Pod Insights Lenny's Podcast Driving alignment within teams, work-life balance, and the changing PM landscape | Nikita Miller About this episode Nikita Miller is a product leader, angel investor, and advisor. She has built and led product teams at companies ranging from early-stage startups to multinationals, and she is currently SVP of Product Management at The Knot Worldwide. Nikita is passionate about scaling product teams to support high-growth businesses and was a product leader at Trello and Atlassian for five years. In today’s podcast, we cover:
• Lessons from building and growing Trello
• Nikita’s roles and responsibilities framework
• How the PM landscape is changing
• Lessons about managing remote teams
• Tactics for driving urgency within teams
• Why working cross-culturally was such a formative experience
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Where to find Nikita Miller:
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/nikitadyer
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nikitadyer/
Where to find Lenny:
• Newsletter: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/lennysan
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lennyrachitsky/
In this episode, we cover:
(00:00) Nikita’s background
(03:56) How Nikita helped Trello develop enterprise features
(09:41) Trello vs. Jira
(10:28) Similarities and differences between building for users at The Knot vs. Trello
(15:02) Pro tips for Trello users
(15:41) Nikita’s roles and responsibilities framework
(21:10) Why scrum masters are disappearing and what shifts are happening on teams
(21:56) Why every team should have a data scientist embedded in it
(23:27) The proper cadence for the rules and responsibilities framework, and problems around execution
(25:27) Outcomes and output
(28:34) The importance of urgency, and how to cultivate a sense of urgency
(29:52) How to determine if your team is moving quickly enough
(31:03) Prioritization between big bets and optimizations
(31:29) Questions Nikita asks to understand her team’s speed
(33:30) Changes in the field of product management
(36:42) Advice for people who want to get into product
(38:40) Why being a PM is hard, and thoughts on work-life balance
(43:03) How to manage remote teams and how to do successful, short, in-person meetups
(47:59) The importance of having overlapping work hours and onboarding in person
(49:09) The advantages of working in different cultures
(52:58) The question Nikita finds most useful
(55:07) Lightning round
Referenced:
• Trello: https://www.atlassian.com/software/trello
• The Knot: https://www.theknot.com/
• Jira: https://www.atlassian.com/software/jira
• Roles and Responsibilities template: https://www.atlassian.com/team-playbook/plays/roles-and-responsibilities
• OKR examples: https://www.whatmatters.com/get-examples
• Set goals with OKRs: https://rework.withgoogle.com/guides/set-goals-with-okrs/steps/introduction/
• Objectives and Key Results (OKRs): https://www.atlassian.com/team-playbook/plays/okrs
• Amp It Up: Leading for Hypergrowth by Raising Expectations, Increasing Urgency, and Elevating Intensity: https://www.amazon.com/Amp-Unlocking-Hypergrowth-Expectations-Intensity/dp/1119836115
• Nikita’s LinkedIn post on working abroad: https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:7039394235304824832/
• You Will Hear Thunder: https://www.amazon.com/Will-Hear-Thunder-Anna-Akhmatova/dp/0821408062
• The Fire Next Time: https://www.amazon.com/Fire-Next-Time-James-Baldwin/dp/067974472X/
• High Output Management: https://www.amazon.com/High-Output-Management-Andrew-Grove/dp/0679762884
• Crash Landing on You on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/81159258
• Arc browser: https://arc.net/
• Josh Miller on Lenny’s Podcast: https://www.lennyspodcast.com/competing-with-giants-an-inside-look-at-how-the-browser-company-builds-product-josh-miller-ceo/
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0:00 Speaker 00 And many of the companies that I've either worked with or advised coached over the past few years, it was all about outcomes. Like everyone was outcomes, outcomes, outcomes, which is right. You want to make sure you're doing the right thing with the right goal and that's fine. And some folks, you know, myself included, at certain points like swung way too far on the outcomes train and forgot that output is an indicator of that. So if you have a team that's doing all of the ideation and figuring out, you know, how to make decisions quickly and getting the right documentation and setting up the right product briefs and design briefs and experiment briefs, all the things that we know go into to successful product development.
0:44 Speaker 00 That's great. But if you're also not shipping a lot of things to market quickly enough, then it just doesn't matter that much.
0:52 Lenny Rachitsky? Welcome to Lenny's podcast where I interview world-class product leaders and growth experts to learn from their hard-won experiences building and growing today's most successful products. Today, my guest is Nikita Miller. A huge thank you to Camille Ricketts for recommending Nikita and for connecting us. Nikita is Senior Vice President and Head of Product at The Knot Worldwide. Before that, she was VP of Product at Dooley. And before that, she was Head of Growth and Retention at Trello for over five years. In our conversation, we dig into how product managers and people getting married are similar, a bunch of advice on getting into product management, a really cool framework for how to align roles and responsibilities within your cross-functional
1:33 Lenny Rachitsky? teams, a bunch of advice for working effectively as a remote and distributed team, and the one question that Nikita asks constantly to get the most out of her teams. Nikita is amazing, and I am excited for you to learn from her. With that, I bring you Nikita Miller after a short word from our sponsors. This episode is brought to you by Wealthfront. Anyone paying attention to the stock market over the past few years knows it's been a wild ride. Many people who made risky stock bets during the bull market are now facing big losses and wondering how to make better informed investments going forward. That's why I'm excited to tell you about Wealthfront's new stock investing product, which is specifically designed to help you make better stock investments. It has all the features you'd expect, including fractional shares, zero commissions, and $1 minimum.
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3:57 Lenny Rachitsky? Nikita, welcome to the podcast.
3:59 Speaker 00 Yeah, Lenny, thank you. I'm excited to be here.
4:01 Lenny Rachitsky? I'm excited to have you. So I don't know if you know this, but I'm actually having a kid in a couple of months and I've been doing a lot of reading, as you do when you're going to be a parent. And I was reading a lot of stuff on the bump, which turns out, I realized was something that was in your umbrella of products. And then I-
4:15 Speaker 00 A part of the Not Worldwide? Yeah.
4:16 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah. And then I realized you all have that for pregnancy. You have a site to help you with proposals. You have a site for obviously wedding planning and vendors and, and just party planning in general. And so is the general strategy to have like be there for every adulting milestone in life? Is that, is that the plan?
4:34 Speaker 00 Yes, that's a nice way of putting it. We talk about it as being there for the big celebrations in life. Like we have these celebratory moments that mark adulthood. And so to be part of that journey, we primarily focus in the wedding space, but yes, across the whole journey.
4:52 Lenny Rachitsky? It feels like the one, the two pieces you're missing are divorce and funerals. Is that, is that, is that the plan? Or do you want to stick to happy things?
5:00 Speaker 00 I think we're sticking to celebrations. I think we're leaning on the world needs a lot more celebration right now. So helping folks do that.
