Pod Insights The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Chris Eubank Jr: I Was Paid $**** For The Fight! The Night Before, My Dad Finally Opened Up! About this episode He silenced the critics, defied the odds, and walked through fire - Chris Eubank Jr. tells the full story of one of 2025’s most unforgettable fights.
Chris Eubank Jr. is a world-class professional boxer, middleweight contender, and son of the legendary former professional boxer, Chris Eubank Sr. In April 2025, he won against Connor Benn in one of the most highly anticipated fights in British boxing history.
He discusses:
Why he refused to shake Conor Benn’s hand.
Why the fight almost collapsed the night before.
The real reason his father publicly disowned him.
The pain of losing his brother, and raising his nephew as his own.
00:00 Intro
01:56 How Are You Feeling After the Fight?
06:09 Something Didn't Look Quite Right With You That Night
09:39 The Things That Were Against Me on the Night
11:47 The Night Before the Fight, My Father Finally Opened Up
20:23 How Me and My Dad Finally Made Up
28:50 What Caused the Rift Between You and Your Father?
36:57 Did Him Calling You a Disgrace Impact Your Mental Health?
41:59 Were You Thinking About Your Younger Brother During the Fight?
48:56 Rehydration Restriction
53:46 How Much Did You Get for the Fight?
1:00:23 What Was Going Through Your Head in the Final Moments
1:03:10 The Time I Spent in Hospital
1:05:55 Ads
1:06:53 Have You Got a Newfound Respect for Conor?
1:09:18 The Failed Drug Tests
1:13:50 The Egg Slap
1:15:19 The Rematch With Conor
1:21:39 Did Conor Surprise You?
1:24:16 The Walkout
1:29:18 Billy Joe Saunders
1:31:29 Who Would Your Next 3 Fights Be?
1:34:17 You Before Starting Boxing
1:40:29 Your Relationship With Frank Smith
1:43:48 If You Had One Album for the Rest of Your Life, What Would It Be?
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0:00 Speaker 00 You're the first person I've really spoken to about this type of stuff. I was in hospital after the fight. I'm lying there, I've got my mask on, thinking this is so bad. Get me the morphine, get me the morphine. I've got my family around me, some of them are crying. I can hear everything that's going on. And then I hear the doctor say, from the other room, we have to operate on him now, otherwise he's going to die.
0:24 Steven Bartlett? Chris, you haven't really spoken since that 12th round with Connor. How do you rate your own performance?
0:29 Speaker 00 I was technically sound for the first seven rounds, but once the cut came, I was experiencing all the things that had been restricting me leading up to the fight. And I can hear my trainer, use the jab, Chris, use your feet. I looked at him, I said, I'm sorry, it's too late. Because I always knew there would be fights like this where you don't have anything left, or you want to give up, or you're hurt. But you have to fight through the demons, the issues, the restrictions. Because I wasn't willing to go the rest of my life knowing that I didn't give it my all. That lives with you forever. So the technicality of the sport was out the window. We are going to war.
1:06 Steven Bartlett? Was Connor faster than you were expecting?
1:08 Speaker 00 Yep.
1:08 Steven Bartlett? Was he stronger than you were expecting?
1:10 Speaker 00 Yep. And it was about who wants it more. My old man's there, I've got to show him. I'm capable of great things. You know, we have been estranged for years.
1:18 Steven Bartlett? But what caused that relationship to strain?
1:21 Speaker 00 I sent him a letter and that broke him. You know, I get emotional thinking about this.
1:27 Steven Bartlett? What did that letter say?
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2:18 Steven Bartlett? Chris, you haven't really spoken since the fight, especially not in in long form. So I guess the best place to start is just by asking you how you're feeling. That was pretty fucking crazy.
2:31 Speaker 00 Fucking crazy is is is pretty accurate. Yeah, it was.
2:38 Speaker 00 It was a fight that I'm not gonna lie, I wasn't expecting to be involved in.
2:46 Speaker 00 I genuinely thought that I was gonna go in there. I was going to have my way with this kid.
2:56 Speaker 00 Blow him out of the water, you know, watch him quit. Watch him crumble under the pressure. That's really what I thought was gonna happen.
3:09 Speaker 00 And thank God that I was wrong. Because if that had happened, it would not be a fight that is now gonna be remembered for ever.
3:25 Speaker 00 This is what I'm being told. This is what I'm hearing. This is what I'm seeing. This is the best fight I ever saw. This is the best event I ever saw. This was amazing. For a fight to reach that level of love and and respect, both fighters have to go through the fire.
3:45 Speaker 00 Both fighters have to do things that
3:51 Speaker 00 may seem superhuman, may seem like impossible. They have to go through that. They have to be true. And they cannot give up. And that's what we both showed on that night. Two men who were willing to die in that ring. That's what boxing is really about. And it's so rare to see these days, you know. We just saw over the weekend some of the best fighters on the planet right now. Devin Haney, Canelo, Ryan Garcia.
4:31 Speaker 00 You know, their fights were underwhelming, to say the least.
4:37 Steven Bartlett? Boring.
4:38 Speaker 00 In those three fights, the total amount of punches landed
4:44 Speaker 00 was less than justified with me and Connor. So the fight with me and Connor, I think we landed maybe fifteen hundred punches. In their three fights in total, only fourteen hundred landed, which is a pretty incredible statistic. And it just shows you
5:01 Speaker 00 how much that fight meant to both of us. You know, it showed the pressure and the grit and the determination and the stakes. So I'm blessed to be a part of such a historic fight, a historic event. And I'm very
5:21 Speaker 00 grateful that the fans loved it so much. You know, everything I've heard about it so far has been amazing. And I, you know, I went out into the streets for the first time yesterday in Brixton. And to see the people's reactions for the first time, really, to really see it.
5:40 Speaker 00 You know,
5:42 Speaker 00 it really, it really, it really means a lot. You know, a woman, a woman came up and she was crying. You know, she was, she had tears in her eyes, like, you know, it's amazing what you did. You know, that fight superseded what boxing is, you know, because it was, you know, even, even outside of what we did in that ring, the father and son dynamic, that was real. And that's something that, you know, the entire world can relate to and has to deal with their own problems with their families. So to see me and my father going through what we were going through and then to come together to unite at a time when it meant the most,
6:26 Speaker 00 that's an amazing thing. And nobody thought it was gonna happen. I didn't think it was gonna happen. So seeing that,
6:34 Speaker 00 you know, that, that's not boxing. You know, that is.
6:38 Speaker 00 That's love, you know.
6:40 Steven Bartlett? Going back to the top of that, you said that you were expecting to walk in there and blow Connor away.
6:47 Steven Bartlett? So does that mean that you, in hindsight, underestimated his ability? Or was there something not quite right with you that night? Because I was watching, I was ringside, and you didn't look normal, especially in those opening rounds. You had the same dog in you that you've always had, but you didn't look normal.
7:12 Speaker 00 You're very, you're very observant.
7:17 Speaker 00 There are a lot of things going on in my life that no one knows about and no one will ever know about. You know, as a fighter, you have to, you have to do things that nobody else could imagine doing and no one else is willing to do. I did that to be able to get into the ring that night. You also have the navigation of weight loss, rehydration restrictions. These are all things that I was having to deal with on top of all the outside stuff. What you saw was maybe, yes, there was maybe certain aspects of me as an athlete that,
8:02 Speaker 00 you know, weren't a hundred percent. But the truth of it is, so many fighters go into fights with issues, whether it's injuries, whether it's illness, whether it's, uh, mental problems.
8:23 Speaker 00 We all have to fight through these things. That's a part of the sport, which is why I'm not going to sit here and tell you about all the things that I was dealing with, because it's my job. We are, we are fighters. You have to fight through the demons, you have to fight through the issues, you have to fight through the restrictions. And that's what I did. I didn't give up.
8:49 Steven Bartlett? Hmm.
8:51 Steven Bartlett? Illness, injury and mental problems.
8:55 Speaker 00 A just a few of the things that fighters.
8:59 Steven Bartlett? Did you have any of these?
9:01 Speaker 00 Again, again, I I'm not going to go into what I was dealing with.
9:06 Steven Bartlett? Was it a personal issue you're dealing with?
9:09 Speaker 00 Um.
9:10 Steven Bartlett? Do you know why I'm asking this question? I'm asking this question because as a fight fan, as a fan of yours, I was watching you as you, as the fight began, and I didn't think you were quite yourself. I've been to your fights, I've been to many other of your fights, you know, I've watched you in Manchester as well, ringside, and you didn't look the same. So now I have this big question mark in my head as to why you didn't look the same. And I'm like really determined to try and understand. I know that you weren't in great physical health, but you say there was other things going on in your life.
9:42 Steven Bartlett? What category were those things in? If you don't, you don't have to tell me what they are, you're not going to say anything, but.
9:47 Speaker 00 No, you know, it's it's something that.
9:51 Speaker 00 You know, a lot of fighters do, you know, they they will come out of a fight and they will say the things that.
9:59 Speaker 00 Were wrong with the camps and were wrong with their health or wrong with. You know, their personal lives or, you know. I've never been that guy to make excuses. I I'm not looking for sympathy, I'm not looking for a reason for people to say, oh, well, you know.
10:19 Steven Bartlett? Well, you won, so it doesn't matter.
10:21 Speaker 00 But but even if I had lost.
10:24 Steven Bartlett? Yeah.
10:24 Speaker 00 It's not in me to, oh, well, this is why I, you know, I had to do through this and that. And people saw so much of what I had to deal with.
10:33 Steven Bartlett? Yeah.
10:35 Speaker 00 My father, the weight cut, the rehydration clause, getting fined a million for being 0.5 overweight, using the gloves that weren't in the contract, some guy trying to get into my changing room to check my hands and and and and and ruffling the feathers of of my team. They threw everything at me.
10:59 Speaker 00 They did everything they could to try and get me off of track, to distract me, to take my mind off of the task at hand. And I never let that happen. And I'm very, um,
11:14 Speaker 00 I'm proud of that. I'm proud that I didn't fall into the traps that were set. Every time they set a trap, I saw the trap, go around it, go forward. Oh, there's another trap. Round it, forward. Another trap, round it forward.
11:30 Speaker 00 That is a part of being a warrior. It's not just getting in the ring and fighting. You have to be smart. You have to be cunning. You have to know your enemy. You have to understand the things that people are trying to do to take you out of your comfort zone, out of your,
11:48 Speaker 00 you know, out of your preparation. To avoid and you have to make sure that nothing gets into your head.
11:57 Speaker 00 Nothing affects what you're gonna do on the night.
