Ask, Tell, Confess: Bed Bugs & Bangs

This week on ATC, Bunnie shares her strategies for staying consistent on social media and Meme breaks down the truth about her hair, and how she keeps those bangs so crisp. They reveal a listener’s wild work crush story and unpack what it means to embrace your feminine energy while staying in your hot girl villain era. Watch Full Episodes & More: www.dumbblondeunrated.com

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:00Bunnie XO?

  Hey guys, I need to ask you a question. I want to know, why in the hell are you not on Patreon? I don't think you guys even realize how much content we have on Patreon. Let me break it down for you. We have the Bunny XO Show, we have Meet the DeForts, we have Popaganda, we have more shows that we're adding, and not to mention, we have the visuals of the podcast. Head over to www.patreon.com backslash dumb blonde podcast and sign up. Ask Tell Confess.

• 0:34Speaker 01

  Ask Tell Confess.

• 0:39Bunnie XO?

  Ask Tell Confess.

• 0:41Speaker 01

  Ask Tell Confess.

• 0:49Bunnie XO?

  Hello friends, welcome to Ask Tell Confess.

• 1:01Speaker 02

  I love that one.

• 1:02Bunnie XO?

  That was like my version of a country music song.

• 1:05Speaker 02

  I love that one, my new favorite.

• 1:09Bunnie XO?

  It was good, right? I'm actually really proud of myself. I came up with it literally lickety-split, right on the spot.

• 1:14Speaker 02

  Oh, lickety-split, alright.

• 1:17Bunnie XO?

  Lickety-split, baby.

• 1:18Speaker 02

  This is what you sound like right now, do you see this?

• 1:21Bunnie XO?

  Yep.

• 1:24Bunnie XO?

  I swear, that's what I feel like my teeth are.

• 1:28Bunnie XO?

  I swear.

• 1:29Speaker 02

  Oh, that is so funny.

• 1:31Bunnie XO?

  I got a question for you.

• 1:32Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 1:32Bunnie XO?

  Mimi, are you ever going to go back to your old hair? You look gorgeous with the split dyed platinum and black hair with no bangs.

• 1:42Bunnie XO?

  I can't stand the Friar Tuck bangs.

• 1:45Speaker 02

  She fucking hates my bangs, guys.

• 1:47Bunnie XO?

  I hate them, she has such a beautiful face and I feel like the bangs take away from that.

• 1:53Speaker 02

  Oh, no, I'm gonna keep them for life, just because you hate them. The other day, I like freshly trimmed, and you guys, I'll go give you a little secret of how I cut my bangs.

• 2:04Bunnie XO?

  With mm-hmm.

• 2:05Speaker 02

  Trimmers.

• 2:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 2:06Speaker 02

  I take my husband's trimmers, I comb them down and I just go

• 2:11Speaker 02

  right across, and when I say they are crisp, they are straight.

• 2:14Bunnie XO?

  Fresh, crisp, fresh.

• 2:22Bunnie XO?

  I'm the friend with ADD.

• 2:25Speaker 02

  I say that in my head anytime I hear the word crisp.

• 2:29Bunnie XO?

  Or fresh.

• 2:30Speaker 02

  Or fresh.

• 2:30Bunnie XO?

  After that fucking TikTok, yeah.

• 2:32Speaker 02

  Not even the TikTok, it's literally your version of it.

• 2:36Bunnie XO?

  Stole it from that guy, he did it, it's so good.

• 2:38Speaker 02

  So funny, but I show up to this like video shoot and it must have taken Haley off guard because she just looks at me, she goes, holy fuck, your bangs are straight.

• 2:52Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I always know when you give it a little fresh.

• 2:55Speaker 02

  Yeah, Jason too, he's like, damn, those are straight, you know?

• 3:01Speaker 02

  No, the baby bangs, listen, I don't love my face shape without bangs, that's just a personal preference of mine because I have a very like oval and then if my moon face is swollen up, it makes me feel very round, it's just personal.

• 3:14Bunnie XO?

  Heart shaped face.

• 3:15Speaker 02

  Not really.

• 3:15Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, you do. Your little jawline's coming in now because you're losing weight.

• 3:20Speaker 02

  My jawline just showed up.

• 3:22Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 3:23Speaker 02

  Out of nowhere, I very much noticed it on the CMAs, like the little clips that people were posting of me in the background, I was like.

