Ask, Tell, Confess: Wax, Ink & Wild Confessions

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the gals dive into raw and unfiltered personal stories — from a candid confession about bowel control struggles after cancer treatment to a jaw-dropping tale of a boss caught masturbating in a restaurant bathroom. The conversation shifts to building self-confidence, focusing on embracing inner beauty and surrounding yourself with uplifting people. They pull back the curtain on the beauty industry, sharing everything from dealing with difficult clients to the unglamorous challenges of waxing. Bunnie Xo also opens up about her ongoing tattoo journey, revealing the pain, patience, and dedication it takes to get inked in her 40s. Watch Full Episodes & More: www.dumbblondeunrated.com

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:00Bunnie XO?

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• 0:43Bunnie XO?

  reality contestant in TV history be able to keep the family happy? And if they're overthrown by the mob, who's gonna step up and become the new Don? Let the games begin. Watch The Mob, now streaming on Hulu and Hulu on Disney+. For bundle subscribers, terms apply. I'll be tuning in.

• 0:59Speaker 01

  I hope I don't have to cancel again tonight.

• 1:01Speaker 02

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• 1:59Bunnie XO?

  Hey, guys. I need to ask you a question. I want to know why in the hell are you not on Patreon? I don't think you guys even realize how much content we have on Patreon. Let me break it down for you. We have the Bunny XO Show, we have Meet the DeFords, we have Popaganda, we have more shows that we're adding, and not to mention, we have the visuals of the podcast. Head over to www.patreon.com backslash dumb blonde podcast and sign up.

• 2:28Bunnie XO?

  Ask, tell, confess.

• 2:47Bunnie XO?

  Hello, welcome to Ask, Tell, Confess. Mm-hmm.

• 2:57Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 2:58Bunnie XO?

  Hello. Hello. How's everybody? Good.

• 3:01Speaker 03

  We're going good.

• 3:02Bunnie XO?

  Good for you. Going great. I'm fucking falling apart over here.

• 3:05Speaker 03

  This is like the worst week for you.

• 3:07Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I could have so much shit going on. I'm just like, geez. And then Mimi's like, let's film all week long on the week that you don't want to. I'm just kidding. I'm here. I love you guys. I show up for you because I love you guys. So who's gonna kick this one off? Me? Cool. Thank you for it. Don't mind if I do. What were you guys eating over there? I just realized we probably placed it. I was like, wait, what is happening?

• 3:41Bunnie XO?

  The way she lowered it, she was like, it was sitting here like a guest.

• 3:46Speaker 03

  I know. I was like, okay, maybe if I turn it around, but then I was like, no, I've got to get rid of it.

• 3:50Bunnie XO?

  Listen, blur that out. We're not getting paid for it.

• 3:53Speaker 03

  No, it's product blur.

• 3:55Bunnie XO?

  All right, here we go. This one was anonymous. Confess. Yesterday I shit during the orgasm. Right there, mid-magic, no warning, no grace, just release. Aw, thanks to cancer, chemo, and pelvic radiation, my body now operates on its own dark timeline. She's chaotic, she's bold, she's not checking in with headquarters before making decisions. I didn't laugh, I didn't rise above, I just laid there in full horror, staring at the ceiling like, well, that's new. My husband, bless him, still here, possibly traumatized, probably Googling return policy on wives. Me, trying to figure out if I should cry, sage the bedroom, or just burn the whole house down.

• 4:39Bunnie XO?

  This is survivorship, apparently. One minute you're reaching for intimacy, the next you're wondering if there's a patron saint of bowel control. So at first she had me because I thought she just shit.

• 4:50Speaker 03

  I thought she just shit, but no.

• 4:52Bunnie XO?

  When you're talking about going through cancer and chemo, mama, you're a motherfucking warrior.

• 4:57Speaker 03

  Literally.

• 4:58Bunnie XO?

  Shit on his face.

• 4:59Speaker 03

  I was like, give it to him.

• 5:01Bunnie XO?

  Give it to him, baby. Like, you deserve that. And you know what? Hats off to the, to the husband.

• 5:07Speaker 03

  Yeah, absolutely.

