Pod Insights Girls Gotta Eat Can Two Main Characters Be Together? with Taylor Strecker and Taylor Donohue About this episode We are so thrilled to have our friends Taylor Strecker and Taylor Donohue join us (mere weeks before having a baby) to discuss all the things – their decision to have kids even though one partner was unsure, choosing a sperm donor, how they picture their lives changing, and more. We also discuss opposites attracting and whether two main characters can be together, when your partner posts non-approved pics of you, feeling like your friends' careers are outpacing yours, if magicians are hot or not, and the lore between Taylor Strecker and Kate Bosworth. Before the Taylors join us, Ashley has updates on the egg carton and wedding gift bags, and Rayna shares why Etsy keeps canceling her orders. Enjoy!
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0:00 Rayna Greenberg? You said something to me that fucked me up so bad. It was definitely after you were pregnant, or maybe right before.
0:21 Ashley Hesseltine? This podcast is a Dear Media production.
0:24 Rayna Greenberg? Hi, guys.
0:24 Ashley Hesseltine? Hi, guys.
0:27 Ashley Hesseltine? Rena! We're getting too heated talking about something.
0:31 Rayna Greenberg? A terrible man.
0:32 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
0:33 Rayna Greenberg? Welcome back to another episode of Girls Gotta Eat.
0:35 Ashley Hesseltine? Welcome back.
0:36 Rayna Greenberg? That's how I opened your wedding ceremony. I forgot.
0:38 Ashley Hesseltine? Are you going to wish me happy one month anniversary?
0:45 Ashley Hesseltine? It's December 1st.
0:46 Rayna Greenberg? Done talking about you.
0:47 Ashley Hesseltine? I know, I know. No, I'm just kidding.
0:48 Rayna Greenberg? No, happy anniversary.
0:49 Ashley Hesseltine? Rena, I'm kidding. But I'm glad it's December.
0:51 Rayna Greenberg? Why?
0:52 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay, hear me out. Do you think November is the worst month?
0:56 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, historically, I will say, you know, October is always like my special month because I meet everybody. November is every year I get really depressed. You know, like my depression sets in. It's not seasonal depression. Like, people just start doing stuff to me. November is a hard month for me.
1:08 Ashley Hesseltine? People are saying it's a bad month because it is the time change and the seasonal depression. It gets dark at 4 o'clock, but nothing, just Thanksgiving, that's all we got.
1:19 Rayna Greenberg? It's like at the end of the month.
1:19 Ashley Hesseltine? It's not Christmas. I don't hate it, but I get it.
1:23 Rayna Greenberg? We barely have Thanksgiving this month. It's November 28th. Well, it was November 28th. Like, there is just nothing to be doing.
1:29 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, what do you think the worst month is? March?
1:33 Rayna Greenberg? March and April are tough for me because April, you're like, it's not supposed to be this cold anymore. You know, you're like, I've done this for three months.
1:42 Ashley Hesseltine? In New York. Yes.
1:43 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah.
1:43 Ashley Hesseltine? We've lived in Noli for three years. Rena's like, you know, when it's April in New York.
1:46 Rayna Greenberg? Where I'm gonna live.
1:47 Ashley Hesseltine? I think really what is good about March, I mean, my mom's birthday, shout out, but I think there's no holiday, really.
1:56 Rayna Greenberg? Or if you think April's good.
1:57 Ashley Hesseltine? March and April are the two worst months.
1:59 Rayna Greenberg? By far.
2:00 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
2:00 Rayna Greenberg? They're just lifeless and it's just dark out. Wait, when do the clocks get turned back again? Not until May?
2:06 Ashley Hesseltine? I don't, I forget.
2:07 Rayna Greenberg? I don't fucking know.
2:07 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah. But anyway, let us know your guys' worst month in the comments. It's a battle for March and April. I mean, January, eh.
2:14 Rayna Greenberg? You and I have had really good Marches and Aprils. We've usually been on tour or like started a tour and those have been really great, but March and April.
2:20 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah. Okay. All right. Well, that's settled.
2:24 Rayna Greenberg? Let's take it apart. Okay. Thank you to Aura Frames. Get $35 off the bestselling Carver Matte Frame and free shipping at auraframes.com with code GGE and Squarespace. Get a free trial at squarespace.com/GGE and use code GGE for 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain and Skims. Get the perfect gifts for everyone on your list in the Skims Holiday Shop at skims.com.
2:44 Ashley Hesseltine? And thank you to Helix. Get 27% off sitewide at helixsleep.com/GGE. And thank you to Saks Fifth Avenue. Make shopping easier this holiday season at Saks Fifth Avenue or saks.com.
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3:16 Ashley Hesseltine? The Suckin' Blow Gel, the Play Pillow, the Glow Below Oil, which is probably my new favorite product that we put out in a while. I'm obsessed with it. Makes sex just so much hotter, slicker, sexier.
3:29 Rayna Greenberg? You saw the couch the other night?
3:31 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, just laugh.
3:32 Rayna Greenberg? Laugh at the couch.
3:33 Ashley Hesseltine? Laugh at your couch in it. Yeah.
3:35 Rayna Greenberg? So you can get that at vibesonly.com. Stuff your stockings, stuff yourself. Happy holidays and hope you guys had a great Thanksgiving. Hope you had safe travels. What day is the biggest travel day of the year?
3:45 Ashley Hesseltine? The Monday? No, Sunday. Oh my gosh. So we're recording this before Thanksgiving, obviously, but I was telling you that flights for Sunday post Thanksgiving, which is usually the bit, one of the biggest travel days of the year, were the most expensive I've ever seen booking flights, maybe ever. They were $900 one way in coach.
4:10 Ashley Hesseltine? It felt crazy and it felt like predatory because comfort or whatever the next tier up is, depending on the airline. And then first, even lay flats, like there wasn't that much of a disparity. I mean, they were maybe 1500, 2000, 3000, but like the $1,000 one-way coach seats. I'm like, what is going on? Also, that was before everything got back to normal.
4:31 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, okay.
4:32 Ashley Hesseltine? But that day, I mean, which was yesterday now, the plan was as of now, I flew on that day. And we flew out of Boston to come back to LA at 6:00 AM in comfort.
4:44 Rayna Greenberg? Well, also, they just know people have to fly this day.
4:46 Ashley Hesseltine? Exactly, exactly. There's, you have no other options. I used to always try to do Saturday, though, because that Sunday after Thanksgiving is so brutal. So, hope you guys didn't have any serious travel nightmares yesterday. I may have, who's to say?
4:56 Rayna Greenberg? Getting back to LA from Pittsburgh is a lot. It's a lot. That's what I'm doing today.
5:00 Ashley Hesseltine? And we are 12 days out from our holiday show in New York. It will be Saturday, December 13th, at BAM, which is the Brooklyn Academy of Music, our first really big, our first holiday show in Brooklyn. We are so excited. Going to have all the extravagant, fun performances and gifts and all the things you've come to expect at a Girls Got to Eat show. And of course, more. They're always different than what you've seen and they're always tailored to whatever city we're in. And we can't wait. It's going to be so fun. One show all year, and this is it.
5:34 Rayna Greenberg? This is it. So, we'll see you guys there. You can get tickets at girlsgottaeat.com. We can't wait to see you.
5:38 Ashley Hesseltine? Yes. Okay, so I have something funny to share. I have an egg carton update. So, if you're new around here, my husband and I passed back this two-egg carton and it was in our vows and whatever. There's a whole lore behind it. It's been going on since what feels like forever. A long time, six months now plus. And I've had it at the altar with our rings at the wedding. And I'm like, what am I gonna do next? And so
6:04 Rayna Greenberg? What's she gonna do next?
6:05 Ashley Hesseltine? We had these two pairs of Adidas shoes that we had to bring back. Like, he was gonna change into a pair at the wedding and then he didn't. So he never wore them. He was gonna return them. And then he had picked me up another pair of the gold sneakers I wore because I thought I needed a smaller size, but I didn't, whatever. Regardless, that's not important. Two pairs of shoes, Adidas shoes, going back to the store where he bought them in Santa Monica, the Promenade store. So we were supposed to take them last weekend and we didn't get around to it. So they were in my car, just like two shoeboxes in the back. And we just left them in the car. We're like, we'll do them next weekend when we're running errands. So this was yesterday. So we're running errands. I had put the egg carton in one of the shoeboxes. And because you know that the salesperson will always lift up the
6:52 Ashley Hesseltine? Every time you've returned shoes, they open the shoebox to they usually take them out to make sure they're both the right shoes. They're the same size.
6:59 Rayna Greenberg? And they're the same butt.
7:00 Ashley Hesseltine? You're not trying to scam them in some way. Yeah, the salesperson is gonna open the box and they're gonna see the egg carton. So then last week, though, while they're in my car, I'm like, oh, my God. Like, what if he gets them out of the car and returns them on his own? And I'm not with him. So I was so scared about it. And I'm like, I'm just not gonna bring it up. And I'm sure we'll do it together over the weekend. So yesterday, we went to Adidas and I had butterflies.
7:23 Rayna Greenberg? And also, like, what if he opens it before you get to the Adidas store?
7:26 Ashley Hesseltine? No, so I was like, is Shashank gonna open these? Like, the way that I envisioned it was the sales guy would open it.
7:31 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah.
7:31 Ashley Hesseltine? And he would see it. But also, I'm up at the counter, like hovering. Because also, what if the salesperson opened it and Shashank didn't look? Or he was on his phone or something? So they do mine first, whatever. He takes it and it was like, I was on the edge of my seat. He takes the shoebox and the guy opens it and picks it up like it was trash and tossed it at us. Like, it was trash. He thought it was trash.
7:58 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, he just gave it back to you?
7:59 Ashley Hesseltine? Like, the way
8:00 Rayna Greenberg? He didn't even say to you, like, do you want me to throw this out?
8:02 Ashley Hesseltine? He was moving quick. He was like someone that was really trying to be efficient and get his job done. Popped it open, sees a piece of trash, throws it at Shashank. Raina, I covered my mouth and ran away. I was like, like, I almost bust out. The way he threw it, like, get this trash out of here.
8:19 Ashley Hesseltine? And Shashank like literally was like so shocked and he wanted to laugh and I just abandoned him at the
8:28 Rayna Greenberg? You have really stepped your game up. This is funny.
8:31 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, it went, we went retail.
8:33 Rayna Greenberg? This is insane. You brought a third party into this.
8:38 Ashley Hesseltine? But when I tell you, I really was felt nervous. Like, am I going to be able to execute this?
8:43 Rayna Greenberg? And the way A lot of things could have gone wrong. That guy could have just kind of lifted up the flap and kind of put it back down. You guys want to see it? He could have been on his phone. I mean, a lot of things could have gone wrong.
8:51 Ashley Hesseltine? And how he reacted, he could have been like, what is this? The way he just was like, ugh, these people have trash in their box.
9:00 Rayna Greenberg? He threw it, like, get it out of here. Shashank caught it.
9:06 Ashley Hesseltine? And I ran away. I was in the back of the store.
9:09 Rayna Greenberg? I don't know how you're gonna top this. I don't know what you're gonna do. I sit up at night sometimes when you just think about it. How are we gonna top this?
9:17 Ashley Hesseltine? This was pretty good.
9:18 Rayna Greenberg? That was really good.
9:19 Ashley Hesseltine? You know what he's probably gonna try to do? I'm just gonna get ahead of it because I love to be right and I like to have a receipt for being right. He's probably gonna try to wrap it under the Christmas tree. Basic.
9:27 Rayna Greenberg? It's not even creative. That would be so uncreative.
9:30 Ashley Hesseltine? I know.
9:31 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, but like he, let me think of other ways we could be, like, do you think you should turn it into an ornament and it'll just be on the tree?
9:37 Ashley Hesseltine? That'd be good.
9:37 Rayna Greenberg? You guys have a tree at home?
9:38 Ashley Hesseltine? We're about to put the tree up.
9:39 Rayna Greenberg? Real or fake?
9:41 Ashley Hesseltine? I've got a fake one.
9:42 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah, we're barely here for the next two months.
9:44 Ashley Hesseltine? When we were long distance, we got a tree the last two Christmases in, in Boston and it would be in his apartment. And yeah, we're not gonna be here a lot. So I just have this like fake one.
9:56 Rayna Greenberg? I wanted to get my first Christmas tree ever. I was so excited, but I'm like, all, the whole month of November and December, I'm not here. So what would be the point? But I'm, I think I'm team fake tree. What did you have growing up?
10:07 Ashley Hesseltine? Always
10:07 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, I don't even know who I'm asking. Your dad, obviously.
10:10 Ashley Hesseltine? My dad this year with his new hip.
10:12 Rayna Greenberg? I can't wait.
10:12 Ashley Hesseltine? He's about to go out. They cut him down right from the yard.
10:15 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah, I don't even know what I'm talking about. I come there every year. It's my ninth Christmas.
10:18 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, like we walk around the farm and we're like, how about that one? And he just goes out and cuts it down.
10:22 Rayna Greenberg? Your dad's so manly.
10:23 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, like brings it in. So yeah, always, always real.
10:26 Rayna Greenberg? Always real. Okay.
10:27 Ashley Hesseltine? And as it is a month from the wedding, I am ready to break my silence on gift bag gate.
10:36 Rayna Greenberg? This has been an ongoing developing situation.
10:39 Ashley Hesseltine? I've talked about it a little bit. I don't want to talk about it too much because I get upset and people are like, what happened with the gift bags? I have a few DMs about it. So I'm ready to tell you guys. I did bring yours.
10:48 Rayna Greenberg? You know that you gave it, who'd you give it to the other day? And I just opened up her bag.
10:52 Ashley Hesseltine? I brought one to Brittany.
10:53 Rayna Greenberg? Brittany. And I just opened up her bag and started going through it at dinner.
10:56 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay, so we're gonna do an unboxing on air, but I just want to say, so there was just some miscommunication at the wedding and the gift bags really did not get out. Like, I did a total of 80, which I did the math on couples, one per couple, and then people who weren't couples. And then people who just came on Saturday, you're not going to get a gift bag, especially if you live in LA. Like, they're mostly people who've traveled and are checking into the hotel. And so I did 80, only about 30 of them went out. And I don't want to throw anybody under the bus. I'm going to take a lot of blame for myself. I've been beating myself up nonstop. Like, I put so much time into these, like, picking that perfect little jute bag. Obviously, Jaclyn weighed in on that. The ribbon, I customized that ribbon. It matched the wedding colors. And then we're going to go through what's in them.
11:40 Ashley Hesseltine? But I spent so much time and money on them. And for them not to get out to people, like, I wanted people to have this experience when they got to our wedding, that, like, Ashley and Shashank, like, did this for us.
11:50 Rayna Greenberg? I did 20, 25 gift bags for my birthday. I worked so hard on them. If somebody, I even drove to the other house in traffic just to leave them on people's beds. I would have been devastated.