5:07 Lenny Rachitsky? Here, here. Okay, cool. It's a really smart strategy. It makes a lot of sense. Like, once you get someone, you know, at their wedding and then they kind of expand from there.
5:15 Speaker 00 And they're friends, too.
5:17 Lenny Rachitsky? Hmm, interesting. Right. Cause they register on the knot and they're like, oh, what's going on here?
5:21 Speaker 00 That's right. You're registered. Yep.
5:24 Lenny Rachitsky? Genius. So we're going to talk about some of the things you've learned along your time there. But I wanted to start with your previous gig at Atlassian and specifically leading growth and retention at Trello. Many people listening to this podcast either use Trello and love Trello or thinking about using Trello. And so I thought it'd be interesting to hear just like who's, who do you find Trello is most ideal for? When is it good and smart to go with Trello versus like Jira or Linear or Sonar or something like that?
5:53 Speaker 00 A few things. So I think Trello initially started out as being the kind of task management or planning tool for anyone. As opposed to the others you just mentioned, which tend to be in software, right? In our industry. And that's who we're geared towards. Trello, when it first started, was very much on being simplicity of design, being easy to use, tactile, easy to onboard. You don't need customization. You can use it in single-player mode or multiplayer mode. And so that meant that at the beginning, we got a lot of people using the product that were small businesses, that were families, that were people planning their weddings potentially. And then over time, as our users became more sophisticated or had more problems to solve,
6:37 Speaker 00 that's how I think we evolved and grew with them. So some of it's around, you know, this, this concept of progressive disclosure, where you start with a small problem and as it gets more sophisticated, Trello grows with you. Whereas I think some of the other products, they start with complexity. And if you want something simpler, you kind of have to pull things away or tease things apart. And that was definitely something that helps Trello stand out. I think now, many years later, you'll find that Trello is very fully featured and fully powered. And we lean into that, or they now lean into that a lot more. But that wasn't always the case.
7:13 Lenny Rachitsky? So it sounds like Trello broadly was meant for a lot more than just software teams building product?
7:18 Speaker 00 Yes. It started off, I think, being inspired by software teams and wanting to understand how to move and manage tasks easily. That was the origin story, but then very quickly became the kind of tool that anyone could use to manage anything. And now I think we're back more, the product is way more towards the software development. And that's a lot more of the, the competitive advantage. But I think the people that are excited about Trello and the ones that made Trello really impactful weren't necessarily software.
7:50 Lenny Rachitsky? Got it. When you think back to your time helping grow and retain folks on Trello, is there like a big win or something you're really proud of that you think back to? It was like, that was a huge success in that time to help Trello grow more or be more successful?
8:06 Speaker 00 Yeah, that's a, probably not what you'd guess. So when I started Trello, I actually joined to build out Trello's enterprise business. And so a lot of our growth and retention was actually about how to get more teams. Kind of into the product and then spreading it throughout the org. So not only software teams, but sales teams or marketing teams. And so the big push there was around collaboration. How do you create a shared perspective for everyone working on a project, not just a software team? So we had a good time thinking through what's the customer experience, but obviously in the context of enterprise, which for Trello at the time was really tricky because it's such a customer first product.
8:50 Speaker 00 I think shifting our mindset to understand like enterprise and teams specifically as a cohort was very different. And I think we've done a pretty good job of that, or the team did a good job of that. And I think being a part now of the Atlassian suite kind of definitely leaned into that even more.
9:08 Lenny Rachitsky? Was there like a specific feature that unlocked a lot of opportunity? Or is it just broadly, there's a bunch of little things you had to add?
9:15 Speaker 00 I think it was broadly a bunch of little things. So all the enterprise features that you can imagine that all could have need to kind of operate at the enterprise level. Smaller features around, you know, labels, like how do you color them? How do you name them? When do they appear? When you invite people, do you invite individuals or do you invite teams? So a lot of the work was around going from like single player or two, three player mode to five, 10, 20 people.
9:41 Lenny Rachitsky? Got it. Coming back to the question of like Trello versus Jira, because I think this might be interesting to people. Just like if you're trying to decide, should we use Trello? Should we use Jira? What's like a simple way to think about which way to go as a founder, maybe, or as a product team?
9:54 Speaker 00 I think that smaller teams, especially folks that are ideating, right? When you haven't landed on what you're going to build yet, I think Trello is a great product for that. For pulling ideas, for prioritizing them, for, for tracking how we're progressing through like discovery. I think Trello is really great for that. For things that have been decided and are ready to go and are really in the breakdown, these tasks and assign it to people. Then something like Jira is probably. A better use case, but I'm sure there are people that'll disagree with that.
10:29 Lenny Rachitsky? Cool. Building for PMs is what you were doing while you were working on Trello. I imagine that's kind of a bittersweet experience. I imagine in some sense, they're like an amazing market to sell to, and the other, they're probably really annoying. But it's like a surprise, maybe, or a lesson about working on building products for product managers.
10:46 Speaker 00 I think you're right. It is a bittersweet place to be. I think I I less thought of it as building for product managers and just thought about it in the context of productivity. Overall, and productivity software in itself is really what's bittersweet because there are a lot of trade offs. And when you're dealing with a software team, for instance, how you measure productivity or define it for a PM or a designer or engineer or a data scientist is probably really different. And so the impossibility of solving for all of those use cases, I think, is always what's challenging. And we know that no one product is actually going to solve all of those use cases, no matter what the marketing taglines
11:28 Speaker 00 are out there. And so it was really challenging to figure out, well, what are the core things that a product manager might need to see? Or a designer or a developer? And how do you make sure that that core is there? So like you get the 80% and, and then you spend time on the 20% that you know that a very small segment of users are going to use, but they're probably your core. So, so maybe you spend some time there. But yeah, the answer is no one's going to be happy. And with Trello in particular, it was challenging because for a while we were in the, we built a product that was easy to use for everyone. And so then trying to really narrow in on, well, what is a software development use case? And what do we really need for that? And that might be very different from what a mom and pop,
12:10 Speaker 00 you know, shop is going to need, or someone planning their wedding is going to need.
12:15 Lenny Rachitsky? That's a good segue to something else I wanted to ask you about. You used to build for product managers and they build for people getting married. I'm curious what is similar about those two groups and what's maybe most different?
12:24 Speaker 00 Yeah, um, a lot of similar.
