Yung Gravy Dated Martha Stewart & Lana Del Rey?!?

Bunnie welcomes Yung Gravy to the pod this week, and he's spilling ALL the tea on his wild dating history, famous hookups, and the women who almost had him settling down! The internet's favorite MILF lover reveals what REALLY happened with Addison Rae's mom, why Lana Del Rey ghosted him, and the night he thought he might actually hook up with Martha Stewart. He also gets candid about his leaked sex tape, the celebrity DMs that caught him off guard, and how his relationship with Ari finally turned the ultimate ladies' man into a one-woman kind of guy. But it's not all wild stories and famous women. Gravy takes Bunnie behind the scenes of his rise to fame, opens up about losing a close friend to an overdose, his past struggles with alcohol, and the side of him fans rarely get to see. Plus, he dishes on his upcoming music, acting projects, and answers some of Bunnie's most outrageous questions. From Hollywood hookups to heartbreak and finding real love, Gravy is holding nothing back! Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Dumbblondepod

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• 2:08Bunnie XO?

  Is this thing on? What's up, you sexy motherfuckers? Welcome to another episode of Dumb Blonde. This person, we have been going back and forth for years, I feel like, trying to get him on the podcast, but hide your moms, hide your grandmas, and get ready for a whole lot of sauce, baby. Young gravy is in the house.

• 2:24Speaker 03

  Yeah, baby. Thank you for having me. Two dumb blondes today.

• 2:27Bunnie XO?

  You are one smooth cat.

• 2:29Speaker 03

  Thank you.

• 2:29Bunnie XO?

  I'm telling you. I remember I discovered you. You popped up on my FYP when like all that MILF stuff was going on and I was like...

• 2:36Speaker 03

  It's still going on.

• 2:36Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, is it still going on?

• 2:37Speaker 03

  No, just in general, MILF stuff.

• 2:39Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, is it? Is that like, is it real or is it a like a?

• 2:44Speaker 03

  For me personally, in my personal like life, MILF stuff has ceased. As you know, I'm cuffed now, but I think the MILF community is still very, very front and center.

• 2:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 2:57Speaker 03

  And I'm aware. I keep tabs on it. I just, from the backseat.

• 3:02Bunnie XO?

  Okay, well, let's, let's, can we dive into it a little bit? With all respect to Ari, because we love Ari, but I mean, we all have a past and I would love to dive into it and just kind of like know, like, let's address the elephant in the room. Like, what's the oldest woman that you've ever dated?

• 3:18Speaker 03

  Dated? I guess it would be Lisa Ann.

• 3:22Bunnie XO?

  Who's Lisa Ann?

• 3:23Speaker 03

  Porn star. Well-known porn star. Legend. That was brief.

• 3:28Bunnie XO?

  How old is she?

• 3:31Speaker 03

  I want to say like she was 52, I think, when I was with her.

• 3:33Bunnie XO?

  Okay, and so you just turned 30, so how old were you?

• 3:37Speaker 03

  So I was like 27, maybe 26.

• 3:39Bunnie XO?

  What's the biggest age gap you've ever had in a relationship? Was that the biggest one?

• 3:43Speaker 03

  That would be like in a relationship. I think like a just general had sex basis, it would be like five years more than that.

• 3:52Bunnie XO?

  So how many, okay, so you were 27, she was 52.

• 3:56Speaker 03

  Yeah, that's hard math, but when I, I know when I was 26, I hooked up with a girl that was 58. So that's...

• 4:02Bunnie XO?

  Damn.

• 4:03Speaker 03

  32.

• 4:04Bunnie XO?

  What's 58-year-old puss like? Cause I'm on my way. I want to know.

• 4:06Speaker 03

  It was dope. It was cool.

• 4:08Bunnie XO?

  Yeah?

• 4:08Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 4:09Bunnie XO?

  Just still getting pounded out and all that?

• 4:11Speaker 03

  Yeah, I mean, she was like definitely, I'm sure it's not all to that standard. She was like experienced, but...

• 4:16Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 4:17Speaker 03

  I mean, they all have experience.

• 4:18Bunnie XO?

  What is it about MILF that you're attracted to?

• 4:21Speaker 03

  The experience, for sure.

• 4:22Bunnie XO?

  Is it because it's like somebody who doesn't need you? Like, you want them and they're already established and like?

• 4:29Speaker 03

  There's a lot of things. I mean, now that I'm like, I'm like, I'm not a kid anymore. I'm, you're 30, I think now, like, I started calling my friends ladies instead of girls recently. And I was like, damn, like, oh, I have this, it's not like a girl's coming over, it's like, oh, a lady's coming over. Like, I was like, that's crazy. Usually I think lady, you'd say like a few years older than yourself.

• 4:49Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 4:49Speaker 03

  That's what, in my experience. Anyways, now that I'm older, I think I understand better what was getting me into it back then. I mean, the success, the like, I mean, them having like more experience and money and whatever it is than me was cool, but I think I also just, the, the look also got me.

• 5:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 5:11Speaker 03

  The MILF look.

• 5:12Bunnie XO?

  Have you always been attracted to older women? Like even when you were younger? Because I'm dating, I have, I'm in a 22-year age gap right now.

• 5:17Speaker 03

  You are?

• 5:18Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah. Oh, it's all over the news. I'm surprised you haven't seen it. People are obsessed with it and it's, it's crazy to me that people are so obsessed with age gap relationships, but I feel like you and I are kind of like kindred spirits. So I want to hear it from the other side.

• 5:30Speaker 03

  Yeah, okay. So, so I'm trying to like psychoanalyze your man right now and see how he's feeling. Definitely like, it was cool, especially when I was younger, because it'd be like, I would have like, I'd be living at my parents' house and get to go over to like a woman's house that she owns, you know?

• 5:50Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 5:50Speaker 03

  Like that, those little things, I think really like helped start it off.

• 5:54Bunnie XO?

  Does it make you feel more manly too? Dating an older woman? You feel like you're the man?

• 5:58Speaker 03

  Yeah, and it's like, oh, I'm, now I'm that age too. And I can be like, you know?

• 6:02Bunnie XO?

  Do you feel like older women make younger men feel, I don't want to say better, because then that puts it in a competition standpoint. So let me rephrase that, but do you think that older women make younger men feel different than younger women do?

• 6:16Speaker 03

  Yes. I've never understood the like attraction for men who are specifically attracted to younger women than them. Obviously, it was like little things where it's like, oh, they're, you know, just look more fresh or whatever. That sounds kind of creepy too. I don't know, like...

• 6:34Bunnie XO?

  Jason, cut that.

• 6:35Speaker 03

  Just like, you could keep it. I just meant like less like imperfections or whatever.

• 6:40Bunnie XO?

  Well, it's more collagen. They have more collagen. It's like a younger, it's a younger energy, like in the, in the, in the skin and the...

• 6:48Speaker 03

  Yeah, like little things like that. Like, I understand like the subconscious attractiveness or whatever, but I think there's guys who literally are just into them being younger and that's where it's kind of weird.

• 6:58Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 6:59Speaker 03

  Which I guess maybe that's...

• 7:01Bunnie XO?

  I feel like it's different. Okay, so I think this is like a debate that everybody can have is like when older men date younger women, like super younger women, it's tended, it looks creepy. It tends to look a lot creepy, but for some reason, and I know this is probably a wrong way to look at it, but when an older woman, because this is the first time I've ever done this, when an older woman dates a younger man, it's not as creepy because sometimes it's like an energy exchange and like...

• 7:26Speaker 03

  I don't think anyone's like, to my knowledge, no one's ever been roasted on either end.

• 7:33Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 7:33Speaker 03

  No one's ever been made fun of for hooking up with an older woman.

• 7:36Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 7:36Speaker 03

  Or the woman for the younger man, whereas like, it does kind of feel more fair for some reason when the guy, like, just, I just feel like it's creepy when an older guy is with a younger girl.

• 7:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it's like sugar daddy, sugar baby status.

• 7:50Speaker 03

  Yeah, I don't think it's creepy for a woman. Maybe that's unfair, but...

• 7:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. I think, are we sexist?

• 7:55Speaker 03

  No, a little bit.

• 7:56Bunnie XO?

  Probably.

• 7:57Speaker 03

  Feminist a little bit, maybe.

• 7:58Bunnie XO?

  Possibly. Have you ever dated a woman whose children were close to your age?

• 8:03Bunnie XO?

  And had to like meet them?

• 8:05Speaker 03

  Yeah, well, I want to say, I don't want to say date, because like officially like full-on dating somebody.

• 8:12Bunnie XO?

  Okay, bang.

• 8:12Speaker 03

  When we say date, yeah, or hook up or whatever, we'll just say like girls I've at least talked to a few times, or been with a few times. There was a beautiful woman who was part of a meet and greet, because she brought her kids to the show, who were like, I think, three or four years younger than me, the kids were. And the mom was, I remember when I met her, she's 37, so I was probably like 23 or something like that. But the kids brought the mom to the meet and greet and I'm like, damn, that girl's like, fine, that was dope. And then hit it off forever. And at the end of the show, she's like getting an Uber for her kids home and they're like, oh, have fun, mom. Like, I hope you fuck young gravy. Like, it was, it was beautiful. And then as like, you know, the years went on,

• 8:57Speaker 03

  I stayed in touch with that woman and she'd bring her kids to the show and we'd all hang out.

• 9:01Bunnie XO?

  So did you end up banging mom?

• 9:02Speaker 03

  Yeah, oh yeah. First night, I banged the mom and then we like stayed in touch and like she, I would get her, her kids VIP. It was a win-win.

• 9:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 9:10Speaker 03

  And as long as the kids don't think it's weird, you know, but I could see that, obviously, some kids probably would. I think most would, but it was just a chill ass family.

