A Longterm Investor Looks Sudden Death In The Face — With Eric Markowitz

Eric Markowitz is a partner at Night View Capital and a long-term focused investor. Eric joins Big Technology to discuss his harrowing brush with death and how it transformed his perspective on investing and life. Tune in to hear how a mysterious brain abscess forced Eric to confront his mortality and reevaluate his approach to work, relationships, and long-term thinking. We also cover the importance of quality over quantity, the dangers of stress, and how to sustainably implement life changes after a major health scare. Hit play for a powerful conversation about finding meaning and balance in both personal and professional spheres. --- Enjoying Big Technology Podcast? Please rate us five stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ in your podcast app of choice. For weekly updates on the show, sign up for the pod newsletter on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/6901970121829801984/ Want a discount for Big Technology on Substack? Here’s 40% off for the first year: https://tinyurl.com/bigtechnology Questions? Feedback? Write to: [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• 0:00Alex Kantrowitz?

  A long-term investor stares death in the face and lives to tell the story. Today, we talk about what happened, what he's learned from it, and how it's changed his perspective on investing and life. That's coming up right after this. This episode is brought to you by Genesis. What does it actually take to put a Gentic AI to work across an entire enterprise? I recently spoke with Genesis Chairman and CEO Tony Bates about why orchestration is emerging as a competitive advantage in customer experience and what companies need to get right in the AI era. Then I sat down with Adam Mitchell, Head of Enterprise Business Solutions at Voya Financial, to go inside a large-scale agentic CX transformation, including the business decisions, trade-offs, and lessons along the way.

• 0:45Alex Kantrowitz?

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• 1:30Alex Kantrowitz?

  He's a partner at Nightview Capital, which is a long-term focused investment company and also somebody that I know from journalism circles. We've been, I've been a fan of his work for quite some time. And recently, a story he wrote about a health scare came across my timeline and just absolutely floored me, had me sort of standing in place for a few moments. And I thought it was important to get Eric's story to you. And so, Eric, I'm so glad to have you. Welcome to the show. Yeah, thanks, Alex. So let's start at the very beginning here. What happened to you in early 2023?

• 2:07Speaker 01

  I mean, we can start there, but I think it's actually probably even more practical to start what happened a little bit before that, which was in 2022. You know, I wrote about it in the piece, but for all intents and purposes, I was a fairly healthy, you know, mid 30s guy, married kid, working a job in finance and investing. And 2022 was a really rough year. It was very stressful. And towards the later part of the year, I think that the stress started to really wear me down. And all of a sudden in like January 2023, you know, just woke up one day and didn't feel right. I'd previously kind of been feeling fine, no major health problems. But the major symptom I was getting, which was very bizarre, was like an intense vertigo, dizziness and nausea,

• 2:53Speaker 01

  which I hadn't experienced before. You know, if you've ever maybe had a few too many to drink and you're sitting in bed that night and the room's kind of spinning, you know, that was the feeling, but it was constant and I don't really drink, so it wasn't related to that.

• 3:05Alex Kantrowitz?

  What did you think it was initially, like when that started happening? Were you like, I just need to sleep more?

• 3:09Speaker 01

  Yeah, I thought it was like maybe some sort of bug. You know, I told my wife, I was like, I just don't feel right. I'm just gonna go lay down. And then it just kind of got worse and worse to the point where I was like projectile vomiting and pretty, pretty intense symptoms. So went to the hospital, they kind of initiated stroke protocol. So did an MRI of my brain. And the scan, as far as the radiologist read it, came back clean. So they, you know, the doctors were kind of a little bit confused, but said maybe it's something like an inner ear disorder, BPV. So, you know, it just got worse. So it was a constant state of just the room spinning, constant nausea, constant vomiting. I just couldn't keep food down. It was very scary, as you can imagine,

• 3:50Speaker 01

  where you just have this like intense vertigo. And for anyone who's experienced it, you know, it's, it's very unpleasant, bordering on terrifying and quite miserable. So went, went back to the hospital, stayed there for two to three days, I think three days maybe, and still kind of like no answers, you know, they. Gave me fluids. That was primarily what happened at the hospital and was checked out. And the situation was kind of getting worse and worse. And yet was discharged. I think with the idea being, we're not really helping him. We'll just see if he can get maybe a little bit better on his own. He's stable right now. In retrospect, you know, probably should have stayed at the hospital, probably should have advocated for that. But

