Pod Insights Dumb Blonde Ask, Tell, Confess: Do Our Loved Ones Really Send Signs From The Afterlife? About this episode In this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the Coven opens up about their personal experiences and beliefs surrounding the afterlife. The conversation takes a heartfelt turn as they share powerful signs from loved ones who’ve passed—vivid dreams, familiar songs, and unexpected symbols like daisies and red cardinals. Blending humor, heart, and hope, the Coven reflects on faith, connection, and the love that continues long after we’re gone. They wrap up the episode with a special sneak peek at Bunnie Xo’s upcoming book.
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1:14 Bunnie XO? Hello friends, welcome to another Ask Telkens.
1:23 Speaker 01 Wow.
1:26 Speaker 01 Oh, alright. Okay, more?
1:32 Bunnie XO? We have mixed reviews in the comments. Some people are like, yes, the whistle's back, and other people are like, ah, can you never do that again?
1:37 Speaker 01 50/50.
1:39 Bunnie XO? Listen, I'm with you guys who don't like it. I fucking hate people that whistle. My husband whistles all the time. It drives me insane up a wall. Like, I've had to hold him and go like, honey. And what is that called? Is that, is there a name for that?
1:54 Speaker 01 Overstimulation, right?
1:55 Bunnie XO? I don't know. I cannot hear a whistle without it pissing me off. Like, I literally am just like, ugh, like, or if I get like-
2:03 Speaker 01 Sensory overload?
2:04 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
2:04 Speaker 01 Yeah, because it's like when you hear people chew and it makes you mad, kind of thing?
2:08 Bunnie XO? I don't, see, that doesn't bother me. There's some people, okay-
2:11 Speaker 01 I love chewing.
2:11 Bunnie XO? Let's talk about this really quick, because I actually do have something to talk about. Why is every, hi ma'am, I cannot even take you serious-
2:18 Speaker 01 I mean, that's scaring the shit out of me.
2:20 Bunnie XO? Every time I look over.
2:23 Speaker 01 He was over there just waving.
2:24 Bunnie XO? Every time I look over. And we'll get to the high maid too in a second, but um- Every frickin new mukbanger, this is like a new thing that they do when they go to take a bite, they go, they breathe in.
2:36 Speaker 03 I like that.
2:37 Bunnie XO? And then they bite.
2:38 Speaker 03 No.
2:39 Bunnie XO? I don't, first of all, if I did that, I would choke.
2:41 Speaker 03 I want to punch you.
2:42 Bunnie XO? I can't do that. If I did that, I would fucking choke. I can't handle it. It drives me crazy. Like I was watching this girl last night and I loved hearing her chew, like the way she ate. She's like this mukbanger on TikTok and she does it from like three different angles. Do you know who that girl is? I don't know her name. Super cute, like.
2:59 Speaker 03 Hispanic girl that does the Chili's one all the time?
3:01 Bunnie XO? Yes.
3:02 Speaker 03 That's my girl.
3:02 Bunnie XO? I love her, but every time she bites, she goes.
3:06 Speaker 03 I know, I love it.
3:07 Bunnie XO? And it's like, I can't, how? I would choke.
3:11 Speaker 01 The way Jason chooses vitamins at night make me want to be.
3:14 Speaker 03 Choos his vitamins?
3:16 Speaker 01 Oh, bro, I want to get violent with him.
3:17 Bunnie XO? What is he taking children's vitamins?
3:19 Speaker 01 No, the magnesium gummies that we take.
3:22 Speaker 03 Oh, gotcha.
3:22 Speaker 01 But they're sour, so he's like, and I'm like, go in the other room.
3:28 Speaker 03 Those are sour as fuck, no.
3:30 Speaker 01 This new batch I got, so sour. Even I kind of was like.
3:34 Bunnie XO? No, chewing doesn't bother me as much as whistling. Whistling, it will send me into a frenzy. I cannot handle it to save my life. Um, Jaime, you were well received. Everybody was so happy to see you on the podcast last week.
3:47 Speaker 04 Yes, it was really nice to see all the different versions my name could be spelled.
3:51 Bunnie XO? Yes.
3:52 Speaker 03 Yeah.
3:53 Speaker 01 Yeah.
3:54 Speaker 03 That was nice.
3:54 Bunnie XO? I actually had to ask Jaime how to spell his name. Cause I have you programmed in my phone as Jaime, so it's H I G H dash M E Y.
4:03 Speaker 01 Yep, that's how people were spelling it too.
4:05 Speaker 03 Yeah.
4:05 Speaker 01 That's how Olivia spells it. So I've always spelled it like that.
4:08 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
4:08 Speaker 04 Yeah, that's how you can read it to pronounce it, but yeah.
4:11 Bunnie XO? Is it spelled like Jamie?
4:12 Speaker 04 It's spelled like Jamie, yeah, but it's the I that gets tricky. So it's J A I M E.
4:17 Bunnie XO? I've seen Jamie's spelled like that though, too.
4:19 Speaker 01 I never have until I met him.
4:21 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
4:21 Speaker 01 That's crazy.
4:22 Speaker 04 Yeah, not a very common name, but I mean, it kind of is, but kind of isn't.
4:26 Bunnie XO? Why did Spanish people use Jays as a sound?
4:29 Speaker 04 Yeah, kind of like Jorge instead of George.
4:31 Speaker 03 Yeah.
4:32 Bunnie XO? Hey Zeus.