• 5:08Bunnie XO?

  You know, like, I'm sorry, but my heart goes out to anybody that's battling cancer and then is having to go through chemo. You are literally putting radiation and so much shit into your body.

• 5:22Speaker 03

  The worst thing you could put into your body, absolutely. Poor baby.

• 5:25Bunnie XO?

  So much. So have grace. And I love that you could have a, um, a laugh about it.

• 5:30Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 5:30Bunnie XO?

  That's the best thing that you could ever do.

• 5:32Speaker 03

  I love it.

• 5:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I love that too.

• 5:33Speaker 03

  She made the best of the situation, for sure.

• 5:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. You guys are next.

• 5:37Speaker 03

  I'll go ahead. I feel like yours can't follow that.

• 5:41Bunnie XO?

  Oh geez, I can only imagine what you've found.

• 5:46Speaker 03

  Someone called in and would like our help.

• 5:49Speaker 04

  Hello, girls. I have, I guess, a question on what to do. There is, um, my boss I work with, basically, he's older, like, 50. And I've caught him jacking off in our bathroom at work. It's bad enough, he does not help and leave everything to me. I work in a restaurant. But what do I do about this guy? Like, I get guys have needs, but this man literally watches girls across the street at the bank. And he'll disappear in the bathroom for 10 to 15 minutes while I'm getting swamped with orders myself.

• 6:33Speaker 04

  So I'm not trying to make anybody lose their job. Like, does either of you, any of you guys have any advice on what to do about this situation? Thanks. Love you, girls. Have a great day. Bye.

• 6:49Bunnie XO?

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• 7:56Speaker 05

  Attention all new and existing members of the WDNC. I'm Melanie Sanders and this is the We Do Not Care Club Podcast. We got to midlife and realized we just simply do not care much anymore. Now we gotta help each other make sense of hot flashes, dry coochie, chin hair, trifling families, brain fog, and bat wings. We are not alone and we will be heard. So come join the WDNC. Follow and listen to the We Do Not Care Club Podcast with Melanie Sanders, wherever you get your podcasts.

• 8:26Bunnie XO?

  Someone is for sure eating cock meat sandwiches wherever they're working at. For sure.

• 8:36Bunnie XO?

  Keep it together right now. Okay, there's so many things that are wrong with this. I don't like it. It's a food place. I could understand if it was like a library or something, but anywhere, listen, I get it. You know, people rub them out in some weird places and some people have that kink. Cool. If there's food, there should not be cum ever. That's disgusting. He's not washing his hands. That is disgusting. The fucking hairballs. What if he has gonorrhea? Somebody's getting gonorrhea of the throat. Chlamydia of the eye. Okay, so he's watching the bank girls.

• 9:16Bunnie XO?

  And then just going and whacking it on shift?

• 9:21Speaker 06

  Why is it just an eye?

• 9:25Bunnie XO?

  Did he have his leg up on the sink? Like, how was he doing this? Sitting on the toilet?

• 9:30Speaker 06

  Where is he finishing?

• 9:31Bunnie XO?

  Why is the door unlocked? Where is it going?

• 9:34Speaker 07

  Napkin.

• 9:35Speaker 06

  And that's a public, I doubt it.

• 9:37Bunnie XO?

  Hand?

• 9:37Speaker 06

  That's a public bathroom, so it's probably-

• 9:39Bunnie XO?

  So he can go touch the fries, season the fries?

• 9:42Speaker 06

  That's the, that's the special sauce.

• 9:46Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 9:50Bunnie XO?

  I can't. Sick dude. Bunch of fucking sickos. Whack off everywhere but fucking food restaurants, okay? And not anywhere where there's children. Other than that, do what you gotta do, man. I get it. That's some sick shit.

• 10:03Speaker 06

  I'm gonna alley-oop that over to you, Haley. Go ahead.

• 10:07Bunnie XO?

  Alright Haley, we're giving you the layup.

