#360 – Tim Urban: Tribalism, Marxism, Liberalism, Social Justice, and Politics

Tim Urban is the author of the blog Wait But Why and a new book What’s Our Problem?: A Self-Help Book for Societies. Please support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: – House of Macadamias: https://houseofmacadamias.com/lex and use code LEX to get 20% off your first order – Indeed: https://indeed.com/lex to get $75 credit – Athletic Greens: https://athleticgreens.com/lex to get 1 month of fish oil EPISODE LINKS: Tim’s new book: https://waitbutwhy.com/whatsourproblem Tim’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/waitbutwhy Tim’s Website: https://waitbutwhy.com Tim’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/timurban Tim’s TED talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rk5C149J9C0 PODCAST INFO: Podcast website: https://lexfridman.com/podcast Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/2lwqZIr Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2nEwCF8 RSS: https://lexfridman.com/feed/podcast/ YouTube Full Episodes: https://youtube.com/lexfridman YouTube Clips: https://youtube.com/lexclips SUPPORT & CONNECT: – Check out the sponsors above, it’s the best way to support this podcast – Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/lexfridman – Twitter: https://twitter.com/lexfridman – Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexfridman – LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lexfridman – Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lexfridman – Medium: https://medium.com/@lexfridman OUTLINE: Here’s the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) – Introduction (05:48) – Human history (21:47) – Greatest people in history (29:35) – Social media (36:17) – Good times and bad times (47:48) – Wisdom vs stupidity (49:55) – Utopia (1:04:05) – Conspiracy theories (1:17:16) – Arguing on the Internet (1:37:16) – Political division (1:47:10) – Power games (1:55:09) – Donald Trump and Republican Party (2:12:17) – Social justice (2:34:59) – Censorship gap (2:42:30) – Free speech (2:46:33) – Thinking and universities (2:54:56) – Liv Boeree joins conversation (3:07:15) – Hopes for the future

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• 0:00Lex Fridman?

  The following is a conversation with Tim Urban, his second time on the podcast. He's the author and illustrator of the amazing blog called Wait, But Why? And is the author of a new book coming out tomorrow called What's Our Problem? A self-help book for societies. We talk a lot about this book in this podcast, but you really do need to get it and experience it for yourself. It is a fearless, insightful, hilarious, and I think important book in this divisive time that we live in. The Kindle version, the audiobook, and the web version should be all available on date of publication. I should also mention that my face might be a bit more beat up than usual.

• 0:41Lex Fridman?

  I got hit in the chin pretty good, since I've been getting back into training jiu-jitsu, a sport I love very much, after recovering from an injury. So if you see marks on my face during these intros of conversations, you know that my life is in a pretty good place. And now, a quick few-second mention of each sponsor. Check them out in the description. It's the best way to support this podcast. We've got House of Macadamias for healthy snacks, Indeed for hiring excellent teams, and Athletic Greens for health. Choose wisely, my friends. Also, if you want to work with our amazing team, we're always hiring.

• 1:23Lex Fridman?

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• 3:30Lex Fridman?

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• 4:04Lex Fridman?

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• 4:46Lex Fridman?

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• 5:23Lex Fridman?

  This is the Lex Fridman Podcast. To support it, please check out our sponsors in the description. And now, dear friends, here's Tim Urban.

• 5:48Lex Fridman?

  You wrote an incredible book called What's Our Problem?, A Self-Help Book for Societies. In the beginning, you present this view of human history as a 1,000-page book, where each page is 250 years. And it's a brilliant visualization because almost nothing happens for most of it. So what blows your mind most about that visualization? We just sit back and think about it.

• 6:17Speaker 01

  It's a boring book. So 950 pages, 95% of the book, hunter gatherers kind of doing their thing. I'm sure there's, you know, there's some, there's obviously some major cognitive and advancements along the way in language. And I'm sure, you know, the bow and arrow comes around at some point, you know, so tiny things, but it's like, oh, now we 400 pages till the next thing. But then you get to page 950 and things start moving.

• 6:38Lex Fridman?

  Recorded history starts at 976.

• 6:40Speaker 01

  Right, right.

• 6:41Lex Fridman?

  So basically, the bottom row is when anything interesting happens. There's a bunch of agriculture for a while before we know anything about it. And then recorded history starts.

• 6:50Speaker 01

  Yeah, 25 pages of actual like recorded history. So when we think of prehistoric, we're talking about pages one through 975 of the book. And then history is page, you know, 976 to 1,000. If you were reading the book, it would be like epilogue AD, you know, the last little 10 pages of the book. And we think of AD as super long, right? 2,000 years, the Roman Empire, 2,000 years ago, like, that's so long.

• 7:18Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 7:19Speaker 01

  Human history has been going on for over 2,000 centuries. Like, that is, it's just, it's hard to wrap your head around. And this is, I mean, even that's just the end of a very long road. Like, you know, the 100,000 years before that, it's not like, you know, it's not like that was that different. So it's just, there's been people like us that have emotions like us, that have physical sensations like us for so, so long. And who, who are they all? And what was their life like? And it's, you know, I think we have no idea what it was like to be them. The, the thing that's craziest about the people of the far past is not just that they had different lives.

• 8:02Speaker 01

  They had different fears, they had different dangers and different responsibilities, and they lived in tribes and everything. But they didn't know anything. Like, we just take it for granted that we're born on top of this tower of knowledge. And from the very beginning, we We know that the earth is a ball floating in space and we know that we're going to die one day and we know that, you know, we evolved from animals and all the, those were all like incredible, you know, epiphanies quite recently and the people a long time ago, they just had no idea what was going on and like, I'm kind of jealous because I feel like, I mean, it might have been scary to not know what's going on, but it also, I feel like would be, you'd have a sense of awe and wonder all the time and, and you don't know what's going to happen next. And it's, once you learn, you're kind of like, oh, it's like, it's a little grim.

• 8:45Lex Fridman?

  But they probably had the same capacity for consciousness to experience the world, to wander about the world, maybe to construct narratives about the world and myths and so on. They just had less grounded systematic facts to play with. They still probably felt the narratives, the myths they constructed as intensely as we do.

• 9:07Speaker 01

  Oh, yeah. They also fell in love. They also had friends and they had falling outs with friends.

• 9:14Lex Fridman?

  Didn't shower much, though.

• 9:15Speaker 01

  No, they did not smell nice.

• 9:19Lex Fridman?

  Maybe they did. Maybe beauties in the eye of the beholder. Maybe it's all like relative.

• 9:24Speaker 01

  So how about, how many people in history have experienced a hot shower? Like, almost none. That's like, what were hot showers I meant? A hundred years ago? Like, less? So, like, George Washington never had a hot shower. It's like, it's just kind of weird. Like, he took cold showers all the time or like, and again, we just take this for granted, but that's like an unbelievable life experience to have a rain, a controlled little booth where it rains hot water on your head. And then you get out and it's not everywhere. It's like contained. That was like, you know, they, a lot of people probably lived and died with never experiencing hot water. Maybe they, they had a way to heat water over a fire, but like, then it's, I don't know. It's just like, there's, there's so many things about

• 10:08Speaker 01

  our lives now that are completely, just total anomaly.

• 10:13Lex Fridman?

  It makes you wonder like, what is the thing they would notice the most? I mean, the sewage system, like, it doesn't smell in cities.

• 10:21Speaker 01

  Incredible.

• 10:22Lex Fridman?

  What does a sewer system do? I mean, it gets rid of waste efficiently, so we don't have to confront it both with our, with any of our senses. And that probably wasn't there. I mean, what else? Plus, all the medical stuff associated with.

• 10:34Speaker 01

  Yeah, I mean, how about the disease?

• 10:35Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 10:35Speaker 01

  How about the, the cockroaches and the rats and the, and the disease and the, the plagues and, you know? And, and then when they got, so they, they caught more diseases, but then when they caught the disease, they also didn't have treatment for it. So they often would die or they would just be in a huge amount of pain. They also didn't know what the disease was. They didn't know about microbes. That was this new thing, the idea that these tiny little animals that are causing these diseases. So what did they think? You know, in the, the bubonic plague, you know, in the, the Black Death, um, the 1300s, people thought that it was an act of God because, you know, God's angry at us. Cause why would, you know, why would you not think that if, if you didn't know what it was? Um, and so the crazy thing is that these were the same primates. So I do know something about them.

• 11:18Speaker 01

  I know in, in some sense, what it's like to be them, cause I am a human as well. And to know that this particular primate, that I know what it's like to be, experienced such different things. It's, and, and like, this isn't, our life is not the life that this primate has experienced almost ever. So it's just, uh, it's just a bit strange.

• 11:38Lex Fridman?

  I don't know. I, I have a sense that we would get acclimated very quickly. Like if, if we threw ourselves back a few thousand years ago, it would be very uncomfortable at first, but the whole hot shower thing, you'll get used to it.

• 11:50Speaker 01

  Oh, yeah.

• 11:51Lex Fridman?

  After a year, you would not even like miss it. Cause uh, was, there's a few, uh, trying to remember which book that talks about hiking the Appalachian Trail. But you kind of miss those hot showers. But I have a sense like after a few months, after a few years.

• 12:05Speaker 01

  Well, you, you, your scale recalibrates.

• 12:07Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 12:08Speaker 01

  Yeah, I was saying the other day to a friend that whatever you're used to, you start to think that, oh, that the people that have more than me are more fortunate, like. It just sounds incredible. I would, I would be so happy, but you know, that's not true. Cause you've experienced, what would happen is you would, you would, you would get these new things or you would, you would get these new opportunities and then you would get used to it. And then you would, this hedonic treadmill, you'd come back to where you are. And likewise though, cause you think, oh my God, what if I had to, you know, have this kind of job that I never would want? Or I had this kind of marriage that I never would want. You know what? If you did, you would adjust and you get used to it. And you might not be that much less happy than you are now. So on the other side of the, you being okay going back, you, you know, you, we would survive if we had to go back.

• 12:50Speaker 01

  You know, we'd have to learn some skills and, but, but we would buck up and, you know, people have gone to war before that were in the, you know, shopkeepers a year before that. They were in the trenches the next year. But on the other hand, if you brought them here, you know, I always think it'd be so fun to just bring, forget the hunter gatherers. Bring a 1700s person here and tour them around, take them on an airplane and show them your phone and all the things it can do. Show them the internet, show them the grocery store. Imagine taking them to a Whole Foods. Likewise, I think they would be completely awestruck and on their knees crying tears of joy. And then they'd get used to it and they'd be complaining about like, they don't, you don't have the, this oranges in stock is like, you know, and that's.

• 13:27Lex Fridman?

  The grocery store is a tough one to get used to. Like when I, when I first came to this country, the, uh, the abundance of bananas was the thing that struck me the most. Or like fruits in general, but food in general, but bananas somehow struck me the most. That you could just eat them as much as you want. That took a long time for me. Probably took several years to really like get, get acclimated to that. Is that?

• 13:54Speaker 01

  Why didn't you have bananas?

• 13:56Lex Fridman?

  The number of banana, fresh bananas, I don't, that, that wasn't available. Bread? Yes. Bananas? No.

• 14:05Speaker 01

  Yeah. It's like, we don't even know what to have. Like we don't even know the proper levels of gratitude. You know, walking around the grocery store, I don't know to be like, the bread's nice, but the bananas are like, we're so lucky. I don't know. I'm like, oh, I could have been the other way. I have no idea.

• 14:18Lex Fridman?

  Well, it's interesting then where we point our gratitude in, in the West, in the United States. Probably.

• 14:30Lex Fridman?

  Do we point it away from materialist possessions towards, or do we just aspire that to do that towards other human beings that we love? Because in the East, in the Soviet Union, growing up poor, it's having food is the gratitude. Having transportation is gratitude. Having warmth and shelter is gratitude. And now, but see, within that, the deep gratitude is for other human beings. It's the penguins huddling together for warmth in the cold.

• 15:01Speaker 01

  I think it's a person by person basis. I mean, I'm sure, yes, of course, in the West, people on average feel gratitude towards different things, or maybe a different level of gratitude. Maybe we feel less gratitude than some than countries that, you know, obviously, I think the easiest, the person that's most likely to feel gratitude is going to be someone who's on, whose life happens to be one where they just move up, up, up throughout their life. A lot of people in the Greatest Generation, you know, people who were born in the twenties or whatever, and a lot of the Boomers too. The story is the Greatest Generation grew up dirt poor and they often ended up middle class. And the Boomers, some of them started off middle class and many of them ended up quite wealthy. And I feel like that life trajectory is naturally going to foster gratitude, right?

• 15:46Speaker 01

  Because you're not going to take for granted these things because you didn't have them. You know, I didn't go out of the country really in my childhood very much. You know, like, you know, we traveled, but it was to Virginia to see my grandparents or Wisconsin to see other relatives or, you know, maybe Florida after going to the beach. And then I started going out of the country like crazy in my twenties because I really, you know, it became my favorite thing. And I feel like because I, if I had grown up always doing that, it would have been another thing. I'm like, yeah, it's just something I do. But I still, every time I go to a new country, I'm like, oh, my God, this is so cool. I'm in another country, this thing I've only seen on the map. I'm like, I'm there now. And so I feel like it's, a lot of times it's a product of what you didn't have and then you suddenly had.

• 16:28Speaker 01

  But I still think it's case by case in that there is a, there's like a meter in everyone's head, you know, that I think on, at a.

• 16:38Speaker 01

  At a 10, you are experiencing just immense gratitude, right? Which is a euphoric feeling. It's a great feeling. And it's, it makes you happy. To savor what you have, to look down at the mountain of stuff you have that you're standing on, right? To look down at it and say, oh, my God, I'm so lucky. And I'm so grateful for this and this and this. And, you know, obviously, that's a happy exercise. Now, when you move the meter down to six or seven, maybe you think that sometimes, but you're not always thinking that.

• 17:10Speaker 01

  Because you're sometimes looking up at this cloud of things that you don't have and the things that they have, but you don't, or the things you wished you had or you thought you were going to have or whatever. And that's the opposite direction to look, right? And that's the, either that's envy, that's yearning. Or often, it's, if you think about your past, it's grievance, right? And so then you go on to a one and you have someone who feels like a complete victim. They are just a victim of the society, of their siblings and their parents and their loved one.

• 17:42Speaker 01

  And they are, they're wallowing in everything that's happened wrong to me. Everything I should have that I don't, everything that has gone wrong for me. And so that's a very unhealthy, mentally unhealthy place to be. Anyone can go there. You know, there's an endless list of stuff you can, it can be aggrieved about and an endless list of stuff you can have gratitude for. And so it's, in some ways, it's a choice and it's a habit. And maybe it's part of how we were raised or our natural demeanor, but it's such a good, you are really good at this, by the way. Your Twitter is like.

• 18:10Lex Fridman?

  Go on.

• 18:12Speaker 01

  Well, like, you're, you are constantly just saying, man, I'm lucky. Or like, I'm so grateful for this. And that's, it's, it's a good thing to do because you're reminding yourself, but you're also reminding other people to think that way. And it's like, we are lucky, you know? And, and so anyway, I think that scale can go from one to 10. And I think it's hard to be a 10. I think you'd be very happy if you could be. But I think trying to be above a five and looking down at the things you have. More often than you are looking up at the things you don't or being resentful about the things that people have wronged you and.

• 18:45Lex Fridman?

  Well, the interesting thing, I think, was an open question, but I suspect that you can control that knob for the individual. Like you yourself can choose, it's like the Stoic philosophy, you could choose where you are as a matter of habit, like you said. But you can also probably control that on a scale of a family, of a tribe, of a nation, of a society. I mean, you can describe a lot of the things that happened in Nazi Germany and different other parts of history through a sort of societal envy and resentment that builds up. Maybe certain narratives pick up and then they infiltrate your mind and then now your knob goes to, from the gratitude for everything, it goes to resentment and envy and all the.

• 19:27Speaker 01

  Germany between the two world wars, you know, like, like you said, the Soviet kind of mentality. So, yeah, and then when you're soaking in a culture, so there's this kind of two factors, right? It's, it's what's going on in your own head and then what's surrounding you. And what's surrounding you kind of has concentric circles. There's your immediate group of people, because that group of people, if they're a certain way, if they feel a lot of gratitude and they talk about it a lot, that kind of insulates you from the broader culture. Because, you know, the people are going to have the most impact on you or the ones closest. But often, they're all the concentric circles are saying the same thing. The people around you are feeling the same way that the broader community, which is feeling the same way as the broader country. And, you know, I think, this is why

• 20:12Speaker 01

  I think American patriotism, you know, nationalism, you know, can be tribal, can be very, not a good thing. Patriotism, I think is a great thing. Because really, what is patriotism? I mean, it's, if you love your country, you should love your fellow countrymen. You know, patriot, you know, that's a Reagan quote. It's like patriotism is like, I think, a feeling of like, unity. And, but it also comes along with an implicit kind of concept of gratitude. Because it's like, we are so lucky to live in, you know, people, you know, think it's chauvinist to say, we live in the best country in the world. Right? And, you know, yes, when Americans say that, no one likes it, right?

• 20:50Speaker 01

  But actually, it's not a bad thing to think. It's a nice thing to think. It thinks it's a way of saying, I'm so grateful for all the great things this country gives to me and this country has done. And, and I think, you know, if you heard the Filipino, you know, Filipino person say, you know what, the Philippines is the best country in the world. No one in America would say, that's chauvinist. It's a awesome, right? Because when it's coming from someone, you know, who's not American, it sounds totally fine. But I think, I think, you know, national pride is actually good. Now, again, that can quickly translate into xenophobia and nationalism. And so, you know, you have to make sure it doesn't go off that cliff, but.

• 21:19Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, there's good ways to formulate that. Like you talk about, we'll talk about like high rung progressivism, high rung conservatism. Those are two different ways of, of embodying patriotism. So you could talk about maybe loving the tradition that this country stands for, or you could talk about loving the people, the, that ultimately push progress. And those are, from an intellectual perspective, a good way to represent patriotism. We've got to zoom out because this, this graphic is epic. A lot of images in your book are just epic on their own. It's brilliantly done. But this one has famous people for each of the cards.

• 22:01Lex Fridman?

  Like the best of.

• 22:02Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 22:02Lex Fridman?

  For you.

• 22:03Speaker 01

  And by the way, good for them to be the person.

• 22:06Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 22:06Speaker 01

  That, that it's not that I could have chosen lots of people for each card, but I think most people would agree. You know, that's a pretty fair choice for each, each page. And to, good for them to be, you know, you did, you crushed it if you can be the person for your whole 250 year page. So.

• 22:20Lex Fridman?

  Well, I noticed you put Gandhi, you didn't put Hitler. I mean, there's a lot of people going to argue with you about that particular last page.

• 22:26Speaker 01

  True. Yes, you're right. I could have, I could have put in, I actually, I was thinking about Darwin there too.

• 22:31Lex Fridman?

  Darwin, yeah. Einstein.

• 22:33Speaker 01

  Yeah, exactly. You really could have put anyone.

• 22:35Lex Fridman?

  Did you think about putting yourself for a second?

• 22:37Speaker 01

  Yeah, I should have. I should have. That would have been awesome. I'm sure that would have endeared the readers to me from right from the beginning of the first page of the book.

• 22:43Lex Fridman?

  A little bit of a messianic complex going on. But yeah, so the list of people, just so you know, so these are 250 year chunks. The last one being from 1770 to 2020. And so it goes Gandhi, Shakespeare, Joan of Arc, Genghis Khan, Charlemagne, Muhammad, Constantine, Jesus, Cleopatra, Aristotle, Buddha.

• 23:04Lex Fridman?

  That's so interesting to think about this very recent human history.

• 23:09Speaker 01

  That's 11 pages, so it would be 2750, almost 3,000 years.

• 23:14Lex Fridman?

  Just that there's these figures that stand out and that define the course of human history.

• 23:20Speaker 01

  It's like the craziest thing to me is that like Buddha was a dude. He was a guy with like arms and legs and fingernails that he might be bit and like he liked certain foods. And maybe he got like, you know, he had like digestive issues sometimes and like he got cuts and they stung. And like, he was a guy and he had hopes and dreams and he probably had a big ego for a while before he, I guess Buddha totally overcame that one. But like, and it's like, who knows, you know, you know, the myth, the mythical figure Buddha, who knows how similar he was. But the fact same with Jesus, like this was a guy, like to me, it's he's a primate.

• 23:58Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 23:59Speaker 01

  What an impact.

• 24:01Lex Fridman?

  He was a cell first and then a baby.

• 24:03Speaker 01

  Yeah. And he was a fetus at some point.

• 24:05Lex Fridman?

  A dumb baby trying to learn how to walk.

• 24:07Speaker 01

  Yeah, like having tantrum.

• 24:08Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 24:09Speaker 01

  Because he's frustrated because he's in the terrible twos. Jesus was in the terrible twos.

• 24:12Lex Fridman?

  Buddha never had a tantrum. Let's be honest. The myth.

• 24:15Speaker 01

  The mother is like, this baby's great. Like, wow.

• 24:20Lex Fridman?

  Figure something out.

• 24:21Speaker 01

  It just, but I mean, this, I mean, listen, hearing, learning about Genghis Khan, it's incredible to me because it's just like, this was some Mongolian, you know, herder guy who was taken as a slave and he was like dirt poor, you know, catching rats. Is a, you know, young teen with, you know, to feed him and his mom and his, I think his brother.

• 24:45Speaker 01

  And it's just like, the, the, the odds on, when he was born, he was just one of, you know, probably tens of thousands of random teen boys living in Mongolia in the 1200s. The odds of that person, any one of them being a household name today that we're talking about, it's just crazy, like what had to happen. And for that guy to, for that poor. Dirt poor herder to take over the world? I don't know. So history just like continually blows my mind like, you know.

• 25:17Lex Fridman?

  And he's the reason you and I are related, probably.