12:00 Speaker 00 You know? And the crazy thing was, not only was I dealing with all these bullets flying at me from my enemies
12:10 Speaker 00 in Connor Benn, in Matrim, in Eddie Hearn, uh, in Nigel Benn. These are all enemies leading up to the fight. I had bullets and coming from my family. My father. A couple of days before the biggest fight of my life, he's, you know, he's going into the media and saying I'm a disgrace.
12:37 Speaker 00 I'm already
12:40 Speaker 00 in, you know, under a lot of stress, under a lot of pressure. And then I've got to hear this? It's like, Jesus, I mean, what, what, what, you know, how, how much worse is it gonna get?
12:55 Speaker 00 It was tough. It was really tough. But on the subject of my father,
13:04 Speaker 00 regardless of what he said about me and about the fight,
13:09 Speaker 00 he was there when it mattered the most.
13:13 Speaker 00 And that means everything. I didn't know he was gonna come.
13:19 Speaker 00 He called me, he texted me the day before the fight, the night before the fight.
13:26 Speaker 00 He said, um, call me when you see this.
13:32 Speaker 00 So I saw the text. And I thought, you know what? You know, we are, we're less than a day away from, well, this is the night before the biggest fight of my life. The last thing I can be doing is being on the phone, listening to negativity.
13:54 Speaker 00 Because that's all he had come with for the last six, eight weeks. The fight's not gonna happen. This fight shouldn't be happening. Waits are not right. He egged him. He's a disgrace. It's a circus. It's a sham. I will never be in this my son's corner. This is all I'm hearing from him for two months.
14:15 Speaker 00 Don't do this fight, Chris, son.
14:20 Speaker 00 This is all I'm hearing. I, I, so I'm sitting there, I'm reading this message. And he hasn't, you know, I haven't spoken to him. And I'm thinking, I can't, I can't deal with this right now. Call him. Call him for what? So he can say not to take the fight? You know, I gotta rest. I gotta, I gotta focus. A couple of hours go by. Maybe nine, 10 o'clock, I guess, and I'm like, you know what?
14:46 Speaker 00 I've been through so much shit in the last two months.
14:50 Speaker 00 What more could possibly, what more could possibly be thrown at me? At the end of the day, he's my old man. He's texted me.
15:00 Speaker 00 I'm gonna hear him out. So I call him. I was about to go to sleep and I thought, you know what? I'll call him. As soon as he picked the phone up, there was a, a tone in his voice that I hadn't heard for years.
15:18 Speaker 00 It was a tone of happiness, lightness, joy. Hey, how you doing, son?
15:32 Speaker 00 What's going on? How you feeling?
15:35 Speaker 00 How am I feeling? When have you worried about how I've been feeling? You know? I'm good, Dad. Everything's cool. You know, just getting ready to go to sleep. Got a big day tomorrow.
15:52 Speaker 00 Yeah, yeah, I know, I know, son. I know you've got a big day tomorrow and um.
16:01 Speaker 00 I wanna be there for you.
16:07 Speaker 00 So I heard that and I'm like. Is this, is this a dream? Is this uh?
16:15 Speaker 00 This is, this is Chrissy Banks Senior I'm speaking to? Who is this? Yeah, it's me, son. Let's uh, let's do this. Let's do this together. Where are you? I said, I'm at my hotel.
16:31 Speaker 00 He said, alright, well, I'll come to your hotel. We'll speak. And yeah, let's, let's, let's do it.
16:38 Speaker 00 Okay. Okay, Dad.
16:42 Speaker 00 I ordered him an Uber. Twenty minutes later.
16:46 Speaker 00 He was at my hotel. I got him a room. We went up to the room, we sat down. You know, he said.
16:56 Speaker 00 I was always gonna come. I was always gonna be there for you.
17:03 Speaker 00 And in my mind, I'm thinking, if I'd just gone to sleep, what happens? What, would you still be here? Like? You know, we haven't had any communication and I know, and I knew how hard it was for him to send me that text of. You know, call me when you see this, because he doesn't do that. You know, it's been years since he tried to have that. Contact with me. So I think if I just ignored it, then we wouldn't be sitting here today talking about this amazing event that had unfolded. Because, make no mistake, him being there made it. It made it different. It made it something that will now go down in history. You know, movies are made about this type of stuff. If I go in there alone, it's just a fight.
17:49 Speaker 00 It would have been a great fight still, but to have that fantasy of a father and son coming together after going through so much, so much, you know, my brother passing away, um, all the stuff in the media, all the friction to see, to see that be able to be kind of put to one side and to unite, to come together, to walk into that ring.
18:17 Speaker 00 It's a, it's an incredible thing, you know, I, I get, I get emotional thinking about it because it's, it was so unexpected. You know, I, I had, I had envisioned in my mind for the last two years, me walking to that ring alone.
18:37 Speaker 00 I just, you know, it never crossed my mind that my old man would be behind me.
18:45 Speaker 00 Um, I envisioned walking to the ring alone, being booed.
18:53 Speaker 00 Um, and getting into that ring and fighting with anger in my heart. That's, that's what I thought that fight was gonna be.
19:05 Speaker 00 What it turned out to be was I'm walking to the ring. My old man is behind me, he's with me.
19:14 Speaker 00 And, you know, for the first time in
19:21 Speaker 00 my whole career, I'm walking through a crowd.
19:26 Speaker 00 And there's no boos.
19:30 Speaker 00 I'm used to walking up into these rings and I'm looking out and people are going.
19:38 Speaker 00 You're gonna get knocked out. Boo. And I feed off of that dark energy. And I use it against my opponents. That's what I've been, that's, that's my, been my life for, for my whole career, really.
19:56 Speaker 00 In this fight, I'm walking past people and I'm seeing tears in their eyes.
20:03 Speaker 00 I'm seeing grown men with tears in their eyes. And smiles and.
20:12 Speaker 00 You know, God rest. And it's like.
20:17 Speaker 00 You know, I'm walking to the ring and my, my, my face is always cold. Because I'm about to get in the ring and hurt somebody and get hurt.
20:26 Speaker 00 But in my mind and my heart, I'm like, what's happening? What is this? This is. I've never, I've never seen this before.
20:37 Speaker 00 I've never seen cheers, let alone people crying with joy.
20:43 Speaker 00 This is, you know, this is, this is gonna be different. This fight is about to be something different. I don't know, I don't know what it's gonna be, but. I'm excited. What did you discuss in that hotel room when he arrived in that Uber? He said to me in that hotel room. What do you think I want from you?
21:09 Speaker 00 I thought about it for a long time.
21:14 Speaker 00 And I genuinely couldn't answer the question. You know, we have been estranged for a long, long time. Years. Yeah, years. So how can I answer that? What, what do I want from you? Is what he said. I know that this man is not a man that can be bought. He's got too much pride, he's got too much morals, he's a man of God.
21:41 Speaker 00 Um, that's all that's important to him. You can't buy him. So me knowing that, when he's saying, what do you think I want from you? I'm thinking, oh no.
21:54 Speaker 00 Has that changed? Has he changed?
21:59 Speaker 00 Is he about to, you know, ask me for some crazy amount of money?
22:04 Speaker 00 I hope, I hope not. Because then that changes my view of who this man in front of me is.
22:14 Speaker 00 You know?
22:16 Speaker 00 So I didn't, I didn't, I didn't even think about that. It's in my head, but I didn't want to say it. I didn't want to say it in the fear that he would be like, yeah. You're gonna give me a million. That would have killed me.
22:29 Steven Bartlett? Really?
22:30 Speaker 00 Yeah, yeah, yeah, that would have been bad.
22:32 Steven Bartlett? Why?
22:34 Speaker 00 Because then I know that he's only, he's not there because he loves me and because he wants to see me win. He wants to support me. Uh, he wants to be my dad.
22:50 Speaker 00 If it's about money, then all of that is irrelevant.
22:53 Steven Bartlett? Yeah.
22:55 Speaker 00 So I was too scared to even talk about, to even mention money, because then that would mean that there's, there's no coming back.
23:04 Speaker 00 You know, if you're, if you're in, if you're, if we were in a room together the night before the biggest fight in my life and you're just saying, you're gonna pay me? That means for the rest of our lives now, our, our relationship will never, ever be the same.
23:18 Speaker 00 So I was scared to say that. And I was scared at the question. I had to joke. I had to, I had to make a joke out of it because I was so confused and worried about what was about to happen. I said, you want a hug? I'll give you a hug. He said, no. I want nothing.
23:38 Speaker 00 Absolutely nothing.
23:42 Speaker 00 And when he said that,
23:51 Speaker 00 you know, my heart.
23:55 Speaker 00 It was just an overwhelming, an overwhelming feeling of joy. Okay, my dad is here because
24:04 Speaker 00 he wants to be my dad. That's huge.
24:10 Speaker 00 That's everything. That's, that's what I haven't had for years and years and years.
24:18 Speaker 00 So if there was ever a time that I was gonna kind of get some of that feeling and love back, this was the time I needed it. And he was there to do it. I'll never forget that. Him being there that night, for sure.
24:38 Speaker 00 You know, it gave me those few extra percentages to put into that performance. People say, you were finished by, for the eighth round, you had not, your legs were gone. How did you throw 300 punches in the last two rounds?
24:58 Speaker 00 Well, I had to come outside of myself.
25:02 Speaker 00 It became spiritual. It wasn't about the physical.
25:08 Speaker 00 I was dehydrated.
25:12 Speaker 00 I was experiencing all the things that had been restricting me
25:19 Speaker 00 leading up to the fight.
25:23 Speaker 00 So it, it became not about the physical, it came about the spiritual. It became about just being true. Just being the man I know I can be. I told you a story once about being on that treadmill. And
25:45 Speaker 00 you've got that cramp in your, in your foot.
25:49 Speaker 00 But you said you was gonna do the 10 miles. So you've got a limp on that treadmill for as long as you have to, to complete the task. No one's around, no one's watching. But you, you keep your ass on that treadmill and you get through it, you get through the pain.
26:09 Speaker 00 That mentality is what was able to
26:16 Speaker 00 Get me through those last two, three rounds.
26:21 Speaker 00 I never gave up in the gyms. When I was getting beaten up in sparring, I never quit. I would come back the next day. When I got the cramps, I kept going. Because I always knew there would be fights like this where you don't have anything left, or you want to give up, or you're hurt, or you're dehydrated, or you're injured, or you're cut. You know, you can't see anything out of your eye, a big cut across your eye.
26:47 Speaker 00 And you're going to ask yourself that question getting up off the stool in the ninth, in the tenth round.
26:56 Speaker 00 Should I give up?
26:59 Speaker 00 Should I take a knee? Should I run? No. We are going to war. We are going to leave everything we have in this ring. Because this fight
27:16 Speaker 00 is going to be remembered forever. So what you choose to do in these last few rounds,
27:22 Speaker 00 that is what the people are going to remember you by for the rest of your life. Did you come forward?
