Ask, Tell, Confess: Social Media Is Ruining Everything

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the girls are back with wild stories, real talk, and zero filter. From a chaotic motocross trip to the culture differences between Nashville and the West Coast, they break down the rise of the “bro ho” and everything that comes with it. Things get hilarious fast—makeup wipes mistaken for baby wipes, a ping pong ball incident you won’t believe, and plenty of moments that have everyone crying laughing. But in true ATC fashion, they also get into the deeper stuff—girl code, social media drama, and the struggle of staying authentic online. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Dumbblondepod

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:01Bunnie XO?

  Ask, Tell, Confess.

• 0:16Bunnie XO?

  Hello friends, welcome to another Ask, Tell, Confess.

• 0:30Bunnie XO?

  You need a top hat with that one.

• 0:33Bunnie XO?

  The little.

• 0:34Speaker 01

  I like it.

• 0:35Bunnie XO?

  Or Ted. We are back baby, better than ever. We are, I'm excited because you know Instagram has been delivering.

• 0:45Speaker 01

  This is my new favorite platform to ask for these because they get wild.

• 0:49Bunnie XO?

  They get wild. So every Sunday, we all three post in our stories for Ask, Tell, Confess Now. You guys have been going fucking balls to the wall. It's been really insane, but tell me about you guys this weekend. You guys went to motocross.

• 1:02Speaker 01

  Oh yeah, we went to motocross. It was really exciting, but when I tell you what a difference between Nashville and being on like

• 1:10Bunnie XO?

  The west coast.

• 1:11Speaker 01

  Yeah. Jason literally was like, I feel bamboozled. I didn't see a single bro hoe.

• 1:16Bunnie XO?

  If I would have been there, if I would have been there, there would have been one.

• 1:21Speaker 01

  Okay. So like it.

• 1:23Bunnie XO?

  Let's ask Sunny.

• 1:24Speaker 01

  Oh my God, please.

• 1:25Bunnie XO?

  Let's see what Sunny's definition of a bro hoe is. Sorry. I didn't mean to cut you off.

• 1:28Speaker 01

  Insert pictures of me and Bunny circa, let's say 2008.

• 1:34Bunnie XO?

  Y2K era.

• 1:35Speaker 01

  Yeah. And you had a very certain look to you.

• 1:40Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Sunny, hello Sunny.

• 1:45Speaker 02

  Hey there. What's up? I'm all is well metaphorical ones. Tell me what's on your mind.

• 1:50Bunnie XO?

  What exactly is a bro hoe?

• 1:53Speaker 02

  Ah, the bro hoe phenomenon. It's basically a playful slang mashup of bro and boho, as in bohemian. Picture a guy who's all about the chill, laid back, free spirited vibe, like he's wearing a bat tee. Maybe he's into yoga festivals.

• 2:07Bunnie XO?

  Sunny, shut up.

• 2:09Speaker 02

  Oh, got it. No worries. I'll zip it whenever you're ready.

• 2:13Bunnie XO?

  Okay, bro hoe in the motocross sport. What is the bro hoe slang? What does that mean?

• 2:20Speaker 02

  In motocross, when folks throw around bro hoe, they're usually talking about the girls who hang around the scene, often fashionably into the motocross lifestyle, maybe dating riders or just vibing with the adrenaline culture. It's a cheeky term, not always super flattering, but it's basically about those who embrace the whole MX aesthetic without necessarily shredding the track themselves.

• 2:42Speaker 03

  So like when I wore etnies and didn't get on one skateboard?

• 2:45Bunnie XO?

  Right. Or you wear a west coast chopper and don't ride. You know, like that's how it is. So I always had the black in my hair. That's bro hoe.

• 2:53Speaker 01

  Like the blonde, the black, or sometimes you added like pink or red.

• 2:57Bunnie XO?

  Backwards hats.

• 2:58Speaker 01

  Backwards hats.

• 2:59Speaker 03

  Yeah, we didn't have that a lot in the Midwest.

• 3:00Speaker 01

  The nautical star, the

• 3:02Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah.

• 3:03Speaker 01

  Like the North House stars. We literally both have

• 3:05Bunnie XO?

  Stars on our wrists.

• 3:07Speaker 01

  Wrist stars.

• 3:08Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 3:09Speaker 01

  Yeah. And I, these were like probably my second or third tattoo as a kid.

• 3:13Bunnie XO?

  Yep.

• 3:13Speaker 03

  Yeah, no, we didn't have that.

• 3:14Speaker 04

  I'm just not learning that, what that is too.

• 3:16Speaker 03

  I had Tallinnites and Mountain Dudes.

• 3:18Speaker 04

  No, now, I mean, I know what it, I don't know what it was called, but now I know what it is.

• 3:21Speaker 01

  You know the exact girl we're talking about?

• 3:23Speaker 04

  Oh, yeah. That reminds me of Brandy, the girl who cut my hair at Supercuts when I was a kid. I was in love with her. I think that's what that was.

• 3:29Bunnie XO?

  She was a bro hoe.

• 3:30Speaker 01

  I bet.

• 3:30Bunnie XO?

  That's, that's, that sounds like a bro hoe occupation.

• 3:33Speaker 01

  They all went to cosmetology school.

• 3:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Yeah.

• 3:36Speaker 03

  That's funny.

• 3:39Bunnie XO?

  But it's like every sport. So like, uh, baseball has them. I don't know what baseball calls them. And then there's like wags, wives, uh, what is it?

• 3:48Speaker 03

  Wives and girlfriends are professional athletes.

• 3:50Bunnie XO?

  It's like that. Then there's like, it's all, so like it's

• 3:53Speaker 01

  A buckle bunny would be it.

• 3:54Bunnie XO?

  A buckle bunny.

