5 ruthless business lessons from one week in NYC

Sam's guide to run your life like a $100M business: https://clickhubspot.com/krhd Episode 839: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) and Shaan Puri ( https://x.com/ShaanVP ) talk about everything Shaan learned from his NYC trip. — Show Notes: (0:00) Lesson: Proximity (9:11) Lesson: What does it really mean? (23:04) Lesson: Trust (18:53) Lesson: City Brands (33:39) Lesson: Marketing — Links: • Ben Wilson’s GoFundMe - https://t.co/kJN7pArRIO — Check Out Sam's Stuff: • Hampton (joinhampton.com): My community for founders. Average member does $25m/year. Many of the guests are members. Get after it...apply: http://joinhampton.com/mfm — Check Out Shaan's Stuff: • Shaan's weekly email - https://www.shaanpuri.com • Visit https://www.somewhere.com/mfm to hire worldwide talent like Shaan and get $500 off for being an MFM listener. Hire developers, assistants, marketing pros, sales teams and more for 80% less than US equivalents. • Mercury - Shaan uses Mercury for banking across all of his companies. you can too: http://mercury.com/ Mercury is a fintech company, not an FDIC-insured bank. Banking services provided by Choice Financial Group, Column, N. A., and Evolve Bank & Trust, Members FDIC • I run all my newsletters on Beehiiv and you should too + we're giving away $10k to our favorite newsletter, check it out: beehiiv.com/mfm-challenge My First Million is a HubSpot Original Podcast // Brought to you by HubSpot Media // Production by Arie Desormeaux // Editing by Ezra Bakker Trupiano /

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• 0:00Shaan Puri?

  Okay, I just got back from New York. I was there for a week. It was probably the most fun business trip of my life. And I wrote down five bullet points I have here that I think we could dive into. And the first one I want to dive into is.

• 0:20Sam Parr?

  When was the last time you've been to New York City?

• 0:22Shaan Puri?

  Oh dude, it's been like 10 years since I've been to New York. Like, I just don't really go.

• 0:26Sam Parr?

  Well, you had a great time. That's good. Whenever people come here, I feel like I want to be a steward, where I want to be like, look, it's not that crazy to live here and it could be awesome. And it's exciting and I'm not like one of these guys that's like, I'm not a Knicks fan. I'm not like a New Yorker. I just live here. So I don't want to like pretend that I'm like a, you know, that type of person, but I felt proud to show you around.

• 0:48Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, and you did. Also, I think a lot of people had that in New York because they'd be like, hey, we're going to hang out with this person. And it would be half hangout, half city tour. Because there's A, there's a lot going on and B, I think there's a lot of pride in, in like, knowing the city and being a part of the city and bringing friends from other places to the city, which I think is, is pretty cool. So, uh, one is trust. Trust as a service. The next one is marketing. Third one, proximity. Fourth is city brands. And the fifth is, what is it really? Okay, so those are the, those are my five, my five key phrases. Which one you want to start with?

• 1:26Sam Parr?

  Number three.

• 1:27Shaan Puri?

  Proximity?

• 1:28Sam Parr?

  Yeah. We use that word all the time.

• 1:30Shaan Puri?

  Proximity. So, uh, what do I mean by proximity? Proximity is being closely together. So I want to read you some notes from one of my, one of my hangouts. So I hung out with, um, with the comedian, uh, Hasan Minhaj. And he's been on the pod before. He's listened to the pod sometimes. We've gotten to become friends from afar. And I got to go to his office and hang out and meet his team and see how they work. I'm a big fan of watching how different people work, you know, go to their office, that sort of thing. He saw that me and Ben were together. Now Ben lives in Austin. I live in San Francisco Bay area. So we're, we're not together. We don't work together in the same office, but him and his team do in New York City. He commutes in from like wherever, Connecticut or something like that to the city to work.

• 2:10Sam Parr?

  Is his main job his podcast?

• 2:12Shaan Puri?

  I don't know if, I don't think he would say that. I think his main job is just being, being a creative of which a podcast takes up maybe half of his pie chart. And the other half is movies and, and his tours and things like that. So it's like Netflix specials, those sorts of things. So he said this thing, he goes, as soon as you walk into a creative office and there's the hot secretary and the all glass windows and the fancy matcha in the, in the kitchen. He goes, you've already lost the plot. You've already forgotten what it's all about. And so he was like, he, he took, he's like, he's like, it's not about all that stuff. It's not about the, the glass and the, and the hot secretary and the matcha. It's not about any of that. It's about this. And he hands me the yellow legal pad where he's handwriting his, his script.

• 2:55Shaan Puri?

  And he's like, it's about these sticky notes on this wall. And it's not even enough space, but we got to figure it out. Act one, act two, act three. This is the work. And he goes, I wanted it to be tight. I wanted us to have close proximity. He's like, it's a covalent bond. And he was talking about the power of proximity. He goes, you know what? I even take it further. He goes, whenever anyone's in New York, like you're in New York right now, come to the office, come hang, come be a part of this. You need to work for a day? Here, come work right here. Oh, uh, you're shooting this movie? You need a place for hair and makeup? Do it right over there. He goes, because it's when you're here and we're just doing things, you know, we, we get to sort of bump into each other, like, you know, our atoms get to bump into each other. Good things happen. I pick up a little bit of what's going on in your world. I figure out a way to help you. You figure out a way to help me. And that proximity, I realize is something I really miss.

• 3:39Shaan Puri?

  You get it a lot in San Francisco in the tech world. New York, I would say is even a level above that because it's even denser. Everything feels very high proximity. Like we did a different thing every hour, I would say, like we were hanging with somebody, you know, for probably 90 minutes at a time. And then we would go do something else. There was no more than like 10 minutes of transit time between anything that we were doing. It was insane. We were just hopping from one thing to the next. And so I thought his note on proximity, proximity with your coworkers, proximity with peers who you think are interesting. And remembering like, what is it all about? Is it about the space and the gloss and the remote work and all that stuff? Or is it about the sticky notes and the close proximity and smelling, smelling each other's, you know, deodorant?

• 4:24Sam Parr?

  Yes, but also like the time that you were here, you were going, going, going. You got nothing done. You know, I think that you were educated, you were inspired, you, which is important. And also if I'm Hasan and I'm writing all the time, which I kind of am for this podcast, like two hours for this podcast, I need quiet time. No one talked to me. I'm in a room by myself.

• 4:44Shaan Puri?

  So he actually gave me some good inspiration for that too. So he goes, I'm here, you know, whatever, a couple of days a week and we stack it. Cause I, I met up with him. I think I went to his office at like 10pm.

• 4:54Sam Parr?

  Right, yeah.

• 4:55Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, it was like, I was with you at dinner. And then I was like, hey, we gotta go meet someone. They're like, what? And we went, I think I got to his office at 9:30 or 10.

• 5:03Sam Parr?

  Was it, people were there?

• 5:04Shaan Puri?

  Him and his whole team was there. I thought he was just maybe hanging out for us. No, he was in a meeting. We waited for him for, you know, 20, 30 minutes. And then we, we hung out for another two, three hours. Then he took the train home. It was insane. He goes, no, no, these days I stack them. I tell my, I tell my person like, you know, top to bottom meetings, meeting, meetings, like, that's where we're talking. He goes, because then the next three days, it's quiet time. And he said, I think what he did was he like, he's like, I rented a office space above a Dunkin' Donuts. Like the smallest little writer's room you can imagine. He's like, and I go there when it's writing time. The other thing we said, he said was, he goes, we were talking about like maker's time versus manager's time, like the program essay. And you got to know which, which schedule you're supposed to be on. Are you on a manager's schedule?

• 5:48Shaan Puri?

