Pod Insights Joe Marler Will See You Now GK Barry SHOCKS Joe With Her Oversharing About this episode GK Barry arrives at Dr Marler’s office with a superpower: saying exactly what’s on her mind with absolutely no filter to stop it.
Joe’s mission isn’t to silence her, but to help her master the art of timing… knowing when to say it, when to hold back, and how to avoid the kind of overshares that leave a room stunned. It’s a challenge made even harder when Grace seems determined to test the limits at every turn.
As the conversation spirals into increasingly unfiltered territory, it quickly becomes clear this might be as useful for Joe as it is for Grace - with Jake pointing out the doctor may have met his match.
Things take a turn when Joe and Grace are forced to confront some of their most shocking past admissions, going head-to-head to work out who said what - and who might be the worst oversharer of them all.
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Transcript 0:02 Speaker 00 Fall never arrives all at once. First the air, then the light. And slowly the things you love begin to find each other. A jacket meets a dress. A hoodie slips beneath a blazer. An old cap finds a new scarf. Because you don't simply step into the season. You create it, layer by layer. Until it finally feels like fall. Find fall your way at Ross.
0:30 Speaker 01 Strawberlina, she's been having an affair with the banana. I don't tell her husband why they're in the birthing suite now. Guess what she's popped out? Banana.
0:37 Speaker 02 Fuck, I think we got a work cut out today, Jake.
0:39 Speaker 01 I know about your first divorce. I know about your childhood trauma. I know about that bitch next door who's been slacking you off. I know everything, because it makes you feel comfortable. I've got a bunion. What's wrong with that? I don't know, someone would wank over it, but I just don't think it's... That's the question. I didn't say who's gonna wank over your bunion.
0:57 Speaker 02 You put scissoring back on the map. You think it was struggling, was it?
1:00 Speaker 01 I know it was, like, if you speak to lesbians, they're like, "Well, we don't really scissor anymore." And I was like, "Why?"
1:04 Speaker 02 It'd gone out of fashion?
1:05 Speaker 01 Yes, with the bush.
1:10 Speaker 02 Hi. Welcome to my office. This is Joe Marler, we'll see you now with me, Dr. Joe Marler. This is the show where I have a root around in the minds of celebrities and see if I can help them out along the way. With me is my assistant, Jake. Jake, how are you?
1:30 Speaker 03 You're not taking your shit today, are you?
1:31 Speaker 02 No, I'm not. I'm fucking here to do a job.
1:34 Speaker 03 You really are.
1:34 Speaker 02 I've had a few complaints.
1:35 Speaker 03 Who's put 50p in you?
1:37 Speaker 02 What, is that all it costs?
1:40 Speaker 03 Also, where's it going? I don't know where.
1:42 Speaker 02 Yeah, fair.
1:43 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:44 Speaker 02 I've just had some complaints from people that...
1:46 Speaker 03 From who? Who's complained about you?
1:47 Speaker 02 Just people. Lots of people have said they don't think I'm taking this role seriously enough.
1:54 Speaker 03 What would need... I don't understand what you would need to do more to take it seriously. You've got this magnifying glass on a stick, you've got a Newton's cradle.
2:01 Speaker 02 Yeah.
2:02 Speaker 03 You've got a drawer with some stuff in it. You've got everything. I have no idea what...
2:07 Speaker 02 Still got Michael Ball in it?
2:08 Speaker 03 Yeah, put him back, actually.
2:09 Speaker 02 That's your fair enough.
2:11 Speaker 03 You're trying to be taken seriously as a medical professional. I don't think you want Michael Bull bopping about.
2:16 Speaker 02 Yeah, do you know what I mean? I just... Fair enough, that's all I've got.
2:19 Speaker 03 I think, I think you have grown into this role as a pseudosökologist incredibly well.
2:24 Speaker 02 Ah, it's just...
2:25 Speaker 03 We've had many, many breakthroughs with many, many amazing patients. If anything, I think you need a holiday.
2:29 Speaker 02 Yeah, fair enough.
2:29 Speaker 03 What are you like on holiday?
2:30 Speaker 02 You do this one then.
2:31 Speaker 03 What are you... No, no, no, no, no, no. Sit your arse back down.
2:34 Speaker 02 Yeah, fair enough.
2:35 Speaker 03 What are you like on holiday?
2:37 Speaker 02 What do you mean?
2:37 Speaker 03 Do you relax? Do you go beach holiday? Do you go city break? Do you like to travel?
2:40 Speaker 02 I mix it up.
2:41 Speaker 03 You mix it up? Shook, shook, shook.
2:43 Speaker 02 I go city breaks with my wife.
2:45 Speaker 03 But with the family, it's beach holiday, is it?
2:47 Speaker 02 Uh... Yeah, but we don't really like going on... I hate going on the beach.
2:51 Speaker 03 Do you?
2:52 Speaker 02 It's all sandy and like, there's jellyfish and stuff. Oh, I can't stand the beach. And the sand gets so hot.
2:59 Speaker 03 The sand bit felt like a really relatable, generic thing for most beaches. And then jellyfish sounded like a very specific thing that you were thinking about, related to one specific memory.
3:07 Speaker 02 Really?
3:08 Speaker 03 Yeah.
3:08 Speaker 02 Okay.
3:09 Speaker 03 You're not having jellyfish every time you're going to the sea?
3:11 Speaker 02 Yes, you are. Answer me this. Where do the jellyfish live?
3:15 Speaker 03 In the sea. But not in all seas.
3:20 Speaker 02 There's not more than one sea?
3:22 Speaker 03 What the fuck?
3:23 Speaker 02 Exactly. You can name different areas of it. You can go, this is the specific, this is the Antarctic.
3:32 Speaker 03 I'll leave, I'll leave. For the audio listener, I'm leaving it. I'm gonna leave that one.
3:36 Speaker 02 It... There's no wall, there's no wall or, uh... There's no bit of land
3:43 Speaker 03 Hmm.
3:44 Speaker 02 that encases the sea.
3:47 Speaker 03 Well, that's a very philosophical question, I suppose.
3:48 Speaker 02 It's not philosophical.
