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0:59 Caleb Hammer? To watch episodes of Financial Audit a week earlier, check us out on YouTube. How's your business going this year?
1:06 Speaker 03 I want to say roughly [BLEEP].
1:08 Caleb Hammer? You spent $4,000 getting this up and running?
1:10 Speaker 03 I spent more than that.
1:11 Caleb Hammer? How much did you spend then? How much?
1:13 Speaker 03 Probably [BLEEP].
1:14 Caleb Hammer? Oh, you're dead.
1:15 Speaker 03 But you have to spend money to make money in a business standpoint. I call it girl math. I don't know.
1:20 Caleb Hammer? There's no [BLEEP] way. You kidding me? That's an entire year's...
1:25 Speaker 03 Okay, then don't ask.
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1:43 Speaker 03 Hi, my name is Mackenzie. I'm 26 years old from Melbourne, Florida, and this is Financial Audit.
1:49 Caleb Hammer? Thanks for coming over from Florida. What do you do for a living there?
1:52 Speaker 03 Um, so I actually work a couple of jobs. I work about four or five jobs. Um, my
1:56 Caleb Hammer? Like five hours a week at each or?
1:58 Speaker 03 Uh, no, I wish. Uh, no, actually I work multiple jobs, multiple days a week. So my main job is I work as a nail tech. Um, but then I also work a part-time job at a burrito restaurant. Um, I also DoorDash. I also Petsit and then I donate plasma on the side.
2:16 Caleb Hammer? So it's mostly all hustle except for the, the burrito place.
2:20 Speaker 03 Kind of.
2:21 Caleb Hammer? The other ones are kind of the self hustle. When you're a nail tech, it's still building your own clientele, right?
2:24 Speaker 03 Yes.
2:25 Caleb Hammer? For you? Okay. So, I mean, working those jobs, I mean, they're mostly just self hustle jobs. Which I thought we were gonna say, okay, I'm working at McDonald's, I'm a receptionist, I, a nurse, and I do, like, all these extra jobs. You know, I leave Chipotle to go to Wendy's for my next shift.
2:44 Speaker 03 No.
2:44 Caleb Hammer? But these are just side hustle jobs. These are entrepreneurial.
2:47 Speaker 03 I mean, I still look at it as, I mean, it
2:50 Caleb Hammer? They are separate, they are separate jobs. It's not what it's set up to be.
2:53 Speaker 03 Choice, but I guess, yeah.
2:55 Caleb Hammer? Well, how's that career working?
2:57 Speaker 03 Um, well, I'm still pretty new into it.
2:58 Caleb Hammer? How new has it been? If you're 26, how long have you been doing it?
3:01 Speaker 03 I'm in my second year, but I am in my first year of being in business on my own.
3:06 Caleb Hammer? Okay, why one year of not being in your business of your own, did you immediately go into the business of your own?
3:11 Speaker 03 So I, straight out of school, I started off in two salons. Um, I was in the, one of the salons for a couple of months. It didn't really work out very well. And then I
3:19 Caleb Hammer? Didn't work out very well, why?
3:21 Speaker 03 Just didn't mesh very well with the owner.
3:23 Caleb Hammer? Go on.
3:24 Speaker 03 So she, she was actually one of my teachers in school.
3:29 Speaker 03 Offered, you know, we had talked about it, offered me a place in the salon and took it. And I honestly really don't know. It just
3:36 Caleb Hammer? Oh, come on.
3:37 Speaker 03 No, I really don't. Out of nowhere, the one day we, my roommate and I actually worked there together.
3:42 Caleb Hammer? What happened?
3:43 Speaker 03 I'm not joking. I was at a, I think it was like a Memorial Day party or whichever one is in like later in the year. I don't remember. But Labor Day.
3:53 Caleb Hammer? Go on.
3:55 Speaker 03 Um, but we literally got a text message saying that she was not renewing our contracts for the month.
4:01 Caleb Hammer? Oh, there we go. Okay. So it wasn't, you weren't meshing well. It's maybe you were not a good employee or she had to scale back her business. So she was going in a different direction. So come on. I mean, that's an immediate, immediate mislead of the conversation.
4:12 Speaker 03 She still was an educator at the school and I did, my sister went to that school.
4:15 Caleb Hammer? I don't get it.
4:17 Speaker 03 The thing she was saying.
4:18 Caleb Hammer? My teacher from high school has to hire me to.
4:20 Speaker 03 High school.
4:21 Caleb Hammer? No, I am saying my, okay, my teacher from college has to hire me to go work at the college. Like what the you're talking about?
4:25 Speaker 03 No, but my sister still went there. And so she was kind of running her mouth about how we were not like, she didn't like us, like working there and things were saying, things were happening between.
4:36 Caleb Hammer? I'm sorry to hear that, but no one is entitled to keep their job if their boss does not like them. Sorry.
4:42 Speaker 03 Yeah.
4:43 Caleb Hammer? Her business.
4:44 Speaker 03 Yeah. But I mean, when you're bringing in business, I think it is a little bit different.
4:48 Caleb Hammer? Clearly it wasn't enough though. And she is able to do better with someone else.
4:51 Speaker 03 But if I'm able to sustain her business while she's working another job, then.
4:54 Caleb Hammer? It wouldn't be that. The money would win. Clearly you were not doing enough. Listen, and if you were, your business would be successful and you're working three other jobs. So I would assume it's not. So tell me what's going on with this one year of nail tech.
5:06 Speaker 03 Um, so I was in the other salon that I started out, straight out of school. I was in the second salon also. And was there for about a year.
5:18 Speaker 03 It was great at first and then things just kind of started not aligning very well. I think everybody was kind of going in their own different directions. Things just kind of started taking a turn for the worse in the salon. And so I was kind of already looking at other options.
5:31 Caleb Hammer? It seems to be everything except for you, by the way. Why is it always things are going wrong somewhere else?
5:36 Speaker 03 Well.
5:36 Caleb Hammer? I like immediately picking up on this. Why is it those who are like a victim and everything in life and nothing else is their fault are the ones who usually end up in the worst position? I, the people that come on the show. Oh, it's almost like it's a, it's like something's going on. It's like that mindset gets you nowhere. Hmm. Who would have thought? I don't know.
5:53 Speaker 03 I'm trying my hardest. I do have glitter in my hair.
5:57 Speaker 03 Um, no, I'm, I mean,
5:58 Caleb Hammer? So how's your business going this year? Your first year in business on your own, tell me.
6:05 Speaker 03 Um, so it's only been a couple of months.
6:08 Caleb Hammer? You told me it was a year.
6:09 Speaker 03 Well, this, this is, I'm in my first year of being.
6:13 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so what's happened these last two months then, lady?
6:16 Speaker 03 Um, I'm doing okay.
6:19 Caleb Hammer? What's okay?
6:21 Speaker 03 I mean, my books are not full.
6:23 Caleb Hammer? Can you tell me how much you made last month?
6:25 Speaker 03 Last month?
6:26 Caleb Hammer? Uh, just your own nail tech business. What are you even doing it out of?
6:31 Speaker 03 Um, I, I, I do have a suite mate. We rent a business suite together that we operate out of.
6:37 Caleb Hammer? Right.
6:37 Speaker 03 So, um,
6:38 Caleb Hammer? So what did you make last month?
6:40 Speaker 03 I want to say roughly 500. It, it varies month to month. So it's, it's.
6:44 Caleb Hammer? 500 varies month to month. It's been two months.
6:47 Speaker 03 Yeah. I mean, it's varied month to month since I started.
6:52 Speaker 03 It just is dependent on business.
6:53 Caleb Hammer? $500.
6:55 Speaker 03 Yeah.
6:56 Caleb Hammer? Okay. So in terms of your four jobs, I'm hardly considering that one of them.
7:01 Speaker 03 Okay.
7:02 Caleb Hammer? It's a hobby that brought in a little extra.
7:06 Speaker 03 I'm trying to build a new career.
7:10 Caleb Hammer? There's a million nail techs. I'm sorry. It's gonna be an incredibly competitive field. I'm not saying you can't make it, but come on, $500. $500 a month. You weren't able to pull any of your clients from your previous locations?
7:20 Speaker 03 I did pull some of them.
7:22 Caleb Hammer? Only $500 worth, so clearly none.
7:25 Speaker 03 Yeah, but I mean, people don't get their nails done every day. I mean, I had you, they typically come in three, three to four weeks at a time. I'm trying.
7:33 Caleb Hammer? I'm trying. Interesting. It's an interesting philosophy.
7:36 Speaker 03 I, I mean, what, what else am I supposed to do? You may go drag people off the street.
7:40 Caleb Hammer? For someone else and build up a larger clientele for over a course of a few years.
7:43 Speaker 03 Offer a decent like commission pay.
7:46 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, you make $500.
7:47 Speaker 03 Yeah, but that's better than me going in and making a 30% commission.
7:50 Caleb Hammer? 30% commission with more clients.
7:53 Speaker 03 But it's not guaranteed because even some of the girls.
7:54 Caleb Hammer? How much a month are you making on average in the previous position? You were bringing in a lot of clients. You were just jerking yourself off. You're incredible for that business.
8:01 Speaker 03 Um,
8:02 Caleb Hammer? I was the queen. I did all the nails. I brought in all the ladies. I supported her business myself.
8:11 Speaker 03 Um, again, it just kind of varied on depending on who needed
8:16 Caleb Hammer? Go on.
8:16 Speaker 03 Six to $800 a month.
8:18 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so no, you weren't actually a very good employee. I'll be honest. Okay, so it sounds like no, this is not working. You have to build this up over longer and now you're renting a suite. Okay, that $500 you brought in. Go ahead then. What's your rent?
8:32 Speaker 03 Um, so the way that me and my suite may have it worked out.
8:35 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, go ahead. What's your rent?
8:36 Speaker 03 The full rent is 542 or 742 a month. Sorry. Split between the two of us.
8:43 Speaker 03 And then she just takes a
8:44 Caleb Hammer? You brought in five.
8:45 Speaker 03 Commissionable. Well, that's after she takes my commission to cover my part of the rent.
8:50 Caleb Hammer? Why is friction so weird? Instead of just paying half the rent? Okay.
8:54 Speaker 03 I offered to do it that way. This was the way that she chose and said that it would be easiest to do is she just takes a percent.
8:59 Caleb Hammer? No, but she might make more money out of it somehow if it gets overly convoluted and you both don't understand it.
9:07 Speaker 03 I think neither of us really have an understanding of it, but we're just kind of winging it and hoping for the best.
9:12 Caleb Hammer? Colton's telling me right now, I mean, just the salon you had after the salon that you got fired. Yeah, it was, you were kind of mentioning that you had bad vibes. Well, from you in the conversations, you had bad vibes. So you just left.
9:25 Speaker 03 Yes and no.
9:27 Caleb Hammer? Yes and no. So I mean, that's what you've told the producers. So yeah, let's go ahead, backtrack now that we're on camera. Let's do that.
9:33 Speaker 03 So yes, I left, but I wasn't originally planning on leaving fully from them. I had originally told them that I was going to step down to one or two days a week.
9:44 Caleb Hammer? So what happened?
9:45 Speaker 03 Um, I just wasn't loving it.
9:47 Caleb Hammer? It was a bad vibe.
9:48 Speaker 03 My suite mate had made the decision on her own that she was going to kind of step out and do her own thing and offered me a place to do that with her. So I decided to take a leap of faith when I probably shouldn't have, but I did.
10:04 Caleb Hammer? Oh, you jumped and now you can just hit the rocks at the bottom.
10:07 Speaker 03 Yeah. Um, but I let them know that, hey, you know, I'm gonna be dropping down to one or two days a week. And, you know, just to try and keep supporting you guys.
10:16 Caleb Hammer? Didn't you?
10:17 Speaker 03 Because, um, a couple of hours later that day, they sent out a message saying that they were actually just gonna close the salon. So they gave us till April.
10:26 Caleb Hammer? That's weird.
10:26 Speaker 03 Yeah, so.
10:27 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so $500 a month. It says that after equipment as well.
10:31 Speaker 03 Yes.
10:32 Caleb Hammer? I doubt it. Come on. Are you actually budgeting that? There's no way you'd be budgeting that properly.
10:36 Speaker 03 Most of my stuff was bought in bulk upfront. So there's, I have minimal costs.
10:41 Caleb Hammer? You're not aggregating it month to month? Or are you just, are you running it net month to month? So you have the boom big expense that covers the next few months, but you just count it against that month? Or are you counting it against the other months as you use the supplies?
10:52 Speaker 03 No, it's just kind of a one.
10:53 Caleb Hammer? How much did that cost? That big one time cost?
10:56 Speaker 03 To start?
10:56 Caleb Hammer? Yes, because you're only two months in. So you did this, I'd guess, uh, two months ago. How much was that one time cost?
11:04 Speaker 03 Several thousand dollars.
11:05 Caleb Hammer? Okay, I'm gonna [bleep] die. That's wonderful. We have a really good entrepreneurial spirit in this country and I love it. I love entrepreneurs. Let's [bleep] go out there and grind and do [bleep]. But oh my goodness, so many people do this in such a stupid [bleep] way. Listen, you didn't have a big supply of clientele that are able to come in and make up for those who don't come weekly, monthly, daily, all that stuff. Okay, you didn't build up enough people. You only worked at a place for a year and you honestly weren't doing very well there. If we're being honest, you were fired. So, great. And you immediately decide, yeah, let me get on this legal contract to split, split a lease with someone for how long, by the way?
11:44 Speaker 03 It's a one year lease.
11:45 Caleb Hammer? Thank [bleep] at least you have that. But even still, one year you committed to it.
11:48 Speaker 03 I did.