  Well, every 30 minutes, back to back to back, you're, you're, you're context switching, you're meeting a different group, you're making decisions. Or you're on maker's time where you need long blocks of uninterrupted creative time. That's might feel unproductive for an hour of it, but you needed that time to kind of get in the groove. And then, then you get at flow state and you start, start working. And he goes, I told my team, like, I need to be above this Dunkin'. I need to be in that room alone, no wifi, no nothing. Not just me and the legal pad. I don't even, I didn't take a laptop. Because I could produce pages. When I produce pages, it's like a magic trick. Money rains from the sky when I do that. So you got to give me time to generate these pages.

• 6:23Sam Parr?

  Dude, he's cool.

• 6:24Shaan Puri?

  I don't know. I just took a lot of inspiration. When you meet someone who's a, a creative and an artist at the top of their field, it is, feels very different than just meeting an entrepreneur. You know, there's a couple of different like inspiring versions of this. Like if you walk into like, you know, Elon's factory where he's building things, right? Or when we did the Mr. Beast tour, he's like, this is the largest soundstage in America. That guy's trapped in that room for a year and we're building this set over here.

• 6:50Sam Parr?

  Yeah, or an athlete, or when you talk to an athlete and you see their schedule and you see how they think about all these little things.

• 6:55Shaan Puri?

  How, how seriously they take their body, their recovery. Forget the workout. The recovery is impressive. And so there's these, these little pockets of like world-class people. When they make you realize like, oh, that's what it looks like when you dial up to 12, whether it's athleticism, whether it's building. Or in this case, it's about the creative process, creative work. And so that was, that was pretty inspiring. So you have, I went to your office too. And, uh, got to see, you know, you built basically a place for proximity. In what ways do people underrate it? In what ways does it unlock you? Give me, give me something on it.

• 7:27Sam Parr?

  Yeah. So I need, I have a, a door right over here and it has a recording, uh, light on there. So no one, people know not to come in here right now. And I keep that on a lot, even when I'm not recording, but then every probably 40 minutes, I quit what I'm doing and I just walk around. And people get mad at me at my office because they're like, you're just staring at me. And I'm like, no, I just want to like, pop in on different conversations and listen. And I do that all the time. I think that there's a phrase, um, what's it called? Like managing by wandering? Where it's like, you know, like the CEO would like walk around like the factory floor with zero intention, other than just to learn and see what's going on and occasionally find a problem and help solve it. And so I do that all the time and I love it. It makes me happy. And so there's a joke where you can kind of see it. We have like frosted

• 8:10Sam Parr?

  glass now because they say that I would just like stare at people in, in the office. But like, I, I sometimes.

• 8:16Shaan Puri?

  Complaints.

• 8:17Sam Parr?

  Yeah, sometimes they'll just like pop into meetings and I'll just sit and I won't say a word and then I'll walk out. And I love doing that because it helps me learn what's going on and how people feel and what people's opinions are. And I frankly love doing that. But I do require like lots and lots of quiet time.

• 8:31Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, it's like a barbell strategy, right? You want to have, uh, extreme high contact, ground truth, close proximity, serendipitous interactions. And then you want to have structured, isolated thinking time, working time. That's like highly secluded. And that seems to be the optimal is to be able to have the ability to go far in either direction and not just stay in the kind of like weak middle where it's like a lot of Zoom calls and, you know, some Slack messages and a bunch of light touches, but never really going deep on anything at any, with any people or any work.

• 9:04Sam Parr?

  And I also hired a, a cheap designer. My office isn't particularly fancy, but I wanted it to look like aesthetically pleasing because I wanted to be here. So, uh, I, I took a little bit of a different route than him. What's the, um, what are the other few?

• 9:16Shaan Puri?

  All right. So I had, um,

• 9:19Shaan Puri?

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• 9:48Shaan Puri?

  I had marketing, I had trust, I had city brands, and I had, what does it really mean?

• 9:52Sam Parr?

  What's it really mean?

• 9:53Shaan Puri?

  Okay, so this has been a long recurring theme. What I mean by that is everybody's typically looking for some new insight. I actually value a repetitive insight because it means there's more to learn. It means there's probably higher signal. Like if I hear, if the same lesson comes up three or four times in a two year span, I add more weight to it. Whereas I think most people, yeah, yeah, yeah, I know. I think that's how most people treat things that they've heard before. So I think on this podcast, I mentioned a couple of years ago, I was at an event with the guys from Tiny. Andrew and his business partner, Chris, who's much less well known. And I was sitting at dinner and this guy was talking about a business he had failed in. And he said the thing that every, oh, you know, but, but I learned so much.

• 10:37Shaan Puri?

  And then Chris goes, um, what did you learn? And then the guy's like, oh, so much. He goes, so what's the main thing you learned? And then the guy was like, uh, he was fumbling and stumbling, he couldn't really figure out what to say. Then he said something that was like, I don't remember the specific example now, but it would be like if I, if I had started a restaurant and my restaurant failed, and then I was like, I learned you shouldn't start a business, when it's rainy season. It's like, that's what you learned? It was like that, you didn't even learn the right lesson. And Chris basically pointed this out, he goes, I've talked to so many entrepreneurs. He goes, very rarely do I feel like somebody actually learned the right lesson from the thing. And this kept coming up, you know, this has come up for me many times.

• 11:21Shaan Puri?

  And so what does it really mean? I think is a, is a very important question. I don't think people sit with enough. And so let me give you maybe a couple of examples. So we met up with Gary V's right hand man, Nick Dio, who we've talked about on this podcast for a very unique job. So Gary V, big public persona, but he can't be everywhere at once. So he's got this guy Nick, who's his right hand man, and he's basically an extension of Gary. Nick will host dinners for people that, people in the Gary orbit who he thinks are cool. And they just, they pay the bill, they bring cool people together. Gary's not even there. He met up with us, he's like, I just got off a flight from the, what is it? Cannes Film Festival. And he was there all week in Paris and then was like, oh, you guys got to come next year. And he was full of energy.

• 12:04Sam Parr?

  Does Gary tell everyone that he went to Cannes?

• 12:05Shaan Puri?

  Well, I think Gary was there in this case, but it's like, they needed more manpower. And so we were talking to him and I was like, um, I think the, the simple explanation that everybody, you know, I kind of asked him, I was like, what does everybody think you do? He's like, oh, everybody thinks I basically just go party and like, you know, drink and wine and dine with like, you know, Gary. I said, what do you, so what do you really do? And it's very interesting when you ask somebody, what do you really do? And he goes, that's a great, he goes, you know, most people don't really ask that, but I, you know, I think you're genuinely asking. So I'll tell you. And he gave me two stories that I thought were pretty dope. The first thing he said was, he goes, he goes, every room that you're ever in socially, there's some slack. This, the room is slacking in some way.

• 12:48Shaan Puri?

  So he goes, there's a social slack that nobody can really put their finger on, but maybe the music's too loud. Maybe it's a little too cold. Maybe that guy doesn't know who to talk to. Maybe the drinks are, maybe there's no drinks. We all need some drinks. Maybe it's, there's two groups that don't really know each other. They haven't bridged the gap yet in this room. Maybe they will in three hours, but can I do it in the first 30 minutes? Cause it'll change the way the night goes. He goes, there's always this social slack in the room. And what I'm really great at is identifying that social slack and picking it up. Finding a way to like stir the drink so that it tastes better of every room that I'm in. And people don't really even necessarily notice what I did, but it's, the goal is to elevate the experience for everybody in the room.

• 13:24Sam Parr?

  But they benefit from it in some capacity. And what's an example?

