Pod Insights How I Invest with David Weisburd E201: Top 10 Things LPs Look for in a General Partner w/Matt Curtolo About this episode What does it take to be a truly great limited partner?
In this episode, I spoke with Matt Curtolo, a veteran LP who’s worked with some of the most sophisticated institutional investors in the world—Hamilton Lane, MetLife, and Hirtle Callaghan. Today, Matt advises both LPs and emerging GPs, offering a rare perspective from both sides of the table.
We dug deep into what separates elite LPs from the pack, how institutional incentives shape decision-making, the paradox of humility and self-promotion among GPs, and why the best partnerships are built on trust, EQ, and long-term thinking.
If you're raising a fund—or allocating to them—this episode is a masterclass.
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0:00 David Weisburd? You've worked at some of the top limited partners in the country, MetLife, Hertl Callahan, Hamilton Lane. So, welcome to the How I Invest podcast.
0:09 Speaker 01 Thanks, David. Super excited to be here.
0:11 David Weisburd? So, you spent seven years at Hamilton Lane. We previously had the CEO of Hamilton Lane on the podcast. Tell me about your experience.
0:18 Speaker 01 It was the first seven years of my career, and I'm happy to date myself, was 2004 when I joined there. A really different company than it is today. It was about 50 people. In 2004, it was really a great opportunity in the market, right? Private markets were really starting to boom. There was this industry consolidation. There were some of the players, particularly on the consulting side, that went away for one reason or the other. And Hamilton Lane had emerged as the leader. So, and within nine months of me sitting in that seat, I was afforded a ton of latitude and opportunity to try new things as the company grew. So, I started, and I can say this, looking back,
0:59 Speaker 01 I was in roles and in rooms that I had no business being in at that point in my career. And of course, as a young professional, I stubbed my toe a ton. But it was an incredible learning environment, and I think those, those challenges in retrospect, they built me into the investor that I am today, and probably even more so the person.
1:19 David Weisburd? We oftentimes on the podcast talk about the skills that make a great general partner. What are the skills that makes a great limited partner?
1:26 Speaker 01 First, it's defining your purpose, right? It's what is my role as an LP? Who are the constituents that I serve? And really, starting at the very top of just outlining the goals and what I'm trying to achieve. Because a lot of people start bottoms up, and I think people want to be stock pickers, people want to be, you know, find the next hidden gem, all very important. But I feel like the best LPs are the ones who understand their position in the market, understand the mission that they're trying to achieve on behalf of the capital source that they have, and being able to execute that in a pretty clean way.
2:04 David Weisburd? So, let's say you have a specific mission. Let's say you're running a Yale. Type endowment strategy, double click on the exact skill sets, both EQ, IQ and other that makes up a truly elite LP.
2:20 Speaker 01 It's a good question because I think in that capacity, let's use, keep pulling on Yale, but as one of the most revered institutions in the country, one of the most prolific investors, right? The, the skill sets that you need at a place like that, you obviously, maybe you have to do less of the outbound marketing. You have to tell your story a little bit less, but what you really do need is the ability, and I think this goes with every institution, is that partnership mentality, is the ability to work with folks. So I would lean more heavily to the EQ of being able to map out the goals, understand what you're trying to do, but really figure out what's the best way to navigate this? How do I work within the communities
3:01 Speaker 01 that I serve, both the constituents as well as the investor base? And then thinking about all of the things that I need to do to manifest. I'm not going to downplay IQ because you of course need to understand the markets, be on top of trends, be in the right circles, a lot of reps, making sure that you're seeing enough in the market, particularly as you're using external managers. But the EQ piece is I think what's going to differentiate the very smart LPs to the elite LPs, to use your term, because I think that's a big, a big part of when you break up what an LP me, what being an LP means, right? The representation,
3:41 Speaker 01 you know, the fiduciary nature of the LP role. And then the investment process, all of the structure, all the governance, all the things to make sure you're doing everything right. And then all of the other things to make sure your position in the market is viewed positively or favorable.
4:00 David Weisburd? Previously interviewed John Merrill, who was at Grove Street at the time. And we talked a little bit about this unique blend of skills that David Swensen had. So he had David Swensen as a professor at Yale. One of the paradoxical skill sets that David Swensen had is he knew how to partner with the way with the GP to provide a lot of value to the GP. He knew how to get a lot of value for Yale. And also he knew how to create an ecosystem where other co-investors with Yale also got the benefit of, of the deal and the fund. So It seems like a paradox. It seems zero sum, but he somehow structured deals in a way
4:42 David Weisburd? that all three parties would get value. What are the best practices when it comes to being a great LP in the ecosystem?
4:50 Speaker 01 You can absolutely run it one way, right? And with that mentality of I'm here to maximize the outcomes for what, who my constituents are and what my portfolio needs to do. I don't think anybody looks at that and says, you're not doing a good job. You're not doing the right thing. But I think of the folks now, having been in these seats for over 20 years, it becomes a really interesting playbook of, okay, who, when I find a manager, and I'd spend a lot of time in the emerging space, so I'll use that as an example, my goal is to be able to introduce those folks, that manager, if I find them really interesting,
5:31 Speaker 01 to my peers who may think similarly or may think differently, but I know them well enough that this is going to pique their interest as well. So this constant flow of idea sharing back and forth with LPs, we use ecosystem, but I think it's even more so, it's this network of folks who know and trust each other, where this, the idea of warm intros, the idea of a peer who you understand how they think, maybe you've invested together in the past, how can you make that, how can you give that investor some value? The way I always find to do that is this network of idea sharing, the number of WhatsApp groups, Slack channels, all those sorts of things where we're constantly trading ideas. You
6:15 Speaker 01 also get leverage on diligence, right? If you're, if you're looking at something, I may have a very formal process, a lot of things that I'm looking for that are relevant to either my institution or the way I think and my framework, but other folks are going to look at it differently. And I always use the phrase, nobody is smarter than everybody. So that's one of the places where you can really get the value of the community. And that's just talking about bringing value to the LP.
6:41 David Weisburd? Nobody's smarter than everybody, meaning crowd wisdom on average is a top quartile, top decile investor.
6:48 Speaker 01 Let's put it this way. I'd say if you're
6:52 Speaker 01 Just sitting by yourself, going through ideas, digging through a lot of this stuff without any external feedback, I think you're going to be prone to miss some things, right? Whether the crowdsourcing or the group think or those sorts of approaches, having good inputs, but having, making sure they're vetted. I think that's the risk of how many people do you want? When is enough enough? We always have this debate of when you're doing diligence on a manager, what's the right number of reference calls? And to say you know when enough is enough is just, is a little bit too loose, but also putting a fine number on it, saying it's, it's five or seven or 20. It's not going to be the
7:34 Speaker 01 same, but making sure you have enough inputs that you've hopefully seen around all corners. And we can never get to a hundred percent, a hundred percent conviction on things, but getting to the level that you feel comfortable enough to pull that trigger.
