Kylie & Brie Larson on Kelce Sisters Salon Mishap, Jason NFL Fine Pep Talk & Marvel Madness | Ep. 41

Kylie’s back for a brand new episode of Not Gonna Lie presented by Skittles and kicks things off by shouting out some Real One Comments of the Week highlighting a hilarious family costume idea and a behind-the-scenes clip of Kylie on The Other Podcast (2:37). Plus… Japanese Maples. That’s all. Then, in Doomscroll of the Week, Kylie reacts to Commanders WR Chris Moore’s wife Toria Moore’s viral TikTok where she is showing him acceptable touchdown dances that won’t get him fined (4:26). Kylie shares the exact pep talk she used to give Jason about not getting fined when he was playing in the NFL. Kylie then weighs in on the phenomenon that is “the millennial pause" (8:20). After that, Kylie brings back “Places Kylie Has *Some* Business Being” after putting on a youth field hockey clinic for girls in the Philadelphia area (12:30). Kylie talks about what it was like to be asked to sign equipment and is then interrupted by a couple of her own tiny humans (14:09). Kylie then answers a couple great “Ask Me *Some* Things” questions from the Real Ones about what she would do if she received a trick-or-treater dressed up in Cowboys gear (15:45) and what specific items she needs to hide from her children around the house. Kylie also reveals which of the girls is most likely to cut her sister’s hair (16:55). She also asks the Real Ones to send in questions for next week's very special guest! Kylie is then joined by Academy Award winning actress Brie Larson (22:35)! Kylie and Brie connect over their love for Disney Channel Original Movies, as well as the feeling of wanting to hide at parties (25:32). Brie gives some advice for others to feel more like a “party person” in honor of her brand new cookbook. Brie also talks about going on tour with Jesse McCartney as a teenager and some more of her throwback roles like playing one of the Six Chicks in “13 Going On 30" (39:45). Kylie then asks Brie about the viral moment of her meeting JLo on a red carpet (32:08), the transformation of becoming Captain Marvel (40:45) and what it was like shaving off her hair for a role in a play earlier this year (45:50). Make sure you tune into More Sh*t Monday on the Not Gonna Lie YouTube channel for more exclusive clips. NOTE FROM THE DESK OF QUEEN EMMA: Kylie and Brie had an incredible conversation but NGL did experience technical difficulties due to a major nationwide outage earlier this week. We apologize for some of the audio hiccups in today’s episode. The team is on it, we appreciate you Real Ones! . . . Purchase NGL Merch: www.nglkylie.com Support the Show: Skittles: Check out ‘Ghost Roommate’! Tune in to watch the entire 63 second series on Skittles Tiktok @Skittles Taste The Rainbow. Liquid IV: Go to LiquidIV.com and get 20% off your first order with code NGL at checkout Old Navy: Shop in store & online at OldNavy.com Toyota: To learn more about the Toyota Sienna, please visit www.toyota.com/Sienna Peloton: Let yourself run, lift, sculpt, push, and go. Explore the new Peloton Cross Training Tread+ at onepeloton.com Check out Brie’s new cookbook “Party People”!" AVAILABLE NOW https://www.amazon.com/Party-People-Cookbook-Creative-Celebrations/dp/0593970020 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• 0:00Kylie Kelce?

  This episode is brought to you by Invisalign. Look at her. She did that. Ta-da. In college, I got Invisalign aligners because I wanted to actually look in the mirror and feel confident in my smile. I think that a smile is one of the best things that you can possibly have. I think one of the best things that you can put on is a smile. I'm not just saying that because it's like some old quote or something. I'm saying it because I truly believe that when you can smile and really mean it, like when it goes all the way up to your eyes because you're confident and you're happy and you're feeling joy, who doesn't want to see that? More importantly, who doesn't want to feel that? But let's talk about something beyond how your smile looks, taking care of it. And since we've already established that I take flossing very seriously, this part deserves a little attention. Invisalign aligners straighten teeth, making it easier to brush and floss,

• 0:45Kylie Kelce?

  reducing plaque and lowering the risk of cavities and gum disease. I have to be really careful to make sure that I'm keeping up with my oral hygiene because I have little muffins that watch me. And I need to make sure that they're modeling that same care for their own teeth. Back in college, I was thinking about how my smile would look. Now I appreciate that there's more to it than that. Look at her. Look at her. Ooh, she's cute. Look at her. Wow. And if you're thinking about starting your smile journey, make sure you're getting Invisalign aligners. Look for the star flower logo on every aligner so you know you're getting Invisalign, backed by experience and trusted by doctors. Find an Invisalign doctor near you today. This football season, whether you're buying tickets, booking travel,

• 1:28Kylie Kelce?

  or shopping for team gear, protect your pocket with Visa. Tapping to pay without checking which card? Not a pro move. Tapping to pay with Visa? That's a pro move. Visa runs more than 500 security checks to help identify fraud before transactions are approved. So you can focus your defensive energy on other things, like defending your nachos from your hungry, hungry husband. That might not be a pro move, but paying with Visa is. Visa, the most trusted way to pay for football fans everywhere. Not going to lie, oftentimes when I wear my hair in a bun, much like this bun, I am told by Wyatt that she does not like my hair like this. What a way to start the day. Let's get this podcast started.

• 2:16Kylie Kelce?

  Welcome back to Not Gonna Lie, a Wave original brought to you by Skittles. Taste the rainbow, or taste the broken rainbow. Get it? I'm your host, Kylie Kelsey. I know a lot of detailed facts about tigers. If you don't know what chuffing is, look it up. Whatever you do, don't call me a wag. And I'm a big fan of Japanese maples.

• 2:42Kylie Kelce?

  A lot of people caught on to the fact that I changed my Instagram bio. And let's, let's really address why, because some of you mother can sniff that shit faster than I can even explain. I don't think people get notifications for people changing their bio, but maybe they do. And that's crazy sauce. I put it in my bio because

• 3:05Kylie Kelce?