• 13:28Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, exactly. So he gave a couple of examples. So I don't know if you saw this, when the Knicks won the championship, the, there was a viral clip of, of Jalen Brunson toasting in this small restaurant. And he basically was like, F Wemby. And then somebody had recorded, he didn't mean for it, but somebody had recorded it and it leaked and it like got out and it went mega viral. Well, that was happening, they, the Knicks, after their championship game, they went to Gary's social club, his place, Flyfish. And they were in the room we were in where they have this like omakase sushi room. And that's, he's like, dude, that was the chair right there. Look, watch the video. This is, this is the exact spot. And so he's like, you know, through the relationship building I had done, when they decided, hey, we want a cool place to celebrate. They decided to come here.

• 14:12Shaan Puri?

  That's obviously very good for the brand of like, if that's where the Knicks celebrate their first championship in 50 years, it's obviously going to be very good for our restaurant chain or for our concept, right?

• 14:20Sam Parr?

  That's pretty cool.

• 14:21Shaan Puri?

  And it's good for our members club. So that's like one example. He gave another example of like, being very intentional. So he's like, if Gary starts to get into streetwear and new fashion, um, then he's like, my, he's like, then I basically go and I try to meet the 150 most interesting people doing interesting things in streetwear and fashion. I go into them with no agenda. I'm just trying to meet them, understand them, help them, do whatever I can with them. But now they're part of our network. And then sure enough, like one of them's raising money, we invested in it and boom, it's this like, you know, this hit product that comes out of. He's like, we didn't know going in that would be the win. Who knows, it could have been something else completely, but we don't, we don't have to know where we know we have like five touchpoints. It's like, maybe that they're going to come on the podcast. Maybe it's going to be an investment.

• 15:06Shaan Puri?

  Maybe they're going to be friends. Maybe they're really insightful, they'll teach us something. Maybe it's, who knows what it is? I don't need to know what it is upfront. I'll go in with no agenda and pick it up on the other side.

• 15:17Sam Parr?

  All right, everyone, I'm going to make this quick. So if you're an OG listener of my first million, then you might remember a guy named Ben Wilson. Ben Wilson was Sean and I's producer early on in the podcast. He also has his own amazing podcast called How to Take Over the World, which we love. And he's been battling cancer and he just announced it. We've known about it for a little while, but he just announced it on Twitter the other day. And the reason I'm talking about it here is because when he made his announcement, he did say that he had a GoFundMe that you should check out, you should look him up on Twitter and he linked to that. But he also explained that he had stage four, high grade neuroendocrine carcinoma, which I don't know too much about that. But he says that his brains, his bones, his lungs and his liver.

• 15:58Sam Parr?

  And he's trying to get hold of a very specific and uncommon type of drug called Tarlatamab. I'm sorry, I can't pronounce these things, but it's, it's a, it's a very specific thing. And so if you have ever gotten value from my first million, and also if you are in this world, we're just trying to raise awareness for what Ben's going through, then you can look up Ben Wilson on Twitter. He has a 16 minute video that's quite inspiring where he addresses his, his diagnosis and what he's facing. And he is, I find it actually quite inspiring. He's got this amazing line where he's like, you should live like you're living, not live like you're dying. And so you should watch that. But also if you do want to support him via his GoFundMe, and also he leaves his contact information.

• 16:43Sam Parr?

  So if you're in this world where you could help him in any way, uh, his information is all there. So look him up, Ben Wilson on Twitter. We'll also link to this in Spotify, iTunes and YouTube.

• 16:56Sam Parr?

  Gary's easy to make fun of because first of all, I love him. I think he's awesome. I'm not making fun of him, but people give him a hard time online because he's like loud and he's been doing content and he says silly fun stuff. And this is another thing where people would maybe mock like, oh, he just hires this guy to go party for him. And so I want to acknowledge that, but I think this is awesome. I think that Gary has done so many things that have been a bit ahead. And he, and he makes a ton of predictions and he's not right all the time. But like the fact that he's like been doing social media like he's been doing for forever and he was totally right. And then just like having this, I'm like, huh, this sounds like ridiculous and awesome. And it could be very beneficial.

• 17:31Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, yeah, exactly. I think it, I told him, I said, this is the equivalent of if you ever hear that stat that LeBron James spends a million dollars a year on his body. And it's like, whoa, that's a lot. Like, you know, is he crazy? And it's like, no, are you crazy? He's LeBron James, his body is the product. Of course he's going to, what an incredible return on investment. He's now playing in year 23 in the NBA. Like, I think that million dollars just unlocked another $40 million contract twice. Like, are you joking? That's, that's obvious. So what is the equivalent in, in your niches of very good, it's one of my favorite like kind of thought experiments, questions like, what would be the equivalent of spending a million dollars a year on your body for, for whatever you do? I think I've told this story about like my executive coach.

• 18:13Shaan Puri?

  He, he spent a million dollars of his own money, learning from the best coaches of all the different modalities. Like if somebody's really good in like, whatever, somatic therapy, I don't even know what that is, but like whatever. He'll go find the best in the world. He'll approach them and be like, hey, is there any way I could get kind of two weeks of immersive, one-on-one training in this? Name your price. And he did that with like, you know, 15 of the best coaches in the world over a period of two years and like spent a million dollars. And because of it, he's like, A, what a cool experience. And B, like I made myself more valuable as a coach because I now like, I'm well versed in, in different, different domains. And I got, and I started with a deep dive with the world's best. Then I continued for years after that of my own self-practice.

• 18:56Sam Parr?

  All right, go to number four. I think it was New York brands.

• 18:58Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, city brands. So I think it's really interesting how there's only a few cities in the world that have brands. Like New York has a brand. New York has a look, it has a feel, it has a sound, it has an attitude, it has an aura, it has a reason to go there. It has, like any great brand, it has loyalists who swear by it, it has haters. Like I grew up in Houston. Houston has no brand. Got a lot of people, got a good sized economy. What's the brand? Like it's like, yeah, it was kind of a good. Gas town, kind of, what does that even mean?

• 19:30Sam Parr?

  It's, it's just that it's kind of new, like oil and gas is like a relatively new thing. It's only many, I mean, it's many decades, but yeah, it's kind of new. But like Detroit, you know, has one, I think. New York has one, but yeah, a lot of places don't.

• 19:41Shaan Puri?

  Las Vegas has a brand, San Francisco, LA have a brand, New York has a brand. There's not that many places that have brands. And I think there's a, it's kind of a miss, you know, like, um, I think if you're, if you're actually like trying to make a city attractive, you want to have a brand and be intentional about it. I actually think, I told this to an NBA team owner too. Very few NBA teams have a brand. When you're not a brand, you're a commodity. You're basically saying coming and playing here is just the same as coming and playing somewhere else. Now, there's a couple of teams that have a brand, maybe because the city they're in, right? Miami, LA, New York. The brand is really the city, not the team. But there's one, there's been, there's been a couple of examples of teams that have brands.

• 20:24Sam Parr?

  I'm not a basketball guy at all, but like, I know that like, was it the 76ers or the Pistons? Who was the tough guy?

• 20:29Shaan Puri?

  The Bad Boys.

• 20:30Sam Parr?

  The Bad Boys.

• 20:32Shaan Puri?

  The Bad Boy Pistons is an example of a brand. They gave it a name. It was cool. They made merch. They brought players in that reinforced the brand. It became a thing. It embodied, it stood for something. Some people hated it. They thought they were dirty. Other people loved it. They said they were tough.

• 20:48Sam Parr?

  Or the Fab Five in Michigan, I think.

• 20:50Shaan Puri?

  Fab Five was an, exactly. Fab Five was another one. They wore all black socks, baggy shorts, right? What does a brand do? It has a look and an aesthetic, an icon, a visual, a brand, a logo. And so the same thing right now, the only team I would say that truly has that kind of a brand is the Miami Heat. They have this thing that every reference is called Heat Culture. And they say, oh, well, there's Heat Culture. And Heat Culture is basically like, we, they don't, it's kind of like Navy SEALs. Like when you come, you get weighed in every day with your weight and your body fat, and you have to be under a certain body fat or you don't get to play. And like, a lot of other NBA teams cater to their stars and, you know, they don't really, they don't want to like, rock the boat. Whereas Miami's like, no, this is Heat Culture. This is part of Heat Culture. If you came here, you should know what Heat Culture is all about.