12:28 Speaker 00 So folks planning their weddings, I mean, think of it as an emotional, high stakes thing that you're hopefully gonna do once. And so the pressure is really there. The pressure and expectations are really high, not unlike product managers or other folks in software. And ultimately, wedding planning is this huge project, right? Where you have a bunch of stakeholders, friends, family, you need to manage multiple vendors, and the time horizon for a wedding, once you're engaged, is anywhere from like 12 to 18 months. So it is a long time project. So yeah, I think there's a lot of similarities there. Some of the things that are a little bit different in terms of how we're building
13:10 Speaker 00 the product is the amount of decisions probably that need that go into wedding planning are far more than you'd imagine. So one of the reasons being at the knot is so interesting is we go all the way from planning tools. So actively, how do you help people find inspiration and plan their wedding day to day to our marketplace, our two-sided marketplace? We have our e-commerce business that's supposed to be registry and paper, and obviously our affiliate businesses and the ads businesses. So it's a little bit different from a SaaS productivity tool, the business that we're in. But a lot of the problems that we're solving for users are actually really simpler.
13:47 Lenny Rachitsky? Hmm. Which one's more, I don't know, stress inducing?
13:51 Speaker 00 That's a great question. I think that, I mean, couples, like this is a, it's such an emotional thing for people, for individuals and their families and their friends. So I think I personally feel like I empathize with that in a way that I might, that I don't do the same for product, even though I'm a product manager, because there are many projects and there are always things that we need to manage, and that's just part of the gig. Whereas planning your wedding for couples, like this is for many of the most meaningful time of their lives. And everyone does this differently. So we have folks that are planning their multi-hundred, you know, person weddings and their 10, 15 closest friends weddings. But the emotional side of it is the same. And, and you don't want
14:34 Speaker 00 to let them down because most aren't going to do it again.
14:37 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah. Okay. That's what I would have guessed. It feels like wedding couples are gonna be more stressed.
14:42 Speaker 00 Yeah.
14:42 Lenny Rachitsky? I just had an idea. I imagine you think about this. We're doing a baby shower right now, and it feels like you're missing an opportunity to do the baby shower invite platform.
14:51 Speaker 00 Yes, we've thought about it.
14:53 Lenny Rachitsky? Okay, and also registry, registry platform.
14:56 Speaker 00 Yes.
14:57 Lenny Rachitsky? Okay.
14:57 Speaker 00 Also that.
14:58 Lenny Rachitsky? So many opportunities.
15:00 Speaker 00 All the life moments.
15:01 Lenny Rachitsky? Oh, my God. One last question about Trello. Do you have any just pro tips for someone using Trello and may not be aware of something they could do with Trello?
15:08 Speaker 00 I think the biggest that people probably know about but are often underutilized are power ups, which is basically our integrations. And power ups are folks that are usually doing things that are more complex often. But Trello, you know, when you think about it with other products like Asana, as you mentioned, linear, some of what people are worried about is that it's just not, not powerful enough. And power ups are a way to do that. And there are dozens and hundreds of integrations that you can use it for. So that's worth checking out.
15:39 Lenny Rachitsky? Awesome. Great tip.
15:40 Speaker 00 Yep.
15:41 Lenny Rachitsky? Shifting a little bit and kind of zooming out, you've worked at a lot of different companies at a lot of different levels, also a lot of different geographies. And I want to chat about that last piece. But maybe just broadly, what are a few of your biggest lessons about building teams, building successful and impactful teams?
15:58 Speaker 00 This is kind of my jam.
16:00 Lenny Rachitsky? Hmm, excellent.
16:01 Speaker 00 What it's kind of what I, I spend a lot of time thinking about. And I think every company you go into, you approach it slightly differently. For me, it usually starts with,
16:15 Speaker 00 for individuals, kind of identifying very clearly early on roles and responsibilities. Like, what are the expectations of a role? So, in software, for most of us, one of the things that I think I've seen done well or contributed to multiple companies is the triad, product, design, engineering, data. And what does it look like for these roles and data science? That's like other.
16:39 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah, that's interesting you put it in there.
16:40 Speaker 00 I'm trying to pull that in. That's my, that is my mission.
16:43 Lenny Rachitsky? I love that.
16:45 Speaker 00 Product, design, engineering, data.
16:47 Lenny Rachitsky? Not a triad anymore, though, but I love it.
16:50 Speaker 00 Yeah, quartet, something.
16:52 Lenny Rachitsky? Chair, it's just a chair.
16:53 Speaker 00 It's a chair. Great. So, so I think about that a lot, like, what are the roles? What do you expect for each of them? And how do you define the responsibilities that we have to each other? I know it sounds kind of maybe, you know, on the softer side, but I think a lot of what we can solve for in creating strong teams is exactly that. And the exercise that I often do is I generally have an idea of what I think the role and responsibilities are and the expectations across these four roles. But the exercise, especially with leaders in an org, is to have them sit down and write them for each other. So Elasian has some of this that they do in the form of playbooks, but it's basically I as a product leader, I'm going to write down what I think,
17:37 Speaker 00 the expectations and the role and responsibilities of my engineering manager, of my designer, of my data. And then we look at it together and then we arrive at essentially a contract with one another about what we think that looks like and what that responsibility is to our teams. And from there, we cascade it throughout the org. This is very time intensive, right? As you can imagine, and often leads to a lot of debate because depending on the kind of orgs or people's backgrounds, our expectations might differ. But I think that contract early on is really important.
18:08 Lenny Rachitsky? This is a super interesting, I want to go two levels deeper.
18:11 Speaker 00 Yeah.
18:11 Lenny Rachitsky? So what is it that you're like, is there a template that you have? Is there specific questions you're answering? Is it free form? How do you actually know what to write in sort of one of these?
18:21 Speaker 00 There is a template and there are templates we can probably share after this to kind of run the roles and responsibilities. And it usually comes in a couple of forms. It's what the expectations as an IC, what's the expectation kind of as a manager or with your team? And then what is it to each other? And what are the things that are shared, right? So, you know, when we're running an experiment, like a product manager is likely to write a product brief and go into the details of what that means. The data scientist is likely to help write the actual experiment brief, but we're all putting inputs into it. But then when it comes to data and analysis, my expectation is that both of you are doing that together.
19:01 Lenny Rachitsky? And is the idea the PM writes, here's what I'm planning to do? Is it the data scientist writes on behalf of the PM? Here's what I expect you to do. Who's kind of taking the charge in each of these?
19:11 Speaker 00 You write your own. So I, as a product manager, I write what I think my role is and also what I think, what my expectations of my counterparts are and they do the same. And then we review it together.
19:23 Lenny Rachitsky? And you basically do this, you encourage every team within your domain to do this amongst themselves?
19:28 Speaker 00 Yes.
19:29 Lenny Rachitsky? That is very cool. If there's an example you could share that we could put in the show notes or a template, that would be great.
19:35 Speaker 00 We'll do that.
19:36 Lenny Rachitsky? What have you found as impact that comes from doing this? Like a before and after, what kind of difference do you see having done this on a team?
