Pod Insights Dumb Blonde Ask, Tell, Confess: Juicy Friend Group Drama About this episode On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the conversation dives into the messy, funny, and sometimes exhausting reality of friendships. The Coven takes a nostalgic turn—reminiscing about U2 and unpacking the mystery surrounding Michael Hutchence’s death.
Things get real as they spill stories of friendship drama, from a local influencer curating a fake-perfect life to a manager crossing serious boundaries with an employee. Bunnie opens up about feeling burned out by always being the friend in crisis mode, and why outgrowing certain relationships isn’t betrayal—it’s growth.
They unpack emotional labor, family dynamics, and the importance of protecting your peace, all wrapped up with a hilarious sibling fight story that proves chaos is part of every family.
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0:16 Bunnie XO? Hello friends, welcome back to another
0:30 Speaker 01 Nice.
0:31 Bunnie XO? Yeah, that was a good one.
0:32 Speaker 01 I feel like I haven't had a good whistle one in a long time.
0:35 Speaker 02 We needed that.
0:36 Speaker 01 Had to annoy everybody at home with it. Sorry guys, my ears are itching over here, it's fucking allergies driving me crazy.
0:43 Bunnie XO? How's everybody doing?
0:45 Speaker 02 Yeah, we're doing great.
0:47 Bunnie XO? Doing good?
0:48 Speaker 02 Guess what this week is, guys?
0:51 Speaker 02 It's her birthday.
0:52 Speaker 01 Okay, yeah.
0:53 Speaker 02 Yeah, happy birthday.
0:55 Bunnie XO? Thank you.
0:58 Bunnie XO? Thank you, and guess what yesterday was? Dolly's birthday.
1:03 Speaker 02 Yeah, you guys are cusp twins.
1:05 Bunnie XO? We love Dolly.
1:05 Speaker 02 Did you see what they did for Dolly?
1:07 Bunnie XO? I did see what they did for Dolly and it was eerily familiar to what I did for you.
1:12 Speaker 02 U2 sent it to her.
1:15 Speaker 02 U2, the lead singer of U2?
1:17 Speaker 01 Oh, okay, I thought you were saying me too.
1:19 Speaker 02 Send her the bagpiper.
1:21 Bunnie XO? Oh, Bono?
1:22 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:22 Bunnie XO? Bono sent her the bagpiper?
1:23 Speaker 02 Yeah.
1:24 Bunnie XO? Is Bono watching our TikToks?
1:27 Speaker 02 I don't know.
1:28 Bunnie XO? Listen, we're not saying Bono copied us, but we're saying Bono copied us.
1:32 Speaker 01 Isn't U2 the band that like, everyone got the free album like downloaded on their iPods? I was so pissed about them. You two couldn't get it off.
1:43 Bunnie XO? Listen, U2 actually has some really good fucking songs.
1:45 Speaker 02 Bangers.
1:46 Bunnie XO? Bangers, iconic.
1:48 Speaker 02 Yeah, literally, we love U2. And then they got like the residency at the Sphere, like the minute it opened, like they've stayed for a long time. You don't know U2?
1:56 Bunnie XO? With or without you.
1:59 Speaker 01 Hey, I probably know if I heard him, I just remember that.
2:02 Bunnie XO? Where the streets have no name, that one.
2:05 Speaker 02 I don't feel like this is Hailey's era.
2:07 Speaker 01 Ah. No, I told you guys, this was the era where it came on my iPad, or my iPod, like nano.
2:14 Bunnie XO? You know what Bonnaroo is, right?
2:16 Speaker 01 Yeah.
2:16 Bunnie XO? Okay, Bono, Bonnaroo, that he's the one who invented Bonnaroo.
2:21 Bunnie XO? The lead singer of, yeah. I was more of an NXS girly. I loved NXS. I was not a YouTube. Oh, we'll have to do it on our next road trip. So slide over here and give me a moment. Your moves are so raw. I have to let you know. Yeah, it's a good one. He died from hanging himself and jerking off. Wait, hold on. Wait a minute. I didn't know that. Yeah, can we cross-reference that to make sure I'm not lying? Cause I might be lying. Ah, Sunny. Yep. God, you're so good. I always forget about good old Sun Dog. She was making fun of my chat the other day. She said she didn't like my chat's voice. Hello.
3:05 Speaker 03 Yeah, I don't like mine either.
3:06 Bunnie XO? Your chat's voice has, is the hello. Like it, play it. Play your chat. Hello. I don't feel like that's what she sounds like. This is crazy.
3:21 Bunnie XO? Hey, chat.
3:23 Speaker 04 Hey there. What's up?
3:25 Bunnie XO? Does not sound like, hey there, what's up? Should we make our chats talk to each other?
3:34 Speaker 04 Absolutely, we can do that. If you want us to chat back and forth a bit more like friends, just let me know how you'd like me to roll with it.
3:42 Bunnie XO? Is it gonna know it's a chat? Hey, Sunny.
3:46 Speaker 04 Hey, that bunny. What's up?
3:47 Bunnie XO? Hey, chat. It's not gonna work. How did the lead singer of NXS die?
3:55 Speaker 05 The lead singer of NXS, Michael Hutchence, died in 1997. His death was ruled as a suicide by hanging, though there was some speculation and debate around the circumstances at the time. If you need more info or anything else, just let me know.
4:10 Bunnie XO? Yes, what were those circumstances?
