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0:05 Rachel Cruze? Hey guys, I'm Rachel Cruz.
0:06 George Kamel? I'm George Kamel.
0:07 Rachel Cruze? And this is
0:08 George Kamel? Smart Money Happy Hour.
0:11 Rachel Cruze? Cheers, George.
0:12 George Kamel? Cheers.
0:15 Rachel Cruze? Delicious.
0:16 George Kamel? Amazing.
0:17 Rachel Cruze? Well, this is the show where two friends who happen to be money experts talk about what you're talking about. So everything from pop culture, current events, and money.
0:23 George Kamel? And today's vibes are excellent already, Rachel, because it's the first episode of 2025.
0:27 Rachel Cruze? I know. You guys, Happy New Year.
0:29 George Kamel? We made it. The haters doubted.
0:31 Rachel Cruze? And thanks for being here. You know, maybe it's a fresh start. Maybe people think, hey, we want to listen to a money podcast and start a new trail.
0:39 George Kamel? A new journey.
0:40 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
0:40 George Kamel? We're all on a journey, as we are. And today, we're talking about money habits you should leave behind in 2025. But before we get to 2025, all things good and bad, let's share what we're sipping on, Rachel.
0:50 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
0:51 George Kamel? It's a Frostbite.
0:52 Rachel Cruze? What a fun drink name. And it's really good.
0:55 George Kamel? It looks like the milk after you eat Lucky Charms.
0:58 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my gosh, it does. That's so true.
1:00 George Kamel? And I'm gonna call this drink Oops All Booze. It's a boozy one for being such a fun color. It looks like you'd just be drinking blue milk, but it's not.
1:08 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my goodness. Well, for those of you that don't know, George and I, we are in the personal finance space when it comes to what we talk about in life. And one of the best parts of our job when it comes to this is just new beginnings, fresh starts, clean slates, a do-over, whatever you want to call it.
1:24 George Kamel? Yeah, getting out of debt, maybe investing for the first time, getting that emergency fund in place. We love to cheer people on as they take control of their finances and to start rewriting a different story.
1:34 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, and the new year, it presents itself in that way, right? Everyone's looking for the fresh start.
1:38 George Kamel? For some reason, January 1st is just a day, but it feels like a blank slate.
1:42 Rachel Cruze? It really does.
1:43 George Kamel? Who knows what's possible?
1:44 Rachel Cruze? Who knows? We have, we have all of 2025. Can you believe 2025? I remember Y2K. Do you remember Y2K?
1:51 George Kamel? Yeah.
1:52 Rachel Cruze? Man, and that was 20-
1:53 George Kamel? I think I still have trauma from what they said was gonna happen.
1:55 Rachel Cruze? Oh, yeah. Dave and Sharon may have had a few cases of water in the basement.
2:00 George Kamel? I don't doubt it.
2:01 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, we didn't know.
2:02 George Kamel? I was too young to even know.
2:04 Rachel Cruze? Oh, you were?
2:05 George Kamel? Well, I mean, I was in like, 5th grade.
2:07 Rachel Cruze? I know.
2:07 George Kamel? So I wasn't like, a prepper at that point.
2:09 Rachel Cruze? I just remember everyone being like, "The computers can't take a 2,000. They can't take it. It's gonna crash."
2:14 George Kamel? Yeah, the banks are gonna shut down.
2:15 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, it's all gonna crash. Yeah.
2:16 George Kamel? And here we are.
2:16 Rachel Cruze? Here we are, 25 years later.
2:18 George Kamel? The world crumbled for different reasons.
2:19 Rachel Cruze? 25 years later, a quarter of a- Century.
2:23 George Kamel? Yeah. I was real nervous about what you were gonna say.
2:27 Rachel Cruze? A decade, and I was like, that's not the right word. That's not the right word.
2:31 George Kamel? Wow.
2:31 Rachel Cruze? Oh, man. Well, we're gonna talk about, you know, some habits, good and bad, to look at in 2025 when it comes to your money.
2:39 George Kamel? Well, when you leave behind a bad one, you gotta pick up a good one.
2:41 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, yeah, and you know.
2:43 George Kamel? I'm sure James Clear's talked about that. I'm sure he invented that somehow. Father of the habit.
2:48 Rachel Cruze? Father of the habit. He birthed it, birthed the habit. Uh, yeah, so we are going to talk about habits in this, in this episode. It's gonna be fun, George.
2:57 George Kamel? Yeah, we'll call out a few non-money related habits and behaviors that we'd like to see each other leave in 2024. I've got some bones to pick with you, Rachel.
3:05 Rachel Cruze? All right, I can't wait to hear about it. Okay, George, what's one habit you wanna see leave in 2025?
3:11 George Kamel? People who are putting their financial goals on the back burner.
3:14 Rachel Cruze? Oh, that's a good one.
3:14 George Kamel? It's always a, you know, this is like with investing. Well, I'll just do it next year. I'll get to that later on. I'll save when I'm older, right? That's, that's what people say to themselves. And it's like when you're scrolling Instagram on your couch after dinner and you're like, I'll get up, I'll go to bed at 8:30. 8:31 hits, you're like, make it 8:45. Then before you know it, it's midnight and your spouse is waking up to feed your infant child and you're still.
3:37 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my gosh.
3:37 George Kamel? Rotting on the couch like a lowlife.
3:39 Rachel Cruze? It is weird how time just evaporates when you scroll. It's not good.
3:44 George Kamel? And doing it, I was up late last night watching a Netflix series. And I was like, I'm gonna regret this in the morning, but I just wanna finish it and be done with it.
3:51 Rachel Cruze? See, I don't do that. I don't have that issue. I, I'm, I'm so.
3:53 George Kamel? Are you like, the clock hits eight and you're.
3:56 Rachel Cruze? I'm physically tired. I'm like, I can't, even if I wanted to try to stay up late, I really can't.
