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0:00 Speaker 00 The following podcast is a Dear Media production. The following podcast is a Dear Media production.
0:19 Speaker 01 Hey, can you come pick me up? Yeah, what's wrong? Nothing. Are you sure? Yeah, no, I just need a ride. Oh, my God. So what? I just wanna have fun. Start your engine. Tiger.
0:30 Benito Skinner? I'm Benito Skinner.
0:31 Mary Beth Barone? I'm Mary Beth Brown.
0:33 Benito Skinner? And this?
0:33 Mary Beth Barone? Is?
0:34 Benito Skinner? Ride.
0:38 Benito Skinner? Okay, ready?
0:39 Mary Beth Barone? Mm-hmm. You're gonna do another Zara Larsson intro?
0:42 Benito Skinner? No, no, no, no, no, no. Something new. What would you like me to do?
0:46 Mary Beth Barone? Whatever your heart is saying.
0:48 Benito Skinner? In a French-ass restaurant. Hurry up with my damn croissants, right, Paul?
0:53 Mary Beth Barone? So, we've had so many crazy moments this season.
0:56 Benito Skinner? Wait, Paul, can you, can you shout hurry up with my damn croissants? Okay, so I'll say, "In a French-ass restaurant," and I just want Paul to go, "Hurry up with my damn croissants." "In a French-ass restaurant."
1:06 Mary Beth Barone? Hurry up with my damn croissants.
1:08 Benito Skinner? I love Paul!
1:09 Mary Beth Barone? Paul's so playful.
1:10 Benito Skinner? Paul, you, yeah, you are. You're a good sport.
1:13 Mary Beth Barone? Okay, so we asked our Baronies.
1:15 Benito Skinner? Yes.
1:16 Mary Beth Barone? For some questions.
1:17 Benito Skinner? I know, I, I don't know why, it was just like car chat time. It's like, I want them in the back, we're driving them to suuuuucker practice.
1:24 Mary Beth Barone? I, I thought you were gonna say Subway or Sabaro.
1:27 Benito Skinner? You know that was all of those. I said all of them.
1:30 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah. Okay, so some questions, burning questions from, from our listeners, dude.
1:36 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
1:37 Mary Beth Barone? Dream fashion purchase?
1:39 Benito Skinner? Oh my God, what a perfect fucking question. You go first.
1:43 Mary Beth Barone? G-Wagon.
1:48 Benito Skinner? Bentley.
1:50 Mary Beth Barone? Are you a Bentley guy?
1:51 Benito Skinner? I'm not a car guy, I don't care about them. Dream fashion, right?
1:54 Mary Beth Barone? Well, yeah, I just like, dream purchase, I guess.
1:56 Benito Skinner? G-Wagon, G-Wagon came to your...
1:58 Mary Beth Barone? G-Wagon is clothes in a lot of ways.
2:00 Benito Skinner? Yeah, it's, well, it's clothes, of course, it's, um, it's moving clothes.
2:03 Mary Beth Barone? It's moving clothes.
2:04 Benito Skinner? My dream fashion purchase?
2:07 Mary Beth Barone? For Christmas, I bought myself the Louis Vuitton Marikami multi-color white speedy bag from The RealReal. That was one I had on my list for a while.
2:15 Benito Skinner? That's what we like to call a grail.
2:16 Mary Beth Barone? It's a grail.
2:17 Benito Skinner? And so I have a few grails, but you got me one. It was the Jean-Paul Gaultier shirt that Robin Williams wore. Not the actual one he wore, but the, you know, the version
2:28 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
2:28 Benito Skinner? of the body shirt. So I have that. God, you know what? I feel like as far as clothes I kind of want for nothing, I do have a closet that I really love.
2:36 Mary Beth Barone? I guess Chanel flats at some point.
2:38 Benito Skinner? For me, yeah.
2:38 Mary Beth Barone? For you.
2:39 Benito Skinner? Yeah, I agree.
2:39 Mary Beth Barone? Size 14.
2:40 Benito Skinner? I love the Dior Dracula bag. Like, I would love to tote that on the set and just be like, "Morning." Oh, and I really loved this old Prada shirt that it was like, it had Cleopatra on it. And it was like, it was called the impossible true love shirt. And it was such a like, I don't know, it just, when it came out, I was like, I've, I've never wanted something more in my life. And I can't ever really find it like new and fresh, but I think maybe after season two, I'll, I'll find her.
3:07 Mary Beth Barone? There's a vintage Cavalli dress that Beyonce wore. I think it might be the actual one that she wore, but I'm not sure. That's in my obsessions on The RealReal that maybe I'll splurge on this year just to wear to something.
3:17 Benito Skinner? Yeah, it's, it's good to have those, those things in the back that you're like, you know what? Maybe, oh, God. No, there is this Dior jacket that's on the road. It was like from the Jack Kerouac collection and it like, I wore it to this event and the back of it was like painted with like a full, oh my God, it was so.
3:32 Mary Beth Barone? Why don't you keep it?
3:32 Benito Skinner? Amazing. I had to give it back. It was a really expensive jacket. But yeah, I guess just like all I would say was a lot, but also none.
3:40 Mary Beth Barone? Were you guys born this funny or did something happen that altered your brain chemistry? That's definitely something that I address in my show, my hour, so.
3:49 Benito Skinner? You have to, yeah.
3:50 Mary Beth Barone? Come and see it.
3:51 Benito Skinner? I love that. You should do that for kind of all of these.
3:53 Mary Beth Barone? For all these questions.
3:54 Benito Skinner? I do address this in my hour, of course.
3:56 Mary Beth Barone? I do address this famously in my hour.
3:58 Benito Skinner? I don't know if I ever felt funny. I always felt very performative and.
4:02 Mary Beth Barone? Fake, I would say.
4:03 Benito Skinner? A fake ass bitch.
4:04 Mary Beth Barone? You, not me.
4:05 Benito Skinner? Yeah, well, of course. I mean, you're so real, Paul.
4:11 Mary Beth Barone? Oh, there's some really good questions.
4:13 Benito Skinner? I think that I, yeah, I, I think I, I did feel the need to overcompensate for feeling maybe unloved and unlovable in school, but mostly I think from school because I just needed to like have a, a something. I needed protection. Like I needed to be quick on my feet.
4:29 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
4:30 Benito Skinner? Maybe that. Nothing from family or anything. I guess I'm like the youngest. So the youngest just is kind of naturally like performative and kind of likes to be the loudest.
4:37 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah, I read a book on birth order and it definitely went into that.
4:41 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
4:41 Mary Beth Barone? I don't remember what it was called though.
4:42 Benito Skinner? But I don't know if that made me that funny. I guess my siblings would be like, that wasn't funny. So it was like, I, you know, I was testing things.
4:48 Mary Beth Barone? Oh, I mean, siblings, they are your harshest critics. If you think you're your harshest critic,
4:54 Benito Skinner? Tell that to an older brother.