4:32 Speaker 04 Uh huh. Yeah.
4:34 Bunnie XO? Like it's just, it's for the trickery.
4:36 Speaker 01 You said the trickery.
4:37 Bunnie XO? The trickery. The trickery.
4:39 Speaker 01 Yeah.
4:39 Bunnie XO? So this week, we have decided to talk about a little bit of a different subject because it is spooky season, but also there's, I feel like there's so many different aspects to like spookiness.
4:50 Speaker 01 Mm hmm.
4:51 Bunnie XO? And I think the question that we asked this week was, why do you believe that there's an afterlife? And if you guys want to be a part of Ask Tell Confess, we will be asking our new subscribers. We now have subscribers on both YouTube, so Dumb Blonde Podcast and Bunny XO. If you want to be a part of the Ask Tell Confess questions and along with other perks, subscribe to the Dumb Blonde Podcast sub. And yeah, you guys are going to get a lot of stuff. We're excited about that. And again, you don't have to, but if you want to be a part of it, you can. But this week, we just asked everybody on the channel and you guys delivered. And there's some really, really cool stories.
5:36 Bunnie XO? So I'm excited to dive into this because it's just amazing to see how like God works through people. And like, you know, I don't know, I just, there's so many people who are like, oh, there's, when you die, it's just over. And that scares me because I'm like, God, that's so sad. Like,
5:51 Speaker 01 That freaks me out.
5:52 Bunnie XO? I feel like everybody needs something to believe in or like they need a little bit of hope. And it's like, when you're just like, oh, when you die, it's over. Like, nobody wants to think about that.
5:59 Speaker 01 I had a friend who believed that like your neurons just stop firing and that's it. I was like, that's crazy.
6:05 Bunnie XO? Yeah, it's like, I, I just feel like, one, there has to be a higher power because how did we get here? You know, like, I know a lot of people believe in like the big bang theory and like other things. It doesn't matter because everything ties back into who the hell created us? Like our fricking blood vessels, the blood flowing through our body.
6:26 Speaker 01 Freaks me out.
6:27 Bunnie XO? Our, our brains are just amazing. The way that we are structured, we are so fearfully and wonderfully made. And that's what it says in the Bible.
6:36 Speaker 01 It's like so precise.
6:37 Bunnie XO? Yeah. And it's like, you cannot deny that there's not a higher power out there that, you know, crafted us with love. So who wants to kick these off this week?
6:48 Speaker 01 I say you kick it off.
6:49 Bunnie XO? Me?
6:49 Speaker 01 Yeah.
6:50 Bunnie XO? Okay.
6:53 Bunnie XO? Hold on, I wasn't expecting to go first. Let me get prepared. Hold on, please.
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8:06 Speaker 05 Attention all new and existing members of the W D N C. I'm Melanie Sanders and this is the We Do Not Care Club Podcast. We got to midlife and realized we just simply do not care much anymore. Now, we gotta help each other make sense of hot flashes, dry coochie, chin hair, trifling families, brain fog, and bat wings. We are not alone and we will be heard. So come join the W D N C. Follow and listen to the We Do Not Care Club Podcast with Melanie Sanders wherever you get your podcasts.
8:36 Bunnie XO? This one is from Brandy Reynolds. She said, "My great-grandmother died while I was pregnant with my first child and I was devastated. This lady was my world and I was terrified of having my child without her. The day of her death, I was laying in my bed crying my eyes out and I cried myself to sleep and proceeded to have an experience I have never forgotten. I dreamed, quote unquote, that she came and sat down on my bed, I actually felt the weight of the mattress sink, and placed her hand on my head. I was crying and said, 'How am I going to raise this baby without you here?' And she said, 'Don't worry, baby.'" I will always be watching over you and your little girl. This was back in nineteen ninety when ultrasounds weren't as frequent as they are now and I was only two months pregnant.
9:21 Bunnie XO? So I had no idea what sex my baby was going to be. But from that day forward, I never picked out a boy's name and I didn't know what I was having till she popped out. I felt such peace after having that dream and anytime I have had bad stuff happen with my daughter, I can feel her hand on my head, stroking my hair. And whispering, I'm here, I've got you.
9:41 Speaker 01 I'm gonna cry.
9:41 Bunnie XO? Dude, that like made me tear up.
9:44 Speaker 03 That was one of mine.
9:47 Speaker 01 That's sweet.
9:49 Bunnie XO? That made me tear up. That is so beautiful.
9:51 Speaker 01 I love when ancestors are like part of children's lives and stuff. I think that is so sweet to me.
9:57 Bunnie XO? No, I love it too. Dude, so to, okay, so the land that you're getting, that's just triggered something that I thought of. The land that you're getting, um, this lady and her husband I had seen on TikTok where had got some land or whatever. And they, they had some, um, graves that were on the land and somebody in the comments said, maybe those graves are you guys and you're coming back to the land to claim your land. They're your land sisters. They're your land sisters. Like instead of ancestors, they're your land ancestors. And I was just like, oh my God, what if that's why that, that fucking land is calling you so tough?
10:41 Bunnie XO? Because maybe there's something linked to your guys' past life or something on that land.
10:47 Speaker 01 Stop it. My ancestors come back. I did my ancestry DNA and my parents have family here. One of my great, great grandfathers is buried in McMinnville.
10:57 Bunnie XO? Wow.