4:02 George Kamel? Does your body just know? Or do you have like an alarm set on your phone?
4:05 Rachel Cruze? No, my body. No, my body. My body's like, good night, Rachel.
4:10 George Kamel? Good night, Moon.
4:11 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, good night, Moon.
4:12 George Kamel? Good night, Rachel. Is Winston the night owl?
4:14 Rachel Cruze? No, neither of us are.
4:15 George Kamel? He's out.
4:15 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, we both go to bed in an embarrassing early time sometimes, but we get great sleep, which is why we're so healthy. I'm just kidding.
4:23 George Kamel? Didn't we just do an episode about your Sonic and McDonald's runs?
4:28 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, we did.
4:28 George Kamel? Okay. But you know what? You make up for that with your other healthy habits.
4:31 Rachel Cruze? That's right. That's right. So, healthy habits are great. Okay. You know the one I hope stops in 2025?
4:37 George Kamel? What's that?
4:38 Rachel Cruze? Uh, this whole like, kind of cool factor of like, not really knowing what's in your bank account.
4:42 George Kamel? It has become trendy to sort of-
4:44 Rachel Cruze? It's like a trendy to be like, "Oh my gosh, I don't really know, but we're just gonna go for it." Or like, whatever the excuse is. But some people, it's like, ignorance is bliss. Their head is in the sands. They don't even wanna know what is going on with their money. We gotta stop that, y'all.
4:56 George Kamel? Yeah, I saw the video. The girl said, "I don't wanna look at my bank account because I don't need that negative energy in my life." Or, "It's none of my business." Like, it's literally your business.
5:06 Rachel Cruze? It's literally your business.
5:07 George Kamel? If you are the business, your business is about to be bankrupt, girl.
5:09 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
5:10 George Kamel? Let's do something about this. So, people like to make light of it, cuz I think it's a coping mechanism.
5:15 Rachel Cruze? Yeah. And again, money's not everything in life. Like, we're okay to take some lighthearted approaches, for sure, right? But when it starts to like, become a pattern, and that's really how you function, you're not just kinda like joking about it with your friends. Yeah, we, we, yeah, we're gonna raise a little red flag.
5:30 George Kamel? If it's like your personality trait to make fun of how broke you are-
5:32 Rachel Cruze? Oh my gosh.
5:33 George Kamel? Maybe you need a new personality.
5:35 Rachel Cruze? George, stop that.
5:36 George Kamel? That's all I'm saying.
5:37 Rachel Cruze? Mm-mm.
5:38 George Kamel? Just like people who make CrossFit or veganism their personality. I think we need a better personality.
5:44 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, but there are people that like, work hard, and it's like, yeah, it all goes. And then they just like, kinda have fun with the fact of like, "Oh, well, look at so-and-so over there doing that."
5:52 George Kamel? But usually, there's some toxic habits that they're sort of just like, "Yeah, but I'm gonna keep my toxic habits."
5:56 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, if it's justifying it. But some people are wise with it. Come on, George, don't be grumpy.
6:02 George Kamel? I'm a fuddy-duddy.
6:02 Rachel Cruze? Don't be grumpy. So grumpy.
6:04 George Kamel? I don't wanna see that in my feed. Okay? We get it.
6:07 Rachel Cruze? We get it. Um, okay, uh, other things to stop doing in 2025. Using your credit card as an emergency fund.
6:14 George Kamel? This one grinds my gears.
6:15 Rachel Cruze? I bet it does, George. You tell us.
6:17 George Kamel? The fact that you think the credit card company is your friend and your saving grace and your little security blanket, and they're gonna charge you 25% APR on that purchase when you're in an emergency?
6:28 Rachel Cruze? Here's my theory.
6:28 George Kamel? Terrible.
6:29 Rachel Cruze? I don't think people think, I don't think people always are like, "Oh yeah, the credit card companies are for me." I don't think they always think that. I think they believe, "I have no other option." And this is it. Like, this is my option.
6:39 George Kamel? I don't have 10,000, so if I needed to spend 10 grand for an emergency, I could swipe the card.
6:43 Rachel Cruze? I could just swipe the card. Yeah, they see it as kind of like the last line of defense, where we want you to be the last line of defense. And to actually say, hey, let's have some goals around this, so that the credit card doesn't become the safety net. Because what ends up happening is, you have a car issue, and then you gotta fix it with a credit card. Well, your car issue's fixed, but now you have a money issue, versus getting the car fixed with money you've saved. And then you're done. No more issues. No more issues, right?
7:11 George Kamel? And I found there's a correlation between people who get ahead with money, and people who aren't getting all these ankle-biter emergencies, always dragging them down, using the card to swipe. And that's why the starter emergency fund is key. Getting a thousand bucks saved, while it may not sound like life-changing money, it really does cover those little ankle biters that keep throwing you off the wagon.
7:31 Rachel Cruze? Well, 40% of Americans can't cover a $400 emergency in cash. So, for less, a little less than half of America, a thousand bucks is pretty good.
7:40 George Kamel? Which means you're swiping that card if you have a $450 emergency.
7:44 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, you're swiping it probably a lot, so.
7:46 George Kamel? So, a thousand bucks to start, get that done really fast. Takes most people 30 days or less to do this. Probably next paycheck, if you can just hunker down, cut some expenses, sell some stuff. And then you want, long-term, a fully-funded emergency fund, once you're out of debt. And that's three to six months of expenses.
8:00 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
8:00 George Kamel? I call this like the never-go-in-to-debt insurance policy. Because when you have that, you never have a reason to go swipe the card.
8:07 Rachel Cruze? That's right. That's right, yes. And that's a great place to be. Like, when you get to baby step three and it's done, it's like, oh my gosh, I have no payments, and I have a fully-funded emergency fund. Huh, I'm good. Like, that's where really the stress dies down.
8:21 George Kamel? In my early 20s, I had the Amex SkyMiles card.
8:25 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, you did, George.
