673 Influence People's Minds with Mentalist Lior Suchard

“ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE THOUGHTS BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHO IS READING THEM” Lior explains his process of influence and how he is able to use how “power” for good instead of evil. We discuss such topics as how he can create the illusion of more senses. We talk about the difference between a magician and a mentalist, and how YOU can tap into your intuition. I have to admit, my mind is still spinning after this one. You’ll want to listen to it, and if you can’t believe your eyes, watch the video and you’ll see the proof of what happened. So get ready to tap into your powers, on Episode 673. Some Questions I Ask: What is it you think you do? (5:34) How do you really start to understand people with the 5 senses? (6:46) How many mentalists are there? (12:41) Do you feel like you have a good childhood? (16:36) How important is storytelling in mentalism? (18:53) Why do you keep doing this? (26:17) Is this a skill that people can learn? (28:29) What are 3-5 things that if people did more of that they would be more influential? (32:13) Do you ever wish you couldn’t read people? (35:11) What happens if something goes wrong? (43:35) What’s the skill you still get to master? (46:08) What’s your biggest fear? (50:18) How many times do you get people who write you letters saying you changed their lives? (57:24) In This Episode You Will Learn: The challenge that Lior gives to himself (4:58) The process of thinking (5:57) How Lior understood the way I thought (8:38) The difference between a magician and a mentalist (11:31) Something that someone’s done that’s blown Lior away (14:07) The riskiest thing he’s ever done (22:35) What it’ll take for Lior to help people change their lives (27:14) How we can use this in our own lives to be better (30:08) A book test on Christine (35:33) What people are easier to read than others (42:46) Lior’s biggest challenge in life right now (44:46) The person he’d really love to do something with (47:58) Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

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• 0:00Lewis Howes?

  This is episode number 673 with mentalist Lior Suchard.

• 0:07Lewis Howes?

  Welcome to the School of Greatness. My name is Lewis Howes, a former pro athlete turned lifestyle entrepreneur. And each week, we bring you an inspiring person or message to help you discover how to unlock your inner greatness. Thanks for spending some time with me today. Now let the class begin.

• 0:32Lewis Howes?

  Ronald Reagan said that there are no great limits to growth because there are no limits of human intelligence, imagination, and wonder. Welcome, my friends, to the School of Greatness podcast. We've got my friend Lior Suchard, who is considered to be the world's greatest mentalist. His mind-blowing performances of thought influence, miraculous prediction, and startling mind-reading have made him the most sought-after mentalist on the planet. He entertains audiences all over the world, which have brought him a list of fans stretching from A-list Hollywood celebrities to heads of state and notorious businessmen and billionaires.

• 1:15Lewis Howes?

  Lior has left live audiences in all, all around the globe, performed in more than 50 countries, and been featured on numerous TV specials. When I watched him perform live years ago, I said, I have to connect with this guy more. I have to learn about how he does this, and I gotta get him on my show. And we made it happen. Today is the day. And what we cover are how to use the five senses that we all have to create the illusion of more senses. How do we create that illusion? Also, the difference between a magician and a mentalist. The power of storytelling to influence people. How to tap into your intuition because you have a powerful intuition,

• 1:58Lewis Howes?

  but you've just got to learn how to cultivate it more. And easy ways to become more influential immediately. And you're going to see my mind get blown here in a second from what Lee Yor does with me. And also make sure to watch the full video. If you go to the show notes, lewishouse.com/673, you can watch the video of him blowing my mind and Christine's mind as well, who you'll see on the video. Big thank you again to our sponsors. And I'm super excited about this one. It's all about how do we tap into our intuition? How do we influence people? How do we master all of this in one place? With the one and only Lee Yor Sushaw.

• 2:42Lior Suchard?

  I'll give you a challenge. The challenge is that the narrative of a mentalist is always the same. It's always, what's the lottery numbers? Can you make my wife disappear? Can you get 20 pounds less? Can you do this? What's going to be tomorrow? That's the emails that I get all the time. So I think if we can go more creative about the thing that I do, which is similar to the thing that you do in a different way. It's very similar. We can talk freely.

• 3:10Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 3:10Lior Suchard?

  So whatever you want.

• 3:11Lewis Howes?

  What is it you think you do?

• 3:13Lior Suchard?

  Well, I describe it as using as my five senses to create the experience of more senses. I know how people think. I don't know what you're thinking. I know how you're thinking.

• 3:26Lewis Howes?

  Based on what?

• 3:27Lior Suchard?

  Based on principles of underground psychology and nonverbal communication. And understanding how I know the process of thinking.

• 3:38Lewis Howes?

  What's the process of thinking?

• 3:39Lior Suchard?

  Ah, the process of thinking is different from... You want me to show you what the process of thinking?

• 3:45Lewis Howes?

  Sure.

• 3:45Lior Suchard?

  I'll give you an example. Give me your phone.

• 3:46Lewis Howes?

  Okay.

• 3:46Lior Suchard?

  Let's try. Try something. And what I'm going to do, I don't want you to see this. So I'm going to go to a website that you know.

• 3:58Lior Suchard?

  Tell me if you heard of this.

• 3:59Lewis Howes?

  Google.

• 4:00Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. Why would you read my mind? This is unbelievable. It's really. Okay, and I'm going to search something here.

• 4:06Lewis Howes?

  Mm-hmm.

• 4:07Lior Suchard?

  Eh, which you, uh, no, I mean. Just look here, just. This would be nice.

• 4:14Lior Suchard?

  I hope this works. You know what? We'll leave it, we'll leave it for something else. I'll, I'll leave it here, I'll leave it here. Nothing important, I'll do it again in three seconds.

• 4:23Lewis Howes?

  Okay.

• 4:24Lior Suchard?

  So go, let's, let's continue talking and then I'll do it.

• 4:26Lewis Howes?

  How do you really start to understand people with the five sentences?

• 4:30Lior Suchard?

  Well. You know, I open my show, I tell people I use three techniques. Mind reading, mind influencing, and bullshit. So.

• 4:38Lewis Howes?

  Right, right.

• 4:38Lior Suchard?

  So I use. I use a variety of, of techniques. Sometimes it's hard to explain exactly what I do, how I do. If you think about it. It's very simple. I mean, if I give you, if I give you a dice and tell you. Put it in your hand. And shake it, shake it, and, and, and you don't know, you don't know what the number is. Because nobody knows the number, and I don't know the number.

• 4:57Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 4:57Lior Suchard?

  But if you look at the number. I, I mean, if you, exactly if you finish. And you look at the number. Yes? Now you look at the number. Now you're starting to transmit. Now, or, I don't know if this is the transmit.

• 5:10Lewis Howes?

  We turn it off, we turn it off.

• 5:11Lior Suchard?

  Turn it off, turn it off. But. But because I learned.

• 5:15Lewis Howes?

  Uh-huh.

• 5:16Lior Suchard?

  You got it?

• 5:17Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 5:18Lior Suchard?

  Because I learned how people, you think of six, I think.

• 5:20Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 5:20Lior Suchard?

  Yes? So do it one more time, do it under the table, under the table, so now it's completely. So really. This has nothing to do with luck. I don't know the number on the dice, but if you go like this.

• 5:32Lior Suchard?

  And you take a little pick, take a little pick. You got it? So now I can, now I know it's a two.

• 5:38Lior Suchard?

  And one last time, just to make sure it's a, you know what? You can do it here on the table, so. I'm, I'll turn my back, you choose a number. Make a choice and cover it, so it's gonna be completely fair.

• 5:47Lewis Howes?

  I just choose a number?

• 5:48Lior Suchard?

  Yes, choose a number. Tell me you have it, so. I'm not going to look, you got it?

• 5:52Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 5:52Lior Suchard?

  So here's the thing, so now I'm coming, trying to analyze you because you're skeptical, you'll probably stay on two.

• 5:59Lior Suchard?

  And one last time, just for fun.

• 6:00Lewis Howes?

  Oh my god.

• 6:01Lior Suchard?

  One last time, just for fun. So you had six, you had five, you had two, you had two. And I think that after those, tell me when you're done.

• 6:07Lewis Howes?

  Ah, shit.

• 6:09Lior Suchard?

  I'm looking at the wall of fame here. You got it?

• 6:11Lewis Howes?

  Yup.

• 6:11Lior Suchard?

  I think you will go with, this time you will go with number one.

• 6:15Lewis Howes?

  Oh my gosh.

• 6:16Lior Suchard?

  So it's all about understanding how you think.

• 6:18Lewis Howes?

  Wow. Now, how did you understand the way I thought?

• 6:20Lior Suchard?

  How, some of the things, I don't know how to explain. Because for me, it worked the opposite. When I was a child, I used to play this game. And it was reversed. So I could look at people, "Oh, you're thinking of four." "Yes, how did you know that?" And then I came to a conclusion that the overall body language, the overall thinking, basically tells me. Not tells, more like transmit, not even transmit. I don't know, it's like a subtle thing that I know what number are you looking at.

• 6:45Lewis Howes?

  Hmm. You can see where I'm gonna be thinking next. So are you really good at rock, paper, scissors then? Because you can analyze the next move I'm gonna make?

• 6:53Lior Suchard?

  It's possible. It's possible.

• 6:55Lewis Howes?

  Interesting.

• 6:56Lior Suchard?

  It's possible. I never tried it, but it's based, if I'll work on that, I'll probably...

• 7:00Lewis Howes?

  If I did it one more time, do you think you'd be able to get it?

• 7:02Lior Suchard?

  You wanna try?

• 7:03Lewis Howes?

  If I get the dice one more time on the table?

• 7:05Lior Suchard?

  I'm gonna try. One sec.

• 7:07Lewis Howes?

  Or if I just guess the number?

• 7:09Lior Suchard?

  Well, guess the number is just luck. We have the same chance to guess the number. But you have to know the number still. I'm gonna turn my back.

• 7:15Lewis Howes?

  Alright, got it.

• 7:16Lior Suchard?

  You got it?

• 7:16Lewis Howes?

  Yup.