  I thought it was funny and I love my husband. Coming up on today's episode, I'm going to answer a few more of your questions for me in a brand new addition of Ask Me Some Things, featuring items in our house I have to hide from our kids. Plus, for this week's doom scroll, a fellow NFL wife's take on celebrating touchdowns. The key? Without getting fined.

• 3:26Kylie Kelce?

  Can't wait to talk about it. After that, I'm going to be joined by, you guessed it, another guest. That I have no business speaking to. We have Captain Marvel herself, Academy Award winning actress Brie Larson. But first, I got to shout out our Real One Comments of the Week. On our last episode, I said I was done with family Halloween costumes after the Little Mermaid fiasco of 2023. This year, we might just have three Elsa's, to which at Dora Winifred responded, "Hear me out, dot, dot, dot, six Elsa's." Honestly? I'm so into that. I'm so into that. If I could get Ellie to not be Anna.

• 4:13Kylie Kelce?

  I'd do it in a heartbeat.

• 4:16Kylie Kelce?

  But I can't have five Elsas and one Anna. Finn is going to be Anna so that we have two and two, two Anas, two Elsas. That's the plan, though. Who knows? Next up, I was featured in a behind the scenes clip from the other podcast. If you haven't seen it, Queen M of the clip, please.

• 4:32Speaker 01

  That's my wife calling me. Hello, darling.

• 4:35Speaker 02

  Ow.

• 4:38Speaker 01

  I meant hello Kylie.

• 4:39Speaker 02

  Darling.

• 4:40Speaker 01

  Sorry. Hello, darling.

• 4:44Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 4:44Speaker 01

  How things go for you today?

• 4:47Speaker 02

  What are you doing for dinner?

• 4:49Speaker 01

  Um, eating some type of animal carcass.

• 4:54Speaker 02

  You must still be on the podcast.

• 4:56Speaker 01

  I have.

• 4:56Kylie Kelce?

  A couple of the top comments from the real ones and the 92 percenters. Someone said, Jason, hello, darling. Kylie, ew, darling. Ha ha. Love her. Guys, I don't know how many times I have to say it. Darling, hun, honey, dear baby, babe. No. And he doesn't call me darling on a regular basis. I want to point that out. That is, that was very out of the ordinary. Uh, the other main takeaway from this clip, Kylie is all of us. Someone else just freaking decide on dinner. I do, I thought it was very funny reading these comments.

• 5:35Kylie Kelce?

  Because I didn't scroll very far, but I found that the common theme was that everyone is exhausted. Every, every spouse, every, anyone in a relationship is exhausted by the question, what's for dinner? What do you want for dinner?

• 5:59Kylie Kelce?

  I didn't even know. There are so many people. She has decision fatigue. How cool would it be if you ask someone, what do you want to eat? And they looked you straight down the barrel and said, I want a salad from this store. I want a pizza from that place. I want a cheesesteak from you know where. That'd be so cool. Moving on, let's get right into doom scroll. The week first up on doom scroll, commander's wide receiver, Chris Moore's wife, Tori Moore, is showing her husband touchdown dances that will not get him fined.

• 6:31Kylie Kelce?

  And I love that so much. Queen Emma, the clip, please. It says, showing my husband touchdown celebrations he should have done instead of launching the ball and getting fined. For those of you who don't know, in the NFL, there are so many times that you will get fined. Sorry, NFL, I'm telling all your secrets. One thing you are not allowed to do is launch the ball as a celebration. You're not allowed to do that. I don't think you're allowed to launch anything into the stands specifically. Not allowed. So,

• 7:11Kylie Kelce?

  as his better half, Toria was just trying to offer up better options

• 7:19Kylie Kelce?

  to show excitement and celebration that will not require you to have payroll deducted.

• 7:28Kylie Kelce?

  I do not personally know Toria, but

• 7:33Kylie Kelce?

  that's a good idea, girl. I love that idea. I used to, my husband, as an offensive lineman, was not coming into scoring opportunities and therefore was not often partaking in touchdown celebrations. Also, he is on record saying that typically when they would make the march down the field, he was tired. So like, he's not going to the end zone to celebrate when he still has to get to the sideline before the extra point setup. He's a big man. Big men like to go straight where they're supposed to go and don't make many stops along the way. So he did not have many opportunities to celebrate

• 8:15Kylie Kelce?

  or create many opportunities for himself to celebrate. But what I did often, often remind him

• 8:25Kylie Kelce?

  was that if a fight broke out,

• 8:29Kylie Kelce?

  That he better keep all 10 of his piggy toes on the outside of that field.

• 8:38Kylie Kelce?

  Cause you want to know another way they pop you? If you so much as step a foot onto that field when you were not previously on that field. While there is a fight happening. Even if you went out there to break it up, find.

• 9:01Kylie Kelce?

  Find dollars out of your pocket into the NFLs. They, they don't fuck around with that.

• 9:10Kylie Kelce?

  They do not fuck around with that. And now, again, I could be misrepresenting this, but this was my understanding. If the rules have changed. Cool. But I'm telling you, when Jason was there, that was my pep talk.

• 9:28Kylie Kelce?

  My pep talk was like, hey, doesn't involve you, you keep your ass where it is. Don't, don't do it. Cause as much as I would love to say that Jason would be the one that would hop in there and be the peacekeeper breaking it up.

• 9:48Kylie Kelce?

  You and I both know. You and I both know.

• 9:55Kylie Kelce?

  I'm pretty sure he was going and swinging. It's not, no. No. Uh-uh. To be fair.

• 10:05Kylie Kelce?

  To, don't come for me, NFL.

• 10:09Kylie Kelce?

  To be fair.

• 10:12Kylie Kelce?

  Things are put in place like launching the ball into the stands. I completely understand why that rule was put into place. I get it. I get that you have to keep the peace and find everybody that wants to hop in on a fight. I get it. Love you, NFL. And last thing on doom scroll, there's a TikTok trend right now of Gen Zers practicing their best millennial paws. And I feel personally victimized. Queen Emma, the clip, please?

• 10:41Speaker 03

  Okay, so. Okay, um. So I just wanted to. Hi, guys.

• 10:51Speaker 03

  Six, seven?

