Pod Insights Personally Creation Myth, Episode 2: Pregnant About this episode Helena does not want kids. Her husband does. For years they’ve battled it out. Then, while he is on his way back from a surfing trip, she finds out she’s pregnant. What will she tell him? What should she do? She calls her dear friend Joshua for help: he’s wise, he’s a parent, he knows her well. But she doesn’t have a lot of time. Her husband will be home in an hour.
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1:04 Speaker 02 I was alone when I found out I was pregnant.
1:12 Speaker 02 David was on the plane back to Brooklyn. He'd gone surfing in California.
1:20 Speaker 02 That was our compromise. If he could spend time in his favorite place, we could live in my favorite place, New York.
1:31 Speaker 02 He was due to arrive at JFK any moment. Only an hour and a half before, I'd rolled the test strip in toilet paper and pushed it deep inside the garbage can.
1:45 Speaker 02 As soon as David got in the cab, he called me. "I've been in an accident," he said. "Nothing to worry about, but I wanted you to know before you saw me." "What happened?" I asked. He'd been surfing a wave. Suddenly, the water had grabbed his board out from under him, and he fell hard on the pointed part of his board. "Right on my back," he said. "It's not broken or anything, but I can't walk very well."
2:23 Speaker 02 I didn't tell him about my situation. I wasn't even sure what to say yet.
2:32 Speaker 02 I'm Helena de Chrodt. From CBC's Personally, this is Creation Myth.
2:44 Speaker 02 I tried to imagine the two of us as parents. It's Sunday morning. David and I are lying in bed. The baby is lying between us, laughing at the sight of their toes. But what about Monday? Would David go to the office, leaving me alone with the childcare? Or would I go to an office? Would David stay home, warming up bottles, changing diapers, washing his clothes when the baby burped on his shoulder? I couldn't quite imagine it, David taking on the housework. He'd never bothered to learn how to cook, and when he vacuumed, he didn't even move the furniture. But I'd seen his instinct to nurture.
3:27 Speaker 02 In California, he would often find broken-off bits of succulents on the side of the road and stuff them in his pockets to plant in dirt later. Our first winter in New York, he bought a special lamp for them so that even on the gloomiest of days, they would have light and warmth. That's who he was, a nurturer. But was I? One thing I knew for sure: I did not want to give David false hope. So I needed to sort through my feelings before he got home. I had about an hour.
4:07 Speaker 02 When eating a snack and then another didn't help, I decided to call my close friend Joshua. Hello. Hello. Who lived across the country, in LA. So is this morning for you, or is this the end of your night?
4:23 Speaker 03 Yeah, it is a reasonable question. It is.
4:26 Speaker 02 I'd met Joshua at a time when I was still pretty miserable. Dave and I had not moved to New York yet. I had not found my way back to producing podcasts. What I was doing instead was make buckets of pickled onions and chop squash and serve customers and clean the restaurant top to bottom for 50 cents above minimum wage.
4:50 Speaker 02 It was there while working the counter that I met Joshua. He came in to eat every single day. And instead of telling me the full story of his dietary restrictions or the amazing retreat in Peru he'd just come back from, Joshua mentioned that he'd been practicing the accordion. He was a musician, and I'd grown up in a family of musicians. Music felt like home.
5:18 Speaker 02 Soon, we were playing the piano for each other, going for hikes early in the morning. When David and I finally moved to New York, my friendship with Joshua happened almost entirely over the phone. Do you remember when I told you I was pregnant?
5:36 Speaker 03 Yes. Yeah, I remember where I was. And yeah, I remember.
5:40 Speaker 02 Where were you?
5:40 Speaker 03 I was pacing in my bedroom, as usual, on the phone. Except for right now, because I'm in front of a microphone.
5:50 Speaker 03 I wouldn't dare pace. The quality of the tape is at stake.
5:56 Speaker 03 No, I was pacing, and I was in my room doing laundry on the bed. And that's where I was when you told me.
6:07 Speaker 02 Joshua was one of those friends who was always trying to talk me into having kids. It didn't annoy me, though, not really, because Joshua had a light touch. He didn't moralize or thunder on about how I would certainly regret it. He just talked about the good stuff, probably because becoming a dad had been good for him.
