Amouranth: How This OnlyFans Model Built A $40 Million Business Empire

Episode 383: Shaan Puri (@ShaanVP) and Sam Parr (@TheSamParr) speak with Kaitlyn Michelle Siragusa, aka Amouranth (@Amouranth), about how she built her million dollar social media business empire and why she bought a Chinese ball pit manufacturer. ----- Links: * Amouranth - Twitch * OnlyFans * Avatar AI * Downbad * Do you love MFM and want to see Sam and Shaan's smiling faces? Subscribe to our Youtube channel. * Want more insights like MFM? Check out Shaan's newsletter. ------ Show Notes: (03:40) - how much money Amouranth has made (10:45) - how big is your team? (21:25) - career before this one (30:50) - what do you do with your money? (43:10) - how did you get famous? (49:45) - AI OnlyFans creator ----- Past guests on My First Million include Rob Dyrdek, Hasan Minhaj, Balaji Srinivasan, Jake Paul, Dr. Andrew Huberman, Gary Vee, Lance Armstrong, Sophia Amoruso, Ariel Helwani, Ramit Sethi, Stanley Druckenmiller, Peter Diamandis, Dharmesh Shah, Brian Halligan, Marc Lore, Jason Calacanis, Andrew Wilkinson, Julian Shapiro, Kat Cole, Codie Sanchez, Nader Al-Naji, Steph Smith, Trung Phan, Nick Huber, Anthony Pompliano, Ben Askren, Ramon Van Meer, Brianne Kimmel, Andrew Gazdecki, Scott Belsky, Moiz Ali, Dan Held, Elaine Zelby, Michael Saylor, Ryan Begelman, Jack Butcher, Reed Duchscher, Tai Lopez, Harley Finkelstein, Alexa von Tobel, Noah Kagan, Nick Bare, Greg Isenberg, James Altucher, Randy Hetrick and more. ----- Additional episodes you might enjoy: • #224 Rob Dyrdek - How Tracking Every Second of His Life Took Rob Drydek from 0 to $405M in Exits • #209 Gary Vaynerchuk - Why NFTS Are the Future • #178 Balaji Srinivasan - Balaji on How to Fix the Media, Cloud Cities & Crypto * #169 - How One Man Started 5, Billion Dollar Companies, Dan Gilbert's Empire, & Talking With Warren Buffett • ​​​​#218 - Why You Should Take a Think Week Like Bill Gates • Dave Portnoy vs The World, Extreme Body Monitoring, The Future of Apparel Retail, "How Much is Anthony Pompliano Worth?", and More • How Mr Beast Got 100M Views in Less Than 4 Days, The $25M Chrome Extension, and More

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:00Shaan Puri?

  I think you've made something like, is this, do I have this number right? Thirty million dollars through like OnlyFans and like your other kind of platforms where people subscribe to you?

• 0:11Speaker 01

  Yeah, that's just on OnlyFans though, but yes.

• 0:14Shaan Puri?

  Just on OnlyFans. What is the, do you have like a total number that's even more impressive?

• 0:17Speaker 01

  Oh God, I haven't really looked in a while.

• 0:20Shaan Puri?

  But maybe like forty mil- million or something like that?

• 0:22Speaker 01

  Something like that.

• 0:29Shaan Puri?

  All right, what's up? We just had Kate, also known as Amouranth on the podcast. She is, I think, the number one creator on OnlyFans. She has made over thirty million dollars on OnlyFans in like two years. So it's kind of insane what she's done, building up a following and then turning that into like, I don't know, she's probably one of the top earners on social media, period. And most people don't know about her or ever heard of her. So I thought that was pretty, pretty cool. Sam, what'd you think?

• 0:57Sam Parr?

  Did any of the stats that she said surprise you or shock you?

• 1:00Shaan Puri?

  Well, I had heard the money part out like before this, which is why I was like interested. And she reached out to us to be like, hey, can I come on the pod? And, uh, and so, you know, I was down for it for that, but that's the most shocking number. The other part that was shocking was just that she was pretty nonchalant about it.

• 1:16Sam Parr?

  I was pretty surprised at how sophisticated her empire is. You know, she talks about how she's now offering the ser- she basically built this media empire and now she's offering it as an agency to other women. And she kind of dismissed it as like, yeah, just a small thing. And I have a feeling it's significantly bigger than she kind of like the energy that she was giving out. And I find that to be incredibly fascinating.

• 1:40Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, I think she's kind of a killer in terms of like how she's like how she's done it, right? How she built her brand. I mean, she's basically like, okay, Kim Kardashian built like a mega brand, kind of doing this stuff. And like, you know, has turned it into a TV show and all kinds of other things. But like in the social media world, she's kind of like on that level, right? She is like pretty A-list in the world of social media in terms of how many social media people can pull in tens of millions of dollars a year. The very, very few.

• 2:10Sam Parr?

  With like a five-person staff.

• 2:11Shaan Puri?

  With like, yeah, with like, you know, a small team behind them and not even in a category where you're getting like, you know, mainstream brand deals from like whoever, you know, like Coca-Cola or whatever.

• 2:19Sam Parr?

  Yeah, it was, it was really fascinating. So hope you guys enjoy it.

• 2:24Shaan Puri?

  Hi Caitlin.

• 2:24Speaker 01

  I was downloading Zoom and then I realized it wasn't Zoom. So whoops. Anyways, I'm here. Hello.

• 2:30Shaan Puri?

  Welcome. Welcome to the show. You are one of the most interesting potential guests that I've wanted on the show. We've had people who've made money in different ways. We've had poker players. We've had business people. We've had athletes. We've had comedians, but we've never had somebody who is a sort of like a social media entertainer slash OnlyFans star. And the hook, I would say for people who want to be interested in this episode is, I think you've made something like, is this, do I have this number right? $30 million through like OnlyFans and like your other kind of platforms where people subscribe to you?

• 3:08Speaker 01

  Yeah, that's just on OnlyFans though, but yes.

• 3:12Shaan Puri?

  Just on OnlyFans. What is the, do you have like a total number that's even more impressive?

• 3:15Speaker 01

  Oh God, I haven't really looked in a while.

• 3:17Shaan Puri?

  But maybe like 40 mil- million or something like that?

• 3:19Speaker 01

  Something like that. Um, potentially. Well, fine. Find out then. OnlyFans is like way more lucrative than every other platform. Cause even the OnlyFans competitors are either like too new or in Patreon's case, like driving away the girls. So.

• 3:34Shaan Puri?

  And are you the number one person on OnlyFans?

• 3:38Speaker 01

  Um, I was for a while. I'm not really sure what it is right now. I haven't looked since I was, I just put it in my go, I'm gonna put that on my link tree. That I could just stop looking at it. Um, but maybe it's been growing a lot lately.

• 3:51Sam Parr?

  What's customer churn? Like, will they stay for, do you measure churn by years or months?

• 3:57Speaker 01

  Um, I think just by month. We don't really look at the whole year because people's lives, you know, some people get girlfriends. Some people will just like not have a job anymore. So it's, it's hard to do like a year because hardly anyone stays on for a year. A very small percentage.

• 4:12Shaan Puri?

  And one of the things that's cool about you is A, you're open about the business side of things, which is cool. You don't have to be. You chose to be. So I'm curious, uh, why do you, why do you, why did you decide, all right, I'm going to be able to, I'm going to share this. Cause I think it brings a lot of attention, good and bad, probably bring some haters out there who are outraged that somebody's making over a million dollars a month on OnlyFans. Uh, why'd you decide to go public with your, your income and your earnings?

