Most Replayed Moment: Neuroscientist’s Proof Of Life After Death! Dr Tara Swart

Dr Tara Swart is a neuroscientist, psychiatrist, and bestselling author known for her work on the brain, consciousness, and human behavior. In today’s moment, she opens up about the devastating loss of her husband and the extraordinary journey that followed. Dr Tara Swart explores grief, signs from loved ones who have passed and the neuroscience behind near-death experiences - asking the ultimate question - can the mind really exist separately from the body? Is there life after death? Listen to the full episode here: Spotify: https://g2ul0.app.link/xo3PtVOYV1b Apple: https://g2ul0.app.link/rUdXutSYV1b Watch the Episodes On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Dr Tara Swart: https://www.taraswart.com/

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• 0:04Steven Bartlett?

  So your husband, Robin, you met him 2016? And he passed away from leukemia in?

• 0:14Dr. Tara Swart?

  2021.

• 0:15Steven Bartlett?

  2021. Now, from 2021, when he passed away, what happened in your life? What was going on in your world? If I was a fly on the wall in your context, what would I have seen?

• 0:27Dr. Tara Swart?

  He'd been given two weeks to live, but he actually lived for three and a half weeks. And he died two days before our fourth wedding anniversary. So I was literally reading condolence cards on my fourth wedding anniversary. If it wasn't for the people that have around me who became like a fortress, I don't think I would be here today. You know, never having had that experience before, it was just so, so devastating.

• 0:54Dr. Tara Swart?

  And even though I'm a neuroscientist and a psychiatrist, I just,

• 0:59Dr. Tara Swart?

  I just was like totally lost and broken.

• 1:04Dr. Tara Swart?

  And then I started seeing Robins in the garden every single time I went to the window, both in Hampshire and London. I've never ever seen so many Robins in my life, like not before or since. I still see them sometimes, but I noticed it. I thought, of course, that's what I want to see. I have no idea what it means, if anything.

• 1:29Dr. Tara Swart?

  And then about six weeks after he passed away, I was asleep and I heard a noise in the distance. And we had been burgled once, so I went to check it wasn't the alarm in the garages. Couldn't work out what it was, thought maybe it was birds in the distance. Went back to sleep, it was about 4am. And then I got woken up by a massive thump to my shoulder. I wouldn't demonstrate it on you because it would be too much for me to hit you that hard. It wasn't like a tap. So I opened my eyes and I could see next to my bed, a very vague, hazy version of Robin, as if he was pushing himself through treacle to be seen.

• 2:12Dr. Tara Swart?

  And I was just transfixed and I saw him become more and more clear. I could see the outline of his hair in his face. And then suddenly he just dissolved from the top down and my eyes went like this. And I remember seeing his shins and his feet. And I was like up on my elbow watching and I just gasped out loud. In my desperation, I did consult a couple of mediums. And again, I had that dual conversation. I said to myself, this is the kind of thing that crazy desperate people do. And within the same breath, it's okay for me to be crazy and desperate right now. I've lost my best friend, my life partner, like my, everything I thought about how the world worked has crashed around me.

• 2:57Dr. Tara Swart?

  And I ended up think, you know, being, not being impressed by the mediums. And just at some point, I can't even remember when now, thinking if it's possible to communicate with someone that's passed away. And he was my husband and my best friend. And I am all about optimizing my brain and expanding my consciousness. Then I should be able to do it myself. That's, that's the start of my journey that I've written about in the signs.

• 3:25Steven Bartlett?

  And do you think you found the answer?

• 3:26Dr. Tara Swart?

  Yeah.

• 3:28Steven Bartlett?

  How sure are you?

• 3:29Dr. Tara Swart?

  Hundred percent.

• 3:32Steven Bartlett?

  I mean, if, if, if what you're saying is true, then that's a pretty, I mean, that's a revelation, right? So many people have lost, lost people or um have gone through different types of loss in their life. And you're telling me that through the work you've done over the last couple of years and the research you've done, you understand how to communicate with them in some capacity?