• 9:18Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no, that's awesome. The kids were doing it for the plot. What's the most expensive thing that an older woman has bought you?

• 9:28Speaker 03

  Good question. Probably like flights and hotel rooms and shit. I don't know, like, I've ever gotten like a crazy gift from one.

• 9:38Bunnie XO?

  Did you ever date one like long enough to even have?

• 9:40Speaker 03

  Not really. Lisa and got me like some like Cartier sunglasses, I think.

• 9:45Bunnie XO?

  How long were you guys together?

• 9:46Speaker 03

  Dude, like two weeks.

• 9:47Bunnie XO?

  Oh, okay.

• 9:48Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah.

• 9:49Bunnie XO?

  Cartier is expensive. I've been actually trying to buy the fucking uh love bracelets. They're freaking.

• 9:54Speaker 03

  Those are, yeah.

• 9:54Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, a hundred and like sixty thousand dollars for all three of them. I was like, bro, this is crazy.

• 9:58Speaker 03

  Oh, that's more than I thought it was gonna be.

• 10:00Bunnie XO?

  No, it's insane. No, they're crazy. I didn't, I didn't understand.

• 10:03Speaker 03

  Some of those brands are just like, well, why? I don't know. We don't have to get into it, but like, like Birkin bags and shit. It's like, what's the difference?

• 10:09Bunnie XO?

  I don't under- I've, some of my girlfriends have Birkin bags and they're like, do you have one? And I'm like, absolutely the fuck not. I'd rather buy a house.

• 10:16Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 10:16Bunnie XO?

  Like, why the fuck do I wanna fuck Birkin sitting in? I wouldn't wanna carry that purse anywhere.

• 10:20Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 10:21Bunnie XO?

  I'd be so scared if we get scratched.

• 10:22Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, or like just drugged, like from stolen.

• 10:24Bunnie XO?

  Literally, especially in LA. Fucking walk down the street, motherfucker will take your purse and you're, you can't do anything about it, you know? Chase after him, maybe beat him. I don't know. We'll see. Speaking of MILFs though, can we uh?

• 10:36Speaker 03

  Did you beat someone's ass if you chased them down, you think?

• 10:38Bunnie XO?

  I have so much fucking rage inside of me. I wish a motherfucker would, dude.

• 10:43Speaker 03

  I was just thinking, I was like, if, like, after you said, I'm like, I feel like you would.

• 10:46Bunnie XO?

  Dude, after this year, Gravy, I fucking am ready to knock a motherfucker out. So I wish a dude would.

• 10:52Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 10:52Bunnie XO?

  It's been a wild year.

• 10:54Speaker 03

  All right, well, hell yeah.

• 10:55Bunnie XO?

  How's twenty twenty six been for you, though?

• 10:58Speaker 03

  It is like the end now, huh? Uh, it's been good. I think a lot of my attention's been locked in on just being like a cuffed man now and I've like been with my girl.

• 11:06Bunnie XO?

  I know. You guys are so cute. Let's talk about Ari. Let's talk about it and then we'll, we'll trans- we'll transition back into what I wanted to talk about. Um, let's talk about Ari because you were literally like the most eligible, what, like stepdad or something like that? Isn't that like the thing?

• 11:20Speaker 03

  Father who stepped up?

• 11:21Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, that you were like going for. And I mean, I feel like you were like a little player and we ran into you at a couple Hollywood parties and you were always had the girls around you and stuff like that. And then I've heard a little bit of you and Ari's story. So tell me how you guys met and then tell me like what it is about her that got you to like lock her down and let her lock you down.

• 11:41Speaker 03

  Uh, she sent him my DMs way back, like twenty twenty, I think. And I just saw this like cute girl from Seattle hitting me up and then I knew I had a show coming up. So I she, her, her first message to me is like, add my snap. And I was like, oh.

• 12:00Bunnie XO?

  You're like nude.

• 12:01Speaker 03

  I sent her like some slick response. It was like, oh, perhaps just this once or something. I don't know. My game was whack, but.

• 12:07Bunnie XO?

  It can't be too whack because you're pulling fucking porn stars and MILFs and all that stuff. So I think you know you're a smooth cat, but I think that's what gets the women's attention is that you're not too overzealous. You're not like on it. You know, like if, if a dude is too excited. We have this problem with Haley over here. If a guy gets too fucking excited, she will not fucking talk to him and like will not pursue the situation. And I feel like you're kind of like really laid back and that makes women feel safe.

• 12:33Speaker 03

  That strategy works pretty well for, for folks. Um, she sent him my DMs, hit her back on Snapchat. I think like within a couple weeks, maybe we had a chance to link up. I mean, like hooked up over the next like few months. I think I saw her every once in a while. But we were like, we were like hook, like fuck buddies, but also a little bit more, like we didn't, it wasn't on some like, I like you. I found out recently that she did like, like me or whatever I put, like she was into me at the time. But I just wasn't getting that message or whatever.

• 13:05Bunnie XO?

  Girls are so good at hiding it, though.

• 13:06Speaker 03

  Yeah, they are. Yeah, I learned that. So like, I would let her stay at my house when I wasn't there in LA and then the reverse happened when I was in Seattle and there was a heat wave in twenty twenty one. And I was like, me and my homies had nowhere to stay because they don't have AC. Everyone booked out their hotel rooms like the locals did. So I stayed at her parents' house with her parents and she wasn't even there. This was like way back.

• 13:28Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 13:28Speaker 03

  So I met her parents in twenty twenty one and they really liked me already. Um, so then we both gotten serious relationships, were separate for I don't know, four years, maybe three or four years. Like, but we like, but my ex blocked her, her ex blocked me.

• 13:47Bunnie XO?

  That's when you know it's real, when you're getting blocked.

• 13:50Speaker 03

  Yeah, like they had a feeling.

• 13:52Bunnie XO?

  There's a chemistry there that people can't deny.

• 13:54Speaker 03

  Yeah, they could tell. So, so then, you know, years went on, that relationship I had was, you know, it was cool while it lasted, but it didn't work out and hers was whack. And then when they broke up, twenty twenty five, like right at the start, she hit me up and I was single at the time. I was like, sure, let's, let's hang out again, but I still.

• 14:13Bunnie XO?

  Were you excited? Like, tell me how you were feeling in that moment when she finally reached back out.

• 14:18Speaker 03

  I was excited. I was, oh, also, I didn't mention that when she first hit me up, she had like three thousand followers. She was just a chill girl going to college. And that's when, when we were first fuck buddies. And then I was blocked. So I didn't know that she became famous and like blew up and had a social media following.

• 14:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 14:34Speaker 03

  I didn't know that she had that level of like personality. Like I knew her and she was chill, but I didn't know like like her personality is what really like gets her, you know?

• 14:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 14:42Speaker 03

  Fans and.

• 14:43Bunnie XO?

  That's what sucked me in.

• 14:44Speaker 03

  What I love. And I didn't know that all that was in there because we didn't hang out enough. Um, so then when she hit me up and it's this account that I've never seen because I was blocked. I'm like, oh shit, like she's like, it's a big deal. So I was nervous when we hung out again. It was funny. I was just thinking about, we were talking about that overnight. I was like, she came over and we sat there in my bed and like talked for like four hours before we hooked up. We're both like nervous and shit. And that, you know, like when you don't see your person for a while, you're like, oh, dude.

• 15:12Speaker 03

  But then we hooked up again or whatever, twenty twenty five. And after like two days of hanging out, she just said like, yo, I don't wanna do boy-girl stuff anymore. I wanna be with you. I like, um, and I was like, oh, I was stupid. Like, I usually get, catch the feelings or catch the vibes before of them catching feelings.

• 15:35Bunnie XO?

  But do you think it's because you liked her so much that you weren't like in tune with the situation? It was hard for you?

• 15:40Speaker 03

  I just, I thought she was really chill and cool, but I didn't like see the romantic option. I also, she just got out of a relationship with me. So I was like, maybe it's not the time. But then she said that and I was like, oh shit, like.

• 15:52Bunnie XO?

  Which is a big deal.

• 15:53Speaker 03

  Cool idea. I was like, let me see what that's about. And then like a week went by and I'm like in love with her. Like it was perfect. We just like.

• 15:59Bunnie XO?

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• 20:16Speaker 03

  Um, she had like done solo content or, or like girl-girl stuff for a really long time. And then I think she just, she just tried out the boy-girl stuff like twice and it was like right before we dated. So I was like. I mean, I just from my like knowledge of the girls that are really poppin'. I was like, I think it's better honestly to not do that. Like these girls, these guys wanna feel like they're the only person you're talking to. And I was like, so I, I was even like helping her with business shit, just like casually. And I was like, what if you tried that? And she's like, no, I really wanna do that. Like, I don't wanna do it. I wanna be with you. That's how, that's how like not tuned in I was with the feelings that I was like kinda recommending her to do solo shit.

• 20:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 20:56Speaker 03

  And she's like, no, I wanna do that because I wanna be with you. And I was like, oh.

• 20:59Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I love that.

• 21:00Speaker 03

  And then, and then we like, and then we hung out and I really got to know her fully. And I'm like, I love this girl.

• 21:06Bunnie XO?

  Would you ever make OF contact, content with her or have you?

• 21:09Speaker 03

  I have filmed her and like helped out or whatever. Like my hand is in one of them and then I.

• 21:16Bunnie XO?

  What's the hand doing?

• 21:17Speaker 03

  Like, I wasn't going, did I? No, no, I was like just handing her like a fucking dildo or something like that.

• 21:21Bunnie XO?

  Okay, okay.

• 21:22Speaker 03

  I haven't like done that.

• 21:23Bunnie XO?

  We're not gonna get the gravy.

• 21:25Speaker 03

  I have too much like, yeah, I have too much like family friendly.

