980 Decoding Greatness: Lessons from LeBron James, Tom Brady, Simone Biles, and More

"Genius recognizes genius"Lewis is joined by filmmaker Gotham Chopra, who has worked closely on projects with LeBron James, Tom Brady, Simone Biles, Kobe Bryant, and more. Gotham discusses the distinct qualities shared by the world's greatest athletes, the dark side of genius, and what he learned from his father, spiritual guru Deepak Chopra.- Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality, NBA Titles, and Oscars: https://link.chtbl.com/691-pod- Sadhguru teaches you how to control your mind: https://lewishowes.com/965 Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

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• 0:00Lewis Howes?

  This is episode number 980 on Decoding Greatness with Gotham Chopra. Welcome to the School of Greatness. My name is Lewis Howes, a former pro athlete turned lifestyle entrepreneur. And each week, we bring you an inspiring person or message to help you discover how to unlock your inner greatness. Thanks for spending some time with me today. Now let the class begin.

• 0:33Lewis Howes?

  LeBron James once said, "I like criticism. It makes you strong." And Tom Brady said, "If you don't believe in yourself, why is anyone else going to believe in you?" My guest today has actually spent significant time with LeBron, Tom Brady, and a host of many other superstar athletes and world-class performers, exploring what makes them so successful. Gotham Chopra is one of the most celebrated documentary filmmakers in the world. He directed Kobe Bryant's Muse, Tom vs. Time, which is a personal favorite of mine, Shut Up and Dribble with LeBron James, Stephen vs. The Game, and more. And he's out with a new series on Apple TV Plus called Greatness Code,

• 1:18Lewis Howes?

  which spotlights untold stories from LeBron, Tom Brady, Usain Bolt, Alex Morgan, and Shaun White, among others. He also happens to be the son of spiritual guru Deepak Chopra, as well as a close former friend of Michael Jackson's. So he has a unique perspective on stardom and success. And he opens up about a lot of this during this interview. We talk about the connective tissue between great athletes, whether success in sports comes down to talent, hard work, or mindset. The lessons Gotham learned from his dad, Deepak, when he wasn't a spiritual guru, his relationship while going on tour with Michael Jackson, and so much more.

• 2:03Lewis Howes?

  And if you're finding value in Gotham's wisdom and this episode inspires you, make sure to pass this along to a friend. You have the power to change someone's life just by sharing this episode link Lewis Howes dot com slash nine eight zero or copying and pasting the link on Apple Podcasts or on Spotify or wherever you're listening to this. And a quick reminder, if this is your first time here, or you've been listening for a while, click on that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts right now. So you can get up to date on the latest and greatest inspiration on the School of Greatness podcast and leave us a quick review over on Apple Podcasts to start spreading the message of greatness to more people. And now, without further ado, let's dive into this episode with the one and the only Gotham Chopra.

• 2:51Lewis Howes?

  Welcome back everyone to School of Greatness. We've got Gotham Chopra in the house. My man, I'll cheers it up to you. Good to see you, man. I'm excited to connect. You've got an interesting life, but also you've got this project that's out right now called Greatness Code. And when I heard about it, I was like, we've got to connect because School of Greatness, Greatness Code, this is what we're all about. And you essentially launched a series on Apple Plus, which is interviewing the world's greatest athletes on their accomplishments and how they became so great. And they're super interesting, cinematic, storytelling, graphic, graphical, everything. It's really cool. And I'm curious, why did you want to study greatness from these top athletes?

• 3:32Lewis Howes?

  You also did Tom versus Time, which was unbelievable series. But why did you want to continue to take a step further after that and diving deeper into this topic from world class athletes only?

• 3:44Speaker 01

  Well, you know, the backstory actually starts before LeBron and Tom Brady, all these athletes that are featured in the series. So I think it was 2013 ish 14, I started working with Kobe Bryant. And so I'm a huge Celtics fan. I grew up in Boston and loved the Celtics, hated Kobe and hated the Lakers. You know, I started working with Kobe and I remember I grew close to him. I mean, that's kind of the nature of the work I do is like building real relationships. And so across that time, I remember once talking to Kobe about like, hey, so you know, as a fan, I can, there was that game, you scored 81 points, game you scored 60 points, three quarters. Like, would you say that's your greatest game? Or maybe a playoff game or something like that? And Kobe was like, nah, there's this other game against Denver,

• 4:29Speaker 01

  against Tracy McGrady or something like that, like where I, and it's obscure. It's like a regular season game. That, you know, doesn't have necessarily the stakes that you would think playoffs, etc.

• 4:40Lewis Howes?

  Wasn't a game seven where you scored fifty and had the game winning shot?

• 4:45Speaker 01

  And it was like, I think it was my greatest game. And by the way, because of something I was going through off the court, you know, emotionally, mentally, psychologically, spiritually, whatever. So I was like, oh, that's interesting. And, you know, I just, that always stuck with me. Then a few years later, I was working with LeBron on something, shut up and dribble, and I asked him. And likewise, wasn't like coming back to Cleveland and winning an NBA championship, or even winning his first championship. It was, and I hate to say this as a Celtics game, because the moment he said it, I was like, I remember that game. You had forty-five points, fifteen rebounds, nine assists. It was a playoff game against the Celtics. And it was before he had won any NBA championships. He had just lost game five down in Miami.

• 5:28Speaker 01

  And all the haters were coming out again like, oh, LeBron's a choker, LeBron can't win the big one. And he's like, I remember all that. I heard all that. I brought that with me to game six.

• 5:39Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 5:40Speaker 01

  And that's when, and so I don't know, it just was like, the mechanics of greatness was really fascinating to me. It's like, it's, it's the moment for sure, but it's the backstory. And it's like the context in which greatness happens.

• 5:53Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 5:53Speaker 01

  Just from a storytelling perspective, I was really into that. And then, yeah, like, I always call it like, you know, the anatomy of greatness. Like, what are the elements? Like, what comes together? And of course, the expression, the great thing about sports is like, it's, it's highly visual. Like, you can see it when it happens. It's cinematic.