• 25:20Speaker 01

  Yeah, no, I mean, we're it's it's also that's the other thing is that some of these dudes by becoming king, by being having a better army at the right time, you know, William the Conqueror, whatever, has is in the right place at the right time with the right army, you know, and there's a weakness at the right moment and he comes over and he exploits it and ends up probably having, you know, I don't know, thousand children and those children are high up people who maybe have a ton of the species is different now because of him like if that is forget England's different or, you know, European borders look different like like we are like we look different and because of a small handful of of people, um, you know, yeah, certain when I sometimes I think I'm like, oh, you know, this part of the world, I can recognize someone's Greek,

• 26:03Speaker 01

  you know, someone's Persian, someone's wherever, because, you know, they kind of have certain facial features. And I'm like, it may have happened. I mean, obviously, it's that that's a population, but it may be that like someone 600 years ago that looked like that really spread their seed. And that's why the ethnicity looks kind of like that now. Sorry, anyway.

• 26:22Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, yeah. Do you think individuals like that can turn the direction of history? Or is that an illusion that narrative we tell ourselves?

• 26:32Speaker 01

  Well, it's both. I mean, so I said that William the Conqueror, right, or Hitler, right? It's not that Hitler was born and destined to be great at all, right? I think in a lot of cases, he's some frustrated artist with a temper who's turning over the table in his studio and hitting his wife and being kind of a dick and a total nobody, right? I think almost all the times you could have put Hitler baby on earth. He's a he's a rando, right? You know, and maybe he's a, you know, maybe sometimes he becomes a, you know, some kind of, you know, he uses the speaking ability because that ability was going to be there either way, but maybe he uses it for something else. But, um, but that said, I don't also do I think you but it's not that, um, World War II was going to happen either way, right? So it's both. It's that like these circumstances

• 27:17Speaker 01

  were one way and this person came along at the right time and those two made a match made in in this case, hell.

• 27:23Lex Fridman?

  But it makes you wonder, yes, it's a match in hell, but are there other people that could have taken his place? Or do these people that stand out, they're the rare spark of, uh? That genius, whether it takes us towards evil, towards good, whether those figures singularly define the trajectory of humanity, you know, what defines the trajectory of humanity in the 21st century, for example, might be the influence of AI, might be the influence of nuclear war, negative or positive, not in the case of nuclear war, but the bioengineering,

• 28:01Lex Fridman?

  nanotech, virology, what else is there? Maybe the structure of governments and so on, maybe the structure of universities, I don't know, there could be singular figures that stand up and lead the way for human.

• 28:17Speaker 01

  There will be.

• 28:17Lex Fridman?

  But I wonder if the society is the thing that manifests that that person, or that person really does have a huge impact.

• 28:27Speaker 01

  I think it's probably a spectrum where there are some cases when a circumstance was such that something like what happened was gonna happen. If you plucked that person from the earth, I don't know whether the Mongols is a good example or not, but maybe it could be that if you plucked Genghis Khan as a baby, there was, because of the specific way Chinese civilization was at that time, and the specific, you know, climate, you know, that was that was causing a certain kind of pressure on the Mongols, and the way they they still had their great archers, and they had their horses, and they had a lot of the same advantages. So maybe it was like, it was waiting to happen, right? It was gonna happen either way, and might not have happened to sit to the extent or whatever. So maybe, or you could go the full other direction and say, actually, this was probably not

• 29:10Speaker 01

  gonna happen. And, you know, I think World War II is an example, right? I kind of think World War II really was kind of the work of, of course, it relied on all these other circumstances, you had to have the resentment in Germany, you have to have the Great Depression, but like, I think if you take Hitler out, I'm pretty sure World War I, World War II doesn't happen.

• 29:30Lex Fridman?

  Well, then it seems like easier to answer these questions when you look at history, even recent history, but let's look at now, let's look at, I'm sure we'll talk about social media. So who are the key players in social media? Mark Zuckerberg, what's the name of the MySpace guy? Tom?

• 29:45Speaker 01

  Tom, it's just Tom, yeah.

• 29:48Lex Fridman?

  There's a meme going around where like MySpace is like the perfect social media because no algorithmic involvement, everybody's happy and positive.

• 29:56Speaker 01

  Also, Tom did it right. At the time, you were like, oh, man, Tom only made like a few million dollars. Oof, sucks to not be Zuck. Tom might be living a nice life right now where he doesn't have this nightmare that these other people have.

• 30:09Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, and he's always smiling in his profile pic.

• 30:13Lex Fridman?

  And so there's like Larry Page, so with Google, that's kind of intermingled into that whole thing into the development of the internet, Jack Dorsey, now Elon, who else? I mean, there's people playing with the evolution of social media. And to me, that seems to be connected to the development of AI. And it seems like those singular figures will define the direction of AI development and social media development, with social media seeming to have such a huge impact on our collective intelligence.

• 30:45Speaker 01

  It does feel in one way like individuals have an especially big impact right now in that a small number of people are pulling some big levers. And, you know, it can be a little meeting of three people at Facebook and they come in, they come out of that meeting and make a decision that totally changes the world, right? On the other hand, you see a lot of conformity. You see a lot of, you know, they all pulled the plug on Trump the same day, right? So that suggests that there's some bigger force that is also kind of driving them, in which case it's less about the individuals. I think, you know, this is, you know, what is leadership, right? I mean, to me, leadership.

• 31:25Speaker 01

  Is the ability to move things in a direction that the cultural forces are not already taking things, right? A lot of times, people seem like a leader because they're just kind of hopping on the cultural wave and they happen to be the person who gets to the top of it. Now it seems like they're, but actually the wave was already going. Like, real leadership is when, is when someone actually changes the wave, changes the shape of the wave. Like, I think Elon with, you know, SpaceX and with Tesla, like genuinely like shaped a wave. You know, maybe you could say that EVs were actually like, they were gonna happen anyway, but it's not much evidence about at least happening when it did. You know, if we end up on Mars, you know, you can, you can say

• 32:09Speaker 01

  that Elon was a genuine like leader there. And so there are examples now, like Zuckerberg definitely has done a lot of leadership along the way. He's also potentially kind of like caught in a storm that is happening. And, you know, he's one of the figures in it. So I don't know.

• 32:26Lex Fridman?

  And it's possible that he is a big shaper if the metaverse becomes a reality. If in 30 years, we're all living in a virtual world, to many people, it seems ridiculous now that that was a poor investment.

• 32:38Speaker 01

  Well, he talked about getting, you know, 10, you know, I think it was something like a billion people with a VR headset in their pocket and by, you know, I think 10 years from now, back in 2015. So we're behind that. But when I, he was talking about that. And honestly, I, this is something I've been wrong about because I went to like one of the Facebook conferences and tried out all the new Oculus stuff. And I was like, you know, pretty early talking to some of the, you know, major players there because I was gonna write a big post about it that then got swallowed by this book. But, but I would have been wrong in the post because in what I would have said was that this thing is, you know, when I tried it, I was like, this is, you know, some of them were sucks. Some of them make you nauseous and they're just not that you're, you

• 33:21Speaker 01

  know, the headsets were big and, you know, but I was like, the times when this is good, it is, I have this feeling I haven't had. It reminds me of the feeling I had when I first was five and I went to a friend's house and he had Nintendo and I, and he gave me the controller and I was looking at the screen and I pressed a button and Mario jumped. And I said, I said, I can make the something on the screen move. And the same feeling I had the first time someone showed me how to send an email. It was like really early and he's like, you can send this. And I was like, it goes, I can press enter on my computer and something happens on your computer. Those were obviously, you know, when you have that feeling, it often means you're witnessing a paradigm shift. And I thought this is one of those things. And I still kind of think it is, but it's kind of weird that it hasn't, you know, like where's the VR revolution? Like.

• 34:05Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, I'm surprised because I'm with you. My first and still instinct is this feels like it changes everything. VR feels like it changes everything, but it's not changing anything.

• 34:14Speaker 01

  Like a dumb part of my brain is genuinely convinced that this is real. And then the smart part knows it's not. But that's why the dumb part was like, we're not walking off that cliff. The smart part's like, you're on your rug. It's fine. The dumb part of my brain is like, I'm not walking off the cliff. So I was like, it's crazy.

• 34:28Lex Fridman?

  I feel like it's waiting for like that revolutionary person who comes in and says, I'm going to create a headset. Like honestly.

• 34:35Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's Steve Jobs iPhone of.

• 34:37Lex Fridman?

  Honestly, a little bit of a Carmack type guy, which is why it was really interesting for him to be involved with Facebook. It's basically how do we create a simple dumb thing? That's a hundred bucks, but actually creates that experience. And then there's going to be some viral killer app on it. And that's going to be the gateway into a thing that's going to change everything. I mean, I don't know what exactly was the thing that changed everything with a personal computer.

• 35:01Lex Fridman?

  Does that understood why that maybe graphics? What was the use case?

• 35:06Speaker 01

  I mean.

• 35:07Lex Fridman?

  Exactly.

• 35:07Speaker 01

  Wasn't, wasn't the, the 84 Macintosh like a moment when it was like, this is actually something that normal people can and want to use.

• 35:17Lex Fridman?

  Cause it was less than $5,000, I think.

• 35:19Speaker 01

  And I just think it had some like Steve Jobs user friendliness already to it that other ones hadn't had. I think Windows 95 was a really big deal. The, I remember like, cause I'm old enough to remember the MS DOS when I was like, kind of remember the command. And then suddenly this concept of like a window, you drag something into or you double click an icon, which now seems like so obvious to us was like revolutionary because it made it, it made it intuitive. So, you know, I, I don't know. Yeah.

• 35:45Lex Fridman?

  Windows 95 was good.

• 35:47Speaker 01

  It was crazy. Yeah.

• 35:48Lex Fridman?

  I forget what the big leaps was because those Windows 2000 sucked. And then Windows XP was good.

• 35:54Speaker 01

  I moved to Mac around 2004, so I stopped.

• 35:57Lex Fridman?

  You sold your soul to the devil.

• 35:59Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 35:59Lex Fridman?

  I see. Well, us, the people still use Windows and Android.

• 36:05Lex Fridman?

  Uh, the device in the operating system of the people, not you elitist folk with your books and your, uh, what else and success. Okay.

• 36:18Lex Fridman?

  You write more technology means better good times, but it also means bad or bad times. And the scary thing is if the good and bad keep exponentially growing, it doesn't matter how great the good times become. If the bad gets to a certain level of bad, it's all over for us. Can you elaborate on this? Why, why is there, why does the bad have a, that property?

• 36:41Lex Fridman?

  That if it's all exponentially getting more powerful, then the bad is going to win in the end. Was, is my misinterpreting that?

• 36:47Speaker 01

  No. So the first thing is I noticed a trend, which was like the centuries, the good is getting better every century. Like the 20th century was the best century yet in terms of prosperity, in terms of GDP per capita, in terms of life expectancy, in terms of poverty and disease, every metric that matters. The 20th century was incredible. It also had the biggest wars in history, the biggest genocide in history, the biggest existential threat yet with nuclear weapons, right? You know, it, the depression was, you know, probably as big an economic. So it's this interesting thing where the stakes are getting higher in both directions. And so the question is like, if you get enough good, does that protect you against the bad, right? The, the, the dream,

• 37:31Speaker 01

  and I do think this is possible too, is the good gets so good. You know, have you ever read the culture series, the Ian Banks books?

• 37:37Lex Fridman?

  Not yet, but I get criticized on a daily basis by some of the mutual folks we know for not having done so. And I feel like a lesser man for it. Yes, I need to change.

• 37:46Speaker 01

  So that, that, that's how I got on to it. And I read six of the 10 books. Um, and they're great. But the thing I love about them is like, it just paints one of these futuristic societies where the good has, has gotten so good that the bad is not, no longer even an issue. Like basically, and the way that this, this works is the AI, you know, the AIs. Are benevolent and they control everything. And so like, there's one random anecdote where they're like, you know, what happens if you murder someone in, because you're still, you know, there's still people with rage and jealousy or whatever. So, so someone murders someone, um, first of all, that person's backed up. So it's like they have to get a new body and it's, it's annoying, but it's like, it's, it's not death. And secondly, that person, what are they going to do? Put him in jail?

• 38:29Speaker 01

  No, no, no, they're just going to send a slap drone around, which is this little like tiny, you know, random drone that just will float around next to them forever. And by the way, kind of be their servant, like it's kind of fun to have a slap drone, but it's just making sure that they never do anything. And it's like, I was like, oh, man, it could just be, everyone could be so safe and everything could be so like, you know, you, you want a house, you know, the, the AIs will build your house, there's endless space, there's endless resources. So I do think that that could be part of our future. That's part of what excites me is like, there is, like, today would seem like a utopia to Thomas Jefferson, right? Thomas Jefferson's world would seem like a utopia to a caveman. There is a future, and by the way, these are happening faster, these jumps, right? So the thing that would seem like a utopia to us, we could experience in our own lifetimes, right?

• 39:10Speaker 01

  Like, it's especially if, you know, life extension combines with exponential progress. I want to get there. And I think in that, part of what makes it utopia is you don't have to be scared of the, the, the worst bad guy in the world trying to do the worst damage because we have protection. But that said, um, I'm not sure how that happens. Like it's, it's, that's, it's easier, easier said than done. Nick Bostrom uses the example of if nuclear weapons could be manufactured by microwaving sand, for example, we probably would be in the stone age right now because 0.001% of people would love to destroy all of humanity, right? Some 16 year old with huge mental health problems who right now goes and shoots up a school would say, oh, even better, I'm going to blow up a city.

• 39:55Speaker 01

  And now suddenly there's copycats, right? And so.

• 40:00Speaker 01

  That's like, as our technology grows, it's going to be easier for the worst bad guys to do tremendous damage. And it's easier to destroy than to build. So it takes a tiny, tiny number of these people with enough power to do bad. So that, to me, I'm like, the stakes are going up because what we have to lose is this incredible utopia. But also, like, dystopia is real. It happens. The Romans ended up in a dystopia. They probably earlier thought that was never possible. Like, we should not get cocky. And so to me, that trend is the exponential tech is a double edged sword. It's so exciting. I'm happy to be alive now overall because I'm an optimist and I find it exciting.

• 40:44Speaker 01

  But it's really scary and the dumbest thing we can do is not be scared. Dumbest thing we can do is get cocky and think, well, my life is always, the last couple of generations, everything's been fine. Stop that.

• 40:56Lex Fridman?

  What's your gut? What percentage of trajectories take us towards the, as you put, unimaginably good future versus unimaginably bad future? As an optimist?

• 41:08Speaker 01

  It's really hard to know. I mean, all I, you know, one of the things we can do is look at history. And on one hand, there's a lot of stories. I actually listening to a great podcast right now called The Fall of Civilizations.

• 41:22Speaker 01

  And it's literally every episode is like, you know, a little, like, two hour deep dive into some civilizations. Some are really famous, like the Roman Empire. Some are more obscure, like the Norse in Greenland. But, but it's, each one is so interesting. But what's, it's, I mean, there's a lot of civilizations that had their peak. There's always the peak, right? When they're thriving and they're at their max size and, and they have their waterways and they have their. It's civilized and it's representative and it's fair and whatever. Not always, but it's, it's, the peak is a great, you know, if I could go back in time, you know, it's not that you don't, you know, the farther you go back, the worse it gets. No, no, no, you want to go back to a civilization during, I would go to the Roman Empire in the year 100. Sounds great, right?

• 42:06Speaker 01

  You don't want to go to the Roman Empire in the year 400.

• 42:08Lex Fridman?

  We might be in the peak right now, here, whatever this empire is.

• 42:10Speaker 01

  Honestly, I, I think about like the eighties, you know, the seventies, the eighties.

• 42:15Lex Fridman?

  Oh, here we go, the music.

• 42:17Speaker 01

  No, no, I hate the, no, the eighties culture is so annoying. It's just like, I'm, I'm, I'm, when I read, when I listen to these things, I'm thinking, you know, the eighties, the nineties, America, the nineties was popular. People forget that now, like Clinton was, was a superstar around the world. Michael Jordan was exported internationally, then basketball was everywhere suddenly. You had like music, the sports, whatever. It was a little probably like the fifties, you know, you're coming out of the, the world war and the depression before it, it was like this kind of like, everyone was in a good mood kind of time, you know? It's like a finish a big project and it's Saturday. It was like, I feel like the fifties was kind of like, everyone was having it, you know, the, the twenties, I feel like everyone was in a good mood randomly. Then the, the thirties, everyone was in a bad mood.

• 42:59Speaker 01

  But the nineties, I think we'll look back on it as a time when everyone was in a good mood. And it was like, you know, again, of course, at the time, it doesn't feel that way necessarily. But I look at that, I'm like, maybe that was kind of America's peak. And like, no, maybe not, but like, it hasn't been popular since really worldwide. It's, it's gone in and out depending on the country, but like, it hasn't reached that level of like, America's awesome around the world. And the political, you know, situation's gotten, you know, really ugly. And, you know, maybe it's social media, maybe, who knows? But I, I, I wonder if it'll ever be as simple and, and positive as it was then. Like, maybe we are in the, in the, you know, it feels a little like maybe we're in the beginning of the downfall or not, because, because these things don't just, it's not a perfect smooth hill.

• 43:44Speaker 01

  It goes up and down, up and down. So maybe we're, there's another big upcoming.

• 43:47Lex Fridman?

  And it's unclear whether public opinion, which is kind of what you're talking to, is correlated strongly with influence. You could say that even though America's been on a decline in terms of public opinion. The exporting of technology that America has still with all the talk of China has still been leading the way in terms of AI, in terms of social media, in terms of just basically any software related product.

• 44:11Speaker 01

  Like chips.

• 44:12Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, chips. So hardware and software, I mean, America leads the way. You could argue that Google and Microsoft and Facebook are no longer American companies. They're international companies, but they really are still at the, you know, headquartered in Silicon Valley, broadly speaking. So and Tesla, of course, and just all of its, all of the technological innovation still seems to be happening in the United States. Although culturally and politically, it, this is not, this is not.

• 44:43Speaker 01

  It's not good.

• 44:44Lex Fridman?

  Well, maybe that could shift at any moment when all the technological development can actually be, create some positive impact in the world.

• 44:53Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 44:53Lex Fridman?

  That could shift it with the right leadership and so on, with the right messaging.

• 44:58Speaker 01

  Yeah, I, I, I think, um, I, I, I don't feel confident at all about whether, no, no, I don't mean that. I don't mean, I don't feel confident in my opinion that we may be on the downswing or that we may be, because I truly don't know. It's like, I think the people, these are really big macro stories that are really hard to see when you're inside of them. It's like, it's like being on a, on a beach and, and running around, you know, a few miles this way and trying to suss out the shape of the coastline. Like, it's just really hard to see the big picture. You know, you get caught up in the, the, the micro stories, the little tiny, you know, ups and downs that are part of some bigger trend. And, and also giant paradigm shifts happen quickly nowadays. The internet, you know, came out of nowhere and suddenly was like, you know, changed everything. So there could be a changed

• 45:42Speaker 01

  everything thing on the way. It seems like there's a few candidates for it and like, but, but I mean, it feels like the stakes are just high, higher than it even was for the Romans, higher than it was for because that we, we're more powerful as a species. We have godlike powers with technology that other civilizations at their peak didn't have. And so.

• 46:02Lex Fridman?

  I wonder if those high stakes and powers will feel laughable to people that live, humans, aliens, cyborgs, whatever lives a hundred years from now. That maybe, maybe our little like this feeling of political and technological turmoil is is nothing.

• 46:18Speaker 01

  Well, that's the big question. You could easily, so right now, you know, you know, the 1890s was like a super politically contentious decade in the US. It was like immense tribalism and the newspapers were all like lying and telling, you know, there was a lot of like what we would associate with today's media, the worst of it. And it was over gold or silver being this, I don't know, it was very, it's something that I don't understand. But the point is, it was a little bit of a blip, right? It happened, it felt, it must have felt like the end of days at the time. And then now we, and most people don't even know about that. Versus, you know, again, the Roman Empire actually collapsed. And so the question is just like, is yeah, you know, will in 50 years, will this be like, or like McCarthyism, oh, they had like, oh, that was like a crazy few years in America

• 47:02Speaker 01

  and then it was fine. Or is this the beginning of something really big? And that's what I'm.

• 47:08Lex Fridman?

  Well, I wonder if we can predict what the big thing is at the beginning. It feels like we're not, we're just here along for the ride. And at the local level and at every level are trying to do our best.

• 47:19Speaker 01

  Well, how do we do our best? What's the, that's the one thing I know for sure is that we need to have our wits about us and do our best. And the way that we can do that, you know, we have to be as wise as possible, right? To proceed forward and wisdom is an emergent property of discourse.

• 47:37Lex Fridman?

  So you're a proponent of wisdom versus stupidity? Cause you can make an, I can still man the case for stupidity.

• 47:43Speaker 01

  Do it.

• 47:44Lex Fridman?

  I probably can't. But there's some, I think wisdom, and you talk about this, can come with a false confidence, arrogance. I mean, you talk about this in the book, that's too easy.

• 47:56Speaker 01

  That's not wisdom then. If you're being arrogant, you're being unwise.

• 47:59Lex Fridman?

  Unwise.

• 48:00Speaker 01

  Yeah, you know, I think, I think wisdom is doing what people 100 years from now, with the hindsight that we don't have, would do if they could come back in time and they knew everything. It's like, how do we figure out how to have hindsight when we actually are not?

• 48:11Lex Fridman?

  What if stupidity is the thing that people from 100 years from now will see as wise?

• 48:16Speaker 01

  I mean.

• 48:17Lex Fridman?

  The idiot by Dostoevsky being naive and trusting everybody, maybe that's.

• 48:21Speaker 01

  Well, then you get lucky. Then, then, you know, then maybe you get to a good, a good future by stumbling upon it. But ideally you can get there. Like, I think a lot of, we, America, the great things about it have, are a product of. The wisdom of previous Americans. You know, the Constitution was a pretty, you know, pretty wise system to set up.

• 48:44Lex Fridman?

  There's not much stupid stumbling around. Well, there is, I mean, with Dostoevsky's The Idiot, Prince Mishkin and Brothers Khamazov. There's Alyosha Khamazov. You err on the side of love and almost like a naive trust in other human beings. And that turns out to be, at least in my perspective, in the long term, for the success of the species is actually wisdom.

• 49:11Speaker 01

  It's a compass.

• 49:11Lex Fridman?

  But we don't know.

• 49:12Speaker 01

  It's a compass when you're in the fog.

• 49:14Lex Fridman?