• 7:17Lior Suchard?

  Do you know the number?

• 7:18Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 7:18Lior Suchard?

  You don't know the number.

• 7:19Lewis Howes?

  I do know the number.

• 7:20Lior Suchard?

  Really? Hmm, I'm trying to analyze. You will go with number four.

• 7:25Lewis Howes?

  Oh my goodness!

• 7:27Lior Suchard?

  Yes.

• 7:27Lewis Howes?

  That's crazy. Okay, you gotta write every time. Now, how are you influencing that, or how are you...

• 7:34Lior Suchard?

  That's not influencing, that's...

• 7:35Lewis Howes?

  How are you knowing that I'm gonna be thinking that next number? Or is it, is it thinking, I'm gonna be thinking that? Or is it, once I've chosen it, then you...

• 7:44Lior Suchard?

  It's like, it's like when, when I tell you, for example, "Don't think of a pink elephant." You immediately think about it. And all the viewers right now are thinking of a big elephant. So it's the same thing. When you watch the number four, you can't think of three. You can't think of five. And I know, it's like a poker tale. When you look at it, I know what's a four. I know what's a three. I know what's a two. I know, I, during the years, I...

• 8:06Lewis Howes?

  You practiced it enough.

• 8:07Lior Suchard?

  Practiced it. It's all about, it's like, it's like playing a piano. You know, everybody can learn to play a piano, but not everybody will read Mozart. So I mastered the whole concept of understanding how people think.

• 8:17Lewis Howes?

  Now, if it's a, if it's a one through six, it'd be easier than one through a hundred.

• 8:22Lior Suchard?

  So it's the same principle, just, same principle, just couldn't be more sensitive.

• 8:27Lewis Howes?

  What? So if I was a one through a hundred dice, theoretically?

• 8:30Lior Suchard?

  For example, in my show, I have an act where I have someone holds a coin in one of the hands and I guess which hand is the coin every time. And it makes the audience laugh because I talk about body language. But somewhere inside their mind, they're saying, okay, it's a fifty-fifty chance. And then I bring thirty people on stage. And now you have one to sixty. And one of them is holding the coin. And now it's much more difficult, but I'm looking at them and I point to a person and that person usually holds the coin. It's the same concept. You know, before the, before we started shooting, we talked about magician versus mentalist. And I thought about what to tell you about that. When you watch a magician show, you are amazed. You're blown away. Just like here. You're, oh my God, how did it happen? How did you know it?

• 9:15Lior Suchard?

  What's going on? But you know somewhere deep inside your mind that he didn't kill the girl, saw her in half and then brought her back, right? And you know that when she levitated, you know it's not something from quantum physics, defying gravity thing. You know there's a trick. You don't know what is a trick, but you know, you know it's not real.

• 9:35Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 9:35Lior Suchard?

  You know it's an illusion. When you watch a mentalist show, there's another factor of belief. Because there is, you will ask yourself, is it really? Is it true? Not true?

• 9:49Lewis Howes?

  Is it a magnetic dice?

• 9:50Lior Suchard?

  Magnetic dice? Can you do it with my dice?

• 9:52Lewis Howes?

  Right, right.

• 9:53Lior Suchard?

  As there is, yes, but...

• 9:57Lior Suchard?

  There's lots of more aspects than just one drink. So there's an element of belief, there's element of... It's similar a little bit to same thing that happens in our brain when we talk about religious. When someone believes in God or not believe in God. You go out and you ask yourself, is it real or is it not real? It's not just a trick. So that's the main issue between a mentalist and a magician.

• 10:21Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 10:22Lior Suchard?

  And there's not many mentalists.

• 10:24Lewis Howes?

  There's not many? How many are there? Darren, world-class in your mind?

• 10:28Lior Suchard?

  Not a lot. I think there's like less than 10 very good ones, very good ones.

• 10:33Lewis Howes?

  Who's someone that you're inspired by?

• 10:35Lior Suchard?

  Talk about Darren. Darren is amazing, from England. We've got another Israeli, Heim Goldenberg, from Canada, who's a good friend of mine. There's two in Israel which are very good. I mean, Yuri Geller started the whole concept. You know the name?

• 10:49Lewis Howes?

  No.

• 10:49Lior Suchard?

  Yuri Geller, in the 70s, Israeli. He took the concept, the first one, and took it to the stage. He used to bend spoons with the mind. So every time you think of spoon bend, you have something about... That's him. He was the one who did it. He became huge all over the world. He was a personal friend of Michael Jackson and John Lennon. And he was consulting them. He used to find oil, according to what he says, of course. To find oil with his mind, help companies, advise companies. He was the first one who started the whole concept of taking the power of the mind, bringing to the stage and entertainment. And what I did with it, because I was always very funny, I always like to make fun and entertain people.

• 11:33Lior Suchard?

  I love the high energy of entertainment and I love to be creative. So I took the concept and developed lots of creativity around it. And that's what you see in the live shows and the TV shows and all of that.

• 11:46Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 11:46Lior Suchard?

  It's a lot of fun.

• 11:47Lewis Howes?

  What's something that someone's done that you think has blown you away personally? Because I feel like you've seen it all, you know how a lot of people have learned their psychology and things like that, so you know.

• 11:58Lior Suchard?

  Well, if you think about it, again, I go back to magic. A magician can do four things, any magician. He can make something appear from nowhere, or disappear, or transpose, or levitate. That's it.

• 12:13Lewis Howes?

  In lots of different ways.

• 12:15Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. So that's like four pillars. Now with what I do, same four pillars. I can read something, I can influence something. Or guess, it's more like a reading. I can predict something.

• 12:28Lior Suchard?

  Or I can make things move like the spoon bending or telekinesis stuff, brain power. On that, you build a story, different, different story. It's like, you know, you talk about motivational speaking, okay? Thinking positive, it's a fact, people need to think more positive. But every person takes it to how they see it and how they look at it. At the end, it's all about mindfulness and, you know, getting yourself into the right position. But same thing here, there's four elements and I build the story, the crazy story around. And I give you, in the middle of the story, I give you traps and I give you ideas. And I give you, oh, I think I know how we did that. And then something coming to the block.

• 13:11Lior Suchard?

  So it's a show, it's a live show, it's to entertain people. And when I see, and this is the truth, when I see people wondering.

• 13:20Lior Suchard?

  And here's an interesting thing that I don't think, nobody talked about it. What is a sense of wonder? What is, what do you think of the wonder?

• 13:27Lewis Howes?

  What is wonder?

• 13:27Lior Suchard?

  When someone is wondering.

• 13:29Lewis Howes?

  They're curious.

• 13:30Lior Suchard?

  But you left, you went like, oh my God, oh my God. Some people will cry. Some people will go like this. And some people will just hmm. There's a lot, I mean, we know.

• 13:39Lewis Howes?

  Emotion, yeah.

• 13:40Lior Suchard?

  Exactly, you know laughter, you know it's universal, this is laughter. Sadness, you know, it's the opposite. Angry, you know, it's like this. Wonder is very individual. If you think of wonder, not everybody will go like this. Not everyone, some people will go like this, some people will be like shocked. Once I had a show and nobody clapped their hands at the end and I was, felt sorry, said, no, you understand, they were too shocked.

• 14:03Lewis Howes?

  Oh, wow.

• 14:03Lior Suchard?

  So I had to reprogram the show to get to a.

• 14:06Lewis Howes?

  Applause.

• 14:07Lior Suchard?

  Applause. So it's very interesting if you think about it. And when I see the audience wondering, becoming children again, that's amazing.

• 14:14Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 14:14Lior Suchard?

  That's why I do what I do.

• 14:16Lewis Howes?

  Do you feel like you had a good childhood?

• 14:19Lior Suchard?

  Define a good childhood?

• 14:21Lewis Howes?

  Well, you say you want people to be like children again, that means.

• 14:23Lior Suchard?

  I believe, you know, I have two children of my own. And you know, the children, did you see that there's a, an amazing scene from the movie, The Prestige? You see a magician, he's taking a little bird and he go like this, when the bird disappears. And the audience goes, oh my God. And the bird appears like in another place. So everybody's like clapping their hand and the little boy is asking, what happened to the first bird?

• 14:50Lior Suchard?

  And really, the musician had like a mechanic, something that he makes sure that he kills the first boy.

• 14:54Lewis Howes?

  Oh, no.

• 14:55Lior Suchard?

  Something like that. But children has a sense of wonder. They touch the iron because they're curious. And then they get the burn and they, you know, I see my kid is doing something from Lego. And he's like, oh, look what I've done, what I've done. It's amazing, they have this. When we grow up, we start to lose this. You go into the box, you have your work and, you know, everything in the news and we start to lose this, this amazing feeling.

• 15:22Lewis Howes?

  Of wonder.

• 15:23Lior Suchard?

  Of wonder. And I'm here to get back. And, you know, I don't wanna name dropping, but you know, some of the people that I perform for. Doesn't matter who you are. You can be known, I don't know, rich, poor, everybody's like leveled. And they have the sense of wonder, which is amazing. It's a wonderful feeling.

• 15:40Lewis Howes?

  How old are your kids?

• 15:40Lior Suchard?

  Four and two.

• 15:41Lewis Howes?

  And do you perform mentalism on them?

• 15:44Lior Suchard?

  It's hard because the mentalism is very, sometimes it's not visual. It's not like magic visual. Sometimes it's very intellectual, you know.

• 15:53Lewis Howes?

  Something you think about later.

• 15:54Lior Suchard?

  You think about, so it's hard to express it, but working on that.

• 15:57Lewis Howes?

  You're working out with them?

• 15:58Lior Suchard?

  A little bit.

• 15:59Lewis Howes?

  Cause you're not like, voila, like there's something in front of you.

• 16:02Lior Suchard?

  Exactly, exactly.

• 16:02Lewis Howes?

  It's not an act.

• 16:03Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. That's why when I do a big show, even if I do a show for 3,000 people, the stage and the screens, the production will be modest. Because it's not gonna be explosions and stuff like that.