11:49 Caleb Hammer? Better than most commercial, usually minimum three. But either way, and then you're like, wow, let me go ahead and spend $2,000 that I certainly don't [bleep] have. That has to be in this debt somewhere. No way it's not. To go ahead and get this up and running. Oh, good. That takes four months to pay off at a minimum. Meaning we only get to see money eight months of the year. And that's, I mean, honestly, how long will these supplies last? How many months at this rate?
12:13 Speaker 03 Um, I mean, they'll, they'll last a good while. I mean, because nail polish is-
12:17 Caleb Hammer? A good while is an interesting timeframe. I would love to dial that into a number.
12:22 Speaker 03 I mean, a year.
12:23 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so eight months is the realized profit we're able to get from that. Now, I doubt you're setting any money aside for taxes. Of course. Great, so let's talk about burritos then. First of all, I will actually, for $500, how many hours are you working for that $500?
12:41 Speaker 03 Um, I have a standard of about eight hours set open for my books for that day, but I'm not always.
12:48 Caleb Hammer? No, no, no, tell me how many, no, no, no, no. Tell me how many hours you worked last month in order to bring in that $500. How many, how many hours you worked?
12:54 Speaker 03 So it's five days a week on average of about eight hours is what my books are open, but I don't have clients.
13:00 Caleb Hammer? Tell me how many hours you worked last month? Did you not understand the question I literally just asked? I just had to repeat it, I'm sorry.
13:06 Speaker 03 Um.
13:07 Caleb Hammer? How many hours in this previous month did you work that brought in $500?
13:13 Speaker 03 Total, maybe 80.
13:18 Caleb Hammer? The is wrong with you?
13:20 Speaker 03 I don't know, that's a guess.
13:22 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so you made $6.25 an hour.
13:24 Speaker 03 Mm hmm.
13:28 Caleb Hammer? Time to put the nails in the bag, girl.
13:32 Speaker 03 You're not the first person to tell me that.
13:34 Caleb Hammer? A real job next. Okay, we're going to work in a real job.
13:39 Speaker 03 Okay.
13:39 Caleb Hammer? So let's talk about a real job, burritos. How many hours a week are you working burritos? And what are you making with burritos?
13:47 Speaker 03 Um, so I work an average of about 20 hours a week. Um, and then I make 15 an hour plus tips.
13:54 Caleb Hammer? So to be clear, you make three times what you make, yeah, three times what you make in the nails for hourly? And you work just as many hours doing that? Cool, what is on your paycheck from burritos?
14:07 Speaker 03 Uh, two weeks paycheck if I work the full 20 hours.
14:10 Caleb Hammer? Why the would you not be?
14:12 Speaker 03 If I'm, if I'm out of town or if I have other things going on.
14:15 Caleb Hammer? Town, who the are you? You have debt, you make no money, you're trying to build a business and it's failing.
14:19 Speaker 03 All of my family's out of town.
14:20 Caleb Hammer? That sucks, they should come in. You're trying to be an entrepreneur that requires sacrifice.
14:24 Speaker 03 I do also try to, to do like local events and stuff like that. So if I have stuff like that on the weekends to try and.
14:31 Caleb Hammer? Local event?
14:32 Speaker 03 Um.
14:32 Caleb Hammer? Back scratching with new nails?
14:34 Speaker 03 So like, you know, we just did one recently that was like a women's day event to try and
14:40 Caleb Hammer? Women's Day.
14:41 Speaker 03 Yeah, so it was a bunch of local, local, local women, but local businesses as well. So we tried to do that to try and get the business out there and get names out there.
14:50 Caleb Hammer? Okay, that didn't work.
14:52 Speaker 03 Yeah.
14:53 Caleb Hammer? It's almost like that was a waste of time.
14:54 Speaker 03 Yeah.
14:55 Caleb Hammer? It's almost like probably half the businesses at the women's day event are nail techs.
15:00 Speaker 03 Actually, it was the only one.
15:02 Caleb Hammer? Surprising.
15:03 Speaker 03 Yeah.
15:04 Caleb Hammer? And yet it still didn't work. So
15:05 Speaker 03 Yeah.
15:06 Caleb Hammer? That's, that's even bigger alarm bell.
15:08 Speaker 03 Yeah.
15:08 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so yes, what hits if you work your full 20 hours a week, which you better do.
15:14 Speaker 03 Uh, I think it's right around 500.
15:20 Caleb Hammer? So 1,000 a month?
15:21 Speaker 03 Yeah.
15:23 Caleb Hammer? Oh, boy. Okay, then let's talk about, what was it? DoorDash Uber Eats, one of those?
15:27 Speaker 03 Yeah.
15:28 Caleb Hammer? Which one?
15:28 Speaker 03 DoorDash.
15:29 Caleb Hammer? Okay, DoorDash. Yes. How many hours are we doing with there?
15:34 Speaker 03 Um.
15:35 Caleb Hammer? It's variable, so give me average.
15:37 Speaker 03 It is. Um, I'm actually just getting back into it because I had a whole debacle with my car situation. So the last several months I haven't been able to do that, but I did recently start doing that again. I tried to do it. I try to go at least like five, 10 hours a week, usually just whenever I get off.
15:57 Caleb Hammer? Why don't you pick more hours up at burrito?
15:59 Speaker 03 Cause I don't want to take away from my time at the salon.
16:02 Caleb Hammer? Well, you should, because you make three times more money making burritos.
16:05 Speaker 03 Yeah, I, I'm trying, hustling as hard as I can. I am, I, I guess I'm trying to grow.
16:11 Caleb Hammer? I'm sorry, but.
16:12 Speaker 03 Too hard, but I.
16:13 Caleb Hammer? Grow boss a little too hard. Okay, listen, I hustle with, I'm good with hustle. Hustle's good. You're achieving nothing and going backwards. There are realistic conversations we need to be able to have with ourselves.
16:24 Speaker 03 Mm hmm.
16:25 Caleb Hammer? I'm not saying don't do nail tech. I'm saying maybe do it for someone else for five years, build up a list of clientele that are obsessed with you. Then go off on your own. You rushed this. You got fired from a job because you weren't very good at it and you're probably a brat to work with and everything's everyone's someone else's fault. Is um honestly kind of how you open this conversation before being completely honest. And then you left another job because it had bad vibes. So yes.
16:48 Speaker 03 I work somewhere where I don't feel comfortable or like like.
16:51 Caleb Hammer? Don't feel comfortable.
16:52 Speaker 03 Not not like not feel.
16:54 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, what are you not feeling comfortable?
16:55 Speaker 03 Like.
16:56 Caleb Hammer? Now that's.
16:56 Speaker 03 It's not a pleasant environment to like work in.
17:00 Caleb Hammer? What was unpleasant?
17:01 Speaker 03 I just didn't like the way things that were run.
17:03 Caleb Hammer? Oh, no.
17:04 Speaker 03 No.
17:05 Caleb Hammer? The boss ran a business the way they wanted to instead of the way I wanted to.
17:09 Speaker 03 It just was.
17:10 Caleb Hammer? No, why aren't you doing exactly what I am demanding? Oh, I'm a victim.
17:14 Speaker 03 And no, it was just poorly run in my opinion.
17:16 Caleb Hammer? Says the person who is a former employee.
17:20 Speaker 03 I mean, everybody who worked there is a former employee.
17:22 Caleb Hammer? True. Okay. And maybe it was poorly run, but either way, what I am saying is you did not put enough time to build clientele. Before going off on your own. I am not against this. You did not put in the work.
17:33 Speaker 03 No.
17:33 Caleb Hammer? You say you're a permanent grinder. Well, you did this in a very dumb way. You should have been grinding up.
17:38 Speaker 03 Okay, but when I when I, okay, and I get that and I probably, you know, the the math on it between either going out on my own or going into another.
17:49 Caleb Hammer? Six dollars an hour.
17:51 Speaker 03 I call it girl math. I don't know.
17:53 Caleb Hammer? Uh.
17:54 Speaker 03 Math is not my strong suit.
17:56 Caleb Hammer? Isn't the argument usually make eighty cents on the dollar? Girl. Compared to what you're making there, you're making thirty three cents on the dollar. Compared to the burrito.
18:07 Speaker 03 Yeah.
18:07 Caleb Hammer? I prefer burritos.
18:08 Speaker 03 Write off also.
18:10 Caleb Hammer? Everything's a write off on what? You're not making money to pay taxes anyway.
18:14 Speaker 03 Yep.
18:14 Caleb Hammer? What are you talking about write off? Shut the up write off. What are you writing off? You don't even know what you're writing off. What's a write off to you? What's a write off?
18:21 Speaker 03 Anything that is.
18:22 Caleb Hammer? On paper, that's a write off?
18:23 Speaker 03 Anything that I spend that's pertaining to the business.
18:27 Caleb Hammer? Anything you spend, I guarantee you, you go ahead and you get food and say, this is pertaining to the business.
18:34 Speaker 03 If it's a lunch me, if it's a business meeting over a meal, yeah.
18:38 Caleb Hammer? Which, oh, boy. Listen, you're probably not gonna get audited. Cause you don't make.
18:43 Speaker 03 No.
18:46 Caleb Hammer? But you wouldn't hold up under scrutiny. I promise you that. Are you working with the CPA?
18:50 Speaker 03 No.
18:53 Speaker 03 I do my taxes myself.
18:54 Caleb Hammer? I asked, I found another one, ding ding ding, and I'm hearing in the comments.
18:56 Speaker 03 Shut your mouth.
18:58 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so DoorDash, we're working an average of, I think you said 10 hours a week?
19:01 Speaker 03 Five, 10 hours a week, just whenever I have time.
19:03 Caleb Hammer? Bring it in on average a month?
19:05 Speaker 03 I try to do it to a point where I bring in at least a hundred dollars a week, so I try to bring in an extra $400 a month.
19:11 Caleb Hammer? Okay, now 400 hours a month before gas?
19:15 Speaker 03 Right off.
19:16 Caleb Hammer? But before gas, though?
19:18 Speaker 03 Yeah.
19:19 Caleb Hammer? Before maintenance, okay.
19:22 Caleb Hammer? Just because it's a write-off doesn't mean the expense didn't exist, though.
19:25 Speaker 03 Yeah, but you have to spend money to make money.
19:27 Caleb Hammer? What does that mean to you?
19:28 Speaker 03 You have to spend money to make money.
19:31 Caleb Hammer? What does that mean?
19:32 Speaker 03 You have to put forth an initial investment or something in order to see a return on it.
19:37 Caleb Hammer? Uh, sure, I mean, yeah, I mean, you could start a YouTube channel and that initial investment could be a phone camera, yeah, that's fine. I'm not saying you're not spending gas, but if we're talking about the $400, you're like, oh, it's a write-off. The gas is a write-off, you still spent the money.
19:49 Speaker 03 I'm spending gas on that, I'm already spending gas to drive to all of my other jobs.
19:52 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, you're spending more on DoorDash, but either way, what I am saying is just because it's a write-off doesn't mean all of a sudden you keep that $400, just, oh boom, okay, it doesn't, no, you still spent money. That money does not exist anymore. So, if we're calculating what you spent versus what you brought in from DoorDash, I'm gonna say maybe 300 a month?
20:11 Speaker 03 Yeah, I mean, like I said, I usually try to do minimum of a hundred dollars, so if I know that I have to get gas.
20:16 Caleb Hammer? A week.
20:17 Speaker 03 Well, okay, yes, a week, my apologies.
20:18 Caleb Hammer? I'm gonna say 300.
20:19 Speaker 03 Yeah, but if I know that I'm gonna have to get gas, then I will.
20:22 Caleb Hammer? What was your fourth job?
20:24 Speaker 03 Um, I also pet sit.
20:25 Caleb Hammer? Right, how many hours a week are you doing that? And why aren't we just committing to one or two?
20:31 Speaker 03 Um, so.
20:32 Caleb Hammer? Okay, how many hours a week are we pet sitting?
20:34 Speaker 03 It's variable, it's not something that's super consistent to me. I mean, I maybe get one or two bookings a month, every other month or so.
20:45 Caleb Hammer? So what can we even allocate to that?
20:47 Speaker 03 If you break it down, maybe $200 a month.
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22:23 Caleb Hammer? Self-employment taxes, gotta take care of your own social security, all that good stuff. That comes out of the gate.
22:30 Speaker 03 I mean, I'm trying to get more, like pet sitting clients, but a lot of the ones that I had died.
22:37 Caleb Hammer? That's what happens to animals, sadly.
22:40 Speaker 03 So, I mean, I can't, I can't, they're not gonna pay me to go sit with their ashes.
22:45 Caleb Hammer? No, but other people get pets?
22:47 Speaker 03 No, I know. I mean, I'm on Rover and I do get word of mouth clients from people who I already do pet sit for.
22:52 Caleb Hammer? You said.
22:53 Speaker 03 Yeah.
22:55 Speaker 03 It's not super lucrative.
22:56 Caleb Hammer? Okay.
22:56 Speaker 03 It's money.
22:57 Caleb Hammer? So even total, before we set anything aside, is 2,000 hours a month is what you literally make? You are not existing on $2,000 a month. That is impossible.
23:08 Speaker 03 I also donate plasma.
23:10 Caleb Hammer? Okay, well, okay, are you gonna consider that one a job too? What do you make in a month on that?
23:14 Speaker 03 Um, so it's 120 a week. So depending on how the weeks in the month land, it's anywhere between 480 and 600.
23:21 Caleb Hammer? Let's call it 4... Well, let's call it 550.
23:29 Speaker 03 Okay.
23:30 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so 2,550. Still, believe it or not, not enough money to really survive.
23:37 Speaker 03 Correct.
23:38 Caleb Hammer? That is $30,000 a year. Yeah, something's not working here and you're completely...
23:44 Speaker 03 Well, it's not me because I'm very clearly working.
23:49 Speaker 03 Hustling, sorry.
23:52 Caleb Hammer? Hmm?
23:53 Speaker 03 You just, you said all I do is side hustles. I don't have an actual job.
