TBT: Bunnie & Meme Q&A

Throwback Thursday Bunnie and Meme are in the hot seat this week, answering fan questions about everything from confidence and relationships to health and handling life’s chaos. Bunnie spills about the first time she locked eyes with Jelly and his wild leap from rock to country, while Meme shares her blueprint for self-love and finding hobbies you won’t ditch after a week. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Dumbblondepod

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:00Bunnie XO?

  Is this thing on?

• 0:01Speaker 01

  Bonnie, who used to be a former sex worker and now hosts the podcast Dumb Blonde.

• 0:05Speaker 02

  Most little girls grow up wanting to be doctors and lawyers and shit. And I was like, I want to be super hot, make a lot of fucking money and be a rock star's wife. That was my goal as a child. And here we are.

• 0:18Bunnie XO?

  All right. How should we kick this off?

• 0:21Speaker 02

  Just like that.

• 0:23Bunnie XO?

  Sup guys. Mimi and I have decided to do a Q and A with you guys today.

• 0:27Speaker 02

  I feel like this is the most requested thing people want.

• 0:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 0:31Speaker 02

  A Q and A or advice or anything along those lines.

• 0:35Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 0:35Speaker 02

  Uh, no, we had like a lot. So I'm sorry if we don't get to everyone. Like you guys emailed, you guys DM'd, you guys, uh, commented on the post that she put up and there was a lot. So we sifted through them. We chose some of our favorites and yeah, let's dive into this.

• 0:52Bunnie XO?

  I should love this guy so much.

• 0:54Speaker 02

  He's been getting all the love today.

• 0:56Bunnie XO?

  He's just very active. He, you know, he got a million views on another video on Tik Tok and he just thinks he's the star of the show now.

• 1:02Speaker 02

  Too big. He's just, you're too famous, Chach.

• 1:05Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:05Speaker 02

  Putting all of us to shame.

• 1:07Bunnie XO?

  You're normally laying down.

• 1:09Speaker 02

  I know. He's wants to be a part of it today.

• 1:12Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. He wants to, I'm looking at him on the camera right now. Say hi.

• 1:16Speaker 02

  I think it's my favorite part of the podcast is when he pops his little head up above it.

• 1:19Bunnie XO?

  All right. Well, just here. All right. We're just gonna hang out.

• 1:27Bunnie XO?

  What are you doing, bubba?

• 1:29Speaker 02

  That's the best thing I've ever seen.

• 1:31Bunnie XO?

  All right. Well, we're just, I gotta, some people like parrots on their shoulders. I've got an exotic bully.

• 1:36Speaker 02

  Let's dive into these questions. There was a lot. There was, I mean, some people sent us their life stories and like, it was a lot to go through.

• 1:47Bunnie XO?

  Not asking questions anymore.

• 1:50Speaker 02

  So we're just gonna dive off into one of my favorite ones in here. Let me see where it's at. Uh, cause I thought it was such a good question and we're starting out strong. Would you rather be able to speak to animals or speak every language?

• 2:04Bunnie XO?

  To animals. I don't care to talk to people.

• 2:07Speaker 02

  I already knew your answer. You said fuck people.

• 2:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no, let me walk up to a horse and be like, saw dude.

• 2:13Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 2:13Bunnie XO?

  Let me fucking, dude, if I could communicate with Chachi.

• 2:15Speaker 02

  You already do.

• 2:16Bunnie XO?

  Sometimes I wonder, I'm like, are we on the same level? Like, I literally can hold conversations with him and even though he doesn't respond back, I know he's listening.

• 2:26Speaker 02

  You guys like have this really special bond. I don't see many people have a bond like you and Josh.

• 2:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, he's my baby. I love him to death.

• 2:34Speaker 02

  Sweet baby.

• 2:35Bunnie XO?

  My son.

• 2:36Speaker 02

  Um, this one asked Stephanie said, what's your workout?

• 2:40Bunnie XO?

  What about you though? Hold on. What about you? What would you rather talk to?

• 2:44Speaker 02

  What would I? I don't know. I kinda wish I would be able to speak every language.

• 2:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Well, you've been trying to like learn fucking Spanish.

• 2:52Speaker 02

  Duolingo. And I've been doing it for two hundred days.

• 2:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, you have. Almost a year.

• 2:58Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 2:59Bunnie XO?

  Say some, say some words for us.

• 3:00Speaker 02

  Hold the conversation yet.

• 3:02Bunnie XO?

  Say some just words.

• 3:03Speaker 02

  Like, uh, mujer means woman and then like, you know, like, uh.

• 3:07Bunnie XO?

  Cabeza.

• 3:08Speaker 02

  Yeah, or I, I can, I can order beer, like.

• 3:11Bunnie XO?

  Pinche.

• 3:12Speaker 02

  Two cerveza or like dos cerveza, por favor.

• 3:15Bunnie XO?

  De donde es?

• 3:16Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 3:17Bunnie XO?

  Que hora es?

• 3:19Speaker 02

  I feel like I can read it really well. I can like, uh, when I go shopping, I can understand the people talking, but.

• 3:25Bunnie XO?

  I think he speaks Spanish. I said me Gusto and he turned, what is happening over here? He's like, I don't know, just freaking out. You all right?

• 3:35Speaker 02

  I feel like he responded to your Spanish.

• 3:37Bunnie XO?

  He did.

• 3:38Speaker 02

  Are you Spanish?

• 3:39Bunnie XO?

  Chachi, I knew it. I knew you were a Spaniard. It's the gold chain. You okay? What's the matter?

• 3:47Speaker 02

  It's his little Cuban links.

• 3:48Bunnie XO?

  He's on alert right now.

• 3:50Speaker 02

  I know, he's very like.

• 3:52Bunnie XO?

  I think he's staring outside and he's catching a shadow. I don't know what he's looking at, do you?

• 3:59Speaker 02

  No, okay, well.

• 4:02Bunnie XO?

  Josh is acting up today.

• 4:05Speaker 02

  What is your favorite desserts or cheat day meals?

• 4:10Bunnie XO?

  Desserts?

• 4:12Bunnie XO?

  I love a good brownie. It has to be dark chocolate.

• 4:17Speaker 02

  She really likes the Dolly Parton brownies.

• 4:19Bunnie XO?

  The Dolly Parton brownies.

• 4:22Speaker 02

  So fucking good, you guys.

• 4:23Bunnie XO?

  They will make you slap yo mama. Okay, like they are so good. I don't know if she puts crack in them or something, but even Jay, Jay and I had two separate conversations. I fucking told Bug, I was like, sorry, Dolly, if you're watching this, I'm cussing. I'm trying not to cuss so you can use it. Um, I told Bug, I was like, those Dolly Parton brownies are lit. I was like, they are so good. What's in them? And she's like, nothing, I don't think. And then Jay comes in an hour later, goes, dude, those Dolly Parton brownies were bomb. And then that's what I told you about them.

• 4:53Speaker 02

  Yeah. And so I went to the store that night, literally got them. Me and Olivia made them the next day and they're like, fudge brownies and you add this like package of fudge into it. And I don't know, they're like not cakey, but they're not like chewy, like they're the perfect mix of them. I don't know what she puts in there. Crack.

• 5:12Bunnie XO?

  Amazing. So good. Yeah. Yeah. Go buy a Dolly Parton brownies.

• 5:16Speaker 02

  The only time you really cheat is like during your period.

• 5:20Bunnie XO?

  It's my excuse.

• 5:21Speaker 02

  I would say like cheat meal.

• 5:22Bunnie XO?

  Cause I refuse to get on a scale during my period. So I'm like, you know what? It's a fucking free for all, but I need to stop doing that because it's really not good for your body.

• 5:30Speaker 02

  And then you just jump back on to your diet.

• 5:31Bunnie XO?

  I literally just like give myself grace for a week and I'm just like, fuck it. I'm just going to eat the chip. I'm going to eat the fucking bread. I'm going to do whatever. And then as soon as I'm like, three days into my period, I'm like, okay, I'm eating better.

• 5:43Speaker 02

  Yeah. I would say my favorite would probably be creme brulee and it's hard to find like a good creme brulee.

• 5:50Bunnie XO?

  I used to love it. And then I ordered it one night from a, um, from room service at a hotel and I was so ready for it. I was like drunk, wanted it, bit into it. It tasted like fucking hand lotion.

• 6:03Speaker 02

  It probably was.

• 6:04Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 6:05Speaker 02

  That's so fucking gross.

• 6:07Bunnie XO?

  Cause creme brulee is the texture of lotion.

• 6:11Speaker 02

  Exactly.

• 6:11Bunnie XO?