• 4:32Speaker 01

  hindsight is 2020, of course. And again, like that initial, I think the key thing here is the initial scan was read as, you know, no problems with my brain. Fast forward, you know, a few days, then a couple of weeks. We live in Portland, Oregon. So we flew back up, which was kind of a harrowing experience. My father-in-law had to come. You know, I was wheeled onto the plane in a wheelchair, couldn't really walk. Any sort of slight movement of my head just triggered like intense nausea, vomiting, vertigo. Got back to Portland, though, and went and saw a few more specialists. Everyone was kind of, you know, just very confused by it, couldn't really explain it. I think going back because

• 5:14Speaker 01

  the initial scan, the radiologist read it as no problems. You know, at some point, I think this was like February, mid-February of 2023. So about a month passed. And at that point, I had lost about 35 pounds in a month. You know, I was kind of deteriorating, really couldn't get out of bed, couldn't sleep because any sort of like motion would just trigger intense nausea. You know, quite literally suffering. I mean, just really deteriorating. And I think like, you know, just taking a step back, like, this is just like, it was just so bizarre because I had been pretty healthy up until that point. You know, I hadn't really experienced any sort of like major health crisis. And for anyone who's gone through it, you know, especially when you have like an answer, there's that's,

• 5:59Speaker 01

  at least there's a path to some sort of treatment. But for me, because there was this sort of, you know, what in retrospect was a misdiagnosis, there was no real answer of what I should be doing. So the main kind of commentary from doctors up until that point was just wait it out. Maybe it'll get better. My wife, who, you know, is amazing, who kind of kept me like literally alive during this period, like, just.

• 6:26Speaker 01

  Bringing food, just scheduling doctor's appointments, just like literally getting me through the day, the physical side, also the emotional side, to her credit, really advocated for a second MRI. So a good friend of mine picked me up, went to the ER to do another MRI and, you know, came out of the MRI machine and, you know, it's like, it's like the tap you never want to get. They were like, the radiologist wants to speak with you. So they put me in a little booth, they hand me a phone, and I guess it's all, it's all done remotely these days. So the, the doctor on the other line just says, you know, you have to get to the ER right away. You have, and I think the word used was a rapidly enhancing lesion in your brain, on your cerebellum, which is right, which is your brain stem. You know, I asked

• 7:08Speaker 01

  him what it could be. He was kind of hesitant to give answers, but basically said, you know, it could be a range of things. It could be, you know, brain cancer, brain tumor. It could be something else, but we don't know.

• 7:19Alex Kantrowitz?

  And you posted the scan in the article that you wrote, I think, and it looks like this sort of grape that's just sitting there in your brain.

• 7:26Speaker 01

  Yeah, like right. So if you feel in the back of your head, it's your, your cerebellum, which is like your little brain. So I think most people know about the left brain, right brain hemispheres, but there's actually like the much older human part of the brain, which is the cerebellum, which is kind of like the air traffic control for, for your brain. I mean, so all visual inputs go in, they go to your cerebellum, your cerebellum, makes sense of visual inputs and also vestibular inputs. So your proprioception, your ability to get balance in the world. And yeah, it had like sprouted this pretty, you know, walnut sized or large grape sized growth right, right on my brain stem. So went to the ER and, you know, at this point, you know, I saw some neurologists and they kind of said, yeah, we don't know what this is, but you need to get it out immediately. The

• 8:11Speaker 01

  worst case scenario is it's a glioblastoma, which is brain cancer, brain tumor. And if it's in your brain, it means it's likely metastasized throughout your body. And I was told, you know, Pretty much like six months, if it was a successful surgery, that would, that's how much you know, you can expect to live for. Alternatively, if it was something like an abscess, some sort of bacterial abscess, which is extremely rare and in some ways very unlikely, that was more immediately fatal because if it popped and the, that, the bacteria from the abscess would get out, it would go directly into my brain stem and mix with my, basically the fluid that goes through your, your spine. And, you know, it could, it could be pretty fatal.

• 8:56Alex Kantrowitz?

  Now, when you hear this, do you even have the capacity to like, sit back and be like, oh my God, what's happening? Or are you feeling so bad at this point that the moment sort of washes over you?

• 9:06Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's like a little bit of an out of body experience. The, the real devastation for me was, you know, we had an 18 month old daughter and just like the, what hit me was just not being able to be there for her.

• 9:23Alex Kantrowitz?