8:26 George Kamel? I had the Discover Cash Back card.
8:28 Rachel Cruze? Did you get a lot of cash back?
8:30 George Kamel? No, I was broke. It's like, when you think about this, when you're, you know, 20 years old, you're making no money, and you're thinking like, well, this is, I'm gonna get a great credit score, I'm gonna get some sweet cash back. So I was in credit card debt. And finally, when I cut up the cards, and I took debt off the table, it was amazing what happened. I just made very different decisions.
8:47 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
8:48 George Kamel? And I got the thousand bucks saved, got out of my debt about 18 months, got a fully-funded emergency fund, and I never looked back. No credit card since.
8:54 Rachel Cruze? You know, that's a really good point. It's almost like, even though the quote-unquote "I pay it off every month" credit card idea...
9:00 George Kamel? We see you.
9:01 Rachel Cruze? We know you're out there. We know you're out there. If other parts of your money are not great either, like we don't really have a big savings account. We do have some other debt over here. You know, you're kind of just like, uh, you kind of got all these like, what do they call it, rods in the fire? Sticks in the fire.
9:16 George Kamel? Irons?
9:16 Rachel Cruze? Irons in the fire. There's a lot of irons in the fire.
9:19 George Kamel? Been waiting to use the word irons. That's great. I was like, rods in the fire? Is this biblical? Spare the child, burn the rods?
9:29 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my gosh.
9:32 George Kamel? That's the line.
9:33 Rachel Cruze? You got a lot of irons in the fire that aren't great, right? Like, you're kind of just managing your money, like, barely getting by. It's like, oh, my gosh, we got all this stuff. So to completely turn your whole perspective around money, do something drastic, like cut up the credit cards. And it's not even the fact that, like, you had to depend on the credit cards, because I think some people don't, but they're still paying car loans. They're still kind of like managing everything else just to keep their head above water. When you do something drastic with your money, it forces everything else to change.
9:59 George Kamel? Oh, yeah.
9:59 Rachel Cruze? So it's kind of a good, like, shock the monkey. There's another phrase for you.
10:02 George Kamel? There we go.
10:03 Rachel Cruze? I got that one, right?
10:03 George Kamel? So irons in the fire, we're shocking them. How about this one?
10:06 Rachel Cruze? Go.
10:06 George Kamel? Burn the ships. That's one of my favorites.
10:08 Rachel Cruze? Wait, wait, don't burn them, right? We don't...
10:10 George Kamel? There's some story about they burned the ships so they couldn't turn back.
10:14 Rachel Cruze? Ah.
10:15 George Kamel? So there's this, like, I'm never going back moment. I don't know. It probably, it was a great historical thing.
10:20 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
10:21 George Kamel? Read the book about it. I'm not gonna give you a history lesson.
10:24 Rachel Cruze? The emergency phone, the emergency fund is the lifeboat on the burning boat. So, burn the boats, get in the lifeboat, and then you're good. You're sailing, sailing away to new heights.
10:37 George Kamel? Wow, we have analogied this to death. The four people that are left listening are just hanging on for dear life to their little life raft at this point.
10:47 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my gosh.
10:48 George Kamel? Gonna keep it going.
10:49 Rachel Cruze? Okay, the next one's for me.
10:50 George Kamel? This is for you.
10:51 Rachel Cruze? Stop buying things on sale just because they're on sale. This is one of my downfalls, you know? You see a great sale, so you throw in an extra sweater in the cart because it's 50% off.
11:02 George Kamel? Do you get a little dopamine hit just seeing the word sale?
11:05 Rachel Cruze? Uh, yeah, and mine's not because I get to save more money, it's because I get more stuff.
11:09 George Kamel? Oh, thank you for your honesty.
11:11 Rachel Cruze? It's not just like, ooh, I'm playing this great game. It's like,
11:14 George Kamel? She's happy to pay full price.
11:15 Rachel Cruze? I get more for the same amount of money I was gonna spend.
11:17 George Kamel? More bang for the buck.
11:18 Rachel Cruze? I'm a, I'm a quantity over quality. I know it's not like the minimalism cool thing, but that is Rachel. All day, all day.
11:25 George Kamel? Yeah, this is a big one. Just because it's on sale doesn't mean it's a good deal.
11:29 Rachel Cruze? Yep.
11:30 George Kamel? Everything's 100% off if you don't buy it, and you can go broke while quote unquote, saving money. Right? I bought it because it's on sale, I put it on the cart. I am Winston.
11:40 Rachel Cruze? I'm kidding, I'm kidding.
11:40 George Kamel? A lot of people mistake me for Winston when I'm walking around the streets. I have to explain to them. He's a little bit taller. No, this is a good one.
11:48 Rachel Cruze? That's true, though, I know.
11:48 George Kamel? Probably the hardest one to pass up, especially holidays and sales and emotional spending, retail therapy. And now that the phone apps, like, they go to you. The notification pops up letting you know.
12:00 Rachel Cruze? See, I don't do notifications.
12:01 George Kamel? What about emails? Do you get the emails? I feel like you're old school.
12:03 Rachel Cruze? I do, but I do try to subs-
12:04 George Kamel? Unsubscribe?
12:05 Rachel Cruze? I'm sorry, hold on. You feel like I'm old school?
12:08 George Kamel? You just seem like an email newsletter kinda gal.
12:14 Rachel Cruze? No, I don't know why that's offensive.
12:16 George Kamel? How else would you-
12:16 Rachel Cruze? I think, I think that's great, but like-
12:18 George Kamel? Would you rather me say, will you wait for the J. Crew catalog to arrive by pigeon?
12:23 Rachel Cruze? By pigeon.
12:24 George Kamel? How do you find out about sales?
12:25 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, email.
12:28 Rachel Cruze? But I do try to unsubscribe. I will go through and unsubscribe because it'll, man.
12:32 George Kamel? Yeah.
12:33 Rachel Cruze? It's a crazy thing, amount of emails you get.