• 3:53Dr. Tara Swart?

  Mm hmm.

• 3:55Steven Bartlett?

  And you're one hundred percent sure?

• 3:56Dr. Tara Swart?

  Hundred percent.

• 3:57Steven Bartlett?

  So listen, here's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna challenge you in ways that I think um the viewer might challenge you sat at home. So I'm gonna try and ask the questions that the viewer might ask. Because there's, you know, people, the, this idea is quite a significant perspective shifting one. So my job in this conversation, although these are sensitive matters, matters of course, is just to try and play devil's advocate where I can.

• 4:24Dr. Tara Swart?

  And I just, I want to say that, you know, you know me.

• 4:26Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah, I know.

• 4:27Dr. Tara Swart?

  And you know that you've asked me to come back on the podcast several times and I've come when I'm ready.

• 4:31Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah.

• 4:31Dr. Tara Swart?

  So I want you to ask me those questions.

• 4:33Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah. So where does this journey begin then? So this, you suffer this tragic loss in your life. You go to the mediums, you're let down by them. Where does this begin? Where does your research, your, your journey of discovery begin?

• 4:47Dr. Tara Swart?

  It starts with this decision to, um, you know, try to communicate with him myself. There's a realisation at some point that it's not a one-way thing, that when people pass away, they also have to learn. So it's, it's like two people having to learn a language to speak to each other. Like two people who speak a different language, having to learn a language that they can both speak. That's, that's how it felt. Obviously, as a scientist, I then wanted to find out as much science as I could to, to try to back it up, which really comes down to the science of whether the mind or the psyche or the soul can exist separately from the body.

• 5:30Dr. Tara Swart?

  And I will say that way before I even started thinking about this stuff, just the, the moment that he died, which he died in front of me, once he'd actually passed away, I remember a really strong feeling of looking at his body and just knowing that wasn't him. And that the essence of who he was, I didn't know where it was, but it was not there lying in that bed.

• 5:50Steven Bartlett?

  And when did you realise that you were going to start to collect research and do research on this idea of being able to communicate in ways that most people don't realise we can communicate through science? And also, when you talk about being able to communicate through these 30-plus senses, is that just with the dead or is that with each other? Like, can I communicate through, you know, is there other ways that I can tap into these senses that you discovered through your research?

• 6:19Steven Bartlett?

  That will help me be more effective with the living too.

• 6:21Dr. Tara Swart?

  Hmm. I mean, I think it starts with yourself. So I think that the fact that if you're not even aware that you've got thirty four senses and you're obviously not consciously tapping into something that you're not aware of. And and some of them are non conscious senses anyway. Um. Things like the pH of your blood or like the balance of oxygen and carbon dioxide in your blood. You're, you know, you're not going to be conscious of those. You can't necessarily exert much control over them. Although obviously if you slow down your breathing or you do a certain type of breath work, it it could have an impact on those things. The conclusion that I came to. So like I said, I went to the brink a few times. I went to the brink. Let me give you the first example. I realised that the first anniversary was coming up on October twenty sixth.

• 7:05Dr. Tara Swart?

  And around, you know, a couple of months before that, I was doing the best that I had been doing so far. But I was very aware this anniversary was coming and I wanted to prepare myself mentally. But from the fourth of October, I suddenly like was in aches and pains all over my body, which actually lasted for six or seven weeks and was accompanied by me feeling so depressed that I actually had to look in the mirror and like go through the criteria for clinical depression and work out if I was actually depressed or not. And I didn't meet all the criteria, but it was in this physical pain. I could not understand why. I I went for a massage. It was so painful. I didn't go again for a year.

• 7:47Dr. Tara Swart?

  So eventually I looked through my um diary or calendar on my phone. And I looked back to October fourth, which was the day that it started. And that was the day that I'd taken him home to die. That was the day I took him home from hospital. I didn't remember that date. But clearly my body had and the trauma was just reemerging as like physical pain.