19:45 Speaker 00 So I'd see recently, I'd say in the past, maybe five years, one of the things that has shifted and has caught some people by surprise, I don't know if it should or not, is around project management. Right? So I think like 10, 12 years ago, everyone expected that they would have Scrum Masters. And Scrum Masters have like largely in many companies just kind of disappeared. But then you think, well, where did that responsibility go? Because someone has to do project management, right? And this is different from program management, like internal to a team. And from my perspective, a lot of that now sits with engineering managers, which is a little bit different from how it was when I started in product, where actually a lot of that was put on PMs.
20:29 Speaker 00 And some of you might recall, caused a lot of issues for product managers, because they were the ones that were constantly like, what's happening in the sprint? What didn't make it? Why didn't it make it? Kind of doing a lot of that work. And I think PMs are still responsible to keep track of that. But engineering managers are increasingly expected to be the ones that are actively, like making sure that sprint goals, for instance, are met. And that's a shift that I've seen recently that we do have to debate often.
20:57 Lenny Rachitsky? I think one of the most interesting elements of this approach is that the product manager role is so ill-defined and so different every company. And so I imagine much of the benefit here is just like, what the hell is a PM's responsibility?
21:07 Speaker 00 100%.
21:10 Lenny Rachitsky? Is there anything that you find is surprising about like what teams end up taking off the PM's plate or putting on the plate that maybe other companies don't?
21:18 Speaker 00 I think a lot of people end up putting a lot on the PM's plate because of that misunderstanding. And so you end up looking at something as a group and saying, well, no one human can do all of those things all the time. So let's, let's talk about what a shared responsibility looks like. And what I think is really powerful about the triad is, is that it's a recognition of, of like, there are shared responsibilities, you know, who's responsible for making sure that everyone understands what we're doing and why. The PM leads that, but evangelizing that is something that would be expected of designers and engineering managers and data scientists as well.
21:56 Lenny Rachitsky? On the data scientist piece, you talked about how you're trying to embed that more and more into product teams. At Airbnb, where data scientists were embedded in every team. So I totally get that.
22:05 Speaker 00 It's not everywhere.
22:07 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah, exactly. What more can you share there of just why you found that to be important and how you're approaching that?
22:12 Speaker 00 From my experience as a product manager, it was always a blocker, right? Getting your hands on the data, maybe having someone to troubleshoot with if as a PM you couldn't kind of understand or figure it out yourself. It was just always a blocker. And so then you'd also then have to go and negotiate with other teams about getting someone's resources to look at this problem. So that's one. The other is just that data scientists, as with most humans, like we get better the more focused we are and the more in-depth we are in understanding the product itself, right? So if you have someone that's dedicated to a zone or an area of the product, then, then it's much easier for them to spot patterns as opposed to attempting to understand what's happening every time a ticket comes in.
22:58 Lenny Rachitsky? And so the shift you're, you push for is instead of like a centralized data team that you're convinced to give you resources, you embed the data scientist in the team. And you, do you call them data scientists? Do you call them analysts? How do you think about that?
23:11 Speaker 00 That also varies per company.
23:15 Speaker 00 That that depends on the organization and kind of the work. Some teams require data scientists, not all, some require analysts. Right. So that just depends on what the team is working on and what's needed.
23:26 Lenny Rachitsky? Got it. Coming back to the roles and responsibilities framework, do you encourage teams to revisit that every once in a while? Or is it like this team's done this thing and we're good for a while?
23:36 Speaker 00 I encourage them to revisit it. And it's usually because something's fallen off the rails. Like, I think if I were really great at it, I'd say every three months or like every six months. Let's have a look and see how this is going. But often it happens because there's some conflict or tension or something was missed. And someone thought it was theirs or not, and we have to do a quick retro.
23:59 Lenny Rachitsky? What do you find is often that thing that is maybe missed or often causes tension?
24:04 Speaker 00 Execution. It's usually around execution and velocity.
24:09 Lenny Rachitsky? Hmm, like not moving fast enough.
24:11 Speaker 00 Not moving fast enough, yeah.
24:13 Lenny Rachitsky? What do you find often is a way to help with that as a leader of teams?
24:18 Speaker 00 Well, one, just identifying what the velocity issue is. It's, it can vary. So for PMs, it's often around the velocity of decision making, right? How long does it take us to actually, from saying we need to do a thing? To defining it potentially and then deciding, are we actually going to do it or how? And that, I think, takes a long time for most, most companies, most people. So velocity of decision making, so I think that tends to fall on the PM most often. The actual execution of it, right? The, the development tends to fall on both PM and engineering.
24:55 Speaker 00 So in engineering, I find that depending on the org, you know, some folks understand like breaking up tickets into small pieces and why that's valuable and how to do it. And that's something that I think everyone in industry probably needs a refresher on. And like why that's valuable and how it works. And some of that is also shared by the PM because like if you haven't articulated clearly or well enough what we're trying to do, then it is hard. To kind of break that that apart. So yeah, those are the two things that are on my mind a lot.
25:27 Lenny Rachitsky? Is there anything else along the lines of what you've learned about building successful teams? I really love this roles and responsibilities approach.
25:35 Speaker 00 Outcomes and output also comes up a lot. And and I think that in many of the companies that I've either worked with or advised, coached over the past few years, it was all about outcomes, like everyone was outcomes, outcomes, outcomes, which is right. You want to make sure you're doing the right thing with the right goal and that's fine. And some folks, you know, myself included, at certain points like swung way too far on the outcomes train and forgot that output is an indicator of that. So if you have a team that's doing all of the ideation and figuring out, you know, how to make decisions quickly and getting the right documentation and setting up the right product briefs
26:20 Speaker 00 and design briefs and experiment briefs, all the things that we know go into to successful product development. That's great. But if you're also not shipping a lot of things to market quickly enough, then it just doesn't matter that much. So that conversation is one that I think we often have to revisit on teams, on all the teams I've ever been on, that yes, outcomes are important, but also the indicator is around execution and velocity. So if that's not in line, then a lot of the other things don't matter that much.
26:49 Lenny Rachitsky? And so when you say outcome, you're saying here's the goal they're achieving or the impact they're having? Or is it just the idea like we know what our outcome will be, but they're not actually shipping anything? Like what, when you say output and outcome, what what are you referring to specifically?
27:04 Speaker 00 The the outcomes are understanding what the goals are and what we might do to get there, right? So OK, ours is one, one way to talk about that. Great. But embedded in that is, and how are we going to get there? And the fact is, like, the more tries you have at it, the likelier you are. To get it right. So we're not actively monitoring like how fast does it get us, take us to ship things to market?
27:28 Lenny Rachitsky? I see. So kind of like, if I can rephrase it, it's
27:32 Speaker 00 Yes.
27:33 Lenny Rachitsky? A lot of teams like know what there's, talk about what they should be doing. They have a strategy, they have a goal. But what you're finding is that there's just not a lot of action a lot of times. And there's like a huge opportunity just to like, get a team to actually ship more often and move faster.