23:57 Caleb Hammer? If you were committing to one, dude, you could make any of these an actual job. Obviously, the nail tech thing's not working.
24:02 Speaker 03 I could, I could commit to more hours at the burrito place, but I also don't, that's not, my passion in life is not rolling burritos.
24:08 Caleb Hammer? My passion in life is you being able to pay your bills.
24:10 Speaker 03 I mean, yeah, I would love to be, I mean, I do pay my bills. My bills are paid.
24:14 Caleb Hammer? I pay my bills, my bills are paid. You spent $10,005 last month.
24:18 Speaker 03 Majority of it is probably write-offs.
24:20 Caleb Hammer? Are you broken? What the [bleep] are you talking about? I don't understand what you think is going on in this world.
24:26 Speaker 03 Money comes and goes and I'm trying to make it come more than it goes.
24:29 Caleb Hammer? But it only goes for you.
24:30 Speaker 03 Okay, Dave Ramsey.
24:31 Caleb Hammer? What? You spent four times what you brought in.
24:38 Caleb Hammer? You spent four times what you brought in. What do you expect to happen with that? Where does that lead?
24:44 Speaker 03 I don't know.
24:45 Caleb Hammer? So why the [bleep] are you doing it? Listen, if you're making a small amount of money, you gotta budget it more than anyone. $30,000 is hardly enough to live on. It's very, uh, it's very low for a high cost of living area. So what the [bleep], how can you stretch that if you don't know where your damn money is going? I guarantee you, did I know you spent $10,000 last month? Uh huh. So how the [bleep] do you not know?
25:07 Speaker 03 I
25:08 Caleb Hammer? Why are you not budgeting?
25:09 Speaker 03 Thought I I'm trying. I just don't I don't know how.
25:13 Caleb Hammer? I don't know how.
25:14 Speaker 03 I don't know how. Everything that I've tried as far as how people have told me to budget.
25:18 Caleb Hammer? What have you tried?
25:20 Speaker 03 Well, at this point, I'm just trying to work my life away and consume all of the hours of the day with that because I'm not spending money.
25:26 Caleb Hammer? Tell me what you've tried budgeting.
25:28 Speaker 03 I've tried, you know, I've tried doing, setting money aside, but I don't have a whole lot of money to set aside because my bills have become so consuming of everything that I make that it's just, it takes over everything. I don't really like I this one. I don't really know how to do a budget plan because everything I make goes to pay bills or for a business.
25:47 Caleb Hammer? Know where money goes. So how can you even say that? If you don't budget to figure out where money goes, how the can you even possibly say that?
25:53 Speaker 03 I mean, I've tried. I tried Rocket Money for a little bit and that it just was so confusing. It didn't make any sense.
25:58 Caleb Hammer? Around your nail tech.
26:00 Speaker 03 Social media.
26:01 Caleb Hammer? I've noticed that you literally have no social media presence.
26:05 Speaker 03 Uh, yeah, it's very small. But I'm I'm working on it. It's a new business.
26:13 Caleb Hammer? What the fuck is happening? Like, uh, social media, that's my game, has no social media presence.
26:18 Speaker 03 I mean, I can't pay for advertising. I can't afford that. So I I'm trying to do a budget.
26:23 Caleb Hammer? The only thing you actually can afford unfortunately is going and getting a real job. What's your education? What's your background? What do you have? What can we do?
26:30 Speaker 03 Um, so I am dual licensed in Florida, so I'm licensed as I can do nails and I'm licensed as an esthetician also.
26:37 Caleb Hammer? Oh, great. Okay. So two things that make no money. Okay. Wonderful. Great. That's fantastic. Me. Okay. So no college, right?
26:44 Speaker 03 Hmm. Not a completed degree now.
26:46 Caleb Hammer? How long did you go?
26:48 Speaker 03 Hmm. Several years.
26:49 Caleb Hammer? For what?
26:50 Speaker 03 General education. Um, I switched on and off. I'm, I mean, I had.
26:55 Caleb Hammer? So you could go to a community college, hopefully get an associate's degree, try to get into the career field. Some kind, costs money, but listen, student loans might be worth it if it dramatically increases your income. You make the bottom half of the income ladder substantially. Like you were not in a good place.
27:09 Speaker 03 Yeah.
27:09 Caleb Hammer? So it's a dual household income or is this just you?
27:11 Speaker 03 Uh, it's just me.
27:12 Caleb Hammer? Okay, then you're there's, I mean, there's no other way. This is not a livable situation in Melbourne.
27:17 Speaker 03 Yeah.
27:17 Caleb Hammer? And yet you are working yourself to the bone. In a completely insufficient fashion, though. You're not gonna be able to survive.
27:25 Speaker 03 Yeah.
27:25 Caleb Hammer? You're not gonna be able to do this long term. How many, how much longer can you put this many hours a week into this work to make nothing? Not much.
27:32 Speaker 03 You know, it's pretty miserable.
27:33 Caleb Hammer? And you're stuck into this lease for a fucking year contractually, right? You signed it out of line?
27:37 Speaker 03 Yes.
27:38 Caleb Hammer? I bet you damn did.
27:42 Caleb Hammer? So tell me what the your plan was gonna be? Please tell me what your plan was. I want to assess it.
27:48 Speaker 03 Wing it.
27:49 Caleb Hammer? Okay, no, no, no.
27:50 Speaker 03 That's all.
27:50 Caleb Hammer? What was your plan?
27:50 Speaker 03 That's, that's literally, I mean, it's, I'm flying by the seat of my pants. I don't, I, I don't have an actual plan. I, I, I have no clue what I'm doing and on, obviously that's very clear, but I am, I'm trying to figure it out.
28:04 Caleb Hammer? You just wander, you never think, you never think what you want to do. You have no plan whatsoever. You, listen, a lot of people on this show, yes, they're doing it wrong, but they at least have an idea of a plan, a concept of a plan, some would say.
28:18 Speaker 03 I mean, I know where I want to be. I would love, like, I have an idea of like the crowd and the clientele of people that I would love to get in with. Honestly, I would really like to work with drag queens, making nails for them. And then I really am trying to get into the younger crowd for nails because a lot of what I do, I, a lot of the people I service are older.
28:36 Caleb Hammer? They don't have as much money, the people that are older don't have the money.
28:39 Speaker 03 Not, a lot of people, and that was, that was a big thing.
28:42 Caleb Hammer? How many drag queens are there?
28:44 Speaker 03 Oh, more than you think.
28:46 Caleb Hammer? Probably, but enough to sustain multiple clients a day indefinitely, 365 days a year?
28:52 Speaker 03 I mean.
28:52 Caleb Hammer? How many drag queens do you personally know?
28:54 Speaker 03 Personally, one.
28:57 Caleb Hammer? Oh, ladies and gentlemen, this business is.
28:59 Speaker 03 Foot in the door.
28:59 Caleb Hammer? This is a thriving, small business.
29:01 Speaker 03 It's a, it'll get there.
29:03 Caleb Hammer? Statistics said 95% of small businesses fail within the first year. This is what's considered in that statistic.
29:09 Speaker 03 But I'm not, I, I, the business is open. I haven't had to close. I'm sustaining it.
29:13 Caleb Hammer? What's your rent?
29:15 Speaker 03 For the biz, I, I cover three. Oh, my household rent, $500 a month.
29:22 Caleb Hammer? You're fucking lucky, but even that with your income is unfortunately bad.
29:26 Speaker 03 Yeah.
29:26 Caleb Hammer? 500 should be a blessing of a rent, but $2,500 before she has to pay any of the self employment stuff is still 20% of your income. And how long is that going to last? When that rent's going to go up? When are you going to get out?
29:37 Speaker 03 Um, so I actually live in a house with two of my friends, so that rent is just kind of controlled by them.
29:42 Caleb Hammer? You're not going to say the landlord's going to raise rent?
29:45 Speaker 03 They own the house.
29:46 Caleb Hammer? Your friends own the house?
29:46 Speaker 03 They own the house.
29:47 Caleb Hammer? You're beyond lucky. You're beyond lucky, man. You would not be able to do that if you were not being subsidized by your friends.
29:53 Speaker 03 Correct. I'd be homeless.
29:55 Caleb Hammer? What do you think your financial score is? Zero to 10, zero being the worst, 10 being the... I literally just got to note that she does not like her friends that are subsidizing her. She doesn't like them. She actually dislikes her friends that are literally subsidizing her entire life. This is great. This is how, what life are you living? Why do you not even like them? The people that are...
30:16 Speaker 03 It's not that I don't like them. I just don't love, I don't, I don't love the living situation. I love them as people. I don't love, I don't love the living situation.
30:24 Caleb Hammer? She's backtracking. She's on camera now, getting called out. She's backtracking. Oh, we love a mean girl that completely...
30:35 Speaker 03 I don't love the living situation.
30:37 Caleb Hammer? What's the living situation? You getting subsidized living?
30:39 Speaker 03 It's...
30:40 Caleb Hammer? What's the living situation, lady?
30:42 Speaker 03 I just don't like living with them.
30:45 Caleb Hammer? Okay.
30:48 Caleb Hammer? What is the median rent for a one bedroom in Melbourne?
30:51 Speaker 03 Lot more than $500.
30:53 Caleb Hammer? Dude, you're broken. What kind of entitlement complex do you have? Why do you not like living with them?
31:00 Speaker 03 I just...
31:02 Caleb Hammer? Tell me!
31:03 Speaker 03 I just don't. I don't, I don't do well with roommates and I...
31:09 Caleb Hammer? Why? Cause you're a...
31:10 Speaker 03 No, because I like my personal space.
31:13 Caleb Hammer? Who the doesn't? But everyone gets a roommate. You are literally being blessed that they are not going to raise a rent.
31:18 Speaker 03 No, I know and I appreciate that.
31:19 Caleb Hammer? You appreciate it? You literally hate them.
31:21 Speaker 03 That I have put myself in, in having to be in that situation.
31:24 Caleb Hammer? Oh, you not working and not being an adult?
31:26 Speaker 03 I am working, first of all.
31:28 Caleb Hammer? Come on, you're doing hobbies.
31:29 Speaker 03 There's an income on paper.
31:30 Caleb Hammer? You're doing hobbies.
31:31 Speaker 03 I'm not doing hobbies.
31:32 Caleb Hammer? Yes, your nail salon is a hobby.
31:35 Speaker 03 Every business starts somewhere.
31:37 Caleb Hammer? Your business hasn't started. Your business is a failure.
31:39 Speaker 03 My business is two months old.
31:40 Caleb Hammer? Exactly.
31:41 Speaker 03 That's starting.
31:42 Caleb Hammer? And it should be zero months old because it is not working.
31:44 Speaker 03 Okay, well, if it was zero months old, I'd have less income.
31:45 Caleb Hammer? You have no marketing abilities. You go to a woman thing and no one's even there that is marketing the same kind of products and you didn't even bring anyone in. You're a failure. Meeting one bed rent in Melbourne, Florida, $1,310. Good the [bleep] luck. Good the [bleep] luck. And you hate them? You hate living with them?
32:02 Speaker 03 I don't hate them.
32:03 Caleb Hammer? Well, you dislike them. You don't even like them, specifically what you told them.
32:13 Caleb Hammer? Uh huh.
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33:27 Speaker 03 I actually would like to move out of state.
33:30 Caleb Hammer? All right. Good the clock. What do you think your score is zero to 10, zero being the worst 10 being the best?
33:34 Speaker 03 Generously one.
33:36 Caleb Hammer? Why would you even be generous yourself instead of realistic with yourself? That's what I would.
33:40 Speaker 03 Realistically zero.
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34:18 Speaker 03 No, it's a, that is a 401k account from when I worked for Walmart.
34:23 Caleb Hammer? Did you just pull out of your 401k?
34:25 Speaker 03 I'd close the account.
34:30 Caleb Hammer? Best decade of compound growth in your entire life.
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35:06 Speaker 03 I had good reason.
35:07 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, go ahead.
35:09 Speaker 03 I had, I had to buy a new car.
35:11 Caleb Hammer? Why didn't you borrow for it instead?
35:13 Speaker 03 Because I was, I already had an outstanding auto loan on a vehicle that wasn't running and because of my debt to income ratio, I was not eligible for another auto loan.
35:21 Caleb Hammer? Uber and save for a while. Go get a real job instead of taking away your entire future.
35:26 Speaker 03 Uber, one way we've looked because it's been off for about $55 one way.
35:31 Caleb Hammer? $55, but you're throwing away your entire future.
35:34 Speaker 03 Working three, four jobs a day, or even if I'm working two jobs a day, that's a 150 to $200 round. Trip just for me to go to work. I don't bring in enough to justify that.
35:43 Caleb Hammer? No, cuz you have to get another job. This is all leading up from your decisions. Listen, I am not saying you cannot get another car or make sacrifices to get it. But it is your choice that you are working jobs that is giving you no money. It is your choice.
35:56 Speaker 03 It's hard to get a job in that area. I mean, I tried.
35:59 Caleb Hammer? Tried to do anything.
36:00 Speaker 03 No, I did. There was before I got.
36:02 Caleb Hammer? Well, you but you haven't marketed yourself very well cuz you have no experience that would relate to a real job.
36:07 Speaker 03 My, my, my own business, even trying to get a job, literally doing anything. I'm not joking. I would come home and I would sit in my car in my driveway for hours on end. And I would put in, I'm not kidding, upwards of a hundred job applications a day.
36:23 Caleb Hammer? Car?
36:23 Speaker 03 Yeah, in the driveway before I got in the house.
36:25 Caleb Hammer? Obviously, you are not doing very well applying to these jobs if you're just sitting in your car. You're mass applying instead of curating a resume. If you do not curate your resume, you are not getting a job interview in today's economy.