• 3:55Speaker 01

  When you think of a buckle bunny, you can envision exactly what one of those girls look like.

• 3:59Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 4:00Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 4:01Bunnie XO?

  Yep. It's actually, it was a whole, uh, generation.

• 4:04Speaker 01

  It was.

• 4:05Bunnie XO?

  It was, especially if you grew up on the west coast.

• 4:07Speaker 01

  Miss it.

• 4:08Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, me too.

• 4:08Speaker 01

  A lot of zebra.

• 4:09Bunnie XO?

  The studded belts.

• 4:09Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 4:10Speaker 03

  I miss all that. I had a Hot Topic.

• 4:12Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 4:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 4:13Speaker 03

  Is that, is that

• 4:14Bunnie XO?

  Literally Hot Topic was bro hoe central.

• 4:17Speaker 01

  Mine was No Fear. We had like a store called No Fear, not just like the brand. And they carried metal militia.

• 4:22Bunnie XO?

  Yes.

• 4:23Speaker 01

  They carried like all of that kind of stuff. And then Jason would be considered a bro. So it was like

• 4:28Speaker 03

  Okay. So I was thinking it was the guys.

• 4:30Speaker 01

  The guys, no, the guys wore like

• 4:31Speaker 03

  Girls are bro hoes.

• 4:32Speaker 01

  Flat room hats. And then they would literally like tuck it up.

• 4:35Bunnie XO?

  Oh, so hot. I still love that look.

• 4:37Speaker 01

  Yep. And it literally is like a scoop.

• 4:40Bunnie XO?

  The hell. That's totally my type and I married a fucking, a fucking Nashville boy. Like what the hell? I've tried to turn him into a bro all the time and he's like, no bitch. He's like, I am not west coast. I am Antioch, Tennessee. Take it or leave it.

• 4:56Speaker 01

  Did we see that Britney Spears is in rehab?

• 4:58Bunnie XO?

  I know.

• 4:59Speaker 01

  Yeah, Britney Spears is in rehab.

• 5:01Bunnie XO?

  They said it was her choice. So if it was her choice, I am so proud of her for acknowledging that she needs help, obviously. But Britney Spears is the type of person who is the perfect example of someone whose spirit was broken and lost their hope.

• 5:18Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 5:19Bunnie XO?

  She's, she was so full of life as a child and like as she was growing up, even when she was dating Justin Timberlake. And then it was like after Justin Timberlake, she completely went downhill and I think it was just her family. And I honestly think she was heartbroken over Justin, even though they had their like back and forth. Um, but I just feel like her spirit was broke somewhere along the way and she lost all hope and kind of gave up.

• 5:45Speaker 01

  Yeah, no, I get it. Like you see that so often with child stars.

• 5:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. She's one of the most iconic figures, pop stars of our generation. She was like, she was like fricking Michael Jackson for girls.

• 5:59Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 6:00Bunnie XO?

  Like, and I get it. Like Christina Aguilera is big too, but she's a different like, like thing.

• 6:05Speaker 01

  She was very niche.

• 6:06Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 6:06Speaker 01

  Versus Brittany was so across the board. Even if you didn't listen to her, you knew who she was.

• 6:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. And she was just super sweet and just super, uh, like you could tell that she just had like a very, um, warmness about her. And her spirit's just broke. So I hope Brittany, that you can find your spirit again and come back to us because we love you and everybody supports you.

• 6:28Speaker 01

  I agree. I think I, I do hope this was her choice and I hope this is a turning point for her for sure.

• 6:33Bunnie XO?

  Same.

• 6:35Bunnie XO?

  Well, moving on, let's move on to some of these questions and stories. Who wants to kick this off? Because Instagram is fucking crazy.

• 6:44Speaker 03

  I finally, I finally have people. I think people heard me on the last episode and we're like, all right, we'll go to Haley.

• 6:50Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 6:52Speaker 03

  Okay, I'll start.

• 6:52Bunnie XO?

  Okay, go.

• 6:54Speaker 03

  All right. Someone said, I kept running out of my Aveeno makeup remover wipes and I couldn't figure out what the fuck was happening. Finally, in conversation with my husband about the grocery list, we figured out that he thought they were baby wipes and was using them on his ass. It was funny, but also disturbing.

• 7:15Bunnie XO?

  I didn't get that.

• 7:16Speaker 03

  He was using Aveeno makeup remover wipes on his ass.

• 7:20Bunnie XO?

  On his ass. Okay, gotcha. I didn't hear, I didn't hear the Aveeno part first. But would that make your butthole hurt? I would assume it would sting.

• 7:28Speaker 03

  A makeup remover, yeah.

• 7:29Bunnie XO?

  Oh, but I mean, you can use it on your face. Why would it hurt your butthole? If it's fucking hurting your butthole, don't use it on your face.

• 7:39Speaker 04

  Well, it's good you're putting it on a hole. It kind of like irritates it, I think.

• 7:43Bunnie XO?

  But here's the thing. I don't like, I already don't like fucking makeup wipes. I think they're gross. I think if you use makeup wipes over washing your face, you are dirtball. Like soap, and I'm calling you out, baby. I'm calling you out. It's dude, soap and water, bitch. Soap and water, okay?

• 8:03Speaker 03

  You can use a makeup wipe first, but then wash after.

• 8:07Bunnie XO?

  I use a balm now.

• 8:09Speaker 03

  I got her into a whole skincare routine.

• 8:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. I'm proud of you, but you, that's dear Tay, okay? If you're not using a fucking soap and water, that'd be like washing your vagina with just a baby wipe.

• 8:21Speaker 01

  That's disgusting.

• 8:22Bunnie XO?

  It's gross. You would walk around smelling like fucking hootenanny juice all day long. There's no way.