• 6:10Lewis Howes?

  It's very emotional too, right?

• 6:11Speaker 01

  For sure. It's visceral. Like, okay, you tell me that story, I can go on the internet and probably find the game. But then, to hear like LeBron talk about it, it's the paradox of like, what's happening out on the court where he's destroying the Celtics. Inside, when he talks about it's, it's quiet, it's silent. He says, the one in that, he says, I felt nothing.

• 6:34Lewis Howes?

  Nothing, right?

• 6:35Speaker 01

  Yeah. And again, now as an artist, as a storyteller, a filmmaker, you're like, okay, like.

• 6:41Lewis Howes?

  What does that mean? What is nothing?

• 6:43Speaker 01

  What does nothing mean and how do I show that?

• 6:46Lewis Howes?

  Is nothing emptiness? Is nothing quiet? Is nothing meditative? Is nothing blank? Is, you know?

• 6:52Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 6:53Lewis Howes?

  Is it clarity? What is that?

• 6:54Speaker 01

  I think, I mean, we're familiar here. You're very familiar with the expressions. In the zone, flow state, peak, performance, all of that. And that starts to, like, you start to hear consistency across when these athletes describe it. There's this level of surrender. Yeah, I hear all this stuff, but in that moment, I let it all go.

• 7:14Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 7:14Speaker 01

  You know, in the present and all that stuff. So, I love sports, but I also, like, I think of this as, these are stories about spirituality. Like, these are, you know, and the sports, again, highly visual, which is great. You know, you can actually now figure out how to show that experience. But at its essence, it's like, it's, it's about human potential. It's about, you know, our highest potential.

• 7:40Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, I've had, I used to play many sports in high school, college, and I played arena football as well for a season and a half before I got injured. I also played with the USA handball team in my pursuit of making the Olympics, which we haven't qualified for in almost 30 years now. So it's very challenging to qualify for. But I had many moments where I felt that, I don't know if I would call it nothing, but I felt clarity. You know, it's like, I just feel, I feel clear and I'm not feeling the pain. Like, maybe it is nothing, but I'm not like noticing my toe is hurting. I'm not noticing what people are saying. I'm just in the moment focused on that play.

• 8:20Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 8:20Lewis Howes?

  Especially in football and just focusing on that moment as opposed to what's happening in the future, what mistakes they did in the past.

• 8:27Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 8:27Lewis Howes?

  I think that's. What everyone needs to try to get to in order to achieve some type of peak performance or greatness. Did they all have something in common where they said, "I felt nothing in those great games"? Because I know Tom was talking about some game with like the Buffalo Bills and I was like, "What is this game"? But he was just talking about how he was just so locked in to every moment. How like every play, every pass was like perfect timing for him, right in the numbers, everything like that. Do all the athletes have that nothing mentality or?

• 8:57Speaker 01

  So yeah, he talks about 2007, this it's the, amidst the undefeated season. I think it's like a week, eight or nine game. Again, obscure, not the one, it's not the 28 to 3 comeback or whatever.

• 9:09Lewis Howes?

  Which was amazing.

• 9:10Speaker 01

  Yeah, you know, but it's, it's this thing that's meaningful to him and that experience. And yeah, I think there is that clarity, you said, there's that absence of, so what was interesting to me was a lot of the male athletes, I don't know, stereotype, but like they chose these things later in their career when the weight of expectations were on them. Like, you know, the scrutiny, the expectation of greatness, LeBron, the haters. Shaun White talks about, you know, Olympic qualifiers, "People think I just show up" and like it happens.

• 9:43Lewis Howes?

  Right, and I just win gold medals.

• 9:45Speaker 01

  Yeah, and he's like, you know, so there's all this pressure. So Tom talking about an undefeated season. Two of the women we talked to, Katie Ledecky and Alex Morgan, both talked about earlier in their careers, no one knew who they were. They were just.

• 9:58Lewis Howes?

  There was no pressure.

• 9:59Speaker 01

  Katie was 15 years old, like, she's like, nobody, they were like, "Are you the right event"?

• 10:04Lewis Howes?

  Was she 15 when she won?

• 10:05Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 10:06Lewis Howes?

  The medal?

• 10:07Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 10:08Lewis Howes?

  When she broke the world record too?

• 10:09Speaker 01

  Yeah, she would, yeah.

• 10:10Lewis Howes?

  Didn't she break it by like a half a pool length or something?

• 10:11Speaker 01

  Yeah, you watch that video, it's like, where is everyone? And these are world-class athletes.

• 10:15Lewis Howes?

  She was 15?

• 10:16Speaker 01

  She was 15.

• 10:17Lewis Howes?

  When was that?

• 10:18Speaker 01

  2012.

• 10:19Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 10:20Speaker 01

  Yeah. So I think there is a consistency, you know, sometimes the backstory is different.

• 10:26Lewis Howes?

  So what were the women, what was their challenge? Was it, it wasn't about the pressure? Was it, what was it about them?

• 10:31Speaker 01

  Almost like being liberated, like no one has any expectations. I don't have to meet someone else's standards. I'm just present, like I-

• 10:40Lewis Howes?

  The press doesn't know who I am. Maybe it's my parents and my friends, but that's about it.

• 10:44Speaker 01

  I mean, Katie was like, I'm in London. How cool. She talked about, I don't know if it made the, yeah, it does. Like she was like in the green room and she's like, I saw Michael Phelps and she's like, my heart started, you know, she's like, what do I say to him and stuff like that? She was hero worshiping someone else.

• 11:01Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 11:02Speaker 01

  And so there was like a real sweetness, even like, yeah, Alex Morgan, it was, she wasn't even in the starting lineup. Like, you know, it's not the Alex Morgan we all know now, the Olympic champion and all that sort of stuff. I mean, the World Cup champion, it's, nobody knew who she was. Like half her teammates didn't even really know who she was, where she came from. And so, but I think you're right about the moment is like everything else fades away. And it's just locked in. Tom, you know, he talks a lot in that game and really across that season, about Randy Moss and he's like, it's like this-

• 11:37Lewis Howes?