• 16:16Lewis Howes?

  Smoke and everything, yeah.

• 16:17Lior Suchard?

  There's of course lighting and we have screens, we have cameras because it's all about the interaction. But it's not gonna be like fireworks and stuff like that because it's all about what's happening there. It's not about, it's not about how big it is, it's about how emotional it is.

• 16:31Lewis Howes?

  How important is storytelling in mentalism? It's everything, huh?

• 16:35Lior Suchard?

  That's everything, that's everything.

• 16:36Lewis Howes?

  How did you learn how to tell better stories?

• 16:37Lior Suchard?

  I didn't. I didn't. I'll tell you a little story. I think it was like 10 years ago, I did a show and the guy came to me and told me, I have a show for a company, for a Swatch group in Switzerland, Swatch brand. And I have all the retailers, do you think, it's amazing, you think you can do something connected to the watch? And then I was like, hmm, it's like, I have an idea. And then started Infotainment.

• 17:07Lewis Howes?

  Infotainment, yeah.

• 17:07Lior Suchard?

  Infotainment, which is creating this stuff.

• 17:13Lior Suchard?

  I said, okay, so I know how to guess things for dice. What if it wasn't a dice? What if it was a different messages of a company? And you look at something and say, oh, you're looking at how important is the connection with the workers? And then I would, I find myself talking about the messages, conveying the messages, but in a way that people remembers it. Right. So for Swatch, I took ten people on stage. I told them to, one of the acts, hold your hand above your watch, count to three, and I actually stopped all their watches, stopped completely. You didn't touch their watches? I told them, I was going like this to them, the watch stopped. You didn't touch the watches? The audience goes wild, never touched the watch. The audience goes wild. Wow. One lady from those ten people said, my watch is still working.

• 17:57Lior Suchard?

  And I started to act like, no way, what's going on, what's going on, what's going on? No, no, no, it didn't stop. And I was, let me see, let me see. And I was going like, oh, you have this watch? And that was like a moment, because then I said, what do you have? What do you have? And I talked about all the other brands. Wow. That I could stop, but I could not stop this watch. That's powerful. And the message was, I can't do it. That's brilliant. And it was a metaphor. Of course, by the way, I could stop any of the watches. I just made it look like, I acted as I do. And I saw the owner of, Mr. Hayek is the owner of, he passed away, but back then, it was like, because you had seven hundred people who sell his watches,

• 18:41Lior Suchard?

  and now we wanted to say, how good is the watch? Wow. So then I found myself flying for lots of corporations, Fortune 500 companies, cybersecurity. For IBM, I did a competition, who is smarter, me or Watson? You know, the artificial intelligence. Right. For Google, we did something, who is faster in searching? Master Mentalist or Google? So I create this, and I think this works on a principle, that if I ask you, what were you wearing three weeks ago on Monday? Nobody, nobody knows. Don't know. But if I ask you, what did you do on the day of September 11, when the plane hits the twin, you remember exactly what you did. Yeah, can you remember what I was doing? I know, no, but I remember what I was doing.

• 19:26Lior Suchard?

  Yeah. Why do you remember it? Because it was an emotional impact. Yeah. Bad, negative one. You remember also the good things. Absolutely. So when I'm standing in front of a company and I create this. Sense of wonder, mind tricks, call it whatever you want. And people are like blown away. But this is connected to the messages of the new product. You're holding the new cybersecurity program that prevents hackers. And while you're holding it, I can't read your mind.

• 19:54Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 19:54Lior Suchard?

  And people get the metaphor and everybody remembers the messages. And it's better than any lecture. It's better than any PowerPoint show. Because people go home and say, oh, this guy was talking about the new blah, blah, blah cybersecurity of the company. And when I hold this, he couldn't read my mind. And when I didn't hold it, he could read my mind. So it talks about this.

• 20:15Lewis Howes?

  What's the riskiest thing you've ever done that you actually? Because usually you know like it's gonna work, I'm assuming. Like you know you've got an influence or?

• 20:23Lior Suchard?

  There used to have a time where I used to, one of the acts in the show, I used to have like a Russian roulette. I used to have like, like four knives, sorry, four like bases and one knife. Something like that with the bag.

• 20:34Lewis Howes?

  That's scary.

• 20:35Lior Suchard?

  I used to play with staple guns that, you know, one of them is loaded, all the rest is not loaded. You mix it up and then I find it and then I took it to the next step. I don't find it, you find it. So you take it and I take it and I go like this and I click it. I did it in a television show in Israel. It was crazy. And then with time, I felt, I don't think it's for me. It's not about if I'm right or wrong. If I'm wrong, it's very not for me. But because this is not, it's very authentic. It's very, it might go wrong. And when I do a live show, I just came back from Miami. I did, it was a two hours live show. Things got wrong.

• 21:13Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 21:14Lior Suchard?

  Yes, but the audience are not aware.

• 21:17Lewis Howes?

  It's part of the story.

• 21:18Lior Suchard?

  It's part of the story. I'll get, I'll get back to it later. There was a guy who in the middle of the show, he was like a heckler. He said, what's the name of my, my kindergarten teacher? Or what's the name of my friend? It happens. And I was like, I stopped the show and I was like, I started to tell jokes about him interrupting me. And I said, I'm sorry, the show is gonna be extended. And I went to him. But at the end of the show, I wrote the name of his kindergarten teacher.

• 21:43Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 21:43Lior Suchard?

  Mrs. Robinson, it was, remember? It was crazy and everybody was like blown away because I have anchors. I know I'm first act, second act, third act, but in between.

• 24:09Lior Suchard?

  And then sometimes there's like an encore or something like that. But sometimes I go back and just go downstairs. And people coming to me, selfies and pictures. And there's like another thirty minutes of me taking pictures, signing, because I wanna hear. And people come to me, "Oh my god, you're inspired." I don't think it's just entertainment. I think it's also inspiring. I think it's a little bit educational. Because I think my next phase will be getting a little bit more educational. Maybe teaching something, maybe...

• 24:39Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 24:39Lior Suchard?

  Something that will help, not just for fun, something that will help you.

• 24:42Lewis Howes?

  Impact people beyond wonder...

• 24:45Lior Suchard?

  Exactly.

• 24:45Lewis Howes?

  ...curiosity.

• 24:46Lior Suchard?

  So I'll go home and I will say, "Okay, I wanna try to do something." And to be better or to do something. I love the reactions of people. I love people, generally.

• 24:55Lewis Howes?

  What do you think that will take for you to do in order to get people at the end of your performance? Hour, two hours, whatever it may be, to be like, "You know what? I'm gonna change this part of my life to be better."

• 25:04Lior Suchard?

  That's the next step, I think.

• 25:05Lewis Howes?

  What is that, you think?

• 25:06Lior Suchard?

  I don't know yet. In the show, you saw the video with Jerry, with the Rubik's Cube.

• 25:13Lewis Howes?

  Uh, yes, Gerard Butler, yeah.

• 25:14Lior Suchard?

  So I gave him a Rubik's Cube. He mixed the cube.

• 25:17Lewis Howes?

  Yep.

• 25:18Lior Suchard?

  He kept mixing it up behind his back. And then he showed that he solved it. And people were like going crazy. So this is an act that I do in the show right now with two people. And this is an act that, it's an act about, "You're going to do the impossible now, not me."

• 25:32Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 25:33Lior Suchard?

  Now, again, it's very philosophical, because of course I'm doing it. I'm helping them. I'm controlling, I'm influencing. But I love to make it look like it's their moment right now. So they go like this and like, "They solved it." And it's really, really cool. So I think I'll add more aspects of that.

• 25:51Lewis Howes?

  The impossible is possible.

• 25:53Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. I want you to try to guess what he's thinking, not just me. Not just the superstar on the stage. I want you to think of a number, and you to think of it, and you guess the number. And I will show them how it's possible to do it. And I think this will inspire people to be more positive.

• 26:08Lewis Howes?

  Is this a skill that people can learn to get to a certain level beyond where they're at? Maybe they're not gonna be able to get to your level. But how can we learn to be more intuitive...

• 26:17Lior Suchard?

  Definitely.

• 26:18Lewis Howes?

  ...in our own lives to be able to perceive people and influence people or persuade people? Obviously in a positive way of integrity, but not getting them to do something negative. But how can we tap into intuition more?

• 26:30Lior Suchard?

  I'll tell you something, I'm not religious. Again, you know, we're in Los Angeles. Every second you have like the psychic stores. I'm really against that. I'm against psychics and against fortune tellers. Some of them using similar techniques like me. But if I look at you or tell you to think of a name or something, I can guess it. I can guess it as a mentalist, as entertainment. Or I can say, "I'm getting spirits, blah, blah." And that's what they do.

• 26:56Lewis Howes?

  Yes.

• 26:57Lior Suchard?

  So they take advantage of people's beliefs and they do it. So I hate that. But I really believe in karma, in psychological karma, not spiritual karma. I don't like the whole this kind of stuff. But psychological karma. So first of all, if you give to people, you get back. Definitely. So I always try to, when there's a situation, I always say to people, "Okay, what can I do for you? How can I help you? If I can, I will help him." There's nothing wrong with that. And I'm sure it will come back to me in another way. And it happens all the time. There's some stuff that people can learn. They can learn the basics of influencing, how to create a rapport, how the basic of NLP a little bit,

• 27:38Lior Suchard?

  how to get more chances of the other person to say yes to you. But it doesn't mean you're going to be on stage and guess things about people, but...

• 27:47Lewis Howes?

  How can we use this in our own lives to be better?

• 27:49Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. I think this is the next step for me. I wrote a book about this. It's called Mind Reader: Unlocking the Power of Your Mind to Get What You Want. So the whole book is filled with lots of mind tricks, mind questions. You're running in a race, all right? You're running and you just passed second place. Which place are you now?

• 28:08Lewis Howes?

  You just passed second place.

• 28:09Lior Suchard?

  You just passed second place, so now you're...

• 28:10Lewis Howes?

  You're in second place.