36:35 Speaker 03 A part-time job, then I didn't feel like I genuinely needed to curate a resume. If I'm applying to McDonald's and I'm applying to like Burger King and Taco Bell, all those places.
36:45 Caleb Hammer? You have to curate a resume even on McDonald's. You know why? You don't why? I'll tell you. Because if you're not curating it, that means your resume is likely for the jobs you want. And if your resume getting submitted to McDonald's is for the jobs you fucking want.
37:00 Speaker 03 But if they're not asking for a resume.
37:02 Caleb Hammer? No, no, no, no, no, no, you little tit. Then they're just gonna see that you are only accepting that job for a temporary period. And you will immediately leave when a job you want opens up. If your resume submitting to a service job is suggesting you're gonna leave immediately to get a different job, then why the would they hire you?
37:21 Speaker 03 Even when I was using a resume that had service experience on it, I still was getting no calls. I tried for months to get a new job and this is I did.
37:31 Caleb Hammer? The way I, I believe you tried. I do not believe the way that you actually curated it specifically for them. I vehemently disagree with what you're saying.
37:42 Speaker 03 I mean, there was service experience on there, but.
37:45 Caleb Hammer? It's not just service experience. It's the entirety of the resume, the skills that you're marketing on there. What you say your most recent thing is?
37:51 Speaker 03 But even what I do, even even as a nail tech, what I do, that translates over because it's all customer service.
37:57 Caleb Hammer? No, it's not about that lady. It shows that you are likely going to try to get into nail tech again. So why would they hire you if you're only going to be there for a month? This is just simple strategy. How much did you pay for those fucking eyelashes?
38:08 Speaker 03 A dollar twenty five.
38:10 Caleb Hammer? Okay, thank goodness. And they look like it, too.
38:12 Speaker 03 Thank you.
38:12 Caleb Hammer? Oh, my.
38:14 Speaker 03 Only the finest for you, my dear.
38:18 Caleb Hammer? What are you talking about?
38:19 Speaker 03 I don't know.
38:20 Caleb Hammer? Less than thirty four years until you're able to pull from these retirements penalty free. That seven thousand one hundred eighty nine dollars and eighteen cents would have turned into following something like the S and P five hundred, two hundred twelve, four hundred three dollars.
38:32 Speaker 03 Well, it wouldn't have done me any good that far down the line if I didn't have a car to sustain myself.
38:36 Caleb Hammer? But the you not being able to get a car is by the choices you've led, by your inability to properly apply for other jobs. By you going into a career field that is honestly a little kind of overly competitive, overly saturated kind of bull. And you chose to do that instead of completing your college the way you were doing it with gen ads and going into a field that would have made more sense. This is an endless amount of decisions that had led to the consequences where you were forced to pull from your 401k. And I have less sympathy on it because you chose all those things that led you to that situation.
39:05 Speaker 03 I mean, I didn't necessarily choose to have to make that financial decision. I didn't want to.
39:09 Caleb Hammer? Did you not listen to anything I just said?
39:11 Speaker 03 I did not want to have to do that. No, I did.
39:14 Caleb Hammer? You made the choices to go into a career field that is overly saturated and would not make that much money.
39:18 Speaker 03 But I didn't know how oversaturated it was until I got into it.
39:20 Caleb Hammer? Are you kidding me?
39:21 Speaker 03 No.
39:22 Caleb Hammer? You have the inability to use Google.
39:23 Speaker 03 No, I do, but as an independent nail tech, I you I don't think you truly see how saturated the independent side of the business is outside of, you know, the.
39:32 Caleb Hammer? Independent, didn't even need to go work for someone else.
39:35 Speaker 03 The stand, but I'm saying outside of a standard. A standard salon that you see on every street corner. Those are terrible.
39:43 Caleb Hammer? Terrible what?
39:45 Speaker 03 The service, the service, the quality.
39:48 Caleb Hammer? Good service.
39:48 Speaker 03 I am.
39:50 Caleb Hammer? Brought in 600 hours a month working for another person.
39:52 Speaker 03 Also, it's one of those things that people in my area are, a lot of what I have in the area that I live is retired, older folks. So for that-
40:01 Caleb Hammer? They have money.
40:02 Speaker 03 No, they don't though. That's the problem. That's why I had a larger-
40:04 Caleb Hammer? They have, they have-
40:05 Speaker 03 That's why I had a larger clientele at the previous salon that I was at because that was a budget friendly salon and
40:11 Caleb Hammer? They'd be a budget friendly person.
40:13 Speaker 03 I'm not doing nails for $25. My cost-
40:15 Caleb Hammer? Then don't make money.
40:16 Speaker 03 My, okay, I wouldn't make money.
40:17 Caleb Hammer? You're making $500.
40:18 Speaker 03 I wouldn't make money anyway because if I-
40:20 Caleb Hammer? Good, then you picked the wrong career field.
40:21 Speaker 03 If I am-
40:22 Caleb Hammer? Your turn, you make no money. You have no ability to talk on this. You don't get a turn.
40:26 Speaker 03 Because it's my business.
40:27 Caleb Hammer? Your business is a failure. I think I can speak on this and I'm more qualified.
40:30 Speaker 03 How many other people helping you? It's me.
40:32 Caleb Hammer? I started just me. I didn't hire someone until six months in.
40:36 Speaker 03 Okay, that's fine, but how well were you doing up until you got more people on your team?
40:40 Caleb Hammer? $10,000 a month.
40:41 Speaker 03 Okay, well, it was that, how soon after you started?
40:45 Caleb Hammer? Immediately, almost.
40:47 Speaker 03 There's no shot you said day one and you made $10,000.
40:49 Caleb Hammer? One month in.
40:51 Speaker 03 Okay. I, but, and that's my thing is I don't want to have to pull focus-
40:55 Caleb Hammer? Almost like she has no idea what she's talking about.
40:57 Speaker 03 I don't want to have to pull all of my attention away from the career and the business that I am building because this is something for me-
41:02 Caleb Hammer? From the hobby you want to do.
41:03 Speaker 03 It's not a hobby.
41:04 Caleb Hammer? It is. You make no money.
41:05 Speaker 03 It's a career. There are people who make money from it, but you have to start- I'm two years in.
41:12 Caleb Hammer? Good, you should be working for someone else and building up a client list.
41:14 Speaker 03 But that's not what I want to do.
41:15 Caleb Hammer? This leads me to having no sympathy when your car breaks down and you're no longer financially able to go get another car. This was the choices you made for your hobby.
41:22 Speaker 03 Okay, but I have to have a car for any job. I have to be able to get to work.
41:25 Caleb Hammer? I agree. If you had a real job, you would have made more money and you could have saved up a fully funded emergency fund.
41:30 Speaker 03 I'm still looking for a new job and for a different job.
41:33 Caleb Hammer? We just went over this. If you're not willing to accept anything I said, then get the [__] off this show.
41:36 Speaker 03 Okay. The car situation is, it was something unavoidable. That is not something that I wanted to-
41:44 Caleb Hammer? I'm not arguing against that. I'm saying you made the choices that led up to you having to pull from your 401K.
41:49 Speaker 03 The car breaking down unexpectedly is not-
41:52 Caleb Hammer? Okay, she's incapable of listening. She's an actual [__] moron and I'm gonna move on. I'm sorry. Are you like actually stupid?
41:59 Speaker 03 No.
41:59 Caleb Hammer? That's so, are you incapable of hearing anything I just said?
42:01 Speaker 03 No.
42:02 Caleb Hammer? You, yeah.
42:03 Speaker 03 No.
42:03 Caleb Hammer? Thank you. At least you admit it.
42:10 Speaker 03 I think you should slam him one more time.
42:13 Caleb Hammer? I just don't understand how you are gonna... No, I think your roommates probably hate living with you and I understand why your first boss fired you.
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42:49 Caleb Hammer? Now, everything's out of your control and there's no personal responsibility.
42:52 Speaker 03 There is a lot that is out of my control, but I do take responsibility for what is in my control.
42:55 Caleb Hammer? Haven't heard once.
42:56 Speaker 03 The car, how am I supposed to control the car?
42:59 Caleb Hammer? The decisions leading up to it, I never argued that the car wouldn't have just broken. It is... The decisions leading up to it, your career choices, your lack of staying at a job, your inability to keep one without getting fired.
43:14 Speaker 03 I can keep plenty of jobs.
43:15 Caleb Hammer? Inability to curate your resume to other jobs.
43:19 Speaker 03 Okay, that I will admit, I'm not the greatest. I don't understand.
43:22 Caleb Hammer? Wow, one thing, she's willing to accept the one thing in her life. Okay, and what kind of car did you get by taking out from your 401k, facing penalties and getting taxed at your income? You had federal tax withheld 20%. You only received the 5,700 from the 7,100 you brought in. Great, would have been worth a couple hundred thousand by the time you retired. Wonderful. What did you get?
43:45 Speaker 03 Um, it is a 2005 Volkswagen.
43:49 Caleb Hammer? Good. How much did that cost?
43:52 Speaker 03 5,000.
43:52 Caleb Hammer? Good. Okay, I accept.
43:56 Caleb Hammer? I would have rather, well, never mind, you can't because you don't have the job. I was gonna say I'd rather take out a 401k loan, but then that doesn't...
44:03 Speaker 03 So I looked into taking out a loan on it, but the loan balance available for me was only 3,000.
44:10 Caleb Hammer? Yeah.
44:10 Speaker 03 And that wouldn't have, I wouldn't have had enough to, yeah, I wouldn't have had enough to pay for a car.
44:15 Caleb Hammer? Well, if you had a real job, you would have saved up money and you would have been able to do it.
44:17 Speaker 03 I'm trying to make it a real job.
44:19 Caleb Hammer? Oh, you're not.
44:20 Speaker 03 Yes, I am. That's why I'm putting so much into it because I, this is what I wanted...
44:24 Caleb Hammer? Ton of hours into your $6 an hour hobby.
44:28 Speaker 03 It will get better.
44:29 Caleb Hammer? No.
44:29 Speaker 03 It will.
44:30 Caleb Hammer? Says?
44:31 Speaker 03 Me.
44:31 Caleb Hammer? How?
44:32 Speaker 03 Because I am going to manifest it.
44:37 Caleb Hammer? She's a moron.
44:39 Speaker 03 Say what you will.
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45:51 Speaker 03 No, so I have a personal acquaintance, actually, who loaned me the money to pay off the loan to the bank so that I can get rid of the car.
46:02 Caleb Hammer? Right, right, right.
46:06 Speaker 03 Well, I couldn't do anything.
46:07 Caleb Hammer? Remember when your debt to income, then you couldn't borrow? That also would have been solved if he had a real job as well.
46:11 Speaker 03 Yeah.
46:11 Caleb Hammer? Instead of your bull.
46:12 Speaker 03 You're right.
46:13 Caleb Hammer? Okay, city. What's going on with this card lady?
46:18 Caleb Hammer? Reminder, $10,000 spent in the last month.
46:20 Speaker 03 That is majority used for my business expenses.
46:25 Caleb Hammer? City double cash? It's not even a business credit card.
46:27 Speaker 03 Nope.
46:28 Caleb Hammer? Harder to separate. Business expenses, yeah, let's get find out.
46:31 Speaker 03 Everything's a business expense.
46:33 Caleb Hammer? That's not how that works.
46:38 Caleb Hammer? But also, there was no spending on here, so I don't, I don't know.
46:41 Speaker 03 It's because it's maxed out.
46:42 Caleb Hammer? Oh, it's maxed out. Okay, great. So $4,174.20 is owed on this. Dude, why, why do this to yourself? $153 is your minimum payment and 36 cents.
46:59 Caleb Hammer? Hundred and eleven dollars and thirty six cents of interest accrued in the last month. How long does this take to pay off? Do you make minimum monthly payments without any purchases, which I assume when you have the ability to make a purchase on this, you will again. How long does this take to pay off?
47:14 Speaker 03 Probably a couple of years.
47:14 Caleb Hammer? Okay, fifteen.
47:16 Speaker 03 Okay.
47:18 Speaker 03 I mean, I have no words for that. I spent it. I don't, I, I needed the stuff for the business.
47:24 Caleb Hammer? Forty one years old.
47:27 Speaker 03 Yeah.
47:28 Caleb Hammer? For the business, you said you spent two thousand dollars. There's four thousand one hundred.
47:31 Speaker 03 Several thousand dollars.
47:34 Caleb Hammer? How much was that one time cost?
47:36 Speaker 03 Several thousand dollars.
47:37 Caleb Hammer? Okay, I'm gonna [__] dive. That's wonderful. Didn't we narrow it down to two? You spent four thousand dollars getting this up and running?
47:45 Speaker 03 I spent more than that, but it's just not all on that.
47:48 Caleb Hammer? How much did you spend then? How much?
47:49 Speaker 03 I just couldn't give you an exact number.
47:51 Caleb Hammer? Give me the [__] best guess.
47:53 Speaker 03 Probably six thousand dollars.
47:54 Caleb Hammer? Oh, you're, you're, you're, you're dead. You're dead. There, there's no [__] way. You kidding me? That's an entire years.
48:05 Caleb Hammer? That takes a year and then you said you have to do it again because it only lasts a year. So you'll never make a profit.
48:11 Speaker 03 Well, okay, it's not.
48:13 Caleb Hammer? No, this is not a business officially. Officially lined down. It's not a business.
48:17 Speaker 03 Bulk supply upfront. So like, okay, for me to buy furniture and decor and everything to get the.
48:22 Caleb Hammer? Furniture and decor? Ah, what is she? Who is she?
48:27 Speaker 03 Do you want to go somewhere for a service that is supposed to be relaxing and, and? And you go somewhere and it's just a white wall doctor's office? No!
48:35 Caleb Hammer? This is a joke. Use, you go and get a bucket of [__] paint, lady.
48:39 Speaker 03 I did. It was seventy five dollars.