• 21:35Shaan Puri?

  If you think about the best companies, the best cities, they have a culture. They have a brand. And then the people who get, there's people who get attracted to that, who come there for that. And when even people who aren't, didn't come there for that, they will change their behavior to fit the culture, to fit the brand. If I know that this place only rewards and respects people who are bold, people who take action, people who do X, Y, Z, then I'm going to bring that version of myself to the party.

• 22:00Sam Parr?

  That's pretty cool. That's a good observation. I think UConn had that because I saw the 60 Minutes guy or the coach on 60 Minutes. And it was like, people are like, well, winning is everything. He's like, at our culture, winning is everything. Like, we're here to win. And then I think SF has one.

• 22:13Shaan Puri?

  SF has one. I would say it's a little less intentional. And it's not really, it's like, there's the tech scene in SF and then there's SF. SF kind of hates the tech scene.

• 22:23Sam Parr?

  Yeah.

• 22:24Shaan Puri?

  Despite it being the driver of growth in SF. And then there's the tech scene, which has its own little brand. Uh, but it just kind of like stood out to me that like, I, I think it's hard because there's nobody who like, it's not a company, right? There's not like a.

• 22:36Sam Parr?

  Yeah, but the mayor has four years to kind of like, someone.

• 22:39Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, but like, you know, who's the mayor? And are they the kind of world-class leader that can build this? And then can you kind of hand it off from one person to the next? It's, it's a really tough thing, but man, when you have it, what an, what a competitive advantage. Cause right, like you recruit, you move there. And so did our other friends that, well, we all visited, they all moved there. It's not like they were born and raised in Manhattan. Uh, you know, it, it attracts talent. And when you attract talent, you attract certain type of people. You attract earning power, you attract all kinds of things. And then, you know, if there's a flywheel that, that spins. Hey, let's take a quick break. You know that feeling when strategy is done, the brief is written, everyone's aligned, and you realize someone still has to sit down and actually create all the content? That someone is usually you and it's due tomorrow. Well, the Breeze Assistant from HubSpot can help. It works right inside HubSpot.

• 23:22Shaan Puri?

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• 23:36Sam Parr?

  What about the number one thing? What was number one?

• 23:39Shaan Puri?

  Trust. Okay, so one person I bumped into at Gary V's Club or whatever was this Instagram or creator called Jack's Dining Club. Do you know this guy?

• 23:48Sam Parr?

  Yeah, he's the, he's the hottest thing going, dude.

• 23:50Shaan Puri?

  What is his exact name? Is it Diner's?

• 23:51Sam Parr?

  He's like, uh, I follow him. I think he's 22 or 23 and he has tens of millions of followers.

• 23:58Shaan Puri?

  All right, Jack's Dining Room is the, is the name. And then he's got this brand called Yes Chef. So I met this guy, Jack, and you know, Ben was like, oh dude, I love your videos. Everyone's like, I love your videos. I was out of the loop. I didn't really know any of his content, but I started, uh, I grabbed Ben's phone. I started watching some of his content. Pretty fascinating what this guy's doing. The core video hook of what he's doing is, we're here at the best sandwich place in Paris. This is a, and then he's like, he's got a sandwich. He's like, this is a cheese and mayo, Dijon sandwich, whatever. And he's like, the croissant. And he's like, dude, this thing is, and he takes a bite. He loves it. And this guy's brand is pretty incredible. Like, um, he, he has these things he does now. Have you ever seen his like Reserve Club?

• 24:40Sam Parr?

  No, but I, he has a whole suite of brands called Yes Chef.

• 24:44Shaan Puri?

  Go to his Instagram and watch one of the Reserve videos, if you can see it. Basically it's these like, you pay like a thousand or more than a thousand dollars, like, you know, say thousands of dollars to go as a group of like, let's say 10 on like an unreal culinary experience. Like we get on a private jet, we fly to this place. On the jet, there's the, the best sushi chef is making, you know, omakase on the, on the plane. Then we land, we get the champagne. It's just like some overly indulgent, like.

• 25:12Sam Parr?

  Like a dinner on the sand in a fancy beach.

• 25:15Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, but like, look who's there. It's like Machine Gun Kelly, Leonardo DiCaprio. These are like fans of his content.

• 25:23Shaan Puri?

  They're like, I've seen your videos. I actually tried that restaurant because I saw that you, you had, you said they had the best chicken sandwich in LA. I drove an hour to go get there. And he's like, wow, that's incredible, Leonardo DiCaprio. Thank you for, thank you for saying that.

• 25:35Sam Parr?

  Dude, he, and then it says like, if you go to his Instagram, it goes to Yes Chef Guides, Yes Chef Festival, Yes Chef Reserve, Yes Chef Supply, Yes Chef Run Club, Yes Chef Group. He has a whole like thing around this.

• 25:51Shaan Puri?

  He's got a whole ecosystem going. All right. So, so, so what was, I thought really interesting about this was just the idea of trust. So when we were, when we were in New York, there was these, um, every place we went to was like, this is the hottest, the hottest steakhouse in New York, the hottest sushi. I was like, bro, you gotta, you gotta stop saying that. These can't all be the hottest restaurant. How many, how many hottest restaurants in New York are there? It's this kind of word of mouth thing. And, and one thing I thought about was like, man, there's brand. If you think about this, the general idea of, if I really wanted to have great food, who do I trust to tell me where the great food is in any city?

• 26:27Sam Parr?

  Just like a, yeah, I don't know, a smart friend?

• 26:30Shaan Puri?

  Well, smart friend, but that smart friend has to be like well-traveled, well-versed, like, you know, who? Not everybody has, this guy's job, Jack, he's basically your boy who knows the spot in every city. And I thought, man, he's kind of sitting on a goldmine of trust. I think trust is going to be the thing that is in lowest supply over the next 10 years. Like dude, every video I see on Instagram, I'm like, is this fake? You know, whenever, whenever I see like an ad, I'm like, okay, that's an ad. And then I see a normal funny video, I'm like, that might've been a deep fake. Um, yesterday I saw this insane thing where you can create like a UGC character. So it says a new era of influencing, right? So like, check this out. You see this girl?

• 27:09Sam Parr?

  Okay, so it's a, a pretty, they're all pretty like Instagram influencer.

• 27:15Shaan Puri?

  Hyper-realistic, I don't know if you can see the detail, like hyper-realistic looking person, right? This is an AI-generated person, but then it's like, it will, we can keep the character exactly the same. So the face, the eyes, the jewelry, the style, the hair. And so you have one character and it says one character endless content. So like, this is like Catfish Heaven, right? Like I'm going to be able to make this character, then I'm going to be able to put her in every scene. She can be the face of my brand. She could just be an influencer on her own. She could do videos, she could do anything. And you're just going to be able to create a hyper-realistic looking person, post content for them, and no one will ever know that this entire thing is fake. And like, even if this is only mildly impressive to, this is very impressive to me, but if this is mildly impressive to you, cool, fast forward 12 months.

• 27:58Shaan Puri?

  Like, we're going into like peak fakeness around the world. And what happens when everything is easy to fake? Trust becomes incredibly important.

• 28:06Sam Parr?

  That's crazy.

• 28:07Shaan Puri?

  I think podcasters like us are, are well-positioned because people know we're real human beings. And like, in a flood of endless content, you're just going to gravitate towards people you trust. I think this guy, Jack, is sitting on a goldmine of trust. So, so where do you get food recommendations today? Yelp. Yelp is the, the default answer. And it's like, dude, Yelp sucks. I've never seen anyone be like, God, I'm, I love Yelp so much. Like, you know, I trust Yelp so much. Yelp, Yelp always knows the best place to go when I want ramen in my city. And so I was like, this guy, I pitched him this idea. I was like, look, you're selling hats? Wonderful. You're selling these like thousand dollar, you know, fun private jet experience. I'm sure that's a blast, but it's, it's obviously not that scalable as a business.