10:58 Speaker 01 I've never seen his grave, but like I've told my, cause I don't want to go without my parents. I told them I would take them with me. But yeah, it, you know, find a grave dot com. They have a picture of his grave on there.
11:08 Bunnie XO? Wow.
11:09 Speaker 01 It's really cool. Yeah. We have a lot of family from this area. So that, that freaks me out because they.
11:14 Bunnie XO? I would research.
11:15 Speaker 01 Yeah, that family acquired it in the early eighteen hundreds and my family is here in the seventeen hundreds.
11:20 Bunnie XO? Wow.
11:21 Speaker 03 What if they bought it from your family?
11:24 Speaker 01 Freak out, you guys.
11:25 Bunnie XO? Start fucking doing research.
11:26 Speaker 01 And today's ten twenty-three, by the way, which is the number that we found on the land.
11:29 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
11:30 Speaker 01 It is his, yeah, happy birthday, Grandma.
11:31 Bunnie XO? Ah, so I, when I read that, I was like, oh, my God, like, I don't know, it just kind of sparked like something in me. And I was like, I wonder if that's why their Mimi is so drawn to that land.
11:41 Speaker 01 I need to research it more.
11:42 Bunnie XO? Yeah, and like, see if there's maybe some graves on there, if anybody was buried there.
11:46 Speaker 01 That would be crazy.
11:47 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
11:48 Speaker 01 I, I really want to like get into the land and like dive deep into it, like, I want to know about the caves.
11:54 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
11:54 Speaker 01 Like, how far does that go down? Can I put a GoPro down there, you think?
11:57 Bunnie XO? Yeah, I don't see why you couldn't.
11:59 Speaker 03 Your land.
12:00 Bunnie XO? Yeah. Literally.
12:03 Speaker 01 I'm gonna try it, like, because I didn't know if they could see, like, are they night vision?
12:07 Speaker 04 I don't think so.
12:08 Speaker 01 Okay, I have to get something.
12:09 Bunnie XO? Get night vision.
12:10 Speaker 03 Put a selfie light on it.
12:11 Speaker 01 I will.
12:13 Speaker 03 Stick it down there.
12:13 Bunnie XO? Put one of those hats on with the, with the light and just walk in there like you're, just do it yourself.
12:18 Speaker 01 No, they're like, you gotta crawl in it.
12:20 Bunnie XO? Oh, it's that, it's like you can't stand in it?
12:22 Speaker 01 Like splunking where you like shimmy down in it.
12:25 Speaker 03 Absolutely not.
12:26 Speaker 01 I love watching this.
12:27 Bunnie XO? It gives me, I freak out, I can't breathe. I saw some guy who was climbing in one of those and, um, everybody and their mom want to fucking text me right now. I saw a guy who was climbing in one of those and, I mean, he, there was nowhere for him to move.
12:43 Speaker 01 No.
12:43 Bunnie XO? Why does anybody by choice?
12:45 Speaker 03 That's optional.
12:46 Bunnie XO? Yeah, like, that's a choice.
12:49 Speaker 01 Yeah.
12:50 Bunnie XO? Like, who did that because you wanted to?
12:53 Speaker 03 I can't. Ever since that, what is that called? The something?
12:59 Speaker 01 The Nutty Professor?
13:00 Speaker 03 Nope, it's the one where the dude gets stuck face down and he's still there.
13:05 Speaker 01 No.
13:06 Speaker 03 It's like the very famous one where he like went and he got stuck to where he couldn't come out, like, no one could get him and he's still there.
13:13 Bunnie XO? He died there?
13:14 Speaker 03 Yeah.
13:15 Speaker 01 That's like people who like hike.
13:16 Bunnie XO? Why would nobody get him out? You couldn't break anything to get it out?
13:19 Speaker 01 I don't think you could probably get to it.
13:20 Speaker 03 Couldn't get to him.
13:22 Speaker 01 I'm watching all those people get stuck on the mountain right now, who are like on Everest. You guys saw the storm that came through and trapped like a hundred people up there?
13:30 Bunnie XO? No.
13:30 Speaker 01 Mm-hmm.
13:31 Speaker 03 Nutty Putty Cave.
13:33 Bunnie XO? Nutty Putty?
13:34 Speaker 03 Two thousand nine. He was trapped for twenty-seven hours. Um, he died of cardiac arrest due to a mince strain on the body. The cave was sealed to prevent other incident, incidents and his body remains inside.
13:48 Bunnie XO? That is so sad. That is so sad. But again, why would you do that? Like, I'm not.
13:54 Speaker 01 Choice.
13:54 Bunnie XO? I'm not.
13:55 Speaker 01 And a lot of them have water that runs through them. I don't know if you guys know that, but like especially out in this area, because there's so much rock, it goes through, the water goes through the rock. And so some of these people are like down there, like wading through it waist deep.
14:08 Bunnie XO? No.
14:09 Speaker 01 What if there was a monster down there?
14:09 Bunnie XO? Can you imagine the friggin bladder infection you'd get?
14:12 Speaker 03 I was thinking of drowning.
14:13 Bunnie XO? Oh, what if something just bites your leg?
14:14 Speaker 03 Nope.
14:15 Speaker 01 That's what I was thinking. Like, what if there's some creature that's just been living down there, hasn't seen the light in
14:19 Bunnie XO? Oh.
14:20 Speaker 01 two hundred years?
14:21 Bunnie XO? Just fucking bites your wiener off. Because you know, women aren't down there. This is only men that do this shit.
