David Rubenstein: We took $5M and turned it into $500B

Sam's database on how long it takes to become a millionaire: https://clickhubspot.com/pnlv Episode 861: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) sits down with David Rubenstein ( https://x.com/DM_Rubenstein ) to talk about turning Carlyle into $500B, his $14B miss, and the greatest business lessons in history. — Show Notes: (0:00) Turning $5M into $500B (5:13) Scrappy private equity (11:58) Don’t fool yourself (14:14) Turning down 20% of Amazon (16:23) Recruiting big shots (20:40) Finding the right partner (22:02) Trade-offs (27:39) Witnessing ascents to power (31:40) The Greatest Sentence Ever Written (33:37) History that repeats itself (35:49) Recommended Reading — Links: • Carlyl - https://www.carlyle.com/ • David’s books - https://www.davidrubenstein.com/books/ — Check Out Sam's Stuff: • Hampton (joinhampton.com): My community for founders. Average member does $25m/year. Many of the guests are members. Get after it...apply: http://joinhampton.com/mfm — Check Out Shaan's Stuff: • Shaan's weekly email - https://www.shaanpuri.com • Visit https://www.somewhere.com/mfm to hire worldwide talent like Shaan and get $500 off for being an MFM listener. Hire developers, assistants, marketing pros, sales teams and more for 80% less than US equivalents. • Mercury - Shaan uses Mercury across all of his companies. you can too: http://mercury.com/ Mercury is a fintech company, not an FDIC-insured bank. Banking services provided by Choice Financial Group, Column, N. A., Members FDIC • I run all my newsletters on Beehiiv and you should too + we're giving away $10k to our favorite newsletter, check it out: beehiiv.com/mfm-challenge My First Million is a HubSpot Original Podcast // Brought to you by HubSpot Media // Production by Arie Desormeaux // Editing by Ezra Bakker Trupiano /

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• 0:00Speaker 00

  I raised five million dollars from four investors in 1987. Today, Carlyle manages not five million dollars, but 500 billion dollars.

• 0:07Sam Parr?

  How old were you then when you started Carlyle?

• 0:09Speaker 00

  Thirty seven. I said, geez, if I don't do it now, I'll never do it.

• 0:11Sam Parr?

  Do you have any habits that you think would shock people?

• 0:14Speaker 00

  I always view myself as being from a blue collar family in Baltimore.

• 0:17Sam Parr?

  But even like in year 10, you weren't thinking like, all right, I can breathe a little. This is gonna work. I think I'm safe.

• 0:23Speaker 00

  No, because if you're an entrepreneur, you always think something bad's gonna happen.

• 0:27Sam Parr?

  You still feel that way?

• 0:28Speaker 00

  Every day. Ninety nine point nine percent of the companies that started in the United States are not in business five years later. If you go back and look at anybody that built a company, they have self-confidence that is staggering. I met Jeff Bezos for the first time. He said, well, I'll give you 20% of the company that I'm about to build. Later, after the company was going somewhere, I said, we should have taken that deal. That was stupid. That stock's probably worth 14 billion dollars now.

• 0:49Sam Parr?

  Can I ask you about seeing people get power?

• 0:52Speaker 00

  Well.

• 1:02Sam Parr?

  I was looking at this photo. There's this photo here of, I think it's you and your parents.

• 1:06Speaker 00

  Yes. That's what President Carter, when, you know, I was 27 years old. I got a job as the deputy domestic policy advisor. I obviously wasn't qualified. It wasn't experienced. But in our system, if you work in a campaign, you win, you might get a job in the White House. And so my parents, who were blue collar workers, never graduated from high school. When I got a job at 27 at the White House, you know, they couldn't believe it. And then I took them in to meet the president, which is what that picture shows. And they were, you know, in awe because they were, what do we call, yellow dog Democrats.

• 1:35Sam Parr?

  What's that?

• 1:35Speaker 00

  It is an old expression. It means that I am a Democrat and I would vote for a Democrat, for a candidate, for a president or for any office, even if it was a yellow dog.

• 1:44Sam Parr?

  So they're just hardcore Dems?

• 1:46Speaker 00

  Absolutely.

• 1:46Sam Parr?

  What do you do your first month when you're in office? Because getting any type of new job is a big deal, particularly one where it's like one of the most powerful things on earth. What do you do your first month? Do you remember?

• 1:56Speaker 00

  Carter had a lot of promises and what I did is I worked on compiling what his promises were. See, there wasn't no internet then. And so Carter had wanted to know what he actually promised in the course of his two years campaign. Well, you have to go dig it out, talks, interviews, questionnaires. What did he actually promise? And I got to sit in a lot of Carter's meetings because I would, I knew his promises better than anybody. And so I would be able to object and say, Mr. President, it's a good idea that this person has, but it's a violation of a campaign promise. Every administration, the current administration, every administration has young people who are in their twenties or thirties who worked in the campaign. And they're energetic and eager and they get jobs and some of them will turn out to be great and some will turn out to be not as great.

• 2:34Sam Parr?

  But how did you figure out how to make good decisions? Because you are so young.

• 2:38Speaker 00

  I mean, I didn't have a lot of policy experience. I'd worked on Capitol Hill for about a year or so. I didn't really have that much policy experience. My boss did. And then we hired a staff of really talented people. And they were all young, but they were talented in their area, energy or environment or whatever it be. And then we'd have issues and we'd come up with positions. Remember, the president has policy positions that he wants to take because of campaign promises. So we would articulate, you know, how we could fulfill his promises.

• 3:03Sam Parr?

  So you were there for four years. What did you feel like when it was done?

• 3:07Speaker 00

  Well, when you work in the White House, people come to you and tell you how great you are. Nobody says, yeah, you're an idiot. They come and tell you, you're a smart guy, you're great. And by the way, can you help me on this or that? And they always will say, and by the way, if you ever want to leave, call me because I will hire you somebody. I always said, well, I don't want to be hired, but I'm going to be here for four years and we win, I'll be maybe the senior domestic advisor in the next four years. After we lost the election, I started calling these people saying, you remember me? I'm the bright young guy you said was so great? I didn't get calls back because you're out of power. People want to go and get contacted with the Reagan people. So I, I struggled for a while to find a law firm that would take me because nobody really wanted a junior White House aide who was a Carter person.

• 3:45Sam Parr?