• 10:09Speaker 06

  It's funny, cuz the first start of this says, "Okay, this has nothing to do with food." "But when I used to bartend, my coworker was hooking up with this guy. Um, she wanted to feel fresh down there, but didn't have a douche. So she used a plastic Coke bottle, made a vinegar watered douche in it, used it, but the suction from the bottle made it get stuck in her vagina. Uh, she yells, "It's stuck over and over," and finally I'm like, "What the fuck is going on?" I go in the bathroom. She's laying on the floor, spread eagle, laughing and crying with a Coke bottle sticking straight out of her. So to get it out, I had to use a knife, poke a hole in the bottle- Oh. And then it came out, and she had a great date.

• 10:53Speaker 06

  Oh.

• 10:58Bunnie XO?

  Alright.

• 11:00Bunnie XO?

  Listen.

• 11:03Bunnie XO?

  I have done a lot of weird shit with my cookie, okay? But douching with a fucking Coke bottle? And like, bitch, is your pussy made of Teflon? What is fucking happening? If I did that to myself, I would have a raging Easty Beastie. There is no fucking way in hell. I'm fucking squash squashing straight up vinegar in my vagina out of a Coke bottle, dude.

• 11:29Speaker 06

  Okay.

• 11:30Bunnie XO?

  And then, how did it, it just went up the hole that easy?

• 11:33Speaker 06

  It just-

• 11:34Speaker 07

  Yeah, was it like a, did she say like a two liter or?

• 11:38Bunnie XO?

  Damn. I didn't even think about that.

• 11:45Speaker 07

  That was my first question. I was like.

• 11:47Bunnie XO?

  I didn't even think about that. Damn, yeah. Or was it a 16 ounce? Yeah, the mini coat where we at, guys.

• 11:55Speaker 06

  There's the middle ones now, too.

• 11:56Bunnie XO?

  Ladies, please, please, please do not do this at home, ever. No. If you're listening to this fucking episode, don't do that. That is so rough. Have your friend, go to the frickin' store and get a frickin' douche. Or, people might come for me if I tell you this, but my mom taught me when I was growing up. She's like, you know, sometimes if you don't feel fresh, she's like, you know, the, the, the Betadine that you get at the store? You put like two drops of that in really hot water? Two drops, girls, nothing fucking major. You shake it up and then you, you can douche with that. Your vagina smells amazing. Like it, it like, so I, I told a lady a long time ago that I had used something like that.

• 12:41Bunnie XO?

  And she's like, that's straight up fucking iodine in your hootenanny. But I used it like off and on my whole life. If I ever had like an infection or anything like that, and it fucking works, dude. Aren't you not supposed to put anything up there because it offs your pH? No, my pH is perfect. You want to take a sniff? I've been there. I know, yeah. We're close. Yeah. We're close, okay. Go ahead, Mimi, tell them why you've been in my hootenanny. Oh, yeah. Remember that one time I waxed it? But we only got one strip in and then I only got one yank and she said, no. And then I had to fucking get wax off my pussy hairs because I, I like, listen, Mimi and I had this great idea. We were like, let's wax my pussy.

• 13:24Bunnie XO?

  But wait, she got the wax from Sally's. Sally's wax is great. The hard wax, are you kidding? I will wax the fuck out of my eyebrows. I'm going home to wax my eyebrows now just because. It's the best fucking wax ever. Anyways, I grew my pussy hair out, okay? Thinking that we were gonna be able to do this and we thought filming it would be a great thing. We actually have this on film.

• 13:45Speaker 03

  Do you still have this?

• 13:46Bunnie XO?

  Yes. Yeah, I'll have to dig for it, but this is back in the day when I was trying to use filters too. So I'm trying to keep this filter on me while I'm in pain. Mimi gets down there, I'm holding my lips to the side a little bit and then she-

• 14:00Speaker 03

  We're doing this on the ground of her bathroom?

• 14:02Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, Chachi's fucking licking me like it's just crazy. So I got Chachi at my head. Mimi's at my-

• 14:08Speaker 03

  Chachi was there for this?

• 14:08Bunnie XO?

  Mimi's at my crotch. I'm like, I'm cupping my vagina, trying to get my lips away from the outer lip, you know? And I'm moving it over. I'm like, okay, get it on there. She gets it on there, slathers it up and goes to pull it. When she pulls it, it doesn't all come off. It goes like yank halfway.