• 3:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 3:33Speaker 02

  There it is, but yeah, maybe, I don't know, I really love my bangs, I feel like they're my personality, my split died too, I know a lot of people are just over it, I'm not, so.

• 3:45Bunnie XO?

  What color are you gonna do next?

• 3:47Speaker 02

  I don't know, I'm really loving the orange. I love it.

• 3:50Bunnie XO?

  I don't love it. I feel like this one is like, and the reason why, I feel like I'm just bashing on your hair right now, I feel like the blue was so luxurious and like luscious.

• 4:00Speaker 02

  If I was to change, it would be blue.

• 4:02Bunnie XO?

  I feel like the green was pretty too, but I would love to see purple, the orange to me has, it washes out so fast.

• 4:09Speaker 02

  I don't love purple on my skin, that's only because I haven't been taking care of my hair.

• 4:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 4:14Speaker 02

  I'm like hot shower scrubbing my orange out and she's like, will you fucking stop? Like my other colors, I'm like cold water, not washing as much, I'm just clarifying shampoos, like I'm like, I'll just color it again, but. I done purple.

• 4:27Bunnie XO?

  Did you?

• 4:28Speaker 02

  At one point I did purple with some blues and there's just something about purple I do not like on my skin tone.

• 4:35Bunnie XO?

  Really?

• 4:35Speaker 02

  The only thing is, I think is because I have a little bit of yellow in my skin, like the tiniest bit. And when I add that purple, it just cancels it out. So I just.

• 4:43Bunnie XO?

  Are we thinking like a deep purple?

• 4:45Speaker 02

  It was, yeah. And I let it fade through to all the purple. So I started with deep. I always start with deeper tones and what I want, cause I want to live through the color.

• 4:52Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 4:53Speaker 02

  But I didn't, I didn't like it. My favorite color, yes, is blue.

• 4:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 4:57Speaker 02

  Blue on my hair and I start very dark blue and I let it fade through. It's one of my favorite colors. So if I was to change my orange, like the next color, I probably would choose blue.

• 5:07Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. It blue on you. I remember it was so pretty.

• 5:10Speaker 02

  Yeah. Cause I think what I.

• 5:11Bunnie XO?

  I don't hate your hair. I love your hair. But I mean, it just sounds like I'm just like, yeah, I would really like.

• 5:15Speaker 02

  My whole comment section hates my hair. Okay. Let's get that straight.

• 5:19Bunnie XO?

  I know, but it's your hair. So it doesn't matter what anybody fucking thinks.

• 5:22Speaker 02

  That's why I don't change it for comments or like people's opinions. I'm like, no, this is what makes me feel pretty. So this is what I do. I for so long lived for other people that there's nothing right now that could make me change my appearance for someone else.

• 5:35Bunnie XO?

  Amen, sister.

• 5:36Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 5:37Bunnie XO?

  Let's fucking go. You're next.

• 5:39Speaker 02

  Oh.

• 5:40Bunnie XO?

  You're up. You're up, buddy.

• 5:42Speaker 02

  Um, so this one, I had to screenshot this one. I don't, cause I don't think I would know what to do in this situation. And it made me think about it for later. Like, uh, it freaked me out. So, uh, this person, this is a tell and it's a. Okay. A few years ago, she went to a friend's Halloween party and she got trashed by 10 o'clock and started drunk texting her former coworker. They had started having sexual tension and had a few texts back and forth, nothing more. But being drunk and horny, she decided to invite him over. They partied for a bit, then she decided to go home with him.

• 6:27Speaker 02

  She stumbled into his apartment and went straight to his bed. Eventually we both passed out. I wake and I'm guessing they probably fucked, of course, but like, I eventually, they both passed.

• 6:40Speaker 02

  Um, I stumbled in.

• 6:43Bunnie XO?

  What the?

• 6:43Speaker 02

  In case you guys were wondering, that's Chaji finding his spot.

• 6:46Bunnie XO?

  Bro, he just literally, this is the most he's ever moved around and I want to fucking slap his behind dude.

• 6:53Speaker 02

  Uh, they both pass out, they wake, now, this girl wakes up at 5 a.m. in a panic. Because she began to itch. All over her body. She grabbed her phone, turns on her flashlight and looks down to see an army of bedbugs covering the bed and her body.