• 8:27Speaker 01

  But I wash my face like in the shower with like, therapy.

• 8:31Bunnie XO?

  Yes, but if you go home and you just like if you go home from having a night out and you only fucking makeup wipe your face and then get into bed.

• 8:40Speaker 01

  That's me.

• 8:40Bunnie XO?

  Dirtball.

• 8:41Speaker 03

  Okay, well, I've done that some nights out if I didn't feel like.

• 8:44Bunnie XO?

  I get it every now and then being drunk and like going home like, but if that's like your regular routine.

• 8:50Speaker 03

  Me. I also don't wear makeup every single day.

• 8:52Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 8:53Speaker 01

  Yeah, I I wear makeup very rarely, so.

• 8:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I hate, I fucking.

• 8:57Speaker 03

  I hate wearing makeup.

• 8:58Bunnie XO?

  So do I. The older I get, I don't want it on me.

• 9:00Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 9:01Bunnie XO?

  But.

• 9:01Speaker 03

  I like when it's on me, but I don't like putting it on.

• 9:04Speaker 01

  Makeup irritates you, though. You get like such a runny nose. Like, I kind of feel like you're allergic to makeup a little bit.

• 9:10Bunnie XO?

  I am.

• 9:10Speaker 01

  Yeah, and your eyes start to burn and they get blurry.

• 9:13Bunnie XO?

  I was just telling Lisa, my trainer, because we were talking about.

• 9:17Speaker 03

  Your eyes burn? I didn't know this.

• 9:19Bunnie XO?

  I went to go get my lashes done. Did I tell you guys about this whole experience that I had?

• 9:24Speaker 01

  I, okay.

• 9:26Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I'm trying to embrace the natural look and I just don't think the natural look wants to embrace me.

• 9:32Speaker 03

  I get it. Me taking off my eyelashes. Absolutely not.

• 9:35Bunnie XO?

  I've only had my lashes done twice in my entire life. The first time the girl put them on, I looked like I had eyebrows on my eyelashes. Like, it was, I looked like Bert and Ernie. Like, it was.

• 9:45Speaker 01

  She went into the kitchen and got kitchen scissors and was holding her lashes out and cutting them. I walked in on you doing that. That was the most barbaric thing I've seen you do.

• 9:54Bunnie XO?

  No, I shaved my own pussy.

• 9:57Speaker 01

  Do some other things, but still, just straight.

• 10:00Bunnie XO?

  But then I go to get my eyelashes done this time and the lady fought me on what I wanted. And finally, I didn't fight with her anymore. I was like, you know what? The sky is fucking green. Whatever you say. So I let her put the lashes on that she wanted to put on me. I FaceTimed Haley when I was walking out. Go ahead, Haley, tell them what you saw.

• 10:19Speaker 03

  Nothing.

• 10:22Bunnie XO?

  And they're already all off. They're already all off. I literally think I have like one or two.

• 10:27Speaker 01

  It took me going like this.

• 10:29Speaker 03

  I couldn't see them.

• 10:30Speaker 01

  When you walked in that day.

• 10:31Speaker 03

  It's like you put mascara on the outer corners of your lashes.

• 10:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it was the most horrific thing. So I just don't think, I think I'm just destined to always have to wear fucking makeup and like, you know. But I am gonna get another fat transfer in my, underneath my eyes and maybe once I do that, then I can just go bare buck naked.

• 10:47Speaker 03

  You're not going to.

• 10:48Bunnie XO?

  We'll see. No, I won't. Probably not. I like to pretend.

• 10:51Speaker 01

  It's okay.

• 10:52Bunnie XO?

  A girl can dream.

• 10:53Speaker 03

  Same. Well, I got a tint and a perm for my lashes because I was like, okay.

• 10:57Bunnie XO?

  Oh, that's what I want to do.

• 11:00Speaker 03

  But you have lashes. I don't to begin with. If my lashes were like your length, then I would rock no lashes. But because I have nothing, I look like my dad in a wig. And I, sorry, sorry dad.

• 11:12Speaker 01

  She sent a picture and I said, did we get it yet?

• 11:15Speaker 03

  I said, yeah. It's funny because Nikki, my best friend, the one that did it, she was like, I think you're gonna like it even more now. And I look in the mirror and I just start busting up laughing because I was like, did you do it? Because I literally had nothing.

• 11:28Bunnie XO?

  She had like two sprinkles of lashes.

• 11:30Speaker 03

  I was like, it looks like the TikTok sounds like, hope you're hungry for nothing.

• 11:35Bunnie XO?

  No, yeah, I'm over it. So I'm just never gonna ever have lashes. Okay.

• 11:39Speaker 01

  I do love when my lashes are permed and I think Bunny would like hers if they were permed and tinted.

• 11:44Speaker 03

  I just feel more like pretty and feminine with lashes.

• 11:46Speaker 01

  A permanent tint would look beautiful on your lashes.

• 11:48Bunnie XO?

  I've tried everything. It doesn't work for me.

• 11:52Speaker 01

  She's like, I don't want natural lips. I don't want natural lashes.

• 11:55Bunnie XO?

  I decided to let my close friend have a threesome with me and my boyfriend. We completely got shitfaced and it went down. She left the next morning and we went about our business. A few days later, she came over and was like, girl, I took a plan B just to be safe. I looked her dead in her face and said, girl, he fucked you in the ass.

• 12:19Bunnie XO?

  Her jaw dropped to the floor like, what? She didn't believe it, so I called my boyfriend and had him confirm it too. She was just shocked, like, wow, my asshole didn't hurt the next day.

• 12:32Speaker 03

  So he had a small penis?

• 12:33Bunnie XO?

  I don't know, or she just took it like a damn champ.