• 8:08Dr. Tara Swart?

  And I only realised quite a lot later that I had to to do some somatic work to actually get rid of the last bits of trauma that. Talking therapy can't actually get to.

• 8:18Steven Bartlett?

  Somatic work.

• 8:19Dr. Tara Swart?

  So body work, whether that's massage or dance or art or craniosacral therapy, Tai Chi, you know, like anything physical. Because basically, there's an area in the brain, it's actually inside, so I can't really show it to you on this, but it's kind of inside there. And that part of the brain is to do with articulating speech. And it basically gets shut down by trauma. So those sort of phrases like, I'm speechless, or I'm dumbfounded, or I have no words, indicates the fact that there may be residual trauma that's held in your body that you can't actually articulate and get out and solve through talking therapy. So it requires some kind of physical therapy. So that was obviously to do with my sense of pain.

• 9:05Dr. Tara Swart?

  And it took me a little while to kind of put together what that might mean by really like tapping into why was my body

• 9:12Dr. Tara Swart?

  manifesting pain to to sort of remind me of something or show me something. But also, in the first couple of weeks after Robin's body, Robin's body was taken away the morning after he died. And it was just under two weeks till the cremation. In that time, I would wake up in the morning and I would be absolutely freezing cold, like shaking and shivering. And it was October, it wasn't like midwinter. And I would blast up the heating. When someone else was in the house, I would realise it was like a sauna, it was actually a bit embarrassing and had to like, you know, turn it down and like open some windows. And Robin actually hated being cold. And he would have been in the morgue in a refrigerator drawer that whole time.

• 9:56Dr. Tara Swart?

  And again, I think it was my sense of temperature that was kind of on the same wavelength as where I didn't consciously think of where he was, but I was feeling freezing cold. So it was, looking back, it was things like that that were coincidences, absolutely. But then, over time, and I'm talking a couple of years, I could ask for specific signs and get them. Sometimes, at first it would take a while, and then it became like it would happen that day. I could ask a question in my head and get an answer. I mentioned having, you know, sort of again, being at the brink of my sanity, having to question things. I was experiencing something called thought insertion, which in psychiatry is one of the symptoms of schizophrenia.

• 10:39Dr. Tara Swart?

  It's when you have a thought in your head that you know isn't yours. So I was experiencing that really vividly. But can you imagine experiencing that and at the same time being a psychiatrist that is is saying, right, Tara, you do realise you are having like a psychotic symptom? And so in my research, one of the things I realised that maybe, you know, if you're going through grief and you don't know the things that I know, you can't articulate to yourself that grief in many ways is like psychosis. It's changing the levels of neurotransmitters in your head. It's changing the electric, electric and chemical like signalling in your head. I just have so much empathy for people that that have to go through that and don't have

• 11:21Dr. Tara Swart?

  the wherewithal or the resources that that I did.

• 11:25Steven Bartlett?

  Do you think one needs to cultivate their ability to see signs? Do you think it's like going to the gym?

• 11:30Dr. Tara Swart?

  Totally, totally. I've, it took me years. And like I said, I believe it took him years as well. So, yeah, I say it's like learning a language, but you're right. It's like going to the gym.

• 11:41Steven Bartlett?

  And what does one need to do in that gym to grow their sign muscle?

• 11:47Dr. Tara Swart?

  Well, it always starts with believing, right?

• 11:49Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah. Do you think that's one of the big issues in terms of being able to access these other dimensions or dynamics is most people just don't believe in it? So I wouldn't, I'm not even sure if I'd say most people, I'd say a lot of people don't believe in it.

• 12:03Dr. Tara Swart?

  Well, they secretly do, but they're scared to talk about it because they think people ridicule them.