12:34 George Kamel? I love doing that, like, right before Black Friday, November 1st hit, and it was like every company decided, "Go, go, go, descend, descend," and I just started unsubscribing en masse.
12:43 Rachel Cruze? Oh, yeah.
12:44 George Kamel? On November 1st, all, because I was like, they're starting their campaigns.
12:47 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, they're, oh, and you'll get so much. So, yeah.
12:49 George Kamel? So if it's tempting you-
12:50 Rachel Cruze? And you taught me this, George, that sometimes these stores, it's the same price, but they like- Just say it's on sale or something. I feel like that should be illegal.
13:00 George Kamel? Well, they have the MSRP or retail price. And so they go, well, it's 40% off. And you go, it's still $78 for this cardigan, even 40% off. And next week, when the sale's over, they're gonna have a new sale and it's still gonna be $78. So they use a lot of tomfoolery to trick you, Rachel. Don't fall for it.
13:16 Rachel Cruze? Don't fall for it.
13:17 George Kamel? Don't fall for the scams.
13:18 Rachel Cruze? All right, another habit to leave behind, George, talking to myself, comparing yourself to others. Can I just add with a little asterisk, on social media?
13:27 George Kamel? That's the big one.
13:28 Rachel Cruze? I mean, man, social media, we always talk about it, but it's just true.
13:33 George Kamel? You think it's mostly Instagram? Or do you see like Facebook and other places?
13:37 Rachel Cruze? I don't get on anything else.
13:39 George Kamel? I think Instagram is the place you flex.
13:41 Rachel Cruze? Me too.
13:42 George Kamel? I don't think Facebook, there's a lot of flexing. It's mostly venting. Mostly Facebook groups. That's where I hang out.
13:48 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
13:48 George Kamel? Like the neighborhood Facebook group is, I'm like...
13:51 Rachel Cruze? See, we have a group me, Facebook. We have a group me, the app, for our neighborhood.
13:56 George Kamel? That's pretty hip.
13:58 Rachel Cruze? Well.
13:59 George Kamel? You think the guys are in there too?
14:00 Rachel Cruze? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.
14:02 George Kamel? What are the guys posting in the...
14:04 Rachel Cruze? Well, they have a guys group. And a girls group. Well, that was the overall.
14:09 George Kamel? So they split up?
14:10 Rachel Cruze? There's a lot of different groups. There's like referral group, there's um...
14:14 George Kamel? Wine.
14:15 Rachel Cruze? Social group, there's book club group, there's...
14:17 George Kamel? Are you in any of the groups?
14:18 Rachel Cruze? Yes, I'm in all of them.
14:21 George Kamel? Are you like mayor of your neighborhood? What are you doing?
14:24 Rachel Cruze? No, I just like to go to, I go to everything I can.
14:26 George Kamel? Wow. I didn't know you were like a social butterfly in your own neighborhood.
14:30 Rachel Cruze? Oh, yeah. I started a Bible study in my neighborhood. Got 12 ladies coming.
14:35 George Kamel? That is actually shocking.
14:37 Rachel Cruze? What?
14:39 George Kamel? I mean, you're a busy mom, you know? Like, that's a lot on the plate.
14:43 Rachel Cruze? It's just per semester. It's like six times a semester we get together.
14:46 George Kamel? Do you come up with the curriculum?
14:47 Rachel Cruze? Are you ready for the title of it?
14:48 George Kamel? Yeah.
14:49 Rachel Cruze? Jesus and Wine.
14:50 George Kamel? Oh, wow.
14:51 Rachel Cruze? So we bring wine and we go through like a study or a book or, yeah, whatever it is. We went through, are you ready for this? We just finished last night was our last one for the semester.
15:02 Rachel Cruze? Uh, what's the book of the pile that I just went through for the last semester? That I'm blanking on, but you love it.
15:08 George Kamel? Ecclesiastes?
15:09 Rachel Cruze? Nope.
15:09 George Kamel? Oh, Ecclesiastes.
15:09 Rachel Cruze? Ecclesiastes. I was supposed to say Ephesians. It wasn't Ephesians. We did Ecclesiastes.
15:13 George Kamel? What'd you think?
15:14 Rachel Cruze? We went through a book with it. Uh, it was, yeah, it was good.
15:17 George Kamel? I need to read the book.
15:19 Rachel Cruze? It's called, um, Living Life Backwards.
15:21 George Kamel? Oh.
15:21 Rachel Cruze? Yep. You'll like it.
15:23 George Kamel? Any favorite verses or takeaways from Ecclesiastes you'd like to share with the group?
15:27 Rachel Cruze? Um, yeah, since we're talking about like comparing others. I like the level of like moodiness of Ecclesiastes that like kind of gets you down to like, what's really like, what's, I'm all gonna die.
15:36 George Kamel? Oh, yeah.
15:36 Rachel Cruze? You know, but then, then it'll, then it'll flip around and be like, but, but be merry. Enjoy your hard work. So I love that too.
15:44 George Kamel? Yes. It's like Bon Iver into Michael Buble.
15:47 Rachel Cruze? It does, yeah.
15:48 George Kamel? It's a very different vibe. It's like the Titanic is going down. Let's have a good time.
15:54 Rachel Cruze? Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
15:55 George Kamel? Let the band play.
15:56 Rachel Cruze? That's exactly it. Dance, be merry. Don't worry about trying to be in control. Like, just enjoy life. Yeah.
16:02 George Kamel? So, everything is meaningless, so stop comparing your life to someone else's.
16:05 Rachel Cruze? That's right. It's all back into, stop comparing yourself to others.
16:08 George Kamel? That is a good one. And it's difficult because even as you, you know, you get better in your career, you get better with money. Well, there's always someone who's nine steps ahead of you that you're like, but we don't have that kind of money.
16:18 Rachel Cruze? Yep.