• 21:30Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 21:30Speaker 03

  Content out there and like, like shows and stuff I do where I just, it wouldn't be a good idea.

• 21:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, if you guys dropped a porn though, you'd probably make a million dollars.

• 21:36Speaker 03

  It would, it would definitely do well.

• 21:37Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 21:38Speaker 03

  Uh, I, I had a sex tape leak in twenty some, twenty twenty one or something like that.

• 21:44Bunnie XO?

  With who?

• 21:45Speaker 03

  It was like.

• 21:45Bunnie XO?

  Google it now, guys.

• 21:47Speaker 03

  It was this girl way back, uh, named Isabella, but it was just funny because.

• 21:52Bunnie XO?

  How did it leak? Who the fuck leaked it?

• 21:54Speaker 03

  I got hacked. I was like, my third time getting hacked and this person was in my iCloud and.

• 21:58Bunnie XO?

  Is it one of those hacking rings that goes around? Cause Bobby Althoff, that happened to her.

• 22:03Speaker 03

  It was, uh, Chuckling Squad is what they're called. So, yeah.

• 22:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:06Speaker 03

  Where they, they like put chuckling on like your bio and everything. So they, I don't know if those are the ones, I can't even remember, dude. It's so stressful every time, but like.

• 22:13Bunnie XO?

  No, that's such an invasion of privacy.

• 22:15Speaker 03

  Finally like found his info and like talked to him and like just paid him off. But when he did it, he like leaked one video, but it was like funny. And like, I don't think I had any like embarrassing or like bad ones on there. Like, I don't know, I'm not like that freaky. But it was just like a funny one where I'm like smiling in it and I'm like, ah, like, so like that's the one that dropped. And I think that's part of why it blew up. But that like, there's like forty million views on Twitter.

• 22:40Bunnie XO?

  Wow, we'll have to go dive for it. Can you see your dong in it?

• 22:43Speaker 03

  Barely.

• 22:44Bunnie XO?

  Oh, okay.

• 22:45Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah. I don't mind if y'all watch it. It's, it's kinda like cute and funny.

• 22:47Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:48Speaker 03

  And it's, you know, so, so that's the only like, I have like a, I don't know, brief shaft moment.

• 22:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:55Speaker 03

  On Twitter, but otherwise.

• 22:56Bunnie XO?

  I mean, you're six, seven, so I think a lot of our listeners are gonna wanna try to figure out what, you know, what you're packing for sure.

• 23:02Speaker 03

  You get a teaser, you get a trunk pic on there.

• 23:05Bunnie XO?

  I like it, I like it.

• 23:06Speaker 03

  I also have voiced over two videos for her, which was fun.

• 23:12Bunnie XO?

  OF videos?

• 23:12Speaker 03

  Yeah, cause I'm like, I've been doing a lot more like voice acting shit lately. So like.

• 23:16Bunnie XO?

  You have the voice for it.

• 23:17Speaker 03

  Thank you.

• 23:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 23:18Speaker 03

  So it was her collab with Camilla. Um, that was a really big one where I like, the whole, I mean, I, I, I did the whole audio engineering side of it. So I like put in like sensual music. It's like funny, but it's also like smooth, but I'm like, like commentating what they're doing. And I'm like, oh, fuck it. Look at them titties, baby. Like, I'm just like going on it. It was funny. And the other one is like a, a sex doll where I was like the, the mind of the doll.

• 23:43Bunnie XO?

  Oh, that's hot.

• 23:44Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah. I think guys who are watching it probably either just mute it or just like enjoy it.

• 23:49Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 23:50Speaker 03

  For like the funniness.

• 23:51Bunnie XO?

  They muted. I think it's like, um, what is it? The novelty? So it's like the novelty. They're gonna buy it because they're gonna want it because it's your voice and then it's her. But I mean, and it's as close of getting you two to interact as they can get. So I think, you know, they love the novelty of it. People that are on that site, they're freaky.

• 24:07Speaker 03

  She also has a crazy amount of women fans. I think like, I, I wanna say more than half the people that buy her content are women.

• 24:13Bunnie XO?

  That was how it was whenever I had an OF. I literally had so, I, cause I have such a huge woman, woman fan base.

• 24:19Speaker 03

  Mm-hmm.

• 24:19Bunnie XO?

  I literally had women just on my OF. I, it like the men, I never did it for the men. I always did it for the women.

• 24:25Speaker 03

  That's dope.

• 24:25Bunnie XO?

  I feel like that's how Ari is too. She sucked me in, um, because she's just so honest. Like I'm brutally honest about everything and I don't hide anything. And like, I have the headlines always saying the fucking craziest shit, like talking about diapers and BV and fucking buttholes. And like, it's just so funny. So when I ran across Ari, when I ran across Ari and she's just so brutally honest, I was like, I vibe with this girl. Because she actually just is real and you can tell. And I can see why you fell in love with her. Are you guys gonna get married and have kids?

• 24:54Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 24:55Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I can tell because when you talk about her, you smile so big and like you get this little sparkle in your eye. It's so cute. And you know what? You know when a man's in love because that's what happens when he talks about his woman. They just, you guys get this like look in your face and your face like lights up. Oh, look at you.

• 25:12Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 25:12Bunnie XO?

  All right, so we're gonna.

• 25:13Speaker 03

  At some point. You'll, you'll be invited.

• 25:14Bunnie XO?

  You know, I feel like you and Ari would have a, a bachelor party together, like bachelor, bachelorette party.

• 25:19Speaker 03

  Uh, we'd be like lonely or like, I would be sad to not be with her.

• 25:23Bunnie XO?

  Exactly.

• 25:24Speaker 03

  Yeah, we would just.

• 25:25Bunnie XO?

  Do you guys invite other people into the bedroom?

• 25:28Speaker 03

  When we have sex?

• 25:28Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 25:29Speaker 03

  No.

• 25:29Bunnie XO?

  No, it's just you guys exclusively? I'm, I mean, I'm talking about like other women.

• 25:33Speaker 03

  That'd be cool, but nah, I don't think she's about that. And, and I get it.

• 25:37Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah. Would you be about that if she wanted to do it?

• 25:41Speaker 03

  If it was with other women, obviously like my brain wants to say like, yes, that'd be dope. But also I feel like then, the next day I would just be like, I would feel like she'd be sad about it. And like, and I also like, maybe me. Like, obviously if there was a guy there, I wouldn't like that. So that's not really fair.

• 25:58Bunnie XO?

  I get that. Oh, I love the.

• 26:00Speaker 03

  Just locked in one vagina the rest of my life.

• 26:03Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I love the way you look at it. That's so sweet. I love it. All right. Well, cool. I wanna be the, the fucking flower girl. So we're gonna pivot back to, uh, we're talking about the MILFs really quick because there was a situation with Addison Rae's mom, Sherry.

• 26:15Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 26:16Bunnie XO?

  Which was, you know, widely, it was all over the internet. It was a huge thing. And I know you've probably talked about it before, but I have some questions about it too. You took Addison Rae's mom to the VMAs. Did you realize you were about to become America's most controvert, controversial potential stepfather?

• 26:34Speaker 03

  Um, I didn't really think it would go that big. It was, it started because, um, just at that time, like the TikTok, algorithm, whatever, was really working well for me. If I just like hit on moms, like just stitching videos. It was so easy. I miss those days. Um, just stitch a video, hit on a famous mom.

• 26:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 26:56Speaker 03

  Blows up. And when her and her husband got divorced, uh, ex-husband, I did exactly that. And we just like played back and forth a bunch and the people loved it. And then I started like actually just talking to her on the phone and stuff. And she was really cool. So when I got asked to perform at the VMAs, uh, her ex-husband had been talking shit about me a ton. I left that part out. He's talked a bunch of shit about me on TikTok. I was like trying to get him to go fight him.

• 27:24Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah, I remember.

• 27:25Speaker 03

  Like a, like a weird diss track and all this shit. And I was like, I'm above that. Like, I'm not trying to actually take time to respond to this guy.

• 27:31Bunnie XO?

  With the ex-husband?

• 27:33Speaker 03

  Yeah, I'm like, I'm not gonna have internet beef. But then when I had the opportunity to perform at the VMAs, I was like, well, bringing his ex-wife as a date would be cool.

• 27:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 27:42Speaker 03

  So.

• 27:43Bunnie XO?

  Which went completely viral.

• 27:45Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah. So that was, that was really big. And I think it was, I mean, obviously we, it's Addison Rae's mom and she's massive too. But, um, we were like, we were kinda like PDA aggressive at the show and everything. Like it was, I think for both of us, it was a little bit premeditated, like PR move, but it was also just fun. It was like, kinda like a little bit of revenge for her. It was kinda like, this is a good social moment for me. I'm single at the time. I might as well. And then we actually had a, had a blast. We were together in New York for three days, just like walked around town, like.

• 28:20Bunnie XO?

  Did you ever bang her?

• 28:22Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 28:22Bunnie XO?

  Okay, yeah. I didn't know if you just did it for the plot or if you actually really.

• 28:25Speaker 03

  No, that's, that's one thing I'll, I'll say with all the MILF shit, it was, it was real. Like, I didn't just say it.

• 28:31Bunnie XO?

  No, I love that. I, I had so many questions. Cause I was like, I, you know, is this, cause a lot of people don't know this, in which I didn't know this about you either. You're, you're really fucking smart. And you graduated from college with a marketing degree. Your mom is a psychiatrist and your dad studied.

• 28:46Speaker 03

  Psychologist.

• 28:47Bunnie XO?

  Psychologist that studied sleep.

• 28:48Speaker 03

  Insomnia.

• 28:49Bunnie XO?

  Insomnia, which is crazy. But, so when I read all that about you, I was like, oh, okay. Is this all marketing or is it real? So to hear you say that it's real actually makes me so happy because it's not just a shtick, you know?