6:30 Speaker 03 It was really a magical and transformative experience for me.
6:38 Speaker 02 His path to becoming a dad had definitely not been straightforward. At 15, he decided to drop out of school and join his brother's band as their accordionist. And together, they drove around the country, living in a beat-up bus, and played whatever would make them money on the street: country, jazz, klezmer, Balkan.
7:01 Speaker 03 I definitely wasn't planning on having kids. And I thought probably I wouldn't have any in my life.
7:10 Speaker 02 Then, when he was 22, he got someone pregnant. But how was he gonna raise a child? His income as a street musician, without a high school diploma, didn't exactly scream stability. He didn't even have a fixed place to live.
7:25 Speaker 03 And so I did go through a sort of self-reflection.
7:34 Speaker 03 Hey, Mortimer.
7:35 Speaker 04 Hey, Dad.
7:37 Speaker 03 What's up?
7:39 Speaker 04 Frankie, is there anybody that can bring me to volleyball?
7:42 Speaker 03 I don't think you can get to volleyball today, because I have to go to work. Is there any way I could ask to be alone in here for like the next little while?
7:54 Speaker 04 I'll just sit in there.
7:55 Speaker 03 Just because I'm doing a podcast interview. I mean, I'm actually on the phone at the moment.
8:01 Speaker 04 Excuse me.
8:01 Speaker 03 Good morning.
8:02 Speaker 04 Good morning.
8:03 Speaker 03 I love you.
8:05 Speaker 03 Will you take Frankie with you, too? Bye, Frankie.
8:07 Speaker 04 Frankie, come on.
8:11 Speaker 03 You can leave it open.
8:16 Speaker 03 Perfect timing.
8:17 Speaker 02 Perfect. Oh, couldn't have planned it better. That's so sweet.
8:23 Speaker 02 I feel a little guilty, though, about sending your dear son out of the house because of my podcast.
8:28 Speaker 03 No, it's fine. So, okay, so, yeah, I mean, I did, speaking of which, I did think about, you know, killing his fetus at the time.
8:40 Speaker 02 Do you have to say it like that?
8:42 Speaker 03 I did think, I mean, I did. I considered it, you know? But I sort of realized, like, well, I'm not doing anything so important that I need to, you know, like, not try this. Because it's like, what's so amazing about my life right now that I can't sacrifice things for this, you know?
9:07 Speaker 02 It made me think about my own life. What was I doing that was so important? Besides, I had made a decision a long time ago that if I ever got pregnant, I would not abort. I wasn't sure why. I donated to Planned Parenthood. I even had a favorite reproductive rights journalist. But for myself, I wasn't sure.
9:32 Speaker 02 I didn't want to go against fate. But I didn't believe in fate. I believed in love. Love was the best thing about being alive, and I had room for more. Plus, I was healthy. David was a good man. I didn't want to be a mother. But once the life was there, how could I snuff it out?
9:55 Speaker 02 And maybe I would come to love being a parent.
9:59 Speaker 02 What was the moment that you realized, oh, this is magic?
10:05 Speaker 03 You know, he's born.
10:08 Speaker 03 And there's this tiny little baby. And he's still kind of an alien creature looking, covered in blood and placenta and all kinds of stuff. And then, you know, we put him on his mom's chest. And they have a moment, you know, or a long, long time together. And then at some point, it's my turn. And I put him inside my T-shirt. And I stick his little head like up through the neck. And so he's, he's holding my chest. And then his little head is kind of like crooked in my neck. Like, I just felt completely overwhelmed with,
10:52 Speaker 03 I mean, love is not, it's like the potential for self-sacrifice. You know, like this immediate thought, like, I will take a bullet for this kid, no problem.
11:05 Speaker 03 So to answer your question, it was quite magical from, you know, within half an hour of birth. Also, a lot of my existential dread about life and what's my purpose in life? What am I doing? And how do I spend my time? And why do I waste time? And a lot of that stuff flew out the window, you know? I quickly, I was like, oh, I'm doing this. I'm doing this. I'm raising a kid. And everything I do, even if I'm watching a movie, if I'm watching with him,
11:48 Speaker 03 everything becomes meaningful and infused with purpose.
