Mob Wives Get Into Heated Fight On Stage | Book Tour Live

Bunnie Xo hosts her first-ever live show, celebrating her book ranking #4 globally while reflecting on the journey that got her here. From growing up in Vegas to her obsession with the mafia and Mob Wives, she takes the audience through the wild, unfiltered moments that shaped her story. Things really heat up when Renee Graziano, Karen Gravano, and Ramona Rizzo hit the stage—spilling stories and hinting at what’s next for the iconic franchise. Bunnie gets vulnerable about her childhood, sharing deeply personal moments and opening up about becoming the woman she needed growing up. From personal stories and healing to a surprise performance by Jelly Roll, this live show is raw, emotional, and unforgettable. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Dumbblondepod

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:23Speaker 00

  I'm a witted ass bitch, don't need to keep a crew. Lil shorty and you know I only trust the two. I'm a witted ass bitch and we can roll the do. Put my dub in the air, what you wanna do? I'm a witted ass bitch, don't need to keep a crew. Lil shorty and you know I only trust the two. I'm a witted ass bitch and we can roll the do. Put my dub in the air, what you wanna do? How many times did I done trust all these bitches? Instead of making dough, they wanna talk who they been kissing. Stupid ass homies turned their back and now they dissin'. Motherfucker slick, but he got cock slipping. How you say you G when you speaking on my name? This up to them bitches who they in the gang. Fuck your whole step bitch, fuck what you bang. When you around your homies, then you wouldn't say a thing.

• 1:08Speaker 00

  Told them I'm a dub, but I'd rather be with you. Let me see you rub your head. Yeah, put your hands in the air for bunny. That bitch got dropped, now she telling all the news. Knew they was a rat, it's a race to the bank. I keep it with my shit, staying loyal to my grave. Stupid ass bitch, what the fuck did you think? My bitch in the suit loaded with an AK, look. Put your hands in the air, keep a crew. Lil shorty and you know I only trust the two. I'm a witted ass bitch and we can roll the do. Put my dub in the air, what you wanna do? Said I'm a witted ass bitch, don't need to keep a crew. Lil shorty and you know I only trust the two. I'm a witted ass bitch and we can roll the do. Put my dub in the air, what you wanna do?

• 2:23Bunnie XO?

  New York, what the fuck is up?

• 2:43Bunnie XO?

  I love you guys so much.

• 2:48Bunnie XO?

  Oh my goodness. I love you guys, have a seat. I love you guys. If I cry 10 times tonight, I'm so sorry. Welcome to my first live show, baby. You guys are...

• 3:04Bunnie XO?

  You guys are literally making history in my life tonight, so thank you very, very, very much. I love you motherfuckers, you have no idea. Can we give an applause for Bella? Dude, like, how cute is she? Shout out to Bella, man, she's so cute. So, they asked me to do a book tour, and I was like, absolutely fucking not. I tour for a living with my husband, I am not doing anything like that. And they were like, "I love you." I love you guys, I am like, my butthole's puckered, okay? I'm like, woo, you guys have no idea. But I was like, you know what? I want to go out and meet everybody who's buying this book. I want to meet my followers, I want to hug you guys,

• 3:49Bunnie XO?

  I want to kiss you guys. I mean, I just...

• 3:55Bunnie XO?

  We gotta ask your wife first. And I was like, if I'm gonna do it, I have to do it my way. So, I hope that you guys enjoy tonight, because we put together a really cool show for you guys. Each city, we have different guests. Like, it's just gonna be a night of music, fun, laughter, and special surprise guests, so...

• 4:17Bunnie XO?

  Thank you guys so much. I just wanted to tell you guys, I just got the news. I don't know if you guys saw the TikTok I posted, but my book is number four in the world, baby.

• 4:30Bunnie XO?

  I got goosebumps. It's number four in the world.

• 4:40Bunnie XO?

  That is all because of you guys. Like, I cannot even take any credit for that. If it wasn't for you guys, I wouldn't even be on this stage. So you guys, give yourselves a round of applause, please.

• 4:54Bunnie XO?

  I love you guys. I will share the stage with you guys any day. So, growing up in Vegas, has anybody got to read the book yet? Because I know it doesn't drop, but some people say it's out. No? Okay. So, growing up in Vegas, you know, I really grew up in like that. You know, you're in Vegas, so it's like you love the mafia, you love the mob and all that stuff. I even had a freaking chihuahua named Gotti, okay? Who was your favorite mobster?

• 5:24Speaker 02

  I would say Lucky Luciano.

• 5:27Bunnie XO?

  We love Lucky Luciano. How about you guys? Who was your favorite mobster? Ah, yeah, baby. I'm pretty gangster, but I don't know. Who was your favorite mobster?

• 5:38Bunnie XO?

  Gotti? Yeah. I mean, he was like a ladies' man, so yeah, for sure. But then, you know, the show came out and it was called Mob Wives. And I got to see these strong, amazing, beautiful women who fucking would fight at the drop of a dime, but would also love the shit out of you and were raising their families, you know, with this trauma that they grew up in and just totally polarizing and captivating America. I fell in love with them. So I was lucky enough to do a podcast. What was it? Mob Wife, March Mob Wife, Mob Wife March. I did that a couple of years ago and I got to meet like three of them.

• 6:22Bunnie XO?

  So, why don't you guys step into my office? And we'll have some guests come out in a little bit.

• 6:37Bunnie XO?

  So this is now, oh, by the way, guys, this is Alex. This is my tour manager. Isn't he hot? He's hot, right? I just found out he was married. I was like, womp, womp. I can't auction you off tonight.

• 6:52Bunnie XO?

  So we are gonna turn this into a podcast set.

• 6:57Bunnie XO?

  Kind of incorporate it, because you guys know the podcast has really just taken off and I just love... Help.

• 7:05Bunnie XO?

  I'm flaccid over here.

• 7:10Bunnie XO?

  The podcast has taken off and again, I just have to thank you guys so freaking much for that. But, once we get... It's alright, I'll just hold it. No worries. So anyways, back to the Mob Wives. Who was you guys' favorite Mob Wives?

• 7:26Bunnie XO?

  Okay, I heard Renee. Somebody said Big Ang.

• 7:33Bunnie XO?

  Trita, okay. Karen, Ramona, all them, yeah? Alright, well, I'm gonna need you guys to put your hands together for Karen, Ramona, and Renee, baby.

• 7:58Speaker 03

  I love it.

• 8:05Bunnie XO?

  I am so excited to have you guys here. Give it up for New York's Renee, Karen, and Ramona! Okay, can we just talk about how good fucking Renee looks? What the hell? Like, you, it's transformation since last time I saw you. Mancharo. She said mancharo. Dude, you look amazing. You look phenomenal.

• 8:31Bunnie XO?

  I'm so happy to have you guys here.

• 8:32Speaker 04

  We're so happy to be here.

• 8:34Bunnie XO?

  When was the last time I got to see you guys? Like, two years ago?

• 8:36Speaker 04

  Yeah, when we did the podcast.

• 8:38Bunnie XO?

  So, there's talk of Mob Wives coming back. Is it coming back? Can we confirm or deny, or possibly tease?

• 8:46Speaker 05

  Well, I could tell you that it's not going to be a reboot, because we don't want to rehash. Talk in your head. Oh, I need a microphone?

• 8:55Bunnie XO?

  You said it's not going to be a reboot?

• 8:57Speaker 05

  Yeah, nobody wants to rehash what happened before.

• 9:00Bunnie XO?

  So it'll be like another show, but with like the main characters?

• 9:05Speaker 05

  No.

• 9:08Speaker 05

  No.

• 9:09Bunnie XO?

  So, is any of the original cast gonna come back?

• 9:13Speaker 05

  I know I am.

• 9:14Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I love that. If they asked you guys to be on it, would you guys be on it?

• 9:19Speaker 04

  I definitely wouldn't.

• 9:21Bunnie XO?

  No?

• 9:21Speaker 04

  It's not my cup of tea.

• 9:22Bunnie XO?

  Okay, and not you either?

• 9:24Speaker 06

  Yeah, I have no comment.

• 9:25Bunnie XO?

  Alright, well shit, let's get into some questions, guys.

• 9:29Speaker 06

  Shit!

• 9:29Bunnie XO?

  Well shit. So, okay, on the show, everybody knows that you guys, there was always like turmoil and stuff like that. Out of all of you guys, who apologized the least?

• 9:41Speaker 04

  Trita.

• 9:41Speaker 06

  Trita.

• 9:45Bunnie XO?

  Um, who holds a grudge like it's generational wealth?

• 9:48Speaker 05

  I do.

• 9:49Speaker 04

  Renee.

• 9:51Bunnie XO?

  Renee, I feel like you're holding a grudge right now.