• 29:01Speaker 03

  Yeah. I think, I think everything with my brand is my real personality, but I mean, there's the subconscious marketing in me. That's like, oh, let me accentuate this part or let me publicly do this thing that I would normally do because.

• 29:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 29:17Speaker 03

  People will like it.

• 29:18Bunnie XO?

  I feel like as content creators, we are like, we're just known to market everything. So it's like, you can never tell if it's really going on in somebody's life or not because all we do is market ourselves. We literally, we are our own art and we sell it to the world. So I love that, that, um, you know, all of that was real and it wasn't just for the plot. Did you ever, did Addison ever get to tell you how she felt about it or anything? Have you ever talked to Addison about it?

• 29:44Speaker 03

  Yes. Um, at the time, I mean, I was so busy that I didn't even like ask. I didn't really think that I should ask for, for permission.

• 29:52Bunnie XO?

  Hmm.

• 29:52Speaker 03

  Which I guess I don't know if I needed it cause it's her, her mom can do her own thing.

• 29:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 29:56Speaker 03

  But like. Afterwards, she was like not happy about it. And then time went on. I think a couple of months later I talked to her, I'm like, yo, I'm sorry if that made you, put you in a rough spot or whatever, because it did bring more attention to like her dad doing all this shit.

• 30:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 30:11Speaker 03

  They were already doing, you know, being kind of crazy, but um, she was fine with it in the end.

• 30:17Bunnie XO?

  Oh, good. I love that. I do want to talk to you about a woman that I absolutely fucking love and I can't wait to meet her. She's gonna be coming on the podcast soon. Martha Stewart.

• 30:26Speaker 03

  She's coming on the podcast soon?

• 30:27Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, let's talk about Martha, please.

• 30:30Speaker 03

  Amazing.

• 30:30Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, tell me, tell me about the Martha Yung Gravy lore. I need to hear about this.

• 30:36Speaker 03

  She is goaded. Um, I.

• 30:40Bunnie XO?

  How the hell does that friendship happen?

• 30:41Speaker 03

  So I wrote a song that kind of, when I thought of the hook, part of the goal was to get her attention and see if something could come of it. Um, this song is called Martha Stewart, but also it just fit my brand well, like, with your mama in the kitchen cooking up Martha Stewart. I don't remember the exact bars right now. But um, that song was on like my 2020 album, did pretty well. And um, remember I was in like Montana doing some outdoorsy shit with some homies on like a summer, some chill time and I get a call.

• 31:19Bunnie XO?

  Are you an outdoorsy guy?

• 31:20Speaker 03

  I get down, I get down. Yeah, like, like when I can, I just, I hadn't in a while. I used to a lot more like back in Minnesota.

• 31:26Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 31:26Speaker 03

  Um, I get this call that's like, yo, Martha Stewart saw your, heard your song. She wants to do a commercial campaign and everything. And I was like, that was such a beautiful moment for me.

• 31:37Bunnie XO?

  Dude, I would fucking shit my pants. Like Martha Stewart wants to do a, a video and campaign with you? Like, come on, that's crazy. Because she doesn't collab with a lot of people. Yeah.

• 31:47Speaker 03

  So it was during like peak COVID, so we did like a, first off, it was like a Zoom video where we're like, they played the song and they introduced one of her new products and me and her are just like flirting over Zoom or whatever. And that went out during like the James Bond movie trailers and shit. So tons of people saw it. And then since then, we've just like kept up uh, communication and linked up when we're in the same place. She had me over, had me over for Thanksgiving and the Kentucky Derby.

• 32:16Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 32:17Speaker 03

  It was real lit.

• 32:17Bunnie XO?

  Did you get to go to the Kentucky Derby?

• 32:19Speaker 03

  I've gone in person now like twice, but the first time I watched it was at her house.

• 32:23Bunnie XO?

  Oh, gotcha. We're gonna go next year. We got invited this year, but we couldn't make it. So next year we're gonna go.

• 32:27Speaker 03

  It's lit.

• 32:28Bunnie XO?

  Do the funny hats and the outfits and all that stuff.

• 32:30Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, it's lit. That was actually when, when me and Ariel started dating for the first time last year. That was like our first fucking date pretty much. Cause she like said that to me or whatever. I, I got, I'd gotten tickets through a company that was, I was performing at the Kentucky Derby, like a after party thing. And I had a plus one and I was like, just gonna bring like a random girl in Kentucky or something like that. And then within like.

• 32:55Bunnie XO?

  Just put out, send out an SOS.

• 32:57Speaker 03

  Right, in my Rolodex. And then like, within a few days, me and Ariel like hit it off, started dating. And the next day was the Derby. So I just got her flight and then we like, did all of our, you know, walked the carpets there. And that's was kind of like the announce.

• 33:10Bunnie XO?

  I love that. Are you guys gonna go next year?

• 33:12Speaker 03

  I would go again.

• 33:12Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 33:13Speaker 03

  I'm kind of, I like met the right people. So I'm kind of like, whenever I'd want to, I could go again.

• 33:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, love that. If you guys do go, we'll have to all hang out because it'll be a lot of fun.

• 33:20Speaker 03

  Yeah, that'd be sick.

• 33:21Bunnie XO?

  Have you ever flirted with Martha? Or is she a little intimidating?

• 33:25Speaker 03

  I've flirted with her. I definitely do. And it's, it's like, she just, she'll like kind of flirt back and then sometimes just not. And it's just, you know, it's worth the attempt.

• 33:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 33:34Speaker 03

  Uh, you know, I had dinner with her alone one time and I was like, let me see if I can like bag this.

• 33:40Bunnie XO?

  Land this deal.

• 33:41Speaker 03

  I was like, I was like, I was like.

• 33:42Bunnie XO?

  Cause Martha's fucking hot, dude. And she's like 80 something.

• 33:45Speaker 03

  I was going into the night like, in, somewhere in my head, I was like, I might have sex with Martha Stewart tonight. I was like planning for it. And I just, I went into the, she wasn't folding. She was like, she was flirting back, but like.

• 33:58Bunnie XO?

  She's a gangster, dude.

• 33:59Speaker 03

  She wasn't gonna fuck me. It was, it was funny. I tried.

• 34:01Bunnie XO?

  But, but to go to dinner with you by yourself and like invite you to all of these things, obviously she had a little bit of an interest in you, but maybe she's, maybe she loves the sexual tension more than the actual act.

• 34:11Speaker 03

  I could see that. Yeah, I could see that.

• 34:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, because she's like old school too. So she's got like a long game.

• 34:16Speaker 03

  Yeah, I'm like, you know, first solo date, she's not folding. She's, she's.

• 34:20Bunnie XO?

  She ain't putting, so Martha does not put out on the first date?

• 34:23Speaker 03

  Mm-mm. Doesn't.

• 34:24Bunnie XO?

  God, I love her. What a woman.

• 34:26Speaker 03

  Yeah, love her.

• 34:27Bunnie XO?

  What is a celebrity that you've met that's completely different from their public persona?

• 34:33Speaker 03

  Hmm, I have to think for a second.

• 34:36Bunnie XO?

  I feel like it's a lot of them. A lot of people are not who they are when you meet them. I've discovered, especially in Hollywood and like LA. Nashville, it's not as bad. It can be, but it's like LA's like where the land of the fake.

• 34:51Speaker 03

  Obviously actors are one thing because they're literally acting.

• 34:54Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 34:56Speaker 03

  For musicians, rappers are usually the same. Like rappers usually kind of just, you know, they express themselves fully. And I would think a lot of like country musicians and shit are similar, but you might have a better understanding of that.

• 35:09Bunnie XO?

  What's one of the most uh, famous people who have slid into your DMs? MILF or no MILF?

• 35:14Speaker 03

  Slid into mine?

• 35:15Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 35:16Speaker 03

  Juliette Lewis, but she wasn't trying to fuck. I thought she was. I thought she was. That, that was cool.

• 35:22Bunnie XO?

  So anybody that slides in your DM, do you automatically think to yourself like, hmm, can I fuck this?

• 35:26Speaker 03

  At one point, yeah. Cause that was kind of like my persona. That was like what I was doing publicly.

• 35:31Bunnie XO?

  Does that get boring after a while though? Like, or is it exciting? It's like a new conquest all the time?

• 35:37Speaker 03

  At one point I felt that way. Yeah. I felt like it was always exciting and always new conquest. And I was just like, it felt productive for me at one point to have sex with women. I was like, oh, that's good for business.

• 35:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 35:49Speaker 03

  You know, and.

• 35:51Bunnie XO?

  I think everybody goes through a ho phase though.

• 35:52Speaker 03

  Yeah, exactly.

• 35:53Bunnie XO?

  Especially when you're like getting famous and like your name's getting out there and everybody's sliding in the DMs. Like, it's exciting at first. Except for when I first got single, when the divorce got announced and everybody was in my DMs. Like, I mean, I'm telling, like from Offset to fucking football players. Like it was crazy. And I, I was scared.

• 36:09Speaker 03

  That's weird.

• 36:10Bunnie XO?

  I know. I was, I was like team Cardi. Um, I was scared. I actually was like, okay, this is not like it was a decade ago. You know, like it's a smorgasbord of people, but at the same time, I feel like for women, it's more of like a, an energy exchange. And so whereas men, it's like, you guys don't have the hole that gets stuffed. You guys stuff the hole. So I feel like we, it's a, it's a different vibe for us, if that makes sense.

• 36:34Speaker 03

  No, that makes, yeah.

• 36:36Bunnie XO?

  Right?

• 36:37Speaker 03

  Well, like sliding in the DMs is, you know, that's like the man sliding. It makes sense in one way, but like woman, you know.

• 36:43Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 36:44Speaker 03

  Sitting on the DMs.