48:40 Caleb Hammer? There you go, instead of six thousand.
48:42 Speaker 03 Get, no, stuff. I had to get decor for the walls and I had to get a desk.
48:47 Caleb Hammer? In the wealthy area on Facebook Marketplace.
48:49 Speaker 03 Some of it is used furniture. Some of it is not because the investment.
48:51 Caleb Hammer? Unacceptable, unacceptable, unacceptable, unacceptable, unacceptable.
48:55 Speaker 03 A furniture was equitable almost to buying used in the area.
48:59 Caleb Hammer? Unacceptable. No, you don't buy something you just can't afford. This is ridiculous.
49:03 Speaker 03 I afforded it somehow.
49:04 Caleb Hammer? You didn't. It's accruing interest. Don't be a dummy.
49:09 Speaker 03 But so I had to buy.
49:10 Caleb Hammer? Oh, okay.
49:10 Speaker 03 So, but okay, but like I won't have to buy furniture again. A lot of my.
49:14 Caleb Hammer? You will, though. You'll want it. You'll want to upgrade.
49:17 Speaker 03 I'm sure I'm sure.
49:18 Caleb Hammer? You know what's really interesting? You know what's really interesting? This decked out place that needs to look cozy and all this stuff. Ah, brings in $500 a month. So what an investment, what an incredible investor you are. Manage my money, please.
49:33 Speaker 03 I will.
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50:01 Speaker 03 Um, no, but like I, I won't have to buy a new nail desk. I won't have to buy a new pedicure chair. I won't have to buy a new, you know, but like she's. But okay, but like nail polishes, you only go through so much and stuff like that. It's not super expensive.
50:14 Caleb Hammer? Interest this year so far, $500. So this year so far, you already lost a month's worth of income. Add that onto the purchase that we put on this car. This is a 13 month thing. 13 months of your income in order to get this up and running.
50:25 Speaker 03 Okay.
50:26 Caleb Hammer? You're 29.99% interest rate. Good luck. Good luck. I, I just, I don't even know, man. What the?
50:39 Caleb Hammer? What is wrong with her? Colton just told me the salon offered to sell her their tools, but she said, I'd rather just get new.
50:47 Speaker 03 Because the cost that they were asking for used tool, like heavily used tools.
50:51 Caleb Hammer? Bargain them down if they were.
50:52 Speaker 03 I tried, but it was, it's literally with it. Okay, but.
50:56 Caleb Hammer? How much would you have saved total?
50:57 Speaker 03 A dollar or two.
50:58 Caleb Hammer? Per item or the whole thing?
51:00 Speaker 03 I'm for, okay, so.
51:01 Caleb Hammer? First of all, I don't trust you based on everything you've talked about.
51:04 Speaker 03 For me to buy used tools that were not.
51:06 Caleb Hammer? Here's a direct quote from you.
51:08 Speaker 03 In usable condition.
51:08 Caleb Hammer? I have a direct quote from you that you bought all, all new nail polishes because the old salon stuff had, quote, had bad energy, unquote.
51:18 Speaker 03 Nail polishes, no, because the nail polishes were not up for sale. But as far as my tools and stuff like that, yes, I did buy new ones, but that, those are also something you have.
51:26 Caleb Hammer? Quote, had bad energy, unquote.
51:28 Speaker 03 Yeah, because I didn't want to bring any of that with me.
51:32 Speaker 03 I didn't, I didn't like the energy in there. I didn't like the, I wanted to, I wanted a clean slate. I wanted a fresh start and in my mind, if that meant spending a couple of extra dollars, then it was worth it to me.
51:47 Caleb Hammer? Literally worth was not.
51:51 Caleb Hammer? No, don't use the, the word worth.
51:54 Speaker 03 It was worth it to me.
51:55 Caleb Hammer? No, it wasn't. Personally, no, personally, you.
52:00 Speaker 03 Well, I girl math the hell out of it and it made sense to me in the moment.
52:03 Caleb Hammer? Okay, you're gonna make everyone hate women. You're gonna make everyone hate women if girl math immediately.
52:09 Speaker 03 Do you think people don't already hate women?
52:11 Caleb Hammer? It's 50% of the world. What are you talking about?
52:13 Speaker 03 Well, majority of the world hates women anyway.
52:15 Caleb Hammer? Women hate, I love women, big fan personally.
52:17 Speaker 03 You're one of the few, I guess.
52:20 Caleb Hammer? Give me all of them.
52:23 Speaker 03 Clearly not all of them because half of us like this.
52:27 Caleb Hammer? So that's you, you just said girl math. Like I don't understand why, why bring to your entire gender, this negative connotation that you're unable to manage money. Why do that to yourself?
52:39 Speaker 03 Because that's how everybody else already looks at it.
52:42 Caleb Hammer? Women.
52:45 Caleb Hammer? No, you're setting it.
52:48 Speaker 03 I mean, yeah, you can look at it. I'm, I did the math and it was piss poor math and that's fine. And I'm sure someone's gonna turn around and say, oh, well, that's just for girl math for you. Financials are not my strong suit and I'm very aware of that.
53:00 Caleb Hammer? Uh, obviously, but there's so much information out there. And yes, of course, we have a, a, a paid version that curates it all, makes it much easier to go through and provides good educational services and we give you that for free. We'll give you Dollar Wise Central for free, but either way, out there, if you put in the extra work to organize it yourself and try to determine what's the best sources, you could have figured it out.
53:21 Speaker 03 But I have tried and I, I mean, that's, I'm.
53:23 Caleb Hammer? But you haven't been able to tell me what you've tried.
53:24 Speaker 03 Okay. So the best version of a quote unquote budget that I can tell you that I've done for myself is I, once a month I'll sit down and I'll go through and I'll write down my expenses either on paper.
53:33 Caleb Hammer? Expenses that have happened or up and coming expenses?
53:36 Speaker 03 No, like current, like all of my credit, you know, all of my credit card debt, all of my monthly bills. So whatever I have to pay on a monthly basis.
53:43 Caleb Hammer? What's your intent with that? So you write it down and then you just leave it?
53:46 Speaker 03 To just see, to.
53:48 Caleb Hammer? Okay. So what does that achieve? What does that achieve?
53:51 Speaker 03 I guess it just, it more so gives me an idea of what I'm, what is going to come out of my pocket this month for expenses that I cannot avoid.
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54:25 Speaker 03 And kind of give me an idea of, okay, where do I need to be financially bringing in money to be able to make sure I can keep myself at least afloat for this month?
54:34 Caleb Hammer? I'll tell you what's a dumb budget. Going to a big beauty expo in Orlando, where you bought your suite mate's ticket as well. You spent around $800 in total and called it a quote, "a business promotion," unquote.
54:48 Speaker 03 I mean, it is a business expense. It is a write-off.
54:51 Caleb Hammer? You don't have any money to write off. You already overspent everything you're gonna make this year.
54:56 Speaker 03 Yeah.
54:57 Caleb Hammer? What, you're not gonna go, suddenly, you think if you write off beyond zero, the government just gives you money? What do you think happens?
55:02 Speaker 03 No.
55:03 Caleb Hammer? So what is the point? What do you think happens here? You need money to pay your bills.
55:07 Speaker 03 But you have to spend money to make money in a business standpoint. You do.
55:13 Caleb Hammer? The collapse of the American empire. What is going on with IHG?
55:19 Speaker 03 So that card is also pretty much maxed out.
55:23 Caleb Hammer? For what?
55:25 Speaker 03 I put most of my travel expenses on there.
55:27 Caleb Hammer? Why the are you traveling? You make some money. You make no money. Why are you traveling? Who are you? $6,272.59 on here. Yeah, maxed out. $205 minimum payment. What the is your travel?
55:43 Speaker 03 So, I mean, business trips.
55:47 Caleb Hammer? Your business is nothing. Your business is nothing.
55:50 Speaker 03 My business is not nothing, first of all. My business is not nothing.
55:54 Caleb Hammer? Objectively, it's nothing.
55:55 Speaker 03 It means something to me.
55:56 Caleb Hammer? I don't give a you. That means nothing. That is a joke. Your business brings in $6,000 a year. Shut the up. That's a lemonade stand. Shut up. Means something to me. Who gives a?
56:09 Speaker 03 But that is also expenses for,
56:14 Speaker 03 like, trips home to go see family.
56:16 Caleb Hammer? Where's family?
56:17 Speaker 03 Illinois and Missouri.
56:21 Caleb Hammer? Then don't be in Florida. I don't know what to tell you.
56:23 Speaker 03 Okay, but financially, I can't leave Florida at this point.
56:26 Caleb Hammer? Financially, you can't stay in Florida.
56:28 Speaker 03 Well, I, I am hoping within the next year to be able to move back home.
56:33 Caleb Hammer? To where? Where is back home specifically?
56:34 Speaker 03 Back home is Illinois, but I'm probably looking closer to the Missouri side because I live right on like the river.
56:39 Caleb Hammer? What is that, St. Louis?
56:40 Speaker 03 Yeah, general area.
56:41 Caleb Hammer? A declining city?
56:43 Speaker 03 Outside the city. I'm not going to go downtown, but.
56:46 Caleb Hammer? No, I'm not talking about just downtown. The metro area has a declining population.
56:50 Speaker 03 Oh, I would disagree.
56:51 Caleb Hammer? You would disagree.
56:54 Speaker 03 They've had a boom in certain areas over there.
56:56 Caleb Hammer? Huh?
56:56 Speaker 03 They've had a boom in certain areas over there.
56:58 Caleb Hammer? I'm sure a couple suburbs specifically, but the entire metro area.
57:02 Speaker 03 No, but you look at like Chesterfield, St. Charles, O'Fallon, St. Peters, all of those areas are growing. I mean, even my hometown is growing.
57:11 Caleb Hammer? Okay, St. Louis is gone from 1990, 396,000 to 281,000. Shut the up.
57:19 Speaker 03 I mean, yeah, if you're looking at St. Louis specifically, I mean, it's, it's a violent city. People don't want to live there anymore, but there are still people coming to the outskirts and the surrounding areas of that. St. Louis in and of itself is, is not great, especially when you're, I mean, I grew up 30 minutes south of East St. Louis. It's one of the most dangerous cities in America, but obviously people aren't moving to East St. Louis, but they're still moving to the surrounding areas.
57:47 Caleb Hammer? I said, I'm not saying people aren't going to move in, but either way, if we're in a declining city, is that where we're setting up a business? At least you can live for free with the family, but that doesn't make sense.
57:55 Speaker 03 I don't have family that I can live with. This would be an individual expense.
57:59 Caleb Hammer? Why? You're moving back for family, right?
58:02 Speaker 03 To be closer to family, but I don't per se have family that I can move in with.
58:06 Caleb Hammer? What do you mean? No one's willing to let you?
58:08 Speaker 03 No.
58:09 Caleb Hammer? Why?
58:11 Speaker 03 Family drama.
58:12 Caleb Hammer? Then why do you want to be close to them anyway?
58:13 Speaker 03 Um, because I do still have family that I'm close to and while financially they may not. They may not agree with the things that I've been doing, but they do still love me.
58:22 Caleb Hammer? A child.
58:23 Speaker 03 It's, I mean, it's not even that. It's things outside of that as well that have happened or been said or. Just.
58:28 Caleb Hammer? No, tell me.
58:29 Speaker 03 My mom likes to run her mouth.
58:31 Caleb Hammer? Yeah. And what does she disagree with and what has she said?
58:33 Speaker 03 She's just not a good person.
58:35 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, tell me.
58:37 Speaker 03 That's something I'd really prefer not to get too
58:39 Caleb Hammer? That's fine, then what the you're talking about? You said there's family members that disagree with your finances.
58:43 Speaker 03 I mean, yeah, there are.
58:43 Caleb Hammer? So tell me that.
58:45 Speaker 03 Who disagree with my finances. They don't think that I should be doing what I'm doing. They think that I need to find a quote unquote big girl job.
58:50 Caleb Hammer? Objectively.
58:51 Speaker 03 But also, and this is where I struggle with that because my family also very has the mentality of prove people wrong. And so while yes, everybody.
58:59 Caleb Hammer? You're proving everyone right.
59:00 Speaker 03 But I'm working towards proving them wrong.
59:02 Caleb Hammer? Nope, nope, nope. Literally no. That is, that is not true. I'm sorry, that is not.
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59:34 Caleb Hammer? True.
59:37 Caleb Hammer? And then what would your plan be when you're there? Money?
59:40 Speaker 03 Work. Probably get, probably go back to serving where I used to serve because I made really good money there and.
59:46 Caleb Hammer? Full backwards, though. You're not trying to.
59:49 Speaker 03 But then I would still, I would probably flip the script and I would probably go back to serving full time and then part time.
59:55 Caleb Hammer? Are you anti getting into a job industry that's actually growing in the United States?
59:59 Speaker 03 Like what? Because my grandfather thinks I need to become a truck driver.
1:00:03 Caleb Hammer? Well, sure, that's good income.
1:00:04 Speaker 03 And I don't want to do that.
1:00:05 Caleb Hammer? That's good income.
1:00:05 Speaker 03 I'm sure it is, but I don't want to do that.
1:00:06 Caleb Hammer? If you don't want to do that, that's fine. I mean, I'm not going to force you to do that.
1:00:08 Speaker 03 That's why I left my last good job because I just, I was tired of traveling.
1:00:11 Caleb Hammer? What was your last good job?
1:00:13 Speaker 03 I worked for Walmart. I was a project manager for store remodels, so I traveled around. Starting 50,000 a year when I left 51, 50.
1:00:22 Caleb Hammer? Plus benefits. You transferred that skills to another job, though.
1:00:25 Speaker 03 I have, and that I have. Even before I left that job, I tried applying for other jobs in project management and construction fields. Even within Walmart, I've had a hard time finding, getting a job with them again.