  And it, it tasted like lotion. Yes. Yeah. And I mean, no, somebody fucking, I might've been rude to the room service guy or something. And he just put, oh, probably. I'm sure I've swallowed a few babies. I didn't mean to. Along the way.

• 6:30Speaker 02

  Oh my god, I can't, I can't even. Uh, but where, where did you and Jelly Meat?

• 6:38Bunnie XO?

  We met at um Las Vegas Country Saloon in twenty fifteen in Vegas.

• 6:42Speaker 02

  It's the first time you laid eyes, I know, but like, it could be new.

• 6:46Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 6:47Speaker 02

  First time you laid eyes on him?

• 6:49Bunnie XO?

  Yep, he was playing, opening for the Moonshine Bandits and I was like, what is this? What is this man? This big southern boy.

• 6:57Speaker 02

  Were you at the concert? Were you backstage or like?

• 7:01Bunnie XO?

  So there was not that many people there, so it was more of like, everybody was walking around.

• 7:06Speaker 02

  Oh.

• 7:07Bunnie XO?

  Like, it was like a big room and just uh with a stage. So everybody was walking around, but yeah, we were backstage like drinking and stuff like that, but like, there was, it wasn't, Jay wasn't, nobody even knew who he was. He was opening for the Moonshine Bandits, you know? Like, he might have had a little pop in Nashville, but people on the west coast didn't know who he was. We were there for the Moonshine Bandits.

• 7:25Speaker 02

  That goes into my next question that someone asked. They wanted to know, how has your transition been going from rap to country?

• 7:32Bunnie XO?

  It's been smoother than I thought.

• 7:34Speaker 02

  Yeah?

• 7:34Bunnie XO?

  They have been, we haven't met any assholes yet.

• 7:38Speaker 02

  They've been so welcoming.

• 7:39Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, they have literally been so welcoming and just so um, nonjudgmental. I mean, at least not to our face. I mean, whatever they say behind closed doors, they're entitled to, but yeah, no, everybody's been like so sweet.

• 7:53Speaker 02

  You guys have made some really nice friends.

• 7:54Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 7:55Speaker 02

  I love that while we were at CMT Awards, you had a little special something backstage with Winona.

• 8:01Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I love Winona, dude.

• 8:02Speaker 02

  I'm glad I got that call on camera too. That was such a special moment. She, I mean, she literally like snuck up on you. She had her eyes locked on you and just beelined.

• 8:11Bunnie XO?

  Oh, she is so sweet. Like, she is just everything that you would, and she's so tiny.

• 8:16Speaker 02

  Yeah, I didn't expect that.

• 8:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I thought she was gonna be like super tall. She is tiny.

• 8:20Speaker 02

  That's been my biggest like, like epiphany with even like just being, meeting people you see online or in movies.

• 8:30Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, everybody's so much smaller.

• 8:32Speaker 02

  So much smaller than you think.

• 8:33Bunnie XO?

  Except for me.

• 8:35Speaker 02

  You and Callie like tower over people.

• 8:37Bunnie XO?

  Everybody.

• 8:38Speaker 02

  You guys are already naturally tall.

• 8:39Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 8:40Speaker 02

  And then you add heels.

• 8:41Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 8:41Speaker 02

  And you guys are much taller.

• 8:43Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 8:43Speaker 02

  So tiny.

• 8:44Bunnie XO?

  I'm five, five, five, six and I tower over everybody.

• 8:48Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 8:48Bunnie XO?

  Like it's crazy.

• 8:49Speaker 02

  It's so wild. Like even some of the musicians we met when you met.

• 8:52Bunnie XO?

  Carly Pearce is tall.

• 8:53Speaker 02

  Yes, she is tall.

• 8:54Bunnie XO?

  She's very tall.

• 8:55Speaker 02

  Yeah. When you met Eddie Vedder, I didn't expect him to be like you kind of bend down a little bit to give him a hug. And I was like, I didn't.

• 9:01Bunnie XO?

  He was a little nugget.

• 9:03Speaker 02

  Yeah. These people look so much bigger.

• 9:05Bunnie XO?

  Super little nugget.

• 9:07Speaker 02

  You know?

• 9:08Bunnie XO?

  I was, I, yeah, they're very, very tiny.

• 9:10Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 9:10Bunnie XO?

  It's crazy. The camera really does add height.

• 9:13Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 9:14Bunnie XO?

  Not even pounds, but height.

• 9:15Speaker 02

  Truly. Yeah, that's crazy.

• 9:17Bunnie XO?

  Blake Shelton's tall as fuck, too.

• 9:18Speaker 02

  Yeah. Gwen was too.

• 9:20Bunnie XO?

  Was she? I didn't get to see her.

• 9:22Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 9:22Bunnie XO?

  Stand next to her.

• 9:23Speaker 02

  Yeah, she was tall because she was standing next to, um, she performed with, um.

• 9:28Bunnie XO?

  Carly.

• 9:28Speaker 02

  Carly.

• 9:29Bunnie XO?

  Mm hmm.

• 9:29Speaker 02

  And Carly's already kind of a little bit taller.

• 9:31Bunnie XO?

  Carly's taller than me.

• 9:32Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 9:33Bunnie XO?

  She walked by me and she's taller than me.

• 9:34Speaker 02

  Like they were very comparison.

• 9:36Bunnie XO?

  Wow.

• 9:36Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 9:37Bunnie XO?

  I would picture, I would think Gwen would be tiny.

• 9:39Speaker 02

  Mm, mm. I mean, I guess when you look at her with Blake, like he's already such a tall human. She doesn't look super small next to him. So she's got to have some height to her.

• 9:46Bunnie XO?

  Probably like five, six.

• 9:47Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 9:48Bunnie XO?

  And just wears, she wears those tall ass heels.

• 9:50Speaker 02

  She does. She wears huge shoes.

• 9:51Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 9:52Speaker 02

  Yeah. Um, this one, should we add dirty stuff to this?

• 9:58Bunnie XO?

  Sure.

• 9:58Speaker 02

  Yeah. Does Jelly let you squirt on his face? My husband refuses, but it feels so good.

• 10:03Bunnie XO?

  My husband is so vanilla. He doesn't like any of that shit. He is like, just ride me and get off. Literally. Give me a blowjob, ride me, get off.

• 10:14Speaker 02

  Someone asked how you guys get in your mood. How, how does it?

• 10:18Bunnie XO?

  Dude, we're so busy. Like really the last thing we ever think about is sex. I mean, I think about it all the time and I'm sure he does too, but we're just so busy and so tired.

• 10:26Speaker 02

  You guys have to schedule it into your calendars.

• 10:28Bunnie XO?

  Literally. And it's like by the end of the night, like he's fucking had a day. I've had a day and we're just like, our thing is like, we love crawling into bed and just watching a TV show together.

• 10:39Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 10:39Bunnie XO?

  Cause it's like, we don't ever get to really do that, especially like during tour and shit like that. Like, so whenever we can just like have a normal sit down and watch a show, that's like foreplay for us.

• 10:49Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 10:49Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 10:50Speaker 02

  Aww. But me and Jason, you know, Jason's at home raising our kids and he's working and trying to do all the household stuff too. I'm constantly working. So by the time we like get into bed, it's like.

• 11:01Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 11:02Speaker 02

  Like it's just such a peaceful place.

• 11:03Bunnie XO?

  Last thing I want to do is get my heart rate up and that's how I know I'm getting old because normally the twenty year old me would be swinging from the chandeliers and me now I'm just like, I'm not about to fucking do cardio before I go to bed when I gotta wake up and do it again. Like fuck that.

• 11:17Speaker 02

  I've never felt as old as I did when we finally got one of the beds that the head goes up.

• 11:22Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 11:23Speaker 02

  And that's, I can't sleep without it. When we tour and like we go places, I'm like, man, I really wish that my bed like came up at least three inches right now because

• 11:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 11:32Speaker 02

  that's how I really felt old was the day I got extended about my bed being able to be elevated.

• 11:38Bunnie XO?

  We'll never not have a sleep number.

• 11:40Speaker 02

  Oh, it's cra- I don't have a sleep number. We got a Tempur-Pedic, but it's just, it's a life changing like, you don't realize how good it feels on your body and you can lift your feet up and yeah, it's been great.

• 11:50Bunnie XO?

  I love the feet thing. Jay hates it.

• 11:52Speaker 02

  Really?

• 11:52Bunnie XO?

  He hates it.

• 11:53Speaker 02

  Are you guys as our individuals, right?

• 11:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 11:55Speaker 02

  Or is it one whole bed? Ours is one whole bed.

• 11:57Bunnie XO?