12:01 Ashley Hesseltine? 80, 80. I'm going to put some videos up on the screen. Like, it took us a whole day to stuff them all, but even aside, so we'll go through it together. But every step of the way, like, that bag was a separate purchase on Etsy from the ribbon and the customized tag. From everything that's in it, there's some custom stuff in it. It took me so much time. It was my whole personality. Like, Shashank was like, say gift bags one more time. Like, it became my whole personality. We had to drive them all over to the W a separate day because it wouldn't fit, obviously, on the day of. Like, so much time and energy in for them not to get out to people. It really took me down.
12:33 Rayna Greenberg? No, it would take, 25 cost me a fortune.
12:36 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
12:37 Rayna Greenberg? So I can't even imagine.
12:38 Ashley Hesseltine? And so there was just some miscommunication. Again, like, I, I want to take some blame and I've had some apologies since. It's like, everybody's upset that they didn't get out that the way that they should have. And by the time I kind of remembered, it was like too late, whatever. But I wanted to do to open yours. So I wanted to do not like a flat tote. I wanted to have something that sat up, but it wasn't too big because I didn't want to put that much stuff in it. So this is this little jute bag and then the little ribbon on it.
13:03 Rayna Greenberg? I love the little jute tote. And it says, welcome. Thank you for making the trip to be here with us. We are so excited you're here and we can't wait to celebrate with you. Love, Ashley and Shashank. A little ribbon. Who titled the ribbons? You or him?
13:13 Ashley Hesseltine? He did the ribbons.
13:14 Rayna Greenberg? That's really laborious.
13:15 Ashley Hesseltine? He put a lot of work into this. Okay. So first I want you to open the envelope.
13:18 Rayna Greenberg? Okay.
13:19 Ashley Hesseltine? So what we did was, he and I never did real invitations. We did everything electronically. So this is our commemorative invitation. So what we did that I felt was different was that we basically gave people an invitation when they arrived. A commemorative invitation. No one's doing this.
13:37 Rayna Greenberg? Okay. But what's important to me is that the itinerary is in here.
13:40 Ashley Hesseltine? The itinerary is on the back.
13:42 Rayna Greenberg? You know what? Everybody texted me all day, every fucking day, what are you wearing? You know what? No one texted me, what time do we have to be there? Not one person asked me.
13:49 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay, good.
13:49 Rayna Greenberg? At that wedding website.
13:50 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
13:51 Rayna Greenberg? Okay.
13:52 Ashley Hesseltine? So this was just like a welcome and that, doesn't that look that matches the hotel lobby? Like we put so much time into these fucking invitations.
13:58 Rayna Greenberg? It's beautiful.
13:59 Ashley Hesseltine? I'll put them up on the screen.
14:00 Rayna Greenberg? Okay. I don't know what I'm going to do with this now. I'm just going to save it.
14:02 Ashley Hesseltine? It's, yeah, it's commemorative.
14:03 Rayna Greenberg? Commemorative invitation.
14:04 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay.
14:05 Rayna Greenberg? Okay.
14:05 Ashley Hesseltine? Next, let's pull out those snacks. Yeah. So just a few snacks. We did a bunch of mini snacks.
14:10 Rayna Greenberg? I love Cheetos. What's your favorite snack? Doritos.
14:13 Ashley Hesseltine? Doritos, nacho cheese Doritos. Cheetos close second.
14:15 Rayna Greenberg? Cheetos.
14:15 Ashley Hesseltine? So there was a mix, Doritos, Cheetos, and then sweet, sweet. We even do sweet and savory. So you have your Oreo minis.
14:21 Rayna Greenberg? Also cookies, I think Oreos are the best in terms of small cookies to put in a bag.
14:26 Ashley Hesseltine? The premium ones.
14:26 Rayna Greenberg? Because you know, chocolate chip cookies, they do be getting stale and the stale ones.
14:31 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay, next, let's bring out the Liquid IV.
14:34 Rayna Greenberg? Okay.
14:34 Ashley Hesseltine? So everyone got three sticks of Liquid IV.
14:36 Rayna Greenberg? I can't believe I didn't have this.
14:38 Ashley Hesseltine? I know.
14:39 Rayna Greenberg? What was I supposed to do about my hangers besides walk it off?
14:42 Ashley Hesseltine? Exactly. So we did lemon lime, guava and grapefruit. Oh, you got two guavas. I'm sorry about that.
14:46 Rayna Greenberg? No, I'm not.
14:46 Ashley Hesseltine? I wanted everyone to get one of each.
14:47 Rayna Greenberg? I'm not a big pomplamoose fan in general.
14:49 Ashley Hesseltine? The grapefruit is elite, but okay. So there's your Liquid IV. So thank you to them. They provided the, they provided the product. There are only two things left in there, right? Okay, let's do the, the money piece.
14:57 Rayna Greenberg? The money shot. Okay.
14:59 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay, so.
14:59 Rayna Greenberg? This is the thing I was most sad about. So it's a custom candle. It says for better or for worse. It's a picture of Azul with his old teeth.
15:06 Ashley Hesseltine? We'll put it up on the screen. So I knew what I wanted to do for the label, the picture of Azul and the tagline. And then Anna designed that and the company is called Soul Scent. So do you remember they made candles for us? Mine was like big and pink and had the girl's got a logo. So.
15:19 Rayna Greenberg? With the wicker flame?
15:19 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, with, they have the wooden wick. So Soul Scent, I was like, they know the show. They've made us candles before. And I reached out to them. We're like, would you guys be able to do this? Can you make 80 of these? And so it was so fun to collab with them. They sent me their catalog and then we decided it has the little cork top. It smells amazing.
15:35 Rayna Greenberg? So sometimes you get like gift bags and there's like a full size candle in it. And I'm like, I gotta put this in my suitcase.
15:40 Ashley Hesseltine? That'll get you stopped. It's security.
15:41 Rayna Greenberg? I gotta lug a 20 pound candle back with me. This is an appropriate travel size.
15:45 Ashley Hesseltine? I know.
15:46 Rayna Greenberg? Like I just, I saw how small it was and I was like this, cause you and I like, we go to venues a lot and people give us gifts. And it's always a full size candle, which I appreciate. It's expensive, but a glass jar candle, lugging that back, perfect size.
15:56 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah. Okay. So the last thing, I threw it in there for you, but this was something that was out at the reception. But we're gonna send them out with the gift bags, which I'll get to. But this was out at the reception. And so these were just custom matches.
16:07 Rayna Greenberg? These are beautiful.
16:08 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah. Jaclyn was like, let's do some custom stuff.
16:11 Rayna Greenberg? Let's get lit. I think it's beautiful. I like the gold and the green.
16:13 Ashley Hesseltine? So the custom matches.
16:14 Rayna Greenberg? Listen, the W was great and I love them and it could not have been a more amazing wedding. But if someone be fucking with my gift bags, I would be so upset.
16:21 Ashley Hesseltine? It was like, it, it was miscommunication across a few lines.
16:25 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah.
16:25 Ashley Hesseltine? And you know, not everybody stayed at the hotel. So we knew that they were supposed to get out at a different time. And it just didn't happen. And it was like, I didn't communicate properly. And again, I would, I beat myself up about this for weeks. Because when I realized that most of them weren't out, I was like, it was like a gut punch. Like I, I couldn't believe it. So what I'm doing now is a full fucking PR mail out of these gift bags. Rayna, if, if you're watching this and you came to the wedding and you didn't get one, it will probably be on the way. I'm gonna do my best. What I'm doing now. Is I have made custom thank you cards for people that got gifts for us with a photo from the wedding. They have already arrived. I got them expedited. Custom photo thank you cards with a gift in the same month as the wedding. That is elite bride level unlocked.
17:07 Ashley Hesseltine? Basically, I'm just trying to keep the wedding going at this point. I just, I have a spreadsheet. I'm like working with a local shipper to execute.
17:14 Rayna Greenberg? People are like, oh, I thought we were done with the wedding. You're like, no, we're doing it every week.
17:17 Ashley Hesseltine? So Santa Monica Mailboxes Shipping Center, just make sure you get the right one. It's on Broadway. Raina and I went in there. We're like doing this together and this, we're recording this kind of farther out. It's still November as we're doing this. Everyone will get them so far, the first batch by the end of the month, but.
17:31 Rayna Greenberg? I don't know a bride that isn't like, I'm done. I'm done here. I've done enough.
17:35 Ashley Hesseltine? I can't look at these in my house. Like they upset me too much.
17:39 Rayna Greenberg? I guess, yeah. What would you do with them?
17:41 Ashley Hesseltine? And I spent money on these and I'm gonna spend more.
17:44 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah. You're trying to spend more money on them now.
17:46 Ashley Hesseltine? But I really want to support this shipper, this local business. Like they are so wonderful to me and they take all my packages back and they're so great. And I'm like, I want to give you the business. So I'm really trying to spin this to make it a positive and make myself feel better because this took me down for a while. I was upset.
18:01 Rayna Greenberg? To spend money and then have to spend more money is rough when you're just like, I, I did the wedding. We made it for the wedding.
18:07 Ashley Hesseltine? But it has really kind of taken over my life and Shashank is like, I'll do this whole thing if I never have to hear the word gift bag again. Like he's come close to where I was like, he's, I have to shut the fuck up about the gift bag.
18:17 Rayna Greenberg? Hyper fixated.
18:18 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, I'm super.
18:21 Rayna Greenberg? I mean, you know, I like to just say the same thing over and over and over again. I mean, how short would my voice notes be if I just didn't say the same thing four times? It's, I get it.
18:28 Ashley Hesseltine? I wasn't able to shake it. So that's what I'm up to, everyone. The tour is over. The wedding is over. This is all I have to live for. And then what Raina is doing in 2026.
18:38 Rayna Greenberg? You'll come with me.
18:38 Ashley Hesseltine? Should we bring a few of these to the holiday show?
18:43 Rayna Greenberg? The front row gets your gift bags.
18:45 Ashley Hesseltine? Hear me out.
18:46 Rayna Greenberg? Shashank and I are so happy you could come here. It's a thank you from you and your husband.
18:50 Ashley Hesseltine? Commemorative invitation?
18:51 Rayna Greenberg? I think you should. Thank you.
18:53 Ashley Hesseltine? I think you should. It won't say from me. We'll cross his name out.
18:56 Rayna Greenberg? We'll make him do that. He'll be like, I'll do it if you just stop talking about this.
19:00 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay. Well, I'm bringing some of these. Sorry to the guests that should get them. They're going to go to the girls go to eat community now. No, I'll get them out eventually.
19:09 Rayna Greenberg? I have never gotten a gift bag this nice at a wedding. Who has?
19:12 Ashley Hesseltine? That means the world.
19:14 Rayna Greenberg? Or after a wedding.
19:15 Ashley Hesseltine? Can you?
19:15 Rayna Greenberg? Definitely not after.
19:18 Ashley Hesseltine? Welcome to LA gift bag.
19:20 Rayna Greenberg? It's really, the juke bag is really nice. The snacks are on point three. Liquid IVs, you must be rich. That is crazy.
19:26 Ashley Hesseltine? Liquid IV sent that.
19:30 Rayna Greenberg? The hydration multiplier.
19:31 Ashley Hesseltine? All these people and be like, did you get a gift bag? And everyone's like, no, but it's okay. And I'm like, it's not okay. It's not okay.
19:38 Rayna Greenberg? Shashank's like, please, please say you bought it.
19:40 Ashley Hesseltine? Like every single.
19:41 Rayna Greenberg? He said and texted other people.
19:42 Ashley Hesseltine? Every single person I've texted has said, it's okay. And I said, it's not okay.
19:48 Rayna Greenberg? All right.
19:49 Ashley Hesseltine? It's not over.
19:50 Rayna Greenberg? This is not over. My table versus your table is crazy right now. You have like a nice, clean table with your phone and your iPad and your water. I have dildos. I have the whole content of this bag on here. I have blue, I have a little candle. I look crazy.
20:07 Ashley Hesseltine? All right.
20:07 Rayna Greenberg? Well, you did a great job with the gift bags.
20:08 Ashley Hesseltine? Thank you.
20:09 Rayna Greenberg? It was very thoughtful and.
20:10 Ashley Hesseltine? It's not really me. I'm not like a, you're more of a.
20:14 Rayna Greenberg? I did the gift bags for your bachelorette.
20:15 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, but you're more of a like hostess. Like I'm not, I was really proud of myself because it doesn't feel like so natural to me to do cutesy stuff. I'm just not like crafty or hosty typically.
20:29 Rayna Greenberg? You are a much more thoughtful gift giver than I am. You know, I just, I'm just, I'm not a thoughtful gift giver.
20:35 Ashley Hesseltine? You always say that and then you do good gifts.
20:37 Rayna Greenberg? I don't, I don't do good gifts.
20:38 Ashley Hesseltine? You're fishing for compliments.
20:40 Rayna Greenberg? No, I just, I've always said this every, one year you got me a painting and I was like, I just have to spend $800 on a bag for her. I can't match the niceness of this.
20:49 Ashley Hesseltine? I made out in that one.
20:50 Rayna Greenberg? That was.
20:51 Ashley Hesseltine? Cause you spent the money.
20:53 Rayna Greenberg? But like, it was so profoundly thoughtful. You like commissioned a painting that said, girls gotta eat. It was so beautiful. And I was like, I'm going to get you a YSL bag.
21:03 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, totally equal.
21:05 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah, I like that kind of gifty crafty. So Etsy is just great. You get those like.
21:09 Ashley Hesseltine? I've really, you, you've always been an Etsy person. I mean, I'll take Etsy, but I feel like I'm really on Etsy a lot now. And I'm obviously trying not to do Amazon as much as I can.
21:17 Rayna Greenberg? I'm glad you brought this up.
21:18 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay.
21:18 Rayna Greenberg? I've been meaning to tell you this. So the, the bear cup, the Starbucks bear cup. I was like, I will get one. I will get one and I will get it for cheaper. And I kept seeing on Etsy, there were, I sent you this, this photo, like there are, there are stores that are selling it for $40,000. The Starbucks Berryista Cup, it's a 20 ounce glass commemorative, like Starbucks cup. We talked about it the other day. Employees are like stealing these and selling them on the black market. People want them and they're selling for like $2,500, $5,000. And there was like a couple of Etsy stores that I kept finding that were like $40, $50, $60 for the cup. And I was like, you fucking idiots. Look how quick I can get this. I have ordered from three Etsy stores and all three orders have been canceled. Cause Etsy is in there just cancel, cancel, cancel.
22:03 Rayna Greenberg? They're canceling the stores. Cause they're fake.
22:05 Ashley Hesseltine? They're fake.
22:06 Rayna Greenberg? They're fake.