27:32 Speaker 00 Did you put all on the line, or did you retreat? I wasn't willing to go the rest of my life, knowing that I didn't give it my all. Regardless of the cut, regardless of everything I was going through, I knew I just, I had to do what I had to do to win. And my old man's there. He's watching.
27:53 Speaker 00 And, you know, he didn't believe I'll be able to do what I'm doing.
27:59 Speaker 00 That's what he's been saying for years.
28:03 Speaker 00 I've got to show him, I've got to show the world.
28:07 Speaker 00 And I've got to show myself that.
28:12 Speaker 00 I'm capable of great things. I'm capable of going through things that ninety nine point nine nine nine percent of human beings on this earth were not willing to go through. And that will live forever. And that's a beautiful feeling. A week after the fight, sitting here talking about it. There's no amount of money that can buy the feelings that I have now. And that is the genuine truth.
28:42 Speaker 00 The how proud I am of what we achieved in that in that fight.
28:48 Speaker 00 It's priceless. It's something that, you know, on your deathbed in sixty years' time, you're thinking about it, yeah, I did that. You can't get that from money.
29:01 Speaker 00 You can't get that from fame.
29:04 Speaker 00 You get that from years and years and years of graft, hard work.
29:11 Speaker 00 And just being true. Not cutting corners, not cheating.
29:18 Speaker 00 Not being a bully.
29:21 Steven Bartlett? Chris, everybody has a different relationship with their family. You've always been a seemingly quite emotionless individual, very cold exterior, as you've described it yourself. So it's really moving and interesting to hear how much your dad meant to you. And as you were speaking, I was thinking about to all these interviews I've seen of you over the years, where you cite him as your biggest role model in life.
29:49 Steven Bartlett? I've kind of got two points. The first, I guess, is a point which is just, I had no idea he meant that much to you. I had no idea. And secondly, the question is, what caused that relationship to strain?
30:06 Speaker 00 My father is an extremely proud and an extremely intense human being. He has his ways of thinking, he has his ways of living, teaching, parenting.
30:24 Speaker 00 And it's his way or the highway. Nothing else works in his opinion. It got to a stage in my life where I decided to walk my own path, separate myself from this massive character in my father.
30:47 Speaker 00 You know, I had grown up with this pressure and this responsibility. And it became too much. I was known for being the son of for so many years. Chris Eubank's son, Chris Eubank's son. And I, I kind of, whenever I would hear that, you know, well, at least they know who I am. But it got to a stage where I was like, how do I get away from that? How do I become just me?
31:25 Speaker 00 You know, how do I become Chris Eubank, not the son of a legend? And it dawned on me eventually, the only way to do that is to be separate from it. In boxing, I'm not talking about as a father,
31:44 Speaker 00 talking about in terms of my career, in terms of the decision making, in terms of the training, in terms of the fighting, in terms of the media, the press conferences. These were all things that he was right by my side for my entire career. I knew that to get away from the shadow, I had to start doing it on my own. Did you write him a letter? Yeah.
32:07 Speaker 00 Explaining exactly that. I told him, I'm gonna write my own book one day.
32:15 Speaker 00 The book can't be. Oh, well, my dad told me to do this, so I did it.
32:22 Speaker 00 My dad said, don't take that fight, so I didn't take that fight. He told me to train that way and go here and wear that. It's not a book, it's not a life. I need to be able to write my own story into history.
32:37 Steven Bartlett? What did that letter say that you wrote him? And why didn't you tell him to his face?
32:41 Speaker 00 I needed him to understand.
32:46 Speaker 00 And. Read it.
32:51 Speaker 00 And reread it and re reread it. Without interruption.
32:57 Speaker 00 You know, if I'm talking to him like I'm talking to you, as soon as something is said that is maybe a little bit. Oh, I don't like that, or I don't agree with that. He will be ready to jump in and. And and say his point. I had to, I had to get the whole thing out.
33:17 Speaker 00 Couldn't be in conversation.
33:20 Speaker 00 I said to him, I am the boss.
33:25 Speaker 00 And. That broke him.
33:31 Speaker 00 He couldn't handle that.
33:34 Speaker 00 He had been the boss my entire life. He had been in charge of who I fought. He had been in charge of my financials. He had been in charge of my contracts. He was the boss. So to, for a boss to hear that he's not the boss anymore.
33:51 Speaker 00 That strained the relationship. Oh, you don't want me to, you don't want me to be a part of your career anymore? All right, well, then bye. That was his reaction. It shouldn't have been that way, but that's how he dealt with the disappointment and the frustration of what I was doing, which was going my own way. Then you have the. Tragedy of my brother Sebastian passing away. And this would have happened maybe.
34:21 Speaker 00 A year or two after I sent that letter.
34:26 Speaker 00 That. Affected him deeply. It affected all of us deeply. But.
34:37 Speaker 00 Yeah, it affected him so much that.
34:46 Speaker 00 You know, you add those two things together. He's already upset with how I've spoken to him and what I'm doing in my career. My brother passes away and that caused him to do certain things in his life, which.
34:59 Speaker 00 You know, I don't like talking about it, but I'm gonna talk about it because it was actually documented. If it wasn't documented, I wouldn't speak about this. And I've never spoken about it. He started smoking marijuana.
35:17 Speaker 00 I guess to um deal with the hardship of losing a son. Everybody deals with these things in their own ways. I can't fault him for that.
35:32 Speaker 00 But I I think that that. You know, that changed him as as a man in terms of his mindset.
35:43 Speaker 00 And it caused it caused an even bigger gap between us, which. You know, we never recovered from up until last weekend.
35:58 Speaker 00 Since that night, before the night, the fight. And every day since then, it's been all love between me and my old man, which is incredible to think. You know, I was in hospital for two days after the fight. He didn't leave the hospital.
36:18 Speaker 00 And when I say didn't leave the hospital, I mean like, he's sleeping on. You know, one of these stretches outside my room.
36:31 Speaker 00 Just in the hallway.
36:36 Speaker 00 That means everything to me.
36:41 Speaker 00 Regardless of the differences in the, in the things that have been said and done.
36:46 Speaker 00 You know, a man who is gonna stay by his son like that.
36:50 Speaker 00 That's love.
36:53 Speaker 00 You know, it's been so long since I've had that type of feeling with him. And you only get one father.
37:03 Speaker 00 So now we are gonna build, we're gonna build, we're gonna build. And I think our relationship is only gonna get stronger and stronger and stronger. I said it before the fight, this fight is either gonna help us build or it's gonna break us even more. I don't know. It was up to him really, and he chose for this fight to be the thing that the catalyst for us to be able to build. And I thank God for that.
37:28 Steven Bartlett? Did his absence and hearing him call you a disgrace and all of the stuff he was doing in the media ahead of a fight, in many respects to stop the fight, it seemed at times. I, I actually watched an interview, I think the day, the day before the fight where he was in tears. Tad saying to a boxing journalist that the fight shouldn't go ahead and expressing, you know, his concerns about the fight, et cetera. Did it impact your mental health?
37:54 Speaker 00 It was upsetting. It was distracting. It was horrible knowing that.
38:04 Speaker 00 You know.
38:07 Speaker 00 This deeply personal situation we have is now fully public. It's all over TikTok, it's all over Instagram. You know, the headlines. Chris Eubank, Duke Senior calls his son a disgrace. You know, millions of people are watching these interviews. So for sure, it affects your mental health, your mental wellbeing. It's negative and it's deeply personal and you don't want that in the public. It's, it's, it's, it's one thing dealing with family issues. You know, between your family, but when everyone else knows what's going on. It's tough, you know, and, and, and it came out of me in that last press conference. Connor Ben talking about, ah, well, yeah, you just worry about making weight.
38:53 Speaker 00 And at that time I was making weight and I was in pain.
38:57 Speaker 00 And I said, I'm in pain right now. And I'm gonna be even more pain tonight, and I'm gonna be even more pain tomorrow morning, when I've got to lose those last few pounds.
39:08 Steven Bartlett? I have the actual quote here, you said, "The weight is painful. I'll be in even more pain tonight and tomorrow. The question I ask myself is, what is pain? I have a thirty-one-year-old brother that is buried in the desert in Dubai. That's pain. I have his son Rahim, who is three, asking why he can't see his dad. Why doesn't he take me to school? That's pain. My own father, a man I've idolized my entire life, and we haven't spoken for years, and he thinks I'm a disgrace. These things are pain to me."
39:39 Speaker 00 Yeah.
39:41 Speaker 00 And, you know, I am not an emotional guy, especially not in boxing.
39:48 Speaker 00 But in that moment, that's what I'm thinking. You know, yeah, this, this weight cut and this rehydration clause, fucking hurts. But guess what? It isn't anything compared to
40:03 Speaker 00 those three things that are listed and the other things that are going on in my personal life that I'm having to deal with and struggle with,
40:12 Speaker 00 all while getting ready for this huge fight. So if I can, if I can deal with those things,
40:22 Speaker 00 then what is cutting weight? What is dehydrating and starving myself to make a weight? It's nothing. You know, it's, it's a, it's a moment of, it's a moment of discomfort.
40:39 Speaker 00 You know, my brother passing away, Rahim not understanding that his father is not with us, questioning, "Why doesn't he take me to school? I see all these other kids that are coming into school with the dads. Why doesn't my dad take me to school? Why can't I see my daddy? You say he's at the office. Where's the office? Let's go to the office and see my daddy." My own father.
41:02 Speaker 00 Yes, he's a disgrace. These are moments, these are not moments of pain. This is, this is pain that lives with you forever. So they're incomparable. You know, so when Conor Ben's talking about, you know, you just worry about making weight. Don't worry about the weight, mate. The weight's fine. I got, I got a lot worse issues than the weight. The weight's gonna come off. That, I think that was the first time that I kind of got caught up a little bit in what was going on in my life. And the people saw that and they, I guess they, they loved seeing that vulnerable side to me.
41:47 Speaker 00 Uh, because it's real and it's what, it's what billions and billions of people are dealing with in their own lives. So to see somebody who's a fighter, who's big and strong and tough, having to go through the same things, it's, uh, you know, it's a, it's a very, it's a humbling thing to see. And it's one of the reasons why, you know, when I'm walking to the ring, there, there are people crying. His dad came. His dad was there for him after all that. Together. You know, I'm gonna call my dad after this fight. That's what people tell me. After the fight, I called my dad straight away. I haven't spoke to him for months, years, called him.
42:30 Steven Bartlett? Were you thinking about your younger brother? In the build up to the fight and as you walked out and during the fight, does that come into your mind?
42:41 Speaker 00 There is a picture. There was a picture of him on my shorts, right on the side. And he's screaming. And his name's on the bottom of my shorts, Sebastian.