  How they were connected.

• 11:37Speaker 01

  Mind meld, you know? And that's a super fun part of like the episode where he's talking about like routes that Randy's breaking off. Like it's not even like what's in the playbook. It's like Randy's making choices and Tom's like, it's like I knew before he was gonna do it.

• 11:55Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 11:55Speaker 01

  What he was gonna do.

• 11:56Lewis Howes?

  Well, I think the common theme that I hear, and I'm hearing you say it, is the amount of preparation and hard work that goes in for decades for athletes to reach a peak potential level and to reach greatness. It's like they have done so many reps-

• 12:10Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 12:10Lewis Howes?

  On this. It's not just like, there's a big game opportunity, I hope I'm ready. It's a preparedness, it's a confidence, where then you can eliminate distractions and stop worrying about messing up or anything. You're just going out to do what you've been doing for years, right?

• 12:25Speaker 01

  Tom, you know, talks about, I remember, so you mentioned Tom versus time. When we started Tom versus time, it was literally three or four weeks was our first shoot day after the incredible 28 to 3 comeback. And I was on a practice field with him in Boston. And I was like, I'm a Patriots fan, so I was like, dude, are you serious? Like, you just won a Super Bowl a month ago. And he was like, yeah, a month ago. Like, I'm, you know, I'm- Training in March and April pays off in January and February. And again, it's those reps, it's the sort of mad scientists in the laboratory tweaking. So that in the moment, you can just be instinctive. Like you're not thinking about, you know, your hip or your arm movement or your whatever.

• 13:10Speaker 01

  It's like at that moment, you're just reacting.

• 13:12Lewis Howes?

  I think I've seen videos of Drew Brees, like before a game, all by himself on the field, practicing every rep, like at the goal line and anticipating and running around and scrambling and then practicing and seeing it ahead of time. So then when it's there, you're just ready and prepared. I think if Conor McGregor has done a lot of that as well, where you see him actually doing the punch he wants to do in the fight and then knocking the guy out with that same punch. And I think that type of preparation and visualizing months ahead, a day before, hours before, is what really will support you towards achieving greatness. You may lose still, but it's going to give you that, that edge. I'm curious, you know, you talked about Kobe, I interviewed Kobe as well, and me and Tiffany

• 13:55Lewis Howes?

  got to go down to his office and spend, you know, a couple hours down there and really experience his, I really call it an energy, because he has an incredible energy about him, at least when I got to be with him. And the thing that I always talk about with people that was most impressive for me, you spent more time with him, was we got there an hour and a half before our interview, probably 6:30 a.m., and he was there an hour before that, by himself, alone, in the dark, looking up at the ceiling in his office, had no clue we were there. But just the fact that he was there, not working, but just dreaming and visualizing about the day, for me is one of the most impressive things I saw.

• 14:36Lewis Howes?

  And the assistant who let us in said, he was at the gym at 4 a.m. with his daughter before this, and he's the first one in the office still, and this was after he won an Oscar, and I was like, this guy's a machine. And he was preparing for the day with all the things, he had a lot of stuff, he was launching a podcast and books and all this stuff. And his clarity about the day and visualization process for me was really powerful, more so than the interview itself, was to witness that. What were some things you saw about him? From your experience that really impressed you that made you realize this is why he's one of the greatest of all time.

• 15:11Speaker 01

  Yeah, I mean, everything you just described is like so, you know, takes me back. I mean, he was maniacal, like, you know, in the best of ways and in the worst of ways, because I worked with him across like a year and a half to two years.

• 15:23Lewis Howes?

  So you saw a lot of him.

• 15:24Speaker 01

  I saw a lot of him. And what you just described going down to, I would get texts from him at like three, four in the morning. He's like, bro, you gotta come down. Like, can you be here by 6 a.m.? Like, you know, to, I have something to say. Because we ended up doing a whole, it turned into this like, almost like therapy type of thing. We built in that office you're describing in Newport, like a stage, because he just wanted to do more and more. It was like, okay, we, you know, we have to find a way to accommodate this. So he had an intensity to him, but also a clarity, I think, that was just unique and different. We used to call it, because I was down there for like a year and a half, two years. My wife was like, wait, again? We used to call it Kobe jail, going into that office. Yeah, I was like, man, like, I don't know if I'm ever gonna get out of this.

• 16:08Speaker 01

  But it was, you know, it was so intense and it drove me and my team towards greatness. Like, he just, he wouldn't compromise. There was nothing he would, if it wasn't like perfect in his eyes, it wasn't good enough.

• 16:24Lewis Howes?

  So from like perfect, like, okay, I'm gonna shoot this and tell this story and then watch it back. And if I don't like it, then let's do it again? Or is it more, I didn't like this.

• 16:32Speaker 01

  It was like, I don't know if, you know, we went deep enough. I don't know, like, you know, so he was, you know, self-critical.

• 16:40Lewis Howes?

  He was speaking, telling a story, and then he would reflect to you afterwards and say, oh, we gotta do it again.

• 16:45Speaker 01

  We gotta do it, or we have to do more. Like, he wasn't into rehearsing. It wasn't like, okay, I need to say it better. I need to be more honest. I need to give it more depth. And then like, you know, we would, he really enjoyed this idea of like, I don't want to talk about just like the predictable stuff, the games, the 81-point game or whatever. Like, I want to talk about the obscure stuff. I want to talk, and so like.

• 17:07Lewis Howes?

  Putting metal in Paul Gasol's locker room during offseason and like to inspire him.

• 17:12Speaker 01

  And then like finding these really obscure things. You know, I'll tell you actually a story. That's why I like doing this, because I don't get to tell these stories. But like, when I first met Kobe, way before I started working with him, it was because I randomly. I don't think, believe in randomness, but like I sat at a charity event with him and I sat next to him. And Kobe and I are around the same age, same, you know, grew up in the same era. He was a huge Lakers fan. I was a big Celtics fan. So it was like what we ended up in the eighties, talked about at that dinner that we were next to each other. And then, literally a day later, or forty-eight hours later, he texted me and he's like, hey, man, can you come down to Newport? I want to show you something. So I was like, okay. So I like go down to Newport and sit.