16:19 George Kamel? And we live in this county where Ramsey is, it's like the 11th wealthiest county in the nation. So the level of wealth here is just mind blowing.
16:27 Rachel Cruze? Yeah. People are, yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So just, uh...
16:30 George Kamel? Don't compare. And you talk a lot about contentment. That's a great way to fight the temptation to compare.
16:35 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
16:36 George Kamel? You wrote a book about it. You've got a kid's book about it. You've got a journal about it. You're all about it.
16:40 Rachel Cruze? I need more of it. That's why I write about it. No, no, but there is a level of peace in life that is so worth chasing and to have and to rest and be like, oh, life is good. Like, life is fine. Why do I feel like I have to just keep going and going? And having goals and striving for stuff, it's not bad, but it's out of the motivation and where that's coming from.
17:00 George Kamel? Yes.
17:00 Rachel Cruze? Is what is, is so important.
17:02 George Kamel? As someone who's goal oriented and futuristic, it's harder for me to pause and be grateful and be content.
17:07 Rachel Cruze? And you know, my, my level of like, oh gosh, keep going, keep going. It's not because I want everyone else to think I'm great. It's not that. It's this feeling of like, oh, but if I go there or get that or do that, accomplish that, something is, in my life is gonna be better because of it. And that's just.
17:23 George Kamel? And it rarely is.
17:24 Rachel Cruze? Rarely is.
17:25 George Kamel? You go with you. That was, it's one of my favorite quotes.
17:27 Rachel Cruze? Yes, it's so true.
17:28 George Kamel? So like get yourself to a healthy place internally.
17:32 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
17:32 George Kamel? Before you accomplish any external goals.
17:34 Rachel Cruze? Yes, I know. I remember.
17:35 George Kamel? So deep.
17:36 Rachel Cruze? We were building our house and we were moving in. I was like nine months pregnant with Charles. We had a two-year-old and a four-year-old.
17:44 George Kamel? Woo.
17:44 Rachel Cruze? And we were in the kitchen of our old house and I, it was like a few nights before we moved into our new house. And I remember telling Winston, I mean, you're, we're like feeding the kid in the high chair and there's food. It was just, I mean, everything is just like a mess. And I was like, I cannot wait to get to the new house.
17:59 George Kamel? It'll all be better.
18:01 Rachel Cruze? Well, yeah. And he like looked at me. He was like, babe, just like pick this up and set it in a new kitchen.
18:06 George Kamel? Move this mess into a nicer kitchen.
18:07 Rachel Cruze? It's gonna be the exact same scenario, maybe with a, you know, a different countertop.
18:13 George Kamel? There you go.
18:13 Rachel Cruze? But that's it. But like, but for real, you kind of have this belief of like, oh my gosh, if I just had that, something else is gonna be fixed within me. And it is an empty promise, an empty promise, not fulfilling.
18:23 George Kamel? Who knew from a Smart Money Happy Hour podcast, you'd be getting such deep life lessons.
18:28 Rachel Cruze? George, this isn't deep. This is life.
18:30 George Kamel? Oh, wow. Sorry. This is just vanity then. It's all vanity. She's been reading Ecclesiastes clearly.
18:36 Rachel Cruze? This is, this is where we go. No, no, no. I mean, like this is the level at which.
18:39 George Kamel? This is a normal level of depth for you.
18:41 Rachel Cruze? This is a good.
18:42 George Kamel? This is very deep for me.
18:43 Rachel Cruze? George, you're not that.
18:44 George Kamel? This is shallow waters for Mrs. Cruz. I am deep sea fishing.
18:49 Rachel Cruze? Cause your ship is burned.
18:51 George Kamel? I don't trust.
18:52 Rachel Cruze? Come with me.
18:53 George Kamel? I don't know where you bought that boat.
18:54 Rachel Cruze? Oh, row us to deeper waters, George.
18:56 George Kamel? We're rowing? We're in a rowboat?
18:58 Rachel Cruze? Oh, that is, yeah. No, let's have a.
18:59 George Kamel? You should have went to Rick's Boats and got a nicer boat. What are you doing? You can afford a better boat.
19:05 Rachel Cruze? Thanks for the call back.
19:06 George Kamel? I'll sell you one.
19:07 Rachel Cruze? Thanks for the call back.
19:08 George Kamel? All right. Next habit to leave behind in 2025, paying for subscriptions you rarely use. This one is close to home and I have an, I have an honest confession that is also on growth.
19:19 Rachel Cruze? Oh, cool.
19:20 George Kamel? I finally quit my gym. Stop paying for the membership.
19:26 Rachel Cruze? Good job, George. How's that feel?
19:27 George Kamel? Dave talks about, you know, when it's time to quit. Like quitting is good if you're quitting the wrong things. And for me, it was the wrong thing in the wrong season.
19:36 Rachel Cruze? Totally, totally.
19:36 George Kamel? And so now we got a workout bench. I'm gonna start working out with Whitney at home in the garage.
19:41 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my gosh, that's what Winston and I do.
19:43 George Kamel? I said the Cruises do this.
19:45 Rachel Cruze? You'll love it. Yes.
19:46 George Kamel? And so she's been trying. I found that Whitney is the type that needs like the supportive spouse who's also doing the thing.
19:51 Rachel Cruze? It is a game changer. Yeah, okay.
19:55 George Kamel? I'm like, you should commit. I don't wanna have to commit because you're, you know what I mean?
19:58 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
19:58 George Kamel? But she loves the accountability of both of us doing the thing.
20:02 Rachel Cruze? It'll feel great, too. Yeah, that's great, George.
20:05 George Kamel? It feels good to cut that.
20:06 Rachel Cruze? Okay, another habit to drop, justifying little treats.
20:11 George Kamel? This one's the easiest to justify because it's a little treat, Rachel. It's five bucks here, seven bucks there, and it adds up.
20:19 Rachel Cruze? I know. I was telling some of the girls today during content meeting where I was like, man, I missed, because of my age, I think, the brunch era. Like, you know how brunch is really cool right now?