  No, so it's individual heads.

• 12:00Speaker 02

  Oh.

• 12:01Bunnie XO?

  And then the feet are connected. So now he wants separate beds. Cause I literally, I will, I'll sleep like cradled, like with my head up and my feet up.

• 12:08Speaker 02

  In the zero gravity?

• 12:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, like kind of like that. Me too. And he hates it. He's like, please fucking stop. I'm like, God, why? I tell him, I'm like, why do you gotta come into bed so early? I'm like, you used to come in at like three and now you're coming in at ten thirty. What is happening?

• 12:22Speaker 02

  Going on?

• 12:23Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I'm like, what is going on?

• 12:25Speaker 02

  That's funny.

• 12:26Bunnie XO?

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• 13:08Bunnie XO?

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• 13:21Bunnie XO?

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• 14:00Bunnie XO?

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• 14:23Speaker 02

  Um, this person said, um, what is your biggest insecurity? Cause I mean, you do exude confidence, like.

• 14:33Bunnie XO?

  I think people misunderstand, misjudge having confidence with not having any insecurities. You can be confident and still be insecure.

• 14:42Speaker 02

  Yeah, that's what I was gonna ask. Like, what would an insecurity have? Cause I think, I don't think people realize that like everyone struggles with that. No matter how confident you look online or in person or whatever, someone's gonna still have an insecurity.

• 14:54Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I mean, I think I wish I could fucking grow muscular legs and not have my dad's arms and like, you know, I think women pick their bodies apart all the time, um, which is why I'm a perfectionist with my appearance and stuff. Um, probably like my anxiety is an insecurity because I'm constantly having to apologize to people for like, sorry, I just can't hang out like, you know? Or like if people, or if I'm in the middle of a fucking podcast, hey, if you see me wiping myself down with a fucking ice pack or yeah, you know, like, so I mean, that, that's an insecurity.

• 15:29Speaker 02

  Yeah, it doesn't always have to be physical. It could definitely be like, you know, mental or it could be, you know, like there's certain things like that. Yeah.

• 15:37Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. What about you?

• 15:42Speaker 02

  That one's hard. Because I've gone through this huge self-love journey over the last, since I had cash.

• 15:49Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 15:49Speaker 02

  You know, like after I had cash, that I really don't give any more fucks. Like, it's really hard to say like it's an insecurity.

• 15:57Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 15:57Speaker 02

  Yeah, like after him, I worked so hard on like not having insecurities because I felt like it held me back so much. Because I, I really let almost my insecurities cripple me.

• 16:07Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 16:08Speaker 02

  So I feel like if I admit to having an insecurity, it's kind of like a crippling thing to me. Like,

• 16:12Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 16:13Speaker 02

  You know, before it was always my weight, you know, being plus size and I've been plus size my entire life that I started taking.

• 16:19Bunnie XO?

  Even as a child?

• 16:20Speaker 02

  Oh, yeah. Like, not like at like Olivia's age or anything, but quickly like right at the edge of puberty was when my PCOS set in, which I didn't know at the time was PCOS.

• 16:30Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 16:30Speaker 02

  Um, so I just gained weight dramatically, but I was always a thick girl too. Like even as a child.

• 16:35Bunnie XO?

  Listen, motherfuckers are in my DM for you all the time. Girls and guys. Yeah. Sorry, Jason. I'm always like, she's fucking married. Like, what do you want me to do?

• 16:44Speaker 02

  Yeah, no, I was always like thicker, even like when I played sports as a kid, like I was never like a beanpole. My body's just not structured that way at all. Like just being naturally thick. That was a huge insecurity until I let it not defeat me any longer. And that's been like huge. Cause even when I lose weight now, I think like I talked about that before was like

• 17:05Speaker 02

  getting through the hurdles of like self-image before I decided to lose weight because I got to my biggest, it was a very, very unhappy place. But I was like, you know what? Fuck this. Like, if I just like let these insecurities like take a hold of me, it's like a miserable life to live. So I took a hold of the insecurities and I, I don't give a fuck if someone thinks I'm plus size. Like it doesn't affect them.

• 17:27Bunnie XO?

  I think age too. Like the older you get ladies, the more you do not give a shit.

• 17:32Speaker 02

  At all.

• 17:33Bunnie XO?

  About what people think about you. You're just, you get to a point where like, I can't fucking please you. I don't give a shit. I am me. I'm gonna pull whoever I need to pull. The people who love me are gonna love me. Like, if you don't fuck with me, I do not care.

• 17:46Speaker 02

  Exactly.

• 17:46Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 17:47Speaker 02

  Yeah, you get to a point, like you said, it it probably has to do with age too, because like I had cash around twenty nine. So like, you know, going into my thirties and I'll be thirty one this weekend and it just really made me realize like, even if you if you thought badly of me, like this whole time, like, oh, God, I wouldn't wear a crop top because like, what if someone thinks badly of me?

• 18:07Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 18:08Speaker 02

  I wouldn't want you in my life if you were thinking badly of me.

• 18:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 18:11Speaker 02

  You know, so like, that's been a huge thing for me was like in that insecurities. It's like, if you thought those things about me, why the fuck would I want you in my life?

• 18:19Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no, I couldn't agree more.

• 18:21Speaker 02

  So like, it's like, people have accepted me, the people who have accepted me, accepted me being plus size. It's not a fucking, I used to hide behind you and you know this, like, big oversized clothes with leggings. Yes, that's all I would wear. And I was like, it's like I thought that was like camouflage. Like, someone doesn't know I'm plus size under here if I just wear oversized shirts and leggings. No, I'm still fat regardless, you know, so like, if I wear the crop top and jeans, it's no different. At least now I'm comfortable. You know, and I feel pretty before it was like, you only could choose certain clothes.

• 18:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 18:53Speaker 02

  Sort of thing.

• 18:54Bunnie XO?

  I can't wait till Jay gets there because he's such a cute little squishy baby and I just feel like because he is in front of such a huge audience, just critiquing him.

• 19:03Speaker 02

  All the time.

• 19:03Bunnie XO?

  All the time that like he always feels like he has to hide behind jackets and flannels and I'm like.

• 19:08Speaker 02

  Like layers was another thing.

• 19:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, baby, you don't gotta do that. Like, just be the little squish that you are.

• 19:13Speaker 02

  Yeah, and just, yeah, like I said, and Jason struggles too, like, sorry to put your, you know, info out on there, but like, he struggles being a bigger dude also with like his insecurities and I've really tried to help him. And all you can do is love those people because it does not matter. Jason has told me I was beautiful since the day we met, but until you see it yourself, nothing's gonna change that.

• 19:33Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 19:33Speaker 02

  You could be behind that person pushing them for years.

• 19:37Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah.

• 19:37Speaker 02

  You know, you're certain, like you said, you tell him all the time, how like, you know, you love everything about him. That doesn't matter until the person themselves decides to make that change. The same thing with weight loss.

• 19:48Bunnie XO?

  Yep.

• 19:48Speaker 02

  You know, like this. Like two months I've lost thirty pounds and I'm more appreciative of those thirty pounds. Now that I've loved myself because I wasn't doing it to love myself.

• 19:57Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 19:57Speaker 02

  That was the biggest, biggest difference I've ever done was I didn't, I'm not trying to lose weight to love myself. I'm doing it because I want to be healthier.

• 20:04Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 20:04Speaker 02

  I want to be able to, you know, like go jump on the trampoline with my kids and things like that, which I wasn't able to do it that way. So I'm doing it for a whole different reason than I ever had before and I appreciate it so much more now. And I've kept it off, like I have not fluctuated at all, which normally I would have probably off the bandwagon a long time ago and already started like eating shit food again. Yeah.

• 20:24Bunnie XO?

  No, I love that for you.

• 20:26Speaker 02

  That was a whole nother rant.

• 20:28Bunnie XO?

  I think people needed to hear that.

• 20:30Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 20:30Bunnie XO?

  You know, and I think I can talk about stuff till I'm blue in the face, but people don't believe me because I've had work done or I, you know, work out all the time. But hearing it from somebody who is, who really battles weight issues and hearing you be able to be confident, I think they need to hear that.

• 20:46Speaker 02

  Cause and I, I, I always had the misconception that you had to be born confident or you just were naturally confident. And that's not the case. Like it can be learned and I told myself that I was like, I didn't come out of the fucking womb, knowing how to drive a car. Or do hair or do our, our lifestyle that we're doing now. All those things were learned. So why can't I learn confidence?