• 17:56Lewis Howes?

  What year is this?

• 17:57Speaker 01

  This is two thousand twelve, maybe, or something like that. And so he's got these VHS tapes, like back from the eighties, and he pops it in, like some VCR he has, and he's like, he's like, you're a Celtics fan. He's like, let me, why do you think Larry Bird was the greatest pump faker of all times? Like, I don't know, like, you know, what, and he's like, let me show you. And he's like, it's not his shoulders, it's not his arms, it's his eyes. Watch his eyes. And Kobe was like, he was like this sort of mad scientist, this genius. I mean, he's a savant, right, when it comes to basketball? And he was like, watch his eyes. That's where the pump fake is. And so we sat there for like two hours, and he broke down, or Kevin McHale, Robert Parish, and like obscure guys, and Jerry Seastings, Scott Whitman,

• 18:42Speaker 01

  and all the Lakers, you know, and he was just like, he would look, and I think later in his career, he did this, not just with basketball players, but as he transitioned into storytelling and stuff like that, he would do it with, you know, the, the great artists, the great storytellers, the great composers. That sort of became the foundation of the project we ended up, like, he drew a lot of inspiration from Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, and as much as he did for Michael Jordan and Charles Barkley and those guys.

• 19:12Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, and I think people got to see his genius with the ESPN details, which was really cool to see, like, him analyzing everything, which you got to see, I guess, before that.

• 19:22Speaker 01

  I got to see it and I, you know, this, like Tom Brady will be, he'll watch.

• 19:26Lewis Howes?

  Game film, he's the same way, which was cool to watch in time, to see that, because it brought me back to college football days of just watching hours of film and. Seeing all the mistakes you made and then preparing for the next game.

• 19:40Speaker 01

  Well, and like you said, even in that, like you could see, you know, the cameras would go on and first he was kind of pointing it out. But over like five, 10 minutes into it, he'd just get lost.

• 19:50Lewis Howes?

  He's just obsessed.

• 19:51Speaker 01

  It wasn't like I wasn't even there.

• 19:52Lewis Howes?

  He's just a machine in there.

• 19:54Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's like this sort of, you know, beautiful mind.

• 19:56Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 19:57Speaker 01

  That sort of descends into this world, you know?

• 20:01Lewis Howes?

  How important do you think is it for all great athletes and all great minds to watch game film? Whether that's artists on stage, singers, performers, musicians of their performance? How important do you think that is?

• 20:13Speaker 01

  I think it's, I think it's important in the sense that, you know, again, like accumulating all of this knowledge and information. So that in the moment, you can be free of it in a way, you can be instinctive and intuitive. I also know like Tom and some of the other athletes, like they don't want to be over late. They don't want to be robotic. They want to have like they, it's like, I'm sure with what you do, it's like, you don't want to like be pre-programmed. Like you don't want things to feel choreographed because then you get sort of stuck in that moment. So there's a fine line between preparation, but also then just letting go and being free and not over analyzing.

• 20:51Lewis Howes?

  Improvising everything.

• 20:52Speaker 01

  Yeah. And so it's a balance, but you know, you're talking about people who have kind of perfected it. I will say like also what I really appreciated watching, you know, Steph Curry's not in the series, but I worked with Steph last year. Is like he's, Steph's like the arguably, in my opinion, the greatest shooter of all time, like greatest jump shooter. He's every day out there trying to tweak his jump shot and figure out. It's not about just like replicating what he's done before. It's about like, how can I tweak this thing? How can I, you know, that story about Tom Brady, a couple of weeks after the Superbowl? Like after winning the Superbowl and the greatest comeback of history, he's obsessing over like his hip movement. And he's like, something's wrong, something's wrong. I need to like figure this out.

• 21:36Lewis Howes?

  And he's just won championship.

• 21:37Speaker 01

  He's working with his throwing coach, Tom House, and saying, help me with this thing, you know? And it's like, these guys just never stop.

• 21:43Lewis Howes?

  So it's not like, let me take a break and celebrate this and then just get back into preseason training camp and pick up where I left off. It's how do I analyze the whole season, celebrate for a moment, but then pick it up and see how I can make it better?

• 21:57Speaker 01

  Yeah, and I think, you know, consistently what I've seen is also as much as like this series of a greatness. There's also probably another series to be done around failure. And these athletes remember the one that got away, the thing that, you know, Tom says, it's the scar that never heals.

• 22:16Lewis Howes?

  Man, I know that feeling.

• 22:17Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 22:18Lewis Howes?

  What's the, um, there's a series on Netflix, Great Losers or something like that. I think you remember telling me this a couple of years ago, it's about like these stories of losers, but like the great lessons they learned from it or something.

• 22:29Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 22:30Lewis Howes?

  I can't remember the title of, but that's, that's interesting. What is the thing that makes, what is the defect that all these great people have?

• 22:38Speaker 01

  Defect, uh, I mean, look, they have an obsessiveness, I don't know, like there's a mania. I mean, so Kobe is the best example of this, is like, you know, he's not an easy guy to get along with. And like, you know, there's a combativeness that really drove him. And again, as a sports fan, I recognize that, you know, it's like, oh yeah, like Kobe won three championships when literally it turns out he and Shaq were like having fistfights in practice. They had to constantly be, you know, pulled apart and Phil Jackson was managing their, them because like they were at each other's throats.

• 23:10Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 23:10Speaker 01

  And like that, meanwhile, like you hear the stories about Kobe, every time a new player would, they'd start a new season and there's a new guy on the team, he would go at them in practice and he would try to destroy them. Some guys, Ron Artest, Lamar Odoms would come right back at him and that's how he built his.

• 23:27Lewis Howes?

  Gain his respect.

