Dr. David Spiegel: 10-MINUTE Hypnosis Hack to Rewire Your Brain & Reduce Stress 80% Faster

How do you usually handle stress? Have you tried hypnosis for stress? Today, Jay with Dr. David Spiegel, a leading expert in psychiatry and behavioral sciences, to explore the transformative power of hypnotherapy. Dr. Spiegel, with over 45 years of experience in clinical and research fields, shares profound insights into the science behind hypnosis, dispelling myths and misconceptions. He explains how hypnosis is a natural, self-directed process that allows individuals to tap into heightened focus, manage pain, reduce stress, and address deep-seated traumas. The conversation begins with Dr. Spiegel explaining the foundations of hypnosis, highlighting its ability to narrow one’s focus, similar to a telephoto lens, and create a dissociative state where one can temporarily suspend self-limiting beliefs. This unique focus enables users to challenge habitual thoughts and reframe experiences. Dr. Spiegel shares real-life success stories, such as a war veteran who found peace with traumatic memories and individuals overcoming chronic pain and stress using hypnosis. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Sleep Better Using Hypnosis How to Improve Focus by Narrowing Attention How to Process Trauma Safely with Hypnosis How to Use Visualization to Relieve Stress How to Focus Your Attention Deeply How to Filter Out Pain with Hypnosis By learning how to access a focused, relaxed state, you can reshape your response to pain, manage stress more effectively, and explore emotions or memories that might otherwise feel overwhelming. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:17 What is Hypnosis 05:08 How Beneficial Hypnosis is For You? 09:14 What Happens to Your Brain During Hypnosis 14:40 Can You Control Other People with Hypnosis? 16:13 Is It Possible to Hypnotize Anyone? 26:14 You’re Still in Control of Your Body 31:28 How Can Hypnotherapy After Memory Recall? 38:29 Guided Hypnotherapy at Home is Possible 40:59 Let Your Brain Heal Your Body 43:34 The Worst Mental Case Under Hypnosis 50:26 We Lose the Hypnotic Ability as We Age 55:39 How Hypnosis Can Help You Focus More 57:38 David on Final Five Episode Resources: Reveri | YouTube Reveri | Instagram Reveri | Facebook Reveri | LinkedIn Reveri | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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• 2:56Speaker 01

  Hypnosis is a state of highly focused attention. Have you ever gotten so caught up in a good movie that you kind of forget you're watching a movie?

• 3:03Jay Shetty?

  Absolutely.

• 3:04Speaker 01

  You become part of the movie instead of part of the audience. World renowned psychiatrist, expert on self-hypnosis, Dr. David Spiegel. How do we change ourselves? Deal with the aspect of the threat and you can control it.

• 3:16Jay Shetty?

  Wow.

• 3:16Speaker 01

  Your boss may have said something awful to you, but your body doesn't have to react that way.

• 3:21Jay Shetty?

  Is it possible to control others with hypnosis?

• 3:26Speaker 02

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• 3:29Speaker 03

  Jay Shetty. Jay Shetty. The one, the only Jay Shetty.

• 3:35Jay Shetty?

  Hey, everyone. Welcome back to On Purpose, the place you come to become happier, healthier, and more healed. You know that I love sitting down with thought leaders and experts who introduce us to new modalities and ideas and insights that can improve our daily lives. Today's guest is someone I've been really excited to talk to. I'm speaking to Dr. David Spiegel, who's a Wilson Professor and Associate Chair of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Director of the Center on Stress and Health, and Medical Director of the Center for Integrative Medicine at Stanford University School of Medicine. Dr. David Spiegel is the founder of Reverie, the world's first interactive self-hypnosis app.

• 4:19Jay Shetty?

  You can download it as soon as you want to while you're listening to this conversation. Dr. Spiegel has more than 45 years of clinical and research expertise, has published 13 books, 404 scientific journal articles, and his work has been supported by the National Institute of Mental Health, the National Cancer Institute, and so many more. Please welcome to On Purpose, Dr. David Spiegel. David, it's great to have you here. Thank you for being here.

• 4:47Speaker 01

  Thank you so much, Jay. I'm delighted to be here talking with you.

• 4:50Jay Shetty?

  I'm so fascinated by your work and I'm so excited I get to bring it to my community and audience. And I wanted to start off because I really want to take the audience on a journey today to really understand, I think hypnotherapy and hypnosis are words and ideas and things that we've heard about for a long period of time, but we have a very limited understanding of what it actually is. So I'd love to start with, what is hypnosis? And what are some of the misconceptions about it?

• 5:19Speaker 01

  Hypnosis is oddly enough, the oldest Western conception of a psychotherapy. The first time a talking interaction was thought to have therapeutic benefit. And I think there is, there's much overlap, be it some of the things you do and think like a monk, you know, focusing on visualization, on controlling your breathing, on, on visualizing things that can be ways of being different. And hypnosis is a state of highly focused attention. It's like getting, have you ever gotten so caught up in a good movie that you kind of forget you're watching a movie?

• 5:50Jay Shetty?

  Absolutely.

• 5:51Speaker 01

  So you become part of the movie instead of part of the audience. Now, what you're doing when you're doing that is, is using for consciousness what a telephoto lens does for a camera. You see what you see with great detail, but you're less aware of the context. You, you dissociate other things you would ordinarily be aware of. Our brains are processing thousands of things all the time. What's going on in the body, noises, potential threats, all kinds of things. But in hypnosis, you narrow the range of focus. And for example, right now, you're having sensations in your body touching these nice chairs, but hopefully you weren't even aware of that. If you were, we could stop the interview right now. So, we all do that. We can put out of awareness things that would ordinarily be in awareness.

• 6:35Speaker 01

  In hypnosis, you focus intently, you dissociate. And the third thing you do is you disconnect from your ordinary ways of being and thinking. And this is where I think there's a lot of similarity between meditation, mindfulness, and what you do in hypnosis, which is you kind of get over yourself, but in a somewhat different way. You suspend your view of yourself and you try out being different. Now, the thing that scares a lot of people is that many people have been to one of these awful stage shows, you know, where they've seen the football coach dance like a ballerina. And I don't like making fun of people, but at the same time, there is a point. And the

• 7:18Speaker 01

  point is for us to change, and that's what your life's work is about now, is how do we change ourselves? How do we not get trapped in sort of rote desires? Or I love that there was a quote you had about how life is too short to spend your time living somebody else's life, you know? And I think what you can do in hypnosis, in narrowing your focus of attention, in dissociating, is suspend your usual view, feeling about what you're like and try out being different.

• 7:49Jay Shetty?

  Absolutely. Yeah, I believe that was Steve Jobs who said that.

• 7:53Speaker 01

  Yes, it was Steve Jobs.

• 7:54Jay Shetty?