• 12:36Speaker 03

  How do you not know the difference between your asshole and your vagina?

• 12:41Bunnie XO?

  They must have been really fucked up. I don't know.

• 12:43Speaker 03

  Fucked up or it's.

• 12:44Speaker 01

  Had to have been.

• 12:45Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, little.

• 12:46Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 12:48Bunnie XO?

  I thought it was fucking hilarious though.

• 12:49Speaker 03

  Because I know the moment.

• 12:51Bunnie XO?

  Can you imagine taking a plan B when you don't have to though? And then fucking.

• 12:55Speaker 03

  Fucked your body after.

• 12:56Speaker 01

  You just caused chaos to your hormones for no reason.

• 13:02Speaker 01

  In the butt. All right. I got a butt one too.

• 13:06Speaker 03

  Well, you're definitely not pregnant.

• 13:08Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 13:08Speaker 01

  All right. This one says.

• 13:14Speaker 01

  When I was 18 years old, I had my first serious boyfriend. I'm pretty much one of those people that's down to explore anything at the time. Well, I decided to let him insert ping pong balls into my butt.

• 13:28Speaker 01

  Why? I don't know, but here we are. Beer pong the night before. Yes, we watched them washed them you weirdos clearly.

• 13:39Speaker 01

  Anywho, they're in there, three of them. In fact, all was fun and games. And then it came time to take them out. Yep, here comes one, here comes two, but however, three would not come out. It was fully stuck and I immediately started to panic as one does. We start to try to lube me up and insert fingers squatting as low as I could possibly go. And it would not come out and I don't know what happened next. The next few minutes sheer panic. And the the sheer will of hearing wild ER stories. I was not about to be one of those. The ball finally came out and to this day, do not insert any foreign objects near my ass ever.

• 14:26Speaker 04

  Like a human gumball machine.

• 14:31Bunnie XO?

  Um, I have had the uh, privilege of watching ping pong balls get shot out of a vagina.

• 14:39Speaker 01

  Lucky.

• 14:40Bunnie XO?

  But never an asshole.

• 14:42Speaker 04

  How far do they go?

• 14:44Bunnie XO?

  They paint, they come out. Oh.

• 14:45Speaker 01

  Do they make a sound?

• 14:46Bunnie XO?

  A ping pong ball in a vagina? Like I'm talking like.

• 14:51Speaker 01

  You remember those toys as a kid, you'd stick them in a ball and then squeeze them?

• 14:53Bunnie XO?

  They come out full force. Like I'm telling you, these girls would shoot them out of their vagina on stage.

• 14:58Speaker 01

  Google that later. I would like to see.

• 14:59Bunnie XO?

  Palomino Club, shout out to Palomino Club in Las Vegas. They get crazy. That's where the same place I saw the dude fuck the watermelon.

• 15:06Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 15:07Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, shit gets crazy upstairs and downstairs.

• 15:10Speaker 01

  Why have we never gone there?

• 15:12Bunnie XO?

  I told you guys about the dude humping the watermelon.

• 15:14Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 15:15Bunnie XO?

  I've told this story before on the podcast.

• 15:17Speaker 01

  You don't remember the watermelon?

• 15:18Bunnie XO?

  Was I dissociating? I don't know, maybe, but we went to go see male dancers one night, me and Tosh, and we went downstairs, upstairs, they were shooting ping pong balls out of their vaginas. And then downstairs, this guy is doing this dance, he comes out, he's hot, getting it going. Literally goes down to like dive on the stage and do that thing that like strippers do. Yeah. Sticks his weener in a frickin watermelon and just starts going to town on the watermelon onstage. Did he finish? I don't know.

• 15:49Speaker 04

  Was it watermelon season?

• 15:52Bunnie XO?

  I'm sure. I wonder if it was seedless or not, because what if you got a seed stuck in the... Okay, but how do you even think of like, I'm, you know what, I think, do you ever look at things that are not vaginas and think, I could stick my dick in that?

• 16:05Speaker 04

  I've definitely a passing thought, but I don't, I don't dwell on it.

• 16:09Bunnie XO?

  I do.

• 16:10Speaker 04

  It does pass my...

• 16:11Bunnie XO?

  I feel like most guys do.

• 16:13Speaker 01

  I do and I don't have a penis.

• 16:15Speaker 04

  Mm-hmm.

• 16:15Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 16:16Speaker 04

  You just wonder.

• 16:17Speaker 01

  You ever saw a hole and been like, if I had a dick, I'd stick it in there?

• 16:19Bunnie XO?

  No, it depends on what the hole is. No. I don't look at every hole like that.

• 16:24Speaker 01

  No, not every hole.

• 16:25Bunnie XO?

  You can't be sticking your dick in every hole.

• 16:27Speaker 01

  No.

• 16:27Bunnie XO?

  All right?

• 16:28Speaker 01

  There are some holes, though, that look tempting. One of your exes confessed and he said one time he let you, um, one time you let him put it in your ass and ended up in the ER.

• 16:38Bunnie XO?

  That may or may not be true, I'd have to really hear the story. I think if it's right, I think it's because I was like super constipated, it wasn't because he hurt me. So, if I can remember correctly, I don't know the entire story, I would have to have it, hear him tell the fucking story.

• 16:55Speaker 01

  Yeah, that's all it said.

• 16:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. All right. I think I had to drink like I drink, I'm not, I don't know, I'd have to call him and ask him. Phone a friend. Oh, fuck, he already is having...

• 17:09Speaker 01

  He'll live off of that.

• 17:09Bunnie XO?

  He is having so much fun online right now, like let him have fun.

• 17:13Speaker 01

  He came up on Jason's For You page the other day, he goes, "I'm pretty sure her ex showed up on my For You page. I went down the wormhole, he watched all the videos."