12:03 Speaker 02 Whenever someone talked about purpose, I felt a shame well up inside me. I didn't even know for sure what having a purpose felt like. The existential dread Joshua talked about, that I knew. I remember it even as a first grader on the playground, looking up at the sky. It was so wide, so deep. You couldn't even tell if it went on for meters or light years. But instead of feeling awe or wonder, all I remembered feeling was small. Every single one of us was small, like ants you could squash without thinking.
12:46 Speaker 02 That's what our lives were like, no more important than bugs. That was me in the first grade. These days, I was mostly relieved I could live a small life. I'd cook breakfast, make my podcasts, repot a plant. And I could be happy, of course. I liked the feeling of flow when I was editing. And when I interviewed someone, I could feel a kind of love, not just for this one person, but for the whole of humanity, that filled me with light.
13:23 Speaker 02 But however much I enjoyed what I did for a living, it was just work. And as I kept reading on the internet, work doesn't love you back. A child did. And how? Because friends with kids would tell me. I come home after a day at the office, rigid with stress, and then I see that little face and it all just melts away. That's the purpose I longed for. A purpose so loud and clear, it tuned out everything else. Was that even possible without becoming a parent?
14:07 Speaker 00 The youth mental health crisis is growing, and social media is a major driver. Kids are spending up to nine hours a day on screens, often unsupervised. And studies show a direct link to anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts. That's where Gab comes in. Gab offers safer phones and watches for kids with no social media, tailored to every age, offering the right tech at the right time, or tech in steps. From GPS-tracking-enabled watches for younger kids to phones with parent-enabled apps for teens, each device allows kids to more safely grow their independence. Visit gab.com/getgab and use code GETGAB for an exclusive offer.
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15:31 Speaker 02 Was there anything in particular about me that made you think, oh, but you should be a mom?
15:41 Speaker 03 I knew that your husband really wanted kids.
15:46 Speaker 03 And I knew that for me, in my experience, he was right.
15:54 Speaker 03 You know, that probably you would come around and just go with it because he clearly is reliable. He's a, he's a good person and he's going to be a great dad. And if you can just get over this kind of like fear,
16:13 Speaker 03 you'll have fun and you'll, it'll be transformative. You know, like I wanted a little bit to push you off the cliff, you know, with the bungee tied to you.
16:26 Speaker 02 You really had a hold on me, you know, like you were my friend. You had no real stake in this.
16:32 Speaker 03 Right.
16:32 Speaker 02 You had my best interests at heart. And especially, you know, what made it really influential, you know, the things he said is that like, there was just a way in which you convinced me that there is no greater love than the love that you feel for your child. That in a way you'll never understand love truly, fully until you become a parent.
17:00 Speaker 03 I mean, okay, I'll just qualify it slightly.
17:05 Speaker 02 Okay.
17:05 Speaker 03 It's not exactly that you can't understand love if you don't have a kid. I don't want to say that.
17:11 Speaker 03 But it is a very different and very powerful kind of love that you will not get to know. You know? And I try to live by the idea that what sort of like whatever's the more adventurous option, you should just take it.
17:35 Speaker 02 When I think about having kids, to me, that doesn't feel adventurous. To me, it feels like it's something you have to do because society agrees you have to do it. And it's just like having a lawn that you mow on Saturday or whatever, you know? Like, it just feels to me like one of those things. So the way that you put it now, of course, I can see that. Like, of course, I can see that this whole set of new experiences that are unimaginable when you're not a parent. Of course, they are adventurous.
18:00 Speaker 03 Oh, yeah. So that in that sense, it felt like go for the new thing.
18:08 Speaker 03 You know, go for the expanding.
18:11 Speaker 02 Yeah.
18:12 Speaker 03 And I just know, I know that you're resilient and brilliant enough to like, find why it's amazing.
18:24 Speaker 03 You know, that it's not like you're, you're a closed off person or that you're so, you know? It's like, like of all my friends, like you're gonna be a great mom. Like, you're gonna totally get it.
18:38 Speaker 02 You know, you're doing it again. I feel like you're, you're sort of moving the needle inside me. God damn it, Joshua.