7:48 David Weisburd? The power of AI. Let me look up on Who Wants to be a Millionaire, how often the crowd answer was right. I have to, I have to admit, I was surprised. UK is 91 to 95% and US was 95%. I thought it would be closer to like 75, 80. We systematically underappreciate how smart the crowd could actually be. Is referencing one of the last things that you give to somebody junior, in other words, is it one of those critical success factors that's very difficult to train and teach somebody to do?
8:19 Speaker 01 It, it is. Well, I think a lot of things in this industry come from reps, right? Just that I used to joke, the junior folks that I would hire and work on our teams, they should want to give money to the first 10 managers they see, right? Cause they don't have necessarily a body of work to compare them to, right? The first versus the second, the second versus the 10th. You then start to get a critical eye on that. And the same thing with references. I think one is understanding what you're listening for, crafting the right questions and listening to say, okay, were they? Did they hesitate? Did they use certain words? So I would always follow the shadow process, right? Sit in, listen to how a reference call goes nowadays.
9:03 Speaker 01 You know, in the virtual world, right? It's a lot easier to have multiple people on calls and things like that. So I think that's something from a... We always used to try to get those junior folks to see as much as they could, review as many decks as they could, and then sit in on reference calls before you let them go and really do that. Because you are relying a ton on EQ and investment judgment, right? It's true that most references end up being positive. The on-sheet references, we all know this. They've been... They've gotten the call beforehand. Hand putting you on the list, make sure you say nice things. Now, is that the only reason they're saying nice things? Probably not. I don't want to assume that the world is running this shell game
9:47 Speaker 01 where people are just saying things for the sake of raising capital. But I do think when you dig a little deeper and are talking to folks in a pointed way, looking for specific answers, as well as talking off-sheet, right? You have to make people comfortable with what they're hearing, what they're talking about, who you are and how you're going to use that. There's a little bit of that... I'd say there's a little bit of trust building. There's a little bit of the digging deeper and understanding of the nuance in conversation.
10:16 David Weisburd? Let's say you're hiring somebody and you create this criteria and you're talking to people. Once in a while, you get somebody, you're like, "This is awesome." Everybody in your team is like, "This guy's awesome. This girl's awesome. We should hire him." And then once in a while, you're like, "Well, there's nothing technically wrong with them. They check all the boxes, but there's not this kind of drive to hire him or her. There's not this excitement." Does that... Is that where LPs make mistakes? Where they can't necessarily verbalize what's wrong, but it's not a hell yes?
10:48 Speaker 01 That is true, right? It depends on the program, right? If I have, I'm making one investment a year versus 100 investments a year. The, the bar is a little bit different. So every incremental GPM I'm looking at is maybe looked at it in a different way. I was a tennis player growing up, so we always used to say, if it's, if it's 99% out, it's 100% in, right? So you just need it to be, it's, it's the flip side of what we're talking about. You really, do you need to be 100% of the way there to say that this is, this is the thing that's gonna, you know? I have that gut feeling. There's some of this where it's, goes back to reps, it goes back to kind of knowing what the right fit is and what the right model is.
11:28 Speaker 01 We talk a lot about when we look at managers, is it a conviction based or a consensus based decision-making process? So do we have to get everybody around the table to say yes? That, that may be a little too obvious, a little bit too, that's going to weed out some of the things that look, that are more difficult to quantify and more difficult to articulate. But that conviction base is more about, I have that drive, I can feel that, that connection and that energy from the person or the manager or the firm that makes you want to drive forward.
12:00 David Weisburd? There's almost like these two different types of pits in your stomach. One is the consensus base where, yeah, they, they went to Harvard Business School, they were at this firm, something's off, but I can't, I can't highlight it, I can't figure out what it is. And they check all the boxes and, but I still have a pit in my stomach. And then there's the exact opposite, which is, this person was a top engineer at SpaceX, has never made an investment, but he's going to invest in all his SpaceX peers, but he may not even be able to file a quarterly update or do these rudimentary, I have a pit in the stomach to the upside. So there's this kind of asymmetric downside and upside bets.
12:36 Speaker 01 You, you're spot on, right? And it's, it's back to the point of you can never know 100% of everything you need to, especially in blind pool investing. So all of this is a leap of faith and it's a calculated leap of faith. And whether that's the, that's, I feel like this should be great, but I don't feel it. Or there's really no reason on paper where this is going to be a driver. You get a lot of this non-consensus or contrarian, a lot of these terms come out when people talk about investing. I think you have to look a little bit deeper of just what, what that feeling is as an allocator. I don't think that happens in year one or two, it happens down the line because you're looking for certain qualities.
13:15 David Weisburd? There's this interesting discrepancy between how GPs pick top startups and how VCs pick GPs or underlying startups. And that is that the most experienced GPs and really LPs will jump on my podcast and will say, "The biggest mistake I made over the last 20 years was I underestimated the upside. I underwrote a Co- Invest to a $500 million valuation. It was $10 billion." Abe Finkelstein from Vintage previously said that. If you look at First Principles, from the LP side, they should be much more gung ho. So if they have 10 portfolios of 25 companies, any one position is 250. And they should be really pressuring
13:57 David Weisburd? almost the GPs to take these kind of crazy asymmetric upside power law bets. But it seems like ironically, the LPs are more conservative in their approach than the GPs. Is that kind of a feature or a bug in the system? And shouldn't LPs be more risk tolerant, given that they're more diversified?
14:17 Speaker 01 100%. Definitely bug in my mind, right? And I'm going to go on a soapbox for a little bit now, because I think there's this concept of misaligned incentives with a lot of institutional LPs, a lot of groups where there really isn't a benefit to taking a lot of risk, whether perceived or otherwise, in manager selection. Because I always say, "Look at compensation structures, and I can tell you how people are going to manage their portfolios." So if there's not a benefit to putting your neck out and investing in something that may be perceived as more risky, or may inherently be more risky by the metrics, there's not
15:00 Speaker 01 really that motivation, right? Other than finding something new and interesting, you have to have that inner intellectual curiosity to want to dig for those. But there's organizational structures that would much more drive the LP to make a decision that is more about preservation than maximization of returns. And preservation, I say job preservation, because making a smart investment that outperforms in three, five, or seven years...