• 14:26Speaker 03

  And it snaps.

• 14:28Bunnie XO?

  In half. So we have to peel the rest of it off and we're trying to fucking get this shit off dude. And it was, it was the most painful thing in the world.

• 14:36Speaker 03

  So I, my specialty in cosmetology school was Brazilians. That was like, they would, oh yeah, no, I love doing Brazilians. Men and women.

• 14:45Bunnie XO?

  The little butthole bandit.

• 14:46Speaker 03

  Right.

• 14:47Bunnie XO?

  I knew, I knew you had a little butthole bandit in you dude.

• 14:51Speaker 03

  Like I bought a whole wax kit at home and everything because I was really good at it. I was really good at it, guys.

• 14:57Bunnie XO?

  Butthole bandit.

• 14:58Speaker 03

  So my-

• 14:59Bunnie XO?

  Dude, I saw a toilet, listen, I did a fucking Brazilian in beauty school and that girl came in with straight up chunks-

• 15:07Speaker 03

  Yep.

• 15:07Bunnie XO?

  In her butt hairs.

• 15:08Speaker 03

  Yep. They are disgusting sometimes if they don't pre-clean. It's bad, guys.

• 15:13Bunnie XO?

  No, they, she came in with balls of toilet paper in her fucking, Diggleberry toilet paper hair. It's exactly what it was.

• 15:20Speaker 03

  Oh, and-

• 15:21Bunnie XO?

  Brown.

• 15:22Speaker 03

  Not to be any type of way, someone's like-

• 15:26Speaker 03

  The worst parts are not washed when they come armpits. Some people used to come in for armpit waxes and probably had never worn deodorant.

• 15:34Bunnie XO?

  I lifted a lady's toenail up one time. There's a lot going on in this episode.

• 15:38Speaker 03

  What the hell?

• 15:41Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, so this lady used to come in to get pedicures and she was about 500 pounds and she would wear mumus with no panties and it was my turn to get her.

• 15:54Speaker 03

  Wait, did you have like a cult of girls who would be like, they'd hide so that they didn't have to do certain customers?

• 15:59Bunnie XO?

  Yes, but we would also rotate this one and it just happened to be my day, right? And I was just trying to get out of it, couldn't get out of it. So I finally get there and I sit down and I'm not looking up because she liked to, you know, spread, although she would spread her legs and let the fucking hootenanny hang out. And it was her thing. It was like, just like, you know, guys would come and whack off while they're getting their head shampooed.

• 16:20Speaker 03

  What?

• 16:20Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah. And beauty schools, they will come get their, their hair washed just so they can jack off under the cape. Yeah. No, it's fucked up. So anyways, I take her foot and she fucking had the dirtiest toenails and they were so long, I remember, I'll never forget. And I had my little fucking orange wood stick and I put my little cotton underneath it. Got, I went to go underneath her toenail and the whole fucking toenail bed just lifted. I dropped her foot and ran. I dropped her foot and ran. Yeah, I think a fly came out. Yeah, it was bad. It was bad.

• 17:02Speaker 03

  I'm crying.

• 17:03Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 17:03Speaker 03

  No.

• 17:04Bunnie XO?

  It was green underneath. It was sick. It was like, it almost looked like, it almost looked like green cottage cheese.

• 17:12Speaker 07

  Was there a smell? I hate to ask, but was there a smell?

• 17:15Bunnie XO?

  But I didn't, but I did.

• 17:18Bunnie XO?

  But I didn't know if it was her hoot nanny or if it was her toe.

• 17:22Speaker 03

  I'm crying. I'm literally crying right now. There's tears coming out of my eyes.

• 17:27Bunnie XO?

  That was the last pedicure I ever did, though. I told everybody, I was like, you motherfuckers, I'm never doing another pedicure again.

• 17:32Speaker 03

  So we had a similar situation in cosmetology school where it was like a rotation and this one person had like the gnarliest toenails, gnarliest toenails. And so they'd get really overgrown. So the maintenance was done at the school and my friend had just put on like red lipstick and like big like juicy lip gloss and she clipped that toenail and it flung up and it went and stuck to her lip gloss.