• 10:53Kylie Kelce?

  Oh.

• 11:00Kylie Kelce?

  Okay, for those of you who might not understand the concept of a millennial pause, I'm gonna give you the best explanation that I can give, which is a very broken understanding of what the millennial pause is, but considering I often do it, apparently, maybe I'm the perfect person to explain this. It is when you start recording a video and you don't immediately start your words, that you sort of take an extra second to think. It might be dead space, it might be an "um," it might be a "so I was thinking." All of these would fall under the realm of millennial pause. Basically, it's an amount of time at the beginning of a video that we are not providing any information,

• 11:46Kylie Kelce?

  that we have not hurried to the point, which seems rushed.

• 11:57Kylie Kelce?

  That's the best I've got. That's my understanding. If I'm wrong, fuck me.

• 12:03Kylie Kelce?

  Can we keep that? I was actually informed by some of my former field hockey players that I am

• 12:13Kylie Kelce?

  known to millennial pause.

• 12:16Kylie Kelce?

  So...

• 12:19Kylie Kelce?

  Thanks, girls. Appreciate ya. I'm gonna start doing it on purpose, and I'm gonna start doing it for an extended amount of time. A very long pause. I feel like Gen Z'ers having a problem with our pause, or our lack of a sense of urgency in how we start our videos. Is there a need for like, as fast as we can do it, chill out, chill out, chill out. Take a deep breath. You don't need us to be speaking like a chipmunk.

• 13:02Kylie Kelce?

  Chill out. We'll get there. God. Haven't you heard of "Enjoy the journey"?

• 13:13Kylie Kelce?

  Enjoy it. Sit down. If you don't want to stick around, guess what? I'm going to start millennial pausing. I'm going to start, first of all, I'm going to start making TikToks again. No, I'm not, but we can pretend. It's going to be the equivalent of like,

• 13:29Kylie Kelce?

  hey, so when you guys go to get, like, when you're about to get your period, and then the women will start the video that way, and then all of a sudden it, they pause and they're like, okay, did the guys leave? Are you, is it just, just the women are left, right? Okay, so here's what we need to talk about. It's going to be one of those.

• 13:50Kylie Kelce?

  But with a Gen Z pause. Good luck. If you listen to me on 1.5 speed, you might want to bump it to two times speed. I lis-, I listen, if I, I can't even say I listen, I don't listen to myself. If I were to listen to myself, I listen to it, I just start, I just started a new

• 14:14Kylie Kelce?

  I just started another podcast that if I'm going to listen to a podcast, is the podcast that I would spend my time listening to. Old depths, if you will.

• 14:29Kylie Kelce?

  I listen to it on 1.2.

• 14:32Kylie Kelce?

  So you should probably speed me up to like a good 1.5. I mean, that's it for Doom Scroll the Week. Moving on, a brand new edition of Places Kylie has some business being. I have zero business being in most places, but sometimes there are places that based on my experience or qualifications, I should be there. So I think that my years of playing slash coaching field hockey and the fact that I'm from here.

• 15:05Kylie Kelce?

  Doing a field hockey clinic in our area is probably a place I have a little business being. Not a lot, but some. Yep, that's right. This past weekend, I put on my second youth field hockey clinic. My first one was Stick with KC and this one was right here in Philly. So it was Stick with PHL or Stick with Philadelphia. We were able to partner with Longstreth, which is a sporting goods store here just outside of Philadelphia. They are the people I've been going to for my entire life for my sports equipment. I was asked to sign field hockey balls, shirts, sticks.

• 15:50Kylie Kelce?

  This feels ridiculous. It feels silly. I have no business signing field hockey sticks. Don't anybody, at some point, I literally told one of those children, this just decreased the value of your stick.

• 16:04Kylie Kelce?

  So there's that.

• 16:09Kylie Kelce?

  A peanut!

• 16:12Kylie Kelce?

  That was a quick head snap. Did you see that? Oh, hey girl. Okay, let me feed this child real quick.

• 16:21Kylie Kelce?

  You want to come sit in the chair?

• 16:25Kylie Kelce?

  Fine, don't. You know she plays in the corner in the kitchen and says, "I'm on the podcast." Who do you talk to on Dad's podcast?

• 16:34Kylie Kelce?

  Uncle Travis. Mom and Dad are...

• 16:40Kylie Kelce?

  I smoochy kiss daddy. Alright, you can do the eyebrows real quick for ten minutes and then we'll be all done. And you're gonna go back?

• 16:55Kylie Kelce?

  Can you wink?

• 16:58Kylie Kelce?

  Nice. Nice! That was actually very good. Okay, I love you. Hey, you didn't even look at me when you said it. You gotta look at people you're talking to.

• 17:10Kylie Kelce?

  Listen, if you want more hockey content, just, you know, stay tuned.

• 19:26Kylie Kelce?

  It's everywhere. It's on the couch. It's on the wall. It's on the floor. It's on the table. And guys, this is like, I know there's gonna be a population of people that hear this and say, "Well, that's because you don't..." Kiss my ass. Kiss my fat ass. I've tried everything. We've sat in timeout. We have had to scrub it up ourselves. We have had to, I mean, just, now they go on lockdown. That's our, that's our compromise. To be fair, they are newly six, four and two.

• 20:11Kylie Kelce?

  Their reasoning and

• 20:17Kylie Kelce?

  decision-making, not the best, but for some reason, anything that is

• 20:24Kylie Kelce?

  smooth to go on your human body, head to fucking toe. It is absurd. It's insane. The minute they get a silky crayon, a watercolor paint, any paintbrush with even a hint of color left in it.

• 20:46Kylie Kelce?

  Full face paint, a full, full face of paint.

• 20:52Kylie Kelce?

  It's bananas. I've had enough. Markers striped like a tiger. Suddenly they're tigers.

• 21:01Kylie Kelce?

  Ridiculous. I'm out. You know who will be my childhood cuts hair? And I know it without a doubt. And I feel like I could millennial pause this and everyone can say it together.

• 21:13Kylie Kelce?

  Bennett, Llewellyn, Kelsey. She is my most mischievous child.

