Pod Insights Habits and Hustle Episode 496: Dr. Michael Breus: The 4-7-8 Breathing Trick That Fixes Middle-of-the-Night Insomnia About this episode Listen to the full episode: https://youtu.be/trGbcAqF2dA?si=qG5E_F-gP4x8qQhp
Why do you wake up at 3:30 AM and can't fall back asleep? In this Fitness Friday episode on the Habits and Hustle podcast, Michael Breus, the Sleep Doctor, says it's not your fault.
We unpack the science of why everyone wakes up between 1-3 AM, the shocking Alzheimer's connection to Benadryl, and why CBN (not CBD) is the cannabis compound that actually helps sleep. Plus: the truth about melatonin, why magnesium beats most sleep aids, and the supplement deficiencies sabotaging your rest.
Dr. Michael Breus is a clinical psychologist and one of only 168 psychologists in the world board-certified in sleep medicine. Known as "The Sleep Doctor," he's the author of five books including Sleep, Drink, Breathe and has treated celebrities from Carson Daly to Paris Hilton to DJ Steve Aoki.
What we discuss:
Why every human wakes up between 1-3 AM
The 4-7-8 breathing technique Navy SEALs use to lower heart rate below 60
Yoga nidra gives you 20 minutes of sleep benefit for every hour of rest
Regular Benadryl/ZzzQuil use directly linked to Alzheimer's disease
CBD does nothing for sleep. What actually reduces nighttime awakenings
The three deficiencies destroying your sleep
Why melatonin affects birth control, SSRIs, and is NOT for children
Natural alternatives to melatonin
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0:01 Speaker 00 Hi guys, this is Tony Robbins. You're listening to Habits and Hustle. Crush it.
0:08 Jen Cohen? Hey friends, you're listening to Fitness Friday on the Habits and Hustle Podcast, where myself and my friends share quick and very actionable advice for you becoming your healthiest self. So stay tuned and let me know how you leveled up.
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1:53 Jen Cohen? Now that I'm in my 40s now, falling asleep is not the problem.
1:56 Speaker 02 Right.
1:57 Jen Cohen? The problem is getting up, like getting up in the middle of the night.
2:01 Speaker 02 Oh, yes.
2:02 Jen Cohen? I, that, that happens all like by, by.
2:04 Speaker 02 I can fix that.
2:05 Jen Cohen? How? Okay. So this is my problem. So I get fall asleep, no problem.
2:08 Speaker 02 Yep.
2:08 Jen Cohen? 3:30, boom, I'm awake. And then once I'm awake.
2:12 Speaker 02 I've got the answer.
2:13 Jen Cohen? Yeah. Can't fall asleep again.
2:14 Speaker 02 Got the answer for you. It's gonna take me about three and a half to four minutes, just letting you know. Cause I know you usually like short answers. This one's gonna take a minute.
2:20 Jen Cohen? Okay, go ahead.
2:21 Speaker 02 So, first of all, this is my number one video on YouTube. This is, video has gotten 5.4 million views at this point to answer this question. And this question is the number one question that I get asked. The number two question is what bed should I buy? It's kinda interesting, right?
2:36 Jen Cohen? Really?
2:36 Speaker 02 I swear to you, it's crazy.
2:37 Jen Cohen? What bed should I buy?
2:38 Speaker 02 I'll talk to you about that. Let's fix your insomnia first.
2:40 Jen Cohen? Okay.
2:40 Speaker 02 So when people wake up in the middle of the night, it's actually not your fault. Let me explain. When you wake up in the, uh, well, I'm sorry. When you go to bed at night, your core body temperature rises, rises, rises, until it hits a peak. When it hits that peak, it begins to drop, usually around 10, 10:30 at night. Depending on your chronotype, remember my animals?
2:59 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
2:59 Speaker 02 That'll change a little bit, but as soon as that happens, your core body temperature continues to drop, drop, drop. At some point, your core body temperature has to raise, otherwise you're gonna become hypothermic. I'll give you one guess as to what time that usually is for you.