22:07 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, good for Etsy. You always think you found a loophole. This is like the LaFufu. We're like, oh, I got you this LaBubu. They let me open all the boxes and its feet spin around and it's all scratched up, but I'm sure it's real.
22:19 Rayna Greenberg? I thought I was like, you idiots, spending like $500 for a cup.
22:24 Ashley Hesseltine? Crazy. Etsy is like, your order's been canceled?
22:26 Rayna Greenberg? Three separate stores on Etsy in the last week have canceled my order.
22:29 Ashley Hesseltine? Oh my gosh.
22:30 Rayna Greenberg? So I guess you do have to spend $500 to $2,500 on this cup. I want that cup. I love that cup.
22:35 Ashley Hesseltine? All right. Well, we'll start a GoFundMe and we'll get you that cup and you guys follow my Instagram for my Etsy links. I'm gonna link that bag. Have you ever seen anything like that? That was like, you know how, when you, you were like, I need this thing that, I don't know if it exists. Like I was like, I want a stand up, small, compact gift bag that's not paper, not throwaway. Not a canvas tote.
23:00 Rayna Greenberg? Canvas totes are so floppy.
23:01 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah. Something easy to pick up. And Jaclyn, here, here's the link. Icon.
23:06 Rayna Greenberg? I like it for LA. It's like jute. It's not a giant bag. It's a small bag. Again, I don't like when people give me things that are too big to carry back home. I don't have the space.
23:13 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
23:14 Rayna Greenberg? I barely had the space in my luggage to go back to Venice from Hollywood.
23:17 Ashley Hesseltine? The one thing missing out of it is water bottles.
23:19 Rayna Greenberg? I was gonna ask you.
23:20 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah. It just, we, I'm gonna fail you.
23:24 Rayna Greenberg? For 80 people, it's a lot of-
23:26 Ashley Hesseltine? We would have had to do tiny, I don't know. It was crowded in there, but he was like, we're gonna get people Liquid IV without water. I'm like, they can figure out the water.
23:33 Rayna Greenberg? I agree. We were staying at a hotel.
23:35 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, there's water, there's the sink. Figure it out.
23:37 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah, it's not New York City water, it's gross water.
23:39 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, but you'll live.
23:40 Rayna Greenberg? You'll be fine.
23:41 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay. All right. Well, let's talk about our partners, then we will get into it with Taylor and Taylor.
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24:46 Rayna Greenberg? I think that like what people get nervous about is that they won't be able to use it. But my dad is 79, just built a website on Squarespace. He was like, the AI tools.
24:54 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
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25:13 Rayna Greenberg? No, literally.
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25:25 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay, and Helix, we are in-
25:29 Ashley Hesseltine? Snuggle up in bed season, never leave the bed season. And you just, you need sleep more than ever. I'm leaning into how much sleep I need and it gets dark at four o'clock and I'm in the bed.
25:40 Rayna Greenberg? I never left the bed.
25:41 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, never left the bed. So we both have Helix mattresses. These are the mattresses we cannot recommend enough. We have them in our beds and our guest bedrooms. Our families have them. They make an incredible gift. I gifted Buck and Lindsay one, one year. I've gotten my brother and my sister-in-law, they have one of the plus-size mattresses. I have the Midnight Luxe, I think you do too. And my guest bedroom is the Moonlight Luxe. And so they have the standard Helix mattresses and the Luxe collection and also the Elite collection.
26:14 Rayna Greenberg? And also Taylor and Taylor, who were on our episode today, stayed at my house after the episode. And they were like, the bed was unreal.
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27:35 Rayna Greenberg? And holidays are coming up. You guys want a gift idea? The Skims pajama sets, unbelievable, great gift for anybody, the soft lounge. So I just like stayed in the house for like days and days this weekend and I was wearing one of my Soft Lounge PJs and I spilled something on them and I was like, no worries, I'll just change it to another one because I have three pairs. I have black, red, and green.
27:53 Ashley Hesseltine? Oh, yes. I just got the green.
27:54 Rayna Greenberg? And then I realized that the other two pairs were in the laundry. So all of my pairs were dirty and then I just had to like put on PJs from like another brand and I was like, ew, what is this on my body? Like, they're just so high quality. They're so soft. They look so good. I mean, I'm alone in the house, but I just want them to like look good. They feel so good. I sleep in them. I never slept in pajamas before, but they just look so fantastic. It's the best sleep set and they have tons of stuff from Skims Sleep. So lots of different designs. Listen, some people like old t-shirts to sleep in and that's fine, too. But if you want to just like, you know, be a little stylish with your PJs, I really recommend the Soft Lounge Sleep Set. Again, like I said, great gifts and they have tons of gifts for everybody on Skims. I just love their bras and their underwear, their boxer shorts. You can shop our favorite PJs at skims.com.
28:39 Rayna Greenberg? After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you. Select podcasts in the survey and be sure to select the show in the drop down menu that follows. And if you're looking for the perfect gifts for everyone on your list, the Skims Holiday Shop is now open at skims.com. Okay, you guys, we are very excited to welcome back a guest and we finally got her wife to come back with her this time. They are the host and producer of Taste of Taylor. They were stars of Vanderpump Villa, season two.
29:03 Speaker 02 Thank you for putting respect in our name.
29:06 Rayna Greenberg? They came out here to film something. We might get it out of them. We might not. Please welcome back to the show Taylor Strecker and her wife for the first time ever, Taylor Donohue.
29:15 Speaker 03 Hey, girl, hey.
29:16 Speaker 02 Hey, girl, hey. Look at her. Look at her. She is just a dose and she's stealing my moniker.
29:21 Speaker 03 Hey, girl, the panic between you two. Are we gonna do it?
29:25 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, Raina recorded with Andrew Call last week. Like, he subbed in for me and she said, hi, guys, and he didn't respond. Like, for eight years, we've done, hi, guys, hi, guys, and Andrew just sat there.
29:36 Rayna Greenberg? I don't realize that I'm like waiting for it back. It's like, is it Pavlov's dog? Like, you just, you wait for like the bell to ring and then you get like the satisfaction. I said, hi, guys, and I'm just used to like putting out my hand and getting a treat and like nothing happened.
29:50 Speaker 03 Hi, guys.
29:51 Speaker 02 I know. I get that with the hey, girl, hey. It's like, sometimes people refuse to say it back to me and I get it. It's a little chooks, but it is what it is, you know?
29:59 Ashley Hesseltine? That's who we are.
30:00 Speaker 02 Right.
30:01 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
30:02 Speaker 02 Hi, guys. Hey, girls. Hey.
30:03 Speaker 03 Thanks for having us. Congrats to the newlywed.
30:06 Speaker 02 I know. I'm so sad we weren't there.
30:09 Ashley Hesseltine? You guys were invited, but you didn't make it.
30:11 Speaker 02 We were. The FOMO was beyond. We literally were working, which I know sounds crazy, but trust and believe we were.
30:17 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, I want to tell you that I did get not one, but two go birds in my vows.
30:23 Speaker 03 No, really? You said them or Shoshan said them?
30:27 Ashley Hesseltine? I said them.
30:28 Speaker 03 Really?
30:29 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah. And
30:31 Ashley Hesseltine? the Thursday night, like after party, after the welcome drinks, I was like joking about it at the table and he was like, you're not gonna do that.
30:37 Speaker 03 You're not really gonna do it.
30:37 Ashley Hesseltine? I guess I am. What do you mean? Of course I am.
30:39 Speaker 02 Why not?
30:39 Ashley Hesseltine? I only had one planned and at the end, I just, I kind of panicked and I just did it again. You ended the speech and it was great. Like the last one, I just did like a go birds. Like should I, should I dare I do it again?
30:52 Speaker 03 It's like a cheers. It's just like, go birds.
30:54 Ashley Hesseltine? Exactly.
30:55 Speaker 03 We got rave reviews about your speech or your, your officiating.
30:59 Speaker 02 Yeah.
30:59 Rayna Greenberg? We told you.
31:00 Speaker 02 Andrew Cohen.
31:01 Speaker 03 He was like, it was a roast slash officiating.
31:04 Ashley Hesseltine? The whole night was a roast.
31:05 Speaker 02 Yeah. Oh, your dad.
31:07 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, the thing happened.
31:07 Speaker 02 We heard it all.
31:08 Ashley Hesseltine? Everyone stood up, like ran around the room. It was just like an insane thing.
31:13 Speaker 02 Oh, it looked like so much fun and it was all three nights. Everything looked so fun. I am just so happy for you.
31:21 Rayna Greenberg? So you guys are out here. You're filming something maybe, and I don't know if you can tell us.
31:27 Speaker 02 We're out here working.
31:29 Rayna Greenberg? Mm hmm.
31:30 Speaker 02 We are.
31:31 Speaker 03 For a few months.
31:32 Speaker 02 Yeah. I mean, we film our podcast, you know, every time we go to Dear Media. So we're doing that.
31:37 Speaker 03 Yeah, we're staying busy.
31:39 Speaker 02 We're staying very busy.
31:41 Rayna Greenberg? How cool you are.
31:42 Ashley Hesseltine? Also, you're pregnant.
31:44 Speaker 03 As shit.
31:44 Ashley Hesseltine? When are we gonna?
31:45 Speaker 03 Pregnant as shit. Yes. You know, I'm eight months pregnant.
31:49 Speaker 02 When's your due date?
31:50 Speaker 03 January 4th.
31:51 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, my God.
31:52 Speaker 03 And no offense to this baby, but I'm ready for her to get the fuck out of my body.
31:56 Speaker 02 I'm not. I'm like, stay in there forever.
31:59 Speaker 03 Oh, my God.
31:59 Speaker 02 Stay in for another 10 months. I don't care.
32:01 Speaker 03 We were at the Magic Castle last night. You guys been there?
32:03 Ashley Hesseltine? No, so we were supposed to go for my birthday with Taylor. She was gonna bring me and then it was closed for like renovations. Like we like had tickets. I'm devastated.
32:12 Rayna Greenberg? Dying to go.
32:12 Speaker 03 It was so much fun, but we were there for six hours.
32:15 Speaker 02 It was crazy.
32:16 Speaker 03 And I was. I thought I was gonna die. Yeah.
32:17 Speaker 02 Are you walking around there?
32:18 Speaker 03 Yeah.
32:19 Speaker 02 No.
32:19 Speaker 03 And waiting in line to get into little shows before the big show.
32:23 Speaker 02 Yeah.
32:23 Speaker 03 Six hours was a little too long.
32:24 Speaker 02 That's a long time on your feet.
32:25 Rayna Greenberg? Wait, you have to be there for six hours?
32:27 Speaker 02 Well, there are benches like in line.
32:29 Speaker 03 Yeah, you could sit a little bit, but you're totally dressed up. People wear like black tie.
32:33 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah, a black tie.
32:33 Speaker 02 Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.
32:34 Speaker 03 I mean, I love magic, so it was like amazing.
32:36 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, you do?
32:37 Speaker 03 Oh, yeah.
32:38 Speaker 02 Oh, she like wants to become a magician now.
32:40 Speaker 03 I take a magic class online when I'm alone. No, yeah, I like, I love.
32:45 Speaker 02 I did not know this about her before. I agreed to marry her. And had I known, it might have gone differently.
32:49 Rayna Greenberg? No, I think that's so cool. I want to learn. I don't want to learn, but I want to know how magic is done. Where do you take a magic class?
32:55 Speaker 03 Julianmagic.com. I pay $12.99 a month. I haven't done, I haven't done classes in like a year.
33:00 Rayna Greenberg? Subscription?
33:01 Speaker 03 I haven't done it in so long, but I keep paying for it because I don't want to quit, you know? If I'm still paying, I'm still in it technically.
33:06 Rayna Greenberg? Have you learned magic?
33:07 Speaker 03 Yeah, I'll do something later.
33:09 Rayna Greenberg? What's your best magic?
33:10 Speaker 03 I'll do it later. I have some tricks.
33:11 Speaker 02 She has one on her phone.
33:13 Speaker 03 It's a good one.
33:14 Speaker 02 It's really good, actually.
33:15 Rayna Greenberg? What is it?
33:15 Speaker 02 I feel like you could actually do it right now.
33:19 Speaker 03 I'll, I'll think about it.
33:20 Speaker 02 Okay.
33:22 Rayna Greenberg? Is it like card game magic? Or like make a ring disappear magic? Like what kind of magic?
33:27 Speaker 03 I have like a calculator trick.
33:28 Rayna Greenberg? Okay.
33:29 Speaker 03 And then I have, I need like a salt shaker. I have a salt shaker trick.
33:32 Rayna Greenberg? Where do, do you make it disappear?
33:34 Speaker 03 Mm-hmm. I make it go through a table.
33:36 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, well, let's do it at the bar. Yeah, we're going to a bar.
33:38 Speaker 02 Every time the birds score tonight.
33:40 Speaker 03 I'll do a magic trick.
33:43 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, would you date a magician?
33:47 Speaker 02 Okay, it's, it's.
33:47 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, magicians are, no, no.
33:49 Speaker 02 A man magician. Actually, I have to stop because the reason we got into the magic castle was because of a man magician. Shout out to Phil the Magic Man.
33:58 Speaker 03 He's the goat.
33:58 Speaker 02 He is the fucking best.
34:00 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, I want to answer this question.
34:01 Speaker 03 Yes, yes, yes.
34:03 Rayna Greenberg? Magicians are like DJs to me. It's embarrassing until it's not embarrassing.
34:07 Speaker 03 I don't think DJs are.
34:08 Rayna Greenberg? If you're just, I went out there with that DJ. He was 45, he had a roommate, he wasn't successful.
34:13 Speaker 03 Okay.
34:13 Rayna Greenberg? If you are a successful DJ and you're good at it, hot. I, I think that's cool. Magicians, kind of same thing to me.
34:20 Speaker 02 It is.
34:21 Speaker 03 No, you know what I think is cool? Mentalism.
34:24 Rayna Greenberg? Who is that?
34:24 Speaker 03 The mentalist that can read your mind and stuff.
34:26 Speaker 02 That's Phil the Magic Man.
34:27 Rayna Greenberg? Okay.
34:28 Speaker 02 He's a mentalist.
34:29 Rayna Greenberg? Isn't it, it's a little creepy, no?
34:31 Speaker 02 Yes, but also Phil will like explain to you. He's like, I'm not a magician. This is not magic. I'm just really good.
34:37 Rayna Greenberg? I'm a mind reader.
34:38 Speaker 03 Like you think of something and he literally knows what you're thinking.
34:40 Speaker 02 No, no, no, no. I know what it is. I think that what they do is they're very good at like. And planting, like they know where they want to end. So they're just really good at like placing it in your head subconsciously.
34:52 Rayna Greenberg? You don't think it's like a psychic?
34:53 Ashley Hesseltine? You're not making it sound any less crazy.