  Such a powerful message. And I really appreciate the way you're explaining hypnosis and hypnotherapy. I find that, what would you say are the common uses? Or, because I think, again, like you said, you've seen something on stage, or you've seen it in a movie, and it's used to often manipulate someone, or it's used to extract information. It's used for some sort of heist, right? In the movie or entertainment world. How would you find hypnosis or hypnotherapy being useful as individuals? Where does it become something that any one of us can access, use, utilize, and need?

• 8:33Speaker 01

  Well, the thing is that hypnosis is really a naturally occurring ability, that people have to varying degrees. But it's something that we just don't tap, and all hypnosis is really self-hypnosis. So just like you try to teach people, you do teach people how to meditate, how to be mindful of what they're doing. You're helping them discover a capacity within themselves that they can use. Hypnosis is very similar in that sense, that most people have some ability to narrow their focus. And it's not a loss of control, it's a gain of control. You're learning that you can filter hurt out of pain, that you can get to sleep better,

• 9:18Speaker 01

  that you can manage stress in a way that doesn't keep it proliferating, but teaches you to control it. I saw a man yesterday, who is brilliant professor, who had radiation to his nose because he had a tumor there that needed to be treated. And he had terrible sensitivity in his nose and his mouth. And he tried everything, he tried like seven different ways to neutralize the nerve signals, he took medications, he did all kinds of things, it didn't work. And he was getting more and more frustrated because his life was his words. And he was a teacher and couldn't stand the thought of not being able to do that because he was so frustrated by it.

• 10:02Speaker 01

  And he found with a few minutes of learning self-hypnosis, that he could reduce the interference by 50%. He was amazed. He said, you know, my hand is feeling light and I feel some waves going through it. And I had him touch his face and kind of spread those waves. And he felt different right away. He was amazed. His wife was sitting and watching, and she said, "I'm not surprised." It is a way of altering the way we manage our focus of attention, our processing of sensory input. And so, literally, we can filter the hurt out of the pain. We can manage stress better by focusing on the body up rather than the head down.

• 10:43Speaker 01

  You know, we often think, "Well, if I just figure out what's stressing me and, you know, decide it's not important, or figure out a better way to do it..." I won't be stressed. But what happens with stress is usually it's from the body up. That you see something that threatens you. We're pretty pathetic physical creatures. We don't run that fast. We don't smell that well. We don't hear that well. And so normally, we have to, we evolved because we treated most stressors as physical threats. And you better get your heart rate up and your blood pressure up. Be ready to fight or flee. But most of the stressors we have now are not life threats. So if you respond physically, your body's telling your brain, oh, my God, this is really terrible.

• 11:27Speaker 01

  And the brain thinks, oh, yeah, this really, I feel bad. This must be really bad. And it's like a snowball rolling downhill. And with hypnosis, you can deal with the aspect of the threat that actually makes you most worried about it. And you can control it. You can say, well, your boss may have said something awful to you, but your body doesn't have to react that way. So imagine you're floating in a bath, a lake, out there, floating in space. And then picture on an imaginary screen, your boss on one side and what you might say or do on the other in the context of feeling physically more comfortable. So hypnosis is a way of, in a very focused way, controlling mind and body interactions in a way that helps you handle them better.

• 12:10Jay Shetty?

  And can you walk us through, David, the neurobiology? What's happening to our brain in this period? Because I think, again, often people have looked at some of these modalities as being woo woo or being slightly, you know, alternative, et cetera. But what's actually happening from a neuroscience perspective?

• 12:29Speaker 01

  Yeah, well, I've lived with it for a long time. But we've spent a decade studying what's going on in the brain using functional magnetic resonance imaging with people who are high and low in hypnotizability in and out of hypnotic states. And we find three things happen in the brain when you go into hypnosis. The first is you turn down activity in the anterior cingulate cortex. That's part of what we call the salience network. It's a pattern matching region of the brain that says, there's something different going on here. Maybe you better look out. So you hear a loud noise and you think, is it a threat? What is it? That's the salience network firing off, saying, there's, there may be trouble here. You better attend to it.

• 13:13Speaker 01

  You turn down activity in that part of the brain. The cingulate cortex is like an inverted C, right in the middle of the brain. And the front part of it is the salience network. We found that the more hypnotized people felt, the less activity there was in that part of the brain. So you're turning off the home alarm system and just letting yourself experience what you experience. We find actually that the more hypnotizable people are, the more of an inhibitory neurotransmitter, gamma amino butyric acid, they have in the anterior cingulate. So it's the drug that benzodiazepines, anti-anxiety drugs, actually stimulate GABA receptors. And so that's how we can control ourselves.

• 13:58Speaker 01

  We can reduce anxiety, but you don't need a drug to do it. You can do it yourself. The second thing that happens is we have more functional connectivity between the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex on the left and a part of the brain called the insula, it's Latin for island. And it's a little island of tissue in the middle of the front part of the brain that is a mind-body conduit. So when that connection is happening, you have more ability to control what's happening in your body, to control heart rate and blood pressure, your level of arousal, to control the functioning of the gastrointestinal system. We found that highly hypnotizable people, given a hypnotic instruction to imagine,

• 14:43Speaker 01

  eat an imaginary meal, actually increased their gastric acid secretion by 89%. We had one subject who was taking a gastronomic tour of the Bay Area. And after about a half an hour of it, she said, "Let's stop, I'm full." You know, just eating imaginary food. And when they do the opposite, when they relax but think of anything but food or drink... We got a 39% decrease in gastric acid.

• 15:07Jay Shetty?

  Wow.

• 15:08Speaker 01

  So the brain has an amazing ability to control what's going on in the body. That's this prefrontal cortex to insula connection. And also to be more aware of what's going on in the body. We call that interoception. So you enhance your regulation of the body and perception of it. The third one, and I think this might be of special interest to you, Jay, in view of your interest of how we get trapped in notions of ourselves and try to be something we're not and don't focus on the fundamental things. You get inverse connectivity between the prefrontal cortex and the posterior cingulate cortex. That's a part of the brain that we call the default mode network, where you contemplate who you are, what you are.

• 15:51Speaker 01

  Instead of what you're doing, when you're not working or doing anything, you're just reflecting. And it's the part of the brain that is the closest probably to what we call the superego in analytic terms, where you're looking at yourself and saying, who am I? Who should I be? What do I want to be? And so to the extent you're engaged in the hypnotic task, you're suppressing activity there. And that's the football coach dancing like a ballerina. You know, I don't care. I'll just try it anyway and see what it's like. Now, that's silly, but if you want people to change, it's a great opportunity to say, you know what? Just try it. See what it feels like to be different.

• 16:28Jay Shetty?

  Yeah.

• 16:28Speaker 01

  Can you be in the same situation and react to it differently? Not struggle against it, not fight it. See what you can learn from it. And so that, and that's a part of the brain where activity is suppressed in experienced meditators, too. The mindfulness tends to inhibit activity in this posterior cingulate default mode area, or I call it the my fault mode network. You know, it's when you're reflecting on what's wrong with you. And so it's a part of the brain. That is also affected by psychedelic drugs, that the sort of dissolution of the self comes by through disorganization of activity in the posterior cingulate cortex.