• 9:53Speaker 05

  You ain't been neither. We all hold grudges, that's for sure.

• 9:55Speaker 06

  Yeah, I think we all have a grudge right now.

• 9:56Speaker 04

  We all have a grudge, you do, but Renee will hold it to the...

• 9:59Bunnie XO?

  What's going on, guys? Why are we beefing?

• 10:01Speaker 04

  Why are we beefing?

• 10:02Bunnie XO?

  Why are we beefing?

• 10:03Speaker 06

  No, I'm just saying, from the show, everything, like, we have a grudge from the past.

• 10:07Speaker 04

  I'll tell you why we beefing. I got called the S-word. Not a slut, worse than that. A fucking stalker, honey. A stalker.

• 10:13Bunnie XO?

  Renee, you called her a stalker?

• 10:15Speaker 05

  I didn't call you a stalker.

• 10:17Speaker 04

  Yes, you did.

• 10:18Speaker 06

  She called me much worse.

• 10:19Speaker 04

  So your sister told Karen that I was a stalker, you thought that I, who had much better things to do, going on your story and I told Karen something, because you were beefing.

• 10:29Bunnie XO?

  Is this an episode of Mob Life?

• 10:32Speaker 04

  Every time they beef, I get dragged in the middle. Last time we were good, she was giving me monjaro tips, this, that.

• 10:38Speaker 05

  Absolutely.

• 10:38Speaker 04

  I'd rather you call me a slut than a stalker. But you're not a slut.

• 10:44Bunnie XO?

  But I

• 10:44Speaker 06

  And I'm not a stalker.

• 10:45Speaker 05

  I'll give you a few other things, but I wouldn't say slut or stalker.

• 10:48Bunnie XO?

  But do you guys see how communication is key?

• 10:50Speaker 06

  Yes.

• 10:50Bunnie XO?

  Like, look, look how much you guys just solved in two minutes right here. Yeah, I think, you know what, you guys are a sisterhood, and I know that you guys might beef like family and like shit gets said and like whatever it is, but you guys really like raised a generation of us and you guys are fucking, you guys look like literally our icons, dude.

• 11:10Speaker 06

  Thank you, thank you. And listen, no matter what we go through, I can never take away from what the show was. The original cast, the Ma Boys, was iconic, and whether we like each other, and I'm not talking about her, I'm just saying in general, the whole cast, whether people like each other.

• 11:23Speaker 05

  Well, I don't like most of them.

• 11:25Speaker 06

  Or we don't like, or we like each other, it's just, um, all of us together came and put something great, so.

• 11:31Bunnie XO?

  No, you guys really did, like, for real. You guys made history.

• 11:35Speaker 04

  I will say, every girl, every girl made that show what it was.

• 11:41Bunnie XO?

  Absolutely.

• 11:41Speaker 05

  But they had to go after like a couple of seasons.

• 11:46Bunnie XO?

  Who practiced their comebacks in the mirror?

• 11:48Speaker 06

  Trita.

• 11:52Bunnie XO?

  Dude, did those comebacks just happen naturally, or was it like?

• 11:55Speaker 04

  Well, it had to happen naturally, because nothing was scripted.

• 11:59Bunnie XO?

  You guys weren't like in the shower like, "Yeah, fuck you, bitch." Like, you know, like,

• 12:02Speaker 05

  I probably was.

• 12:02Bunnie XO?

  I would, I would be in there like shadow boxing and all that.

• 12:06Speaker 05

  No, that's

• 12:06Speaker 04

  Cursing and comebacks are two different things. Like, I think a comeback, especially with us, we just rolled over tongue, because we're just very high strung. We're chill to a degree, but when you get us there, you get us there, so it just comes natural.

• 12:17Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, no, it's, it's, you guys got that dog in you.

• 12:20Speaker 04

  We didn't have Sabatoga back then, Bunny. So, you know?

• 12:23Bunnie XO?

  I've been over here trying to ease into a sip. I'm like,

• 12:26Speaker 04

  You know, it might be the

• 12:27Speaker 05

  No bottles on stage.

• 12:28Bunnie XO?

  I'm parched over here. Who would start an argument just because they were bored?

• 12:34Speaker 06

  Renee.

• 12:35Bunnie XO?

  Renee, we can tell.

• 12:36Speaker 02

  You want to see me do it?

• 12:38Bunnie XO?

  I think we saw it about 10 minutes ago.

• 12:40Speaker 02

  Yes, you did.

• 12:41Bunnie XO?

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• 13:24Bunnie XO?

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• 13:39Speaker 02

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• 14:13Speaker 06

  Maybe me. Sweet.

• 14:15Bunnie XO?

  You would like text and be cool? And then when you showed up, it was like you were ready to fight?

• 14:19Speaker 06

  No, what would transpire after the text on the way to the scene? You had like a lot of... Our show was kind of like, the production was like involved in it. And I don't mean like the executives, I just mean the everyday, today production. Yeah. So it's like, we were all just, kinda like, by the time we would text to get to a scene, God knows what could happen behind scenes. The behind scenes was the show.

• 14:43Speaker 04

  And by the time it aired, oof.

• 14:45Speaker 05

  Oh, that was bad. I want to pay Karen a compliment. She would walk in, still calm, but if the wrong word was said, that's when it would happen. But she did go in with good intentions.

• 14:57Bunnie XO?

  See, I knew you guys loved each other.

• 14:59Speaker 05

  Ramona and I had a moment when we set the backyard on fire, was it?

• 15:02Bunnie XO?

  Wait, what? Back up.

• 15:03Speaker 05

  Oh, I burnt, I burnt my wedding down and all my photos.

• 15:07Speaker 04

  It was very therapeutic.

• 15:08Speaker 05

  It was excellent.

• 15:08Speaker 04

  Yeah.

• 15:09Bunnie XO?

  So where can we find, where can we find, where can we find the Mob Wives behind the scene footage? Because I feel like we need to put that out.

• 15:16Speaker 05

  No, no, no, no.

• 15:17Bunnie XO?

  Is somebody going to jail if it gets released? Where's Sister at? Is she here? I need to talk to her about it.

• 15:23Speaker 05

  Well, she would have them.

• 15:24Speaker 04

  A lot of the fan favorites will be crushed if the behind the scenes get released.

• 15:28Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 15:28Bunnie XO?

  Why is that?

• 15:30Speaker 04

  Because a lot of people who thought they were so tough and rough.

• 15:32Speaker 06

  The green screen gangsters.

• 15:33Speaker 04

  The green screen gangsters, remember?

• 15:34Speaker 05

  Oh, I mean, I-

• 15:35Speaker 04

  Not you.

• 15:36Speaker 05

  I know.

• 15:36Speaker 04

  What I'm saying about, you know what I'm talking about, people that were crying-

• 15:38Bunnie XO?

  Who do we consider the green screen gangster?

• 15:41Speaker 05

  Oh, oh, oh, oh, I'm sorry, okay, you don't want me to say it?

• 15:45Speaker 04

  That was, that was the cue.

• 15:46Bunnie XO?

  Renee, talk into your damn microphone.

• 15:49Speaker 05

  I do not need a microphone!

• 15:51Bunnie XO?

  She really doesn't.

• 15:54Speaker 05

  I think, okay, I'll lead off with this. If I was crying, I was really crying.

• 16:00Speaker 04

  Yes.

• 16:01Speaker 05

  But I was always crying. So somebody who likes to shadow box, we'll keep it like that.

• 16:06Speaker 04

  Mm-hmm.

• 16:07Speaker 05

  She's a great fucking actress. I'll tell you that.

• 16:10Speaker 06

  Academy Award.

• 16:10Speaker 05

  None of us were acting. We were very, oh, okay, in a couple of things, she wasn't. We were very much in the moment, and if it was happening, it was a reaction to what was happening then. Like, when the feds, when the feds pinched 127 people, like, they were like, "Oh, you guys scripted that." No, we did not.

• 16:32Speaker 06

  No, we didn't.

• 16:33Speaker 05

  No, we did not. How I found out my ex-husband was a rat, was, who brought me in the paper first? It was in the newspaper.

• 16:40Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 16:40Speaker 05

  That's how I found out. Karen was there when I had my nervous breakdown in the kitchen, Ramona.

• 16:48Speaker 05

  Alright, maybe not a stalker.

• 16:49Bunnie XO?

  Nooo, can you guys hug? Can we have a hug? I need a hug.

• 16:56Speaker 05

  I can't believe I said stalker.

• 16:58Speaker 06

  No, you did. Your sister told me she said she was a stalker.

• 17:01Speaker 04

  My blood was boiling.

• 17:02Speaker 05

  But I would never say stalker.

• 17:04Speaker 06

  You said she looked at your story.

• 17:06Speaker 04

  See what she says? She said stalker.