34:54 Speaker 03 I think it's like Jennifer Aniston's boyfriend. I think he's like.
34:57 Rayna Greenberg? They have no therapist?
34:58 Speaker 03 Yeah, he, I think he plants.
35:00 Rayna Greenberg? That's how he got her.
35:01 Speaker 02 That is how he got her.
35:02 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, she was on his vision board. He was like, oh.
35:04 Rayna Greenberg? He wrote that book and he was like, I will get it to her somehow and I'm going to fuck Jennifer Aniston.
35:08 Speaker 03 With his potions.
35:09 Speaker 02 Kind of like Travis Kelsey a little.
35:11 Speaker 03 What?
35:12 Speaker 02 Yeah. You know, he manifested. Yeah, with friendship bracelets.
35:16 Speaker 03 Yeah.
35:17 Speaker 02 Live your dreams.
35:20 Speaker 02 You know what? Live your dreams. Become a magician. For real.
35:22 Speaker 03 I am.
35:23 Speaker 02 I'm not threatened by that at all.
35:25 Ashley Hesseltine? I disagree in that I don't think it's hot at the top level. Like,
35:30 Ashley Hesseltine? like if, I know, I'm not, it's not for me.
35:32 Rayna Greenberg? Like, okay, I guess top level of like DJ, I would still date a mid-range DJ. That's still cool to me.
35:38 Ashley Hesseltine? Yes, that's my point.
35:39 Rayna Greenberg? A magician would need to be like, have a Hulu deal. They would need to be like David Blaine, a Vegas residency.
35:45 Ashley Hesseltine? Or just, well, what about the foodie magician? Like if you were, if you're an entrepreneur hustler, you're a businessman.
35:51 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, so he makes a ton of money.
35:52 Ashley Hesseltine? That's what I'm saying.
35:53 Rayna Greenberg? Getting flown around the country.
35:54 Ashley Hesseltine? Yes. I'm into, if you're a, you're a businessman, like you're just happy to do magic. That's how I'm going to tell you to my friends. Like he's a millionaire.
36:04 Speaker 02 Yeah, he's a millionaire and he does it with magic.
36:07 Rayna Greenberg? But magicians are a little weird usually. Like DJ's not weird usually.
36:10 Speaker 02 I will say we've met a lot of magicians. And actually, I think they're getting better and better and better from like a branding perspective, you know? They need better PR is what they need. Yeah, magic is back. You heard it here first. Wait, Criss Angel though? He's a freak.
36:27 Ashley Hesseltine? I can see that.
36:27 Speaker 03 We saw him.
36:28 Speaker 02 She waited in line, in line to go on stage.
36:31 Rayna Greenberg? That's her people.
36:32 Speaker 02 To try on his straitjacket. It was the loseriest thing I've ever witnessed in my entire life.
36:37 Speaker 03 And it was COVID, so I'm like sitting, sitting in this line with a mask on for like 40 minutes. It's like.
36:43 Speaker 02 I was not happy.
36:44 Speaker 03 I got up on stage, I tried it on and then I saw the picture that like I could buy for like a million dollars and I was like, I don't want this picture. I can't have this proof that I did this.
36:51 Ashley Hesseltine? Did he ever date like a famous celebrity or anything?
36:54 Speaker 02 I don't know.
36:55 Ashley Hesseltine? Is he a thing?
36:55 Speaker 02 I mean, you're his number one fan. You tell us.
36:57 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah, right. As part of the community, Taylor.
36:59 Speaker 03 I mean, he never did anyone famous. There's been scandal with him. He's not.
37:04 Rayna Greenberg? A good guy?
37:05 Speaker 03 No.
37:05 Speaker 02 I didn't.
37:06 Ashley Hesseltine? He was telling jokes on the stage.
37:07 Speaker 03 He said so many cancelable things on, yeah.
37:10 Speaker 02 On that stage. It was, he was giving like creepy vibes. He was giving.
37:15 Rayna Greenberg? Back massages.
37:16 Speaker 02 Back massage energy.
37:17 Speaker 03 With his words.
37:18 Rayna Greenberg? Did you know that?
37:19 Ashley Hesseltine? Or you guessed it?
37:19 Rayna Greenberg? I just guessed it. He has back massage on stage energy.
37:22 Speaker 02 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
37:23 Rayna Greenberg? Wait, I got massaged on stage by him.
37:26 Ashley Hesseltine? We went to the Chippendales, the same stripper, literally, like Rayna basically touched his dick and me, he lightly rubbed my shoulders. I was like, there's two types of girls.
37:35 Ashley Hesseltine? He was like, you got a knot right there. Like, and meanwhile, I'm the bride. Like, I was like, I don't want to do it. Rayna loves to be humped and. Rayna's small. Like, that's why I don't like to be stripped on either. Like, she's a perfect, like stripper, like doll.
37:48 Speaker 02 Yes, yes. She can be just flipped around and.
37:50 Ashley Hesseltine? Like, if they picked us up, our legs would like touch the, they wouldn't come off the floor. You know what I'm saying? Like, we would be hanging down their back.
37:57 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, some strippers have tried to pick up Ashley and they can do it.
37:59 Ashley Hesseltine? No, the way that.
38:00 Rayna Greenberg? But it looks.
38:01 Ashley Hesseltine? When a stripper tries to pick me up, I am like, when I try to pick Azul up, like, I literally ground, like, all.
38:07 Speaker 03 Bolt to the floor.
38:08 Ashley Hesseltine? Like, four claws down. I don't want to be picked up. No, one time they came towards me in Toronto when we had a hockey stick for a prop on stage and I had the stick, like, trying to fight him off and he was coming closer.
38:20 Rayna Greenberg? One stripper in Texas, there's a great photo of us doing it. He made me hold Ashley's waist while he's stripped on me and picked me up and I had to use her bodies and anchors.
38:32 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay, anyway, so you, you're loving her being pregnant?
38:36 Speaker 03 Anyway, I'm pregnant.
38:37 Speaker 02 Yes, I'm loving it.
38:38 Ashley Hesseltine? What, like, what do you love about it?
38:39 Speaker 02 Well, I'm loving it because the baby's still in there. That's why I love her being pregnant.
38:42 Ashley Hesseltine? You don't want to be a mom yet?
38:43 Speaker 02 I'm like, I'm like, this is so fun with her living in there.
38:46 Speaker 03 And I can drive her around.
38:47 Speaker 02 Oh, Dee Dee, that's so fun. I mean, listen, I am scared as shit to have a baby. Like, I am like. We love sleep so much. I finally started sleeping so well. Once we came out here, I don't know what it is, but I've been like sleeping through the night.
39:01 Rayna Greenberg? That happens.
39:01 Speaker 02 And I'm like, oh, my God, it's gonna go away in three seconds flat. So I don't know. I'm just, I'm excited to meet her. I think you're more excited to meet her. I am just, I'm really freaked out. I'm really scared. I'm really scared.
39:12 Rayna Greenberg? I'm glad you said that. I think that a lot of people are really scared to be a parent.
39:15 Speaker 02 And they don't say it. Not that you are lying. I believe that you are like, like a normal amount of scared. I'm an abnormal amount, but I think more people feel like me. They just don't say anything.
39:25 Rayna Greenberg? Well, can we talk about the decision?
39:27 Speaker 02 Yes.
39:27 Rayna Greenberg? Cause you've been super open about not knowing if you wanted to have kids. And then I'm curious, did you always want to have kids? Like, how did you guys come to this decision? Yeah. And then I want to talk about the fear is anchored in. So let's do all of it.
39:37 Speaker 02 Okay.
39:37 Speaker 03 I've always wanted to have kids.
39:38 Speaker 02 Yes.
39:39 Speaker 03 And I, I've always wanted to be pregnant.
39:41 Speaker 02 Yes. It's been like a dream, like a, like a vision board, right?
39:44 Speaker 03 It's just one of those things. Like I look at pregnant women and I, I'm like, I just want to know what that feels like.
39:48 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah.
39:48 Speaker 03 And I didn't, I was never ready until earlier this year, I was at the grocery store, I remember, and I saw a pregnant woman and I felt jealous for the first time. And I was like, whoa, I've never felt that way.
39:59 Speaker 02 And she came home and told me and I felt guilty. So I always say, I love her more than I love not having kids.
40:05 Rayna Greenberg? Okay.
40:05 Speaker 02 So I'm just so selfless. It's like unbelievable, but she really wants kids. So I was like, if she's gonna, if I'm gonna be with her, which I, I mean, she's my life.
40:14 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah.
40:15 Speaker 02 I'm gonna have to like make concessions. And I just felt like if we didn't have kids, you would probably resent me forever. And if we do have kids, I'll probably resent you. But I think if one of us has to resent the other, I'd rather be the resent her.
40:26 Rayna Greenberg? You see people talk about that. Like what would you rather regret more, having kids or not having kids? Did you guys talk about this before you got married?
40:34 Speaker 02 No.
40:34 Rayna Greenberg? You thought she would just change her mind?
40:35 Speaker 03 Yeah, I figured she would just give in.
40:38 Speaker 02 That's what a lot of people think. Correct. She was, I mean, we've been together for 10 years, so it took a very long time to get there. But I also like, when you came home from the grocery store and said that, I was like, you know what? She's waited so long. Like, it's fucking time. Like we had, we already had done IVF. Like we had the embryos ready to go.
40:53 Speaker 03 Like three and a half years ago, we did that.
40:55 Speaker 02 Oh, I was really pushing this shit off as long as I could.
40:58 Speaker 03 To be honest, we were, they disappeared. So weird. I don't know.
41:00 Speaker 02 So crazy.
41:01 Speaker 03 They shut down. I don't know.
41:02 Speaker 02 They thawed. Oops. I forgot to pay the bill.
41:05 Speaker 03 They rot. No, we were really trying to time it around this project that we have in LA and that's the truth.
41:09 Speaker 02 Yes.
41:10 Speaker 03 And you know.
41:11 Rayna Greenberg? You wanted to get pregnant for the project.
41:12 Speaker 03 No, no, no, like.
41:13 Speaker 02 We wanted to wait.
41:14 Speaker 03 I wanted to wait.
41:15 Speaker 02 So I kept using that as an excuse, like.
41:17 Speaker 03 So we kept getting pushed and pushed. And finally we were like, fuck it. I'm just gonna.
41:21 Speaker 02 Be pregnant for this project. Yep.
41:23 Rayna Greenberg? You guys are really busy, though. I mean, you've been on tour with Stassi Schroeder for many years, and you produce a daily podcast.
41:29 Speaker 02 Yep.
41:30 Rayna Greenberg? When do you even know, like, now's the time, we're ready, you know, you're really busy.
41:34 Speaker 02 I just really followed your lead, I guess, on it. But, but you said something to me that fucked me up so bad. It was definitely after you were pregnant, or maybe right before. But you said something, like, I was like, well, what would you have done if I, like, said I didn't want to have kids? And like, that was a hundred percent no-go. And she was like, I would have been upset, but like, I would have been okay. And I was like, it would have been okay? What the fuck? I don't remember saying that. You're welcome, little girl. Yeah. Because I really, I think I would have dug my heels in a little bit more. If I knew this was an option. I didn't know it was an option. But I do think that there's a part of me that may have regretted not having a child. Yeah. So I'm like, you know what? You never wanted to be pregnant, though. No.
42:15 Ashley Hesseltine? That was, seems like an easy decision. On who was gonna carry.
42:18 Speaker 02 Oh, my, like, my insides are the upside down. Like, when they went in there with the mom, they were like, good thing you don't want to carry. Because you, like, cannot.
42:25 Rayna Greenberg? Wait, I have a question. Taylor Strecker, so you were married, you were on our show years ago. We talked about this a lot, so I encourage you guys to go back and listen. But you were married to a man prior to you guys being married. Did you think back then, when you were with him, you guys might have kids? Or you've always been, I'm out on it?
42:37 Speaker 02 No, I just, so when I married Wasband, I was just, like, going through the motions. So I was just checking the boxes of life. So kids was definitely on that list.
42:45 Rayna Greenberg? It was a box.
42:46 Speaker 02 But like, I was, I was taking Plan B, like, it was, I mean, vitamins. Like, I, I, every, we didn't have sex a lot. But on, like, those, that three times a year that it happened, I was running to get Plan B. So I definitely was aware enough that I didn't want kids, but I thought it was, I didn't want kids with him. Because like, just like, there was just, like, so much fighting and chaos, so.
43:07 Ashley Hesseltine? Which is a smart decision. We, I feel like we've seen that. I feel like we have some friends that were like, I think she wants kids, but just not with him. I think you see that.
43:15 Speaker 02 Yeah. So I kind of thought that's what it was for me, but then, I don't know, I just kind of, I think I also became the breadwinner, like, in my mind, after we got divorced. And I was always, like, depending on a man to take care of me.
43:27 Speaker 03 How's a mind fuck for you?
43:29 Speaker 02 It was. I was brought up really traditional. And so then when we got together, I was like, wait, I'm the man now. And like, I just, I saw the world through a different lens. And so then I was like, well, kids, money is my biggest fear and trigger. And so then it's like, well, children equal money. And so I maybe I'm just scared of money. It's not even that I'm scared of the child. I'm just scared of how much the child's gonna cost me.
43:50 Rayna Greenberg? It's good to think about that. You need money. I mean, people are just like, when people say to me, like, we'll see what happens. I'm always, listen, don't, you guys do whatever you want, but to not plan a bank account and be able to afford it.
44:02 Speaker 03 In New York.
44:03 Rayna Greenberg? The people that are like the, we'll just, if it happens, it happens. People, I'm like, you are living free on a level that I cannot imagine.
44:10 Speaker 03 In this economy?
44:11 Rayna Greenberg? In this economy.
44:12 Speaker 03 That doesn't keep you up at night?
44:13 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah.
44:13 Speaker 03 Like, that would keep me up.
44:14 Speaker 02 And Taylor Donohue, you always wanted kids?
44:16 Speaker 03 Yes.
44:17 Speaker 02 Okay. No matter what. Even if you were single, I feel like you were, like, I'm gonna have a child. No matter what.
44:22 Speaker 03 Yeah. Yeah, I always wanted a big, big family.
44:25 Speaker 02 Well, okay. Listen, listen. I, we're having, the baby girl's in there. I might really dig my heels in. I'm just saying.
44:34 Speaker 03 One at a time.
44:36 Rayna Greenberg? You got one.
44:37 Speaker 03 One at a time.
44:38 Speaker 02 Yeah, one thing at a time. But like, I already, I can't even go there. I'll get angry.
44:43 Rayna Greenberg? We'll do one thing at a time. Well, how did you pick a donor?
44:47 Speaker 03 It's Andrew Cullen, isn't it?
44:48 Speaker 02 Yeah, it's Andrew Cullen.
44:49 Speaker 03 Do you wanna see him?