  And it wasn't even guaranteed that you were going to wake up from the surgery?

• 9:26Speaker 01

  That's right. And it was unclear at that point, even, you know, who would do the surgery, which was another element with, to the story, which didn't, didn't put in the piece, but my like best friend who lives here in Portland, who I've known for, since college, he is Ben Jacobs, the best man I've ever, you know, gave, he gave a speech at my wedding. So texted him, called him, forget exactly, but said, this is what's going on. And he said, let me call Zach. Zach being a high school friend of his that had recently moved to Portland, who had recently also finished his neurosurgery residency at Stanford and is a brain surgeon. And I had never met Zach, but because he was friends with Ben,

• 10:08Speaker 01

  we had kind of like, in the weeks leading up to this, just had like, tried to organize a poker game, but then I got sick. And so we never actually met, but I knew of Zach. I knew that Ben had this friend who was a brain surgeon. So Ben called Zach. Zach was like in the middle of a surgery, but his, I guess Ben got his wife on the phone. And then his wife contacted Ben or Zach right after his surgery and said, you gotta take a look at Eric's scans. So that day Zach took a look at the scans and said, I'll do the surgery. And we gotta do it right, we gotta do it immediately.

• 10:43Speaker 01

  So the next day, we, I got prepped for surgery. That, that night, I actually, because I was in a different hospital and Zach had to operate in a different hospital, I was actually discharged, went home, grappled with this situation I was in, wrote my daughter a goodbye letter, very practically got things organized for my wife.

• 11:01Alex Kantrowitz?

  Right. So you thought that this could potentially be your, your last night?

• 11:04Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 11:07Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah. And you write in the piece,

• 11:10Alex Kantrowitz?

  "What do you tell an 18-month-old child the day before you die? Sure, you tell them you love them, but what else? How do you cram a lifetime of knowledge into one little letter?" What did you write?

• 11:20Speaker 01

  Um, I'm not really ready to share that, truthfully.

• 11:24Alex Kantrowitz?

  Okay.

• 11:25Speaker 01

  I think it's like, if we're gonna, I'll probably just start crying if I start talking about it, so.

• 11:31Speaker 01

  I will say that the letter is not finished, and I continue to write it.

• 11:36Speaker 01

  So,

• 11:39Speaker 01

  go to the hospital, get ready for surgery, do the surgery. I mean, the surgery itself is like highly risky, because you're operating on a part of the brain that, I mean, within millimeters, if, if there's like a mistake, you know, we could potentially just not make it through the surgery. So, the, as, as far as I recall, Zach's initial plan was to actually biopsy the, whatever was in there. And he, he kind of conferred with his partners and they very rightly made the decision, a biopsy was a little bit too dangerous because if it were to puncture this lesion, and it was in fact an abscess, you know, it could puncture in that, that could be, it could be very dangerous.

• 12:22Speaker 01

  So, in some ways, I think the, the more risky surgery, which is a full craniotomy, which is to go in, open up the back of my, the skull, they take, they kind of drill a hole in the skull, cut out the skull, and go in and actually remove it. Did that. And, you know, his initial impression upon seeing it was, this doesn't look like cancer. You know, it's like this bizarre abscess.

• 12:49Speaker 01

  And so I woke up in the ICU. I remember, I mean, I vaguely remember this, but I do remember seeing Zach standing there. And, you know, my first question was, is it cancer? And he said, I don't think so. I'll never forget, but it was just like this odd, just feeling of like relief. But then also in like the, the hours that followed this uncertainty of, well, is, are they sure? You know, like the pathology hasn't come back yet.

• 13:18Alex Kantrowitz?

  I mean, just the moment of waking up, like you write it in the story and it's so powerful. You said, the anesthesiologist stepped into the room, count backwards. Anyone who's had surgery knows this, right? Count backwards 10, nine, eight darkness. And you write, in my mind, I traveled a million miles and then a funny thing happened. I woke up. What was it like waking up?

• 13:41Speaker 01

  Um, first of all, I was under a lot of drugs. So, yeah. You know, anyone who's woke up from madness, like anesthesia knows you, you're sort of feeling a little bit high, quite literally. But of ultimate like relief and almost in the, in the hours and the days that followed, a sense of euphoria, which I've been very like fortunate to talk with a lot of people in the last year or so that have gone through these experiences. And there is this like survivor's euphoria that you feel. And I think I, I was beginning to feel it in that moment of, okay, I made it.