  And you're 32?

• 3:47Speaker 00

  I was left in the White House at 31. So at 31, I'm trying to figure out, I want to tell my mother, look, your son is unemployable. Nobody wants a Carter White House aide, not unlike the experience that the Biden people have had. The Biden people have found it more difficult to get reestablished than they would have preferred. And when you lose an election, you know, you're out of power. So as Harry Truman said, you want a friend in Washington, get a dog. Eventually I got a job practicing law and I realized I wasn't that great a lawyer. I didn't really like it. And so I, I started a investment firm about a year, a couple of years later.

• 4:18Sam Parr?

  I think the best way to become successful is to see how other people did it, whether you're going to copy them or just use it as inspiration. Because then now you know what's possible. So starting at the age of 24, I did this relentlessly and I was very methodical about it. And I created a spreadsheet where I tracked roughly 50 people who were uber successful. And I looked at the year that they were born, the year that they started their apprenticeship. And then the year that they started the first thing that made them successful, finally, the year that they broke through. And I aggregated all this data along with the stories of what they did to be an apprentice and what they did to finally break through. And I put it together in a database and HubSpot went and found this thing that I frankly even forgot about, but it did change my life. And they resurfaced it. They made it even better and they put it into a thing that you can download for free right now.

• 5:03Sam Parr?

  So if you click the link in the description or click the QR code right here, you can see this database that I made when I was 24 and it changed my life. And so if you're looking to become successful or you're already successful and just want some more inspiration, check it out. How old were you then when you started Carlyle?

• 5:17Speaker 00

  I was 37 because I read that an entrepreneur will start his or her first company between the ages of 28 and 37. Now, obviously there's the Mark Zuckerbergs and Bill Gates of the world that are different. But an average person will start a first company between 28 and 37. If you haven't done it by 37, I read, you probably will never start a company. So if you have an entrepreneurial instinct, you better do something by the age of 37, was what I read. And I was then 37. I said, geez, if I don't do it now, I'll never do it.

• 5:44Sam Parr?

  Did you think, like a lot of times when people start businesses, they're like, how much runway do I have?

• 5:48Speaker 00

  Yeah. When I started Carlyle, I was married. When I left the White House, I wasn't married. I got married a couple of years before I started Carlyle.

• 5:54Sam Parr?

  So you had the pressure of like, I need to provide?

• 5:57Speaker 00

  Well, I have some pressure, but you know, it's pressure, but the pressure of getting a company off the ground is considerable. As you know, you started your own company, you never know when you start a company, if you're going to be able to pay the rent the next day or next month. And are the, are people going to want your services? You don't know.

• 6:14Sam Parr?

  Yeah. When I started my first company, that was one that led to some success. I was lucky because I was 24 or 25 and I was single and like I only spent 1,500 or $2,000 a month. And so like I had saved up maybe, I don't remember, $50,000. So I'm like, I'm good. I have 36 months or something like that.

• 6:33Speaker 00

  Well, remember, 99.9% of the companies that started in the United States are not in business five years later. 99.9%. So it's a small percentage of companies that are there five years later and a very small percentage are there 10 years later. So most companies that are started just don't work out.

• 6:50Sam Parr?

  What did you do the first handful of weeks after you decided to start the company?

• 6:53Speaker 00

  Well, I had to recruit people and recruit people. And then we raised, and then I had to raise money to get it started. I raised five million dollars from four investors in 1987. Today, Carlyle manages not five million dollars, but 500 billion dollars. So it's grown to be one of the larger private equity firms in the world, the help of a lot of people, but I did that for many, many years.

• 7:14Sam Parr?

  Who was your first few hires?

• 7:15Speaker 00

  Well, I had a couple of partners. I hired a person who had been the chief financial officer of a company called MCI, which was a long distance telephone company. And he became my co-CEO with me over, for some 30 years. His name is Bill Conway. And we hired another person, a senior officer from Marriott. So we hired a number of people at the beginning, four of us at the beginning, and then we grew it. The companies we, Carlyle controls have about a million and a half employees. And the Carlyle itself's got about 2,300 core.

• 7:41Sam Parr?

  It sounds like the, like whenever I've started my last company, the people or in this company, the people who I initially hire, they're basically like rejects. Like it's like, it's like smart, ambitious, rebellious, but it sounds like the people you hired early on were very pedigreed.

• 7:57Speaker 00

  Well, they have pedigrees in the sense that they had went to good schools. I was probably a sucker for hiring people that went to good schools. But in the end, everybody is leaving somewhere because they're not happy there and they're not thinking it's, it's working well for them. So everybody is really incented to try to get a better position in life. And a lot of people at the age of 20 or 30, they realize the job that they currently have may not be so great. So they take a chance. And you know, some people work out and some people doesn't work out.

• 8:25Sam Parr?

  I know your, your job was recruiting and your job was helping fundraise. And I already know because I've listened to so many of you, you're very charming and you're very persuasive. You do, you're very good with words.

• 8:34Speaker 00

  I don't know about that, but I would say that my partners had MBAs. I didn't have an MBA. So they really knew the investment world. So I figured, okay, they can really assess deals better than I can. What I'll do is I'll raise the money and then I'll ultimately recruit people. And then I'll be the face of the firm because I was better at that than maybe they were. And so that's what I did for 30 plus years, run around the world, raising money and then recruiting people to build our new firms. So what we did that was different was we had multiple funds. In private equity, historically, you had a buyout fund if you're a buyout business and you had a venture fund. Every four years you raise a new one, if your track record was good enough to justify it.

• 9:14Speaker 00

  I came up with the idea of having a buyout fund, a growth fund, a real estate fund, a debt fund, and I had multiple funds. And then I had the idea of globalizing and have a fund in Europe, in Asia, Japan, so forth. That was novel at the time, but to do that, I had to run around the world recruiting people and raising the money. And so that took a lot of time.

• 9:31Sam Parr?

  Do you remember how, so you got your first five million dollar fund? How long did that take to raise?

• 9:36Speaker 00

  Well, it was one person who was a friend of mine who helped me raise the five million dollars and was from four investors. And we did, we did things, what's called deal by deal. We didn't have money to do a big fund, so we'd find a deal and then go raise money for that deal. And if it worked out, then we'd go raise money for another deal. And we did that for a number of years before we raised our first fund, which was 100 million. The second fund was a billion. And so we got bigger.