• 4:38Speaker 01

  Well, it's gonna sound kinda weird, I guess, to most people because I didn't do it for like pride or anything like that. It's really because my Instagram that had like 5 million followers over that a little bit got banned from mass reports and I needed a way for people to still write about me because that was my biggest reach. And so everything else was not nearly as much reach. So I just started writing about the business stuff, knowing that people would write about it if it comes from a pretty girl talking about business. Suddenly, oh, she's a genius. But if it's a guy saying the same thing, no one would care. So.

• 5:11Sam Parr?

  That's true. Okay, I like that. That's a, I think a fair call out. So you basically published that and then other people started like news outlets and started re-aggregating the story and then that drove new subscribers, basically. So it was like a growth channel for you?

• 5:25Speaker 01

  Yeah, it was like, you know, a new form of earned media.

• 5:31Sam Parr?

  Wow. Okay, that's great. And so I have a bunch of questions. Sam, I want you to jump in before I just sort of, you know, go down my list of like, things I've probably wanted to ask you because I've seen you, I worked at Twitch, my company got acquired by Twitch. I was at Twitch and I was like, alright, so who's killing it? Who's doing great? And you were always at the top of the list and nobody inside the company would really like, talk about it that much. Whereas they give like, you know, they get really excited about certain things because it's like really good feel-good stories or, you know, it's a game that they play that they're really excited about. And I was like, well, what about her? She's doing great.

• 6:03Speaker 01

  Twitch is like, I'm doing great.

• 6:07Sam Parr?

  And how do you like to be, your name, do you like being, how do you pronounce it? I don't even know. I've read it, but I've never heard you say it.

• 6:17Speaker 01

  Amaran.

• 6:17Sam Parr?

  And that's how you like, in this setting, that's how you like to be addressed to?

• 6:21Speaker 01

  You can call me Kate.

• 6:21Sam Parr?

  Or dressed as?

• 6:22Speaker 01

  Kate is fine.

• 6:23Sam Parr?

  Kate, okay.

• 6:23Speaker 01

  Much easier.

• 6:25Sam Parr?

  Yeah, I didn't know what you preferred. So when you are going to these like meetings, because I imagine like, like at YouTube and Twitch and all these places, I imagine they have an account manager or something that like courts you and says, hey, Kate, you, you know, we love what you're doing. Do you want to come to the office if you happen to be in town and we can like tell you some best practices? I mean, that's what they do for like a Casey Neistat or whoever on YouTube. When they do things like that for you, or first of all, do they even do that? But if they do and you go to the office, is that like a, are these like people, these corporate people like comfortable having conversations about this type of shit? I mean, that's just like, because it's just like, it's such a unique.

• 7:01Sam Parr?

  I don't know. It's just like unique. I don't often talk to people who are making a living this way.

• 7:05Speaker 01

  Oh, man, I don't get any of that. So nobody invites me to the office. No.

• 7:10Sam Parr?

  Really? How many?

• 7:11Shaan Puri?

  Do you know the owner of OnlyFans is a big fan of the podcast? And so he's gonna listen to this. And so maybe, maybe he could invite you to the office and start giving you the white glove treatment that like probably a Twitch or YouTube or whoever is maybe a little more hesitant to do.

• 7:25Speaker 01

  Yeah, maybe.

• 7:27Sam Parr?

  Wait, so how many followers do you have on Twitch?

• 7:29Speaker 01

  Like six million.

• 7:31Sam Parr?

  And they don't like reach out to you and be like, hey, we just want to say thank you for like being part of our platform. Like here's a T-shirt or like, like you don't get any of that.

• 7:39Shaan Puri?

  Please make this, please make your skirt two inches longer to comply with the latest terms of condition.

• 7:44Speaker 01

  That would be nice. Really, they just ban people and they don't tell you why. So you don't know what to change. They'll just suspend you.

• 7:53Shaan Puri?

  Sam doesn't watch Twitch. Let me just describe this. You're kind of like an innovator on Twitch. And I say that laughingly because like it's Twitch and like, let's not take it all too seriously. But like, there's this trend where I think they call it hot tub streaming, basically where it's like.

• 8:08Sam Parr?

  Yeah, I saw that.

• 8:08Shaan Puri?

  It's like, what's an excuse to kind of like, wear like a bikini and be on stream, which is like, you know, gonna get you a bunch of viewers and like subscriptions on Twitch, but also in your case, like get you a bunch of people who want to go, you know, down the funnel and go to your, maybe your OnlyFans or whatever. And I don't know if you were the first, were you like, kind of the first to start doing that? Or did you just like make it more popular?

• 8:28Speaker 01

  Well, it's complicated because I started doing pool streams outside, you know, like a year or two before that. And then, then girls started doing hot tub blow up, like inflatable hot tubs. I think I was the first one to bring it inside my room and I really popularized that one.

• 8:45Shaan Puri?

  And then there's like this like outrage and people are like, you gotta shut this down. And it's usually like people on the platform who feel like, oh, it's taking away views from me, which I think is kind of silly because it's like, those people weren't, weren't going to watch you. It's not like this. You know, it's people come to get the type of entertainment they want and they may not want to watch you. You know, in your basement playing like, you know, Dragon Ball Z or whatever. So it's like, it's a different, it's a different thing. But there is this like outrage around it. What, what do you, I guess, like, do you respond to that? Or how do you, how do you think about that?

• 9:18Speaker 01

  Uh, you know, I think it's just people being like jealous of others having success. And it's just placing blame on them instead of looking inward and being like, oh, what could I improve? Make my stream more appealing to people. And so they just want to point fingers like, you're why I'm not successful. When really, if we're not taking away views from gamers, certainly not. If anything, we're taking away views from Pornhub, but that's about it.

• 9:41Shaan Puri?

  And how big of a, how big of a game changer was OnlyFans for you? So I'm looking at your OnlyFans. I think you started, I think you posted, you started April 2020, so only two years ago. And the first month you did 74,000 in, on OnlyFans, then you did 31,000, 16,000, 6,000, something like that. So you started off with a big spike because you get a bunch of people to come over and then, you know, but you did really well right off the bat. A, were you expecting that? And B, had you like, kind of already made it? Was that like, not that big of a deal compared to what you were already doing at Twitch? Or was that a game changer?

• 10:14Speaker 01

  Um, I think it was probably somewhere in the middle. It was kind of what I expected just because like, that's, you know, how platforms happen. I already had Patreon before, which was similar. But Patreon was kind of pissing people off and changing what they allowed on their platform. So OnlyFans was like becoming the Patreon replacement for a lot of people. So I just kind of like acquired that as well. I didn't jump ship because I still have my Patreon. So I just have both now and now even have a Fanzly. But it wasn't really like that shocking, I guess, at first because I was already seeing those kinds of numbers on Patreon and a pretty decent amount on Twitch at that time.

• 10:50Shaan Puri?

  What were, uh, how big's your team? Or is it just you? I mean, how do you?

• 10:54Speaker 01

  I have an entire staff of mixture of like personal assistants, video editors, photographers, et cetera. So right now in the office, I have like five main people. And then I also have my extended staff that I kind of bounce back and forth between here and the office. Cause they work also with me on real work, my agency for like OF creators and Fanzly, et cetera. Like different girls and, and guys, there's some guys on there too.

• 11:23Speaker 01

  So yeah, I have like an extended staff and I have like my immediate, at my house is usually four to five people always.

• 11:30Shaan Puri?

  Do you consider yourself like the CEO of the business? Or do you have like a straight person like a like a by the book person who's like making sure everything's running on time? Or are you that person?

• 11:38Speaker 01

  Um, I guess I'm I could technically be called the CEO, but I don't manage it as much day to day as like my, uh, my head staff that I have my managing directors for it.