15:29 Speaker 01 That's great. I don't necessarily know if you're going to get a lot of credit for that, both on the bottom line or the top line in the in the portfolio. Think the flip side is, I hate using it because I feel like everybody's talking about it, but you don't get fired for buying IBM. So there is this, there's more of a pull for folks to be investing in things that feel safer. I say the the perceived safety of larger brands, bigger firms, things that may be more diversified. Because you're right, David, the embedded diversification within institutional portfolios, any single position, if we run the numbers, it's going to be quite small. So LPs maybe need to think a little
16:10 Speaker 01 bit more about the flow through of a single investment and how you want managers to operate. Because when managers operate on that conviction basis, and they're not spreading a bunch of chips across the board because they're not 100% sure, or they don't, they haven't built the conviction in the areas they're investing, that shows me a little bit of weakness in their strategy. It's not to say diversified strategies can't work, but I think that in a portfolio context, if I'm an LP and I'm underwriting to maximize my return, I want more of those concentrated portfolios. Almost think of the hedge fund pod model, where I want the smartest people to operate with an exclusive focus on the one thing that we know really well.
16:53 Speaker 01 And if you're successful, you're going to continue to get capital. If you're not, it goes away. Now, you can't do that in an institutional, multi asset portfolio necessarily. But that's the way I think about it, because of the compensation structures and the alignments, alignment, aren't necessarily putting folks in folks in the position to be able to make those hard decisions.
17:16 David Weisburd? And yet, we've seen some LPs almost supersede their incentives in their search for excellence and alpha. What are the characteristics of those LPs that see the incentives? Yes, I don't get fired for being IBM, but I'm going to supersede them. What are some common characteristics or drives behind these LPs?
17:37 Speaker 01 I think that there's something about about the point in your career that you're at as well. The the comfort, the cruise control versus the revving the engine. How much do I have to build in terms of my own track record, things that I believe versus? Is most of my track record built as an investor, as an LP. Some of those LPs are a little bit further along in their journey, whether that be the institution itself has the bandwidth to take a little bit more risk. And they have the support of the governance body, right? So that might be a, an endowment or a foundation where the board is willing to take some of that.
18:19 Speaker 01 Goes back to setting it at the top, setting out what you're able to do and what the tolerances of that organization. And I should couch it by saying, most of these funds are not going to lose money, right? When you look at the numbers and the averages, they underperform what other assets are going to be. So the opportunity cost and the, and the sharp ratio is probably low on some of these. But you're not talking about full impairment of capital where, within the private markets in particular. So I think some LPs need to frame it in the way of where, where are we in our journey as an institution and an independent investor? Do we have the governance structure that allows us to take some of those risks and afford that wide band of potential outcomes?
19:03 Speaker 01 And I think, you know, I'm, I'm a big people person. I feel like, are the people aligned personally with trying to push that envelope in terms of supporting the next generation of managers, thinking about the overall ecosystem and environment? I, I think a lot of folks now in the space that I spend a lot of time in with emerging managers are thinking about, how do we fund that next generation? How do we bring that next generation into, into light? So I think there's, it's a confluence of a lot of those factors.
19:35 David Weisburd? I obsess over these long-term games that organizations or people play. And there, there's also a long-term game on the LP side, on the board side. Whereas if you fire a CIO for taking the right bet at the wrong time, other top CIOs, you're going to have a trouble recruiting. There, there's a sports analogy. One of my close friends, Mike Brown, just became the Knicks head coach and he got fired from the Kings a year after being unanimous NBA coach of the year because of a player dispute. And it was done in a poor way. Now, the Kings are going to have significant issues hiring the next top, top tier coats. So oftentimes, if you don't think many years out, you're going
20:16 David Weisburd? to come across these kind of repetitive games where you start to lose. And the opposite is true too, which is the institutions that could see past the headline, that actually do the diligence, that do the references on the top LPs are able to become these cultures that attract the top tier talent, not just at the CIO level, but at every level of the organization.
20:36 Speaker 01 Hundred percent, David. The average tenure, I did a little research on it, of US public pension CIOs is about six years. So that, that is, I mean, obviously that's an average. So there are some with much longer tenure, others with less. So I think it goes back to, you need the right governance structure in place where, yes, there are things that are inevitably not going to work throughout that cycle. It's the carrot and stick analogy, right? Is it, is there a reward in place? Or are we avoiding punishment? And you could argue that those two things are, are net, are rarely aligned. In our, in our market, it's often a lot more avoiding the stick than it is the carrot.
21:17 Speaker 01 But you have organizations that can maybe not have that be the compensation structure, but the, the leash or the latitude to be able to go out and experiment and find new opportunities and take on more of that perceived risk, whether that be through managers or strategies or whatever be underlying. But yeah, I think that's exactly the case is when you start seeing a lot of churn, and you see this with some of the biggest public pensions where there's a ton of external pressures or politics that play into it. Those are ones where, yes, they're very high profile jobs. They represent a ton of capital. It gives you the potential springboard to do some of this creative
21:59 Speaker 01 stuff, but the governance structure tends to turn a lot of that top talent away.
22:03 David Weisburd? What are some advantages that large institutional investors have over their small institutional peers?
22:10 Speaker 01 What the large institutions lack in, let me say nimbleness, I think they make up with the benefits of scale. So they can be a little bit more creative in the way they structure. I think of it as like access to best ideas. So you can go to a large manager, a large multi-strategy manager, if you have a nine or 10-figure check that you can deploy within them and create a a fee optimized, so a lower overall fee, potentially cross collateralized incentive, access to all the top talent within that organization to create a best ideas portfolio.
22:51 Speaker 01 So that's something that as a smaller investor can't do because the scale buys you into those rooms and allows you to to build that structure with the groups that have the capabilities resident within their firms.
23:04 David Weisburd? Can you give me an example of that?
23:05 Speaker 01 I want to say it was the state of New Jersey really pioneered this with some of the larger GPs. I'm going to blank on it. It was one of the large multi-strategy GPs. Maybe it was Apollo or TPG, one of those at the time. But you know, when you can, when you can deploy the size of capital, I want to say it was in the hundreds of millions of dollars to create a separate account to be able to then build a portfolio that maps directly to your investment needs and your goals at a lower cost. That's something that really gives you that leverage point. Obviously, you have to be with the right manager, you're getting the right support.
23:44 Speaker 01 But that is just something that's not available to an institution that can only write, you know, seven or eight-figure checks.
23:52 David Weisburd? I had Professor Steve Copeland from University of Chicago, arguably the the top researcher on private equity and venture capital. One of the things that he said that although large organizations oftentimes are limited kind of to these second, maybe third-tier funds, where they do benefit is from the co-invest. And just to give you an example, if a fund is 25% gross, that's roughly 19% net. So that's roughly 6% and in fees that you're paying to, the 2 and 20s essentially equates to about a 6%. Said another way, if you could have half of your portfolio being co-invest, half of it at 19, so half at 26, half at 19, you're outperforming the median fund by 3%.
24:37 David Weisburd? So what you lose in maybe your ability to get into the emerging managers or earlier stage funds, sometimes you get back in co-invest and that could be pretty meaningful as well.