• 14:25Speaker 01

  Everything's different now. All of the like, things that I thought were important before, I'm recalibrating what actually is important.

• 14:37Alex Kantrowitz?

  And it's such a fascinating story because as you, you describe it in your story, you're a long-term oriented investor, always thinking about the long-term. And here you're like faced with the prospect of, uh, maybe there is no long-term. But in good news, it turned out that it was indeed right, an abscess and that. They cleared it out.

• 14:57Speaker 01

  Yeah, I mean, I'll get into the long term thing in a second, but just to kind of close the loop on the story, it was like an episode of House. They took this thing out. No one could explain where it came from. You know, it was quite dangerous because if if the abscess were to rupture or break or pop, it would likely, from what I understand, prove to be a fatal situation.

• 15:17Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah. And so you were basically like looking death in the face from two ways, right? Whether it was cancer or an abscess. So like, it's lucky it was an abscess, but not like, you know, a guarantee of getting through.

• 15:30Speaker 01

  Yeah, in some ways, it was like, the the options were all bad, right? It was either some sort of brain tumor that was cancer. From what they suggested it could be, it could be something like a glioblastoma, a stage four, and that would be, even if I survived the surgery, then it would it would likely be, you know, less than a year, maybe six months to live. Because the the cancer had likely metastasized throughout my body at that point. The the other scenario, which would be much better, would be an abscess because I could survive that long term. But but in the short term, that was actually much more dangerous because it could pop at any moment.

• 16:11Alex Kantrowitz?

  Especially, I guess, when they're going in, operating on it.

• 16:14Speaker 01

  Exactly. And so if if it were to rupture mid-surgery, that that would be very problematic. And, you know, later I would I would learn this, but, you know, abscesses typically rupture after just like a week or two. You know, at that point, it had already been in my head for, you know, over a month.

• 16:34Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah. I mean, how did you feel once you learned you were that close?

• 16:38Speaker 01

  Just terrified, is the truth. You know, I don't think anything really prepares you for for this kind of situation. It's profoundly shocking. It's terrifying. And, you know, like, like I said, I mean, it was mostly just this deep sadness, the the potential for not even myself at that point. It was mostly for for my family, for my wife and daughter.

• 17:01Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah. You're a lucky man.

• 17:03Speaker 01

  Super lucky.

• 17:05Alex Kantrowitz?

  And so what happened once it was out?

• 17:07Speaker 01

  In the weeks and months that followed, I had to do like really intense intravenous antibiotics to begin with nine times a day. So I had a port in my arm and then a port in my chest. And after even I was discharged from the hospital, I would have to give myself injections throughout the day of these really hardcore, kind of like just intense antibiotics that make the symptoms way it works, you know, just it's almost as someone describes it as like, kind of like chemotherapy, it just makes you super nauseous. It kills everything in your body.

• 17:39Alex Kantrowitz?

  So you didn't feel instantly better from like the symptoms that you had?

• 17:43Speaker 01

  No.

• 17:43Alex Kantrowitz?

  They remained even though the abscess was out?

• 17:45Speaker 01

  Yeah. Yeah. And you know, there's like a piece of, I mean, there's kind of a, there's a, it's funny. It's like, there's an old Yiddish expression that I remember like my grandparents using called lak and kaf, which means like, oh, I need this like I need a hole in my head. And it's like, I have a hole in my head. Like I know that experience. They took something out. And so the most important thing is in the months that followed, everything looked good. You know, there's no recurrence. There's no like hydrocephalus. Should be fine. I have residual symptoms, but they're manageable. I'm getting through them. The, the source of the infection was never located, which to this day I get like, you know, infectious disease doctors reaching out to me and like, how did this happen? Like, no one knows. At some, at one point,

• 18:26Speaker 01

  they scanned my jaw and found some sort of lesion in my jaw. So I had surgery, like a really intense surgery in my jaw to remove this thing turned out to be totally unrelated.

• 18:35Alex Kantrowitz?

  Wow.