• 21:19Kylie Kelce?

  Jason and I are in for it. That does it for Ask Me Some Things, Real Ones. This is an official call to action. Please send all the Halloween-related questions you can think of. I'm going to be joined by a very special guest next week, and we want all the questions. You can also ask about the family, after wax care, being married to me, Japanese maples, Queen Emma. I'm, I think I'm making it too obvious who this guest is. Too bad. Comment here on YouTube, on Spotify, or tag us on any social media @NGOWithKylie. We're going to answer a bunch of your questions next week. Coming up, Brie Larson is joining me, but first, Skittles.

• 22:02Kylie Kelce?

  Real Ones, if you're a type C parent or a type C person like me, and sometimes need reminders for everything on your to-do list, consider this your official reminder to buy that candy for your trick-or-treaters. Yep. I also recommend adding Skittles to your bowl. And if you've already got your Skittles, and you're looking for even more Skittles-related fun, you got to check out their new TikTok series. That's just a doom scroll away called Ghost Roommate. That's right, Skittles is flipping the script on the whole spooky angle, and instead, hit us with a 90's-style sitcom. Ghost Roommate follows two roommates, one human, one ghost, as they navigate life, Halloween, and their love for Skittles. And my favorite part about each episode, it's only six seconds long.

• 22:46Kylie Kelce?

  In my opinion, some of the best internet videos of all time are six seconds long. R.I.P. Vine. Fans can binge-watch the full season on TikTok in 63 seconds. Only way it could have been better, if it was 62 seconds. Check out Ghost Roommate and grab some Skittles this Halloween. Sitcom the rainbow. Taste the rainbow. This episode is sponsored by, dude, that was a yell. That was a Jason yell. That was so Jason-coded, it wasn't even funny. Wow. This episode is sponsored by Liquid IV. We're definitely in our busiest season here at my house. I'm coaching field hockey, doing the podcast, Jason's broadcasting. We've got all sorts of events coming up, and to

• 23:27Kylie Kelce?

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• 24:12Kylie Kelce?

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• 24:34Kylie Kelce?

  She's the Academy Award-winning actress you know from Captain Marvel, Avengers: Endgame, 21 Jump Street, Room, Trainwreck, and of course, the classics like the Disney Channel original, Right on Track and 13 Going on 30, where she was one of the six chicks. Now she's got a brand new cookbook called Party People and she's officially not gonna lie. Brie Larson, welcome to the show.

• 24:56Speaker 04

  Thank you for having me.

• 24:57Kylie Kelce?

  Oh, I'm so excited to talk to you. I mean, really throwing it back all the way to the Disney Channel days.

• 25:04Speaker 04

  And thank you for doing that.

• 25:05Kylie Kelce?

  I don't think that it would be appropriate not to list that.

• 25:09Speaker 04

  Oh, it was a really big deal for me, honestly. It was like my first big actor transformation because I had to dye my hair brown. It was a big deal.

• 25:18Kylie Kelce?

  I love that so much.

• 25:20Speaker 04

  You're like, I have to dye my hair for a movie.

• 25:22Kylie Kelce?

  But also, growing up in the generation that I did and really understanding what a Disney Channel original movie was to us, that's a huge fucking deal. Like, it really is.

• 25:34Speaker 04

  No, and you know, I auditioned for, to just get right into it. You know, I was auditioning for these DCOMs every month and I was not getting them.

• 25:45Kylie Kelce?

  Is it so crazy to think back to when you were that young? Because you, it really, how old were you when you guys filmed that movie?

• 25:53Speaker 04

  I don't know. I want to say like 14, but no, maybe that's not even true. Maybe I was younger. Maybe I was 13. I was young.

• 26:02Kylie Kelce?

  And even just now recalling that and remembering you getting to dye your hair for a part and getting to sort of step into that role.

• 26:13Speaker 04

  Mm hmm.

• 26:13Kylie Kelce?

  That has to be such a cool memory to be able to be like, yeah, I got to go to my friends and be like, my hair a different color? Yeah, it's because I got was cast.

• 26:21Speaker 04

  I got cast. No, of course. I mean, I, there's so much about when I was younger and auditioning that is so clear to me because they're such deep visceral memories. Like, I think the way that I felt so much pain when I didn't get something and so much excitement when I did. It's more like as we grow up, like hopefully we've learned how to like balance these things out a little bit more. When I think back, it's like I desired getting the new Nintendo console like so hard. And I desired getting a job that was like Disney Channel movie. Like, those are the things that like I would get heartburn at 12 years old because I desired so much.

• 27:05Speaker 04

  I think I'm still seeking this thing that I experienced as a child, like wanting something so badly and not always getting to be in charge of when you got that, you know?

• 27:15Kylie Kelce?

  Now, in terms of not knowing your fate, you knew your fate when you wrote this cookbook. You had to know that people were gonna love it, right? People.

• 27:25Speaker 04

  I don't.

• 27:25Kylie Kelce?

  Party People Cookbook.

• 27:28Speaker 04

  I know, I'm dealing with imposter syndrome every day on this. I am. It's, it's not like just because something matters to you, you know that it's gonna matter to everybody else. But I feel, I feel very confident that what's cool about a book is that it lives on in a different way than like a movie that has like a box office opening. Like, it's more about this thing that gets to live in bookstores and people can find it forever now. And I think that what it said matters and it matters beyond me and Courtney. And so I'm, I'm very excited for it to come out.

• 28:00Kylie Kelce?

  I would like to congratulate you on it. Everyone should go get this book. I say this all the time, but I famously love to hide in a corner and sometimes even at parties. I just wanna like sort of melt into the wall. I saw that you also used to not be a party person. But obviously, releasing a cookbook called Party People.

• 28:23Kylie Kelce?

  Give me some tips here how we can move in the direction of being more of a party person.