• 17:22Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no, he's, I love it, because he has our back and he's, he's rooting for us. He got upset that I said that he wasn't my biggest fan, even though I was being sarcastic. Um, but I just think it's very sweet that he's always sticking up for us, so.

• 17:35Speaker 01

  Okay, I have a confession.

• 17:37Speaker 03

  Um, my stalker ex-boyfriend would not leave me alone for over a year after we broke up. I blocked him from every social media account and blocked every phone number he tried calling texting me off of. I was also selective of who knew where I moved to because I didn't want him to find out where I lived. When I started dating my current boyfriend, I told him all about my ex and how he just won't leave me alone. My boyfriend said that the next time he tried reaching out, he would take care of it. Sure as shit, my ex tried texting me and I told my boyfriend, my boyfriend found out where he lived, found his real phone number and email address. My boyfriend made my ex an ad on Craigslist to link up with other men, signed him up for Scientology and signed him up to get quotes on car insurance. He doesn't own a car.

• 18:21Speaker 03

  Needless to say, his phone was probably busy that night and I haven't heard from him since and he has moved across the country.

• 18:27Bunnie XO?

  Oh, man. What a great revenge story. Craigslist.

• 18:30Speaker 01

  I loved Craigslist.

• 18:32Bunnie XO?

  I know, I put a couple of people on Craigslist that pissed me off.

• 18:35Speaker 01

  Did you really? Miss connections or just ads?

• 18:38Bunnie XO?

  I can't remember the exact details, they're blurry, but I definitely know I did it for sure. I had it done to me a few times.

• 18:44Speaker 01

  What?

• 18:45Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 18:46Speaker 01

  Wow.

• 18:47Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, that was like the thing to do. We're in the wrong era. Yeah. That was the thing. I'm telling you, man, childhood was, as fucked up as it was, it was great. Like, there's a lot of things I wish that we could bring back. I wish we could get rid of the fucking internet. People are way too fucking, you could say whatever you want, online. No proof. No proof and people just believe it. Mm-hmm. Straight.

• 19:10Speaker 04

  I think you should be able to say it, but you have to have a picture of you, actual you and your real name. You can't just hide.

• 19:16Bunnie XO?

  You can't do it from burner accounts.

• 19:18Speaker 04

  You can't do it from burner, it has to be you, verified you.

• 19:20Bunnie XO?

  Cause it's always a burner account. It's never from anyone personal.

• 19:26Speaker 01

  I don't know, Jeff put his face on there and his house.

• 19:28Speaker 04

  Sure, but like, you will get those, but most of them. It's like, it's almost like that's the cost of saying what you want to say. You have to say it.

• 19:35Speaker 01

  Yeah, I like the, you gotta pay for it. You gotta pay to say.

• 19:37Bunnie XO?

  That's a great idea.

• 19:38Speaker 04

  That's a good one, too.

• 19:39Speaker 01

  Comments, it's like, a lot of people would second guess what they'd be saying.

• 19:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, if you had to, if you got charged every time you left a comment, you would not fucking be a troll or you wouldn't fucking lie on people.

• 19:51Speaker 04

  Who would get the money? The person you're commenting under? Like, of someone?

• 19:54Bunnie XO?

  No, I mean, it's probably like a cable service or something.

• 19:58Speaker 04

  Right.

• 19:58Bunnie XO?

  Wifi service.

• 20:00Speaker 01

  That's crazy.

• 20:01Bunnie XO?

  This is a, this is an ask. Okay, it's a long one. Is it ever okay for a girl in the friend group to date an ex? Another girl dated six plus, six plus months or more? For more context, the guy was a total piece of shit, or does it break girl code? Men will literally fuck anything with a heartbeat. They have no bro code. I say it's not okay. It's disrespectful. Girl code to me equals, means exes are off limits. No zone for us all. What are your thoughts?

• 20:31Speaker 03

  If he's a piece of shit, why are we dating him anyway?

• 20:34Bunnie XO?

  I mean, women love pieces of shit. I know I've had a few.

• 20:38Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 20:38Speaker 01

  I think, I think unless that person was just like, yeah, here you go, probably not.

• 20:46Bunnie XO?

  I don't find any of my friends' exes attractive, because I see what they went through with them. And I'm like, why do I have to go through that? Yeah. But I just don't, I do think it's breaking girl code. And you know, it's crazy because I try to hook my exes up with anybody. My friend Bree just texted me, she ran into one of my exes and I was like, dude, you guys look really cute together. I was like, what? I was like, he needs a good woman.

• 21:14Speaker 03

  Too. Like if someone's not right for me, but like I have a friend that I think they would be together. Like, I feel like it's like a, it's a permission thing.

• 21:23Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. As long as it's a real and you're not setting your friend up for failure. But if like the friend goes behind your back and starts like, you know, messing with the dude, then that's a problem. Yeah, for sure.

• 21:36Speaker 01

  I kinda did that.

• 21:38Bunnie XO?

  Huh?

• 21:38Speaker 01

  I kinda did that. I ended up with Jason.

• 21:41Bunnie XO?

  No, I know. And you've told that story before, but-

• 21:44Speaker 01

  I grew up. It's been 15 years.

• 21:45Speaker 03

  I was gonna say you were 18.

• 21:47Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, exactly. But also you guys kind of had a little, there was a few technicalities in there.

• 21:51Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 21:52Bunnie XO?

  The girl was like, single way female with you.

• 21:55Speaker 01

  Yeah, yeah.

• 21:57Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 21:57Speaker 03

  You took your whole fucking story.

• 21:58Bunnie XO?

  So technically, she wasn't really your friend. She was.

• 22:01Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 22:01Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:02Speaker 01

  That's true. I agree with that.