3:14 Jen Cohen? 3 o'clock in the morning.
3:15 Speaker 02 That's exactly right. So every human on earth wakes up at some point in time during the night, usually between 1 and 3 o'clock in the morning. That's because of this increase in core body temperature. However, most people don't even know that they've woken up because you have to be awake for about 45 seconds to actually realize that you're awake and they, and they roll over and they're back to sleep. You, however, are not. So let's talk about that situation right there. Okay? So when you look at that situation right there, there's a few different biology aspects that you need to know and understand. So number one, my first thing is I tell people, don't go pee. Now, I wanna be clear, if you gotta go to the bathroom, go to the bathroom.
3:57 Speaker 02 But hold on for a second. 90% of people tell me, they wake up and they say, well, I'm up. I might as well go pee. So there's a statistic that people don't know. In order to enter into a state of unconsciousness, you need a heart rate of 60 or below. What do you think happens to your heart rate when you go from a lying position to a seated position to a standing position and go pee?
4:17 Jen Cohen? It's much higher.
4:18 Speaker 02 Much higher. So when you get back, then you've got two issues. You've got to get your heart rate down and you've got to get yourself back to sleep. So don't go pee unless you really have to go pee. Now, a lot of people turn to me and they say, well, Michael, I feel like my bladder is full or something like that. And so I say, number one, are you on your side when you wake up? 75% of people are. I said, roll to your back and count to 20 and see if you still have to pee. Because what happens is a lot of people squinched their bladder, right? While they're on their side. And when they just kind of stretch out and lie on their back and relax for two seconds, they're like, oh, actually, I don't, I don't have to pee. So then they don't have to get up. So then they can move forward with the process of trying to lower their heart rate. I want to be super clear. If you've got to pee, go pee. All right?
4:59 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
5:00 Speaker 02 Number two, don't look at the clock. Now, this is also another thing that almost everybody does.
5:05 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
5:06 Speaker 02 Right? And they instantly do the mental math and they say, oh shit, it's 3:30 in the morning and I got to get up at 6:20. Sleep, sleep, sleep. And you try to force yourself to sleep. Got to be honest with you, JC, in the history of time, no one has ever been able to force themselves to sleep. Because your energy's going in the wrong way, right? When you're saying sleep, sleep, sleep, your heart rate's kicking up.
5:28 Jen Cohen? And the anxiety kicks in.
5:30 Speaker 02 Right. That's the biggest factor is when you do the math and you're like, oh no, this is going to be a disaster.
5:36 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
5:37 Speaker 02 Right? And your heart rate, bit of it, bit of it, bit of it, straight up. Okay? So if you can avoid it, don't look at the clock. Now, I'm going to be honest with you. Everybody looks at the clock. Everybody looks at the clock. But if you can avoid it, what I do is I tell people, look, charge your phone in another room or charge it in the bathroom. People always say, oh, I can't charge my phone in another room. What if my kid calls me in the middle of the night? Number one, your kid hasn't ever called you in the middle of the night. And I didn't say turn it off. I said, put it in the other room. You can still hear it, but I don't want it to be easily accessible for you to get the piece of information to realize that you're in an anxious situation. Okay. Let's say I haven't gone to the bathroom, or I have, and I haven't looked at the clock. Michael, what do I do now? So there's something that I learned a little bit ago to help lower
6:19 Speaker 02 your heart rate actually quite rapidly. It's called four, seven, eight breathing. I did not develop it. It was developed by a very smart doctor. Doctor, Dr. Andrew Weil, Harvard trained naturalist.
6:29 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
6:30 Speaker 02 Okay.
6:30 Jen Cohen? I know him.
6:31 Speaker 02 Yep, super interesting guy, right? So he actually created this breathing technique for the Navy SEALs. So when you're a Navy SEAL and you're shooting downrange, if your heart is beating too fast, you can change the trajectory of the bullet. So he helped all the Navy SEALs lower their heart rate to a point where they could fire in between heartbeats. That happened to be 60, which is our magic number. So we're on. So I teach people how to do four, seven, eight breathing. Now, there's two things that, well, three things that I want you to understand here. Number one, four, seven, eight is exactly what it sounds like. You breathe in slowly for a count of four. You hold for a count of seven and you breathe slowly for a count of eight. Back out. I'm going to be honest with you. When I first tried it, I couldn't do it. So I modified it, made it a four, five, six breathing.