3:49 Speaker 03 It is.
3:50 Speaker 02 You would have got me about the moon, didn't you?
3:51 Speaker 03 It's... No, look, don't bring that up again.
3:53 Speaker 02 No, you did. No, it's important.
3:55 Speaker 03 Yeah.
3:56 Speaker 02 You would have got me about the conspiracy I was talking about, the moon.
3:59 Speaker 03 Yeah.
3:59 Speaker 02 But you cannot deny this. There is only one sea. You can name different parts of the sea.
4:07 Speaker 03 Yes.
4:07 Speaker 02 But there is only ever one sea. Name, name, name the other seas. There's no other seas.
4:14 Speaker 03 Mediterranean Sea.
4:15 Speaker 02 That is a part of one sea.
4:17 Speaker 03 Caspian Sea.
4:18 Speaker 02 Part of one sea.
4:19 Speaker 03 The North Sea.
4:21 Speaker 02 Part of it.
4:23 Speaker 03 The one, why, why, why I think it's an interesting discussion is because you could look at Europe and say, there are no countries, it's all one landmass, but of course, we see them as different countries. In the same way, yes, there's all, all water connected, but we see them as different seas. It's just a way of classifying the world, isn't it?
4:40 Speaker 02 There's walls, mate, inland.
4:42 Speaker 03 You what?
4:43 Speaker 02 There's walls.
4:44 Speaker 03 Walls, you think, you think that every country in Europe has a wall around it?
4:48 Speaker 02 Well, what's the line, what's the line then?
4:50 Speaker 03 Just draw, that's a map, that's just drawn on by a map.
4:54 Speaker 03 There's not a real, there's not a wall, there's not a wall around Germany.
4:57 Speaker 02 Well, sometimes it's a fence.
4:59 Speaker 03 Uh, yeah, and sometimes it's, it's nothing. Maybe there is a wall between all countries. This is the madness we get into, is that, and I'm questioning myself, is there a wall between every single country? I'm sure there isn't.
5:11 Speaker 02 Who've we got on today?
5:12 Speaker 03 We've got a wonderful, wonderful guest. I'm buzzing to meet this person. She is a podcasting powerhouse, social media sensation, and someone who I think actually you have a lot in common with, more than you would realise.
5:26 Speaker 02 She's got a hunchback?
5:27 Speaker 03 Uh, no.
5:28 Speaker 02 Big old beard?
5:29 Speaker 03 No.
5:30 Speaker 02 Tiny little calves?
5:32 Speaker 03 Uh, maybe.
5:33 Speaker 02 What exactly have we got in common?
5:36 Speaker 03 I think maybe your attitude to life.
5:38 Speaker 02 Oh, okay.
5:40 Speaker 03 Shall I tell them who it is?
5:42 Speaker 02 Yes, please.
5:43 Speaker 03 G K Barry.
5:44 Speaker 02 She's wonderful, I'm so excited for this one.
5:45 Speaker 03 I'm so excited. You just, sometimes you just come into work and think, I know I'm gonna have a good time today. And, and I just, I just know we're gonna have a good time, I can feel it.
5:54 Speaker 02 Right, we ready?
5:55 Speaker 03 I'm ready.
5:56 Speaker 02 Right, let's get her in. Janet, please put your phone down, stop looking at TikTok and send in G K Barry. Thank you.
6:07 Speaker 01 GK Barry. Thank you, thank you. Yes. Oh. Malish. That was lovely.
6:17 Speaker 01 GK, you alright? Yeah, Janet was a bit weird though.
6:20 Speaker 03 Uh oh.
6:21 Speaker 01 What's up with Janet? She tried to grab my arse, dirty bitch. Dirty bitch? Janet grabbed your arse? Yeah, she tried, she had to find it first.
6:28 Speaker 03 She tried to, she didn't actually make contact. I'm not defending her.
6:31 Speaker 01 Yeah, it's true. That is the third time. Perks of having a flat arse. This week. I'm really, really sorry about it. Are you okay? I'm very alright, yeah. It was fine? Yeah, I loved that. Right, let's do the intake questionnaire. Full name? Grace Eleanor Keeling. Occupation? Um, I'm a loose woman and I do stuff on TikTok.
6:52 Speaker 03 Uh. Don't do that.
7:00 Speaker 03 It's the last thing I'd do in that situation.
7:02 Speaker 01 That's disgraceful. Star sign? Leo, whatever that means. That's a lion.
7:12 Speaker 01 Why do you know that? It's in the name. That's Latin for lion.
7:18 Speaker 01 Sorry that I don't know Latin. That's mental. Okay. So is Aquarius a Latin name for? Water. Like a fit, oh.
7:30 Speaker 01 Cancer, Latin for crab. Pisces, Latin for?
7:38 Speaker 03 It's great.
7:39 Speaker 01 Fish, what?
7:40 Speaker 03 Sorry, I just, I just sort of gasped and whispered to myself.
7:43 Speaker 01 Yeah, I didn't expect this from you. Didn't.
7:46 Speaker 03 I was typing away furiously. It was like, it's like I cracked the Da Vinci Code. He's got it.
7:51 Speaker 01 What, my favourite film? Have you seen that? Da Vinci? Yeah. No. Oh. I wasn't born.
7:57 Speaker 01 What's been your algorithm lately? See them AI fruits? Strawberlina, she's been having an affair with the banana. But Chocolater was at home, not knowing. She then gets pregnant by the banana. She doesn't tell her husband, is it Chocolater? Something like that. Doesn't tell her husband while they're in the birthing suite now, yeah? Guess what she's popped out? Banana. He's gone, what the fuck, what the fuck? Where's this come from? Banana. Fuck, I think we got a work cut out today, Jay.
8:30 Speaker 02 What topic could you talk about for hours on end? Your favourite topic to talk about?
8:35 Speaker 01 Hmm.
8:38 Speaker 01 I'd say like Real Housewives, alcohol, scissoring.
8:46 Speaker 02 Scissoring?
8:46 Speaker 01 Hmm.
8:48 Speaker 02 Actually, let's start with Real Housewives.