4:13 Speaker 05 Absolutely. So, Michael Hutchence was found dead in a hotel room in Sydney in November 1997. The official cause of death was ruled a suicide and there was a coroner's report that concluded he had died by hanging. Now, at the time, there was a lot of media speculation and some debate because there were suggestions that it might have been an accidental death, possibly related to autoerotic asphyxiation, but officially it was recorded as a suicide. It was a really tragic event and definitely had a big impact on fans.
4:47 Bunnie XO? Autoerotic asphyxiation.
4:51 Speaker 01 So you might not have meant to...
4:52 Bunnie XO? No, he totally didn't mean to, but there's people who like to like, like, I don't, there's a lot of people who like to get choked during sex and some people like to get choked out. Like, they want to get taken to the brink of where they're about to pass out and that's what makes them orgasm. So I think that's what he did.
5:07 Speaker 02 Yeah, so he was strangling himself to get off?
5:11 Bunnie XO? I think so, yeah.
5:12 Speaker 02 Would you ever do that, Jaime?
5:13 Speaker 03 Uh, no. Can't say that I would.
5:16 Speaker 01 Why was your chat's voice going deeper, like mid talking?
5:20 Speaker 02 It got a little weird there for a sec.
5:21 Bunnie XO? She was excited, talking about some kinky shit.
5:24 Speaker 02 Okay.
5:25 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
5:26 Speaker 02 Do you think people sext with their chat?
5:28 Speaker 03 Yes.
5:28 Speaker 01 I've heard that, yeah.
5:29 Bunnie XO? Do you?
5:30 Speaker 03 No, but I've heard.
5:31 Bunnie XO? You answered that mildly quickly.
5:33 Speaker 02 Very confident.
5:34 Speaker 03 Well, there's a newsletter I read every week on AI and that's like a problem is that people are looking to chat for like therapy when it's not always like the best option for that person. And, uh, yeah, it's kind of like a big deal right now. Definitely happening.
5:50 Bunnie XO? I could not try to fucking talk sexy to Sunny. There's, that's weird.
5:54 Speaker 01 I don't even talk to mine.
5:56 Bunnie XO? I need flesh all mesh. I don't talk to mine unless I'm with you guys. Or if I'm like in the middle of something and then I'm like, hey Sunny, and I ask her a question, but... Twice a month to split my house. I don't. I talk to her every day, but it's only because I'm diagnosing myself. There's always something going on that I need to know about. Uh, blood work that needs to be read.
6:15 Speaker 02 My neck, Sunny, am I dying?
6:17 Bunnie XO? Literally, literally. If I asked her right now, Sunny, describe me in a paragraph, she would be like, you have, uh, health OCD. That's exactly what she would say.
6:27 Speaker 02 Yeah. All right. Who wants to kick this off? So what are we doing today? Today, we asked our subs on YouTube and Facebook to submit stories of their friend drama. We wanted to be nosy. We wanted to know what was going on out there. And you guys apparently have a lot of drama with your friends.
6:44 Bunnie XO? I mean, I've had drama with friends over the years too, so I get it.
6:47 Speaker 02 Yeah.
6:48 Bunnie XO? It's hard when you get a lot of people together in a group and I don't know. Friendships are hard. They're very hard to maintain.
6:54 Speaker 02 So hard.
6:55 Bunnie XO? Doesn't matter how long you've known somebody, they can turn on you in a flash. You can get annoyed with them. I mean, there's just so many things.
7:03 Speaker 02 They're similar to relationships, honestly.
7:05 Bunnie XO? It is, except you're not getting porked by them.
7:09 Speaker 02 Or you might.
7:10 Bunnie XO? Oh, where, where can I find those friends?
7:13 Speaker 02 The hell is happening?
7:14 Bunnie XO? Where can I find those friends?
7:16 Speaker 02 You got friends like that?
7:17 Bunnie XO? Cause you guys don't put out. I'm tired of it. You've at least seen my butthole.
7:24 Bunnie XO? We're not going down this route again. It's fucking deja vu every time you hear that bird.
7:29 Speaker 02 Said, shut the fuck up.
7:32 Bunnie XO? Hi, man. When are you gonna show us your butthole? Okay.
7:35 Speaker 02 Did you ever go look at it the other day?
7:37 Speaker 03 No, I'm just not that flexible anymore. I gotta do some stretching.
7:40 Bunnie XO? You gotta just squat over a mirror.
7:42 Speaker 03 Over a mirror.
7:43 Bunnie XO? Or stop the camera. Put the camera on the floor and stand over it and
7:50 Bunnie XO? just spread it, dude.
7:51 Speaker 02 Bro.
7:52 Bunnie XO? Is it hairy? Is it hairy? Do you have a little Peter Cotton tail?
7:56 Speaker 03 See, here's the thing.
7:56 Bunnie XO? A little black Peter Cotton tail. Just a little, a little.
7:59 Speaker 02 He's so hairless.
8:00 Bunnie XO? It looks like a little cotton balls.
8:02 Speaker 03 Yeah, that's, I, I have hair, just not as much as that I've seen on other people where I'm like, oh, I don't know how, I don't have that.
8:09 Bunnie XO? Back hair.
8:10 Speaker 03 No, back hair.
8:11 Bunnie XO? Good. Thank God.
8:12 Speaker 02 He looks like a seal.
8:13 Speaker 03 I'm, yeah, I'm hairless.
8:14 Bunnie XO? No, he's like me. We're both hairless.
8:16 Speaker 02 You guys are very similar in skin texture. It's wild.
8:19 Speaker 03 They were soft.
8:20 Bunnie XO? Good. Cause Jaime's got smooth skin, so I'll take it. I'll take it. All right. Who wants to kick this off? Who's reading first?