• 12:07Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah. Because, because I don't know, my, my brain, my brain feels like I need to have the scientific evidence of things for me to accept them because I think sometimes I worry that if I don't have scientific rigor around my beliefs, then I would, I'm susceptible to believe anything and I'll believe in a spaghetti monster at the bottom of the garden and I'll believe, you know, every religion in the world and every, and everything. And then I'm unanchored and then I blow around like a plastic bag in the wind and then I have no orientation.

• 12:34Dr. Tara Swart?

  Yeah.

• 12:34Steven Bartlett?

  So I think, okay, rigor is the basis of my beliefs. I have to have some sort of scientific evidence.

• 12:40Dr. Tara Swart?

  I know you do.

• 12:42Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah. It's not to say I'm not open minded because I've had my mind changed so many times in my life that one would be dumb now to not be open minded and to not listen.

• 12:52Dr. Tara Swart?

  I agree with you about rigor. I completely agree with that. My entire career has been based on that, but I just, you know, I was pushed up against a wall, so I had to think differently. And I think the question that I posed to myself is, is what if?

• 13:05Steven Bartlett?

  You had to think differently.

• 13:08Dr. Tara Swart?

  So the psychologist Carl Jung talks about, when he talks about the collective unconscious, he talks about those basically three main things that all humans experience, which is birth, life and death. And so we have this common experience, which is actually part of our inherited gene and brain structure. So everyone who's ever lived will experience those things. But if we look at ancient wisdom, for a start, we are made of the carbon and hydrogen and oxygen and nitrogen that came from the big bang. So we're all made of the same thing. Our ancestors lived in the cycle with nature. I think us actually having broken our connection to nature is a huge part of why we're so disconnected and unhappy. So

• 13:52Dr. Tara Swart?

  if you think of the life cycle of a salmon, for example, it, you know, it goes through its life cycle and eventually its bones contribute to the phosphorus on the floor of the forest. So it never really goes away. In many other ways, our ancestors repeatedly saw the cycles of nature and therefore always kind of knew that everything gets renewed and nothing ever completely goes away. And I think that's a really important thing to return to. I think, you know, when we question things, which you're absolutely right to do, I think we have to look at things that we didn't think were true, that we now know are true, as just ways of being open to the fact that things in the future

• 14:34Dr. Tara Swart?

  might become obvious or known that aren't known now. I think that is an important place of being open minded to, to sit at. And so, for example, want to hear about slime mould?

• 14:50Steven Bartlett?

  You tell me if that's something I want to hear about.

• 14:52Dr. Tara Swart?

  So slime mould are single celled organisms like amoeba, who go about their daily life on their own, very happily, as long as their basic needs are met. But if, for example, they're facing potential starvation, they will come together and form a slug, because the slug can move towards your vegetable patch, you know, a new food source, and they can survive. Equally, if they are, if they are facing potential extinction, they will come together and form a foring body like a mushroom. So that's got a stalk and a fruiting body that can release fours that will go into

• 15:37Dr. Tara Swart?

  the atmosphere to all different places where these new baby organisms can can grow and thrive. But if you think about it, the single cells in the stalk are sacrificing themselves for the greater good because there's no chance that they're they're going to get released into the atmosphere as a four because they're in the stalk. So some of them actually cheat and climb up the stalk to get into the fruiting body and displace other cells from the fruiting body. So things like that, and for example, the mycorrhizal network, which is how mushrooms and mycelium feed the roots of trees. Even trees that have been felled can be kept alive for centuries because the mycorrhizal

• 16:20Dr. Tara Swart?

  network, which is the connection between mycelium and tree roots, can bring water and sugar to that tree stump to keep it alive. And trees and mycelium don't even only do it for the same species. They do it because they're part of the entire forest and its symbiotic relationship. And they care about each other. Things like this would have been like thought to be fantastical 10 years ago. You know, we're in L A at the moment and I saw the driverless car for the first time. Now, when I was growing up watching sci fi, I never thought I'd see that in my life. So that's all I'm saying that. And I'm saying it from the point of view of being a cognitive scientist and I'm talking about the nature of consciousness.