• 11:50Shaan Puri?

  And we, uh, so we got to know Mr. Beast recently. We went to, we like had an event and like a kind of like a basketball camp or whatever. He came and, and we had, we had him on the pod and he's a obviously super impressive guy. And he gets this like kind of amazing coverage in the news. Everything is like Mr. Beast and he's a good dude, but like the coverage is like pretty much exclusively good. Obviously there's some haters, you know, always, but like people think he's amazing. Business people really respect him for his like business acumen and he's, you know, seen as one of the biggest content creators.

• 12:21Shaan Puri?

  But, um, I would say you're like, your franchise is right up there with him. If you just took, if you just took the, the sort of like the face off the business, if I just showed you the P and L of both businesses, I think you would be like, well, I want her P and L, right? Because you're making almost as much money with way less expenses, with way less staffing overhead.

• 12:39Speaker 01

  It's true.

• 12:39Shaan Puri?

  Probably with more valuable customers, more loyal customers. And, um, and then on top of that, you're like the moves you're making off your streams or off your, off your platforms where you've got the agency. And then you've got the, you know, all your investments and stuff like that. It's just like what he's doing with his agency and his investments and all that. But I feel like you don't get that same coverage. Or if you do, it's like, can you believe this? Uh, you know, she's doing, she's doing like, you know, real business things. Like, how does, uh, I guess, like, do you agree with my assessment there? And how do you feel about that?

• 13:13Speaker 01

  Yeah, I guess the main difference is the platform that I'm doing it on. Cause, uh, you know, OF is already going to have like a bias behind it. People don't want to admit that they pay attention to it, even if they do. And then Twitch also is a smaller, much smaller platform than YouTube. So it just doesn't have the same amount of reach, even if it's like the same model and the same like type of stuff. It just doesn't reach nearly as many people as like his YouTube channel would.

• 13:37Shaan Puri?

  How big do you think this, this gets? So like, I don't know what you're doing annually now, but maybe it's like.

• 13:44Shaan Puri?

  About 15 million or something like that. How big do you think that this this can get? And how big do you want it to get?

• 13:49Speaker 01

  I don't know, because if I can successfully grow, real work would be like manage other girls' accounts. It can potentially grow like a huge network. And that's kind of like in my extended empire. But me by myself, I don't know. I never even thought I'd get you this far. So it kind of just happens really quickly, especially once pandemic started and everyone was just online all the time. So I'm not really sure.

• 14:13Sam Parr?

  Well, when you're when you're laying in bed at night and you're like, I mean, when I go to bed at night, I'm like, man, like, that was I had a good day, whatever. It's really inspiring. I dream of, I think I think I could do this. I think I could like do this one thing that's like crazy. And I just think like, well, in 10 years, maybe this little thing could be this, this and this. What do you what do you imagine? Like, what's your dream? Even if it's outlandish to say sometimes, or maybe it's not, I don't know. But like, what's your dream on where you want to take your your career?

• 14:41Speaker 01

  Well, hopefully, the dream would be to not grind as much for the next like year to three years and just kind of stream part time, like a few days a week, maybe. And then just have my empire for real work have grown so much. Maybe we have like 50 to 100 OF creators that we just kind of provide virtual assistants for. And then I my legacy kind of lives on through that. And then I don't feel like I have to grind every day and can just work with animals on stream a few days a week. It's really fun.

• 15:11Shaan Puri?

  And explain what real work is. So this is like an agency you started. It's not, from what I understand, it's not a talent agency. It's like a we can like the the system you built with your back office, with your assistants and those people, you offer that as a service, basically, to other OnlyFans creators who don't have that back office. But like, I guess, describe it in your words.

• 15:30Speaker 01

  Yeah, I guess it would be like virtual assistants, like, like a team put together that other creators can have access to, where they'll help like edit your content, post your content, market it, like write up descriptions and push sales on your platforms and stuff. And then occasionally, like I do events where I have girls from the agency come over and we stream together, we collab, etc. So it's kind of like helping others grow and then managing that growth to provide like more efficient sales across their platforms.

• 15:59Sam Parr?

  Let's say that like I couldn't afford to hire your team and I just said, but is there like just like a handful of bullet points that you could tell me on how to have a successful page like you do? Like what are the, what are the like one, five, 10 bullet points that you would say, well, do this, do this, do this, do this, do this?

• 16:20Speaker 01

  Well, I think if you want to grow, you really do need help, whether that's just like your friends. Maybe if you have like a really cool sibling, family, someone close enough to you, or they can physically come over and help you with shoots, help you get your content out there, like edited, posted, etc. Because if you want to grow, you also have to be putting out like content on public, non-shadowband platforms like Twitter, YouTube, TikTok is huge right now. TikTok is really easy to grow on compared to the other ones right now. Twitch actually isn't that great for growth unless you have other platforms already. I would save Twitch for last if you're even contemplating it because it has no discovery system that makes any sense. It's all just recommended and what gets recommended, people who already have viewers. How do you get viewers?

• 17:03Speaker 01

  You have to have an audience from somewhere. So Twitch is actually like the least, I would say, lucrative for new people. Time will be better spent on like YouTube Shorts, Instagram Reels, TikToks, and you kind of just share that content with all three of them and make it very efficient, but just kind of grow your audience from there, if that makes sense.

• 17:23Shaan Puri?

  What do you, for the agency, what do you charge? How do you, how do you charge money for it? And like, how many clients do you have right now?

• 17:31Speaker 01

  Oh, we take a percentage of the girls' earnings. Yeah, we start with like a, like a three-month trial period. And if they don't like it, they don't like we're providing value beyond what they were already doing, then, then we just, we won't continue on it. Like, we don't lock them in for like a year or two. That's like really scummy to me.

• 17:49Sam Parr?

  What's the benchmark? But what's the benchmark of what you think they should earn? Should they be earning a hundred grand a month? A million? I mean, what, what do you?

• 17:55Speaker 01

  It really just depends. Um, we don't really have a benchmark right now. We kind of just look at their socials. Look at like how much reach they have relative to how many people have already converted to their platforms to see if like, okay, well, we can work with that. There's some potential here. Um, if it's a really bad conversion, maybe, maybe not. But if it's like, it's relative to how big they are already.

• 18:16Shaan Puri?

  Here, here's a dangerous question, but I am curious. What works for conversion? Like we talk in the startup world about growth hacks all the time. It's like, oh, did you know that when Airbnb started, they didn't have any listings? So they scraped Craigslist local house listings. They made them all on Airbnb and they messaged people on Craigslist saying, hey, I saw your listing on Airbnb. Can I book through there? And it was just a robot sending it and then that caught people to, to put their listing up. So startups have these like classic growth hacks, things that unlocked new sales or tactics that unlock new sales. On your road to making millions of millions of dollars on OnlyFans, what are the growth hacks? What are the things that work best for, for growth for you and for, for the girls that you manage?

• 18:56Speaker 01

  Gosh, that's so tough because things have worked before and then algorithms change and they don't. So it's been like an evolution of what's worked.

• 19:05Shaan Puri?

  I don't actually, like, I'm not going to do it. So you don't actually give me the things that work. What are the stories that are like, oh, that's funny that that worked or that's cool that that worked. I want the more entertaining stories, not the boring stuff that actually, you know, works over time.

• 19:17Speaker 01

  Yeah. Well, what used to work really well before Instagram really cracked down was, um, you could have long descriptions being like, um, spam, spam, like a word. If you saw my latest juicy content, people would be like spamming a word that was like, it's like moist or something. And then people would go reading the comments like, why is everyone saying moist? What did I miss? Then we go back to the caption and they would still be confused and they would click on the profile and they would see the link in the bio, stuff like that.