20:28 George Kamel? Yeah.
20:29 Rachel Cruze? Like, it wasn't 10 years ago, like when I didn't have kids, like...
20:31 George Kamel? No one was going to brunch 10 years ago?
20:33 Rachel Cruze? I didn't know. Maybe I wasn't cool and people were doing that.
20:37 George Kamel? Nobody was inviting you to brunch.
20:38 Rachel Cruze? Maybe that was it. I don't know. But now I see via Instagram.
20:42 George Kamel? You sent her your whole week around.
20:44 Rachel Cruze? People like, girls going out to brunch with their friends. I don't know. And I'm like, man, I miss the brunch era. And I'm like, that's where I would, like, it's those things that I'm like, oh, my gosh, I would justify that. Like, if I had the time and the bandwidth, all day. Like, give me a social situation in a restaurant. That would be my little treat.
21:01 George Kamel? Or like when you're running errands.
21:02 Rachel Cruze? Just bottomless mimosas. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:05 George Kamel? Go for it.
21:05 Rachel Cruze? Just add it to the tab. It's just a little treat. It's been a big week. We're gonna just enjoy this. That's a, yeah, it's real.
21:12 George Kamel? Do you do this when you're running errands? You're like, well, should stop and get a little treat? A little Starbucks or a little something on the way?
21:18 Rachel Cruze? You know, I'm not...
21:19 George Kamel? Or out, let's get lunch?
21:20 Rachel Cruze? Okay, so mine's food. I'm not a Starbucks person.
21:24 George Kamel? I've never seen you darken the door of a Starbucks. I wouldn't even know your Starbucks order.
21:28 Rachel Cruze? Oh, you ready? Either just a medium Pike's Place, black...
21:33 Rachel Cruze? Coffee or a chai tea latte. That's it.
21:36 George Kamel? Pike Place?
21:37 Rachel Cruze? Well, I don't know.
21:38 George Kamel? It's the best you can do?
21:39 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, it's what they have on tap. So the only time I really eat it is in-
21:42 George Kamel? Get there before noon, get a blonde roast.
21:44 Rachel Cruze? Is an airport. So give me the bacon gouda sandwich, breakfast sandwich.
21:49 George Kamel? Oh, that is a good one.
21:50 Rachel Cruze? And a Pike's Peak medium black coffee.
21:52 George Kamel? Pike Place. You just keep changing the name on us. But I respect that you drink black coffee. Is that true?
21:59 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, no cream.
22:01 George Kamel? Look at that. That's on growth.
22:03 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, I did that because of-
22:04 George Kamel? That's a habit to leave behind. Just pouring all of the dairy and sugar you can into your coffees.
22:09 Rachel Cruze? I do black coffee and Keurig, George.
22:12 George Kamel? That I think you need to cover up.
22:15 George Kamel? That's worth putting some cream in.
22:17 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, I, uh, yeah. So no, so my, my little treat is not Starbucks. Mine would be grabbing lunch out. A little Shlattskis run through, if you know what I mean. Uh, little drive-through action there. Number one without black olives.
22:33 George Kamel? Wow.
22:33 Rachel Cruze? Cracked pepper chips.
22:34 George Kamel? I feel like you keep saying it as if you're hoping someone's gonna like ship you this order or something like, be disgusting.
22:40 Rachel Cruze? People that like Shlattskis appreciate this. Um, yeah, that would be mine. And/or if I was like at Target, I'd like pick up a sweater or something.
22:49 George Kamel? Hmm.
22:50 Rachel Cruze? That'd be a little treat.
22:51 George Kamel? Yep.
22:51 Rachel Cruze? So I don't know if that's considered little treats, but those are mine. Those are mine.
22:55 George Kamel? I went to this local coffee shop, very hip, thinking like, well, I gotta try it out. And of course, the lattes are, you know, six something, then you get the non-dairy milk, that's an extra dollar. So I walked out of there and I was spending like, for two drinks, fifteen dollars.
23:09 Rachel Cruze? Oh my, jeez.
23:10 George Kamel? And they were fine. Not fifteen dollars worth.
23:15 Rachel Cruze? Sure, totally.
23:15 George Kamel? And it just made me a little disgusted at myself for falling for this little treat culture.
23:20 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, I get that.
23:21 George Kamel? But it was our anniversary.
23:22 Rachel Cruze? I get that, yeah.
23:23 George Kamel? So I thought, treat, if there's ever a day, the treat shows up to a little treat, it's our anniversary.
23:27 Rachel Cruze? Go get the nice coffee.
23:28 George Kamel? But let us say that we are pro treats. As long as it's in the budget, it's not impulsive, and you actually wanted to buy it, and you know what it's doing to your other financial goals.
23:37 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
23:38 George Kamel? The problem is like, where'd my money go? And I look at your bank statement and it's just little treat, little treat, little treat, big treat, little treat, little treat.
23:44 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, yeah, that's fair. That's fair.
23:46 George Kamel? That's really the worst kid's book ever. It's like the worst Dr. Seuss book.
23:49 Rachel Cruze? Little treat, little treat. Okay, uh, last one. Letting FOMO control your financial decisions.
23:56 George Kamel? Woo.
23:57 Rachel Cruze? So.
23:58 George Kamel? This is real.
23:58 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, this is a habit of like, oh my gosh, I just don't want to miss out. So I'm going to go into debt for this thing. I'm going to use my emergency funds to go here or there, like whatever it is. And it's affecting your financial foundation, we'll call it.
24:14 George Kamel? This happens a lot socially. You know, like there's the bachelor trip, the wedding, whatever the thing is that's going to be really expensive. You're out to dinner and everyone's ordering this thing and it's going to cost you this much. And you're like, it's not, I don't have the money for this or I shouldn't be spending money on this. But you do it because of the, you know, the surroundings that you're in, your environment.