• 17:12Speaker 01

  There's a new paper in Nature out with some leading neuroscientists who took psychedelics and scanned their brains 18 times over a couple of weeks and found disorganization in that region of the brain. So it's a center for change because you can inhibit your usual views of who you are. And that's something that hypnosis helps you to do.

• 17:35Jay Shetty?

  Is it possible to control others with hypnosis and hypnotherapy?

• 17:41Speaker 01

  Well, Jay, I would say yes and no. I mean, we're social creatures, we're susceptible of social influence. And, you know, if you pay any, if you engage in the painful act of paying any attention to recent American politics, you'll see that people are influenced by all kinds of things and believe all kinds of things that just flat out aren't true. And it is the case that people in hypnosis, since they're more focused, are more likely to suspend their usual evaluation and judgment of things and see what it would be like if this were true instead of that. And there are people who have been and can be influenced to some extent. But you know what?

• 18:23Speaker 01

  People who are highly hypnotizable do that without ever having been formally hypnotized. They'll tell you, I just, you know, I, the highly hypnotizable people tend to be very sensitive to other people, they pick up their emotional cues very well. And they respond often easily putting somebody else's priorities above their own. So does that mean you're more easily influenced? Perhaps, but frankly, I think you're better protected if you understand more about your tendency to do that and you can defend yourself more. So hypnosis is a way of being influenced by other people, but also being influenced by your own desires and wishes.

• 19:06Speaker 01

  So I would say it's there, take full advantage of it.

• 19:09Jay Shetty?

  How does one know if they're hypnotizable? Because I believe that most people would. Feel like, oh, it would never work on me and I don't think it would work on me like they do with meditation as well. People always think, oh, that won't work for me. My mind is everywhere. How does someone know if they can be hypnotized?

• 19:27Speaker 01

  Well, on the Reverie app, we have a six-minute hypnotizability test. It's a standard test. I've used it with about 7,000 patients and research subjects in my career. It can be done very quickly. You give a series of hypnotic instructions and see how the person can respond to them. And if you'd like, Jay, I can test your hypnotizability right now.

• 19:50Jay Shetty?

  I think we should do it, yeah.

• 19:51Speaker 01

  See how you are. I bet your listeners are placing bets on just how hypnotizable you are.

• 19:57Jay Shetty?

  I love it.

• 19:58Speaker 01

  So get as comfortable as you can. Put one arm on either side of the chair.

• 20:06Speaker 01

  And please look up now to the top of your head, all the way up, high as you can, past your eyebrows, all the way up, way, way up. Good. And as you keep looking up, slowly close your eyes. All right. Now let your eyes relax, but keep them closed. Take a deep breath in. Nice, slow exhale through your mouth. Let your eyes relax, but keep them closed, and let your body float. Just imagine you're floating somewhere safe and comfortable, like a bath, a lake, a hot tub, or floating in space.

• 20:44Speaker 01

  And while your body's floating, I'm going to ask you to take your right hand and stroke the back of your left middle finger. So let your right hand float over and stroke the back of your left middle finger and stroke backward toward your wrist now and up your forearm to your elbow. And as you do that, you'll feel a sense of tingling and numbness and lightness. And now put your right hand back down and let your left hand float up in the air like a balloon.

• 21:17Speaker 01

  Let it float up to a comfortable upright position. You can leave it straight up in the air as it is, or you can rest your elbow on the arm of the chair, whatever feels better to you. And I'm going to give you this instruction. Your hand will remain light and in this upright position, even after I give you the signal for your eyes to open. Later, when I ask you to pull your left hand back down to the arm of the chair and then let go, your left hand will float right back up to the upright position. You'll find something pleasant and amusing about this sensation. After that, when I ask you to touch your left elbow, your usual sensation and control will return.

• 22:01Speaker 01

  Each time you go into this state of concentration, you'll find it easier and easier to do, and you can use it to help you concentrate on what's important to you. Right now, we'll come out of this state of concentration together by counting backwards from three to one. On three, you'll get ready. On two, with your eyelids closed, roll up your eyes and one, let your eyes open. Ready, three, two, one.

• 22:26Speaker 01

  Good. Now, stay in this position, please, and describe what physical sensations you're aware of now in your left hand and arm.

• 22:35Jay Shetty?

  There's a tingling in my fingers.

• 22:37Speaker 01

  Tingling? Is it comfortable?

• 22:40Jay Shetty?

  Comfortable, very comfortable.

• 22:41Speaker 01

  Does your left hand feel as if it's not as much a part of your body as your right hand?

• 22:45Jay Shetty?

  Agreed. It's lighter.

• 22:47Speaker 01

  It's lighter? Okay.

• 22:50Speaker 01

  Does that surprise you at all?

• 22:52Jay Shetty?

  It's interesting to perceive the sensation, to be aware of it, yeah.

• 22:57Speaker 01

  To be aware of it, okay.

• 22:57Jay Shetty?

  It's interesting, for sure. It's curious.

• 23:00Speaker 01

  Okay. Now, please, take your right hand, pull your left hand back down to the arm of the chair, and then let go.

• 23:12Speaker 01

  Now, your left hand just popped up. Can you describe what that felt like?

• 23:16Jay Shetty?

  It felt like a pull, almost like that I had to lift it up.

• 23:21Speaker 01

  That you had to lift it up?

• 23:22Jay Shetty?

  Yeah, that it felt like I should. It felt right to do it.

• 23:24Speaker 01

  It felt right? Good. Is that surprising to you?

• 23:27Jay Shetty?

  That is very surprising to me, yeah.

• 23:29Speaker 01

  Good. Alright.

• 23:30Jay Shetty?

  Because I could feel it. It was a physical sensation.

• 23:33Speaker 01

  It was physical?

• 23:34Jay Shetty?

  Yeah, it was physical. It wasn't mental, because I know you'd said that in the instructions.

• 23:38Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 23:39Jay Shetty?

  And I could feel that in my brain, so I guess there's something, but it felt physical.

• 23:44Speaker 01

  It felt like a force, a physical force. By way of comparison, please raise your right hand. Put that one down. Any difference in sensation?

• 23:53Jay Shetty?

  Yeah, there's no feeling of there being any other... This hand, my left hand, almost feels like there's puppet strings attached.

• 24:01Speaker 01

  Puppet strings.

• 24:02Jay Shetty?

  Whereas here, I don't feel that there. Like, I feel like I can do what I want with this, whereas this hand feels very like...

• 24:07Speaker 01

  Well, I'm here to tell you, folks, there are no puppet strings.

• 24:10Jay Shetty?

  But in that sensation of the idea that... In the sense, I don't know how to describe that. It's a... This hand feels fully under my control, whereas this hand feels like there's a sense of... I'm trying to, I want to nail the expression. It's... This hand, I can do whatever I want with it right now, whereas this hand feels like that's where it's meant to be.