7:15 Speaker 02 So my hold was a little shorter and my output was a little shorter. And it took me about a month to be able to kind of get my lungs used to this. But here's why it works so well. When you're counting, you can't think about anything else, which turns off monkey mind, which is what you probably get when your mind starts going. So by counting, you are occupying your mind. And when you're breathing and counting, you are occupying your mind and you are lowering your heart rate at the same time. Pretty cool, right?
7:45 Jen Cohen? Wow, so you count, you do four in?
7:48 Speaker 02 Four in, hold for seven, push for eight. Now, it's not a hard push, it's a light push. Now, here's where the trick comes in.
7:54 Jen Cohen? Okay.
7:55 Speaker 02 You need to do about 10 to 12 cycles of that for your heart rate to get lower. Right? I lose count.
8:04 Speaker 02 Happened to me all the time. So I came up with this crazy method that'll help me. So when I'm lying there with my eyes closed, I put my hands out like with little fists, like just down by my side. And when I breathe and I do a four, seven, eight, I stick out one finger. And when I do another four, seven, eight, I stick out a finger. And by the time I get to 10 fingers, I know I've done 10 cycles. I can either go backwards or I can just stop when I'm there. Okay.
8:24 Jen Cohen? Won't you be sleeping by then, hopefully?
8:27 Speaker 02 A lot of people are. Again, doesn't take that long to do this. Four seconds, seven seconds, eight seconds, right? But you need to do it nice and slow, nice and relaxed. And the goal is to lower your heart rate.
8:37 Jen Cohen? So, because that, I think what you just said is exactly the thing. Monkey, I get monkey mind, right? I start thinking of all my problems and I get such anxiety.
8:46 Speaker 02 I know.
8:47 Jen Cohen? And then like, it just feeds on it, feeds on itself.
8:51 Speaker 02 Of course.
8:51 Jen Cohen? And then 3:30 is now like 5:30.
8:54 Speaker 02 And now you're really upset.
8:55 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
8:56 Speaker 02 Right. Because you gotta talk to the sleep doctor for the podcast next day. And you're like, what am I gonna say?
9:00 Jen Cohen? Exactly. I'm like, oh my God, I'm gonna be so tired. I'm not gonna have any energy again, like, and then like, it takes you down a bad rabbit hole, right?
9:07 Speaker 02 Absolutely, absolutely. But there's more.
9:09 Jen Cohen? Okay, because I want to know how to get rid of monkey minds in the middle of the night.
9:12 Speaker 02 So by distracting yourself is basically one of the only ways. So the 478 breathing does a really good job of that.
9:19 Jen Cohen? Okay.
9:19 Speaker 02 That's number one. Number two is you also want to think about something called yoga nidra. So old from, very ancient, ancient, ancient. But one of the things we know, some people call it non-sleep deep rest. I call it yoga nidra.
9:33 Jen Cohen? Okay.
9:33 Speaker 02 But there's data to show that it is actually rejuvenative. So lying in your bed with your arms kind of in the corpse pose and relaxed is actually helpful. Now, it's not the same as sleep, but it's probably worth 30% sleep. So an hour of that is probably worth 20 minutes of sleep. So here's another thing to just-
9:51 Jen Cohen? Really?
9:51 Speaker 02 Yeah. No, the data's there. Like, I wouldn't say it if there wasn't data. Here's what's fascinating is you could lie there for an hour chilling out and your body is rejuvenating for what would have been roughly 20 minutes of sleep. So you're doing yourself some good. So even if you're not doing yourself some good, you're actually doing yourself a little bit of good.
10:09 Jen Cohen? All you need to do is just cross your arms and something like this?