• 28:11Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. But you thought about it. You want to stay first.

• 28:13Lewis Howes?

  Yes.

• 28:14Lior Suchard?

  So how the mind works.

• 28:15Lewis Howes?

  Interesting.

• 28:16Lior Suchard?

  It's interesting. Lots of fun stuff.

• 28:18Lewis Howes?

  You also influenced me by putting someone in first.

• 28:21Lior Suchard?

  Exactly, exactly. So I teach about that. Lots of fun stories, mind tricks. And in between, there's a little bit of how to influence people, a little bit of how to be positive, to give a compliment to people.

• 28:33Lewis Howes?

  Sure.

• 28:33Lior Suchard?

  For example...

• 28:34Lewis Howes?

  A compliment goes a long way.

• 28:35Lior Suchard?

  What?

• 28:36Lewis Howes?

  A compliment goes a long way.

• 28:37Lior Suchard?

  Exactly, exactly.

• 28:38Lewis Howes?

  When you give a compliment, it's like you're already influencing someone to give you everything you want. In a sense, right?

• 28:43Lior Suchard?

  I agree.

• 28:44Lewis Howes?

  Is that why you hugged me twice? Just kidding.

• 28:46Lior Suchard?

  Yes, and I hugged you also.

• 28:48Lewis Howes?

  No, it's funny because I always leave with a big hug when I meet someone.

• 28:51Lior Suchard?

  It's wonderful.

• 28:52Lewis Howes?

  And I usually hug like a second longer than you're supposed to. But also make it playful and like fun.

• 28:57Lior Suchard?

  You're talking with an Israeli Jewish, okay? You know what's chutzpah? You know what's chutzpah? Chutzpah is a word. Chutzpah, you could Google it.

• 29:04Lewis Howes?

  I've heard of it, but.

• 29:05Lior Suchard?

  It's a word, it's like positive rudeness. It's this, it's this, hey, how are you? And sometimes Americans like.

• 29:11Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 29:12Lior Suchard?

  Dromophobes, you know? Give me space, give me space. Uh, Japanese, you know, like very.

• 29:16Lewis Howes?

  Uh huh.

• 29:17Lior Suchard?

  But sometimes, there's a funny about Israelis. You say never interrupt an Israeli while he's interrupting somebody else.

• 29:24Lewis Howes?

  I'm sure.

• 29:25Lior Suchard?

  So, I have this thing of chutzpah, and it works, I think. I think the hugs, you know, the, the.

• 29:33Lewis Howes?

  Embracing, yeah.

• 29:34Lior Suchard?

  Embracing, it, it creates an immediate connection. A hug is a universal way to say, hey, great to meet you, or something like that. For Americans, sometimes it can be embarrassing a little bit, a little bit. But they say that you're positive, so it's all good.

• 29:47Lewis Howes?

  What do you say are like three, four, or five things? Your top thing is that if people did more of, they would automatically just be more influential. People would wanna be around them more, people would say yes more, or give them more information, or wanna work with them more, whether it be business, intimate relationships. A few things are just like.

• 30:07Lior Suchard?

  I'll tell you something, I'll tell you something. There's an amazing book called Influence, Influence.

• 30:11Lewis Howes?

  Influence by Robert Cialdini, yeah. Seven, seven things, yeah.

• 30:14Lior Suchard?

  Exactly.

• 30:15Lewis Howes?

  Crazy.

• 30:16Lior Suchard?

  So one of the things he talks about, and it's really interesting, he talks about, it sounds bad, but it's not bad.

• 30:21Lewis Howes?

  Reciprocity, or?

• 30:22Lior Suchard?

  Yeah, so when you give, no, no, when you give someone something, he, he will want to give you back.

• 30:26Lewis Howes?

  Reciprocity, yeah.

• 30:27Lior Suchard?

  Exactly, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. And you can see it from individual to countries.

• 30:31Lewis Howes?

  Hmm.

• 30:32Lior Suchard?

  So for example, you know, we have the Israeli government and Turkish government, for example. They're, they're, sometimes they're like friends, not like on and off, connected to the situation, Turkey and Israel. And sometimes it's a bad relationship, sometimes it's a good relationship. But there used to be, I think there was a, there was a big earthquake in Turkey, and we sent the first special units to help and save them, no matter what, what's the relationship between the politics.

• 31:01Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 31:01Lior Suchard?

  Save them.

• 31:02Lewis Howes?

  Save people, yeah.

• 31:02Lior Suchard?

  Israel is always, by the way, in Thailand, when they had the kids, Israel sends people to help, always, always, always, always.

• 31:10Lior Suchard?

  And you put politics aside. Then we had, a few years ago, we had a big fire in Haifa, in Israel. Big, huge fire. And the Turks sent the supertankers to help us back. And the next day, you know, the prime ministers can say, "We hate you." And it shows something interesting. So the first thing, I think, when you're in a group of people, always be the first one to say, "Let me help."

• 31:33Lewis Howes?

  How can I support you?

• 31:34Lior Suchard?

  How can I support you? And I'm not talking about giving money to people. I'm not, it's just help, in a way. Then it will, most likely, will influence other people to help you.

• 31:45Lewis Howes?

  Reciprocate.

• 31:46Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. Robert talks about a waiter who gives you the cheque with a few gums or smiley face.

• 31:53Lewis Howes?

  Candy.

• 31:53Lior Suchard?

  Piece of candy.

• 31:54Lewis Howes?

  You want to give him a bigger tip.

• 31:55Lior Suchard?

  Exactly.

• 31:56Lewis Howes?

  It's crazy.

• 31:56Lior Suchard?

  Mm-hmm.

• 31:57Lewis Howes?

  Little things.

• 31:57Lior Suchard?

  It's good. The compliment is good.

• 32:00Lewis Howes?

  Longer hug.

• 32:01Lior Suchard?

  Longer hugs.

• 32:02Lewis Howes?

  Obnoxiously positive, yeah.

• 32:04Lior Suchard?

  They're very good, they're very good. But I think that you need to see the positive things in everything. Everything, there's two sides. Sometimes the positive side is very, very little bit, but there's always a positive side. And I see it all the time. I see it all the time. The concept of doing something impossible, okay? I, sometimes I visit kids in hospital. And these are kids that have, I don't want to say the word, but, you know, bad stuff going on with them.

• 32:32Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 32:32Lior Suchard?

  And so I take the Rubik's Cube and I take these dice, or I do some stuff, and I made them be the hero. And you have no idea how...

• 32:43Lewis Howes?

  They light up.

• 32:44Lior Suchard?

  They light up, and they become healthy. Not because I did, hmm, because it was positive. Yeah, it's all here.

• 32:51Lewis Howes?

  Do you ever wish you couldn't read people the way you do?

• 32:54Lior Suchard?

  Yes, but it's not like that. It's not that I'm walking and I'm reading people all the time. I'm very good at understanding people. I'll give you an example. And I'm going to do something that maybe nobody has ever done in their interviews. I'm going to use you.

• 33:10Lewis Howes?

  Awesome.

• 33:11Lior Suchard?

  One second.

• 33:11Lewis Howes?

  Christine.

• 33:12Lior Suchard?

  Christine? How do you, how do you write Christine?

• 33:15Speaker 02

  C H R I S T I N E.

• 33:19Lior Suchard?

  Christine will. Christine will. This means you will do something.

• 33:24Lewis Howes?

  You will, Christine will do something.

• 33:27Lior Suchard?

  I'm gonna write something for you.

• 33:29Lewis Howes?

  Oh, gotcha, gotcha. I see what you're saying.

• 33:31Speaker 02

  I believe in this.

• 33:33Lewis Howes?

  You believe in this.

• 33:35Lior Suchard?

  So, you're gonna keep this.

• 33:37Lewis Howes?

  Christine will do something.

• 33:38Lior Suchard?

  You're gonna do something.

• 33:39Speaker 02

  In the future, right?

• 33:40Lior Suchard?

  In the future, in the future.

• 33:41Lewis Howes?

  Am I allowed to look at her or no?

• 33:42Lior Suchard?

  No, don't look at her.

• 33:43Lewis Howes?

  You're gonna influence her. I'm gonna put it in my pocket.

• 33:44Lior Suchard?

  Put it in your pocket, yeah, yeah.

• 33:46Lewis Howes?

  She gave me something in my hand, written down. Christine and I did not see it, for those only listening.

• 33:50Lior Suchard?

  And what we're going to do, there's books over there, and there's books over here, but don't, don't choose your books, and more books over here. So I want you to pick two books. One each hand. From anywhere, doesn't matter.

• 34:05Lewis Howes?

  There's books around the room, and Christine is going to pick up-

• 34:09Lior Suchard?

  This one, and one more.

• 34:11Lewis Howes?

  Pick up two books. Am I allowed to say which one she picked up, or no?

• 34:14Lior Suchard?

  That's fine, doesn't matter.

• 34:15Lewis Howes?

  Doesn't matter, okay.

• 34:16Lior Suchard?

  So, did it look like a fair choice?

• 34:18Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 34:19Lior Suchard?

  Now, hold it like this, hold it like this. And, you can mix them, or whatever you want. And just-

• 34:26Lior Suchard?

  And now-

• 34:27Lewis Howes?

  Very nice.

• 34:28Lior Suchard?

  And now, a drop, we're gonna leave with one book, only one book.

• 34:31Lewis Howes?

  One book.

• 34:32Lior Suchard?

  One book. So come over here, next to me, to my left here. And, it's all intuitive, right? So just, look at me. Just open the book anywhere you want, and just go through between the pages. Yeah, and then, yeah, just go back and forth, back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. And when you want to stop, you just stop.

• 34:50Lior Suchard?

  Does it look fair? Does it look fair?

• 34:52Lewis Howes?

  It looks fair to me.

• 34:53Lior Suchard?

  So let's, let's change position. And you want the left side or the right side?

• 34:57Speaker 02

  Left side.

• 34:58Lior Suchard?

  Left side is here? Can you see the books? Because I want it to be a surprise. But you cannot see it from here, right?