  In the fog.

• 49:15Speaker 01

  It's a compass. Yeah.

• 49:17Lex Fridman?

  Love is a compass.

• 49:18Speaker 01

  OK, but but here's the thing. So I think we should have a compass is nice, but you know what else is nice? It's a flashlight in the fog that can help. You can't see that far, but you can see, oh, you can see four feet ahead instead of one foot. And that, to me, is discourse. That is open, vigorous, like, discussion in a culture that fosters that is how the species, how the American citizens as a unit can be as wise as possible, can maybe see four feet ahead instead of one foot ahead.

• 49:44Lex Fridman?

  That said, Charles Bukowski said that love is a fog that fades with the first light of reality. So I don't know how that works out, but I feel like there's intermixing of metaphors that works. OK, you also write that quote, as the authors of The Story of Us, which is this thousand-page book, we have no mentors, no editors, no one to make sure it all turns out OK. It's all in our hands. This scares me, but it's also what gives me hope. If we can all get just a little wiser together, it may be enough to nudge the story onto a trajectory that points towards an unimaginably good future. Do you think we can possibly define what a good future looks like?

• 50:28Lex Fridman?

  I mean, this is the problem with, that we ran into with communism of thinking of utopia, of having a deep confidence about what a utopian world looks like.

• 50:42Speaker 01

  Well, it's a deep confidence. That was a deep confidence about the instrumental way to get there. It was that, you know, I think a lot of us can agree that if everyone had everything they needed and we didn't have disease or poverty and people could live as long as they wanted to and choose when to die, and there was no existential, major existential threat because we control. I think almost everyone can agree that would be great. That communism is a, that was, they said, this is the way to get there. And that is, that's a different question, you know. So, the unimaginably good future I'm picturing, I think a lot of people would picture, and I think most people would agree. Now, not everyone. There's a lot of people out there who would say, humans are the scourge

• 51:24Speaker 01

  on the earth and we should degrowth or something. But I think a lot of people would agree that, you know, just again, take Thomas Jefferson, bring him here. He would see it as a utopia for obvious reasons. For the medicine, the food, the transportation, just how, the quality of life and the safety and all of that. So extrapolate that forward for us. Now, we're Thomas Jefferson, you know, what's the equivalent? That's what I'm talking about. And the big question is, I actually don't, I don't try to say, here's the way to get there. Here's the actual, specific way to get there. I try to say, how do we have a flashlight so that we can together figure it out? Like, how do we give ourselves the best chance of figuring out the way to get there? And I think part of the problem with communists

• 52:08Speaker 01

  and people, ideologues, is that they're way too overconfident that they know the way to get there. And it becomes a religion to them, this solution. And then you're not, you can't update, once you have a solution as a religion. And so.

• 52:22Lex Fridman?

  I felt a little violated when you said communist and stared deeply into myself.

• 52:29Lex Fridman?

  In this book, you've developed a framework for how to fix everything. It's called the ladder. Can you explain it?

• 52:36Speaker 01

  Okay, it's not a framework for how to fix everything. I would never say that.

• 52:39Lex Fridman?

  I'll explain it to Tim Urban at some point.

• 52:41Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 52:41Lex Fridman?

  How this humor thing works.

• 52:42Speaker 01

  Yeah, no.

• 52:43Lex Fridman?

  Framework of how to think about collaboration between humans such that we could fix things.

• 52:51Speaker 01

  I think it's a compass. It's like, it's like a, it's a ruler that we can, once we look at it together and see what it is, we can all say, oh, we want to go to that side of the ruler.

• 53:01Lex Fridman?

  Sure.

• 53:02Speaker 01

  Not this side. And so it gives us a direction to go.

• 53:06Lex Fridman?

  And so what are the parts of the ladder?

• 53:08Speaker 01

  So I have these two characters. This orange guy, this primitive mind is, this is our software. That is the software that was in a 50,000 B.C. person's head that was specifically optimized for, to help that person survive in that world. And not even, not just, not really survive, but help them pass their genes on in that world.

• 53:29Speaker 01

  And civilization happened quickly and brains changed slowly. And so that unchanged dude is still running the show in our head. And I use the example of like Skittles. Like, why do we eat Skittles? It's trash. It's obviously bad for you. And it's because the primitive mind in the world that it was programmed for, there was no Skittles. And it was just fruit. And, you know, and if there was a dense, chewy, sweet fruit like that, it meant you just found like a calorie gold mine. Energy, energy, take it, take it, eat as much as you can, gorge on it.

• 54:09Speaker 01

  Hopefully you get a little fat. That would be the dream. And now we're so good with energy for a while. We don't have to stress about it anymore. So today, Mars Inc. is clever and says, let's not sell things to people's higher minds, who's the other character. Let's sell to people's primitive minds. Primitive minds are dumb. And let's trick them into thinking this is, this, this, this thing you should eat. And then they'll eat it. Now Mars Inc. is a huge company.

• 54:32Lex Fridman?

  Actually, just to linger real quick. So you said primitive mind and higher mind. So those are the two things that make up. This bigger mind that is the modern human being.

• 54:41Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's like, you know, it's not perfect. Obviously, there's a lot of crossover. There's people who will yell at me for saying there's two minds and, you know, but to me, it's still a useful framework where you have this software that has making decisions based on a world that you're not in anymore. And then you've got this other character. I call it the higher mind, and it's the part of you that knows that skills are not good and can override the instinct. And the reason you don't always eat Skittles is because the higher mind says, no, no, no, we're not doing that because that's bad. And I know that, right? Now, you can apply that to a lot of things. The higher mind is the one that knows I shouldn't procrastinate. The primitive mind is the one that wants to conserve energy and not do anything icky and, you know, can't see the future. So he procrastinates that, you know, you can apply this. No, I, in this book, apply it to, to how we form our beliefs is one of the ways.

• 55:26Speaker 01

  And then eventually to politics and political movements. But like, if you think about, well, what's the equivalent of the Skittles tug of war in your head for how do you form your beliefs? And it's that the primitive mind in the world that it was optimized for, it wanted to feel conviction about its beliefs. It wanted to be sure that it was, it wanted to feel conviction and it wanted to agree with the people around there. It didn't want to stand out. It wanted to perfectly agree with the tribe about the tribe's sacred beliefs, right? And so there's a big part of us that wants to do that, that doesn't like changing our mind.

• 56:08Speaker 01

  It feels like it's part of our, the primitive mind identifies with beliefs. It feels like it's a threat, a physical threat to you, to your primitive mind when you change your mind or when someone disagrees with you in a smart way. So there's that huge force in us, which is confirmation bias. That's where that comes from. It's, it's this, this, this desire to keep believing what we believe and this desire to also fit in with our beliefs, to believe what the people around us believe. And that can be fun in some ways. We all like the same sports team and we're all super into it and we're all going to be biased about that call together. I mean, that, it's not always bad, but it's not a very smart way to be. And you're actually, you're working kind of for those ideas. Those ideas are like your boss and you're working so hard to keep believing those.

• 56:51Speaker 01

  Those ideas are, you know, a really good paper comes in that you read that, that conflicts with those ideas and you will do all this work to say that paper is bullshit because... You're a faithful employee of those ideas. Now, the higher mind, to me, the same party that can override the Skittles, can override this and can search for something that makes a lot more sense, which is truth. Because what rational being wouldn't want to know the truth? Who wants to be delusional? And so there's this tug of war because the higher mind doesn't identify with ideas. Why would you? It's an experiment you're doing and it's a mental model. And if someone can come over and say, you're wrong, you'd say, where? Show me, show me. And if they point out something that is wrong, you say, oh, thanks. Oh, good. I just got a little smarter, right? You're not going to identify with the thing. Go, yeah, kick it. See if you can break it.

• 57:36Speaker 01

  If you can break it, it's not that good, right? So there's both of these in our heads and there's this tug of war between them. And sometimes, you know, if you're telling me about something with AI, I'm probably going to think with my higher minds. I'm not identified with it. But if you go and you criticize the ideas in this book, or you criticize my religious beliefs, or you criticize, I might have a harder time because the primitive mind says, no, no, no, those are our special ideas. And so, yeah, so that's, that's one way to use this ladder is like, it's a spectrum. You know, at the top, the higher mind is doing all the thinking. And then as you go down, it becomes more of a tug of war. And at the bottom, the primitive mind is in total control.

• 58:08Lex Fridman?

  And this is distinct, as you show, from the spectrum of ideas. So this is how you think versus what you think. And those are distinct, those are different dimensions.

• 58:17Speaker 01

  We need, we need a vertical axis. We have all these horizontal axes, left, right, center, or, you know, this opinion all the way to this opinion. But it's like, what's much more important than where you stand is how you got there, right? And how you think. So this helps if I can say this person's kind of on the left or on the right, but they're up high, I think. I think, in other words, I think they got there using evidence and reason, and they were willing to change their mind. Now, that means a lot to me, what they have to say. If I think they're just a tribal person and I can predict all their beliefs from hearing one because it's so obvious what political beliefs, that person's views are irrelevant to me because they're not real. They didn't come from information. They came from a tribe's kind of, you know, sacred 10 commandments.

• 59:00Lex Fridman?

  I really like the comic you have in here with the boxer. This is the best boxer in the world. Wow, cool. Who has he beaten? No one, he's never fought anyone. Then how do you know he's the best boxer in the world? I can just tell. Now, I mean, this connects with me and I think with a lot of people just because in martial arts, it's especially kind of true that this this whole legend about different martial artists and that kind of would construct like action figures, like, you know, thinking that Steven Seagal is the best fighter in the world or Chuck Norris. But Chuck Norris is actually backed up. He has done really well in competition, but still the ultimate test for particular for martial arts is what we now know as mixed martial arts, UFC and so on. And that's the actual scientific testing ground.

• 59:45Speaker 01

  It's a meritocracy.

• 59:46Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, exactly. I mean, there's within certain rules and you can criticize those rules like this doesn't actually represent the broader combat that you would think of when you're thinking about martial arts. But reality is you're actually testing things. And that's when you realize that Aikido and some of these kind of woo woo martial arts in their certain implementations don't work in the way you think they would in the context of fighting. And I think this is one of the places where everyone can agree, which is why it's a really nice comic. Because then you start to talk about map this onto ideas that people take personally. It starts becoming a lot more difficult to to basically highlight that we're thinking with not with our higher mind, but with our primitive mind.

• 1:00:31Speaker 01

  Yeah, I mean, if if if I'm thinking with my higher mind and now here is I you can use different things for an idea as a metaphor. So here the metaphor is a boxer.

• 1:00:39Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:00:40Speaker 01

  For and for one of your conclusions, one of your beliefs. And if I'm if I'm if I'm if all I care about is truth, in other words, for the that means all I care about is having a good boxer. I would say, go, yeah, try, see if this person is good, go. I would, in other words, I would get into arguments, which is throwing my boxer out there to fight against other ones. And if I think my argument is good, by the way, I love boxing, right? If I think my guy is is amazing, you know, Mike Tyson, I'm thinking, oh, yeah, bring it on. Who wants to come see? I bet no one can beat my boxer. I love a good debate, right? In that case. Now, what would you think about my boxer? If not only had I, was I telling you he was great, but he's never boxed anyone?

• 1:01:23Speaker 01

  But then you said, okay, well, your idea came over to try to punch him? And I screamed and I said, what are you doing? That's violence and you're, you're, and you're, and you're an awful person. And I don't want to be friends with you anymore. Because you, you would think this boxer obviously sucks. And or at least I think it sucks, deep down. Because why would I be so anti anyone? No boxing allowed. You know, people, so I, I, I think if you're in, so this, I call this a ladder, right? If you're in low rung land, you know, whether it's a culture or whatever, a debate, an argument when someone says, no, that's totally wrong. What you're saying about that and here's why, you're actually being totally biased. It sounds like a fight. People are going to say, oh, wow, we got in like a fight. It was really awkward. Like, are we still friends with that person?

• 1:02:08Speaker 01

  Because that's not a culture of boxing. It's a culture where you don't touch each other's ideas. That's, that's, that's insensitive versus in an, in an, in a, you know, a high rung culture. It's sport. That's, I mean, like every one of your podcasts, you're, you're, whether you're agreeing or disagreeing, the tone is the same. It's not like, oh, this got awkward. It's like, it's, the tone is identical because you're just playing intellectually either way. Because it's a good high rung space.

• 1:02:32Lex Fridman?

  At his best, at his best, but people do take stuff personally. And then that's actually one of the skills of conversation, just as a fan of podcasts, is when you sense that people take a thing personally. You have to like, there's sort of methodologies and little paths you can take to like calm things down. Like go around the, the, don't, don't take it as a violation of like.

• 1:02:53Speaker 01

  You're trying to suss out which of their ideas are sacred to them.

• 1:02:55Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:02:55Speaker 01

  And which ones are, bring it on.

• 1:02:58Lex Fridman?

  And sometimes it's actually, I mean, that's the skill of it, I suppose, that sometimes it's the certain wordings. In the way you challenge those ideas are important. You can, you can challenge them indirectly and then together, walk together in that way. Because they're, what I've learned. Is people are used to their ideas being attacked in a certain way, in a certain tribal way, and if you just avoid those, like, for example, if you have political discussions and just never mention left or right, or Republican and Democrat, none of that, just talk about different ideas and avoid certain kind of triggering words, you can actually talk about ideas versus falling into this path that's well established through battles that people have previously fought.

• 1:03:43Speaker 01

  When you say triggering, I mean, who's getting triggered? The primitive mind. So what you're trying to do, what you're saying in this language is, how do you have conversations with other people's higher minds, almost like whispering, without waking up the primitive mind?

• 1:03:55Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, exactly.

• 1:03:56Speaker 01

  The primitive mind is there sleeping, right? And as soon as you say, as soon as you say something, the left primitive mind gets up and says, what? What are you saying about the left? And now, now that everything goes off the rails.

• 1:04:04Lex Fridman?

  What do you make of conspiracy theories under this framework of the latter?

• 1:04:08Speaker 01

  So, here's the thing about conspiracy theories, is that, once in a while, they're true, right? Because sometimes there's an actual conspiracy. Actually, humans are pretty good at real conspiracies, secret things, and then, you know, I just watched the Madoff doc, great new Netflix doc, by the way. And, so, the question is, how do you create a system that is good at, you put the conspiracy theory in, and it either goes eh, or it says, it's interesting, let's keep exploring it? Like, how do you put, how do you do something that it can, how do you assess? And so, again, I think the high rung culture is really good at it, because a real conspiracy,

• 1:04:52Speaker 01

  what's going to happen is, you put it, it's like a little machine you put in the middle of the table, and everyone starts firing darts at it, a bow and arrow, or whatever, and everyone starts kicking it and trying to, and almost all conspiracy theories, they quickly crumble, right? Because they actually, you know, Trump's election won, is, you know, I actually dug in and I looked at like, every claim that he or his team made, and I was like, all of these, none of these hold up to scrutiny, none of them. I was open minded, but none of them did. So that was one that as soon as it's open to scrutiny, it crumbles. The only way that conspiracy can stick around in a, in a community is if it is a culture where that's being treated as a sacred idea that no one should kick or throw a dart at, because if you throw a dart, it's gonna break. So it's being, it's, and so

• 1:05:37Speaker 01

  the, what you want is a, is a culture where no idea is sacred. Anything can get thrown at. And so I think that then what you'll find is that nine, 94 out of 100 conspiracy theories come in and they fall down. The other, maybe four of the others come in and there's something there, but it's not as extreme as people say. And then maybe one is a huge deal and it's actually a real conspiracy.

• 1:05:57Lex Fridman?

  Well, isn't there a lot of gray area and there's a lot of mystery? Isn't that where the conspiracy theories seep in? So it's great to hear that you've really looked into the, the, the Trump election fraud claims, but aren't they resting in a lot of kind of gray area, like fog, basically saying that there is dark forces in the shadows that are actually controlling everything? I mean, the same thing with, maybe you can, there's like safer conspiracy theories, more, less controversial. It's like, have we landed on the moon? Right? Did the United States ever land on the moon? There's, you know, you, like, the reason those conspiracy theories work is you could construct, there's

• 1:06:40Lex Fridman?

  incentives and motivation for faking the moon landing. There's a lot of, um, there's a, there's very little data supporting the moon landing. Like, that's very public and kind of looks fake. Space kind of looks fake.

• 1:06:54Speaker 01

  That would be a big story if it turned, turned out to be fake.

• 1:06:57Lex Fridman?

  That's the, that's, that would be the argument against it. Like, are people really as a collective going to hold on to a story that big? Um, yeah. So that, but, but there's a lot, that the reason they work is there's mystery.

• 1:07:10Speaker 01

  Yeah. There's a great documentary called Behind the Curve about flat earthers. And one of the things that you learn about flat earthers is they believe all the conspiracies, not just the flat earth. They're, they're convinced the moon landing is fake. They're convinced nine 11 was an American con job. They're convinced, you know, that, name a conspiracy and they believe it. And so it's so interesting is that I think of it as a,

• 1:07:36Speaker 01

  As a skepticism spectrum.

• 1:07:38Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:07:38Speaker 01

  So on one side, you, it's like a filter in your head, a filter in your, in the beliefs section of your brain. On one end of the spectrum, you are gullible, perfectly gullible. You believe anything someone says, right? On the other side, you're paranoid. You think everyone's lying to you, right? Everything's, everything is false. Nothing that anyone says is true. Right? So obviously, those aren't good places to be. Now, the healthy place, I think that, that, the, so, so, so I think the healthy place is to be somewhere in the middle. And, but also, you can learn to trust certain sources and then, you know, you don't have to do as much, apply as much skepticism to them. And so here's what, like, when you start having a bias, just so you have a political bias, when your side says something, you, you will find yourself moving towards the gullible side of the spectrum.

• 1:08:22Speaker 01

  You read an article written that's, that supports your views, you move to the gullible side of the spectrum and you just believe it and you don't have any, where's that skepticism that you normally have, right? And then you move, and then you, soon, soon as it's the other person talking, the other team talking, you move to the skeptical, the, the, closer to the, to the, you know, in denial paranoid side. Now, flat earthers are the extreme. They are either at 10 or 1. So it's like, it's so interesting because they're the people who are saying, ah, no, I won't believe you. I'm not gullible. No, everyone else is gullible about the moon landing. I won't. And then yet, when there's this evidence like, oh, because you can't see Seattle, you can't see the buildings over that horizon and you should, which isn't true. You should be, if it were, if the earth were around, you wouldn't be able to see them. Therefore, it's, so suddenly they become the most gullible person.

• 1:09:05Speaker 01

  They're, any theory about the earth flat, they believe it. It goes right into their beliefs. So they're actually jumping back and forth between refusing to believe anything and believe anything. And so they're the extreme example. But I think when it comes to conspiracy theories, the people that get themselves into trouble are the ones who they, they, they become really gullible when they hear a conspiracy theory that kind of fits with their worldview. And they likewise, when there's something that's kind of obviously true and it's not a big lie, they will actually, uh, they'll, they'll, they'll think it is. They, they, they just tighten up their kind of skepticism filter. And, and so, yeah. So I, I think the healthy place is to be is where, is where you are not, because you also don't want to be the person who says every conspiracy, you hear the word conspiracy theory and it sounds like, like a synonym for like quack, job, crazy theory, right?

• 1:09:49Speaker 01

  So, yeah. So I, I think, yeah, I think it's be somewhere in the middle of that spectrum and to learn to fine tune it.

• 1:09:55Lex Fridman?

  Which is a tricky place to operate. Cause you kind of have to, every time you hear a new conspiracy theory, you should approach it with an open mind. And you know, and also if you don't have enough time to investigate, which most people don't, kind of still have a humility not to make a conclusive statement that that's nonsense.

• 1:10:12Speaker 01

  There's a lot of um, social pressure, actually.

• 1:10:16Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:10:17Speaker 01

  To immediately laugh off any conspiracy theory if it's done by the the bad guys, right? You will quickly get mocked and laughed at and not taken seriously. If you give any credence, you know, back the lab leak was that was a good one where it's like, uh, turned out that that was at least very credible, if not true. And that was a perfect example of one where when it first came out, and not only so, so Brett Weinstein talked about it. And then I, in a totally different conversation, said something complimentary about him on a totally different subject. And people were saying, Tim, you might have gone a little off the deep end. You're like quoting someone who is like a lab leak person. So I was getting my reputation dinged for complimenting on a different topic, someone

• 1:11:02Speaker 01

  whose reputation was totally sullied because they have, you know, they questioned an orthodoxy. Right? So you see, so what does that make me want to do? Distance myself from Brett Weinstein. That's the at least they see incentive that's a, and what does that make other people want to do? Don't become the next Brett Weinstein. Don't say it out loud because you don't want to become someone that no one wants to compliment anymore. Right? You can see the social pressure and that's, and of course, when there is a conspiracy, that social pressure is its best friend.

• 1:11:30Lex Fridman?

  Because then they see the people from outside are seeing that social pressure enact like a Tim Urban becoming more and more and more extreme to the other side. And so they're going to take the more and more and more extreme. I mean, this, what do you see that the pandemic did, that COVID did to our civilization in that regard, in the forces? Why was it so? Divisive. Do you understand that?

• 1:11:58Speaker 01

  Yeah, so COVID, I, you know, I thought might be, you know, we always know the ultimate example of a topic that will unite us all is the alien attack.

• 1:12:05Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:12:05Speaker 01

  Although honestly, I don't even have that much faith then. I think there'd be like, some people are super like, you know, pro alien and some people are anti alien. But anyway.

• 1:12:13Lex Fridman?

  I was actually trying to interrupt because I was talking to a few astronomers and they they're the first folks that made me kind of sad in that if we did discover life on Mars, for example, that there's going to be potentially a division over that too, where half the people will not believe that's real.

• 1:12:33Speaker 01

  Well, because we live in a current society where the political divide has subsumed everything. And that's not always like that. It goes into stages like that. We're in a really bad one where it's actually in the book, I call it like a vortex, like a, like a, like a, almost like a whirlpool that pulls everything into it. It pulls, it pulls. And so normally you'd say, okay, you know, immigration naturally going to be contentious. That's always political.