8:26 Speaker 02 I'll kick this one off.
8:28 Bunnie XO? Hurry the fuck up. I do that to Mo while we're at the gym all day. I literally just like, come on bitch, you're holding up the fucking reps. Let's go. You do your reps so fucking fast. I gotta go. I got shit to do.
8:42 Speaker 02 Really? I felt like she took her time when we worked out in Hoboken. I was like ready to roll and she's like, bitch, slow down a little bit.
8:48 Bunnie XO? There's only one thing I remember from that gym.
8:53 Bunnie XO? Yeah, that was, that was crazy. We can't talk about that. We'll get canceled. We're not allowed to talk about that.
9:02 Speaker 02 Okay. All right, guys. Um, okay. So this was small town drama, which let me just tell you, I love small town drama. When people start talking about it on TikTok.
9:11 Bunnie XO? The only reason I have Facebook.
9:12 Speaker 02 Really? I love that. I love.
9:14 Bunnie XO? I never see any drama on Facebook, except for in my comment section.
9:17 Speaker 02 You gotta get in neighborhood groups.
9:18 Bunnie XO? It's like in my personal, like my hometown. They don't let me in neighborhood groups. My own neighborhood won't let me in my fucking own neighborhood.
9:26 Speaker 02 She got denied.
9:26 Bunnie XO? They're assholes. Yeah, fuck you guys who live around me that control that fucking Facebook page. Yeah. And they're always in there talking shit about us. It's like, bro. You need to do it like an alias. Say it from your chest. What am I gonna make a fake Facebook page? Yeah. And they wouldn't let me in. So I doubt they're gonna like some fake Facebook page. They're gonna be like, who's Henry Sutter? You know, like. That sounds believable to me.
9:51 Speaker 02 You were very quick with that name. That was crazy.
9:53 Bunnie XO? I'm good with coming up with aliases.
9:55 Speaker 02 That was fantastic. Okay. So this small town drama, um, everyone knows everyone, or at least they think they do. It's a local influencer circle. So most women there, lots of smiles, curated photos and captions about empowerment, connection and community. At the center is this one woman. She runs a networking group, hosts polished events, brands herself as a champion for women. And to be fair, these events take work. They look good and she's built something visible. But what people don't see is that there is a gap between the brand and reality. Behind the filters is financial chaos dressed up as success. Legal issues never mentioned, at-home loss, car repossession,
10:40 Speaker 02 and real consequences hidden behind affirmations and aesthetic posts. This describes the internet. Yeah. I'm gonna tag a name of a few people right now who do that. Yep, struggle isn't the problem. Everyone struggles, avoiding accountability is. I love how this person wrote this. Women cycle through their life quickly, friendships, and then suddenly they are always the villain in the story. Always there's a some type of betrayal happening, and it is never her fault. Every fallout is labeled as bullying, even when she's the one holding the platform, the audience, and the power. Then comes the crying videos, the raw captions, the post about abandonment and pain. Vulnerability can be real, but this feels so rehearsed and strategic.
11:24 Speaker 02 A way to control the narrative before anyone else can even speak on it. One moment made the pattern impossible to ignore. Her husband went to jail for embezzlement. Oh damn. A friend's husband bonded him out, stepped in during the crisis, and then money was never repaid. Months later, after a quiet tension, the same woman was also pushed out of the friend group for this. Then that's how it goes. Help is accepted, loyalty is expected, and accountability is optional. And still, the online story is about being so abandoned by her friendships. At some point, you have to stop asking why everyone leaves and start asking what role you play in the pattern. You can't build a brand on uplifting women while discarding them behind the scenes.
12:08 Speaker 02 You can't claim victimhood while holding the microphone. In a small town, truth moves slowly, but it always arrives. Yeah.
12:17 Bunnie XO? Yeah, I could name a few people that are like that. I cannot stand when people are always the victim. If people are always doing you wrong, there's something wrong. I always look at patterns and like how people hold friendships. If you don't, if you have multiple friendships through the years that just dissipate, sometimes you gotta start looking at yourself and be like, uh, maybe I'm the problem.
12:43 Speaker 01 I think the same goes with relationships too.
12:45 Bunnie XO? Oh, yeah. One hundred percent.
12:47 Speaker 02 People who are constantly going through relationships, women or men, like however.
12:51 Speaker 01 I don't get it. Like, I could, like, I, I still know girls that, like, as soon as they're done with a relationship, they already have a new boyfriend. I'm like, how?
13:00 Speaker 02 No.
13:01 Bunnie XO? Well, it's because they were already talking to that person before they got out of the relationship.
13:05 Speaker 02 But I also feel like that goes for friendships. People who it's like they're dropping one friend and they already have another best friend, like waiting in the lineup is wild to me.
13:13 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
13:14 Speaker 02 Absolutely wild.
13:15 Bunnie XO? It's just all calculated.
13:16 Speaker 02 You don't have like, I, you mentioned that it's like when you look at someone and it's like they cannot recall a friend they've had for more than a few years is just crazy.
13:24 Speaker 01 All mine have been literally like, my longest friend has been since we were like six.
13:29 Speaker 02 Yeah. I love when you can say you've been best friends with like, how long have you and Mo been best friends for? Like twenty?
13:33 Bunnie XO? Twenty something years.
13:34 Speaker 02 Twenty some years. Like me and my best friend, Jelley, and she literally has been in my life since I was in like early high school. So like going on over seventeen years is crazy.