• 35:02Lewis Howes?

  We can see the book, we can't see the behind, no.

• 35:04Lior Suchard?

  Okay, okay. So, you see, let me show you some words. You see the word, oh, this is a good word, we talked about it, creative. Or the words, typical. Or here, I can find, there's like, there's lots of- You want the left side or the right side? Which one do you want?

• 35:15Speaker 02

  Left.

• 35:16Lior Suchard?

  Left. Put your finger, because you're going to do it. Put your finger here.

• 35:19Lewis Howes?

  This is crazy.

• 35:19Lior Suchard?

  And just move it. Move it, move it, move it, and stop anywhere you want. You do it, go. You do it. Anywhere you want. Now comes the best part because here, is it fair? Fair? No, keep your finger there.

• 35:30Speaker 02

  Oh.

• 35:31Lior Suchard?

  Is it, is it fair?

• 35:32Lewis Howes?

  It looks fair.

• 35:33Lior Suchard?

  Looks fair.

• 35:33Lewis Howes?

  You feel like he was influencing you.

• 35:35Speaker 02

  No, I was.

• 35:35Lior Suchard?

  She's doing whatever you want. And I'll give you a chance to change your mind if you, do you want to change your mind? You can.

• 35:41Speaker 02

  No, I don't.

• 35:42Lior Suchard?

  Because most people want to change your mind.

• 35:44Speaker 02

  No, I believe.

• 35:45Lior Suchard?

  Because most people wants to change your mind. No, no, I'm kidding, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. Do you want or you don't?

• 35:50Speaker 02

  No.

• 35:51Lior Suchard?

  Because after, you're gonna ask yourself, oh my god, he gave me a chance to change my mind and I did not change my mind. You want to change your mind?

• 35:58Speaker 02

  No.

• 35:58Lior Suchard?

  You sure? Should she change her mind or no?

• 36:01Speaker 02

  No, I just...

• 36:02Lior Suchard?

  She's looking at the word, but...

• 36:03Speaker 02

  No, I don't even know what it is.

• 36:05Lior Suchard?

  No, but you want or you don't want?

• 36:06Speaker 02

  No.

• 36:07Lior Suchard?

  Tell me.

• 36:07Speaker 02

  I literally don't want it.

• 36:08Lior Suchard?

  Look, don't, don't say it. You got it? It's two words. You got it? Okay, now, here's the interesting part because you can say the, what is the word?

• 36:16Speaker 02

  Now starting.

• 36:17Lior Suchard?

  Now starting. It's in the middle of the sentence. And you went like this. You went yes? And you went now starting. I saw it also. What's the chance of somebody knowing that?

• 36:28Lewis Howes?

  Slim chance.

• 36:29Lior Suchard?

  Slim chance?

• 36:30Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 36:30Lior Suchard?

  Can you open the little...

• 36:31Lewis Howes?

  No chance.

• 36:32Lior Suchard?

  Look, can you?

• 36:33Speaker 02

  No chance.

• 36:33Lior Suchard?

  No chance.

• 36:36Lior Suchard?

  Can you show us?

• 36:38Lewis Howes?

  Now starting.

• 36:39Speaker 02

  No.

• 36:41Lior Suchard?

  Continue with your...

• 36:42Lewis Howes?

  Your face!

• 36:49Lior Suchard?

  Sense of wonder.

• 36:50Speaker 02

  Two words!

• 36:52Lewis Howes?

  Oh my god. You picked one word or there was?

• 36:55Lior Suchard?

  Two, she took two, two words.

• 36:57Speaker 02

  That's exactly what was in the...

• 36:59Lior Suchard?

  This is for you, this is for you.

• 37:02Lior Suchard?

  Let me go back over here. Thank you. Big round of applause to Christine.

• 37:08Lewis Howes?

  Are you blown away?

• 37:10Speaker 02

  I believe.

• 37:11Lior Suchard?

  I believe!

• 37:14Lewis Howes?

  So you, you told her to choose one word, but she put her finger and there was two words in the middle of her finger.

• 37:19Lior Suchard?

  Yeah, it was like a very random and she went like this and I feel that this will stay for you for a long, long, long time.

• 37:26Lewis Howes?

  This is like what happened to me when I was on TV with him. And he was like, think of a number.

• 37:31Speaker 02

  Like you asked me like four times if I wanted to move it.

• 37:35Lior Suchard?

  Hmm, and by the way.

• 37:36Lewis Howes?

  You stuck with it.

• 37:37Lior Suchard?

  And just for.

• 37:38Lewis Howes?

  I was going to say move it.

• 37:39Lior Suchard?

  Exactly.

• 37:40Lewis Howes?

  I was going to say move it.

• 37:41Lior Suchard?

  By the way, if you would move it.

• 37:42Lewis Howes?

  But she was stubborn.

• 37:43Lior Suchard?

  It would be completely different words. Completely different words. So it's a matter of choice, of choice. And also just for clarification, when I came to this room, I never touched any of the books.

• 37:54Lewis Howes?

  Nothing.

• 37:54Lior Suchard?

  Nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing.

• 37:56Lewis Howes?

  And you opened the page that you wanted to.

• 37:58Lior Suchard?

  Yeah.

• 37:59Lewis Howes?

  But you have to ask yourself like, oh, man, it's crazy.

• 38:01Speaker 02

  There's no way, like, I mean, maybe you influenced me to like laugh versus. You didn't know what was in this book?

• 38:07Lior Suchard?

  Mm-mm.

• 38:08Speaker 02

  That book?

• 38:09Lewis Howes?

  It's crazy. It's not even the book, it's that book.

• 38:15Lewis Howes?

  Amazing.

• 38:15Lior Suchard?

  Yeah, it's fun.

• 38:16Lewis Howes?

  So how did you reconstruct this after the interview?

• 38:21Lior Suchard?

  It's fun to do it. By the way, can I have your phone? I have a better screen with this one. Can you open it? I mean, I can guess your password, but. And you go, I try to do something with your phone. Go on Google and I will go on, wow, you have so many apps here. It's crazy. Let's see. Are you in Google?

• 38:41Lewis Howes?

  I'm in Google.

• 38:43Lior Suchard?

  Okay, I, I hope this works.

• 38:45Lewis Howes?

  Google Images or Google All, doesn't matter.

• 38:46Lior Suchard?

  Go to Images.

• 38:47Lewis Howes?

  Okay.

• 38:47Lior Suchard?

  Go to Images. I'll try to do something. I'm going to put something here. Okay. You have a wall full of lots of, lots of known people here.

• 38:57Lewis Howes?

  Yes.

• 38:58Lior Suchard?

  If you have a chance, look at me, if you had a chance to interview someone, but here's the rules. Super famous.

• 39:08Lior Suchard?

  Super famous.

• 39:09Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 39:10Lior Suchard?

  Dead or alive. It can be, I give an example.

• 39:13Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 39:14Lior Suchard?

  It can be advertising.

• 39:15Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 39:15Lior Suchard?

  Anything you want, anything.

• 39:16Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 39:17Lior Suchard?

  Anything, anything, anything, anything, anything. Who would it be? Search the person.

• 39:21Lewis Howes?

  Type the name in.

• 39:23Lior Suchard?

  Do, will I know this person?

• 39:24Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 39:25Lior Suchard?

  Can I see?

• 39:26Lewis Howes?

  Put it in.

• 39:26Lior Suchard?

  Yeah.

• 39:27Lewis Howes?

  Enter it or no?

• 39:27Lior Suchard?

  Yeah, enter it.

• 39:28Lewis Howes?

  And then press enter?

• 39:29Lior Suchard?

  Mm-hmm. Can I see?

• 39:31Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 39:33Lior Suchard?

  Hmm, can we show it? It's Will Smith.

• 39:37Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, Will Smith.

• 39:38Lior Suchard?

  Now, why did you choose?

• 39:40Lewis Howes?

  He's one of the top three people I've wanted to have on for, since the beginning of the play.

• 39:44Lior Suchard?

  Maybe he's watching us. Can you turn her phone?

• 39:46Lewis Howes?

  Will Smith.

• 39:51Lewis Howes?

  Maybe he's watching. Have you done any tricks on him?

• 39:53Lior Suchard?

  Will, if you're watching, we want you to come here.

• 39:56Lewis Howes?

  Exactly.

• 39:57Lior Suchard?

  We just thought of you, together, simultaneously.

• 39:59Lewis Howes?

  Exactly, and you'll come back out and do some stuff with him.

• 40:01Lior Suchard?

  Exactly.

• 40:02Lewis Howes?

  Amazing.

• 40:03Lior Suchard?

  No, I haven't had a chance to meet him, but he's a wonderful guy.

• 40:06Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, he seems like a wonderful guy.

• 40:07Lior Suchard?

  Thank you for your phone.

• 40:08Lewis Howes?

  Amazing, amazing. Mentalism at its finest.

• 40:11Lior Suchard?

  It's crazy, huh?

• 40:12Lewis Howes?

  So are you still thinking about this, what happened? Yeah. She's still blown away. Are certain people easier to read than others?

• 40:20Lior Suchard?

  Yes.

• 40:21Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 40:21Lior Suchard?

  Yes, yes, yes.

• 40:22Lewis Howes?

  She goes, "I'm easy to read."

• 40:23Lior Suchard?

  I don't think, I don't think it's about easy versus difficult. It's about...

• 40:27Lewis Howes?

  Understanding their personality type, or their characteristics, or their background, or...

• 40:32Lior Suchard?

  When you'll see me in a live performance, and we talked about when I'm doing the show here, you'll come, of course, it's gonna be crazy.

• 40:38Lewis Howes?

  I'm in.

• 40:39Lior Suchard?

  You'll see how I'm searching the audience, and I go like, "Mmm, yes, no, yeah."

• 40:44Lewis Howes?

  For more suggestive people?

• 40:45Lior Suchard?