4:56 Mary Beth Barone? You don't know what your siblings are saying when you're not in the room. Or when you are in the room.
4:59 Benito Skinner? Yeah, or when I'm in the room with them.
5:01 Mary Beth Barone? But I.
5:01 Benito Skinner? With your siblings.
5:02 Mary Beth Barone? With mine. I talked about this a little in Puerto Rico, but I think judging your siblings' decisions is such a special privilege because your friends' decisions you will judge, but you might be more similar to your friends than you would be to your siblings and the choices that you make. And I think just like looking at your siblings and being like, oh, I would never do that.
5:19 Benito Skinner? Yeah, that's so fun. Yeah.
5:21 Mary Beth Barone? I would never do that.
5:22 Benito Skinner? And it's like, we were raised by the same people. Funny. That's crazy.
5:24 Mary Beth Barone? Nature versus nurture in a lot of ways.
5:25 Benito Skinner? Yeah, of course.
5:26 Mary Beth Barone? We are not siblings. It's just gonna say that again.
5:29 Benito Skinner? I think it's finally time we say that on camera. We are not siblings.
5:33 Mary Beth Barone? How are you liking your new prescription?
5:35 Benito Skinner? Me?
5:36 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
5:37 Benito Skinner? It's good so far. I don't know if it's doing that much. I don't know. We'll see.
5:41 Mary Beth Barone? Okay.
5:42 Benito Skinner? We'll see. I mean, I just, I need to see it through. I just started.
5:44 Mary Beth Barone? You have to see it through.
5:45 Benito Skinner? The last thing I'm gonna do is say that it's incredible when I just, I, I wanna make sure that if I'm really advertising this, that it's a, that Doxy's a full court fucking sleigh. And I don't know about that yet. But I, I do have such an itchy nose lately. Like it's just like dry up there. These allergies this winter.
6:02 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
6:03 Benito Skinner? There's more for me to figure out as far as pills are concerned.
6:05 Mary Beth Barone? It's gotta be that winter air. It's gotta be that winter air probably in the nose.
6:09 Benito Skinner? What's the winter air?
6:10 Mary Beth Barone? Someone asked, do you know how Pinky identifies gender and religion and political leanings? So Pinky.
6:16 Benito Skinner? Kabbalah.
6:16 Mary Beth Barone? Pinky is a Kabbalist and, or a Kabbaloo. And she.
6:22 Benito Skinner? She/her.
6:22 Mary Beth Barone? She/her. And she's a lesbian. And I know that because she will not go near a ballistics. Ballistics, if you don't know what that is, you can Google it.
6:31 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
6:32 Mary Beth Barone? And understand why that mean, means she does not, she's not, she actually doesn't like male dogs very much.
6:37 Benito Skinner? She loves gay men.
6:39 Mary Beth Barone? She loves gay men.
6:40 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
6:40 Mary Beth Barone? She has a special relationship with my brother's dog, but I think it's like, it's a situation ship. It's not romantic. It's a romantic.
6:45 Benito Skinner? She's kind of a theater girl.
6:47 Mary Beth Barone? She is a theater girl. Yeah, and she's lesbian.
6:50 Benito Skinner? See that for her, yeah.
6:52 Mary Beth Barone? Best practices for 25 year old mindset in 2026. My thing is like, back when I was 25, I think I was more shameless when it came to like, calling people out over texts and like saying things and not caring if I got a response. I think we need to like go back to that because I think it's just funny to send someone a text and be like, I know you're not going to respond to this like internally, it's your internal dialogue, but you just like say everything that needs to be said.
7:16 Benito Skinner? Yeah, I think that's fun.
7:18 Mary Beth Barone? How about we just are fearless this year?
7:20 Benito Skinner? Yeah, let's go into it like guns blazing, ready to just light it up. Titties out, Duddy style.
7:27 Mary Beth Barone? Duddy's.
7:27 Benito Skinner? And that's on that.
7:28 Mary Beth Barone? WWDD, what would Duddy do?
7:30 Benito Skinner? What would Duddy do? Yeah, that's so interesting. That that sounds good to me.
7:34 Mary Beth Barone? Ooh, I just got a crazy question.
7:36 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
7:37 Mary Beth Barone? Favorite burner on a stove? For me, it's front left. It has to be.
7:42 Benito Skinner? A hundred percent front left.
7:43 Mary Beth Barone? But in Puerto Rico, I did back right.
7:45 Benito Skinner? You did do back right, which feels so far away.
7:48 Mary Beth Barone? Well, it had the most heat and I was making 27 scrambled eggs.
7:51 Benito Skinner? Oh, I loved that. Oh my God, there was this funny photo where it's Mary Beth and there's like 20 egg yolks in a pan. And we were just laughing if she served that to us.
8:00 Mary Beth Barone? Just raw eggs in a bowl.
8:01 Benito Skinner? Gaston's breakfast.
8:02 Mary Beth Barone? It's a Gaston protein breakfast for my big, strong boys.
8:06 Benito Skinner? This is how the boys eat, right?
8:08 Mary Beth Barone? Do you have advi- do you have advice? Do you have advice for the 25 year old mindset? I feel like I cut you off.
8:14 Benito Skinner? The 25 year old mindset? I think keep hope. Hope is dying, but think about those, whoever that Obey artist was that made that thing of Obama that said, hope. I think about that poster a lot and I want it back. I want hope back. I think that you can still have it. It's hard.
8:29 Benito Skinner? Harder to, uh, let me just say it's harder to have hope. I know you can find it because that feels very 25.
8:35 Mary Beth Barone? We need to vote in the midterms.
8:37 Benito Skinner? We gotta.
8:37 Mary Beth Barone? We're gonna be off the air for a bit this year because obviously we're taking a break between seasons, which is our God given, right?
8:42 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
8:43 Mary Beth Barone? So I will be posting about it on my Instagram, but I can't track every good candidate. So it's like, if we want, basically we need to like elect a lot more Democrats so we can impeach Trump. So please just be so locked the fuck in. We just like, I know it sucks and we know way more about the political system than we ever wanted to. But if we have any hope at like saving our country and like so many of the people in it.
9:04 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
9:05 Mary Beth Barone? Especially the vulnerable people.
9:06 Benito Skinner? My president, Mary Beth Barone.
9:09 Mary Beth Barone? And I salute, and I, if these walls could talk, death Romeo.
9:12 Benito Skinner? Of these walls? Oh, you, you, you walking into Congress? If these walls could talk?
9:19 Mary Beth Barone? They'd say?
9:20 Benito Skinner? Paul?
9:21 Mary Beth Barone? He's doing it.
9:23 Benito Skinner? I love you, Paul.
9:23 Mary Beth Barone? Did either of you ever, oh, sorry, death Romeo is first.
9:27 Benito Skinner? Death Romeo?