14:25 Speaker 03 Yeah, I've actually never seen a woman do this.
14:27 Bunnie XO? Because we're smart. That's why. We're fucking intelligent.
14:30 Speaker 01 We don't explore random holes.
14:32 Bunnie XO? Yeah, at all. Alright, who's gonna read next?
14:35 Speaker 03 Okay, this is from Liz Ashley. Um, I was on a vacation in the Virgin Islands with my boyfriend. On the last day, he asked me how I felt about the trip. I was disappointed that I didn't feel my father's presence there, who passed away recently. He was always telling us to go on vacation and spend time together. He was always making his presence known in subtle ways after he passed. My boyfriend assured me he was around. In any event later that day, my boyfriend went kayaking, and when he returned, he was very, very freaked out. In his hand, he held a drenched New Orleans Saints ball cap. He proceeded to tell me that he found it, um, while out on the kayak, floating in the ocean. He flagged down every boat in the cove and asked who it belonged to.
15:16 Speaker 03 Not one person claimed it. That was my dad's favorite sports team. He was obsessed with them. What, what would that be doing here? Why that specific spot of the ocean at that very moment? I cried happy tears. I immediately called my mom, and she told me to go turn on the TV because they were playing. When my father was alive, he was always texting me the score and trying to get me to watch the game.
15:35 Speaker 01 Oh, what a moment.
15:38 Bunnie XO? No, I believe in stuff like-
15:40 Speaker 03 These are so good.
15:41 Speaker 01 This is a really feel-good episode.
15:43 Speaker 03 I would've gotten full body chills if that happened.
15:45 Bunnie XO? I believe that there are so many signs in the afterlife.
15:48 Speaker 01 Oh, yeah.
15:49 Bunnie XO? Yes. So many. When my mom first died, um, she gave me so many signs. I, I went to sleep one night, and I woke up, um- To the, okay, so the first thing that happened was I think right when I found, found out that she had passed, or it was the day that she had passed, we had to film. And I was at the studio for some reason.
16:08 Speaker 01 No, you went there because you had better wifi. Remember, we were going through the wifi issue at your house? And you're like, I'll just drive down to the studio. It's fine. And you were just by yourself.
16:15 Bunnie XO? Yeah, yeah. So I went there to just kind of zone out for a second. And I just, I was kind of like bawling my eyes out because my mom had passed. I was sad, you know? And all we had gone through before she passed away and just how things ended, just, it was really rough on me. And I remember I was bawling my eyes out. And then all of a sudden, Mama, I'm Coming Home starts playing.
16:37 Speaker 01 On the Alexa.
16:38 Bunnie XO? On the Alexa. No, nothing was hooked up to it. Nothing was going on. But then also, there, we had lights.
16:47 Speaker 01 Accent lights behind the couch.
16:48 Bunnie XO? Accent lights behind the couch. And they just started turning multiple colors.
16:52 Speaker 01 Which we've never used that setting, by the way. We only, as you guys can tell, we only use like solid ones. We've never even turned it on that.
17:00 Bunnie XO? So Mama, I'm Coming Home is playing. The friggin' lights are going. And I'm just sitting there like, all I could do was just kind of like start laughing because I was just like, okay, mom, like, I love you too. Because she was, she's just such a little rocker biker lady that to play Ozzy Osbourne, Mama, I'm Coming Home, and then get the lights going was just like really cool. And then I knew that it was her again because a couple of days later, I fell asleep. And I don't think Jay was home. I think he was on tour or something. I fell asleep and I never sleep with the TV on. I cannot sleep with the TV on. Next thing I know, I wake up because I see just lights going like this. And I open my eyes and literally, the, the, literally the entire TV was just doing the multiple lights like it was doing at the studio. And I was just like.
17:44 Speaker 01 So sweet.
17:45 Bunnie XO? Yeah, it was really sweet.
17:46 Speaker 01 And she, to this day, keeps showing you signs.
17:48 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
17:49 Speaker 01 She won't go away.
17:51 Bunnie XO? I love you, Vanessa. I get it, you know?
17:54 Speaker 01 Your signs are still there.
17:55 Bunnie XO? Yeah, the signs are still there. Any psychic I talk to, I just recently talked to a psychic and.
18:03 Bunnie XO? I said before I went to go see the psychic, I said, Mom, I don't want to hear from you today because every time I talk to anybody that can tap into energy like that, she's front and center. And she doesn't give anybody else a chance to come through. And the psychic says to me in this reading, she says, your mom is here, but she's hiding behind somebody else because she wants to let them come to the front. She would have never known that.
18:30 Speaker 01 That was wild. I had goosebumps.
18:32 Bunnie XO? Yeah, she would have never known that. And I just started laughing because I was like, she's so fucking dramatic, dude. Like she had to make sure I knew that she was hiding behind somebody.
18:42 Speaker 01 Yep. Yeah.
18:43 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
18:44 Speaker 01 Like, I'm listening to you.
18:46 Bunnie XO? Yeah. Okay, honey, go ahead. Do what you gotta do, but I'm still here. Don't forget about me. Just know that I'm here.
18:52 Speaker 01 She's so funny, dude.
18:53 Bunnie XO? Lunatic.
18:54 Speaker 01 She was, she was such a character. That's like the best way to describe her. She was such a character.
19:00 Bunnie XO? In real life and after, I feel like after she's just gotten more brazen. It's like, Mom, calm down a little bit, you know, but no, she's great.