• 28:28Speaker 04

  Yeah, being a party person doesn't mean that like you want to go to the club in Las Vegas because like I'm still not even that type of party person. But there's all kinds. We need people in the clubs in Las Vegas so that I don't have to, you know? And so in a world where we're all party people, my vibe is more like I like to host at my house. I like games. I like Lego parties and I like a, a, a party that's just two. Like you and your best friend, just like eating and bragging and complaining about the things that are happening. It's more about recognizing that it's okay to not want to go to every single party. And it's okay to be nervous about throwing or hosting. Parties should be the place

• 29:11Speaker 04

  in a world where we are all stressed out and we are overworked and we are like over, um, overstimulated, that parties can be a place where we can just drop all of it. Part of it is like, I have so many people in my life that want to be around friends and community, but they're worried that their house isn't pretty enough or their apartment is too small. And I'm like, no, no, and celebrate your life and all of these things. Allow this to be a place where you're allowed to be free. We don't get to have the same freedom every aspect of our life, but with a party, we should.

• 29:46Kylie Kelce?

  I feel like you just described the type of party, maybe the only type of party I want to be at. The idea of like the imperfections of it are part of the best part of the part, like that's so, that's, that's a warm hug and I want that party.

• 30:04Speaker 04

  Yes, of course you do. And whether you're attending that party or you're hosting that party, that's, I think, where we can get to in this life is like just to drop our shoulders a little bit and say, whatever it is that we're afraid of, we don't have to. And, um, You know, people do the thing where they're like, it's my birthday, something happy birthday. Like, don't, don't, don't act like it's my birthday. And I'm like, I wouldn't get into that. Like, what, what is it about us that has made us then go, I don't want to acknowledge that I'm alive, that I exist, that I've done so many highs and lows and everything, because we're celebrating everything. Getting a pair of jeans.

• 30:45Kylie Kelce?

  I can get down with a party for that.

• 30:47Speaker 04

  Yeah. Can you imagine? Please come over. I found the most incredible pair of jeans. They were on sale. You'd be like, girl, I'm there. And like, you hang up the jeans and everybody's like, bow down to these glorious jeans. Like, everything. I just feel like, when in doubt, you should be having a party. And you're always going to be happier. And it's, I'm talking about the type of party to where you leave and you feel like your cup was filled up. Not, you feel like you left.

• 31:11Kylie Kelce?

  Drained. I want you to know for certain that I'm going to get this book. I am going to find the best pair of jeans I've ever found. And then I'm going to throw a party about it.

• 31:24Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 31:25Kylie Kelce?

  And I am going to make the photo op, everybody taking a picture with my ass looking bomb in a new pair of jeans.

• 31:32Speaker 04

  That is right. Yes.

• 31:34Kylie Kelce?

  I get it now. I'm so in on this.

• 31:39Kylie Kelce?

  Now, you also did the high heel challenge while posing with the book, and I've seen so many of these. And every time, my question is, how?

• 31:49Speaker 04

  I don't know either. Okay. I thought it was an optical illusion. And so, somebody was like, you should do this. And I was like, haha. Some of these were wild. There was somebody on heels on top of their, like, dancing with Lars Trophy. I don't even understand. It was a disco ball. But I did it on two cans of beans that I had in my pantry.

• 32:08Kylie Kelce?

  So good.

• 32:10Speaker 04

  It's so, it's like the most viral thing I've ever done in my life, which I don't know how I feel about, but.

• 32:16Kylie Kelce?

  I just love, I just love it's you, your book, and your beans.

• 32:20Speaker 04

  Yeah, literally two cans of butter beans that I had in my pantry. I did it.

• 32:24Kylie Kelce?

  Very impressive.

• 32:26Speaker 04

  Thank you. Thank you.

• 32:27Kylie Kelce?

  Now, right around the same time that you did the Disney Channel movie, you also signed a record deal.

• 32:33Speaker 04

  Uh huh.

• 32:35Kylie Kelce?

  And opened for Jesse McCartney on his Beautiful Soul Tour?

• 32:40Speaker 04

  That is true. Very good journalism. I did.

• 32:45Kylie Kelce?

  What was your reaction to hearing you were going on tour with Jesse McCartney?

• 32:49Speaker 04

  I was out of my mind. Are you kidding? I was so excited. I was going on tour. I had a tour bus. That's like stuff of dreams. Like that, that part of my life, this like brief part of my life where I was pop star is like such a fever dream and so bizarre and such a weird detour. That's so funny and weird and it's just bizarre. The whole thing is just bizarre that the music industry is, it wasn't for me. It didn't always feel truthful.

• 33:19Kylie Kelce?

  You tried it. You gave it, I mean, you gave it such a good effort that you ended up with a tour bus.

• 33:25Speaker 04

  Yeah, exactly.

• 33:25Kylie Kelce?

  That's a full commit.

• 33:27Speaker 04

  That was a commit. It was a commit and it was great.

• 33:30Kylie Kelce?

  And honestly impressive.

• 33:32Speaker 04

  And there's that too. Yeah. It's funny. I think it's really funny and I love, I love music, but I like seriously love pop music. Like still to this day, it's like, I think it's one of the highest art forms to be able to tell, like, that's part of what I seek in my own work. I just do it through character work, but like, to have universal messages that are told in a way that's accessible to people in a way that's like clear, but abstract enough for people to make it their own. That's such a gorgeous art form. That's similar and also completely different from mine. And so like all the pop stars, those are my heroes. Those are my gods. I would not be here without J Lo.

• 34:11Kylie Kelce?

  You just reminded me about the red carpet clip.

• 34:16Kylie Kelce?

  When you are in the middle of an interview or ending your interview and J Lo comes up.

• 34:21Speaker 04

  Oh yeah, yeah. And I cried. I cried so hard immediately.

• 34:25Kylie Kelce?

  Can't deal with J Lo.

• 34:28Kylie Kelce?

  I feel like your reaction was what everyone else assumes their reaction would be had they been graced with the presence of the glowing J Lo. Like her in front of you, it was the perfect, it was the perfect example of exactly how I feel like most everyone's brain would be if she just glided up those steps towards them and they were just like, oh my gosh.

• 34:58Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 34:58Kylie Kelce?

  That's her.