• 18:36Speaker 01

  So we'll never know. So I think there's like a lot of uncertainty to it, which is part of the experience for me. I think the irony, and maybe not the irony, but maybe, you know, just why this, this story is like so like interesting that it happened is like, I had really based my professional and like kind of personal life around this idea of long-termism as a firm or long-term investors truly believe in the power of compounding. I write about this in weekly newsletter. Like all good things take time. The whole sort of like, I've been enamored with like the Buffett ideology of just

• 19:10Speaker 01

  Wait it out, patience. And

• 19:14Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah, you write in the piece that you said, I mean, this is what you say. Here I was 35 years old, out of time, no more compounding, no more long-termism. And by the way, this is long-termism like in finance, not like the long-termism as far as like AI risk. I don't think you can correct me if I'm wrong on that. But you wrote, hell, our firm's tagline that I wrote myself was investors focused on the future. And you quote the Warren Buffett saying that our favorite holding period is forever.

• 19:44Speaker 01

  Yeah, and it's, I mean, in retrospect, it's like, man, that is like a real level of hubris to think you have that. I think that we take this idea for granted, long-termism. It's a, it's a nice soundbite and it's true to say that thinking and acting long-term is really, really important. But on a deeper level, it's not guaranteed. None of it is guaranteed. And, and so anything can derail the long-term at any point. And so for me, it was a real like wake-up call of it's a real privilege to, to have a long-term

• 20:29Speaker 01

  mindset, to enjoy the fruits of compounding is, is a really lucky position to be in. You know, I will be really lucky to have a 30-year career of compounding and to not really ever lose sight of that.

• 20:46Alex Kantrowitz?

  Okay, I want to get into how your life has changed since, but I have to ask you a question that's been sitting with me since you talked to me about, talked to us about Zach. You really entrusted your, your life to, I mean, of course you graduated from Stanford, but I imagine a rookie neurosurgeon who a friend recommended, that's bold.

• 21:05Speaker 01

  Yeah, they're

• 21:07Speaker 01

  In that moment, I think that there was actually quite a bit of comfort in knowing that there was a personal connection. But yeah, I mean, we're like mid 30s. It was like,

• 21:22Speaker 01

  yeah, you could, you could go with the guy who's like, maybe been around or for 20, 30 years doing it, or like you say, a rookie. I think, given just the time constraints, it wasn't like I could shop around for a neurosurgeon.

• 21:36Alex Kantrowitz?

  Right.

• 21:37Speaker 01

  The reality was, is that it was either Zach or whoever was on call.

• 21:44Alex Kantrowitz?

  Okay. So good job going with Zach.

• 21:46Speaker 01

  Zach's in it. Zach can go to the Oregon clinic if anyone needs back surgery or, or brain surgery.

• 21:52Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah. And you had a friend who texted you or told you as this was going on, they said, this kind of shattering event is showing up right on schedule. It doesn't mean it will all be pleasant, but it might be redemptive. It's the horrendous reset that's going to set you up for real creative synthesis, for a real creative synthesis stage. So of course, like, you know, it only is applicable, you know, if you made it through, and you did make it through, thankfully. So I want to hear from your perspective, you know, one of the things that also stuck out for me from the beginning of this story was you described being healthy, but not really being healthy. I think I highlighted this when I was like taking notes on your, your story. This was the thing that really stuck out for me. You

• 22:34Alex Kantrowitz?

  said, I wasn't living an entirely healthy, long-term oriented lifestyle, even though you were like a long-term preaching investor. I was constantly stressed at work. I had stopped exercising. I was glued to my phone and to the market. And in the months leading up to my condition, we were having a rough year, and it was all I could think about. I'd dream about stock prices. I'd wake up in a panic. And underscore, you write, despite the ideals of long-termism, I professionally and publicly promoted, I was in fact, living a lifestyle that was just the opposite. I was myopically focused on the short term, on success, on the day to day. I avoided seeing friends. My marriage was becoming stressed. Things were unraveling. And I think there's, there's definitely elements of truth

• 23:19Alex Kantrowitz?

  of that. When I read it, it reflected in my life for sure. And I think that like, It's not a uncommon thing, I think, among people working today to feel these very same things.

• 23:33Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 23:34Alex Kantrowitz?

  So how did you look at that in retrospect after the health incident?

• 23:39Speaker 01

  Yeah, I think it's something that probably even as much as mental health gets talked about now, probably still isn't really talked about enough of, you know, how we actually in our day to day spend our time. I think if you're ambitious and you're motivated, it's very easy to fall into the sort of like success trap of staying focused on what's happening today. How can I optimize for today? Like, how can I increase my output? How can I increase performance? And I think you see that it's online of this sort of intensity around optimization and performance. And there are elements that are important, you know, and I think really healthy.

• 24:24Speaker 01

  But I think for me, and probably for a lot of people, it's easy to get a little too focused on those sort of like metrics and.