• 9:58Sam Parr?

  How did you pay your team then? If you're, if you don't have a fund, if you're doing deal by deal?

• 10:03Speaker 00

  Well, it's harder because if you do it deal by deal, you have to go to people and say, here's a good deal, give me some money for it, and they say, I'll get back to you, I'm not sure. So it takes time. And it's hard to do what we were trying to do at the time because we were buying publicly traded stocks. And you can't tell people, here's the opportunity, because they could trade on it if they didn't give you the money and legally, I guess they could trade on that they shouldn't have. So it took a while to get started, but that's true of everybody. Anybody that's built a successful company is always going to have a hard time at the beginning. And, you know, we had a hard time at the beginning, but Blackstone and Apollo and KKR, they all had similar stories of having no money at the beginning, and then they started. Blackstone, which is the biggest of the private equity firms these days, Steve Schwartzman

• 10:45Speaker 00

  wrote in his autobiography that, you know, they got turned down by 97% of the people they went to to raise their first fund.

• 10:52Sam Parr?

  Yeah, and the first one was huge, wasn't it? Like-

• 10:54Speaker 00

  It was made eight hundred million, I think.

• 10:56Sam Parr?

  Yeah, it was huge. But what I'm curious about, I don't think that you, you don't talk too much about your entrepreneurial side. And I'm always very curious about that. Do you remember like the scrappy stories of what your first office looked like?

• 11:06Speaker 00

  When I started the firm, we didn't have any money, we had no credibility. So there was a new office building that had been built in Washington, looked like a building that was a classic building for wealthy kind of set of tenants. And they had a little space left because they had filmed the movie called Broadcast News with Jack Nicholson in that space. So the space was now available. I said I would take the space, it was 5,000 square feet, and the leasing agent said, look, you can have another 5,000 if you want, you have an option for 5,000. I said, no. I didn't take it. I said, I don't want it. She said, it's free. You just sign this thing here, you get the option to have 5,000 square feet more. I said, I don't want it because I don't want to be tempted to ever grow that big a firm.

• 11:45Sam Parr?

  Why didn't you want to grow that big?

• 11:46Speaker 00

  Well, at the time, I didn't know much about business compared to what I know about government or I knew about practice of law. And I was afraid if I took a bigger space that we would try to expand too rapidly. So that's probably why we didn't do it. That later we had to expand. And now we're the biggest tenant in the business, in the building.

• 12:00Sam Parr?

  About one night a week, I'll be laying in bed with my wife, you know, doing pillow talk, and I'm like, you know, one day if we nail this, this, and this, in the next 10 years, maybe we can be this, or maybe in 50 years, we could be this. And like you like have these like, you know, vision sessions. Were you doing that with your spouse?

• 12:16Speaker 00

  Every day was a, was a challenge because we're trying to start a firm. Remember, in private equity was not as big as it was today. In fact, the phrase private equity wasn't even invented then. We were in Washington DC. Washington DC was not New York. People didn't take you seriously. And people asked me, why did you do it in Washington? Well, Senator Everett Dirksen, used to be a Senate Minority Leader, said famously, when you're getting kicked out of town, get out in front and pretend you're leading a parade. What does that mean? It means take advantage of the situation you're in. So I said, we're in Washington, we understand that companies heavily affected by the federal government better than the guys in New York. Maybe it was true, maybe it wasn't, but it sounded good and some people gave us money.

• 12:55Sam Parr?

  You're the second person in the past couple of weeks. So over here, we've had Ray Dalio in recently, and I asked him the same question. I was like, when you were first getting Bridgewater going, did you like, what were some crazy ambitions? Did you say like, oh, it would be awesome if we made a hundred million dollars or a billion dollars or had 10,000 employees or whatever? And he was like, I just wanted to make a hundred grand a year so I could like pay for my family. That was my goal.

• 13:16Speaker 00

  Well, Ray's case, I think he started the business out of his apartment.

• 13:19Sam Parr?

  Yeah, and he had to ask his dad for money one time because he went broke.

• 13:22Speaker 00

  He had to borrow money from his father, if that's correct.

• 13:25Sam Parr?

  Yeah, and so it's funny hearing you say this because you've built such an amazing company that like I can't believe that there was no like aspirations early on, just for the sake of motivation.

• 13:34Speaker 00

  You know, if you have the grandiose expectations or plans at the beginning, you might be, you know, fooling yourself. I don't think Bill Gates, when he started, think he was going to build what he built, or Mark Zuckerberg, or all these others. For example, Mark Zuckerberg was at Harvard. My now son-in-law was one of his classmates. And I heard about the opportunity that this guy was building his company, and they asked me to invest, and I said, I'm not going to invest. And that's a dating company. Because the original idea was simply to help people get dates at Harvard. You have pictures of people, their faces, and you can do it through social media. And then they thought maybe that expanded to Yale or Princeton. That was it. The idea of doing non-students really hadn't, wasn't even surfaced then. I don't think Mark Zuckerberg actually thought he would ever build what he built.

• 14:17Sam Parr?

  Yeah, I think I remember some awesome story of Jeff Bezos at a pitch. He goes, look, if we really nail this, I think we can make a hundred million dollars a year.

• 14:26Speaker 00

  Look, I saw Jeff at the beginning because he had, he had a bibliography of books in print to better sell books on the internet. One of our companies had a bibliography of books in print. He came to rent it from us, and we said, we don't rent it. He said, well, I'll give you 20% of the company that I'm about to build. And I said, we don't want a piece of an illiquid company, a startup, that's not more than, we want cash. Ultimately, we agreed to, I think, a hundred thousand a year for five years. We rented in the bibliography.

• 14:50Sam Parr?

  Wait, you owned a company that was a book publisher? And it had a book that had a list of every book ever written? And the offer was 25%?

• 14:58Speaker 00

  It was 20 to 25%. Later, after the company was going somewhere, I said, we should have taken that deal. I flew out, I met Jeff Bezos for the first time, and he had one office, he was doing the books himself, and he would take them to the post office every night. It was very small. And I said, you know, you're going to compete against Barnes and Noble. He says, yeah, but I understand how to do this better than they do. And so I said, this guy's not going to really make it. I said, look, we'll take some stock now. We'd like some stock. 20% is okay. He said, well, David, that was a couple of years ago. Now I don't need you quite as much, but I'll give you some stock. We got some stock, then we sold it at the IPO. That was stupid. That stock's probably worth 14 billion dollars now.