• 21:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 21:06Speaker 02

  So that it was just a learning journey. It wasn't that I had to be born with it or like I was naturally confident. So that's not the case. And what actually helped me, and I don't think I've ever told you this, was you and Viking Barbie were like a huge part of my confidence journey. Because I got close with both of you guys and I got to see that even the industry's most perfect humans, like in the eye of the world. Like you and Viking Barbie are like perfect, you know?

• 21:32Bunnie XO?

  I love you.

• 21:32Speaker 02

  But like you still struggle.

• 21:34Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah.

• 21:34Speaker 02

  You, you don't see yourself like how the world sees you. You see yourself how you see yourself. And to me, I was like, man, so even if I looked perfect, even if I would still struggle, I would still have anxiety or depression. Because like Viking Barbie opened up about like her mental health also, and you were very open about your mental health. And I was like, oh. So being skinny doesn't make my depression just fucking go away, you know? That wasn't the case. Damn, I was like, I don't think I ever told you guys that. But yeah, that was a huge part of me, like making that flip is being closer to you guys and realizing like. Looking perfect doesn't make you mentally stable.

• 22:12Bunnie XO?

  You're gonna pay them the you will pick yourself apart no matter what.

• 22:15Speaker 02

  Exactly.

• 22:15Bunnie XO?

  I'm sure Alex Earl looks in the mirror and is like, fuck, I fucking feel fat today.

• 22:19Speaker 02

  They have an insecurity.

• 22:20Bunnie XO?

  A fucking just gorgeous being, you know?

• 22:23Speaker 02

  Exactly, yeah, and I did, but I never saw that because you never get close enough to people.

• 22:27Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 22:27Speaker 02

  That are look that far away from you, you know, like I never thought of my life being this.

• 22:32Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 22:32Speaker 02

  Right now, so to be able to be close and like you are so open about your mental health online, which helps. I mean, more people than I think you'll ever know.

• 22:40Bunnie XO?

  Well, I don't have a choice. I'm a weird bitch. And I don't want people to think I'm stuck up. It's just more of like, I'm not stuck up, I'm not guarded, I'm just, I have fucking panic disorder.

• 22:50Speaker 02

  You're raw and real and like that helps so many people like realize that it it doesn't take those things to be mentally stable.

• 22:57Bunnie XO?

  Speaking of food, our fucking subs are on the way. I've been checking the phone.

• 23:01Speaker 02

  I was like, did you see me?

• 23:02Bunnie XO?

  No, I got so excited.

• 23:03Speaker 02

  I'm gonna get the fucking sandwiches.

• 23:04Bunnie XO?

  That's why I've been checking this. I'm like, they're on the way. I just hope it's for us and not the house because I just ordered fucking the that for them. Let me see, hold on, I'll tell you right, let me get my glasses on. Sorry, guys, we are hungry. We have pulled it all dayer here at the house.

• 23:19Speaker 02

  It's our third recording.

• 23:20Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it's been crazy. Yep, this is ours on the way.

• 23:23Speaker 02

  Yay.

• 23:23Bunnie XO?

  Perfect.

• 23:24Speaker 02

  This is a good one, um, because I I I chose this specifically because I know this is the struggle of both of ours.

• 23:31Bunnie XO?

  Hmm.

• 23:31Speaker 02

  Uh, Kimberly wants to know, what do you do during your mean time?

• 23:35Bunnie XO?

  Mean or me?

• 23:36Speaker 02

  Me.

• 23:37Bunnie XO?

  Me?

• 23:37Speaker 02

  Me time.

• 23:38Bunnie XO?

  Do we really have?

• 23:39Speaker 02

  Do we have?

• 23:40Bunnie XO?

  Me? When I'm off, I'm literally making clips for TikTok. I'm posting on YouTube Shorts. I'm posting.

• 23:46Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 23:47Bunnie XO?

  I post on Facebook like it's Twitter.

• 23:48Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 23:49Bunnie XO?

  You know, like, I don't, I just always feel like idle hands are of the devil. And I know that's trauma from my childhood.

• 23:56Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 23:57Bunnie XO?

  But I just can't break it. I have to always be doing something.

• 24:01Speaker 02

  Cause March was hard for you to like, and it, you said it was a month off. It wasn't a month off, guys.

• 24:06Bunnie XO?

  You sound like my husband. He even said that last night. I was like, I've had a month off in five years. And he was like, When did you have a month off? I said fucking March and he was like, and then actually technically I had one last March too, but I was still fucking doing shit.

• 24:20Speaker 02

  You still made content.

• 24:21Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 24:22Speaker 02

  Yeah, no, there, there's not been a month off, like a step away from it because, and I get it though, cause like i- if you sit in your thoughts for too long, or you're just like stagnant.

• 24:31Bunnie XO?

  I just can't sit still.

• 24:33Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 24:33Bunnie XO?

  Like even if I'm at home, like, okay, I've finally have trained myself to be able to lay on the couch, maybe a little too good now, but before I would have never laid on the couch before Jay taught me how to relax.

• 24:44Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 24:44Bunnie XO?

  Because I literally would, I'd be around everybody, just nervous energy, cleaning, fucking doing something and Jay would finally be like, bitch, sit the fuck down.

• 24:51Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 24:51Bunnie XO?

  Quarantine is actually what kind of made me have to sit down.

• 24:55Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 24:55Bunnie XO?

  He's like, how many times are you gonna clean the kitchen?

• 24:57Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 24:57Bunnie XO?

  You know, like, sit the fuck down, we're trying to watch a movie, you know?

• 25:01Speaker 02

  Yeah, that's, and it's hard for both of us, like we both struggle on that because also things like that we do, we don't attribute to work.

• 25:10Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 25:10Speaker 02

  Because we've just been doing it for so long.

• 25:12Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 25:12Speaker 02

  You know?

• 25:13Bunnie XO?

  It's, we're just building.

• 25:14Speaker 02

  Exactly. And like, it may like, e- exactly. It's just part of the machine.

• 25:19Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 25:19Speaker 02

  And so like, that wasn't really a month off. Like a month off would be us like literally putting our phones down, which is like, you can't do that.

• 25:26Bunnie XO?

  There's no way.

• 25:27Speaker 02

  Exactly. There's literally no way to make that possible.

• 25:29Bunnie XO?

  We've built our entire life online. So if, if it's not us pushing the, the Patreon, the fucking podcasts, the TikToks, the fucking everything.

• 25:42Speaker 02

  Yeah, yeah, absolutely.

• 25:44Bunnie XO?

  Then people, people have attention spans of gnats.

• 25:48Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 25:48Bunnie XO?

  You know?

• 25:49Speaker 02

  Literally, they'll forget you in two seconds.

• 25:51Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah. Or, or what happens is people are like, well, where is she? Is she okay? And then they start speculating and it's just like, bro.

• 25:57Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 25:58Bunnie XO?

  I'm just, it's just better if I stay here.

• 26:00Speaker 02

  Exactly.

• 26:00Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. If I don't post, you know, there's a problem.

• 26:03Speaker 02

  I would say my me time i- is like when we do our car shows, cause I think that's the only, it's the two times a year, my husband and I go out and I put my phones down. Like I even tell the salon, like, I am not relevant for the next three days.

• 26:15Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 26:16Speaker 02

  And I know that six days a year isn't much, but that is like my moments, like my like.

• 26:22Bunnie XO?

  And I still manage to bother her.

• 26:23Speaker 02

  No.

• 26:25Bunnie XO?

  While she's there.

• 26:26Speaker 02

  Like, I just, I, I can't stress that enough that like, it's so important to at least have like, something, you know? And like, even though it's not a whole month off, there were days that you very much like stepped away and I was very proud of you. Like, you just, you did you, you know, you, you've started meditating, which I think is incredible. I'm a little jealous. I don't have a quiet space to meditate ever.

• 26:49Bunnie XO?

  I just go out front or out in the backyard and.

• 26:51Speaker 02

  My kids would be.

• 26:52Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 26:52Speaker 02

  Up my ass twenty four seven. If I'm home, my kids are with me.

• 26:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 26:55Speaker 02

  Like, I don't, I don't even pee alone. Like, Jason had to start being like, alright, when mom goes poop, like, everyone out of the bathroom. Cause Cash is just standing there, what are you doing?

• 27:04Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 27:05Speaker 02

  Then Olivia's like, look at this thing I made. And like, I know that like, I'm not home much, so I try to use those moments to be like, wow, that's a beautiful art project. Uh, smoking used to be my vice because the kids couldn't be around it and I'm sober now.

• 27:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 27:18Speaker 02

  I have nowhere to go.

• 27:21Bunnie XO?

  She's like, I am present.

• 27:23Speaker 02

  Yeah, it's very.

• 27:24Bunnie XO?

  Very fucking present.