  Depends on the experiment. For example, if I do this book experiment, I chose you because I think you will be good for this. It's not about good influence or bad influence. I might do something crazier and say, "No, you will not be good for this, she will be good for this, and he will be good for that." So just look at them and really quickly decide, an educated decision, who will be fit for this experiment, because we're all different. And sometimes I get it wrong, sometimes I get someone, which is, "Ugh, it's not a good fit."

• 41:14Lewis Howes?

  What happens if that word was wrong? You wrote down this thing, you predicted something, she pointed at it, and it's some other word. Then how do you readjust it, so it's not like, "Wah wah."

• 41:25Lior Suchard?

  Let me go to...

• 41:26Lewis Howes?

  The trick didn't work, or whatever.

• 41:27Lior Suchard?

  Let me become philosophical, okay? So, the word was there.

• 41:32Lewis Howes?

  Now starting.

• 41:33Lior Suchard?

  Now starting.

• 41:33Lewis Howes?

  Wrote it down before.

• 41:34Lior Suchard?

  Yeah. Maybe it was inside your head. Wait, did I predict the word? Did I know which word people would choose before? Or, did I influence you to choose? Or, did I read your mind to choose? There's lots of, lots of philosophical...

• 41:51Lewis Howes?

  Which one did you do? The mentalist will never tell.

• 41:55Lior Suchard?

  Cut. It's part of the underground. Very, very underground, yeah.

• 42:02Lewis Howes?

  What's the question you wish more people would ask you?

• 42:05Lior Suchard?

  How do you do it?

• 42:07Lewis Howes?

  A lot of people ask you that, right?

• 42:08Lior Suchard?

  How do you do it, how do you do it, how do you do it?

• 42:09Lewis Howes?

  What's the question you wish more people would ask you?

• 42:13Lewis Howes?

  About who you are, what you've experienced in your life.

• 42:17Lior Suchard?

  You know, they say that there's no stupid questions, there's only stupid answers. But I love it so much because I love when people ask me questions. It doesn't matter, actually.

• 42:28Lewis Howes?

  What's your biggest challenge in your life right now?

• 42:30Lior Suchard?

  Juggle between family and career.

• 42:33Lewis Howes?

  Because you're on the road 100 times a year.

• 42:36Lior Suchard?

  Crazy. I find myself flying to New York to do a big television or a big show. And Will Smith theoretically sees me and says, "Oh my God, I have to see you tomorrow for coffee." I can't. It's my daughter's birthday. I have to go back to Israel. And this happens all the time.

• 42:54Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 42:54Lior Suchard?

  I'm flying. I literally think that career-wise, I can't do all in. Because if you do all in, you have to choose, family or you can't do everything. So I'm trying my best to bring the family to projects if I can. We're now flying to Thailand in August for a vacation. No shows, nothing, no television, no shows. I hope there'll be lots of creative parts over there. And I'm doing those in and outs all the time. Instead of, it used to be a time when I would come to Los Angeles, stay for a week. Now I'm like three days and I'm back. I'm trying to have the meetings set back to back. I'm trying, just like now, remember I landed?

• 43:32Lewis Howes?

  Came right here.

• 43:32Lior Suchard?

  We're meeting on Sunday.

• 43:33Lewis Howes?

  Exactly.

• 43:34Lior Suchard?

  No American meets me on Sunday, except this psycho. Sunday is a rest day for Americans.

• 43:42Lewis Howes?

  Absolutely.

• 43:43Lior Suchard?

  And we're not resting, we're working. What's going on here? So I try to do it and that's it.

• 43:49Lewis Howes?

  What's the thing you think you get to overcome in your own life? Or the skill you still have to master? That would take your life to another level.

• 43:58Lior Suchard?

  It's a good and bad at the same sentence. I love to perform so much, but I also want to be serious sometimes, and I can't.

• 44:07Lewis Howes?

  Not be on constantly, "Hey, hey."

• 44:09Lior Suchard?

  Exactly.

• 44:09Lewis Howes?

  Hutsba, is that what you call it?

• 44:10Lior Suchard?

  Exactly, what?

• 44:11Lewis Howes?

  What's it called, chutzpah?

• 44:12Lior Suchard?

  Chutzpah, no, chutzpah is like the...

• 44:14Lewis Howes?

  It's okay.

• 44:15Lior Suchard?

  It's okay.

• 44:16Lewis Howes?

  Just being on as a mentalist all the time.

• 44:17Lior Suchard?

  I'm talking about if I'll do, I don't know, an educational speech about this, I'll be a little bit more... I have to write, I don't know how to write. I have A, D, D, A, D, H, D, all the D's and all the age and all the combination of them together. So, all those distorters, for me, I can't read a menu because it's lots of, lots of text for me. On the other hand, I wrote a book, so...

• 44:39Lewis Howes?

  Same with me.

• 44:40Lior Suchard?

  Yeah, so for me, I think that I want to master more about, again, it's a paradox. I'm a mentalist, I'm supposed to be very concentrated, right? But I can't concentrate. I'm a mentalist, in the show, I can ask you, what's your name again? What's your name again? And at the end of the show, I remember the entire name of the audience, all the names of people who've been on stage. So, I would want to have more like focusing when I talk about and not run away to other dimensions, like I don't know.

• 45:11Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, it's like your gift and your curse, right? Yeah, it's like...

• 45:15Lior Suchard?

  Exactly, exactly. You also have those things?

• 45:18Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, like I can focus for short spurts, but then it's like I'm all over the place. Lots of different creative ideas. But I've been thinking about having you on for seven years.

• 45:26Lior Suchard?

  Oh my god!

• 45:27Lewis Howes?

  Seven, well, interviewing you for seven years, this podcast's been five and a half years. So, I'll be focused on something, then I'll go away for it, and then I'll come back to it or I'll remember it. And keep following up.

• 45:37Lior Suchard?

  It's me, same.

• 45:38Lewis Howes?

  I'm consistent with following up, yeah. Who's a person you would really love to do something with? Or let's, dead or alive, who would you want to work on?

• 45:46Lior Suchard?

  Guess it, let's see, put it on Google.

• 45:50Lior Suchard?

  I know it sounds a little bit of a cliche, but I mentioned Albert Einstein. Except of being a brilliant scientist, he was talking a lot about imagination. He was talking a lot about how, you know, I, how people have, like you, you have the mask of masculinity or of school of greatness, this is like your words. So, my words is when people always talk about think outside the box, think outside the box, the box. So, my take on that is it's too cliche, think outside the box. Because I always said when you think outside the box, you just create another box. So, I always say think between those boxes. That's what I always say. And I always respect what he used to say about knowledge. We live in a time, I'll tell you like a personal story, in Israel, you have to go to the army.

• 46:34Lior Suchard?

  I was in the army for three years, from age eighteen to twenty-one. Then people go to college. So theoretically, you start college very late. But if you think about it, it's actually better. Because you come prepared.

• 46:46Lewis Howes?

  You're educated as a human. Your social skills are on a whole nother level.

• 46:49Lior Suchard?

  Exactly.

• 46:50Lewis Howes?

  And emotional skills.

• 46:51Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. And then after the army, I have two older brothers who are like top of the class in the technion. He's like the mathematics, physics, like super smart people. And I was like the black sheep. I'm like the clown who's doing tricks for the family all the time. And I was expected to go to school, and I went to school. But after one month, I said, something here is not going on for me. And I started to perform and created my world.

• 47:17Lewis Howes?

  Around twenty-two, around that age?

• 47:19Lior Suchard?

  Twenty-one, twenty-two. So I have two children now. I wanted to be educated. But you have to remember that we live in a time that our children probably gonna work in something that they didn't invented yet. And the time of WhatsApp and Facebook. And everything is like very social and very instant. So to have a degree and to say, I have a degree in mathematics, I don't think it's that important than it used to be back then when it was more honor, my son is this. It's more about being creative and create and being open to things. Think of ideas.

• 47:57Lewis Howes?

  Yeah. What's your biggest fear?

• 47:59Lior Suchard?

  Getting older.

• 48:00Lewis Howes?

  Really? Why is that?

• 48:02Lior Suchard?

  Since I was very young, I had two characters that I followed. One is Superman.

• 48:08Lewis Howes?

  Yeah. How long have you had that, when wearing that?

• 48:12Lior Suchard?

  When I saw you the first time, I was wearing that. Yeah, more than ten years, I think. And the other one is Peter Pan. So Peter Pan, they both have powers. Superman has this Clark Kent Superman issue. Okay, with me also, because I can go on stage. Go crazy for two hours and then I go, no, I wanna read a book. Relax.

• 48:36Lior Suchard?

  I wanna go to, I don't know, to play guitar, play guitar a little bit. I wanna do other stuff. And Peter Pan doesn't wanna get old, because he's afraid of getting older. Also Superman, I don't know if people know that, but you know the famous story of the Moses in Egypt? You know the famous, famous story? So how it started, the Egyptians wanted to kill, according to the legends, according to kill all the firstborns. So they took him and they put him in a basket, right, and they sent him on the Nile. And then Cleopatra or one of the daughters, she found him and she called him Moses. And he grew up and he became a part of, like the son of the king.

• 49:19Lior Suchard?

  And then all the story about Egypt and sons of Israel that you all know. Superman, the same story. They put him in a spaceship, they sent him to Earth. They found him, they called him Clark. He grew up and he found superpowers and Moses also found his superpowers. It's kind of like very, very similar to this. So I'm not religious, but I'm very traditional. I like, I like the Bible stories. I think that's very smart stories. I think there's above then stories over there. So Peter Pan and Superman, I don't want to grow up, I don't know, I'm kind of like afraid from this. Suddenly I have like a pain here, I go like, what's going on? It never happened. I travel too much, I have to see a chiropractor, what's going on here? What are you afraid of getting older?

• 50:04Lior Suchard?

  I don't know. I really don't know. It's kind of like, it's weird. But I think, I think that's inside. I'm seventeen all the time, so that's very important. And then I see that playing with my kids, suddenly I cannot do stuff that I used to do. I cannot jump.

• 50:20Lior Suchard?