• 24:37Alex Kantrowitz?

  Right, like the next performance review, the stock price, you know, in the quarter, the whatever.

• 24:42Speaker 01

  Whatever it is.

• 24:42Alex Kantrowitz?

  Sales number for the quarter.

• 24:43Speaker 01

  Exactly.

• 24:44Alex Kantrowitz?

  What happened today?

• 24:44Speaker 01

  Right, and I'm abstracting because everyone's situation and profession is different. But I think across like all ambitious mid-career, later career, whatever it is, like there's an intensity of success, whatever around the KPIs. And I think coming out of this experience, it's not that I have like a lower level of ambition. I think the ambition is still there to like really put up good numbers and succeed and like have our firm do really well and like for performance to be really good. Those ambitions are still there. It's just. Maybe put into a bit more of a holistic perspective of how you go about achieving those

• 25:26Speaker 01

  things. And ultimately, maybe ironically, the more you subtract and the less intense you are, the greater potential for better outcomes.

• 25:40Alex Kantrowitz?

  Say more about that.

• 25:42Speaker 01

  Yeah, so I think that, like so many things in life, you can't force things. You can't force relationships. You can't force, you can't force success. And I think, looking back, and not just in 2022, but like, you know, probably a lot of my professional life, there was a lot of like pushing, pushing, pushing to achieve. And it didn't give enough space for like actual compounding and good things to happen. And so I think that it's been a refocusing in a very simple way of like, quality over quantity. So if I'm gonna

• 26:23Speaker 01

  do something, spend a lot of time doing it, you know, really like high quality time doing something. And same thing with relationships, like, really focus on important relationships, high quality relationships, and devote time there. And then just cut out the stuff that isn't important.

• 26:39Alex Kantrowitz?

  Now, you said, like, I think, pretty definitively in your piece, that you believe that the lifestyle that you were leading led to the health issue?

• 26:48Speaker 01

  I think that there are so many studies about stress that reveal to me that we don't really fully understand how stress impacts the body. But we know that stress impacts the body. And I think from like a very simplistic level, I think that my immune system was shot. I think I was burnt out. And I think that, you know, that stress can kill. And it's a little bit vague how it can kill, but this is one example of how I think it could, which is, your immune system gets shot, and then some sneaky little bacteria finds its way through the blood-brain barrier, in my case, and it becomes an infection, and

• 27:31Speaker 01

  like the worst part. And, you know, stress also can just lead to other types of issues. I think sleep has become like a really super important like cornerstone of recovery for me. And that's something that I've learned a lot about just in the last year and a half of like, if you're not sleeping, You you literally like your your brain is just not operating at like its full potential.

• 27:56Alex Kantrowitz?

  Right. So what do you have at eight hours?

• 27:59Speaker 01

  Yeah, if I can. I mean, we're about to have another kid.

• 28:02Alex Kantrowitz?

  Okay.

• 28:02Speaker 01

  It's like that's a

• 28:03Alex Kantrowitz?

  There goes the sleeve.

• 28:05Speaker 01

  So, uh, yeah, um, but it, you know, the it's a long term bet, the next kid, right?

• 28:12Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah, yes.

• 28:12Speaker 01

  So, yeah, I'm, you know, I think if you can get eight hours, like for me, that that's what works. I go to bed super early, but I I I think like all of these things matter. And I think anyone who has like preached like they have the the right, you know, formula is probably lying to some extent. I think it's a I I think it's an iterative process itself of like figuring out what sleep cadence, the food, um, stress levels. There there's a there's a really healthy balance of both ambition, but also just like not ambition. Whatever the opposite of ambition is of just relax.

• 28:47Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah.

• 28:47Speaker 01

  Just enjoy the moment.

• 28:49Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah, it is interesting. It's like it you you were almost killed by the system effectively. And you have decided not to disengage from the system, but just to meet it on your own terms.

• 29:03Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's like we're playing by my game.

• 29:06Alex Kantrowitz?

  By your rules now.

• 29:06Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 29:07Alex Kantrowitz?

  Yeah.

• 29:07Speaker 01

  Yeah. And I I I mean, that's part of the reason why I went public with the story is I think. I think a lot of people kind of like feel like they're, you know, sort of trapped in this system, right? And and it's really, it can be over overwhelming. And you don't really have to play by those rules necessarily. It's very freeing to realize, you know, life is very short and you're gonna get by a bus tomorrow. And you can kind of, I'm also like, I should point out extremely privileged to be able to do any of these things. Right? Like financially, socially, like just where I was born, just won the lottery by being born where I was.