• 23:28Speaker 01

  His trust. There were other guys, Smush Parker's probably like the, you know, the most, one of the anecdotes I've heard and he would just, he would just run over them. And then they were just like never the same, they could never. And, and I sort of like as, you know, not as a basketball player, but as like a collaborator, it's like, oh man, like I'm gonna have to fight with Kobe.

• 23:48Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 23:49Speaker 01

  To get like, he's gonna try to intimidate and, and sort of like, you gotta prove yourself.

• 23:54Lewis Howes?

  Did he push back a lot on you or?

• 23:55Speaker 01

  Oh yeah, like every day it was like.

• 23:57Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 23:57Speaker 01

  Sort of fight, you know, but in a enriching way, I mean, it was, I say it was. Exhausting, but it was also exhilarating, right? And that was just his nature. It's how, I don't know that it's called a defect, but it's like that was his style. And it was tiring, but you know, it was also like how he pushed you is how he pushed himself. It was just better and better. Like I said, no compromise out of that guy. So, you know, I think that's, you know, LeBron, very different personality, Tom, very different personality. They all kind of, oftentimes you see it's, you know, whoever these guys are on the court, they're, a lot of the same attributes off.

• 24:37Lewis Howes?

  Did you ever see insecurities with these athletes? Like self doubt? Whether it be in their craft or self doubt outside of their craft? Like in an interview, maybe isn't the main thing that they do, but they still have to do it. Did you see them insecure or doubting themselves?

• 24:54Speaker 01

  I think that, yes, yes. I mean, also, look, it's sports. So actually, more often than not, you fail. Like, you know, the best baseball players are striking out or not getting hit over 70% of the time, right? So it's their ability to deal with that and fail and turn it around. So legendary stories, Kobe Bryant shooting four airballs in a, you know, playoff game. What does he do that night? He flies back and he goes to the Palisades High School Gym and he shoots all night long, you know? I remember like again with Kobe, like he and I were watching Brooklyn Nets game. And one of the players like 0 for 9 in the first half. And then the second half, he took no shots.

• 25:39Speaker 01

  He was 0 for 9 at the end of the game. And I said to Kobe like, oh, that's kind of weird. Like he didn't, and Kobe's like, yeah, he outplayed himself. He's like, dude, I would be 0 for 49 before I stopped shooting.

• 25:49Lewis Howes?

  Keep shooting.

• 25:50Speaker 01

  Yeah, he's like, you know, it's, yes, is it failure? For sure. But it's your ability to rebound from failure and come back. And so I think like, is there vulnerability? Is there failure? For sure. It's that ability to like use it and channel it into success that is unique.

• 26:07Lewis Howes?

  Yeah. You also spent a lot of time with other great individuals, not athletes, Michael Jackson being one of them. And you said you met him when you were 15 and then you were very, you're pretty close with him for two decades? Is that right?

• 26:21Speaker 01

  I knew, I've talked to Michael a couple of weeks or days before he passed away.

• 26:26Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 26:26Speaker 01

  Yeah. Yeah, it was a, you know, now, look, I look back on it and especially with all that we know about Michael and it's been documented about him. And I mean, there were definitely things that I saw that I was like, oh, that's interesting. My experience with him was he was a genius. He was one of the most gifted artists in the history of human civilizations. And, and actually now when I read, well, we all read about, you know, Vincent van Gogh, like, or Picasso or Mozart, like, they were crazy geniuses. They were disturbed in many ways. And, and I think Michael was that. I mean, I can say that honestly, as somebody who loved and respected him, but also had a dark side, for sure.

• 27:09Speaker 01

  And, you know, in my experience, he was amazing. He was great. He was, uh, nothing but sort of integrity, just in my interaction with him. But, you know, I mean, I've heard the stories, you know, and, and I don't doubt them, you know, and sadly, um, but I think he was, he was a tortured artist, you know, in many ways. And, you know, his work speaks for itself. But, uh, you know, it's, it's interesting too. I would say like my experience with Michael is in some ways, I think what has, uh, given a lot of the other luminaries athletes, in particular, that have comfort. Like Kobe used to always say is, man, if Michael Jackson could trust you, I guess you're pretty good, like, you know?

• 27:51Speaker 01

  And, uh, you know, I found even Steph Curry is way younger than me, but Steph was always like fascinated and curious. It's like, would ask me these stories about, you know, Michael and what he was like. And I think genius, you know, recognizes genius. Wow. So, yeah, pretty interesting. I don't know that I fully like unpacked and Really? Decoded my, you know, Interactions with him. But I was up at Neverland a lot. Really? You know, yeah, I like. You know, took members of my family up there, you know.

• 28:23Lewis Howes?

  What would you guys, was it just like hanging out, partying, what was?

• 28:26Speaker 01

  I mean, Michael's form of partying. I mean, so when I was eighteen years old, I think, Michael asked like if I wanted to go on tour with him.

• 28:35Lewis Howes?

  What?

• 28:36Speaker 01

  He was going on tour in Europe. It's like my junior, I think I was seventeen actually, my junior year of high school. Like my summer job. So I did go the first few weeks.

• 28:46Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 28:46Speaker 01

  And I just like was on the road. It was insane, like, you know, it was seven weeks on the road in Europe and, you know, and he would just pack every stadium. But I will say like, one or two weeks into it, like it was amazing. You would go and like Michael would do these huge performances. And then at night, like he would just like sit up in his. Yeah, but like he was not, like his band was going out and partying and like having a good time. Like Michael was like sitting up. I mean, he's the biggest superstar, but also the biggest celebrity on the planet.

• 29:16Lewis Howes?

  Yes.

• 29:16Speaker 01

  Like he couldn't go anywhere. So he would sit up in his, you know, suite and like drink orange juice and like watch My Fair Lady.

• 29:25Lewis Howes?

  And pizza, yeah.

• 29:27Speaker 01

  And I was like, I was seventeen. I was like, okay, this is cool, but can I go hang out? Like with the guys going to the club? And so I told Mike, I'm like, what can I do? And he, they just like created a job for me, like on the tour. So the first two weeks were like just hanging out with Michael, doing all this stuff. And then the next five weeks were like, I was working, which was amazing. And, you know, was truly memorable. And I do remember at that time, like I, now when I think back, I'm like, oh yeah, like it was strange. And, and Michael was like Edward Scissorhands. Like he was trapped by his fame.