• 7:18Bunnie XO?

  Oh, fuck, that happened to me.

• 7:20Speaker 02

  She ju-

• 7:22Bunnie XO?

  Fuck. Oh, go ahead, I got the picture on my phone.

• 7:25Speaker 02

  Jumps out of the bed, dude is still passed out, she calls her friend, waits for her to answer and tells her what's going on and to get her ASAP. The friend doesn't show up for 30 minutes.

• 7:36Bunnie XO?

  Oh, Jesus.

• 7:37Speaker 02

  All while in the bathroom freaking out. I walk out to the car in fishnets, ripped up her sexy cop costume.

• 7:45Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 7:46Speaker 02

  From the night before. She brought her a change of clothes, she stripped down right there in the parking lot, never spoke to the guy again and never told him why. I felt like he should have known because his bed was covered in bugs. So she said, oh, and a few weeks later I found out he gave me chlamydia.

• 8:03Bunnie XO?

  Oh, damn, dude was dirty just all around.

• 8:07Speaker 02

  That is disgusting.

• 8:08Bunnie XO?

  Bro, yeah.

• 8:10Speaker 02

  All right, let me know about your bedbugs.

• 8:13Bunnie XO?

  Girl, I feel you on this because I was dating this cute little like, I call him my cabana boy, the one that looked like MGK and had the fucking dick of like a baby arm. And so cute. And he lived in a really nice house dude, like had a nice house, whatever, whatever. His bed was not on the floor, it was a nice bed. Like the dude like worked and took care of himself. And he fucking like showered and was very clean all the time. I and I, we had been hooking up for months, so this had never happened, but it was like off and on. And so I go over to his house one night and I rarely ever stayed the night at his house. I'm just, that's not my thing. I have my own place, you know? And the next day I wake up, I go home and my entire back is on fire.

• 8:58Bunnie XO?

  I'm talking like so fucking bad. It was terrible. I look in the mirror, I have the picture on my phone still. I look in the mirror, take a picture. I have welts up and down my back of just being bit by fucking bedbugs, dude. I literally had a fucking entire brand new bed delivered to his house the next day.

• 9:16Speaker 02

  Do you think you're allergic to bedbugs?

• 9:19Bunnie XO?

  Maybe.

• 9:19Speaker 02

  Aren't they supposed to be just little bites?

• 9:21Bunnie XO?

  It was welts. I can find this picture for you. I'll find it for you when we get off of here. It was so bad. It looked like hives almost all over my back.

• 9:30Speaker 02

  Oh my gosh.

• 9:31Bunnie XO?

  It was so bad.

• 9:32Speaker 02

  I hear that people can bring them home from like hotels and stuff, so it's like.

• 9:37Bunnie XO?

  You can bring them home from hotels. You could, if you were moving or like anything, it's not just a dirty thing.

• 9:42Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 9:42Bunnie XO?

  But I mean, in this case, this dude sounded like a fucking dirtball. I mean, he's got chlamydia too. Gross.

• 9:49Speaker 02

  Can you imagine having bedbug bites and chlamydia?

• 9:52Bunnie XO?

  No. That's just terrible.

• 9:53Speaker 02

  Poor girl.

• 9:54Bunnie XO?

  I mean, and that was her fucking hall, her, um, not hall pass, but her work crush.

• 9:59Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 9:59Bunnie XO?

  Like damn dude.

• 10:01Speaker 02

  That sucks.

• 10:01Bunnie XO?

  I mean, I want to know how they interacted with each other at work. Did you just ignore each other and never fucking talk to each other again?

• 10:07Speaker 02

  Yeah, like you're just like.

• 10:09Bunnie XO?

  Poor dude probably thinks he has like a little wiener or something. She probably gave him like a complex. Like was the dick at least worth it though? But yeah, no, the bedbug thing is fucked up. That was the only, and any, any, that was the only situation I've ever had with bedbugs.

• 10:23Speaker 02

  I had one, but it wasn't with me. I went to a wedding in Gatlinburg and the bride and groom's room ended up being infested with bedbugs. And they came in and like, because it can get on literally anything. Her wedding dress was in there, his clothes were in there, the baby's pack and play was in there, all this stuff, right? So they had to do one of those like bombs, like the smoke bombs.