• 17:07Speaker 05

  Absolutely, I will do that. And if I called you a stalker, then I called you a stalker.

• 17:13Speaker 04

  But I'm not a stalker.

• 17:14Speaker 05

  No, you're a bitch, but you're not a stalker.

• 17:16Bunnie XO?

  Listen, Ramona, you can stalk me all day long, baby.

• 17:19Speaker 04

  Oh, I do, baby.

• 17:19Bunnie XO?

  If I had a stalker that looked like you, it would be kind of a fetish. Alright? I'd be into it. Did anyone ever warn their husbands, like, "Don't talk to her"?

• 17:34Bunnie XO?

  Did you guys have husbands? You had a husband.

• 17:35Speaker 04

  No, I... Renee. Yes, yes.

• 17:38Speaker 05

  Okay, but wait.

• 17:40Speaker 06

  Not us.

• 17:41Speaker 04

  It could be the waitress.

• 17:43Speaker 05

  I've... Apps are fucking...

• 17:45Speaker 04

  Everybody, yeah.

• 17:46Speaker 05

  You're a cheating son of a bitch.

• 17:47Bunnie XO?

  I mean... Everybody, let's say fuck Junior.

• 17:51Speaker 05

  Red bastard Junior.

• 17:53Bunnie XO?

  Fuck that guy.

• 17:56Speaker 05

  Oh shit, did I say something wrong?

• 18:00Speaker 04

  Oh my.

• 18:01Bunnie XO?

  Just having you guys up here and seeing the love that you guys have for each other, like, it is the sweetest thing. And I know you came out here a little spicy, Renee, but...

• 18:08Speaker 05

  I'm hot, yeah. She's hot, she's hot.

• 18:10Speaker 04

  We didn't even talk in the green screen.

• 18:12Bunnie XO?

  Are you serious? I walked in and I thought it was all joyous.

• 18:15Speaker 04

  You want part two? Okay, I'll give you part two.

• 18:17Bunnie XO?

  Let's hear part two.

• 18:18Speaker 04

  So, all of a sudden, having spoken to her besides the stalker thing, I get, because Karen opened it, because we were busy today. We were doing hair and makeup, and we were just enjoying ourselves. She goes, Renee sent us a message. I go, where did she text? I didn't see any texts.

• 18:30Speaker 05

  DM.

• 18:31Speaker 04

  Basically, trying to be mother hen, then, what did she say? We need to come together.

• 18:35Speaker 05

  I said we needed to be united front.

• 18:38Speaker 04

  But why would we not be together if there was not a problem? If you didn't call me a stalker, you didn't have any issues with her.

• 18:44Speaker 05

  I didn't call you a fucking stalker.

• 18:45Speaker 04

  So, but last time, again, last time, I spoke to you, we were good.

• 18:48Speaker 06

  Can I ask a question, though? I'm not even gonna get into what you call me, but for no reason. Like, me and you have...

• 18:53Bunnie XO?

  What is it? Let's talk about it.

• 18:54Speaker 06

  No, she went on a thing, a rampage, sent me a whole bunch of things.

• 18:57Speaker 05

  I wasn't talking about Karen. I was talking about my ex-husband and Jean Borel. Not anything to do with Karen.

• 19:06Speaker 06

  But you DM'd me a whole bunch of stuff and then took it down.

• 19:08Speaker 04

  And you just followed her.

• 19:10Speaker 05

  I did, I did.

• 19:11Speaker 04

  What, are we five?

• 19:12Speaker 05

  No, we're not five.

• 19:14Bunnie XO?

  So, you're...

• 19:15Speaker 05

  But I don't like being bullied.

• 19:17Speaker 06

  I'm a bully. I stuck up for this girl through like six seasons of Mob Wives. Six seasons of Mob Wives stuck up.

• 19:25Bunnie XO?

  They love you.

• 19:27Speaker 06

  Yes. But we're talking about Mob Wives. Everyone wants to see.

• 19:30Bunnie XO?

  No, but this is real. This is reality.

• 19:32Speaker 06

  Everyone wants a revamp like they haven't seen us. So this was exactly what would be happening if the cameras were rolling.

• 19:38Bunnie XO?

  Listen, I don't know about you guys, but I'm ready for six episodes of this. Like, I'm ready. I don't know about you guys. I am fucking ready. All right, let me ask you guys a couple more questions.

• 19:51Bunnie XO?

  Who here has blocked and unblocked each other the most?

• 19:55Speaker 05

  Renee. I do it. Renee, Renee, Renee. Yep, not block, unfollow.

• 20:01Speaker 06

  She blocked me and then it made me unfollow her.

• 20:04Speaker 05

  Heard the story. That was it.

• 20:07Speaker 06

  She blocked me.

• 20:08Bunnie XO?

  Renee said fuck that microphone.

• 20:10Speaker 05

  What if I blocked you? I fucking blocked you. Aren't we too old to block each other? Like, where does it end? Aren't we too old to walk in a dressing room and not even say hello?

• 20:19Speaker 04

  Well, because you just sent some messages before. Like, I didn't know there was some beef. It really had my blood boiling. I'm like, now she's trying to be mother.

• 20:25Speaker 05

  You weren't involved in it.

• 20:26Bunnie XO?

  So Bunny, we are so proud of you.

• 20:30Speaker 05

  I cannot. Your book is so inspiring.

• 20:33Speaker 04

  Your book is amazing. We're so happy we got this. You're number one. It's awesome.

• 20:36Bunnie XO?

  I could listen to you guys talk all night, like, seriously. But listen, here's the thing. Like, this is what made reality TV for you guys. And this is why we need to get you guys back on the air because

• 20:46Speaker 05

  That's why I'm in therapy.

• 20:48Bunnie XO?

  The world is... Renee, it's not working. I hate to tell you.

• 20:52Speaker 04

  You need a new therapist, bitch.

• 20:54Bunnie XO?

  Okay, okay. Get your money back.

• 20:56Speaker 05

  No.

• 20:57Bunnie XO?

  Get your money back for sure.

• 20:59Speaker 05

  No.

• 20:59Bunnie XO?

  If there was a Mob Wives group chat today, who would leave first and who would you invite?

• 21:05Speaker 06

  Trita would leave first. Would we even invite her?

• 21:07Speaker 05

  I think we had a group chat. They didn't respond.

• 21:09Speaker 06

  She may like Elvis left the building. Yeah, she just...

• 21:12Speaker 05

  She wouldn't even be in the group chat.

• 21:14Speaker 06

  Yeah, she wouldn't.

• 21:15Speaker 04

  If we had one.

• 21:15Speaker 05

  I know, and I'm saying we'd leave her out.

• 21:17Speaker 06

  Yeah.

• 21:18Speaker 05

  Oh, who would leave first? Who would leave first?

• 21:20Speaker 06

  You.

• 21:21Bunnie XO?

  Renee would block everybody and then want to get added back in.

• 21:26Speaker 05

  No, I wouldn't leave the group chat. I'd get a little crazy with my mouth, but I wouldn't walk out of the group chat. I'm gonna block you afterwards, but I wouldn't walk out of the group chat.

• 21:36Bunnie XO?

  Can we leave here tonight with you guys at least giving each other a hug? Because I feel like you guys are fucking a sisterhood and you guys are such fucking icons. And I mean, I'm just so thankful that you guys were even here.

• 21:47Speaker 05

  It's gonna be fake.

• 21:49Bunnie XO?

  Aww. Alright, well you guys fucking work this shit out because I want to see you. Actually, don't work it out and get the fuck back on TV, okay? How about that? Thank you guys so much for being here tonight. We love you, buddy. You guys giving up for the girls!

• 22:18Bunnie XO?

  I mean, it's never a dull moment with them, right? Where is my publisher Carrie at? Carrie, where are you at, baby? This is, you guys, right here, this woman is Carrie Thornton from Harper Collins Day Street. She is my publisher. She believed in me, she's the reason I'm here. My agent Sloan, I don't know where you're at. I need to say, you guys, can we give these ladies a round of applause and their teams? I'm so thankful for the badass women that I have surrounding me and that have helped me on this journey. Like, you guys have no frickin' idea, man. Like, I'm just so thankful and so humbled. I'm also so thankful for two girls who came into my life that...

• 23:02Bunnie XO?

  That believe in me every step of the way, that literally have put their lives on hold to make sure that my dream came true so that it could be their dreams to come true. And we've kind of formed this little thing we call the coven.

• 23:18Bunnie XO?

  So I don't know if you guys are ready, but let's have Mimi and Haley come out!

• 23:26Speaker 03

  Hold me now. I'm sixteen from the age when I'm thinking. Baby sister, ain't so far down.

• 23:42Bunnie XO?

  You guys have a seat, babies.

• 23:47Bunnie XO?