10:11 Speaker 02 Yeah, just kind of cross them just like this, close your eyes and just breathe. That's it.
10:16 Jen Cohen? And you get about 20% of what it would be if you were actually sleeping.
10:19 Speaker 02 Exactly. So that's good to do in the middle of the night because you know you're, because what people are freaking out about is they're like, oh my God, I'm not gonna feel good. I'm gonna not rejuvenate. This isn't gonna go well. I'm gonna do this wrong or that wrong. And what I'm telling you is, is while it's not at the same pace, you're still doing yourself some good. And the final aspect of all of this is an idea set that I call acceptance, right? Here's the deal. You've been in here before. You've actually were here last night.
10:46 Jen Cohen? Yes, exactly.
10:47 Speaker 02 And guess what? Your head didn't pop off. Nothing terrible happened. But you don't make great decisions at three o'clock in the morning when you're thinking about those kind of things. So what I try to remind people is trust your body. Okay, your body does this thing right before it goes to sleep is it kind of scans you throughout the daytime and says to itself, okay, this damage has occurred. This emotional situation has happened. Okay, we need about this much of deep sleep. We need about this much of REM sleep, this much is how much we need to get for total rejuvenation, blah, blah, blah. And it changes every single night.
11:22 Jen Cohen? But like if I'm doing, if I'm waking up in the middle of the night, five nights in a row, doesn't that just overall ruin my, my, my health?
11:33 Speaker 02 So that is a great question. So we're going to go from what do I do about it in the middle of the night to what happens if it's happening multiple nights in a row and I can't control it, Michael, right?
11:42 Jen Cohen? Right, because I think that's what happens, right? Because you get, what I feel hap, what I think a lot of people do is that if it's happened once or twice in a row, you're, you get nervous to go to bed.
11:52 Speaker 02 It's going to continue to happen. Yeah, you get almost like a phobia to going to sleep.
11:55 Jen Cohen? Right, because you're like, oh my God, I'm going to wake up again.
11:57 Speaker 02 Right.
11:58 Jen Cohen? Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
11:59 Speaker 02 So this is where people usually use alcohol, right? Bad idea. Alcohol destroys stage three, four sleep, which is the physical restoration. So drinking yourself to sleep at this point is never a good idea.
12:11 Jen Cohen? I actually think to be honest, what people are doing more than drinking now are they're taking gummies to go to bed.
12:17 Speaker 02 Yeah, so let's talk about cannabis and sleep, right? So especially if you're in a state where it's been legalized, which is almost all of them, 28 now, going on more.
12:26 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
12:26 Speaker 02 Here's what you need to think about when you're thinking about cannabis and sleep. And by the way, I've written more about this topic than anybody else in the country. So if you swing over to the sleep doctor.com and type in cannabis and sleep, you'll learn a ton. But here's the, the basics of it is number one, there is no data. I've looked to show that CBD does almost anything for your sleep. Okay, let me repeat myself. CBD does almost nothing for your sleep. However, CBD is good for pain and it's good for anxiety. So if you have anxiety that's preventing you from sleeping, or you have pain that's preventing you from sleeping, CBD might actually be a pretty decent tool to use. CBN as in nighttime, that's what works for sleep. There's one paper that just got published about three or four months ago
13:11 Speaker 02 that showed that the nighttime awakenings are actually helped by CBN. It slows them down significantly. Now,
13:19 Jen Cohen? What's CBN?
13:20 Speaker 02 CBN is one of the constituents within the cannabis plan. So there's THC, there's CBD, there's CBN, there's something called CBG. There's also something called CBC. There's several different components that a lot of people don't know about. But if you're going to the dispensary and you're looking for something to help you with sleep, you really want to be looking for this component called CBN. And you would probably want a ratio of three of those for every one CBD and every one THC. THC is the component that makes you feel buzzed, that makes you feel fun and all that kind of stuff. Now, you notice I'm saying it's okay to have some THC. Let me explain. THC at high amounts will lower your REM sleep and increase your heart rate, which we don't want either one of those.