• 27:26Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 27:26Bunnie XO?

  Oh, God, no, being sober is the worst.

• 27:29Speaker 02

  This age right now, having a two year old, I just got Olivia out of my bed, okay? So she's now in her bedroom, in her beautiful little bed, and Cash has decided he can no longer sleep alone. I, there was no, there was no transition. It literally went from one kid to another and now I'm sleeping with another kid in my bed.

• 27:46Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 27:47Speaker 02

  And it is.

• 27:47Bunnie XO?

  He won't sleep with Liv?

• 27:49Speaker 02

  No. No, and they both are like the weirdest, like movers.

• 27:54Bunnie XO?

  Oh, Bailey is the worst.

• 27:55Speaker 02

  In the air, does she move like that?

• 27:57Bunnie XO?

  She'll slap you in your face, she turns around, she's like a.

• 28:00Speaker 02

  Head at the end of the bed.

• 28:01Bunnie XO?

  But she like, like, makes noises in her sleep.

• 28:05Speaker 02

  They do too.

• 28:07Bunnie XO?

  What are you fucking doing, dude?

• 28:09Speaker 02

  Talking in their sleep.

• 28:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 28:10Speaker 02

  Like, Olivia will have a full conversation in her sleep.

• 28:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 28:13Speaker 02

  Cash is just like cries sometimes in his sleep and I don't know what it is, like, night terrors or, I don't, I don't know why he'd have night terrors.

• 28:20Bunnie XO?

  Tears from the room, with the womb.

• 28:22Speaker 02

  Yeah, literally, I'm just like, what is up with these kids? And like, now he's in our fucking bed, you know? And it's like, it is, it's the, the young age is the toughest. Now that I'm at, like, she's at almost seven this year, I'm like, wait, come back, like.

• 28:36Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 28:37Speaker 02

  You know, now she's like, I wanna go sit in my room and like, I wanna go do these.

• 28:41Bunnie XO?

  Oh, wait till she's a teenager. Bailey, I can't even get, she'll eat dinner with us and then she goes up to her room, I'm like, hey, where are you going? Yeah, I'm like, where are you going? She's like, I'm going to my room. I'm like. All right. Well, let me know if you miss me.

• 28:53Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 28:53Bunnie XO?

  Like while you're up there.

• 28:54Speaker 02

  That age, you know, and it is, it's, it's rough. Having a little, they are up your ass twenty four seven, you know.

• 29:00Bunnie XO?

  Oh, Bailey, Bailey is fucking three years away from being eighteen.

• 29:03Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 29:03Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 29:04Speaker 02

  And it, I mean, driving alone.

• 29:06Bunnie XO?

  I don't think she's ever, Bailey's always gonna live with us. I really don't think she's ever gonna branch out on her own unless she goes to college, but

• 29:12Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 29:13Bunnie XO?

  She recently decided that she doesn't want to be a doctor anymore. She wants to pursue music and I'm like, okay.

• 29:19Speaker 02

  Oh, that's happened now. Nice.

• 29:22Bunnie XO?

  I know, I was bummed because I was, I really loved how headstrong she was about wanting to be a doctor.

• 29:26Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 29:27Bunnie XO?

  But, you know, it's not our journey.

• 29:29Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 29:30Bunnie XO?

  You know, so it's like.

• 29:30Speaker 02

  Well, she's flip flopped a lot. Give it a year.

• 29:33Bunnie XO?

  She's a fucking Gemini. She's gonna flip flop her whole life, but luckily she has a Capricorn moon. And I'm really betting on that Capricorn moon to just pull her together.

• 29:42Speaker 02

  Yeah, you're like, come on.

• 29:43Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 29:44Speaker 02

  Come on, doctor.

• 29:44Bunnie XO?

  Come on, Capricorn-y, let's go. Yeah.

• 29:47Speaker 02

  Or even like something like in a field that she's very passionate about, because I knew that the whole doctor thing, she was doing it

• 29:52Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 29:52Speaker 02

  for seizures and like things like that. So, you know, that's something she was really passionate about.

• 29:57Bunnie XO?

  She has a very caretaker, uh, personality. So she loves helping people. She finds herself worth in helping people.

• 30:03Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 30:04Bunnie XO?

  So, which I, I wish I did.

• 30:06Speaker 02

  I'm a, I'm a people pleaser. You know that about me.

• 30:08Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 30:09Speaker 02

  I love it.

• 30:10Bunnie XO?

  I'm like, let me work. That's my, that's what brings me happiness, you know, makes me feel good. But no, she's a, she's definitely a caretaker. So I, I thought the medical industry would have been great for.

• 30:21Speaker 02

  Someone said they wanted to know what your heritage was and their guess was you are Latino.

• 30:27Bunnie XO?

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• 31:34Speaker 03

  Attention all new and existing members of the W D N C. I'm Melanie Sanders and this is the We Do Not Care Club podcast. We got to midlife and realized we just simply do not care much anymore. Now we got to help each other make sense of hot flashes, dry coochie, chin hair, trifling families, brain fog, and bat wings. We are not alone and we will be heard. So come join the W D N C. Follow and listen to the We Do Not Care Club podcast with Melanie Sanders wherever you get your podcasts.

• 32:05Bunnie XO?

  Um, I am white trash and Brazilian. So my Volvo was 100% Brazilian. And my mom is white trash roots from Kentucky.

• 32:17Speaker 02

  But you didn't always know this. What have you?

• 32:20Bunnie XO?

  I've, I've, I've told this story before, but I'll tell it again. My fucking dad, a good old Bill. Okay, let me just tell you that motherfucker told me my entire life I was Brazilian and Italian. So I've told everybody I'm Brazilian and Italian, you know, like, and fucking, you know, because it sounds so exotic. And this fucking guy, I don't think he thought I was his kid, came to me one time and was like, hey, I'm going to come out and visit you, but I want you to take this test that I took to find out what percentage everything you are. And I'm like, something like, oh, my dad wants to find out our heritage and stuff like that, you know? So he comes out here, swabs me and, you know, gets me to send the thing in or whatever. Meanwhile, he was low key trying to figure out if I was his kid because my mom had just admitted

• 33:05Bunnie XO?

  that my sister's dad wasn't her dad. Oh yeah, we're white trash around here. But anyway, so I think in a back of his mind, he was like, is this fucking kid mine? You know? So we get our test results back and there's not any fucking Italian at all. I'm like, hey, Bill, are we fucking Italian? He's like, well, no. I'm like, well, no, I'm like, my whole fucking life is a lie. And I'm telling you, I just found this out when I was forty one. Yeah. So when I finally got to meet my mom and I was like, Mom, where are we from? Apparently I come from like a long line of like witches from Southern Kentucky.

• 33:45Speaker 02

  Wow.

• 33:46Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. And I was like, oh, so we're just white trash.

• 33:48Speaker 02

  It makes sense.

• 33:49Bunnie XO?

  White trash gypsies.

• 33:50Speaker 02

  Oh, I love it.

• 33:52Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. So I'm like, fuck it. I'll take it. It's better than being Italian, I guess.

• 33:55Speaker 02

  Yeah. Uh, this next question is, when did you be begin your holistic journey?

• 34:00Bunnie XO?

  I began that probably when I started getting sober. Um, technically I started that in twenty twenty whenever I felt my first bout of suicidal ideation. That was, I will never forget laying in my bed and literally I felt so tired. And just like, I didn't want to be here anymore. The thought of living to like fifty years old made me fucking like, I was exhausted. And I was just like, I can't do this anymore. And I didn't even realize like how bad that's that shit gets. I've always not kind of scoffed at people with depression, but I didn't understand it because I had anxiety. I'm a go getter. I'm gonna get up, get out and do something. If I'm having a panic attack, I'm gonna fucking run through it, you know?

• 34:45Bunnie XO?

  And when I got that suicidal ideation, that was a different level of fear because you don't trust yourself. And you're just like, holy shit, this is dark.

• 34:55Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 34:55Bunnie XO?

  You know? And so, you know, me being a person who tries to fight and figure it out, I was like, okay. First of all, I'm never gonna let this overcome me. Secondly, I need to figure out why I'm feeling like this. And, you know, by that time I had been sober about a year and a half, two years off alcohol, sober off pills almost since twenty seventeen. I think I was probably late twenty seventeen that I stopped taking pills. So I think, you know, it took two years for my brain to just even think about healing after all the drugs I'd been on. I've been on fucking Xanax since I was twenty something years old. You know, that's right there alone is neurological damage.

• 35:38Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 35:39Bunnie XO?

  Pills, alcohol. I mean, I'm, I'm talking like I drank, like it was scary. I could drink a whole bottle of Belvedere and still be standing.