• 36:45Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Yes, exactly, exactly. Alright, so let's bring it back to the beginning because you have some nicknames.

• 36:53Speaker 03

  Lana Del Rey is probably the one from the DMs.

• 36:56Bunnie XO?

  Oh, so Lana slid in the DMs. Do tell. Is it, this was obviously before she was married.

• 37:01Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 37:01Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 37:02Speaker 03

  Right before.

• 37:02Bunnie XO?

  Was she trying to, huh?

• 37:04Speaker 03

  Uh, well, yeah, I met her at um, at uh.

• 37:08Bunnie XO?

  So you met her at Stagecoach, the stagecoach that we were at?

• 37:10Speaker 03

  That we were at.

• 37:11Bunnie XO?

  Okay, yeah, because she was performing with.

• 37:12Speaker 03

  Yes.

• 37:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 37:13Speaker 03

  And.

• 37:15Bunnie XO?

  I met her too.

• 37:15Speaker 03

  I, so I hit on her like multiple times in different situations. I kept running into her. And like after the third time, I don't think I ever asked for the number, but I just kept on like being pretty smooth.

• 37:28Bunnie XO?

  Fucking Lana Del Rey, baby.

• 37:29Speaker 03

  Yeah, I was like, alright, like, maybe I'll see her again and get the number. I was like, ask someone else for her number, like her assistant. And then she sent my DMs. And I was like, so we talked for like, like two weeks and then I think she just goes to me one day. She's just like, I don't want to be one of your MILFs, which I was like, that's fair.

• 37:47Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 37:47Speaker 03

  Like, like, it was like, you know, it would look kind of like that to the people or whatever.

• 37:51Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, for sure.

• 37:52Speaker 03

  She was nice.

• 37:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, damn, you didn't get to bag Lana.

• 37:55Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 37:56Bunnie XO?

  Oh, well, at least you got the fucking DM though, right? Still bragging rights.

• 37:59Speaker 03

  That's right.

• 38:00Bunnie XO?

  Alright, let's bring it back to the beginning because you have some pretty interesting fucking aliases and I need to know where they came from. Mr. Butter Clancy?

• 38:10Speaker 03

  Okay, alright, alright, alright. Okay, so there's, this is actually, I don't know if I've told this story on a podcast before, but so Mr. Butter is just like an alternate that I was gonna, alternate rap name I was gonna go with. I was saying Yung Gravy, Mr. Butter.

• 38:23Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 38:23Speaker 03

  And Lil Steamer. Lil Steamer was on there.

• 38:25Bunnie XO?

  That sounds like a turd.

• 38:26Speaker 03

  Exactly. That's what I, I didn't think that, but everyone else did. So then I, I dropped that name.

• 38:31Bunnie XO?

  Okay, one night you're just vibing and you're like, dude, I'm gonna call myself Lil Steamer.

• 38:36Speaker 03

  Yeah, I was, it was like, I would freestyle with my boys and like get high and just rap. And that came out and it was, it felt right.

• 38:43Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 38:45Speaker 03

  I.

• 38:45Bunnie XO?

  I can see the vision though.

• 38:47Speaker 03

  Nowadays, like if I'm like, I don't really drink anymore, but like when I did, now I would like kind of be acting wild or like doing extra crazy shit. That was like when my friends would call me Lil Steamer. Like, oh shit, Steamer's, Steamer's coming out. Like, Steamer's back. Uh, but Gravy just worked the best. And Mr. Butter was like another alternate that I liked.

• 39:05Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I've heard you say it in songs.

• 39:07Speaker 03

  Yeah, it just sounds.

• 39:07Bunnie XO?

  That's kind of smooth though.

• 39:09Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 39:09Bunnie XO?

  Mr. Butter. I love that.

• 39:11Speaker 03

  Yeah, right. So I like that one, but.

• 39:12Bunnie XO?

  How did Yung Gravy come about?

• 39:14Speaker 03

  Hold on, let me, let me, let me get on Clancy.

• 39:16Bunnie XO?

  Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha.

• 39:18Speaker 03

  Clancy Brett.

• 39:19Bunnie XO?

  So it's not, okay, Clancy Brett. Sorry, I didn't.

• 39:21Speaker 03

  That's his own name.

• 39:22Bunnie XO?

  Uh huh.

• 39:23Speaker 03

  Somebody has been like hacking my Wikipedia and adding that for like eight years. I like, I've looked it up. It's not a real person. It's like nothing. It's kind of a cool name. I'm like Clancy Brett, like. So like after like the third time that I got it removed from my Wikipedia and they kept putting it back, they would like add like little variations and shit. I don't know who was doing it, but I was like, fuck it. That's kind of, just leave it. Like they won.

• 39:46Bunnie XO?

  Okay, what about Daddy Aoli?

• 39:47Speaker 03

  Daddy Aoli. That's me. That's, yeah. That's like my, I use that as like my gamertag and like at on like other social things. So like, cause there's obviously Yung Gravy.

• 39:59Bunnie XO?

  Oh god, everybody's gonna find that now.

• 40:01Speaker 03

  So like my, well, yeah, but like the real fans know. They're like, oh, Daddy Aoli or Zaddy Aoli. That's like the real me.

• 40:08Bunnie XO?

  Gotcha.

• 40:09Speaker 03

  So like I don't get a shitload of ads. I'll just get a few and someone took Yung Gravy on every time.

• 40:12Bunnie XO?

  Gotcha. So how did Yung Gravy come about?

• 40:16Speaker 03

  I was rapping with my friends at a summer camp that I worked at. Uh, you know, me and the counselors, like the kids aren't there tonight. And I uh.

• 40:27Speaker 03

  Something, first bar, I was like something about, it's a line that I probably rapped in like eight different songs now, but I was like something about wavy and then come through smooth, you can call me Yung Gravy. Like when I said it, the energy in the room just went crazy. I mean, around the campfire, wherever we were.

• 40:44Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 40:44Speaker 03

  Went crazy.

• 40:44Bunnie XO?

  Summer camp memories, man.

• 40:46Speaker 03

  That's it. That's it right there. Everyone like out of like the six dudes that were there.

• 40:51Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 40:52Speaker 03

  Uh, I just, then I, I went as, that was my rap name, I guess, among a small circle of dudes in northern Minnesota for like two years. And then when I really like wanted to be a rapper, I was like, I actually, this is actually perfect for what I want to rap about.

• 41:07Bunnie XO?

  Mm hmm.

• 41:08Speaker 03

  So stuck with it.

• 41:09Bunnie XO?

  I love that. Do you ever miss Minnesota? We went out there one year and I'm asking this because we went out there for on tour one year and the fucking frozen tundra.

• 41:18Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 41:19Bunnie XO?

  That Minnesota becomes is unbearable.

• 41:22Speaker 03

  It's gnarly.

• 41:23Bunnie XO?

  Like you guys have to have a different blood type to live out there.

• 41:26Speaker 03

  It's crazy like in, I don't know, February, January, it gets fucked up. And I went, I went to college in Wisconsin, which is the same.

• 41:33Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 41:34Speaker 03

  And, and I would walk to class. That was, that was tragic.

• 41:36Bunnie XO?

  Damn.

• 41:37Speaker 03

  I, uh, yeah, dealt with that until I was like nineteen and, um, I do miss Minnesota. It's really beautiful there. I still have a lot of really good friends I grew up with. Um, so I go back for weddings and a lot, a lot of times for Thanksgiving. We're doing Thanksgiving this year at, at Ariel's house in Seattle, which will be fun.

• 41:55Bunnie XO?

  Yay.

• 41:55Speaker 03

  But, uh, I've, I've thrown a music festival in Minnesota the last two years, um, Gravy Fest.

• 42:02Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 42:02Speaker 03

  Around Thanksgiving. I'm taking a year off.

• 42:04Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 42:04Speaker 03

  Just to let people get more excited, but, uh, that's one of the times I end up back there when it's, when it is cold as hell.

• 42:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 42:12Speaker 03

  I've, I've seen negative fifty five, negative fifty five before.

• 42:16Bunnie XO?

  No, we went out there and filmed a TikTok because it was just unbelievable. And like you talk and your breath freezes mid air.

• 42:22Speaker 03

  Yeah, like the videos, people throwing like water in the air.

• 42:25Bunnie XO?

  Water and it freezing, yeah. No, and I'm trying to wear heels out there. Like it was just, it was just a bad mix. I was not prepared for fucking Minnesota.

• 42:33Speaker 03

  That's the only time you've been there? Was in the winter?

• 42:35Bunnie XO?

  Yes.

• 42:35Speaker 03

  Oh yeah, then.

• 42:37Bunnie XO?

  Is it beautiful in the summer?

• 42:38Speaker 03

  In the summer. It's like, like for like a Fourth of July or like a lake day.

• 42:42Bunnie XO?

  Mm hmm.

• 42:42Speaker 03

  It's beautiful. It's perfect. It's like a certain like three months of the, well, just the summer and then it's awesome.

• 42:47Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. You know what I found interesting about you is a lot of people don't credit Little Peep as their inspirations. And I did read something that you have credited him as like an inspiration for starting your rap career, which I think is amazing because I love Little Peep. I literally was wearing Goth Boy Click, uh, merch at Disney, Disneyland yesterday.

• 43:06Speaker 03

  Hell yeah.

• 43:06Bunnie XO?

  So I love that, that you, you know, are still repping him and keeping his name alive.

• 43:10Speaker 03

  One of my favorite rappers of all time and.

• 43:13Bunnie XO?

  Did you ever get to meet him or hang out with him?

• 43:15Speaker 03

  No, I like was in like his live one. He acknowledged me once. This is like when I was just starting to come up. And he was like, oh, Yung Gravy, I've, I've heard one of your songs or something like that. And that was like, I made my life back then. He's my favorite rapper. Um, and a lot of people that I've met in like the music space said that like me and him had a very similar personality, like the same person. So I was like really excited and, and it was like, it was November that he passed and I think like right after that tour, we were gonna, we were planning to like link up.