• 10:51Bunnie XO?

  Yes.

• 10:52Speaker 02

  Bro, when they got their clothes out, all of their clothes had like oil spots. Her wedding dress, his outfit, all the kids clothes, everything was covered in these like oil specks.

• 11:05Bunnie XO?

  Oh, no.

• 11:06Speaker 02

  Yeah, it was crazy. I mean, fuck that bitch, but yeah.

• 11:09Bunnie XO?

  Oh, fuck. Well, fuck her. You deserved it. No, I'm just kidding. I don't even know what happened, but you deserved it.

• 11:14Speaker 02

  She fucking decide, I'm gonna put her on blast. We're gonna not keep this in. But she decided to tell me that I only didn't like her because she could have kids and I could not while I was in the middle of my infertility. So fuck you bitch.

• 11:29Bunnie XO?

  That's never cool, man.

• 11:30Speaker 02

  You never throw someone's infertility in their face.

• 11:32Bunnie XO?

  Something like that about people who are dealing with infertility or can't have babies. I hate that.

• 11:37Speaker 02

  Oh, bro, I literally, that was, that was one of the worst things you could have said to someone.

• 11:41Bunnie XO?

  It's evil.

• 11:42Speaker 02

  Yeah, she ended up, you know, having her kids all taken away.

• 11:46Bunnie XO?

  Oh, okay. Well, the bedbugs was a pre-warning for how her life was about to fucking turn out. Jesus.

• 11:55Bunnie XO?

  Moving on. I recently joined your Patreon and went straight for top tier as I'm an all or nothing person, obsessive personality, maybe. My question is, how in the world do you maintain all of these social media platforms and things you are involved in doing? I'm sitting here a month in and thinking, damn, this is a lot. Also, what's the Utah timeline look like? B Lawson, I love that. Um, I love this because I try to tell everybody how much content we have on Patreon and I don't think people realize. Like whenever I do start putting shit on YouTube, I have years worth of shit that I can fucking put on YouTube, dude.

• 12:35Bunnie XO?

  And Patreon is a testament of how hard we work. Like you guys don't really get to see it unless you're on our Patreon. There is so much shit on there. It is crazy, dude. Like, I mean, we're talking back to like two thousand twenty twenty, right?

• 12:50Speaker 02

  Twenty twenty, yeah.

• 12:51Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, twenty twenty. So like five years, going on five years of content. Crazy. So we started Patreon the same year that I started my OnlyFans.

• 13:02Speaker 02

  Yeah, at the end of the year. So you started OnlyFans in the beginning of the year and then we started Patreon at the end of the year.

• 13:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. So let's clarify to everybody really quick. Everybody's like, oh my God, you were in the sex industry for, you just retired a year ago. No. I retired from the sex industry five years ago. I have not had a sugar daddy in five years or fucking a client in five years. And I started my OnlyFans in 2020, which only lasted two years. I only had my OnlyFans for two years and I retired from sex work online in 2020.

• 13:35Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 13:36Bunnie XO?

  So just so everybody.

• 13:37Speaker 02

  Twenty twenty.

• 13:38Bunnie XO?

  Huh?

• 13:38Speaker 02

  Twenty twenty two.

• 13:39Bunnie XO?

  Sorry, I retired from sex work online in 2022. So for everybody who's like, what's the timeline? And you know, how long have you been retired? I've been retired from that lifestyle for half a decade now.

• 13:50Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 13:51Bunnie XO?

  So.

• 13:51Speaker 02

  Yeah. And like you weren't actively, even at the end of OF, you weren't like actively working it like you were in the beginning.

• 13:58Bunnie XO?

  The, the first year I shot like 200 movies and I just recycled them the entire fucking.

• 14:03Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 14:03Bunnie XO?

  That's free game for you ladies, by the way.

• 14:05Speaker 02

  Yeah, always stack content. Yeah, that even goes for social media. Like I know they were asking about that. Just stack content.

• 14:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 14:12Speaker 02

  That's what you can't expect yourself to film all day, every day, borrow some shit in the drafts, make a day of content and you've got a week of content.

• 14:20Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it's not realistic. And I go through phases. There's phases of like where I shoot every day and I post fucking three times a day on each fucking platform. And then there's times where I'll post once a day. I always post once a day on TikTok or, you know, Patreon we always post on. And Snapchat, I've got to get better at because that's really a good moneymaker for me. So I really need to start.