• 35:46Speaker 02

  Yeah. And people don't realize the tolerance you can build up.

• 35:50Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 35:50Speaker 02

  Having drank as much.

• 35:51Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah.

• 35:52Speaker 02

  As you had, like, I mean, you know, I'm sober, but I did have like this much wine the other night. And when I say this much wine, it had me turnt.

• 36:01Bunnie XO?

  Tipsy.

• 36:02Speaker 02

  I was like, I remember I had like a year ago, you know, eight fucking Red Bulls and vodkas.

• 36:09Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 36:09Speaker 02

  I drank this much Chardonnay and I'm like spinning on the couch. I'm like, Jason's like, you good? And I'm like, I'm a little percolating over here.

• 36:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no.

• 36:18Speaker 02

  Fucking, you know?

• 36:19Bunnie XO?

  Wine will fuck you up too.

• 36:20Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 36:20Bunnie XO?

  Wine is a different beast.

• 36:22Speaker 02

  It was a Martha Stewart one too.

• 36:24Bunnie XO?

  I love, and I'm probably gonna get a lot of shit for this, but I love how a lot of southern women hide alcoholism behind wine drinking.

• 36:33Speaker 02

  Oh, I have stories.

• 36:35Bunnie XO?

  Hmm. Yeah. But a lot of women hide their alcoholism behind wine. And I get it. That's their only way to relax. But I mean, are you really relaxing or are you covering up some more shit?

• 36:49Speaker 02

  People will like scoff at like marijuana smokers.

• 36:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, or judge people who don't go to church every day.

• 36:55Speaker 02

  Exactly. And I'm like.

• 36:56Bunnie XO?

  Sunday.

• 36:57Speaker 02

  You're literally like, you know, mimosas before you're taking your kids to school.

• 37:01Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 37:02Speaker 02

  Like the, those are the things, those are the choices you're making.

• 37:05Bunnie XO?

  That's very, and, and it's not just southern women too. Bitches in Vegas are the same way, except it's not wine, it's champagne.

• 37:11Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 37:12Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 37:12Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 37:12Bunnie XO?

  They all get lit on champagne at ten AM. Like it's nothing.

• 37:16Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 37:17Bunnie XO?

  I'm like, man, I wish I could do that. I wish I could be that free.

• 37:21Speaker 02

  I could never imagine.

• 37:22Bunnie XO?

  And we're not judging.

• 37:23Speaker 02

  No.

• 37:24Bunnie XO?

  We're just saying, like, you know.

• 37:26Speaker 02

  Yeah, absolutely.

• 37:27Bunnie XO?

  Pay attention to why you're drinking as opposed to how you're drinking.

• 37:32Speaker 02

  Yeah, what are you masking?

• 37:33Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, exactly. What are you running from?

• 37:35Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 37:35Bunnie XO?

  Are you in an unhappy marriage? Do you, are the kids driving you fucking crazy?

• 37:38Speaker 02

  Mm hmm.

• 37:38Bunnie XO?

  You know, listen, if I had kids, I would drink bottles of wine too. Okay, so we're definitely not judging at all, but I was just saying that, you know, you can be an alcoholic and not even realize it.

• 37:50Speaker 02

  Yeah, exactly. Well, and like, because they don't see that as alcohol abuse or anything like that, you know?

• 37:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 37:56Speaker 02

  That's so true. Like, I feel like sometimes it goes in hand in hand with like, men who are beer drinkers. It's just a beer.

• 38:03Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 38:03Speaker 02

  You know, you're like, five packs in, it's no longer just a beer.

• 38:07Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 38:08Speaker 02

  Like, the whole bed of your truck is full of them. And it's the same thing like with women and their wine.

• 38:12Bunnie XO?

  Some fucking troll the other day was talking shit about my husband and that. He's like, he is not sober. I saw him fucking pound a beer at a concert the other day. I said, my, first of all, that's a lie.

• 38:22Speaker 02

  What?

• 38:23Bunnie XO?

  Secondly, my husband doesn't drink beer. Yeah.

• 38:25Speaker 02

  I don't think I've ever seen him touch a beer.

• 38:27Bunnie XO?

  Ever. My husband would never drink a fucking beer.

• 38:30Speaker 02

  Ew.

• 38:30Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Jay's, Jay's bougie when it comes to shit. Oh, no, it was just crazy to me. So when you said that about the beer, I was like, oh, this is hilarious. I gotta tell this.

• 38:38Speaker 02

  What would you tell someone that is fresh out of a domestic relationship?

• 38:44Bunnie XO?

  Domestic violence?

• 38:45Speaker 02

  Mm hmm.

• 38:45Bunnie XO?

  Or like domestic marriage?

• 38:47Speaker 02

  You said relationship.

• 38:49Bunnie XO?

  Probably D V relationship. Um, allow yourself grace. You know, you're gonna probably go back seven more times. Um, you're gonna be mad at yourself, you're gonna be mad at that person, you're gonna think you're making the wrong choice. You are going to be addicted to the chaos.

• 39:11Bunnie XO?

  It's like you go through like withdrawal. It's like a drug withdrawal.

• 39:15Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 39:15Bunnie XO?

  From that person.

• 39:16Speaker 02

  You touched on this in the Kale podcast, both of her podcast and your podcast. And I feel like that's very insightful. So I would say to hear more about that, I would go listen to those podcasts. Cause you guys really went in depth with like how you felt in those moments.

• 39:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 39:31Speaker 02

  And like coming out of those and like how you guys are now on the other end of your domestic relationships. And you said something really, really like kinda caught me and you said, you always think they're gonna do better, but they never do.

• 39:43Bunnie XO?

  No, they never do. Like you. It's like you want to fix them, um, and you want so badly for them to be the person that you need. And they're just never gonna be that person.

• 39:55Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 39:56Bunnie XO?

  They're literally just trapped in their own toxicity. And until they wanna actually really get help, I don't know if you can ever really calm a violent nature like that in a human. A man that beats on women, that's a different breed.

• 40:10Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 40:11Bunnie XO?

  You know, I don't know if that's ever really fixable.

• 40:13Speaker 02

  And what did you say um, about the narcissism is that like they don't want people knowing about it.

• 40:21Bunnie XO?

  Oh yeah, because they don't wanna be embarrassed.

• 40:23Speaker 02

  They don't want to be embarrassed about themselves. They don't care that they hurt you. The guilt isn't there that they hurt you.

• 40:27Bunnie XO?

  They don't wanna look like monsters to other people.

• 40:29Speaker 02

  Yes, it's the ego.

• 40:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, absolutely. Yeah.

• 40:33Speaker 02

  Tell people, tell, you know, if you need help, find the help that you.

• 40:37Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, tell people, but just know that if you do tell people about it and then you run back to them, you're gonna have to deal with that too. So it's just a whole.

• 40:44Speaker 02

  To wipe your hands clean.

• 40:45Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it's a whole cycle. And once you are ready to get off the fucking hamster wheel, you will.

• 40:51Speaker 02

  Hamster wheel, that's a good one.

• 40:52Bunnie XO?

  Literally what it is. You're just fucking spinning your wheels.

• 40:55Speaker 02

  Yeah. Um, what would you tell a young woman with big dreams in her twenties, relationship or life advice?

• 41:04Bunnie XO?

  Um, in your twenties, I would tell you, don't worry about a relationship. I would say have fun and our food is here.

• 41:11Bunnie XO?

  I would say have fun. Um. You're twenty, literally, love is gonna be there. If I could go back and talk to twenty year old Bunny, I would eliminate half the dudes I fucking dated and wasted my time with.

• 41:24Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 41:25Bunnie XO?

  No dude ever brought any fucking sort of worth to my relation, to my relationship with myself or to my life. I was always me, fucking bringing in the money, fucking helping, trying to fix them, chasing them, fucking dealing with cheaters and fuck that dude.

• 41:41Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 41:41Bunnie XO?

  Invest in yourself, fall in love with yourself. Love will come.

• 41:45Speaker 02

  Fall in love with yourself.

• 41:46Bunnie XO?

  Literally, once you fall in love with yourself, you'll find somebody who will know how to love you because you will know how you want to be loved.

• 41:54Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 41:54Bunnie XO?

  And when people, you know, get into their thirties, okay, cool, you want to start settling down, whatever, I still think you should still be having fun. Find your groove, find what you want to do. Don't live for everybody else, live for yourself because this is, you need to be selfish with your time.

• 42:10Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 42:11Bunnie XO?

  Because you are only gonna be in your twenties once.

• 42:14Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 42:14Bunnie XO?

  You don't get to go back.

• 42:15Speaker 02

  Yep.