• 34:59Speaker 04

  Like she was part of my awakening to myself. Uh, my mom took me to go see Selena in the theaters and I like balled my eyes out. I was like, that's what I want to do. And so she's such a huge moment for me of where I was like, oh, that's a job. That's what you can do. I want to do that. And so somehow in all of this time of my life, I'd never been, I'd never seen her in person. I mean, I'm sure there were times where we were in the same room, but I had never seen her. And like to be there with my mom, I don't know if in the clip you can see my mom at all, but like my mom's crying. I kept her into mom. She's like, I know, honey. I know. Like we were both just like,

• 35:41Speaker 04

  you know, my childhood, me like couldn't believe it.

• 35:45Kylie Kelce?

  That's such a beautiful moment though, to be able to, to say that to her.

• 35:50Speaker 04

  Mm hmm.

• 35:51Kylie Kelce?

  Like to be able to, to be able to express your gratitude in being able to be a fan of her and what it meant for your career.

• 36:00Speaker 04

  Oh, no, that's the best. I mean, I still, I still am in the habit like writing an email to people when they do something, whether it's music or a painting or a movie that I feel like really gets me. I'll write a note, thank them. I actually think unless. Unless you're somebody that's like, I don't know, even even artists, you have to like be perpetually on tour, I think, to to be in relation with human people saying, thank you. For me, a movie comes out, it's hard for me to grapple with what that success, if it is success, what that even looks like, because you're not in dialogue with people. The movies are like out in theaters. I'm like hiding at home.

• 36:43Kylie Kelce?

  Those conversations are happening independent of of you. They're happening removed.

• 36:48Speaker 04

  You sometimes miss that something that you did mattered to somebody. And so even for J Lo, there's moments where she has self doubt. I am where I am because of that. To tell her that, and also like how amazing it is to be able to say that, like artist to artist, like now here we are, like walking the same floor. Like, that's so cool.

• 37:08Kylie Kelce?

  That's such a kind thought to be the type of person who wants to share their gratitude. Because I think you're absolutely right. It is a feeling that it's, I can only imagine that it is overwhelmingly positive and also few and far between when you reach a certain level of success that people probably just assume that you are so secure and so happy with everything that you wouldn't still appreciate those those finer moments of gratitude that you were able to express to her.

• 37:44Speaker 04

  Absolutely, absolutely. And about the artistry too, like for the art, it's one thing when like a when you person can inspire somebody, which, you know, her work ethic does that too. But I also, um, I also love, it's part of why, like, as somebody who's quite introverted and I get nervous and I like my privacy and I I'm not like the greatest when it comes to being like the public person that I am. But I've found that I really get a lot out of these like meet and greet and fan events, which I started doing a couple of years ago. Because you get to then have that face to face. I mean, you learn like what a character did for somebody and how it moved them in their life or shifted.

• 38:28Speaker 04

  Because I'm going through my own stuff in my life, too.

• 38:31Kylie Kelce?

  For anyone unfamiliar with my minivan saga, let me quickly give you the spark notes here. First, I was vehemently against driving one, but then I realized I was about to have four children, five and under, and therefore four car seats. My husband wanted one, my kids were all about it, so I caved. And now I kind of love my Toyota Sienna, and she's green. Go Birds. Now that you're caught up, the Toyota Sienna has definitely been a game changer for us this fall, as the girls have started school and I've been coaching field hockey. I can't stand how much I enjoy the fact that the girls can independently climb in and out of this car, that they love pressing the button to open the doors, that they can get in safely, that I can vacuum up all the goldfish that are all over the floor. You know?

• 39:17Kylie Kelce?

  And then I have the trunk space to make sure I can fit a wagon so that they can all be contained wherever we're going, because that's important. It's also available in all-wheel drive, perfect for Philadelphia winter coming up. Check out a Sienna for yourself and go for a test drive at your local Toyota dealership today. Guys, we're about a week away from Halloween, which means we're also close to the unofficial start of the holiday season. Soon we'll put the pumpkins and all the decorations that scare my children away and break out the Christmas lights and our favorite festive outfits. You can celebrate the magic of the season with Old Navy. I love that Old Navy not only has some of the comfiest, coziest options, but they also offer tall sizes.

• 40:00Kylie Kelce?

  From holiday parties to gatherings with your friends to family photos, you can find the perfect looks at prices as delightful as Old Navy's adorable styles. I'm also a big fan of shopping online, and you can get everything you need right at OldNavy.com. I love online shopping because you don't have to pack everyone up in the car, take them to the store and ask them to keep their hands to themselves. Old Navy has great gifts for everyone on your list, including their Jingle Jammies in 22 mixable magical prints, stocking stuffers, cozy winter wear, activewear, and Disney gear. Shop in-store and online at OldNavy.com.

• 40:36Kylie Kelce?

  You'll notice I'm smiling and that's because I get to talk to the real ones about my love of Peloton again this week. Guys, it's just so convenient and Peloton is shaping the future of fitness with the brand new Peloton Cross Training Tread Plus powered by Peloton IQ. I love it because you can squeeze a class into any amount of time that you have. They have a bunch of different time lengths available for their classes. They have different challenging levels, which is really great for me because some days I just don't have it, you know? And I'm beginner classing all day that day. I have instructors that I take over and over and over again. Robin, it's like, it's like we're best friends and you don't even know

• 41:17Kylie Kelce?

  it. Peloton IQ tracks your progress and suggests weights that challenge you so you can get stronger. The new movement tracking camera allows Peloton IQ to count your reps and correct your form in real time. So you can train safer, lift smarter, and be called out if you're half assing it. Because sometimes I be half assing it. Let yourself run, lift, sculpt, push, and go. Explore the new Peloton Cross Training Tread Plus at onepeloton.com. This episode is brought to you by Invisalign. Look at her. She did that. Ta-da. In college, I got Invisalign aligners because I wanted to actually look in the mirror and feel confident in my smile. I think that a smile is one of the best things that you can possibly have.

• 41:59Kylie Kelce?