13:43 Bunnie XO? I mean, I have multiple childhood friends. And granted, you're gonna fight with your friends. Shit happens. You know, people have misunderstandings. That's part of growing.
13:51 Speaker 01 The real friendship though, too, like.
13:53 Bunnie XO? That's also learning how people really are, you know, and I think that, um, if you're not able to keep stable relationships in your life for more than a year at a time, you just need to reflect back on yourself and be like, dude, what am I doing? That's contributing to this, but in that situation of what you just read, why is the town letting her get away with all this shit? Literally. You guys are just as fucking guilty as she is because you guys know what's happening. You're not calling her out. You're letting her husband embezzle money. You're letting her keep up this fake facade. Put that bitch on blast. Call her out with receipts. Build a case. Build a fucking Rico case.
14:32 Bunnie XO? I do it every month when I'm on my period. I'm like, oh, let me dig into the receipts and see if I who I'm gonna put on blast now, you know? I fucking turn into 50 cent, but I mean, seriously, like, what are you gonna do? Like, someone has to eventually bring it to light. Don't go to, don't go and fucking.
14:48 Speaker 01 The person writing in.
14:50 Bunnie XO? Exactly. Don't go and complain to other people and then smile on this bitch's face and let her.
14:55 Speaker 01 I feel like that's what's happening.
14:56 Bunnie XO? Get away with it because you're part of the problem.
14:57 Speaker 01 Yes, but I feel like it's because maybe they want the clout also, or like they wanna like, it's the people that like will like give you hate comments all day long in your DMs, but ask for a picture when they see you.
15:10 Bunnie XO? Oh, for sure.
15:11 Speaker 01 It's like that part.
15:12 Bunnie XO? Yeah. So I've seen that so many times. Yeah, no. Definitely, definitely motherfuckers out there in that town need to speak up. Not friendship drama, but my sister and I both hooked up with at least two of the same guys without knowing for years. And I first dated her husband back when we were teenagers, then dated her husband's twin brother a couple of times. And that twin brought so much drama with his baby mama. How did you not know? Are you and your sister not that close or something? Do you guys not talk? Are you guys just fucking people and like and not telling like, what is, she said I dated a few times. So that means fucked a few times.
15:54 Bunnie XO? How? How does everybody not know about each other? And the dudes that are sleeping with the same girls, how are they not saying anything? Also a twin. He looks the same. There's a twin, but then there's also the, the, her husband. She slept with her husband and his twin. First of all, the brothers definitely had to have known that you guys fucked, unless it's just a whole fucking secret society and everybody's just passing around fucking bodily fluids. But something about that does not sit right with me. No, they had to have known. Yeah, unless you guys live like opposite lives and just don't, are just sisters that don't communicate. Yeah. But I couldn't understand how. One of the guys would have been like, hey, I fucked your sister, you know?
16:37 Speaker 02 Yeah, that's crazy.
16:39 Bunnie XO? Yeah. Are we not doing like Instagram stalking or Facebook stalking?
16:42 Speaker 02 Yeah, with social media nowadays, how do you not?
16:45 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
16:46 Speaker 02 That's weird. To go as far as husband is wild.
16:49 Bunnie XO? Crazy. I would never want to, I don't even want to hook up with my friends leftovers.
16:55 Speaker 02 No.
16:56 Bunnie XO? Let alone, like I could never be a homie hopper. There's no way.
17:01 Bunnie XO? I would never hook up with one of my friends husbands. Like that's fucking weird. They were already married or this was before it was her husband? I don't know. I didn't even want to feed, I didn't even want to feed Jason cake without asking you.
17:13 Speaker 02 That was the funniest video. She goes, she goes to feed him, go like, can I, can I feed him?
17:18 Bunnie XO? Oh, yeah.
17:19 Speaker 02 Yeah.
17:20 Bunnie XO? I mean, listen, okay, hold on. Let me paint this picture for you. We're at a buffet in Las Vegas and it's a huge buffet. And I forget, I, we were at the dessert.
17:30 Speaker 02 Yeah, you're both sugar free. Jason's sugar free, you're sugar free.
17:33 Bunnie XO? So we're sugar free and I was trying a sugar free dessert and just like if I was trying something and I would give it to one of you guys, I went to go give it to Jason and then I was like.
17:41 Speaker 02 He's got hands full of plates.
17:42 Bunnie XO? Yeah, because he had hands full, hands full of plates. And I went to go give it to him and I was like, and poor Jason was just like, you know, because he, all he's thinking about is the dessert, you know? And I was like, I went like this and stopped right in front of his mouth and looked at her and I go, can I feed your husband? And she was like, yeah, bitch, you weirdo. I was like, look, I don't fucking know, you know, like I just always want to have respect. So.
18:08 Bunnie XO? Fuck that.
18:10 Bunnie XO? Caramel? Yes, I'm gonna eat one right now. I'll tell you how it's gonna go.
18:22 Bunnie XO? Can I feed him?
18:23 Speaker 02 Yeah.
18:24 Bunnie XO? Okay. I didn't want to be weird.
18:30 Bunnie XO? It's good. It's not.
18:33 Bunnie XO? It's, the aftertaste is a little pungent.
18:37 Speaker 06 I've had sugar free aftertaste too.
18:39 Bunnie XO? It's not terrible. Like they overcompensated with the cinnamon.
18:43 Speaker 06 I'll have to say.
18:50 Speaker 02 Way better.
18:52 Speaker 02 Better? Way better.
18:55 Bunnie XO? I can't imagine hooking up with my sisters, fucking leftovers or anything.