• 17:05Dr. Tara Swart?

  I'm not talking about other, not asking you to believe, you know, other parts of science, but based on the fact that we don't know everything. We've learnt loads of things that we thought weren't true before.

• 17:18Dr. Tara Swart?

  I strongly believe there's a benefit to humanity of raising this kind of question and having this conversation, which I ask you why it's a taboo conversation. What, you know, why shouldn't we be enlightened? Why shouldn't we feel better? Why shouldn't we be more connected? Whatever we've been doing up until now certainly hasn't been working.

• 17:40Steven Bartlett?

  When was it that you made the decision that you were going to write a book about this called The Signs? Was there a particular moment in this process where you realised that you were going to dig deeper and that then you were ultimately going to share this with the world?

• 17:54Dr. Tara Swart?

  I wasn't intending to write a book at all, but I'd got to the point where I had something that I could share with people that I actually thought would be useful.

• 18:01Steven Bartlett?

  And at this point, you're communicating with Robin.

• 18:04Dr. Tara Swart?

  On a daily basis.

• 18:04Steven Bartlett?

  On a daily basis.

• 18:05Dr. Tara Swart?

  Yeah.

• 18:06Steven Bartlett?

  Give me some colour to that. What does that mean? Give me some examples, if you can.

• 18:10Dr. Tara Swart?

  Well, either will be that, like, I'll ask a question in my mind and the answer will come in my mind, but I know it's not my own thought. Or I'll just get a direct, like, message from him in my mind that I know isn't me. But mostly, it's the signs. So I've talked to you about the first anniversary and how hard that was. By the time of the second anniversary, I was actually in America and I'd been filming in studio for a week and then I was on the road on the Navajo Nation. And that was due to, I was due to fly out of the Navajo Nation on the second anniversary of Robin's passing.

• 18:49Dr. Tara Swart?

  And by that point, I was feeling a bit like I'd completely burnt out and I had a choice about how to reemerge, you know, whether that was going to be in a good way or I wasn't going to be able to make it. And I had this analogy of a phoenix rising from the flames in my mind. So on that trip, I said, darling, send me the sign of a phoenix.

• 19:16Steven Bartlett?

  You said that to who?

• 19:17Dr. Tara Swart?

  To Robin in my head. And I I chose the phoenix because it's really unusual. So it's not like if I said, you know, a dog, I'm probably going to see a dog on the pavement every day. But I chose something that is not an easy thing to see. And I was actually in Oklahoma City where, you know, you wouldn't expect necessarily to see like something unusual. Every single day between my hotel and studio, I went through Chinatown and I passed a restaurant called The Phoenix Garden with a big emblazoned like, you know, sign. And on the way there, I had had an indirect flight from Boston and the flight leaving Boston was late. So I missed my connection in Chicago.

• 19:56Dr. Tara Swart?

  And I had to spend a night in Chicago. And then I was, you know, late for filming and stuff. And so when I was leaving to go to LA, I was leaving on a on a Sunday. And from the Monday onwards, I had a podcast every single weekday in LA. And so the team said to me, we know that you cannot miss that flight. We are not going to put you on an on an indirect flight. We absolutely promise you direct flight to LA. So you'll find from Monday onwards. We were in the middle of nowhere for like a week. And basically, my flight wasn't booked because we didn't know which airport we were going to be at. We arrived on the eve of the anniversary of Robin passing and my flight was booked that day.

• 20:39Dr. Tara Swart?

  And it was from Flagstaff in the Navajo Nation to LA. Flying on the day of his anniversary, no direct flights. I had to fly through Phoenix, Arizona on the day of his anniversary.

• 20:51Steven Bartlett?