  Step into my office.

• 23:52Bunnie XO?

  I don't know about you guys, but I am so happy they're here. Did you guys watch The Mobbards? We just watched it. That was fucking great, right? We lived that. That was hilarious. I fucking love them so much. It's a lot of energy. You gotta take it in. No, they're amazing. So, now that we have them sitting on the couch, we are gonna do a little segment that we call Ask, Tell, Confess. Wait, I can't get a whistle out. Get a whiff. Ask, Tell, Confess. There we go.

• 24:26Bunnie XO?

  I got it out. But, the crazy thing is, is they were like, "No, we can't have audience participation." And I was like, "Go fuck yourself." I was like, "I want audience participation, but here's the deal. You guys can come up and ask any question." So if you guys don't know what Ask, Tell, Confess is, it's ask a question, tell something, or confess something. And it needs to be juicy, and it can't be like... We need it as weird as possible. Please. So please, if you guys have some weird shit, come up and tell us. But nothing that's like, bad weird, because I'm gonna tell you to sit down. Like, don't come up and confess a murder, because I've had two people do that. Don't do that. And I'm like, "You know I can see you, right?" Like, how am I supposed to go to sleep at night, knowing this? But here we are. Are we accomplices, if they do?

• 25:11Bunnie XO?

  I don't know. I don't... Listen, I didn't ask for that, alright? But anyways, so, we're gonna kick it off, because we do know that it gets weird here in, uh, New York, because a couple of you guys submitted some anonymous ones already, and they were really weird. And then, how are we gonna pick people to come up? Do you guys... They can just come on up to the microphone. Yeah. If any of you guys wanna come up, start walking up to the microphone, we're gonna talk about these. Head over. Girl, I feel like we should start with you. Shit, she like, she ran to the microphone. She's a runner, she's a jack star. Let's start with her.

• 25:48Speaker 03

  Alright.

• 25:51Bunnie XO?

  You know it's good. She ran. From the back. What's up, baby?

• 25:57Speaker 07

  I'm just bringing up the microphone.

• 25:58Bunnie XO?

  Oh shit, alright!

• 26:05Bunnie XO?

  Dude, that was fucking great. I need that clip. Somebody clip that for me, please. That is great. She's like, "No, I'm not confessing shit, bitch." Not happening. That was her confession. Yeah, that was a confession. That was the top. Alright, so I'm gonna kick it off. These were some anonymous ones that you guys wrote in. So this person said...

• 26:28Bunnie XO?

  "I love the smell of my apartment after a night of White Castle and farting all day." Same. "God dang, it smells heavenly." What the hell? Did you write that in? I didn't. That does sound like something I would write in. But seriously, White Castle? I think... Who likes White Castle out here? No. I do love Harold and Kumar go to White Castle. Yeah, that's nice. "Let's burn this motherfucker down, Pookie." Yeah. "I got to meet him the other day. I was so excited about it. You have no idea." Oh, you literally said it to him? I did. It was the first words. I didn't say hi. I just quoted his movie line to him. Because I just love him so much. So much. Alright, so we have... You're not bringing the microphone, are you?

• 27:06Speaker 07

  What's that?

• 27:07Bunnie XO?

  You're not bringing the microphone, are you?

• 27:08Speaker 07

  I'm not, what?

• 27:09Bunnie XO?

  Never mind. What's your name, baby? What's your name?

• 27:13Speaker 07

  On Facebook, I'm BJ. You know me as BJ.

• 27:15Bunnie XO?

  Hi, BJ.

• 27:16Speaker 07

  And I always say we're like Timu, Bunny, and Jelly, because that's what we were for the last two Halloweens.

• 27:21Bunnie XO?

  No, you're not Timu, baby. You are us. I love that. I love that.

• 27:26Speaker 07

  I love you. I've been very sick, and you have gotten me through so much.

• 27:30Bunnie XO?

  Aww.

• 27:31Speaker 07

  But I have a question.

• 27:33Bunnie XO?

  Let's go.

• 27:33Speaker 07

  You never have fucking panty lines. Do you wear panties?

• 27:40Bunnie XO?

  I don't know. You wanna come find out?

• 27:42Speaker 07

  I know.

• 27:45Speaker 07

  I haven't worn panties in like 15, 20 years.

• 27:48Bunnie XO?

  So it depends on the occasion. If I'm in leather, you have to wear panties with leather, because I've got that wap. You know what I'm saying? Like, there's no way you could not wear panties. Yeah, no. But the majority of the time, no, I don't. I would just be freeballing it.

• 28:01Speaker 07

  Okay.

• 28:01Bunnie XO?

  For sure. I can confirm. We gotta let it breathe too, right? Like, come on.

• 28:08Speaker 07

  And your bum looks awesome tonight.

• 28:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Oh my god, you're so sweet, BJ. We love you. Thank you so much. Thank you. I see an "In Hoes We Trust" shirt. What's up, baby? The OG right there. Talk in the microphone, baby. Talk in the microphone, baby. Don't be a Renee. Love you, Renee.

• 28:28Speaker 08

  I want to know, I love you two ladies as well, if I can give you a gift.

• 28:32Speaker 09

  You can hand it right there by side stage, of course.

• 28:34Bunnie XO?

  Yes, thank you so much. That is so sweet.

• 28:37Speaker 09

  Oh, you're so sweet, thank you.

• 28:39Bunnie XO?

  So, so sweet.

• 28:41Speaker 09

  Is that a Highland cow?

• 28:42Bunnie XO?

  Hi, baby!

• 28:42Speaker 09

  Are you a cow or are you Scooby-Doo?

• 28:44Speaker 03

  I am Scooby, mixed with a Vegas escort.

• 28:47Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I like it, baby. I like it.

• 28:51Speaker 03

  And I am the unintentional homie hardware that brought you a gift.

• 28:55Bunnie XO?

  Christina!

• 28:58Bunnie XO?

  What's up, baby? We love you. If you guys listen to the past couple of Ask How Confesses, she was the homie hardware. We'll see you after the show. We'll make sure we make time to see you after the show, baby.

• 29:09Speaker 08

  Are you kidding?

• 29:09Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, for sure. No, we love you. We love you, baby. You're so sweet.

• 29:15Speaker 04

  I'm not confessing nothing, except my love for you, buddy.

• 29:18Bunnie XO?

  I love you too. You guys, if you guys come up, you guys gotta give us an Ask How Confess. Confess something.

• 29:23Speaker 08

  Okay, so here's the confession.

• 29:24Bunnie XO?

  Let's go.

• 29:25Speaker 08

  All right, so, true story. My family ran an escort service.

• 29:29Bunnie XO?

  Let's go.

• 29:30Speaker 08

  The whole entire family worked for it.

• 29:33Bunnie XO?

  Aww.

• 29:33Speaker 08

  Okay? But not me.

• 29:35Speaker 09

  Okay, okay.

• 29:36Speaker 08

  I just drove the girls. I didn't like do anything. But tell them your best memory of your nanny.

• 29:41Speaker 10

  Oh, yeah, my best memory is...

• 29:42Bunnie XO?

  Wait, this is of nanny who ran the escort service too?

• 29:45Speaker 10

  My mom and dad.

• 29:46Bunnie XO?

  Oh, shit.

• 29:46Speaker 10

  Yes, my mom and dad are pimps and madam.

• 29:49Bunnie XO?

  Madam nanny.

• 29:50Speaker 10

  Yes. Um, so my best memory is...

• 29:52Bunnie XO?

  Talk in the microphone, baby.

• 29:53Speaker 10

  Oh, shit. Okay, so my best memory is, um, my grandma used to have a Rolodex and she would be like, so star, yup, she's 5'5", um, we can make her have blonde hair, and no, she can't do anal.

• 30:06Bunnie XO?

  All right. I love her, her is my kind of girl.

• 30:08Speaker 08

  There's Pam, there's Two Girl Kinky, yeah, she'll do Two Girl Kinky, no problem.

• 30:12Bunnie XO?

  All right, they for sure owned an escort service.

• 30:14Speaker 09

  Yeah, they knew it.

• 30:16Bunnie XO?

  All right, you guys, give it up for nanny. Nanny was awesome, right? We love nanny. All right, you guys, we're gonna pause real quick right here and you guys read one of yours.

• 30:24Speaker 09

  Oh, I got a good one.

• 30:24Bunnie XO?

  Okay, let's go, let's go.

• 30:26Speaker 09

  Uh, this person said, "I have a fetish of sniffing and licking armpits that are either sweaty or hairy."

• 30:33Bunnie XO?

  Dude, where are you at? Stand up.

• 30:36Speaker 09

  I need to know who this was. "Recently, I was in the office and had a fun conversation with a colleague in which led us to hugging. In that, my hand went into her armpit. After realizing, I sniffed it. Should I tell her?"