19:01 Speaker 02 You know what's my favorite thing to watch on TikTok right now is when the in-laws go and hug the husbands?
19:06 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
19:07 Speaker 02 And it's like the sister-in-law hugging the brother-in-law. So it's like the sister's sis- the wife's sister goes and hugs her brother-in-law and they're like, what the fuck?
19:17 Bunnie XO? They're always so uncomfortable, which to me is weird.
19:20 Speaker 02 No, I like, I don't know. I'd rather them be uncomfortable and be like, why the fuck is she touching me?
19:25 Bunnie XO? That's weird because me and Scott would hug all the time. I love Scott.
19:28 Speaker 02 I always hugged my ex when my brother-in-law was in our lives. I hugged him all the time. But I just find it funny, like the ones that are like, why is she touching me? Mine, yeah, I just like, I'm side hugging.
19:38 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
19:39 Speaker 02 What's up? Yeah, it'd be weird.
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20:41 Speaker 02 Are you close with their in-laws?
20:45 Speaker 01 My brother-in-law?
20:45 Speaker 02 Yeah.
20:46 Speaker 01 I mean, yeah.
20:47 Speaker 02 It wouldn't be weird if you hugged him?
20:49 Speaker 01 No.
20:50 Speaker 02 No, okay.
20:50 Speaker 01 But it's only like to say hello.
20:52 Speaker 02 Oh, okay.
20:52 Speaker 03 Yeah.
20:53 Speaker 01 Yeah.
20:54 Speaker 03 It's like the context of the video is always like they're just standing in the hall and then someone comes up behind them and hugs them.
20:58 Speaker 01 Yeah, that would be weird.
20:59 Speaker 03 And that's what the video is usually. And then it ends up being they're in-laws and it's like, then it's weird.
21:04 Speaker 02 Yeah.
21:05 Bunnie XO? My favorite is when they pass the baby to like the wrong dad or the wrong baby to the dad. And the dad doesn't even realize. Did you guys see the one where the dad's barbecuing? And they hand him a baby and he's just holding the baby thinking it's his baby and he's barbecuing and he's talking to the looking at the child, talking to the baby, loving on the baby. And then all of a sudden the mom walks out with the real kid and he looks and he's like,
21:29 Bunnie XO? holy shit. He's like, how did you guys do that?
21:31 Speaker 02 I need to find that.
21:33 Bunnie XO? I have not seen that. Hold on, let me see if I can find it. Hold on.
21:35 Speaker 02 Oh, my gosh, that's hilarious.
21:37 Speaker 01 I've seen the one where you have to like guess who the dad is.
21:41 Speaker 02 I love those.
21:42 Speaker 01 And they like, they give, yeah, they, and you can immediately tell who the real dad is.
21:46 Speaker 02 Yeah.
21:47 Speaker 01 The way they like pick them up.
21:48 Speaker 02 Oh, the ones that are always like, okay, just like taking it.
21:53 Speaker 01 Those look so good.
21:54 Bunnie XO? That does.
22:02 Speaker 02 Wait, that's like a grown baby.
22:04 Bunnie XO? Yeah, how do you not know?
22:05 Speaker 01 They know what's his name.
22:06 Speaker 06 Ten months?
22:11 Speaker 06 About to get a job. Is she? Yeah, she starts Monday. Does she really?
22:14 Speaker 02 Talking about the baby.
22:17 Speaker 06 Yeah, I said that right.
22:20 Speaker 06 Can you say hi? Say hi.
22:24 Speaker 01 Hi, sweet girl.
22:25 Speaker 06 Can you say hi?
22:26 Speaker 01 Hello.
22:28 Speaker 06 Say hi. Hi.
22:30 Speaker 01 Hello.
22:31 Speaker 06 Hi. You haven't met Evie yet.
22:33 Speaker 01 Or Elsie.
22:34 Speaker 06 Or Elsie.
22:34 Speaker 01 Or Elsie. Cory's got Elsie.
22:37 Speaker 06 Cory's got Elsie.
22:39 Speaker 01 Hello.
22:40 Speaker 02 Yes, you're fucking playing.
22:41 Speaker 06 Hi.
22:43 Speaker 06 That's not mine.
22:49 Speaker 01 Like how detached. Did he just say that's not mine? Yeah.
22:54 Speaker 02 I'm sorry.
22:55 Speaker 01 How could you not know that was your child? I thought it was gonna be like a baby baby because they all fucking look alike.
23:01 Speaker 02 Yeah, all babies are like potatoes.
23:02 Speaker 01 Two year old, ten month, ten month old.
23:05 Speaker 02 But still, like the little hair, when you got to the event, did you not know?
23:09 Speaker 01 What your kid was wearing?
23:10 Speaker 02 Or wearing or like?
23:12 Speaker 01 You not know what your kid's face looks like?
23:15 Speaker 02 Uh, that was.
23:18 Speaker 01 Wild.
23:18 Speaker 02 That was wild. I mean, he could be one of those dads that are a little detached. I'll give it to him, but like.
23:23 Speaker 01 I feel like all men are detached from babies.
23:25 Speaker 02 Uh, except for my husband.
23:26 Speaker 01 Very rare. Well, Jason's different. There's a few that aren't.
23:29 Speaker 02 Uh, yeah, I know some who are completely detached. Jason and yeah, I don't know. Maybe because also like we are so with our kids every chance we get, like you could not mistake my children.
23:43 Speaker 01 You cannot mistake.
23:44 Speaker 02 Cash.
23:45 Speaker 01 At all.