24:46 Speaker 01 The ability to do some of those things, right? It just opens doors with that size. And then some of those things, it doesn't have to be at the, like a co-investment doesn't have to be at the largest, the very largest. I think a lot of the mid-market managers are looking for investors who have that appetite and can deliver on that. You will start entering into what does a co-investment program look like? How do you make the decisions? Are the deals where co-invest is available, the best deals, alpha drivers within the portfolio? So it's beyond just the fee arbitrage. I think you have to then think about the selection criteria that flows through there. But it absolutely can be the case, right?
25:29 Speaker 01 If you can dollar cost average into a fund and get the same exposures, you absolutely will have a benefit at size.
25:37 David Weisburd? So you spent 22 years across some of the top LPs in the world, Hamilton Lane, MetLife, Hurdle Callahan. What is the best in class co-investor program look like?
25:46 Speaker 01 LPs need two things. One, a clear point of view of what they want to do with co-investing. And a process that is streamlined and efficient. So they don't, so they can provide clarity to the GP. So one is, what are we looking to capture here? There are things about a co-investment program. It could be, I want that dollar cost average. I want every deal that I'm offered because I believe this manager is a quality manager and the deals that I'm going to be able to, be able to access at a lower rate are ultimately going to drive returns higher. That's one method. It could be, I want particular exposure to certain sectors or partners or whatever it might be.
26:28 Speaker 01 So I can take a little bit more of a pick and choose approach, a bottoms up diligence perspective to co-investments. And I'm going to overweight some of those. So I'm going to introduce some idiosyncratic risk into my program. Both of those are reasons why you can run a program. They have to be staffed differently. You have to think about the underwriting, the dollars, just the overall fit in the portfolio. And then on the other side, I think the, the process is even more important. Because the number of GPs that I talk to that say every LP raises their hand and says they want co-investment, being able to have a process where your underwriting is not going to slow down that manager, you also want to be able to give the GP clear guidance around,
27:11 Speaker 01 I need to, you know, we need a week to review the data room, a week to do legals, we want to have a call with management, we want to talk to your deal team, then we can give you an answer and we'll be done. So you think you, you just need to streamline that in a way that, that works for the GP and for you.
27:27 David Weisburd? I want you to brutally critique my back of envelope analysis. So mine is how much of the fund is investing in the co-invest? How much of the partner, the GP commit in the opportunity? Third one is which partner? So I think there's huge variation in quality within a fund in terms of the partner. And then who are the co-investors on the opportunity? What are the things that I miss? And what would you remove from that criteria list?
27:57 Speaker 01 I, I don't know if you gave them in rank order, but I think the, the number one that I would look at it is the, is the alignment with the strategy. Am I investing behind the partner who has the right healthcare experience to do this with a track record doing that? Half or 65% of my analysis is the sponsor review. Is it aligned with their strategy? Is it looking at, is it the right partner involved in it? Yeah, I think that those are the ones that you can kind of start with. I also like the, the first one you mentioned in terms of how much of the fund is going into this? And a second step of that is, at what point in the fund is this co-investment being made? Right? If it's the last deal out the door before they can start the fundraising clock on the next fund,
28:42 Speaker 01 not that that's a guarantee, but that's something to think about the first deal versus the last deal in a fund. I'm sure there's some analyses that could be done, whether that is, there's better or worse performance. But if it's that first deal, if it's a deal in mid-fund, if it's a deal later in the fund, what are the incentives behind that deal? And what are the reasons why I'm seeing that? That's something that I love as a co-investor. How did this get to my desk? What are the reasons why the GP isn't taking all of this? Or they aren't bringing in other co-investors? So those are the types of things. I do like to see who else is in the deal. It gives you a point of reference. And it also tells you, okay, the other groups who may have been thinking about this same space,
29:27 Speaker 01 that point of nobody being smarter than everyone, get the benefit of how other people are thinking about it. So I worry less about, in a particular co-investment context, I worry less about the GP putting incremental capital into the deal. But I do think about, you know, just how it fits from an overall portfolio perspective. If we're talking about a continuation vehicle or a co-investment in that context, I absolutely want to see alignment with the GP's dollars going into that, rolling their carry, whatever it might look like. But in a regular way, co-investment, I'm a little less focused on that. More the alignment within the firm with the people and strategy, and then where it happens in the fund life.
30:06 David Weisburd? How else do you suss out the GP's conviction in the investment? What are some non-traditional ways to understand how much conviction the entire team or a specific partner has on the deal?
30:21 Speaker 01 You can use the traditional metrics would be like, is this a max position in your fund? But I think too, that's going to come from one-to-one conversations. I don't know if you can, references of course, but I don't know if you can end around that really in any way. You really have to talk to the GP about what they've seen in this. And maybe you can intuit some of that from the way they write about it in their memos and what you're going to see in a data room for that deal. But I think most of it is going to be asking them relative. Every GP will tell you, you know, they don't pick their favorite children. Every deal they love, every deal they underwrite to great outcomes.
31:00 Speaker 01 But really, I think having that conversation and knowing enough about the rest of that portfolio that you can juxtapose the deal they did, you know, the prior year versus this one. Why is this better? Why is this different? And then back to that point of why am I seeing it? That's the thing you want to suss out too, is if. If there is co-investment available, what is the reason why? Is it a conviction based? Is it a portfolio construction based? Is it a time? Is it a deal size? So all those sorts of things. Not that that's going to give you the, you know, the flashing light on, on the why, on the level of conviction, but they're all pieces that could go into that puzzle.
31:43 David Weisburd? The way that I look at it is I do look at it as basically like intelligence gathering, not to be skeptical. And to your point, everybody, every GP is going to say this is their, their favorite kid. So I think if you're doing the diligence just in time, I think you've already lost. You have to be building a mosaic of information on that GP, on that fund. And that's why I think when LPs look at co-invest, it's smarter to pick a couple managers that you could go deep on, understand their, how they think about things, understand the cadence, build the relationship with them. Relationship is not built just in time either. And then you'll have a better sense for, there's two ways to find out if this is a max deal or if this is the right size.
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33:34 Speaker 01 This, this David is how we started our program at MetLife is we identified who the partners were that we had the most faith in and, and let, I'll take a step back. Not who we had the most faith in, where we were seeing co-investment flow, or we liked the nature of it, where we had partners, where we could shortcut some of that, that whole prepared mind idea of, we know what we like, we know what, we believe this manager is really good at, and the deals that we would want to co-invest with them on. So that was a way to, one, help us build our own process on the ground versus just opening up the top of the funnel and saying, everybody send everything. And then we're left scrambling and trying to meet deadlines and do a lot of those things.
34:17 Speaker 01 So I think that is, that is a critical point is like knowing what you're looking for and being as prepared as you can.
34:23 David Weisburd? Wait, are you saying that at MetLife, you had more favored managers versus less favored managers? Just like GPs have, GPs have more favorites portfolio. That can't possibly be true, right?
34:33 Speaker 01 Never picking your favorite children, of course.