• 42:16Bunnie XO?

  You know, so make those fucking, you don't have to have a career in your twenties.

• 42:19Speaker 02

  No.

• 42:20Bunnie XO?

  You don't need to know what you want to do in your twenties.

• 42:21Speaker 02

  No.

• 42:22Bunnie XO?

  You literally just need to have fun.

• 42:24Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 42:24Bunnie XO?

  Do everything that you fucking love and do it twice.

• 42:27Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 42:28Bunnie XO?

  You know?

• 42:28Speaker 02

  Exactly. Like, uh, I think it's so important, like, e- everyone is so pressed for you to find out what you want to be when you're eighteen.

• 42:36Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 42:36Speaker 02

  No one knows what the fuck they want to be when they're eighteen.

• 42:39Bunnie XO?

  Weird.

• 42:39Speaker 02

  When you're twenty, when you're twenty one, like, I spent ten years behind the chair and you have no idea when I stepped away and like I retired from behind the chair and went full time with you, how many of my friends reached out within the beauty industry and was like, how'd you step away? I didn't realize how many people were so miserable, the, the hair community is filled with people who thought that was a quick answer when we were eighteen.

• 43:03Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 43:04Speaker 02

  We wanted to please a parent or it was a cheap college to go to or something along that. There are so many miserable people out there working behind the chair because they're so afraid to go do something else.

• 43:15Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 43:16Speaker 02

  And at twenty eight years old.

• 43:17Bunnie XO?

  Hair, but in life.

• 43:18Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 43:19Bunnie XO?

  Like if your family has a family business or you know, if your parents make you go to college, I mean, go to fucking college, have fun.

• 43:26Speaker 02

  It's okay to change careers.

• 43:27Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 43:28Speaker 02

  Don't try to be who you're gonna be the rest of your life in your twenties.

• 43:32Bunnie XO?

  Get it all out of the way.

• 43:34Speaker 02

  Just do it, you know?

• 43:35Bunnie XO?

  Just fucking do it, dude.

• 43:36Speaker 02

  Yeah, it's so crazy. I was so scared because I thought for sure whatever I decided to be when I was eighteen is what I had to be the rest of my life.

• 43:44Bunnie XO?

  And I'm so glad I told my parents to go fuck themselves.

• 43:46Speaker 02

  Fucking happy I'm not.

• 43:48Bunnie XO?

  I was like, I'm gonna do whatever I want to do.

• 43:49Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 43:50Bunnie XO?

  I've been doing whatever I wanted to do my entire life.

• 43:52Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 43:52Bunnie XO?

  And I don't regret it. The only thing I regret in my life is the men I allowed to hurt me.

• 43:56Speaker 02

  Mm hmm. Yeah.

• 43:58Bunnie XO?

  Mm hmm.

• 43:58Speaker 02

  Wow.

• 43:59Bunnie XO?

  And you don't realize that until you're fucking so far removed out of it and just in a different headspace. You're like, you're like, golly, what?

• 44:05Speaker 02

  You can't see it when you're in it at all.

• 44:07Bunnie XO?

  Like, why did I even deal with that?

• 44:10Speaker 02

  Yeah, it's looking back that you then realize.

• 44:12Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 44:13Speaker 02

  And hopes that someone is listening right now that needs that help.

• 44:16Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 44:16Speaker 02

  That step away because you can't be on the other end looking back if you're constantly in it.

• 44:21Bunnie XO?

  That and just you just, men don't really bring much value, especially men nowadays. I couldn't even imagine.

• 44:27Speaker 02

  I'm so lucky I got the man I did.

• 44:29Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I feel so bad for you guys having a date right now.

• 44:32Speaker 02

  I could never.

• 44:33Bunnie XO?

  I feel so bad for them.

• 44:34Speaker 02

  Literally, if I was that age right now.

• 44:38Bunnie XO?

  I'm gonna fucking freak out when she starts really dating.

• 44:40Speaker 02

  I couldn't do it. It's just too much. Like, I'm so happy that I'm just, I'm so happy where I'm at.

• 44:46Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 44:47Speaker 02

  Yeah, I was so lucky to find that person when I found them and it was a very young age. Like, I met him when I was eighteen. So like, we were young, but I'm so fucking thankful for it.

• 44:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, absolutely.

• 44:57Speaker 02

  Not just saying that because you're editing this.

• 44:59Bunnie XO?

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• 45:44Bunnie XO?

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• 46:27Bunnie XO?

  What did we order? Did they give us?

• 46:30Bunnie XO?

  Is this terrible?

• 46:34Bunnie XO?

  Whose order is this? This is not ours. Okay, this is ours. Like sodas and chips? Oh, my God, that's theirs. They combined ours because I ordered right behind each other. Shit. All right, well, don't mind me smacking in the wind.

• 46:50Speaker 02

  What's the best thing you have found to help with anxiety and the constant nervous scared feeling?

• 46:57Bunnie XO?

  Meditation.

• 46:58Speaker 02

  I was gonna say, your new meditation has been incredible.

• 47:03Bunnie XO?

  Meditation?

• 47:04Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 47:08Speaker 02

  One of my stylists has been struggling with like anxiety and stuff like that. Come to find out, I think she's having heart palpitations like you did. And they, they wouldn't able to find out, but they kept telling her anxiety, anxiety, just like, go on anxiety medication or whatever. I was like, before you try like med, like try meditation, you know?

• 47:25Bunnie XO?

  Apparently, heart palpitations are normal. They say that they're normal. Yeah, it's fucking weird, but I don't, I don't think they're normal.

• 47:33Speaker 02

  That's weird. Wow.

• 47:36Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 47:37Speaker 02

  Jason gets them a lot, but I thought it was from his sleep apnea.

• 47:40Bunnie XO?

  Meditation has been the most healing thing because when you learn how to control your breath, it is a game changer. Cause anxiety, you're hyperventilating, you know? You're not getting enough oxygen or you're getting too much oxygen. So to be able to acknowledge that and be like,

• 48:02Bunnie XO?

  Take a deep breath and then breathe out like it's it's phenomenal what it can do for you and literally I have so much control now over my thoughts because of meditation. I haven't done it in two days and I can feel a difference. But like this other thing I've been doing, I saw this girl on Tik Tok. Who said, if you want to rewire your brain, every time you think a thought that you don't think belongs to you, because you can say other people's thoughts too. Or you can think other people's thoughts. One, you say, that's not my thought, pass it. And you can pass it to another person, which I don't.

• 48:35Speaker 02

  Don't pass it over here.

• 48:37Bunnie XO?

  You guys don't want some of my thoughts, but another thing you can do is say change. So now anytime anything negative pops into my head, I say change. And it's become such a habit now. So like things I don't like change and I can really slowly feel myself changing. Because a lot of things that I would have would have participated in before, I don't want anything to do with, because I just don't feel like it does any good for me, you know? And you know, like people saying shit online or you know, like normally would have pissed me off and now I'm just like, go heal. You know, like I'm just over it.

• 49:12Speaker 02

  Go heal.

• 49:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, literally go heal bitch. I that's what I say to all these fucking grumpy ass trolls online. I'm like, you are too old to be this toxic. Like golly, do better with your life.

• 49:24Speaker 02

  Unhealed, like you said. And just toxic people like find themselves online.

• 49:31Speaker 02

  Yeah, it is like they hide behind it.

• 49:34Bunnie XO?

  They all find each other.

• 49:35Speaker 02

  Yeah, yeah.

• 49:36Bunnie XO?

  They all look the same too. Literally.

• 49:41Speaker 02

  That's the fucking truth. A lot of them won't even put profile pictures up. They hide so much behind it. It's crazy. This person Kelly said, I want to know how to move towards an open relationship and I know you guys don't have an open relationship. Um, so we might not be able to give too much advice on this, but I thought this was an interesting question. She said, I kinda am into poly, but my man only wants to welcome women into the relationship. But I want a relationship that's because there's no ownership, if that makes sense.

• 50:12Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, absolutely.

• 50:13Speaker 02

  So.

• 50:14Bunnie XO?

  So that's how Jay and I are. There's just no ownership.

• 50:17Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 50:18Bunnie XO?

  We're not here to tell you that you can't do something. You have free will.

• 50:25Bunnie XO?

  I don't, I don't like giving advice to the, for this because

• 50:30Bunnie XO?

  everybody's emotions are different, you know?

• 50:34Bunnie XO?

  I don't want to ever cause problems in people's relationships, but I think the best thing that you can do is communicate. Talk about how you're feeling like, hey, I don't want to just have only girls.

• 50:45Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 50:45Bunnie XO?