• 19:48Shaan Puri?

  That's hilarious.

• 19:49Speaker 01

  You just had them spam like, kind of like provocative words, like letter by letter. So people would be like, what is happening?

• 19:57Shaan Puri?

  It's like a pattern interrupt, right? They have to like, it's not what they're used to seeing. So then they had to go investigate to find out.

• 20:02Speaker 01

  Yeah. Yeah. Or other things I would do would be like, um, Tell me when you see it or I would play like I spy in in the pictures and there would be like a swipe image on each different image. There would be like a like check the link in the bio for really good content, like just like words like on a shirt. So the algorithm couldn't detect it like like curved with the with the shape of the shirt and stuff like you'd have to like zoom in and stuff. And then the comments would be like right shoulder, right shoulder, right shoulder. So people would like zoom in and it would be great. I really miss that.

• 20:32Sam Parr?

  That's, that's, that's, that's a really good one too. Why do you miss that? You can't do that anymore?

• 20:36Speaker 01

  Well, I mean, my, my, my main Instagram got banned. So now I'm just now I just play things super safe.

• 20:42Shaan Puri?

  Yeah.

• 20:43Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 20:43Shaan Puri?

  And you, um, you're wearing this like, uh, OnlyFans like tube top or whatever right now. Do they give those to you to like, is that their company swag to like promote, help promote their site? Or you make?

• 20:53Speaker 01

  Yeah, I think I actually bought it from the website, but I probably could have asked. I just, it was cheaper just to buy it or faster because time is money. So I was just like.

• 21:05Shaan Puri?

  And what were you doing before this? Because you're clearly like smart and a hustler and like whatever. Were you like, did you have like a job at like, you know, Blockbuster back in the day? Like, what, what was the career before you became this person who you became?

• 21:18Speaker 01

  I had a really weird one because most people they do like work retailer or like, uh, waitressing or something. I actually.

• 21:24Sam Parr?

  Blockbuster shot. Blockbuster?

• 21:28Shaan Puri?

  I'm doing her thing where I throw in a random bird. That's why the YouTube comments are gonna be like Blockbuster, Blockbuster. It's gonna help the algorithm. I'm learning from her.

• 21:35Sam Parr?

  Wait, but hold on. How old are you?

• 21:36Speaker 01

  Twenty eight.

• 21:38Sam Parr?

  So no way is she gonna be working at a Blockbuster. A Blockbuster?

• 21:43Speaker 01

  I used to get games from there as a kid, but once, once I was sixteen, there was not really a Blockbuster anymore. Um.

• 21:50Shaan Puri?

  But what was the weird job you had?

• 21:52Speaker 01

  Yeah, I actually, it's really wholesome. I did character parties for kids' birthdays and hospital visits and like festivals around town and Make-A-Wish Foundation stuff. I was like princesses and superheroes. So that was my company.

• 22:05Shaan Puri?

  So you would dress up in cosplay and basically like go to a kid's party or a hospital, basically?

• 22:09Speaker 01

  Yeah, basically. Yeah. And that was my, my little startup entertainment company.

• 22:15Shaan Puri?

  What an amazing pivot. That's the best pivot I've ever heard. Uh, like, you know, Instagram used to be this like location app that just happened to have photos. And then they were like, let's just go all in on the photos. And you basically were like. I'm gonna go all in on the costume thing, but like instead of little kids, like big kids.

• 22:34Speaker 01

  I still feel like I'm babysitting on Twitch too, so.

• 22:36Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, exactly.

• 22:38Shaan Puri?

  That's amazing. And you pay like, you know, I have this researcher who helps me with the pod and I was like, hey, she's coming on. And I like to not know everything because if you know everything, you come in and you just ask questions. You already know the answers to. It's kind of boring. And so, but he did surface one interesting thing in his research, which was he's like, yeah, there's like, you know, leaked stuff on online where you don't have to pay for the only fans. You could just like find something.

• 23:04Speaker 01

  Tell anyone, remove it.

• 23:06Shaan Puri?

  But, but he was like, he's like, I think she has like a, like an on like retainer, like, you know, bloodhound, agency or lawyer or something that's trying to like, just shut all these down. How? What is there like a cat and mouse game of you trying to like, keep your content behind the paywall? And do you like, how much do you pay per month to like prevent, protect yourself?

• 23:26Speaker 01

  Yeah, we have a whole like little DMCA staff here. Um, it's a, it's a combined effort. Like I do have lawyers.

• 23:35Sam Parr?

  Yeah. What? But why are you paying for that? Only fans doesn't offer that?

• 23:39Speaker 01

  No.

• 23:41Sam Parr?

  What?

• 23:41Speaker 01

  Yeah. Yeah, I have a, I have my, I have my own little like lawyer team.

• 23:46Shaan Puri?

  Opportunity. Create a little agency that's going to do that for all only fans creators and just like.

• 23:51Speaker 01

  We offer that too. We offer that too for girls. Yeah. But it's, it's funny though, because I streamed so much that like, I have a very close relationship, I guess, with like the moderators of my chat on my Discord. They will actually actively like find leaks because people do something stupid, which is on my Twitch channel. They'll try to. Viewers will, will start mass DMing at people like leaks here, leaks here, leaks here. And then my mods are just like, boops, send to my DMs, see you. Then we get a delete us. They're just like self-reporting. I didn't have to go looking for them. They ended up just exposing all the leaks to me already.

• 24:26Sam Parr?

  So Mr. Beast, when we were hanging out with the Mr. Beast, so we did a pilot with him and Sean and I flew down and got to talk to him. And the, maybe the most, there was a bunch of fascinating things about him, but one of the more fascinating things that a lot of people don't know is, so he's like this big shot in America and has all these followers, but YouTube's global. And so he decided to hire a team to start translating his stuff, meaning like they would, they would dub his content with voice actors. And what he did was really interesting is he would actually over, you know, a lot of people would be like, oh, let's just get the cheapest person who kind of sounds interesting.

• 25:05Sam Parr?

  And I believe he would overpay where he would get like the guy who voiced a famous character in Brazil would also voice Mr. Beast. And everyone thought that was pretty cool and it sounds neat. And so all creators were like, hey, do that for us. And he goes, yeah, sure. I'll do it for you. And I forget how it works, but I believe he takes a percentage of the ad revenue.

• 25:23Shaan Puri?

  I'll spin up your, you know, Portuguese channel and we'll manage it. We'll have a, we have a person who speaks Portuguese. They'll write the descriptions. We'll have the voice actors. We'll do all that stuff. And we take like, I don't know, 30% of the revenue of that YouTube channel for them.

• 25:35Speaker 01

  I need him to do that for me in Turkish, because I have a huge Turkish audience, because porn is banned.

• 25:41Sam Parr?

  Is that why? Those repressed Turkish people, they need it. So they're like,

• 25:45Speaker 01

  I need my trials in Turkish.

• 25:47Sam Parr?

  But they, like,

• 25:48Shaan Puri?

  Do you talk much?

• 25:51Speaker 01

  A little bit, but probably they're probably muted anyways.

• 25:54Shaan Puri?

  Universal language.

• 25:55Speaker 01

  They're probably just muted anyways.

• 25:57Sam Parr?

  But what's, yeah, that's a good point. But what's interesting is you, I don't know if you're doing this because you're trying to be humble, but you're kind of downplaying, I think, like the shit that you're doing. You're like, oh, I just have these like personal assistants and you know, we just, you're, it could be, you're just being humble. But have you thought about like, Kind of like scaling this like crazy beast or Jimmy just raised some like $200 million at like a 1.5 million billion dollar valuation. Have you thought about being like, well, no, that's like, we're not just going to call it personal assistance. We're going hard at this and we're going to completely operationalize and help this niche of content creators. Have you ever thought about like, kind of from that angle up as opposed to like, I don't know,

• 26:41Sam Parr?

  maybe you're just being nice, but it kind of sounds like you're downplaying.