• 18:03Bunnie XO?

  I quit.

• 18:04Speaker 03

  She ran.

• 18:05Bunnie XO?

  I quit. I'm quitting. I have quit.

• 18:10Speaker 03

  I hope someone else from my cosmetology school remembers that and watches this.

• 18:13Speaker 06

  I'm crying. I hate this episode.

• 18:19Speaker 06

  That's the worst one.

• 18:21Bunnie XO?

  All right. Well, moving on. Sorry we went on to that tangent, but yeah, tell that dude to stop. And listen, what you should do, lady, is report that shit to the fucking health department.

• 18:31Speaker 06

  Hang on. How did we get on toenails?

• 18:33Bunnie XO?

  I don't know. I don't know. We literally, we ran with it when we found out the dude was jacking off in fucking whatever fast food restaurant that was. All right. This question is for Mimi and Haley. How do you girls build up your self-confidence you have? If all of your paths wouldn't have crossed, would you still be so confident? I put on a good front. Since my boyfriend passed, I just feel frumpy all the time. Any pointers on where to start would be greatly appreciated.

• 19:00Speaker 03

  Hmm. That's a great question.

• 19:02Bunnie XO?

  That's a really good question.

• 19:03Speaker 03

  And I have a really good answer for it. I don't know if you're prepared for this. So actually. When I started working with you, I had like the lowest self-confidence ever. Like, I hated myself, right? And I got to know you and Viking Barbie, which to me, you guys are like the most stereotypical, like, beauty, beautiful, perfect people, right? And when I learned that you both still struggled mentally, like, you had anxiety. Viking Barbie talks open about her mental health also, and I was like, oh, fuck, you can literally look perfect and still either hate a photo of yourself or have anxiety or like, it doesn't fix you to be perfect looking, you know?

• 19:47Speaker 03

  So if I was able just to accept myself as the way I what?

• 19:50Bunnie XO?

  Oh, God.

• 19:51Speaker 03

  Oh, God.

• 19:53Bunnie XO?

  Here we go.

• 19:57Speaker 06

  That was sweet memes. That was really sweet.

• 20:03Bunnie XO?

  What the hell is this episode?

• 20:05Speaker 07

  I think this is the first time.

• 20:06Bunnie XO?

  Oh, Josh is coming too. Okay. Come on. Come on.

• 20:11Speaker 07

  Wow.

• 20:12Bunnie XO?

  Come on, okay. Oh.

• 20:18Speaker 06

  I love it.

• 20:21Speaker 07

  Oh, my God.

• 20:22Bunnie XO?

  Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday to you. Okay, our, okay. Happy birthday, dear Tati. Happy birthday. To you.

• 20:48Bunnie XO?

  Sorry, I got.

• 20:51Bunnie XO?

  I got really into it. Um, that was, first of all.

• 20:56Bunnie XO?

  Are we good? I don't. So first of all, that was really sweet because I don't think I'm perfect. Barb's, now Barb's, on the other hand, I think is fucking just gorgeous and just everything that anybody could aspire to be. Um, but I love that, that was what you took from that.

• 21:14Speaker 03

  Absolutely. No, that's really cool. It was like such a crazy moment for me. And I, like, I don't know, I, after that, I was like, man, I really gotta learn to love myself because that's not gonna.

• 21:23Bunnie XO?

  Cause these fucking hoes don't.

• 21:25Speaker 03

  But then like you realize, you realize like that's a thing like the more beautiful you are, I feel like you feel like you need to hold this like standard of like, you know, it's like, I can't let this like bad photo of myself get on the internet or like those kind of things. Like Barbie said something one time, she said, if I let a bad photo of myself get out there, that's the only way anyone will ever see me as ever again. And I was just like, no, like that's not the case. Like you're, it doesn't matter at all. Like you are so, you guys are so pretty. Okay, don't do that.

• 21:58Bunnie XO?