• 22:03Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:04Speaker 01

  Yeah, I feel like though, if you saw what your friend went through and the guy's a piece of shit, we shouldn't be pursuing that situation to begin with though.

• 22:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I think always have your girls back, you know, always fucking, men are gonna do what men are gonna do.

• 22:17Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 22:17Bunnie XO?

  But if the women around you, you can't trust them, then you need to re-assess your friend group.

• 22:24Speaker 01

  Yeah, and ask her permission, not ours.

• 22:26Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Well, it was, I think it was done to her, her friend.

• 22:30Speaker 01

  Oh, wait.

• 22:31Bunnie XO?

  Her friend started dating the piece of shit that she broke up with.

• 22:35Speaker 01

  Hmm, yeah, the friend should definitely be asking permission.

• 22:38Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, if the friend didn't come to you beforehand, that's fucked up, for sure. Definitely breaking girl code. There are a lot of technicalities that go into it, but straight down the middle, girl code is do not fuck, don't be a homie hopper and, you know, fuck with other dudes in the crew. And plus, why would you want somebody your friend was with? That's weird.

• 22:58Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 22:59Bunnie XO?

  You know?

• 22:59Speaker 01

  Eskimo sisters.

• 23:01Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Go ahead.

• 23:03Speaker 01

  Um, all right, so one night I was feeling it, so I took a few pictures of my boot nanny and ass, uh, using a Snapchat filter, tasteful, but only for him, obviously. I was not a very showy person.

• 23:19Bunnie XO?

  Put it on a story, didn't she?

• 23:21Speaker 01

  I go to sleep and my 14-year-old son comes in the room two hours later.

• 23:26Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 23:26Speaker 01

  Very sternly tells me to get on Snap and figure it out.

• 23:32Speaker 01

  I was discombobulated and confused. Girl, my whole shit was on my fucking Snap story. I never use Snap, ever. I don't know how I did it, but my kid and probably multiple of my clients have now seen it. I immediately deleted my whole account. My son wouldn't even look at me for two days. I was mortified and it takes a lot to embarrass me.

• 23:53Bunnie XO?

  Golly, that sucks.

• 23:55Speaker 03

  I've done that before, but not my vagina.

• 23:57Speaker 01

  What'd you put on her?

• 23:59Speaker 03

  It was years ago, so long ago, and it was me drunk hiding in a laundry room while people were arguing outside, like outside in the kitchen. And I, I recorded it.

• 24:12Bunnie XO?

  Again, Haley is always in some weird shit, dude.

• 24:15Speaker 03

  You know, it was in Miami.

• 24:17Bunnie XO?

  Even weirder.

• 24:18Speaker 01

  Stories keeze.

• 24:20Bunnie XO?

  More layers to the story.

• 24:22Speaker 01

  Why were you in there?

• 24:24Speaker 03

  I was hiding because I think the cops were called and I didn't want to be involved. So I let them have it. But I recorded just in case anything happened and I meant to save it from Snapchat and I posted it to my story. And I think I deleted it because my grandma responded to my story. She goes, did you mean to post this on your story? I said, nope.

• 24:45Bunnie XO?

  One thing about grandma, she's gonna catch you.

• 24:47Speaker 03

  She's on it.

• 24:47Speaker 01

  Nanny is on it, bro.

• 24:49Speaker 03

  She is on it.

• 24:50Speaker 01

  I love that.

• 24:51Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 24:51Speaker 01

  I love that for her.

• 24:52Speaker 03

  Even Twitter.

• 24:53Speaker 01

  One time Jason accidentally sent his ball to a coworker.

• 24:56Bunnie XO?

  Ball?

• 24:57Speaker 01

  A female coworker.

• 24:58Bunnie XO?

  He only has one?

• 24:58Speaker 01

  He went, he grabbed it, just one, to send me a happy Mother's Day.

• 25:03Bunnie XO?

  Ah, like the Texas belt buckle.

• 25:05Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 25:06Bunnie XO?

  What? That's what they call it when the guy puts his balls up right here and then they, they, well, you could do it with one or two and then they push them out and they hold it right here. It's called a Texas belt buckle.

• 25:18Speaker 03

  How the fuck do you know this?

• 25:19Bunnie XO?

  I don't know.

• 25:20Speaker 01

  That's crazy.

• 25:22Bunnie XO?

  I know the most useless information. I fucking had this, I schooled my husband last night. Go ahead and finish your story and I'll tell you mine.

• 25:28Speaker 01

  Yeah, Jason just had a ball in his hand, sent a picture, happy Mother's Day, and then realized when the coworker replied and was like, um.

• 25:37Speaker 03

  What do you want me to do with that?

• 25:39Speaker 01

  He just was like, holy fuck, I'm so sorry. Like, that was not meant to go to you. Like, I'm so, so, so, so sorry. But like, the funny part is his name on there was Nut Sack Maniac.

• 25:51Bunnie XO?

  Jason and his fucking stage names.

• 25:56Bunnie XO?

  Um, no, I know use a bunch of useless information that last night Jay and I were laying in bed and Chachi tried to attack fucking S'more yesterday. Like he's very aggr- I know, we're talking about you, honey. I know, I know.

• 26:08Speaker 01

  Look at him, he said, mm-hmm.

• 26:10Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 26:10Speaker 01

  He's just hand up on her leg.

• 26:11Bunnie XO?

  So literally I fucking, I'm feeding S'more and Chachi just jumped straight up in the air and was like, rah, just like tries to get him, right? And I'm like, bro, like calm down. And so I was telling Jay about that. And Jay's like, yeah, he's just, and I was like, but I guess it's in their nature because you know, he's a bulldog. So bulldogs used to be bred to um, kill bulls. And Jay's like, there's no fucking way. He's like, no, they are not. And I was like, hold please, hit Sunny and Sunny's like, yeah, bulldogs used to be, uh, they would, they would um, bait, bull baiting is what it's called. And they would bite onto the bull's nose and hang on to it um, to, you know, kill him or fucking, I don't know what they were baiting them for, but yeah.