1:00:38 Caleb Hammer? Well, you quit.
1:00:39 Speaker 03 Correct.
1:00:40 Caleb Hammer? A lot of companies aren't willing to hire people who've quit.
1:00:43 Speaker 03 It's a little different when I, I worked for home office, but trying to get a.
1:00:46 Caleb Hammer? You still worked for Walmart. A lot of companies have like policies against hiring people that quit.
1:00:50 Speaker 03 They will hire people back. They do all the time.
1:00:52 Caleb Hammer? Okay, well, a lot of companies don't. And maybe hiring manager isn't that you're looking at. I don't know.
1:00:58 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so let's see, growing industries in the St. Louis metro, software development has gone up 18%, data science up 22%, cybersecurity up 32%, advanced manufacturing aerospace, yeah, you might have to work in manufacturing, supply chain management potentially, healthcare life sciences, healthcare is usually pretty good to get into, logistics and trade transportation, we know you don't want to do that, and leisure and hospitality, well, that's what you're talking about going into, those are the largest industries.
1:01:25 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so IHG takes 18 years to pay off.
1:01:29 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:01:30 Caleb Hammer? Thousand hours of interest this year so far. Travel for business on here, well, now we've lost in total with interest accrued in the business to six to seven, seven and a half thousand dollars. This year.
1:01:43 Speaker 03 Yep.
1:01:44 Caleb Hammer? Seven and a half thousand dollars, but with $500 you make, that takes 15 years just to recoup that cost, and you'll be redoing a lot of those costs when supplies are done. And you have to re-up them. Okay, Capital One, what's going on with this card, also close to maxed out?
1:01:58 Speaker 03 That card, I had to split the payment for my car repairs between two cards, so that card holds.
1:02:04 Caleb Hammer? Repair for your last car or new car?
1:02:06 Speaker 03 For my last car.
1:02:07 Caleb Hammer? Okay, how's your current car doing?
1:02:09 Speaker 03 Fine.
1:02:10 Caleb Hammer? Miles?
1:02:11 Speaker 03 I haven't had 82,000.
1:02:13 Caleb Hammer? Okay, foreign car is a little more expensive for repairs. Eighty-two thousand is great for that age.
1:02:18 Speaker 03 For a 20-year-old car, it is, well, and so that was the thing too, with everything that happened with my previous car, I went into purchasing this new car with a little more, I wasn't so much wearing the rose-colored glasses of the car industry. I, I have some friends who run a car group based around Volkswagen, so I bought the car with the intention, or with the knowledge of, I have a lot of people at my, I don't want to say at my dispense, but at any given moment, who can help me with repairs on the car, so.
1:02:47 Caleb Hammer? Who?
1:02:49 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so somebody in your life bailed you out of the last debt owed on the last car, but you still have debt hanging around for that anyway, because this was all repairs on the last car.
1:02:57 Speaker 03 Yeah, and I'm still paying them for that as well.
1:02:59 Caleb Hammer? Ridiculous, seventeen years to pay this off.
1:03:02 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:03:02 Caleb Hammer? Five hundred dollars in interest this year so far. Listen, uh, the family, who, who, who are the family members that are against what you're doing with your money? What's your relationship with them? And how many? And what are those conversations?
1:03:16 Speaker 03 But like I said, you know, my grandfather told me that I should become a truck driver.
1:03:20 Caleb Hammer? I don't know why he's hyper centered in one industry specifically, but you should get a better job.
1:03:24 Speaker 03 My, my, my step uncle is in that industry and he knows what he makes and.
1:03:28 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, it's a great job, but I just want you to get.
1:03:31 Speaker 03 At being younger than I am.
1:03:32 Caleb Hammer? I want you to get into a good job.
1:03:34 Speaker 03 Yep.
1:03:34 Caleb Hammer? Now, you're talking about nothing that meant anything, so yeah.
1:03:37 Speaker 03 I was explaining it.
1:03:38 Caleb Hammer? I don't care.
1:03:39 Speaker 03 Okay, then don't ask.
1:03:40 Caleb Hammer? No, I didn't need the long winded uncle, uncle, uncle. I just said, who's doing it? You said grandpa, I didn't need to know uncle makes money. We all know truck drivers make money.
1:03:49 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:03:49 Caleb Hammer? I just want you to get into an adult job.
1:03:51 Speaker 03 Mm hmm.
1:03:52 Caleb Hammer? That is one option. If you don't want to do that, that's okay. We're not going to pressure you to get into that job. Okay, who else? And what's the conversations?
1:03:58 Speaker 03 Um, my grandma, for a little while, was very on edge with it. I think because she was having conversations with my grandpa about it, but she has since flipped a script and she's very on my side about it now.
1:04:08 Caleb Hammer? She's a dumb.
1:04:09 Speaker 03 She, be careful with that.
1:04:12 Caleb Hammer? What, does she have dementia?
1:04:13 Speaker 03 She is dying.
1:04:15 Caleb Hammer? Well, okay.
1:04:15 Speaker 03 And she does have dementia.
1:04:17 Caleb Hammer? Well, then why is she setting a program of, or her grandchild for failure?
1:04:20 Speaker 03 Because she wants to support me.
1:04:23 Caleb Hammer? But she's not. It's enablement.
1:04:25 Speaker 03 I think she sees the potential in, in what I'm doing and she is proud of the fact that I have taken the step to build something for myself.
1:04:33 Caleb Hammer? It's so, it's so cool. It's so cold hearted. I know this sounds so cold hearted, but it, and listen, just because there's a sympathy of the fact that she's approaching the end of life and that's really sad and I am sympathetic and that's horrible, and I would not wish that upon anyone, does not mean she should support, she should support you destroying your life.
1:04:49 Speaker 03 But I don't feel like that's fair to say that everybody also should just on me and say, you know, what you're doing is stupid and you need to give it up.
1:04:56 Caleb Hammer? But that's real.
1:04:58 Speaker 03 Then how would any business venture start then?
1:05:01 Caleb Hammer? This is because, no, no, I told you how to do this in a proper way. You're not willing to do that. I'm not saying you can't be on nail tech. I said you need to put in the work with other people and build up clients, not immediately go into your own business and spend so far $7,500 to make $500 a month.
1:05:16 Speaker 03 In the area that I am in, that I am willing to do that to.
1:05:20 Caleb Hammer? But you're not willing to. You said willing.
1:05:23 Speaker 03 Yes, because I'm not willing to take a pay cut to do that because again.
1:05:26 Caleb Hammer? You make $500.
1:05:27 Speaker 03 Okay, but that's the thing. That's what I was trying to say earlier is even most of the girls that I went to school with who work in those said salons, either don't work there anymore because the pay was too low or we're still having to work two and three other jobs.
1:05:38 Caleb Hammer? Then here's the reality.
1:05:39 Speaker 03 Because the income is not enough.
1:05:40 Caleb Hammer? Then here's the reality. I get that, I get that. You don't need to finish the sentence, everyone knows what you're gonna say. Oh my gosh, you just, you just really go on for a long time.
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1:06:43 Caleb Hammer? Then, clearly, this industry in that area sucks and you shouldn't be doing it.
1:06:51 Speaker 03 Correct, but I'm in it and I don't know how to get out of it at this point.
1:06:53 Caleb Hammer? By stopping.
1:06:56 Caleb Hammer? Eat the loss on the lease and go get another job.
1:06:58 Speaker 03 But it's not even the lease. How do I eat the loss on everything else that I bought for it?
1:07:01 Caleb Hammer? You just have to. This is a oops, I f***ed up mistake. That is, this is not a sunk cost. This is not a sunk cost. You don't immediately have to try to buy your way out of it. It still takes 14 months with what you're doing. And then by then you're gonna have to spend more money just to sustain what you're trying to do anyway, because you'll re-up your lease and you'll have to buy more supplies by then anyway. Like, I'm sorry. Do you even enjoy this?
1:07:21 Speaker 03 I do. I absolutely love it.
1:07:22 Caleb Hammer? Well, at least you have that. But the fact is, if literally every other salon is in, you're unable to work there because no one makes money, then this is not an area where this industry works. And that means then you can't do it. You're not gonna go into an industry in, in, in an area where all techs that are barely even making much money are on the cheap and you're gonna go in and be this high level one. No one's gonna pay for that. Obviously, the market is not demanding that in that area. And I'm sorry, and just because, just because your grandma's in a sad situation, doesn't all of a sudden make that valid.
1:07:53 Speaker 03 That's fair, but also I don't think it's unfair to say that nobody should support me in what I'm doing.
1:07:58 Caleb Hammer? No, no, no. Do you not understand what support is? Oftentimes, supporting people making wrong decisions is telling them they're making wrong decisions.
1:08:05 Speaker 03 I know that there's a hard truth behind it, but I'm also, but what I'm saying is that I don't think everybody should look at me and just outright say, what you're doing is f***ed.
1:08:12 Caleb Hammer? What you're doing is f***ed.
1:08:14 Speaker 03 Right, but it has to start somewhere.
1:08:16 Caleb Hammer? No, and I told you how to start it. In that area is clearly not an area where it can be started.
1:08:21 Speaker 03 I will keep that in mind, but.
1:08:22 Caleb Hammer? Keep that in mind. You're on a lease for a year. You started two months ago.
1:08:27 Speaker 03 After that is said and done, I mean, I don't, I, I don't, I don't know. I don't know what you want me to do. I'm not gonna bail on a business and I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna leave it on someone else's shoulders.
1:08:38 Caleb Hammer? Someone else's shoulders. Still pay your rent, but we need to get you in a better career field. I'll gift you a course career certification. It's great for getting into a different career field. I'll gift you that. I'll gift you a FIS card as well. We'll get you on that. It's a debit card that builds credit.
1:08:51 Caleb Hammer? I'll even get you on Weebull. Now that you pulled from your retirement, you better start investing. So I'll get you those signup bonuses as well, but for sake, man. Uh, I, I like the idea of moving to St. Louis. It's definitely a cheaper area for sure. Also means cost of living is lower, which means you make less, but honestly, you'll make more doing anything. Literally doing anything.
1:09:13 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:09:14 Caleb Hammer? Else.
1:09:15 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:09:16 Caleb Hammer? You have a strained relationship with your family anyway. Why, why, why, why fully do we want to move to St. Louis specifically?
1:09:23 Speaker 03 Because my grandmother's up there and.
1:09:25 Caleb Hammer? For how much longer?
1:09:28 Speaker 03 That's the hard part. I just went up and visited her recently and she's not, she's not doing terrible, but she's not doing great.
1:09:34 Caleb Hammer? And again, it is sad and I do have sympathy for that.
1:09:36 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:09:36 Caleb Hammer? It is not an excuse to continue doing something that is damaging your life.
1:09:40 Speaker 03 No, no, but. I think the idea behind it was, was to build something for myself that if it's gonna fail, it's gonna fail on me. Nobody else can take it away from me. It's mine.
1:09:50 Caleb Hammer? I'm okay with a failure, but you put $7,500 in plus a yearly locked in lease for this.
1:09:55 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:09:55 Caleb Hammer? This is damaging beyond damaging. You pulled out a 401k to buy a car because you never set yourself up for success and had money.
1:10:03 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:10:03 Caleb Hammer? Like it's more than just that. This is more damaging than you just did something and it failed. It's the, you're gonna be paying on for, for ever from the lack of retirement, from paying off debt to paying off whoever lent you that money. Listen, eh, depending on the lease that you got. You'll your credit if you, if you don't pay on these things.
1:10:21 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:10:22 Caleb Hammer? And I'm sure that lease is tied to personal assets in some way whatsoever. I don't know, lean on something, maybe. You usually don't pay a lease in the commercial world. They can come after you and personal assets.
1:10:33 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:10:34 Caleb Hammer? So even though this is a more interesting situation with this commercial space. Listen, again, I, and I don't think they should necessarily bully you. However, I have a feeling that they just tell you the hard truth and because you're you and based on everything you've said about other jobs. You think it's bullying, even though they're just saying, yo, this isn't working. You need to try something different.
1:10:52 Speaker 03 I don't think it's bullying, but I don't think it's fair to completely tell me that I have to give up something that I've worked so hard for.
1:10:57 Caleb Hammer? It's less give up. You can do it on the side as a side hustle while you build it up while doing something more productive.
1:11:03 Speaker 03 But that's, but that's the hard thing. And, and if, you know, if I do take my grandfather's advice and I go into the trucking industry. But what I'm saying is, is if, to me, it doesn't make sense to give up the focus on that because if I'm not focusing on it, I'm not building it.
1:11:17 Caleb Hammer? You're making $6 an hour.
1:11:21 Caleb Hammer? Like I don't care. You do it on the side. You build up the clientele and if it ever, that again, even though the YouTube thing and this business took off a little quicker, as we explained earlier, than a lot of businesses, I still didn't quit my job until I knew it'd at least be sustainable multiple once in a row.
1:11:38 Speaker 03 So many of them.
1:11:39 Caleb Hammer? No, you quit your job and you went off on your own. That it is not the same thing. That is not, that is not a similar situation. You're out there killing yourself in order to make 30,000 hours a year. It's not working.
1:11:51 Speaker 03 Yeah, I agree. I mean,
1:11:53 Caleb Hammer? Probably on government subsidized health insurance, aren't you?
1:11:55 Speaker 03 I don't have health insurance.
1:11:57 Caleb Hammer? Okay. Well, that's dangerous. Your health insurance should honestly be free with your money through the Affordable Care System.
1:12:04 Speaker 03 Think I've looked through it and I didn't qualify for it. I don't know. Maybe I filled it out wrong. I'm not sure.
1:12:10 Caleb Hammer? Okay. I don't know about that, but okay. So Capital One, so is this the same Capital One I was just doing or is this a new one?
1:12:17 Speaker 03 No, I have two Capital One cards.