• 24:28Speaker 01

  That's where it's meant to be. So you clearly have more control over your right hand than your left. Alright, now, please take your right hand, touch your left elbow, and then let go.

• 24:38Jay Shetty?

  Let go like this?

• 24:39Speaker 01

  Yeah. Now, I see that your left hand went back down. Can you describe what that feels like?

• 24:46Jay Shetty?

  There's still a sensation in my forearm that makes me want to lift it slightly for some comfort. But when I put it down fully, it's slowly getting more acclimatized to matching with the right, but it's not there yet. There's still some...

• 24:58Speaker 01

  Not there yet? Okay.

• 24:59Jay Shetty?

  There's still some sensation there.

• 25:01Speaker 01

  So it feels, the sensation is different, but the control is now...

• 25:05Jay Shetty?

  Yeah, I could like still want to lift it a little. There's still that feeling of wanting to lift it.

• 25:09Speaker 01

  Alright, well, touch your left elbow again with your right hand. Open. Now shake both hands and tell me when the control becomes the same.

• 25:22Jay Shetty?

  Slowly getting there.

• 25:23Speaker 01

  Getting there, okay, good. Did I do or say anything that would indicate there'd be a change in sensation or control in your left hand and arm?

• 25:32Jay Shetty?

  No, I don't think so.

• 25:34Speaker 01

  Did I say anything to you about your elbow or touching your elbow?

• 25:38Jay Shetty?

  I believe so, yes.

• 25:39Speaker 01

  Yeah, do you remember what I said?

• 25:41Jay Shetty?

  Yeah, you said when I would touch my elbow that it would return back down.

• 25:43Speaker 01

  Ah, you didn't, and you did touch your elbow, okay. Did you have a sense of floating lightness or buoyancy in your left hand and arm during?

• 25:50Jay Shetty?

  A hundred percent.

• 25:51Speaker 01

  Did you have that sense in any other part of your body?

• 25:54Jay Shetty?

  I don't think so.

• 25:55Speaker 01

  Neck, thighs, abdomen, chest, arm? Okay, so your score is seven out of 10, you're quite hypnotizable.

• 26:00Jay Shetty?

  Which is shocking to me.

• 26:02Speaker 01

  It is, really?

• 26:03Jay Shetty?

  Yeah, I just, I just never thought, I had this really strange thing happen that when you were talking, and I know we haven't even got into it yet, but when you asked me to roll my head, I, I think, I find myself often to be, to be non-hypnotizable just because I'm, I don't know, I, I guess I've never opened myself up to it, but there's a, I felt this, when you were kind of about to count me down, I felt like my head just getting heavier and lowering, and I felt like I was like, I could, I was aware that I was sinking, but I was like, why am I sinking, like, what's going on? And so it was always like my head was straight back, because you asked me to be comfortable as if I was floating.

• 26:42Speaker 01

  Right.

• 26:43Jay Shetty?

  So when you said that, I kind of leaned back.

• 26:45Speaker 01

  Right.

• 26:45Jay Shetty?

  And I felt like I was floating in a lake, as you said.

• 26:47Speaker 01

  Right.

• 26:48Jay Shetty?

  But then when you said like, we're gonna bring back ourselves to consciousness, my head started to do this, and it was such a natural heaviness that brought my head down, but there was a part of me that was going, why are, why are we doing this right now, why am I dropping my head, but I am dropping my head, so.

• 27:01Speaker 01

  That's, it, so your head was drooping forward, it was leaning forward?

• 27:04Jay Shetty?

  Correct, my head was leaning forward, but I, you didn't ask me to do that, and I didn't know why I was doing it, but it felt natural to kind of feel like I was sinking in.

• 27:12Speaker 01

  Yeah, sinking into it, so you were, you were elaborating upon the image that, that you were feeling, and that's, you know, hypnosis is about very rapidly doing things, changing the way your body feels. You have, with all of your experience in mindfulness, this is something different for you, how would you say it's different from the state you get into in mindfulness?

• 27:37Jay Shetty?

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• 29:50Jay Shetty?

  Availability, amount of discounts and savings, and eligibility vary by state. That's a great question. I would say that...

• 30:00Jay Shetty?

  The state of sinking and being

• 30:05Jay Shetty?

  in that state of awake and alert, but also resting is something I feel certain mindfulness practices can allow us to create that state. I've never created it through physical movement.

• 30:20Speaker 01

  Hmm.

• 30:21Jay Shetty?

  It's always created through being present or still or bringing my awareness to a particular object or my breath or whatever it may be, but I've never really felt it physically. Is probably the best way I could define the difference. I felt like I'm floating while meditating or I felt a lightness in my entire body, but not in a specific hand or a specific part of my body.

• 30:44Speaker 01

  I see. So it's more slipping into the state, but not using it right away to see if you can produce a change.

• 30:50Jay Shetty?

  Correct.

• 30:51Speaker 01

  And frankly, when I use hypnosis with subjects and I use this test with every person I use hypnosis with, because it's a way for them to discover what the experience is like and how they feel and to observe it, you know, to see, don't take my word for it, try it out and see what it feels like. And for me to be able to evaluate in what way to work with them, because some people can do something like what you did, some less, some not at all, not that many, but some people not at all, but it becomes a kind of immediate object lesson in how much more control we have over our body and how we react to that than we usually give ourselves credit for.

• 31:29Jay Shetty?

  What about the cynical mind that says, and that's why I'm so glad I'm talking to you about this, because you know, years of research, Stanford Medicine, it's the cynical mind that I avoided having in this experience because I generally consider myself someone who wants to be open to experience and curious and open to letting things in to figure it out and see how useful it may be. But the cynical mind that says, well, of course Jay lifted his hand because David had said that he would lift his hand when he put it back down. But to me, I can genuinely say that yes, there was an instruction in the brain, but there was also a feeling that was there. And so both those things, and my cynical self, if I was trying to be annoying,

• 32:13Jay Shetty?

  which I would never want to in a, you know, I've invited you to be my guest on my show, but the cynical skeptical part of me would have been like, oh, I'm just gonna hold my hand down just to make a point. But I wanted to go with how I was actually feeling and intuitively feeling. So the cynical person that says, well, it's a placebo effect, or it's something that David told you to do, and that's why you did it. How do you process that kind of response or reaction that often I imagine arises?

• 32:38Speaker 01

  Well, you know, I frankly think the best answer is you are highly experienced in mindfulness, in trying out different ways of being. And yet, for you, and you're telling, and I, you, look, I'm a guest on your show. This is your show. It would be fine for you to just say, you know, sorry, doc, nice try. I don't feel it. And I think you would be honest with your audience in doing that.

• 33:03Jay Shetty?

  I would, yes.