• 26:57Bunnie XO?

  Don't know how I knew that.

• 26:58Speaker 01

  Um, never knew that.

• 27:00Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 27:00Speaker 03

  Did not know that either, no?

• 27:01Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. So now these cuddly, this goes to show like how your lineage, cut that out, Jason.

• 27:10Speaker 03

  I just yodeled.

• 27:12Bunnie XO?

  Drove just now.

• 27:14Speaker 03

  Please leave that in.

• 27:15Bunnie XO?

  That goes to show how your lineage can just go to hell, you know, like you guys are fucking used to rage bulls. And now your breath smells so bad and you're so spoiled.

• 27:25Speaker 01

  Family tree is a wreath.

• 27:25Bunnie XO?

  This is like a fucking uh, Beverly Hills hound dog right here. You know what I'm talking about?

• 27:32Bunnie XO?

  So yeah.

• 27:33Speaker 01

  Where the fuck did you hear that?

• 27:36Speaker 03

  I don't know.

• 27:37Bunnie XO?

  I didn't even know what that meant.

• 27:38Speaker 01

  Instagram comments?

• 27:39Bunnie XO?

  I don't even know what that meant.

• 27:40Speaker 03

  No, it's my favorite comment ever.

• 27:41Speaker 01

  Freaking insane.

• 27:42Speaker 03

  When there's just like a, a fucked up video and someone will comment their family tree is a wreath?

• 27:49Bunnie XO?

  What does that mean?

• 27:50Speaker 01

  Inbred.

• 27:52Bunnie XO?

  Oh. Inbred?

• 27:55Speaker 01

  Like, yeah, you didn't, you didn't spawn out as a tree. You just kept going around.

• 27:58Bunnie XO?

  Oh, no. Can we even talk about that? We're gonna get fucking canceled.

• 28:02Speaker 01

  Cut that, Jason.

• 28:03Bunnie XO?

  No, don't cut it. Leave it in. I mean, I don't know.

• 28:05Speaker 03

  I don't know.

• 28:06Bunnie XO?

  Well, we never, I don't care about getting canceled. Okay. I really don't. Fucking, everybody and their mom fucking is so sensitive. You cannot fucking say anything without people like knowing that anything's a fucking joke anymore.

• 28:18Speaker 01

  I feel like we're making a comeback though, guys. Comedy has really taken a step towards like, we went through an era where you couldn't even slip up. And now I watch some comedians and I'm like, is that back? Are we, like, are we doing it again?

• 28:32Bunnie XO?

  Comedians have never left with that, with the way that they insult people, but I'm talking about in like, online. Dude, it's so crazy how different platforms perceive different situations.

• 28:45Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 28:45Bunnie XO?

  Because my husband is not online at all and does not have any social media apps whatsoever. But when he gets on his fucking laptop, he has YouTube and he consumes stuff on YouTube. And so we were talking about the Justin Bieber, Bieber Chella. And I was like, dude, he's like, how do you feel about it? And I was like, it was awesome. I was like, I thought he did a great job, you know, healing his inner child. Everybody's saying that.

• 29:09Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 29:10Bunnie XO?

  The performance was great. And he's like, it's the complete opposite on YouTube. He's like, people are tearing him apart.

• 29:15Speaker 03

  I've, I've seen that, but I don't, I'm not getting that side.

• 29:19Bunnie XO?

  That's what I told him. But then we, we talked about a couple more subjects and how like YouTube interprets it, how TikTok interprets it, how Facebook, and like every platform has a different.

• 29:28Speaker 01

  Wow.

• 29:29Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 29:29Speaker 01

  What a great perspective.

• 29:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 29:31Speaker 03

  What a way to keep us divided.

• 29:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. So how somebody feels about something on TikTok feels completely different about it on Facebook. How they feel about it on Facebook is completely different on YouTube.

• 29:40Speaker 01

  Is it the whole, this whole time, social media is what's keeping us divided?

• 29:44Bunnie XO?

  100%. I have said that. I have said that. Social media.

• 29:48Speaker 03

  I'll go down a rabbit hole right now.

• 29:50Bunnie XO?

  Social media is the devil and it is, it has caused so many issues with everybody's lives. It's, it's so consuming. It's so dividing. It, people don't have.

• 30:04Bunnie XO?

  Their own thoughts anymore.

• 30:06Speaker 01

  No.

• 30:06Bunnie XO?

  They have what they see in comments. They have what, what people tell them online. Like, nobody wants to think for themselves anymore. And it's really fucking scary because there are really awful fucking humans who spread lies and are very malicious. And they will paint other people to be exactly like they are and slew, and a slew of people will believe them.

• 30:26Speaker 01

  It's brainwashing.

• 30:27Bunnie XO?

  It's crazy. And it's always like whoever speaks up first gets to paint the narrative, you know? So by the time the person who really wants to tell the truth speaks up, everybody already believes that person. So that's why people don't speak up anymore because it's just like, believe what you want. I don't give a fuck.

• 30:43Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 30:44Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 30:44Bunnie XO?

  I, I came, I saw, I conquered. Next, what? What's next? You know, like, I don't care.

• 30:50Speaker 01

  Wow, that's so crazy. And, and how many people don't know what's going on? If they're not on it. If they're not on it, they actually have no idea about said subject.

• 30:58Bunnie XO?

  Like Jay has said, it's not real life. It's not real life.

• 31:02Speaker 01

  It makes me laugh what Jay looks at on social media. It's like puppies and cute little, like, he's the last person I would assume is like looking at like little sweet animals.