9:27 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
9:28 Benito Skinner? I really love Shake Shack randomly.
9:31 Mary Beth Barone? I'd have pizza because I haven't eaten real pizza in a while and like it wouldn't matter if I got.
9:35 Benito Skinner? Yeah, because they'd electrocute you.
9:37 Mary Beth Barone? They'd be, or injection.
9:38 Benito Skinner? I know, I just wanted to say it's the chair. They're giving her the chair. They brought back the chair for you.
9:42 Mary Beth Barone? They had retired the chair. They brought, they brought it back.
9:45 Benito Skinner? For my girl.
9:45 Mary Beth Barone? Because of all that I've done.
9:46 Benito Skinner? Give me that archival chair. Sorry, fuck. Okay, here's my.
9:50 Mary Beth Barone? Article.
9:54 Benito Skinner? That's the article's last piece.
9:56 Mary Beth Barone? We don't believe in corporal punishment.
9:58 Benito Skinner? Obviously not. Oh, my God. And I, that goes, can I, can finally just something go without saying it's that we don't believe in corporal punishment?
10:05 Mary Beth Barone? My answer, no.
10:06 Benito Skinner? Yeah, I guess Shake Shack just came to mind, so I'm gonna stick with that.
10:09 Mary Beth Barone? Did either of you collect anything as a kid?
10:12 Benito Skinner? Yeah, I collected Harry Potter Legos, which is funny, given the turf Hogwarts of it all. Yeah. Young me apologizes. He would have never done that.
10:20 Mary Beth Barone? Young Menino Skinner issue statement.
10:23 Benito Skinner? Oh my god, Mary Beth did this thing where I was like, this one person like said this thing about me and then they changed their tune. And you said like, Benny drama silences critics at blank appearance. And I laughed about it for days.
10:37 Mary Beth Barone? It's all about headlines, baby. I collected, I mean, I like, I would just, it was trend based, like Beanie Babies. I did have a Pokemon era, I guess, not really.
10:48 Benito Skinner? I guess.
10:48 Mary Beth Barone? Barbies, things like that. I collected Mary Kate and Ashley VHS movies, so.
10:52 Benito Skinner? Yeah, I mean, we are who we are. Amen. And also McDonald's toys.
10:57 Mary Beth Barone? Oh, yeah.
10:57 Benito Skinner? If I had one, I had to have all of them.
10:58 Mary Beth Barone? I'm trying to think if I missed anything, but I'm sure my family will call me in.
11:02 Benito Skinner? Yeah, of course.
11:03 Mary Beth Barone? What's your fave pod studio you've recorded in?
11:07 Benito Skinner? I really love this one.
11:08 Mary Beth Barone? Melrose feels like home.
11:09 Benito Skinner? And I love the Great British Library. There's something there, there's a magic in those walls. We have good episodes there. I feel it. Cause there's just something, it's like you, it's so easy to pull comedy from it, I guess, cause it's just so like.
11:22 Mary Beth Barone? Wait, you're talking about Gotham Bank?
11:24 Benito Skinner? No, no, no, the Great British Library.
11:25 Mary Beth Barone? Oh, oh, yeah, yeah, sorry. I zoned out. Oh, diva behavior, Benito Skinner walks off set of podcasts. I have a really good one next. Favorite time of day. Sorry if this is boring, but I'm being genuine. This is such a hard question. Holy shit, I don't know.
11:43 Benito Skinner? I think I do have mine.
11:44 Mary Beth Barone? I don't know. I love going to get coffee in the morning.
11:46 Benito Skinner? I know.
11:47 Mary Beth Barone? But I also love going to bed.
11:49 Benito Skinner? Oh, fuck. See, I love 11 and I love like 8:30. I just got killed.
11:54 Mary Beth Barone? Wait, 11 is so cool, cause it's like, it's not midnight yet. Like you can still watch an hour of Frankenstein.
11:58 Benito Skinner? Oh, I was saying 11 a.m.
12:00 Mary Beth Barone? Whoa.
12:00 Benito Skinner? I love 11 a.m. I've done the workout. Now I'm on my laptop. A coffee's hitting. I'm a little manic. I might shop online for 10 seconds, maybe 30 minutes. And then I write college smut.
12:13 Mary Beth Barone? College smut.
12:13 Benito Skinner? Text you and probably FaceTime you around that time.
12:15 Mary Beth Barone? Speaking of smut, Noah, it just says Noah Centineo, show me how you video.
12:19 Benito Skinner? You wanna show me how you? I feel bad that someone's like private sexy stuff. If mine leaked, oh my god.
12:28 Mary Beth Barone? If these, if these.
12:29 Benito Skinner? I go like this.
12:30 Mary Beth Barone? If these nudes could leak.
12:34 Mary Beth Barone? Do you think Pinky can sense paranormal?
12:41 Benito Skinner? You're so dumb. Do you think Pinky can sense paranormal activity?
12:46 Mary Beth Barone? No, I don't think she can. I know.
12:48 Benito Skinner? I know she can. It's like Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City. When you watch her eyes, she's seen ghosts.
12:53 Mary Beth Barone? She's seen ghosts.
12:54 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
12:54 Mary Beth Barone? If you had to be one age for the rest of your life, this is the last question. What age would you be? I think probably around where I am now, because I haven't hit the aging cliff. Where you become old so fast, which happens in a few years from now. So I'm told through journalism. AKA an Instagram post.
13:10 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
13:11 Mary Beth Barone? I like this age. I'm like self actualized, but I still like to have fun every now and then too.
13:16 Benito Skinner? I like thirty two. It's really nice to say that I think this age. I feel pretty good in this age.
13:20 Mary Beth Barone? Maybe in Ask Us in a few years, maybe we'll say that age.
13:23 Benito Skinner? I think so too. I mean, aging is such a privilege. Me talking to people.
13:26 Mary Beth Barone? Aging is a privilege.
13:28 Benito Skinner? When they say they got botox.
13:29 Mary Beth Barone? They got a new face.
13:30 Benito Skinner? Age is a privilege.
13:31 Mary Beth Barone? I don't think youth is wasted on the young. I think it's like perfect.
13:34 Benito Skinner? No, you're.
13:35 Mary Beth Barone? Youth happens at the right time.
13:36 Benito Skinner? Completely agree.
13:37 Mary Beth Barone? I'm dispelling shit. Also, did you know that time does not help with grief? I feel worse. I feel so much worse. The further I get from it, the worse I feel.
13:45 Benito Skinner? I've heard that because it's like then you start to forget and then you feel guilty and terrible about the forgetting. You don't have as much to like remember.
13:51 Mary Beth Barone? And the absence, like it just grows. Like you feel it more and more because it's not like, oh, they've just been away for a minute or something. It's like, no, they're gone forever. There are a lot of these things we've been told, like repeated, I guess, to like, help us feel better about moving through the world. But my big statements thus far in 2026. Youth is not wasted on the young. Youth is perfect. And time does not help with grief.