27:46 Speaker 00 Yeah, there's not a lot of, um, like, understanding of our role and urgency, like, right? It's urgent and, and software in particular. Probably can't forget that because someone else is likely doing something similar or better and faster.
28:02 Lenny Rachitsky? Makes me think of, uh, thank Frank Slutman is his name, uh, the Snowflake CEO here with this book called Amp It Up. He talks about how to build thriving software companies and business in general. One of his three most important recommendations is always have urgency.
28:18 Speaker 00 Hmm.
28:18 Lenny Rachitsky? To never let off the gas of urgency that things always need to feel urgent.
28:22 Speaker 00 I'll, I'll check that out. Um, that I think, uh, product managers, like I consider product to be the ones that really need to drive urgency.
28:33 Lenny Rachitsky? Say more about that. What have you found helps in creating that sense of urgency and continuing to increase output?
28:39 Speaker 00 Mostly reminding people often.
28:41 Lenny Rachitsky? Hmm.
28:42 Speaker 00 Right? And I don't think that this, the question of like, well, show me a list of everything you shipped. That's never going to work. Well, that doesn't make people feel good about the work that they're doing, but, but you know, let's talk about our experimentation backlog. Like, what do we have in there? How quickly are we getting those things out? Those are the kind of conversations that I think help. Um, I think that having a good pulse on competition helps. It's just a friendly reminder.
29:13 Lenny Rachitsky? Hmm.
29:13 Speaker 00 You know, that there are others out there doing this and thinking about things very similarly possibly to what we're, how we're thinking about it. So how do we differentiate ourselves? And, and a lot of that is about like, how quickly are we getting many ideas to market? Small tangent, the, um, the competition side is interesting to me because I've been, I've worked at a few companies where I've worked with founders who are like, we don't have competition, right? We're the only ones doing this. And, and then fast forward a few years and you're like, here are all the companies that were your competition that you didn't recognize then. That are are shipping great product now. So.
29:52 Lenny Rachitsky? This may be a tough question, but I think there's always like a sense of we can move faster. Like it's rare that like now we're moving fast as we can. Do you have any kind of heuristic or I don't know, kind of gut feeling of like knowing and sensing like where this team's doing fine versus this team isn't moving as fast as they can?
30:09 Speaker 00 How much time do we spend on what I'd consider optimizations versus like bigger bets? Right? Like, and how long does that, does it take for that to happen? Right? Because you know, you, you've talked to the folks or been in the companies where where you talk about something that by most measures is pretty simple, like, you know, someone goes heads down for a week or two and gets it done. And you talk about it and then, you know, two quarters later, someone mentions it again. And you're like, oh, okay. So what are all the things we did in between that time to now? Why that thing seemingly simple thing didn't get done? And I think that's hard to say as a product manager, because everything we do is all about prioritization. And I'm sure there are a bunch of other things that were prioritized.
30:53 Speaker 00 But they're like these little things that come up periodically or bug fixes, like something is broken. You know, how long does it take us to recognize it and actually fix it?
31:03 Lenny Rachitsky? Do you have a heuristic in speaking of big bets versus optimizations of just how much time slash resources to put into each bucket?
31:10 Speaker 00 Unfortunately, the answer is it depends. Right? If you're working on a business that is 30 years old and has many acquisitions or is very different from a startup. Right? Or a growth stage company. I think it, it just varies.
31:26 Lenny Rachitsky? Yep. That's often what I find. One last question along these lines that was on my mind as you're chatting. When you're finding that a team is not delivering as much output as you would think, what have you found works in helping them recognize that and not get defensive and not, you know, have all these excuses for that's happening? Just like help them see what you see?
31:46 Speaker 00 I'll tell you what I do. I don't, I don't know that. I think folks might get defensive sometime.
31:50 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah, I think.
31:51 Speaker 00 But I'll tell you what I try. For me, the, the biggest thing is just, you know, if, if folks are working on a sprint, it's very simply like, what did you deliver this sprint? That's it.
32:04 Lenny Rachitsky? Just asking questions.
32:05 Speaker 00 Just ask a bunch of questions. What did, what did you deliver? And the more questions, okay, fine, but what did you deliver to production? Great. And how long have you been working on that? Like, how long? What was the cycle time? So these questions that are, that are really just, I think, seeking to understand because I understand complexity, right? And so that exists everywhere, but maybe helping folks see that as they're reviewing their own work or their team's work goes a long way.
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33:30 Lenny Rachitsky? Shifting a little bit, you've been a PM for a long time since 2010, I believe.
33:34 Speaker 00 Yeah.
33:35 Lenny Rachitsky? And a lot of people kind of move out of PM. And so it's really cool to talk to someone that's been in the field for a while. What have you seen in terms of how product maybe has changed, the role of product management, the role of product leadership, and also maybe other functions like designer engineering?
33:50 Speaker 00 Yeah. I think the biggest change for product kind of macro is how mainstream.
33:57 Speaker 00 It is that I still find fascinating the like getting degrees in product management and going to business school to transition into product management and like the whole discipline. And there's a whole business, honestly, around the business of product management, which I find really fascinating and didn't exist. And I think for better or worse, it comes with a lot of good and in some ways I think might have removed some of the quirkiness and creativity that probably is required of product. Uh, but that's probably a different podcast. So that's one, just macro. In terms of the roles, I think that what we were talking before about roles and responsibilities and defining those for product managers.
34:39 Speaker 00 I think product managers are increasingly, I think, a bit more technical or expected to be. I think there was a moment where they were technical and then it was, no, no, we're all generalists. And now I think we're going back to PMs need to be more technical. I think designers, the expectation is that they'll be more business oriented, right? Design as a, as a means, honestly, to an end. I think that's trending and probably for the better. I think the best designers I've ever worked with are also like exceptionally savvy business people. And I think engineers are, are increasingly becoming what a more product focused, more user focused. So, you know, product engineers or something Trello, I think did really well.
35:25 Speaker 00 This idea that great ideas can come from anywhere in the org and any function, I think is really magical. So as you're seeing PMs becoming more technical, I think designers becoming more business oriented, engineers are becoming a lot more product user focused. To me, that's amazing because it means that we're getting closer to what I'd consider like really deep collaboration. And it's not to say that we're not experts, like there are expertise within that that we expect of folks, but that care for other disciplines, I think, is where a lot of magic. Happens.
35:57 Lenny Rachitsky? That's really interesting. When you say PMs getting more technical, what is, when you're hiring, interviewing, what do you kind of, what are you looking for? Like, do PMs need to learn to code? How technical do you find they need?
36:07 Speaker 00 I don't think so necessarily. I think a lot more PMs are, a lot more PMs are taking bootcamps or coding classes, which I think is all to the good. I don't know that it's a requirement, but there is more of that and I think is very helpful. Similarly, a lot more PMs are taking more, you know, classes or digging more into data analysis, also really valuable. So yeah, I don't think it's a requirement. I am not like a technical PM. I don't have a tech background. I think I've been doing it long enough at this point to, to, you know, do okay, but I think it's a benefit.