  So are you guys though. But here's the thing. What is beautiful? What is beauty? And that's what you need to ask yourself because beauty is one, only in the eye of the beholder. There are people who are not stereotypical beautiful, but when you listen to them or talk to them, they become the most beautiful creatures that you've ever met because outward appearance means nothing. The shit fades away, man.

• 22:22Speaker 03

  And it can change.

• 22:23Bunnie XO?

  It can change so fast.

• 22:25Speaker 03

  It can change so fast.

• 22:26Bunnie XO?

  So fast.

• 22:27Speaker 03

  And it's only surface level.

• 22:28Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:29Speaker 03

  I've met some really beautiful people who are very ugly humans.

• 22:32Bunnie XO?

  Literally.

• 22:33Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 22:34Bunnie XO?

  I think the best thing you could do with that is like, and Haley, how do you feel about that question? Let's ask you.

• 22:39Speaker 06

  See, mine is more, uh, the people you surround yourself with.

• 22:45Bunnie XO?

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• 23:25Bunnie XO?

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• 23:47Speaker 09

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• 24:17Speaker 06

  So I feel like when I first was with you guys, I wasn't hanging around like the best people that would help me find my confidence. You know, like I'm the type that I need someone else to help me. And once I cut those people off and we were together more, like I feel like you guys brought out my confidence.

• 24:34Bunnie XO?

  Remember when Haley first came around, she would not even let us video her.

• 24:37Speaker 03

  It had to be her hand, and if it was her hand, it had to be at a good angle to make her hand look skinny.

• 24:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 24:43Speaker 03

  And she was like, no, no, no, hold on, let me hold the brush like this.

• 24:46Speaker 06

  Now here I am talking about shit.

• 24:50Speaker 03

  She never posted herself on social media.

• 24:52Speaker 06

  That was all you guys. I kept my business. Like people knew me for my work back then. People know me for me now, and I literally credit that to both of you guys.

• 25:02Bunnie XO?

  No, for sure. That was the big thing, and I've preached about this on the podcast before is like, like, yes, I'm the face of the Bunny XO brand. And I even told this to, I think it was my tattoo artist the other day. I was like, I'm the face of the brand. I said, but I wouldn't be here if it wasn't without those girls. Like, literally, like.

• 25:21Speaker 06

  Do we hug again?

• 25:24Bunnie XO?

  Everybody at home is like, no, don't do it. But no, like, seriously, like, I, I would not be where I'm at if I didn't have this core group of women that I love and that I, you know, all boats float. Mimi has her own thing going on. Her and Jason have their own family. They are who they are online. You are who you are online. Jaime is starting to get accepted into the crew.

• 25:47Speaker 06

  Love your name.

• 25:48Bunnie XO?

  Everybody's loving.

• 25:49Speaker 06

  Jaime's so fucking funny, too.

• 25:51Bunnie XO?

  Everybody's loving Jaime, you know, and it's like, I feel like if it was just me, it would be boring. And I don't know, I really took a page from Adam Sandler, and I loved, loved, loved how Adam Sandler always has his friends in every fucking movie.

• 26:07Speaker 06

  Yes, we're like grownups.

• 26:09Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, literally, literally.

• 26:12Bunnie XO?

  He literally has all of his friends in every fucking movie. I was just like, you know what? If I ever make it big one day, I want to always just have my friends with me. Because I feel like you guys contribute so much to the lore and to the story. So yeah, so I guess to answer your question, keep the people around you that make you feel good.

• 26:35Speaker 03

  Yeah, make you feel good.

• 26:36Bunnie XO?

  Stop trying to be beautiful on the outside. Be beautiful on the inside because outside doesn't fucking matter.

• 26:42Speaker 03

  And you know what's even crazier? That point of being beautiful on the inside, it radiates outwards.

• 26:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 26:49Speaker 03

  Like it truly makes you feel more confident and confident is way more beautiful than anything, any hairstyle, weight, height, anything. Confidence is the beauty in it because there's like people, another point to that was, when I learned that, like you guys struggled with mental health and stuff, I started like looking at things that I hated about myself and finding it in other famous people. So like if, you know, I'm not a fan of my teeth, but then I like saw actors who had similar teeth to mine or like my size. And I was like, wait, other people are big and people love them. So like.