14:04 Speaker 02 But at lower amounts, it will lower anxiety. So I would argue that you want something that's high in CBN, because that's what helps with lowering your awakenings. CBD to lower some anxiety and THC to lower some anxiety to help you enter into sleep. Now, I want to be very, very clear. You don't have to take marijuana to help you sleep.
14:23 Jen Cohen? Right.
14:23 Speaker 02 But if this is something that is habitual for you or something that you feel comfortable with, that would be a formulation that I would look at. The other thing I think is important to look at here is if this is happening on the regular, you probably want to come and talk to somebody like me, like a sleep specialist, who's been trained in something called cognitive behavioral therapy. Because there's a technique called sleep restriction that I would use in that case to be able to consolidate the amount of sleep that you get. So while this is going to sound very, very strange, we talk about it a little bit in the book. This is what we do is if you're normally waking, let's say you woke up at 3:30, you're up until 5:30, then you fall back asleep for an hour and you just don't want that. What I would have you do is I'd have you go to bed. What time do you normally go to bed?
15:04 Jen Cohen? Ten.
15:05 Speaker 02 So I'd have you go to bed at ten thirty or eleven. So notice later than normal, so build up that sleep debt, right? And then I would have you get up at probably five. Okay, I would restrict the amount of time that you have in bed. Now, you're gonna say, Michael, I already don't sleep. You're making this worse. My anxiety is gonna be through the roof. What are you talking about? This sounds crazy. But you take no naps during the day and you wait again till that night at eleven. What I'm doing is I'm naturally building up your sleep deprivation to use to my advantage. So if you do this for five to seven days in a row, by the way, you shouldn't do this on your own. You should only do this under the supervision of somebody who knows how to do this because there's some things that can go wrong. What'll happen is your sleep consolidates and now you're no longer awakening in the middle of the night.
15:47 Speaker 02 So then what I do is, once I've gotten you six solid hours, I start to stair step you out slowly. I can get you six and a half, seven hours. I can get you to wherever you need to go.
15:56 Jen Cohen? Wow, so that, so you're basically eliminating the time in bed where you're just like, you know, thinking
16:02 Speaker 02 Exactly.
16:03 Jen Cohen? And like, and basically just like ruminating.
16:05 Speaker 02 Right, exactly. We'll take that out.
16:08 Jen Cohen? So you go to bed later and wake up earlier.
16:11 Speaker 02 Exactly.
16:11 Jen Cohen? And then you over time expand on it.
16:13 Speaker 02 Exactly.
16:14 Jen Cohen? That's what you guys do in like sleep clinics?
16:17 Speaker 02 Yeah, well, so remember, in sleep clinics, we treat all kinds of sleep disorders. So this is how most sleep clinics would look at treating insomnia if they're using a method called cognitive behavioral therapy. To be fair, some sleep clinics would rather use pills and medication. So they might put you on a medication like an Ambien or a Sonata, or Restoril, Valium, Xanax. There's lots of medications out there that can be helpful for sleep. However, then you got a sleep problem and a pill problem.
16:44 Jen Cohen? Well, that's the thing, like, anybody I know who's ever taken Ambien, they get addicted to that stuff and then they can't fall asleep without it.
16:50 Speaker 02 So here's what I'll tell you is, I think Ambien and all of the sleeping pills have got pros and they've got cons to them. While some of the newer technology pills don't have a physiological addiction to them, if you haven't slept well in twenty years and I give you a pill, you're gonna, you're gonna want that pill again and again and again.
17:06 Jen Cohen? One hundred percent.
17:07 Speaker 02 Right, so there's a psychological component to it, I believe.
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18:43 Jen Cohen? What about using Benadryl to fall asleep?
18:46 Speaker 02 Such a good question. So when you see all the PMs out there, all that is, is the analgesic plus Benadryl, otherwise known as diphenhydramine. Hold on to your socks. So to be clear, there is direct evidence to show that consistent use of Benadryl on the nightly as an anticholinergic leads directly to Alzheimer's. You didn't think I was going there, did you?