36:42 Lenny Rachitsky? You said that, that the PM is becoming more of just like a thing with training classes and courses like that. I did a search once on LinkedIn for how many product managers there are. Guess how many PMs there are in the world that have the title PM in their LinkedIn profile?
36:57 Speaker 00 A lot. I'm guessing a lot.
36:59 Lenny Rachitsky? Two million.
36:59 Speaker 00 That's wild.
37:01 Lenny Rachitsky? It's wild.
37:02 Speaker 00 Yeah.
37:03 Lenny Rachitsky? And there's 800,000 just in the US. And so
37:06 Speaker 00 Wow.
37:06 Lenny Rachitsky? It's like a large, a large group that I didn't expect.
37:09 Speaker 00 Yeah. Back in my ed tech days, a friend of mine, her kids were in school and she came in one day, her son was in grade school at the time, in elementary school. And he had a, like this, you know, match to careers, what you see, and they had a person at a computer, this image. And it was product manager. There was a, an option for product manager. And that's when I knew, I was like, okay, this is, this is mainstream. We're about to become consultants.
37:36 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah, I always used to joke, no one grows up and is like, I want to be a product manager when I grew up, but I think that's starting to
37:42 Speaker 00 It's starting, it's a thing. Yeah.
37:43 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah. While we're on that topic, I imagine people often ask you for advice on how to get into product management. Do you have any advice there for folks that are listening that maybe want to get into that?
37:54 Speaker 00 There are many ways now. I think there are a lot of the, the typical programs that a lot of the big tech companies have, I think is one way. I think getting into startups as a product manager is a pretty awesome way to get into product because it's just a lot of problem solving. The problem with that is you don't have anyone to teach you the right way, but the product will teach you. The right and wrong way, if you know, you're with a team that that is moving quickly. So yeah, I still think that's working on smaller products and companies is a great way to get into product management, in part because you'll get to touch all of the functions that are kind of required parts of
38:35 Speaker 00 the product discipline. And I think it's hard to get that experience otherwise.
38:40 Lenny Rachitsky? The PM role, we haven't talked about this, it's just like very hard and very stressful and mostly sucks in many ways.
38:48 Speaker 00 Yes.
38:48 Lenny Rachitsky? And we could talk about that if you want, but it was more of a segue to work-life balance, which I know you have some strong opinions of that. So I don't know, you could take it in either direction, but just like thoughts on work-life balance slash how hard the PM role is.
39:01 Speaker 00 The PM role is really hard. I feel, especially now that I'm managing a lot of teams, right? And PMs at a lot of different levels, I do find that periodically I remind them with like the core of my being that like, I know this is hard, right? Like, it is hard. There are a lot of expectations. You're expected to be competent across many areas all the time. You're expected to have an answer and you're expected to like keep your calm and like not lose your shit. And that's really hard. It just is. It's stressful, right? So I think I spend quite a bit of time with my team, my PMs, like, helping them understand that I understand that. And so when we're problem solving, let's probably not solve for everything.
39:47 Speaker 00 Let's like focus on one of many things that are expected. So yeah, it's really hard. On work-life balance, as I mentioned to you, like, think about this a lot. I am currently a mom. And as you can imagine, like, that's a lot to to manage at any given time. And so recently, when I think about work-life balance, I don't, I don't use the word balance. I use optimization. Right? It's this question of like, what are you optimizing for right now, whether it's today or this quarter, this year? With the understanding that I don't think you can have it all at the same time, all the time. And so I'm like increasingly coming to peace with that.
40:28 Speaker 00 Where that's been interesting over the course of my career, I was chatting with my husband about this yesterday. I was thinking about it was early in my career, I remember when we had big releases, like folks would just work nonstop for a couple of weeks. We would stay in the office late. We would come in early. If it was international, we just probably wouldn't sleep because we wanted to make sure we QA everything before we released it. Like, and that was an expected part of the product development lifecycle. And there was a lot of my early product years and I, I just did it and it was very exciting and I quite enjoyed it. But even then, the flip side of it for me was I also, I was a runner back then. So if I was training for a half marathon or a marathon, then like, you know, the next week I'd probably do my long run in the morning and not start work until 10 a.m.
41:14 Speaker 00 Like that was my version of balance, right? And I think we're all lucky enough, many of us, excuse me, are lucky enough, especially in tech, that a lot of companies kind of get that form of flexibility. So now fast forward 13 years, it's, it is very similar. It's like, I don't, I don't do all of the drop offs and pickups for the kids, but you know, there are some weeks where I'm like, this is the week. I'm going to do all of the drop offs and pickups, or this is the day. And that's felt much healthier for me than this expectation that I'm somehow gonna balance it all and everything is going to be equally great or cared for all the time.
41:56 Lenny Rachitsky? I think what I'm hearing is essentially, which I really like and agree with is like, sometimes you're just gonna have to go sprint and go hard and work really hard and go long hours. And then that doesn't need to last forever. And then when it's not, enjoy that extra time and kind of like rebuild and recharge and do the things you gotta do.
42:16 Speaker 00 Yeah, that's, that's about right.
42:18 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah, I find the same thing. I find that just like working hard is very correlated with success. And a lot of times it's just a lot of long hours and sometimes you can't balance it.
42:28 Speaker 00 Right.
42:28 Lenny Rachitsky? For periods of time.
42:30 Speaker 00 Right. And it can also be, you know, at different points in your life, right? So right now, at this particular moment in my life, I'm probably not gonna go hard at a super early stage startup. Right, because I believe that you probably need to be in person and working really hard together for a long periods of time. And not everyone feels this way, I know that. I've had these conversations with lots of friends and colleagues, but so personally for me, that's probably not the decision I would make at this moment in my life.
43:01 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah, I get that. Another area I wanted to touch on is remote work and distributed work. I believe most of your career, you're remote or you worked with remote teams and distributed teams. And that's such a on trend thing now where a lot of teams are working hybrid, working remotely, working in distributed teams. What have you learned about being successful working with distributed and remote teams?
43:22 Speaker 00 Yes, that's uh, my entire career has been with remote or distributed teams. That's right. When I started early my career, I I lived abroad for a while, I lived in Shanghai. I had a core team there, but also worked for the distributed team in Europe and Latin America, which meant all kinds of crazy hours and lots of sprints like we just talked about. Things that worked well, one, like documentation, it's a thing, asynchronous communication. Everyone just has to get used to it and better at it. So increasingly just being better communicators, whether it's on a video or written. I think that's just really important and everyone building up that muscle is really important.