• 30:00Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 30:01Speaker 01

  And he had a very small circle of people that he trusted and that he felt like safe around and stuff like that. So you can see the origins of like just how.

• 30:11Lewis Howes?

  The struggles and everything.

• 30:12Speaker 01

  Yeah, and it was, it was a different time. It was like free social media.

• 30:15Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 30:16Speaker 01

  Because you didn't even have that way to engage with people. He was truly isolated.

• 30:21Lewis Howes?

  What were some of the conversations you remember that fascinated you? I mean, if you're just, is it just a few people up in his suite? He's having some orange crush and a pizza and they're watching Disney movies and what do you?

• 30:33Speaker 01

  I mean, so there was like this childlike quality, you know, to him. He was like trapped. He was like a fifteen year old boy that was trapped, you know, like he had never really. matured from that time, you know, and I knew Michael across a long period of time. I was, you know, I knew when he got married to Lisa Marie Presley and like, there was a lot of like, things that Michael would talk about as an adult that I was like, and by that time I was like, in college or, you know, I think even later, like I was into my early twenties, et cetera. And I was like, Michael's still talking like he's fifteen years old, like, you know, about things that you experience when you're that old. Like, I've been able to be out in the world and mature and have girlfriends and stuff like that and learn along the way.

• 31:16Lewis Howes?

  And he's still figuring it out.

• 31:17Speaker 01

  There and it's just like, but that's, you know, that was his experience. And then he would just like, he went through this nation of Islam phase and I would like go meet and meet like, I have all these guys. And he was always like dabbling with like, you know, Islam and Buddhism and Kabbalah and like just stuff like that because, but he interacted with it in a very sort of different way. Like, he didn't go to the temple and sort of interact with normal, you know, Jewish people. It was like, you know, it was very sort of strange.

• 31:49Lewis Howes?

  Do you think all these great individuals have never fully healed from some type of psychological, physical, sexual, emotional trauma of the past? And it's what drives them to be this creative, crazy, artistic maniac? Or do you feel like there are any athletes or world-class entertainers that you've spent time with? Who are truly healed from their past and are just doing it because they love the game and they love the craft and it's not this like crazy painful thing that they need to get out or express in the world and prove something?

• 32:24Speaker 01

  Yeah, I think sports are unique because a lot of them are team sports, right? So no matter what kind of trauma or isolation you have in your past, you know, part of being successful, at least in a team, is like connecting with other people. And that's in its own way, restorative and healing. So, you know, LeBron James comes from a difficult background, single parent home, Akron, like just all sorts of stuff, like growing up in The inner city and and all of that, but like gradually over time, it's really started in high school. And the guy was like already having success and to this day, he's surrounded by those same guys.

• 33:01Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 33:01Speaker 01

  Maverick Carter and you know, some of the guys in his inner circle. And so I think there's something healing about that. I think I think that's also a product of the times in some ways. It's hard to be isolated, you know, like even fame isn't as isolating as it is because of social media.

• 33:17Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 33:18Speaker 01

  And stuff. I think when you start going back Michael's time and then of course, all the stuff we read about like, you know, like I said, the Michelangelos and just these iconic artists and I think it's a very different thing. You know, I've I've been fortunate because I've kind of grown up around it like my my dad is like.

• 33:36Lewis Howes?

  And spiritual healing.

• 33:37Speaker 01

  Yeah, and he's famous like and I grew up around that fame. And so to me, it was like, I got to see an inside. I think there's also like, you know, my dad is famous as he is in the world. There's like my dad and like I've watched him.

• 33:50Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 33:51Speaker 01

  You know, he's he had to sort of be a normal person in one way, even while he was this thing. And I think that to other people, I think that's consistent with what I've seen with a lot of, I mean, LeBron's a perfect example. It's like, guys like one of the, if not the greatest of all time, but he's also a dad. He's also like a husband. He's also like trying, he's building businesses and stuff like there's something very relatable about.

• 34:15Lewis Howes?

  Yeah. What did you see within your dad in terms of? Here's an individual who a lot of people, especially pre-social media, looked as like a spiritual leader healer. Maybe not perfect, but this like person you go to for the answers.

• 34:31Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 34:31Lewis Howes?

  But then you might see another side of him. It's like, oh, but he does this and he's does it and he's he raises his voice at me and he. What I don't know what he did, but.

• 34:39Speaker 01

  Sure.

• 34:39Lewis Howes?

  How do you, how have you been able to witness that? You know, persona that he has had over the years and see how it's either affected in a positive way with the fame and that pressure to be a spiritual leader. It'd be kind of perfect, I guess. And just being like dad who's also a human being, it's got flaws and.

• 34:59Speaker 01

  Yeah, I think, I mean, I think it was a big, it was very formative for me too. You know, the thing about my father also is that pre his spiritual guru identity, like his arc, and he's talked about it quite openly is like, he was far from that.

• 35:16Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 35:16Speaker 01

  Oh, yeah, he was, you know, um, he was trained as a Western physician, was an immigrant, probably came to this country when he was like twenty-three, twenty-four years old. After medical school, you know, drank a lot, like abused drugs, you know, like, you know, smoked a lot of weed, stuff like that. Like, he had a very addictive personality and like had a lifestyle that was sort of like the opposite of what he's now known for. But his professional transformation, going from being a Western-trained physician to like a healer or, you know, Eastern sort of spiritual teacher, et cetera. It was underlied by like a personal transformation. Like, he kind of had a deep dissatisfaction in his life, and I, I lived through that.

• 36:01Speaker 01

  I watched it, I remember.

• 36:03Lewis Howes?

  As a kid, you remember?

• 36:03Speaker 01

  Yeah, I remember like when I was probably eight or nine years old and my dad was still like, he would work all weekend or, you know, he would moonlight at the, uh, he was a ER physician, et cetera. He would work to bone, he would come out, have two whiskeys or whatever, probably more than two whiskeys and pass out. And there were times like he fell out of bed and broke his nose, he was like so.