• 30:52Bunnie XO?

  What do you guys think? What do you guys think? No. I know, we have mixed reviews. Some people are saying yes and some people are saying no. I say, it depends. If somebody told me they sniffed my armpit, I'd be like, "I'm sorry." You know, like, that friggin' onion roll. Like, there's no way, but...

• 31:10Speaker 09

  That's a lasagna.

• 31:11Bunnie XO?

  I don't know, how would you feel if somebody did that to you?

• 31:13Speaker 09

  I don't wanna know.

• 31:14Speaker 11

  I don't wanna know.

• 31:15Speaker 09

  I don't wanna know. No, don't tell me you sniffed me anywhere. Hi, baby, what's your name?

• 31:20Speaker 12

  Hi, Bunny, I love you.

• 31:21Bunnie XO?

  I love you.

• 31:22Speaker 12

  And, so, I can't beat that last story. But, my whole life, I've had decent hair, right? But, Mimi, I need a hair redo. Can you help me?

• 31:31Bunnie XO?

  Oh, of course, of course.

• 31:34Speaker 09

  You have beautiful hair, by the way.

• 31:36Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, you don't start fucking with it, man. You're like me.

• 31:38Speaker 09

  Gorgeous.

• 31:39Speaker 12

  I'm like, old girl now, my husband's like, "Leave it." I'm like, "Cut it."

• 31:42Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 31:43Speaker 09

  No, it's so beautiful.

• 31:44Bunnie XO?

  Whatever you... What do you guys think? Leave it or cut it?

• 31:46Speaker 12

  Leave it or cut it!

• 31:48Bunnie XO?

  Leave it. People... Dude, I pay for extensions that long, dude. Like, keep the hair. Promise you. Yeah, I love you, baby. Go ahead, mama, hi.

• 31:59Speaker 09

  Hi, beautiful.

• 32:00Speaker 13

  You guys all look amazing.

• 32:02Speaker 09

  Thank you so much.

• 32:03Speaker 13

  So, I just recently got my cosmetology license.

• 32:06Speaker 09

  Congratulations.

• 32:06Bunnie XO?

  Whoa, let's go, baby! Heck, yeah.

• 32:09Speaker 13

  I wanted to ask you guys how both of you guys got into the beauty industry, and how you guys balance the work and friend life. I know it must be difficult, but I always am kind of like... I always have questions, because I also have a best friend in the beauty industry, and we always want to start something up, but we never know how.

• 32:32Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 32:32Speaker 09

  You go first.

• 32:33Speaker 11

  Okay. Um, well, I've always done art all my life.

• 32:37Bunnie XO?

  She's so good. This bitch can draw like a motherfucker, dude.

• 32:41Speaker 11

  And, uh, college, I was in a theatrical makeup class, and my teacher literally was, like, pulled me to the side and was like, "You need to get out of here." Like, you got a talent. So, I dropped out of college. And I went to, uh, makeup school in Nashville. And then, I wanted to do celebrity makeup, and I got my first celebrity the first year I was in Nashville. I worked at MAC, and that helped me a lot, which nowadays, it probably won't. So, I'm gonna say, "Don't do that." But, uh, social media really helped me. Instagram really helped me, word of mouth. Um, balancing work and friend life, though...

• 33:15Speaker 13

  It's hard.

• 33:15Speaker 11

  So, don't do what I did. I would literally go to the club till like 3 a.m. and then take clients at 8 a.m. Still drunk.

• 33:23Bunnie XO?

  She used to come in smelling like vodka, dude.

• 33:25Speaker 11

  And you go.

• 33:26Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it was crazy.

• 33:27Speaker 11

  Yeah, now though, I only have her, so it's way easier to balance.

• 33:31Bunnie XO?

  I stole her from the world.

• 33:32Speaker 11

  Yeah, I retired. I'm retired.

• 33:34Speaker 13

  That is the dream. That is the dream.

• 33:37Speaker 11

  Yeah, it made my dream come true.

• 33:39Bunnie XO?

  Aw, I love you.

• 33:40Speaker 11

  Stop when we make out.

• 33:41Bunnie XO?

  Yes, I thought you'd never ask. You guys know this bitch is finicky, dude. One minute she'll wanna make out, the next she won't.

• 33:48Speaker 11

  Yeah, it's getting weird.

• 33:49Bunnie XO?

  It's getting weird. I've been needing new glasses forever, and it's just one of those things I keep putting off. So I finally went on Zenni to pick out a new pair. I'm going with these black rectangle glasses that are really similar to the ones I already wear because, listen, I know what I like. They're classic, they go with everything, and I'm excited to get them. Zenni has frames starting from under $30, and I love that you can use their virtual try-on to see what different frames look like before you order. You just find a pair you love, enter your prescription, customize your lenses, and they'll ship them right to your door. Zenni is truly the easiest way to shop for stylish prescription glasses without the headache, backed by over 150,000 5-star reviews. Check new glasses off your list today with Zenni.

• 34:32Bunnie XO?

  Go to zenni.com/podcast and use code PODCAST15 for 15% off, plus free shipping over $65. Style sellout, so don't wait. That's Z E N N I dot com slash podcast, promo code PODCAST15. Zenni.com slash podcast, code PODCAST15. Today's episode is brought to you by Vinted. Y'all know how it goes. You open your closet and have a million things hanging up, but somehow still feel like you have nothing to wear. That's me. And let's be real, half that stuff hasn't been touched in forever. Instead of letting all those clothes just sit there taking up space, you might as well make a little money off of them. If you haven't used it yet, Vinted is a secondhand marketplace app that makes it so simple

• 35:16Bunnie XO?

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• 35:59Speaker 14

  Stand up my t-shirt.

• 36:00Bunnie XO?

  Stand, oh, can you lower it, baby? Just lower it.

• 36:02Speaker 14

  I'm OK. Yeah, thank you.

• 36:04Bunnie XO?

  OK.

• 36:04Speaker 14

  I just want to tell you I love you. And like, as someone who's been in abuse relationships, I love that you raise awareness and break that stigma. But my confession is that I have really bad gaydar, and I just found out that Elton John was gay like two weeks ago.

• 36:24Bunnie XO?

  Now he's right.

• 36:27Bunnie XO?

  What?

• 36:33Bunnie XO?

  Now, honey.

• 36:37Bunnie XO?

  The frickin', the outfits, the songs that he writes about men. Nothing clocked, nothing triggered up here.

• 36:44Speaker 14

  But I love you.

• 36:45Bunnie XO?

  I love you too, baby. I love to you too, baby.

• 36:47Speaker 10

  We love you.

• 36:50Bunnie XO?

  Go ahead, baby.

• 36:51Speaker 10

  Hi, Bonnie. I finally have my moment. I don't even know how to follow that.

• 36:57Speaker 10

  But I came here tonight from Connecticut, and I bought my friend. And I'm super excited to be here in all of your presence because I follow you guys on Snapchat. And I know I'm almost 50 years old, so that's corny, but...

• 37:12Bunnie XO?

  You look fucking hot.

• 37:14Speaker 10

  You guys, you're hot.

• 37:15Bunnie XO?

  You're hot, baby.

• 37:16Speaker 10

  Y'all are hot. Y'all are my inspiration because there's a lot of corny, horrible people in the world, and you guys give me... You guys give me faith. I just lost my mom a couple months ago, and... You've given me some hope.

• 37:33Bunnie XO?

  Oh, we love you, baby.

• 37:34Speaker 10

  And I'm sorry. I have one of my best friends here tonight, Ally.

• 37:38Bunnie XO?

  What up, Ally?

• 37:39Speaker 09

  Get it, Ally.

• 37:40Speaker 10

  We drove here from Connecticut, which is an inspiration all its own. But you guys are amazing, and Jelly's amazing, and your music really touches my soul.

• 37:51Bunnie XO?

  Thank you. We appreciate you.

• 37:53Speaker 10

  I've been through it the last couple of months, but thank God for you guys.

• 37:55Bunnie XO?

  Thank you. We appreciate you. Thank you so much, baby.

• 37:59Speaker 09

  Sorry to hear about your mom.

• 38:00Speaker 10

  And I did my eyeshadow just for you, Haley, and it probably got fucked up, and it's okay.

• 38:04Speaker 09

  Yeah, get it.

• 38:05Bunnie XO?

  All right, Haley, you want to read yours really quick?

• 38:07Speaker 11

  Yeah, because I think it goes hand in hand with yours, and I didn't even plan this.

• 38:12Bunnie XO?

  Oh, shit. It doesn't have to do with buttholes and poop, because that's all she ever reads on Ass Hulkenfest.

• 38:17Speaker 11

  No, I wouldn't do that. That's my next one.

• 38:19Bunnie XO?