• 26:44Speaker 01

  I think that's what we're trying to do with Real Work. We just started it like a few months ago. So it was my personal assistants that were kind of turning into an actual organization.

• 26:53Shaan Puri?

  You, you're very like, nonchalant about.

• 26:58Sam Parr?

  That's what I mean.

• 26:58Shaan Puri?

  About you. I'm trying to figure out where, what gets you basically excited about what you've done. Cause I think you're basically like, it's, it's not new to you, right? When you tell it, when we hear what you're doing, it's kind of mind blowing. When you hear what you're doing, you're like, yeah, I know. That's what I do every day, right? It's not going to like, it's not going to be mind blowing to you. But there's got to be some part of you that's like, holy shit, I can't believe this is what's happening. And like, oh my God, like this could be blah, blah, blah. And there's got to be some part of you that still has that, I don't know, less laid back and more excited part of you. That's like, yeah, I really want this. And I know that's going to be crazy, but like, I think I could do it. Uh, is there some part of this that's like really mind blowing to you or like really exciting for you going forward?

• 27:39Speaker 01

  Yeah, I think all of it's pretty mind blowing. Uh, when you, when you step back and think about it, I've just, I guess I've just gotten used to like the day to day, like this is how it is. And then doing more and more over time, you kind of just get desensitized because it's such like a slow process over the past six years. I feel slow to me anyways. I do it so much. Um, but yeah, I mean, I really want to do animal content on my Twitch stream and, you know, I'm hoping to move towards that soon to kind of away from like so much of the e-girl like side. Like I'm still going to be an e-girl, I guess to, to people who want to brand it as that. But like, I feel like content can be so much more than sitting in a hot tub, you know?

• 28:18Sam Parr?

  When you're, when you're saying, when you're saying animal content, I'm not a Twitch person. When you're saying animal content, is that a phrase for something else? Or is that literally?

• 28:26Speaker 01

  No, no, like I have horses and dogs that I want to do like Twitch streams with and training and trail riding and taking care of them and having a stable and a ranch in the near future, hopefully.

• 28:37Shaan Puri?

  I can't find this client info.

• 28:39Speaker 03

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• 28:52Shaan Puri?

  Do you have like, um, like a therapist or anybody? Because like, I've seen what, like, how Twitch streamers, like what they have to put up with. And like, there's this crazy, like, love, hate, weirdo stalker thing that happens. Then you get famous on Twitch and like, you get a lot of like, you know, you know, you see comments that are super negative. You see comments that are super like, like, super positive. It's just like a lot to take in while you're just sitting at home in your room, streaming for like eight hours, which is kind of an unnatural thing without seeing the light of day during that time, right? Like, do you do like mental health? Do you do anything proactively for mental health so that you're not like going nuts while you do this?

• 29:34Speaker 01

  Uh, well, I do have a therapist now for some other reasons, but I probably should have had one this whole time for streaming as well. But my kind of mental health, I guess, outside of therapy would just be horse riding. It's kind of like my meditation replacement.

• 29:48Sam Parr?

  Does that stuff, does that stuff actually get to you? Like, uh, I do a decent job of, you know, it's actually funny. I do a decent job of like ignoring haters. We're not nearly as big as you, but we still get like, you know, hundreds of comments a day of like hate or good and bad. And, uh, like I recently got fit and I remember people commenting of like, oh, you look less fat. Or, um, they'll say like, um, oh, you know, today you're looking a little chubby. And I was like, damn, these people are mean. You must get like thousands, I mean, you do thousands of people a day commenting on your looks. Does that actually get to you? Are you, are you pretty good of, uh, of kind of, I don't know, ignoring it?

• 30:27Speaker 01

  Uh, I would say it used to get to me more, but at this point I was just kind of immune to it. I think, um, yeah, it's not so much comments that get to me. What gets to me is comparison to myself. Cause I'll, on a photo shoot day, say I'm feeling bloated or I'm breaking out or whatever. And I'll be referencing like pictures that did well on my social media before, just so we know like what to recreate that we haven't done in a while. And it's like, man, I look so good there. I look like shit today. Like things like that because like at the time, you know, it's like the perfect lighting, the perfect angle, whatever. And it just doesn't look that way in the mirror, you know? But then usually you did done with the shoot and you're like, oh, these are fine. Like, because it looks different on camera. So the reality is what fucks me up, not really people's comments.

• 31:10Shaan Puri?

  Or maybe it's like a child actor thing. And like in 15 years, all the like famous Twitch streamers are going to be like, you know, I'll screwed up. It's like they were fine at the time when it was all good. It's like later when things get weird.

• 31:23Shaan Puri?

  You know, you, you, you also tweet about like what you do with your money, which I think is kind of interesting. We'll talk about the gas station thing in a second, but like, we always ask, you know, the guests who come on, we say, all right, cool. Like money is this weird thing where it's kind of taboo. It's like in entrepreneurship, you're supposed to say, it's not about the money for me. But like, they fight like hell to like every point of equity and every dollar earned. It's like clearly money, money does matter to people. And they also don't really say what they do with their money. And therefore, there's a bunch of people who are listening to podcasts like this that don't know, like there's like an information wall. It's like, you don't get to know what, what happens on the side. It's like only through many years and hard lessons, you get to figure it out. And we think that's kind of silly. We try to like break down that wall a little bit.

• 32:05Shaan Puri?

  So if I was going to describe to you like a pie chart, like, okay, here's all your money. Where do you, what do you do with it? Do you just leave it in a checking account? Are you putting in the stock market? Are you buying crypto? Like, can you roughly draw us like a pie chart of like, you know, how you manage your own money?

• 32:23Speaker 01

  Um, it's kind of complicated. I didn't really get to manage it as much until recently. But the gas stations, yeah, those are, those are a fun investment, though. My accountant actually brought me to that one. And they helped save me on taxes because I can, I got to expense the entire cost of the building upfront. So that reduced my, my, my yearly income on paper. And then I had a lower tax rate.

• 32:52Shaan Puri?

  Depreciation.

• 32:52Sam Parr?

  Accelerated depreciation.

• 32:53Speaker 01

  Yeah, exactly. Um, so that was that kind of thing.

• 32:57Shaan Puri?

  You have to be like a real estate professional technically, right? So you're doing like the 500 hour test, basically?

• 33:04Speaker 01

  Uh, no, you actually don't, don't have to be with this.

• 33:08Sam Parr?

  Explain that to me. I want to do that. What is, do you know?

• 33:10Shaan Puri?

  I thought it's basically if you're passive, then it could only offset passive income. But your other stuff is active income, right? So do I have a misunderstanding? Or is, does it work differently?

• 33:21Speaker 01

  I just know my accountant team brought me this, that there was this opportunity and they explained to me like, okay, so I'm just putting money into that. And then, yeah, they kind of have all the rest of the details. I just throw the money at it.

• 33:35Sam Parr?

  Is most of your, is most of your, is most of your portfolio just in boring index funds?

• 33:40Speaker 01

  I would say most of it's in, in stocks that make sense with like

• 33:45Shaan Puri?

  She bought like a million dollars of Visa stock the other day.

• 33:48Speaker 01

  Yeah, that's like a

• 33:49Sam Parr?

  Really?

• 33:49Speaker 01

  That's a reliable thing. It's not going anywhere, especially since pandemic is kind of, at least the fear of it is dying down. People are out there traveling more, getting out more. It's just only gonna get better.