• 15:37Sam Parr?

  Did he have any attributes back then that you saw this guy is going to be the, be the guy?

• 15:43Speaker 00

  He's very smart and had a lot of self-confidence. And he said he had a lot of good computer skills, and maybe he did, I couldn't judge that. But he was very driven, very smart, hardworking, like a lot of entrepreneurs. Entrepreneurs, people that build companies are not shrinking violets. You know, if you go back and look at anybody that built a company, they have self-confidence that is staggering. Because if you're a shrinking violet, you're not going to build a company. Bill Gates as a young man, and Jeff Bezos, or Mark Zuckerberg, or Steve Jobs, the enormous amount of self-confidence, and that's what it takes to really build a company.

• 16:15Sam Parr?

  Did you have that?

• 16:16Speaker 00

  I didn't have as much as they did because I didn't think I was as smart as they were. But I, I was surrounded by people that had more. I recruited people I knew more than I did.

• 16:25Sam Parr?

  And you got really good at not just recruiting talented people, but you got really good at recruiting big shots. Like you, you had a bunch of big shots who are, I don't know the right terminology, they're like advisors?

• 16:35Speaker 00

  Well, what happened was when we were starting the company, or right after we started it, they started in 87. Ronald Reagan's presidency was over in 88. And a former law partner of mine said that a man who had been the Secretary of Defense was going to go on a lot of corporate boards, but in those days, if you were not a lawyer, you couldn't join a law firm. So he was looking for a place to be a base. And he, my former law partner knew about what I was doing. And since we were in a law firm, he said, why don't you interview Frank Carlucci, the former Secretary of Defense, or about to be former Secretary of Defense, and he can join your firm? He's going to be on a lot of corporate boards, or maybe can open some doors for you. So we interviewed Frank Carlucci, he joined us, and then he could open doors that I couldn't open, he was a former Secretary of Defense.

• 17:19Speaker 00

  Four years later, Jim Baker was leaving as Secretary of State. But while this is the ultimate great man of the world, Secretary of State, Secretary of Treasury, White House Chief of Staff, and I was able to recruit him.

• 17:30Sam Parr?

  How many other options did they have? Like, why would they trust like a startup?

• 17:34Speaker 00

  I mean, they always had other things that we weren't doing. And Frank Carlucci's case, he was joining like six or seven corporate boards. That was his main activity. In Jim Baker's case, he went back to his family's law firm. He was a partner there, but he's also a partner in our firm. And then after Baker, we had Dick Darman, who'd been one of his proteges, who had been the head of L and B. And then later, George Herbert Walker Bush, former President of the United States, became an advisor to us. And then John Major, former Prime Minister, became an advisor to us as well. So we did open doors with these people because if your last name is Rubenstein and you go to the Middle East to raise money, might not be as compelling as if you go with Jim Baker.

• 18:10Sam Parr?

  Do you remember what the pitch looks like or sounds like when you're, when you're swinging above your weight?

• 18:16Speaker 00

  I would say, look, we're a firm in Washington, we understand companies heavily affected by the federal government, we're buying an aerospace defense company, we have a former Secretary of Defense. And, you know, in the end, you have to build your track record. So if you did one deal and it exited well, then you can go and use that to say, we're going to do another deal similarly. So it worked out. But we made some mistakes, and everybody makes mistakes, and, you know, but it worked out.

• 18:38Sam Parr?

  Yeah, that's crazy. But it seems like, hey, you guys had like a pretty good trajectory. Do you remember any times where you're like, this is not going to work?

• 18:45Speaker 00

  One time, we had a limited amount of cash, and then we were trying to buy a company, and it was in bankruptcy court, we're trying to buy out of bankruptcy, and we basically spent all our money trying to buy it. And then we lost in bankruptcy court. So we'd spent all our money, we didn't get the company, we had no more cash. So we said, hey, what are we going to do to meet the payroll? But in the end, we actually got the company, and the end, it turned out to be a very successful deal. But, you know, I remember waking up in the middle of the night thinking, hey, how am I going to pay the rent?

• 19:11Sam Parr?

  What year, or how many years into the company, did you feel like you personally were like, all right, I'm financially stable?

• 19:19Speaker 00

  Maybe yesterday. It takes a while. I mean, when we were building the company, we ultimately sold a piece of it to CalPERS, I think about 5% of the California retirement system. And they valued the company at something being worth like $2 billion. The company was worth $2 billion or $2.5 billion. Nobody thought that a private equity firm in those days had franchise value and could be sold, but we sold 5% to CalPerc. That was probably 2009 or something like that. And then a few years later, we sold 7.5% to Mubadala, which was an Abu Dhabi investment arm. And that value of the company had been worth 20 billion. And then we later took the company public.

• 20:00Sam Parr?

  But even like in year 10 or so, you weren't thinking like, all right, I can breathe a little. This is going to work. I don't know how well it's going to work, but it's actually going to work. And personally, I think I'm safe.

• 20:12Speaker 00

  No, because if you're an entrepreneur, you always think something bad is going to happen. And so I'm always worried that something bad is going to happen. Tomorrow, somebody will do something they shouldn't have done, or a deal won't work out. So I never felt comfortable. You know, I tend to be a workaholic a bit, so I'm always working on things. And I'm always thinking, what can go wrong?

• 20:30Sam Parr?

  You still feel that way?

• 20:31Speaker 00

  Every day.

• 20:32Sam Parr?

  Really?

• 20:33Speaker 00

  Look, I'm always thinking bad things can happen. Maybe that's what entrepreneurs do, because you have to have certain self-confidence. But you always have to assume something bad can happen. You have to protect against it.

• 20:43Sam Parr?

  But it seems like you've had good partners. I'm highly neurotic. My business partner, who runs Hampton, is not neurotic at all. And he's very calm and steady. And it's like the greatest pair ever, because he's the only one who I will be neurotic with.

• 20:55Speaker 00

  Well, I have two people that I really built the company with. And one of them is now 80 years old and has all dark hair, then have one gray hair. So he may be not as neurotic as I am. And then Bill Conway has gray hair, but he doesn't seem to worry about some of the things as much as I do. Maybe because he's more self-confident about his abilities to be an investor. But look, you're always worried something bad is going to happen. I'm worried every day. I'm now the principal owner of the Baltimore Orioles. I'm worried every day that something bad can happen.