44:03 Speaker 00 For all of the roles I've been in, this um, this notion of what does it mean to have really meaningful and valuable in-person time that can sustain you for the remote and distributed time is really important. I think a lot of what's happened now in COVID and even now, a lot of teams are have never met their coworkers, like they don't onboard in person, they don't have events or offsites as frequently. And and I think flexibility is really great, but I think that really, that makes it really hard. And to me, what I've figured out, I think, is that it especially makes it hard to solve hard problems. Like solving a hard problem remotely with folks that you haven't
44:46 Speaker 00 spent in-person time with, that you haven't broken bread with, that you haven't like disagreed with in person and built that trust is just really hard. In fact, it's much harder. So some of the things I've done even here, like the not worldwide is periodically when there's a really gnarly problem, I like wave the flag and I say, hey, everyone, why don't we try and get together for two days? And like hash some of this stuff out and then we can go back to our remote lives. And I think folks have been maybe unsurprisingly, very open to that because I think they see the like, not only the efficiency, but the camaraderie that can happen there as opposed to what was happening potentially on, on a, you know, hangouts or a Zoom call.
45:28 Lenny Rachitsky? What does that event look like? Like, where do you do it? What's roughly an agenda?
45:32 Speaker 00 One, the agenda is pretty tight before we get there.
45:36 Speaker 00 Right? Myself or someone else were responsible for making sure that that's
45:41 Speaker 00 a well articulated agenda that we all kind of agree on before we even get there. So I think that's one, I think 48 hours, two nights, right? And that's important to me because it is the, tends to still just be hours in a conference room or a meeting room during the day, but you do need to build in the, and let's go have dinner.
46:03 Speaker 00 Since we're all in person anyway, or let's have an extended lunch and maybe an extended day. I think that's just really important. And even early in my career, when I was working more internationally, the company I worked for was pretty amazing because two or three times a year, the entire company globally came together for a week or two.
46:22 Speaker 00 And it made a huge difference. And many of the folks that I worked with, they're still, you know, friends and mentors.
46:29 Lenny Rachitsky? Are you able to share what was the challenge you were trying to overcome in one of these times?
46:33 Speaker 00 Yeah, I, I can speak about it generally, which was just, we had a change in strategy. And we need to land a couple of core decisions about what we might build. And there were lots of documents and lots of conversations and the, back to the velocity of decision making, like remotely, that can be really hard because with time zones, someone sends a doc, you comment on it, you get to the other day by the end of the week. And so days and days have passed and we still haven't landed it. And people have really strong opinions, obviously about something that big. So it was like, nope. Okay. Great. We the like, and not everyone could make it. Most people could. And the folks who could not were were yes on a screen.
47:15 Lenny Rachitsky? Was there anything specific in that offsite that helped you get to a resolution?
47:21 Speaker 00 In that particular one, it was one very cross functional. And the the unlock there was giving the data person
47:32 Speaker 00 the space to educate all of us. That was it. It was like, you have the floor. Educate.
47:39 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah, I find that's often the solution is people just don't have all the same information that they're basing their decision on. And so make sure everyone starts with the same foundation. Awesome. And that comes back to your push to get data integrated into every team. Make that part of the four quad triad.
47:56 Speaker 00 That that chair is the chair.
47:58 Lenny Rachitsky? Anything else around remote work or distributed work that you found to be incredibly impactful or important?
48:04 Speaker 00 Well, the flexibility of it, I'm sure we you've talked about with others. That is really important. I do think that the Intrello and Atlassian, I think, did this really well. Is having standards around a couple of things. The biggest one, I think, was overlapping work hours. So everyone had general flexibility, but there were some set of hours where everyone needed to be online at the same time for the most part every day. And that made a big difference. Onboarding happened in person. I think that in person onboarding for new folks is really important. Especially for for everyone, for any new person to an organization.
48:44 Speaker 00 I think how we work culturally, having a contact that you can reach out to, all of that, I think, is really crucial. I'm definitely of the so much of my early learning was in person. And I have no idea how we're going to replicate that. In a non office setting, it's just really hard.
49:04 Lenny Rachitsky? How long do you try to have that person in the office for onboarding? Is it like a week? Is it a few days?
49:08 Speaker 00 A week.
49:09 Lenny Rachitsky? Awesome. Shifting a little bit, just a few more questions.
49:12 Speaker 00 Okay.
49:13 Lenny Rachitsky? You mentioned you worked in China. You also worked in the UK for a while, obviously in the US now. What have you found to be some of the biggest differences in maybe the product culture or just culture in general, working in these different areas?
49:26 Speaker 00 The confusion around what product management is, is universal. That's like not specific to to US, I think. And the fact that it's changing, that I think was the same. I don't know that I've found that many differences in terms of kind of the, the, how we approached goal setting, all very similar, the need for urgency, like all those principles, I think this are the same no matter where you are. Part of what I experienced when I started in Shanghai was the feeling that the product manager manager was expected to have all the answers. Which, as you can imagine, was really overwhelming.
50:08 Speaker 00 And so I remember, because I was young and I didn't know that much about product management, and I definitely did not have all the answers. I spent a lot of time helping the team help me pick answers. And that was a little bit of a culture shift in our team at the time. And I actually think that's kind of carried me through my entire career. Right, which is trying to figure out how to share the product management load. So like, we're like equally responsible for what we're building. So, so that was a good, good, like unintentional learning that I think has been really important for my career. I think that part of that learning that I've had, obviously here and
50:51 Speaker 00 and in London as well, was the figuring out how to make room for creativity. So in Shanghai and, and also in London at the time, this was a decade now. So many things have changed since then. There just didn't seem to be as much room for ideas to come from anywhere, which I think is also related to what I was saying before. So like making space for people across functions to share ideas and then across geographies to share ideas. Especially in companies where English might have been the primary language, but most of the employees were not native English speakers. Like, there was a lot of time, I think, that I felt that I, I wanted to spend, and I did, on just creating
51:35 Speaker 00 space for people to like comfortably share. Their ideas, honestly. And, and that for me was really formative because I think it's been, yeah, it's, it's really impacted how I've approached my entire career. And I don't know that I would have, had I not had those experiences.
51:52 Lenny Rachitsky? I was browsing through your LinkedIn post and you said something just like that on LinkedIn of just like how formative that experience was for you.
51:59 Speaker 00 Yeah.
52:00 Lenny Rachitsky? I know it's not something people can just like, I'm gonna go to China and work for a startup, but
52:04 Speaker 00 Yeah.
52:05 Lenny Rachitsky? It sounds like you recommend working at companies of different cultures because it feels like it kind of like is a lens.
52:10 Speaker 00 Yeah, I do. I also think, you know, my, I am, my family, I'm Jamaican, I'm a Jamaican immigrant. And so all of our experiences inform like how we perform our jobs and how we think about problems and, and being able to, to, to expand that is yes, I would recommend it to every and anyone that gets the opportunity. And I think it's really important as product managers, because I think it's really hard to be a product manager if you cannot empathize, right, with the people and problems that you're solving for. And being out of your comfort zone, obviously, is, is one way to learn empathy.