  I think one of the best things that you can put on is a smile. I'm not just saying that because it's like some old quote or something. I'm saying it because I truly believe that when you can smile and really mean it, like when it goes all the way up to your eyes because you're confident, you're happy, and you're feeling joy. Who doesn't want to see that? More importantly, who doesn't want to feel that? But let's talk about something beyond how your smile looks, taking care of it. And since we've already established that I take flossing very seriously, this part deserves a little attention. Invisalign aligners straighten teeth, making it easier to brush and floss, reducing plaque and lowering the risk of cavities and gum disease. I have to be really careful to make sure that I'm keeping up with my oral hygiene because I have little muffins that watch me and I need to make sure that they're

• 42:41Kylie Kelce?

  modeling that same care for their own teeth. Back in college, I was thinking about how my smile would look. Now I appreciate that there's more to it than that. Look at her. Look at her. Ooh, she's cute. Look at her. Wow. And if you're thinking about starting your smile journey, make sure you're getting Invisalign aligners. Look for the star flower logo on every aligner. So you know you're getting Invisalign backed by experience and trusted by doctors. Find an Invisalign doctor near you today. This football season, whether you're buying tickets, booking travel or shopping for team gear, protect your pocket with Visa. Tapping to pay without checking which card? Not a pro move. Tapping to pay with Visa? That's a pro move. Visa runs more than 500 security checks to help identify fraud

• 43:26Kylie Kelce?

  before transactions are approved. So you can focus your defensive energy on other things, like defending your nachos from your hungry, hungry husband. That might not be a pro move, but paying with Visa is. Visa, the most trusted way to pay for football fans everywhere. We were talking about throwbacks. And one of the throwbacks I would love to bring up to you is 13 Going on 30, because it's a movie that I deeply enjoy. You were one of the six chicks. Do people still bring up this movie or am I the only one?

• 43:58Speaker 04

  No, people do. I think it was one of those things that people used to bring in interviews when, because it'd be one of the top credits that would come up if you looked me up just because that movie is so popular. But like, I think I only have one line. I just go like, yeah. And so we're also nostalgic. And so like, we're going back and like, watching these movies again. And then it's like delightfully funny to see, you know, however old I was, 14 year old Bree in like this crazy 80s hairdo. It's amazing. And again, I remember feeling so just excited.

• 44:35Kylie Kelce?

  You've been in so many huge movies ever since, including Captain Marvel, which was actually Marvel's first women-led movie, which is crazy. I read you weren't sure if you wanted to take on that role at first. Did you ever think you'd be playing a superhero?

• 44:51Speaker 04

  No, no, no.

• 44:53Kylie Kelce?

  Because that is unbelievably badass.

• 44:56Speaker 04

  I didn't think that was part of my path. I thought if I could just do small, interesting, like best friend roles, character roles. I never, ever, ever thought that I would lead a movie. It just felt very clear by how long I'd been auditioning and not getting things that that wasn't my path. But as I was getting in my twenties, I started thinking, well, maybe I started to get interesting roles in indie films in supporting characters. And I was like, well, if I can just do that, that like gives me just enough to pay my bills. And I tended at that time to prefer the supporting roles to leading roles. I thought they were more interesting. And then Marvel was calling. What the heck?

• 45:39Speaker 04

  Like, I had gone from the studio system wasn't casting me in anything. They were always like, oh, you can't be in a movie because you haven't been in a studio movie. And you're like, what? Like, how, how am I supposed to do this? And so to suddenly be thrust into this, like, incredibly secretive, massive fandom of a world. And after I spoke with the heads at Marvel, I really believed in what the character was. My hesitancy was I didn't think that I, Bree, could handle the fame that came with it. And so I just started saying, okay, I will, I am going to do this because I know that this character is for me

• 46:23Speaker 04

  and I'm meant to do this character. And so as I prepare to play this character, I'm also going to prepare Bree. And it's been great. There's no downside. And I got to do what I felt like was my contribution to that corner of the artistic world. And so it was great.

• 46:44Kylie Kelce?

  It's amazing to, before this, I was reading about the transformation you made prepping for Captain Marvel. It's amazing to hear that while that was happening, you were also going through an intense transformation of how you were preparing for that to hit. And two sides of that, it's so amazingly self-aware to recognize, like, I need to do the work to prepare for this.

• 47:12Kylie Kelce?

  Excitement, but also to know that the role that you were about to play was so meaningful and to a fan base that is so strong and passionate that it was going to hit hard.

• 47:29Speaker 04

  Yeah, well, that I don't think I could have. I couldn't understand.

• 47:34Kylie Kelce?

  Prepared for?

• 47:35Speaker 04

  Yeah, no, no, that's like, if you've lived your life basically being an anonymous person that nobody really notices to suddenly being like a thing, you're thrust into a conversation that you're like, oh my gosh, I'm just here. That's not, I'm not part of that conversation. Everybody else can have that conversation. If I ever started to feel overwhelmed, you know, suddenly it's like, I've got a bunch of millions more Instagram followers, whatever, these things that happen. Oh my God, this is so much. And I'd start to, you panic and you're like, oh my gosh, I'm never gonna be able to go to the grocery store again. I'm never gonna be able to buy my apples or whatever. And then I go to the grocery store and like,

• 48:16Speaker 04

  no one cared. The day that Captain Marvel came out, I was on the press tour for it in New York City. We had like a little break in between interviews. I went and walked and I went bikini wax and no one cared.

• 48:35Kylie Kelce?

  To be clear, I want to be clear because you cut out for a second. You said you went and got a bikini wax?

• 48:41Speaker 04

  I did.

• 48:43Kylie Kelce?

  I don't know that there's a more grounding. Like, let me make sure I can still feel something.

• 48:49Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 48:50Kylie Kelce?

  Let me make sure I'm not completely numb.

• 48:52Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 48:53Kylie Kelce?

  Let me get a bikini wax.

• 48:54Speaker 04

  Yeah, yeah, it's.

• 48:56Kylie Kelce?

  That was an outstanding thought.

• 48:58Speaker 04

  Thank you. Thank you. I did discover that my bodyguard was secretly following me the entire time. He's like family to me. He didn't walk into the appointment, but I think knew where, what building I walked into. So I thought walking around by myself, but I still had that little bit of secret support behind me. So I did have that. But, but I was free as far as I knew. No one cared.