  I play basketball, after like one round, I have to. Tired. Second, you know? Not a little, little fear from that. Why do you think you were born? Well, it's an interesting question. By the way, maybe if I was born in Jerusalem, in the hardcore religious city of Jerusalem, I would become like a famous rabbi. You know, the guys who do that. Maybe if I was born in. Another place, I would do, I would be a fortune teller. In India, I would be a guru, like a crazy guru that people come to, they ask for advices. We are bored, but you know, I was doing this since I was six years old. When I was six years old, I used to, you know, hey, hold the coin. Let me guess where the coin is. It's here, no, it's here. And I think this is the skill that you require, because I was wrong.

• 51:01Lewis Howes?

  A lot.

• 51:01Lior Suchard?

  A lot. Then you start to see, when a person is holding the coin in the right hand, you start to see that, you start to see that position. And the left hand, this is the position. And now, you're turning into an act. And now the dice, and then a number from one to a billion. And then, I'm very sensitive about how people do it.

• 51:20Lewis Howes?

  So why do you think you're here?

• 51:22Lior Suchard?

  You called me and you said, "Come to the interview."

• 51:24Lewis Howes?

  I mean, why do you think you're bored? Do you have a, do you have a reason why? Do you have a meaning for your life?

• 51:32Lior Suchard?

  Right now, the meaning for my life is to make people happy.

• 51:35Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 51:35Lior Suchard?

  Make people happy, because I really see that it's happening. I have people come to me and go more skeptical than you, go like, "I don't, I don't believe, it's all bullshit." Great, come to the show, watch it and enjoy. And the skeptical people, I call them my unpaid publicists.

• 51:52Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 51:53Lior Suchard?

  I'll tell you a little story without telling your name. A famous, famous actor, super famous. More than the one you mentioned. More, like, super, super famous.

• 52:01Lewis Howes?

  He's pretty big.

• 52:03Lior Suchard?

  More, more, more, more, more, more. And we were in a restaurant with a few friends, and I looked at him and I guessed his credit card number.

• 52:10Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 52:10Lior Suchard?

  And it was crazy, everybody was like, "Wow, wow." Everybody was like, "Hmm." And he was angry, because he was so skeptical, said, "You looked into my, uh..."

• 52:18Lewis Howes?

  Wallet or something.

• 52:20Lior Suchard?

  "There's no way you couldn't know that, you looked in..." And he was, he took it in a very negative way. So then, over the years, every time I met this actor, he was very negative to me. But then, in different, different places... I met other people and I did something in a show or in a group or something. And they say, "Oh, you're that guy that he's keep talking about all the time, right?" So you see how from negativity, this is the best PR. The skeptical are my unpaid publicists. They talk about the experience. It doesn't matter if they talk good or bad, as long as they say my name correctly.

• 52:55Lewis Howes?

  Lior Suchard.

• 52:56Lior Suchard?

  Lior Suchard, exactly. And the reason is because I think that this gray area of real, not real, tricks, not trick, I think it's good for this because it gets people engaged.

• 53:10Lewis Howes?

  Really? Any other questions that you have for me before I ask you to find me?

• 53:14Lior Suchard?

  Well, we did the test. I told you to think of someone and did you tell it to anyone from here? Did he tell you? Nothing? So I'm just gonna go and look what I'm going to do. I'm gonna show you the procedure of what I do.

• 53:24Lewis Howes?

  Okay.

• 53:25Lior Suchard?

  This person, can you say the A, B, C really quickly? Just say it out loud.

• 53:29Lewis Howes?

  A, B, C, D. A, B, C, D, E, F, G, H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O, P, Q, R, S, T, U, V, W, X, Y, Z.

• 53:36Lior Suchard?

  So now, count from one to five.

• 53:38Lewis Howes?

  One, two, three, four, five.

• 53:41Lior Suchard?

  I think he has five letters in the name?

• 53:43Lewis Howes?

  Yes.

• 53:44Lior Suchard?

  Yes, okay. So do they know this person?

• 53:47Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 53:47Lior Suchard?

  Yeah.

• 53:47Lewis Howes?

  They've never...

• 53:50Lewis Howes?

  They know.

• 53:50Lior Suchard?

  Because you were thinking and you changed your mind a couple of times. So I'm just gonna go with what I feel. I'm just gonna go with what I feel and let's see if I'm close.

• 53:59Lior Suchard?

  I don't know if I write it. If I write it, I don't know if I can spell it. I wrote something here.

• 54:10Lior Suchard?

  I don't know. It's a good friend.

• 54:13Lior Suchard?

  It's a good friend of yours?

• 54:15Lewis Howes?

  Am I supposed to say?

• 54:16Lior Suchard?

  Yes.

• 54:17Lewis Howes?

  It's somewhere close.

• 54:19Lior Suchard?

  Somewhere close?

• 54:20Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 54:21Lior Suchard?

  Okay. Let's see how... Okay, so I'm here.

• 54:29Lior Suchard?

  Let's see. You ready? Drums, please. What's the name you're thinking of?

• 54:35Lewis Howes?

  Ralph. Wow, yeah, it's pretty good. Got it. Did you get a camera there?

• 54:43Lior Suchard?

  Ralph, if you're watching us right now, we're thinking about you as well.

• 54:46Lewis Howes?

  Yes, we are.

• 54:47Lior Suchard?

  Who's Ralph?

• 54:48Lewis Howes?

  That's my dad.

• 54:49Lior Suchard?

  Oh, my god. So he's watching us?

• 54:51Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 54:52Lior Suchard?

  Uh huh.

• 54:52Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 54:53Lior Suchard?

  Got it.

• 54:54Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, that's powerful.

• 54:55Lior Suchard?

  It is.

• 54:56Lewis Howes?

  Very powerful.

• 54:56Lior Suchard?

  No, it makes you think, okay, okay, I think, yes, no, no, yes, no, yeah, and this is part of who I am.

• 55:03Lewis Howes?

  It's crazy.

• 55:03Lior Suchard?

  Mm hmm.

• 55:04Lewis Howes?

  How many times do you get people to write you letters afterwards and say you transformed their life?

• 55:11Lior Suchard?

  It happens a lot.

• 55:12Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 55:12Lior Suchard?

  I get lots of letters, it's generic letters, from lots of people in the world, going, um, what's the lottery numbers?

• 55:20Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 55:21Lior Suchard?

  Sometimes it's very emotional. I have luck, I read everything. They go like, I have a problem, I have this disease and that disease, I need money, na na na, you have to, what's the lottery? I always tell them this, this, here's what I say, I tell them, maybe it sounds weird, I said, don't smoke, that's what I said, don't smoke, don't drink a lot of alcohol, be positive and believe in yourself. That's kind of like my, my thing.

• 55:46Lewis Howes?

  Do you smoke and drink?

• 55:47Lior Suchard?

  No, no, no, I, I, it's kind of like, I, I think it's stupid.

• 55:49Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 55:50Lior Suchard?

  I think it's stupid.

• 55:51Lewis Howes?

  I've never been drunk in my life.

• 55:52Lior Suchard?

  No, me too. It's kind, like, you know, if you, I, I love to have a glass of wine at dinner, it's nice, it's a good wine, I like the atmosphere, but I think it's stupid to get drunk. I, I really think it's stupid, really.

• 56:04Lewis Howes?

  The part doesn't make you as influential?

• 56:06Lior Suchard?

  Exactly.

• 56:07Lewis Howes?

  And understanding and being intuitive?

• 56:09Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. And smoking, why do, I don't get it, I don't get it. So I always tell them, and be positive, I don't know the lottery numbers, unfortunately. Theoretically, if the lottery numbers were in a bowl and someone would pick them, I could influence them to choose my numbers.

• 56:26Lewis Howes?

  Really?

• 56:27Lior Suchard?

  But because it's a computer.

• 56:28Lewis Howes?

  Oh.

• 56:29Lior Suchard?

  There's no.

• 56:30Lewis Howes?

  You can influence someone else to pick the numbers that you want, even if they can't see the numbers?

• 56:34Lior Suchard?

  Yep.

• 56:35Lewis Howes?

  No way.

• 56:35Lior Suchard?

  If I can see the numbers, yeah.

• 56:37Lewis Howes?

  Oh, you can see the numbers?

• 56:38Lior Suchard?

  Mm hmm.

• 56:38Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 56:39Lior Suchard?

  Mm hmm.

• 56:41Lior Suchard?

  So there's a lot of stuff. I used to, I did a, there's a part in YouTube when I drove here in Los Angeles, blindfolded completely in a car. But I can do it, only with the person next to me can see the road.

• 56:51Lewis Howes?

  Oh my gosh. Holy cow.

• 56:53Lior Suchard?

  Yeah.

• 56:55Lewis Howes?

  In L.A. traffic.

• 56:55Lior Suchard?

  L.A. traffic.

• 56:56Lewis Howes?

  I gotta watch that.

• 56:57Lior Suchard?

  Yeah, watch it.

• 56:57Lewis Howes?

  Wow. I wanna ask you a few final questions. This one is called the three truths.

• 57:03Lior Suchard?

  Three truths.

• 57:04Lewis Howes?

  So imagine you're Peter Pan and you never grow old. But for whatever reason, one day you gotta call it quits.

• 57:11Lior Suchard?

  Mm-hmm.

• 57:11Lewis Howes?

  So it's your last day on earth. You can be as old as you wanna be. You can extend time as long as you want, but one day it's gotta be over.

• 57:18Lior Suchard?

  Hmm, it will.

• 57:19Lewis Howes?

  It will be. And-

• 57:21Lior Suchard?

  Or starting, depends how you look at it.

• 57:22Lewis Howes?

  Never know.

• 57:23Lior Suchard?

  Now starting, see?

• 57:24Lewis Howes?

  Now starting. But this life, your life right now, will end. Let's just say, that's what's gonna happen. And you've achieved everything you want. Everything you can imagine. Every boxes you've put together and broken out of and whatever you wanna do has happened. But for whatever reason, you have to take everything that you've created with you. So no one has access to your books, or videos, or anything else you've done.

• 57:50Lior Suchard?