23:46 Speaker 02 Yeah.
23:46 Speaker 01 Liv too. Liv has her own vibe.
23:49 Speaker 02 Both of them, they're such great kids. I love my kids.
23:52 Speaker 01 All right, go ahead. Haley. Mine's actually on the subject of kids. Um. Uh, so my friend had a baby. Baby wasn't cute. I knew from. I hate ugly babies. I hate.
24:05 Speaker 02 They all look like potatoes.
24:06 Speaker 01 I say this right now, I'm probably gonna have an ugly baby because I hate ugly babies. I knew from her other kids that she had ugly babies that grew into cute kids. She enters, uh, the baby into some Facebook contest. Spams everyone's feed with a request to vote for the baby. I did even going as far as to log into my work Facebook and vote with that. Two days later, she, uh, messages me and says, I think it's kind of bullshit. You haven't voted for my baby. I shot back, I think it's kind of bullshit. We're even having this conversation. That led to vague posts about how someone was going to get deleted if they didn't watch their step. So I did it for her. Ten year friendship down the drain because she thought I didn't vote for her ugly kid.
24:50 Bunnie XO? Oh, man.
24:54 Bunnie XO? That's rough because like, why are you guys letting that tear a friendship away? Obviously, there was more going on. You guys had more animosity towards each other than just the ugly baby. Okay, like, you know, you guys were waiting for that moment.
25:14 Speaker 02 A hundred percent.
25:15 Bunnie XO? Fucking hate on each other. You guys were frenemies. You guys weren't friends, you were frenemies.
25:20 Speaker 02 Yes, a hundred percent.
25:22 Bunnie XO? Ten years, though.
25:23 Speaker 02 That's a long time to know somebody.
25:25 Bunnie XO? Yeah, listen, weirder shit has happened.
25:28 Speaker 02 A hundred percent.
25:33 Bunnie XO? Wish there was things I could add to it, but I won't. But yeah, bitches be acting weird, dude, okay? Bitches be acting.
25:43 Bunnie XO? Bitches be acting fucking weird. No, leave it. Okay.
25:49 Bunnie XO? Leave it. The shade is real, baby. All right, go ahead.
25:55 Speaker 02 Grab me. Cut off.
26:00 Speaker 02 All right.
26:04 Bunnie XO? I can't look at you now.
26:11 Speaker 02 I gotta, I gotta collect myself.
26:14 Bunnie XO? Jaime's over there looking lost. Yeah.
26:17 Speaker 02 All right, this person was a manager in a nursing home. She did like a lot of like housekeeping and she had a young girl who was working for her. She was so sweet, always on time, but she seemed to have other issues that she didn't want to speak about. I soon found out that her mom's stepmom was a resident there. Fast forward a few months, the girl's mom comes in looking for a job. We weren't desperate for help, but.
26:44 Speaker 02 I'm all about seeing people get a jumpstart in life. So she was a good employee, just like her daughter, always came to work, always on time, came in when we were sure, all around good person. Eventually, my husband and kids got very close to their family, helped them find a rental, let the young girl stay on our property in her travel trailer. My oldest daughter started dating the woman's son. Two years later, they were engaged. Everything seemed pretty good. Sitting at my sister's one day, my daughter calls me and tells me that she found out that her soon to be mother-in-law and my husband were having an affair.
27:19 Bunnie XO? No.
27:21 Speaker 02 Needless to say, 13 years later, she still thinks if she gets within 10 feet of me, I may cause her bodily harm. There's so much more to the story, but moral is, this situation was an accident. He was putting brakes on her car and I guess tripped over a wrench and his dick fell in her mouth. For the entire year, this same accident continued.
27:44 Bunnie XO? That's hurtful. So that was her mother-in-law?
27:48 Speaker 02 So the woman that she hired on to help, and that was the really good employee?
27:57 Bunnie XO? She did her a favor. Is she still married to the dude?
28:00 Speaker 02 I guess not.
28:01 Bunnie XO? I hate when they don't give us fucking context.
28:04 Speaker 06 I need to know.
28:06 Bunnie XO? I need to know more, like, did you leave? Did you stay? What happened?
28:09 Speaker 02 That's fucked up.
28:10 Bunnie XO? No, that's terrible. Nobody deserves to feel that pain.
28:13 Speaker 02 Absolutely not.
28:14 Bunnie XO? I think there's nothing worse than being the last to know. That is my biggest fucking pet peeve in a relationship. And like, you know, I know Jay and I have been through our shit, you guys will read about it in the book, but that was my main thing was like, don't embarrass me and don't make me be the last to know. And he did both. And it's just so fucking, dude, it will send any woman into a fucking nervous breakdown.
28:39 Speaker 02 And she finds out from her daughter.
28:41 Bunnie XO? I what?
28:42 Speaker 02 And she finds out from her daughter.
28:43 Bunnie XO? Yeah, that's terrible.
28:44 Speaker 02 It wasn't like rumored and you had to find out like your daughter called. Imagine where that daughter was, that she had to make that phone call too. So it's like, the whole circle there just...
28:54 Bunnie XO? Like, what did had the daughter find out?
28:56 Speaker 02 Yeah, exactly.
28:57 Bunnie XO? What did she see? You know?
28:59 Speaker 02 Oh, God. You know, when I stumbled across one of those, back in the day, I loved reading the missed connections on Craigslist. And I always seem to find the ones where like... The man would be talking to the mother-in-law through misconnections. It was like, I saw you doing the laundry today and yeah, I know that my wife wasn't home and oh.