• 14:41Speaker 02

  Definitely shows a side of herself on Snapchat that she does not show anywhere else. I'm going to preface this. If you want to see the most unhinged version of Bunny, go to Snapchat.

• 14:55Bunnie XO?

  It's those filters, man.

• 14:56Speaker 02

  It just makes you act.

• 14:57Bunnie XO?

  I feel like it's not me and nobody can see it's me.

• 15:01Speaker 02

  Mascots, you know, like when mascots like are like super like vibrant in their costumes, but then they're like the quiet person. That is you with your filter.

• 15:08Bunnie XO?

  I do. Don't give me one of those fucking hilarious filters, man. The ugly. Faced filters are my favorite.

• 15:14Speaker 02

  We're driving down the road the other day and she's like, I'm literally trying to pay attention to the highway and she's like, look at me. And it's like the most ugly faces you can make.

• 15:23Bunnie XO?

  Dude, it's my favorite. I just, I love it so much. But yeah, to answer your question, B Lawson, we, you know, it's just, it's our job. It's my job and that, and my job is to make you guys smile. And that's what I really try to do. That's why when I get sucked into like fucking unnecessary drama, I'm like, bro, I'm not here for the drama. I am here to fucking have fun, to make people laugh, to make people feel good. That's my way of giving back. My husband, you know, goes to these jails and that's his way of giving back. My way of giving back is to you guys in the world of just being able to sit here, make you laugh. If I can fucking keep you engaged in a podcast for an hour, an hour and a half, and you listen to that and you forget about everything that else that's going on in your life, that's what the fuck I'm here for. If these Ask How Confesses teach you something

• 16:08Bunnie XO?

  and make you laugh and fucking gross you out all at the same time, that's what I'm fucking here for. You know, so that I don't, I don't, I guess I don't think of it as work. It is work, but I don't think, it's my job. It's my job to make you smile and that's what I'm here to do. So.

• 16:23Speaker 02

  I love that. That's such a great way to put that.

• 16:25Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, that's how we feel, man.

• 16:26Speaker 02

  Gina, she wants advice on how did you go from like a more masculine energy to a more feminine energy? And this is something we barely touched on the other day of like, you have a masculine energy and then you have your feminine energy. And I actually just talked about this with Jason the other day is like, I don't feel like I ever leaned into my feminine energy. I always feel like I'm on the more masculine side of it versus like Haley, for instance, Haley is the most like feminine energy I have met in my entire life. And that's why her and I vibe so well. She's the ying to my yang.

• 16:58Bunnie XO?

  Well, first of all, Haley's not in her feminine energy. Haley is in her damsel in distress energy.

• 17:04Speaker 02

  Dad, there you go.

• 17:06Bunnie XO?

  She is definitely a damsel in distress. She's a ding dong and we love her for it and it is what it is. But that's just.

• 17:15Speaker 02

  Tell them what every single morning on tour looks like for you.

• 17:20Speaker 03

  For her? Oh, when she just walks out, she's just like.

• 17:25Speaker 02

  Or what did she?

• 17:26Speaker 03

  Did we do matcha?

• 17:28Speaker 02

  She calls you.

• 17:29Speaker 03

  And she calls me every morning. Hey, where do I go?

• 17:33Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 17:34Speaker 03

  Just step outside the bus.

• 17:35Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 17:36Speaker 03

  And looked to your right. She's like, okay, then what? I've stayed on the phone and walked her from the bus to a green room.

• 17:43Speaker 02

  Yeah. That is the most damsel in distress, Haley. Yeah. When he was like, she calls me, he goes, I actually enjoy and wait for that phone call because it is the same thing every morning. Hey, where do I go?

• 17:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Haley is damsel in distress. Um, but to answer your question, I don't know if it's something that you can teach yourself, except for it's a lot of like healing. You have to heal trauma wounds. You have to heal, you know, um, parts of you that are willing to let your guard down. And you have to be around people who make you feel safe. And you can't, like, you're never going to heal in environments that made you sick.

• 18:23Speaker 02

  That's what's making you masculine is your need of fight and flight. And it may not be masculine, but it could just be fight and flight.

• 18:30Bunnie XO?