• 33:59Shaan Puri?

  It's also like a cash back program for you. You've probably paid like nearly a million dollars in credit card fees to Visa. And it's a way to sort of

• 34:09Sam Parr?

  What else did you buy?

• 34:10Speaker 01

  I mean, I have some Google. I have some Shopify, Amazon. Yeah, I have some crypto, but I don't, I don't know how I feel about crypto yet.

• 34:21Sam Parr?

  Why not?

• 34:21Shaan Puri?

  How do you feel?

• 34:22Speaker 01

  I just, it's, it's so up and down all the time that it's just, I can't tell what it's really gonna do. So. Yeah, I have some Bitcoin.

• 34:32Sam Parr?

  Where do you, when you're, when you're researching which, what do you want to buy, where, where do you learn? Like what resources do you turn to?

• 34:39Speaker 01

  Well, I have the accounting team and I also have, you know, YouTube and Google like everyone else. So.

• 34:45Sam Parr?

  Yeah, on Google and YouTube, what do you, who do you listen to?

• 34:50Speaker 01

  I don't really have like a certain person, I guess. It's just kind of like I get linked various things that people send me. Yeah, I used to actually talk to a lot of streamers about it in my DMs. Yeah, I don't know if you guys knew who Recful was, maybe you, because you worked at Twitch. We used to talk about stocks in our DMs. So that's kind of where I got started with it. And then I was just sent stuff and kind of explored it. And then I got like an accountant and it all just kind of compiles from everywhere.

• 35:17Shaan Puri?

  Do you do any other type of investing? That's interesting. So you, is it one gas station or multiple? And then do you have stocks? Is there anything else?

• 35:25Speaker 01

  Well, I have some businesses I've bought and some private equity too.

• 35:31Shaan Puri?

  Tell me more.

• 35:31Speaker 01

  I can't really talk about the private equity because it's private legally, I can't say anything about much about it, but basically they just acquire small businesses throughout the year and I send them money as needed up to like five million or so is what the total will be.

• 35:47Shaan Puri?

  But on a deal by deal basis, basically?

• 35:50Speaker 01

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. And whenever they need it, they call for it. There's not like a scheduled payment system with it.

• 35:55Shaan Puri?

  Gotcha. And then what about businesses you bought? What are you, what are the, what are you buying and who's running these things?

• 36:02Speaker 01

  Well, usually I buy businesses that can just run themselves. Like, um, I guess the, if you guys heard about like the ball pit company or like the ball, the plastic ball company I use for my ball pit.

• 36:13Shaan Puri?

  No. What is that?

• 36:17Speaker 01

  It's just, it's, it's like a, I probably a manufacturer. They're based in China though. They make like playground balls, like, uh, you know, like ball pit type.

• 36:26Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, we have one in my house.

• 36:27Speaker 01

  Really? Yeah. See, it was just really, um.

• 36:31Shaan Puri?

  Hold on, you bought the Chinese manufacturer?

• 36:34Speaker 01

  Well, the, like the, they share the facility with other people, but, um, yeah, they manufacture balls and I bought that company.

• 36:41Shaan Puri?

  What? Why? How?

• 36:43Speaker 01

  It was really, it's actually really good profit margins.

• 36:46Shaan Puri?

  How did this even come across your desk?

• 36:48Speaker 01

  Accountant, accountant. They just sent me stuff. They're like, that's saying it. And I like to gravitate towards the ones that I can also use for publicity stunts and, uh, on Twitch. So like I turned my entire room into a ball pit.

• 37:01Shaan Puri?

  Your accountant is like the LeBron James of accountants or the Bernie Madoff of accountants? I don't, I haven't decided which one yet, but he's doing way more than the call of duty as an accountant.

• 37:09Speaker 01

  Yeah, I have like a team. It's, it's hard to explain at all. I, normally I just throw them the money. I'm like, yes, make it work.

• 37:16Shaan Puri?

  Are you afraid of like being one of those like athletes that goes broke on like, you know, my, my manager, my accountant talked me into buying these like this chain of, you know, Wendy's that was like non-existent and ran away with my money? Cause it sounds like, uh, you know, you're throwing money at crazy places right now. Is that a fear for you?

• 37:34Speaker 01

  Uh, no, no, not really. Um.

• 37:37Shaan Puri?

  If you're not afraid, I'm not afraid.

• 37:39Speaker 01

  Yeah, I had bigger fears than that.

• 37:43Sam Parr?

  It like we were asking you some of these like super specific money questions and it, people are listening now, but you know, the look in your face was like, why the fuck are these guys asking me all these questions about this money shit? Like this makes me uncomfortable.

• 37:57Speaker 01

  Well, I only recently got back in control of my finances. I don't know if y'all saw that drama, but.

• 38:04Sam Parr?

  What happened?

• 38:05Speaker 01

  I can't say too much about it, but I got out of kind of a controlling relationship a bit. So, yeah.

• 38:14Shaan Puri?

  Yeah. Yeah. We keep the dark stuff over there. We just do the money stuff here. We don't, we don't worry. We try not to get into the heavy topics.

• 38:21Sam Parr?

  What I was saying was you do things that 99.9% of people would find to be incredibly embarrassing for to do. Like they'd be, they would be too nervous to do that, you know? It's too taboo. I'm uncomfortable doing that. And I think that it's, it's wild that we think that, all right, we're okay with that. But we're also nervous about talking about the money thing. And like, that's just like an interesting insight. And we've talked to so many people and it's very rare that someone's comfortable talking about money. It still makes me really uncomfortable, but it's just like an interesting thing. It's like, oh, I thought this woman wasn't afraid of anything. But when we talk about money, like, you know, it's, it can be a weird topic.

• 38:59Speaker 01

  Yeah, no, I'm pretty comfortable talking about the money so much like some of the more like investment business side. It's not just me. So it's like, I can feel like I can't talk too much about it because I'm not like the only person driving those types of things.

• 39:12Shaan Puri?

  So when we were talking to Mr. Beast, he's been going into like, you know, feastables, like his chocolate bar. And then he created like a pop up, like cloud kitchen restaurant thing called Beast Burger. And he's like talking about different like businesses where he can go into and say, okay, I could use my fame and my distribution to like, give these businesses an unfair advantage.

• 39:33Shaan Puri?

  Are you doing, it sounds like the ballpark is sort of like that where you're like, okay, if I buy this company and I, I make it part of my content, then like, you know, sales could go up. But like, I can imagine like. Any of the taboo sort of like, or like, you know, whatever sex related type of products, whether it's like, you know, it could be swimwear, it could be lingerie, it could be sex toys, it could be like, who knows? I don't know. I don't know what else it could be like. Are you going down that pathway? Like, we should actually like, either buy or create a business like in those categories and use me and maybe the, the other, my, my, you know, other girls I know that will be a part of promoting this and like, we can blow this company up into a pretty big company. Are you thinking along those lines?

• 40:14Speaker 01

  Yeah, I am definitely for the future as I'm, I'm trying to move towards, you know, more collaborative efforts with other girls with the real work. So I really want to do like lingerie. I think makeup is a good way to go too.

• 40:29Speaker 01

  Beauty industry is huge, but yeah, definitely like those are on my mind right now.

• 40:34Shaan Puri?

  Do you have to do products that guys want? Or is it products that like, how many of your fans are women versus men?

• 40:41Speaker 01

  It's gonna be a mixture. It's looking like since I'm blowing up more now where it's like, I do have more of a female audience, especially like, since a lot of the girls kind of look to me as a person to follow as far as like the OF side goes, e-girl side, whatever you want to call it. So it's getting more balanced, but yeah, I also still have a, a project that I've been working on with Ludwig this past year. We're making an amaranth fleshlight, so.