• 21:21Sam Parr?

  What are you worried about with the Orioles?

• 21:23Speaker 00

  I want to make the playoffs. And you know, we're now one game out of the playoff, but one game away from being able to get into the playoffs. But we're one game behind the Cleveland Guardians. And then there are other teams that could catch up to us. So I'm always worried that I didn't do a good enough job in helping the team.

• 21:39Sam Parr?

  I get worried about looking stupid on the internet. And like the comments, I act like they don't bother me. They do. Do you get bothered by comments or people criticizing an interview?

• 21:49Speaker 00

  Advisors have trained me not to read social media, because you're inevitably going to find people saying something critical of you.

• 21:57Sam Parr?

  Does that bother you?

• 21:58Speaker 00

  Well, nobody wants to be criticized, so I tend not to read the social media.

• 22:01Sam Parr?

  Sure.

• 22:02Speaker 00

  So I generally don't go on the social media.

• 22:05Sam Parr?

  I was reading about how, I think you said you were traveling like 200 plus days a year. So how old were your kids when you were doing that? And how did you balance being a good dad?

• 22:14Speaker 00

  Well, it's always a challenge, of course. But as you know, all three of my kids have MBAs, and they all are in private equity. So you can say I either did something wrong or did something right. But look, parents who are driven and have businesses that require a travel, you have to depend on your spouse and other people that help make sure the kids get grown. And when I came back on weekends from my travels, you know, I would try to spend time with them.

• 22:40Sam Parr?

  Do you get to work with them on a weekly or daily basis now? Like, are they part of an organization that you're a part of?

• 22:45Speaker 00

  No, I have a family investment office. And very often, a family investment office will be something where you can bring your children to work in it and so forth. Some people do it that way. I didn't want to do that. So they have their own businesses that I've helped support, but now they're kind of on their own. And I have a family investment office, which is owned largely by the people that work there, professionals. And I own a piece of it as well. And then when I drop dead, my children will get something probably out of it. But I'm committed to giving away most of my money. I was an early, original signer of the Giving Pledge, and I've given away a lot of money. And I intend to give away the bulk of what I have left.

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• 23:51Sam Parr?

  One of the reasons I respect you is because you seem like a very fulfilled person. Have you ever thought about who you know in your life who seems fulfilled and has a really rich life? Like a well-rounded, rich life? Because a lot of times, successful people, you don't want to trade spots with them.

• 24:07Speaker 00

  Well, there are very few people who, everything works perfectly for. There may be some people like that, but everybody's got their challenges. And this weekend, I hosted in Nantucket, friends of mine from high school, from 60 years ago. When I was growing up, I wasn't a great athlete. Some of the people I had at my home this weekend were great athletes. Now, they often have artificial hips or artificial knees, because they were such great, they hurt themselves. So I don't really have that problem, though.

• 24:33Sam Parr?

  But when you think of, do you ever think of like, who do you admire most? Not just for their business ability, but for the holistic, like, this person, under these circumstances, has mostly nailed aspects of life that I admire?

• 24:46Speaker 00

  Well, there are a lot of people. I'm a person who was in my firm. I thought his professional career was extraordinary, and that was Jim Baker. Great job in the federal government and very well-respected person. You know, there are lots of business people that I've looked at and admired over the years. And people have great personal lives, professional lives, and the people want to emulate. Yeah, so a lot of people like that. But there's nobody out there that's perfect.

• 25:09Sam Parr?

  I talked to someone who worked with you at Carlisle. He was an associate. But he was saying something, he was like, I love working for David, because I think he's lived in mostly the same house for a very long time. When you walk into the office, his office, you don't see like a lot of fancy stuff. He's pretty low-key. When he leaves the office, there's not like a limousine driver or whatever you would think of like the stereotype. And he said that that's one of the reasons why I really respect him and I really like him, is because he seems like he's still very down-to-earth, regardless of how successful he's got.

• 25:42Speaker 00

  Well, I always view myself as being from a blue-collar family in Baltimore. And I always, you know, realize that neither of my parents graduated from high school. I got lucky in life. And you know, you wouldn't have predicted what would have happened to me. And you know, I've tried to give back to society, and I've given, done a lot of things in philanthropy. And I've tried to chair a lot of nonprofit boards and so forth to kind of give back to society. But you know, in the end, you know, I'm not that fancy a person, I guess.

• 26:12Sam Parr?

  When we had Lloyd in, he was like, he told the story about how, I think his father was a post office.

• 26:18Speaker 00

  His father had the same job my father had, postal clerk. His father did it in New York, I think Brooklyn, and my father did it in Baltimore. I forget if his father was a high school graduate, but my parents didn't graduate from high school. And my father came back from World War II. The only job he could get was this postal job, and that's the job he had his entire life.

• 26:35Sam Parr?

  And he told the story, he was like, I still have the lower tier of Netflix. He was like, it's kind of funny. He was like, I could afford these things, but I definitely, like, being broke or not having a lot of money at a young age, it still has impacted me. Does it still impact you? Do you have any habits that you think would shock people?

• 26:52Speaker 00

  You know, I still go to the same barber for like $15 to get a haircut or something in my neighborhood. So I am wealthy, but not so wealthy that I have yachts. And I don't know, I guess I'm somewhat old school, and I still, I have this suit I'm wearing. I've had it for like 10 years. The trick is being able to fit in your suits there for 10 years. That's the trick.

• 27:14Sam Parr?

  How many do you have? Because that's the only thing I've ever seen you wear.

• 27:17Speaker 00

  I have a lot of suits. And it's an interesting phenomenon. Today, in the business world, not wearing a suit is considered more normal. But I guess, my father was a blue-collar worker, and he had this obsession with never wearing a tie. He just thought ties were terrible. And I guess to kind of show that I achieved more than he had achieved, I guess I bought a lot of suits. And I have a lot of ties, and I'm amortizing them. I'm still wearing the same ties and suits I've had for many years.

• 27:42Sam Parr?

  Well, it looks good. I mean, that photo when you're 27, you look sharp there, too. By the way, they dressed, the presidents and government officials, they dressed amazing during that era. Like, when you look at Ronald Reagan's suits, he was a sharp dresser. He was very good at dressing compared to a lot of people now.