24:34 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, that's right. Yeah, it can happen very easily. And I would be guilty of this. This is where I'm like, ah, let's just go.
24:40 George Kamel? In the spirit of the moment with everyone there, you're like, sure, why not?
24:43 Rachel Cruze? Totally.
24:43 George Kamel? So you gotta have the boundary in place before you show up.
24:46 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
24:46 George Kamel? Know what you're gonna spend, know what's in the budget and know how to say no.
24:50 Rachel Cruze? I love it. Yep. Well, y'all, some good, uh, habits to leave behind in 2024.
24:56 George Kamel? That's right.
24:56 Rachel Cruze? Because 2025 is going to be a new, beautiful year.
25:00 George Kamel? Wow. You said it was such confidence and ease. I believed it.
25:03 Rachel Cruze? Like that was like 2024 me is what you can say. Like, oh my gosh, that was so 2024.
25:07 George Kamel? Remember 2024 me?
25:08 Rachel Cruze? I was so 2024. This is 2025 and we're doing something new. Okay, what, uh, what's, what's a habit you're gonna break, George?
25:16 George Kamel? A habit I'm gonna break? Oh my gosh. I think phones is the new thing I need to break. Like it's just the, you just get used to just pulling out the phone. Anytime, anywhere, for as long as you want, just open app, close the app, scroll, tap the like button, get out of there, tap another app. I just need to put my phone away more and be more present and get outside more.
25:36 Rachel Cruze? Before we get to guilty as charged, what is in this drink?
25:40 George Kamel? This is called a Frostbite.
25:41 Rachel Cruze? And why is it blue?
25:43 George Kamel? Well, there's an ingredient that has the word blue in it, if that's any indication.
25:47 Rachel Cruze? That's a good, that's a good hint.
25:48 George Kamel? It's got Blanco tequila, blue curacao, creme de cacao and heavy cream.
25:54 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
25:55 George Kamel? So it's a creamy tequila blue drink. I don't know the flavor of blue curacao.
26:02 Rachel Cruze? Are my teeth blue?
26:03 George Kamel? Not that I can tell, but thank you for smiling at me. That was very nice. What would you rate this drink?
26:10 Rachel Cruze? I'm going 10 out of 10.
26:11 George Kamel? Wow, it feels like I'm inside of the movie Frozen.
26:15 Rachel Cruze? If I was out with friends and we were like, oh, let's get like a dessert drink. I'd be like, we should order the Frostbite.
26:21 George Kamel? Oh, yeah.
26:22 Rachel Cruze? Because it's such a fun.
26:22 George Kamel? On a crisp night?
26:23 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
26:24 George Kamel? It feels like this is what Elsa would drink on her 21st birthday. If I may. Whenever she gets there, when Frozen 9 comes out, I hope they're having Frostbites by the fire. It's very nice. So this.
26:36 Rachel Cruze? Hey, do you think, do you know that they think that the ship of which Elsa and Anna's parents died in was actually the ship that the Little Mermaid was swimming around?
26:45 George Kamel? Is that a conspiracy?
26:47 Rachel Cruze? I don't know. But they all connect. Did you know that all Disney movies, they like have connections to all of them?
26:51 George Kamel? I didn't know that.
26:52 Rachel Cruze? Yeah. Wild.
26:53 George Kamel? I didn't know you could have real conspiracies for fictional movies. That's amazing.
26:58 Rachel Cruze? I can find them anywhere, George.
26:59 George Kamel? That's amazing. Thank you for that fun fact.
27:01 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, you're welcome.
27:01 George Kamel? Well, hey, try this drink. The recipe's in the show notes. It costs $2.27. My rating, in case you were curious. 8 out of 10.
27:11 Rachel Cruze? Okay, why not a 10 out of 10?
27:12 George Kamel? I'm just exhausted by the dairy drinks. I just.
27:16 Rachel Cruze? Michael keeps giving us dairy drinks, I know.
27:18 George Kamel? I'm just never like, mm, you know what I'd love is a cold glass of milk with some booze in it. So, I'm not there yet. I'm not there yet. But it is a good drink as far as dairy goes and.
27:27 Rachel Cruze? Because I'm gonna say this, it may be the tequila, but there's like that aftertaste that's great.
27:31 George Kamel? Yeah. It's nice.
27:33 Rachel Cruze? It's nice.
27:34 George Kamel? And I will say, mixologist Michael did an incredible job with the glass.
27:38 Rachel Cruze? I mean, it's beautiful.
27:39 George Kamel? It's got the like frosted cranberries with the sugar and simple syrup on there.
27:43 Rachel Cruze? I ate some of.
27:44 George Kamel? The coconuts that are glued on there somehow with Elmer's. I don't know what he did to this. It's impressive.
27:49 Rachel Cruze? It's so great.
27:50 George Kamel? So, go check it out in the show notes and make it for yourself.
27:53 Rachel Cruze? All right, George, now it's time for Guilty as Charged. And this is where our producer Kelly gives us a new Guilty as Charged question every week, and if we're guilty, we take a sip.
28:03 Speaker 02 All right, have you ever made an ambitious purchase that went with one of your goals or resolutions that you didn't do anything with?
28:12 George Kamel? This feels like a personal burn.
28:16 George Kamel? Almost every goal that wasn't financial, I think. I mean, buying books that I didn't read, that I was like, I'm gonna read 50 books, I gotta buy the books.
28:25 Rachel Cruze? Oh, no, you bought books before.
28:25 George Kamel? Didn't read 50 books.
28:26 Rachel Cruze? Oh, no, George, man.
28:28 George Kamel? That's a tough one.
28:29 Rachel Cruze? Man.
28:29 George Kamel? The other one is literally any workout gear or equipment. I was like, well, if I get the right shoes, I'll work out better.
28:36 Rachel Cruze? But you're about to start a home gym, so you gotta, you gotta use it.
28:38 George Kamel? We did buy the bench. I have not used said bench.