• 43:48Bunnie XO?

  Oh, man.

• 43:49Speaker 03

  So I was like, that like really devastated me when he passed. Um, but just in general, his brand and like, the way he just approached like videos and everything was, it was so sick to me. And I was like, I'm just gonna, like, if he's like the evil twin, I'm gonna be like the, the good twin or whatever. Cause he had like the dark, like bloody.

• 44:12Bunnie XO?

  But he really was such a light and I think that's what people don't understand. Like even though his whole persona was Goth boy and stuff like that, like, if you listen to his lyrics, he really was just a sweet boy. He was just a yearner.

• 44:23Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 44:23Bunnie XO?

  Literally.

• 44:24Speaker 03

  That's why he like, he killed that marketing side of things, but also just the music itself is, is beautiful. So.

• 44:29Bunnie XO?

  And he wore pink all the fucking time too. Yeah, that was the shit. Um, let's touch base on how you became so popular and how you got your start because you, you were part of like the SoundCloud era, which I missed because I think I was a little bit older than that, but tell me about this, um, come up.

• 44:46Speaker 03

  Uh, SoundCloud era, I miss it. That was great.

• 44:49Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 44:50Speaker 03

  Um, I don't even know how long that era would be considered.

• 44:54Bunnie XO?

  It was so brief. It was so brief.

• 44:56Speaker 03

  Maybe like twenty, I'm guessing, but like twenty twelve to like twenty twenty probably was like peak SoundCloud. And I started dropping in twenty sixteen and it was like, the artists that I was coming up with, like, you know, you drop a song every two weeks and you trade reposts with each other. It's like a retweet on SoundCloud. You can DM on there. It's like you're making friends literally through SoundCloud Messenger. And, um, then it goes over like Facebook groups and shit, but, uh,

• 45:30Speaker 03

  there was artists who would only, I mean, like only post on SoundCloud, sometimes YouTube, but I had to like convince, like Baby No Money is one of the ones I came up with. Um, Tribute to Kids, another artist I came up with and had to convince those guys to put their music on Spotify. I was like, I think this thing will be big also. Like you should, you should focus on that. Cause like they didn't even care.

• 45:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 45:49Speaker 03

  SoundCloud was so big. Um.

• 45:51Bunnie XO?

  Which it's no, it's like not even non-existent now, right? Or is it still up?

• 45:55Speaker 03

  It's still, it still exists.

• 45:56Bunnie XO?

  No disrespect to.

• 45:57Speaker 03

  Yeah, no, it still exists and some people use it like exclusively, but it's just pretty, it's not the same discovery platform it used to be. And I think just Spotify got better at doing that.

• 46:07Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Now we have TikTok. Like TikTok is a freaking marketing machine.

• 46:11Speaker 03

  Controls everything.

• 46:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 46:12Speaker 03

  Um, but it was just dope to be able to like market your music a lot more and like be, control the creative without like labels and people having to like do all this, all these big steps and like wait a month for your song to drop. You can just finish it and post it and it felt great.

• 46:29Bunnie XO?

  Are you still independent or have you signed with a, a record company? Cause I didn't see that.

• 46:33Speaker 03

  I was signed to Republic for like seven years. I think I saw you at the Republic.

• 46:38Bunnie XO?

  Yes.

• 46:39Speaker 03

  Party.

• 46:39Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 46:40Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah. I was signed to them for seven years. Um, just right when I, I was blowing up fast enough in twenty eighteen that I, and I was about to graduate college and I like had got a tour planned and everything. And like, I didn't know people in music, you know, coming from Minnesota. I didn't know like what to do exactly. So the first manager folks that I met convinced me that I needed to sign. Um, I got a good deal and, and I didn't hate it. I just, I like would rather have been independent that whole time.

• 47:13Bunnie XO?

  And I feel like that first deal that you always sign, unless you know the industry or the business or have somebody that is guiding you, it's always not a great.

• 47:20Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 47:21Bunnie XO?

  Deal.

• 47:21Speaker 03

  Luckily I like wasn't a, wasn't like a three sixty or anything. Like I wasn't a bad deal. I just like, there are so many little like creative things that are like clearance, legal things that I had like done before that I couldn't do anymore and they're like really strict. So, so now I'm, I'm independent with some distro, uh, distro through BMG.

• 47:42Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I love that. I love BMG. They're great. They're, they're really.

• 47:45Speaker 03

  See them BMG? Yeah.

• 47:46Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah. That's, yeah, yeah. Yeah, that's who Jay assigned with is BMG.

• 47:50Speaker 03

  Fire. Was he with Republic before?

• 47:52Bunnie XO?

  Uh, no, they were courting him. So they, they really wanted him, but he's been with BMG since the beginning.

• 47:58Speaker 03

  Oh, okay. Sick. Yeah. I'm a BMG boy now.

• 48:00Bunnie XO?

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• 49:18Speaker 03

  I'd say when I first started, I mean, my whole character, me, I just kinda.

• 49:30Speaker 03

  Emphasized, I guess, kind of multiplied a sort of certain parts of it like, like I wasn't going to class in college, wearing this.

• 49:40Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 49:40Speaker 03

  Or having a chain, you know, but I would like, you know, I was wearing like a icy collared shirt of some kind. Just wasn't fucking Casa Blanca.

• 49:47Bunnie XO?

  Where's that, where'd the haircut come in? Cause have you always had this, this luxury, these luxurious locks?

• 49:53Speaker 03

  Uh, no, I, I, I had long hair in like high school and then cut it short and I'd go back and forth. But like my first music video I dropped, I had short ass hair and, and I mean, I'm glad that it's finally come to this luscious level. I also used to have just a fucking chin strap and no mustache. It looked so wack. I had that for like four, four years thinking that that was the move.

• 50:14Bunnie XO?

  Don't you hate that? When you look back and you're like, why the fuck did I do this?

• 50:17Speaker 03

  Why did I look like that for that long?

• 50:19Bunnie XO?

  And why, who, who let me out of the house like this?

• 50:21Speaker 03

  Yeah. And like those pictures where it's like long and I look like, like Moes Schrute from The Office.

• 50:28Speaker 03

  So carefully calculated, I'd say like, at the start, there was, you know, like when I built like my social media and like started going on tour, like it was the music itself. Obviously that's calculated. But then, I mean, I don't know how much of it is just me and how much I grew into, but now it's just fully me.

• 50:48Bunnie XO?

  Hmm. I love that. I feel like, you know, like, like I was saying, our craft as content creators as we're art. But I feel like we are always ourselves and especially when you're on camera all day long filming, like how we do, like for TikToks and stuff like that, it's really hard to keep up a facade and you can tell that Yung Gravy is you, you know? Just like with Ari, Ari is Ari, I'm Bunny, you know? So.

• 51:12Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 51:13Bunnie XO?

  Um.

• 51:14Speaker 03

  That's, that's one thing that I like about being with her is like, the real me never wants to pick up a phone and film a TikTok. Like I never want to do that.

• 51:23Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 51:24Speaker 03

  But I know that I have to be on social media. So I'm like forcing it. And then it's like, that's not really me. But then she does it and I can just help or partake and people like that. So then that is like, it's been great. Cause I was so like over it that I was going to just like, I don't know, just accept that I could just put out music and not promote it and hope for the best. But now that I'm, you know, she saved me from that.

• 51:47Bunnie XO?

  Well, you guys are a power couple. I did that in my last relationship and it's, I'm telling you, when you let the woman control the narrative and actually like present parts of you that the world would never get to see, that's when they fall in love with you so much more. So. Yeah. Keep it up because yeah, Ari knows what she's doing. She's smart too. You guys together are just adorable. What's something that you've gone through that your fans would never expect?

• 52:10Speaker 03

  Um.

• 52:13Speaker 03

  Well, my dad passed when I was young, but I think most of my fans know that. Um.

• 52:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, that, which is rough. That's a rough thing.

• 52:20Speaker 03

  At like the height of my career, um, well, I guess one of my big moments, uh, one of my best friends overdosed back home.

• 52:32Speaker 03

  I'd just gotten off stage. Uh, I was in Virginia Beach when I found out. His name's Mikey. And, um, the next day I had to do my VMAs performance, the whole like sharing Nicole thing. So I was like, on the phone with his mom and stuff right before my performance and, uh, obviously my whole, like, all my lyrics and all my music is very, very positive. So like, on my country album, I did do a few songs that were more like introspective and kind of like actually talking about shit in my life. But it was like, there was a couple of months there where I had to just put on like a happy face and do all this shit.

• 53:08Bunnie XO?

  Brutal.

• 53:09Speaker 03

  Uh, I'm sure all artists have that, but, um,

• 53:15Speaker 03

  yeah, that was like the fentanyl epidemic. And then I, I did do a lot of like rants on stage about avoiding pills and fentanyl. I think I, you know, hopefully save some people from that.

• 53:27Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. And I mean, your life experiences are what, you know, is going to resonate with your core fan base and, you know, going through anything like that, losing somebody from an overdose, especially if you don't do drugs like that too, is just, um, you know, there's a purpose there. I know it hurts because you lost your friend like that, but it maybe that happened so that you could save, you know, 10 other lives. So.

• 53:50Speaker 03

  I want to like say like Lil P passing and obviously Juice WRLD and that like probably, obviously it's horrible, but it probably saved so many people.

• 53:59Bunnie XO?

  So many people's lives.

• 54:00Speaker 03

  From like avoiding taking that one pill out one day.

• 54:04Bunnie XO?

  Mm hmm. No, I couldn't, I couldn't agree more.