19:08 Jen Cohen? No, I did not.
19:09 Speaker 02 I know. That's what I'm trying to say. Zekiel, the PMs, you name it. If you're down in a Benadryl on the regular, you are absolutely positive. The data is very clear. You're walking into the door of Alzheimer's.
19:23 Jen Cohen? I've never heard that.
19:24 Speaker 02 I know. Isn't that crazy?
19:26 Jen Cohen? That's so scary.
19:27 Speaker 02 Isn't it? I'll show you the data. It's nuts.
19:30 Jen Cohen? How so, oh my gosh, because that actually is the only thing that works. If I can't fall asleep, like, and it's been days.
19:37 Speaker 02 Now, I want to be clear. If you use it once in a while, it's not, you're not going to have Alzheimer's. I'm talking about people who have to have one of these PMs every night.
19:45 Jen Cohen? Right.
19:46 Speaker 02 I'd much rather you come see me in my clinic, right? And let's talk about it and let's figure you out.
19:50 Jen Cohen? But wait a minute, so that's crazy.
19:53 Speaker 02 I know.
19:54 Jen Cohen? I've never, see, every time you're on this show, you, I, there's never, like, every time I learn so many new things. It's unbelievable about sleep. So what about, like, I, I heard you talk about vitamin C and sleep. Does vitamin C actually help you?
20:10 Speaker 02 Vitamin D.
20:11 Jen Cohen? I heard vitamin C.
20:12 Speaker 02 So here's what I can tell you, what I'd run bloods on. So if somebody was to be part of, like, my clinic or work with me, I would have them go to their doctor and I have them do blood work. So to be clear, I'm not a big supplement guy when it comes to sleep. I'm a big, let's fix the body guy.
20:28 Jen Cohen? Get to the root cause.
20:29 Speaker 02 Right, so what are you deficient in? There's three things that if you're deficient in, I know for a fact they affect your sleep. Vitamin D, magnesium, and iron. If you are deficient in any one of those three, there's no universe that you're getting a good night's sleep. So I always have everybody talk to their doctor, get their blood work, bring it in. Let's fix that first and just see how your body is operating at that point. If, you'd be surprised, probably 25, 30% of the time, that's all it takes and people are sleeping better. Let's say you don't have that and you're saying to me, okay, Michael, I want to, I, I need something to help me fall asleep. I don't want to take something like Benadryl. I want something that's a little bit more natural, kind of not into the cannabis and gummy, gummy scene. Or maybe I don't live in a state where that's legal. You've already told me that alcohol is a bad choice. What are we going to do?
21:12 Speaker 02 I, I can't call a cognitive behavioral therapist in the middle of the night, right?
21:15 Jen Cohen? Right.
21:16 Speaker 02 So there is, there are a few supplements that have been shown to be very helpful for sleep that are pretty gentle. Something called GABA. So GABA is kind of like the brakes of the brain. It definitely can help you slow down your thinking, lower your anxiety. Valerian root, specifically valerian combined with hops has been shown to be actually quite effective, as effective as sleeping pills in some cases. So that's kind of interesting as well.
21:39 Jen Cohen? What's it called?
21:39 Speaker 02 Valerian root and like hops from beer hops, as a combination, that's been shown to be effective as well. So there's a couple of things out there that you can figure out and work with. Ashwagandha can be helpful for creating anxiety or lowering anxiety and things of that nature as well.
21:56 Jen Cohen? What about, what about just taking magnesium?
21:59 Speaker 02 So I'm a huge fan of magnesium because roughly 75% of people are deficient in magnesium. And I did a study with a group about magnesium and they had me test their product. And I gotta be honest with you, I was blown away.
22:14 Jen Cohen? You told me that before, that you did that study, that like, it was like way above any other.