14:13 Benito Skinner? I will say the only one that I've known to be fully true. Is this too shall pass. Paul said that to me on our first date.
14:19 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah, Paul said that on your first date. Should we get into what you write for?
14:23 Benito Skinner? I think we should. I'm writing for making the decision to not start a business. Sorry, I have a lifesaver and it's delicious.
14:28 Mary Beth Barone? Wait, what is it? Making the decision to not, is that what you said?
14:31 Benito Skinner? Making the decision to not start a business, right?
14:35 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah, and I'm gonna do having the last word.
14:37 Benito Skinner? These women always police in men's words. What do you want us to say? Are we still allowed to speak?
14:43 Mary Beth Barone? How about sorry?
14:46 Mary Beth Barone? Let's get into Venmo really quick.
14:48 Benito Skinner? Whoa, so I have been a Venmo warrior for probably 12 years? I don't even know. I've had Venmo forever. Sounds like a walk and talk. You know when the money in your Venmo account just kind of lurks? Like it's watching the movie, but not actively participating in the fun commentary the rest of us are all engaged in?
15:05 Mary Beth Barone? It's like, come on, Venmo balance. We gotta do something here and fast.
15:09 Benito Skinner? Yes, exactly. That's why you've got to get the Venmo debit card. I know you saw my ad. Oh, yeah.
15:15 Mary Beth Barone? The Venmo debit card basically invites your balance into the real world. You can use your Venmo balance when someone pays you, which is incredible for someone like me. You know, someone who doesn't want to have to remember to transfer funds or wait three days after, quote, "transfer initiation has begun." I don't know, I guess I'm just kind of different like that.
15:31 Benito Skinner? Also, as a fun little extra, you can get up to 5% cash back when you level up with Venmo Stash at your favorite brands. It's giving financially savvy meets treat yourself.
15:42 Mary Beth Barone? And the best part, there is no monthly fee or minimum balance. Who wants the headache?
15:47 Benito Skinner? Not this shopaholic. Wait, Venmo, how'd you know? Let your Venmo money stop just hanging out in your account. Use it instantly with the Venmo debit card. Live, laugh, love, spend, whatever.
15:59 Mary Beth Barone? Whatever. Get the Venmo debit card today.
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18:01 Benito Skinner? I get to- Señorita!
18:08 Benito Skinner? That's how I start this Super Bowl. Señorita!
18:14 Benito Skinner? Senorita.
18:19 Benito Skinner? Hey, Texas. Senorita.
18:23 Benito Skinner? What do you think?
18:24 Mary Beth Barone? I loved it.
18:25 Benito Skinner? Okay, so, Senorita, this is this THC non-alcoholic beverage company that has got my friend and me by the balls. It is so delicious. It is so fun. And it's just so cool. But yeah, here's the thing. Here's the thing about them. It's vibrant, lush, and endlessly easygoing. This is the grapefruit paloma, which is my personal favorite.
18:49 Mary Beth Barone? Non-alcoholic, low-calorie chill buzz.
18:51 Benito Skinner? Organic agave real juice, fast onset.
18:55 Mary Beth Barone? I went to-
18:56 Benito Skinner? Fast onset.
18:56 Mary Beth Barone? Fast onset. I went to Worcester, Massachusetts to visit my cousins. And I walked in the house, this was about two weeks ago, and before I even got my shoes off, they go, "Well, where's the Senorita?" And I said, "Well, hello to you too."
19:12 Benito Skinner? Hey, ask, take me on a date first, why don't you?
19:15 Mary Beth Barone? But I didn't bring it because we needed, we needed them for the ads today, and I knew if I brought it, then they'd be gone.
19:21 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
19:21 Mary Beth Barone? You know what I-
19:22 Benito Skinner? Sorry, there's something like, if you're bringing Senoritas, you're not leaving with them. Let's just say that, honey. And that's something I've always said. Senoritas are delicious. It's really fun if you don't want to drink alcohol, which I feel like-
19:34 Mary Beth Barone? Sometimes you don't, you're not in the mood.
19:35 Benito Skinner? Also, it's dry January for a lot of people, so it can be dry, but you're also having THC beverages. That feels chill to me.
19:40 Mary Beth Barone? Totally.
19:41 Benito Skinner? And I think there's something about this.
19:44 Mary Beth Barone? This little can.
19:45 Benito Skinner? There's something about-
19:45 Mary Beth Barone? This one little can can change the world.
19:47 Benito Skinner? Little can. Yeah, I just like, literally, every time I have them, I get kind of giggly, as I am now, and they're just kind of delicious, and I love the flavors. They satisfy my, maybe, desire for the taste of an alcoholic beverage, but I don't always want, I don't always want one.
20:03 Mary Beth Barone? Well, you know, that, that thing where it's like, what's more powerful than the sword? It's an idea. What's more powerful than an idea? Senorita.
20:11 Benito Skinner? Senorita. That's so not where I thought you were going with that. I love your brain. I love your brain on Senorita.
20:18 Mary Beth Barone? It just did a little-
20:19 Benito Skinner? I know, well, first, it does a little doo.
20:21 Mary Beth Barone? A little doo. So for- For, ooh, it's hitting. For a better buzz without the booze, check out senoritadrinks.com. Find Senorita and any of their four delicious flavors at Drink Senorita. Why am I saying that? It's senoritadrinks.com. Have I been saying drinksenorita.com?
20:38 Benito Skinner? No, but it's, they're gonna find it. That's my thing.
20:42 Mary Beth Barone? But have I been saying that?
20:43 Benito Skinner? No, I don't think so. You're gonna find drinkseñorita.com.
20:46 Mary Beth Barone? It's señoritadrinks.com.
20:47 Benito Skinner? It's señoritadrinks.com.
20:48 Mary Beth Barone? Uh, your cabana awaits. Visit señoritadrinks.com to get these delicious THC mugs shipped right to your door. Must be 21 plus. Please enjoy responsibly.
20:56 Benito Skinner? Summer isn't over yet.
20:58 Mary Beth Barone? My cousin's calling. She just asked if I could pick up some margarita from Señorita Margarita.
21:02 Benito Skinner? Bite yourself, bitch, at señoritadrinks.com.
21:05 Mary Beth Barone? Must be 21 plus. And then it goes without saying, please enjoy responsibly. Wait, where are we going?
21:12 Benito Skinner? Who cares? Ride! There comes a time in every white man's life where he must look in the mirror at himself and think, "I have this idea, but I'm not going to get a patent on it."
21:26 Benito Skinner? I really think more white men should think about it and just say, "Maybe it's not for me." I recently had the idea of like, "I loved these pants and I couldn't find them anywhere." And I was like, "Should I make them?" And then I looked in the mirror and I thought, "Fuck no. There are so many pants on earth. I don't need to contribute more pants."