44:50 Rayna Greenberg? Did you have sex with him? Be honest. No.
44:52 Speaker 03 It was a lot cheaper that way.
44:53 Speaker 02 Oh, my God. I kinda wish she had had sex with him.
44:56 Speaker 03 We chose him based off of his looks.
44:59 Speaker 02 Complete vanity decision.
45:01 Speaker 03 But then he happened to be like, tall and athletic and, and smart.
45:04 Speaker 02 Thank God, because we were picking him no matter what.
45:06 Rayna Greenberg? Did you meet him?
45:07 Speaker 02 No, but like,
45:08 Speaker 03 Do you wanna see him?
45:09 Speaker 02 We went through California Cryo Bank. And they have, like, it's very thorough. It's like, education and baby pictures and adult pictures. And God, what else? I mean, it's every, it's, it's everything. They, they interview them. You hear their voice quality, like,
45:25 Rayna Greenberg? You hear their voice?
45:26 Speaker 02 I mean, it's, it's really, it's, it's amazing.
45:29 Rayna Greenberg? I mean, it should be thorough.
45:30 Speaker 02 Yes.
45:31 Speaker 03 Yeah. They write essays, and if they're musicians, you hear their music. If they're poets, you read their poems.
45:36 Speaker 02 Oh, yeah.
45:37 Speaker 03 Our guy's not a poet, but uh,
45:38 Rayna Greenberg? Do they have to be? I heard this thing the other day. They have to be college educated? Or is that not a thing?
45:42 Speaker 02 You know, I think they are.
45:44 Speaker 03 There's really high standards for them.
45:45 Speaker 02 I think what they said, it's harder to be approved to be in California Cryo Bank than it is to like, get into Harvard.
45:50 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, my gosh.
45:51 Speaker 02 Something like that.
45:52 Rayna Greenberg? That's so funny.
45:53 Speaker 02 I might have just made that up.
45:54 Speaker 03 Obviously, don't show him on camera, but.
45:57 Ashley Hesseltine? That's him.
45:58 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, wow.
45:58 Ashley Hesseltine? He is a big unit.
45:59 Speaker 03 Look at him. Look at, look at him. Look at him go.
46:02 Ashley Hesseltine? Nice. Okay.
46:03 Rayna Greenberg? Okay.
46:03 Ashley Hesseltine? You guys are gonna have an athlete.
46:04 Speaker 03 Yes.
46:05 Speaker 02 I know.
46:05 Ashley Hesseltine? Oh, yeah.
46:06 Speaker 02 So tall. So excited.
46:08 Rayna Greenberg? And I, just remind me, when you donate sperm, can that person like check a box essentially that says like, I will, I will allow myself to be-
46:16 Speaker 02 Now, it's like after like, I think it was like five years ago, like if you were donating, you have to be open to having the child reach out to you when they turn 18. You have to. There's no more anonymous donating. But like, if you have a donor from like 2010, I don't know when the years, but like an older donor, they might have not-
46:33 Rayna Greenberg? It could be anonymous. When I was-
46:35 Ashley Hesseltine? I didn't know what you were asking. So you have to be able to have your children-
46:38 Speaker 03 At California Cryo Bank at least.
46:39 Rayna Greenberg? Reach out. So when I was like broke, 22 years old in New York, I went to an office to talk about donating my eggs and I had to say whether or not I would allow them to contact me or not. Whether or not I would allow the parents to contact me or the child.
46:52 Speaker 02 Right.
46:52 Rayna Greenberg? Those were different things.
46:53 Speaker 02 And you said?
46:53 Rayna Greenberg? I didn't go through with it.
46:54 Speaker 02 Okay.
46:55 Rayna Greenberg? So I just, I don't know. I go back and forth. I mean, I would want it to be their choice.
46:59 Speaker 02 Right.
46:59 Rayna Greenberg? I guess, but I was 22. I just, I changed my mind.
47:02 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, we are just gonna take a quick break and we will get back into it. This episode is brought to you by Saks Fifth Avenue. I am just gonna dive right in. It's December 1st. We're thinking about holiday gifts. So I just went straight to saks.com. I went to the holiday gift guides. I went to Gifts for Her. I am sorting by 50 to $150. You can sort by 0 to 50 and 3,000 and above. So whatever your budget is, you can find something for somebody. And I want everything in this list.
47:30 Rayna Greenberg? No, of course.
47:31 Ashley Hesseltine? This favorite daughter, oversized sweatshirt. There's incredible fragrances. This like coffee mug set. Like if you're a big, I'm such a coffee slut, so I would love something like that. Anything that goes with like my morning coffee routine, I would love. Incredible sunglasses, slipper, Missoni slippers. I didn't know Missoni made slippers.
47:50 Ashley Hesseltine? Raina, mark this down, Missoni Best Soft Slippers, that's what I want. Pyjamas, like makeup sets, just really incredible stuff. And I mean, I'm in like a for her category, but the gifts for guys are great, too. I think they can be hard to shop for. This incredible like waffle robe, a robe is always really great.
48:07 Rayna Greenberg? Robes, slippers, blankets.
48:09 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
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50:39 Speaker 03 So how many, this is the dumbest question of the interview, I know it, but like, is there a limit on how many kids?
50:46 Rayna Greenberg? Yes, legally, they're supposed to be.
50:48 Speaker 03 Well, that's what I'm saying. You can't have a bunch of people reaching out.
50:50 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, so it's illegal because people can donate so much sperm that they start having like their kids, but their kids might like sleep with each other.
50:58 Speaker 03 Like, yeah.
51:00 Speaker 02 Oh, I've seen that documentary about that guy.
51:01 Speaker 03 Yeah, yeah, yeah. We never watched it because we got scared. They can only give 20 vials of sperm.
51:07 Speaker 02 That's it.
51:07 Speaker 03 We have nine.
51:08 Speaker 02 We have nine of the 20. So 11, and there could be another family that have 11 of them. So there could potentially be just the two of us that have all of his sperm, but when we are done, after her.
51:21 Rayna Greenberg? Okay. You can give her a biological sibling.
51:24 Speaker 02 Well, yeah. Oh, absolutely, yeah.
51:25 Speaker 03 We can sell back the vials of sperm.
51:27 Speaker 02 We could sell the sperm back so that it could go back into rotation so that more people could use his sperm.
51:32 Speaker 03 Wait, you guys have nine vials.
51:34 Ashley Hesseltine? But how many did you use for the, for her?
51:36 Speaker 02 Oh, my God, one.
51:37 Ashley Hesseltine? Just one. Oh, so you've.
51:38 Speaker 02 There's like billions in each vial. It's like bananas. And I believe they take them out like individually.
51:44 Ashley Hesseltine? So you guys bought like potentially nine kids from him?
51:46 Speaker 02 Oh, more. I mean.
51:48 Speaker 03 I don't know how many, I don't know how many vials goes with each vial of IVF.
51:52 Ashley Hesseltine? That's what I'm saying. That guy could have 20 kids.
51:54 Speaker 02 Oh, absolutely. Oh, absolutely.
51:55 Rayna Greenberg? So in that documentary, the crazy thing was they said that like siblings in the world, when they meet each other, they feel a familiarity towards each other, but people can misinterpret it as a romantic familiarity.
52:03 Speaker 02 I saw that online on RSVU.
52:04 Rayna Greenberg? And they can sleep with each other because they have that.
52:07 Speaker 03 I feel like I know you.
52:08 Rayna Greenberg? Yes.
52:09 Speaker 03 California Cryo Bank has like an intense sibling registry.
52:12 Speaker 02 Yes.
52:12 Speaker 03 So they track. And so they'll know. But they also say, when your kid hits a certain age, you wouldn't have a conversation with them to say, if you're gonna sleep with somebody, just like mention.
52:22 Speaker 02 Ask if they have a donor parent.
52:22 Speaker 03 Mention that you have a donor father so that they don't, you know.
52:25 Ashley Hesseltine? Put it on your hen, right?
52:26 Speaker 02 Honestly, that's such a good way to keep her like scared.
52:29 Speaker 03 Yeah. You have seven million siblings, so you can't have sex with anybody.
52:35 Speaker 02 Do you want to have sex with your brother or sister?
52:37 Speaker 03 Yeah.
52:37 Speaker 02 We're singing here. The lesbians, that we are.
52:41 Speaker 03 Guys, if you guys could stop being so straight.
52:45 Speaker 02 But I definitely, yeah, I'm gonna scare her so much with that. Like, you really don't wanna fuck somebody you're half-related to. So like, just make sure to like, have the discussion before. Which is good, cuz she'll really have to like, feel comfortable with somebody to have that discussion.
53:00 Speaker 03 Yeah.
53:00 Rayna Greenberg? And so she can, you're saying the laws changed, so she legally has to be allowed to reach out to the donor?
53:05 Speaker 02 Correct. So he is, yeah, he's not anonymous, he is available for reaching out. But like, I also wanna be there for that. Because I also saw on Law and Order SVU, that you like, fall in love with your donor dad.
53:16 Rayna Greenberg? I would do that, but it's the same thing as a sibling, cuz it's family. Cuz you're like, I feel familiarity with this person, they feel like home.
53:22 Speaker 03 Did you ever see The Kids Are Alright? Where Annette Bening?
53:25 Speaker 02 It's, it's literally.
53:27 Speaker 03 Julianne Moore.
53:28 Speaker 02 It's a horror film for lesbians.
53:30 Speaker 03 Julianne Moore and Annette Bening are married, lesbian moms, they have kids. And one of them meets the father.
53:36 Speaker 02 Donor dad.
53:37 Speaker 03 His donor dad, Mark Ruffalo, and one of the moms falls in love.
53:39 Speaker 02 Julianne Moore falls in love with him.
53:40 Speaker 03 So Tay doesn't want me to meet the donor dad, cuz she thinks I'm, cuz I'm so straight.
53:45 Speaker 02 Yeah.
53:45 Speaker 03 Cuz I'm gonna fall in love with him.
53:46 Speaker 02 I don't know.
53:47 Rayna Greenberg? But you have a kid together, I can see.
53:49 Speaker 02 I could see it.
53:50 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah, she might be like, we're a family, we are a family.
53:53 Speaker 02 Exactly. So I'm like, fuck this guy. You know, I don't like, you can't be alone with him either, it's fucking.
53:58 Rayna Greenberg? I know, it's almost like, man. Maybe it wasn't good he's so hot.
54:02 Speaker 03 No, I'm kidding.
54:04 Rayna Greenberg? Take someone uglier.
54:05 Speaker 03 Rather have an ugly kid than have me run away with him?
54:08 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, does the kid have to be 18 to reach out, or like, can your kid be 10?
54:11 Speaker 02 No.
54:12 Rayna Greenberg? Okay.
54:12 Speaker 02 Oh, it's 18.
54:13 Rayna Greenberg? It was 18. Yeah, I had to check both boxes, cuz they reach out at like, a certain age, it was a whole thing.
54:17 Speaker 02 Yeah.
54:18 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, right, your personal experience.
54:20 Speaker 03 But now we have an extra, we have an embryo, we have a male embryo.
54:24 Rayna Greenberg? Oh.
54:24 Speaker 03 So if, for whatever reason, we decide not to use him.
54:30 Speaker 02 Right.
54:31 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, that's gonna be the Eagles player, so you should.
54:33 Speaker 03 Right.
54:33 Speaker 02 Oh, well, when you say it like that.
54:36 Speaker 03 We could donate that embryo to a couple who can't.
54:41 Speaker 02 It could be adopted.
54:41 Ashley Hesseltine? Aww, okay.
54:43 Speaker 03 Which, if I was like 15 years younger, I would have been like creeped out by that, but now like later in life, I'm like, oh, that's actually a really nice thing.
54:49 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
54:49 Speaker 03 I wouldn't do that.
54:50 Speaker 02 Would it drive you nuts, knowing that you're like, your son was out there?
54:53 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
54:54 Speaker 03 I don't know.
54:54 Ashley Hesseltine? And then your daughter's sibling.
54:57 Rayna Greenberg? Have you talked about like who's, you're gonna be the mom, Taylor Donahue, you're gonna be the dad.
55:01 Speaker 02 I wanna be fodder.
55:02 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah, you wanna be like on tour.
55:04 Speaker 02 You know it, 20%, 80%.
55:06 Rayna Greenberg? Yes, absentee father.
55:08 Speaker 03 That's psychotic.
55:09 Ashley Hesseltine? Are you gonna change diapers?
55:10 Speaker 02 I will change diapers. I'm not Donald Trump.
55:13 Rayna Greenberg? Are you gonna get a night nurse?
55:15 Speaker 02 Mm-hmm. Yes.
55:16 Speaker 03 We just found one.
55:16 Speaker 02 Her name is Summer. We're obsessed.
55:18 Ashley Hesseltine? Andrew Collin.
55:19 Speaker 02 Can you imagine? Honestly, with all the cats he's been adopting, he probably would be a great night nurse.
55:23 Ashley Hesseltine? It all comes back to Andrew. Yeah, he got another. We were confused.
55:25 Speaker 03 Yeah, Texas Sony?
55:26 Rayna Greenberg? Andrew, co-host your podcast every week.
55:29 Speaker 02 So I have a daily show. It's called Taste of Taylor. Mondays available for everyone, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday on Patreon, patreon.com/tastetaylor. So Andrew is like a regular co-host on the show.
55:39 Ashley Hesseltine? Us too now.
55:40 Speaker 02 Yes. I just love him. I can't quit him.
55:42 Ashley Hesseltine? It was such a fun thing to be like, oh, this can, I can just call out.
55:46 Speaker 02 No, I don't like it.
55:46 Ashley Hesseltine? No, it's just, it's happened once, but he was like the perfect villain.
55:50 Rayna Greenberg? He was absolutely perfect.
55:51 Ashley Hesseltine? He prepped for a man.
55:53 Rayna Greenberg? I, I mean, yeah.
55:54 Ashley Hesseltine? He was so impressed.
55:56 Rayna Greenberg? I said, our snack episodes on Thursday, it's all pop culture. I sent him like a list of articles. He read every one of them.
56:02 Speaker 02 He also is very pop culture savvy. I was shocked by that when we first started doing it. I was like, there's no way. He knows Housewives. He doesn't really like watch it, but.
56:10 Ashley Hesseltine? He knows enough.
56:11 Speaker 02 He knows the players.
56:12 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, it's unbelievable. Yeah.
56:13 Rayna Greenberg? Mm-hmm. Okay.
56:14 Ashley Hesseltine? Okay, so what's next? Raina said opposites attract.
56:17 Rayna Greenberg? I wanna talk about your relationship. So, I mean, we've known both of you for a long time. And Taylor Strecker, you're out front, you're doing the live shows, you go on tour with Stassi Schroder, you have the podcast. And Taylor Donohue, you're the producer. Like you, none of this exists without you. Like,
56:31 Speaker 02 Nope.