• 36:25Lewis Howes?

  What?

• 36:25Speaker 01

  Out of it. And like, so I remember that version of my dad way before like the one that started meditating and all that sort of stuff. So I think there's like a real transformation that, so I remember that. I did a documentary a couple of years ago, like called Decoding Deepak, was basically, okay, here's who he is to the world and he's like this spiritual guru, et cetera. Here's who he is to me and here's the story that sort of underlies this. And I think that makes it a lot more, actually, everything that he is, you know, this idea of spirituality or perfection or whatever, to me, is a lot more admirable when you know like, oh, there's a real human being that's, you know, struggled with things. And again, same thing with athletes, it's, you know, like this person who you've seen

• 37:10Speaker 01

  as this moment of greatness, it's actually like their human being is struggling with all these things, you know, that makes it that much more admirable.

• 37:19Lewis Howes?

  What's the biggest challenge you've had to face in your life then with? Seeing your father kind of go through that transformation and then his fame, interviewing all these great athletes and kind of being friends with all these great individuals. Do you feel pressured to be like, oh, I've got to live up to the standard that I'm, of all these people I hang out with and my father, or do you feel?

• 37:39Speaker 01

  I've had it pretty good, like, you know, I mean, I've had a great, you know, just upbringing. I have totally supportive parents, you know. You know, my formative years were basically from teenage and my dad had had his transformation to that point. So very sort of supportive in terms of like, do what you're most passionate about. I mean, I suppose, especially earlier in like my professional career, there was an expectation, oh, your dad's like this virtual guy, you must be just like him. You must like be so comfortable with yourself and, and I think, you know, I was young, like I didn't know those things. I had, you have to go through them yourself. And so I think for me, you know, obviously a big transformational thing was like becoming a parent myself.

• 38:22Speaker 01

  Because like suddenly like you see the world outside of yourself. And you start to become more comfortable with who you want to be and who you eventually become. So I think that's probably, and, and yeah, I definitely like, you know, I'm around a lot of these people who are great. And it's like, man, like I want to be that, like I need to have that sort of success. But then I remind myself again, like, well, this is like everything you see, like, you know, isn't as perfect as it always seems. And, and I think I'm fortunate now, especially with like a Tom Brady, I mean, I say this with hopefully a lot of humility. It's like, but I think as much as I learned from him, like he, he enjoys being around me, like, you know,

• 39:04Speaker 01

  I can learn a lot from seeing what he's accomplished on the football field. But he, he loves like the stuff we're doing. He's part of, you know, my company, Religion of Sports. And he always says it's because he learned so much from not just being around me, but being great artists and you know, creative people.

• 39:23Lewis Howes?

  What is that with, it seems like a lot of athletes are creating their own production companies. You know, when I interviewed Kobe, I was like, what's your mission? And he said, to tell great stories because that's what's going to change the world.

• 39:33Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 39:34Lewis Howes?

  And LeBron's got a production company with Maverick.

• 39:36Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 39:37Lewis Howes?

  Tom, it seems like every great athlete now wants to kind of tell their story and tell other stories. Why, why do you think that is? Is it a trend because it's cool? Is it?

• 39:46Speaker 01

  I think it's a little bit of all the above. I think it's also, it's like, you know, certainly athletes towards the end of their career. One, they're figuring out, okay, like, what do I do? They've all established their own.

• 39:56Lewis Howes?

  What do I do next, you mean?

• 39:57Speaker 01

  What do I do next, you know? Because of social media, they all have existing audiences, right? Like, I think I just saw before I was coming here, LeBron had like 64 million people on Instagram. Like, they have this existing audience. It's like, how do I communicate? So storytelling is great, but I also think, especially again, at the end of your career, Kobe, you mentioned is like, they're trying to sort of deconstruct like, how did I do this? Like, what's the story? Because, you know, you don't know it as much when you're going through it. You certainly don't know in the moment, like of greatness.

• 40:28Lewis Howes?

  You just focus on your goal.

• 40:29Speaker 01

  Yeah, like you're just, you're just there, you're present. So it's a lot of it's like reflecting and it's also, what can I take from this incredible run? All this success and apply it to the rest of my life? You know, how do I, how do I take the wisdom of sports and greatness and apply it to now the next day? And what you realize, like, when you're working with great athletes, I think when I was working with Kobe and we're, this is like 34, the guy was like 35 years old, you know, when we started this thing. It's like, he's a young man. It's only in sports, like when you talk about 35, it's like, oh my God, like, he's so old, like.

• 41:03Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 41:04Speaker 01

  Does he do that? But these are actually very young people who are like thinking about, like I said, Kimi LaTecchi was 15.

• 41:12Lewis Howes?

  Crazy.

• 41:12Speaker 01

  She'll, she's now like 23, I guess, you know, something like that.

• 41:19Speaker 01

  She's gonna be done, like this Olympics now, next.

• 41:23Lewis Howes?

  She'll retire, probably.

• 41:24Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's like, now what? You know, so I think storytelling, like unpacking that greatness and that journey is sort of intuitive.

• 41:32Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, yeah. It's a fascinating stuff, man. What's, uh, what are some of the things you're really excited about next that you've, the stories you haven't told?

• 41:39Speaker 01

  Yeah. The projects you're working on. Like, I think one thing I've learned also is like, be present. Like, I'm not that person who thinks about like my five-year plan, my 10-year plan, my exit, you know? I'm very in the moment. One, I love surrounding myself with, you know, other great thinkers and innovators, you know? So I love like doing this. I want to do more stuff with you. Um, I think that, you know, there's a couple of projects, you know? I'm working on something again with Tom Brady called Man in the Arena. That's really like unpacking his 20 years of success.

• 42:08Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 42:09Speaker 01

  I also now because I'm such-

• 42:10Lewis Howes?

  That's LeBron James' favorite quote, right?

• 42:11Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 42:12Lewis Howes?