  All right.

• 38:19Speaker 11

  Okay. "I woke up in the middle of the night after sex to the girl fingering herself to orgasm while sucking my armpit hair."

• 38:32Bunnie XO?

  You guys are some fucking freaks in New York. I thought I was kinky.

• 38:37Speaker 09

  It's gonna get a hairball.

• 38:38Bunnie XO?

  What the hell?

• 38:40Speaker 09

  What if it's the same person? Two submissions is wild.

• 38:44Bunnie XO?

  That was wild. That is, yeah, no, I mean, what's the, what is the chance that there is two armpit fetishes under one roof? I'm not understanding.

• 38:55Speaker 09

  There's no way.

• 38:56Bunnie XO?

  We've never had armpit fetish confessions until we got to New York.

• 39:01Speaker 09

  Oh.

• 39:02Bunnie XO?

  Listen, we don't yuck anybody's yum, okay?

• 39:04Speaker 09

  We don't yuck anyone's yum, is it?

• 39:06Bunnie XO?

  All right, go ahead, baby. What's your name?

• 39:08Speaker 15

  I'm Molly. I'm 21. I came all the way from Texas by myself.

• 39:16Bunnie XO?

  Let's go.

• 39:17Speaker 09

  Happy birthday.

• 39:18Bunnie XO?

  Happy birthday.

• 39:19Speaker 03

  Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday, dear Molly.

• 39:34Speaker 03

  Happy birthday to you.

• 39:39Bunnie XO?

  Did it.

• 39:40Speaker 15

  Thank you.

• 39:41Bunnie XO?

  Don't make me creed out on here.

• 39:43Speaker 15

  I want to give you all a juicy confess.

• 39:44Bunnie XO?

  I'm so sorry, say that again?

• 39:46Speaker 15

  I wanted to give you all a juicy confess.

• 39:47Bunnie XO?

  Let's fucking go, we're ready for one.

• 39:49Speaker 15

  It's not my story, it's my mom's and if she sees this, she's probably gonna kill me.

• 39:51Bunnie XO?

  Oh shit. Mom, tune out.

• 39:54Speaker 15

  Well, one time, and there may or may not have been illegal substances.

• 39:56Bunnie XO?

  It's okay, we don't need to know that.

• 39:58Speaker 15

  But, one time when I was like 14, my mom got really mad at her ex for taking her car to another girl's house. So she took my 14-year-old friend with no license, no nothing, didn't know how to drive, again, illegal substances involved, and just to drive her, make her drive her an hour away, it took piss in his sunroof.

• 40:16Bunnie XO?

  Piss in his sunroof?

• 40:17Speaker 15

  Yes.

• 40:17Bunnie XO?

  Barking, shout out to mom!

• 40:19Speaker 15

  And everything, and then the, the, the side bitch got in it the next day and then called her mad as fuck, wondering why there was piss all in the car.

• 40:27Bunnie XO?

  Did she ever find out who did it?

• 40:28Speaker 15

  Yeah, she was getting in my mom's car.

• 40:30Bunnie XO?

  Oh my god, that is hilarious. Mom's a G though, shout out to mom. Yay, we love that one, that was dope.

• 40:37Speaker 15

  Thank you so much.

• 40:37Bunnie XO?

  That was good. That was dope, that was... Alright, go ahead buddy.

• 40:41Speaker 16

  I'm like sweating.

• 40:42Bunnie XO?

  Oh, don't, so am I, it's okay.

• 40:44Speaker 16

  I, I, I'm, promised not to be long-winded, I have ADHD, and I promised to be as quick as possible. Um, but, back when tickets went on sale, I was so excited that I won the Bunny XO pre-sale lottery, and I posted it on Instagram and then you reshared it. Um, I'm Hollywood XO underscore 10184, I'm XO because I'm obsessed with The Weeknd and XO, like...

• 41:12Bunnie XO?

  So is my husband.

• 41:13Speaker 16

  Yeah, I know, I, I can't wait till they collaborate.

• 41:16Bunnie XO?

  Coming soon.

• 41:17Speaker 16

  But, right, XO is part of Republic Records. Um, but anyways, um, country is like so foreign to me, but I feel like you and Jelly are like the country version of iced tea and cocoa.

• 41:31Bunnie XO?

  Ah, we love cocoa, we love iced tea too, those are our homies, yeah.

• 41:35Speaker 16

  My, my real name is Sarah with an H, like Sarah Jessica Parker and Sarah Michelle Gellar, and I truly love you and your husband as people. I love the message. I have friends that have OD'd and I had to bury one of them. And then I had to grieve a relationship that I never thought that was gonna come back to me. And her and I got together for dinner in December with another friend who flew in from Chicago. And you have no idea how grateful I am for that. So I feel like I can really identify with you guys. And part of my ADHD, I have depression. And every day that I wake up, like, I can't even believe it. And I really do it for, like, the weekend. I do it for my students.

• 42:20Speaker 16

  I'm a teacher. So teachers gone wild right now. I'm on February vacation. Um, this is like my gift for myself.

• 42:27Bunnie XO?

  Go get some fun, baby.

• 42:28Speaker 16

  I don't know if I paid for the meet and greet, but I can't believe I'm talking to you right now.

• 42:32Bunnie XO?

  No, I love you.

• 42:33Speaker 16

  You are such a source of, like, inspiration and such a source of, like, keep going and you're a badass and, like, get to the gym, Sarah. And I don't even know where to end. It took me...

• 42:45Bunnie XO?

  Shout out to Sarah, baby. You are here for a reason, so don't go anywhere.

• 42:50Speaker 16

  It took me an act of God to get here. My Uber driver left my house, so I missed my bus. I had to drive to New Haven and then hop the train, so I can't believe I'm here.

• 42:58Bunnie XO?

  Sarah, I love you. I love you, baby. Thank you so much. Thank you, guys, for participating in Ask Tell Confess. And thank you, guys, for coming out on the couch. Let's give it up for Mimi and Haley.

• 43:22Bunnie XO?

  I love you, guys. I'm so sorry that we couldn't get to all the confessions. Yeah, that one got really fucking weird, right?

• 43:29Speaker 03

  Still got it.

• 43:30Bunnie XO?

  Why'd my team give me that? Um, so, moving on.

• 43:36Bunnie XO?

  You guys haven't got to read the book yet, but in the book you guys finally get to deep dive into a relationship that is probably one of the best relationships I've ever had in my entire life with a human who is one of the most beautiful souls that I have ever encountered. And you know, when we first came on the scene, people didn't understand us and people, we were different and people, you know, questioned our love and we, it was like constantly having to prove something. And I just, exactly. And I just want you guys to know that no matter how different you are and how people perceive you, fuck them.

• 44:20Bunnie XO?

  It literally does not matter what anybody thinks about you. If you love somebody, love them to the fucking fullest. But anyways, I had this really cute chubby-cheeked cherub angel sweep me off my feet and it was, it was a very unpredictable because I had just got out of a crazy relationship. I don't know if some of you guys saw my post that I posted yesterday. What'd you say, baby? I love you guys. So I had just got out of a crazy relationship and I definitely was not looking for love. I was looking for Mr. Right Now, not Mr. Right. And he had other plans. He made me sit down with him before I would... Five-year plan. You guys know, baby, he made me sit down with him

• 45:04Bunnie XO?

  and make a five-year plan. And now we have moved on to our 10-year plan. And I just can't believe that this year it's gonna be 10 years with the man that I love. And who saw my husband win three Grammys? Like, what the hell, Mr. Roll? So I was like, how am I gonna get a three-time Grammy winner here, you know? Like, what the hell? Do you guys think he came all the way to New York for me? Well, Jelly Roll, can you come out, please?

• 45:58Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 46:01Bunnie XO?

  You're gonna trade seats, right? Are you gonna sit up there? Yeah, yeah, you're gonna interview me.

• 46:07Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 46:13Speaker 17

  Yeah, I like it. The interviewer becomes the interviewee.

• 46:18Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I'm nervous.

• 46:19Speaker 17

  New York City!

• 46:24Speaker 17

  Howdy.

• 46:26Bunnie XO?

  How's your mammy in there?

• 46:27Speaker 17

  How's your mammy in there?

• 46:28Bunnie XO?

  How's your mammy in there?

• 46:29Speaker 17

  Can I move this?

• 46:30Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it doesn't work anyways. I tried to use it earlier and it fell. It's very flaccid.

• 46:34Speaker 17

  I'm so excited to be back in New York City. I'm so excited to be back in New York City with you. We, uh, thank you, I feel even better.

• 46:41Bunnie XO?

  Can we get a round of applause for how hot this fucking man is?

• 46:49Bunnie XO?

  Slurps up.