21:48 Mary Beth Barone? You know what I'm gonna ask you to talk about?
21:50 Benito Skinner? What? I literally can't. I literally can't. I, oh my god, uh, fuck. That's the problem with this podcast. We have to go out in the world and like, people know. Yeah, I wish I could tell my kids everything. If you catch us in an airport,
22:09 Mary Beth Barone? Oh, the things I've revealed on stage at stand-up.
22:12 Benito Skinner? It's incredible.
22:12 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
22:13 Benito Skinner? A flight attendant on Delta recently was like, asked me a bunch of questions. I just went off.
22:17 Mary Beth Barone? I'll tell you anything.
22:17 Benito Skinner? I said, "Tip to taint, start from the top. What do you want? What do you want to know?"
22:21 Mary Beth Barone? Person to person, which is also the series finale, the name of the series finale of Mad Men, Person to Person. Person to person, all reveal all.
22:28 Benito Skinner? Yeah, I was like giving like, full script secrets from overcompensating season two to people. I'm like, "Well, if it leaks, I don't know where to find you."
22:35 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah, and she'll be in the skies.
22:37 Benito Skinner? Well, of course, spreading the good news. But I just think maybe there are too many businesses that exist. And I'm not talking about local artisans, mom and pop shops. I love all of those. I'm talking more just like specifically this type of like, tech bro-y, like-
22:57 Benito Skinner? Startup-y kinda thing that just like we didn't need, you know what I mean?
23:02 Mary Beth Barone? I overheard someone say that was like, well, I don't think we should put the stock price in the deck. What do you think? I think we should just like, we should, and I was just like, I'm hearing this on the phone. It's like, I'm on my way. Where was I even going this morning? I literally don't remember where I went this morning.
23:13 Benito Skinner? Where are we?
23:14 Mary Beth Barone? I went to get a haircut and I was just hearing him talking and I was like, I hope your business is like helping reduce carbon emissions or something. But it's probably not.
23:22 Benito Skinner? No, it's not.
23:23 Mary Beth Barone? You know my whole thing.
23:24 Benito Skinner? I'm sure it's making more.
23:25 Mary Beth Barone? I know we have way too many businesses, cause as I've stated before, on the subway, they advertise B to B, business to business. Like they're advertising like HR platforms on the subway. It's like, there should not be enough people that would need that on the subway. You should not feel like that's useful marketing. That should be in like a newsletter for like virgins.
23:44 Benito Skinner? But there are for virgins, exactly. Here's the thing, I just think like, I ride for this because it is a choice and we all have to realize that. And I'm not saying like everybody's business is bad, like I, a lot of them, I'm like, hell yeah, that's.
23:59 Mary Beth Barone? Some are totally necessary.
24:00 Benito Skinner? Some are totally necessary and some are totally fabulous. I just think, think about if it really is needed.
24:07 Mary Beth Barone? If we need it, or if your expertise could be used on something that we already have that could improve.
24:11 Benito Skinner? Like Benny Drama's pleated pant. I don't know if we need that business, but maybe some of you, I mean, I'm looking at Paul right now and he's kinda like, shit, I'd preorder.
24:20 Mary Beth Barone? Well, we're not, we're not saying either that we would never do a collab in the future, but I think starting a business, my thing when I get into thinking about it, even with merch, which I'm launching tour merch and I'm like, I just don't want to be creating waste and I think like.
24:32 Benito Skinner? You're so Cruella when merch samples come in. You're like, hack it in the middle. Cut off the sleeve, the neck's too wide, Anita.
24:41 Mary Beth Barone? Anita's a dog.
24:44 Benito Skinner? Those puppies. That bullshit nanny, she gave those puppies away.
24:49 Mary Beth Barone? House manager.
24:49 Benito Skinner? Quick. Wait.
24:52 Mary Beth Barone? She was the house manager. But I just think as your footprint grows, you know, as an entity, I think you will be probably approached to like launch a skincare, launch makeup, or launch this stuff. I'm like, I would love to stay. I want to stay. That's what I'm in, and I like it.
25:07 Benito Skinner? I would amplify also people. It's like, I'm, I'm a writer, actor, comedian, I'll see hyphenate. Like, that's what I do. Like, that's me. Like, that's what I do. That's my lane. So if it was something skincare, I would do like a collab with someone. I would never start my own. I'm, I don't have, I'm like, no, no, no, leave it to the professionals. It's like makeup brands. I'm like, leave it to the makeup artists.
25:25 Mary Beth Barone? Well, so much of that stuff is like white label, and so they're just, it's the same stuff you could buy from other brands. It just has their name on it.
25:31 Benito Skinner? It's bullshit.
25:32 Mary Beth Barone? Well, I wanted to find this quote about, and I've already talked about, Miley Cyrus talking about why she didn't start a business, and she's just like, it's just, I'm not passionate about these things. Like, I just find it hard to believe that everyone that's launched a makeup brand, it's because they're like super passionate about like filling a space in the market that's not currently being served. Because what you're doing is like, maybe you're creating jobs, but like you're also creating so much waste.
25:54 Benito Skinner? I know. And it's like, yeah, I think that's my one, that's one tricky part of this caveat. It's like, obviously, I want, I want jobs. I want, you know, I want people to be able to afford their lives and, and their wants and needs. But yeah, it's just, I guess it's specifically straight white men coming up with some bullshit. I don't need your, I don't need your bullshit.
26:13 Mary Beth Barone? Hey, we have enough of it. We've got enough of it.
26:16 Benito Skinner? The world was literally built and made for you. I know you can find a job elsewhere.
26:18 Mary Beth Barone? Please, or live off your parents' money.
26:21 Benito Skinner? But I guess if it does consume their days so that they don't hit you, I'm like, maybe I want them to work on the deck. It's just hard. I guess you're finding me. I'm, I'm trying to find the investment here.
26:31 Mary Beth Barone? Life's a give and take.
26:32 Benito Skinner? But I just, I ride that, I can look in the mirror and know that like, it's just not for me. I'm not starting a business.
26:38 Mary Beth Barone? You are not going to be putting together financial assessments of anything.
26:42 Benito Skinner? Nah.
26:43 Mary Beth Barone? Or approving them.
26:44 Benito Skinner? No, it's not looking good. No.
26:46 Mary Beth Barone? I think it's big of you. It's hubris.
26:48 Benito Skinner? You think so?
26:48 Mary Beth Barone? I think it's hubris.
26:49 Benito Skinner? It's crazy to have a last name Skinner and not do anything in the skincare industry.
26:53 Mary Beth Barone? But I think like, you found what you want to do and you're doing it.
26:56 Benito Skinner? Yeah. Production companies don't count. I already asked.
26:58 Mary Beth Barone? No, of course, of course. Production companies, that's like different. I mean, we're being creative and like, we're telling, we're storytellers.