• 1:13:04Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:13:05Speaker 01

  But like COVID seemed like, oh, that's one of those that will unite us all. Let's fight this not human virus thing. Like obvious is no, no one's sensitive. No one's like getting hurt when we insult the virus. Like, let's all be, we have this threat, this common threat that's a threat to everyone of every nationality and every country, every ethnicity. And, and what it didn't do that at all. The whirlpool was too powerful. So it pulled COVID in and suddenly masks. If you're on the left, you like them. If you're on the right, you hate them. And suddenly lockdowns, if you're on the left, you like them and on the right, you hate them. And vaccines, this is people forget this, when, when they, Trump first started

• 1:13:44Speaker 01

  talking about the vaccine, Biden, Harris, Cuomo, they're all saying, I'm not taking that vaccine, not from this CDC.

• 1:13:53Lex Fridman?

  Because it was too rushed or something like that?

• 1:13:54Speaker 01

  No, but because I'm not, I'm not trusting anything that Trump says. Trump, Trump wants me to take it. I'm not taking it. I'm not taking it from this CDC. So this was if Trump, this Trump was almost out of office. But at the time, if, if Trump had been, it would have been, I'm pretty sure it would have stayed. Right likes vaccines. The left doesn't like vaccines. Instead, the president switched and all those people are suddenly saying. They were actually specifically saying that if you, you know, that, that, that like, if you're saying the CDC is not trustworthy, that's misinformation, which is exactly what they were saying about the other CDC. And they were saying it because they genuinely didn't trust Trump, which is fair. But now when other people don't trust the Biden CDC, suddenly it's this kind of misinformation that needs to be censored. So it was a sad moment because it was a couple of months at the very, even a week or so at the, I

• 1:14:39Speaker 01

  mean, a month or so at the very beginning, when it felt like a lot of our other squabbles were kind of like, oh, I feel like they're kind of irrelevant right now.

• 1:14:46Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:14:47Speaker 01

  And then very quickly, the whirlpool sucked it in. And, and, and in a way where I think it damaged the reputation of these, a lot of the, the trust in a lot of these institutions for the long run.

• 1:14:56Lex Fridman?

  But there's also an individual psychological impact. It's like a vicious negative feedback cycle where they were deeply affected on an emotional level and people just were not their best selves.

• 1:15:07Speaker 01

  That's definitely true. Yeah. I mean, talk about the primitive mind. I mean, one thing that we've been dealing with for our whole human history is pathogens.

• 1:15:16Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:15:16Speaker 01

  And it's, it's emotional, right? It brings out, you know, there's really interesting studies where like, if, they, they studied the, the phenomenon of disgust, which is one of these like, you know, smiling is universal. You don't have to ever translate a smile, right? Certain, you know, you know, throwing your hands up when your, when your sports team wins is universal because it's part of our, we're coding. And so is disgust to kind of make this like, you know, face where you wrinkle up your nose and you kind of put out your tongue and maybe even gag. That's to expel, expel whatever it's because it's, it's the reaction when something is potentially a pathogen that might harm us, right? Feces,

• 1:15:56Speaker 01

  vomit, whatever. But they did this interesting study where people who, in, in two, two groups, the control group, you know, was shown images of, and I might be getting two studies mixed up, but they were showing, they were showing images of like car crashes and like disturbing, but not disgusting. And the other one was shown like, you know, like, you know, rotting things and just things that were disgusting. And then they were asked about immigration. These were Canadians. And the group that was, had the disgust feeling going, pulsing through their body was way more likely to prefer like immigrants from white countries. And the group that was had shown car accidents, they were, they still prefer the groups from white countries, but much less so. And so what does that mean?

• 1:16:38Speaker 01

  It's because with the disgust impulse makes us scared of, you know, sexual practices that are foreign, of ethnicities that are not look, that don't look like us, of, it's still xenophobia. So it's ugly. It's really ugly stuff. This is, of course, also how, you know, the Nazi propaganda with cockroaches and, or it was Rwanda and was cockroaches, you know, the Nazis was rats and, you know, it's specifically, it's a dehumanizing emotion. So, anyway, we were, we were, we were talking about COVID, but I think it does, it taps deep into like the human psyche and it, and it's, I don't think it brings out our, I think, like you said, I think it brings out an ugly side in us.

• 1:17:16Lex Fridman?

  You describe an idea lab as being opposite of echo chambers. So we know what echo chambers are. And you said like, there's basically no good term for the opposite of an echo chamber. So what's an idea lab?

• 1:17:29Speaker 01

  Yeah, well, first of all, both of these, I think, we think of an echo chamber as like a group, maybe, or even a place, but it's, it's a culture. It's an intellectual culture.

• 1:17:37Lex Fridman?

  True.

• 1:17:38Speaker 01

  And this goes along with the high rung, so high rung and low rung thinking is individual. That's what I was talking about, what's going on in your head. But this is very connected to the social scene around us. And so groups will do high rung and low rung thinking together. Basically, it's, so an echo chamber to me is a collaborative low rung thinking. It is, it's a culture where the cool, it's based around a sacred set of ideas. And it's the coolest thing you can do in an echo chamber culture is talk about how great the sacred ideas are and how bad and evil and stupid and wrong the people are who have the other views. And this, and, and, and it's, it's quite boring, you know, it's a quite boring, you

• 1:18:23Speaker 01

  know, it's very hard to learn and changing your mind is not cool in an echo chamber culture makes you seem wishy washy. It makes you seem like, you know, like you're waffling and you're flip flopping or whatever, showing conviction about the sacred ideas in echo chamber culture is awesome. If you're just like, you know, obviously this makes you seem smart while being, you know, humble makes you seem dumb. So now flip all of those things on their heads and you have an, you have the opposite, which is idea lab culture, which is collaborative high rung thinking. It's collaborative truth finding, but it's also just, it's just a totally different vibe. It's, it's a place where arguing is a fun thing. It's not, no one's getting offended

• 1:19:04Speaker 01

  and criticizing like the thing everyone believes is actually makes you seem like interesting. Like, oh, really? Why, why do you think we're all wrong? And expressing too much conviction makes people lose trust in you. It doesn't make you seem smart. It makes you seem stupid if you don't know, really know what you're talking about, but you're acting like you do.

• 1:19:20Lex Fridman?

  I really like this diagram of where on the X axis agreement and the Y axis is decency. That's in an idea lab and echo chamber. There's only one axis. It's asshole to non asshole.

• 1:19:32Speaker 01

  Right.

• 1:19:32Lex Fridman?

  This is a really important thing to understand about the difference between, you call it decency here about assholeishness and disagreement.

• 1:19:41Speaker 01

  So my college friends, we love to argue, right? And, and no one thought anyone was an asshole for, it was just for sport. Sometimes we'd realize we're not even disagreeing on something and that would be disappointing and be like, oh, I think we agree. And it was kind of like sad. It was like, oh, well, there goes the fun. And one of the members of this group has this, she brought her new boyfriend to one of our like hangouts and there was like a heated, heated debate, you know, just, just, just one of our typical things. And afterwards, you know, the next day he said like, is everything okay? And she was like, what do you mean? And he said, like after, you know, the fight and she was like, what fight? And he was like, you know, the fight last night. And she was like, and she had to, and then she was like, you mean like the arguing? And she, and he was like, yeah. And she, and so that's someone who is not used to idea lab culture coming into

• 1:20:25Speaker 01

  it and seeing it as like, that was like, this is like, are they still friends? Right? And idea lab is nice for the people in them because you're, it, individuals thrive. You don't want to just conform. That does, it makes you seem boring in an idea, but you want to be yourself. You want to challenge things. You want to have a unique brain. So that's great. And, and you also have people criticizing your ideas, which makes you smarter. It doesn't always feel good, but you, you become more correct and smarter. An echo chamber is the opposite where it's not good for the people and it does, your learning skills atrophy and I think it's boring. But the thing is, they also have emergent properties. So the emergent property of an ideal lab is like superintelligence. Just you and me alone, just the two of us.

• 1:21:08Speaker 01

  If we're working together on something, but we're being really grown up about it. We're disagreeing, we're not, you know, no one's sensitive about anything. We're going to each find flaws in the other one's arguments that you wouldn't have found on your own and we're going to have double the epiphanies, right? So it's almost like the two of us together is like as smart as 1.5, is like 50% smarter than either of us alone, right? So you have this 1.5 intelligent kind of joint being now we've made. Now bring a third person in, fourth person in, right? You see, it starts to scale up. This is why science institutions can discover relativity in quantum mechanics and these things that no individual human, you know, was going to come up with without a ton of collaboration because it's this giant ideal lab. So it has an emergent property of superintelligence.

• 1:21:53Speaker 01

  An echo chamber is the opposite where it has the emergent property of stupidity. I mean, has the emergent property of a bunch of people all, you know, paying field, you know, fealty to this set of sacred ideas. And so you lose this magical thing about language and humans, which is collaborative intelligence, you lose it, it disappears.

• 1:22:15Lex Fridman?

  But there is that axis of decency, which is really interesting because you're kind of painting this picture of you and your friends arguing really harshly. But underlying that is a basic camaraderie, respect. There's, there's all kinds of mechanisms we humans have constructed to communicate, like mutual respect or maybe communicate that you're here for the ideal lab version of this.

• 1:22:43Speaker 01

  Totally. You don't take it, you don't get personal, right? You're not getting personal, you're not, you're not taking things personally. People are respected in an idea lab and ideas are disrespected.

• 1:22:55Lex Fridman?

  And there's ways to signal that. So like with friends, you've already done the signaling. You've already established a relationship. The interesting thing is online, I think you have to do some of that work. To me, the sort of steel manning the other side, or no, having empathy and hearing out, being able to basically repeat the argument the other person is making before you and showing like respect to that argument. I could see how you could think that before you make a counter argument. There's just a bunch of ways to communicate that you're here not to do kind of, what is it, low rung, you know, shit talking mockery derision, but are actually here ultimately

• 1:23:38Lex Fridman?

  to discover the truth in the space of ideas and the tension of those ideas. And I think it's, I think that's a skill that we're all learning as a civilization of how to do that kind of communication effectively. Because I think disagreement, as I'm learning on the internet, is actually a really tricky skill, like high effort, high decency disagreement. I got to listen to, there's a really good debate podcast, Intelligence Squared.

• 1:24:05Speaker 01

  Love it.

• 1:24:06Lex Fridman?

  And like they, they can go pretty hard in the paint.

• 1:24:08Speaker 01

  It's a classic idea lab.

• 1:24:10Lex Fridman?

  It's exactly, but like, how do we map that to the social media? When people like will say, will say, well, like Lex or anybody, you're not, you hate disagreement. You want to censor disagreement. No, I love Intelligence Squared type of disagreement. That's fun.

• 1:24:27Speaker 01

  You want to reduce assholery.

• 1:24:29Lex Fridman?

  And for me personally, I don't want to reduce assholery. You know, I kind of like assholery. It's like fun in many ways, but the problem is when the asshole shows up to the party, they make it less fun for the, for the party that's there for the idea lab. And the other people, especially the quiet voices at the back of the room, they leave. And so all you're left is, was with assholes.

• 1:24:51Speaker 01

  Well, that Twitter, political Twitter to me is one of those parties. It's a big party where a few assholes have really sent a lot of the quiet thinkers away.

• 1:25:04Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:25:04Speaker 01

  And, and so, so if you think about this graph again. What some place like Twitter, a great way to get followers is to be an asshole with a certain, you know, pumping a certain ideology. You'll get a huge amount of followers. And for those followers, and the followers you're gonna get, the people who like you, are probably going to be people who are really thinking with their primitive mind because they're seeing you're being an asshole, but because you agree with them, they love you. And they don't see any problem with how you're being.

• 1:25:39Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, they don't see the asshole. This is the fascinating thing.

• 1:25:41Speaker 01

  Because look at the thing on the right. Agreement and decency are the same. So if you're in that mindset, the bigger the asshole, the better. If you're agreeing with me, you're my man. I love what you're saying. Yes, show them. Right? And the algorithm helps those people. Those people do great on the algorithm.

• 1:25:57Lex Fridman?

  There's a fascinating dynamic that happens, because I have currently hired somebody that looks at my social media, and they block people. Because the assholes will roll in, they're not actually there to have an interesting disagreement, which I love. They're there to do kind of mockery. And then when they get blocked, they then celebrate that to their echo chamber, like, "Look at this, I got him." Or whatever.

• 1:26:22Speaker 01

  Or they'll say some annoying thing like, "Oh, so he talks about he likes..." If I'd done this, they'll say, "Oh, he says he likes Idea Labs, but he actually wants to create an echo chamber." But I'm like, "Nope, you're an asshole." I'm not... Look at the other 50 people on this thread that disagreed with me respectfully. They're not blocked.

• 1:26:40Lex Fridman?

  Yep, exactly.

• 1:26:41Speaker 01

  And so they see it as some kind of hypocrisy, because again, they only see the thing on the right. And they're not understanding that there's two axes, or that I see it as two axes. And so you seem petty in that moment, but it's like, "No, no, no, this is very specific what I'm doing." You're actually killing the conversation.

• 1:26:56Lex Fridman?

  And generally, I give all those folks a pass and just send them love telepathically. But yes, like, getting rid of assholes in the conversation is the way you allow for the disagreement.

• 1:27:09Speaker 01

  You do a lot of like, when, I think when, like, primitive mindedness comes at you, at least on Twitter, I don't know what you're feeling internally in that moment, but you do a lot of like... I'm gonna meet that with my higher mind. And you come out and you'll be like, and you'll be like, thanks for all the criticism. I love you. And that's the, that, that, that's actually a amazing response because it just, it, what it does is it, it, it, that it, it unriles up that person's primitive mind and actually wakes up their higher mind, who says, oh, okay, you know, this guy's not so bad. And suddenly like civility comes back. So it's a very powerful.

• 1:27:47Lex Fridman?

  Hopefully, long term, but the thing is, they do seem to drive away high quality disagreement. Cause like, cause it takes so much effort to disagree in a high quality way.

• 1:27:59Speaker 01

  I've noticed this on my blog, like my, one of the things I pride myself on is like my comment section is awesome. Like there's, there's, there's, everyone's being respectful. No one's afraid to disagree with me and tell, and then say, you know, tear my post apart, but in a totally respectful way where the underlying thing is like, I'm here because I like this guy and his writing. And people disagree with each other and they get in these long, and it's interesting and I read it and I'm learning. And then I, you know, a couple of posts, especially the ones I've got written about politics. It's not like, it seems like any other comment section, people are being nasty to me. They're being nasty to each other. And then I looked down one of them and I realized like, almost all of this is the work of like three people.

• 1:28:38Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:28:39Speaker 01

  That's who you need to block. Those people need to be blocked. You're not being thin skinned, you're not being petty doing it. You're actually protecting an idea lab. Because what, what people would really aggressive, people like that do is they'll turn it into their own echo chamber. Because now everyone is scared to kind of disagree with them, it's unpleasant. And so people who will chime in are the people who agree with them. And suddenly like they've taken over the space.

• 1:29:01Lex Fridman?

  And I kind of believe that those people on a different day could actually do high effort disagreement. It's just that they're in a, in a, in a certain kind of mood. And a lot of us, just like you said, with a primitive mind, could get into that mood. And it's, I believe it's actually the job of the technology, the platform, to incentivize those folks to be like, are you sure this is the best you can do? Like if you really want to talk shit about this idea, like do better.

• 1:29:27Speaker 01

  Like, yeah.

• 1:29:28Lex Fridman?

  And then we need to create incentives where you get likes for high effort disagreement. Cause currently you get likes for like, uh, something that's slightly funny and is a little bit like mockery. Like, um, Yeah, basically signals to some kind of echo chamber that this person is a horrible person, is a hypocrite, is evil, whatever. That feels like it's solvable with technology. Because I think in our private lives, none of us want that.

• 1:29:57Speaker 01

  I wonder if it's making me think that I want to like, because a much easier way for me to do it just for my, my world would be to say something like, you know, here's this axis, this is, this is part of what I, part of what I like about the latter is it's a language that we can use. It's like specifically what we're talking about is high rung disagreement, good, low rung disagreement, bad, right? And so it gives us like a language for that. And so what I would say is I would, you know, my, you know, I would have my, you know, readers, you know, understand this axis. And then I would specifically say something like, please do the, do the, do it, but why a favor and upvote regardless of what they're saying horizontally, right? Regardless of what their actual view is, upvote high rungness.

• 1:30:41Speaker 01

  They could be tearing me apart. They can be saying, great, they can be praising me, whatever. Upvote high rungness and downvote low rungness. And if enough people are doing that, suddenly there's all this incentive to try to say, no, I need to calm my emotion down here and not be personal because I'm going to get voted into oblivion by these people.

• 1:30:59Lex Fridman?

  I think a lot of people would be very good at that. They, and they not only would they be good at that, they would want that, that task of saying, I know I completely disagree with this person, but this was a high effort, a high rung disagreement.

• 1:31:16Speaker 01

  It gets everyone thinking about that other axis too. You're not just looking at where do you stand horizontally? You're saying, well, how did you get there? And how are you, you know, are you treating ideas like machines? Or are you treating them like little, you know, babies?

• 1:31:27Lex Fridman?

  And there should be some kind of labeling on personal attacks versus idea disagreement. Sometimes people like throw in both a little bit.

• 1:31:34Speaker 01

  Right.

• 1:31:35Lex Fridman?

  And it's like, all right, no, there should be a disincentive at personal attacks versus idea attacks.

• 1:31:39Speaker 01

  Well, you can also, one metric is a respectful disagreement. If I see, just say someone else's Twitter and I see, you know, you put out a thought and I see someone say, you know, someone say, you know, I don't see it that way. Here's, here's where I think you went wrong. And they're just explaining. I'm thinking that if Lex reads that, he's gonna be interested. He's gonna, he's gonna wanna post more stuff, right? Cause he's gonna like that. If I see someone being like, um, wow, this really shows the kinda person that you become. Or shows up, I'm thinking that person is making Lex want to be on Twitter less. It's making him, and so what's that doing? What that person's actually doing is they're putting, is they're actually, they're chilling discussion. Cause they're making it unpleasant to, they're making it scary to say what you think. And the first person isn't at all.

• 1:32:23Speaker 01

  The first person is making you wanna say more stuff. So, and those are both disagree. Those are people who both disagree with you.

• 1:32:28Lex Fridman?

  Exactly, exactly. I want to, great disagreement with friends in meat space is like you're, they disagree with you. They could be even yelling at you. Honestly, they could even have some shit talk where it's like personal attacks. It is still feels good.

• 1:32:46Speaker 01

  Cause you know them well and you know that that shit talk, cause yeah, friends shit talk all the time. Playing a, playing a sport or a game. And again, it's, it's, it's because they know each other well enough to know that this is fun. We're having fun and obviously I love you.

• 1:33:00Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, exactly.

• 1:33:01Speaker 01

  You know, and, and that's, that's important online, it's a lot harder.

• 1:33:04Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, the, that obviously I love you, that underlies a lot of human interaction.

• 1:33:08Speaker 01

  Right.

• 1:33:09Lex Fridman?

  Seems to be easily lost online. I've seen some people on Twitter and elsewhere just behave their worst.

• 1:33:15Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 1:33:15Lex Fridman?

  And it's like, I know that's not who you are.

• 1:33:17Speaker 01

  Totally.

• 1:33:18Lex Fridman?

  Like, why are you?

• 1:33:18Speaker 01

  I actually, you know, I know.

• 1:33:19Lex Fridman?

  Who is this human?

• 1:33:20Speaker 01

  I know someone personally who is one of the best people.

• 1:33:24Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:33:25Speaker 01

  Um, it just, I love this guy. Like, one of the best, like, fun, funny, like nicest dudes. And he, if you would, if you looked at his Twitter only, you would think he's a culture warrior, an awful culture warrior. And, you know, you know, biased and just stoking anger. And, and it comes out of a good place. And I'm not gonna give any other info about, you know, specific, but like.

• 1:33:49Lex Fridman?

  I think you're describing a lot of people.

• 1:33:51Speaker 01

  It comes out of a good place because he really cares about what he, you know, it comes out. But it's just, I can't square the two. It's so, and that's, you have to, once you know someone like that, you can realize, okay, apply that to everyone. Cause a lot of these people are lovely people. And it's just bring, even just, you know, back in the, before social media, you ever had a friend who like? Was just like, they had this like dickishness on text or email that they didn't have in person. You're like, wow, like email you is like kind of a dick. And it's like, it just, certain people have a different persona behind the screen.

• 1:34:19Lex Fridman?

  It has for me personally, it's become a bit of a meme that Lex blocks with love. But there is a degree to that where this is, I don't see people on social media as representing who they really are. I really do have love for them. I really do think positive thoughts of them throughout the entirety of the experience. I see this as some weird side effect of online communication. And so it's like, to me, blocking is not some kind of a derisive act towards that individual. It's just like saying.

• 1:34:48Speaker 01

  Well, a lot of times what's happened is they have slipped into a very common delusion that dehumanizes others. So that doesn't mean they're a bad person. We all can do it, but they're dehumanizing you or whoever they're being nasty to. Because they, in a way, they would never do in person, because in a person, they're reminded that's a person. Remember I said the dumb part of my brain when I'm doing VR, like, won't step off the cliff. But the smart part of my brain knows I'm just on the rug. That dumb part of our brain is really dumb in a lot of ways. It's the part of your brain where you can set the clock five minutes fast to help you not be late. The smart part of your brain knows that you did that, but the dumb part will fall for it, right? That same dumb part of your brain can forget that the person behind that screen, that behind that handle,

• 1:35:34Speaker 01

  is a human that has feelings. And that doesn't mean they're a bad person for forgetting that, because it's possible.

• 1:35:40Lex Fridman?

  Well, this really interesting idea, and I wonder if it's true that you're right, is that both primitive mindedness and high mindedness tend to be contagious. I hope you're right, that it's possible to make both contagious. Because our, our sort of popular intuition is only one of them, the primitive mindedness is contagious, as exhibited by social media.

• 1:36:04Speaker 01

  To compliment you again, don't you think that your, your Twitter to me is like, I was just looking down, and I mean, it is a, it's just high mindedness. It's just high mindedness, down, down, down, down, down. It's gratitude, it's optimism, it's love, it's forgiveness. It's all these things that are the opposite of grievance and victimhood and resentment and pessimism, right? And.