• 46:50Speaker 17

  Yeah, I love you, dude. I was thinking, when I was just sitting backstage, I was thinking about our first time in New York City. Do you remember this? Yeah, it's, well, this was probably 2016.

• 47:04Bunnie XO?

  Was it when I got shitfaced drunk and was petting horses?

• 47:06Speaker 17

  Yes, police pet horses.

• 47:09Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 47:09Speaker 17

  Police horses. And that was, let me tell you how white trash my wife is. We came all the way to New York City, first time, we were so excited. It's a big deal for a girl from the west coast and a kid from Tennessee. And we were super excited and we did, we, first night we went out, I didn't know what she wanted to do. I said, "What do you want to do?" She said, "We go have some drinks." This is back when we were raging alcohol. And, uh...

• 47:29Bunnie XO?

  Miss those days.

• 47:30Speaker 17

  So we got blackout drunk, of course, and on the way, I'm like, "We should get some food." You know, some, a New York delicacy. And I thought she was gonna be like, "We should get some pizza or some Italian food." You know, I mean, there's so much great culture in New York City. And this bitch looks at me and goes, "I've always wanted to eat one of them meat trucks on the side of the street."

• 47:52Bunnie XO?

  Who doesn't love street meat? I mean, I do.

• 47:57Speaker 17

  My wife's entire dream of coming to New York City, y'all, was so she could eat out of a street meat truck on Times Square. So, we stumbled our way to Times Square and pet horses and ate street meat. And I was just thinking, for a woman that came here the first time, excited about a street meat truck, to coming back and selling out the 92 NY, right here in the middle of New York City, in New York, New York.

• 48:21Speaker 17

  I think that is a story that only God could be the author of. But speaking of authors, y'all received the first ever physical copies of the Bunny XO book tonight.

• 48:34Speaker 17

  And as much as I've enjoyed the show, and I've enjoyed watching you sit up here and do what you do best, I said, I want to spend a little time talking about your book.

• 48:43Bunnie XO?

  Let's do it, baby.

• 48:44Speaker 17

  But I want to also start by saying, for those of y'all that wake up early in the morning, thanks for staying late. But if you're up early enough, my wife will be on Howard Stern in the morning.

• 48:54Bunnie XO?

  I'm so excited. I write about Howard Stern in the book, and I know that people have their opinions on Howard now, but the Howard that I grew up with in the 90s is a fucking icon.

• 49:04Speaker 17

  I love Howard now, period. I love you, Howard Stern. We love you, Howard. Thank you.

• 49:08Bunnie XO?

  Love Howard so much.

• 49:09Speaker 17

  But to see how much he inspired you, and y'all will read this in the book, to do what ended up becoming the Dumb Blonde Podcast, which is one of the top five podcasts in America all the time.

• 49:20Speaker 17

  It made me think, you mind if I got a little note card here? I came prepared.

• 49:25Bunnie XO?

  This is special because my husband does not do shit like this. So, you guys are getting him in rare form right now. He's never interviewed anybody.

• 49:33Speaker 17

  So, I want y'all to know, I've been reading the book, and I had a rule, and this will be the first time I talk about this, that I did not want to read my wife's book until she was finished with it and it was sent into publishing, because I wanted her to have the freedom to write about whatever she wanted to write about. I didn't want to be one of those husbands that she felt like was looking over her shoulder, or I didn't want to have an opinion about it. I just wanted her to have complete autonomy to tell her story with absolutely nothing to do with that. I hope somebody appreciates that.

• 50:02Bunnie XO?

  I do. He's always been like that, though.

• 50:05Speaker 17

  Yeah. She sent me the first chapter, and I was so excited. I went upstairs and I wanted to talk about it for hours. And right then, I was like, this is me accidentally giving my opinion. And I don't want to give my opinion, because my wife is a beautiful soul with a beautiful story, and I want to hear it straight from her.

• 50:21Speaker 17

  So with that being said, you can imagine when y'all start reading this thing, how surprised I was.

• 50:27Bunnie XO?

  I didn't hold back. When I talk about-

• 50:29Speaker 17

  Whoa, there was so many holy fuck moments for me as a husband in that book. There was so many moments that, okay, first of all, it's a double edged sword. There was stuff that I knew about that I would watch you writing about on like page two. And I'd be like, there's no way she's starting this book with this story. And then I'm like, surely she won't tell the end of this story how it actually happened. This bitch did it, every single time. She blew my mind. And then there was things in the story that I would learn about, we'll talk about in just a minute. But for you, going back and having to relive all of this, and this was years after you getting sober, years after you doing therapy, lots of hard work when you even having the courage to write a book like this.

• 51:16Speaker 17

  How, what was the, I couldn't imagine what the emotional state was having to see all of it in black and white though. Like having to read it back to yourself and make edits and make sure the story was right. Like kind of just walk me through what that was for you like emotionally.

• 51:30Bunnie XO?

  Well, you know that I started writing this book in 2019. And when I started writing the book, I was like, I don't have like a happy ending, you know? And we still don't have the happy ending. We have a happier ending, but we're still living our fairy tale, our un-fairy tale. And when I started writing it out, there would be times where I would write a chapter and I would have to not touch it for like three or four days. Because you know, when you're reliving so much stuff, and there's people out there who have had way worse lives than I have, and I couldn't even imagine what they would have to go through writing a book. So it was super cathartic, it was super healing in a way. And I'm like so glad that I've got to put all of this into a book,

• 52:13Bunnie XO?

  because now I can like finally close those chapters. And literally my book drops on the day the Year of the Fire Horse starts. So tell me that's not like coincidence, dude. Like that's so awesome that I get to leave all the, I get to shed my skin from Year of the Snake and go and move forward with Year of the Fire Horse. So I'm really happy about that.

• 52:36Speaker 17

  Early in the book, quickly, your stepmother becomes, and I knew this about your life, obviously, the main antagonist.

• 52:44Bunnie XO?

  My stepmom was my first bully.

• 52:46Speaker 17

  Yeah, for sure.

• 52:48Bunnie XO?

  Say it again.

• 52:48Speaker 17

  Yeah, fuck her. But I think the question I wanted to ask too, and I think people, it was so interesting when we first got married, and I learned about how abusive your stepmother was in that whole situation, and how much therapy we did together because of different trauma triggers from me having mother issues and you having stepmother issues, and every now and then that can be a cocktail for an argument. And you do a little work.

• 53:10Bunnie XO?

  You guys will learn, the first three years was a nightmare.

• 53:13Speaker 17

  And you do a little work and you figure out how to get through it. But, what I also know is, you then came into the role as a quote-unquote "stepmother", and absolutely became a mother. Absolutely knocked it out of the park, absolutely changed that young woman's life. She would not be the woman, this woman, this young lady is seventeen and a half years old, fixing to go to college with a 4.0 GPA, getting off of everywhere she went to go.

• 53:40Speaker 17

  And...

• 53:41Bunnie XO?

  This is the first time I've really cried. Bailey always gets me, you know?

• 53:45Speaker 17

  You deserve it, though. So, how was you able to take being in such a horrible mothering situation, never meeting your biological mother, having a shitty stepmother, then becoming a mother to an unexpected angel? How did you, tell me the story that threw line between this.

• 54:01Bunnie XO?

  I feel like, I feel like I grew up around a lot of people I didn't want to be like. And, as a young child, I could tell that something was wrong with the people I was growing up around. My dad was the biggest hypocrite I'd ever seen, my stepmom was, you know, would smile in the church pews, and then she would, you know, be at home just a raging nightmare, putting my face through doors. And, it just got to a point, you know, when I was fourteen, I was like, I don't want to be around this anymore, because if I'm around this, it's gonna ruin me, essentially. Like, to have that foresight at such a young age is just, it's crazy to me, and I can only explain it, that being God, like, saying, like, "You need to get away from these people", even though I was that young.

• 54:44Bunnie XO?

  I left at fourteen, and, you know, never went back, never got another dime from my family, and, um, never looked back. But I vowed that I would never make a child feel the way that woman made me feel.

• 54:59Bunnie XO?

  You cannot treat children badly and get away with it. They remember everything. And so when Bailey came into my life, I just, you know, you know me, I'm not all talk, I'm action. I'll say something one time and I'll figure it out. So, and that's what we did.

• 55:17Speaker 17

  You have been the mother you never had, and I'm honored to have you in my life.

• 55:21Bunnie XO?

  I love you. Thank you for giving me the gift.

• 55:24Speaker 17

  I thought about this too. You, I mean, this book gets deep. Domestic violence, abuse, sexual abuse, drug addiction, crippling anxiety. And I bet there are women in here right now who have dealt with some of similar things right now that have been victims.

• 55:43Bunnie XO?

  You guys are warriors.

• 55:45Speaker 17

  And some who are still in a place where they can't clap yet, that are probably in this room. What would you say to them?