18:48 Speaker 02 Joshua had a knack for bringing out the part of me that dared to dream. He couldn't remember this, but on the phone that day, when I told him I was pregnant, he even got me thinking about names. We were doing like rhythms and stuff and, you know, since David's last name has like two symbols. You were like, it needs to be three syllables. So something like Eleanor, right?
19:11 Speaker 03 Yes, yeah, yeah, because I like that. And I named my kid for. I like the sound of that.
19:22 Speaker 03 But you were actually pregnant and excited.
19:27 Speaker 02 I was kind of excited. I mean, there was, you know, I was just feeling so different in my body. Like, this is really so retro and I feel a little bit bad for saying it. But all of a sudden, I felt like such a woman. I always wear pants, you know, like that's just my preferred mode, you know? But all of a sudden, I just was like, I need dresses. I need skirts, like I need something to sort of whirl around me as I walk, you know?
19:57 Speaker 03 Yeah.
19:59 Speaker 02 And I remember also feeling so peaceful and sort of uncharacteristically optimistic, I would say. Like, I don't, I'm not exactly an optimist, you know? And so just this feeling of calm and of like, yeah, everything will be okay. I really felt that in my body.
20:24 Speaker 02 I just felt like I was flowing in a new way, you know? Like, the air around me somehow was holding me up.
20:33 Speaker 03 Wow.
20:33 Speaker 02 And things were just not that complicated.
20:37 Speaker 03 It's beautiful.
20:42 Speaker 02 This is the person David came home to when he got back from Costa Rica. When I heard his key in the lock, I rushed over to help my dear injured husband with his suitcase. He came in looking tanned, tired, and grimacing as he shuffled in. He couldn't really sit or get back up, so we stood there, unsure of our movements, but excited, like two people flirting at the company party. After a little bit, we did move to the kitchen table. And I supported him while he inched closer and closer down until we sat on chairs. And his face turned serious. While he was in the cab on the way from the airport,
21:28 Speaker 02 he'd gotten a phone call from his mom.
21:32 Speaker 02 His sister had died that night.
21:36 Speaker 02 She'd been ill for over a decade with cancer that had radiated out from her bones and into her brain. She had been suffering so much. So we knew that this was coming, but it was still a shock when it did.
21:53 Speaker 02 This was hardly the moment to tell David that I was pregnant. At the same time, I couldn't shake the feeling that there was something almost cosmically, painfully beautiful about what had happened, one life ending as another was starting. So I told him.
22:12 Speaker 03 Right.
22:13 Speaker 02 I just, he was beaming. So like, on the day that his sister had died, he just, all of a sudden, was like radiating joy. His eyes lit up and he was just, he had his hand in front of his mouth to like hide his big smile, you know? That's how much he was.
22:31 Speaker 03 Glowing.
22:31 Speaker 02 Immediately transformed, you know? Yeah.
22:34 Speaker 03 Wow, wow.
22:35 Speaker 02 I mean, he was saying all the right things, you know? He was like, "Your body, your choice," and all that, like, modern man stuff. But that made me think, wow, like, how can I deny this man a joy so deep, you know?
22:50 Speaker 03 Yeah.
22:53 Speaker 02 That night, we talked about how tightly intertwined everything in the universe seemed. And I fell asleep feeling life clearly had a wisdom that was bigger than me.
23:08 Speaker 02 The next day, we took a plane to California to see David's family and help with the funeral. The first week was beautiful. We ate and talked and mourned together. And David and I were careful not to show that underneath the sadness, we felt joy.
23:28 Speaker 02 But the second week, that thick layer of contentment and bliss I had felt started thinning. In this California suburb where you couldn't bike or walk anywhere, I was reminded of my years living here, feeling trapped and angry.
23:46 Speaker 02 And what didn't help was being around David's mother, a person whose vengeful political views were all the more puzzling because she'd never wanted for anything. She was a wealthy, white woman in America and spent her days looking at the palm trees and birds of paradise the gardeners maintained for her.
24:08 Speaker 02 And it just made me realize, like, oh, if we have this child, we would at least have to share time in California. And...
24:20 Speaker 02 And this person that I don't love would be the grandmother, and she would want to influence this kid and like, ugh, you know?
24:27 Speaker 04 Right.
24:27 Speaker 02 And I just felt like trapped.