52:50 Lenny Rachitsky? I love that. One final question is there, before we get to our very exciting lightning round, not to, not to not count that, those questions. Are there just any like frameworks or processes or methods that you've found to be very valuable in your career as a product leader that you would want to share?
53:07 Speaker 00 The question I ask myself and I ask everyone in my life, probably either, whether it's on my team or when folks, friends talk to me, I always ask, what are you optimizing for? Like, that's the question. It's what are you optimizing for? And it's, you know, the short, medium, long term and product, but it's the what are you optimizing for today? This quarter, this year, whatever time horizon. And I think that can be just a really illuminating way of thinking about obviously, honestly, like just how are you spending your time? And I think it works for product as well. Like every time we talk about OKR or goal setting, ultimately, it is what are we optimizing for for some period of time?
53:48 Speaker 00 And I think that always for me, whether personally or in product, is very illuminating.
53:53 Lenny Rachitsky? I love that. I'm pretty sure I've asked that question a thousand times myself.
53:58 Lenny Rachitsky? One thing I find though is people get annoyed with you just like, okay, you're such a PM, just like.
54:02 Speaker 00 I know, but it worked.
54:04 Lenny Rachitsky? It does work.
54:05 Speaker 00 But it worked.
54:05 Lenny Rachitsky? What are some instances where you deploy this question? Like, is it in a meeting where someone's asking a question or just like, what are we optimizing for here?
54:11 Speaker 00 I mean, I ask this question like, all the time. I ask this question to my husband, like, what are we optimizing for?
54:16 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah, I'm sure. I'm sure he loves.
54:18 Speaker 00 He was a PM too, so he gets it.
54:20 Lenny Rachitsky? Okay, okay.
54:21 Speaker 00 He gets it. I ask this to my five-year-old, honestly. Five-year-old. It's a, we talk about it a lot, like now we're going to quarterly planning, all of us, right? And, and now we have information from Q1. So, so let's look at it and say, okay, given what we know now, what are we optimizing for? Because it might not be the same thing we did before with new information, or it may be. And that's usually just, uh, just then helping us get better at figuring out, obviously, how we're doing trade-offs, right?
54:55 Lenny Rachitsky? That's awesome.
54:56 Speaker 00 Because the first point isn't clear, then the trade-offs aren't going to be clear.
54:59 Lenny Rachitsky? Yep. The other question is, what, what problem are we trying to solve? I feel like I need to make mugs and put these, put these on some mugs for product managers. Well, with that, we've reached our very exciting lightning round. I've got six questions for you. Are you ready?
55:13 Speaker 00 Uh, yes, I don't think I prepped this, but I'm ready. Yes.
55:15 Lenny Rachitsky? Okay, well, it'll be the most fun then. What are two or three books that you recommend most to other people?
55:23 Speaker 00 These are not product books. I recommend Anak Mathava's You Will Hear Thunder, a book of poetry that is excellent. Um, I recommend almost anything by James Baldwin.
55:36 Speaker 00 The Fire Next Time, I most recently reread. And on back to software, high output management.
55:43 Lenny Rachitsky? What are some favorite movies or TV shows they've recently watched that you really enjoyed?
55:48 Speaker 00 Um, I am really into K-dramas right now. And truly, um,
55:52 Lenny Rachitsky? Is that a Korean?
55:53 Speaker 00 Korean dramas right now. Um, Crash Landing on You is, you know, it's great. It's a love story.
56:00 Lenny Rachitsky? Wow.
56:00 Speaker 00 It's wonderful.
56:01 Lenny Rachitsky? Cool. Very out of the box. I love it. What's a favorite interview question that you like to ask?
56:08 Speaker 00 For product managers, we think about product in the context of artist, scientist, general manager. Where do you spike?
56:15 Lenny Rachitsky? Artist, scientist, general manager. Interesting. And is there one you ideally look for the answer? Or it depends on the role you're hiring for?
56:24 Speaker 00 Totally depends on the composition of my team.
56:26 Lenny Rachitsky? Interesting. Cool. I like that. Different triad. What's a favorite product you've recently discovered that you love?
56:33 Speaker 00 Arc by the browser company. I think they're a product that's clearly having a lot of fun. And you can feel that in the product. They, when I first opened it, they have an unveiling experience, which isn't something you'd expect of a browser. And there was something really delightful about it.
56:50 Lenny Rachitsky? Yeah, I imagine you've heard the interview with Josh.
56:53 Speaker 00 I did.
56:54 Lenny Rachitsky? What a guy. What a cool product. I love it. We have a whole hour and a half on it. So check that out if anyone wants to learn more about Arc. What is something relatively minor you've changed in your product development process? That has had a tremendous impact in your team's ability to execute?
57:10 Speaker 00 Helping product teams, triads, product design, engineering and data, understand their shared roles and responsibilities.
57:19 Lenny Rachitsky? Awesome. Call back to our previous discussion. And final question, what's a pro tip for someone trying to use the knot? And or one of the other properties?
57:29 Speaker 00 Oh, good question. Two things, but one, the big one is probably, um, checking out the not worldwide marketplace. It is the most comprehensive two-sided marketplace to find your wedding vendors, to create your wedding team. And you'll find that there are really cool, small businesses on there.
57:47 Lenny Rachitsky? Awesome. I'm going to go check that out. Nikita, thank you so much for being here. I'm going to go ask my wife what she's optimizing for and read some stuff on the platform. Wish me luck.
57:58 Speaker 00 You said she's pregnant, right? She's optimizing for creating a human, probably.
58:02 Lenny Rachitsky? No, yeah, that seems right. Okay, I'm not gonna ask.
58:06 Lenny Rachitsky? Two final questions. Where can folks find you if they want to reach out and learn more about what you're up to? And how can listeners be useful to you?
58:12 Speaker 00 I'm on Twitter and LinkedIn. Easy enough to find me. I'm very responsive, actually. At least I try to be when folks reach out on anything product related. And ask me questions. I think that's always helpful. If you have other ways of doing things, I'd love to hear about it.
58:29 Lenny Rachitsky? You mentioned also that you're doing some angel investing. Is there anything you're looking for specifically that you want people to ping you about?
58:34 Speaker 00 I am doing some angel investing, maybe a little bit less so recently, but I'm starting to ramp that up again. So if there are any early-stage seed or pre-seed companies out there, you can ping me.
58:47 Lenny Rachitsky? Amazing. Kida, thank you again so much for being here.
58:50 Speaker 00 All right. Thanks a lot, Lenny.
58:52 Lenny Rachitsky? Bye, everybody.
58:53 Speaker 00 Bye.
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