8:50 Speaker 01 Yeah.
8:52 Speaker 01 I love the Real Housewives franchise. They just all argue, get drunk, like that's my.
8:57 Speaker 02 So that's still going?
8:58 Speaker 01 Yeah, there's loads of them.
8:59 Speaker 02 Second one was alcohol.
9:00 Speaker 01 Yeah.
9:01 Speaker 02 Favourite tipple?
9:02 Speaker 01 Love prosecco, but the minute I'm trying to be a skinny legend, so I do a double vodka. A sparkling water with a wedge of lime squeezed in. Come on.
9:11 Speaker 02 And that's like low calories?
9:13 Speaker 01 Yeah, it's no calories.
9:14 Speaker 02 Um, biggest pet peeve? You missed out scissoring. No, I didn't.
9:19 Speaker 01 You don't want to know about scissoring. It's okay, it's a lot of work.
9:23 Speaker 02 Have you heard of docking?
9:27 Speaker 01 Um, is that where you're laid down and someone like teabags you?
9:32 Speaker 02 That's teabagging.
9:32 Speaker 01 No, no, no.
9:34 Speaker 02 Docking is when you get a penis.
9:37 Speaker 01 Hmm, well, I'm out.
9:40 Speaker 01 Straight away.
9:41 Speaker 02 You get a penis.
9:42 Speaker 01 Hmm.
9:43 Speaker 02 And then you get another penis.
9:45 Speaker 01 Oh, gay.
9:46 Speaker 02 Yeah, and then you put one of the penises inside the foreskin of the other penis.
9:52 Speaker 01 Oh, like a hug? I love that.
9:56 Speaker 02 Is that covered scissoring enough for you that I was trying to avoid, but you carried it on? I think I'm more just in your experience of docking now.
10:02 Speaker 01 Yeah.
10:02 Speaker 02 It's not my experience, it's my knowledge. You know, I'm actually, I haven't done it, I wouldn't, I would.
10:07 Speaker 01 Would you?
10:07 Speaker 02 What?
10:08 Speaker 01 Doc?
10:08 Speaker 02 Never say never.
10:10 Speaker 01 That's the way.
10:11 Speaker 02 We need bonus episode ideas, so.
10:12 Speaker 01 Yeah.
10:13 Speaker 02 What's your favourite thing about being famous?
10:15 Speaker 01 Free stuff.
10:16 Speaker 02 Oh, what's like the best?
10:17 Speaker 01 Like free makeup.
10:19 Speaker 02 Free makeup?
10:19 Speaker 01 Free fake tan.
10:20 Speaker 02 What?
10:21 Speaker 01 I got free pot noodles once.
10:22 Speaker 02 What?
10:23 Speaker 01 Chicken and mushroom.
10:24 Speaker 02 No.
10:24 Speaker 01 I know.
10:25 Speaker 02 That's your go-to?
10:26 Speaker 01 I love it.
10:26 Speaker 02 Yeah.
10:27 Speaker 01 What are you getting at? What's happening?
10:28 Speaker 02 Don't worry about me, mate. You concentrate on you.
10:32 Speaker 01 Confident you put a glove on, not going anywhere near them?
10:37 Speaker 02 Wildest thing you've done on a night out?
10:41 Speaker 02 I'll be straight with you, Jake told me his wildest thing earlier.
10:44 Speaker 01 What's that?
10:44 Speaker 02 He shit himself on the dance floor.
10:48 Speaker 02 He did say confidence, but I felt like I should overshare for him because he...
10:59 Speaker 01 What leads you to shitting yourself on a night out?
11:02 Speaker 02 Well...
11:05 Speaker 02 It's... It is a bit of an overshare, but I felt...
11:09 Speaker 03 He's an example of something you could say, but I definitely don't want to because I don't feel confident talking about that.
11:16 Speaker 03 I got home to my then girlfriend's flat at the time, she said, "Wear your socks", I said, "I wipe my arse with them".
11:22 Speaker 01 Oh my, did you get rid of your pants though?
11:25 Speaker 03 Yeah.
11:26 Speaker 01 I appreciate that.
11:27 Speaker 02 Did you? That "yeah" wasn't convincing.
11:29 Speaker 03 It's about 10 years ago.
11:30 Speaker 01 That doesn't make it any better, at all. Um, once I was, um, I had my whole arsehole out, straddling this man. And then I lost my phone because I was straddling, it obviously had came out. Um, and then I was too scared to tell my parents, so I told them I got mugged and then they called the police. And I had to fess up that I didn't do that. I was just straddling.
11:55 Speaker 02 I don't understand the relevance of your arsehole being needed to be out. Why was your arsehole out?
12:02 Speaker 01 Because when you're in a dress.
12:03 Speaker 02 Yeah.
12:04 Speaker 01 Or a skirt.
12:05 Speaker 02 Yeah.
12:06 Speaker 01 If I was to straddle someone, the skirt would go up, you see?
12:09 Speaker 02 Yeah.
12:09 Speaker 01 And the pocket that the phone was in, it had fallen out.
12:11 Speaker 02 Mm-hmm.
12:12 Speaker 01 While mid-strad.
12:14 Speaker 02 Mid-strad. Describe your personality as an emoji.
12:21 Speaker 01 I would say, like the eye roll. Or, there's a no.
12:28 Speaker 02 Or there's a no?
12:29 Speaker 01 No, I was, it was just too far.
12:31 Speaker 02 What was it?
12:32 Speaker 01 I was gonna say the little squirt emoji, that's funny. Because it's like, surprise. But then I thought, it's too far. And you've just shown me that was too far and you made me say it as well.
12:43 Speaker 02 No, there's always a choice. You're choosing to share.
12:46 Speaker 01 Yeah.
12:48 Speaker 02 Why did you feel like the squirting emoji wasn't something you should share?
12:52 Speaker 01 I don't know, because it sounds a bit crude, but I didn't mean it as in like actual squirting. I just meant like it would be, it's like funny.
12:58 Speaker 02 Funny.
12:59 Speaker 01 It's like, whoa.
13:00 Speaker 02 Because it's a shock. You think it's gonna get a shock and awe.