28:41 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
28:41 George Kamel? So far.
28:42 Rachel Cruze? Do you have free, do you have free weights?
28:44 George Kamel? I have some dumbbells.
28:46 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
28:46 George Kamel? I need to, I need to up my dumbbell game.
28:48 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
28:49 George Kamel? Not quite there yet.
28:50 Rachel Cruze? Yep. Okay. It's good, George.
28:52 George Kamel? How about you?
28:53 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, I think the worst one for me, what, it was, it was a workout. This was like, I don't know, maybe two years ago. And I bought a workout app because of a girl I followed on Instagram, swore by it. And I was like, oh, yeah, this would be good. I could do this like by myself, like, you know. And I went to buy it, and of course, they give you a deal that they're like, if you buy it for a year, it's $149. Or if you buy it for a month, it's $20. So you get a better deal if you buy the year-long subscription.
29:21 George Kamel? Look at you trying to save money.
29:23 Rachel Cruze? Uh huh. And I was like, well, of course I'm gonna use it for a year. Yeah. So I bought a $150 workout app. Yep.
29:29 George Kamel? And?
29:31 Rachel Cruze? Didn't use it.
29:32 George Kamel? Ooh.
29:33 Rachel Cruze? And then the worst part of it all. Say it, Kelly.
29:37 Speaker 02 Oh, no, it, it renewed.
29:39 Rachel Cruze? Renewed to the next year, and I didn't know.
29:42 George Kamel? I just home alone'd. Oh, my gosh.
29:44 Speaker 02 Oh, no.
29:45 Rachel Cruze? But.
29:46 George Kamel? That is awful.
29:47 Rachel Cruze? Do you know what I did?
29:47 George Kamel? The renewal hurts my soul.
29:49 Rachel Cruze? Oh, it was, my stomach, I literally got, and I, my stomach dropped. I was like, oh, no, no, no, no. No, that was 2022, Rachel. Like, that's like, no, that's not good.
29:59 George Kamel? Oh, gosh.
30:00 Rachel Cruze? But you know what I did is I submitted it to the Apple Store.
30:03 George Kamel? Oh, for a refund?
30:04 Rachel Cruze? And they refunded me.
30:05 George Kamel? Thank you. That is the most George thing you've ever done in your life. That is the life hack. If it charges you, as soon as it charges.
30:13 Rachel Cruze? It was within 15 minutes.
30:14 George Kamel? Yeah.
30:14 Rachel Cruze? Cause I got the like, the email. I got the email.
30:17 George Kamel? Look at her getting emails.
30:18 Rachel Cruze? I got the email and I was like, oh no, no, no, no, no. And yeah, and, and it was great. It refunded me and it was fine. So I felt good about myself.
30:26 George Kamel? I'm really proud of you for even knowing that was a possibility.
30:28 Rachel Cruze? And you know what else I did that was so great? This isn't guilty as charged. This is like amazing as charged because I did that. And then the other thing I did was I want to do my steps. I'm into steps right now.
30:38 George Kamel? Oh, that's right. You just found out that the Apple Health app tracks your steps.
30:41 Rachel Cruze? That's my story. Yeah. So I downloaded a step app.
30:45 George Kamel? Did you pay for it?
30:46 Rachel Cruze? Well, that was the thing. The step app was like, oh, you get 30 days free. But you know, whatever, whatever. So I bought it, but it wasn't going to charge me till after the like 30 day trial. Well, then I learned that Apple's been keeping my steps, which is another conspiracy theory. They know where I've been for like a long time. And I was like, oh my gosh. But they tracked my steps. So then I went through George and I canceled my trial of the other app. So I didn't get charged. I felt very responsible.
31:13 George Kamel? Then it really is growth for you.
31:15 Rachel Cruze? I know. I felt good. It felt good.
31:16 George Kamel? Also, you should just text me before you make any life decision. So I can show you the better, easier, cheaper way.
31:21 Rachel Cruze? And it's free on the Apple version.
31:24 George Kamel? It is free on the Apple.
31:25 Rachel Cruze? It's great. It's great.
31:26 George Kamel? This is really good. Yeah. The other things are like, we bought a Peloton during COVID. Never used it.
31:31 Rachel Cruze? Oh, that was, that was the hot thing. Where are Peloton's gone? I feel like they kind of dropped off a map.
31:37 George Kamel? Then there was the, uh, the portable treadmill. It's just like a flat, little, nice little treadmill.
31:41 Rachel Cruze? Okay. I thought about doing that for the winter to get my steps in.
31:42 George Kamel? I should have sold you the one that we never used.
31:45 Rachel Cruze? Was it good?
31:46 George Kamel? It was great. We just never used it.
31:47 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
31:47 George Kamel? And so then I was like, we're going to sell it.
31:49 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
31:49 George Kamel? And so there's a lot of things that we buy and then sell for a loss and then go, we'll never do this again. And then we go do it again.
31:54 Rachel Cruze? Man, the workout industry, I bet, makes a lot of money.
31:57 George Kamel? Oh yeah. Well, they can prey on your insecurities.
31:59 Rachel Cruze? Good intentions.
31:59 George Kamel? Yeah.
32:00 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
32:01 George Kamel? Good intentions is a great business model.
32:03 Rachel Cruze? It's great. So good.
32:04 George Kamel? All right.
32:05 Rachel Cruze? Okay, George. Well, if you guys have any fun Guilty as Charge questions, send them our way. We're on social. Just DM us. We look for them because they're always fun when they come from you all. And make sure to follow us on social. Subscribe to this. Share the episode with friends and family. And make sure to check out our episode on how to start becoming a millionaire in 2024. So we're gonna go back a year, but all the advice still applies because we talk about timeless money advice, don't we, George?
32:32 George Kamel? That's right. It still works year after year.
32:34 Rachel Cruze? Yep. And so we'll see you guys next Thursday on an all-new episode of Smart Money Happy Hour.
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