22:19 Speaker 02 Yeah, so it's called upgraded formulas. And this guy came to me and he was like, I want to prove to everybody that my magnesium is the best for sleep. And I was like, that's a pretty tall order. And he was like, let's go. And so we did a double-blind placebo-controlled study, so exactly like a drug trial, but with magnesium. And people acted as their own controls. It was the most, the strongest design of a scientific study that you could have. And all the researchers were blinded. They had no idea what they had given people. So that's why it's double-blinded placebo-controlled study. And this guy's magnesium was through the roof. I mean, people were sleeping significantly better. Deeper sleep was better and falling asleep was better, just from magnesium.
23:00 Jen Cohen? Did you, did you test other magnesiums to see or?
23:03 Speaker 02 What we did was we tested against a sham and then we tested again. Yes, so we tested against another magnesium, we tested against a placebo.
23:09 Jen Cohen? Okay, how about melatonin?
23:11 Speaker 02 So melatonin is interesting because there's pros and there's cons. I'll tell you, there's only really three instances, maybe four, where I have a tendency to like melatonin. I think melatonin works well for jet lag. I think melatonin works well for shift work. Melatonin is also used in something called REM behavior disorder. By the way, melatonin can actually be helpful with AD and ADHD. There's a, there's some new data on that. And then I think melatonin works well in people with a melatonin deficiency. So as we get older, one of the things we know is that the aging brain doesn't make melatonin nearly as well as it once did. And so a lot of people have less melatonin as they hit the 55, 60, 65 kind of age range. And so that's when melatonin might not be a bad idea to take on the regular.
23:54 Jen Cohen? So like people like who are aging, like you were just saying, just to kind of finish.
23:57 Speaker 02 Oh wait, can I make one quick comment?
23:58 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
23:59 Speaker 02 Melatonin is not for children, period, full stop. People don't know this, in Europe, at high dosages, melatonin is a contraceptive.
24:09 Jen Cohen? It is?
24:10 Speaker 02 Yep. See, I'm dropping bombs on you left and right.
24:13 Jen Cohen? You really are. What do you mean?
24:14 Speaker 02 So at high dosages, melatonin actually affects the entire cycle, like women's entire cycle. So it actually affects birth control. So as an example, if you're taking birth control pills and you decide to take melatonin, your birth control pills could easily become less or ineffective, FYI. Melatonin also affects SSRIs, so antidepressant medication. So if you're taking Prozac, Zoloft, something like that, and you just hop on over to the drugstore and grab yourself some melatonin, you could easily have a problem with that. It also affects your blood pressure medication and diabetes medication. So it's a hormone. It's not just this root that we're getting from somewhere. It's a synthetically-produced hormone which affects lots of things in the body, which is why I don't like it, especially in kids.
24:58 Jen Cohen? No kidding?
24:59 Speaker 02 I know.
25:00 Jen Cohen? And also, like, it's also not something to be, to get addicted to either.
25:03 Speaker 02 Correct.
25:04 Jen Cohen? So, so basically then magnesium, vitamin D, you say, are two that you're like comfortable with?
25:10 Speaker 02 Super comfortable. And omegas.
25:11 Jen Cohen? And omegas. Well, you, yeah. So, wait, what do you mean? So talk about the omegas.
25:15 Speaker 02 So there's-
25:16 Jen Cohen? You say GABA root and-
25:17 Speaker 02 So, no, I said valerian root.
25:19 Jen Cohen? Yeah, valerian root.
25:19 Speaker 02 And hops. And then I said GABA is, is one of the ones that I like to use and as terms of overall supplementation.
25:27 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
25:27 Speaker 02 So you wanted to know about omegas?
25:29 Jen Cohen? Yeah.
25:29 Speaker 02 So one of the things we know is that omegas, they help with a whole host of different functions in our body, which then relate to sleep. So as an example, one of the things that omegas do is they help create the membrane around cells that makes them stronger and stronger and stronger. So less bad stuff can kind of get in. When less bad stuff is in, that means better sleep, especially with mitochondria and things of that nature. There've been a few studies that have looked at, like, if you take an omega, does it actually improve a particular stage of sleep? We've never been able to focus that. But what we have seen is when people take omegas regularly, that they actually report higher quality sleep.
26:02 Jen Cohen? Higher quality sleep.
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