43:03 Speaker 00 That fire, you know, I'm looking at that picture before I'm putting the shorts on. Like, yeah, I'm using that energy. This is for you. This is for Rahim. This is for the family. This is for the U banks.
43:18 Speaker 00 I can't look at that picture and lose. It's impossible.
43:25 Speaker 00 It's impossible.
43:28 Steven Bartlett? Rahim has had a big impact on you.
43:31 Speaker 00 Massive.
43:35 Speaker 00 Never thought, never thought that I could experience the love and the warmth
43:43 Speaker 00 that I have when I'm around him. I was never the type of guy like, oh, I want, you know, I want, I want a kid. I want, I want kids. I want that.
43:52 Speaker 00 I'd never got it. I just, I guess I was just too busy with my own life, my own career, my own issues. Rahim comes into my life.
44:05 Speaker 00 And it just, the love I have around him, it makes me want to have my own son. And Rahim is my son, but biologically, I want to have my own son now because I love who I am and how I feel when I'm around him, when I'm teaching him things, when I'm taking him to places and watching him grow and watching him learn new words and new expressions. It makes me really happy, you know, and before Rahim, I thought happiness was a, you know, a big win at a poker table or winning a fight or going on some amazing trip. And those do make me happy, but it's, it's a whole different level when you're with
44:47 Speaker 00 another human being who you love and you're getting to show him the world and teach him things and watch him grow. It's incredible. So, um, yeah, I thank God for him every day.
45:02 Steven Bartlett? Is it out in the, the public domain, the circumstances around your brother's death?
45:07 Speaker 00 Uh, I'm, I'm not a hundred percent sure, but, um, he drowned, he drowned.
45:15 Steven Bartlett? He drowned?
45:15 Speaker 00 He drowned in Dubai, yeah. He, um.
45:21 Speaker 00 He had a
45:25 Speaker 00 I don't know if it was a heart attack, it was like a
45:29 Speaker 00 something happened with his heart. And of all places, he's having a, he's swimming in the sea. And he, you know, it, it switched him off for a second and in that second, he's obviously in the water and he went under. And um
45:47 Speaker 00 you know, how insane is that? The, the guy you saw him. Yeah. Jack, muscles. He, he makes his own green juices every day. Uh. Alkaline. Alkaline. Yeah, that was his nickname for anybody that's. Alkaline, yes. You know, health fanatic.
46:07 Speaker 00 And in a split second, he's gone. Uh, it's just, and you know, it
46:15 Speaker 00 it just put things into perspective and it just makes you appreciate and respect life so much more. Because you understand that it can be taken away at any, any time.
46:28 Speaker 00 You know, and it doesn't have to be some crazy car crash or
46:33 Speaker 00 you know, it can just be you're swimming, you know, you're swimming and then you're not there anymore. Um.
46:41 Speaker 00 And it makes you live your life with so much more respect and responsibility and appreciation.
46:49 Speaker 00 You know, before that I'd have days or weeks where I would just, you know, I'd fuck around. Waste time, video games, TV, you know, around people I shouldn't be hanging around with. Things that were not productive in any way, shape or form. And yes, you still, you know, you still have to have those moments in your life where you can just kind of do whatever. Nobody's, you know, nobody's gonna be righteous every day of their lives. But what it, what, what experiencing some of this does is it makes you.
47:33 Speaker 00 Aware of life and how precious it is. And it just makes you strive to be a better person so much more. Because you know that, you know, we have a finite amount of time on this earth. You know, so are you gonna make it count?
47:51 Speaker 00 Are you gonna make it count or are you gonna waste it? There are people out there who would kill for the lives that we have.
48:01 Speaker 00 So how can you not be grateful? How can you not be respectful and responsible with your time?
48:07 Speaker 00 You know, we are free.
48:10 Speaker 00 We're free. We did it, we made it. Billions and billions and billions of people on this planet will never know what it is to be free. And by terms of in terms of free, I mean, you know, you're not waking up and working, you know, 12 hour shifts just so that you can eat and live.
48:32 Speaker 00 You know, we have free time, we have leisure, we have, uh, you know, disposable income.
48:44 Speaker 00 People don't have these things. So you've got to be respectful, you've got to be grateful, you've got to be responsible with what you're doing.
48:54 Steven Bartlett? With all of this on your mind heading into that fight, I remember the last, before the last fight was cancelled, you were saying that you'd be at 60% for the fight and you'd go in there and beat him.
49:04 Steven Bartlett? What percentage were you at? And I'm kind of coming back to this question again.
49:08 Speaker 00 You're really trying to get that out, Mia?
49:10 Steven Bartlett? It's it's really, I I'm trying to understand if what I saw was true. Like when I, when I saw you in those first couple of rounds, I'm stood there kind of confused and concerned at ringside. Cause I'm like, this ain't how he used to look. This ain't what you look like in the other fights in those early rounds. I was like, he doesn't look like he has the same strength and speed.
49:27 Speaker 00 Well, I had a, you know, regardless of what happened outside of.
49:33 Speaker 00 My training camp and all the things I was going through, I had a rehydration restriction.
49:39 Steven Bartlett? Explain this for people who don't know. Explain what weight you're at right now, you were at before the fight. How much weight you cut and then what the restrictions say you have to do.
49:47 Speaker 00 So, you know, and I'm, I'm not saying this for sympathy or as an excuse. It was my own doing. I take full responsibility. And I say that because they said, we want to have a weight or a rehydration restriction on you. So you, you can weigh in at the middle weight limit of a hundred and sixty pounds. But the next, but you can only put on ten pounds before the fight. Usually there's no restriction on what you eat and drink. You just refuel and replenish your body to as much as you can. So that you have full energy for the fight.
50:28 Steven Bartlett? What weight do you walk around at? Just for context.
50:31 Speaker 00 So in context, I usually put on maybe fourteen or fifteen pounds after, after a weigh in. So I, you know, I'll, but I could only put on ten pounds for the fight. If I go over the ten pounds, I've got to pay million dollar fine.
50:49 Steven Bartlett? But if I saw you in the street in like two months' time, what weight would you be at?
50:53 Speaker 00 Well, now, if I'm not in a camp and I'm not trading, then I'll probably be, I don't know, a hundred and eighty, a hundred and eighty-five pounds.
51:02 Steven Bartlett? Okay, so a hundred and eighty-five pounds. You've got to lose roughly twenty-five pounds to get in shape for the fight to make weight.
51:07 Speaker 00 Which is, you know, it's doable. It gets harder as you get older, that's for sure. Your metabolism slows down. It becomes harder to shed those last few pounds and it was hard. I documented my weight cut for this fight. You know, I was, I was in, I was in sweat suits and I had to be wrapped in a, in these heated sheets. And I lay there for half an hour and I'm just sweating everything out. And then I'm in, you know, I'm, I'm doing all these things to just drain my body of, of all the, of all the fluids. And it's, it's torture. You're torturing yourself. You're literally torturing yourself doing this.
51:52 Speaker 00 But you've got to make the weight. If you don't make the weight.
51:56 Speaker 00 They're coming for that cash, baby, you know, and that's what they've done. Unfortunately, they got me on the on the middleweight limit. I was zero five, zero point zero five pounds over the middleweight limit. I didn't mess up on the rehydration clause. So the next day I didn't go over the 10 pounds. But that, the fact that I had to restrict what I was eating, drinking after my weigh in, that that takes percentages off of your performance naturally.
52:28 Steven Bartlett? You check in at 160 pounds the day before and the rehydration clause says, is it 8am the next day, you have to weigh again?
52:36 Speaker 00 Yes, so I, it was between eight and 12.
52:39 Steven Bartlett? Okay, also eight and 12.
52:40 Speaker 00 Yeah.
52:40 Steven Bartlett? You have to weigh again.
52:41 Speaker 00 So I think at 12 o'clock, I weighed in at 169.4.
52:46 Steven Bartlett? Yeah, so you can't gain more than 10 pounds overnight, which means you can't be drinking too much or eating too much of what you want to eat.
52:53 Speaker 00 There should have been no rehydration restriction in the first place.
52:57 Steven Bartlett? If you'd said no to it, would the fight have still gone ahead?
53:00 Speaker 00 Yes.
53:01 Steven Bartlett? So why didn't you say no to it?
53:02 Speaker 00 Why do you think?
53:05 Steven Bartlett? They paid you more?
53:06 Speaker 00 Absolutely.
53:08 Steven Bartlett? How, did you, did you get paid an eight-figure number for this fight?
53:14 Speaker 00 Yes.
53:14 Steven Bartlett? Okay.
53:16 Speaker 00 I was so confident in my ability to beat Connor Benn that I thought, you know what? If you guys want a rate restriction so badly,
53:28 Speaker 00 I'll let you have it.
53:30 Steven Bartlett? Did you get paid the same?
53:31 Speaker 00 But you've got to show me the money. I'm not doing it for free.
53:35 Steven Bartlett? You named your price, didn't you, I heard?
53:36 Speaker 00 Yes, I did.
53:37 Steven Bartlett? And Cirque said yes?
53:39 Speaker 00 Yes, he did.
53:40 Steven Bartlett? The first number you named, you fucked up.
53:45 Speaker 00 I should have got, oh man, I could have got a couple of cars or, you know.
53:49 Steven Bartlett? You should have doubled it and then come down and met him halfway.
53:52 Speaker 00 But that's the thing, you know, when you're negotiating with promoters or broadcasters,
54:00 Speaker 00 you know, you come in high, expecting them to come in lower and then you, you know, I know this and then that, that's usually what happens.
54:12 Speaker 00 The Saudis are not, they're not normal people. They don't have normal money. So a number that you think is fucking great to them is, uh, yeah.
54:26 Speaker 00 Yalla, you know?
54:29 Speaker 00 Um, but again, I said, I'm not greedy. It, it, you know, they paid me, you know, life changing amounts of money. That's another reason why I did what I did in that ring. I have a duty to boxing, to the people, to the fans. We can't be making the types of money we're making and, and give half ass performances. That's disrespectful to people, to the sport, to the fans. You know, we are blessed, we are privileged to be in these positions.
55:08 Speaker 00 Earn, earn your keep.
55:13 Steven Bartlett? Do you get paid on the performance of the fight as well? Or do you just get paid a lump sum? How, how does it work? Cause you, you called Turkey, Turkey, His Excellency. You said a big number. He says, yes. Do you get incentivized on how the fight does in terms of pay per view?
55:27 Speaker 00 That is, well, that, that's all, that all comes in the contract. So, you know, you have your purse.
55:33 Steven Bartlett? Yep.
55:33 Speaker 00 And then you will agree on, if we get to 500,000 buys, then I get a percentage.
55:40 Steven Bartlett? Okay.
55:41 Speaker 00 And then if it hits 600, I get a percentage, you know? So you, you work it, you work it like that. Or just say, all right, well, we'll just pay you this lump sum and then we get all of the pay per view.