• 41:10Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, that's kind of what I was thinking about.

• 41:13Speaker 01

  We're doing that too.

• 41:14Shaan Puri?

  That was the idea that I was thinking about.

• 41:17Sam Parr?

  Have you, dude, have you, have you guys ever heard of kink.com? Have you heard of kink.com?

• 41:25Sam Parr?

  All right. So kink.com was like, I, I think that they were a website, but also the parent company and they owned all these like fetish websites. So, you know, kinks and I don't know what they all were, but like one of them or one of them that was pretty funny was like these people who would like wrestle and then have sex. And this guy started it.

• 41:46Speaker 01

  Mommy's bad at wrestling.

• 41:48Sam Parr?

  Yeah, well, they like, no, but they were like Olympic wrestling, like they were wearing like unitards and then like they it warps into sex and whatever. And they, the guy who started it, it was just a guy and he started it in the late 90s during the dot com boom. So he was an early mover and he built it into a huge business and eventually he bought this old armory, which is basically a huge building in the center of the Mission District in San Francisco, which is considered some of the most expensive real estate in the city because it's like a desirable hipster neighborhood. And he built this huge thing and it was basically like a palace. It was like an airplane, imagine an airplane hangar, but like in the, one of the more desirable neighborhoods of San Francisco. And he owned it and they eventually would film all their shit there. So like they had

• 42:33Sam Parr?

  like a wrestling area and then they had like a bar where they would do like people who like to have sex in public, they like mimicked a bar and people would have sex in it and film it and they would charge subscribers money, whatever. And when I first moved to San Francisco, I took a Groupon tour of it. Like you could, like you could, because it's just like an interesting building that's an old armory where they like, it's like an old historical building and it's also a porn studio. And I was hanging out with this girl and she was like, hey, do you want to go like, see this thing? It's on Groupon. It's a, it's a porn studio. We could just go take a tour of a historical building. And I was like, yeah, I guess. And that's how I learned what kink.com was. I went and like, we'd see this stuff and I'm like, this is crazy. And then I started thinking about like, all these media companies like Jimmy and I used

• 43:18Sam Parr?

  to do it too, where it'd be like, oh, we want to become like the Disney of blank. And I'm like, oh, this guy at Kink, that's his Disney Disneyland. Like, like he had all these people taking tours to come. I think we spent 50 bucks and we got a tour where they're like, here's where like the army used to prepare. Now we use it as a dungeon for sex takes because like there's a hose here. So we can spray people with water while they have sex. Like it was all kink stuff and it was pretty wild that this was like part of their business model. And like the people on that tour, like I'm a pretty straight laced guy. It was like straight laced people who had no idea what this website was. And then there was other people that were like totally into it and they're like, oh, I'm seeing where this, I'm seeing the studio where my favorite stuff is filmed. It was incredibly fascinating. Sean, I'm never, I'm shocked you haven't heard of that. It

• 44:03Sam Parr?

  was like right in the middle of

• 44:04Shaan Puri?

  I remember the building. Yeah. I didn't know the, the website for it, but yeah, that building is kind of famous. It's a beautiful building from the outside. And when you go by, somebody will always tell you, you know, hey, this is what that is.

• 44:13Speaker 01

  What is it called again? The building?

• 44:15Shaan Puri?

  The armory, right?

• 44:16Speaker 01

  The armory.

• 44:17Sam Parr?

  But if you look up like kink.com building San Francisco or something, there'll be a Wikipedia page. And this building, it might be worth north of a hundred million dollars at this point, maybe more. And it's like a huge building in a very desirable neighborhood. And it was just like, super fascinating that this guy did this. And so maybe in the future, what we're going to see you have is we're going to see you like, be like, oh, hey, creators who work with me, do you want to like a come, you want a place to come and stay? Like, you know, I can, you could, you could host your office in my studio. And then eventually it's like, hey, fans of us, whoever wants to spend a hundred bucks, you can come get like a walking guided tour. And then eventually you're just going to own like all this amazing, yeah, red light district style. You're going to own all this real estate. Anyway, it was a really interesting play that these folks did.

• 45:01Sam Parr?

  And it, I think it, I think the building became worth more than their, the porn brand.

• 45:08Speaker 01

  Wow.

• 45:08Shaan Puri?

  I, I read something you said that I thought was pretty interesting. You go, I think you said this, it was, you go, there's like the, Warren Buffett has this phrase, like, you only have to get rich once. And you were saying like, for social media, it's the same thing. You gotta just build an audience once. And you only gotta get famous once. And so what, how did you actually get famous? What was the, what was the, were there any big inflection points where it like, it went from like, you know, not that many people watching me or following me to like way more? Or was it just very steady? Or were there, were there any like big moments?

• 45:43Speaker 01

  Um, I used to, the hot tub meta was probably huge. That's probably doubled my growth at least. Um, but before that, it was kind of just, I guess I entered the social media space at a time when it wasn't oversaturated, like 2016, it wasn't as crazy as it is now where everyone wants to be an influencer. So I think I got really lucky with the timing. And then I just was growing on Twitch and Twitch wasn't oversaturated either at that time. Uh, and I just kind of grew with the platform because I streamed so much. And I, and what separated me from others was I was also making content on pretty much every other platform at the same time. Like I had Facebook page, I had Instagram, I had Twitter, I had YouTube. And I was just kind of growing it, plus Patreon also kind of.

• 46:27Speaker 01

  Boosted my ability to just make that my full time thing because I wasn't relying just on Twitch. Didn't have to keep like a day job or whatever.

• 46:35Shaan Puri?

  Describe how intense the content like work is because I think some people would say, oh man, you just post a picture on OnlyFans. That's like, you make a hundred grand a month, you know, you make a million dollars a month. And all you gotta do is like, post a pic like, you know, once a day or whatever, like, that's it. What is the, what's the reality like?

• 46:55Speaker 01

  Right now, my content schedule is a little crazy, but pretty much every week I'll have like a day or two where I just dedicate to OnlyFans and Fansly and Patreon, like all my NSFW platforms. And then I also like the next day I'll do all my YouTube, Twitter, Instagram content as well. So pretty much two days out of the week are like 12 hour photo shoot days across all my different types of content. And then the rest of the time I'll just stream on Twitch because that's kind of my, my billboard that pays me.

• 47:28Speaker 01

  My funnel.

• 47:34Sam Parr?

  It's just like, there, there's no reason, it's completely illogical why I feel this way, but it is just funny to like, hear like, you know, Sean and I talk about the exact same shit. It's just like in such a, uh, just with different types of content. And it's so funny that it's like, it, it, it's just not a normal conversation that we typically have where it's with, uh, not safe for work content. And I think that's so cool.

• 47:59Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's very different for sure.

• 48:02Sam Parr?

  But it's all the same mechanics and it's just like, why? And in my head, I'm like, why do I think, why, like, she's just doing the exact same shit we do. It's just a different niche and frankly, a significantly bigger, significantly more profitable and significantly, uh, like you just, you just, you just like, we're happy with like a million dollar a year, maybe if like in the tech world, on the Twitter world. And it's just like, oh yeah, that's cool. I'm, I'm, I'm decently happy with a million dollar a month too.

• 48:28Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's, it's kind of crazy. So I'm just trying to get it while, you know, the getting is good because I feel like it's such a rare opportunity to have, I don't want to waste it.

• 48:38Shaan Puri?

  Do you, um, like, okay, so you're like, you know, doing really well with this stuff now. Do you, what's the, is there like an end of the road where you're like, okay, I'm just gonna, like, I have to retire at certain points and like, you know? Do you sort of see like I have a very small window here for this or do you think it's going to be much longer than that?