• 27:57Speaker 00

  He was an actor, and he wanted to look, you know, good. And Carter was, you know, Carter was a little cheaper than Reagan was, probably. He had his suits made in Plains, Georgia, or someplace like that. And you know, but he wasn't a fashion plate, I think is fair to say.

• 28:12Sam Parr?

  But can I ask you about seeing people get power? Because I've read, I think, is it the governor of Virginia was like, was an intern with you guys?

• 28:21Speaker 00

  Glenn Youngkin worked at Carlisle for 25 years, and he got elected governor, Glenn Youngkin, yes.

• 28:26Sam Parr?

  And then you also know world leaders, you know, a lot of really successful entrepreneurs. What is it like when you see someone go from just knowing them as a young person, or someone without as much power, money, or success? And then seeing them become like the man? Is there something that power can change you?

• 28:43Speaker 00

  Power does change some people. And Glenn Youngkin, I hired him pretty much out of McKinsey, right out of Harvard Business School. He worked for us for 25 years. And then he decided to leave and run for governor. I didn't think he would get elected, because he'd never been in politics before. He got elected, and all of a sudden, people are talking about him being potential President of the United States. So, look, I've met a lot of people over the years who I thought were modestly talented, or very talented. And you never know which ones are going to be the ones that actually. Go on and

• 29:12Sam Parr?

  You don't think you can predict that?

• 29:14Speaker 00

  It's impossible. You know, you just have lucky breaks. I mean, who would have predicted Bill Gates dropping out of Harvard and is going to build a company that became Microsoft? Or Steve Jobs didn't even go to college. Who would have predicted any of these things?

• 29:26Sam Parr?

  Yeah, but there are some like traits or little antidotes or stories that you hear about these guys where they just like, they sound like animals. Like I, I heard this story and a lot of these stories, they could be myths at this point, but it was a story about Bill Gates and apparently he didn't have a radio in his car. Because he said that distracts me from thinking about Microsoft just in my 20 minute drive. And like you hear these things and you're like, I don't know if it's going to work amazingly well, but like you got something where you seem a little bit unstoppable.

• 29:51Speaker 00

  Well, but there are a lot of people that have those qualities and they don't make it. You know, you have to have some luck too. Microsoft, um, you know, had some very good fortune at the very beginning. Uh, IBM in effect made a, I think a mistake when IBM was looking for a, uh, software or operating system for its, uh, PC, they hired, uh, Microsoft to provide it. But they didn't, uh, own the like operating system. Had they owned the system, Microsoft wouldn't have made all that money by selling the effect operating system to the other, other, other computer operators or by building a whole system of software. Uh, if IBM had said, we'll buy Microsoft at the beginning because they have the operating system, it would have been different.

• 30:31Sam Parr?

  Can I ask you about owning all these awesome documents?

• 30:33Speaker 00

  Yeah, sure.

• 30:34Sam Parr?

  How much have you spent in some?

• 30:36Speaker 00

  I've never, uh, added it up. I don't really honestly know, but what happened was I stumbled into buying the Magna Carta. I didn't really intend to, but I, somebody told me it was about to be sold and, and it was the only copy in the United States and it was the only one in private hands and it would leave the country, blah, blah, blah. So I bought it. And then I put it on display at the National Archives on a permanent display. And then I started getting other historic documents, the Emancipation Proclamation, Declaration of Independence. I owned, I think more rare copies than anybody of that. And then, uh, the 13th Amendment, which freed slaves and then other historic documents. And I started fixing up buildings like the Washington Monument, Jefferson Memorial, Lincoln Memorial. And the reason is I want people to know more about American history. And if you have original documents, people may be more likely to look at them, learn more about history.

• 31:19Speaker 00

  And the same is true of, of these buildings. If they're restored, people might go visit them and learn more about American history.

• 31:24Sam Parr?

  When you're bidding on them, are there other bidders typically?

• 31:28Speaker 00

  Well, there typically are. Sure. When you have like, when I bought the Magna Carta, I was bidding, but I was in a room, they put me in a little room and a telephone and and I, I, they said, how, aren't you going to bid? The auction's almost over. And I said, okay, I'll bid. I put a bid in and they said, sold right away. I don't know if anybody else ever bid. I never found out.

• 31:45Sam Parr?

  How big is the market though of people buying these documents?

• 31:48Speaker 00

  Yeah. Um, it's wasn't as big as it's now becoming because now some art buyers who spend $300 million for a painting are now getting by documents for a lot less. So, and they now gravitated to that. So there's more competition. And look, the Declaration of Independence, because of the semi quintessential, become a, a document of greater interest to people. So the prices have gone up dramatically to buy these historic copies.

• 32:11Sam Parr?

  Um, well, I think it's Walter Isaacson. He's got a, a new book about the greatest sentence ever, ever written. And it's awesome. And I didn't realize how amazing the founding fathers were when it came to a bunch of different stuff, like thinking really long-term and like the idea of like, we hold these truths to be self-evident. That's kind of interesting and that it's a very self, it's a self amended document. Like it is a lot of like really interesting parts. Did you think that when they were writing this, that they thought someone is willing to pay all this money to own this and save this and like cherish it?

• 32:41Speaker 00

  Well, when they, they, they didn't treat the document that well. When the Declaration of Independence, um, after it was drafted and signed, they basically folded it. They, they, they hid it, placed it, they put it in sunlight. No, I don't think they thought that at all. Uh, but not until 1823, when John Quincy Adams was uh, Secretary of State, he realized that the document was fading so much, they better get some copies as soon or nobody would be able to see it. And they made copies then.

• 33:06Sam Parr?

  Yeah, I often think about that, um, about what they were like, where their mind space was when they were doing it because it's pretty amazing. How old was Thomas Jefferson? I think 33.

• 33:13Speaker 00

  33. Remember, the, the, there were three million people in the United States at the time of the, the Declaration of Independence and half a million slaves and two and a half million whites. And it was on the eastern seaboard and nobody really thought this country would amount to that much. Even if we won the war, which no one thought we would do. But even after winning the war, there was not clear the country would survive. Jefferson didn't think it would survive for more than 20 years.

• 33:35Sam Parr?

  That he said that?

• 33:36Speaker 00

  He did. He, he wasn't at the Constitutional Convention, but he wrote with Madison back and forth and he kind of thought 20 years would probably about what it would take.