• 54:06Speaker 03

  So, you know, they, outside of their awesome legacy that they made with music, they probably saved tons of people too.

• 54:13Bunnie XO?

  Absolutely.

• 54:14Speaker 03

  I think every artist does that without realizing it. I've, I've had, I counted up to one point that I lost track, but like at least 30 people come to my meet and greets and say like a specific story about how I saved their life in some way. And my music's just like chill, happy party music, but for certain people, it's like, that's what they need at like the worst time.

• 54:35Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. You're an inspiration for people. That's how I love when people come up to me and they're like, I read your book and it's, you know, it made me feel not so alone. And that's what your music does for people too. And you are the happy guy. Does it ever get exhausting having to be the happy guy all the time? Or is that just you?

• 54:52Speaker 03

  I think it's me. It's just me mostly. Um, obviously like in times like that, when my friend passed, I had to kind of fake it for a little while, but I think I can always kind of find.

• 55:03Bunnie XO?

  The silver lining.

• 55:04Speaker 03

  Yeah, or find a way to smile.

• 55:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I love that. Let's talk about some other drugs though, because I heard on another podcast that you did, I think it was Steve O's podcast. And Theo Von's actually that you used to fucking just hit a DMT pin. You hit a DMT pin before you went on the Theo Von podcast.

• 55:24Speaker 03

  I used to, yeah, I used to just take.

• 55:25Bunnie XO?

  How?

• 55:26Speaker 03

  DMT all the time.

• 55:27Bunnie XO?

  How?

• 55:28Speaker 03

  I, it's funny how many people like ask me about it. Cause I, I, I think I thought it was going to become really widespread and popular. Then it didn't. So I was like.

• 55:36Bunnie XO?

  You're like, it's a niche drug.

• 55:38Speaker 03

  Yeah. I'm like still the authority on DMT. Uh.

• 55:41Bunnie XO?

  Not everybody's going to go around wanting to rip shit and fucking see fucking kaleidoscope shit.

• 55:45Speaker 03

  I remember one time being so hung over on a flight that I was like, I have nothing else. And I was just hitting it on my, on the plane. Like I, I need something.

• 55:54Bunnie XO?

  What was that like? Because the elevation's different. What did it, were you higher than God at that point?

• 55:59Speaker 03

  It worked a little bit, but like, if you're hitting the pen or you're, or not going like, basically to like really blast off or you like fall asleep and like see crazy shit. That's like, you take like a massive hit. It's really hard to even get that off the pen. It's like when you really smoke it, take a massive hit and hold it in for like 20 seconds. Like it's, it's hard to get to that point. It's beautiful when you do, but like the pen is weird. Cause it like, you, you hit it and instantly have like really intense visual hallucinations and like crazy body feeling or whatever for 15 seconds and then it just goes away. So it's, I mean, that's why I could do it a lot. Maybe not 15. It's probably like a few minutes, but.

• 56:44Bunnie XO?

  No, nobody wants, I don't want to be out of my mind. I see, I can't be out of control like that. Hallucinogenic scare me.

• 56:50Speaker 03

  Yeah. I mean, it, it doesn't really have that much of like a, like a shroom effect where you're like, you know, thinking of new ways you want to take on life and like getting inspired. It doesn't really have that. It's kind of just like a cool ass dream and, and it comes and goes. So that's why I think why, like I, I felt like it was inspiring to me. Cause it would be like, if I was just, you know, trying to experience something new within myself and not like look at something. Not like going to the internet or whatever. I just hit that in the morning.

• 57:26Bunnie XO?

  So you don't hit it anymore? Or you don't?

• 57:28Speaker 03

  I don't have a good plug right now.

• 57:29Bunnie XO?

  Oh, gotcha. Yeah. So if there's any DMT plugs out there, DM gravy right now.

• 57:35Speaker 03

  Yeah. They, they come out of nowhere. It's like randomly. I'll just meet a guy at a party and it becomes a new plug. DMT is its niche like that.

• 57:40Bunnie XO?

  I heard that you also said you've done PCP.

• 57:45Speaker 03

  No.

• 57:45Bunnie XO?

  Okay. No. Maybe it was somebody else on the pod that had.

• 57:48Speaker 03

  I think I accidentally hit, that was probably like Theo or someone like that. I've, I've like accidentally started hitting it one time.

• 57:55Speaker 03

  Can you smoke PCP? I think so. I think someone handed it to me and then I.

• 57:57Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Remember Smokey from Friday? Fucking smoked PCP and thought he was a pigeon?

• 58:02Speaker 03

  Someone handed it to me once and I was like, I smoked meth on accident a couple of times.

• 58:06Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I smoked meth on purpose. That was my shit. I fucking, back in the day and I could never now, like I don't do drugs at all now. But fuck, when I was a little head rat, that was my shit.

• 58:15Speaker 03

  Does meth, when you smoke it, make you chill?

• 58:18Bunnie XO?

  Yes. So I don't know. And also when you put it up your ass, it makes you chill. I talk about.

• 58:23Speaker 03

  When you snort it, it's like.

• 58:24Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. When you snort it, you're like fucking amped. You're just ready to fucking.

• 58:28Speaker 03

  First time, it was my 20.

• 58:29Bunnie XO?

  Blood pressure.

• 58:30Speaker 03

  My 21st birthday. No. My golden birthday. No, it was my 21st birthday. I had a show at South by Southwest. And it was way early career where like, just if, if someone hit me up on DMs, I'm seeing every DM and a guy like offered for me, my producer to stay at his place for South by Southwest. And right before I'm about to perform my first ever show, I fucking, he's like, oh, you need to pick me up. We've been doing zans during the day. I thought it was coke and I had a full line of meth.

• 58:58Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 58:59Speaker 03

  It like hit me so hard.

• 59:01Bunnie XO?

  For three days.

• 59:02Speaker 03

  I remember thinking like.

• 59:05Speaker 03

  This is the best I've ever felt in my life and I need to never do meth again because that was way too good.

• 59:10Bunnie XO?

  Oh my gosh. Do you do Adderall?

• 59:11Speaker 03

  I had Adderall prescription for a long time. I don't anymore.

• 59:14Bunnie XO?

  Did it make you calm when you, when you ripped the line? Or were you amped?

• 59:19Speaker 03

  When I did the line, I was amped as fuck.

• 59:20Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 59:20Speaker 03

  And I was like meeting all these people that I had known through SoundCloud DMs and I met them in person. They're all like, the next day I'm getting messages like, damn gravy's so cool. He's such a nice guy. Like, why is he so outgoing? Because I was methed out.

• 59:32Bunnie XO?

  No, when I smoked it, it was a completely different high though. So I, you know, I got to the point where, you know, I had done so much drugs. I write about this in my book and it's out, my following knows all about it, but I literally had no cartilage left in my nose because I was snorting so much shit. So we had to start smoking it and yeah, it was definitely a different high. It's, it's, uh, it can be addicting because you know, if you can't ever catch that like relief or like you're a very high strung person and you fucking smoke meth, it's like, for, uh, for me, it was a very calming experience.

• 1:00:04Speaker 03

  I, I, I've never really been addicted crazy to something besides alcohol. I've been super alcoholic before and I got over that, which thankfully, um, but the only other drug I've felt like I could get addicted to was Perks.

• 1:00:18Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:00:19Speaker 03

  Have you ever had like a perk phase?

• 1:00:20Bunnie XO?

  I loved a Lordurv, uh, a Laura Tab. That's what I used to call him.

• 1:00:24Speaker 03

  A Lordurv? Wait, what is it? A Laura Tab?

• 1:00:26Bunnie XO?

  It's a Laura Tab. So you know, Norcos or like Laura Tabs? Yeah, it's literally, it's the same thing, but Perks are a lot stronger of course, but the Lordurvs were hydrocodone whereas Perks are oxycodone. So I loved me a good Lordurv.

• 1:00:38Speaker 03

  Yeah, it's just like the best feeling.

• 1:00:40Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, well, I, I did Xanax. So I was Xanax, uh, Percocets, Laura Tabs and.

• 1:00:46Speaker 03

  Xanax is the only like consistent medicine I, I still take.

• 1:00:49Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:00:50Speaker 03

  Just, I have a small prescription. It's so nice for performances and I don't have to drink anymore.

• 1:00:54Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no, obviously I love Xanax a little too much, uh, so I cannot have it in my possession because I turn into Xana Nicole. You guys will never know the, the, the links I go to when I'm on Xanax. Okay, so we're gonna, we're gonna close this out. There's a little thing that I do every week. Um, I have a show also besides the podcast that I call Ask, Tell, Confess and people write in and they ask a bunch of questions and we answer them and it's always about life and stuff like that. So I have a few questions that I'm gonna ask you kind of rapid fire and you just answer them and we'll go from there.

• 1:01:26Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 1:01:27Bunnie XO?

  Okay, ready?

• 1:01:27Speaker 03

  Rapid fire, okay.

• 1:01:28Bunnie XO?

  What's one thing you've done sexually that sounded like a great idea until it actually happened?

• 1:01:35Speaker 03

  Peeing on a girl's face.

• 1:01:37Bunnie XO?

  On her face?

• 1:01:38Speaker 03

  Yeah, she wanted it and I thought it was gonna be cool.

• 1:01:40Bunnie XO?

  And it was like a long, the longest pee ever?

• 1:01:42Speaker 03

  It was just like afterwards, it was like, well, now I just pee on the floor.

• 1:01:45Bunnie XO?

  And in your hair.

• 1:01:46Speaker 03

  And like, she was, I mean, she was into it, but then I wasn't and I was like, oh no, I just feel weird.

• 1:01:51Bunnie XO?

  Did she open her mouth?

• 1:01:52Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:01:52Bunnie XO?

  Oh, you guys were getting freaky.

• 1:01:54Speaker 03

  Some freaky shit.