1:12:20 Caleb Hammer? Oh yeah, this is a Quicksilver. So what's going on with this?
1:12:23 Speaker 03 So that one also is the other portion of the vehicle repair payment.
1:12:27 Caleb Hammer? Good death. So you're just paying on this past vehicle permanently forever.
1:12:30 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:12:30 Caleb Hammer? $2,623.99. Now I'm a little confused. A lot of the places that you can go to get car repairs usually have like a 0% interest thing instead of opening a new credit card and putting it on this.
1:12:42 Speaker 03 I wasn't offered that. And I went, I went to a dealership. They, it was never even mentioned.
1:12:46 Caleb Hammer? I would go somewhere else.
1:12:48 Speaker 03 I couldn't take the car anywhere else. They had already done the work on it and I didn't really have a choice.
1:12:54 Speaker 03 So, okay, so the car went in for one issue and it turned into basically rebuilding the entire engine. And it was just one thing after another, after another to try.
1:13:05 Caleb Hammer? Did you talk to anyone in your family?
1:13:06 Speaker 03 No.
1:13:07 Caleb Hammer? Well, you should have asked for his advice. No one would recommend putting this much money, especially on a credit card for a car repair, for a car that's not gonna last.
1:13:13 Speaker 03 Well, so the intention, the intention was that these repairs were going to fix the vehicle. And I do know like,
1:13:21 Caleb Hammer? I know what the intention was.
1:13:23 Speaker 03 But, and then it turned into, okay, well now it needs this. And, and I'd already paid this, it was like 62, $6,300 upfront for the initial repairs on the vehicle.
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1:13:39 Speaker 03 Um, so you know, I took it in and I, I had explained to them because they had asked me, "Hey, are you interested in trading the vehicle at all?" Like, and I, I said, "Yes." And outside of that initial them asking me, it was never brought up again. They had my vehicle from October 7th of last year up until about a month and a half ago.
1:13:57 Caleb Hammer? Okay.
1:13:59 Speaker 03 So.
1:13:59 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so you're $2,623.99 on this with a minimum monthly payment of $93. Also takes 17 years to pay off. Oh, we've had a late fee this year so far.
1:14:11 Speaker 03 How many?
1:14:13 Caleb Hammer? One.
1:14:13 Speaker 03 Okay.
1:14:15 Caleb Hammer? Why?
1:14:16 Speaker 03 I, I think it was a bounced balance. I tried to pay it and I didn't have enough.
1:14:19 Caleb Hammer? Get a fucking job!
1:14:21 Speaker 03 I have several.
1:14:24 Speaker 03 I have at least one real job on paper, according to you.
1:14:27 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, but you say if I work 20 hours a week in it.
1:14:29 Speaker 03 Well, things have been hectic lately and I've not been able to pick up. I, like I just said, I went out of town to go see my grandma who's dying.
1:14:35 Caleb Hammer? I empathize with, but again, you set yourself up for this situation.
1:14:39 Speaker 03 I understand that.
1:14:39 Caleb Hammer? All the choices you made led to this.
1:14:41 Speaker 03 I understand that.
1:14:42 Caleb Hammer? I'm not yelling about the car breaking down. I'm not yelling about your grandma dying. It is the financial choices you made that set up your inability to be able to afford something like that.
1:14:51 Speaker 03 Yeah. I mean, I, I do know that, that I do have some poor financial choices, but I also, I don't, I don't, but I don't think that I should totally miss out on life and the things that it has to offer.
1:15:02 Caleb Hammer? I didn't say that, but I'm fucking criticizing you for what you've done leading up to it.
1:15:06 Speaker 03 I know.
1:15:06 Caleb Hammer? And your inability to change it, which means the next time an emergency happens, which they always do, you will also, again, destroy yourself.
1:15:13 Speaker 03 Well, an emergency better not happen because I don't have anything to pay for it.
1:15:16 Caleb Hammer? Your grandma will die at some point. Hopefully it's in the next 20 years.
1:15:19 Speaker 03 Well, I do have a funeral coming up that I am gonna have to go out of town for.
1:15:22 Caleb Hammer? There you go. Your grandpa will die, your parents will die, everyone will die, you will die. Okay, so that is something that is going to happen and you need to be able to prepare for that. And that will be a travel expense that I'm not gonna say I don't want you to do. That's not true, but if you continue your financial mismanagement, every time something like that hits, you're gonna permanently fuck yourself even more.
1:15:42 Speaker 03 Yeah. Okay.
1:15:44 Caleb Hammer? You also want to go on a warped tour soon with your boyfriend? I don't even know what that is.
1:15:50 Speaker 03 It's a music festival.
1:15:51 Caleb Hammer? Also, it's a music festival, you're not going. Also, why don't you live with your boyfriend?
1:15:56 Speaker 03 We're not there yet.
1:15:57 Caleb Hammer? Oh, okay, pretty fresh?
1:15:59 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:15:59 Caleb Hammer? Okay.
1:16:02 Caleb Hammer? Well, he can pay for your spending at least, right?
1:16:04 Speaker 03 He could, but I'm not gonna ask him to.
1:16:06 Caleb Hammer? He doesn't pay when you guys go out to eat?
1:16:08 Speaker 03 I mean, yeah, he pays for things, but I'm not gonna, I mean, I'm not gonna ask him to pay for stuff like that. He lives out of state. So he's back up in the St. Louis area. So I don't see him very often. So that's another travel expense.
1:16:19 Caleb Hammer? Right. And that card's 29%. Double love with an Ulta beauty card. What's going on with this? See, you're wearing a lot of it.
1:16:32 Speaker 03 Um, makeup, skincare, personal care items.
1:16:34 Caleb Hammer? $491.71 with $13.50 of interest occurring with a $30 minimum monthly payment. $80 this year so far.
1:16:45 Caleb Hammer? And you're going on a trip to San Diego? That is not a grand dying grandmother.
1:16:48 Speaker 03 No, it's not, but that was something that was already planned and booked and paid for before most of this downhill. Late last year.
1:16:55 Caleb Hammer? You, you weren't making money then either. 31.24%. That is so stupid. What a moronic way to live life. I will not accept it.
1:17:04 Speaker 03 But to be fair, that trip, that trip, that trip.
1:17:07 Caleb Hammer? I have another dying grandma in San Diego?
1:17:10 Speaker 03 Fuck, no.
1:17:10 Caleb Hammer? So then, no, there is no to be fair.
1:17:13 Speaker 03 It is a girl's trip. It is not a necessary trip.
1:17:15 Caleb Hammer? Girls, I don't give a.
1:17:16 Speaker 03 I, hotel is pay, is not paid for, is booked with points, so that is not a cost that I am in.
1:17:21 Caleb Hammer? You've lost more than that in interest, I know for a fact.
1:17:26 Caleb Hammer? So don't points me.
1:17:27 Speaker 03 Well, no, that was hotel points from when I traveled for work previously. That was points earned through hotel, not on a card.
1:17:32 Caleb Hammer? To be fair.
1:17:34 Speaker 03 I, there, there's not really anything else that I am paying for on this trip.
1:17:37 Caleb Hammer? You will spend money while you're there. I know for a fact.
1:17:40 Speaker 03 But stuff like that, like I've already, everybody else has already agreed to like, they're covering the rental car because I've covered the hotel. I paid for my flight, yes, but I didn't.
1:17:47 Caleb Hammer? You covered everyone else's hotel with the points?
1:17:49 Speaker 03 Yes. It's just one room. It's one big room for everybody.
1:17:52 Caleb Hammer? For pain from others when you do have to go visit.
1:17:56 Speaker 03 Correct.
1:17:56 Caleb Hammer? For funerals and whatnot.
1:17:58 Speaker 03 Correct. Well, I didn't pay for it.
1:18:00 Caleb Hammer? And you will spend money while you're there. So this is disgusting. This is disgusting. You make no money and you say, wow, I have to pull out of my 401k to get a car. And then you go to San Diego.
1:18:10 Speaker 03 I mean, buying a car is a little different than spending $200 on a trip.
1:18:13 Caleb Hammer? That's what I'm saying. And yet you still are. One's a necessity, one's not. You're choosing the not. And then all of a sudden you have to damage. Then you have to damage your retirement in order to afford it because all you do is just live fun. So I don't want to.
1:18:25 Speaker 03 Okay, but in my.
1:18:26 Caleb Hammer? 31.24% interest on the Alta.
1:18:28 Speaker 03 The plane ticket I bought.
1:18:31 Speaker 03 We'll go back to the whole girl math bullshit. That was, the plane ticket to San Diego was paid for by my plasma donations. So that it's.
1:18:38 Caleb Hammer? Great. Plasma donations could have gone towards paying for a car. So I don't care. Shut the up. Oh my gosh, you're broken. Is that all your debt? I think that's your debt. You got $16,827. That, the, the, you don't have student loans from your endless schooling you did?
1:18:56 Speaker 03 I don't have.
1:18:56 Caleb Hammer? Resulted in nothing?
1:18:57 Speaker 03 I don't have student loans that was paid for out of a college fund.
1:18:59 Caleb Hammer? Now, what about the loan to the person that?
1:19:01 Speaker 03 That's a 70.
1:19:01 Caleb Hammer? For the, for the car.
1:19:02 Speaker 03 $7,500.
1:19:03 Caleb Hammer? Great. I'm gonna say family. I don't know, but either way. 7,500? Do you have an agreed upon monthly payment?
1:19:10 Speaker 03 250.
1:19:11 Caleb Hammer? Great. Is there interest?
1:19:13 Speaker 03 No.
1:19:13 Caleb Hammer? You're lucky on that. That person must love you.
1:19:16 Speaker 03 Yes.
1:19:17 Caleb Hammer? Well, it gets involved besides just your grandparents because you made it sound like a lot more people.
1:19:21 Speaker 03 As far as.
1:19:22 Caleb Hammer? Opinion on your failed business.
1:19:24 Speaker 03 I mean, I'm sure a lot of people have an opinion on my failed business.
1:19:26 Caleb Hammer? But I talked to you about it, like you said.
1:19:28 Speaker 03 I mean, mostly just family members. I mean, some.
1:19:30 Caleb Hammer? But what's your who?
1:19:32 Speaker 03 I mean, my aunt, my uncle, my, my, I mean, I have a lot of them. My aunts and uncles, my grandparents, my, you know, I'm sure my parents wouldn't look at what I'm doing and be super proud of it. But they wouldn't look at me and say they're proud of anything I've done. So that's a little different.
1:19:46 Caleb Hammer? Well, I mean, what have you accomplished?
1:19:50 Speaker 03 I mean, I
1:19:51 Caleb Hammer? Not to be rude, but-
1:19:52 Speaker 03 I mean, it may not amount to much, but I mean-
1:19:53 Caleb Hammer? If you want them to be proud of something, what have you done for them to be proud of?
1:19:57 Speaker 03 I mean, I don't care if they're proud of me or not.
1:19:58 Caleb Hammer? Well, I know, but you brought up the point and it's-
1:20:00 Speaker 03 No, I know, but I mean-
1:20:01 Caleb Hammer? I mean, it's mean for them to say it. I wouldn't recommend they say, "Hey, we're not proud of you." Like, that's kind of-
1:20:06 Speaker 03 I mean, whatever.
1:20:06 Caleb Hammer? But for what it's worth, what can you show that they would be proud of?
1:20:09 Speaker 03 I mean, it may not be profitable. It may not be doing very well right now, but I am, I mean, I am, I am truly working and trying to figure out ways to make the business more profitable.
1:20:19 Caleb Hammer? Anyone can go not make money. You want someone to be proud of that? I don't know.
1:20:22 Speaker 03 No, but-
1:20:22 Caleb Hammer? That doesn't make sense.
1:20:23 Speaker 03 I mean, I'm, I'm working on building something for myself by myself.
1:20:26 Caleb Hammer? Okay, she doesn't get it. $212 in her checking account. So thank God we're going to [__] Domino's. Going in and getting some bull, McDonald's, Long, Dodgers, Vieira Restaurant, Burger King, Bread, uh, Beard Octane, Colister, going to the pub, American Nails. Good, she spent $60 on nails.
1:20:46 Speaker 03 That was supplies that I bought at the beauty show, and so was Beard Octane.
1:20:49 Caleb Hammer? Bonne Siblity, Beauty and Body Works.
1:20:52 Speaker 03 All of that, that's insurance.
1:20:54 Caleb Hammer? Vaping Smoke, going in and getting some bull. Vaping Smoke?
1:21:01 Caleb Hammer? What?
1:21:01 Speaker 03 Part of the, I, I do, I do vape.
1:21:03 Caleb Hammer? What is it?
1:21:03 Speaker 03 Just vape.
1:21:04 Caleb Hammer? How much?
1:21:05 Speaker 03 I maybe go through one a month. That cost is actually split between me and one other person. I do purchase for someone else when I go and then they just pay me back cash.
1:21:11 Caleb Hammer? Well, it sounds like your funeral is the one everyone's gonna be going to sooner.
1:21:16 Caleb Hammer? At least someone won't have to worry about your dad by then.
1:21:19 Speaker 03 Someone else's problem at that point, isn't it?
1:21:21 Caleb Hammer? Okay, $112 in this one. It, it started with $14,000, ended with $112. What the [__] is happening here?
1:21:29 Speaker 03 That would be a, I believe that's my savings account.
1:21:32 Caleb Hammer? It was at $14,000?
1:21:34 Speaker 03 Mm-hmm.
1:21:35 Caleb Hammer? How did it go down?
1:21:36 Speaker 03 Um, I-
1:21:37 Caleb Hammer? Well, actually, let's find the [__] out. First of all, how'd you get 14?
1:21:40 Speaker 03 I had a, I had a really good savings and I had myself set up really well when I worked for Walmart, but-
1:21:45 Caleb Hammer? Ah, so full from retirement and emergency fund [__] off.