• 33:04Speaker 01

  But you had the experience, you know. Years ago, I don't know if you remember this, but there was a guy named Phil Donahue, who had a very popular daytime show. And he invited me as a guest. And it was at a time when it was thought to be dangerous to hypnotize someone in public. You wouldn't do that. Other people might get hypnotized. So I, this woman I had hypnotized before the show began. And I had her arm up in the air like this. The show opens, and I pulled a hand down, and it pops back up the way yours did. And the camera comes in closer, and Donahue says, look, this is just some doctor. I'm Phil Donahue. Keep your hand down. And he pulls her hand down, and it pops right back up in the air. And she says, I'm starting to feel like a slot machine, you know.

• 33:49Speaker 01

  So the fun thing about it is, is that if it's the real deal, it wasn't like you were saying, oh, I'll just keep my hand down. Your hand wanted to go up, right? And that ability to quickly rearrange your mind-body relationship is part of what's so interesting about hypnosis. And you experienced it. So, you know, people can fight it if they want, or they can misrepresent what their experience is. But you didn't. You had the experience. And That element of surprise that where people can see, damn, I can look, look what's happening in my body. Look what I can do this quickly. That's how we're all, I'm already starting therapy there, you know? Cause I'm showing people that they have more of an ability to control their body.

• 34:32Jay Shetty?

  Hmm.

• 34:33Speaker 01

  Than they like to think.

• 34:35Jay Shetty?

  Hmm.

• 34:35Speaker 01

  Or than they usually think. And that's a tremendous opportunity.

• 34:39Jay Shetty?

  Right. Even though you're the one giving the instruction, you feel that that's showing that I have the power to control my body.

• 34:46Speaker 01

  That's a very important point, Jay, because it's, I'm not taking control. And I, you may have, did you feel like I was taking?

• 34:54Jay Shetty?

  No, no, no, not at all.

• 34:55Speaker 01

  No, I thought, I'm a teacher, you know? I'm teaching you how to identify and utilize the abilities you have the way you do. When you teach people how to use mindfulness, you know? You're not implanting mindfulness in them. You're showing them, look, you know, you're, you've, you've narrowed your view of who you are and what you are. And I'm going to help you expand it. And I'm going to show you the beauty in everyday experience and how you can re, reassess what's important to you in life. And, and people can be open to that and learn from it or not. But you're teaching them how to explore capacities they have that they may not have known about. And that's what I'm doing with hypnosis. I'm teaching them how to utilize their own ability.

• 35:37Speaker 01

  You know, we, our major evolutionary advantage as humans is, is our brain. This three pound object on the top of our shoulders. It doesn't come with a user's manual.

• 35:50Jay Shetty?

  Hmm.

• 35:51Speaker 01

  You know, there are a lot of things our brains can do, and that's what you do, teaching people mindfulness. That, that you can use your brain in ways you hadn't thought of.

• 35:59Jay Shetty?

  Hmm.

• 35:59Speaker 01

  And if they didn't have the basic ability to do it, it wouldn't work.

• 36:03Jay Shetty?

  Hmm.

• 36:04Speaker 01

  And the same is true. That's what I'm doing with hypnosis. I'm not projecting anything onto someone. I'm teaching them how to use what they already know.

• 36:10Jay Shetty?

  Hmm.

• 36:11Speaker 01

  When automobiles were invented some hundred and something years ago, there were a bunch of state laws against windshield wipers. Why? Because remember the oldest image of somebody inducing hypnosis was the dangling watch, you know, and it doesn't work very well with electronic watches now. But they thought people would be waving their eyes back and forth with the windshield wipers and going into hypnotic states when they were driving. It doesn't happen. But so it's an ability that people have and we just teach them how to use it.

• 36:43Jay Shetty?

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• 37:28Jay Shetty?

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• 38:13Jay Shetty?

  the life you've always dreamed of, right here, right now. Go to www.renewyouworkshop.com to access this at no charge and start building a life that's not just lived, but truly loved. See you there. How can hypnotherapy affect our...?

• 38:34Jay Shetty?

  Memory, how does it work with memory?

• 38:36Speaker 01

  Well, there's a, that's a fairly controversial area. Hypnosis, it can be a powerful thing. It can help people relive events and with not just remember, but relive them with the same kind of emotion, sort of like a flashback in PTSD, but under control. And then help people come to a new understanding of what happened. Now, does it mean that the hypnotic, what we call age regression, is an absolute, totally accurate recollection of what happened? No, but then none of our recollections are, you know, they're a combination of what we experienced and put down in memory stores and what we interpret and what we've learned later.

• 39:20Speaker 01

  But it can help people in a controlled way to get back to relive and remember things that they previously might not have been able to remember, in part because the emotions are so painful and difficult that one way to protect yourself is to just keep it dissociated, just put it away somewhere and not think about it. And hypnosis can be a way of cutting through that and helping people come to terms with situations that they previously hadn't thought about or didn't want to think about. So what I tell my patients and what is the case is that hypnosis is no truth serum. It's not like, you know, your memory is a tape recorder and you just rewind the tape and look at it.

• 40:04Speaker 01

  But it can be a way of dealing with the emotional implications of things you're remembering and get a better look at what happened. And one example, I don't know if you remember this, but not far from here, there's a town called Chowchilla, where a school bus full of children was hijacked by two idiots who literally buried the bus underground in some, an old mining pit. And they finally found the bus and freed the kids. And the bus driver couldn't remember much about the guys who overtook the bus. So he was hypnotized and he, of course, was traumatized too. And he had to help keep these kids alive in a terrible circumstance. And he recalled seeing this car overtaking the bus.

• 40:49Speaker 01

  And he remembered in hypnosis, all of the numbers and letters of the license plate correctly. He got the order wrong, but he remembered it all. And that led to the arrest and conviction of the two guys who did it. There are times when, yes, you can add new information that is accurate. It doesn't mean it's always accurate, but it's additional and often useful information.

• 41:10Jay Shetty?

  I mean, that's so fascinating that sometimes our conscious memory doesn't hold on to these aspects, but the subconscious can. And so is it that you're able to also relieve past stress and anxiety and overwhelm? Is it by reframing the narrative in hypnosis or hypnotherapy that we do? Is that the work that's doing? Could you give some examples?

• 41:31Speaker 01

  Yes, that's very important. So there's a woman I saw who suffered an attempted rape. As she was coming home just at dusk with her arms full of groceries and this guy jumped her. And she starts fighting with him. Eventually, she fought him off, actually. He was trying to get her upstairs into her apartment. And the police came. She hadn't actually been raped. They thought, no big deal. She then had a full out seizure. She's had a basilar skull fracture from the fighting with this guy. It's always a terrifying, horrible thing. And she wanted initially to just remember more about what the guy looked like. And she couldn't remember much. It was getting dark. So I said, all right, here's how we're going to do this.