• 28:51Shaan Puri?

  I was like, you should create Jack's List as Yelp. You should try to compete with Yelp. You should create an app that I just say, I want the best burger, the best pizza, the best taco, the best ramen in any city, and you better have it. And it's your pick. It's like, here's number one, maybe number two or three, and that's it. That's the whole app. And I was like, that is what you should do with this trust is you should go after Yelp.

• 29:13Sam Parr?

  Is he going to do it?

• 29:14Shaan Puri?

  And then him and his business partner were like, ah, yeah, but blah, blah, blah. And I was like, I was so convinced, I was like, actually, you know what? You're right. How about I just build it? And you just let me use your name and face, all right? Uh, you just give me, you just give me the, I'll give you, you don't believe in it? Great. I'll give you 10, 20%. Like, let me build this because I'm so bullish on this idea that like, he should create this as the, how do you do like a huge swing or like 500 million, you know, to, to $2 billion swing as a creator? Like, every video you have gets 100,000 likes of people who are like wishing that they could go to this place. That's incredible. That's like, you know, that, that's an unbelievable, you know, 10 million people are watching you eat this froyo in Vermont.

• 29:57Shaan Puri?

  If that's really the best froyo in Vermont, like you should just create your list and curate it and have it be the trusted place, way more trusted than Yelp. I think trust is sort of like, you know, gold right now.

• 30:06Sam Parr?

  I've been, um, what's the thing called Sorrow? What's the, uh, the music one?

• 30:10Shaan Puri?

  Sono.

• 30:10Sam Parr?

  Sono. I bought a subscription to there a while back and like, I taught my daughter how to pee on the potty because we have a song. We made this artist called Noah Flan. You know, he's kind of like Noah Khan, he, but he's like, uh, I don't know, the cheap person, should we call it Noah Flan? And we have a song called Let It Flow and it's him singing like, um, what's the Elsa song?

• 30:30Shaan Puri?

  Let It Go.

• 30:31Sam Parr?

  Let It Go. And it, you know, it goes, um.

• 30:33Shaan Puri?

  Let It Flow.

• 30:35Sam Parr?

  Let It Flow. Let the pee fall from your body. Let it flow, let it flow, pee into the potty. Let it, and it's like this like folk song. And, uh, it's so whatever.

• 30:47Shaan Puri?

  Is it on your phone? Play it.

• 30:48Sam Parr?

  Yeah, let me see. Hold on.

• 30:51Shaan Puri?

  Listen.

• 31:24Sam Parr?

  It's great, right?

• 31:26Shaan Puri?

  What a hit. Holy shit. Okay, Miss Rachel.

• 31:33Sam Parr?

  So I created Noah Flan because I'll be like, hey, you know, I could tell she has to go to the potty. I'd be like, hey, do you want to let it flow with Noah Flan? And like, well, you know, we'll sing. And so I'm creating, I'm creating a series of songs for, like I used to know.

• 31:48Shaan Puri?

  For all behaviors.

• 31:49Sam Parr?

  For like all behaviors and like, because I hate listening to like the same Moana song over and over again. I like, like folk music. I'm like, I'm gonna just go make something that I think you might like and I will like. And so now we sing like, let it flow, let it flow.

• 32:01Shaan Puri?

  A great Souna prompt word, by the way, because if you say folk, it becomes almost too, too folky Americana. Just use the word Americana on your prompt. It'll add a little bit of that edge you want in it.

• 32:12Sam Parr?

  Well, now I have Noah Flan, like he's like a saved character. And so I actually, I like, I made a YouTube page for it. And I'm like uploading his songs and, and so anyway, like AI has been awesome. I know that we can hate on it, but like, that's not real artists. But I'm telling you what, we love Noah Flan. We sing Noah Flan at our house. What was?

• 32:32Shaan Puri?

  You don't know where it's going. It starts like, pull your pants down. It's like, what's going on?

• 32:36Sam Parr?

  Well, we have this, there's this company called, um, Live, Live, Love Every, you know, Love Every?

• 32:42Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, like the toy company?

• 32:44Sam Parr?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like a toy company and they like send these books and they, we got, we bought a book for them on potty training. And like, they tell a story about a kid going poop and like, he's like, oh, I ate these pancakes. My stomach is growling. And then they show them on the toilet and then they actually show the poop. And I'm like, that's disgusting. And it totally worked. It totally helped her. And so what I'm learning is that when you like, have to like, teach children things, you need to be pretty explicit in the stuff that like a grown up doesn't necessarily want to talk about. I talk about it anyway. And it like goes into like detail, like you have to push and it falls out of your body. Like these things actually helped her and it's pretty freaking gross, but like, yeah, that's what I'm doing with Noah Flan.

• 33:23Shaan Puri?

  By the way, I was, I was very touched and impressed by seeing you as a dad in New York. I also want to give you a shout out. You're a great dad.

• 33:31Sam Parr?

  Thank you.

• 33:31Shaan Puri?

  I don't know if you know you're a great dad. I think you do. I think you actually do know.

• 33:34Sam Parr?

  I work really hard at it. I try really hard at it. I, I try so hard. I think I told you when I had kids, I was like, I finally have found my mission in life. I work really hard at being a good dad.

• 33:44Shaan Puri?

  Yeah. You were like, what'd you say? You learned from your mom. You said, talk to them like they're adults and feed them like they're adults. And you know, at dinner, I was sitting next to your daughter and she was like, pass the green beans. I was like, what?

• 33:58Shaan Puri?

  I was so stunned. I didn't do it. And then she's like, green beans. And then I gave it to her.

• 34:01Sam Parr?

  Well, I just remember like growing up and seeing people and I'm like, why does the kid menu exist? Like, I'm just gonna give them the same, like, we're just doing the same thing.

• 34:08Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, you're a great dad.

• 34:10Sam Parr?

  Thank you.

• 34:10Shaan Puri?

  All right. So what was my other one? Okay. Marketing. There were some great one liners that the marketing nerd in me loved. I just want to say it. So we were at this, what was the name of that like fancy steakhouse?

• 34:20Sam Parr?

  Eighty six, something, it had the number eighty six in the title.

• 34:23Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, yeah. Like the eighty six or whatever. This is some, some restaurant, really hard to get into.

• 34:27Sam Parr?

  Great restaurant.

• 34:28Shaan Puri?

  Great restaurant, great food. And the waiter brings out a box, like a treasure chest. And he's like, gentlemen, have we dined here before? And we're like, no, not really. And he's like, oh, well, you're in for a treat. And he opens up, he starts to open the treasure chest, but he doesn't open it just yet. And he's like, can I tell you the story of, you know? And we're like, yeah, please. And he's like, so we, and he tells a story about how this restaurant, which is in New York, owns a farm in like Melbourne or something in Australia. And they source their own wagyu beef. They raise them. They, you know, they only feed them, you know, probiotics and Skittles or whatever, whatever they feed them.

• 35:06Sam Parr?

  He was like, it was kind of funny. He goes, about three weeks before we take their life, we feed them macadamia nuts and butter. And that just really tops it off.

• 35:18Shaan Puri?

  And he's like, he's like, and so the meat, the steak, just so you guys know, almost like a warning. He's like, just so you guys know, when the steak comes, you gotta be incredibly soft. You can eat it with a spoon.

• 35:30Shaan Puri?