  You've probably heard of that old analogy of when you buy a car, you end up seeing the car everywhere on the road. Like I buy buy a new car and then I go everywhere and it seems like everybody's got my car because of, do they call it confirmation bias in science and psychology? Where once you've got something in your head, you're more likely to see that thing. I think they've done studies on this where if you are exposed to something or you're told to think about something, then you'll see it more in the world. How do you separate what you're saying from that proven psychological phenomenon?

• 21:19Dr. Tara Swart?

  I don't. I say use it to your advantage.

• 21:21Steven Bartlett?

  But how do you know that wasn't what was happening in your life? Because if you thought about the word phoenix and then over the course of a couple of days, you're looking at everything, but you're only going to register the things that are emotionally resonant. You know, I might have seen phoenix a lot of time over the last seven days.

• 21:36Dr. Tara Swart?

  And it means nothing to you.

• 21:37Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah, so I didn't, I didn't register it.

• 21:40Dr. Tara Swart?

  Again, I would say the number of times this has happened, the sort of like how narrow I make the criteria. So, you know, sometimes I say I need to see a button or a symbol of a button or the word button, but it's got to happen three times by 11pm tomorrow. And one of my friends says that, you know, we share something, which is if you see a pair of lions and we send each other pictures of it, but she says it has to be if you went out of your way and you walked a different way and then you saw them. If it's like, you know, the normal way that you go or somewhere that you know that they exist, that doesn't count. It has to be if you went out of your way. So I had a previous thing with Robin, which was about the figure of eight or the infinity symbol.

• 22:26Dr. Tara Swart?

  And there's a story in the book of how that was cropping up for me when I actually met him. But there was a day recently where I had some spaced, I had three spaced out meetings in the day. So I thought I'll take the opportunity to walk for an hour between them all. And for the last meeting of the day, I ended up walking past UCH, which is University College Hospital, where he was having treatment. And that had been a really traumatic time for me when he was in hospital there. And I have, I will have to say I kind of avoided that area since then. I'll tell you about a particular story that was like really traumatizing for me. So on this walk to where I was going for the evening for a book launch event,

• 23:11Dr. Tara Swart?

  I ended up walking past the hospital. And I actually said in my head, like, why would you make that happen to me? Like, why, why do I have to walk past that building? I never want to see that building again in my life. And again, I said, you have to send me a sign. And by the time I got to Euston Station, so you know, you can, people who don't know can Google this, it's not very far. There was an elastic band in the figure of H lying on the pavement and that means something to me.

• 23:40Dr. Tara Swart?

  So the thing about this confirmation bias thing is it's dependent on the reticular activating system, which is the system of your brain that filters out what's not crucial to your survival and filters in what it wants you to notice. And so actually, one of the things I've written about in the book is the art of noticing. Because really, we live in this world where the life is passing you by at 100 miles per hour. You're not noticing things that could actually be crucial to you thriving, rather than you just surviving. And in this model called shared trait vulnerability, which falls under the field of research called neuroaesthetics.

• 24:24Dr. Tara Swart?

  So basically, creativity is a positive personality trait, right? But there is a high correlation between creativity and psychopathology, which is mental illness, particularly depression, schizophrenia and alcoholism. And there are quite a few high-profile examples of creative people who had mental illnesses, like Alexander McQueen, Kurt Cobain, Van Gogh. So what that shows is that there's an area of overlap of three particular ways of thinking that are underpinned by neurology that are the reasons that people with mental illness are so creative.

• 25:06Dr. Tara Swart?

  And they are basically hyperconnectivity. So that's two things. That's joining the dots in the material world of things that aren't obvious to other people. But it's also hyperconnectivity inside the brain. So if you think about all these lobes, if you think about all these lobes, the more lobes that are firing at the same time, and there's also a cortex that's known as the association cortex. So that one, you know, these lobes can be firing, but they're not necessarily connecting up with each other. The more interconnected all this firing is in the brain, the more the brain... Opens up to new ideas, and so that underpins creativity.

• 25:49Dr. Tara Swart?