  I want to have fun too. And you know, if that bothers him, then I don't think that you should have to give in to how, what he wants, if he's not willing to compromise for what you want.

• 50:57Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 50:57Bunnie XO?

  That's just my opinion.

• 50:59Speaker 02

  Mm hmm.

• 50:59Bunnie XO?

  You know, um.

• 51:01Speaker 02

  Agreed upon boundaries, like you and Jay have boundaries.

• 51:03Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 51:04Speaker 02

  To your guys' relationship.

• 51:05Bunnie XO?

  It's an agreement.

• 51:06Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 51:06Bunnie XO?

  You know, like, look, I love you. I'm gonna do life with you for the rest of my life, but I don't expect you to only put your dick in me.

• 51:12Speaker 02

  Don't let it be, um, one sided. That is ownership.

• 51:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 51:18Speaker 02

  You know, and if that's what you're trying to get away from, that's just adding to it. So you need to be able to have your boundaries accepted and, you know, not, not that you both have to have like your own boundaries, but like you guys have to come to a mutual ground because it is a marriage. And there is two of you that are making this work.

• 51:34Bunnie XO?

  That and you're gonna end up resenting your partner. If he's doing everything, if you see him sleep with another woman and he tells you, you can't sleep with another man, you are gonna end up being really resentful. And in the end, that's really bad for a relationship.

• 51:48Speaker 02

  Yeah. You could cause yourself more problems.

• 51:51Bunnie XO?

  Yes.

• 51:52Speaker 02

  In accepting in something like this because you're wanting to make it work for one person. And in reality, it needs to work for both of you.

• 51:58Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, exactly. Like it's not, that's not fair. Does that mean that just because I'm allowed to sleep with other people, I'm running out banging everybody in the world? Absolutely fucking not. I can't.

• 52:07Speaker 02

  God, I feel like so many people think that.

• 52:09Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it's so weird. And my team knows because they're with me 24 fucking seven. I can't even fucking shake people's hands. I'm not gonna let somebody put their dick in me, you know?

• 52:18Speaker 02

  Yeah. You won't even touch a rail coming downstairs?

• 52:21Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 52:21Speaker 02

  What the fuck makes you think you're just put a bunch of random dicks? No.

• 52:25Bunnie XO?

  I'm such an energy person.

• 52:26Speaker 02

  Yeah. And like you said earlier in the podcast, like it's an exchange of energy.

• 52:32Bunnie XO?

  It is.

• 52:33Speaker 02

  You're not just fucking to fuck. Like there is something more there and like you have to be very selective with what you're allowing.

• 52:39Bunnie XO?

  Absolutely.

• 52:41Speaker 02

  How do I find a career? Do I do what I love or just work a job that pays the bills?

• 52:47Bunnie XO?

  That's a question for you.

• 52:49Speaker 02

  So.

• 52:51Speaker 02

  If I was to answer that.

• 52:55Speaker 02

  It's hard because I have this mindset of like I can monetize anything. So like if I have a hobby, I'm like, how can we make money off this hobby? Like, uh, it's a really sick way to think because then that turns into like not being able to have the me time or the hobbies or anything like that. Cause I'm constantly like, like I. I don't know. I'm just that type of person. So. I would almost say, don't do. What you love to do. Like if you were love something and you're super passionate about it, it will burn you out. You know, find something that you love doing that you could make a career out of, but not what you absolutely love.

• 53:38Speaker 02

  Like if it, if, if I guess, I don't know. That's hard too. It's like, you know, a baker, like you love baking and. I'm going to stem this back to I had a conversation with one of my stylists. And her boyfriend loves to cook. And like he, and she showed me the plate, like he plates it, like he knows the flavors. And she always said, like, why don't you go be a chef? And he said, because then I won't love. To do this. This is my hobby. This is my getaway.

• 54:05Bunnie XO?

  They say when you love something, you'll, you'll let it kill you.

• 54:08Speaker 02

  Yes, exactly. So may, don't find the thing that you are most passionate about and make a career out of it. Let hobbies be hobbies. Let me time be me time and just find something that you enjoy doing.

• 54:22Bunnie XO?

  As far as like working a regular job, I would, I would work. To afford to do whatever it is that you want to do, that you can do for the rest of your life. You know, like I had only fans until I kept my only fans and that fueled my podcast until my podcast could finally pay for itself. Soon as it started doing that and I even told me, once it reaches a certain number, I'm shutting down my only fans. And I did that. You know, so that's probably, I think that's kind of what she was asking too is like, do I just work a job that I can't stand? And it's like, don't work a job you can't stand, but do something that's gonna help put you in a position to be able to choose what you want to do.

• 55:01Speaker 02

  Yeah, and work for your lifestyle. That's another thing like, uh, you don't so many times like you think you everyone's goal is to just be this like crazy rich.

• 55:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 55:10Speaker 02

  Like, is that what you really want? I don't want a fucking huge mansion. I could never, I, I would never strive to have the size house that you have.

• 55:18Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 55:18Speaker 02

  That's just me though, like the, I would rather have like tons of cars, you know, cause that's just what the lifestyle I want.

• 55:25Bunnie XO?

  No, I get it.

• 55:26Speaker 02

  I don't want to.

• 55:27Bunnie XO?

  I don't like having a lot of money.

• 55:28Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 55:29Bunnie XO?

  It scares the shit out of me.

• 55:30Speaker 02

  I, I always thought I did for like, cause I don't know if we're just conditioned from being young.

• 55:35Bunnie XO?

  We are.

• 55:35Speaker 02

  You have to be rich.

• 55:37Bunnie XO?

  You gotta be, become a millionaire. Okay. Become a millionaire. Now what?

• 55:40Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 55:40Bunnie XO?

  It's like you pay so much more taxes than anybody.

• 55:43Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 55:44Bunnie XO?

  You're fucking robbed.

• 55:45Speaker 02

  Yeah. Your circle gets smaller.

• 55:47Bunnie XO?

  You can't trust people. Like it's just, when they say more money, more problems, they really meant that.

• 55:52Speaker 02

  Yeah, truly.

• 55:53Bunnie XO?

  I think a happy life is just quaint, quiet and not that I'm complaining. I, this is the position that I have put myself in and I'm happy to be here and I'm happy to be my family's first millionaire.

• 56:04Speaker 02

  For it.

• 56:04Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, so thankful, but you know, it's, it comes with a price.

• 56:10Speaker 02

  And I think me seeing those kind of things and like, you know, I, I just personally don't want something big. Cause one, it's a lot of upkeep.

• 56:18Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 56:18Speaker 02

  You know, at first I don't want to clean all that, you know, and I know Jason don't want to clean all that. You know, and so it's like, I would be cool. I mean, I would be so happy with like literally a, a four bedroom house so that both my kids have bedrooms and we have, you know, an extra playroom for them and then an office in it. I would be so cool with that, but in like hella acreage and then like a shop for Jason. That would be like so goal for me. I don't have to have this like crazy large home.

• 56:45Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 56:45Speaker 02

  That's just not what makes you happy. So I hope that she finds something that.

• 56:49Bunnie XO?

  A middle ground.

• 56:50Speaker 02

  Yeah. Fuels her lifestyle that she strives to have.

• 56:53Bunnie XO?

  Don't mind me guys, I'm switching sandwiches.

• 56:55Speaker 02

  She's like, here's some ASMR real fast of my Jersey. That's honestly what I feel like. That's pretty much a lot of my questions. I feel like I, we've gotten. All the questions.

• 57:04Bunnie XO?

  I mean, you guys sent in a lot, but.

• 57:06Speaker 02

  Any other ideas you guys want on Patreon? Shoot them our way. I know we were thinking about doing a cooking one.

• 57:11Bunnie XO?

  Hmm.

• 57:12Speaker 02

  Doing some cooking for you guys, because everyone really enjoyed Bailey's cooking episode.

• 57:17Bunnie XO?

  Good.

• 57:17Speaker 02

  You guys really wrote in, wrote in about, yeah, like you guys have used that recipe and have really, you know, enjoyed that. So her and I were thinking about doing that.

• 57:28Bunnie XO?

  Don't mind me.

• 57:30Speaker 02

  Give him a little ASMR.

• 57:32Bunnie XO?

  It's gluten free bread, so it's really dry, but it's so good. I love gluten free bread over regular bread.

• 57:39Speaker 02

  Really?

• 57:40Bunnie XO?

  Hmm. I need to have a take a bite.

• 57:42Speaker 02

  I'm good.

• 57:44Bunnie XO?

  Love you guys. We'll see you later.

• 57:46Speaker 02

  Bye.

• 57:46Bunnie XO?

  Bye.