  Whoa, steak's so soft, you could eat it with a spoon. I was like, damn, that was a bar. So I just started writing down like, I just, I wrote that one down. I thought, well, that's a, that's a marketing kill shot right there. I kind of love that idea. Cause again, how do you say in five words, what somebody else could try to convince you of in 500 and still not succeed at?

• 35:47Sam Parr?

  He did the same thing with the knives. He opened it up. He goes, you see these steak knives? These aren't normal steak knives. These steak knives are from 1930, which is the era that we, this building was created.

• 35:57Shaan Puri?

  He's like, this is Teddy Roosevelt's steak knife.

• 35:59Sam Parr?

  Have you heard of Al Capone? He ate here. This was his knife. Like it was beautiful.

• 36:02Shaan Puri?

  There might be some blood on that one still.

• 36:04Sam Parr?

  Yeah, it was, it was great.

• 36:06Shaan Puri?

  And then we were like, but what about the spoon part? Was that, was that a figure of speech? Okay. So, so that was one. Another one, again, in the restaurant space, because again, the restaurant marketing is, is off the hook here. This one restaurant's claim to fame was they go, and three different people told me the same thing about this restaurant separately. They go, Taylor came here twice in a row. And I was like, and so they make you have to.

• 36:28Sam Parr?

  Taylor Swift did two nights in a row. That's the line.

• 36:31Shaan Puri?

  Taylor, Taylor came here two nights in a row. And I was like, damn, that's another kill shot. Like, I'm gonna tell you this place is great. Is Taylor came here two nights in a row. And I thought, wow, okay, that's in the pantheon of like great, you know, one liners that said, that says a lot. Another, another one, you gave me this one. Uh, I was, I was asking you about your denim collection. I was like, so what, why, why the denim thing? And you were like, I just, you started talking about it. You go, it's like history you can wear. And I go, is that their slogan? He go, no, I just said that. I was like, that should be their slogan. I thought that was an incredible line for whoever's the, you know, the higher, who's the power, power that be in the, in the denim world, but they need to, they need to give you a little royalty and take that line.

• 37:13Sam Parr?

  Yeah, like Levi's can make like, uh, you know, instead of saying, we make it like they used to make it. It's like, you know, uh, wear history. Like, yeah, I think that's a, that's actually a golden one.

• 37:25Shaan Puri?

  And then I was talking to somebody else who has been incredibly successful at marketing. And I go, what's the, what's the trick, what's the trick for what you're doing? How did you pull this off? And he goes, everybody wants something. You just have to figure out what it is. The rich want status and praise. The rich and unknown want fame. The fame, famous want privacy. He goes, so I just figured out how to create products for, for each of those use cases. So he's like, for the famous people, I gave them privacy. For the rich but unknown, I gave them a pathway to fame. For the, the successful person who's got it all, they still want access into the right rooms and they want praise. And he goes like, you just gotta know who you're selling to, because it'll tell you how to sell it.

• 38:07Shaan Puri?

  And I thought, okay, that's, that's pretty good. And, and I've heard this before in other, other versions. It's like, um, you sell a mom safety. You sell, uh, you know, you sell the, the busy parents time. You sell the woman youth. You sell the male.

• 38:22Shaan Puri?

  You know, power, you basically, you gotta know kind of like, what's the, what's the one word you're ultimately selling to a person, right? Like the one word of this podcast that we try to sell is inspiration. And so we're going to talk about hundreds of different people, hundreds of different cool things they've built, hundreds of different ways to be successful. Hopefully so that you are ultimately inspired to do some badass shit yourself. Like this is just a podcast where we shout out people doing things that we think are pretty badass and therefore hopefully inspire somebody to do a badass thing in their own, their own version of their life.

• 38:54Sam Parr?

  I, I know I have felt this way and I still feel this way, even though I know it's wrong. That branding and, and, and marketing, but not marketing. I think everyone understands direct response marketing. Like I put this much money in, I just do the thing that gets the highest click, click through rate and I click it. That's sort of like, that's fine and everything. But I think that like the great people understand that branding and marketing. When I say marketing, I mean like brand marketing. It's not sticky. And then I remember thinking like, well, Mark Zuckerberg wears a hoodie. That's not branding. Of course, obviously it is branding. But I was like, he's, it's all about utility. And then I read Peter Thiel's book. Um, what's it called?

• 39:32Shaan Puri?

  Zero to one.

• 39:33Sam Parr?

  Zero to one. And he talks about secrets and he talks about like, what's your special sauce? And it's so funny that Peter Thiel, he did two things that were interesting. He said, branding is a moat. Branding is a secret that you can know. And then he goes, unfortunately, it's not a secret that I know. So I'm not even gonna write about it. That's like, do you remember that part of the book? He's like.

• 39:53Shaan Puri?

  He acknowledges, he's like, I underestimated it. Now I've come to appreciate it. I still don't know it or how to do it. Can't tell you about it.

• 39:59Sam Parr?

  Yeah. He's like, I don't know anything about it, but I know it's real. And then, um, we had Aaron Levy on the podcast. Aaron is, um, a CEO of a company called Box, which makes enterprise cloud software. You could dismiss that as being boring, whatever, but he's immensely successful. And we asked him what books he likes to read. He was like, if you're gonna read any business books, just read these four or something like that. And he listed off, uh, four books. He's like, if you read those, you'll, you're gonna be amazing. And the first book that he said was a book called Positioning by this guy named Al Trout, I think his name is. I think he also wrote the 22 immutable laws of marketing, of which Tim Fares, that's like one of the only three books that he always says, like, just read this one.

• 40:40Sam Parr?

  And, um, I just have noticed that when you're telling these stories, I am in my head. I'm like, I, I'm taking notes right now where I'm like.

• 40:48Shaan Puri?

  By the way, it's Al Reese and Jack Trout.

• 40:50Sam Parr?

  Sorry. Yeah. Jack Trout and Al Reese. My big, the takeaway that I, that you said you like repetition, a repetitive thing that I find myself is getting into the day to day weeds of my business and thinking, well, what's the ad click through rate? Okay. What if we just pointed a red arrow at this guy's face? It's gonna get a higher click through rate. What if we did this? But it's somewhat, it's these things that appear to be irrational, that aren't irrational at all, that have the biggest needle moving difference. So making your brand associate with one word in the same way that Volvo does with safety. Or Lamborghini would do it with like flashy or Ferrari with fast, whatever. Or these other things that don't have an ROI right away, like taking someone and saying, here's the steak.

• 41:31Sam Parr?

  You see this steak right here? And then telling the story, you say that into, in a meeting where people only care about numbers and they're like, huh? But just, just, just make a cheaper steak and just sell it at a higher margin, please. And I just, I just think that when I'm hearing you tell the story, it's a reminder that I need to care about these things significantly more than I do. And I think probably everyone should.

• 41:53Shaan Puri?

  It's incredibly hard to do and it takes a long time and it takes faith and it takes a leader who I think.

• 42:02Shaan Puri?

  Has that core insight. Remember that kind of back to my point of like, what does it really mean? What is it really? Like, what is it really? What is Apple really? Why do we buy Apple? Right? Because we're buying some version of design or simplicity. Right? That's the positioning Apple still has over everybody is that they make simple, beautiful products. So I think that you have to really like to distill, distill, distill, distill, distill. I remember I was talking to Hormozzi once and I go, what's your brand? And he goes, oh, my brand? Business. And I laughed. I was like, business isn't a brand. Like, I was like, that's just a, that's just a word. He goes, I want to own the word business. He goes, and then, you know, he said this, I don't know if I would agree with this, but he's like,

• 42:41Shaan Puri?