27:04 Benito Skinner? Yeah, exactly. And that's my job. I'm like, I, ah, it's like. Leave it to the pros, my good sis, and let them shine. That too.
27:12 Mary Beth Barone? I find it odd too, when I'm thinking like, some of these people that are starting companies, I'm like, but do you use the product?
27:17 Benito Skinner? Well, I'm just like, if you're truly passionate about it, you can feel that. But like, some people, I'm just like, oh, you just came, like, you just thought of a product and then found like a random manufacturer. And now it's like, yeah, there was this one dancer who dances for the Moulin Rouge, whom I'm obsessed with on TikTok. And she has this company that's like, it's essentially like a some kind of like cool down or like warm up garment. It's kind of like big overalls that you would like wear. And so I'm like, that is like specific. There's something about that that feels, oh no, when they come from women, I love it.
27:47 Mary Beth Barone? You know what is a need, I think that I have heard is not being filled is underwear for trans people.
27:53 Benito Skinner? Oh, yeah.
27:53 Mary Beth Barone? Like specific to trans people's needs. And so I would say if there's someone that is really passionate about that, that wants to actually solve a problem that we have currently.
28:02 Benito Skinner? Yeah, in the market, a gap in the market. Yeah.
28:03 Mary Beth Barone? Let her rip, absolutely.
28:05 Benito Skinner? Yeah, that's, hey, please.
28:07 Mary Beth Barone? Hey, the need is there. The market's there. Let's make it happen.
28:10 Benito Skinner? Another fucking bullshit company where it's like a, a guy, the white t-shirt needed a little refresh.
28:21 Benito Skinner? No, it fucking did it.
28:22 Mary Beth Barone? Hey, you found your sparkle. You found your sparkle again.
28:26 Benito Skinner? Really?
28:27 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah, I just saw it.
28:28 Benito Skinner? That's so crazy. I just got chills.
28:31 Mary Beth Barone? I just watched it.
28:32 Benito Skinner? But you know what I mean? The white t-shirt never really sat well with me. I'm like, oh, yeah? It didn't? It's that, it's like tank top brands. It's like, God, it's fucking crazy. And like, oh my God, a company that I'm like, hell yeah, is the one saving face. And there's practitioner. She started it because she couldn't find this thing in the market. That's so beautiful. Women, I want more women companies. I don't need any more.
28:58 Mary Beth Barone? More women and more LGBTQ owned properties.
29:01 Benito Skinner? 1,000%. I would love that. I want us to own everything.
29:05 Mary Beth Barone? Rich texted us because his friend has a apartment in Toronto. I'm gonna quote myself here.
29:10 Benito Skinner? Okay, here's the thing. This thing happens sometimes where someone, I'm in a thread with Mary Beth, and I'm just, I am waiting. I'm just sitting there looking at the bubbles, waiting for my girl to drop a. Like, I know she's, I'm like, I know she's percolating. She just got to her laptop.
29:27 Mary Beth Barone? I was getting my hair done. I had to pee and then I was ready to tap it.
29:31 Benito Skinner? This is a perfect response. Go. You have to say it. It's so fucking good.
29:37 Mary Beth Barone? All the actors know where we're living in Toronto. We already know. At least I do. So he sends this link, which is a beautiful apartment. And he was like, yeah, I just thought I'd offer it to all you guys, just to help my friend out. I said, yes, spread the word. I also own many properties in major cities. It's a hassle.
29:54 Benito Skinner? It's like a whole, it's a whole reggae morale. Sucks.
29:57 Mary Beth Barone? I'm sorry. Like, it's such a pain. And that's what they don't tell you about owning property.
30:01 Benito Skinner? It's something about straight guys. They just have stuff like that. Where they're like, I have this apartment in Toronto. I gotta rent out. It's like, you have what?
30:08 Mary Beth Barone? Wait, why?
30:09 Benito Skinner? Wait, why'd you get that? Why do you have that?
30:11 Mary Beth Barone? Why?
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30:38 Mary Beth Barone? It's so totally fabulous. Do you know what I love about? Ow, Pinky.
30:45 Benito Skinner? Pinky just bit your scalp.
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32:44 Mary Beth Barone? It's crazy.
32:45 Benito Skinner? And Sebastian Stan. I think we already said it in an ad, but we saw him and it's thick.
32:51 Mary Beth Barone? The hair was so thick.
32:52 Benito Skinner? I went up to him, I said, "Your hair is so thick."
32:55 Mary Beth Barone? You grabbed his hair and you put your fingers through it.
32:57 Benito Skinner? And I said, "You look at my girl again the wrong way, baby. It ain't gonna end so well."
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33:31 Benito Skinner? Enough. This is my prayer.
33:34 Mary Beth Barone? This is my prayer. And I'll die believing this is free as my hell.
33:39 Benito Skinner? Hell, hell, hell. Nature fall.
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34:14 Mary Beth Barone? Speaking of shutting down group chats.
34:16 Benito Skinner? Mm hmm.
34:17 Mary Beth Barone? Sort of gets into what I ride for.
34:18 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
34:19 Mary Beth Barone? So I ride for having the last word. I was doing a lot of reflecting and introspection.
34:25 Benito Skinner? You have it, babe.
34:26 Mary Beth Barone? I think I do as well. I think if I do another comedy special, God willing, knock on wood, I would call it the last. Or I guess maybe my last special would be called The Last Word. So maybe the next one, who knows?
34:35 Benito Skinner? How would you know?
34:36 Mary Beth Barone? I'm not sure.
34:36 Benito Skinner? Such a good point.
34:37 Mary Beth Barone? Such a good point. So I was trying to figure out why I like to bring up people's comments on the podcast and, and, and speak to them and respond to them. And I think it's because I really like having the last word. And it just feels like if I bring it up on here and we could speak directly to it, to like the most number of people, then that's me like saying, well, that's the period at the end of that interaction.
35:01 Benito Skinner? Yeah, of course.
35:02 Mary Beth Barone? My aunt, my Aunt Vicky, she used to live in upstate Connecticut and sometimes she would have to do business in Stanford, which is where I grew up. And so I had a room with two beds, obviously, because I'm a little, I was a princess, but not in the way that like everyone thinks.
35:18 Benito Skinner? You know what? Princess doesn't always have to be bad.
35:20 Mary Beth Barone? No, it doesn't.
35:20 Benito Skinner? It's a prince a pisa.
35:21 Mary Beth Barone? I had a princess bed and then I had a queen sized bed.
35:23 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
35:24 Mary Beth Barone? And so my, when my Aunt Vicky would come to do business in Stanford, she, wait, interesting, princess and queen. I just thought of that.
35:31 Benito Skinner? You understand that?
35:31 Mary Beth Barone? I just, that's really cool.
35:32 Benito Skinner? Something very like, yeah.