34:36 David Weisburd? You almost narked on yourself as well.
34:38 Speaker 01 Oh, no.
34:40 David Weisburd? So, so, so before you went to MetLife, you went to Hurdle Callahan. We had, we had the CIO Brad Conger. What was the main difference between Hurdle Callahan and Hamilton Lane? What was the stark differences between those two organizations?
34:55 Speaker 01 Yeah, obviously organization type, right? One being an asset manager consultant dealing with large institutions. And the other being an OCIO where the core market is high net worth individuals, family offices and small institutions. All the things I got to do at Hamilton Lane from back office, front office, research, product, investor relations, legal, all the things that I touched. I actually was responsible for when I ultimately took over the role, leading that team. I felt closer to the money, which, you know, you're talking to the individuals. You're really seeing the impact that you're having on those, what we called good works organizations.
35:35 Speaker 01 So a lot of the institutions were foundations, charitable organizations, hospitals, orphanages, things like that. And those were, you know, there's just a deeper connection when you can see that and and talk to the folks there.
35:48 David Weisburd? And you mentioned you had more interaction with LPs in the seat in a hurdle. How did having daily or weekly conversations with LPs affect the way that you went about investing the portfolio? Did that make a change?
36:03 Speaker 01 It did. It's like this lens of stewardship of just like, okay, I can see, I can talk to the principals at the family offices. I can talk to some of these charitable organizations and see the great things that they're doing. And that rightly or wrongly gave me the greater sense of connection to the dollars. But I also got to hear the challenges of what they were going through. So we had taxable and non-taxable clients. For the first time in my career, I was learning about after, how to think about after tax returns, K1s, reporting. It helped bring a lens into the ODD, into the operational due diligence of how my conversations with managers went. And also thinking about like efficiency of cash, right? How do we use the credit facility?
36:46 Speaker 01 How do we think about capital call timing when you are trying to not just maximize return, but be more efficient for these clients? And David, I'd say the other thing to working directly with these folks, each of these annual semi-annual or bi-annual vintages, we had about 200 discrete clients in each of those pools. And the level of understanding of the market was kind of up and down the spectrum. So it kept me on my toes, but it also forced me to distill what RIC said. So when we did our underwriting, how can we bring that then? This is a fantastic investment opportunity, but how can I put that across in clear, concise way to the clients so they can see the value in what we're doing?
37:30 David Weisburd? Hamilton Lane is approaching a trillion dollars in assets. I think Hurdle Callahan is over 20 billion. This is extremely large and by no means small pool of capital. At the same light, it is a 50x difference. What are some challenges with being on the smaller side as an LP and as an allocator?
37:51 Speaker 01 The smaller size generally means smaller teams, which means less resources to canvas the market and oftentimes less capital to command attention, right? Everything we just talked about with the large institutions where a scale can be a weapon, you don't necessarily have that as a smaller investor. Now, we had the beauty as an OCIO, the model is to aggregate even smaller investors and look and feel like a $20 billion institution. So operate with that heft in the market. So we were able to, one, I think, get more access than what we could, what any of our institutions could get on their own.
38:30 Speaker 01 But we also had the level of flexibility to do things up and down the size range. If you're deploying nine figures a year, billion plus a year, that's going to be something that, you know, the small end of the manager horizon is really hard to do in an efficient way. So as a smaller institution, not only could we, you know, could we look at some of those managers, but we were also of a big enough size that we could attract the attention of some of the larger folks. So by and large, smaller investors face those challenges. Sometimes they can't get direct exposure, so have to use platforms, fund of funds, intermediaries.
39:13 Speaker 01 But when you're, when you're sort of where we were at Hurdle, that size was optimal because you could still do the small things that were interesting, but you also had enough punching power to get, you know, to get exposure to some of the bigger names.
39:29 David Weisburd? I've been doing my own intelligence gathering around what is the optimal LP size? And everybody wants to give me a different narrative, but it seems like somewhere between five to 10 billion and 10 to 20 million dollar checks is kind of like the ideal for both getting access and generating alpha. Would you agree with that? Or what would be your optimal size?
39:50 Speaker 01 I think you could go even a little smaller than that. We talked about the moving the needle, right? The efficiency of capital. If I'm a billion dollars, I can't write a 10 or 20 or 50 million dollar check and have it matter. But when I am of, I would say the one to five billion dollar range is also a place where you can do a lot of things, be impactful in the small and emerging space. So where I think the true alpha exists in the market, but then you also have the ability to do some things that are a little bit larger. So I'd say as small as a billion dollars in terms of total assets. And then that can go all the way up to, you know, I, I think I'm biased, but what we had
40:30 Speaker 01 at Hurdle was a great, a great size that gave us that latitude that I could see firsthand.
40:38 David Weisburd? While at Hurdle, you would get about 300 GP pitches a year and you would say yes to only 10. Tell me about what would make you say no very quickly? Is it just returns or is there something else outside of returns that would be like, no, this is a no pile immediately?
40:55 Speaker 01 That 300 were ones that I think we, we actually looked at with any level. So the in the cold inbound pitches, there's another tier above that where I think there is a blunt instrument that you say, this is just not a fit from size, structure, whatever it might be, that, that you've predefined, right? Say, we, we won't do first time funds. Okay, that's an easy disqualifiers. But, but once you get into, you know, that first conversation. Our program at Hurdle had autonomy over all alternatives, but the program had the specific need to fill within the client's asset allocation. So not only were we putting together our own puzzle in each individual pool, but generally, clients were participating on an annual basis.
41:37 Speaker 01 So it all had to fit in not just their private equity allocation or private assets allocation, but also in their overall asset allocation. And so because of that, I had very few disqualifiers at the top. But the one thing I would try to suss out as quickly as possible, I mentioned it before, but is this lack of partnership mentality. So I was focused on the relationship building, short and long term. And I was willing to hear almost anybody out regardless of the source or the strategy. So we took inbound from our clients, from our sales folks, from placement agents, from wherever it was. My goal was to see as much as I could, make quick decisions on, does this even have any potential?
42:20 Speaker 01 But because we could go pretty much anywhere, I tried to be as open minded. Then after that second call, that's when you really had to start thinking about, what is the real fit here, bottoms up, tops down, and think about that.
42:35 David Weisburd? Perhaps a very odd question, but why does the partnership mentality matter? In other words, if you had a best in class crypto or venture investor, and let's say he or she was not a very likable person, but just a good investor, why would that be a problem?
42:54 Speaker 01 It's partly the way I was brought up and partly the way I think about the world. I think it was Seth Alexander who said, like, it's don't, don't treat relationships as if they're transactions, right? If I'm buying and selling a security, great. Like, that is a transaction, that's a trade. I sometimes get uncomfortable when people talk about investments they make as bets, right? Because inherently, you're investing in people and what they're building. And the flow through is either a founder who's building something, a company that's creating something. So I always think about it in, you know, what is the long term nature of this? So that is where.