  The man in the arena?

• 42:13Speaker 01

  You know, Tom is at a new stage of his career, so like, that's been fun.

• 42:18Lewis Howes?

  Are you documenting this?

• 42:19Speaker 01

  I've definitely, it's an interesting time right now to be traveling cross-country to Florida, all places to try to capture those things, but I've been down there a couple of times.

• 42:28Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 42:29Speaker 01

  Um, yeah, that's even, I don't even know what that project will be, but I've also learned to trust, you know?

• 42:35Lewis Howes?

  Trust the process.

• 42:36Speaker 01

  Yeah, it'll just kind of, um, so, you know, we have a lot of podcasts, like, you know, stuff we're building. I'm really excited by also, you know, I think I've been an artist for so long, like focused like on one project. Now I get to be in a position where I get to be with other people. I get to like, you know, help other artists, like give them a platform. And so that's really, you know, through our company, we're sort of identifying a lot of people who are really gifted. They just don't have access. And now we can help provide that. So, you know, building out religion as sports, like Tom, Michael Strahan's our other partner. Um, and really like what resources can we bring in so that we can help people?

• 43:17Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 43:17Speaker 01

  Um, and you also look, the times that we're living in, it's divisive and the climate, it's like, how can we make a difference? How can we say something that matters and that, you know, helps us collectively heal?

• 43:29Lewis Howes?

  I love it, man. I'm gonna ask you a couple of final questions.

• 43:32Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 43:32Lewis Howes?

  This one's called the three truths. I ask everyone at the end. So imagine this is your final day on this earth and many, many years from now, and you've accomplished every dream you could set out to accomplish, even though you don't think a year or five years ahead. You accomplish everything you want to accomplish. You tell all the stories, you create the companies, you have a great family, all that stuff. But it's your last day and you've got to take all your work with you. Every piece of content you've ever created, it's got to go with you to the next place. But you get to leave behind three things you know to be true from all your lessons and experiences that you've personally learned or that you've experienced from other people. And you get the right amount of piece of paper and this is all we get to have of your life's work.

• 44:14Lewis Howes?

  These three big lessons, what would you say are your three truths you would share with everyone?

• 44:21Speaker 01

  One, don't take yourself too seriously. You know, I think it's so easy to get caught up in the moment, but to have fun and take a step back and look at the big picture. I think that would be a big one for me. I think to spend your time wisely. You know, I feel like now looking back, I'm like, oh, man, I wasted a lot of time doing a lot of, you know, things that just seemed important at the time, but weren't of consequence. And then I think probably most importantly, you know, especially as a father, there's something I talk about with my son a lot, it's like be of service. You know, like what are you gonna, what are you gonna leave behind? What are you gonna contribute?

• 45:06Speaker 01

  How are you gonna be, you know, how are you gonna move the ball forward? You know, and it's, it's, I mean, like it's somewhat cliched, but it's not about having the nicest car, the biggest house or whatever. Nobody cares at the end. It's not the stuff you remember. You know, it's about like, what did I, how was I? Of service to the world. And again, I think we're living in a time, this is even more appropriate than ever. Like, how can, how can I make a difference?

• 45:32Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 45:33Speaker 01

  You know, did my life matter? And I think that will probably be in how I contributed, not like what material things did I accumulate?

• 45:41Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, that's beautiful. You've got Greatness Code, it's out right now, it's on Apple TV Plus, ReligionOfSports.com, where you've got all your projects from the past, where people can find them on different platforms and and current stuff. You're on social media, Gotham Chopra, Twitter and Instagram as well. How else can we support you and find your work and be of service?

• 46:03Speaker 01

  Yeah, thank you. No, I think continuing to be in dialogue, I'm excited, just like this relationship. You know, I think that's the other thing is, you know, my life has always been a series of relationships. Like, every project I've ever worked on that's been successful has been the product of like a genuine relationship, you know, that's built over time, like not having an agenda, you know? And so I think just it's about communicating, engaging, and, and finding ways to collaborate.

• 46:33Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, okay, cool. I appreciate that, yeah. I want to acknowledge you for a moment, Gotham, for your ability to constantly show up in adversity over the years and constantly create powerful relationships with people that are probably hard to build trust with and tell great stories of them. I think that's one of the most challenging things that someone can do is tell a great story. And you've constantly showed up through your companies and also individual relationships, building that trust to serve humanity. So I really acknowledge you for that gift that you have

• 47:05Speaker 01

  Thank you.

• 47:06Lewis Howes?

  and how you keep showing up

• 47:07Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 47:07Lewis Howes?

  with these opportunities. It's really powerful. And I want to ask the final question for you. It's what's your definition of greatness?

• 47:18Speaker 01

  Being present, you know, and I think greatness in sports is about incredible performances. But, you know, you were talking about Kobe. I thought that was really beautiful, like your description. It's about being present in the moment. I'm one of those people who's constantly on social media and checking my phone and I remind myself all the time, especially like when I'm, you know, with my son or now I just got a new puppy like, and you know, one of my favorite things is in the morning, I wake up around five, five thirty and I just go, I take the puppy out and I'm just, I leave everything behind. I'm just like with him and that playfulness and that just like, you know, being present. I think greatness

• 47:59Speaker 01

  is sometimes forty-five, fifteen and nine from LeBron James. Sometimes it's just about like being in the moment.

• 48:07Lewis Howes?

  Gotham, my man. Appreciate you, brother. Thanks, man.

• 48:13Lewis Howes?

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• 48:55Lewis Howes?

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• 49:38Lewis Howes?

  Look at your life right now and reflect on the challenges, the pressure, the negative situations that might be in your life. And I want you to flip the switch. I want you to interpret that situation in your favor and not against you. And when you interpret things differently in your life and you have a new perspective on those moments and on those situations and on those negative experiences, when you interpret it differently, you set yourself up for greater opportunities and for yourself to have the ability to rise. But you must remember that you matter, you are loved, and you are worth it. I'm so grateful for you. And as you know what time it is, it's time to go out there and do something great.