• 1:36:27Speaker 01

  There's, I think, a reason that a lot of people follow you because it is contagious. It makes other people feel those feelings.

• 1:36:33Lex Fridman?

  I don't know. I've been recently, over the past few months, attacked quite a lot. It is fascinating to watch because it's over things that I think I probably have done stupid things, but I'm being attacked for things that are totally not worthy of attack. I got attacked for a book list.

• 1:36:53Speaker 01

  I saw that, by the way. I thought it was great.

• 1:36:56Lex Fridman?

  But you can always kind of find ways to, you know, I guess the assumption is this person surely is a fraud or some other explanation. He sure has dead bodies in the basement he's hiding or something like this. And then I'm going to construct a narrative around that and mock and attack that. I don't know how that works, but there is, there does, and I think you write this in the book, there seems to be a gravity pulling people towards the primitive mind.

• 1:37:23Speaker 01

  When it comes to anything political, right? Religious, certain things are bottom-heavy, you know, for our psyche. They have a magnet that pulls our psyches downwards on the ladder. And why? Why does politics pull our psyches down on the ladder? Because for the tens of thousands of years that we were evolving, you know, during human history, it was life or death. Politics was life or death. And so there's actually an amazing study where it's like, they challenged like 20 different beliefs of a person. And different parts of the person's brain, and they had an MRI going,

• 1:38:08Speaker 01

  different parts of the person's brain lit up when non-political beliefs were challenged versus political beliefs were challenged. When political beliefs were challenged, when non-political beliefs were challenged, the... Like the rational, like the prefrontal cortex type areas were lit up. When the political beliefs were challenged, and then I'm getting over my head here, but it's like the parts of your brain, the default mode network, the parts of your brain associated with like introspection and like your own identity were lit up. And they were much more likely to change their mind on all the beliefs, the non-political beliefs. When that default mode network part of your brain lit up, you were, you were gonna, if anything, get more firm in those beliefs when you, when you had them challenged.

• 1:38:49Speaker 01

  So, politics is one of those topics that just, it literally, literally lights up different part of our brain. It's, again, I think we come back to primitive mind, higher mind here. It's like, it, it gets our higher, this is one of the things our primitive mind comes programmed to care a ton about, and so it's gonna be very hard for us to stay rational and calm and, and looking for truth because we have all this gravity toward it.

• 1:39:13Lex Fridman?

  Well, it's weird because politics, like what is politics? Like you talk about, it's a bunch of different issues and each individual issue, if we really talk about.

• 1:39:21Speaker 01

  Yeah, tax policy, like why are we being emotional about this?

• 1:39:24Lex Fridman?

  I don't think we're actually that, I mean, yeah, we're emotional about something else.

• 1:39:29Speaker 01

  Yeah, I think what we're emotional about is this, my side, the side I've identified with is in power and making the decisions, and your side is out of power. And if your side's in power, that's really scary for me because that goes back to, you know, the idea of who is making, who's, who's pulling the strings in this tribe, right? Who's in, who's the chief? Is it your family's patriarch or is it mine? You know, we might not have food if, if, if we don't win this, you know, kind of whatever, you know, chief election. So, I, I think that it's not about the tax policy or anything like that. And then, then, and then it gets tied to this like broader, I think a lot of our tribalism has really coalesced around this. We don't have that much religious tribalism in the US, right? Now, they know the Protestants and the Catholics hate each other.

• 1:40:13Speaker 01

  We don't have that really, right? And honestly, you say, people like to, you know, say we have racial tribalism and everything, but. A white, you know, a white, even a kind of a racist white conservative guy, I think, takes the black conservative over the woke white person any day of the week right now.

• 1:40:31Lex Fridman?

  So that's the strongest source of division.

• 1:40:34Speaker 01

  It tells me that I think politics is way stronger tribalism right now. I think that, that, that, that white racist guy, you know, loves the black conservative guy compared to the white woke guy, right? There's no, so, so, to, to, I think, not, again, not that racial tribalism isn't a thing. Of course, it's always a thing, but like, political tribalism is the number one right now.

• 1:40:52Lex Fridman?

  So race is almost a topic for the political division versus the actual sort of element of the tribe.

• 1:40:58Speaker 01

  It's a, it's a political football. It's, yeah.

• 1:41:01Lex Fridman?

  So there, there's a, I mean, this, this is dark because, so this is a book about human civilization. This is a book about human nature, but it's also a book of politics, about politics.

• 1:41:15Lex Fridman?

  It is, just the way you list it out in the book, it's kind of dark how we just fall into these left and right checklists. So if you're on the left, it's maintain Roe v. Wade, universal healthcare, good, mainstream media, fine, guns kill people. US is a racist country, protect immigrants, tax cuts, bad, climate change, awful, raise minimum wage. And on the right is the flip of that, reverse Roe v. Wade, universal healthcare, bad, mainstream media, bad. People kill people, not guns kill people. US was a racist country, protect borders, tax cuts, good, climate change, overblown, don't raise minimum wage. I mean, it has, you almost don't have to think about any of this.

• 1:41:59Speaker 01

  Well.

• 1:41:59Lex Fridman?

  It's like, literally.

• 1:42:00Speaker 01

  So when you say it's a book about politics, it's interesting because it, it's a book about the vertical axis.

• 1:42:05Lex Fridman?

  Right.

• 1:42:06Speaker 01

  It's specifically not a book about the horizontal axis in that I'm not talking, I don't actually talk about any of these issues. I, I, I don't put out an opinion on them. Those are all horizontal, right? But when you, so my, and rather than argue, you know, having, you know, another book about those issues, about right versus left, I wanted to do a book about this other axis. And so on this axis. The reason I have this checklist is that this is a low, part of the low rung politics world, right? Low rung politics is a checklist. And that checklist evolves, right? Like Russia suddenly is like popular with the right as opposed to, you know, it used to be, you know, in the 60s, the left was the one defending Stalin. Like, so they'll switch. It doesn't even matter. The substance doesn't matter. It's that this is the approved checklist

• 1:42:50Speaker 01

  of the capital P party, and this is what everyone believes. That's a low rung thing. The high rungs, this is not what it's like. High rung politics, you tell me your one view on this, I have no idea what you think about anything else, right? And you're gonna say, I don't know about a lot of stuff, because inherently, you're not gonna have that strong an opinion, because you don't have that much info. These are complex things. So there's a lot of I don't know, and people are all over the place. It's that when it, you know, you're in, you know, you're talking to someone who has been subsumed with low rung politics, when if they tell you their opinion on any one of these issues, you could just, you know, you could just rattle off their opinion on every single other one. And if, and if in three years, it becomes fashionable to, to have this new view, they're gonna have

• 1:43:32Speaker 01

  it. That's, you're not thinking. That's echo, that's echo chamber culture.

• 1:43:36Lex Fridman?

  And I've been using kind of a shorthand of centrist to describe this kind of a high rung thinking. But people tend to, I mean, it seems to be difficult to be a centrist, or whatever, a high rung thinker. It's like, people want to label you as a person who's too cowardly to take stance.

• 1:43:55Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 1:43:56Lex Fridman?

  Somehow, as opposed to asking, saying, I don't know, is a first statement.

• 1:44:00Speaker 01

  Well, the problem with centrist is, that would mean that in each of these, tax cuts bad, tax cuts good. It means that you are saying, I am in, I think we should have some tax cuts, but not that many. You might not think that. You might actually come, do some research and say, actually, I think tax cuts are really important. That doesn't mean, oh, I'm not a centrist anymore. I guess I'm a far, you know, no, no, no. That's why we need the second axis. So what you're trying to be, when you say centrist, is high rung.

• 1:44:24Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:44:24Speaker 01

  Which means you might be all over the place horizontally. You might agree with the far left on this thing, the far right on this thing. You might agree with the centrists on this thing. But, but calling yourself a centrist actually like, is putting yourself in a prison on the horizontal axis. And, and saying that, you know, I, whatever, on the, on the different topics, I'm right in between the two policy-wise. That's not where you are. So yeah, that's what we, we're badly missing this other axis.

• 1:44:48Lex Fridman?

  Yeah. I mean, I still do think it's a Like for me, I am a centrist when you project it down to the horizontal. But the point is, you're missing so much data by not considering the vertical.

• 1:45:02Speaker 01

  Right.

• 1:45:02Lex Fridman?

  Because like on average, maybe it falls somewhere in the middle. But in reality, there's just a lot of nuance issue to issue that involves just thinking and uncertainty and changing in the, given the context of the current geopolitics and economics and just always considering, always questioning, always evolving your views, all of that.

• 1:45:21Speaker 01

  Not just, not just about like, oh, I think we should be in the center on this. But another way to be in the center is if there's some phenomenon happening, um, you know, there's always a terrorist attack, you know, and one side wants to say this has nothing to do with Islam. And the other one, the other side wants to say this is radical Islam.

• 1:45:39Speaker 01

  Right? What's in between those is saying this is complicated and nuanced and we have to learn more. And it probably has something to do with Islam and something to do with um, the economic circumstances and something to do with, you know, geopolitics. So in, in a case like that, you actually do get really unnuanced when you go to the extremes. And all of that nuance, which is where all the truth usually is, is going to be in the middle. So, yeah.

• 1:46:00Lex Fridman?

  But there is a truth to the fact that if you take that nuance on those issues, like war in Ukraine, COVID, you're going to be attacked by both sides.

• 1:46:09Speaker 01

  Yes. People who have, who are really strongly on one side or the other hate centrist people. I've gotten this myself and you know, the, this, the slur that I've had thrown at me is I'm an enlightened centrist in a very mocking way. So what are they actually saying? What does enlightened centrist mean? It means someone who is, you know, Steven Pinker or Jonathan Haidt gets accused of is, you know, that they're highfalutin, you know, intellectual world and they don't actually have any, they don't actually take a side, they don't actually get their hands dirty and they can be superior to both sides without actually taking a stand, right? So I, I see the argument and I disagree with it because. I firmly believe that the hardcore tribes, they think they're taking a stand and they're out in the streets and they're pushing for something.

• 1:46:53Speaker 01

  I think what they're doing is they're just driving the whole country downwards. And I think they're hurting all the causes they care about. And so it's not that, it's not that, you know, it's not that we need everyone to be sitting there, you know, refusing to take a side. It's that you can be far left and far right, but be upper left and upper right.

• 1:47:08Lex Fridman?

  If we talk about the, you use the word liberal a lot in the book to mean something that we don't in modern political discourse mean. So it's this higher philosophical view. And then you use the words progressive to mean the left and conservative to mean the right. Can you describe the concept of liberal games and power games?

• 1:47:29Speaker 01

  So the power games is, is what I call the like, basically just the laws of nature. As the, when laws of nature are the laws of the land, that's the power game. So animals, watch any David Attenborough special. And when the little lizard is running away from the, you know, the bigger animal or whatever. And I use an example of a bunny and a bear. I don't even know if bears eat bunnies. They probably don't, but pretend bears eat bunnies, right? So it's like in the power games, the bear is chasing the bunny. There's no fairness. There's no, okay, well, what's right? What, you know, what, what, what, what's legal? No, no, no. If the bear is fast enough, it can eat the bunny. If the bunny is, can get away, it can stay living. And so that's it. That's the only rule.

• 1:48:12Speaker 01

  Now, humans have spent a lot of time in essentially that environment. So when you have a totalitarian dictatorship, it's, and so what's the rule of the power games? It's everyone can do whatever they want if they have the power to do so. It's just a game of power. So if the bunny gets away, the bunny actually has more power than the bear in that situation. Right? And likewise, the totalitarian dictatorship, there's no rules. A dictator can do whatever they want. They can, they can, they can torture, they can, you know, flatten a rebellion with a lot of murder because they have the power to do so. What are you going to do? Right? And that's, that's kind of the state of nature. That's our natural way, you know, that, you know, when you look at mafia, watch a mafia movie. You know, there's, we do a lot of, we have, we have it in us. We all have, we all can snap into

• 1:48:55Speaker 01

  power games mode when it becomes all about, you know, just, just actual raw power. Now, the liberal games is, is, you know, something that civilizations for thousands of years have been working on. It's not invented by America or modern times, but America's kind of was like the latest crack at it yet, which is this idea. Instead of everyone can do what they want if they have the power to do so, it's everyone can do what they want as long as it doesn't harm anyone else. Now, that's really complicated. How do you define harm? And, and the idea is that everyone has their, a list of rights which are protected by the government. And then they have their inalienable rights and they're, they're protected, you know, those are protected again by,

• 1:49:36Speaker 01

  you know, from, from invasion by other people. And so you have this kind of fragile balance. And so the idea with the liberal games is you, that there are laws, but it's not totalitarian. They will build very clear, strict laws, kind of around the edges of what you can and can't do. And then everything else, freedom. So unlike a totalitarian dictatorship, actually it's, it's very loose. You could, there's a lot of things can happen and it's kind of up to the people, but there are still laws that protect the very basic inalienable rights and stuff like that. So it's this much looser thing. Now, the vulnerability there is that it, so, so, so the, the benefits of it are obvious, right? Freedom is great. It seems like it's the most fair. They,

• 1:50:18Speaker 01

  you know, that, that equality of opportunity seemed like the most fair thing. And, and, you know, equality before the law, you know, due process and all of this stuff. So it seems fair to the founders of the US and other enlightenment thinkers. And it also is a great way to manifest productivity, right? You know, you have, you have Adam Smith saying, it's not from the benevolence of the butcher or the baker that we get our dinner, but from their, from their own self-interest. So you have, you can harness kind of selfishness for, for progress. But it has a vulnerability, which is that because the laws, it's like the totalitarian laws, they don't have an excess of laws for no reason. They want to control everything. And the US, you know, in the US, we say we're, they're not going to do that. And so- The second, it's almost two puzzle pieces.

• 1:51:03Speaker 01

  You have the laws and then you've got a liberal culture. Liberal laws have to be married to liberal culture, kind of a defense of liberal spirit in order to truly have the liberal games going on. And so that's vulnerable because free speech, you can have the First Amendment, that's the laws part. But if you're in a culture where anyone who speaks out against orthodoxy is going to be shunned from the community, well, you're lacking the second piece of the puzzle there. You're lacking liberal culture. And so therefore, you might as well be in it. You might as well not even have the First Amendment. And there's a lot of examples like that where the culture has to do its part for the true liberal games to be enjoyed.

• 1:51:45Speaker 01

  So it's just much more complicated, much more nuanced than the power games. It's kind of, it's kind of a set of basic laws that then are coupled with a basic spirit to create this very awesome human environment that's also very vulnerable.

• 1:52:03Lex Fridman?

  So what do you mean the culture has to play along? So for something like a freedom of speech to work, there has to be a basic decency. That if all people are perfectly good, then perfect freedom without any restrictions is great. It's where the human nature starts getting a little iffy. We start being cruel to each other. We start being greedy and desiring of harm. And also the narcissists and sociopaths and psychopaths in society. All of that, that's when you start to have to inject some limitations on that freedom.

• 1:52:36Speaker 01

  Yeah, I mean, if, so what the government basically says is we're going to let everyone be mostly free. But no one, no one is going to be free to physically harm other people or to steal their property, right? And so we're all agreeing to sacrifice that, you know, that 20% of our freedom. And then in return, all of us in theory can be 80% free. And that's kind of the bargain. But now that's a lot of freedom to leave people with. And a lot of people choose, it's like you're so free in the US, you're actually free to be unfree if you choose. That's kind of what an echo chamber is to me. It's, you know, you can, you can choose to kind of be friends with people who...

• 1:53:23Speaker 01

  Essentially make it make it so uncomfortable to speak your mind that it's no actual effective difference for you than if you lived in a country if you can't criticize Christianity in a certain community that you have a first amendment so you're not going to get arrested by the government for criticizing Christianity. But if you have this if the social penalties are so extreme that it's just never worth it, you might as well be in a country that imprisons people for criticizing Christianity. And so that same thing goes for wokeness, right? This is what people get, you know, cancel culture and stuff.

• 1:54:06Speaker 01

  So when the reason these things are bad is because they're actually they're depriving Americans of the beauty of the freedom of the liberal games by imposing a social culture that is very power games-esque. It's basically a power games culture comes in and you might as well be in the power games now. And so liberal, if you live in a liberal democracy, it's you there will be always be challenges to a liberal culture, lowercase l, liberal, there'll always be challenges to a liberal culture from people who are much more interested in playing the power games. And there has to be kind of an immune system that stands up to that culture and says that's not how we do things here in America, actually.

• 1:54:50Speaker 01

  We don't excommunicate people for not having the right religious beliefs or not, you know, we don't disinvite a speaker from campus for having the wrong political beliefs. And if it doesn't stand up for itself, it's like the immune system of the country failing and power games rushes in.

• 1:55:07Lex Fridman?

  So before chapter four in your book, and the chapters that will surely result in you being burned at the stake, you write, quote, "We'll start our pitchfork tour in this chapter by taking a brief trip through the history of the Republican Party. Then in the following chapters, we'll take a Tim's career tanking deep dive into America's social justice movement," as you started to talk about. Okay, so let's go. What's the history of the Republican Party?

• 1:55:40Speaker 01

  I'm looking at this through my vertical ladder. I'm saying, what is this, this familiar story of the Republicans from the 60s to today? What does it look like through the vertical lens? Right? Does it look different? And, and, and is there, is there an interesting story here that's been kind of hidden? Cause we're always looking at the horizontal. Now, the horizontal story, you'll hear people talk about it and it's, they'll say something like the, the Republicans have moved farther and farther to the right. And, and to me, that, that's not really true. Like, was Trump more right wing than Reagan? I don't think so. I think he's left.

• 1:56:14Lex Fridman?

  Actual policy, yeah.

• 1:56:16Speaker 01

  Yeah. So it's, so we're using this, again, it's just like you're, you're calling yourself centrist when it's not exactly what you mean, even though it also is.

• 1:56:22Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 1:56:23Speaker 01

  So I, again, this, I was like, okay, look, this vertical lens helps with other things. Let's, let's apply it to the Republicans. And here, here's what I saw is, I looked at the 60s and I saw an interesting story, which I don't think that, you know, not everyone's familiar with like what happened in the early 60s, but the, in 1960, the Republican party was very, it was a plurality. You had progressives, like genuine Rockefeller, you know, pretty progressive people, all the way to, you know, then you had the, you know, moderates like Eisenhower and Dewey. And then you go all the way to the, you know, farther right, you had Goldwater and, you know, what you might call, I, I call them the fundamentalists.

• 1:57:06Speaker 01

  And so it's this interesting plurality, right? Something we don't have today. And what happened was the, the Goldwater contingent, which was the underdog, they were small, right? The Eisenhower was the president, or had just been the president and was, it seemed like the moderates were, you know, that was the, that's the, he said, you have to be close to the center of the chessboard. That's where, that's, that's how you maintain power. These people were very far from the center of the chessboard, but they ended up basically have like a hostile takeover. They conquered their own party and they did it by breaking all of the kind of unwritten rules and norms. So they did things like, they first started with like the college Republicans, which was like this feeder group that turned in, you know, a lot of the politicians started there.

• 1:57:50Speaker 01

  And they, they, they went to the election and they wouldn't let the, the, the current president, the incumbent speak. And they were throwing chairs and there were fistfights. And eventually people gave up and they just sat there and they sat in the chair talking for, you know, their, their candidate until everyone eventually left and then they declared victory. So. Basically, they came in, there was a certain set of rules, agreed upon rules, and they came in playing the power games, saying, "Well, actually, if we do this, you won't have the power, you know, we have the power to take it if we just break all the rules," right? And so they did, and they won. And that became this hugely influential thing, which then they conquered California through, again, these people were taken aback, these, you know, these proper Republican candidates

• 1:58:33Speaker 01

  were appalled by the kind of like, you know, the insults that were being hurled at them and the intimidation and the bullying. And eventually, they ended up in the National Convention, which was called like the Right-Wing Woodstock. It was like, you know, the Republican National Convention in 64 was just, again, there was jeering, and they wouldn't let their moderates, so their progressives even speak, and there was racism, you know, Jackie Robinson was there, and he was a proud Republican, and he said that like, he feels like he was a Jew in Hitler's Germany with the way that blacks were being treated there. And it was nasty, but what did they do? They had fiery, you know, plurality enough to win, and they won. They ended up getting crushed in the general election, and they kind of faded away. But to me, I was like, that was an interesting story. I see it as, I have this character in the book called the Golem, which is a big, kind

• 1:59:17Speaker 01

  of a big dumb, powerful monster that's the emergent property of like a political echo chambers, like this big giant. It's stupid, but it's powerful and scary. And to me, I was like, a Golem rose up, conquered the party for a second, knocked it on its ass, and then faded away. And to me, when I look to the Trump revolution, and a lot, and not just Trump, the last 20 years, I see that same lower right, that lower right monster, kind of making another charge for it, but this time succeeding and really taking over the party for a long period of time. I see the same story, which is the power games are being played in a situation when

• 1:59:59Speaker 01

  it had always been, the government relies on all these unwritten rules and norms to function. But for example, you have, in 2016, Merrick Garland gets nominated by Obama, and the unwritten norm says that...

• 2:00:14Speaker 01

  When the president nominates a justice, then you pass them through unless there's some egregious thing. That's what has happened. But they said, actually, this is the last year of his presidency, and the people should choose. I don't think we should set a new precedent where the president can't nominate people, nominate a Supreme Court justice in the last year. So they passed it through, and it ends up being Gorsuch. And so they lose that seat. Now, three years later, it's Trump's last year, and it's another election year, and Ginsburg dies. And what did they say? They say, oh, let's keep our precedent. They said, no, actually, we changed our mind. We're going to nominate Amy Barrett. So to me, that is classic power games, right? There's no actual rule. And what you're doing is they had the, they did technically have the power to block the nomination then, and then they technically had the power to put

• 2:00:57Speaker 01

  someone in there, and they're pretending there's some principle to it. But they're just exercising, they're going for the short-term edge at the expense of what is like the workings of the system in the long run. And then what do the Democrats have to do in that situation? Because both parties have been doing this, is they either can lose now all the time, or they start playing the power games, too. And now you have a prisoner's dilemma, where it's like, both are, end up doing this thing, and everyone ends up worse off. The debt ceiling, all these power plays that are being made, where these, these holding the country hostage, this is power games. And to me, that's what Goldwater was doing in the 60s, but it was a healthier time in a way, because there was this plurality within the parties, reduced some of the national tribalism, and that, there wasn't as much of an appeal to that. But today, it's just like, do whatever you have to do to beat the enemies. And so I'm

• 2:01:42Speaker 01

  seeing a rise in power games. And I talk about the Republicans, because they did a lot of these things first. They have been a little bit more egregious, but both parties have been doing it over the last 20, 30 years.