  And also, this usually really involves the visual cortex, which is in the occipital lobes. And that's why sometimes people, whether it's through psychedelics or, you know, sort of, sort of altered states of consciousness through creativity can can see things that they didn't see before.

• 26:04Steven Bartlett?

  Mm hmm.

• 26:04Dr. Tara Swart?

  There's also something called novelty salience, which is noticing new things, or just noticing things of importance that you would otherwise have filtered out. And there's something called attenuated latent inhibition or low latent inhibition, which is to do with that filter. And it means that the filter allows more things in than it normally does.

• 26:26Steven Bartlett?

  Mm hmm.

• 26:27Dr. Tara Swart?

  So you can see, we've got hyperconnection, we've got noticing more things, and we've got the filter like loosening and allowing more things in. Now, if you've got a high IQ, high working memory, and you've got cognitive flexibility, which you can think, you know, out of the box, that's a really good thing. If you've got a low IQ, you've got deficits in your working memory, and you've got what's called perseveration, which is you just go over the same thought process process over and over again, that can lead to you having a psychological crisis. So I took that model and thought, if grief is like psychosis, and I'm currently in a very vulnerable state, is creativity a conduit for me to get not only back to the state that I was in before,

• 27:12Dr. Tara Swart?

  but into a state of expanded awareness where I can loosen the filter as I choose, as I choose fit, I can notice things that I would have passed by before, and I can think differently about how my mind works, how the world works, possibly what happens after someone passes away. And then I went and, you know, looked into near death experiences and terminal lucidity and dark retreats. Like I said, I went down a rabbit hole.

• 27:39Steven Bartlett?

  And what did you find in that rabbit hole?

• 27:41Dr. Tara Swart?

  At the border of life and death, usually within one to 24 hours of death, someone who has

• 27:50Dr. Tara Swart?

  Whose brain hasn't been functioning, who can't remember the names of their own children, suddenly becomes completely lucid and says, Stephen darling, come over here, let me, you know, let's have a nice like mother-son chat. And then that gives a lot of people hope, but usually that means it's an hour or 23 hours till the person's going to die. We can't explain that. How can a brain that's irreversibly damaged suddenly function completely normally? There is no explanation for that. With the near-death experiences, I was particularly compelled by three stories. Dr. Mary Neal, an orthopedic surgeon, she's in that Netflix documentary, Surviving Death. She was submerged underwater for 15 or 20 minutes. She should never have been able to be resuscitated.

• 28:37Dr. Tara Swart?

  She describes her whole journey of going to another realm, seeing, you know, a being of light, being told that her life isn't over, she has to turn back and return to the physical world, even though she could see her bloated body and her friends trying to reach her to resuscitate her and they couldn't. Dr. Eben Alexander, who wrote Proof of Heaven, he is a doctor, he was an atheist, he was in a coma with bacterial meningitis and was pronounced clinically dead, and then basically came back and said that he saw heaven and he now believes in a god that is benign, that cares about the future of humanity. So for me, as a doctor, hearing these stories from other doctors was really, really convincing. And then there's one story that Dr.

• 29:22Dr. Tara Swart?

  Bruce Grayson told me, he's a professor of psychiatry at University of Virginia, who has done 50 years of research into near-death experiences. And he told me the story of a patient in ICU who kept going into cardiac arrest and he had a primary nurse, he was a young 20-year-old nurse, and they had a really close bond. And one weekend, she was, she had time off for the weekend and he had a different nurse looking after him, and he went into cardiac arrest and he had a near-death experience. And in that near-death experience, he saw his primary nurse, she said to him, your life isn't over, you have to go back and get better, and please tell my parents I'm

• 30:06Dr. Tara Swart?

  sorry about the red MG. So he wakes up in ICU, he's got this replacement nurse looking after him. And he says, the strangest thing just happened. I had this experience of being in this other world. I saw my primary nurse and she said I had to come back. And she also said, tell my parents sorry about the red MG. So the temporary nurse starts, bursts into tears, runs out of the room. He has no idea why. Someone comes in and says, what's just happened? He explains and they tell him that his primary nurse was given a red MG for her 21st birthday, took it out for a test run, crashed it into a tree and died.