56:31 Rayna Greenberg? I asked Taylor Strecker questions a lot, and she's like, you gotta, you gotta ask Taylor Donohue. She's in charge of it.
56:36 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, and you'll even text. We become friends with you later. We were friends with you first for a couple of years even, but you seem like you are the one that needs to be in charge of her sometimes.
56:47 Speaker 03 I'll text you guys.
56:48 Ashley Hesseltine? It has to, yeah.
56:49 Speaker 03 I'll text you back from her phone and be like, hey, it's. TD.
56:53 Ashley Hesseltine? You guys just like Ari and Yang. I want to talk about it. Like, are you so opposites?
56:57 Speaker 02 So opposite.
56:59 Speaker 03 I'm just entertained by her all the time. She's just, I am not like attracted to people who look or act like me.
57:06 Speaker 02 Yep.
57:06 Speaker 03 Like people who are like mellow or like, I don't know.
57:09 Speaker 02 Tall, blonde and hot. Yeah.
57:11 Speaker 03 Yeah.
57:11 Speaker 02 Works for me. You're much quieter than I am, but that doesn't mean that you like, don't speak, obviously, as we're seeing. But like, you, you like to be behind the scenes.
57:20 Speaker 03 Mm-hmm.
57:21 Speaker 02 You like to be mellow, you like to be chill. The thing is that she listens to me talk all day long, but like, once she's done with the work part, like, she needs her quiet time away from me. And I get it, because it's like a lot to listen to me every day. Maybe like two podcasts a day on some days.
57:35 Speaker 03 Yeah.
57:35 Speaker 02 Edit it, pull video clips. Like, I'm like, are you gonna get fucking sick of me? And then like, I want to talk afterwards and she does need breaks. Like, she's like, you have to give me some space.
57:43 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, you are like a main character energy and it sounds like you aren't nor do you want to be. And I feel like that's the only way romantic relationships work, not work relationships. Like, we've seen this and you sometimes see two main characters come together and it doesn't work out. They're just fighting for the spotlight.
58:02 Speaker 02 Totally.
58:03 Ashley Hesseltine? And you still seem, Taylor Donohue, like very much in charge, poised, confident. Like, you don't seem like you're a backseat to her.
58:11 Speaker 03 No, but I think, I don't know, there must be like a personality type that's like an observer. Like, my whole life, I've been kind of just like watching the world, like as a kid and even now. And so it's like, I just happen to have married an entertainer who I can work with and like observe her and grow our business together. So it just happens to like work perfectly.
58:31 Speaker 02 Yep.
58:31 Speaker 03 But yeah, I just like, like that role of listening and like reacting versus just like, rah! You know what I mean?
58:39 Speaker 02 I think it's your quiet confidence. Like, she walks into a room and everybody's just like, she's somebody, like, you're drawn to her. I feel like she was a healer in a former life.
58:47 Speaker 03 You remind me of Shoshone, because you look that way.
58:49 Speaker 02 Yes, totally. It's not like, just chill. Like, I come in the room, I'm like, blah, blah, like I'm like, look at me, look at me. You know what I mean? So, thank God we're so opposite, because if there was two of me, I would have drowned myself.
59:03 Speaker 03 It just doesn't work. I mean,
59:04 Speaker 02 It just doesn't work.
59:05 Speaker 03 We've been seeing it more and more. I'm fascinated by it.
59:08 Speaker 02 Right.
59:08 Speaker 03 Because I think sometimes those types of people are drawn to each other because they're like, "We can be a power couple and do this." I don't know. And then you kind of watch them, like Raina said, like, fight for the spotlight.
59:17 Speaker 02 Yeah.
59:17 Speaker 03 Right.
59:17 Speaker 02 The only thing we fight about that I feel like is probably going to be an issue in the future.
59:22 Speaker 03 Oh, my gosh.
59:23 Speaker 02 So, you know, we're working on projects. We're doing tings. I see you becoming more of like a presence in your own right on social media. She's so fucking crazy about pictures. Like, she'll post carousels before me, and I'm like, "My Instagram makes us money. What, like, would you like to give me some of those pictures? Because I'm so bad, you guys, I'm so bad at social media." And I'm like, "Help me." And she's like, "They're my pictures. It's my carousel." And I'm like, "Bitch."
59:50 Speaker 03 I'll post a carousel, and she'll come downstairs from the office and not talk to me. I'm like, "She's bad at me."
59:55 Speaker 02 That's not true. I yell at you.
59:56 Speaker 03 No, no, no.
59:56 Speaker 02 Wait, why?
59:57 Speaker 03 You'll be quiet.
59:58 Speaker 02 You had time to do your own carousel.
1:00:01 Speaker 03 She wants me to make a carousel for her before mine.
1:00:03 Rayna Greenberg? And you scooped her on the pictures?
1:00:04 Speaker 02 At least give me a heads up.
1:00:06 Rayna Greenberg? Why don't you collab?
1:00:07 Speaker 03 I just know what she's mad about. I take the pictures.
1:00:10 Speaker 02 It's happening right now for everybody. This is what happens. Zee, you take them all. Like, I need them.
1:00:15 Speaker 03 So take them.
1:00:16 Speaker 02 So give them to me.
1:00:17 Speaker 03 I will, but I'm gonna do mine first just because...
1:00:19 Speaker 02 I'm telling you, it's a thing.
1:00:21 Rayna Greenberg? Why don't you collab?
1:00:22 Speaker 03 I don't want to collab on everything.
1:00:24 Rayna Greenberg? Explain it. No, no, no. Let's break it down.
1:00:26 Speaker 03 I'm my own person.
1:00:28 Rayna Greenberg? This is how she exerts her independence. That's what it is.
1:00:31 Speaker 03 Her power.
1:00:31 Rayna Greenberg? She's just like, "I work on you all day, every day."
1:00:34 Speaker 03 And photos are my thing. Like, I'm a photographer.
1:00:36 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:00:36 Speaker 03 So it's like, curating a carousel is something I like to do. Give me something.
1:00:42 Speaker 02 Listen, it's fine. Once-
1:00:43 Speaker 03 You do your links. Do your-
1:00:45 Speaker 02 I will do my links.
1:00:46 Speaker 03 Stick to your links.
1:00:48 Speaker 02 That felt so hurtful.
1:00:50 Rayna Greenberg? Okay, Taylor, I will. Taylor Scherzer's links, she is my number one. Like, I click her links and like, "Give You Shop My Money."
1:00:56 Speaker 02 Thank you. Thank you.
1:00:58 Rayna Greenberg? Every outfit you put on is so cute. I'm like, I must have it. You walk in here, we're like, "Where's your shoes from?"
1:01:03 Speaker 03 We're trying.
1:01:04 Speaker 02 Dolce Vita. Thank you, link.
1:01:07 Ashley Hesseltine? Let's like, we'll link it in the episode notes. Code G G. There was a couple that fought about this, like a famous couple, and I can't remember.
1:01:14 Rayna Greenberg? He scooped her on the photos?
1:01:16 Ashley Hesseltine? He was like, he would post photos first, then she was so pissed.
1:01:19 Speaker 02 Now I'm dying to know.
1:01:21 Ashley Hesseltine? I know, and I feel like.
1:01:23 Speaker 02 I do not know.
1:01:24 Rayna Greenberg? I'll, I'll try to jog my memory.
1:01:26 Speaker 03 A man posting first is different.
1:01:27 Ashley Hesseltine? Right.
1:01:27 Speaker 03 Doesn't that feel different?
1:01:28 Rayna Greenberg? It's like, how dare you? What right do you have?
1:01:32 Speaker 03 Like, if Shashank posted your wedding photos first, would you be like, what?
1:01:35 Ashley Hesseltine? I actually wouldn't care because he's private and not in the.
1:01:38 Speaker 03 Oh, that's different.
1:01:38 Ashley Hesseltine? Right, right.
1:01:39 Rayna Greenberg? He can do whatever he wants.
1:01:41 Speaker 02 But he also probably doesn't, he's not running to his phone.
1:01:44 Ashley Hesseltine? No, he'd never.
1:01:44 Speaker 02 I gotta beat Ashley. Can you imagine?
1:01:47 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah, he'd like to ever really post, but.
1:01:48 Speaker 02 Right.
1:01:49 Ashley Hesseltine? And if he's posting a carousel, I am over his shit. What photos are you posting?
1:01:54 Rayna Greenberg? I have a thing. You would know. Do you respect the, do you respect that she has to look a certain way in every photo?
1:01:58 Speaker 02 Oh, no, not at all.
1:01:59 Speaker 03 Now I do.
1:01:59 Speaker 02 Pull up the fucking picture right now, and you can show this to everybody. I, we were at Stassi Bo's wedding in Italy. I officiated. I was just not feeling the best version of myself. She was just like a golden goddess, like she always is. And I got into a fight with her at their wedding, at the table, sitting across from them. I looked at my phone and she had posted a fucking picture of me.
1:02:20 Rayna Greenberg? You snuck a carousel?
1:02:21 Speaker 02 I looked like, not even, she just posted one picture. I look like a potato bug. I'm like, why wouldn't you fucking ask me?
1:02:28 Speaker 03 You always look beautiful, but now in retrospect.
1:02:32 Speaker 03 I know you weren't feeling really great about yourself at the time.
1:02:34 Speaker 02 No, you have to be honest. It's bad. You're looking at a blob and.
1:02:39 Ashley Hesseltine? Is this you too?
1:02:40 Rayna Greenberg? I mean, the reason why it's bad is that Taylor Donohue does, you look like a model.
1:02:48 Speaker 02 And now, and now I make her leave it up just to prove a point.
1:02:51 Rayna Greenberg? A six foot tall model.
1:02:55 Speaker 03 It's not.
1:02:55 Speaker 02 It's horrible. I looked at her and I said, do you hate me?
1:02:59 Rayna Greenberg? I hate your weird face, it's the angle. Taylor Donohue, you look 12 out of 10.
1:03:03 Ashley Hesseltine? Secondhand mad.
1:03:05 Ashley Hesseltine? Years later about this.
1:03:07 Speaker 03 It was pre GLP-1. She wasn't feeling good about herself, but I didn't notice.
1:03:11 Speaker 02 So the way I'm gonna show her that I understood everything with all of her feelings, I'm going to post.
1:03:14 Ashley Hesseltine? It's also like, she looks so good. Like, it's really a lot.
1:03:18 Speaker 02 Did you only look at yourself?
1:03:20 Speaker 03 I went to the bathroom, like, I was like, beep boop boop.
1:03:21 Ashley Hesseltine? When you said blob, I was like, there's no way. And now I'm like, I see.
1:03:24 Speaker 02 Blob.
1:03:25 Speaker 03 I'm so sorry.
1:03:26 Speaker 02 81 comments and caption, "My heart," not the caption.
1:03:30 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, it doesn't have anything to do with like weight. It just, like, you're just a little.
1:03:33 Speaker 02 It's just a bad angle.
1:03:35 Rayna Greenberg? Well, I said this to somebody this morning. I have a different weight in every photo somebody takes of me. It's just the angle just has 100% to do with it. It's just, that is so funny. It's like, it reminds me of people post carousels for other people's birthdays. And like, you're like, "Happy birthday to my bestie." And it's like, "That girl looks good in all the photos." And the bestie looks like mid.
1:03:52 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:03:52 Rayna Greenberg? That's what she did.
1:03:53 Speaker 02 You know what she did? I know what it is. She truly thinks I look exactly the same right now as I did the whole time.
1:04:00 Ashley Hesseltine? That's what it is.
1:04:01 Speaker 02 Her, like, she's blind with love. And so, and like, I knew the intent. Intent is important, but I'm like, I know she just like loves me and she thinks we look like very in love in this picture. But like, you need to ask photo approval.
1:04:13 Speaker 03 Now I do.
1:04:14 Speaker 02 And my birthday carousels are crazy. I've given up.
1:04:19 Ashley Hesseltine? But this, it's what, it is what you want as opposed to the alternative, because I feel the same way. Like, I can't believe photos that Shashank, because like, you look so beautiful here. I'm like, that's the worst photo I've ever s- how can you even say, what, who is that? And he doesn't see it like that. So that's what you want as opposed to a partner that's like, "You don't look good in this."
1:04:37 Speaker 02 Right, right. You know what?
1:04:39 Speaker 03 Justice for me.
1:04:40 Speaker 02 You're Justin Long and I'm Kate Bosworth, which actually is like the greatest compliment I could ever give myself.
1:04:44 Ashley Hesseltine? What happened with them?
1:04:45 Speaker 02 Justin Long posts the most, like, like Kate is so beautiful. She couldn't look bad if she tried, but she, it's always like pictures without makeup on her. She's like smiling like this. But you think she like looks so beautiful? That's like, that's like his Kate, you know? Wait, can I tell you? Yeah, that is true. It's sweet. I don't know that they're a couple. And I know about every couple. I think you do. We used to talk about Justin Long. I know. I remember what he did. Cause I think I saw him on Raya and started a conversation like, is he hot or not? I feel like that's a real debatable thing. I think it is too, actually. So Kate grew up in my town. So I have an unhealthy obsession with her. She's fully aware of it. And I think she was very nice about it, but I think she thinks I'm like, ree, ree. And she's a little right. Okay? Yeah, you're like single white female. Kate Bosworth, like when Blue Crush came out?
1:05:29 Speaker 02 I can't even imagine her having like a tie to her. She, so she moved to town when she was in The Horse Whisperer. But Tay was like the actress in town. It was me. I was Annie. It was me. And then I left.
1:05:43 Speaker 02 And I'm not a left. To go to all-girl private Catholic school where I was training to become a lesbian. And she moved into town and I was like, everyone's gonna miss me. And they were like, Taylor Swift or who? We, this girl's hot, blonde, she was in movies, she's legit famous. She had been in The Horse Whisperer, so she's... And like, no one gave a shit about me. She stole my best friend. Oh my gosh. She didn't steal him. He literally was, I mean, he was willing, ready and able. I remember, I would call him, I was like, what are you doing? He was for sale. He was mad at me that I left. So then he was like, okay, it's coming over to watch Johnson's Creek. Wait, I can feel this. This hurts. He weaponized Kate Bosworth against you. He weaponized Kate Bosworth against me. Chris, shout out to Chris. You trust no Chris. Yeah. We've said trust no Chris for years.
1:06:28 Speaker 02 And I love him and he's like my favorite person ever, but he tormented me with her. Anyway, it's a long saga and quite frankly, I, I'm, I am, yeah, but it's one-sided. Tay did a monologue entire podcast by alone, like talking about Kate Bosworth? And guess who heard it? Kate Bosworth. Did she reach out? No. Here's what I know. I know she's a ma- she was made aware of it.