• 31:13Bunnie XO?

  My husband is the true definition of protect your peace.

• 31:17Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 31:18Bunnie XO?

  He, that man, I have been with him for 10 years. He has gone through phases where he's had flip phones. He has gone through phases where he's had no phone. He's gone through phases where he's had two phones. He's gone through phases where he carries around a fucking laptop. Like, he is like, if anything disturbs him, he will immediately just throw his phone away. He doesn't, he doesn't care. Yeah, like it, it, this is nothing new. That's why when social media is like, he is on, I'm like, no, he has a team that posts for him. It's fucking Sarducci. Shout out Tony. Thank you, Tony, for all the fucking shit you post. But yeah, like he, my husband does not care. He's so old school and just, we had this talk the other day because,

• 32:01Bunnie XO?

  you know, we were talking about something with my brand and I said, baby, I love you and I respect your opinion. I was like, but, that's not how I built this. I built it this way. I was like, and the way you think is so outdated. I was like, you're like, he, he's 40, I'm 46 and I think younger than my husband does.

• 32:19Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 32:20Bunnie XO?

  Like, it's so weird. He, he hit 40 and turned into a fucking old man. I'm like,

• 32:25Speaker 01

  You watch the news on TV at night. That's crazy to me.

• 32:29Bunnie XO?

  I'm like, what happened? Like what happened to you, dude? Like, oh, I love him and I love him in every stage, but I'm like, um, yeah.

• 32:40Speaker 01

  I don't know. I kind of admire it sometimes. Imagine how less stressed we'd be if we didn't have all those voices.

• 32:45Bunnie XO?

  My husband walks around the happiest human I've ever seen.

• 32:48Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 32:49Bunnie XO?

  Like, he literally has not a care. He doesn't know anything's going on online until I bring it to him.

• 32:54Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 32:54Bunnie XO?

  I stopped bringing it to him because I was just like, you know what? Stay in your bubble.

• 32:58Speaker 01

  Live in your little world over there.

• 33:00Bunnie XO?

  One of us has to stay in our bubble because he just, he knows who he is. And he doesn't care what anybody says about him because he knows that truth will always prevail. And he said to me the other day, which was really cool. He said, Bunny, all we have is time on our side and time always tells the truth. He's like, stop fucking stressing about stuff. And I was like, he's like, we're, we're not going anywhere. He's like, we will always be here and people will be able to see for themselves who we are.

• 33:27Speaker 01

  Mm hmm.

• 33:28Bunnie XO?

  So.

• 33:28Speaker 01

  What did he say the other day? And you like latched on to that? Like that online is not a reality or something like that.

• 33:34Bunnie XO?

  It's not real.

• 33:35Speaker 01

  None of it is real.

• 33:36Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 33:37Speaker 01

  Literally.

• 33:37Bunnie XO?

  That's my husband's biggest thing.

• 33:39Speaker 03

  And no one says it in real life. And it's so true. Like bad comments I get all the time on my social media. I've never once gotten that in real life.

• 33:48Bunnie XO?

  I've had people who have said bad comments online, come and see me and try to give me hugs.

• 33:54Speaker 03

  Mm hmm. Those are the people that are fa- it's crazy. Those are the ones that hide behind fake profiles, but will ask for a picture in person if they see you.

• 34:02Bunnie XO?

  Remember that one lady I checked at fucking, uh, where was it? At Louboutin in Vegas? And she was, she straight up was talking shit to my, and my security was right there and told me. And then as I walked out, she's like, can I have a picture? I said, no, you were just talking shit about me.

• 34:17Speaker 03

  She was not prepared to be called out.

• 34:19Bunnie XO?

  And the dude was with, that was with her was like, yeah, you're right.

• 34:22Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 34:22Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, he was laughing.

• 34:23Speaker 01

  Yeah, he laughed and was like, yep. Yeah, he totally agreed. It was crazy.

• 34:28Speaker 03

  Yeah. And then we'll go online and talk more shit that you were, you wouldn't take a picture, you were me. And then that makes everyone think that you're the bad person, even like.

• 34:37Bunnie XO?

  I don't care anymore.

• 34:38Speaker 03

  Fucking twist narratives.

• 34:39Bunnie XO?

  Paint me the motherfucking villain. I don't care. I get fucking accused of so much shit that I have never done that I'm just like, you guys make me so much more like. I don't want to say cooler because some of the shit's not cool, but you guys make me have so much more lore. I'm really so fucking boring. You literally sit with your cows 24/7. If not, you're on the stair stepper. Yeah, no.

• 35:05Bunnie XO?

  That's all you do. Your life 360 location does not leave home. No, I'm home. Like, and when I'm home, I'm home. When I'm out, I'm busy and like I'm working. I don't have time to fucking hurt anybody. I don't have time to try to ruin people's lives. I don't have, like, all the shit that I have been accused of in the past three months is the craziest shit because it is everything that that person has done with. And if all I had to do was just drop receipts, and I might do it, I'm thinking about it. But I'm kind of having fun just letting people think what they want. Yeah. It really doesn't affect me anymore. No, you're still six weeks on the New York Times Best Seller. Seven, yeah, seven weeks. About to be eight. About to be eight. Yeah. Making a movie.

• 35:48Bunnie XO?

  Having a movie made about my life. I have family attacking me now, saying that my story, that I didn't put them in my book, so I'm telling their story, like, I don't give a fuck. Yep. I don't give a fuck. I'm thriving. I love life. I love Jesus. Jesus loves me. And God's always had my back. He's never let me down. He'll never let me down. I really can't wait till we start doing this movie, though. It's gonna be so much fun. I'm so stoked. So stoked. All right. Love you guys. See you next week. Bye.