55:51 Steven Bartlett? Yeah.
55:51 Speaker 00 You know, it just depends on how you negotiate.
55:55 Steven Bartlett? And so you, you got part of the performance element as well?
55:58 Speaker 00 I'm not going to go into details on that specific part of the contract.
56:02 Steven Bartlett? In my head, I'm trying to figure out how much that one fight made you because. Can you tell me how many multiples it was more than your previous fights?
56:14 Steven Bartlett? I'm just trying to give me sort of an idea of the scale of this in terms of a financial.
56:21 Speaker 00 I mean, you said eight figures, right? How much more of a scale do you need?
56:25 Steven Bartlett? No, but I mean, I mean, what do you normally get paid? Is normally getting paid seven figures?
56:29 Speaker 00 Couple, couple million.
56:31 Steven Bartlett? Okay, fine. So this is like five times more potentially.
56:36 Speaker 00 Yeah, it was, you know, I don't have to box again. Let's put it that way. But the beautiful thing is at thirty five years old, I'm still hungry. I'm still hungry for success in the sport. I'm still hungry for accolades. I'm still hungry to please the fans. You know, a lot of times it's happened throughout history. Fighters will get paid big for a fight and then they lose that hunger. They lose that dedication, that respect for the industry. Oh, well, I've done it now. Now I'm, you know, let's go to the club, pop the bottles and celebrate.
57:19 Speaker 00 Let's travel, let's buy this car and this watch, this house. Oh, it's Jim today. I was tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow. It's okay, it's okay. That's the trap that so many fighters fall into. And that's why I have so much respect for Floyd Mayweather.
57:39 Speaker 00 He has made a disgusting amount of money and his performances and his dedication never, ever, ever changed. That is, you know, it's incredible because guys, they make their first million and their head's gone. Oh, I made it. All right, cool. No, it's not cool, you know? Boxing is a lifestyle. It isn't a one training camp. It isn't one fight. It is a lifetime of dedication and sacrifice, which is why.
58:17 Speaker 00 I never gave up going through all the things I was going through. Leading up to this fight because I know I've put the work in since I was 14 years old. So it doesn't matter what's going on in these two months. I've served my time. I've been through the trenches time and time and time and time again, and I've always found a way to survive. So I'm gonna do it now.
58:47 Speaker 00 Not, oh, well, there's weight clauses and my dad is giving me issues and this and that and that. So I, you know, this is gonna be tough. Maybe I shouldn't do this. No. You're gonna get through it, just like you got through that treadmill run, just like you got through that cut in that fight, just like you got through in that cramp in your leg in that fight. You, you build up a tolerance for pain and suffering.
59:12 Steven Bartlett? You did look like a man possessed. At moments in the fight, to me, you looked like a man that had nothing left in the tank, but one that was still possessed, as you've kind of said, by something else. Because even when it looked to me like there was no energy left, your arms were still swinging and you were still marching forward. So it was, it was confusing. It's always confusing to me because I, like, when I feel like that, like, I don't have that reserve tank, which was something else. Like, I actually can't swing my arms.
59:41 Speaker 00 There was no reserve tank. There was nothing left.
59:45 Steven Bartlett? What's, what's going through your head in those moments when you, you've got no energy, but Connor Bennett is in front of you and there's still minutes left in the round? Are you thinking? Is it? Is it like a conscious?
59:58 Speaker 00 Yeah.
59:59 Steven Bartlett? What are you thinking?
1:00:00 Speaker 00 You know, I remember going back to the corner in the,
1:00:06 Speaker 00 maybe the eighth round, seventh, eighth round. And I can hear my trainer and my, and my cornerman. "Use the jab, Chris. Just stay on your jab. You're good. Control the jab. Use your feet."
1:00:25 Speaker 00 I looked at him, I said, "It's too late."
1:00:29 Speaker 00 It's too late. I'm sorry. What's gonna happen is gonna happen. You'll see. There was a look of confusion on their faces. You know, when you have an instruction from a trainer and a team, you're supposed to abide by it. So when I'm telling them it's too late.
1:00:50 Speaker 00 It's too late. I had already gone into war mode.
1:00:57 Speaker 00 Once you, once you commit. As a fighter, once you commit to a certain path you're gonna walk down.
1:01:07 Speaker 00 It's, it's pretty much impossible to then switch back.
1:01:12 Speaker 00 I had a cut.
1:01:15 Speaker 00 From a headbutt, you know, the blood was going down into my eye. I couldn't see.
1:01:23 Speaker 00 Fights can get stopped from cuts.
1:01:29 Speaker 00 Soon as that cut happened, I knew that there was no more boxing. There was no more jabbing. There was no more technicality. There was no more being pretty with it, defense. Nope. It's go time now, baby. We're gonna see how much this kid really wants it. Cause I want it. I don't know how much he wants it. We're gonna find out. Let's find out.
1:01:57 Speaker 00 Come forward, you attack, you walk through the punches. It doesn't look good, doesn't look pretty. It's not boxing. It is trench warfare. You know, when you're dehydrated as well after the fight.
1:02:13 Speaker 00 My face is swollen up. And that's not from the punches. That's from severe dehydration.
1:02:22 Speaker 00 It's this, it's this weird thing where like when your body doesn't have any moisture in it and you're dehydrated. Your face puffs up. I think it's just the, the, the skin is weak and it just puffs up. And that's what what I was suffering with most in hospital was just
1:02:39 Speaker 00 complete dehydration. It got to a point where I was in the hospital and I was lying in the bed.
1:02:47 Speaker 00 And they they had um drips, IV drips, to get all the the liquid into your into your system. And my bladder was full, like I really needed to pee. For about two hours, I'd get up, go to the toilet, I stand over the toilet. Come on, man, come on. Would not go. And I'm dying to go. That's how dehydrated it was, that my body would not let any liquids, any moisture go. It was holding on to everything. There were moments in that hospital where I'm feeling, you know, I saw myself, I caught myself in the morning, I see my face is all puffed up, this massive cut
1:03:32 Speaker 00 across my eye, got my headache is crazy, you know, and I'm feeling sorry for myself. This is fucked up. You know, I've got my family around me, there, you know, some of them are crying, and I'm like, this is really, this is so bad. I'm lying there, I've got my mask on, oxygen mask.
1:03:52 Speaker 00 I can hear everything that's going on.
1:03:57 Speaker 00 Somebody, we're in a ward, somebody gets wheeled into the room next to me, and it's only, you know, it's, there's no walls, it's like sheets just separating. I'm looking up, oh, man, this is so bad. Get me the morphine, get me the morphine. They can't get the, they can't get you the morphine until they sign off on some stuff, so I'm waiting there. This is so bad. And then I hear the doctor say,
1:04:24 Speaker 00 "We have to operate on him now, otherwise he's gonna die."
1:04:29 Speaker 00 I heard that from the other room.
1:04:33 Speaker 00 And I thought, oh my god.
1:04:37 Speaker 00 I'm, I'm great. I'm blessed. I, I should not be feeling sorry for myself, for myself at all. Because I, I, you know, I knew I was in pain, but
1:04:50 Speaker 00 there's a guy next to me, he's about to die.
1:04:54 Speaker 00 What am I doing feeling bad for myself and complaining about a headache and a cut eye? He's about to die. And I don't know, you know, they willed him off and I don't know what happened to him. I, you know, I pray that he's okay. But that put everything into perspective for me. You know, I'm okay. I'm blessed. I'm going to be okay.
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1:06:30 Speaker 00 I said it after the fight. I wasn't expecting him to be able to do what he did in terms of show the heart. And the determination and the will to win. He never gave up. I didn't know he had that in him. I hadn't prepared for a 12 round fight like that. I thought that I would get to five or six rounds. He'd start feeling the pace and he'd look for a way out. He did not do that. So in that respect, I have respect for him.
1:07:10 Speaker 00 The fight finished.
1:07:15 Speaker 00 I did not shake his hand. I didn't congratulate him. I didn't speak to him. I didn't hug him.
1:07:21 Speaker 00 Which is what most fighters, pretty much all fighters do after they fight. And especially a fight like that, you would expect that.
1:07:31 Speaker 00 I couldn't do it. I didn't have it in me. Because in my mind,
1:07:38 Speaker 00 you know, this kid is still a drugs cheat. He still tried to cheat in our first fight. Failed two drugs tests.
1:07:51 Speaker 00 Never owned up to it. Denied it, denied it, denied it. No apologies, no admittance, no matting up.
1:08:00 Speaker 00 I can't forgive that. I can't respect that. I can't shake that hand
1:08:09 Speaker 00 until there is some accountability. He's not gonna give it.
1:08:15 Speaker 00 You know, I have to set an example to the kids that are watching this fight. They're watching these scenes.
1:08:23 Speaker 00 You know, if you cheat, if you take performance enhancing drugs, you don't get respect from me. I can't give you that respect because there are kids who are saying, oh, well, hold on, he was doing drugs a couple, a couple of years ago. He got caught. But now it's okay, you know.
1:08:40 Steven Bartlett? So this really did bother you. I wasn't sure if that was just part of an act to sort of promote the fight. You, you know, the egg slap, the constantly berating him about this, um, the voluntary anti, the, the doping ban that he had. So July, I think it was July 2022 or September 2022, Connor Benn failed two voluntary anti-doping tests for clomiphene, testosterone boosting substance. And therefore the original fight was cancelled. Um, the UK Anti-Doping Association formally suspended Connor for a doping violation. They reinstated Connor citing, after citing egg contamination. And then reinstated Connor's suspension following an appeal.
1:09:24 Steven Bartlett? Ultimately, in November 2024, Connor was cleared to fight after the panel ruled that they had failed to prove intentional use. I wasn't sure if you were actually really bothered by this or whether it was part of the promotion of the fight.
1:09:37 Speaker 00 Bothered is an understatement.
1:09:39 Steven Bartlett? Really?
1:09:39 Speaker 00 Yeah. I don't hold grudges.
1:09:45 Speaker 00 I am, I'm a man that can forgive. Never forget, but I can forgive.
1:09:53 Speaker 00 Um, but when it comes to something as serious as drug cheating in this sport, you saw what we had to go through.
1:10:02 Speaker 00 So if somebody's got something in their system which is going to make them fight harder, take more punishment, react quicker.
1:10:10 Speaker 00 You know, that is a form of attempted murder, in my opinion. You're going into a fight
1:10:20 Speaker 00 with extra weaponry.
1:10:22 Steven Bartlett? Is it possible that he didn't intentionally take something, in your view? Have you considered that? Do you know, for me, as just an onlooker, I saw him, the emotional impact it had on him. I saw him in tears. I saw him talking about suicidal ideation after that came out. And there was part of me that did wonder for a second, maybe something did happen because that is the reaction of someone who is truly deeply devastated in a way that an innocent person would be. And imagine if he is innocent. Imagine if he didn't intentionally take something.