1:06:54 Speaker 02 As was Justin. I don't know in what capacity they were made aware of it. I don't know if it was like secondhand. I don't know if they sat down and listened. I do know it was sent to them. But I will say the takeaway was very like, oh, wow. I always thought Tate was like so cool in high school. And like, I didn't know she felt this way. So basically, like, I think she was creeped out, but like in a very nice way of saying, like basically was like, I always thought Taylor was like cool and pretty, dot, dot, dot.
1:07:21 Ashley Hesseltine? She's media trained. I'm like thinking about someone doing this for me and like listening to it. It's like, I can't even imagine it like, because obviously people hated all of us in high school for some reason or another.
1:07:32 Speaker 02 Right.
1:07:32 Ashley Hesseltine? Like I, I had a girl come to me one time years later at a party and she was like, I was running for like school president or whatever. She, and my biggest best sign got ripped down and stuffed in the trash can. It like brought me to tears. And I was like, who would do that? Like, that's crazy. And like years later, this girl came up and she was like, I did it. I was, I was jealous of you. And she was like, I ripped down your poster. And like, I'm thinking of like,
1:07:52 Rayna Greenberg? You're so lucky. I don't think that I was the villain in anyone's story. I just like, I don't think I like.
1:07:57 Ashley Hesseltine? Probably fucked somebody's boyfriend.
1:07:58 Rayna Greenberg? I probably did. No, I don't think I did that. I just, I don't think I really fucked anybody's boyfriend. Like, I want to be the villain in someone's story. I want somebody to just like sit up at night thinking about me, mad at me, looking at my photos like, fuck this bitch.
1:08:11 Speaker 02 But that's me. I'm the person.
1:08:13 Rayna Greenberg? I want that power over somebody. I want to be Kate Bosworth, just blissfully unaware that I am just ruining somebody's life.
1:08:20 Ashley Hesseltine? Like I'm the Kate Bosworth, like to hear that podcast and, and like, even though I do know like this girl would beef with me, but like to listen to that as Kate is just so funny.
1:08:28 Speaker 02 I mean, I would hope she would take it as like a compliment. I think it was probably also a little scary. Like, I think that that was the whole point of like, I thought that she was cool. Little did I know, she's like literally making hair dolls of me and like making them into, what is it called? Zombie dolls? What are those called?
1:08:44 Ashley Hesseltine? Voodoo dolls.
1:08:45 Speaker 02 Zombie dolls.
1:08:46 Rayna Greenberg? Okay. I did have one person, but it doesn't count as an ex. It's different. But my ex like married somebody and I was talking to him after that relationship and he was like, she hated you. We had fights about you. And I was like, oh. That sounds so good, especially because him and I never spoke again after we broke up. So to find out that I was a problem in their relationship. Oh, for sure.
1:09:06 Speaker 02 I think Kate is just like, why Kate, why, like, I'm friends with famous people, Kate. I am cool. Like, be my friend. Be my friend. Be my friend.
1:09:13 Speaker 03 I checked to see if she follows you, like.
1:09:15 Speaker 02 She doesn't.
1:09:15 Speaker 03 Once a month. Also, she's probably like, can I stop getting Google alerts of my name with Taylor Scheckter talking about me? Because you literally.
1:09:22 Rayna Greenberg? We're gonna put it in the episode description.
1:09:23 Speaker 03 But like, I don't, like. She's getting pinged.
1:09:24 Rayna Greenberg? Don't you think she should like be cooler about it?
1:09:27 Speaker 03 She should follow you.
1:09:27 Speaker 02 I really would love to have her on the podcast, but also I would die. Like, I don't think, like, I'm so.
1:09:33 Speaker 03 What if she rejected coming on?
1:09:34 Speaker 02 I mean, she probably would for her own safety. I understand that. She's well worthy, which means I want to like kidnap her, put her in my well, make her lo- put lotion on the skin, does what it's told, or else it gets the hose again.
1:09:46 Rayna Greenberg? All right. Well, now I see why she hasn't reached out, but she knows she's in a interview with her. It's serious.
1:09:51 Speaker 02 I did.
1:09:52 Speaker 03 And she said we should get in touch. We should stay in touch. And Kate gave her email.
1:09:58 Rayna Greenberg? She's like, DM me. Was it like hello at Kate Bosworth too? It wasn't really her email address.
1:10:02 Speaker 02 I think that's why I'm so confused because it's been like, it's been, it's, it's really a blue ball situation. Me being the testicles. Okay. Like, it's just like, we, she moved to town. She was friends with my best friend. He cut me out. It wasn't her fault. He cut me out. Then her and I were like together. We were building houses for people in Appalachia. We all smoked one cigarette together. All that. She denies it. It's the truth. But like, she was like, we should hang out. And then we were talking about Chris. And I was like, oh, Chris. I think Chris is like trying to pit us against each other. And she was like, oh, that, Chris could do that. So then we like kind of were like becoming friendly. And then she was like, my ex-boyfriend really likes you. You should date him. So I did.
1:10:42 Rayna Greenberg? Wait, wait.
1:10:43 Speaker 02 And I dated, I dated him because I wanted to be friends with her.
1:10:46 Rayna Greenberg? You pretended to like a man.
1:10:48 Speaker 02 Correct.
1:10:48 Rayna Greenberg? Just for Kate Bosworth.
1:10:49 Speaker 02 Correct.
1:10:50 Rayna Greenberg? You're a lesbian.
1:10:54 Ashley Hesseltine? Kate Bosworth more is like unmatched.
1:10:56 Speaker 03 It's a saga.
1:10:57 Speaker 02 Oh, no.
1:10:58 Rayna Greenberg? This is honestly crazier than Nikki Glaser and Taylor Swift.
1:11:01 Ashley Hesseltine? Raina, get out of my brain. I was just gonna say, why hasn't Taylor Swift addressed Nikki yet?
1:11:07 Rayna Greenberg? I don't get it because like at this point, what was the number? Like Nikki Glaser has spent, what, what was the number? Like not 50,000.
1:11:14 Ashley Hesseltine? But she, Nikki Glaser is the most famous comedian in the world right now. Like she just did SNL. I know, but Taylor Swift would look so cool to acknowledge her. And like, I don't, Nikki told us at the, at Andrew Collins wedding, like they kind of an opportunity to me, but it just things went south, whatever. Nothing shady happened. I don't want to speak on these famous people, but like Taylor should be like, well, cause you know, this would really make, give me cool, like clout.
1:11:36 Rayna Greenberg? But like she's friends with everybody is what I don't understand. Like she, every person is in her like press box at the tour and she has so many friends.
1:11:42 Ashley Hesseltine? I know.
1:11:42 Rayna Greenberg? Like Nikki Glaser, it's a thing. It's more how much Nikki loves her.
1:11:47 Ashley Hesseltine? But she is the most famous comedian right now. Like Nikki is not Taylor Swift, but she is on the level.
1:11:53 Speaker 02 She is.
1:11:53 Rayna Greenberg? Put her in the box. That would go crazy.
1:11:56 Speaker 02 She's not in the box. But Taylor's is also a grudge holder. So it's like, and Nikki talked about this, right?
1:12:02 Ashley Hesseltine? Yes.
1:12:02 Speaker 02 Yes. Where she like, she made fun of Taylor at some point. It was a gajillion years ago.
1:12:08 Rayna Greenberg? But also who hasn't?
1:12:09 Speaker 02 Totally. And then what? And then it was, was it Miss Americana?
1:12:12 Rayna Greenberg? Yes.
1:12:13 Speaker 02 Netflix?
1:12:13 Rayna Greenberg? Nikki, Nikki was on it or something, right?
1:12:15 Speaker 02 No, she, she was like talking about people talking shit about her. And like in the package, Nikki was one of the people delivering the joke. And Nikki said she wanted to die. She wanted to die when she saw that. She was like, oh my God. And she has profusely apologized, spent countless.
1:12:27 Ashley Hesseltine? And so she was jealous of the time and stuff.
1:12:29 Speaker 02 Yeah, exactly. Yeah, it would look really cool if Taylor were just like.
1:12:31 Ashley Hesseltine? I just, why would you not want to be tied to like the coolest comedian?
1:12:37 Speaker 02 It would be such a boss move of Taylor to do.
1:12:39 Ashley Hesseltine? I agree.
1:12:39 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah. I'm just, she's friends with people way less famous. She's known for being like the girl. She's out of town. She was in New York all week while Nikki was doing SNL, just going out.
1:12:48 Speaker 02 She should have been at SNL. It would have been so cool.
1:12:52 Ashley Hesseltine? That, that now it's blowing my mind even more.
1:12:55 Speaker 02 It's giving Taylor Swift and like the, you know.
1:12:58 Speaker 03 Giving Kate Bosworth and Taylor Strecker.
1:12:59 Ashley Hesseltine? Just be cooler is my point. No offense, Taylor Swift.
1:13:02 Speaker 02 No.
1:13:02 Ashley Hesseltine? She should have been at SNL.
1:13:04 Speaker 02 I know.
1:13:05 Ashley Hesseltine? The best, that would have been the best cameo. There would be no better cameo for Taylor Swift to be at SMN.
1:13:10 Speaker 02 Hundred percent.
1:13:10 Rayna Greenberg? And said she went to the corner store. I mean, listen, it's good, but like, it's been done.
1:13:14 Speaker 02 Like, let's go to the corner store.
1:13:17 Ashley Hesseltine? I'm just tired of the paparazzi photos. It's nothing against her. I'm just tired of them. Like, when she was out with Travis every night, I liked it.
1:13:23 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:13:23 Ashley Hesseltine? And now I'm just over. Besides the one of her with Sabrina Carpenter looking like me and right now.
1:13:26 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, my God. Literally, look at the two of us. Literally. Taylor is also in the forefront, so she looks even taller.
1:13:33 Speaker 03 So big. Her shoes are this big.
1:13:34 Rayna Greenberg? Six inch heels, the dumbest outfit for always, but those shoes were great.
1:13:37 Speaker 02 Always the dumbest outfit.
1:13:38 Rayna Greenberg? Sabrina Carpenter is this little thimble wearing near her.
1:13:42 Speaker 02 Kitchen heels.
1:13:43 Rayna Greenberg? Kitchen heels.
1:13:43 Speaker 03 I know.
1:13:44 Rayna Greenberg? Taylor Swift has six inch high heels on.
1:13:46 Speaker 02 Yeah, it's crazy.
1:13:48 Ashley Hesseltine? Kate, if you're listening.
1:13:49 Rayna Greenberg? And we think you could be friends with Taylor.
1:13:51 Speaker 02 Please, God, Kate, I'm so sorry if you're listening. I prof- I prof- I prof- I apologize.
1:13:56 Ashley Hesseltine? She's glitched.
1:13:56 Speaker 02 It's just going, it just, there's too many ups and downs. Like, I remember when I was at Sirius, I was like, you guys don't understand the amount of dreams I've had about Kate. And like, like, meeting Kate and hanging out with Kate and being friends with Kate. It's really crazy.
1:14:06 Ashley Hesseltine? The way that this started, and I thought it was gonna be like a quick little, like, we're from the same town.
1:14:11 Speaker 03 An anecdote.
1:14:12 Ashley Hesseltine? And I thought we were gonna move on. This is the best.
1:14:14 Rayna Greenberg? But does she know that your friends, Taylor, your friends like a lot of famous people?
1:14:17 Speaker 02 I know. I remember she was like hanging out with Lala for a little bit because Randall, she like, was like, he was a movie producer, so they worked, and I was like, "Oh, if she's gonna hang out with Randall, she's hanging with Lala, and then Lala's friends with Stassi, and then Stassi, we've become friends, we'll be friends." Like, I was like, "It's gonna happen."
1:14:32 Speaker 03 Kate doesn't follow any of the famous people taste friends with.
1:14:34 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:14:35 Speaker 03 I check.
1:14:35 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:14:36 Rayna Greenberg? But she has to listen to like, I mean, you're-
1:14:38 Ashley Hesseltine? Also, you checking the Instagram, too.
1:14:39 Speaker 03 This is a science. It's part of my job.
1:14:41 Rayna Greenberg? But we like, okay, we came to the relaunch of your podcast. It was Hannah Burnery, it was Tinks, it was the Toast Girls. I mean, it was a who's who of media. And us, obviously, were there.
1:14:50 Speaker 03 You guys, Heather McMahon.
1:14:52 Rayna Greenberg? Yes, Heather McMahon, stop bar.
1:14:53 Ashley Hesseltine? But yes, Kate Bosworth, like, she's been around.
1:14:56 Speaker 02 Yes.
1:14:56 Ashley Hesseltine? She's got it. She's a name.
1:14:57 Speaker 02 But yes.
1:14:58 Ashley Hesseltine? Those women are like more of it girls at the moment, and those are all who you surround yourself with.
1:15:03 Speaker 02 Like, Kate, I'm cool. Like, who people like me?
1:15:08 Speaker 02 We literally.
1:15:09 Speaker 03 I'm gonna bring this up in therapy. I'm surprised we haven't talked about it yet.
1:15:12 Speaker 02 We literally though, so she finally came to Sirius to promote a movie. She was with her ex-husband, Michael Polla. It was a movie they did together. And I'm like, oh my God. And I'm like, there's no way she's gonna do my show. Cause if she knows how psycho I am, she's gonna avoid me. She does a show. I'm like coming in, I'm like, is she gonna remember me? I came in and it was like, we were best friends. Like it was like, oh my God, and this, that and the other. And we took a picture together and she like, put my head against her shoulder and like held it like my mother.
1:15:34 Rayna Greenberg? This is insane.
1:15:35 Speaker 02 And I was like, oh my God, this is it. We're gonna get to be friends again, kind of, who never were. And then gave me her email. Like this is, I get there and then.
1:15:45 Rayna Greenberg? You have to want it a little less. And listen.
1:15:48 Speaker 02 We all want to manufacture.
1:15:50 Rayna Greenberg? Out of the tube. No, let me just explain to you how like people work. It's hard to manufacture, but you have to play hard to get. And listen, we're too far down the road. You just said, I want her in my well. But like, I, I don't, I listen, I think that like, I don't know. We, I just, what's a metaphor for it? You've already rung the bell. Okay. You can't unring it.
1:16:07 Speaker 03 Yeah, you can't unring it.
1:16:07 Rayna Greenberg? You have to want this less. That's the only road to Kate.
1:16:10 Speaker 02 I want it. I want it none.
1:16:11 Speaker 03 Right now, just like Tony Robbins, Jew. I don't know what just happened. Her tone changed.
1:16:16 Rayna Greenberg? She's, I would say that's how you get a man. Like you can't like a man and communicate that to a man. That man will never like you.
1:16:23 Speaker 02 Also, the fact that I'm an out and proud queer woman now, like, like she's like, so she's been in love with me.
1:16:31 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, okay. There's that.