43:32 Speaker 01 You know, the ways that I think about partnership mentality are very much qualitative, right? It's, it's, what do we start talking about? When that first 10 minutes of the conversation, are you already on page five or six of your slide deck, talking about your performance and your returns, right? Are we, are you interested in what this matter, what this means to me? In terms of, I'm going to be the source of your capital. Let's talk about what I'm looking for. And then you should have the awareness to understand if that is going to be a fit or not, and where to take it from there. So I think there's, there's like a pitch style, there's a conversation, there's how do we start? How do we start this potential long-term relationship? If it's just talking about a deal or something like that, that's a little bit harder.
44:17 Speaker 01 Now, it's not a disqualifier, but I'm, I'm looking out for that. I want to see also responsiveness. I want to see a lot of these intangibles that, you know, go beyond what's in the pitch deck and go beyond the performance numbers. And those are the things that, you know, I think about a lot.
44:37 David Weisburd? This goes back to this long-term games and the devil's in the details. I got to pitch to Marc Andreessen when I was 25 years old. In retrospect, it was an absurd pitch. I remember it so clearly because it was Marc Andreessen, still at the time, he was incredibly famous and he gave me so much benefit of doubt and he gave me so much of his attention that I could never, even if I wanted to give a negative reference on somebody Andreessen, I would hold my mouth. He just endeared, endeared so much loyalty in me for the rest of my career because it was such a, such a difference in power and he was so respectful to me. And that oftentimes plays out over several decades where it was, it would be easy for him to be rude and that wouldn't really show up in his numbers maybe for three to four years.
45:21 David Weisburd? So there is this kind of lagging indicator in how you treat people. And that doesn't mean that you have to invest in them or you have to even keep the relationship. Treating, treating somebody like a person and like a human being. May not show up in the numbers right away, but actually can dear pretty loyalty for a long, long enough time period.
45:41 Speaker 01 That's great to hear because I do think the, the thing that most people want is, is feedback and attention. And if you can give that to someone who's pitching, you know, going in 95, 98% of 100 conversations are going to be a no. But getting create, getting constructive feedback, having someone of that caliber be able to pay, pay attention to you. I, I have used now for the last six, seven years, my, my favorite hashtag is, is people first, right? And that's across the board. I feel like that's always the tiebreaker. If you think about managers that look similar, right? That, that may have similar returns operating in similar space. How do you feel about that person? Right? What is, what are, how do they make you feel? What is, what is a lot of, what are a lot of the intangibles that
46:26 Speaker 01 they have? Because at the end of the day, these are long-term relationships. And it goes back to, to the, how do people make decisions? They make decisions with their gut and they confirm it with data and with their head rather than vice versa. I, I, and I don't know if that's universal, but that's certainly the way I, I try to fight some of those biases. But after this amount of time, I have a good inclination on after that first meeting, how do I feel about this person? Let me take stock of what was going on there. And now what can I do? Back to those points of like, what are the three or four things that are really going to drive my decision? If I'm questioning the character of a person or their ability to be a partner, I'm not sure I can tease that out in references.
47:11 Speaker 01 I may have more conversations, but those are things that kind of stick with.
47:14 David Weisburd? It's interesting because in your seat at Hamilton Lane, also at Hurdle, you're probably in situations where you could make somebody's career. You're a kingmaker. And I think oftentimes about this, it's like, who are the people that other people want to king make? There's almost opposite stories on this. I'll give you two stories. One is there's a startup founder. I invested a small amount in his company. I made the introduction for him to get acquired. He made, you know, tens of millions of dollars and I was happy to do it. I wasn't looking for fear or anything. But then a year later, he told me the story about how he reached out to the person. It was such a compelling story that I had to check my email to see like if I was misremembering.
47:55 David Weisburd? But he had literally deleted that story that I'd made the introduction to that person, which I was happy to do at the time. So that's, that's one extreme. The other extreme is you see these people and sometimes you see these subtle signals. Sometimes they could be, they could seem kind of cocky or overconfident, but they keep their fun the right size. Or they, they do the right thing with LPs and you're like, this person's not only a good steward of capital, but this is a humble person. This is somebody that checks their, has their ego in check. And my theory is that those are the type of people that maybe paradoxically will end up building the next great asset managers. Because people realize that, people like you realize that if they king make them, they're not going to go back and forget who helped them. They're going to be grateful.
48:39 David Weisburd? And those are the kind of people that you want to, to be the next billionaires. And I think that's a, this kind of soft part of the market that, that goes underappreciated.
48:48 Speaker 01 That, that is exactly how I see it. And that, that is great to kind of put that out in the world too. You know, you hear the phrase, no asshole policy from a lot of people all the time. That's, that's a big word to use to define people, but what, you can still be an asshole and be a good investor, right? But are you a good partner? Does that bleed into other areas that, you know, if, if that is a differential for me? If I'm only return seeking and I'm going to be okay to bite my tongue and, and deal with what might be a less than favorable partnership dynamic? Then I think you'll have that and you definitely have numbers and numbers of people who might fall into that category who are super successful.
49:32 Speaker 01 But my own personal view and this this concept of king making is is it's certainly there. But it's it's one of those things where who who should be that next generation? Who are you to decide? But if I'm looking at characteristics and being able to put those forward, I'm certainly going to favor those that walk in the world of certain.
49:52 David Weisburd? So today you have a very interesting seat. So you consult both GPs and LPs. Why did you make the choice to consult on both sides?
50:01 Speaker 01 I wouldn't say it was a conscious choice, honestly. I had after the long and winding road at at Hamilton Lane Hurdle and then MetLife and then most recently at a startup called Allocate, you know, those those were all experiences where with the exception of MetLife were commercial roles, right? I was dealing with LPs and GPs. Ran our investment team at Allocate, led our private equity program at Hurdle, obviously was seeing a bunch of stuff at Hamilton Lane. All of those things let me, we talked a little bit about it, let me see the LP lens, but also understand what GPs are looking for or what LPs are looking for in GPs.
50:41 Speaker 01 So what I started doing was actually talking with GPs in more of like a coaching context where they're like, hey, I'm kind of hitting a brick wall on this. Can you give me some feedback? Back to your to your analogy with Mark Andreessen, all these GPs are starved for feedback. In my informal survey of these groups, 80% of emerging GPs were getting little to no feedback. And that could be the ghosting or that could be, sorry, not interested, right? That's not helping them get any better. So they're starved for feedback. So that was one of the places where I slotted in and. I found that most of these groups, particularly on the emerging side, they didn't know what they didn't know. So this being able to shine a light for those groups, that was a great opportunity.