• 2:01:51Lex Fridman?

  Can you place blame, or maybe there's a different term for it, at the subsystems of this? So is it the media? Is it the politicians, like in the Senate, in Congress? Is it Trump? So the leadership? Is it?

• 2:02:09Lex Fridman?

  Or maybe it's us, human beings, maybe social media versus mainstream media. Is there a sense of where, what is the cause and what is the symptom?

• 2:02:19Speaker 01

  It's very complex. So Ezra Klein's a great book, Why We're Polarized, where he talks about a lot of this. And there's, there's, there's some of these are, you know, it's really no one's fault. First of all, it's the environment has changed in a bunch of ways you just mentioned. And what happens when you take human nature, which is a constant, and you put it into an environment? Behavior comes out. The environment's the independent variable. When that changes, the dependent variable, the behavior, changes with it. Right? And so the environment has changed in a lot of ways. So one major one is it used to, for a long time, actually, the, the, the, first it was the Republicans and then the Democrats just had a stranglehold on Senate, on, on Congress. There was no, it was not even competitive. The, the Democrats for 40 years had the majority.

• 2:03:03Speaker 01

  And so therefore it actually isn't a decent environment to compromise in. Because now we can both, you know, what you want is Congress people thinking about their home district and, and, you know, voting yes on a national policy because we're going to get a good deal on it back at home. That's actually healthy as opposed to voting in lockstep together because this is what the red party is doing. Regardless of what's good for my home district. You know, an example is Obamacare. You know, there were certain Republican districts that would have actually officially been benefited by Obamacare, but every Republican voted against it. So, and part of the reason is because there's no longer this obvious majority. Every few years it switches. It's a 50 50 thing.

• 2:03:43Speaker 01

  And that's, you know, partially because it's become so, we've been so subsumed with this one national divide of left versus right that, um, that, that, that, that, that people are not, people are whoever, you know, they're voting for the same party for president all the way down the ticket now. And so you have this just kind of 50 50 color war and that's awful for compromise. So there's like 10 of these things, you know, that have redistricting. But also it is social media. It is, you know, I call it hypercharged tribalism. We've, you know, in the 60s, you had kind of distributed tribalism. You had some people that are worked up about the USSR. Right? They're national. That's what they care about. US versus foreign. You have some people that were saying left versus right, like they had today, and then other people that were saying that they were fighting within the party.

• 2:04:26Speaker 01

  But today, you don't have that. It's you have ideological realignment. So you kind of got rid of a lot of the in-party fighting. And then there's not hasn't been that big of a foreign threat, not nothing like the USSR for a long time. So you kind of lost that. And what's left is just this left versus right thing. And so that's kind of this hypercharged whirlpool that subsumes everything. And, and so, yeah, it's, I mean, you people point to Newt Gingrich, you know, and people like there's certain characters that enacted policies that stoked this kind of thing. But I think this is a much bigger kind of environmental shift.

• 2:04:57Lex Fridman?

  Well, that's going back to our questions about the role of individuals in human history. So the interesting, one of the many interesting questions here is about Trump. Is he a symptom or a cause? Because he seems to be, from the public narrative, such a significant catalyst for some of the things we're seeing.

• 2:05:15Speaker 01

  This goes back to what we were talking about earlier, right? Like, is it the person or is the times? I think he's a perfect example of it's a both situation. I don't think, I don't think if you pluck Trump out of this situation, I don't think Trump was inevitable. But I think we were very vulnerable to a demagogue. And if you hadn't been, Trump would have had no chance. And so, and why were we vulnerable to a demagogue is because you have these, I mean, I think it's specifically on the right. If you actually look at the stats, it's pretty bad. Like, the people who, because it's not just who voted for Trump. A lot of people just vote for the red, right? What's interesting is who voted for Obama against Romney and then voted for Trump? Who, you know, these are not racists, right?

• 2:05:58Speaker 01

  These are not hardcore Republicans. They voted for Obama. And where did the switch come from? Places that had economic despair, where bridges were not working well. That's a signifier, you know, where we're paints chipping in the schools, you know, these little things like this. So I think that, you know, you had this. A lot of these kind of rural towns, you have true despair. And then you also have the number one indicator of voting for Trump was distrust in media. And the media has become much less trustworthy. And so you have all these ingredients that actually make us very vulnerable to a demagogue. And a demagogue is someone who takes advantage, right? There's someone who comes in and says, I can pull all the right strings and push all the

• 2:06:43Speaker 01

  right emotional buttons right now and get myself power by taking advantage of the circumstances. And that is what Trump totally did.

• 2:06:51Lex Fridman?

  It makes me wonder how easy it is for somebody who's a charismatic leader to capitalize on cultural resentment when there's economic hardship to channel that.

• 2:07:04Speaker 01

  So John Height wrote a great article about like, we basically, like, truth is at an all time low right now. Like, it's, the media is not penalized for lying.

• 2:07:12Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 2:07:13Speaker 01

  Right? MSNBC, Fox News, these are not penalized for being inaccurate. They're penalized if they stray from the orthodoxy.

• 2:07:21Speaker 01

  On social media, it's not the truest tweets that go viral, right? And so Trump understood that better than anyone, right? He took advantage of it. He was living in the current world when everyone else was stuck in the past. And he saw that and he just lied. Everything he said, you know, it doesn't, the truth was not relevant at all, right? It's just truly, it's not relevant to him when what he's talking about. He doesn't care and he knew that neither do a subset of the country.

• 2:07:49Lex Fridman?

  I was thinking about this, just reading articles by journalists, especially where you're not a famous journalist in yourself, but you're more like in your Times journalist. So the big famous thing is the institution you're part of. That like, you can just lie.

• 2:08:07Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 2:08:07Lex Fridman?

  Because you're not going to get punished for it. You're going to be rewarded for the popularity of an article. So if you write 10 articles. It's there's a huge incentive to just make stuff up.

• 2:08:18Speaker 01

  You gotta get clicks.

• 2:08:19Lex Fridman?

  To get clicks. That's the first and foremost. And like culturally, people will attack that article to say it's dishonest. Like one half the country will attack that article for saying it's dishonest. But they'll kind of forget the you will not have a reputational hit.

• 2:08:33Speaker 01

  Right.

• 2:08:34Lex Fridman?

  There won't be a memory like this person made up a lot of stuff in the past. No, they'll take one article at a time. And they'll attach the reputation hits will be to New York Times, the institution.

• 2:08:44Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 2:08:45Lex Fridman?

  And so for the individual journalist, there's a huge incentive to make stuff up.

• 2:08:48Speaker 01

  Totally. It's it's it's and it's scary because it's almost you can't survive if you're just an old school honest journalist who really works hard and tries to get it right and does it with nuance like what you can be is you can be a big time sub stacker or big time podcaster. A lot of people do have a reputation for accuracy and rigor. And they have huge audiences. But if you're working in a big company right now,

• 2:09:14Speaker 01

  it's I mean, especially, I mean, I like I, I, I think that many of the big media brands are very much controlled by the left and but I will say that the ones that are controlled by the right are even more egregious. Not just in terms of accuracy, but also in terms of, you know, the New York Times, for all of its criticisms, they have a handful of they every day here and there, they put out a pretty, you know, a, an article that strays from the they know Barry Weiss wrote there for a long time. And then you've got, they wrote an article criticizing free speech on campus stuff, you know, recently. And they have, you know, they have a couple very, you know, left progressive friendly conservatives, but they have conservatives that are writing the upsets.

• 2:09:57Speaker 01

  Fox News, you know, you're not seeing thoughtful or Breitbart, you're not seeing thoughtful progressives writing there, right?

• 2:10:05Lex Fridman?

  There's some degree to which the New York Times, I think, still incentivizes and values the vertical.

• 2:10:13Lex Fridman?

  The high effort. So you're allowed to have a conservative opinion if you do a really damn good job.

• 2:10:21Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 2:10:21Lex Fridman?

  Like if it's a very thorough, in-depth art kind of.

• 2:10:24Speaker 01

  And if you kind of pander to the progressive senses in all the right ways. You know, I always joke that, you know, TED, they always have a couple, you know, token conservatives, but they get on stage and they're basically like, so totally, you're all, you know, the progressivism is right about all of this, but maybe, maybe, you know, libertarianism isn't all about, you know, it's just, so there is an element, but you know what? It's something. It's better than being a total tribal. I think you can, you can see the New York Times tug of war, the internal tug of war. You can see it because then they also have these awful instances, you know, or like, you know, the firing of James Bennett, which is this whole other story, but like they have, you, yeah, you can see it going both ways, but in the 60s, what did you have?

• 2:11:06Speaker 01

  You had ABC, NBC, CBS, you know, the 70s, you know, you had these three news channels and they weren't always right and they definitely sometimes spun a narrative together, maybe about the Vietnam or whatever, but they, if one of them was just lying, they'd be embarrassed for it. They would be penalized. They'd be dinged and they'd be known as this is the trash one. And that would be terrible for their ratings because they weren't just catering to half the country. They're catering, they all were catering to the whole country. So both on the access of accuracy and on the access of neutrality, they had to, you know, try to stay somewhere in the reasonable range and that's just gone.

• 2:11:40Lex Fridman?

  One of the things I'm really curious about is I think your book is incredible. I'm very curious to see how it's written about by the press. Cause I could see click, I could myself write with the help of chat GPT, of course, click bait articles in either direction.

• 2:11:56Speaker 01

  Yeah. It's easy to imagine.

• 2:11:58Lex Fridman?

  Your whole book is beautifully written for click bait articles.

• 2:12:02Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 2:12:02Lex Fridman?

  If any journalist out there need help, I can, I can help.

• 2:12:05Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 2:12:05Lex Fridman?

  I can write the most atrocious criticisms.

• 2:12:08Speaker 01

  Yeah. I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm ready. I'm braced.

• 2:12:13Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, so, speaking of which, you write about social justice. You write about two kinds of social justice. Liberal social justice and S J F, social justice fundamentalism. What are those?

• 2:12:30Speaker 01

  Yeah, so like the term wokeness is so loaded with baggage. It's kind of like mocking and derogatory. And that's, I was trying not to do that in this book.

• 2:12:38Speaker 01

  If it's the terms loaded with baggage, you're already kind of, you're, you're, you're from, from the first minute, you're already behind.

• 2:12:45Speaker 01

  So, to me, it also, when, when people say wokeness is bad, social justice is bad, they're throwing the baby out with the bathwater. Because the, you know, the proudest tradition in the US is liberal social justice. And what I mean by that, again, liberal, meaning lowercase L. It is, it is intertwined with liberalism. So Martin Luther King, classic example, his I have a dream speech. He says stuff like, this country, you know, is, you know, has, has made a promise to all of its citizens, and it has broken that promise to its black citizens. Right? In other words, liberalism, the constitution, the core ideals, those are great.

• 2:13:30Speaker 01

  We are not living up to them. We're failing on some of them. So civil disobedience, the goal of it wasn't to, to hurt liberalism, it was to specifically break the laws that were already violating, that were, the laws that were a violation of liberalism, to expose that this is illiberal, that the constitution should not have people of different skin color sitting in different parts of the bus. And so it was, it was kind of a, it was really patriotic, you know, the civil rights movement. It was saying, this is a beautiful, you know, we have a, we have a liberalism is this beautiful thing, and we need to do better at it. So I call it liberal social justice, and it used the tools of liberalism to try to.

• 2:14:10Speaker 01

  To try to improve the flaws and that were going on. So free speech, you know, Mario Savio in the 60s was the, you know, he's a leftist. And what were the leftists doing in the 60s on Berkeley campus? You know, they were saying, we need more free speech. Because that's what social, liberal social justice was fighting for. But you can also go back to the 20s, women's suffrage. I mean, so the, you know, emancipation, the thing that America obviously has all of its, these are, these are all ugly things that it had to get out of, but it got out of them, you know, one by one, and it's still getting out of them. That's what's cool about America. And liberal social justice basically is the practice of saying, where are we not being perfect liberals? And now let's fix that.

• 2:14:52Lex Fridman?

  So that's the idea of liberalism that permeates the history in the United States. But then there's interplay, you have so many good images in this book. But one of them is highlighting the interplay of different ideas over the past, let's say, 100 years. So liberalism is on one side, there's that thread. There's Marxism on the other, and then there's postmodernism. How do those interplay together?

• 2:15:18Speaker 01

  So it's interesting because Marxism is, and all of its various descendants, obviously there's a lot of things that are rooted in Marxism that aren't, you know, the same thing as what Karl Marx preached. But what do they all have in common? They think liberalism is bad, right? They actually think that, that the opposite of what Martin Luther King and other people in the civil rights and other movements, they think the opposite. They think, he thinks liberalism is good, we need to preserve it. They said liberalism is the problem. These other problems with racism and inequality that we're seeing, those are inevitable results of liberalism.

• 2:16:01Speaker 01

  Liberalism is a rigged game, and it's just the power games in disguise. There is no liberal games. It's just the power games in disguise, and there's the upper people that oppress the lower people, and they convince the lower people, it's all about false consciousness, they convince the lower people that everything is fair. And now the lower people vote against their own interests, and they, and they work to preserve the system that's oppressing them. And what do we need to do? We need to actually, there's much more revolutionary, we need to overthrow liberalism. Right? So people think is, oh, you know, like what we call a wokeness is just, you know, a normal social justice activists activism, but it's like more extreme, right? It's this, no, no, it's the polar opposite, polar opposite. And so now that's, that's,

• 2:16:43Speaker 01

  that's the Marxist thread. Now, postmodernism is kind of, you know, this term that is super controversial and I don't think anyone calls themselves a postmodernist or take all of this with a grain of salt in terms of the term. But what's the definition of radical? The definition of radical to me is how deep you want change to happen at. So, so a liberal progressive and a conservative progressive will disagree about policies. The liberal progressive wants to, you know, change a lot of policies and change, change, change, right? And the conservative is more wants to keep things the way they are. But they're both conservative when it comes to liberalism. Beneath it, the liberal kind of foundation of the country, they both want to, they both are become conservatives about that. The

• 2:17:26Speaker 01

  Marxist is more radical because they want to go one notch deeper and actually overthrow that foundation. Now, what's below, what's below liberalism is kind of the core tenets of modernity, this idea of reason and the notion that there is an objective truth and science as the scientific method, right? These things are actually beneath, and even the Marxist, if you look at the Frankfurt School, you know, these, these, these, these post Marxist thinkers and Marx himself, they were not anti-science. They believed in that bottom, bottom foundation. They were, they were, they were, they were actually wanted to preserve modernity, but they wanted to get rid of liberalism on top of it. The postmodernist is even more radical because they want to actually go down to the bottom level and overthrow.

• 2:18:10Speaker 01

  They think science itself is a tool of oppression. They think it's a tool where oppression kind of flows through, you know, they think that the white Western world has invented these concepts like, you know, they, they claim that there's an objective truth and that there's, you know, reason and science. And they think all of that is just one meta-narrative and right. And it goes a long way to serve the interests of the powerful.

• 2:18:32Lex Fridman?

  So in the sense that it's almost caricatured, but that is to the core of their belief that math could be racist, for example.

• 2:18:39Speaker 01

  Oh, yeah, absolutely.

• 2:18:40Lex Fridman?

  Not the education of math, but literally. Math, the mathematics.

• 2:18:45Speaker 01

  The notion in math that there's a right answer and a wrong answer. That they believe is a meta-narrative that serves white supremacy. Or in the postmodernist might have said it serves just the powerful or the wealthy. But so what social justice fundamentalism is, is you take the Marxist thread that has been going on in lots of countries and has, and whoever the upper and lower is, that's what they all have in common, but the upper and lower, you know, and for Marx was the ruling class and the oppressed class, it was economic. And then, but you come here and the economic class doesn't, you know, doesn't resonate as much here as it did maybe in some of those other places. But what does resonate here in the sixties and seventies is race and gender and these

• 2:19:30Speaker 01

  kind of social justice disagreements. And so what social justice fundamentalism is, is this basically this, this tried and true framework of Marx, you know, this Marxist framework, kind of with a new skin on it, which is American social justice. And then made even more radical with the infusion of postmodernism, where, you know, not just is liberalism bad, but actually the sign, you know, that, like you said, math can be racist. So it's this kind of like philosophical Frankenstein, this like stitched together of these, and has, and so again, it's called, you know, they, they wear the same uniform as the liberal social justice. They say social justice, right, you know, racial equality, but it has nothing to do with liberal social justice.

• 2:20:13Speaker 01

  It is directly opposed to liberal social justice.

• 2:20:16Lex Fridman?

  It's fascinating, the evolution of ideas. If we ignore the harm done by it, it's fascinating how humans get together and evolve these ideas. So as you show, Marxism is the idea that society is a zero sum. I mean, I guess the zero sum is a really important thing here. Zero sum struggle between the ruling class and the working class with power being exerted through politics and economics. Then you add. Critical theory, Marxism 2.0 on top of that. And you add to politics and economics, you add culture and institutions. And then on top of that, for postmodernism, you add science, you add morality, basically anything else you can think of.

• 2:20:54Speaker 01

  To stitch together Frankenstein. And if you notice, and which is not necessarily bad, but in this case, I think it's actually violating the Marxist tradition by being anti-science. And it's violating the postmodernism, because what postmodernists were, they were radical skeptics, not just of, they were radical skeptics, not just of the way things were, but of their own beliefs. And what, and social justice fundamentalism is suddenly, is not at all self-critical. It says that we have the answers, which is the opposite of what postmodernists would ever say, that, no, you just have another meta-narrative. So, and it's also violating, of course, the tradition of like liberal social justice in a million ways, because it's anti-liberal. And so this Frankenstein comes together. Meanwhile, liberal social justice doesn't have a Frankenstein. It's very clear.

• 2:21:37Speaker 01

  It's very, it's a crisp ideology that says, we need, they're trying to make, we're trying to get to a more perfect union, they're trying to keep the promises made in the Constitution. And that's what it's trying to do. And so it's, it's much simpler in a lot of ways.

• 2:21:53Lex Fridman?

  So you write that, "My big problem with social justice fundamentalism isn't the ideology itself, it's what its scholars and activists started to do sometimes around 2013, when they began to wield a cudgel that's not supposed to have any place in a country like the US, so it's the actions, not the ideas."

• 2:22:11Speaker 01

  Well, I'd be clear, I don't like the ideology. I think it's a low-rung ideology. I think it's morally inconsistent, based on, you know, it's flip-flops on its morals depending on the group. I think it's echo-chamber-y. I think it's, I think it's, it's, it's full of inaccuracies and kind of can't stand up to debate. So I think it's a low, but, but, there's a ton of low-rung ideologies I don't like. I don't like a lot of religious doctrines, I don't like a lot of political doctrines, right? The US is a place inherently that is a mishmash of a ton of ideologies, and I'm not going to like two-thirds of them at any given time. So my problem, the reason I'm writing about this is not because I'm like, by the way, this ideology is not something I like. That's not interesting.

• 2:22:54Speaker 01

  The reason that it must be written about right now, this particular ideology, is because it's not playing nicely with others. What, but, but if you want to be a hardcore evangelical Christian, go, in the US says, "Live and let live." Not only are you allowed to have an echo chamber of some kind, you're, it's actively protected here. Live and let live, they can do what they want, you do what you want. Now, if the evangelical Christians started saying, "By the way, anyone who says anything that conflicts with evangelical Christianity is going to be severely socially punished." And they have the cultural power to do so, which they don't in this case. They, they might like to, but they don't have the power. But they're able to get anyone fired who they want. And they're able to actually change the curriculum in all these schools and class

• 2:23:39Speaker 01

  to, to, to suddenly not conflict with no more evolution in the, in the textbooks, because they don't want it. Now, I would write a book about why, about evangelical Christianity. Because that's what every liberal, regardless of what you think of the actual horizontal beliefs, doesn't matter what they believe, when, when they start violating "live and let live" and shutting down other area, other segments of society. And in kind of, it's almost like a, you know, not to, you know, it's not the best analogy, but like, it's like a, an echo chamber is like a benign tumor. And what you, what you have to watch out for is a tumor that starts to metastasize, starts to forcefully spread and damage the tissue around it. And that's what this particular ideology has been doing.

• 2:24:23Lex Fridman?

  Do you worry about it, you know, as an existential threat to, to liberalism in, in the West, in the United States? Is it a problem? Or is it the biggest problem that's threatening all of human civilization?

• 2:24:42Speaker 01

  It's, I, I would never, I would not say it's the biggest problem. It, it, it might be. I wouldn't, if someone, if it turns out in 50 years, someone says, "Actually, it was," I wouldn't be shocked. But I also, I would, I wouldn't bet on that because there's a lot of problems.

• 2:24:56Lex Fridman?

  I'm a little sorry to interrupt. It is popular to say that kind of thing, though. And it's less popular to say the same thing about AI or nuclear weapons, which worries me that I'm more worried about nuclear weapons even still than I am about woke-ism.

• 2:25:13Speaker 01

  So I've gotten, I've had probably a thousand arguments about this. That's one nice thing about spending six years procrastinating on getting a book done is you end up test battle testing your ideas a million times. So I've heard this one a lot, right? Which is, there's kind of three groups of former Obama voters. One is super woke now. Another one is super anti-woke now. And the third is what you just said, which is sure, wokeness is over the top, right? They're not, you're not woke, but I think that the anti-woke people are totally lost their mind and it's just not that big a deal, right? Now, here's why I disagree with that. Because it's not, it's not wokeness itself.