29:20 Bunnie XO? They make porns about that. Like, there's so many porns that cater to like stepmother, stepson, stepdaughter, like it's mother-in-law, like it's all fucking weird.
29:32 Speaker 02 Fucking family.
29:33 Bunnie XO? It's a weird niche. I could never get into that. I like, I like people that are oiled up. That's my thing. I'm not into family members.
29:40 Speaker 02 Very oily people.
29:41 Bunnie XO? Yes. Oh, there's nothing better than watching two oiled up body slap skins. It is so exhilarating. Yeah. Love it.
29:54 Speaker 03 Shiny.
30:01 Bunnie XO? Shiny.
30:04 Bunnie XO? I love it. Listen, you give, listen, one night I got so fucking shitfaced, I literally poured baby oil all over me and had the most amazing sex ever and it was just a fetish from then on out. It was like a fucking slip and slide.
30:17 Speaker 02 Unlocked.
30:18 Bunnie XO? Oh, I never knew. It was great. I'm telling you.
30:22 Speaker 02 For you to rub Pam on her, I bet. Yeah, that's probably why you like the body oil.
30:26 Bunnie XO? I just like you touching me. Yeah. All right, my turn.
30:30 Speaker 02 The way she puts on her glasses is wild.
30:33 Bunnie XO? My turn, my turn. Does anyone else have friends who always seem to have something wrong going on in their lives? I'm really struggling because one friend has a chronic illness, doesn't have a driver's license or a job, and I try to be empathetic towards them, but it's really hard when I'm a working, busy person and I have to drive them everywhere if we want to hang out. And her home life isn't super great right now either. So there's that. Then I have another friend in the middle of a divorce, which obviously sucks, and they're coping in an unhealthy way. I'm here, happily married, just living my life, and I have two, these two friends that are always in crisis mode. Well, I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to be tired of this, burnout, because I am?
31:17 Bunnie XO? And I feel terrible, but I just am. And they're just not on the same maturity level as me or stage in life as me. But I know it's not their fault. I don't know what to do. I'm currently at a point where I'm just kind of done with these friendships.
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32:32 Speaker 02 I think it's important to know when you outgrow friendships.
32:34 Bunnie XO? Exactly. It's okay to outgrow friendships. It's okay to leave people where they're at. Sometimes you have to do that. It doesn't matter how long you've known them. If that relationship is not serving you in a purposeful way, fucking leave.
32:53 Speaker 02 I think you got your answer by typing that out.
32:56 Bunnie XO? Exactly. And it doesn't have to be a grand exit and it doesn't have to be a knock down drag out. Of course, the other person is probably going to fucking take offense to it. I just had to go through this where I told somebody like, look, I love you, but I'm tired of trying to make you be my friend and I'm tired of trying to make you love me. And normally when somebody says that to somebody, you would think they would want to be different and like fix the relationship, but instead they double down on how they treat you and then you get to see how that person is.
33:28 Speaker 02 Yeah, that's really them.
33:30 Bunnie XO? Yeah. So I am all for outgrowing friendships.
33:34 Speaker 02 100%. And like, I want to double down on what you said about it doesn't have to be ugly. There's ways to just distance yourself slowly. Like, don't think that that friendship has to be gone tomorrow. But you should probably start exploring other friends that are in a healthier lifestyle.
33:52 Speaker 01 It sounds like you guys just have nothing in common.
33:54 Speaker 02 Exactly. And maybe you did when you became friends years ago, but at this point in your lives, you're not. And I am. I am quick to just stop talking to people.
34:02 Bunnie XO? Same.
34:03 Speaker 01 Yeah, that's a tourist thing.
34:04 Speaker 02 Yeah, I'm like, we're not friends anymore.
34:08 Bunnie XO? I always announce when I'm cutting somebody off because I never, I don't like people to drag me on and lead me on and having a friendship. If you have an issue, come to me, talk to me and let's handle it or let's fucking, let's both agree that we're just gonna have a separation. And then that way, there's no blurred lines and I'm not leaving you guessing.
34:26 Speaker 02 Yeah.
34:27 Bunnie XO? But yeah, you know, I just think that she's married, she has two kids, she's in a happy, loving relationship and her two friends. You don't have to even stop being friends with them, just make them a once a month friend.
34:39 Speaker 02 Yes.
34:40 Bunnie XO? Where you guys go and have lunch and you're just like, hey, how you doing? Oh, my life's falling apart. Oh, good to know. Okay.
34:44 Speaker 02 Yeah.
34:45 Speaker 01 I'm an empath, so I couldn't just like.
34:47 Speaker 02 Well, but yeah, but that way it's not burdening her on a daily basis. I love the one down, like one time sit down. I had a friend like that. At the end of our friendship, I would let her unload on me like every six weeks or so. And then eventually that was like, okay, I'm gonna phase that part out now because I just don't live that type of life in which everything is surrounded in misery.
35:09 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
35:09 Speaker 02 Like, I'm so grateful.
35:11 Speaker 01 Bringing you down now too.
35:12 Speaker 02 Yeah, exactly.
35:14 Speaker 01 Very low vibration.
35:15 Speaker 02 It's contagious, correct?
35:16 Bunnie XO? It is. Well, it's easy. I always say it's easier to pull somebody down than it is to pull somebody up. Whenever somebody's reaching down, what's gonna happen? You know, that person that's reaching down has the momentum to pull you down with them. It's very hard to pull somebody over that cliff unless they want to help pull themselves over that cliff, you know, so. I, I think we're all out of time in our lives and in an era of our lives where peace is priceless. And if you're not, you know, living, loving and laughing, like fucking all the target signs say, then it's time to fucking remove that shit. He's fucking over here snoring, dude.