  So when we say masculine energy, when I say masculine energy, it's me being like, I'm very aggressive. I'm the boss. I have to have, what I say goes. Um, you're not gonna, you know, just that, you know how males are, where they're just very driven to lead. And sometimes it's okay for us women to not want to lead. Like, I don't want to lead in our household. I want my husband to tell me what the fuck we're doing. That turns me on, you know? Not everybody's like that. But, you know, it's also, all it boils down to is feeling safe. Whoever you're feeling safe around, like your friend group, you have to feel safe and vulnerable around your friend group. I don't want to hang out with people who don't make me feel safe. You know, like that situation that just happened online the other day and I cut that person off. That did not make me feel safe.

• 19:16Bunnie XO?

  You, you are looking for a reason to fucking hate on me, you know? So it's like, you don't, you want, you have to be around people who make you feel safe. A man who makes you feel soft. You want a man. It took a long time for me to be able to like, look at Jay and be like, okay, I trust you to lead me. You know, and you're not gonna, that's not gonna happen overnight. It's a process and it was a battle, you know? It finally got to a point where Jay was like, are you gonna let me lead this relationship? Or are you gonna fight me every step of the way? You know, and I was just like, you know what? You're right. You're right. Let me, let me, let me be your partner and not somebody who is working against you. Because who wants to be in the same household with somebody they don't feel like they're on a team with either? You know?

• 20:00Bunnie XO?

  So, I mean, there, it's just lots of steps. I, first I would start, you know, figuring out what is, what is something that triggers you to put a wall up?

• 20:09Speaker 02

  Yeah, you, you helped me tremendously in the fact that I've always thought in my traumas is that I have to do it myself because no one else can. And I reference that towards like picking up heavy things or like, like, you know, I'm not gonna, a long time ago. I would never ask a man to pick up something heavy. I would always, and like even last night.

• 20:29Bunnie XO?

  Hyperindependence is a trauma response.

• 20:31Speaker 02

  Yeah, last night I'm carrying out a huge, I'm carrying my purse, my backpack, the camera bag, and my water and my two cell phones and a case of water, right? And Jaime comes like running down the hallway. He's like, give me the water.

• 20:45Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, like what are you doing?

• 20:46Speaker 02

  That's so me to just be like, not gonna ask for help.

• 20:49Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. There was like three of us there. We're like, Mimi, what are you doing fucking Brutista?

• 20:53Speaker 02

  And that's what I'm working on is like letting it be okay that there is someone stronger than me in the room that is okay for someone else to do those things. Because it's so often that I'm just like, I can't let a man do that.

• 21:05Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 21:05Speaker 02

  Because I can do that.

• 21:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 21:07Speaker 02

  But that's not the case.

• 21:08Bunnie XO?

  Hyperindependence is a trauma response and that comes from something that happened to us when we were younger. Because I was the same way for the longest time. I still am that way, but now I've learned to kind of delegate things, you know? And kind of just be like, all right, you do this, you do this, we'll do this together. You know, like just teamwork makes the dream work and I don't know. Feel like life is so much better in soft girl era than it is in that era where I had to like, I don't know, I just felt like I couldn't trust anybody and it was me against the world and like, you know, granted, there's still, I'm very weary of people, but my little bubble, I'm, I try to be as soft as possible with.

• 21:44Speaker 02

  Oh, absolutely. Were you ever in like, and I know you like fluctuate. Did you ever have a time of your life where you were very, very tomboy or I feel like, have you always been like feminine ish in like appearance and so? Cause I remember I went through a long period of tomboy.

• 22:00Bunnie XO?

  Oh, well, I mean, I have always been a sexy tomboy. Like I've, I've learned to like, kind of master the art of both. Like I would wear fucking, you know, sneakers, boxers rolled down and T-shirts to school. Like that's just how I was and I, I played sports and you know, that was my thing, but I always managed to keep an essence of femininity to it, which I don't know why.

• 22:21Speaker 02

  I never did. I got called a boy so many times, shaved my head, like, but like that was just me going into that more masculine era of my life. And it wasn't till I met my best friend at the time and she was the Haley. Like when, I know I vibe with Haley so well because she reminds me of my childhood best friend in which they are so feminine.

• 22:41Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:41Speaker 02

  Like the multiple perfumes, the lotions and like,

• 22:45Bunnie XO?