• 2:25:54Speaker 01

  It's that a radical political movement, of which there will always be a lot in the country, has managed to do something that a radical movement is not supposed to be able to do in the US, which is they've managed to

• 2:26:11Speaker 01

  hijack institutions all across the country and hijack

• 2:26:17Speaker 01

  medical journals and universities and, you know, the ACLU, you know, so you know, all the, you know, activist organizations and nonprofits and

• 2:26:26Lex Fridman?

  And certain tech companies.

• 2:26:28Speaker 01

  Yeah, and many, and many tech companies. And what, so it's not that I think this thing is so bad. It's a little like we said with Trump. It's that what I'm, what the reason Trump scares me is not because Trump's so bad. It's that because it shows, it's, it reveals that we were vulnerable to a demagogue candidate. And what wokeness reveals to me is that we are currently, and until something changes, will continue to be vulnerable to a

• 2:26:56Speaker 01

  a bully, a bully movement and a forcefully expansionist movement that wants to actually

• 2:27:04Speaker 01

  Destroy the workings, their liberal gears and tear them apart. And so here's the way I view a liberal democracy is it is it is a bunch of these institutions that were that were trial and error crafted over, you know, hundreds of years. And they all rely on trust, public trust, and there's certain kind of feeling of unity that that actually is critical to a liberal democracy's functioning. And what I see this thing is, is as a parasite on that, that whose goal is, and I'm not saying each, by the way, each individual in this is, I don't think they're bad people. I think that it's the ideology itself has the property of its goal is to tear apart the pretty delicate workings of the liberal democracy and shred the critical lines of trust.

• 2:27:49Speaker 01

  And so you talk about AI and you talk about all these other big problems, nuclear, right? The reason I stop, I like writing about that stuff a lot more than I like writing about politics. This wasn't a fun topic for me, is because I realized that like, all of those things, if they're going to have a good future with those things, and they're actually threats, like I said, we need to have our wits about us and we need the liberal, you know, gears and and levers working, we need the liberal machine working. And so if something's threatening to undermine that, it affects everything else.

• 2:28:19Lex Fridman?

  We need to have our scientific mind about us, about these foundational ideas. But I guess my sense of hope comes from observing the immune system respond to wokeism. There seems to be a pro liberalism immune system. And not only that, so like there's intellectuals, there's people that are willing to do the fight. You talk about courage, being courageous, and there is a hunger for that, such that those ideas can become viral and they take over. So I just don't see a mechanism by which wokeism. Accelerates like exponentially and takes over like it's expand. It feels like as it expands, the immune system responds.

• 2:29:04Lex Fridman?

  Uh, the, the, the immune system of the, of liberalism of, of basically a country in at least the United States that still ultimately at the core of the individual values the freedom of speech, just freedoms in general, the freedom of an individual. But that's the battle.

• 2:29:20Speaker 01

  No, I totally agree. So, so to me it is like a virus and an immune system.

• 2:29:24Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 2:29:25Speaker 01

  And I totally agree. I see the same story happening and I, I, you know, I'm sitting here rooting for the immune system.

• 2:29:31Lex Fridman?

  Are you still worried?

• 2:29:32Speaker 01

  Well, here's the thing. So a liberal democracy is always going to be vulnerable to a movement like this. Right? And there will be more because it's not a totalitarian dictatorship. Because if you can socially pressure people to not say what they're thinking, you can suddenly start to just take over. Right? You can, you can break the liberalism of the liberal democracy quite easily. And suddenly a lot of things are illiberal. On the other hand, the same vulnerability, the same system that's vulnerable to that also is hard to truly conquer. Because now the Maoists, right? Similar kind of vibe. They were saying that science is evil and is a, you know, and that, and that they're the intellectuals are, you know, and it's all, it's all this big conspiracy.

• 2:30:17Speaker 01

  But they could murder you. And they had the hard cudgel in their hand. Right? And the hard cudgel is scary and, um, and, and you can conquer a country with the hard cudgel, but you can't use that in the U.S. So what they have is a soft cudgel, which can have the same effect initially. You can scare people into shutting up. You can't maybe imprison them and murder them, but if you can socially ostracize them and get them fired, that basically is going to have the same effect. So the soft cudgel can have the same effect for a while, but the thing is. It's it's a little bit of a house of cards because it relies on fear. And as soon as that fear goes away, the whole thing falls apart.

• 2:31:02Speaker 01

  Right. The the soft cudgel requires people to be so scared of getting canceled or getting whatever. And as soon as some people start, you know, Toby Lutka of Shopify, I always like think about, you know, he just said, you know what, I'm not scared of this soft cudgel and spoke up and said, we're not political at this company and we're not a family, we're a team and we're going to do this. And you know what, like, they're thriving.

• 2:31:22Lex Fridman?

  He will be on this podcast. He seems like a fascinating human being.

• 2:31:25Speaker 01

  He's amazing.

• 2:31:26Lex Fridman?

  He spoke up, he's saying that we're not going to.

• 2:31:28Speaker 01

  He's one of the smartest and like kindest dudes, but he's also, um, he has courage at a time when it's hard. But here's the thing is that it's different than that. You need so much less courage against a soft cudgel than you do. The Iranians throwing their hijabs into the fire, those people's courage just just blows away any courage we have here. Cause they might get executed. That's the thing is that you can actually have courage right now and it's so.

• 2:31:57Speaker 01

  Don't worry about it.

• 2:32:00Lex Fridman?

  Oh, man, the irony of that. And you talk about so two things to fight this, there's two things, awareness and courage. What's the awareness piece?

• 2:32:10Speaker 01

  The awareness piece is, um, is is under first, just no understanding the stakes. Like getting our heads out of the sand and being like, technology is blowing up exponentially. We're our society's trust is devolving, like we're kind of falling apart in some important ways. We're losing our grip on some stability at the worst time. That's the first point, just the big picture. And then also awareness of, I think this vertical axis or whatever your version of it is, this concept of, how do I really form my beliefs? Where do they actually come from? Where do you know, did they, are they someone else's beliefs? Am I following a checklist?

• 2:32:48Speaker 01

  How about my values? You know, I used to identify with the blue party or the red party, but now they've changed. And I suddenly am OK with that. Is that because my values changed with it? Or am I actually anchored to the party, not to any principle? Asking yourself these questions. Asking, you know, looking for where do I feel disgusted by fellow human beings? You know, that maybe I'm being a crazy tribal person without realizing it. How about the people around me? Am I being bullied by some echo chamber without realizing it? Am I the bully somewhere? Right? So that's the first, just, I think, just to kind of do a self audit. And, and, and I think that like, just, just some awareness like that, just a self audit about these things can, can go a long way.

• 2:33:32Speaker 01

  But if you don't, if you, if you keep it to yourself, it's almost useless. Because if it doesn't, if you don't have, without, you know, awareness without courage does very little. So courage is when you take that awareness and you actually export it out into the world and it starts affecting other people. And so courage can happen on multiple levels. It can happen by, first of all, just stop saying stuff you don't believe. If you're being pressured by a kind of a ideology or a movement to say stuff that you don't actually believe, just stop, just, just, just stand your ground and don't say anything. That's, that's courage. That's one first step. Start speaking out in small groups. Start, you know, actually speaking your mind, see what happens. The sky doesn't usually fall. Actually, people usually respect you for it.

• 2:34:14Speaker 01

  Like, you know, and it's not, not every group, but like, you'd be surprised. And then eventually, you know, maybe start speaking out in bigger groups. Start going public, you know, go, go public with it. But, and you don't need everyone doing this. Look, some people will lose their jobs for it. I'm not talking to those people. Most people won't lose their jobs, but they have the same fear as if they would, right? And it's like, what, are you going to get criticized? Or are you going to get a bunch of people, you know, angry Twitter people will, will criticize you? Like, yeah, it's not pleasant, but actually, that's a little bit like our primitive mind's fear that really, back when it was programmed, that kind of ostracism or criticism will get, leave you out of the tribe and you'll die. Today, it's kind of a delusional fear. It's not actually that scary. And the people who have realized that can, can exercise incredible leadership right now.

• 2:35:00Lex Fridman?

  So you have a really interesting description of censorship, self censorship also, as you've been talking about, who's king mustache. And this gap, I think, I hope you write even more, even more than you've written in the book about these ideas, because it's so strong. This censorship gaps that are created between the dormant thought pile and the kind of thing under the speech curve.

• 2:35:27Speaker 01

  Yeah. So first of all, so I like to think of, I think it's a useful tool, is this thing called a thought pile, which is if you have a, on any given issue, you have a horizontal spectrum. And just say I could take your brain out of your head, and I put it on the thought pile, right where you happen to believe about that issue. Now, I did that for everyone in the, in the community or in a society. And you're going to end up with a big mushy pile that I think will often just form a bell curve. If it's really politicized, it might form like a camel with two humps, because it's like concentrated here. But for a typical issue, it'll just form, you know, a fear of AI, you're going to have a bell curve, right? You know, things like this. That's the thought pile. Now, the second thing is a line that I call the speech curve, which is what people are saying. So the speech curve is high when not just a lot of people are saying it, but it's being said from the

• 2:36:12Speaker 01

  biggest platforms, being said in the, you know, and then, you know, in the New York Times, and it's being said by the president on, you know, in the State of the Union. Those things are the top of the speech curve. Now, and then, you know, and then when the speech curve is lower, it means it's being said either whispered in small groups, or it's just not very many people are talking about it. Now, a healthy, when a, when a free speech democracy is healthy on a certain topic, you've got the speech curve sitting right on top of the thought pile. They, they mirror each other, which is naturally what would happen. More, more people think something, it's going to be said more often and from higher platforms. What censorship does, and that's censorship can be from the government. So I use the tale of King Mustache. And King Mustache, he's a little tiny tyrant, and he's very sensitive,

• 2:36:56Speaker 01

  and people are making fun of his mustache, and they're saying he's not a good king, and he does not like that. So what does he do? He enacts a policy, and he says, anyone who has heard criticize, anyone who's heard criticizing me, or my mustache, or my rule, will be put to death. And immediately at the town because his father was a very liberal. There was always free speech in in his kingdom. But now King Mustache has taken over and he's saying this is a new new rules now. And so a few people yell out and they say, that's not how we do things here. And that moment is what I call a moment of truth. Did the did the king's guards stand with the principles of the kingdom and say, yeah, King Mustache, that's not what we do, in which case he would kind of have to, he's nothing he can do. Or are they going to execute? So in this case, it's as if he laid down an electric fence over a part of this thought

• 2:37:41Speaker 01

  pile and said, no one's allowed to speak over here. The speech curve, maybe people will think these things, but the speech curve cannot go over here. But the electric fence wasn't actually electrified until the king's guards, in a moment of truth, get scared and say, okay, and they hang the five people who spoke out. So in that moment, that fence just became electric. And now no one criticizes King Mustache anymore. So I use this as an allegory. Now, of course, he has a hard cudgel because he can execute people. But now, when we look at the US, what you're seeing right now is a lot of pressure, which is very similar. An electric fence is being laid down, saying, no one can criticize these ideas. And if you do, you won't be executed, you'll be canceled. You'll be you'll be you'll be fired. Now, what is that fence electrified from there? No, they don't they can't actually, they're not working at the company, they can't fire

• 2:38:26Speaker 01

  you. But they can start a Twitter mob when someone violates that speech curve, when someone violates that speech rule. And then the leadership at the company has the moment of truth. And what the leaders should do is stand up for their company's values, which is almost always in favor of the employee and say, look, you know, even if they made a mistake, they make people make mistakes, we're not going to fire them. Or maybe that person actually said something that's reasonable and we should discuss it. But either way, we're not going to fire them. And if they said no, what happens is the Twitter mob actually doesn't have, they can't execute you, they they go away. And the fence has proven to have no electricity. What's been the problem with the past few years is what's happened again and again is the leader gets scared and they don't, they get scared of Twitter mob and they fire them. Boom, that fence has electricity.

• 2:39:11Speaker 01

  And now, actually, if you cross that. It's not just, you know, a threat like you will have, you'll be out of a job. Like, it's really bad. Like, you'll have a huge penalty. You might not be able to feed your kids. So that's an electric fence that goes up. Now, what happens when an electric fence goes up and it's proven to actually be electrified? The speech curve morphs into a totally different position. And now, these new people say, instead of having the kind of marketplace of ideas, you know, that turns into a kind of a natural bell curve. They say, no, no, no, these ideas are okay to say, and not just okay, you'll be socially rewarded. And these ones don't. That's the rules of their own echo chamber that they're now applying to everyone, and it's working. And so the speech curve distorts. And so you end up with now, instead of one region, which is a region of kind of active communal thinking, what people are thinking and saying, you now have three regions.

• 2:39:56Speaker 01

  You have a little active communal thinking, but mostly you now have this dormant thought pile, which is all these things, these opinions that suddenly everyone's scared to say out loud.

• 2:40:03Lex Fridman?

  Everyone's thinking, but they're scared to say it.

• 2:40:05Speaker 01

  Everyone's thinking, but no one's saying. And then you have this other region, which is this, the approved ideas of this now cultural kind of dictator. And those are being spoken from the largest platforms, and they're being repeated by the president, and they're being repeated all over the place. You know, even though people don't believe it. And that's this distortion. And what happens is the society becomes really stupid. Because active communal thinking is the region where we can actually think together. And now no one can think together, and it gets siloed into small, private conversations.

• 2:40:37Lex Fridman?

  It's really powerful what you said about institutions and so on. It's not trivial to, from a leadership position, to be like, no, we defend the employee or defend the, um, yeah, the employee, the person with us on our, like, because we don't, there's, because there's no actual ground to the, any kind of violation we're hearing about. So the mob, they resist the mob. It's ultimately to the leader, I guess, of a particular institution or a particular company, and it's difficult.

• 2:41:05Speaker 01

  Oh, yeah. No, no, it's not. I don't, if it were easy, it wouldn't, it, it, there wouldn't be all of these failings. And by the way, this is, that's the immune system failing. That's the liberal immune system of that company failing, but also then it's an example, which means that a lot of other, you know, it's failing to kind of to the country. It's not easy. Of course, it's not because, because we have primitive minds that are wired to care so much about what people think of us. And even if we're not gonna, you know, maybe, first of all, we're scared that it's gonna start a, because there's, you know, what, you know, what do mobs do? They don't just say, I'm going to criticize you. I'm going to criticize anyone who still buys your product. I'm going to criticize anyone who goes on your podcast. So it's not just you. It's now suddenly, if Lex becomes tarnished enough. Now, I go on the podcast and people are saying, oh, I'm not buying his book. You went on Lex Fridman?

• 2:41:50Speaker 01

  No, no thanks, right? And now I get, I call it a smear web. Like you've been smeared and it's so, we're in such a, you know, bad time that it smear travels to me. And now meanwhile, someone who buys my book and tries to share it, someone said, you're buying that guy's book? You know, he goes on Lex Fridman. You see how this happens, right? So that hasn't happened in this case, but that, so we are so wired. A, that is kind of bad, right? Like that is actually like bad for you, but, but we're wired to care about it so much because it meant life or death back in the day.

• 2:42:17Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, yeah. And luckily, in this case, we're both probably can smear each other in this conversation. This is wonderful.

• 2:42:25Speaker 01

  I smear you all the time.

• 2:42:26Lex Fridman?

  Given, given the nature of your book.

• 2:42:31Lex Fridman?

  What, what do you think about freedom of speech as a term and as an idea? As a way to resist the mechanism, this mechanism of dormant thought pile and artificially generated speech? This ideal of the freedom of speech and protecting speech and celebrating speech?

• 2:42:46Speaker 01

  Well, so this is, this is kind of the point I was talking about earlier about King Mustache made a rule against, he's created official.

• 2:42:57Lex Fridman?

  Guys, I just love the, one of the amazing things about your book, as you get later and later in the book, you cover more and more difficult issues as a way to illustrate the importance of the vertical perspective. But there's something about using hilarious drawings throughout that make it much more fun and it takes you away from the personal somehow. And you start thinking in the space of ideas versus like outside of the tribal type of thinking. So it's a really brilliant, I mean, I would advise for anybody to do, when they write controversial books, to have hilarious drawings.

• 2:43:31Speaker 01

  It's true. Like put a silly stick figure in your thing and it lightens, it does, it lightens the mood. It gets people's guard down a little bit, you know?

• 2:43:38Lex Fridman?

  And it works.

• 2:43:38Speaker 01

  It reminds people that like, we're all friends here, right? Like we're, you know, let's like laugh, you know, laugh at ourselves, laugh at the, laugh at the fact that we're like in a culture war a little bit. And now we can talk about it, right? As opposed to like getting religious about it. But, but basically like King Mustache had no first amendment. He said, we. The government is censoring, right? Which is very common around the world, right? Governments censor all them. The US, you know, again, there's some, you can argue there's some controversial things recently, but basically, the US, the First Amendment isn't the problem, right? No one is being arrested for saying the wrong thing. But this graph is still happening.

• 2:44:16Speaker 01

  And so, so freedom of speech, when people, what people like to say is, if someone's complaining about a cancel culture and saying, you know, this is, this is, you know, an anti-free speech, people like to point out, no, it's not. The government's not arresting you for anything. This is called, like, you know, the free market, buddy. Like, this is called, you know, you're putting your ideas out and you're getting criticized and your precious marketplace of ideas, there it is, right? And I've gotten this a lot. And this is not making a critical distinction between cancel culture and criticism culture. Criticism culture is a little bit of this kind of high wrong idea lab stuff we talked about.

• 2:44:56Speaker 01

  Criticism culture attacks the idea and encourages further discussion, right? It enlivenes discussion. It makes everyone smarter. Cancel culture attacks the person. Very different. Criticism culture says, here's why this idea is so bad. Let me tell you. Cancel culture says, here's why this person is bad and no one should talk to them and they should be fired. And what does that do? It doesn't enliven the discussion. It makes everyone scared to talk and it's the opposite. It shuts down discussion. So you still have your First Amendment, but First Amendment plus cancel culture equals you might as well be in King Must. You might as well have government censorship, right? First Amendment plus criticism culture, great. Now you have this vibrant marketplace of ideas.

• 2:45:40Speaker 01

  So there's a very clear difference. And so when people criticize the cancel culture and then someone says, oh, see, you're so sensitive now, you're doing the cancel culture yourself. You're trying to punish this person for criticism. It's like, no, no, no, no, no. Every good liberal, and I mean that in the lowercase, which is that anyone who believes in liberal democracies, regardless of what they believe, should stand up and say no to cancel culture and say, this is not okay, regardless of what the actual topic is. And that makes them a good liberal versus if they're trying to cancel someone who's just criticizing, they're doing the opposite. Now they're shutting, so it's the opposite thing. But it's very easy to get confused. You can see. People take advantage of the, and sometimes they just don't know it themselves. The lines here can be very confusing.

• 2:46:24Speaker 01

  The wording can be very confusing and without that wording, suddenly it looks like someone who's criticizing cancel culture is canceling, but they're not.

• 2:46:33Lex Fridman?

  You apply this thinking to universities in particular. There's a great, yet another great image on the trade off between knowledge and conviction. And it's what's commonly, actually you can maybe explain to me the difference, but it's often referred to as the Dunning Kruger effect, where you, when you first learn of a thing, you have an extremely high confidence about self estimation of how well you understand that thing. You actually say that Dunning Kruger means something else.

• 2:47:05Speaker 01

  So yeah, it's, when I post this, everyone's like, Dunning Kruger. And it's, and it's what everyone thinks Dunning Kruger is. Dunning Kruger is a little different. It's, it's you have a diagonal line like this one, right? Which is the place you are, it's the, I call it like the humility tight rope, but the humility sweet spot. It's exactly the right level of humility based on what you know. If you're below it, you're insecure. You actually have too much humility. You don't have enough confidence because you know more than you're giving yourself credit for. And when you're above the line, you're in the arrogant zone, right? You need, you need a dose of humility, right? You think you know more than you do. So we all want to stay on that tight rope. And Dunning Kruger is basically a straight line that's just, has a lower slope. So you start off, you still are, you're still getting more confident as you go along, but

• 2:47:47Speaker 01

  you start off above that line and as you learn more, you end up below the line later. So, but anyway.

• 2:47:54Lex Fridman?

  So this wavy thing.

• 2:47:56Speaker 01

  This wavy thing is a different phenomenon. And it's just related, but.

• 2:48:00Lex Fridman?

  So this idea, so to people just listening, there's a child's hill, pretty damn sure you know a whole lot and feeling great about it. That's in the beginning. And then there's an insecure canyon, you crash down, acknowledging that you don't know that much. And then there's a growth mountain.

• 2:48:18Speaker 01

  Grown up mountain.

• 2:48:19Lex Fridman?

  Grown up mountain, where after you feel ashamed and embarrassed about not knowing that much, you begin to realize that knowing how little you know is the first step in becoming someone who actually knows stuff. And that's the, the grown up mountain. And you climb and climb and climb. You're saying that in universities, we're pinning people.

• 2:48:41Lex Fridman?

  At the top of the child's hill.