• 33:45Sam Parr?

  And so that's kind of like a common trend of what I was asking earlier about, uh, Jeff Bezos and how it's kind of hard to like have big ambitions when you're just getting going.

• 33:55Speaker 00

  Yeah, look, the founding fathers, if they were to come back today, they'd be astounded that the country that that was a tiny country on the eastern seaboard has been for these since World War Two, the most powerful country in the world in every category you can mention. They would never dream that.

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• 35:00Sam Parr?

  One of my favorite parts about reading history is that there's like a handful of rules or axioms or trends that like tend to repeat themselves. For example, I was reading about Winston Churchill and he was talking about how he was, he like said it like to someone, he's like, I think the world might end. Like, and like, it was just like funny that there was like different periods of time where people always think like the worst is going to happen. And we end up working out, are there any like sets of rules or axioms or trends that you have seen repeat themselves over and over again, that have helped you deal with whatever you're dealing with at the current time?

• 35:33Speaker 00

  Well, you're always, um, worried about things. I worry about the federal debt. For example, we have $40 trillion of federal debt. Our ability to pay this off is virtually nonexistent. And so what we're really going to have to do is, is, uh, in effect, pay it off and devalue dollars and the dollar will go down in value almost certainly. And you always worry if you have children, as you do, right? That are they going to grow up in a world that's going to be more difficult than the world that you grew up in? And will they be ready to deal with the world? Are they going to be educated appropriately? And what are they going to turn out to be? And it's a more complicated situation. Every parent worries about the, whether the world will be good enough for their children to kind of be able to do what they did. So I've read a lot of great books and the reason I do it

• 36:16Speaker 00

  is one, I have some TV shows where I interview authors and I feel it's a courtesy to the author to read the book.

• 36:22Sam Parr?

  Yeah.

• 36:23Speaker 00

  Secondly, I actually generally interviewing people about books I am interested in reading. I, this kind of forces me to do it. Third, it's my anti Alzheimer's device. Because they tell you when you reach a certain age, if you don't have a genetic predisposition to Alzheimer's, you could still get it by maybe your brain is allowed to, to, to not be exercising enough. They tell you to learn a musical instrument, do a crossword puzzle, learn how to do crossword puzzles and do that frequently. Or, um, or learn a foreign language. I'm not good at any of those things. So one of the things I do is I read a lot and I interview people. And when you interview people, you got to keep your brain sharp. As you can see, you got to go back and forth, listen to what person's saying, think of the next question while you're listening to a person and you got to keep your brain active.

• 37:07Speaker 00

  And it's a good way to keep your brain active when you reach my age. So I do it as my anti Alzheimer's device.

• 37:12Sam Parr?

  What are some of the favorite things that you've read in the last six or eight or 12 weeks?

• 37:16Speaker 00

  Um, I've read a book, uh, on Roy Cohn. It's called, I think, American Scoundrel, which is a really good book by Kai Bird, a previous word, a book on Robert Oppenheimer that won the Pulitzer Prize. And it's just amazing, uh, what Roy Cohn was, was and so forth. Recently read Beverly Gage's book on, uh, J. Edgar Hoover, which is astounding book and won the Pulitzer Prize. Uh, a really terrific book. So I'm, I'm always reading books and one of the programs, I have another book coming out this year on my best interviews at the Library of Congress. About 15 years ago, I started a program where I interview a great historian about, uh, an American history subject in front of members of Congress only. And I, I pay for it. I host it and I, and I, we have a dinner, members of Congress come, they sit with people from the opposite party.

• 38:02Speaker 00

  No press was there to see them fraternizing with somebody from the opposite party. And then, then we have a great person, Doris Kearns Goobin or somebody like that. I'll interview them. And members of Congress are fascinated by American history as they should be. And then they ask questions after the interview's done. And I've, I've now taken the best of those interviews and put them in a book coming out in a couple of weeks.

• 38:20Sam Parr?

  Who do you think, uh, the audience learned from most, given what they needed to learn at that time?

• 38:26Speaker 00

  Uh, well, I'll give you one example of a story. Um, I interviewed John Roberts, the Chief Justice of the United States. I wanted members of Congress to learn more about the court. And he did a really good job explaining the court and so forth. And, um, at one point I said, uh, Mr. Chief Justice, do you always want to be, um, Chief Justice of the United States? No. Well, did you want to be a lawyer? No. Well, what did you want to be when you were growing up? I wanted to be an American history professor. That's all I cared about. It's American history. My father said, John, you'll starve to death. There's no money in American history. Get a real profession. But John went to Harvard and he majored in American history. And after his junior year, he came back from spring break, got into the, uh, airport at Logan in Boston, got into the cab line, got into the cab and said to the cab driver,

• 39:09Speaker 00

  take me to Cambridge. And the cab driver said, are you a student at Harvard? Yes, I am. What are you majoring in? I'm majoring in American history. Cab driver said, well, when I was a student at Harvard, that's what I majored in also. So John concluded maybe

• 39:20Sam Parr?

  Didn't want to be a cab driver.

• 39:21Speaker 00

  He shouldn't be a cab driver.

• 39:23Sam Parr?

  Well, I'm like, history is my passion. American history, particularly from like 1880 to like 1940. That's my favorite era.

• 39:31Speaker 00

  Well, there are a lot of great books in that era.

• 39:34Sam Parr?

  I just started reading, finally reading The Power Broker.

• 39:36Speaker 00

  Power Broker is a historic book, considered one of the 50 best books of the 20th century.

• 39:43Sam Parr?

  Yeah, and the American History Museum, or I forget what it's called, up here in the Upper West Side, just did a big exhibit on Robert Caro when he was writing that book.

• 39:50Speaker 00

  That's the New York, it's the New York Historical.

• 39:51Sam Parr?

  Yeah, sorry. And it was awesome. And so I saw that, and then I also saw you say that it was one of your favorites. So I started reading it last week.

• 39:59Speaker 00

  It's a great book. But he's now, everybody's waiting for him to finish the fifth volume of his series on Lyndon Johnson. A 35-year project.

• 40:07Sam Parr?

  I don't think I can read five volumes on that. Maybe, but that's a lot.

