, listen to me. It's very dangerous to lead with your ego because I'm telling you you're getting ready for a setback in your life. Where do my setbacks come from in my life? I'm going to tell you where I have setbacks. People ask me, "How do I get out of my slump? How do I break the habit that I'm in?" And I'm going to tell you what it is for me, because it's connected to ego.

• 17:31Ed Mylett?

  For me, I started to think I had it so figured out when things were going good, that I stopped working on myself. I stopped reading the books. I stopped listening to the podcast. I stopped improving myself. And when you do that stuff, the poor result doesn't show up as you're doing it. The poor result shows up 90 to 120 days later. So, that's the problem. The failure or the setback is delayed by like 90 to 120 days in everything we do. So, in business, if you're really successful right now and you got to a certain point, but you stopped the very activities that got you there, you don't fail the next day. 90 to 120 days from now, you pay the price in your life, don't you? You didn't do the work you were supposed to do. And so, 3-4 months later, all of a sudden, business is down again. So, the negative result always trails the negative behavior by about 3 to 4 months.

• 18:15Ed Mylett?

  For me, my happiness level or my confidence level, I always, I got it going and then I stopped reading books. I stopped listening to the right stuff. I stopped the right associations. It didn't happen immediately, but 90 to 120 days later, now my ego's out of control again. And so, where my ego rears its head for me, is I begin to think I got it figured out. I think I got it going. I believe my own press clippings. And I stopped doing the things that are going to get me to the next level. And 3 to 4 months later, I go, "Man, I'm in a slump. Man, there's a setback right now. What the heck happened?" What happened, dummy Ed Mylett, is 90 to 120 days ago, you stopped doing the things required to win. And so, the truth is, where you are right now, I love you, brother or sister. I want you to win. I opened up today by telling you, you're supposed to do something great with your life.

• 19:00Ed Mylett?

  But in order for that to happen, you have to do the great things now because the positive results will trail by 6 months to a year. So, negatives come get us 90 to 120 days, but positives don't. don't end up showing up sometimes for six months to a year or longer. It's kind of like when you first start to eat well, you might get a little bit improved. Then it levels off and you're like, man, I'm eating well, I'm working out. Why isn't my body changing? Because the positive result is six months to a year away. That's why. But if you stop eating well, if you stop working out, your 60 to 90, 120 days, your body's bad again. Same with our lives. If we're doing something great with our life, it's going to take us six months to a year to see the positive result. And so don't let your ego get in the way of saying, man, I'm doing all this stuff and it's not working.

• 19:45Ed Mylett?

  There's a delayed gratification coming. The same time, if you are winning right now, don't stop doing the things that got you where you are because you're only 90 to 120 days away from a setback. This is how the ego gets us. And so I want to remind you in conclusion, you're supposed to do something great with your life. You're supposed to contribute, you're supposed to win. But that starts with today, loving yourself, which is believing in yourself, okay? You can't be yourself if you don't love yourself and you can't love yourself if you don't believe in yourself. And so today, start to love yourself again. I'm not talking about self-love. That's not what I'm talking about. You know, some thought, I love me, I love me, you know, Stuart Smalley, I'm good enough, I'm smart enough. Gosh darn it, people like me, that's going to get you nowhere. Do things that are in congruence with who you really are.

• 20:30Ed Mylett?

  Do things that are the removal of your ego. You know what says you have no ego? You're willing to do the work every single day on yourself and in your business, even though there's no result. That shows no ego. Ego is, why would I keep doing it? There's no result. Or ego is, I got it going, I don't need to do it anymore. You want to know you don't have an ego? You want to know you got your act together? You're doing the work right now to show how much you love yourself, how much you believe in yourself, knowing the delayed gratification is coming six months to a year, or maybe longer from now. I'm here to challenge you to start living like you love yourself, living like you believe in yourself. Because you can't love yourself if you're not being yourself. And the real self, the real you, takes all the steps to care for you, all the steps to improve you, all the steps to grow you.

• 21:15Ed Mylett?

  So you know you love you, you know you believe in you, when you begin treating you like that. That means you don't gossip about other people. You're not addicted to what other people think about you, right? You're not some victim. You know better than that. You're not someone who needs everybody else's permission to win. You're not waiting around for results and not doing the work. You don't stop doing the things that help you win. So today, start doing the things that improve you confidence wise. Listening to people like me, following me on social media, listening to the right podcasts, reading the right books, in your business, doing the things you know you're supposed to do. Let me tell you what I know about you and your business. You're not confused about what you need to do. If you're a school teacher or you're an entrepreneur, if you're a mom or a dad,

• 21:57Ed Mylett?

  if you're a pastor, if you're a young person who's studying and wants to get into college, you're not confused by what you need to do. There's no confusion on what you need to do. There's only the decision of whether you're willing to do it and to do it consistently and to do it even when the results don't show up. Even when the results aren't there, are you willing to do it? And if you are making progress, you are getting good grades, you are leading your church, you are moving your business forward, you are flourishing at work, do you have enough lack of ego to continue to do the work required to get to the next level? That's the separator. I hope that helped you out today. I hope you look at the negative signs of ego, some of the subtle and not so subtle ones, and you make the correct adjustments. I hope it was a revelation for you today about what real ego looks like

• 22:39Ed Mylett?

  and what real ego functions like and the things you need to do to keep winning. Don't wait 90 to 120 days in order to have another setback. And don't wait around because you haven't got results yet. Keep putting the work in, keep doing the things required. There's a breakthrough coming, there's a victory coming. I promise you, keep doing the work at your business, on yourself, in your family. There's a breakthrough coming if you keep playing the work. Don't let your ego get in the way of doing that. Want to challenge you, by the way, I want to engage with you more deeply. And so every day on Instagram, I run the max out two minute drill. Here's what it is. When I make a post on Instagram, within the first two minutes, just make a comment, just one comment within the first two minutes. I post every day, I'll give you a secret. Around 7:30 AM Pacific to 8 AM Pacific, somewhere in that window. If your notifications are turned on, you'll know it,

• 23:23Ed Mylett?

  which is by the way, 10:30 Eastern to 11:00 Eastern in the mornings, usually when I post. And as long as you make a comment within the first two minutes, you got a chance, I run a daily drawing every day. I pick a winner, that winner gets a max out book, a coaching call with me, coaching call with some of my guests, tickets to events I speak at, max out gear, hats, leggings, shirts, you name it. So every day, just stay engaged. Why do I want you to do that? Because I want to hear from you. I want to see what you're going through. I want to see your victories and your wins. I want to see you interacting with each other. I read all the comments. It's a crazy thing I do every day, right? And there's thousands of them and I read them. I reply to many of them. So just make a comment within the first two minutes every day. If you miss the first two minutes, we pick a winner at the end of the week. All you have to do is make a comment every day. So if you miss the first two minutes, just anytime, five hours later, six hours later, two hours later, make a comment, but do it every single day on every post.

• 24:08Ed Mylett?

  There's only five or six of them a week. And then we pick someone who just made a comment every day, regardless of the time. So there's two ways to win. It's so that I can engage and connect more deeply with you. Hope today's program helps you. No ego, focus on what you need to be doing in your life to make your dreams come true. And I want you to believe in yourself and be yourself and love yourself. And you do that by the actions you take, not by just affirmations. God bless you and max out.