• 2:48:42Speaker 01

  So, so for me, this is a very, you know, I think of myself with this because I went to college like a lot of 18 year olds and I was very cocky. I just thought I knew a lot, you know, and when it came to politics, I was like bright blue, just because I grew up in a bright blue suburb and I wasn't thinking that hard about it. And I thought that, you know, and what I did when I went to college is met a lot of smart conservatives and a lot of smart progressives. But I've met a lot of people who weren't just going down a checklist and they knew stuff. And when I, and it suddenly I realized that like a lot of these views I have are not based on knowledge. They're based on other people's conviction. Everyone else thinks that's true. So now I think it's, whoa, you know, I'm,

• 2:49:23Speaker 01

  I'm actually like, I'm, I'm transferring someone else's conviction to me. And who knows why they have conviction? They might have conviction because they're transferring from someone else. And I'm a smart dude, I thought, why, why am I, why am I like giving away my own independent, you know, learning abilities here and just adopting other views? So anyway, it was this humbling experience. And it wasn't just about politics, by the way. It was that I had strong views about a lot of stuff. And I just, I got lucky, not, or not lucky, I sought out, you know, the kind of people I sought out were the type that loved to disagree and they were, man, they knew stuff. And so you're quickly in, you know, in, in, again, ideal lab culture, it was an ideal lab. And also, I also went to, I started getting in the habit, I started loving listening to people who disagreed

• 2:50:08Speaker 01

  with me because it was so exhilarating, listening to a smart person, when I thought there was no, no credence to this other argument, right? The, the, this side of this debate is obviously wrong. I wanted to see an intelligence squared on that debate in particular. I wanted to go see, I actually got into intelligence squared in college. I wanted to see a smart person who disagrees with me talk. It became so fascinating to me, right? It was the most interesting thing. That was a new thing. I didn't think I liked that. And so what did that do? That, that? Shoved me down, the humble tumble here, number three. It shoved me down where I started to, and then I, and then I went the other way where I realized that I had been, a lot of my identity had been based on this faux feeling of knowledge, this idea that I thought I knew everything. Now that I don't have that, I was like, I felt really like dumb and I felt really, almost

• 2:50:52Speaker 01

  like embarrassed of what I knew. And so that's where I call this insecure canyon. I think it's sometimes when you're so used to thinking you know everything and then you realize you don't, it's like, it's, and then you start to realize that actually really awesome thinkers, they were, they, they don't judge me for this. They totally respect if I say, I don't know anything about this, to say, oh, cool. You should read this and this and this. They don't say, you don't know anything. They don't say that, right? And so, and not that I'm, by the way, this is not to say I'm now on grown up mountain and you should all join me. I am often find myself drifting up with like a helium balloon. Oh, I think, I read about the new thing and suddenly I think I have, I think I, you know, I read three things about, you know, a new AI thing. And I'm like, I'll go do a talk on this. I'm like, no, I won't. I don't, I, I just, I'm going to just be spouting out the opinion of the person I just read. So I have to remind myself, but it's useful.

• 2:51:37Speaker 01

  Now, what the reason, my problem with colleges today is that it's, I was, I graduated in 2004. This is a recent change, is that all of those speakers I went who disagreed with me, a lot of them were conservative. So many of those speakers would not be allowed on campuses today. And so many of the discussions I had were in big groups or classrooms. And this is still, you know, this was a liberal campus. So many of those disagreements, um, uh, they're not happening today. And you, I've interviewed a ton of college students. It's chilly. It is, you know, people keep to themselves. So what's happening is not only are people losing that push off child's hill, which was so valuable to me, so valuable to me as a thinker.

• 2:52:20Speaker 01

  It kind of started my life as a better thinker. They're losing that, but actually with college, a lot of the college classes and the vibe in colleges, a lot of it is now saying that there is one right set of views and it's this kind of, you know, woke ideology. And it's right. And anyone who disagrees with it is bad and anyone, and, and, and don't speak up, you know, unless you're going to agree with it. It's teaching people that child's hills, that, you know, it's, it's nailing people's feet to child's hill. It's teaching people that these are right, this views are right. And like, you don't have any, you, you, nothing to, you should feel a complete conviction about them.

• 2:52:53Lex Fridman?

  Yeah. How do we fix it?

• 2:52:58Lex Fridman?

  Is it part of the administration? Is it part of the culture? Is it part of the, is it part like actually instilling in the individual like 18 year olds? The idea that this is the beautiful way to live is to embrace this agreement and the growth from that?

• 2:53:13Speaker 01

  It's awareness and courage. It's the same thing. So first of all, just get awareness is people need to see what's happening here. That kids are getting, losing the, they're not going to college and becoming better, tougher, more robust thinkers.

• 2:53:29Speaker 01

  They're actually going to college and becoming zealots. They're getting taught to be zealots and the, and the website still advertises, you know, wide variety of, you know, the website is a bait and switch.

• 2:53:37Lex Fridman?

  You list all the universities, yeah.

• 2:53:39Speaker 01

  It's a bait and switch. It's, it's still saying here, you're coming here for a wide intellectual. Basically they're advertising this as an ideal app and you get there and it's like, actually it's an echo chamber that you're paying money for. So if people realize that they start to get mad, hopefully. And then courage, I mean, starts, you know, yes, brave students. There's been some very brave students who have started, you know, big think clubs and stuff like that where it's like, we're going to have, you know, present both sides of a debate here and that, that takes courage. But also courage and leadership. Like the, it's, it's like, if you look at these colleges, it's specifically the leaders who show strength, who've get, who get the best results. Remember the cudgel is soft.

• 2:54:21Speaker 01

  So if a leader of one of these places says, you know, the, the, the college presidents who have shown some strength, they actually don't get as much trouble. It's the ones who pander, the ones who, um, uh, in that, you know, in that moment of truth, they, they, they shrink away. Then they get a lot more trouble. The mob smells blood.

• 2:54:43Lex Fridman?

  For the listener, uh, the, the podcast favorite Liv Burry just entered and your friend just entered the room. Do you mind if she joins us?

• 2:54:52Speaker 01

  Please.

• 2:54:52Lex Fridman?

  I, I think there's a story she has about you. So Liv, you mentioned something that there's a funny story about. We haven't talked at all about the actual process of writing the book. Is, is there, you guys made a bet of some kind?

• 2:55:07Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 2:55:09Lex Fridman?

  Is this a true story? Is this a completely false?

• 2:55:11Speaker 01

  No, no, it's, it's true. Liv is. She's mean, what you want. I did not know mean Liv. She's like, she's like a bully. She's like scary. I have that screenshot. So Liv was FaceTiming me and she was like, she was like being intimidating. I took a screenshot and I made it my phone background. So every time I opened it, I was like, ah.

• 2:55:30Speaker 02

  So to give the background of this, it's because, if you hadn't noticed, Tim started writing this book, how many years ago? Six?

• 2:55:36Speaker 01

  2016, mid 2016.

• 2:55:39Speaker 02

  Right, as sort of a response to like the Trump stuff?

• 2:55:42Speaker 01

  Not even, yeah, it was just supposed to be a mini post. I was like, oh, I'm so like, I was like, I'm looking at all these like future tech things and I feel this like uneasiness, like, ah, we're gonna like mess up all these things. Why? There's like some cloud over our society. Let me just write a mini post. And I opened it up to WordPress to write a one day little essay. And things went.

• 2:56:00Lex Fridman?

  On politics.

• 2:56:01Speaker 01

  It was gonna be on like, this feeling I had that, like, this feeling I had that we were, our tech was just growing and growing and we were becoming less wise. What's up? What's up with that? And I just wanted to write like, just like a little, like a little thousand word essay on like, something I think we should pay attention to. And that was the beginning of this six year nightmare.

• 2:56:21Lex Fridman?

  Did you anticipate the blog post would take a long while?

• 2:56:26Speaker 02

  I don't remember the process fully in terms of, I remember you saying, oh, I'm actually writing, this is, it's turning into a bigger thing. And I was like, hmm, you know, because the more we talked about it, I remember we were talking about it. I was like, oh, this goes deep. Because I didn't really understand the full scope of the situation, like nowhere near. And you sort of explained it. And I was like, oh, okay, yeah, I see that. And then the more we dug into it, the sort of the deeper and deeper and deeper it went. But no, I did not anticipate it would be six years. Let's put it that way. And.

• 2:56:51Lex Fridman?

  When was your TED Talk on procrastination?

• 2:56:53Speaker 01

  So that was, that was March of 2016. And I started this book three months later and fell into the biggest procrastination hole that I've ever fallen into.

• 2:57:03Lex Fridman?

  Oh, wow.

• 2:57:03Speaker 01

  The irony isn't lost on me. I mean, it's like, it's, I just like, I like how much cred I have as for that TED Talk. I'm like, I am legit procrastinator. That is not, I'm not just saying it, like.

• 2:57:14Speaker 02

  But it wasn't just that. Because I mean, you did, you know, you did intend it to start out as a blog post, but then you're like, actually, this needs to maybe multiple. Actually, let's make it into a full series. You know what? I'll turn it into a book. And then that's why.

• 2:57:26Speaker 01

  And what also, what Liv witnessed a few times, and my wife has witnessed like 30 of these, is like, these, these 180 epiphanies, where I'll be like,

• 2:57:37Speaker 01

  I'll like, I'll have a moment when I'm, and I don't know what, you know, sometimes it's that there's a really good idea. Sometimes it's like, I'm just dreading having to finish this the way it is. And so this epiphany is where it's like, you know what? I need to start over from the beginning and just make this like a short, like 20 little blog post list. And then I'll do that. And then it's like, no, no, no, I have like a new epiphany. And it's these, and, and yeah, it's kind of like the crazy person a little bit.

• 2:58:00Speaker 02

  But anyway, can I tell the story of the, the bed?

• 2:58:03Speaker 01

  Go for it.

• 2:58:03Speaker 02

  All right. So things came to a head when we were in, we were all on vacation in Dominican Republic, Tim and his wife, me and Igor. And we were in the ocean. And I remember you'd been in the ocean for like, an hour, just bobbing in there, becoming it. And we got talking and we were talking about the book. And, you know, you were expressing just like this, you know, the, just the horror of the situation, basically. You're like, look, I just, I'm so close, but there's still this, and then there's this. And an idea popped into my head, which is that, you know, poker players often, we, we will set ourselves like negative bets, you know,

• 2:58:43Speaker 02

  like, essentially, if we don't get a job done, then we have to do something we really don't want to do. So instead of having a carrot, like a really, really big stick. So I had the idea to ask Tim, okay, what is the worst either organization or individual that you, if you had to, you know, that you would loathe to give a large sum of money to? And he thought about it for a little while. And he gave his answer. And I was like, all right, what's your net worth? He said, his net worth? All right, 10% of your net worth to that thing. If you don't get the draft, because, oh, that's right, but just before that, I'd asked him, how long, like, if you had a gun to your head, or to your wife's head, and you had to get

• 2:59:27Speaker 02

  the book into a state where you could like, send off an edit to the, a draft to your editor, how long? And he's like, oh, I guess like, I could get it like 95% good in a month. I was like, okay, great. In one month's time, if you do not have that edit handed in.

• 2:59:41Speaker 01

  See how scared, but you see this?

• 2:59:42Speaker 02

  Hand it in.

• 2:59:43Speaker 01

  Really scary.

• 2:59:44Speaker 02

  10% of your net worth is going to this thing that you really, really think is terrible.

• 2:59:49Speaker 01

  But you're forgetting the kicker.

• 2:59:50Speaker 02

  Go on.

• 2:59:51Speaker 01

  The kicker was that, because, you know, procrastinators, they self defeat. That's what they do. And then Liv says, I'm gonna sweeten the deal. And I am going to basically match you. And I'm going to put in, I'm gonna send this like a huge amount of my own money there if you don't do it. So, and, and I can't, that's, that would be really bad.

• 3:00:15Lex Fridman?

  So not only are you screwing yourself, you're screwing a friend.

• 3:00:18Speaker 01

  And she, and she was like, and, and as your friend, because I'm your friend, I will send it. I will send the money.

• 3:00:27Speaker 01

  I mean, like, that, you know, like tyranny.

• 3:00:32Speaker 01

  And, um, I got the draft in.

• 3:00:34Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 3:00:34Speaker 01

  I got the draft in.

• 3:00:35Speaker 02

  Just, just.

• 3:00:36Speaker 01

  I know. I, well, I was.

• 3:00:37Speaker 02

  Ego could attest to this, like.

• 3:00:39Speaker 01

  Actually, it was, it was funny because it was, it was like supposed to be by the summer solstice or whatever it was. It was like a certain date. And.

• 3:00:45Speaker 02

  It was like four hours.

• 3:00:45Speaker 01

  I got it in at four, I got, no, I got it in at 4:00 AM, like, the next morning, but then, and, and, and, and they were both like, that doesn't count. I'm like, it does. It's still, for me, it's the same day still. It's okay.

• 3:00:56Speaker 02

  Can you imagine how fucked in the head you have to be?

• 3:00:58Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 3:00:58Speaker 02

  To like literally technically pass the deadline by four hours. I, for an obscene amount of money to a thing you loathe. That's how bad his sickness is.

• 3:01:07Speaker 01

  Because I knew the hard, hard deadline. I knew that there was no way she was gonna actually send that money because it was 4:00 AM. So I knew I actually had the whole night. So, yeah.

• 3:01:15Speaker 02

  Yeah, I should actually punish you and just, I should send, I should send like a nominal amount to that thing.

• 3:01:20Speaker 01

  No, thanks. No. But, yeah.

• 3:01:23Lex Fridman?

  Is there some micro, like, lessons from that, from how to avoid procrastination in writing a book that you've learned?

• 3:01:29Speaker 01

  Yes. Well, I've learned a lot of things. I mean, like, first, don't take, don't write like a dissertation about like proving some grand theory of society. Because that's really procrastinaty. Like, I, I would have been an awful PhD student for that reason. Some, and so like, I'm gonna do another book and it's gonna be like a bunch of short chapters that are one offs. Because that's like, it just doesn't feed into procrastination.

• 3:01:49Lex Fridman?

  But your book is like a giant, like, framework. There is grand theories all through your book.

• 3:01:52Speaker 01

  I know, and I learned not to do that again. I did it once. I don't want to do it again.

• 3:01:56Lex Fridman?

  Oh, with the book was the mistake. So the book is a giant mistake.

• 3:01:59Speaker 01

  Yes. Don't do another one of this. Look, look, some people should. It's just not for me. I, I.

• 3:02:03Lex Fridman?

  You just did it.

• 3:02:04Speaker 01

  I know. And it, and it almost killed me. Okay, so that's the first one. But secondly, yeah, like, basically, there's two ways to fix procrastination. One is you fix, it's like a picture. You have a boat that's leaking and it's not working very well. You can fix it in two ways. You can get your hammer and nails out and your boards and actually fix the boat. Or you can duct tape it for now to get yourself across the river, but it's not actually fixed. So ideally, down the road, I have repaired whatever kind of bizarre mental illness that I have that makes me procrastinate in a very like, I just don't self defeat in this way anymore. But in the meantime, I can duct tape the boat by bringing what I call the panic monster into the situation via things like this and this scary

• 3:02:46Speaker 01

  person and having external pressure to have external pressure of some kind is critical for me. It's, it's, yes, I don't have the muscle to do the work I need to do without external pressure.

• 3:02:57Lex Fridman?

  By the way, Liv, is there a possible future where you write a book?

• 3:03:03Speaker 01

  And meanwhile, by the way, huge procrastinator. That's the funny thing about this.

• 3:03:06Speaker 02

  No, yeah, I mean, I'm.

• 3:03:08Speaker 01

  How long did your last video take?

• 3:03:09Speaker 02

  Oh, my God.

• 3:03:10Lex Fridman?

  Is there advice that you give to live? How to get the videos done faster?

• 3:03:14Speaker 01

  Well, it would be the same exact thing. I mean, actually, I can give good procrastination advice.

• 3:03:17Lex Fridman?

  Panic monster.

• 3:03:18Speaker 01

  Yeah, well, we should do it together. It should be like we have this day, but you know, it's, it's.

• 3:03:24Speaker 02

  We should actually just do another bet. I have to have my script done by this time.

• 3:03:27Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 3:03:27Speaker 02

  So I've got to get the third part out.

• 3:03:29Speaker 01

  Because then you'll actually do it. And, and, and it's not the thing is the time in, but it's like, if you, if you could take three weeks on a video and instead you take 10 weeks, it's not like, oh, well, I also I'm having more fun in those 10. The whole 10 weeks are bad.

• 3:03:44Lex Fridman?

  Yeah, it's torture.

• 3:03:45Speaker 01

  Bad. So you're just, you're just having a bad time and you're getting less work done and less work out. And it's not like you're enjoying your personal life. It's bad for your, for your relationships. It's bad for your, your own.

• 3:03:53Lex Fridman?

  But you keep doing it anyway.

• 3:03:55Speaker 01

  Yeah, well, a lot of people, why do people have troubles keeping a diet? Right?

• 3:04:00Lex Fridman?

  Yeah.

• 3:04:00Speaker 01

  Primitive mind.

• 3:04:01Lex Fridman?

  Why'd you point at me when you said that? That was offensive.

• 3:04:05Speaker 02

  What's your procrastination weakness? Do you have one?

• 3:04:07Lex Fridman?

  Everything, everything. Everything. Everything, preparing for a conversation. I had your book, amazing book. I really enjoyed it. I started reading it. I was like, this is awesome. It's so awesome that I'm going to save it when I'm behind a computer and can take notes, like, good notes. Of course, that resulted in, like, last minute, everything, everything. Everything I'm doing in my life.

• 3:04:31Speaker 01

  Not everyone's like that. You know, people self-defeat in different ways. Some people don't have this particular problem. Adam Grant is a, he calls himself a procrastinator, where he gets an assignment, he will go home and do it until it's done and handed it. Which is also not necessarily good. You know, it's like, you're rushing it either way, but it's better. But some people have the opposite thing, where they will, the looming deadline makes them so anxious that they go and fix it, right? And the procrastinator, I think, has a similar anxiety, but they solve it in a totally different way.

• 3:05:02Lex Fridman?

  Or they don't solve it, they just live with the anxiety.

• 3:05:04Speaker 01

  Right, right. They just live with the anxiety. Now, I think there's an even bigger group of people. So there's these people, the Adam Grants, there's people like me, and then there's people who have a healthy relationship with deadlines, but they're still part of a bigger group of people that actually, they, they, they need a deadline there to do something. So they actually, they still are motivated by a deadline. And as soon as you have all the things in life that don't have a deadline, like working out, and like, working on that album you wanted to write, they don't do anything either. So there's actually, like, that's why procrastination's a much bigger problem than people realize, because it's not just the funny last-second people. It's anyone who actually can't get things done that don't have a deadline.

• 3:05:46Lex Fridman?

  You dedicate your book, quote, "to Tanis, who never planned on being married to someone who would spend six years talking about his book on politics, but here we are." What's the secret to a successful relationship with a procrastinator? That's maybe for both of you.

• 3:06:02Speaker 01

  Well, I think the first and most important thing.

• 3:06:05Lex Fridman?

  You already started with a political answer, I can tell. Okay, go ahead.

• 3:06:08Speaker 01

  No. The first and most important thing is, because people who don't procrastinate, if you don't, it's like, you will, the people, and their instinct is to judge it as like, uh...

• 3:06:19Speaker 01

  They either just think they're just being like a loser or they're taking it, they'll take it personally, you know, and instead to see this as like this is, this is a some form of addiction or some form of ailment. You know, they're not just being a dick, right? Like they have a problem and so some compassion. But then also maybe finding that line where you can, you know, maybe apply some tough love, some middle ground. On the other hand, you might say that, you know, you don't want the significant other relationship where it's like they're the one nagging you. Maybe that's you don't want them even being part of that. And I think maybe it's, you know, better to have a live do it instead.

• 3:06:55Speaker 02

  Right, having someone who can like create the infrastructure where they aren't the direct stick, you need a bit of carrot and stick, right? Maybe they can be the person who keeps reminding them of the carrot. And then they set up the friend group to be the stick. And then that keeps your relationship.

• 3:07:09Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 3:07:10Speaker 02

  In a good place.

• 3:07:10Lex Fridman?

  Stick like looming in the background. That's your friend group. Okay. At the beginning of the conversation, we talked about how all of human history can be presented as a thousand page book.

• 3:07:23Lex Fridman?

  What are you excited about for the 1,000th? What do you say that first page? So the next 250 years. What are you, what are you, what are you most excited about?

• 3:07:36Speaker 01

  I'm most excited about, um, have you read the fable of the dragon? Okay. Well, it's an allegory for death and it's, you know, Nick Bostrom. And he talks about the, he compares death to a dragon that eats 60 million people or whatever the number is every year. And you just every year we shepherd those people up and they feed them to the dragon. And that there's a Stockholm syndrome when we say, that's just a lot of man. And that's what we have to do. And anyone who says, maybe we should try to beat the dragon, they get called vain and narcissistic. But someone who tries to, someone who goes, does chemo, no one calls them vain or narcissistic. They say they're, they're, you know, good, good for you, right? You're a hero, you're, you're, you're fighting, fighting the good fight. So I think there's some disconnect here. And I think that if we can.

• 3:08:20Speaker 01

  Get out of that Stockholm syndrome and realize that death is just the machine, the human physical machine failing and that there's no law of nature that says you can't, with enough technology, repair the machine and keep it going until, I don't think anyone wants to live forever. People think they do, no one does, but until people are ready. And I think when we hit a world where we have enough tech that we can continue to keep the human machine alive until the person says, I'm done, I'm ready, I think we will look back and we will think that anything before that time, that'll be the real A D, B C. We'll look back at B C before the big advancement and it'll seem so sad and so heartbreaking,

• 3:09:03Speaker 01

  barbaric. And people will say, I can't believe that humans like us had to live with that when they lost loved ones and they died before they were ready. I think that's the ultimate achievement, but we need to stop criticizing and smearing people who you talk about it.

• 3:09:19Lex Fridman?

  So you think that's actually doable in the next 250 years?

• 3:09:22Speaker 01

  Yes. A lot happens in 250 years, especially when technology is really exponentially, yeah.

• 3:09:29Lex Fridman?

  And you think humans will be around versus AI completely takes over?

• 3:09:33Speaker 01

  I mean, look, the optimist in me, and maybe the stupid kind of 2023 person in me, says, yeah, of course, we'll make it, we'll figure it out. But you know, I mean, we are going into, I have a friend who knows as much about the future as anyone I know. I mean, he's really, he's a big investor in future tech and he's really on the pulse of things. And he just says, the future's gonna be weird. That's what he says. The future's gonna be weird. And it's gonna be weird. Don't look at the last few decades of your life and apply that forward and say, that's just what life is like. No, no, no, it's gonna be weird and different.

• 3:10:06Lex Fridman?

  Well, some of my favorite things in this world are weird. And speaking of which, it's good to have this conversation. It's good to have you as friends. This was an incredible one. Thanks for coming back. And Liv, thanks for talking with me a bunch more times. This was awesome.

• 3:10:20Speaker 01

  Thank you, Lex. Thank you.

• 3:10:22Lex Fridman?

  Thanks for listening to this conversation with Tim Urban. To support this podcast, please check out our sponsors in the description. And now, let me leave you with some words from Winston Churchill. "When there's no enemy within, the enemy's outside cannot hurt you." Thank you for listening and hope to see you next time.