• 40:11Speaker 00

  Well, one of the volumes won the Pulitzer Prize. That might be the best one, but, but you know, people would really want to see. Remember, the fourth volume ended when John Kennedy was assassinated and Lyndon Johnson's sworn in. So the entire Johnson presidency, we're waiting to see what he thinks after all these years of working on that fifth volume. He's now 90 years old.

• 40:31Sam Parr?

  I also love Titan. That's probably my most favorite business biography.

• 40:38Speaker 00

  On John D Rockefeller.

• 40:39Sam Parr?

  Oh, yeah. He was a very fascinating character. He seemed like a mostly a good dad and a good husband and a ruthless businessman. And I like that combination. I think that's super interesting. Carnegie is one of my favorites. I got married at Carnegie Hall because I loved his book so much.

• 40:54Speaker 00

  Well, he was famous for saying, you should give away all your money. And there's a book of that era, 1929, by Andrew Ross Sorkin. If you really care about the early 20s, it's a great, great book.

• 41:06Sam Parr?

  Yeah, I thought, I thought that was awesome. Other than, you cite Lincoln all the time. You cite JFK and I think Washington. When you think back to some of the early presidents or very really early leaders or business folks, who do you often refer to when you're like, how would this person handle this situation?

• 41:22Speaker 00

  Well, look, Lincoln was in a league by himself as president because he saved the Union and he emancipated the slaves and he did it with grace and humility. He didn't say, guess what, everybody, look how great I am. I just won the Civil War. Or I just wrote the Gettysburg Address by myself. He's humble, humility. George Washington set the tone for what a president should be. And he really got us off to a very good start. So those are people that I often cite as really great leaders, as presidents. And who obviously had some great in the 20th century as well.

• 41:51Sam Parr?

  Have you read Manhunt about Lincoln's assassination?

• 41:54Speaker 00

  I did. That is, it's an interesting book in the sense that John Wilkes Booth thought he would be a hero. And you know, interestingly, what happened there is that had Ulysses S. Grant taken the invitation to go to Lincoln that night with the C, Ford Theater, he would have had 20 military aides around him. Probably John Wilkes Booth would not have gotten into that presidential box because there would have been a lot of military aides. Lincoln only had one military aide and he was drinking at a bar at the time the shot occurred. He wasn't there.

• 42:27Sam Parr?

  One of my, so I've read, there's been four books, four presidents, I think, have been successfully assassinated. And I've read, I don't know if there's one on McKinley, but there are, there's a bunch on Kennedy. There's a few on Lincoln and then Garfield has his most famous one, or there's a book, a famous book that-

• 42:42Speaker 00

  Garfield, the book, it's written, is a good book this way.

• 42:45Sam Parr?

  Yeah, it's awesome. I didn't know anything about him. He seemed like a really good guy. I didn't realize how great of a person he was. And what's crazy when I'm reading these books is the Secret Service really wasn't a thing until like the 70s. Like they talk about JFK's Secret Service. It was pretty rinky-dink.

• 43:00Speaker 00

  Well, I wouldn't use the word rinky-dink, but I would say the mistake that was made on the Kennedy assassination was, was this. The Secret Service allowed the root to be put in the newspapers. They shouldn't have done that. Secondly, it was raining that day and they had a bubble top on their convertible. The Secret Service asked whether they should take the bubble top off or not because it wasn't clear what was going to be raining or not. And President Kennedy's chief of staff said, no, the president wants to be seen, take the bubble top off. Secret Service should not have listened to a political advisor. They should have kept the bubble top on. Had they done that, Kennedy would have lived.

• 43:36Sam Parr?

  And I think one of his whole shticks was like, look, my father is this big shot, rich guy. People think that I'm out of touch. It's important that I like, I'm like a man of the people.

• 43:47Speaker 00

  Well, he, remember, he, that was the first time that Jackie Kennedy had gone with him on any political trip. First time she'd been west of the Mississippi as First Lady. And it was a big deal that she did that. And he wanted to show her off for sure.

• 44:00Sam Parr?

  Yeah. And then I think like a week prior, Miami, there, he didn't have the bubble top either. And they're driving through like downtown Miami and the Secret Service was like, we've got to be more careful. And he's like, look, guys, I gotta be a man of the people. And I think, is this right? Right before, or miles before he got shot, he like stopped the car and ran over to like a young family that was holding a sign as he was driving by and thanked them and stuff. It's crazy to think, that, I mean, that would never happen today.

• 44:23Speaker 00

  When I worked for Carter, there were no metal detectors at the White House. You could walk in with a bazooka. There were no metal detectors. And I remember a couple of times Carter would stand on the roof of the presidential limousine with a, with a microphone and talking to people. I mean, incredibly exposed. Today, we're much more careful.

• 44:41Sam Parr?

  I appreciate you doing this. I've had a lot of admiration for you for years. I'm so happy to be able to talk to you.

• 44:46Speaker 00

  I hope I don't disappoint you. So now you've met me, you say, hey, this guy wasn't as good as I thought, right?

• 44:49Sam Parr?

  No, not, but you know, I feel that way about reading a lot of books. Has, is there anyone who you've read about where you're like, not my guy anymore?

• 44:58Speaker 00

  Well, usually biographers write books about people they like. They don't usually write about people they don't like. Though the book on Roy Cohn is not one, somebody that the author liked. You know, and most of the times I, you find somebody to admire. Doris Kearns Goodwin always says she falls in love with the people.

• 45:14Sam Parr?

  Yeah.

• 45:15Speaker 00

  And because she has to spend 10 years with them. And you know, you don't want to spend 10 years with somebody you hate. So generally people write books about people they tend to admire, generally. And we have so many books about the same people. We have 10,000 books on Lincoln, 10,000 books on Kennedy. Why do we have so many books on the same people? Because people buy these books. People like them and so people and authors write more about them.

• 45:36Sam Parr?

  Well, and you've done like the ultimate thing when it comes to writing a book where you just, it's interviews. I don't have what it takes to write a book, but if I did, that's the style. It seems awesome.

• 45:46Speaker 00

  I agree.

• 45:46Sam Parr?

  I love your style of books. I love that style.

• 45:48Speaker 00

  Well, thanks very much.

• 45:49Sam Parr?

  Yeah, thanks for doing this, man. You're the man.

• 45:50Speaker 00

  My pleasure.

• 45:51Sam Parr?

  Appreciate you.

• 46:02Shaan Puri?

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