51:25 Speaker 01 And as I put it today, and this overlaps with the LPs, it's the zero to one moment. And the zero to one can be with GPs, anyone who's just starting out, raising their first fund, that's the most obvious. But going to Fund Two or Fund Three, where you're targeting institutional LPs now, or you need to figure out what an ODD process looks like. Or a Fund Four, where now you have a body of work and you have to figure out how to display your performance in a certain way, or tell the story about some lessons learned. Fund Five, where you might have some generational transition. So zero to one moments are happening everywhere within the GP community. So that's where I plug in to be able to give them some insights on how LPs are going to view that,
52:10 Speaker 01 but also how to optimize that. And then on the LP side, you can imagine it's the most natural transition for me, having managed portfolios and programs for 20 years. That's where I can lend myself into emerging LPs. So think of multifamily offices, RIAs, groups that are just getting started, that may not have the governance rails to, you know, I work with some groups that are thinking about, what's the right IC structure? How should we vote? How should we produce memos? What are some of the milestones? So some of the procedural stuff. Others, it's eyes and ears in certain markets, helping them underwrite introductions.
52:50 Speaker 01 Like a lot of this stuff where I can help craft a portfolio without having, you know, a full-time seat within there. So LPs more and more these days are looking for that kind of support. They're going through their own zero to one moments there too. So that's how it all kind of came together over the last, you know, 15, 16 months. And I would say it puts me in a very interesting position, as you alluded to, where I'm seeing probably more, maybe more GP pipeline than I had as a sitting LP. But with my LP consultation advice, I'm also having a pulse on the market of what many of these LPs are looking for.
53:28 David Weisburd? You mentioned 80% of GPs have almost no feedback. That's one of the sad parts about being an emerging manager, is that it's not only that people are rejecting you and saying, no, you don't even know why. So there's not this like feedback loop. Now, you obviously have this different vantage point and 22 years of experience when you look at these GPs. Double click on why GPs that might have all the internal ingredients, so everything's good, but they somehow fail to raise money. What are some common patterns among those GPs?
54:03 Speaker 01 I should say, every GP is a little different, of course, but I think it's the fundamental mismatch of what most LPs want to hear versus what GPs think they have to say. And I'll unwrap that a little bit because most of the GPs I'm working with are emerging managers and they just don't have enough context. They continue to use words like "unique" and "proprietary" in this market. And in their own universe, they may well be, and these may be words that are supportive. As an LP, going back to just my Hurdle Callian days, the number you cited, 3, 4, 5, 600 funds a year, 10 meetings a week, right? Unique means you're one, is an N of one.
54:46 Speaker 01 Proprietary means you're the only person with access to this. Means, those are things that I look at with a lot of skepticism, and I think a lot of LPs do that too. So fundamentally, it's, GPs are told you have to figure out your differentiation, your edge, how you're going to win in this market. And a lot of them lean towards, we're the only ones who are doing what we're doing, without the understanding that it's not about being different, in my mind, it's about being authentic and being better, right? It's how are you positioned to do the thing that you're going to do in the way that makes sense from all the experiences that you've had? And how are you going to be able to do that better than peers? So it's less about unique proprietary, it's more about different and better.
55:31 David Weisburd? The analogy I like to use is analogous to the NBA. You might be an excellent basketball player. You might be 1 in 1,000, 1 in 10,000. But private equity or venture capital market is the professional leagues. And just because you're exceptionally good at basketball doesn't mean you're going to make it to the NBA. So having that context of it's not that you're not good. It's not that you're not even extremely good. It's that the bar is that high and let's try to point how you could get better versus focusing on how you're already good. And kind of reframing that could be could be helpful, especially GPs could get in this dark place of constant rejection. And the stakes are so high.
56:12 David Weisburd? Once you quote unquote, make it, you are set sometimes for intergenerational wealth. So the stakes and the rewards are high, but having the right mindset is also critical.
56:23 Speaker 01 I would 100% echo that in that, you know, the one of the things, you know, we talked about too is that how GPs perceive themselves. Right. It's, are they overconfident? Are they not like, what's, what's the framing of that? And I feel like some GPs, and I'm fortunate, I get to work with who I regard as some of the smartest and most accomplished people. To your point, like they have, they have the reason to exist. They have the credibility there, but they systematically undersell themselves. They, it's usually more on paper, but even when you talk, you talk to them like the, in fundraising, right?
57:05 Speaker 01 You're saying like, it's not just about the skill, but being able to self promote is, is essential. Right. So as an investor, I think you have to, you have to establish credibility and gain trust from investors. And I think that comes from telling LPs exactly what you've done and how well you've done it. Including all your accomplishments, but not just the past, but how that's going to translate into future outperformance or a future way to really pull this through. And I think that's not, that's not meant to be braggadocious. It's meant to, you do it in a matter of fact, way that still recognizes that you, you know, what you don't know. And that you're still learning.
57:50 Speaker 01 It's this combination of humility and, you know, self-promotion. It's tough.
57:57 David Weisburd? And you said this last time we chatted, you said, GPs are at the same time, too much humble and too much bragging. What did you mean by that?
58:05 Speaker 01 A lot around the idea that they may lean into certain areas that they think people want to hear. So in my mind, you do have to pound your chest a little bit and talk about the things that you've done where the perception of that might be this person's arrogant, this person is too self-promoting. But in this market, you can't, you have to articulate that so people will understand what's happening and why you're positioned in a way that you deserve capital. And then on the flip side, the humility piece, that is a quality that is necessary. To your point, one of my favorite emerging managers is a guy by the name of Dan Kimerling
58:47 Speaker 01 at Desians Capital, and he wrote a piece where he said he went an entire calendar year without hearing yes. So a calendar year of hearing no's, talk about an industry that humbles you. I think that is something that you really have to put into context. If you're not already humble, if you already, if you go into this thinking, I'm going to steamroll through this. I'm going to go up and down in my fundraise. Everybody's going to love me. I'm going to tell people how great I am. It's a mentality, but if you go in with the idea that, yes, I know this is going to be hard. My first question to every GP is like, why do you want to do this now, right? Why do you want to run into what are a ton of headwinds in one of the more challenging markets?
59:33 Speaker 01 So the self-awareness that, you know, I know this is going to be hard. I believe I have the skills to do it.
59:41 Speaker 01 But I also know that, you know, things aren't going to go my way in a lot of this. So trying to keep that nice balance, but it is, it's tough. It is very hard for a GP to be both of those things, but you do need to be both of those things to be successful.
59:57 David Weisburd? The razor that I use on anything that I start is, do I want to do this for 10 years? Because if you commit to something for 10 years, you will be world-class, especially in the business world. So the question is, do you want to pay the toll of 10 years? It's not whether you could be world-class, not whether you could be, get great. It's, are you willing to put in the suffering? I'll give you an distinct example. I started a newsletter probably about a year ago, and I actually got to 1,000 subscribers pretty quickly, which is a good metric. And every week I would sit down and it would be, it's not, it wasn't fun. I didn't love it. I didn't love it like our conversation. And I asked myself that simple razor, can I do it for 10 years? First answer was immediately, no. Can I do it for one year? Probably I'd hate it.