1:21:49 Speaker 03 I-
1:21:49 Caleb Hammer? Welcome to Rockville.
1:21:51 Speaker 03 That was a music festival.
1:21:53 Caleb Hammer? Music festival, music festival, music festival, music festival, Chili's, Chick-fil-A, Starbucks, Chick-fil-A, Canva, Cash App, Canva to make something that is never posted on social media.
1:22:01 Speaker 03 Maybe that's not-
1:22:02 Caleb Hammer? ATM withdrawal 300, ATM withdrawal 650, ATM withdrawal 650, ATM withdrawal 650, ATM withdrawal 650, 650, 650, 650, 650. Where the [__] did that all go?
1:22:11 Speaker 03 Uh, the car.
1:22:13 Caleb Hammer? Oh, man.
1:22:14 Speaker 03 I paid cash.
1:22:15 Caleb Hammer? Apple bill, going in, getting some bullshit, some chick for and like
1:22:19 Speaker 03 I think that's, that's actually a checking account, not my savings account.
1:22:22 Caleb Hammer? Bill, going into BS, Peacock Premium, what the for? Apple bill, uh, Apple Store, Orlando, stuff.
1:22:31 Speaker 03 My phone.
1:22:32 Caleb Hammer? Amazon, I don't care. Going against BS, Florida Key Lime, Playlandia Brewing, all to drain our savings for fun, fun, fun. Come on, the car thing, I can get it, that's what an emergency fund is for, but then you had so much fun on there and you drained your savings? Come on, no sympathy, pull out your fucking phone, pull out your phone right now. Right now, from fourteen thousand or whatever to a hundred and twelve dollars, where we got seventy-four dollars in savings. You kill me now.
1:23:01 Caleb Hammer? What a joke. Subscriptions on Apple, we got iCloud Plus and Sirius XM, did have Tinder, expired March twenty first, so this relationship is fresh? It's or were you swiping while you're dating?
1:23:13 Speaker 03 Actually, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, it's, it's not like that, that actually.
1:23:18 Caleb Hammer? Very defensive.
1:23:19 Speaker 03 Tinder, no, that Tinder Premium was for something that my friends and I were trying to look into and I paid for it and.
1:23:25 Caleb Hammer? What?
1:23:26 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:23:27 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, you're gonna explain that a bit more.
1:23:29 Speaker 03 Yeah, so I, we had found someone on there and then couldn't find them again and so we decided it would be a good idea to just pay for the premium so I could get back to the person.
1:23:38 Caleb Hammer? And why didn't, um, they, your friends?
1:23:42 Speaker 03 It was on my phone.
1:23:42 Caleb Hammer? Where you're collaborating with?
1:23:43 Speaker 03 On my phone.
1:23:44 Caleb Hammer? What was on your phone?
1:23:46 Speaker 03 The account.
1:23:47 Caleb Hammer? They could log in on their phone.
1:23:50 Speaker 03 It was already pulled up on mine and we were already doing all of this, but that, it was a, it was literally, it was charged once and then canceled immediately.
1:24:00 Caleb Hammer? Okay.
1:24:01 Speaker 03 Sirius XM is a free.
1:24:03 Caleb Hammer? They're calling out your body language, you're covering your mouth and stuff.
1:24:07 Caleb Hammer? Right now, by the way. Oh, good, twenty-three things in our cart on Amazon.
1:24:14 Caleb Hammer? Good. We got, oh, hair extensions. Oh, a turbo fan. Oh, a photo stick thumb drive. Some tops, keyboard and mouse for sale signs. Some shirts and shirts and push up bras. Listen, if you got them, you got them. If you don't, don't, don't, and you don't need to fake show off.
1:24:34 Speaker 03 So sticky bra invisible silicone cream. This is a shared Amazon account. Let me be very clear on that.
1:24:41 Caleb Hammer? And who?
1:24:42 Speaker 03 One of my friends. It's her account.
1:24:44 Caleb Hammer? Always the friends.
1:24:45 Speaker 03 No, it really is.
1:24:47 Caleb Hammer? Pro gaming mouse.
1:24:50 Caleb Hammer? Endless chunky, clunky rings and dynamite set. And we know he had Amazon purchases on there. So 40 piece leopard skin party napkins. What the?
1:25:00 Speaker 03 It's her for her birthday.
1:25:01 Caleb Hammer? And lace thing. All the other ones you didn't say were her. Fake cigarettes.
1:25:06 Speaker 03 No, all those are not.
1:25:07 Caleb Hammer? Umbrella sling, crown gold necklace, more jewelry, jewelry, jewelry.
1:25:11 Speaker 03 The watch I did mine right there.
1:25:13 Caleb Hammer? I see that.
1:25:14 Speaker 03 Duh.
1:25:15 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, we can't afford to pay bills. Guys, I had to pull from my 401k in order to get a car. But let me go ahead and just spend all this money on jewelry. Shut the.
1:25:22 Speaker 03 Maybe if you look at a lot of that stuff was was returned. The phone adapters.
1:25:26 Caleb Hammer? Shut the fuck up.
1:25:29 Caleb Hammer? Asus ROG.
1:25:30 Speaker 03 A lot of these are also business.
1:25:31 Caleb Hammer? Offs.
1:25:33 Speaker 03 The stuff that I buy, a lot of what I buy is a business expense.
1:25:36 Caleb Hammer? Fucking die.
1:25:38 Speaker 03 No.
1:25:38 Caleb Hammer? Quiet. I will say Tinder is officially deleted from the phone.
1:25:43 Speaker 03 Yeah, it's not. Yeah, I don't use it. I don't.
1:25:48 Caleb Hammer? And how do you keep track of these write offs?
1:25:52 Speaker 03 I keep my receipts. I have a couple different little folder things that I put all my receipts in.
1:25:56 Caleb Hammer? Couple different ones?
1:25:58 Speaker 03 Yeah, like I keep them around. I have one in my, in my work bag, one in my, my car. So then at the end of the year, it all just collectively comes into a big pile.
1:26:04 Caleb Hammer? We will see. Okay, so 2,550 comes in and let's just say we don't even pay taxes. Let's just be generous. So yeah, let's get these debt minimum payments. Let's, let's figure this budget out. You know, let's just, I mean, you're gonna have to a little bit. Let's just say 2,000 dollars is what you get on a monthly basis. And come on. No, I mean, okay, fine, fine. You're gonna write off some of the expenses, but let's calculate that against the 550. Okay, so some expenses, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Okay, good. So let's just call it 2,000 is net. What comes after business expenses? Good.
1:26:35 Caleb Hammer? And debt minimum monthly payments is $614.36. Okay, we know your rent at the house is 500. Do you have to pay anything towards utilities and whatnot?
1:26:44 Speaker 03 No.
1:26:45 Caleb Hammer? Internet?
1:26:46 Speaker 03 No.
1:26:46 Caleb Hammer? Renters insurance?
1:26:48 Speaker 03 Uh, I do pay for renters insurance because I also pay for a storage unit.
1:26:52 Caleb Hammer? How much is all that?
1:26:53 Speaker 03 Uh, my storage unit just went up. I think it's 110 a month.
1:26:55 Caleb Hammer? And that comes with renters insurance?
1:26:57 Speaker 03 I pay the renters insurance. Outside of that, I think it's $16.
1:27:00 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so we'll save for that. $126. Great, great, great, great, great, great. Phone bill?
1:27:06 Speaker 03 Um, so upfront, I pay the cost. I have a shared phone plan with my grandma. So I pay the upfront cost of $110.
1:27:13 Caleb Hammer? No, why?
1:27:14 Speaker 03 And then...
1:27:15 Caleb Hammer? You're still on your phone?
1:27:17 Speaker 03 Because I just had to get a new phone.
1:27:19 Caleb Hammer? And she pays you some back?
1:27:20 Speaker 03 So she pays me for her half of the phone bill, so...
1:27:23 Caleb Hammer? And what happens when...
1:27:25 Speaker 03 Uh, then I'm gonna have to figure it out.
1:27:26 Caleb Hammer? Okay, so what do you have to pay?
1:27:28 Speaker 03 So my half of the phone bill is, uh, $55.
1:27:32 Caleb Hammer? Okay. I'd switch to Helium if T-Mobile's good in your area. Once you have that phone paid off.
1:27:36 Speaker 03 Okay.
1:27:36 Caleb Hammer? It's much cheaper, same coverage.
1:27:38 Speaker 03 Okay.
1:27:39 Caleb Hammer? Okay, gas, vroom vroom, drive, drive. How much on a monthly basis?
1:27:43 Speaker 03 Um...
1:27:46 Speaker 03 If I'm not going anywhere, I'm staying local, then it's probably $150 a month.
1:27:53 Caleb Hammer? If you don't do anything that you always do, okay. Car insurance?
1:27:57 Speaker 03 Um, that currently is $270.
1:28:03 Caleb Hammer? $270? Okay.
1:28:04 Speaker 03 I think...
1:28:05 Caleb Hammer? $300 for food. Use our budget-friendly cookbook and use the budget app that you get for free.
1:28:09 Speaker 03 Okay.
1:28:09 Caleb Hammer? You can make that work. I promise. We've done the math. Uh, $100 bucks for TP-FUND. Anything else you need to survive? It's your own makeup, it's your own toilet paper, it's your tampons, whatever, whatever. Co-pays? Uh, okay, we're getting health insurance. I'm gonna put at least 100 towards that. I think you're gonna be heavily subsidized, so let's just say 100.
1:28:26 Speaker 03 Okay.
1:28:26 Caleb Hammer? You have any pets?
1:28:27 Speaker 03 Uh, no.
1:28:28 Caleb Hammer? Please don't. Thank goodness. Any other things that need to be in your budget that do not, that I have not brought up?
1:28:37 Speaker 03 Uh, I don't think so.
1:28:41 Caleb Hammer? Okay.
1:28:41 Speaker 03 I don't think so.
1:28:42 Caleb Hammer? Good. Well, okay. You're $2,215.36 is what you need to survive. 2,000 is probably what you bring in after business expenses. So. Ah, you're.
1:28:55 Speaker 03 Yeah.
1:28:57 Speaker 03 I honestly, I didn't think it was that bad.
1:29:01 Caleb Hammer? How?
1:29:02 Speaker 03 I just, I didn't, I didn't think my monthly expenses were that high.
1:29:08 Caleb Hammer? You said you've put everything on paper. This is a very basic, that took me.
1:29:12 Speaker 03 No, I, I know.
1:29:13 Caleb Hammer? Two and a half minutes.
1:29:14 Speaker 03 It's not, I just, I don't, I, I put it down in hopes that I kind of understand it better. But I, I mean, I truly don't understand it. So.
1:29:22 Speaker 03 And it changes, so.
1:29:24 Caleb Hammer? Why?
1:29:24 Speaker 03 I mean, what I bring in changes and what goes.
1:29:26 Caleb Hammer? But not your expenses.
1:29:27 Speaker 03 I mean, but like monthly minimum payments change month, you know?
1:29:31 Caleb Hammer? Barely, barely, very barely. Okay, what's your move back plan? Is there a plan?
1:29:36 Speaker 03 Um, I mean, it's just a very general plan. At this point, I would like to just pay down as much as I can and save up to make the move. But I also know that I need to.
1:29:45 Caleb Hammer? How can you save if you make less than you bring in? If you spend less, if you spend more than you bring in just to survive.
1:29:52 Speaker 03 No, no, you can't.
1:29:55 Speaker 03 Unfortunately, I can't. That's, that's where I'm trying to dig myself out of this.
1:29:58 Caleb Hammer? I'll be honest.
1:29:59 Speaker 03 I'm digging.
1:30:00 Caleb Hammer? Some potential business things you need to do, or if this car breaks down, it might get. But listen, what I'm personally doing, other than the family debt, if you can prove you changed your behavior for a few months, I'm declaring bankruptcy if you're going to continue down this path and I'm going to wipe this debt. It's going to you for a bit and it's a few thousand hours to go through and it can be a little stressful. So you have to change your behavior, prove you do it so you don't end up back here in the first place. But more than anything, you need to get into a career field that fucking, that has demand, that is providing more value. That is not oversaturated. You need to do a little research on what you want to do and we can get you geared towards education or certifications that want to, that, that gets you to where you want to go. But right now, this is not working. Whether you do that in St. Lettuce or there, I don't know. But this is not working as simple as that. This is.
1:30:45 Caleb Hammer? This is, those are the two steps I'd take from here.
1:30:48 Speaker 03 Yeah, bankruptcy has been something that has been mentioned to me before.
1:30:52 Caleb Hammer? Yeah, but not until you change your behavior else you'll end up right back here. And we've had people on the show that have done that.
1:30:56 Speaker 03 Yeah, and that's well, and because I do, um, you know what? I, I don't remember if I sent the stuff in for it, but I do have a personal loan out with the bank.
1:31:05 Caleb Hammer? Okay, well, at this point, we're going to talk about it on the post show because I can wrap this. So join Hammer Elite, link in the description below. Come hang out, it's gonna be great. Let's get your Hammer Financial score. Spending in a budget, you overspend, zero out of 10. Debt?
1:31:21 Caleb Hammer? Family debt's not great, we don't like that. Okay, no IRS debt or collections as far as I know, so one out of 10. Emergency fund, well, you drained it, zero out of 10. Retirement, well, you drained it, zero out of 10. Real estate's zero out of 10. You honestly probably went from, um, maybe a three down to a rounded up point five out of 10. Come join us in the post show, guys. It's juicy as always. Join that Hammer Elite membership in the link in the description below, the number one on the platform. We'll see you there. What the is going on with this personal account?
1:31:52 Speaker 03 I took out a personal loan through the bank to consolidate credit card debt.
1:31:57 Caleb Hammer? Oh, the and now your credit cards are all maxed out. What are you on this personal loan?
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