19:13 Speaker 01 Don't start. It's literally my turn.
19:16 Bunnie XO? Do this.
19:19 Speaker 01 Gosh dang, if you wouldn't have said anything, I wouldn't have.
19:22 Bunnie XO? I wouldn't have even realized.
19:25 Speaker 01 That's just normal. But since you said something, now it's gonna be, now it's gonna be a problem.
19:30 Bunnie XO? I didn't even realize it was your turn. She said it's my turn. Okay, go ahead. Today's episode is brought to you by Vinted. Y'all know how it goes. You open your closet and have a million things hanging up, but somehow still feel like you have nothing to wear. That's me. And let's be real, half that stuff hasn't been touched in forever. Instead of letting all those clothes just sit there taking up space, you might as well make a little money off of them. If you haven't used it yet, Vinted is a secondhand marketplace app that makes it so simple to sell the quality clothes you no longer wear and discover unique pieces at great prices. And the best part, you don't have to make a whole project out of selling your clothes. Listing your clothes on Vinted is quick and simple and
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20:45 Speaker 01 Don't look at each other.
20:45 Bunnie XO? I'm not.
20:47 Speaker 01 All right. My mother Jessica passed away on April 3rd, 2024. It was the end of my eighth grade year. I was 14, turning 15 that June. And when she died, I felt like something left me that night.
20:59 Bunnie XO? Wait, wait, wait. She said she died April 2024?
21:02 Speaker 01 April 3rd, 2024.
21:04 Bunnie XO? And she was in eighth grade?
21:07 Speaker 01 Um, it was the end of my eighth grade year.
21:10 Bunnie XO? So this, she's writing in right now?
21:12 Speaker 01 Yeah.
21:13 Bunnie XO? Aw, poor baby.
21:15 Speaker 01 It was like her soul left me. And then everyone in my family started having dreams. I had a dream of her in a field in all white, and one night I had a dream that she had her hair up. She was sitting in a rocking chair at the house. She said, mommy loves you, baby girl. I'm sorry, everything is gonna be okay. Plus, my mom had a tattoo of a sunflower and a butterfly on her leg. Every time I go out, butterflies, I always see butterflies, and they will then follow me. I do believe butterflies are like.
21:44 Bunnie XO? Oh, for sure.
21:44 Speaker 01 Yeah. So that's what made me believe in my, in the afterlife and everything else possible. I'm now 16 and 100% believe in the afterlife. I believe butterflies. I believe butterflies.
21:56 Speaker 03 I wonder if some, like, when you come back, sometimes you are reincarnated into animals.
22:00 Bunnie XO? I feel, so here's the thing. I don't feel like when people are, and this is just my opinion. I feel like when people are reincarnated, you can become, come back as anything that you want to be, and you can jump into different things. I don't feel like somebody comes back and has to live a whole dear life, you know? Like, that's what they're chained to, to that body. I feel like spirits can just come and like. Kind of show themselves and present themselves and what they want.
22:26 Speaker 01 Yeah, for sure. I I watched a TikTok one time and someone said like the reason they don't want to be cremated and they want to be put back in the earth is how your energy is put back into the earth. So being burnt versus like, I know.
22:41 Speaker 03 No, because I told you I've seen signs from my aunt who was buried.
22:45 Speaker 01 Yeah.
22:45 Speaker 03 But I haven't seen from my uncle who was cremated.
22:48 Speaker 01 Yeah, everyone says the way your energy gets kind of filtered back in, like you were saying is like versus earth and cremation are.
22:56 Bunnie XO? Well, my mom was cremated and she's great. Bill was cremated and he's weird. So, but my dad was always weird, even alive, he was weird. So he's kept the same energy.
23:08 Speaker 01 Yeah, I was gonna say he shows himself exactly who he was.
23:10 Bunnie XO? Yeah, so I don't know. I don't know if I believe that, but I I wish there was a better way to do things. I there's those things now, like when they bury people, um, you can bury them in pods. Or something like that, um, to like become a tree or something like that. That is cool.
23:26 Speaker 01 Yeah.
23:27 Bunnie XO? To me, I would love to do that.
23:29 Speaker 01 I just told Jason the other day because we were talking about after I said, I don't want to be cremated.
23:33 Speaker 03 No, I don't.
23:33 Speaker 01 No, I want to be recycled back into the earth.
23:35 Bunnie XO? Yeah. Yeah, it's beautiful.
23:39 Speaker 03 I want to be a willow tree.
23:40 Speaker 01 Have you seen like online?
23:41 Bunnie XO? I swear I was just gonna say that.
23:42 Speaker 03 I'm obsessed with willow trees.
23:44 Bunnie XO? They're beautiful.
23:45 Speaker 01 Willow trees are aggressive.
23:46 Bunnie XO? Weeping willows are beautiful, the ones that look like they're like just crying and having a hard time.
23:52 Speaker 01 Hey, guys.
23:54 Speaker 01 Did you guys know that a mourning dove does not mean mourning as in daytime mourning?
23:59 Speaker 03 Or you are.
24:00 Speaker 01 Yeah, didn't know that. Because back in the day, it sounded like the bird was crying and they would show up a lot of the time during, um, like what do you, like traditions in which they were celebrating a death, mourning doves would show up. So they're actually not mourning as in day. They are mourning as in their cries are so sorrow that that's how they got their name.
24:23 Bunnie XO? I didn't know that.
24:24 Speaker 01 Yeah.