24:31 Speaker 02 This feeling of being trapped started in my body,
24:36 Speaker 02 as if my body was no longer mine, me, a person, but a mere sack of fluids there to feed this raisin-sized being. And this raisin would only grow into a peach, a pineapple, and then a seven-pound baby. And this baby would tear up my body coming out and then tear up my life, forming a new center of gravity that pulled everything else with it, driven by the force of this new being's constant need, need, need. I was sitting on the floor of my mother-in-law's wall-to-wall plush cream carpet, the kind of carpet that dampens every sound. And I could imagine screaming, my screams immediately being absorbed, disappeared. How had I always been so sure
25:22 Speaker 02 that if I were to become pregnant, I would not abort? What was that certainty even based on? An inflated sense of my own morality? A pretend spirituality, a desire to be profound? Would I really force myself to become a mom? Not out of love, but out of principle?
25:49 Speaker 02 Suddenly, as clear as you hear my voice now, I could hear my own voice.
25:57 Speaker 02 I did not, had never wanted to be, a mom.
26:03 Speaker 02 I went to the website of the Planned Parenthood in New York and booked the first available appointment two weeks later.
26:10 Speaker 02 Then I told David.
26:13 Speaker 02 I don't want to pretend to know what he felt in that moment. All he did was hold me. Then he booked my plane ticket for me and drove me to the airport. He would be such a good dad.
26:30 Speaker 02 Back home in Brooklyn, I dropped off my bags and went for a walk in the neighborhood. The weather was gorgeous.
26:41 Speaker 02 I passed the little playground in the street next to ours.
26:46 Speaker 02 Little kids with colorful outfits were running around, coming down slides two or three at a time, climbing on hanging bridges one foot above the ground. The parents sat on benches, talking to each other, dozing in the sun. I thought about this neighborhood, the main branch of the public library, the Brooklyn Museum, the Botanical Garden, all within walking distance from our apartment. I thought about the subway and those savvy little New York kids swimming through the crowds, ducking underneath the turnstiles, onto the correct platform, comfortable like fish. My heart blossomed. I knew how to raise a kid in the city.
27:31 Speaker 02 I was raised in a city. I still didn't want to be a mother, not really. But if David wanted it so bad, I might be able to make it work. And this place, where I felt most like myself, would give me the strength to do it.
27:59 Speaker 02 I called David and I told him, "Let's do it, but we need to live in Brooklyn." His first question was, "And how many months out of the year would we spend in California?" I was thinking of school vacations. I also wanted to have time to go visit my own family in Belgium. One month, one and a half?
28:20 Speaker 02 David was silent. Then he said, "I think I need at least four."
28:28 Speaker 02 It was the start of a long conversation. For the next two weeks, each night, we would call each other and talk.
28:36 Speaker 02 David was coming up with the most elaborate schemes to spend time with his beloved ocean. "We could live on a boat for a few years and homeschool." A boat homeschool? I felt trapped as it was.
28:53 Speaker 02 We kept talking, getting nowhere. And at 1:00 AM, the night before my appointment at Planned Parenthood, David still hadn't said he could live in Brooklyn. If I didn't want a kid, not really, and he didn't want to have a kid enough to give up living in California, how could we have one? The next morning, I went to the clinic. While I was sitting in the waiting room, David was blowing up my phone. But my phone was already stored away in a locker downstairs. So, yeah, that's when I had the abortion.
29:36 Speaker 02 Yeah. And I think I called you that day.
29:43 Speaker 03 You did. Yeah, that's the conversation that really sticks in my mind. And I felt like the conversation after the abortion was a more genuine, less hormonal influenced, you know, less of that drug just coursing through your veins and maybe more of who you really, you know, you really are in a deeper sense. And that was very profound for me, as your friend, to sense that the you who got the abortion was the genuine you.
30:27 Speaker 02 Yeah.
30:28 Speaker 03 And like, I think the thing that struck me the most was how deeply relieved you were.
30:35 Speaker 02 Yeah.
30:36 Speaker 03 And that, that was not how I would have felt. And so it was, it was a foreign experience to me. But I felt that I really did feel the relief. And that's really when I realized, like, oh, you shouldn't have kids. Like, your purpose on the, on earth doesn't involve having children.