  Grant Cardone owns real estate. I want to own business. I think what he meant was like on the, in the world of like YouTube and content. I want to be the guy when, when you think of business. And right or wrong, I thought there's incredible power in the focus and simplicity of trying to own a single word. And, um, you know, you could disagree and say, well, I know, I really, that doesn't capture everything that we do. And no, no, no, we want to, it's more nuanced than that. And it's like, yeah, but you don't really achieve anything when you try to spread it all out too thin. Right? When you do the peanut butter strategy, you're spreading all across the bread. And so I think there is a lot of value in trying to say, well, if it was a word, what would the word be? And if it was a word, is that the word other people would associate with us right now? Or is that just what we say internally?

• 43:27Shaan Puri?

  And if that was a word, like, are we doing that everywhere? Or are we only doing it in this one area? And, um, unfortunately, you don't usually like the answers to that stuff.

• 43:35Sam Parr?

  There's like that quadrant of like urgently needed or not urgent. And then above it, it's like impact versus low impact. And like, there's this quadrant of like, it's not urgent, but it's very impactful. And that's like the thing where you probably should spend time on, but you don't. This is like one of those things.

• 43:51Shaan Puri?

  Right, right. Those are all the marketing. Actually, there was one more marketing one that I think is pretty cool too. I'll give you this one too. So we had a dinner at probably the best Indian restaurant I've ever been to. If you've ever heard of Jim Kana, Jim Kana is like this really famous Michelin star restaurant in London. They have a sister restaurant in New York called Ambassador's Clubhouse, I think. We went there with, uh, with our friend who, who runs their, he doesn't run the restaurant group, but they, they've launched a sauce line. So like, you know how like Carbone started as a famous restaurant?

• 44:21Sam Parr?

  Yeah, Rouse.

• 44:22Shaan Puri?

  Sauces, Ra- Rais? I learned it's not Rouse, it's Rais. They did the same thing. And so this guy's doing it with Indian sauces. And so great dude, great dinner. We hung out and, you know, he was telling me about the business. And I had actually passed on investing on this early on for one reason, which was I was like, I don't know how many people cook Indian food at home. Like, I get why pasta sauce is going to sell a lot of units because people make a lot of pasta at home.

• 44:47Sam Parr?

  Wait, how did you, how did you come across this one? Because this isn't, that's not in your wheelhouse.

• 44:52Shaan Puri?

  Um, a friend had invested in it and sent it to me. And, um, I should have, I should have dug in more, but I also didn't really respect the story of this restaurant. So again, the story comes before the sauce. And what's the story here? So, um, same sort of Taylor came here two nights in a row type of story. Like, oh, you know, XYZ celebrities are here. The restaurant, I think, has a hundred thousand person waitlist. Like, this is an insane number. Um, like getting a reservation there is like impossible. The, the story of the group, there was basically was like one guy, he partnered with a chef. And restaurant wasn't doing so hot. And so he decides, even though he's got no culinary experience, he's not a trained chef. He fires the chef, goes into the kitchen and takes over the kitchen. It's like, we're going to figure this out.

• 45:38Shaan Puri?

  Nine months later, they had a Michelin star, which is unbelievable. That's like if I decided to play in the NBA and in nine months I was like, or like, you know, the world cup. And I'm playing in the world cup next, next, next cycle. Like, it's insane to be able to do that. And so they, they pulled this off.

• 45:52Sam Parr?

  Ah, yes, I've seen this. Oh my God, it looks amazing.

• 45:56Shaan Puri?

  And so foods are like, food's unreal. You should go, you should definitely go. So I was talking about the sauce thing. I was like, yeah, I was like, I just didn't think people were cooking Indian food that frequently at home. And he goes, oh, no, this is where Ro really helped us out. So there's, there's a guy who came on our podcast, Rohan Oza. He's a guy you might've seen on Shark Tank. I think we were the only podcast he's ever done. And it took, it took a lot of like twisting his arm to get him on, but he was amazing. He started, you know, he was involved in making Smart Water a success, Vitamin Water a success. Poppy Soda, which I have right here on my desk, like Poppy a success. So he's been just a killer with brands, uh, tons of brands, by the way. Those are only like three of like a dozen brands that you'll find in grocery stores that this guy's been like, you know, early and big on.

• 46:38Shaan Puri?

  And I think Ro is incredibly gifted when it comes to, to like, what is it really? Right? Cause when he, when he talked about this Poppy thing, it was like, I think when they started, it was like apple cider vinegar as a, as a drink supplement. And he was like, I don't know.

• 46:53Sam Parr?

  Mother's miracle or something.

• 46:54Shaan Puri?

  He was like, we need to make clean soda. He's like, I grew up in Zambia drinking Coke and Fanta and soda. He's like, we need this to taste like a Fanta, but be good for you. And he's like, I think that's where the, where the market is. It's a similarly with Jim Kana, he goes, we're going to make chicken great again. He's like, what? He goes, it's not about use this when you're going to cook Indian food once in a blue moon at home. It's of people who eat meat, 85% of their meals at home are chicken.

• 47:25Sam Parr?

  Yeah.

• 47:25Shaan Puri?

  And what we need is for our sauce to make your chicken taste good and be less boring. Cause it does. You add this sauce to our, to your chicken, your chicken's going to taste phenomenal. So it's not about the one day you're going to decide to make Indian food for, for all your friends and host an Indian food thing. Like, who does that? That's pretty tough. It's pretty high risk. What we need to do is make chicken great again. And I was like, it's that sort of marketing genius that you need. That can be the difference between this being a really niche fringe thing to being worth, you know, $3 billion, you know, in five years. It's like that insight executed well. A lot of investors say they add value. That guy added value by like giving you like the, the, the point of highest leverage to refocus the entire company around.

• 48:09Sam Parr?

  This is awesome. I'm looking at their website. By the way, that's like something that you'd make fun of, like with a guy, like giving a TED talk. It's like, we didn't stop there. You see, we moved the office and like put the couch from here to here. It's like.

• 48:20Shaan Puri?

  What do we have in common with our ancestors?

• 48:22Sam Parr?

  Yeah.

• 48:22Shaan Puri?

  From cavemen to our forefathers to today.

• 48:26Sam Parr?

  What? But it makes sense. And I'm like, because what's funny is like, when you're copyrighting, you want to use such detail that the person feels it in their bones. So for example, if you're selling like a weight loss thing or a gym product to a woman who's a little overweight, you're like, I know why you always offer to take the photo when you're with your friends.

• 48:48Shaan Puri?

  Oh, that's a good one.

• 48:49Sam Parr?

  I know how you feel. It's like, you want to go after these thoughts where they're not always loud, but they exist. And they're silent enough that when you, someone says that, you think to yourself, I didn't know other people thought that.

• 49:05Shaan Puri?

  That's an incredible example. The quiet thoughts said out loud, so true. People want to feel seen and understood. And some of the great marketers, they describe this, they say, if you could describe the problem in such great detail, that the person feels completely understood.

• 49:19Sam Parr?

  Yeah.

• 49:19Shaan Puri?

  They will trust you fully that whatever solution you speak next, because you understood the problem so well, they now believe that you understand the solution equally well. Whereas everybody else just sells the solution.

• 49:30Sam Parr?

  Yeah. So you have to think, you have to like, this is the point when you're, when you're copyrighting an interesting idea. There's this thing called, um, like general knowledge and then there's specific knowledge. And general knowledge, when you're doing copyrighting is when you spend weeks just learning all about the industry. All about like stuff that may not even apply to it exactly. And then specific knowledge is when you learn about exactly how the product works. But you need that general knowledge to understand a vague idea. So for example, if you're doing like gym work, um, or like a weight loss supplement, you know, eventually you'll get to the, um, specific knowledge where you're like, okay, so like the body loses weight by doing X, Y, and Z. And this product helps you by doing whatever. But the general knowledge is just talking to women and being like, so how do you feel?

• 50:13Sam Parr?