24:25 Speaker 03 I knew it was with a U, but I didn't know why.
24:27 Speaker 01 Yeah, so and it's like, and what's crazy in the history of it, multiple like. Uh, Native Americans and other like, uh, people all named it the same thing. Without knowing like those people call it that and those people call it that. But a lot in the Native American were who named mourning dove. It's one of my favorite. We talked about this in Texas, didn't we?
24:51 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
24:51 Speaker 01 I was like mourning doves have been my favorite bird.
24:53 Bunnie XO? Yes, because remember I was like I, my last place I lived at for seven years, I never heard one.
24:59 Speaker 01 Uh huh.
24:59 Bunnie XO? And now that I'm at this new place and I just feel better and like more positive, I hear mourning doves now.
25:05 Speaker 01 Yep, I have two that visit me every morning on the power lines outside my house.
25:09 Bunnie XO? I love it.
25:10 Speaker 01 Yeah, I think they're in love. I like to think that.
25:11 Bunnie XO? Oh, I think doves are so sweet. I have crows outside my house all the time. I swear sometimes they fricking scream just to wake me up.
25:20 Speaker 01 Yes, I walked outside yes, a couple of days ago. But when you stop by.
25:25 Bunnie XO? Yeah, I was there.
25:25 Speaker 01 I walked outside and I was like Pablo and then I look three crows, literally us, just go screeching across the sky.
25:34 Bunnie XO? What was Pablo doing? Was he fucking running around?
25:39 Speaker 01 He's wild.
25:39 Bunnie XO? He's a, yeah, he's a spaz for sure. This one is from Tracy. My aunt was in a medical accident in the nineties and she passed in twenty twelve. The day I came back to work, the security cameras started acting weird. They would ring saying something was there. I'd look and then, and then there would be nothing. This happened every day for about a week, only when I was alone. One day, my cousin left to go get us some lunch. The camera started ringing, so I looked and it was the camera covering where I was. I was obviously moving, but the camera never went off. I actually filmed this on my BlackBerry, but a huge white figure with angel wings appeared behind me. It was absolutely beautiful. It gave me so much joy.
26:21 Bunnie XO? My aunt wasn't able to talk or walk after her accident due to medical negligence and I feel she came to show me she's finally free of the things that held her back here on this planet.
26:31 Speaker 01 Wow.
26:31 Bunnie XO? Get out of here. That gave me chills.
26:34 Speaker 01 Mm hmm.
26:34 Bunnie XO? So I love that. That is so beautiful and I love angels. Like I'm obsessed with angels. I have a couple tattooed on me, but did you know that real angels like biblical angels are crazy?
26:47 Speaker 01 Terrifying.
26:47 Bunnie XO? They are not like what you think they would be.
26:49 Speaker 01 What are we talking about?
26:51 Bunnie XO? You want me to show you? Yeah, real angels are not like the beautiful, like white winged gorgeous thing like they're freaking scary. And I can actually, I can actually vouch for that because when I was going through my domestic violence relationship and I was getting beat up in the back of a taxi, I saw an angel and it was the biggest, scariest looking thing I've ever seen in my life. Just the way that they were, he was so, it's crazy. It's in my book. You guys will, we'll talk about it whenever the book comes out, but yeah, pretty crazy.
27:28 Speaker 06 The first angel we must discuss are the most common and recognizable angels. Archangels.
27:34 Bunnie XO? He's kinda hot.
27:35 Speaker 06 Archangels are said to be very bright beings that have clothing that is also just as bright. These are believed to be the military class of angels above other races of angels. Gabriel, one of the more known archangels, is explained as being the guardian angel of Israel that defends God's people from the angels of other nations. Also, in a lesser known apocryphal book known as Enoch, which was once part of the Bible. Enoch explains what he saw in his ascent through the 10 levels of heaven. He says this about when he encountered the archangels. And those men lifted me up from there and they carried me up to the seventh heaven.
28:14 Speaker 06 And I saw there an exceptionally great light and all the fiery armies of the great archangels. Arms and legs look like polished bronze.
28:23 Bunnie XO? Now play the other one that I sent you and then there's other ones.
28:28 Speaker 01 This is crazy, you guys.
28:29 Bunnie XO? Yeah. So this is what real angels look like. So swipe. So these are what real angels look like. Like they're scary. They're not like your sweet angelic angels.
28:44 Speaker 01 That would freak me out.
28:45 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
28:48 Speaker 03 Says it's all of them.
28:50 Bunnie XO? Yeah, and there's more.
28:51 Speaker 03 There's more, yeah, no, there's more that.
28:53 Bunnie XO? You guys can go down the wormhole, but there's like, there's so many different types of angels, but none of them are like the sweet little cherub angels that everybody thinks they are.
29:00 Speaker 03 That's crazy.
29:02 Bunnie XO? Mm hmm. That's a whole wormhole to go down, which we could, we could cover the types of angels if we ever wanted to for. Yeah, there's some that are like really scary.
29:13 Speaker 03 The one with the eyes.
29:14 Speaker 04 I mean, the devil was an angel.
29:16 Bunnie XO? Whenever I brought up that Lucifer was an angel, people were like, he was not an angel. And I'm like, okay, whatever. Then you, everybody can say what they want. I believe that Lucifer was an angel. That's why lightning, when he was thrown down from heaven, that's where lightning came from. So, yeah, it's there's.
29:33 Speaker 03 Wasn't he the angel of music?