13:03 Speaker 01 Yeah, and it's also like, it can have so many meanings. If I sent that to my mum, it wouldn't have the same meaning.
13:08 Speaker 02 What would your mum think?
13:09 Speaker 01 My mum would just think I'm saying it's raining. Whereas if I said it to my girlfriend, she'd think I'm gonna take her...
13:14 Speaker 02 I'm keen.
13:15 Speaker 01 To pound town.
13:17 Speaker 02 To pound town. What's pound town?
13:19 Speaker 01 I don't know, like fingering or something.
13:25 Speaker 02 What emoji would you be, Joe?
13:28 Speaker 02 The peanut emoji.
13:30 Speaker 01 You're allergic to nuts?
13:31 Speaker 02 No, I've got tiny dick.
13:33 Speaker 01 Big men usually do. It's the skinny men that have, um, large penises. So that's a shame.
13:41 Speaker 03 Good day to be the skinny boy on the pod.
13:56 Speaker 02 Uh, you're known for your straight talking and not holding back. You know, I've seen that in the outside world, but now I've experienced it face to face.
14:04 Speaker 01 Mm.
14:04 Speaker 02 You know? And whilst we love that about you.
14:08 Speaker 01 Uh-uh.
14:08 Speaker 02 Definitely, definitely love it about her, don't we?
14:10 Speaker 03 Definitely.
14:11 Speaker 02 It's great. I want to see if we can create some space between what you think and what you say.
14:18 Speaker 01 Mm.
14:19 Speaker 02 You know?
14:20 Speaker 01 Yeah.
14:20 Speaker 02 So today, my mission, our mission.
14:23 Speaker 03 Yeah.
14:24 Speaker 02 Is to help you pause for thought before oversharing or perhaps putting your foot in it.
14:31 Speaker 03 I would say though, this might be the first session where the patient and the doctor need to go through the same sort of therapy. So I would say you are the king of...
14:38 Speaker 01 Yeah, this is glass houses.
14:40 Speaker 03 You've demonstrated it non-stop today. You've already talked about having a tiny penis.
14:44 Speaker 01 Docking.
14:45 Speaker 03 Docking.
14:46 Speaker 02 Whoa, whoa, whoa.
14:46 Speaker 03 You, you, you, every guest that's come on, you've, you've basically aged them by 10 years and told them they're 45 when they're 35.
14:52 Speaker 01 Yeah.
14:52 Speaker 03 You, you asked SAS legend Jason Fox if he, if he goes commando.
14:57 Speaker 01 That's a valid question. Thank you.
14:58 Speaker 03 It's a good question, but just fucking too right. Not when he's talking about serious issues, you know. It's like you said, it's not what, it's when. It's just timing it a bit more.
15:08 Speaker 02 You're one to talk though.
15:09 Speaker 03 Why?
15:09 Speaker 02 Jamal Maddox.
15:10 Speaker 03 Yeah.
15:11 Speaker 01 Love him.
15:11 Speaker 02 We had him and he was, uh, we spoke about his career, comedy, all this stuff that makes him tick. Then we spoke about his documentary making, racists, paedophiles, extremists. Your response? Snog, marry, avoid.
15:25 Speaker 03 Yeah, fine.
15:26 Speaker 02 So fucking hell, pot kettle, mate.
15:27 Speaker 01 What, like a racist, a paedophile?
15:29 Speaker 03 Yeah, we're all on a journey together. We're on a journey together about oversharing and putting your foot in it. It's gonna be a nice, nice session.
15:36 Speaker 01 I reckon.
15:40 Speaker 02 How did Grace become? How did you become GK Barry? You know, where did it all start?
15:46 Speaker 01 Well, in lockdown, I thought we were all gonna die.
15:50 Speaker 02 Yeah, as, as did most of the world, yeah.
15:53 Speaker 01 And I thought, right, well, I've got a few funny stories and embarrassing stories. So let me just go on TikTok, tell them. And then at least I've got it off my chest, like, it's out there for the archives. Didn't die.
16:06 Speaker 02 Oh, I see. So you got it out there because you wanted that to be?
16:10 Speaker 01 You know when you look at like Toot and Carmoon and you see his stuff and it's in like a museum? And they're like, that's what he was doing back in the day. I just maybe thought if there was another humanity that they would go, look at that. That's what they were posting at the time.
16:26 Speaker 02 What would have the like next civilisation actually thought of those sort of stories then, do you think? Cause you just compared yourself to Toot and Carmoon.
16:35 Speaker 01 Hmm. I think it would have been like, like a horny Cleopatra vibe.
16:43 Speaker 02 So that, that was where it started? You started putting it out there?
16:47 Speaker 01 Yeah, yeah. And then it started going viral. Then I got my own podcast and then it sort of went from there.
16:53 Speaker 02 And then you honed in on that persona? Is it fair to say that this is a persona? Or is, am I talking to GK Barry or am I talking to Grace?
17:01 Speaker 01 I'd say you're talking to both. I'd say Grace is just more like, if I was out on the street, I wouldn't say, I wouldn't really speak to anyone. I'd be a bit shy.
17:09 Speaker 02 Yeah.
17:09 Speaker 01 But GK Barry is just me, but just with a bit of, um, bit of, um, I think.
17:14 Speaker 02 It's like when I do drag.
17:18 Speaker 02 You're right?
17:19 Speaker 01 Yeah.
17:22 Speaker 03 Probably doesn't like being compared to a drag queen, maybe?
17:26 Speaker 02 No, that's, hang on, no, that's not.
17:29 Speaker 03 Just, just.
17:30 Speaker 02 That's naughty, what you're trying to do there. So when I do a bit of drag, it frees me up a little bit. I get to, you know. I don't know how to describe it, just.
17:41 Speaker 01 Do you tuck when you do it? Do you tuck?
17:44 Speaker 02 What?
17:45 Speaker 01 Your penis?
17:46 Speaker 02 Don't need to.
17:47 Speaker 01 That's small.
17:51 Speaker 02 Uh, do you sometimes struggle to switch out of the personas?
17:55 Speaker 01 No. The only time it gets blurred is like, say, like my grandparents funeral or something.