• 48:59Speaker 01

  Um, I do feel like I have a small window compared to other types of content since it's mostly based off my appearance and there's always younger people coming into the space.

• 49:08Speaker 01

  But yeah, I don't know how much longer. I don't have like a cutoff period. I would think I would like to be done with the grind within the next year, maybe three max.

• 49:19Shaan Puri?

  If someone's confused by the way, because like when I first heard about OnlyFans, I was like, why would I pay like porn's free? What do you mean? Uh, why would I pay $5 a month for this? Is there like some psychological benefit that people get out of it? Like, you know, what drives somebody to actually pay for something when there's so much of a free alternative available to them um out there on the internet?

• 49:40Speaker 01

  I think part of it is the parasocial aspect where it's like they feel like they kind of like know this person because they'd see them on either YouTube or Twitch or whatever it is. Um, some people go overboard with it. Like they treat it like this is my girlfriend, which is definitely not, not your girlfriend, bro. Um, but yeah, I feel like part of it's just like they, they like a certain person's kind of look, like they're really into whatever characteristics make of that creator and they want to see more from that specific look that they've become like attracted to, I guess, or have some form of attachment just from seeing their face so much.

• 50:19Shaan Puri?

  Sam, have you ever heard this word parasocial?

• 50:22Sam Parr?

  No, no.

• 50:24Shaan Puri?

  Can you define that a little bit?

• 50:25Sam Parr?

  You've used that word and then the word about when you were talking about spamming the comments, I've never like heard someone call it that. That was, that was an interesting one, too.

• 50:33Speaker 01

  Parasocial is basically like a one-sided, well, air quotes, relationship that the viewer has with the content creator. Like some people get way too invested in a creator's personal life. Like they want to know who they're dating, what they did today, where they've been, why aren't they online right now? That's, I would say that's a very parasocial thing. So they feel like more entitled to a relationship when they don't actually know the person.

• 50:59Sam Parr?

  But it's a, I mean, but that that's good for you, no?

• 51:02Speaker 01

  Um, in some ways, until it gets to like a stalker threatening level. But um, most of the time, yeah, parasocial is profitable for the creator.

• 51:11Sam Parr?

  But how many times do you think it crosses the line? Like, how often would that happen to you where where it actually is an issue?

• 51:18Speaker 01

  Um, I would say you get like multiple red flags per day in messages. I'm sure there's even more that I don't read. But as far as in-person altercations, um, typically a few a year will try to physically show up at your house. Then you get a horde of people also just trying to swat you and dox you in general, who are mad that either you're not dating them or that you didn't respond or whatever. So it's complicated. Yeah, people are insane.

• 51:46Sam Parr?

  We

• 51:46Shaan Puri?

  I'm glad we're not more famous.

• 51:48Sam Parr?

  Well, Sean and I get like 1% of that because sometimes people will hear Sean talk and they're like, oh, you're really good at talking about money and like you're pretty successful. Therefore, like, show me the way. Uh, what the hell? You didn't reply to me like after all I do for you?

• 52:01Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 52:02Sam Parr?

  And like, that's like 1% I'm sure of what you get because it's when love and all that shit's involved. It's just like way more intense and way more dangerous, I think. Um, it's like, what would someone do? Like, they just, they just think that, hey, what the hell, man? I I messaged you and like, we were talking and I thought we were together. Now you're still doing this stuff?

• 52:20Speaker 01

  Yeah, some people get catfished too by like people just pretending to be me. And so they'll be like, I gave you all this money and you didn't show up. And I'm like, oh, no, oh, no. Um, but yeah, typically it's just crazy people who are just basically talking to themselves, a one-sided conversation in the DMs, never getting a response. And they just keep going. They just keep going.

• 52:44Shaan Puri?

  I feel like, uh, I feel like I could create an AI OnlyFans creator and, um, like, just crush it because she could do anything and she would talk to anyone, any time of day. And she would, you know, be, you know, the girlfriend you always wanted. And so if anyone out there is a engineer who wants to help me with this, let's, for a stunt, let's try to create an AI OnlyFans girl who's gonna make a million dollars in a month. That's the mission and we'll publish how we're doing along the way. And we're gonna learn all the growth hacks and we're gonna put it all out there. They can't dox her or swat her because she doesn't exist. She doesn't live anywhere. And so I think it is the, uh, maybe the future there. So, so that's my, my call to action. Anybody who wants to help me with that project, get in my DMs on Twitter, Sean VP.

• 53:28Sam Parr?

  Have you guys seen, uh, is it called avatar.me?

• 53:32Shaan Puri?

  Yeah.

• 53:33Sam Parr?

  Have you guys seen that?

• 53:33Speaker 01

  I have not.

• 53:35Sam Parr?

  All right. So check this out. So there's like all this like AI shit where you, it's like all built on the back of one thing. And then all these people are creating plugins and layers on tops of top of it. And so there's this new thing where you can upload 20 pictures of yourself and it will give you avatars created with you in mind. And

• 53:55Shaan Puri?

  Okay, go to avatar.ai.me. That's the, that's the

• 53:59Sam Parr?

  It's fucking amazing. So check this out. So I just uploaded a bunch of pictures of my face and there were a few pictures that I posted of my body. Cause I was doing like before and after of like fitness shit, but it sent me photos back of me looking like a dominatrix. Looking like I put, but then it gave me this other picture that I have no idea what this is. It gave me this other picture where it's supposed to be like, I only post, gave it pictures of me with like my stomach up. And it, and it like gave, it made me, it like made a fake picture of my ass. And it was just like a picture of my butt and uh, it's fucking disgusting and weird, but like,

• 54:41Sam Parr?

  but I was looking at this and I'm like, oh, there definitely should be, there's definitely going to be this type of thing because have you guys seen, uh, I think it's called replica.ai. It's basically a service where you can like, where you can just spend money and you get like a friend that learns how to interact with you. And you also can get like an online girlfriend who just is like, it's a text based conversation that you're having with this fake woman. And she gets to know you and figures out your tastes and likes. It was all built on AI. Now we just gotta add it with some of this, um, with some of these pictures and then event, eventually deep fake videos and like, your job ultimately is going to be completely like, you know, unnecessary, like the use of the world are going to be, it's like, hey, wait, you're real?

• 55:26Sam Parr?

  Why would you do it? Why are you wasting that time being real? Uh, you know, uh, or like, maybe there should be like bots of you that understand your personality and actually do talk to these men. And you can like license out your, your face to replica.ai. There's going to be a lot of interesting things like that, I think in the near, in like the next two years, probably.

• 55:44Speaker 01

  Yeah, for sure. It's getting kind of crazy, the technology.

• 55:49Shaan Puri?

  Right on. All right. Well, listen, this is great. I'm glad you came on. Thanks for doing this. And where should people, where should people find you if they want to, you know, see more, learn more, get to know you a little bit better?

• 56:05Speaker 01

  I usually just refer people to my link directory and the URL is easy to remember. It's downbad.com.

• 56:11Shaan Puri?

  What? Downbad.com?

• 56:13Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 56:13Shaan Puri?

  Downbad.com. Okay.

• 56:15Speaker 01

  That's easy.

• 56:17Shaan Puri?

  Okay.

• 56:17Speaker 01

  It has all my platforms listed there because sometimes, you know, stuff gets banned and the link will change. So it's always there.

• 56:24Shaan Puri?

  That's cool. All right. Thanks, Kate. Appreciate it.

• 56:27Speaker 01

  Yeah, thanks.

• 56:27Shaan Puri?

  Appreciate you.