1:10:58 Speaker 00 You can be suicidal and devastated
1:11:04 Speaker 00 after getting caught doing something you shouldn't have done. You can still have that reaction.
1:11:12 Speaker 00 Let's say that he did unintentionally
1:11:20 Speaker 00 take these drugs. Somebody slipped something into his drink. Somebody contaminated his eggs. Somebody injected something into him when he was at a doctor's appointment. I don't know however you want to, however you want to fantasize this beautiful story. Let's say that this impossible thing has happened.
1:11:47 Speaker 00 As a fighter, as an athlete, you only have a few jobs that you have to do.
1:11:56 Speaker 00 You have to train hard, you have to go to sleep on time.
1:12:02 Speaker 00 You have to prepare, you have to,
1:12:06 Speaker 00 you know, you have to um make sure that your diet, your fluid intake is on point, so that you have the energy to go into these to these fights, into these sporting events and be able to compete at the highest abilities you can. Aside from that, there's not much else we have to do as an athlete.
1:12:29 Speaker 00 It's your job to know exactly what you are putting into your body, whether it's food, whether it's fluid, whether it's drugs, you have to know, that's your job.
1:12:43 Speaker 00 So if you're irresponsible enough to let somebody slip something by to where you fail, not one but two drugs tests, if you're irresponsible enough for that to happen, then you're still a cheat.
1:12:58 Steven Bartlett? Could you shake his hand now?
1:13:01 Speaker 00 I told you, I didn't shake his hand after the fight. One, because he's never owned up to it.
1:13:07 Speaker 00 And two,
1:13:09 Speaker 00 you know, it's very likely that we are gonna be fighting again.
1:13:13 Steven Bartlett? You slapped him with an egg in the press conference beforehand and you were fined a hundred thousand pounds for that slap with the egg? Do you regret the egg slap?
1:13:23 Speaker 00 Worth every penny, my friend.
1:13:24 Steven Bartlett? Really?
1:13:25 Speaker 00 Yeah. It was a symbol. It was, it wasn't an act of violence. It was an act of justice. It was an act to make sure that for the rest of his life, he will never be able
1:13:43 Speaker 00 to forget what he did.
1:13:46 Speaker 00 People will always know. Benny, remember that time you human kitten with an egg? That will go, that will be with him for the rest of his life. And that's what he deserves for failing those drugs tests. So many times fighters, they fail drug tests, they serve a little ban, they pay a fine, they're back in the ring and people kind of just forget.
1:14:08 Speaker 00 Kind of just get swept under, oh, don't talk about that. Come on, you know, he's doing so well now. He served his time. No, no, no, no, no. This kid is not, he's not getting that. I'm gonna put this egg across his chin. There's gonna be pictures that are gonna circle around the world.
1:14:27 Speaker 00 That memory will stay with him for the rest of his life. He will, he will always be known for that. Why was it an egg? Why do you hit him with an egg? Oh, because he was treating with drugs and it was, it was a contaminated egg, something like that. I want that story to live with him.
1:14:41 Steven Bartlett? There's a rematch clause. I'm assuming the rematch clause, I don't know how these things work, but I'm assuming you get paid the same again. You get paid more. You get paid more to do the rematch.
1:14:51 Speaker 00 Absolutely.
1:14:52 Steven Bartlett? Really?
1:14:53 Speaker 00 Yeah. You know, this, that's, this is business. You, you know, the fight will be bigger.
1:14:59 Steven Bartlett? Okay.
1:14:59 Speaker 00 The fight will sell more pay-per-views. It will sell more tickets. It will, there will be a, you can't, you know, you can't get paid the same. If you lose, you get paid less. That's how boxing works.
1:15:14 Steven Bartlett? So if you'd lost this fight, you would have got paid less?
1:15:16 Speaker 00 Absolutely.
1:15:17 Steven Bartlett? Significantly less?
1:15:19 Speaker 00 I mean, it would still be incredible numbers, but yes.
1:15:21 Steven Bartlett? You'd lose millions.
1:15:22 Speaker 00 Millions.
1:15:23 Steven Bartlett? If you lose the fight.
1:15:24 Speaker 00 For sure.
1:15:25 Steven Bartlett? Interesting.
1:15:26 Speaker 00 But that's, you know, that's not just because we're working with the Saudis. That's boxing in general.
1:15:30 Steven Bartlett? Yeah.
1:15:30 Speaker 00 You're, they say in boxing, you're only as good as your last fight. If you win, you can demand more the next time. If you lose, well, you lost, so we're going to give you this.
1:15:41 Steven Bartlett? So this rematch clause, if you decided to walk away now, or Connor decided to walk away now, is there any penalty?
1:15:47 Speaker 00 That's a good question. I don't know if there's a penalty. May, well, yeah, I'm, I maybe I could be sued.
1:15:53 Steven Bartlett? Okay.
1:15:53 Speaker 00 Yeah, there's, there's probably, you know, all that stuff I have, you know, lawyers that deal out all the, all the small print, but, you know, in all honesty,
1:16:05 Speaker 00 you know,
1:16:07 Speaker 00 I was like, you guys want, you guys want to sign a rematch clause for this?
1:16:15 Speaker 00 No one's going to want to see a rematch after I do this, what I'm going to do to you. That's what was in my head. I was like, They're contracting me, they have to deliver a rematch, they have to pay me this this amount of money minimum. This is amazing because I'm gonna go out there, I'm gonna blast this guy out and then, you know, and people are probably aren't gonna wanna see a rematch. So this is amazing that I'm gonna actually get it contracted in now.
1:16:40 Steven Bartlett? Did you even think that in the day before the fight when you were struggling?
1:16:47 Steven Bartlett? Did you even think you were gonna blow him out? Even when you were struggling?
1:16:51 Speaker 00 That's how much I didn't respect the, um, not even the ability, because I knew he had ability, but the mindset.
1:17:00 Steven Bartlett? Were there people around you encouraging you or floating the idea of you pulling out of the fight? Because of your health condition?
1:17:10 Speaker 00 I never said I had a health condition. You are, you know, kind of listening to what I've said and that's what you've taken away from it. I'm not confirming or denying that, just to make that clear. Um.
1:17:27 Speaker 00 I'm not gonna answer that question either.
1:17:30 Steven Bartlett? Okay. So does that mean that there is going to be? The rematch this year?
1:17:38 Speaker 00 I mean, contractually, that is what is on paper. Um.
1:17:44 Steven Bartlett? Taki's already booked the arena, I hear. He's already booked it in September?
1:17:48 Speaker 00 I doubt that it's already been booked, but you know, they have their plans, they have their direction and you know, with, with the Saudis, when they want something, they get it, you know? Nobody stops them from doing what they wanna do. So, um, it's, it's very likely that that fight will happen again at some point this year.
1:18:11 Steven Bartlett? And do you want that fight next?
1:18:13 Speaker 00 I want what the fans want.
1:18:16 Speaker 00 You know, if the fans wanna see it next,
1:18:21 Speaker 00 who am I to to say no? You know, it's um, it's a fight that's inspired people.
1:18:29 Speaker 00 I got I got friends calling me up, messaging me, oh, my son, I took my son down to the boxing gym for the first time today. Like, it's giving kids into gyms. You know, he never wanted to box before, he plays football every day. Now he's in the boxing gym. Sending me pictures of hitting the bags and stuff. It's amazing.
1:18:45 Steven Bartlett? Crazy. How much better do you think you could be as a percentage?
1:18:53 Speaker 00 Um.
1:18:55 Steven Bartlett? If every, you know, you're back in your corner now.
1:18:59 Steven Bartlett? You you're gonna be a bit more versed in, I guess, preparation and the weight cut or whatever. You said there's pointed out a few things you said you would have done differently.
1:19:07 Speaker 00 Well, I fought him. I've lived with him for 12 rounds.
1:19:14 Speaker 00 I know what he is, what he's capable of.
1:19:18 Speaker 00 So in that aspect, the next fight for me should be a hell of a lot easier. Because, you know, I'm one of them fighters, you know, all I need is, all I need is to experience it one time.
1:19:34 Speaker 00 And then I know what to do with you. That's how I've always been, especially in like sparring. I remember the first time, the first time I ever went into a gym, I don't remember if I told you the story, but I got my ass battered for three rounds, the first time I ever went to a boxing gym. But I knew what he was. I knew how strong he was. I knew how fast he was. I knew the type of punches he threw.
1:19:59 Speaker 00 So after two months of training and preparation, I got back into the ring with that same guy. And I battered him. That's all I thought about, you know. So I believe the same thing will happen with Connor. I won the first fight and I got to experience what he is. There's so many things I know now about him that I can practice, perfect, tweak, tailor my performance to to take advantage of his weaknesses. And he will probably do the same with me.
1:20:33 Steven Bartlett? Yeah.
1:20:34 Speaker 00 But my experience is so more superior to what he is in terms of what I've done and what I've, the guys I've faced. I know how to capitalize on being with a, in a ring with somebody before that he doesn't. I've been in rematches before. I've rematched Liam Smith, who beat me in the first fight. Uh, and the second fight blew him out of the war. So I know what it is to do that. He doesn't.
1:21:02 Steven Bartlett? Was Connor faster than you were expecting?
1:21:04 Speaker 00 Yep.
1:21:05 Steven Bartlett? Was he stronger than you were expecting?
1:21:06 Speaker 00 Yep. Stronger, faster, tougher. And more, most importantly is more mentally prepared. And more mentally willing to put it all on the line. That was the most shocking thing to me. I didn't think he had that in him to stay in there and show that dog. We both had to be dogs at the end of that fight. And throughout the entire fight, I didn't know he had any dog in him. I thought he was the type of guy, if it's not going my way, I'm going to look for a way out.
1:21:50 Speaker 00 He's not that guy.
1:21:55 Steven Bartlett? So how does that feel, knowing now that you're getting into the ring again, potentially in September this year, with someone who is absolutely unwilling to quit? That is an absolute dog that has also learned from you.
1:22:07 Steven Bartlett? Is there not an element of you that goes, I know, you know, I'd rather avoid that. I've got eight figures in the bank and, you know, I could, I could buy a boat. I could chill or I could go back in that ring with that, that dog and might bust my eye and be back in hospital. I'm gonna have to go through the cut, weight cut again and dehydration again and.
1:22:26 Speaker 00 It's um, exciting, you know, I'm sick in that way in that I love being in these positions where.
1:22:39 Speaker 00 What's gonna happen? Am I gonna be able to do it? I live for that. I live for those moments. These are the moments that when I'm sixty, seventy, eighty years old, I'm gonna look and I'll be like, wow, I did that.