18:02 Speaker 02 Hmm.
18:03 Speaker 01 I'll still be doing stand up at the wake.
18:04 Speaker 02 Both of them?
18:05 Speaker 01 Well, one died before the other. My grandad, God rest his soul, went first. No, it was fine. It was his time. It was like a speck of dust. Then my grandma passed, but again, it was her time as well. Cause her tits were like a spaniel's ears.
18:22 Speaker 02 So you sometimes at your grandparents' funerals can.
18:25 Speaker 01 Oh, yeah.
18:26 Speaker 02 Maybe drift back into.
18:28 Speaker 01 I'll just, just like try and make people laugh. So I'll just be really going for it. And they're like, your grandad's stiff. It's not all the time.
18:38 Speaker 02 Do you think the more podcasts, the more posts you put out on TikTok and social media, and the more famous you became, the more you began to overshare? Or have you always been like that? Do you know what I mean? You saw it go viral and then you went, oh, this is, this is a way to get people hooked a bit more. I'm gonna amp it up even more.
18:56 Speaker 01 Yeah, cause that's what they came for.
18:58 Speaker 02 Right.
18:58 Speaker 01 And I'm like, well, they have to stay for that same. But also luckily I was at uni at the time. So I had loads of stories, but I struggled when I finished uni. To be like, I know I finished uni. I struggled to then be like.
19:13 Speaker 02 What did you finish uni in?
19:15 Speaker 01 Well, I did a normal degree in film and TV and then I did a masters in digital marketing.
19:20 Speaker 02 What?
19:21 Speaker 01 Yeah, cause I wanted to drink more. Do you know what, Joe?
19:24 Speaker 02 Yeah.
19:24 Speaker 01 There's one thing that I genuinely enjoy in life.
19:27 Speaker 02 Yeah, go on.
19:28 Speaker 01 And that is coming into my living room or someone's kitchen with a bottle of wine.
19:34 Speaker 02 Yeah.
19:34 Speaker 01 Right?
19:35 Speaker 02 Yeah.
19:36 Speaker 01 And you sit down. And you have one sip and all of a sudden, I know about your first divorce. I know about your childhood trauma. I know about that bitch next door who's been slacking you off. I know everything. The best way to make people, because it makes you feel comfortable.
19:52 Speaker 02 Yeah.
19:53 Speaker 01 And it make, because you're drinking, they're drinking, you're both like, oh, why not? It's a safe space. Maybe you should turn this into a bar.
20:00 Speaker 02 What are we saying to that, uh, advice, Jake?
20:03 Speaker 03 We're blowing the budget on the, uh, bloke with the skeleton with the head.
20:06 Speaker 01 I saw that, yeah.
20:07 Speaker 02 Yeah, it's quite, it's quite expensive, actually.
20:09 Speaker 03 But I do agree with you. We, we, we, we, we went for some, um, we went for a couple of pints after a record last week. We loved it.
20:15 Speaker 02 Did we?
20:16 Speaker 03 Finally got to see the real you, actually. You softened up a bit.
20:18 Speaker 01 Uh-oh.
20:19 Speaker 02 What do you mean, the real me?
20:21 Speaker 03 Well, the one that doesn't sort of snap back in a rage.
20:25 Speaker 02 What do you mean, the real me?
20:33 Speaker 00 Fall never arrives all at once. Burst the air, then the light. And slowly the things you love begin to find each other. A jacket meets a dress. A hoodie slips beneath a blazer. An old cap finds a new scarf. Because you don't simply step into the season. You create it layer by layer until it finally feels like fall. Find fall your way at Ross.
21:01 Speaker 03 So on the subject of speaking before you think, I think you do genuinely have quite a lot in common, the two of you. So much so that I've created a game.
21:08 Speaker 02 What's your game, Jake?
21:09 Speaker 03 Um, it's a simple game of who said what? I'll give you a statement. You tell me, was it you or was it Joe?
21:14 Speaker 02 Am I playing?
21:15 Speaker 03 Nah.
21:15 Speaker 02 What?
21:16 Speaker 03 You can observe.
21:17 Speaker 02 What?
21:17 Speaker 03 You can assist.
21:18 Speaker 01 Eyeglass of yours.
21:20 Speaker 03 Question number one. Sex is easy for guys. All you have to do is stick it in a hole.
21:24 Speaker 01 We could have both said that.
21:26 Speaker 02 Sex is easy for guys.
21:28 Speaker 01 Just stick it in a hole.
21:29 Speaker 02 Just stick it in a hole.
21:30 Speaker 01 Because it's true.
21:31 Speaker 02 Well, you could argue that sex is easy for women.
21:34 Speaker 01 What, just lay there?
21:35 Speaker 02 You just take it in the hole.
21:37 Speaker 01 Yeah, but then what? You're expected to do all these different positions.
21:40 Speaker 03 Hmm.
21:40 Speaker 01 You're a reverse cowgirl. Fuck that.
21:43 Speaker 03 What is that?
21:45 Speaker 01 I think.
21:48 Speaker 03 Get married a long time.
21:51 Speaker 01 I think it's me.
21:53 Speaker 03 It was indeed, GK Barry, everyone.
21:56 Speaker 01 It's true, though.
21:58 Speaker 03 When this person was asked about when they'd be sorting their hair out, they responded, "When your mum sits on my face." Sorry.
22:05 Speaker 01 Again, it could be either, but I think it's you.
22:07 Speaker 02 Oh my god.
22:09 Speaker 01 When your mum sits on my face.
22:11 Speaker 02 When are you gonna sort your hair out? Was that, was that actually me?
22:14 Speaker 03 When are you gonna sort your hair out, when your mum sits on my face?
22:16 Speaker 01 It's definitely you.
22:17 Speaker 03 Joe Marler, Twitter, 2019.
22:18 Speaker 02 Fuck, that was me.
22:19 Speaker 01 Wow.
22:19 Speaker 03 That's not good, is it?
22:20 Speaker 01 On Twitter as well, digital footprint.
22:21 Speaker 03 Next one, I've got great lips and I have nice toes, if you have a toe fetish.