29:34 Bunnie XO? It's all tied together.
29:35 Speaker 03 That's why like they say that.
29:36 Bunnie XO? Yeah, so that lightning is a, a representation of Lucifer getting thrown out of heaven.
29:44 Speaker 03 Wow. My mind's blown.
29:46 Bunnie XO? Yeah, there's so much, there's so much like, I think the, in my younger life, I despised religion and I despise having to read the Bible all the time and study it. But now that I'm older, it's like, it's fascinating when you really like, read everything that just kind of like comes together from the Bible and it explains like so much about life. Granted, some people say it's a fairy tale. Some people say that it was, you know, there was a lot of stuff taken out of it, which I would love to read the Bible that had Mary Magdalene's chapter, chapter in it. They actually took Mary Magdalene's chapter out of it.
30:21 Speaker 03 Can you find that somewhere?
30:22 Bunnie XO? Yeah, yeah, yeah. They have it.
30:23 Speaker 03 Yeah, there was this one TikTok I saw, this lady, I think, bought like a very, very old house and they were like renovating whatever, and they found a Bible that was like from a long, long time ago that had like, forgot what it is. It's like not in there anymore, but it has like. Stuff that basically people were like hide that or the government is literally going to come in. Like it had like maps, older maps.
30:51 Bunnie XO? Oh, I want to find stuff.
30:53 Speaker 03 Showing things that like they say aren't there anymore.
30:56 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
30:56 Speaker 03 But this was like biblically accurate.
31:00 Bunnie XO? So the Bible was written by by Jesus prophets, all that stuff. And then as religion came in and like the church came in, they started taking stuff out. So that's all man that did that. Yeah.
31:14 Speaker 03 Big on religion.
31:14 Bunnie XO? Crazy. Yeah.
31:16 Speaker 03 You see the the church, the guy that had his Bentley parked behind him and he was like iced out. Anyone else see that? And he was like, God gave me this Bentley and some guy in the crowd was like, can we drive it? He said, no. He said, Jesus wouldn't want that.
31:31 Bunnie XO? Ah, is he a pastor?
31:33 Speaker 03 Yeah.
31:34 Bunnie XO? That's hilarious.
31:35 Speaker 03 Yeah, he had his Bentley and he had like iced out chains on him. And then I saw another one where this lady went to donate $1,200. And he said, hmm, he was like, that's not what I asked. He said, I said a thousand plus another thousand.
31:48 Bunnie XO? Yes, yes.
31:49 Speaker 03 So okay, I'll work on the other 800. I was like.
31:52 Bunnie XO? Yeah, I saw that.
31:53 Speaker 03 You saw that one?
31:55 Bunnie XO? I did a little bit of research because you guys know that I'm like obsessed with Joyce Myers. I've been graduating from Joyce Myers though, like I've been listening to Real Talk Kim. Love her. I want her to come on the podcast. And I've also been listening to this other pastor who is a pastor of like, I think it's called like 202819 Church or something like that. Pastor Mitchell, I believe is his name. I don't quote me on it, but they're just so like G in how they operate. So when I saw that pastor, I was like, let me go research this guy a little bit more too. So I did, and I guess he was giving a sermon about, he gave everybody specific directions. Now, of course, what.
32:38 Bunnie XO? You should never be telling people to give you money like it's just wrong. But that's why they clipped that that part of it because you know it to make it look a little bit worse than it was. But I mean, yeah, that he's obviously do being a pastor for the wrong reasons.
32:53 Speaker 03 Well, there's no money in heaven.
32:55 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
32:55 Speaker 03 It's like.
32:56 Bunnie XO? No, and you can't take it with you. I saw the saddest thing. Um, John Heard, you guys know the actor from Home Alone, the dad?
33:03 Speaker 03 Yeah.
33:03 Bunnie XO? You guys know him from Home Alone. I know him from Beaches. Um, he died in 2017 and his headstone is like this tiny headstone in the middle of this cemetery that has grass overgrown on it and like.
33:19 Speaker 03 What?
33:19 Bunnie XO? Yeah. And just like nothing special, but it's like, it really makes you think like you can't take any of this when you go. When you're born, you're by yourself and when you die, you're by yourself. So your entire job on earth is to not acquire material things, even though that's all we strive for because we've been programmed that way. But it's really to love people and to be love and to show people love, even when they do you wrong, you know? And it's definitely a lesson that I am having to learn, but I think I'm getting better at it.
33:50 Speaker 03 You're doing great.
33:51 Bunnie XO? Even when people are in the wrong, you still have to love them no matter what.
33:55 Speaker 03 Your entire life is summed up by a hyphen.
33:58 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
34:00 Speaker 03 Your birthday and then death day, your entire life is literally just.
34:05 Speaker 01 All right. That's a lot.
34:08 Speaker 03 Crazy, right?
34:10 Speaker 01 Cool.
34:10 Speaker 03 I learned that in like a Bible camp I went to when I was in like junior high and it stuck with me since then.
34:16 Bunnie XO? I love Bible camps. They're so fun. That was the best thing I ever did when I was a kid was go and have Bible camps. Yeah.
34:24 Speaker 03 CBS, did you ever do that?
34:26 Bunnie XO? Vacation Bible. We should go to a Bible camp, Mimi, so you can experience it.
34:29 Speaker 01 I, I did like, I was raised in religion, but we were Catholic.
34:33 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
34:33 Speaker 01 So we didn't do like, like Bible camp. You were raised Catholic too, right?