35:34 Mary Beth Barone? So when she would come and stay at our house, she would stay in my room in the bigger bed. And we would talk at night, you know, a little pillow talk. It was so fun. And she taught me what the last word was because sometimes you're having a sleepover with someone and you're like, okay, I'm, I actually like kind of legally need to go to bed now. You just say last word.
35:49 Benito Skinner? Oh, see, immediately in my body, I go. Midnight.
35:53 Mary Beth Barone? No, you can't. You have to respect the sanctity of last word.
35:58 Benito Skinner? Yeah, I guess.
35:58 Mary Beth Barone? So I think, and you know, that concept is so powerful to me. It's just like having a last word. That's the end of conversation, end of story. And I do think that maybe contributes to loving this. Maybe contributes to that mentality of like, I like being a stand up. I like saying what I want to say and how I feel and these things that I feel I really need to say. And the response is like, it's laughing. It's not like you can't argue.
36:24 Benito Skinner? This is so fabulous. Sometimes I feel like I've gone maybe, I'm, I, I think I'm more on the last word than I used to be. I used to not really say anything, but now I'm kind of like, no.
36:35 Mary Beth Barone? I've watched you actually.
36:36 Benito Skinner? Really?
36:36 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah. I just see the way you move in business lately. And I just think it's like, well, we're going to do it this way. This is what I want to do.
36:43 Benito Skinner? Less apologetic, I think. I think it's something of, you know, again, this, I, I've been trying to adapt this, uh, straight male mentality where they're just kind of like, no, this is it. And I'm like, I don't think you'd question this room as much if we were straight dudes.
36:58 Mary Beth Barone? I said no to two things this year already.
37:00 Benito Skinner? That's amazing.
37:01 Mary Beth Barone? Like someone tried to move a meeting and the, when they wanted to move it to, I just, I couldn't do it. And instead of bending over backwards and like doing gymnastics to try to make it work. I was just like, I actually have to keep the original time. I'm so sorry.
37:11 Benito Skinner? And I'm finding that like, people don't really, they're like, oh, yeah, okay. Like, I don't know, there's something about it where I just like, I always think, and I think this is common with like queer people and women. I hope, at least I think is like, just feeling like we're always in trouble. Like we'll always be in trouble or that someone will like replace us or get rid of us in like a day.
37:28 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
37:29 Benito Skinner? Which they might, but at the same time, it's like, no.
37:32 Mary Beth Barone? So I think we can employ this more. And obviously I love the back and forth in a group chat. I just, that one was funny because it was like, it was like really lit up for a few minutes. And then I was just like, yeah, I'm going to say this and good luck responding.
37:45 Benito Skinner? No, I'm sorry. I just like, I think I hearted it. I was just like, you know, I'm like, that's kind of it on that. But like, it was great catching up with all you. I'll see you really soon. Something about it too, that I think feisty.
37:57 Mary Beth Barone? I think it's Gemini mentality.
37:59 Benito Skinner? It's Gemini mentality. It's a little Scorpio mentality too, though. It's a little bit like, but I think it doesn't always have to be bad. It's just kind of like, maybe you didn't think I would respond, but I'm gonna.
38:09 Mary Beth Barone? No, I don't. I think it might have a negative connotation, but I don't see it as a negative at all.
38:13 Benito Skinner? I also feel it as there's a spirit to it, but it's not like if someone then responded, you wouldn't. It's like, almost, it's like your own last word.
38:21 Mary Beth Barone? And oh, if there was a response, honey, I could go all day.
38:25 Benito Skinner? Okay, so not that. It is like you will get the last word.
38:29 Mary Beth Barone? And, and can I say something? When I don't get the last word, think about why that might be. Let that hang in the air.
38:36 Benito Skinner? I agree.
38:37 Mary Beth Barone? If, because my other thing is that I'm extremely empathetic in group chats, as I've talked about before on the podcast. I don't like to leave people hanging, so I like to respond and make people feel seen and heard and all that stuff. So if I'm actually not saying anything, what does that tell you?
38:50 Benito Skinner? My thing that I really want to say, every now and then I get like what I want to write as a caption. That's my little treat to myself in writing the show. I'm like, oh my God, I have a caption. I'm gonna say, I finished writing overcompensating. If I didn't text you back the last few months, take it personally.
39:03 Mary Beth Barone? Absolutely.
39:04 Benito Skinner? Please make sure.
39:04 Mary Beth Barone? You have time.
39:06 Benito Skinner? I had so much time. Please make me feel as bad about it as humanly possible and like try to cut me out of your life because of it.
39:13 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
39:13 Benito Skinner? You are the victim in this.
39:15 Mary Beth Barone? You are a victim. You are valid and have a nice life, I guess.
39:20 Benito Skinner? I'm like, you don't even want my last word. I'm too tired. But yeah, I think this is fabulous. I think it's sexy too.
39:25 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
39:26 Benito Skinner? There's something very sexy. I don't know if I do it as much as you, but you're an inspiration to all us gay guys.
39:34 Mary Beth Barone? Have the last words. See how it feels.
39:36 Benito Skinner? Yeah. I think there's a few things coming up that I'll have the last word on.
39:39 Mary Beth Barone? I think so too.
39:41 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
39:41 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah. I think it's really cool with what we do as we've talked about. I know I feel like I keep saying we've talked about it before. I do forget most of the things we say on the podcast. So when I remember we've repeated ourselves, I'm like, oh, I hope they're not bored. But in what we do for work, which is like storytelling, we can take things that have actually happened to us and fictionalize them in any way that we want to. And in many ways, unless they made sort of a response project, a project in reaction to. That's the last word on that.
40:08 Benito Skinner? A hundred. I was kind of saying like, overcompensating is, season two does have a lot of my last words on, on plenty of things. And I'm kind of like, that's the statement. That's what I was saying.
40:18 Mary Beth Barone? Thank you.
40:19 Benito Skinner? It's a movie. But maybe it's not.
40:21 Mary Beth Barone? Maybe it's not.
40:22 Benito Skinner? No, you know what I love and I actually want on record? Because I really want to get on the record.
40:26 Mary Beth Barone? Well, we're not on the record enough.
40:28 Benito Skinner? I agree. Get me on there.
40:31 Benito Skinner? How do I get on there?
40:31 Mary Beth Barone? Two hundred hours on the record.
40:33 Benito Skinner? Yeah, no, it's like, it's too mu- in fact, we have to stop recording. I will say, season two is like so kind of like not my life in a way, which I'm, it has been so fun to write. Like, I think season one had, as far as my coming out, it has like a lot of parallels of me coming out. But everything else in it is so, it's like-
40:51 Mary Beth Barone? It's fantastical.
40:52 Benito Skinner? It's fantastical. It's magical realism.
40:54 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
40:54 Benito Skinner? Yeah, which is really fun. I don't know. That's, because I've been asked that a couple of times and I'm like, no, it's, it really isn't sticking to-
41:00 Mary Beth Barone? But you know what I say? Let them talk.