• 29:50Speaker 01

  So none of this like I take for granted anymore and very grateful for it. But for people who are like, maybe in a similar position that I was, I just wanted to maybe

• 30:02Speaker 01

  be somewhat of a voice out there to say, look, I went through this really shitty thing. And I think it was like it happened because of my lifestyle. This is on somewhere. And um, and coming out of it, I'm not like some.

• 30:18Speaker 01

  Some genius who has like some incredible perspect- I, I, I really don't know if I have any wisdom coming out of this. But I do have like a real grounding for what really like matters is, is not what I thought it did necessarily.

• 30:32Alex Kantrowitz?

  Uh, one more question for you before we wrap. True, personal finance standpoint, I mean, it is interesting, like a lot of people just like save up, but never really get a chance to see the fruit of all that saving. Like I've heard so many stories of like people who like, you know, rough life, retire, die in the first year of retirement. Uh, do you think any differently about the way that you approach personal finances now after having gone through this?

• 30:58Speaker 01

  That's a really great question. In some ways, yes. I, I, I think like, I think that inevitably I feel a little bit more averse to risk. Right? And that's like, uh, that's a complex thing to say because that doesn't necessarily mean that,

• 31:18Speaker 01

  you know, oh, I go to all, all cash. Cause I actually think that means like very risky to do something like that. The only practical way that it's changed my view is I focus more on like terminal risk of an investment.

• 31:32Alex Kantrowitz?

  What does that mean?

• 31:32Speaker 01

  Building in a scenario in which like I am completely wrong on the thesis on something in 30 years to, is there, what is the odds that this go to zero? Right? And I think about that a lot now. I think about that also in the sense of like, nothing lasts forever. I mean, it's, you know, like a renewed sense of just mortality. Things, nothing lasts forever. Things can die at any point. And I think about that with investments and, and business constantly. Um, which is, this is probably a subject for another discussion, but like the, the area I've become really focused on is, I think modern culture spends too much time focusing on growth and not enough on survival.

• 32:17Speaker 01

  And when you focus so much on growth, the key metrics you're trying to hit are top line numbers. Like something that can grow at 30%, right? What in my mind may be a better metric, if you're truly trying to think about, okay, can this investment, can this, you know, thesis sustain over 30 years or 40 years? Like, can this provide for my kid? The real question to ask is, can this thing grow at 2% a year, but for 50 years?

• 32:47Speaker 01

  And it's a reframing of an investment idea. And it's one I think that doesn't get talked enough about in business media and certainly on, you know, if you pull up like Bloomberg or CNBC, they're not, you know, they're saying what happened over this last quarter, right? They're not asking the question of like, will this business exist in 25 years?

• 33:09Alex Kantrowitz?

  I'll push back a little bit on that from the CNBC standpoint, but I take your point. So you're also writing about the long term and you have a new column at Big Think, which is this one kicked off the cadence?

• 33:23Speaker 01

  Yeah, so I'll be writing at Big Think, which is a really great media organization and their sister site, Freethink, which is also, I think, really, really high quality journalism and also just sort of like practical advice for people who work in business. But the column I'll be writing is called The Long Game. It's about the practice and philosophy of long-term thinking. I'll be writing a column every couple of weeks in addition to my newsletter, The Nightcrawler, which I've written for three years now.

• 34:03Speaker 01

  And so the, like, The Nightcrawler is all about just long-term investing and technology trends. The Big Think column will be in a similar vein about, you know, business and technology, but really focused on how people who work in business, investing, entrepreneurs, like, really, I think, I'm trying to offer some practical ideas and just thoughts about truly playing the long game, both in life and in business.

• 34:35Alex Kantrowitz?

  Well, Eric, crazy story, A Brush with Death, and you live to tell the story. And I think these lessons are really universal, and I know I'll be taking them with me as, you know, as I think more about balancing business and life. And I love that, that concept of being in the system, but attacking it on your own terms. So thanks so much for joining. Great to speak with you.

• 34:56Speaker 01

  Yeah, thank you, Alex. It was, it was great to be here and talk to you about it.

• 35:00Alex Kantrowitz?

  Awesome. All right, everybody. Thank you for listening. Enjoy another summer weekend and we'll see you next time on Big Technology Podcast.

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