• 42:15Speaker 01

  We're going to take you back to this time, but your body is floating in a bath. You're safe and comfortable. And whatever you see or remember, nothing is happening. Your body is now safe and comfortable. So I was reassuring her. And very often, understandably, when people remember an event like that, they start reacting physically as though it were happening. And that's that feedback cycle of physical and mental hyperarousal that is very uncomfortable. So remind yourself at all times, you're safe and comfortable, but I want you to picture him. And she said, you know, I really, it was getting dark. I really can't see much more about his face than I recall. She said, but I see something else. If he gets me upstairs,

• 42:59Speaker 01

  he's not just gonna rape me, he's gonna kill me. And, and so you might say, well, thank you, Dr. Spiegel. You've now made her feel even worse than she did before. It was a more horrible experience than even she had imagined. And I said, well, I'm, you're looking at this on a split screen. Picture him on one side and what you see about him. On the other side, I want you to picture something else. What did you do to protect yourself? And I have yet to meet a trauma victim that doesn't engage in some creative strategy to protect themselves. And she said, you know, he's surprised that I'm fighting that hard. He didn't think I would. And she'd been feeling very guilty that she got herself as badly injured as she was. And I said, you know, you saved your life. You know, think about

• 43:42Speaker 01

  what you did. You know, you just jumped and you defended yourself and you saved your life. So she came away from that. On the one hand, seeing things that you might say are even more upsetting than than what she was already living with, but recognizing that she had done something to save her life. And, and that changed her reaction to the whole event. You know, she saw it as something that that was an attribute, an aspect of herself that she hadn't recognized. And there's, I don't remember the name, but there's a Japanese custom that when some very beautiful precious vase breaks, when somebody drops

• 44:22Speaker 01

  it or something, when they glue it back together, they don't use glue, they use gold. And they're, they're, what they're saying is it will now be even more beautiful than it was. And in a sense, she, it was a terrible thing, but it was also she learned something wonderful about herself. And that's, so you can help people relive an event in a very controlled way, and at the same time, learn something that helps you cope with it a lot better.

• 44:51Jay Shetty?

  Yeah, I believe it's known as ginsugi.

• 44:54Speaker 01

  Yes, that's right.

• 44:55Jay Shetty?

  That's the art. Yes, they use that gold powder and things like that. And you get these gold veins.

• 45:01Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 45:02Jay Shetty?

  In the vases that is so beautiful. And thank you for showing that extreme example, because I think.

• 45:08Jay Shetty?

  It's so interesting because you could do that as a theoretical activity, but it doesn't, it doesn't work like that, you know? You could say like, what did you learn from this? Or how did you react? And sometimes it can be so painful to reflect on it in such a technical, theoretical way.

• 45:24Speaker 01

  That's right.

• 45:25Jay Shetty?

  And being able to see yourself fighting and being brave and being courageous and how it affects. How does then that work with self hypnotherapy? Like when you talk about your app, Revery, how does that work? Because you're not physically there to guide people. How do them people allow themselves to practise it on their own in a safe way, in a safe environment, in a way that it can help? This episode is brought to you by Wayfair. Home should be a place that feels like a sanctuary, a space that truly reflects who you are. But it can be challenging to balance style, budget and endless options. I was looking to create a dedicated calm space for my morning meditation and reading, but I was struggling to find pieces that felt grounding but could also stand up to daily use.

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• 47:56Speaker 01

  Well, in many circumstances, Jay, it's, you know, it's pretty easy. That is, you know, there was a reporter for The Times of London who started using Reverie. She had metastatic breast cancer, and she was dealing with that very openly with her readers and talking about that. And she tried Reverie. She was having trouble sleeping, you know. She just couldn't stay asleep and would wake up anxious and with some discomfort. She said about, after about five days, she would just listen to my mellifluous voice every night. And I, you know, I used to worry that the app wouldn't be nearly as good as being in

• 48:41Speaker 01

  the office with me. But then I thought, you know, if you wake up at 3:00 in the morning, you probably don't want me in your bedroom teaching you how to go back to sleep. But you've got me there on the app, and it's interactive. So I ask, how are you responding? And depending on what you tell the app, you get a different instruction. So it is as much like being with me as possible. And she said, I woke up one morning after about five days of this. Rosamund Dean is her name. She's a lovely person and a great reporter. And she said, I looked at the clock sort of out of the corner of my eye, and I thought, oh my God, it's 7:09 a.m. It's the first time I've slept through the night in a year.

• 49:23Speaker 01

  And so people can learn to incorporate it into their own practices. Now, I would say that people dealing with post-traumatic stress disorder and these severe things probably would benefit more from having a trained therapist helping them to do it. But, once you sort of set them on that path, they can revisit it, having learned what the experience is like, and it can help them. But more commonly, we use it for more common problems, for just stress, insomnia, pain, focus, things that are widely disseminated, mental problems, that we don't have nearly enough resources to help people with. So Reverie is a great way to say, try it for yourself and see what it feels like.

• 50:06Speaker 01

  And if you need the help of a professional along with it, by all means.

• 50:09Jay Shetty?

  When you're working directly with a professional, how long have you seen it take for results to start forming in reality? So if someone's struggling with sleep and insomnia, how long does it take the average person to get back to a sense of...

• 50:23Speaker 01

  Well, I can tell you, I have the most data, Jay, from Reverie. We have people rate their level of stress or their level of pain pre to post within 10 minutes, the beginning of the interactive session to the end. And we find that four out of five of them report improvement of about one and a half to two points on a 10-point scale, within 10 minutes.

• 50:47Jay Shetty?

  Wow.

• 50:48Speaker 01

  So, and reductions in pain, stress management, improving focus, so 80 or 90% report improvement. And so, the great thing about this is you know right away whether you're gonna feel better. I had one woman who was pregnant and had terrible lower back disease, and they couldn't give her opioids, thank God, because she was pregnant, and they implanted a nerve stimulator, it didn't work. And her pain was seven out of 10, and the bigger the baby got, of course, the worse the pain was, because it was pulling more on her spine. And so I had her imagine she was doing something that gives her relief, which is taking a nice warm bath.

• 51:30Speaker 01

  And if you think about it, so she has the opportunity to put her brain into the state it is in when she's got the pain, but she's in a warm bath. And our brain can recall that and see, well, okay, the pain signals are still there, but I can also imagine them being interfered with by this comfort that comes with the warmth. So she did, and she said the pain was down from seven out of 10 to three. But she looked angry and I said, what are you angry about? She said, why in the hell are you the last doctor I got sent to instead of the first? It doesn't seem real. If there isn't incision, ingestion, or injection, you're not doing anything real. I'm a doctor, I use medications, I do a lot of other treatment techniques.

• 52:13Speaker 01

  But our brains are powerful things, and if we learn to use them better, we can be a lot more comfortable. And unlike opioids, which killed 88,000 Americans last year alone, the worst thing that happens with hypnosis is it doesn't work. So we're finding from people using Reverie, and this is thousands of people. We have one study with stress reduction, 33,000 people, get an average reduction of one and a half points in 10 minutes just using the app. So it's worth a try.