41:02 Benito Skinner? Of course. I love hearing this. And, uh, my girl have last word.
41:08 Mary Beth Barone? You know what you are, Benny?
41:09 Benito Skinner? Hmm, a [BLEEP]?
41:11 Mary Beth Barone? Your words, not mine. Babe, you're my ride or die.
41:14 Benito Skinner? Ride or die.
41:16 Mary Beth Barone? I ride for making the decision to not start a business. It's a decision that we are actively making every single day.
41:23 Benito Skinner? So is Paul. Paul, do you have a business?
41:25 Mary Beth Barone? What is it? Oh, that's not the-
41:27 Benito Skinner? That doesn't count. I'm talking about selling products.
41:30 Mary Beth Barone? If you have a skill, that's not, that doesn't count.
41:32 Benito Skinner? Yeah.
41:32 Mary Beth Barone? If you, if you're a skilled worker-
41:34 Benito Skinner? That's completely different.
41:35 Mary Beth Barone? As well, so-
41:36 Benito Skinner? Completely different. I'm talking like you are selling me belts.
41:40 Mary Beth Barone? You're selling me belts, but the cowhide was like from-
41:44 Benito Skinner? Don't sell me on it.
41:45 Mary Beth Barone? Okay, okay, stop, stop.
41:46 Benito Skinner? This might be the launch.
41:49 Benito Skinner? Belts by Drama. I couldn't find a good belt.
41:53 Mary Beth Barone? You have always said that.
41:54 Benito Skinner? I can't find, how do I keep my pants up? Can't find a good belt.
41:59 Mary Beth Barone? You can't, you have to buy bigger pants because of that dunk?
42:01 Benito Skinner? I know, I have to tie this, I know. It's like crazy to have this waist.
42:05 Mary Beth Barone? There's some baseball player that's like, they call him the dumper or something.
42:08 Benito Skinner? He's got a wagon like me?
42:09 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah, but I can't remember his name. Some funny mouse.
42:11 Benito Skinner? Seth's calling it a wagon.
42:12 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah, me too.
42:13 Benito Skinner? Yeah. I said it to my brother-in-law. I said to my brother-in-law, because my brother-in-law's kind of got a wagon on him too. And I kept saying it over Christmas and we, we had a lot of fun laughing about it. It was really a good, Merry Christmas, by the way.
42:26 Mary Beth Barone? That just made me think of this for some reason, which is that we are trying to see how bad we can look on the podcast. We've reached new depths this season. I think season four, we do full glam every episode.
42:36 Benito Skinner? I'm not kidding. Glam team, glam team, I'm pulling for everything.
42:40 Mary Beth Barone? But we need to do two at a time if we do that.
42:43 Benito Skinner? Done.
42:43 Mary Beth Barone? That's the deal.
42:44 Benito Skinner? I think it should be like our glamour post season.
42:46 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
42:46 Benito Skinner? This is like, it's very stripped. Although today, for some reason, because of the tan, I think like I, I don't know.
42:53 Mary Beth Barone? Can I say something?
42:54 Benito Skinner? Paul, do I look handsome, maybe? Yeah.
42:57 Mary Beth Barone? The way, okay, the way this tank top sits and then I'm wearing a shirt over it, it makes me look more flat-chested than ever.
43:03 Benito Skinner? You're flat-chested.
43:04 Mary Beth Barone? It's like kind of crazy. It's actually just doing so much to like, it's like, almost like a binder, you know? It's like binding what's not even there. It's pretty fabulous. And that's the statement I'm making today.
43:14 Benito Skinner? Look how tan I am.
43:15 Mary Beth Barone? Whoa, whoa.
43:17 Benito Skinner? Sorry. Oh, sorry. I don't feel comfortable doing that.
43:21 Mary Beth Barone? Do you ride for having the last word?
43:22 Benito Skinner? I ride for having the last word. I don't get it often, but when I do, I love it. Mi amore. And I will say, I love watching you get the last word because I don't think women get it enough.
43:31 Mary Beth Barone? And I get a witness.
43:33 Benito Skinner? Why don't you be my witness?
43:35 Mary Beth Barone? Looking for a witness in all this. And I know the person that gave me this shirt in Toronto did not think it was going to be featured in not one but two episodes of the podcast.
43:44 Benito Skinner? I know. I was thinking, I don't think I've worn this shirt before, but I might have done the camo one recently. There's just, yeah, speaking of how just butt ugly we look, and I would say about three episodes, it's the one that came out recently in my head.
43:59 Mary Beth Barone? I actually took a clip down that I had posted.
44:01 Benito Skinner? Yeah, I don't, can you make sure to not post them anywhere near where I'll see them? Because I just don't need to see that.
44:06 Mary Beth Barone? Yeah.
44:07 Benito Skinner? I go into hibernation mode in the writers' room, but I'm starting to claw out and be an actor again.
44:12 Mary Beth Barone? Also, we can't do glam every time we record. We are just, we're human, we're human.
44:16 Benito Skinner? I know, my skin doesn't love makeup either.
44:17 Mary Beth Barone? We can't do glam every time we record until season four.
44:21 Benito Skinner? Until season four, which we cannot wait for.
44:23 Mary Beth Barone? One more episode.
44:24 Benito Skinner? We love you so much. I know it's going to be tough, but there's so many, there's so much content of us out there. Watch overcompensating again. Start from the top.
44:31 Mary Beth Barone? Watch the fan cams.
44:32 Benito Skinner? We, we've layered. We know how Ride ends from the first episode, so just very much like J.K. Rowling turf. But if you start it, you'll know.
44:41 Mary Beth Barone? Also, can I just say?
44:42 Benito Skinner? You'll find so many new things.
44:44 Mary Beth Barone? Baroni HQ is doing such an amazing job at keeping our girls.
44:50 Benito Skinner? Engaged, engorged, and in love.
44:52 Mary Beth Barone? And in love. And I would say if you want some really quality content on TikTok, at overcompensatingFR, they do.
44:59 Mary Beth Barone? Ride the pot out of context. They're posting fan cams from overcompensating. They're posting about the merch. I love the work they're doing over there. So thank you so much to all the people out there who are helping enhance this community. We love you so goddamn much.
45:13 Benito Skinner? Let's say it into camera. We love you so much. We love you. One, two, three.
45:18 Mary Beth Barone? We love you so goddamn much. And when we're off, like when we have the hiatus from the show, just like let us know how we can support you. Cause we're going to be doing other stuff. We still have time for the fans.
45:27 Benito Skinner? We have a special to tape. I'll just be there. I'm producing, but I'll just be there. And we have such a fun season of television to shoot. I cannot wait for you to see it. I love the script so much. Daddy's working real hard.
45:41 Benito Skinner? Oh, my exit.
45:42 Mary Beth Barone? Benny, babe, eyes on the road. Benny, go!
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