22:25 Speaker 02 It's me, it's gotta be me. I've got an OnlyFans, don't I?
22:29 Speaker 01 I think it could be you.
22:30 Speaker 02 Yeah, gotta be me.
22:31 Speaker 01 Because I've got a bunion.
22:32 Speaker 02 What?
22:33 Speaker 01 Yeah, I've got like a bone on the top of me foot.
22:35 Speaker 02 We've all got bones on the top of our feet.
22:36 Speaker 01 No, but not prominent.
22:38 Speaker 03 One that comes out the side, out the side of the big toe.
22:40 Speaker 01 Mine's over the top, it's like a speed, speed hunt.
22:43 Speaker 02 What's wrong with that?
22:45 Speaker 01 I don't know, someone would wank over it, but I just don't think.
22:48 Speaker 02 That's the question. I didn't say who's gonna wank over your bunion. Or is it?
22:52 Speaker 01 That should have been the question.
22:54 Speaker 02 Okay, apologies.
22:55 Speaker 01 Do you think it's you?
22:56 Speaker 02 Well, I presume it's me, am I talking about my feet OnlyFans?
23:00 Speaker 03 It's GK Barry.
23:01 Speaker 02 What? It was you.
23:03 Speaker 01 Because of the lips thing.
23:04 Speaker 02 What's wrong with my lips?
23:06 Speaker 01 They're just sort of hidden by this like curtain of moustache.
23:09 Speaker 03 You know about WikiFeet?
23:11 Speaker 01 What's me score?
23:12 Speaker 03 Do you know about WikiFeet?
23:13 Speaker 01 And what's his score?
23:13 Speaker 02 Mine's gonna be through the roof, out five, four and a half.
23:16 Speaker 03 So for those of you who don't know what WikiFeet is, WikiFeet is a online database where famous faces have their feet ranked with lots of pictures of them as well. So I've got Joe Marler's WikiFeet here, there's loads of pictures of Joe Marler with his feet out on various things.
23:27 Speaker 01 Gorgeous.
23:28 Speaker 03 Grace has her own WikiFeet as well.
23:29 Speaker 01 Thank you.
23:30 Speaker 03 Who's got the better score? Who has got the better score?
23:32 Speaker 01 It'll be Joe.
23:33 Speaker 03 Grace has a 4.62 out of 5 score on WikiFeet.
23:38 Speaker 01 Come on!
23:38 Speaker 03 However, Joe has a perfect 5 out of 5!
23:43 Speaker 01 Whey!
23:44 Speaker 03 Unbelievable!
23:45 Speaker 01 You're joking.
23:46 Speaker 02 What's that do?
23:47 Speaker 01 A bit of this, yeah. I can't believe that.
23:52 Speaker 03 I can't believe that. You got a perfect score on WikiPee.
23:54 Speaker 01 I do.
23:55 Speaker 02 I ain't got no bunions, have I?
23:57 Speaker 01 Well, work on that.
23:58 Speaker 03 The quote, however, the quote, however, was from G K Barry.
24:00 Speaker 01 Thank you.
24:00 Speaker 03 Next quote, "It's a reverse action to lengthen the shaft." What was this about?
24:04 Speaker 01 It's you. It's you. I've never said shaft.
24:06 Speaker 02 Shaft.
24:07 Speaker 01 I've never, ever said shaft.
24:08 Speaker 02 Uh, yeah, that was me. I was talking about jelking.
24:11 Speaker 03 Yeah, that was you speaking to Sir Stephen Fry about a technique of jelking, which is used to extend the people.
24:16 Speaker 01 No, I understand.
24:17 Speaker 02 I felt comfortable around him.
24:19 Speaker 01 You've both overshared, but yours was in front of like a sir.
24:23 Speaker 02 A sir.
24:31 Speaker 02 Let's get to the root of your oversharing, shall we? When did you notice that you didn't think before you spoke?
24:39 Speaker 01 Twenty twenty.
24:40 Speaker 02 Twenty twenty, during that Covid period.
24:43 Speaker 01 Just nothing to lose.
24:44 Speaker 02 Just started coming out.
24:44 Speaker 01 Yeah.
24:45 Speaker 02 So you didn't ever get in trouble at school, really, for?
24:47 Speaker 01 No, I never swore in front of my parents.
24:49 Speaker 02 Really?
24:50 Speaker 01 Was it allowed to? Yeah, I just never really did much wrong.
24:53 Speaker 02 So you were good at school?
24:55 Speaker 01 Yeah, I wasn't really getting in trouble, I wouldn't say.
24:57 Speaker 02 How was school for you?
25:00 Speaker 01 It was very interesting. I really liked school because I was a bit weird. I had buck teeth and bob. I was an emo. Just a lot going on.
25:07 Speaker 02 Did you used to listen to Panic at the Disco?
25:09 Speaker 01 No, I used to like a bit of Blackfell Brides. Just really depressing music. I used to love it. I remember when my grandad had a stroke. Keep bringing him up, miss you. When I was going to visit him in hospital, I was listening to like proper screamer and even me at that time thought, it's too much.
25:28 Speaker 02 So school was fine for you?
25:29 Speaker 01 Yeah.
25:30 Speaker 02 No issues?
25:30 Speaker 01 No, people weren't very nice to me, but then I don't think anyone was. No one's very nice at that age, are they? Like, school's not very nice. Especially with social media. People are really mean.
25:40 Speaker 02 You grew up in the, in the social media world?
25:42 Speaker 01 It's hell in there. And also a time before you clocked, everything would stay on social media. I think people are a bit more
25:49 Speaker 02 Savvy.
25:49 Speaker 01 Careful with it now. Yeah, whereas back then it was full government name.
25:54 Speaker 02 Fucking ruthless.
25:55 Speaker 01 Yeah. Revenge porn, all of it.
25:57 Speaker 02 You're a bit of me.
25:58 Speaker 01 Thank you.
25:59 Speaker 02 I fucking really, really enjoy you. You're fucking great.
26:04 Speaker 01 That sounded so great.
26:05 Speaker 02 Did it?
26:06 Speaker 03 It's really intense.