• 1:01:55Bunnie XO?

  Was meth involved?

• 1:01:56Speaker 03

  No.

• 1:01:56Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 1:01:57Speaker 03

  No, no.

• 1:01:57Bunnie XO?

  That sounds a little methy.

• 1:01:58Speaker 03

  This is post, post meth phase.

• 1:01:59Bunnie XO?

  All right. Um, have you ever had a woman tell you that you were terrible in bed?

• 1:02:07Speaker 03

  No, but I definitely have been terrible in bed. There was like a good amount of the hookups like in my slut era where I was just blacked out. So I know there's no way I was going, doing anything good in there and they were kind enough to not tell me.

• 1:02:20Bunnie XO?

  Oh, good. Now they're gonna all come out of the woodworks. They're gonna be like, I was one of those women.

• 1:02:24Speaker 03

  Yeah, or, or they told me when I was blacked out and I didn't remember that part.

• 1:02:28Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. What's one secret about Yung Gravy that would absolutely ruin your reputation as a ladies man?

• 1:02:36Speaker 03

  Oh, uh, okay, just, just the ladies man reputation. Well, I'm, I'm.

• 1:02:42Bunnie XO?

  Or just ruin your reputation.

• 1:02:43Speaker 03

  I am in a relationship, I guess. Uh, is it a true thing or a rumor?

• 1:02:48Bunnie XO?

  A, a true thing.

• 1:02:50Speaker 03

  Something that's true about me that would ruin my reputation? Um, I don't know. I just used to be hoeing too crazy. I used to have like four at a time and that's not attracted to women, so yeah.

• 1:03:03Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:03:03Speaker 03

  I was too much of a hoe.

• 1:03:04Bunnie XO?

  Your little slut era. You were slutting yourself out. What's your, what's more dangerous? A woman who says, I'm fine, or a woman who says, do whatever you want?

• 1:03:15Speaker 03

  Hmm, like, okay, now this is like not a sexual thing. You're looking at me kinda sexually and I was like.

• 1:03:19Bunnie XO?

  Oh, was I?

• 1:03:19Speaker 03

  No, well, you just have like a, you know, like a sexual face.

• 1:03:22Bunnie XO?

  Oh, sorry.

• 1:03:23Speaker 03

  No, you're fine.

• 1:03:24Bunnie XO?

  I have a fuck face.

• 1:03:25Speaker 03

  Yeah, so, okay, so you were at like, if this is in a fight situation, I'm fine.

• 1:03:29Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, so like if Ari says to you, she's like, hey, do whatever you want or I'm fine. You know, like if you guys are beefing and you're like, hey, you okay? And she's like, nope, I'm fine.

• 1:03:37Speaker 03

  You know what's cute and just true about this is like, we don't fight and she'll say both of those. No, she won't say do whatever you want. She's just like, I'm fine with whatever or whatever, but like, I guess I'm fine is the only thing where I'm like, she's not fine, but it's not mad at me. It's like, she's like anxious.

• 1:03:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:03:55Speaker 03

  So, so I'm fine, I guess is worse in this case and then I go.

• 1:03:58Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:03:59Speaker 03

  We don't fight, it's so nice.

• 1:04:00Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I love, that's a real relationship though. Like when you guys can talk shit out instead of screaming and yelling at each other. I can't scream and yell either.

• 1:04:07Speaker 03

  We're just completely honest about everything, so there's just nothing to fight about.

• 1:04:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I love that. Um, what's one question, nobody has ever had the balls to ask you?

• 1:04:19Speaker 03

  Oh, people got balls these days. They ask a lot of questions.

• 1:04:21Bunnie XO?

  I feel like I've asked a lot of shit on this podcast.

• 1:04:24Speaker 03

  Yeah, a lot of people. Uh, I don't know. What, what, what's something else? What about you? What's something no one's ever asked you?

• 1:04:32Bunnie XO?

  No one's, I mean, I feel like I'm an open book, dude. I literally fucking, I, I, there's nothing that I have left.

• 1:04:39Speaker 03

  I do enough meet and greets where I've been asked fucking everything.

• 1:04:42Bunnie XO?

  No stone unturned over here. All right, last question. If all your exes were sitting in this room, what would be their number one complaint about you?

• 1:04:53Speaker 03

  Uh, indecisive.

• 1:04:57Bunnie XO?

  Yeah?

• 1:04:58Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:04:58Bunnie XO?

  When you say indecisive, like can't decide where to eat dinner or can't decide where to be together?

• 1:05:02Speaker 03

  Like important things, like, yeah, like are we gonna be together or am I gonna be single or?

• 1:05:06Bunnie XO?

  I feel like that's a man thing though.

• 1:05:08Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:05:09Bunnie XO?

  I don't know a lot of men who are very like decisive about big decisions.

• 1:05:14Speaker 03

  Yeah, I was really bad about that and it'd be like, I was, I was like the king of like, oh yeah, like we're like dating, but we're not exclusive.

• 1:05:22Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:05:22Speaker 03

  And like, that was just whack.

• 1:05:24Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, nobody, nobody liked that.

• 1:05:26Speaker 03

  Yeah, cause then it's like, I'm, I'm like hooking up with other girls and it's not cheating, but it's like, then why am I saying I love you to this girl? I used to be on some bullshit.

• 1:05:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, well, I mean, you're a little playa and I mean, I think everybody goes through that stage, you know? And I mean, you're only 30, so of course you have a lot of time. Uh, now you have Ari, but I'm just saying before then you had a lot of time to, you know?

• 1:05:45Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm glad I figured it out before I found.

• 1:05:47Bunnie XO?

  Absolutely. And before you get married and have babies, which you guys will have beautiful babies.

• 1:05:52Speaker 03

  Excited.

• 1:05:53Bunnie XO?

  2026, we're almost into 2027. What can we expect from Yung Gravy this next coming year?

• 1:05:59Speaker 03

  Uh, tour starts in two weeks. Hyped on that, the Joy Rider Tour, which is, uh, the album title, which I don't have a release date for that yet, but.

• 1:06:08Bunnie XO?

  You gotta release it before the tour starts, right?

• 1:06:10Speaker 03

  I was going to and then like a bunch of clearances didn't happen, so, uh, I'm gonna be playing a lot of it on the, on the tour. So you're gonna hear it, you're just, it's not gonna be out yet to stream, which is whack.

• 1:06:21Bunnie XO?

  Do you think it's weird when you have to sing songs that people don't know because they can't sing along and vibe with it?

• 1:06:26Speaker 03

  Uh, I don't know. Whenever I do it, I get it really hype. I'll find a way to make it hype.

• 1:06:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:06:32Speaker 03

  You know?

• 1:06:32Bunnie XO?

  Put the words up on the screen so they can sing along.

• 1:06:35Speaker 03

  Um, that's coming out. Um, a couple of movie roles coming up and.

• 1:06:42Bunnie XO?

  Good, we got actor gravy.

• 1:06:44Speaker 03

  Actor gravy.

• 1:06:45Bunnie XO?

  I love.

• 1:06:46Speaker 03

  I've done, I've done voice acting a good amount now and a little bit of IRL acting. That's probably not the right word for it.

• 1:06:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:06:53Speaker 03

  Uh, live action. And oh, I got something big coming, uh, something Euro-ian.

• 1:06:59Bunnie XO?

  Oh, nice.

• 1:07:00Speaker 03

  Coming, pretty cool, yeah.

• 1:07:01Bunnie XO?

  Love that.

• 1:07:02Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:07:02Bunnie XO?

  Can we get a hint? Give us a hint.

• 1:07:04Speaker 03

  Euro.

• 1:07:05Bunnie XO?

  Pean?

• 1:07:05Speaker 03

  Pean, yeah.

• 1:07:06Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 1:07:06Speaker 03

  You know, just.

• 1:07:08Bunnie XO?

  I'm down.

• 1:07:09Speaker 03

  Yeah, yeah, something big in the start of the next year, most likely. Yeah, yeah.

• 1:07:13Bunnie XO?

  Awesome.

• 1:07:13Speaker 03

  Euro.

• 1:07:15Bunnie XO?

  Pean.

• 1:07:15Speaker 03

  Pean.

• 1:07:17Bunnie XO?

  Awesome, Gravy, thank you so much for being on the podcast.

• 1:07:20Speaker 03

  Thank you for having me.

• 1:07:21Bunnie XO?

  Dude, and now that I know that we're neighbors, like we need to go on a double date.

• 1:07:24Speaker 03

  Literally like walking distance neighbors.

• 1:07:25Bunnie XO?

  Literally. And I need to meet Ari, I wanna hug her and just, I want you to meet Dylan, so it'll be, it'll be great.

• 1:07:31Speaker 03

  Does he live here?

• 1:07:32Bunnie XO?

  Uh, he's here.

• 1:07:33Speaker 03

  Sick, right now?

• 1:07:34Bunnie XO?

  Uh, he might be, I'm not sure. I'll have to look.

• 1:07:36Speaker 03

  Yeah, I'll hit her up too, see if she's getting home soon.

• 1:07:39Bunnie XO?

  Absolutely.

• 1:07:40Speaker 03

  Double date soon.

• 1:07:40Bunnie XO?

  Tell everybody where they can find you.

• 1:07:42Speaker 03

  Yung Gravy, Y U N G Gravy on everything. I think I have everything you could imagine.

• 1:07:48Bunnie XO?

  Awesome.

• 1:07:48Speaker 03

  On Telegram.

• 1:07:49Bunnie XO?

  Go check him out, go download the music, go stream, do all that, watch the videos, go check out his beautiful wifey Ari. Thank you guys for tuning into another episode of Dumb Blonde. I'll see you guys next week.

• 1:08:00Speaker 03

  Two dumb blondes.

• 1:08:10Bunnie XO?

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