1:16:32 Speaker 03 But also like, I was on Netflix the other day and I was just like clicking through and I just like happened to stop on something random and I wasn't paying attention and I stopped on Blue Crush and all I hear is Tay go, are you fucking serious?
1:16:43 Rayna Greenberg? Oh, you can't play it in the house?
1:16:44 Speaker 03 Are you trying to hurt me?
1:16:46 Speaker 02 I think next year for Halloween, I'm gonna be Kate in Blue Crush.
1:16:49 Rayna Greenberg? Get the contact?
1:16:50 Speaker 02 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1:16:51 Rayna Greenberg? One blue contact.
1:16:52 Speaker 02 No, that's her real eyes.
1:16:54 Rayna Greenberg? I know.
1:16:54 Speaker 03 You would have to wear it to do it.
1:16:56 Speaker 02 Sorry. I'm the number one fan of her.
1:16:59 Rayna Greenberg? You have to act like you don't care and you don't know. Okay. You don't know anything about her eyes.
1:17:03 Speaker 02 No, and you guys, Chris is still my best friend and he is still her best friend. Like.
1:17:08 Rayna Greenberg? She really doesn't want to be your friend. All right. So we wanted to move on. We, this topic I feel like is perfect. Cause we were talking about you and all your, all your famous friends, not including Kate.
1:17:17 Speaker 03 I'll take this one thing.
1:17:18 Ashley Hesseltine? Raina Cantruzi.
1:17:19 Rayna Greenberg? Well, you said this thing, we did this great, we did Lady World, Lady Gang together in Florida. And you came with Stassi and you're, we keep saying this, but you're the godmothers, right? Of her chi- of her children.
1:17:30 Speaker 02 Her little boy is our godbaby. Yes.
1:17:32 Rayna Greenberg? Okay. And you said this thing to me and you said, I'm the number one, number two. And you say it was like your whole chest with like so much confidence. And I think some people like always kind of feel like I'm the sidekick.
1:17:43 Speaker 02 I, I have to claim it. You know what I mean? I also am like a big fan of saying things before other people get to say them, right? So I'm like, I am a professional social climber. That is like what I do. Why, I can't get over Kate because she was my first failed attempt, but whatever, let's keep it moving. Stassi's my best friend. Claudia Oshry's another one of my best friends. Like these women are powerhouses. Hannah Berner, like I.
1:18:06 Rayna Greenberg? You guys.
1:18:07 Speaker 02 You guys.
1:18:08 Rayna Greenberg? You weren't going to mention it, but Taylor Donohue did.
1:18:10 Speaker 02 Well, I'm thinking of an individual person because they're two.
1:18:13 Rayna Greenberg? No, they're bigger.
1:18:14 Speaker 02 You know what I mean? But like, okay, I know what it is. My best friend from college, Nicole, she works at Sirius still. I got my job because of her and I got the gig and she actually didn't get the gig. She still was like at reception for a while. And then now she's like on the radio, she's still there. She didn't get fired from Sirius. Like, so she started getting a lot of opportunities and as best friends, she wasn't jealous of me when I got the gig and she didn't. So I wanted to always like pay it back to her and like be happy for her. But she got to go and like Chelsea Handler, like big things that I was like, oh, I'm jealous, but like I'm going to be happy.
1:18:42 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah.
1:18:42 Speaker 02 So I trained myself. It's like way better to be happy for somebody than to be jealous of them. But maybe I've taken that a little too far and like made an identity.
1:18:50 Rayna Greenberg? I think it's amazing. I think that you've surround, you both have surrounded yourself, but incredibly talented, amazing women. And I think that you want to support them and uplift them. And they do the same for you also. Like you're right there with them, but you just, you feel like empowered by being in the presence of other amazing women.
1:19:08 Speaker 02 Yes, but I don't.
1:19:10 Ashley Hesseltine? That's an interesting thing you said. That's really like vulnerable to share.
1:19:13 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:19:13 Ashley Hesseltine? Because I think it's like a human. Thing, like everyone has jealousy. I want what she has or he has.
1:19:20 Speaker 02 Right.
1:19:21 Ashley Hesseltine? We talk about this all the time and this, you have to kind of curate your social media follows and things like that and just take care of yourself when it comes to that. Cause I think it's like just such a human nature, but you're saying you like, maybe you over corrected a little.
1:19:32 Speaker 03 Correct. And I fought against it for a long time because I was like, you should be the star of your own show. You should be the number one. And it took me a while to realize that because she is saying this, it doesn't mean she wants any less.
1:19:43 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
1:19:43 Speaker 03 She doesn't not want to do things because you think you're number two. It's just sort of like a narrative you play. It's like a shtick that you have.
1:19:52 Speaker 02 But I mean it.
1:19:53 Speaker 03 I know you mean it.
1:19:53 Speaker 02 I'm like proud of myself.
1:19:54 Ashley Hesseltine? But I know you really are like a hype girl. Like you really.
1:19:58 Speaker 03 She's like the best friend you could have.
1:19:59 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:20:00 Speaker 03 She's like the most loyal, uplifting, self-deprecating friend you can have.
1:20:04 Speaker 02 Yeah. But I just like to see other people win, but I think that maybe, yeah, it's maybe there's a little overcorrection. Like I'm too comfortable in the number two spot and like I need to like, see myself as main character energy too. So it's something I'm actively working on.
1:20:16 Ashley Hesseltine? Like I think some people really want to be the best, like the, the number one.
1:20:22 Speaker 02 Yes.
1:20:23 Ashley Hesseltine? I don't need it. I want to be at the top. I don't need to be that I'm not, I will stop at nothing till I'm the most whatever. Like I would just want to be in the top and be doing well. And then have these, all these other things in my life that are really great that not everybody has, whether it's like friendships or marriage, family, all these things. I want to have a really impressive career and I want to feel like I am accomplished, but I don't need like the number one. And I think some people are really driven by that. I think they will stop at nothing. So I just don't think of you like that, but I think you're also still a really driven, ambitious woman and you want these things. Like we all do.
1:20:56 Speaker 02 Yeah, totally.
1:20:57 Rayna Greenberg? And I think of you as a star.
1:20:59 Speaker 02 Thank you.
1:20:59 Rayna Greenberg? Like you are like such a star in your own right. And you are able to like give other people their flowers and be a part of their success and be such a powerhouse in your own right. And you have to like, almost remind yourself, like all of these people wouldn't want to be around me if I wasn't so also impressive and amazing and incredible.
1:21:15 Speaker 02 Thank you.
1:21:16 Ashley Hesseltine? But you're like an OG too.
1:21:17 Speaker 02 It is a weird thing, like, cause like Stassi will be like, I got into podcast because of you. Hannah's like, you were the first person that I like learned about podcast.
1:21:25 Ashley Hesseltine? Radio show. And I was like, I want to be her.
1:21:27 Speaker 02 It's so crazy. It feels like that was like a different life back in serious.
1:21:31 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
1:21:31 Rayna Greenberg? How long ago was that?
1:21:32 Speaker 02 My God.
1:21:33 Ashley Hesseltine? 2017. I did this thing with Bravo. They like sent me to do it. And Cheech set it up. It all comes back to Cheech.
1:21:39 Speaker 02 All roads lead back to Cheech.
1:21:41 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah. But it's interesting.
1:21:44 Ashley Hesseltine? When you do see people who are real pioneers in this, in a, in a space, and then it feels like they get surpassed.
1:21:52 Speaker 02 That's totally, I always say, I'm like, what am I doing wrong? Everybody is like flying by me. You guys, truthfully, Stassi, no, no, no, no, no, I'm serious though. It's like, I'm proud that I've been in this business for so long. It's, it's gonna be 20 years, March of 2026. I'll have been in this industry for 20 years. And it's like, I'm proud of that, but then I'm also like, God, should I be embarrassed? Should I be like further along? Do you know what I mean? And then I think about Jennifer Coolidge and I'm like, that's my, that's my trajectory. But it definitely.
1:22:22 Rayna Greenberg? We're playing the long game.
1:22:23 Speaker 02 I, I guess.
1:22:24 Rayna Greenberg? No, but you also operated in, from, coming from a place of fear for 15 years of your career.
1:22:30 Speaker 02 I will.
1:22:31 Rayna Greenberg? And it's only until the last few years that you're like, okay, I'm not scared of doing X, Y, and Z.
1:22:35 Speaker 02 I think being at Sirius gave me a great platform, but it held me back for a long time. I mean, they fired me, so it's not like I chose to leave, but it was the best thing that they could have ever done because it forced me to go out on my own.
1:22:44 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah.
1:22:45 Speaker 02 So I guess if you take the 12 years that I was at Sirius, I've been in this business for eight years as like a solo entity.
1:22:50 Rayna Greenberg? Right.
1:22:51 Speaker 02 So, fine, fine, fine, eight years. I like that better.
1:22:56 Rayna Greenberg? You're new. You're green.
1:22:57 Speaker 02 I'm a baby. I'm just a little baby. I'm an infant.
1:23:01 Ashley Hesseltine? No, but I guess to my point, like, I think people who are real OGs in any industry like always command respect. And I just think of you like that and you've had longevity.
1:23:11 Speaker 02 Thank you. See, it's, it's, it's all perspective, right?
1:23:14 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
1:23:14 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:23:15 Rayna Greenberg? I don't know the backstories of all these people that you're friends with, but like, you have a 10-year-long relationship. You have all these friendships. I mean, to Ashley's point, like, there are other things that you have done with your life and gotten that other people could never even imagine doing such a thing. I mean, to go to your podcast release party, really, and to see the room of people that showed up for you. I mean, people would die to have those type of genuine love and connections in a room, people showing up for them. None of those people needed to come. Those are all really successful people and everyone wanted to, wanted to show up and show out for you.
1:23:46 Ashley Hesseltine? Yes.
1:23:46 Speaker 02 Nice guys.
1:23:47 Ashley Hesseltine? But then even seeing the parties you guys host at your house, like, you guys are just real people. Like, we say this all the time, you meet so many. Fake people in this industry and you guys are like real ones. You live a real life. You're friends with real people who aren't famous too.
1:24:02 Rayna Greenberg? Right.
1:24:02 Ashley Hesseltine? You know, it's even seen like every single time you guys have a party, we are invited and like we didn't, we haven't been able to come. And I'm just like watching like, I just want to be there like doing karaoke or whatever the fuck you guys are doing. Yeah.
1:24:13 Speaker 02 Oh my God, until like four o'clock in the morning.
1:24:14 Ashley Hesseltine? You're so loved.
1:24:15 Speaker 03 We are rich in friend, in friendships.
1:24:18 Speaker 02 Yes, yes, we are.
1:24:20 Speaker 03 Famous, not famous.
1:24:21 Speaker 02 Yeah, both. Yeah.
1:24:22 Speaker 03 Yes.
1:24:22 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:24:23 Ashley Hesseltine? Yeah.
1:24:23 Speaker 02 But oh my God, this is like so much fun. Kate, I hope you're listening now.
1:24:28 Ashley Hesseltine? Hold on, who was at the party that we were like, oh my God?
1:24:30 Speaker 02 Annadelle.
1:24:31 Speaker 03 Annadelle.
1:24:34 Speaker 02 Insane. That's through Kelly.
1:24:36 Ashley Hesseltine? I've had so much FOMO when you guys have these parties.
1:24:38 Speaker 02 Oh, you guys, you have to come. Once, once little girl's here, we'll get back on the party train.
1:24:43 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, I'm talking, when we talk about moving back, I talk about moving into your neighborhood. I want to talk more about it.
1:24:47 Speaker 03 We have quarterly parties.
1:24:48 Rayna Greenberg? No, can you just like sending her listings of stuff?
1:24:51 Speaker 02 Yes, literally.
1:24:52 Rayna Greenberg? Cause I'm gonna be back there. So Ashley's just gotta come.
1:24:56 Speaker 02 Come on.
1:24:57 Speaker 03 I have like a husband, he has a job.
1:24:58 Rayna Greenberg? He wants to come too. Him and I are moving back.
1:25:02 Ashley Hesseltine? All right, we'll work on him.
1:25:03 Rayna Greenberg? Well, we love you guys so much. We actually have to wrap because the Eagles game starts in a few minutes.
1:25:08 Speaker 02 And we gotta go.
1:25:08 Rayna Greenberg? And then you guys are sleeping over my house. We want to be closer to your hair salon in the morning.
1:25:14 Speaker 02 The traffic is no joke.
1:25:15 Speaker 03 I was gonna say, what's an hour in the morning?
1:25:16 Rayna Greenberg? I get it.
1:25:17 Speaker 03 Right?
1:25:18 Ashley Hesseltine? I love that you guys are sleeping over. Should we just sleep over?
1:25:19 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah, please. Also, if you guys want my king size bed, you can have it also.
1:25:23 Speaker 02 Oh my God, you work so sweet. Absolutely not.
1:25:26 Rayna Greenberg? Yeah. No way. No, no, no, no, no.
1:25:29 Ashley Hesseltine? No, it's fine.
1:25:29 Rayna Greenberg? Taylor's gonna be in that bed.
1:25:31 Speaker 03 No, I might, I might sleep in the bed.
1:25:33 Ashley Hesseltine? You guys should take her room. It's really stunning.
1:25:35 Speaker 02 No, well, I would be so mad if somebody came to take me.
1:25:38 Ashley Hesseltine? It's just take the room.
1:25:39 Speaker 02 No.
1:25:40 Rayna Greenberg? Four of me could fit in my bed. And there's three of you.
1:25:43 Ashley Hesseltine? Well, also it's like a hotel room. Just take it.
1:25:45 Rayna Greenberg? I'll show you. Listen, you'll stay.
1:25:46 Speaker 02 Okay. Can we watch Blue Crush together?
1:25:49 Ashley Hesseltine? You know what's very funny is there's like naked pictures of Reyna in her, all around her house, but in your bedroom.
1:25:53 Rayna Greenberg? That's where they are in my bedroom.
1:25:54 Ashley Hesseltine? And Shoshank was up there one day and he was like, where can I look?
1:25:58 Ashley Hesseltine? Reyna's naked over here. He was literally sitting on the couch.
1:26:01 Speaker 03 Just staring at the floor.
1:26:03 Ashley Hesseltine? Where am I allowed to look?
1:26:06 Rayna Greenberg? Tasteful nudity.
1:26:07 Ashley Hesseltine? Tasteful.
1:26:08 Rayna Greenberg? But you know, it's my nipples. All right. Well, we have to go watch the Eagles game.
1:26:11 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:26:11 Rayna Greenberg? Where can everybody find you guys, listen to your show?
1:26:16 Ashley Hesseltine? Look at Taylor Donahue's Instagram.
1:26:18 Speaker 02 Okay, so.
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1:26:32 Ashley Hesseltine? Love that.
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1:26:40 Ashley Hesseltine? First.
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1:26:59 Speaker 02 Yes.
1:27:00 Ashley Hesseltine? Bye.
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