26:07 Speaker 01 I really enjoy you.
26:09 Speaker 02 Did that sound creepy?
26:10 Speaker 03 Yeah.
26:10 Speaker 01 Well, I enjoyed that. Thank you.
26:12 Speaker 03 I'm on your side, but that wasn't tense.
26:13 Speaker 02 I just love the fact you just don't... Who gives a shit?
26:17 Speaker 01 My PR.
26:18 Speaker 02 Oh, yeah.
26:21 Speaker 02 Ain't no shit. Fair enough.
26:23 Speaker 01 It'll be all right.
26:23 Speaker 02 I've got an exercise, just a quick one, to put your PR under a bit of pressure.
26:26 Speaker 01 Yep.
26:27 Speaker 02 Here we go. We're gonna go back and forth. Jake, do you wanna play?
26:30 Speaker 01 How many words for fanning?
26:31 Speaker 03 Yeah, I'll have a crack.
26:32 Speaker 02 Okay, so we'll go three-way, shall we? Go three-way?
26:35 Speaker 03 Yeah, okay.
26:36 Speaker 02 Uh, GK, would you like to start us off with names for vagina?
26:40 Speaker 01 Soggy Oyster.
26:41 Speaker 02 What the fuck?
26:44 Speaker 02 That is the opening gambit, which is also mine. Opening gambit.
26:52 Speaker 03 Lady Diana.
26:53 Speaker 01 Flappy McGee.
26:55 Speaker 02 What? Wizard's sleeve?
26:59 Speaker 01 You can't be saying wizard's sleeve.
27:02 Speaker 03 The Strait of Hormuz.
27:06 Speaker 01 The mighty Minj.
27:12 Speaker 02 Puss Puss.
27:14 Speaker 03 Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle.
27:16 Speaker 02 Oh, fucking hell, he's done it.
27:18 Speaker 01 I can't top that.
27:19 Speaker 02 No, he's done it.
27:20 Speaker 01 Ninja Turtle, can't top it.
27:21 Speaker 02 It's really good.
27:22 Speaker 01 Wouldn't even try.
27:26 Speaker 02 Do you think you overshare more when you're comfortable?
27:30 Speaker 01 Mm.
27:30 Speaker 02 Or when you're feeling uncomfortable and it's more of a defence mechanism for you?
27:34 Speaker 01 My issue is, is it's both. If I'm comfortable with you, I will overshare. Um, but I'll more do like outrageous jokes that I think, well, I couldn't probably say that to anyone else, but I can say it to you. Whereas even if I'm in an uncomfortable situation, I'll just go for it again. I just, it's a constant cycle. I'm constantly oversharing, no matter what situation. I think genuinely if I met the king, I'd do it as well.
27:59 Speaker 02 But what I'm met is not, he isn't the king. He, in fact, he's no, he's not really close to the king in the slightest. It's Reverend Richard Coles. We all enjoyed...
28:08 Speaker 01 My king.
28:09 Speaker 02 You, what, he's your king?
28:10 Speaker 01 Yeah.
28:11 Speaker 02 We enjoyed you two discussing scissoring with him.
28:16 Speaker 01 Put it back on the map.
28:17 Speaker 02 You put scissoring back on the map? You think it was struggling, was it?
28:20 Speaker 01 I know it was. Like, if you speak to lesbians, they're like, well, we don't really scissor anymore. And I was like, why?
28:25 Speaker 02 It'd gone out of fashion?
28:26 Speaker 01 Yes.
28:27 Speaker 02 Right.
28:28 Speaker 01 With the bush.
28:30 Speaker 02 So, but there's, so that, that was a lovely moment, cause you put scissoring... You put scissoring back on the map, but you also like, that was a moment for you in the rev to connect. I don't know why I did that.
28:43 Speaker 01 Well, I thought that was going one of two ways.
28:45 Speaker 02 You just connect from someone that you didn't know.
28:47 Speaker 01 Yeah, he was lovely.
28:48 Speaker 02 Previously, from different worlds, different generations.
28:53 Speaker 01 Yeah.
28:53 Speaker 02 So I guess there's pros to oversharing as well.
28:55 Speaker 01 It worked out well for me. I think it's just, I also, don't know about you, but I struggle to read a room.
29:01 Speaker 02 Right.
29:02 Speaker 01 So sometimes I'll think, this is gonna land, and it doesn't land, and then it will keep me up for the rest of the week.
29:09 Speaker 02 I don't, I think, no.
29:12 Speaker 01 Really?
29:12 Speaker 02 I think that might be a difference between us.
29:14 Speaker 01 Wow.
29:15 Speaker 02 I think I can read a room.
29:17 Speaker 01 Oh.
29:18 Speaker 02 But I do it anyway.
29:20 Speaker 01 You just don't have shame.
29:21 Speaker 02 Which is probably worse.
29:23 Speaker 03 Much worse, yeah.
29:23 Speaker 02 Yeah, it's worse, isn't it?
29:24 Speaker 03 At least he's got an excuse. You're actually going out of your way to be outrageous.
29:30 Speaker 03 And that was an example of you not thinking before you spoke.
29:32 Speaker 02 Yeah, I shouldn't have said that.
29:33 Speaker 03 What if I just said that?
29:34 Speaker 02 I shouldn't have said that.
29:35 Speaker 01 Well, maybe you don't.
29:37 Speaker 02 Maybe I don't say that, but I've said it.
29:39 Speaker 01 You've done it now, it's too late.
29:41 Speaker 02 Fuck's sake, mate, pull it together. You're a fucking doctor.
29:45 Speaker 01 Yeah, there we go, back in the zone.
29:47 Speaker 02 You're here to help.
29:48 Speaker 03 Get that stethoscope on, go on.
29:48 Speaker 01 That's too small for his head.
29:49 Speaker 02 You're too small.
29:50 Speaker 03 Get that stethoscope.
29:51 Speaker 01 Isn't it? Stretch to the fucking...
29:53 Speaker 02 I am here to help you.
29:54 Speaker 01 Yes.
29:54 Speaker 02 Okay.