  The spray tans.

• 22:46Speaker 02

  The makeups and the spray tan. Like she was a spray tan addict. I never sprayed tan with her, but like she was a spray tan addict. She's a spray tan addict. It's so funny for me to see so many similarities, but she's the reason why I made that change in life because I saw that it was okay to be feminine. I don't know why I felt the need to always wear, I probably went like three years only wearing skater oversized shirts and hoodies with jeans. Like so many people were like, boy, like they would call me a boy. They called me Mitchell. For the longest time, my cousins all called me Mitchell because I was so manly in that sense. And it wasn't till I met, uh, my best friend and she was like, it's okay to like put on makeup and like do your hair. You know that, right? And I was like, no.

• 23:28Bunnie XO?

  Susan maybe didn't teach you that?

• 23:30Speaker 02

  No, my mom wouldn't leave the house without makeup.

• 23:33Bunnie XO?

  Really?

• 23:33Speaker 02

  To this day, my mom does not leave the house without makeup. My mom doesn't go into a grocery store without putting, freshening her lipstick.

• 23:39Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 23:40Speaker 02

  Like, she won't let her grays show. She, she is very feminine, so I don't know where that aspect of me wanting to fall so hardly into this, like, very manly, manly.

• 23:51Bunnie XO?

  Huh. I don't know.

• 23:52Speaker 02

  Look, and you'll, if you saw pictures of me when I like shaved my head.

• 23:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 23:56Speaker 02

  You'd be like, what in the fuck?

• 23:57Bunnie XO?

  I would love to see the shape of that dome with no hair on it.

• 24:01Speaker 02

  It's a good, it's a good dome.

• 24:03Bunnie XO?

  It's a good dome?

• 24:03Speaker 02

  Yeah, it's good.

• 24:04Bunnie XO?

  I could never.

• 24:04Speaker 02

  Didn't have no lumpy's.

• 24:06Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 24:06Speaker 02

  Anything like that. I mean.

• 24:07Bunnie XO?

  I'm domingus. There's no way. My head's way too big.

• 24:09Speaker 02

  I didn't go bald, though.

• 24:10Bunnie XO?

  Oh, okay.

• 24:11Speaker 02

  I went like a, maybe a fore guard. So like.

• 24:15Bunnie XO?

  I mean, that's still short.

• 24:16Speaker 02

  Oh, yeah. No, you could see my scalp. Like, it was still short, for sure.

• 24:19Bunnie XO?

  That's crazy.

• 24:20Speaker 02

  But that was, um, what era would that have been where they would like do a middle part and they would like gel it down and put a clip?

• 24:26Bunnie XO?

  Oh, God. You were one of those. Okay, I remember. That was, that was probably like, maybe like.

• 24:33Speaker 02

  And I'd wear like Dicky's button ups?

• 24:35Bunnie XO?

  Early two thousand?

• 24:36Speaker 02

  Oh, for sure. It had to have been. Yeah.

• 24:37Bunnie XO?

  Late ninety-nine? I don't know. Like, around that era.

• 24:40Speaker 02

  I loved like, and like, they would, like, all of, like Drew Barrymore shaved her head to that point. Like, that was my inspiration, was that short, spiky.

• 24:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 24:48Speaker 02

  Gelled look, but I didn't get the feminine side of it. Like, you said, you went feminine. I did not.

• 24:54Bunnie XO?

  Even as a little girl, I admired, um, like, the, the hot villains. So like Superman two, I loved the villain in that. And I used to try to like, imitate her walk. And like with She-Ra, I loved Catra, you know, because she was the villain. And like, I've always been.

• 25:10Speaker 02

  So it's like a feminine masculinity, you know?

• 25:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it was like bitches who could hold their own. I was always attracted to that even as a child. So I don't know, that's just always how I was. So I always wanted to be just a bitch who could hold her own.

• 25:22Speaker 02

  And look at you now.

• 25:23Bunnie XO?

  Look at me now. Just a bitch who can hold her own.

• 25:28Bunnie XO?

  Just kidding. All right, guys. I gotta go. It's fucking nine o'clock at night. You have kept me here all day.

• 25:36Speaker 02

  I really have.

• 25:37Bunnie XO?

  I've been here since the crack acid dawn. Crack out. All right. Love you, guys. See you next week. Bye.