1:22:52 Steven Bartlett? You're sick in the head.
1:22:54 Speaker 00 Well, you have to be sick to, to be in a fight like that. Come out of the ring a week later and think, you know what? I can't wait to do that again. That is kind of sick. You know, I'm dehydrated, I'm cut, I'm tired, I'm in pain. There's something sick about it, but you have to be, you have to be wired differently to be a fighter of any type of grade. You can't be a normal human being. Most, most human beings, when they're in painful situations, what can I do to avoid that?
1:23:27 Speaker 00 I want to get into it more, see how far I can go.
1:23:33 Speaker 00 Can he break me? No, but let's find out if he can.
1:23:38 Steven Bartlett? So talk to me about the walkout. The fight was legendary, the build up was legendary, but the walkout was also legendary.
1:23:46 Speaker 00 I've, I've seen, I walked, I watched the walkout fifty times.
1:23:49 Steven Bartlett? Yeah, I watched it like fifteen times. It was iconic. It made me fall in love with the, the Dre song.
1:23:55 Speaker 00 Yeah, yeah, that's, that's, that's, that's my anthem. That's the song I've been walking up to for my entire career. So to have an orchestra playing that behind me was special.
1:24:06 Steven Bartlett? It's simply the best as well.
1:24:07 Speaker 00 Yeah, simply the best.
1:24:08 Steven Bartlett? Which I'm guessing was a last minute addition.
1:24:11 Speaker 00 Absolutely. We were supposed to have an artist. We, we would, we had, um, we were in talks with, uh, Central C. He was gonna bring me out.
1:24:20 Steven Bartlett? Really?
1:24:21 Speaker 00 And then, you know, obviously last minute, I'm, oh man.
1:24:26 Speaker 00 Came into the picture and, you know, we had to cut out all these other things we were gonna do.
1:24:33 Steven Bartlett? You, your dad requested a song, didn't he?
1:24:35 Speaker 00 So that's the, so he said, so he said, what do you want from me? What, what do you think I want? He said, I said, I don't know, you wanna hug? He said, I don't want anything. And then later on, he said, you know what? There's one thing. There's a song that I want you to play at some point in the walkout.
1:24:57 Speaker 00 And I'm like, oh, here we go.
1:25:00 Speaker 00 We've already got Simply the Best. We've got a whole orchestra. For my song, Dr. Dre.
1:25:07 Speaker 00 How, how are we gonna squeeze in some random song I've never heard of? But my old man's my old man. And I was actually kind of annoyed.
1:25:18 Speaker 00 Um, because I'm like, you know. The truth is, you haven't been around. You haven't been a part of the fight. You haven't been a part of the, the whole setup. We've had all these. You know, all these things, you know, preparing for the show. And now all of a sudden, you know, you're coming in your, and you're, and you're saying you want this song. I'm like, you know what? You being there is what's important. And if you're saying that's what you want. We will find a way to put it in. And I listened to the song and I was like. I didn't get it. I thought, oh, it's just, it's one of my old man's kooky requests that, you know.
1:25:57 Speaker 00 Even on the night.
1:26:01 Speaker 00 I'm up on the stage. We walk up onto the stage and look out into the crowd. The Simply the Best song stops. And in my head, I'm thinking, oh, man, that would have been so much better to just keep that going, you know? And then this.
1:26:16 Speaker 00 Kind of ethereal tune.
1:26:20 Speaker 00 Pops out over the, over the stadium.
1:26:25 Speaker 00 And.
1:26:28 Speaker 00 I'm looking out into the crowd and I'm, I'm starting to see people well up.
1:26:35 Speaker 00 This guy, this guy, he always, he always, you know, even when you think he's crazy or wrong, he's right. And this song was like, it just, it worked perfectly with the whole scene. Me and my old man finally standing together and there's this like peaceful song that comes in and we're together. And it's like a beautiful moment that I never thought would happen. That wouldn't have happened if it was just simply the best, because it's a different, it's a different vibe, you know?
1:27:06 Steven Bartlett? It took the energy.
1:27:08 Speaker 00 It took it down.
1:27:09 Steven Bartlett? And it went boom.
1:27:09 Speaker 00 And then for everyone to just focus on what was actually happening. So we're there and we're listening to this song and it's like, it's an amazing, it's an amazing moment. And then it drops into the orchestra.
1:27:21 Steven Bartlett? Yeah.
1:27:22 Speaker 00 And it was just perfect. I was like, wow.
1:27:24 Steven Bartlett? And then it drops into the beat as you started walking.
1:27:26 Speaker 00 Yeah.
1:27:26 Steven Bartlett? It was iconic.
1:27:27 Speaker 00 You know, and it's like, you can't script this type of stuff. You know, it's like, people say, I keep hearing people say, oh, it's like WWE, like, you know, but in real life. And I've never watched WWE, so I don't really know what that means. But someone was telling me, you know, oh, well, you know, obviously everything's scripted, but they act like it isn't.
1:27:49 Steven Bartlett? Yeah.
1:27:49 Speaker 00 So like the commentators and, you know, but it's all, so it was like that, but it was real. And it was happening in front of everyone for the first time. Everyone was like, and these were real reactions. It wasn't, it wasn't fake, you know, it's crazy.
1:28:01 Steven Bartlett? The way your dad like stepped out the car and put one leg out and then you hear the commentators like scream. It was, yeah.
1:28:06 Speaker 00 Even that moment. So it's like, you know, if I was on that side of the car, because we're in the Rolls Royce, but what if I was on that side? So we park up and then it's me that gets out. Obviously, it's, it's still a very cool moment, but it's, it's different when it's, that was a good moment for him to, to, to be shown, you know? And then I come in from the side and we hug and we walk in.
1:28:32 Steven Bartlett? And you couldn't hear that the arena had erupted.
1:28:34 Speaker 00 No, I didn't know. I didn't know until, uh, until people were talking about it.
1:28:40 Steven Bartlett? Billy Joe, he tried to get into your dressing room to do your hand wraps, caused a scene outside with our friend Napa,
1:28:48 Steven Bartlett? who I've known a long, long time. Billy Joe, you had a fight with him in the past.
1:28:56 Steven Bartlett? Contentious fight. He got the decision in that fight, but it was a contentious fight. How'd you feel about Billy Joe?
1:29:07 Speaker 00 There's very few people in the sport, in the planet, really, that I genuinely dislike.
1:29:15 Speaker 00 He is one of those people.
1:29:17 Steven Bartlett? Who do you dislike more, Connor Ben or Billy Joe?
1:29:20 Speaker 00 Well, Billy Joe is a drug cheat too.
1:29:24 Speaker 00 So.
1:29:28 Speaker 00 Billy Joe, yeah, because not only is he a drug cheat, but he is actually a real
1:29:35 Speaker 00 scummy human being, you know? And I don't talk about anybody like this. So if I'm saying it about him, there's a reason. He is a bad, bad person.
1:29:48 Speaker 00 A terrible advocate for the sport. Just a, just a real low-life human being.
1:29:57 Speaker 00 And I don't say that about any of the guys I've fought. I'm not even saying that about Connor, even though he cheated. He's still somebody that,
1:30:09 Speaker 00 you know, I can, I can see some of the things he does and I can see why people will like him. There's nothing to like about Billy Joe Saunders. And for that reason, I would love to get my hands on him because he does have a win over me that I don't believe he deserves, that many people say that he doesn't deserve. A lot of people say I won the fight. And it's kind of just something that's been hanging over me for so long. And I just know that I can beat him. And I just know how much of an enjoyment it would be for me to set that record straight. So that's another fight that's a possibility in the future.
1:30:51 Steven Bartlett? So if you could draw your future, if you could plot your next three fights
1:30:58 Steven Bartlett? and you, you had to decide right now, what would those next three fights be?
1:31:03 Steven Bartlett? In a perfect world?
1:31:06 Speaker 00 I feel like
1:31:08 Speaker 00 the demand for this Connor Ben fight
1:31:12 Speaker 00 is at an all-time high right now.
1:31:17 Speaker 00 So I feel like that would be the fight to make next.
1:31:24 Speaker 00 Then you have Canelo, that is a fight that I've been wanting for,
1:31:30 Speaker 00 you know, for years.
1:31:33 Speaker 00 And I would love to share the ring with that man.
1:31:39 Speaker 00 And then we could throw saunas in at the end of it, you know?
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1:33:45 Speaker 02 Let me ask you, I mean, I often tell Christopher that um boxing is a business that um you never see middle class or upper class youngsters become champion because you need hunger, you need to be hungry. Um and the fact that you've kind of been brought up within these four walls here and you've been protected, I don't think you're gonna be hard enough.
1:34:06 Speaker 03 I just wanna try it, I just wanna see what it's about. If he can, if my egg can, why can't I do it?
1:34:14 Speaker 02 That's the argument. Have so many people come to understand, you take a beating, is this what it's about? Not for me. And I hope, I hope you're not stubborn and kind of uh. That's what you are, you're stubborn and bullheaded, that's why you made it. Yeah, but I don't want him to. So you're saying, now you don't want to be stubborn and bullheaded. Listen, you know, for the guys who don't make. You might have to be. For the guys who don't make it in boxing, you know, it's tragic, it's a tragic business to be in. You're convinced he's not gonna make it, just let him go until he wears himself out of it and he's not bothered anymore. Yeah, and by then, all those good looking features would have gone, you know what they say, let me tell you what, trust me, don't, Christopher, just leave it alone.
1:34:58 Speaker 02 Remember what they said, right? Okay, am I, am I bad looking? Right. Okay, why are you putting that into the kid's head? I think I don't want him to fight, I don't want him to fight, everyone gets hurt, everyone gets deflaged, everybody get used. What you're saying is irrelevant at this time. Irrelevant? Yeah, why?
1:35:17 Speaker 03 Because it may not happen, it's like worrying about what might not happen.
1:35:20 Speaker 02 You, uh, let me, let me just bring this point to you.
1:35:24 Speaker 02 I would never want, when I have kids, for my child, daughter, to be in a car crash. So, what do I do?
1:35:33 Speaker 03 Fuck.
1:35:33 Speaker 02 I say, I'm not buying your car and you can't drive, is that the right thing to do?
1:35:37 Speaker 03 I just wanna try it.
1:35:43 Speaker 00 Okay, okay, I will, I will, um. I'll let you try. All you're put to do is tell me the word. If you tell me, I'll help you.
1:35:54 Speaker 00 Okay.
1:35:55 Speaker 03 Dad, I've always said yes, I'm saying yes and no, I want to do it.
1:35:58 Speaker 00 You want to do it?
1:35:58 Speaker 03 Yeah. Okay.
1:36:02 Speaker 00 I've ever wanted to watch. I'll be one to watch.
1:36:08 Speaker 00 And I so hope this one in boxing.