• 52:44Jay Shetty?

  What's the most extreme case or unique case where you've used hypnotherapy that you remember that you think would be really powerful for the audience to hear about?

• 52:53Speaker 01

  I worked with a Vietnam veteran who had been, he had just kind of gone berserk in Vietnam. And nobody knew, quite knew why, but he hijacked an ambulance and went out in the jungle and started shooting at people he thought were Vietcong. And he wound up being hospitalized in a state mental hospital for a year because he was picked up in a drug bust. He was using, taking psychedelics. And a social worker interviewed him and said, he doesn't look like our typical chronic patient in a state mental hospital. And so I got to see him and he was very hypnotizable.

• 53:37Speaker 01

  And I said, I'd like to relive with you what happened before this event. So we went back and he was extremely hypnotizable. He was even higher scored than you, Jay. And he relived the Tet Offensive in Vietnam. And he comes back to the hospital where he worked. He was a cook in the army. He was a, you know, longstanding, highly regarded cook in the army. And he comes upon the body of a little boy. He called him Shitown because he came from Chicago, who he had informally adopted. The boy was an orphan.

• 54:20Speaker 01

  He was badly wounded in a bombing and had burns and walked with a crutch. And he just became his dad and they hung out together and slept together. And he started crying. He's looking at the boy's body there. He's saying, they ain't gotta kill kids, you know? We got the Geneva Convention. They can't do this. They can't bomb hospitals. They can't kill kids. And he just takes off, commandeers his ambulance and starts yelling in Vietnamese. "Hai ri tai truc." You know, he's angry at these people and shooting at them. And I said, all right, I want to remember now one happier time you had with Shitown.

• 55:04Speaker 01

  And instantly, and see, the nice thing about hypnosis is the control you have, that he's one minute grieving and angry at himself for not having somehow known he could, you know, thinking he could have saved the boy. And I said, picture one time you were happy with him. And a smile comes on his face. And he says, you remember your birthday party? You know, the Donut Dollys gave us some food for this party. And my sister Josie sent an electric train set from Chicago. The joke was it was from the Spiegel Brothers Company. You know, what are the odds? And he said, you ain't never seen an electric train before.

• 55:47Speaker 01

  And they were, you know, just, he was suddenly happy. And I said, all right, I want you to remember two things. On one side of the screen, I want you to picture. Chi-Town's grave and he, as he looked at it, he held out his hand and said ashes to ashes, dust to dust, I guess. And I said, on the other side, I want you to picture that time when you were really happy with him. And I do this in helping people grieve using hypnosis. I said, because you're facing and dealing with the grief and the loss, but you're also remembering something different about it, that the reason it's so painful is how much joy you had together. So I want you to remember both the loss and your having to bury Chi-Town.

• 56:31Speaker 01

  And at the same time, I want you to picture those times you were happy with him, because that's still true. You still have the joy that you shared together. He, then I said, all right, so let's come out of the hypnosis now. And he, you know, he had tears down his cheeks. He was really upset. And I said, what do you remember? And he looked a little puzzled and dazed. And he said, I remember a grave and a cake.

• 56:56Jay Shetty?

  Wow.

• 56:58Speaker 01

  That was it. That was all he remembered. And he practiced this exercise. He was in the ward of the hospital doing the self-hypnosis after that, grieving the boy. You know, he told me later, he said, he knew he was gonna die. He was crippled. He had arthritis. He didn't think he was gonna survive the war. And I said, and you gave, he did die, but you gave him a period of happiness and feeling loved before he died. And that's not gonna go away. And he had one subsequent rehospitalization. One, one of his brothers, who was a Chicago police officer, was killed in the line of duty. And we had to kind of piece him back together and help him grieve that loss. But he went on to, to teach adolescent boys how

• 57:38Speaker 01

  to do long distance cycling. And he was, you know, he was out of the hospital, no meds, and he was, he was doing fine. So. You know, that's an experience I will, I will not forget. And it shows you how, the interesting thing about hypnosis is how much, you know, people think you're losing control. You watch this guy doing this, and I was, I was reassuring myself, I was holding on to his arm while I was doing this. But I was struck by how much control we both had over the mental, these extreme emotional states he was in and shifting from one to another, despite how intense they were.

• 58:20Speaker 01

  And that's one of the really cool things about hypnosis is that you can be very intense, deal with intense emotions, but help people feel themselves as different people. So he was dissociated in the sense that he was two different guys. He was, on the one hand, terribly upset and angry about the loss, and angry at himself for somehow not having been able to prevent this in the middle of a war. But at the same time, he could be the loving guy who grieved this boy and who recognized the gift he, they had given to one another in forming the relationship that they formed. So the capacity to focus intently, to control what's going on in mind and body, but also to be comfortable with the idea that you can be two different people in a sense, that

• 59:05Speaker 01

  you can be this horribly angry, furious guy at himself and everyone else about what happened, and at the same time, this warm, loving parent to this poor little kid, is, is something that is a real strength of hypnosis.

• 59:24Jay Shetty?

  What, I mean, thank you for sharing that story, super fascinating. I hope there's somewhere we can read and learn about all of these.

• 59:30Speaker 01

  Yes, yes.

• 59:31Jay Shetty?

  Please let us know where.

• 59:33Speaker 01

  I will.

• 59:33Jay Shetty?

  Where the audience can go to, to learn more. But what makes someone unhypnotizable and when someone...

• 59:43Jay Shetty?

  Isn't open to it and it doesn't work on them. What do they do about it? Can they develop the ability to become more hypnotizable? What can they do to open themselves up to if they feel it's a modality that could help them?

• 59:55Speaker 01

  Well, Jay, there's good news and bad news about this. The good news is that most children are in trance states most of the time. You know, all eight year olds, you know, you they're out playing, you call them in for dinner. They don't hear you, they're doing anything. Work and play is all the same thing for kids. They're they live in their imagination, so they live hypnotic like experiences all the time. And they can change all the time and be different and play at being different. And and so it's one of the wonderful things about childhood is that you're in a more of a hypnotic consciousness state more of the time. But as we go through adolescence, we go through what the famous psychologist Piaget called formal consciousness

• 1:00:37Speaker 01

  in which you evaluate more and and experiencing is less a part of that. So you you learn to try to be more logical and and analyze more and just let yourself feel things less. So some people lose some of that hypnotic ability when they acquire these formal operations. And there are about 20% of the population who by the time they're 21 just are not very hypnotizable. They're very logical and in Reverie, where we have the hypnotizability test, we call them the researchers. You they want to examine and evaluate everything. At the other extreme, some people retain extremely high hypnotizability.

• 1:01:21Speaker 01

  And we call them the poets. They just get into it. They just absorb themselves in anything. I had one guy recently who gets he loved getting lost in movies. You know, he just he just enters another world. He becomes an actor in the movie and part of it. And he decided, he loved it so much that he went to film school to learn how to make movies. And he said, you know what, it was spoiling my experience of movies. Cause I started thinking, well, why did they put the camera over here and the lighting isn't right and all this? And he said, so I quit film school. I was losing that ability. About sixty percent of the adult population are, they're moderately hypnotizable. They haven't experienced, then they step back and reflect on it, and then they try it again.