34:38 Speaker 04 No, we did Bible camp.
34:39 Speaker 01 Okay, we did. Maybe you just didn't have it in my area.
34:41 Bunnie XO? Catholics are boring. They don't do any of that stuff. They don't have fun.
34:45 Speaker 03 I was Southern Baptist.
34:46 Bunnie XO? I was christened as a Catholic. I was christened as a baby in the Catholic church and then my parents evolved to. Yeah, the good old Southern Pentecostal.
34:55 Speaker 01 My mom accidentally left me at my first Holy Communion.
34:59 Bunnie XO? That's traumatizing.
34:59 Speaker 01 My neighbor found me.
35:00 Bunnie XO? What?
35:01 Speaker 01 Yeah, she was like, where's your parents? I was like, I don't know. They left me. My mom thought that my aunt took me. My aunt thought my mom took me and they left me at the church.
35:07 Bunnie XO? We've all been left at church before.
35:09 Speaker 01 Yeah. So my neighbor was like, I'll take you home.
35:12 Bunnie XO? That is very traumatizing. No wonder you have abandonment issues. You've held on to that forever. Holy shit.
35:20 Speaker 01 That's really funny. That's really funny.
35:23 Speaker 03 Okay, this is from Haley Smith. Um, she said, when I was around three years old, my grandma lived with us for a year or two. During this time, my parents had been new homeowners and my mom was trying to make the yard presentable. Her and my grandma tried planting daisies along the driveway. They never grew and my mom never tried planting anything else in the yard. When I was around nine, my grandma passed away very suddenly. I had spent the night with her, spent the whole day with her and she dropped me back off at home that night and she ended up having a heart attack. About a month later, one single daisy popped up in the yard. One of the neighbor's kids accidentally stepped on it and my mom saw it because it was the one sign from her mom that was gone.
36:05 Speaker 03 The next day it was back like it was never gone. Fair to say daisies are my favorite flower ever.
36:10 Bunnie XO? No, if she ever has kids, she should name her little girl Daisy.
36:13 Speaker 01 That's really sweet.
36:15 Bunnie XO? That was my first dog name, Daisy. That is sweet.
36:18 Speaker 01 That was such a sweet story.
36:20 Bunnie XO? I love that. I love daisies too.
36:21 Speaker 01 Yeah, I feel like that's a huge sign.
36:23 Bunnie XO? That's sweet. I love that.
36:25 Speaker 01 That was, this is such a good.
36:26 Bunnie XO? I would have fucking beat that little kid.
36:28 Speaker 01 Oh.
36:28 Bunnie XO? For stepping on that flower. Such a little jerk. Just kidding. I wouldn't beat anybody else's kids, but I'd think about it.
36:35 Speaker 01 You'd think about it. Yeah. When I was 14, my grandpa sadly passed away in the hospital on his birthday after a long fight with kidney disease. It was a very quiet three hour drive back home. When all of a sudden it started pouring down rain at night. Out of nowhere, we saw a red cardinal bird fly past the front of our car. I knew deep down that was my grandpa telling us it was okay. Now at 22 years old, I still see red cardinals every time I think of my grandpa. I feel like red cardinals and butterflies go hand in hand. Those two are so sweet. My mom swears by that. She's obsessed with red cardinals. But I'm big into like the birds having signs.
37:14 Bunnie XO? Oh yeah, birds are huge symbolism.
37:17 Speaker 01 Absolutely. Red cardinals, like my mom always said, was she would like. Cry and talk to her mom. A red cardinal would always show up in her backyard.
37:24 Bunnie XO? I'm obsessed with birds. I love them, especially like big vultures. I love, I love the birds that nobody loves. You know, like I love the crows. I love the vultures. At our new property, um, we have these two vultures that are fucking massive and they go and they hang out by the pool and they just sit there and they're just like little gargoyles. They just sit there and look like they're just so cool. And then when they fly off, they're just winged. And then they'll fly to like another tree in the property. Like they followed us. So we were going to, um, we're going down to this other house that's on our property and they flew and sat and watched us from a tree. Like they're the cutest things ever.
38:02 Speaker 01 Got them out there fighting them off with freaking brooms in my yard.
38:06 Bunnie XO? Cause you have chickens.
38:07 Speaker 01 Oh yeah, dude, those things, you saw it the other day. It was just circling my yard.
38:10 Bunnie XO? Get a BB gun.
38:11 Speaker 01 They're huge. Like.
38:13 Bunnie XO? Get a BB gun and just.
38:14 Speaker 01 Yes, we have. That's what we used to fight the caducks off with. Those things, but now it's dead. I think a fox got it.
38:21 Bunnie XO? Well, all right, guys, this is our last spooky Ask, Tell, Confess. We're going to go back to regular Ask, Tell, Confess next week. So please make sure you subscribe to the Dumb Blonde Podcast YouTube. So you can get all the uncensored podcasts and tons of other stuff that we have on there. But also so you could be a part of Ask, Tell, Confess. Ask us all the crazy stuff. Tell us all the crazy stuff. Confess your sins. We're here for it. Also, my book is coming out. February 10th, 2026. You guys can see it back here. Stripped down, unfiltered and unapologetic. Pre-orders are ready to rock. Link in bio and every freaking social media outlet that I have. Please get what you guys want.
39:06 Bunnie XO? And I have autographed ones also that are available on Talk Shop. Love you guys. Toodle fuckadoo.
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