1:36:12 Steven Bartlett? What's going on there in that video that I just played?
1:36:16 Speaker 00 Fear. That's a father who is, is thinking about all the things he's gone through. And fearing that his son will walk into that.
1:36:29 Speaker 00 You know, into that industry, walk down that path and have to go through all those things that he went through. That he worked so hard to kind of keep his family away from.
1:36:38 Steven Bartlett? So you've got Lennox Lewis siding with you and that's your mother?
1:36:42 Speaker 00 Yeah.
1:36:43 Steven Bartlett? And she's also trying to persuade him to let you have a shot at boxing. When you watch that video now, after everything that happened with the fight we just all watched, where there was almost 70,000 people in an arena. People watching all over the world. It's been this global phenomenon, not just in the UK, but I was in America and New York this weekend and it's, the people are talking about it there. How does it feel to look back at that video?
1:37:06 Speaker 00 Uh, it's scary, man. It's scary.
1:37:10 Speaker 00 I mean, everything he's saying is right.
1:37:14 Speaker 00 He's completely right, you know? Boxing is a tragic sport for the people that are making you get disfigured and used. Um, you know, disfigured, I've been used plenty of times. It's scary to.
1:37:32 Speaker 00 To think about how far we've come from that moment in time. Um, all the things I've gone through, the things I've done.
1:37:41 Speaker 00 And. You know, he has, he had every right to feel the way he did. Because.
1:37:51 Speaker 00 Champions, hard men, don't come from.
1:37:56 Speaker 00 Those backgrounds that you saw. That, that was filmed in a multimillion pound house.
1:38:03 Speaker 00 You know, I, I went to private school the next day after that injury.
1:38:10 Speaker 00 Kids that live that life don't accomplish anything in such a barbaric sport because there's just too much pain and suffering you have to go through. And there's too many times where naturally you'll look for ways out.
1:38:30 Speaker 00 Now, the kids that come from broken homes, poverty, and, you know, nothing.
1:38:38 Speaker 00 They don't have any other doors to open and walk through. So when they go to the gym and when they go into these fights.
1:38:48 Speaker 00 If I don't get through this door.
1:38:51 Speaker 00 I don't eat.
1:38:54 Speaker 00 I can't pay the rent. Can't feed my family.
1:38:59 Speaker 00 For me.
1:39:01 Speaker 00 When I'm looking at that door that I have to go through, whether it's in a gym or in a fight.
1:39:08 Speaker 00 I know that if I don't make it through that door.
1:39:13 Speaker 00 There's a door there and a door there and a door there and a door there.
1:39:19 Speaker 00 And if I'm experiencing too much pain to get to that doorknob to open it, I can just step back. You know what? All right, let's go over here. Football, business.
1:39:33 Speaker 00 Acting. I could do whatever I wanted with the position I was in as a kid.
1:39:41 Speaker 00 I still wanted to walk through that horrible, painful, nasty boxing door. Open that door. And you walk through the door and you get punched in the stomach. And you go through that and then you go walk through the other door and you get cut above your eye. And just keep walking, keep walking, keep walking, keep walking. And there's all these other doors. Hey, come, come, come, come, come, come. We just, just, just take the easy route, take the easy route. No, I'm staying here.
1:40:09 Speaker 00 So it was so much harder for me to do what I was doing because there was so many other choices. And my father thought that.
1:40:17 Speaker 00 As soon as I reached that first door, I'd be like, you know what? Nah. He said it. I'm not going to be hard enough.
1:40:26 Speaker 00 And nine times out of 10, kids are not hard enough in that in that position. But I was, I was hell bent on proving him wrong and proving
1:40:38 Speaker 00 and proving myself right. I knew what I had in me. I felt what I had in me anyway. I didn't know. You never know until you're you're in those positions, but I just, the strength and the, you know, that that feeling inside of me was so, it was so visceral. I was like, there's no way I can't do this. Like, if I just, if I put everything into this, how can I fail?
1:41:01 Steven Bartlett? Maybe he was calling your bluff.
1:41:03 Speaker 00 That's another crazy thing that I used to think about. Did he? Was he? Was he saying this to make me?
1:41:12 Speaker 00 To make me push harder because he's thinking, all right, well, if I, if I say, ah, he'll be great. When he gets to those painful positions,
1:41:22 Speaker 00 he's already kind of got my,
1:41:25 Speaker 00 well, I've already got his, his, his blessings. So it's like, oh, well, you know, he's, he's behind me anyway, regardless. So, you know, I tried my best. Or does he want me to be at that front door thinking, my old man, he's, he said I couldn't do it. Am I going to let him be right?
1:41:43 Steven Bartlett? Well, he did put a chip on your shoulder in that regard.
1:41:45 Speaker 00 For sure. Massive. Massive.
1:41:49 Steven Bartlett? I saw the press conference with you and Eddie Hearn, and I also saw the one with where Eddie Hearn walks off and then Frank Smith comes in. Frank Smith is like your brother in law.
1:41:58 Speaker 00 Unfortunately, yes, he is. He and my sister have been together for a long, long time, which is
1:42:08 Speaker 00 an extremely wild thing to think that.
1:42:11 Steven Bartlett? The CEO of Matchroom Boxing is basically your brother in law.
1:42:15 Speaker 00 Yeah. You know.
1:42:17 Steven Bartlett? Do you get along?
1:42:18 Speaker 00 No, absolutely not.
1:42:20 Steven Bartlett? You don't get along?
1:42:21 Speaker 00 No. We were okay. We were fine for a couple of years, for for a number of years. You know, I even spent Christmases with him. Um, but it got to a stage where.
1:42:34 Speaker 00 I started to see Matchroom, Eddie Hearn and himself trying to block me in terms of the business side of the sport. You know, I am with a promotional company called Boxer. Boxer and Matchroom, which is Eddie Hearn and Frank Smith, are,
1:42:58 Speaker 00 you know, deathly enemies. They are arch rivals.
1:43:06 Speaker 00 So they do anything they can to screw over Boxer.
1:43:12 Speaker 00 I'm with Boxer. So Frank Smith is trying to sabotage or was trying to sabotage certain things going on in my career.
1:43:24 Speaker 00 Being a part of Matchroom. As soon as I learnt that,
1:43:28 Speaker 00 it doesn't matter that you're in a relationship with my sister. We are not, you know, we are never going to talk again. We are never going to be cordial again.
1:43:39 Speaker 00 You are working against me. He was sitting in that arena on Saturday night praying that I lose.
1:43:47 Steven Bartlett? Why didn't you sign to Matchroom? Did you try?
1:43:51 Speaker 00 They, they, they offered.
1:43:52 Steven Bartlett? Why did you say no?
1:43:54 Speaker 00 I don't trust Eddie Hearn. I don't trust Frank Smith. I don't trust Matchroom. These people are,
1:44:04 Speaker 00 they're dangerous.
1:44:08 Speaker 00 And, you know, it's, it's crazy to think that, yeah, he is with my sister. I don't know how that relationship came about, but love is a peculiar thing.
1:44:22 Steven Bartlett? And you're good with your sister, obviously.
1:44:23 Speaker 00 Of course, of course.
1:44:24 Steven Bartlett? She was there in your corner for the fight.
1:44:27 Speaker 00 Yeah, and I was actually thinking, I'm going to ask her,
1:44:32 Speaker 00 you know, how does it go? Like, you know, you guys go back home together. You guys are lying in bed.
1:44:39 Speaker 00 I've just won, Connor Ben's just lost.
1:44:44 Speaker 00 What do you guys like say to each other, you know, like, because Frank is distraught that Connor Ben lost, you know, that's their golden boy, that's their ticket. You know, I'm my sister's, I'm my sister's brother. So it's like, you've got two completely opposite sides in the same bed. What do you guys say to each other, you know, it's just, I want to ask you that question.
1:45:07 Steven Bartlett? We have a closing tradition on this podcast where the last guest leaves a question for the next guest, not knowing who they're leaving it for. And the question left for you is if you could listen to one album for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?
1:45:19 Speaker 00 One album for the rest of my life, it would have to be something timeless, something that can be,
1:45:27 Speaker 00 something that lasts, you know, so it would have to be something like Michael Jackson, Thriller, you know, a classic, something that in 200 years' time, you're going to still have kids listening to it, that yeah, this is, this is my jam right here.
1:45:42 Speaker 00 Yeah, I guess that would be the album.
1:45:44 Steven Bartlett? Chris, thank you so much for giving all of us as boxing fans, a moment that we will never forget. I do have to say, I've been to a lot of boxing fights all over the world and one of my favorite fights was this Lomachenko fight that I saw in New York, but without a shadow of a doubt, that is the best boxing fight I've ever seen in person and not just because of the fight itself, but because of all of the subplots and all of the inspiration it gives everybody. Watching you go into that 12th round with Connor and give everything when it was so abundantly clear that you had nothing in the tank, sends a message to all of us that there's so much more within us that we probably don't always realize. And sometimes it takes, you know, the family legacy or something deep and profound and meaningful for us to find that in ourselves.
1:46:28 Steven Bartlett? But even as you talked about the, you know, I've had certain challenges with my family's, family over the years and with my parents, with my mother and these kinds of things. And there's been fractures and years where I was disowned and all these kinds of things. And I saw myself in all of that. You know, my, my, my mother had some struggles that she went through, which was somewhat similar in elements to the struggles that your father went through. And I know what it feels like, I know what it feels like. So it just gave, it gave everybody so much and I'm so glad you've been able to get out onto the streets for the first time since the fight and feel that because you brought so much joy, both of you, both you and Connor, both so much joy, so much inspiration and memories that I will tell my kids about and I'll say, I was there for that fight. And I'm so happy for you as well because I know the career journey you've been on and
1:47:11 Steven Bartlett? the twists and turns and everything. So I'm so glad that the public got to know
1:47:18 Steven Bartlett? all of you, not just the cold faced guy that, you know, throws a good uppercut, but the human as well. And it's in part, I think, because of some of the difficult moments you've been through, that you've stepped out a little bit more and become more comfortable with showing the world all that you are. And that's the most valuable, Chris, that I think the world can see. So thank you. Really, really appreciative. And I can't wait to see these next couple of fights you have as you close out what has been a remarkable career. Thank you.
1:47:51 Steven Bartlett? This has always blown my mind a little bit. Fifty-three percent of you that listen to this show regularly haven't yet subscribed to the show. So could I ask you for a favor? If you like the show and you like what we do here and you want to support us, the free, simple way that you can do just that is by hitting the subscribe button. And my commitment to you is if you do that, then I'll do everything in my power, me and my team, to make sure that this show is better for you every single week. We'll listen to your feedback, we'll find the guests that you want me to speak to, and we'll continue to do what we do. Thank you so much.
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