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This episode explores the life, philosophy, and enduring cultural impact of Emily Post, the legendary American etiquette authority. Born Emily Price into a wealthy New York family in 1872, Post survived a difficult marriage and high-profile divorce before finding her true calling as a writer. Rather than echoing the exclusionary, rigid rules of European aristocracies or demanding slavish imitation of the ultra-rich, Post revolutionized etiquette by grounding her 1921 bestseller Etiquette in ethics, empathy, and common-sense courtesy. The hosts explain how her progressive approach welcomed middle-class Americans into good society, emphasizing that genuine character and consideration for others matter far more than social pedigree or wealth.
Hosts introduce the episode and intersperse commercial spots before diving into the main topic.
The hosts discuss Post’s birth, upbringing, and the influence of her affluent family and New York elite society.
Exploration of how Post’s book in the 1920s challenged aristocratic norms and made etiquette accessible to the middle class.
Discussion of how Post’s emphasis on courtesy and inclusivity remains pertinent in contemporary society.
The narrative covers Post’s troubled marriage, her son’s death, and how these events shaped her career and writings.
Overview of Post’s novels, columns, radio appearances, and her broader influence beyond etiquette.
Hosts wrap up the episode, respond to listener mail, and share final thoughts on Emily Post’s legacy.
Details the creation, revisions, and enduring impact of Post’s seminal etiquette guide, the Blue Book.
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Redefining Etiquette Through Ethicsinsight
Emily Post transformed etiquette from an exclusionary set of aristocratic rules into a universal practice rooted in ethics and personal character. Unlike her predecessors, she argued that anyone could belong to good society regardless of birth or wealth.
Tuxedo Park and the Elitestory
Emily's father built homes in Tuxedo Park, an exclusive New York enclave created by old-money elites to escape newly minted millionaires. Interestingly, this village is also where the iconic dinner jacket got its name.
A Painful Divorce and Scandalstory
Emily's marriage to Edwin Post disintegrated after years of incompatibility and rampant infidelity. When Edwin was targeted in a blackmail scheme, he exposed the plot publicly, bringing immense humiliation and public shame to Emily before their divorce.
The Massive Success of Etiquettedata
Published in 1920 after extensive public polling and meticulous research, Post's 619-page book Etiquette cost about seventy-five dollars in today's money and quickly became a massive bestseller.
Using Characters to Teach Mannersstrategy
Post utilized entertaining fictional characters with descriptive names like the Worldlys, the Toplofties, and the Kindhearts to illustrate social faux pas and moral lessons throughout her chapters.
Mrs. Newwed's Disastrous Dinner Partystory
The hosts highlight a cautionary narrative from the book about a disastrous dinner party where a newcomer took too big of a social swing. The chaotic service unfolded like a car crash that guests could not look away from.
National Prominence and Powerdata
Despite starting her career as a novelist, Post became universally known as the etiquette lady. A 1950 Pageant Magazine poll ranked her as the second most powerful woman in America, right behind Eleanor Roosevelt.
“So she was able to basically say, this is what's really important.”
“She had like the background to basically say, no, there's a better way to do this.”
“Anybody can learn etiquette, and everybody should practice good etiquette.”
“And it was super long, but people loved it.”
“Those are all very important. Those are part of etiquette, but that is not the basis of etiquette.”
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