1:00:41 David Weisburd? But if you look at everything as the value of compounding, if you ask yourself, is this worth it for 10 years? And frankly, you know, a lot of people should be, should quit more tasks more often if they're not aligned with them. If they're not naturally good with it, people think quitting is bad. I very happily quit the newsletter and I'm very happily will talk about it because I think it's something that's under, undershared in terms of the virtue of quitting, I guess, for lack of a better word.
1:01:09 Speaker 01 It, it, it's a great example, right? It's investing a fund too. I mean, that, that's your time, that's your energy, that's something that I'm sure you could have, you know, gritted your teeth and gone through it. But it's about where you get energy. I take it a step further with most of the managers that I'm talking to that want to launch a first-time fund. We do the math, right of like, what, do you understand raising a $10 million fund now and charging 2% management fees? Right? What, what does that mean? Are you in a position where financially that's not going to bring any stress to you? And now that's taking aside all the other factors of how you're going to execute, what you're going to build. Do you know everything you need to know?
1:01:50 Speaker 01 But just looking at it from a pure dollars and cents perspective, a lot of people don't. And I think we're, we're probably past that now, four or five years ago, when money was, was cheap and, and flowing freely. Yeah, you saw your friend do it. You wanted to do it. You did it. And then coming back and raising fund two, it's a completely different environment. So now I think people have seen some of the carnage of what's happened. But I, I do have to give advice to people where I tell them, just take a beat. Maybe don't do this right now. Think about the implications of keeping your job for another year, continuing to do some angel investing, build a track record, think more about this,
1:02:32 Speaker 01 right? And that's, it's hard to give that feedback because you feel like you're, you're popping a balloon for somebody. But it is much more of a, you know, it's just being realistic and pragmatic about what I see, that idea of context and letting people know it's okay. Right? Um, I heard a great quote too, where it's, um, the quote is, I'm in the middle of the ocean now, and it's going to take me just as much time and energy to swim back to shore as it is to go out. So those are, that's something where I think you do have to be thoughtful about when you first commit, know that, you know, you're, you're getting deeper and deeper into that. So when do you pull the ripcord?
1:03:15 Speaker 01 How do you continuously assess this? All the things that you said, there is virtue in it, but I like the tenure test for sure.
1:03:22 David Weisburd? And there's also some, some stuff should stay as, as a hobby. Actually, I'm a big, big proponent for top CEOs doing angel investing on the side. I think that really betters people being CEOs, but that doesn't mean that you have to go into a fund. I was listening to Alex Ramosi. I just had a three hour sit down with him, which will be released in a month or so. He's, I think, one of the most underrated thinkers. And one of the stories that he tells is he used to be really into ping pong. And so his, so he asked, how do I get better as a ping pong player? And he looked at it and he realized it's like doing 500 four hands a day. And he's like, no, thank you. I'm good being an amateur. I don't want to take away the joy from my ping pong playing. I get that
1:04:06 David Weisburd? that's really what it takes to get to the next level, but it's not a price I'm willing, I'm willing to pay.
1:04:10 Speaker 01 Yeah, it's all about the, the joy and the energy, right? If you can, i- is it sucking it out of you? Or are you putting it back out? Those are the things too, where it's going to be tough. Let's, uh, think, think about it.
1:04:22 David Weisburd? So you also, we talked about on the GP side, you also advise some of the top. Emerging LPs, for lack of a better word. What are the characteristics of these LPs that you advise and how do you help them?
1:04:36 Speaker 01 For the most part, the label emerging means they're relatively new to the asset class. They also tend to be understaffed, right? They may, there may be a CIO and a junior resource that are maybe doing other things as well. So they don't have the resident expertise on private markets. So I'd say, early on in their, in their journey, I will say it's self-awareness and humility as well. In this case, that they will self-select into working with me because I think there's a lot of this. We need to be the ones going out and finding this and owning relationships and things like that. When you put it back into the framework of what is my institutional organizational goal? How do I best achieve that?
1:05:18 Speaker 01 It's the idea of, some people are afraid to use fund of funds because they feel like they're outsourcing some of what they should be doing internally. The groups that I'm working with and the right fit for me are groups that have, that understand that they can't do everything on their own. And they need some of that time and attention from an expert. And I, I use this phrase, adult supervision, where these are, these are not kids by any means, but these are groups that, you know, they, they want to push the envelope, they want to continue to do things internally. But they also want a second set of eyes who can help them, you know, avoid the landmines that might be there. I, I coached them through a lot of things in, you know, just investment due diligence frameworks, operational due diligence,
1:06:03 Speaker 01 you know, marketing of a deal, all those sorts of things.
1:06:06 David Weisburd? So you seem to have this great skill of self-selecting for the right people in your life, the right GPs and the right LPs. Maybe you could coach me on this. How do you signal or set the right intention in the market in order to select, self-select into the type of people that you want?
1:06:22 Speaker 01 You kiss a lot of frogs, right? I think part of it is making sure that, that you are out there enough, right? You're, it's not a funnel analogy, but it's, it's being, putting yourself in the right places. You know, about six years ago, I started thinking in public, writing a lot, you know, whether that be long form, short form. I found my voice and I think that's something where. I'm curious what you think about it, but I see so much content that's AI-generated, that does it, that feels generic. So I think there's this concept of authenticity. I have no problem sharing my background, the things that I've done, the things that I've failed at, how I think I can be valuable. And if I can't be, I'm happy to tell you as well.
1:07:07 Speaker 01 I find now, having gone through this, you get a better ear. And I think about it in the lens of, how can I help you? What, in our first 30-minute call, if I can't identify one way that I can help you, and I will talk to pretty much anybody on that context, then I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna try to sell services or things that you don't need. It's being, understanding where your value, where your value lies, and how you can bring it to folks. Having that authentic voice, being, you know, the interactions with folks. Thankfully, I've had this good fortune of now having worked with a lot of great folks and having great experiences with them. So that's, that's my, my method. I don't know
1:07:48 Speaker 01 if that's a, if that's a playbook or a, or a coachable point, but definitely the way I'm thinking about it.
1:07:54 David Weisburd? If you use a Tim Ferriss quote, fire your customers, you could go upstream of that and just being explicit about, this is what I do, this is what I don't do. I'm not just gonna do this for you because I believe, you know, if I'm working on the wrong task for you, I feel like I'm being a disservice to, to the LP. So setting those expectations upfront, I think could be powerful as well. Matt, this has been absolute masterclass on LP, GP, emerging. Really appreciate you taking so much time and I look forward to continuing the conversation live.
1:08:24 Speaker 01 Absolutely. Thanks, David. This is great.
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