• 55:52Bunnie XO?

  That took my breath away, that statement. To the ones that can't clap yet, I want you to know that you are so special, you are so loved, and your life is so much more important than that than being in a relationship or under somebody's thumb who is abusing you. And love does not have to hurt. I'm telling you, it is like the one thing that I had to learn, you know, even though we went through our pain and our trauma and stuff like that, I would, to come out of the fire like we have and actually experience real, true love, and learning how, learning how to love myself first, so that I could love him properly, like, just get out and start focusing on you because you deserve so much more. You deserve a chance in life.

• 56:37Bunnie XO?

  He's over here teary eyed, my sweet baby.

• 56:42Speaker 17

  Hey, I'm crying. I've been so emotional all day. Anyways, my wife is a, has sold like 55, 60,000 books. She's one of the best seller authors in the world right now. Literally, she is one of the best selling authors in the world right now, and the book is not technically available until 10 o'clock in the morning when Amazon drops it off or Barnes and Nobles opens up. It's just so cool to watch that God would have a story that would have me winning three Grammys and you possibly being a New York Times bestseller within three weeks of each other. It's just so, so cool.

• 57:15Speaker 17

  How are you loving your first show? What do you think about this?

• 57:17Bunnie XO?

  Listen, when I first walked out here, guys, I was having a panic attack. And you guys have just loved me through this entire process. And now I'm like, I'm self-regulated and emotionally regulated. Let's sit here for like, two more hours.

• 57:32Bunnie XO?

  They're like, "Fuck no, bitch, we're hungry."

• 57:34Speaker 17

  Well, I will say, one more thing about the book I do want to talk about is, early, I mean, you got me in chapter two, I think, where you had, I knew the story about your stepmother, and I knew about her violence. And we had talked about that for hours in our relationship and therapy rooms. And what I never really heard about as much was Andy, which was your stepmother's sister. Talk a little bit about her.

• 57:59Bunnie XO?

  It's hard to talk about it. You know, when you write it down and it's in a book, it's so hard. It's different than talking about it in front of people, but you know...

• 58:06Speaker 17

  Ain't that crazy? You write a whole book to go on tour, people be like, "Tell me what your book says."

• 58:10Bunnie XO?

  Like, just read it.

• 58:13Bunnie XO?

  So, my stepmom had a sister named Andy, and she was younger. But now that I'm older, I can see that they were raised in an abusive home. And so, they transferred their abuse on to me. And, you know, she was very violent with me at a young age, and I couldn't tell anybody. You know, she threatened to hurt me if I would tell anybody. Or, you know, one time she tried to kill my little sister in front of me. This is all in the book. And I don't want to ruin it for you guys. But in the end, you know, her demons got her. And I'll let you guys, I'll save that for the book so you guys can read it.

• 58:53Bunnie XO?

  But, like I said, you just, you can't treat kids bad and expect to live a good life. So, that's why I advocate so much for children, and yeah. Because I was one of them.

• 59:09Speaker 17

  I love you.

• 59:10Bunnie XO?

  I love you too, baby.

• 59:11Speaker 17

  I am so, so proud of you, babe.

• 59:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I love you so much.

• 59:14Speaker 17

  This is such a big deal. On a Monday night in New York City, you're, this is big news, girl.

• 59:17Bunnie XO?

  I can't believe we're here. Like, I'm just like, thank you guys so much. Like, seriously. So, I mean, I think, you know, you're here. And you are a three-time Grammy Award-winning musician.

• 59:36Bunnie XO?

  Do we think Jelly Roll should sing us some songs?

• 59:42Bunnie XO?

  Well, I'm gonna get out of your way. Oh, and you guys, this is Andy. We live... He's single, ladies. He's also single.

• 59:50Speaker 17

  He prayed you would say that.

• 59:53Bunnie XO?

  You guys hit Andy up after the show. I'm gonna get out of your way, taking him to church, baby.

• 1:00:03Speaker 17

  I promise y'all, so be right back. Can I just sing like one or two songs? I know some of y'all are like, "Sing some songs," yelling. And some of y'all are like, "If she don't come back in five minutes, we're leaving." And I respect that. That's awesome, too.

• 1:00:17Speaker 17

  I love y'all, man. Thank y'all. This is such a special night for me and my wife. I'm so honored to be here. How many y'all are from the New York, New York area, right here, around here? How many y'all flew in to see the show and said, "Fuck it, we'll see the Big Apple while we're here"? Oh, beautiful, beautiful. Hit that thing one time, let me just see what you got. I don't got nothing here. Can I get this and this here? I got a little bit there, but if I can get a little bit of that guitar right here. Check, check, check, check.

• 1:00:43Speaker 17

  Little guitar, yep. We don't got no live guitar. Sorry, y'all, we didn't rehearse. We didn't, we didn't rehearse. We wasn't ready. We're not trained professionals. I showed up as a plus-one tonight. I didn't know I was singing until I got here.

• 1:00:56Speaker 17

  I love y'all, man. Have y'all enjoyed the show?

• 1:01:02Speaker 17

  I want y'all to know that we have cried twice today together. She's been... I was more nervous for her show than any show I think I've ever done. I took three poops before I came out here. I didn't even know I'd ate that much, you know what I'm saying? I mean...

• 1:01:36Speaker 17

  Somebody save me. Me from myself. I spent so long living in hell. They say my lifestyle is bad for my health. It's the only thing that seems to help.

• 1:02:09Speaker 18

  All of this drinking and smoking is hopeless, but feel like it's all that I need. Something inside of me is broken. I hold on to anything that sets me free. You know this, I'm a...

• 1:02:29Speaker 18

  Oh baby, don't waste your time on me. I'm so damaged beyond repair. Life has shattered my hopes and my dreams. I'm a...

• 1:02:44Speaker 18

  Yo, y'all sound good. Baby, don't waste your time on me. I'm so damaged beyond repair. Life has shattered my hopes and my dreams. Yeah.

• 1:03:14Speaker 18

  I wasn't sure if I was gonna sing this one too, but this song was on the album that won the country album of the year for the Grammys.

• 1:03:25Speaker 18

  It's a... I haven't got to talk about it, but that was special to me because to write an album about broken people and people that have came through sexual abuse and drug addiction and people that have came through traumas and from the bottom of the bottom and figured their way out. Albums that talk about shit like that normally don't end up winning Grammys, y'all. This was a really big deal.

• 1:03:47Speaker 18

  Just like books that talk about what my wife's talking about don't normally sell this many books, y'all. Thank y'all.

• 1:04:02Speaker 18

  I am not okay. I'm barely getting by. I'm losing track of days. I'm losing sleep at night. And I am not okay. I'm hanging on the rails. So if I say I'm fine, just know that I learned to hide it well.

• 1:04:29Speaker 18

  I know I can't be the only one.

• 1:04:35Speaker 18

  Who's holding off a dear line? But God knows, I know, when it's all said and done, That I'm not okay. But it's all gonna be alright. I can't hear y'all. It's not okay. But it's all gonna be alright. Ain't that right, New York?

• 1:05:15Speaker 18

  One, two, three, four. I only talk to God when I need a favor. And I only pray when I ain't got a prayer. So who the hell am I, who the hell am I to expect a Savior? Oh, if I only talk to God when I need a favor. Scream it to me! When I need a favor. I know amazing grace, but I ain't been living dumb words. I swear I spend more Sundays drunk off my ass than I have in church. Hardcover King James only been saving dust on the nice stand. I don't know what to say.

• 1:06:00Speaker 18

  By the time I fold my hand. I only talk to God when I need a favor. And I only pray when I ain't got a prayer. So who the hell am I, who the hell am I to expect a Savior? Oh, if I only talk to God when I need a favor. When I need a favor.

• 1:06:37Speaker 18

  Hanging in there, just barely throwing up prayers. I can't hear you. If you still there, Lord, spare me. Oh my God, oh my God. I can't hear you. Hanging in there, just barely throwing up prayers. I can't hear you. If you still there, Lord, spare me. New York City, sing this one, dude. I only talk to God when I need a favor. And I only pray when I ain't gotta pray. Who the hell am I to accept the sin of you? If I only talk to God when I need a favor. Scream.

• 1:07:21Speaker 18

  I need a favor. God, I need a favor. I said, "God, I need a favor." Bunny XO.

• 1:07:42Bunnie XO?

  Give it over to Jelly Roll, baby. You guys, thank you so much for coming out tonight. Thank you guys for being a part of my first show. I love you guys so much.

• 1:07:54Speaker 18

  You see the Chachi shirt?

• 1:07:56Bunnie XO?

  Aw, she's got a Chachi shirt. If you guys want me to sign your books, come start putting them right here and I'll sign your books. But thank you guys so much for coming out. I love you guys. Good night.