• 30:51Dr. Tara Swart?

  Now, he didn't know she was dead, but he saw her on the other side and she told him to come back.

• 30:58Steven Bartlett?

  And the guy that told you this story was who, relevant to the patient? Who said that?

• 31:03Dr. Tara Swart?

  Dr Bruce Grayson. He has done 50 years of research on near death experiences. He's got over 5,000 recorded cases of patients of his own that he's looked after that have had near death experiences. And he also shared with me the numbers of cases that other people have on databases. So, you know, we're looking at over 10,000 cases globally recorded at the moment.

• 31:28Steven Bartlett?

  What is it that you believe, based on those near death experiences, like the red MG story? And based on this phenomenon of terminal lucidity?

• 31:40Dr. Tara Swart?

  So Professor Alexander Bathyana, who wrote Threshold about terminal lucidity, put it really nicely when he said, maybe at the border of life and death, we see something that is true all along, but we don't, for whatever reason, see it or acknowledge it whilst we're alive and well, which is that the mind and body can operate independently of each other.

• 32:04Steven Bartlett?

  It is quite shocking. There's this case from 2009. An eighty-two-year-old woman with Alzheimer's disease, who was non-verbal and non-responsive, and had no apparent recognition of her surroundings or families for years. And then, one day before her death, she suddenly sat up in hospital, looked around and recognized her daughter by name, spoke clearly, reminisced about the past, thanked her family for caring for her. Her speech was coherent, her memory was intact, and her personality recognizable, as though she had never been ill. She fell asleep that evening and died peacefully during the night. And what do you think's happening there? What do you think's happening there?

• 32:43Dr. Tara Swart?

  It's possibly, you know, partially explained by a surge in neurochemicals, but it's not explained by, how can those neurochemicals act if the physical neurons and synapses are damaged? There is no explanation. The only explanation is that the mind is not emergent from material matter. It's not... The mind, the thoughts, the emotions, the psyche, cannot be solely emerging from physical matter. That's the only explanation, from what we understand so far.

• 33:16Steven Bartlett?

  And so what is it that you now believe? You believe that our souls and our bodies are two separate things? And where does our soul live if it's not living inside of me? So like, where is Robin?

• 33:27Dr. Tara Swart?

  So I believe that, you know, whether you want to call it the universe, consciousness, collective consciousness, godhead, cosmic soup, I don't... The word for it isn't important. There's somewhere that that energy goes and it still exists in some form. And if you believe in reincarnation, then you may believe that it then enters another body as a vessel and, you know, has a different life. But it doesn't go away.

• 33:59Steven Bartlett?

  How do you know?

• 34:03Dr. Tara Swart?

  I'm going to say something that I know you're not going to like, but I know because I feel it personally, I feel it like with the person I've been closest to in my entire life, who I know would never leave me if they didn't absolutely have to. But I can back that up, to the extent of I can, I can say, you can't prove that this isn't true. I can back that up with everything that I put in the book. And I'm not the only one. Dr. David Eagleman at Stanford says, you know, this idea of the brain being like a radio and receiving signals from outside, we can't prove it, but we categorically cannot say it's not true. Professor Donald Hoffman suggests that space time is not the basis

• 34:45Dr. Tara Swart?

  of how the universe works, suggests that consciousness is the basis of how the universe works. We can't prove that's not true. And I find that really exciting. I mean, as a scientist, you're supposed to challenge a status quo. You're supposed to be curious. You can't, as a scientist, believe that everything we know now is all there is. There's no point to being a scientist if that's what you believe.

• 35:08Steven Bartlett?

  What you just listened to was a most replayed moment from a previous episode. If you want to listen to that full episode, I've linked it down below. Check the description. Thank you.