• 1:02:04Speaker 01

  Most of them can benefit to some extent from reverie, from other hypnotic techniques. Because even if you're not in it all the time, if you can dip into it and have the experience, you can change. And part of what we offer with reverie is not just hypnosis, but the way we use hypnosis. And I think there's some of this in, you know, Thinking Like a Monk, where you talk about, you know, the value of positivity, of having a, finding a positive aspect of even the most menial things that you have to do. And with hypnosis, we try to use it in a way that you focus on what you're for. So when people wanna stop smoking, I don't say, oh, cigarettes smell terrible, you know, they're awful things to do, look at what you're doing to your body.

• 1:02:48Speaker 01

  I say, have them, recite this to yourself, for my body, smoking is a poison. I need my body to live. I owe my body respect and protection. So you're being a better parent to your own body. You'd never put, you know, tar and nicotine laden smoke into your baby's lungs or your pet's lungs. Why would you do it to your own body? It depends on you. So you, people can get with that approach to the problem, even if they're, they're not that hypnotizable. Focusing on what you're for. So can you change it? It's remarkably stable trait. We, I didn't, but colleagues of mine at Stanford did a twenty-five year follow-up

• 1:03:29Speaker 01

  on former students who in psych one had had their hypnotizability measured. And they blindly retested them twenty-five years later. The test retest reliability was point seven. Now that's as, that's as reliable as IQ is over that interval. And, and so it's an extremely stable trait.

• 1:03:52Speaker 01

  There are, we just published a paper recently in which we used a technique called transcranial magnetic stimulation, in which you apply magnetic activity to the surface of the skull, and if you line it up in the right place, you can connect between the prefrontal cortex to deeper components of the brain, like the dorsal anterior cingulate. And we found that we could transiently increase hypnotizability a bit, and we're hoping that we can expand upon that and maybe find ways to increase hypnotizability. But I'd say for most people, just make good use of what you've got. The odds are that you will be able to benefit, and we're struck by the fact that at least four out of five people

• 1:04:35Speaker 01

  who use Reverie feel immediate improvement, and that's a whole, it is correlated with their hypnotizability. We looked at that. The more hypnotizable ones were more likely to respond, but, but most people responded to some extent, anyway.

• 1:04:49Jay Shetty?

  David, is there anything I didn't ask you that you really feel is on your heart and mind that you want to share, that's intuitively something you'd like to share?

• 1:04:56Speaker 01

  Well, thank you. I certainly, you know, I want to kind of banish the fear that people have about hypnosis and the misunderstanding, you know, we're, we're sort of, you remember Rodney Dangerfield, you know, he was the comedian who said, "I don't get no respect." And he said, "They asked me to leave a bar so they could start happy hour," you know, it's, people don't see hypnosis as the tool that it is, and they see it as some weird thing that, you know, people do on stage or something. It's, it's an aspect of our brains that allows us to take control of things. It's not, it's not losing control,

• 1:05:37Speaker 01

  it's gaining control, that you can modulate pain, you can control your sense of relaxation so you can get to sleep or get back to sleep. You can focus intently on your work. There are athletes who who who use it, you know, Tiger Woods is one well-known example of an athlete who Adele, the singer, uses it to to sing. It can really help people focus their attention and and get in a better relationship with their own bodies, control what's going on in their bodies and react better to their bodies. There's so much possibility that people can have from learning to identify it and use

• 1:06:19Speaker 01

  it, that that's why I built Reverie as a kind of legacy project. I'm not going to be able to do this forever. I love helping the people I'm help. I have helped and still help, but I just want it to be out there and available for people to use it for themselves and just explore it. It's it's it's it's it's an opportunity for people to make better use of their brains and their bodies.

• 1:06:43Jay Shetty?

  Absolutely. Thank you so much.

• 1:06:46Speaker 01

  You're welcome.

• 1:06:47Jay Shetty?

  And we end every episode of On Purpose with a final five. These have to be answered in one word to one sentence. Dr. David Spiegel, these are your fast five, your final five. Question number one is, what is the best advice you've ever heard or received?

• 1:07:02Speaker 01

  I would say the best advice came from reading Kierkegaard, Fear and Trembling, which is that what we are is about relationships and relating to ourselves, that don't get stuck in any one image of who you are, which is not so different from from what you write about with with mindfulness.

• 1:07:24Jay Shetty?

  Second, what is the worst advice you've ever had or received?

• 1:07:29Speaker 01

  Don't think about purple elephants.

• 1:07:31Jay Shetty?

  Question number three, which you can expand on, is

• 1:07:40Jay Shetty?

  How do we get over our fear of revisiting the past? Hypnotherapy, opening up to new modalities that we, you know, that aren't as familiar even, you know, we're almost not scared to put a pill in our body or injection, as you said, or sometimes have a surgery, but these things feel scarier.

• 1:08:00Speaker 01

  Well, try it, you'll like it, you know. I think that's the nice thing about it. You know, the biggest risk is it might not work. There are no side effects, you know. Opioids killed 88,000 Americans last year. Hypnosis has not succeeded yet in killing anybody. It's a, so I think, try it. You know, we tend, we, our, our culture is so over-processed. You know, it's all, you know, big companies, things, processing, and a lot of times what we do with our food and our medications and other things make us worse rather than better.

• 1:08:41Speaker 01

  So this is a do it yourself approach with some training, and that's what I want people to do.

• 1:08:48Jay Shetty?

  Amazing. And question number four, how would you define your current purpose?

• 1:08:53Speaker 01

  My current purpose is helping people help themselves. That's what I want to do. And that's why I say all hypnosis is self-hypnosis. I'm not a magician. I'm not doing anything to you. And my purpose is to just spread it as widely as we can, as quick as we can.

• 1:09:09Jay Shetty?

  Amazing. And fifth and final question, if you could create one law that everyone in the world had to follow, what would it be?

• 1:09:16Speaker 01

  It would be that a Supreme Court judge could last no longer than 15 years. We, we need the rule of law and we're losing it.

• 1:09:27Jay Shetty?

  Absolutely. Dr. David Spiegel, thank you so much for joining. I hope that our audience will. Practice along with me, join Reverie and continue to connect with Dr. David Spiegel's work. Such a joy and honor to be with you today and so grateful for you making the trip over and I look forward to reconnecting very soon.

• 1:09:45Speaker 01

  Thank you, I hope so and I so admire what you're doing and helping people discover what they can do for themselves, within themselves. Thank you.

• 1:09:52Jay Shetty?

  Thank you so much. If you loved this episode, you'll love my interview with Dr. Gabor Maté on understanding your trauma and how to heal emotional wounds to start moving on from the past.

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