31:10 Speaker 02 I remember you saying that. And I can't tell you how happy that made me, and it still does. But I was nervous to call you to say that I'd had an abortion for a couple of reasons. You know, like, first, I knew that you wanted me to have kids.
31:27 Speaker 03 Right.
31:28 Speaker 02 But second, it had to do with religion.
31:35 Speaker 03 Right.
31:36 Speaker 02 You know, you're Orthodox Jewish and not Reformed Orthodox, but like, old-school Orthodox. And I didn't know what that meant for your position on abortion. And so I didn't know, and I was really nervous. Like, I was afraid that you would judge me.
32:03 Speaker 03 Yeah, no, I, well, first of all, my inclination to encourage you to have kids was never to do with religion.
32:16 Speaker 03 And I guess I should clarify for the record that my version of engagement with orthodoxy is pretty weird, you know, not particularly dogmatic, I suppose. I mean, I do take halacha seriously in my life, I guess. Like, Jewish law is something that I find to be a useful practice and a humbling practice for me. And I would never think that it's right for someone else, you know? So I...
33:03 Speaker 03 Yeah, that it's it's sweet to me that you were worried about it like, oh, maybe he'll be so just like religiously, but but also like, I don't know, that's not a good friend like a good friend doesn't put their religion in front of the friendship.
33:17 Speaker 02 I know, I know, I know. I just didn't know if somewhere in your soul, you would be disappointed with me and I didn't even want that or that I had just sort of fallen from my standing as like a person you felt equal to or something, you know?
33:36 Speaker 03 Um, yeah, no. It was honestly a transformative experience for me. So I'm grateful. I gained in empathy for people who really don't want children.
33:52 Speaker 03 It's like, um, it's not their purpose.
33:59 Speaker 02 What do you think is my purpose?
34:10 Speaker 03 So I generally think that the point of life, at least for me, is to try and be aware of the sublime in everyday boring reality. Even the grocery store or a garbage with plastic,
34:33 Speaker 03 that's all of our purpose. But I think personally more for you, just in my sense as your, you know, your friend, it seems like a particular version of that. It's like finding the sublime in people in relationship, um, the connection between you and the person you're interviewing or you're speaking to or that you're in relationship with or that your neighbors with
35:09 Speaker 03 is a divine relationship. And so to me, that feels like a very legitimate purpose.
35:24 Speaker 03 I'm wondering if it's okay if I stop recording and stay on the phone with you, but get ready for work. Or should we?
35:31 Speaker 02 Oh, well, then let's just let's just finish it because if we say something interesting and it stopped recording, I'm gonna hate myself, so.
35:40 Speaker 03 Oh, thanks for having me. I hope it works out.
35:47 Speaker 02 After Joshua and I hung up, I went for a walk. I passed the same playground that at once made me believe for a second I might be able to have a kid. It was Friday around noon and sunny. A pair of kids with cute hairstyles and matching outfits were squirting each other with a water gun. Next to the playground, a man in a white tank top was cleaning his car, blasting the kind of music that would not be kid appropriate if only the kids could understand the words. On the other side of the street, an elderly lady sat on the top of the stairs leading up to her home
36:25 Speaker 02 between her flower pots, looking at the summer day scene. I felt my breath deepen, my gaze soften. Was this what Joshua meant with this sublime?
36:43 Speaker 02 As I kept walking, the sounds of happy kids' voices followed me down the block. Then I turned the corner.
36:59 Speaker 02 What I didn't know then was that my life was about to fall apart.
37:08 Speaker 02 Creation Myth is written, produced, hosted, and sound designed by me, Helena de Groot. My story editor and senior producer is Veronica Simmons.
37:20 Speaker 02 Editorial sound design support by Brendan Baker, who also mixed and mastered the episode. Special thanks to my friend Joshua Kaufman for talking to me about purpose at an ungodly early hour. The team behind Creation Myth further includes Anna Ashite, who is our coordinating producer. Executive producers are Cecil Fernandez and Chris Oak. Tanya Springer is the senior manager. Arif Noorani is the director and Leslie Merklinger is the executive director of CBC Podcasts. This project was made possible with the support of VPM Media Corporation. I'll be back next week with a new episode. But while you're waiting, you can listen to another show on Personally. Sorry About the Kid,
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