• 27:22Bunnie XO?

  I love real teeth.

• 27:25Speaker 06

  It's also like, your teeth are fine. And there's something, it's because you see it every day. People like us, it's just like, oh, I didn't even notice. So it's like, it's all in your head.

• 27:35Bunnie XO?

  I love real teeth. I wish I would have never gotten veneers on my top teeth. I have veneers on my top teeth and not on my bottom teeth, and I don't think I will ever get veneers on my bottom teeth. Yes, they look pretty. They look like everybody else's, but at the same time, I miss the characteristics that real teeth gave me. I used to have a little pushback tooth, you know, like I just, everything doesn't have to be so fucking perfect.

• 28:03Speaker 03

  Perfect, yeah.

• 28:04Bunnie XO?

  We don't have to be perfect. We were not put on this earth to be perfect. That's why we are all born sinners.

• 28:10Speaker 03

  Yep.

• 28:10Bunnie XO?

  You know, like, let's stop reaching for unattainable beauty goals and let's start loving like the real shit about ourselves.

• 28:18Speaker 03

  A hundred percent because you, once you went natural. Favorite version of you like cuz when we met you weren't you you saw it stuff in your face you had huge boobs like all of those kinds of things and like once the boobs got taken out and then you started like wearing more natural makeup all those things

• 28:33Bunnie XO?

  Look like younger

• 28:34Speaker 03

  Yeah, we say that we're like you aged backward

• 28:37Bunnie XO?

  Fresh crisp no I appreciate that and I still haven't put fake nails on these are my real fucking nails dude

• 28:43Speaker 03

  These are my real nails

• 28:44Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I'm not ever gonna do that but you got it I love it like I just feel like I preach it all the time you know what you want when you're younger is not gonna be what you want when you're older and to be beautiful doesn't mean it needs to be unattainable everybody is beautiful in their own way and just learn to love yourself if you're feeling frumpy do something about it

• 29:07Speaker 03

  Exactly

• 29:08Bunnie XO?

  Stop drinking soda stop start drinking if you're gonna drink soda have one soda a day then from there go to one soda a week then from there go to one soda every two weeks even little changes like that will make huge differences in how you feel

• 29:23Speaker 03

  Absolutely I couldn't agree more

• 29:25Bunnie XO?

  So saying that much I gotta go and get another tattoo on my hands I've been getting tattooed all freaking week

• 29:31Speaker 03

  Oh you're a beast

• 29:33Bunnie XO?

  Yeah I don't know how you're

• 29:34Speaker 03

  You're a beast

• 29:35Bunnie XO?

  I it started with getting so ladies and gentlemen I'm just gonna say one thing if you get a tattoo please make sure that it is something that you want on your body for the rest of your life because if it's not and you're like me and you got a bunch of shitty tattoos when you were younger because you just wanted to rebel and it was the cool thing to do I am now in my 40s having to get full sleeves redone and when I tell you tattoo pain in your 20s and tattoo pain in your 40s are two different fucking beasts

• 30:08Speaker 03

  It hurts so much more as you get older

• 30:10Bunnie XO?

  It hurts so bad and I'm still not done I've literally finished from here to here and I still have to do under here and the top of my shoulder and then tonight I'm tattooing this hand So.

• 30:22Speaker 03

  I, I feel for you when you go to do that shoulder because you already tattooed the shoulder and you are tattooing over that. I didn't even like getting my shoulder done once.

• 30:31Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I had to do this three times. So I did this, this swelled up so bad. I had to wait 24 to 48 hours. Once this went down, I did this to here, this swelled up, had to wait 24 hours, then had to go from here to here to fill in that. Like it's been a thing. Shout out Tim, Tim Rogers.

• 30:50Speaker 03

  He has great, your arm is so good.

• 30:53Bunnie XO?

  Tik Tok. He's amazing. I would have never been able to get these tattoos covered up had this man not been as talented as he is. So hopefully I get to reveal them to you. But anyways, that was a long winded. I'll see you when I see you. Gotta go. Bye. Toodle-oo.

• 31:10Bunnie XO?

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• 31:56Bunnie XO?

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