• 49:22Kylie Kelce?

  That's perfect. Uh, now while we're talking about transforming for a role, I absolutely love your hair. And I saw that you initially cut it for a play that you were in earlier this year. Is that right?

• 49:35Speaker 04

  Yeah, I buzzed it off. So now it's just like growing back and it's kind of like in various stages of awkward grow out. But I'm sort of like, that's life.

• 49:44Kylie Kelce?

  How does it feel?

• 49:46Speaker 04

  To buzz?

• 49:46Kylie Kelce?

  I'm so, yes.

• 49:49Speaker 04

  It's nice. I mean, it's just, you don't realize how much time you spend shampooing and brushing your hair until you buzz it off.

• 49:56Kylie Kelce?

  It's, it, was it freeing?

• 49:58Speaker 04

  Yeah, it was. I mean, I kind of then just got into skincare because I was like, I felt like I had nothing to do anymore. Like I've, I've always been like a shower person. Basically you step in the shower and I'd be like, oh, there's nothing to do in here.

• 50:12Kylie Kelce?

  I have time on my hands.

• 50:13Speaker 04

  I had a lot of extra time on my hands. I mean, I stupidly brought with me to London. I brought shampoo and conditioner and was like, wow. It was great. I mean, it was very freeing and it was also emotional too. It was far more emotional than I thought it was gonna be. It was my idea to shave my head. I'm very used to having to do things that are not me. And you have to live with them outside of being on set, but the buzzed head was more emotional than I realized. Being out in the world with a buzzed head has like, you have a lot of different feelings about that, about what that means. And it's a very like aggressive look. So not how I present myself in the world and like, oh geez, I have to like buy new clothes

• 50:55Speaker 04

  because none of my like dough and prairie dresses make any sense with this buzzed hair. And like, it just, I had to move in this other direction and like, you know, go to dinner with friends with, with a buzzed head that felt foreign to me in, in the winter.

• 51:12Kylie Kelce?

  I was just gonna say, how many hats did you buy?

• 51:14Speaker 04

  Bonnets. I had to do bonnets because you wanna like cover everything. Don't really intend to do it again. Cause the grow up process has been, oh, it's so annoying. Hair really grows slow.

• 51:25Kylie Kelce?

  So the, the key, the goal here is to grow it out because I do think the pixie looks incredible.

• 51:30Speaker 04

  I like it. No, I like it. Now that it's like, and now that I can put like, like a bobby pin in it, I'm like, woo hoo, you know? A long ways away from needing a hair tie, but you know, at least I can change it up a little bit. I, I do like it. Um, but I've always just, I keep growing my hair until I have to cut it for a job. It's just. The simplest, it makes it easier. I don't know what character I'm gonna play. And so you just go grow it until.

• 51:55Kylie Kelce?

  Till someone tells you otherwise.

• 51:56Speaker 04

  Uh huh, exactly.

• 51:58Kylie Kelce?

  Now, uh, my last question for you, I always like to ask my guests about great advice that they have received. What is the best piece of advice, uh, for the entertainment industry that you've ever received?

• 52:11Speaker 04

  Oh my gosh, you know, it's always a funny one because we don't really go around giving advice. Um, but I would say the thing that I really do live by is something that Sam Jackson says on set all the time. I've done like four movies with him and he's like my bestie. Um, and the thing that he always tells people is he says, uh, don't get in the way of my fun. And I love that. And I realize now how I've approached my work too, which is like, my job is a team sport. I am on a set with a lot of different people. Come here to have a good time. Don't get in the way of my fun. And I think everybody can have that.

• 52:56Kylie Kelce?

  You can apply it of to life.

• 52:58Speaker 04

  Of, I think so. I think everybody can say, with all the love of my heart, don't get in the way of my fun.

• 53:04Kylie Kelce?

  I cannot thank you enough, Bree, for chatting today. Her brand new cookbook, Party People, is available now. Thank you so much.

• 53:12Speaker 04

  No, thank you. Wonderful, wonderful.

• 53:15Kylie Kelce?

  That's a wrap on another episode of Not Gonna Lie. You can find even more clips from my longer conversation with Bree on my YouTube channel on More Shit Monday. I'll be back next Thursday with a brand new episode. Remember, I've got a very special, very scruffy guest. So make sure you send in Halloween questions, at NGLwithKylie. Follow Not Gonna Lie on all social media, listen and subscribe wherever you get your podcasts. Not Gonna Lie is a Wave original brought to you by Skittles. Thanks again to the real ones for tuning in. I [BLEEP] that up. I made that my [BLEEP].

• 53:54Kylie Kelce?

  This episode is brought to you by Invisalign. Look at her. She did that. Ta-da. In college, I got Invisalign aligners because I wanted to actually look in the mirror and feel confident in my smile. I think that a smile is one of the best things that you can possibly have. I think one of the best things that you can put on is a smile. I'm not just saying that because it's like some old quote or something. I'm saying it because I truly believe that when you can smile and really mean it, like when it goes all the way up to your eyes because you're confident, you're happy, and you're feeling joy, who doesn't want to see that? More importantly, who doesn't want to feel that? But let's talk about something beyond how your smile looks, taking care of it. And since we've already established that I take flossing very seriously, this part deserves

• 54:35Kylie Kelce?

  a little attention. Invisalign aligners straighten teeth, making it easier to brush and floss, reducing plaque and lowering the risk of cavities and gum disease. I have to be really careful to make sure that I'm keeping up with my oral hygiene because I have little muffins that watch me and I need to make sure that they're modeling that same care for their own teeth. Back in college, I was thinking about how my smile would look. Now, I appreciate that there's more to it than that. Look at her. Look at her. Ooh, she's cute. Look at her. Wow. And if you're thinking about starting your smile journey, make sure you're getting Invisalign aligners. Look for the star flower logo on every aligner so you know you're getting Invisalign, backed by experience and trusted by doctors. Find an Invisalign doctor near you today.