35:54 Speaker 01 I know, I'm sorry.
35:55 Bunnie XO? He is over here fucking.
35:56 Speaker 01 When you're like this.
35:57 Bunnie XO? Sawing logs, dude. I'm just like, can you stop?
36:00 Speaker 02 The table. Oh, I see is his head.
36:05 Bunnie XO? I love you. But yeah, that's how I think to handle that situation.
36:11 Speaker 02 I agree.
36:12 Bunnie XO? You guys got any more for me?
36:13 Speaker 01 I had this girl in my group of friends in high school that we all put up with for some reason, even though she was a complete bitch. Anyways, we all take her out to get dessert at this very popular place in town and we tell her to grab a table while we order everything and pay for her because it was her birthday. We bring out all of the cakes and shit we bought for her with candles in them and this bitch goes, "Why did you all make me sit here by myself for so long? It was so embarrassing." She was legit mad at us and refused to eat or touch what we bought her. She just sat there on her phone and that was the, that was when we all decided to drop her as a friend.
36:50 Bunnie XO? I mean, she was a bitch.
36:52 Speaker 02 She was a bitch, guys.
36:53 Bunnie XO? She was very unappreciative and like, I don't know, some people just don't, common sense is not so common.
36:59 Speaker 02 Correct.
37:00 Speaker 01 I also hate waiting by myself.
37:04 Bunnie XO? Yeah, but you're not gonna, if we come out with a cake and candles, you're gonna be like, and you would, you would eat and you would still partake. I don't know.
37:12 Speaker 01 I'd be like, hey guys, I'm texting you.
37:15 Bunnie XO? Yeah, women who are big drama shows, I can't be around it.
37:18 Speaker 02 They just drag it on.
37:19 Bunnie XO? That's why I can't be on reality TV because fucking I can't handle just the people that drag shit on and like, you know, like, I just can't.
37:28 Speaker 01 It's that pout.
37:31 Bunnie XO? Oh, I can't handle it. Motherfuckers, stop pouting, dude. Yeah, I can't handle that.
37:35 Speaker 02 Can't do the pouts.
37:36 Bunnie XO? No, I'll never.
37:37 Speaker 02 Dude, I'll get with my kids sometimes and be like, you got three minutes to feel those feelings? After those three minutes is done, I'm gonna need you to wrap it up.
37:45 Bunnie XO? 100% though.
37:47 Speaker 02 I was with my daughter this morning
37:50 Speaker 02 and she didn't want me to put her hair in a braid, but you know when it's like staticky outside and the hair like gets wild? I was like, it's going in a braid. And she's like pulling on the braid and she's like. You get in the car and she's still like, and I literally quietly said, you got three minutes.
38:05 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
38:05 Speaker 02 For what? I said, to feel the feelings you got. And after that, we're over it.
38:09 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
38:10 Speaker 02 And so after three minutes, she was like, so where are we going?
38:14 Bunnie XO? But that's good because you're teaching her to recognize like, hey, there's no need to drag this out.
38:20 Speaker 02 But it's okay to have the feelings in the moment.
38:22 Bunnie XO? Feel them.
38:23 Speaker 02 We do have a time limit.
38:24 Bunnie XO? Get the fuck over it, bitch. Yeah.
38:28 Speaker 02 So quick to be like, I need, I need to be the responsible parent that lets you have those feelings. Cause I always had the parents that were like, why do you feel so upset about this situation? I was like, cause I'm human. Um, but like, okay, cool. Be upset, but not for 20 minutes.
38:43 Bunnie XO? Yeah, no, I get it. I get it. Luckily Bailey's, Bailey used to be like that. She used to like drag out her feelings. And now she's just like how I am. She'll be like, she'll be like, all right, even if I yell at her, she'll be upset for a second. And then she'll be like, hey, mom, you know, and like just come around. Cause I've taught her the same thing. Like it's okay to like be in your feelings, but don't drag it out and make everybody else around you miserable. Because you're just gonna make yourself miserable.
39:06 Speaker 02 You know what I feel like that ends up turning into? You know, like when you're in a relationship with someone and then you guys fight, but you don't know how to come out of the fight?
39:13 Bunnie XO? And the fight lasts for two weeks. Oh my God, that is the most exhausting.
39:17 Speaker 01 Yeah, I can't cause I just, I'd look at them and start laughing.
39:21 Speaker 01 Me and my brother, me and my brother, the biggest fight we ever got into is when he lived with me. And I don't know what it was about, but he pissed me off. And I literally was like, I like pushed him. And he pushed me back into my bathroom. I had like a picture frame behind the toilet. He pushed me and I fell back into it. All the glass shattered like behind me. And we looked at each other, we start cracking up and it pissed me off that he was laughing. And then I got mad again and then we laughed again about it.
39:52 Speaker 02 So Bailey energy?
39:53 Bunnie XO? Yeah, for sure.
39:56 Speaker 01 I was like, stop laughing at me. Like you broke my fucking picture.
40:00 Bunnie XO? Yeah. Don't be putting your hands on girls.
40:03 Speaker 01 Yeah.
40:03 Bunnie XO? You little twat.
40:04 Speaker 01 I, I beat him up.
40:06 Speaker 02 Yeah.
40:07 Speaker 01 Yeah, I win.
40:08 Bunnie XO? Yeah. All right. Well, see you guys next week. Bye.
40:12 Speaker 02 Bye.
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