29:55 Speaker 01 Because I'm the one that needs help here. Yes.
30:00 Speaker 02 And I look.
30:01 Speaker 03 Ah, oh, you're depth.
30:10 Speaker 02 Right, we're gonna do a final exercise where we turn into
30:17 Speaker 02 agony aunt and agony uncle.
30:19 Speaker 03 Lovely.
30:20 Speaker 02 You put a call out to our listeners, did you?
30:22 Speaker 03 I thought you could give some advice.
30:23 Speaker 02 Sure.
30:24 Speaker 03 It's perfect because you're both gonna be using your oversharing as a force for good. Okay. First one came in from a guy called Harrison. Thank you, Harrison, for your message. I accidentally liked a girl's Instagram post from 2018.
30:34 Speaker 01 I've been there.
30:34 Speaker 03 I panicked, and then I liked 12 more to make it look intentional. Is that worse? Oh wow.
30:40 Speaker 01 Mental.
30:41 Speaker 02 Have you done that, have you?
30:42 Speaker 01 Yeah, but what you do is you unlike it, go back up to the top and then like the most recent one. So when they get it on notifications, it just looks like you've liked the most recent picture.
30:50 Speaker 03 That is brilliant advice.
30:51 Speaker 02 If you like something on Instagram, does it show up on their Instagram?
30:56 Speaker 03 Yes.
30:57 Speaker 01 How old are you?
31:00 Speaker 03 Rebecca says, "I was having sex with someone."
31:02 Speaker 01 God.
31:03 Speaker 03 Here we go.
31:03 Speaker 01 Sorry.
31:05 Speaker 03 There we go.
31:05 Speaker 01 Yeah, the cheek of me.
31:06 Speaker 03 "I was having sex with someone and accidentally said my own name instead of theirs. And now they think I'm obsessed with myself. Do I address it or just leave it?"
31:15 Speaker 02 Think you'll have to say, "I've never, I've never done that."
31:17 Speaker 01 Not the, you can't, in the third person's crazy. How did you walk into the room? Joe is here to see you now.
31:25 Speaker 01 It's crazy. Yeah, I'd say blame it on self-love.
31:28 Speaker 02 It's like self-affirmations, isn't it? Like, "Yeah, I'm ready for you." Phew, Rebecca's ding-dong merrily on high.
31:36 Speaker 03 Um, final one from Ishmael.
31:38 Speaker 02 What's Ishmael said?
31:39 Speaker 03 "I've started seeing someone and the sex is outstanding."
31:42 Speaker 02 What a review.
31:43 Speaker 01 Outstanding? Is this off-stand?
31:48 Speaker 03 "I'm starting to see..." "Seeing someone and the sex is outstanding, but they keep high-fiving me afterwards, like every time. Do I say something or do I start high-fiving back?"
31:58 Speaker 02 So he's not high-fiving back, so they're going to high-five and he's just there going...
32:02 Speaker 03 They keep trying to high-five.
32:03 Speaker 01 Yeah, why are you high-fiving? What's happening?
32:05 Speaker 03 Well, I suppose the excitement of just...
32:08 Speaker 02 What else you do at the end? I think it's, it's a good...
32:10 Speaker 01 Go get a towel. I don't think you should be high-fiving.
32:17 Speaker 02 Immediately get a towel.
32:20 Speaker 02 Why say it like that?
32:21 Speaker 01 Because as soon as I said it, I wanted to take it back.
32:23 Speaker 02 Oh, no, I can't take that. There we go.
32:25 Speaker 01 It's happened. I've learnt the lesson. I've learnt the lesson.
32:28 Speaker 02 Oh, good.
32:29 Speaker 03 Interesting.
32:29 Speaker 02 Interesting. So there's, there is a small start.
32:33 Speaker 03 Well, I think what's been interesting about these is that, uh, thank you to everyone who sent a message in.
32:37 Speaker 02 Sure.
32:37 Speaker 03 Um, but I think it's interesting that from our, our listeners oversharing. Yeah, actually, I saw you two both take a step back at some of them and think, "Bloody hell, this is a lot." And maybe it's given some perspective. I think we've made some steps.
32:49 Speaker 02 I want to say congratulations.
32:50 Speaker 03 Congratulations, you came far.
32:52 Speaker 02 I think there is a small...
32:54 Speaker 01 Yeah.
32:54 Speaker 02 You've come, you've come a long way.
32:56 Speaker 01 Leaps and bounds.
32:56 Speaker 03 Yeah.
33:00 Speaker 02 Hi, well, Grace? Yeah. GK Barry?
33:04 Speaker 01 It's me.
33:04 Speaker 02 Um, our session has come to an end.
33:07 Speaker 01 I loved it.
33:08 Speaker 02 Thank you so much.
33:09 Speaker 01 Thank you.
33:09 Speaker 02 But before you go, everyone who comes on gets a badge. Jake, what are our thoughts on a badge?
33:15 Speaker 03 We've got loads of thoughts.
33:16 Speaker 02 Yeah, sorry, you can't keep my stethoscope.
33:17 Speaker 01 No, that's why I thought I'd give it back. What's your badge, Sam?
33:19 Speaker 03 So, we went with oversharing is caring.
33:22 Speaker 01 Oh.
33:23 Speaker 02 Oh, that's a good one.
33:25 Speaker 01 Love that.
33:26 Speaker 02 What's room for sharing? Oh, hang on, I'll just take that pub off of that one.
33:30 Speaker 01 Oh, amazing.
33:30 Speaker 02 Don't go for the pub, get rid of that one, that's fine. You also get a lolly.
33:34 Speaker 01 You're like one of them weird men in vans. You know what I mean, with your pot of lollies?
33:42 Speaker 01 And there's wifi.
33:45 Speaker 03 Do you like peanuts?
33:49 Speaker 01 I've got a nut allergy, haven't I?
33:52 Speaker 02 GK Barry, everybody! Janet will pick you up, sort you out. She'll take you out. All the best. See you around.
34:00 Speaker 01 Bye, everyone. Sorry if I just splashed fanny.
34:02 Speaker 02 See you.
34:05 Speaker 01 This got us a bit short.
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