  No legacy.

• 57:51Lewis Howes?

  They don't have access to it, right? They don't have access to your words, just what they remember. Uh, they give you a piece of paper and a pen on your bedside, and everyone's there. And they say, "This is all we have left. Can you write down three things you know to be true about everything you've learned in this life? This would be, this would be all that we have to remember you by, these three things." What would you say are your three truths?

• 58:14Lior Suchard?

  Hmm.

• 58:15Lewis Howes?

  This could be the lessons you wanna share with the world, the things you know to be true.

• 58:19Lior Suchard?

  It's a tough question. It's a question you need to think about. Three truths.

• 58:23Lewis Howes?

  I wonder if I can write down one, if I can imagine one of them.

• 58:26Lior Suchard?

  Yeah, let's see.

• 58:26Lewis Howes?

  Let's see.

• 58:28Lior Suchard?

  I know one of them. One of them would be love. And when I say love, I don't talk about romantic love, I talk about just-

• 58:36Lior Suchard?

  Love people. People inside are good. They get sometimes broken when you see what's happening in the world. Again, I think it's very stupid to... I think that war is stupid. I think that fighting over land is stupid. I think all of that. So love, love the environment. Love people, the environment. Yeah. What did you write? I'm waiting. Waiting, okay. Waiting till the end. So I said, I saw love would be one. Give will be two. Give, you have to... And again, when I say give, I'm not necessarily talking about giving money. It's not charity. It's more like,

• 59:15Lior Suchard?

  you know, giving. And I know, you know, you know all those people here. You know that some people are douchebags and some people are very nice. And some people are like... Again, people are people at the end of the day. And we're all gonna die. We're all gonna die. So there's a lot of stories of what's happening after. But you know the story about the poor guy? You went to a rich guy and said, "If I can prove to you that you have twenty dollars more than I do, will you give me a donation?" And the rich guy says, it was like arrogant. He said, "What? I have billions of dollars. You have nothing. You cannot prove this to me." Okay, it's a bet. And the poor guy says to him, "Okay, when we die, there's two kinds of cloth that they wrap the body.

• 1:00:00Lior Suchard?

  One is the free one that everyone gets from the hospital and one is for the rich people who cost twenty dollars. So you're gonna be worth twenty dollars more than I do." Wow. So, exactly. So at the end of the day, we're gonna be equal. We started equal, we're ending equal. So... So it's good to do good things, to give. The third one, it's a tough one. Third one, maybe it's this one. Let me see. Go ahead.

• 1:00:29Lior Suchard?

  Positive.

• 1:00:29Lewis Howes?

  Be positive.

• 1:00:31Lior Suchard?

  Yes, you know, it was the first thing I wanted to say.

• 1:00:33Lewis Howes?

  First thing I wanted to say was love.

• 1:00:35Lior Suchard?

  Really?

• 1:00:35Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 1:00:35Lior Suchard?

  Yeah, okay. But I thought to myself, why, it's not a cliché, a bit positive, no, but it's true. But when you say positive, I don't mean the cliché of being positive, of the generic word of positive. Everybody, every book here is like, positive, positive, positive, positive, positive. It's about, it's about give up. Give up to people, okay? This is going, people, let's, we're starting a fight, you know what? All good. That's being positive also.

• 1:01:01Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 1:01:02Lior Suchard?

  It's not just, you don't need to walk down the streets and smile and be Mary Poppins. I don't know, you, you just have to get to a conclusion, as you said, that we're gonna die at the end. You, me, the rich, the poor, everyone, everyone. And we have a limited time here. Maybe we have more time there, I don't know, nobody's ever proven yet. We need to do good things with the time.

• 1:01:28Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 1:01:28Lior Suchard?

  We need to, we need to enjoy it and to also.

• 1:01:31Lewis Howes?

  Do good things.

• 1:01:31Lior Suchard?

  Yeah. So if I take your question and I reverse it a little bit, because you said, no, I'll remember you. So I think the goal is to legacy. Because I was a little bit afraid that, you know, you know, your dad is Ralph. What's the name of your grandfather?

• 1:01:48Lewis Howes?

  Kimball.

• 1:01:49Lior Suchard?

  Kimball, what's the name of his dad?

• 1:01:51Lewis Howes?

  Ralph.

• 1:01:52Lior Suchard?

  Ralph, and he's dead?

• 1:01:53Lewis Howes?

  Don't know.

• 1:01:53Lior Suchard?

  Exactly. So most of us, and I just talked about 100 years right now. That's 100 years.

• 1:01:59Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 1:01:59Lior Suchard?

  It's not that a lot, it's four generations. So maybe it's a little bit arrogant for me to say, but I want that somehow, that great, great, great.

• 1:02:10Lewis Howes?

  More than 100 years.

• 1:02:11Lior Suchard?

  Exactly, I, I, oh, I had a great, great, great, he was, he used to do some, he used to do some cool things.

• 1:02:16Lewis Howes?

  Read some people's minds.

• 1:02:17Lior Suchard?

  He used to read people's minds, and this is kind of like a legacy.

• 1:02:20Lewis Howes?

  Because it'll influence, it'll influence other people.

• 1:02:23Lior Suchard?

  Yeah, exactly.

• 1:02:24Lewis Howes?

  Interesting. Where can we connect with you online? And when can people see you perform live?

• 1:02:31Lior Suchard?

  So, of course, we've got the normal Instagram, Lior Suchard, put it in the video.

• 1:02:37Lewis Howes?

  We'll add it everywhere.

• 1:02:38Lior Suchard?

  Twitter, yeah, you know, I'll tell you a little secret. I'm pretty accessible. Shh, don't say it out loud. So I answer emails. I love to talk with people. We just came for two crazy shows in Miami. We're planning to do something in Los Angeles. So stay tuned, it's gonna be a crazy thing. And we'll make it big.

• 1:02:57Lewis Howes?

  But your website has all your tour dates as well?

• 1:02:59Lior Suchard?

  Tour dates, everything.

• 1:03:00Lewis Howes?

  What's that, leorsouchard.com?

• 1:03:01Lior Suchard?

  Leorsouchard.com, just look me up. And go to YouTube, you'll see lots of fun stuff that happened there.

• 1:03:06Lewis Howes?

  Amazing videos. If you want to be blown away, we'll link it all up. We'll put it on the show notes.

• 1:03:10Lior Suchard?

  And if you don't believe, come to See It Live.

• 1:03:13Lewis Howes?

  Seeing it live is unbelievable. Seeing is believing. Who said that?

• 1:03:16Lior Suchard?

  Who said that? I don't know. It's also generic, seeing is believing.

• 1:03:19Lewis Howes?

  It's very generic.

• 1:03:20Lior Suchard?

  Who was the first one?

• 1:03:21Lewis Howes?

  So what would be the other way of making that a powerful statement? When you said, "Think out of the box." No, what did you say, merging the both the boxes?

• 1:03:29Lior Suchard?

  Thinking between the boxes.

• 1:03:30Lewis Howes?

  Thinking between the boxes. So instead of saying seeing is believing, what would be a?

• 1:03:33Lior Suchard?

  I would say, "Always think positive thoughts, because you can never know who is reading them."

• 1:03:40Lior Suchard?

  Think of that.

• 1:03:42Lewis Howes?

  Snap.

• 1:03:43Lior Suchard?

  Think of that.

• 1:03:44Lewis Howes?

  Well, I want to ask you one more question. But before I do, I want to acknowledge you. Because you've been an inspiration for me for seven years.

• 1:03:50Lior Suchard?

  Acknowledge me?

• 1:03:50Lewis Howes?

  I'm acknowledging you right now for being a powerful symbol of what's possible. Because when I watched you on stage, and then when I watched you six or seven months ago, you continued to create awe and wonder inside of me. And I think it was extremely powerful, because sometimes, like you said, we do lose that. And even though I'm on my journey and doing my best to be creative, you pushed the mental boundaries for me to see, how can I push it in my own work? With my own skills and talents, which are different than yours. But I think if I can continue to do that as well with other people, whether it be one-on-one meeting or to a mass audience, then we continue to create this childlike wonder in all of us. And I think that's beautiful, what you're doing. So I want to acknowledge you for your gifts

• 1:04:35Lewis Howes?

  and for your awareness, your ability to see people. It's really powerful.

• 1:04:39Lior Suchard?

  Thanks, Lior.

• 1:04:40Lewis Howes?

  I appreciate that. The final question is, what's your definition of greatness?

• 1:04:46Lior Suchard?

  You know, it's interesting. I think that the definition, I don't have a definition because I think that greatness is every individual with himself. No one from the outside can decide greatness or not greatness. Nobody can say that Napoleon was greatness than this guy or this guy. Maybe someone has done something small and that's greatness for him. I think it's all relative. I think nobody can say he is greatness, this is not greatness. It's only between you and yourself and you can decide yourself in your greatness. Leor, Sushar, thanks brother. Alright. Appreciate it, man. Thanks a lot.

• 1:05:25Lewis Howes?

  There you have it, my friends, Mind Blown. Go watch the full video interview over at lewishouse.com/673. Check out the show notes with everything else. Make sure to follow Leor, check out his books and all that other good stuff we've got linked up at the show notes. Take a screenshot of this, share it with your friends, let them know that they can listen to this as well and gain these powerful insights. Join the journey. If you have not subscribed yet to the School of Greatness show on Apple Podcasts, go there right now, click the subscribe button, tell your friend to subscribe. Every single week, we bring some incredible ideas, information and inspiration to help you unlock that power within yourself.

• 1:06:08Lewis Howes?

  All here on the School of Greatness show. Very excited about what we have coming up next. You're not gonna want to miss it, so make sure to stay tuned for our next episode. Alright, my friends, as always, you were born with a uniqueness within you. And Ronald Reagan said that there are no great limits to growth because there are no limits of human intelligence, imagination and wonder. I believe in you. I believe you have the power to achieve what you want in your life, what you believe is meaningful to you, what fulfills your heart and your soul. All you gotta do is go out there. Do something great.