  Like, well, I feel like fat or whatever, like you're, all right, but tell me more, tell me more, tell me more. And that's how you come up with these ideas where you're like, she said this, but this was below the iceberg. So I had to dig deep and I've noticed that this is like a common thread. Therefore that's the perfect thing that I can use in my marketing. So when you said that, uh, you need to make chicken great again. Okay, that's, that doesn't mean anything. But when you said. Everyone wants to eat chicken because it's healthier, but it's so boring and bland and you need a good sauce for it. That like hits because I eat chicken all the time. I'm like, I'm so boring of this shit. I don't want to eat this anymore. And so this is like a classic copyrighting, marketing shtick of like general knowledge and learning how to

• 50:54Shaan Puri?

  And positioning. So literally the positioning extends because it's, you know, what, what his makes chicken great again was actually a strategy. It's not the marketing, it's the strategy. And the strategy basically then is to pair it with a positioning, which is, is this a sauce for cooking Indian food at home? Or is this a sauce for having really flavorful, delicious chicken? Two totally different positions. And then that extends, which aisle would you be in in the supermarket? Cause there's aisles for pasta sauces and Asian ethnic sauces. And then there's, there's aisles for toppers, marinades, sauces, things that you put on meat. And that's where you see like that bachan's like Japanese barbecue sauce or whatever.

• 51:37Shaan Puri?

  It's an example where like, I don't think a lot of people are really that into, I'd like to just put, I'm really looking for whatever this umami savory Japanese sauce is. But if I'm looking for some, you know, some, some kind of Asian barbecue sauce to put on my food, on my chicken, that sounds pretty good. And it's in the right aisle. And so the positioning literally becomes physical in the aisle. And then you, then you get down to like the actual, the actual marketing. And then you say, oh, well, we should probably market to people who are eating a lot of chicken. Maybe that's people who are trying to be healthy right now. But you know, the seven days a week of plain chicken, you know, chicken breast is getting pretty old for them. What if one day a week they were able to add our marinade or add our sauce on top? And actually it only adds a hundred calories, but damn, that thing changes the whole meal all of a sudden it's popping off. And so you, then it becomes an actual marketing strategy.

• 52:22Sam Parr?

  I did this with Hampton a bunch where I was like, what, what do people fear about building a company? And it took me forever and I'm like, I'm still working on it. But one of the, the emotions that I'm trying to get at is when you're building a company, the biggest fear oftentimes is not, like, once you have a business that already has a couple million in revenue, it's not like, is this gonna fail? It's like, I started this at 32. Am I going to be 42 years old and be like, this thing barely grew? And I just wasted a decade on something where I could have been working on a different opportunity and I just blew it all. And like, that is like the fear for where like I'm thinking about for some of our marketing of like, well, everyone has that fear and you don't talk about it out loud, but you like fear like I should do this other thing and this other thing. And I'm always fearful of that.

• 53:06Sam Parr?

  And so Hampton helps by giving you a room of peers who could help you make big $50 million decisions, not by yourself. And so you actually have like peers around you. But like I spent, I spent a lot of time thinking about like these phrases and words that you can use that aren't spoken often, but when they are, people just jump.

• 53:24Shaan Puri?

  Well, I like the phrase $50 million decisions, just as that had resonance for me. Let me give you one other example that's kind of in this like quiet thoughts set out loud. So right now we're in a big like decluttering mode in our house. Like we're just like getting

• 53:38Sam Parr?

  Oh, you had a great line. You, you had a great line for that, by the way. You made a joke. You're like, I'd rather move than declutter this place.

• 53:45Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, exactly. I, we almost are like, we just need a new house. We need to start over like it's that bad.

• 53:51Sam Parr?

  Everyone feels that way. It's like, I'd rather, that's a really good one. I would, if I was like a moving company or a cleaning company.

• 53:58Shaan Puri?

  Well, my, my wife has started, she goes, cause I was like, what, what's gotten into you? Like you're every day, you're like, just, I, I used to really struggle to be like, hey, let's get rid of this. This is junk. We don't need this. And I used to do that. And then she would hang on to it either for sentimental value. No, we do need it once in a while. No, we paid a lot for that. And like, I'll sell it. I'll get, I'm going to do something with it. I don't want to just throw it away. All these reasons for hoarding, right? And so, and she didn't view it as hoarding. And then she didn't like when I called it hoarding, right? So that was like our, we were in a stalemate where like nothing was really moving. All of a sudden things changed and I was like, I didn't do anything. What, can you tell me what the answer was? Cause I surely didn't have it. And she goes, well, I started following these women on Instagram. I just changed my feed. She's like, I just decided I'm going to follow like 20 of these people.

• 54:42Shaan Puri?

  Unfollowed a bunch of like parenting and like fitness stuff to like get my feed to be just brainwashing of the right flavor. And she goes, cause I, I saw this one thing that really resonated with me. I was like, oh, what was it? And so there's these decluttering coaches on Instagram. I don't know if you've seen this, they have like millions of followers.

• 54:58Sam Parr?

  I love them.

• 54:59Shaan Puri?

  And there's women that are just helping other women like kind of figure out how to like think about decluttering their house. It's not even strategy, right? Cause the answer's obvious. Put the shit in a bag and get rid of it.

• 55:07Sam Parr?

  It's mostly personal. It's like how to feel about like saying goodbye to something that like your baby used to play with.

• 55:13Shaan Puri?

  Exactly. Or you spent money on it and now you feel like it's wasteful to get rid of it.

• 55:19Sam Parr?

  It's sort of like how personal finance is more personal than finance. It's like cleaning is more like dealing with the inside, you know? What is Caesar Milan, the dog trainer says, he goes, I trained the human and we rehabilitate the dog.

• 55:30Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, exactly. That is so true. And so she was talking about like, there was one Instagram reel she saw where the woman was walking around the house and she goes, you know, I've been keeping all this stuff for my kids because I want them to, I'm trying to like make sure they have everything they might need, but they don't have me anymore because now when I walk around, I just see, my brain is just thinking, oh, I gotta pick those up. Oh, I need to put that away. Oh, I really want to reorganize this shelf. Oh, I've been meaning to get to this, like, oh my God. And then she's like, another one was, are you ashamed? Like, do you, does panic come inside you when somebody offers to like come over to a playdate? Like the idea of having guests over, does it trigger panic in you? Like, that's not what your home is supposed to feel like. So whatever upside you thought this is giving you.

• 56:13Sam Parr?

  That's a great one.

• 56:14Shaan Puri?

  Think about the panic that you feel. And my wife is like, dude, every time, like when we go to school drop off, we have the Tesla with like the, the wings. And so when you open the door, it's like such, it's like so open house for like our car and our car is like, there's goldfish and Cheetos and four soccer balls and 19 shoes in the back of the car, right? Like, it's just like, we have three kids, three car seats. It's a, it's a madhouse back there. And so she's like, let's drop off over here at the corner. And I'm like, what the hell? Why? She's like, cause I don't want anyone to see, kids, get out the other door. So nobody sees.

• 56:47Sam Parr?

  You just open the window.

• 56:48Shaan Puri?

  And so when the, when the, when the creators on Instagram started to speak to those moments and those fears, which is the equivalent of you volunteering to take the photo so that you're not in it. Then all of a sudden it like the flip switched. And he's like, I could see the power of like the right sentence that just hits the nerve that literally just rewire someone's behavior.

• 57:09Sam Parr?

  That's a great story. I'll be eager to see how long that lasts because that potentially could be life-changing.

• 57:15Shaan Puri?

  Yeah, hopefully it is. Um, cause it's, it's pretty traumatizing to be like, I did this. Like we, this is hilarious. We've been like house on things, like we're seeing all these really nice houses that are like staged. And every time we go in, I'm like, yeah, but you gotta remember, we're gonna ruin all this. We don't live like this. Like this is like a perfectly staged minimal house with no stuff in it.

• 57:34Sam Parr?

  Like when you go like shopping for clothes, you're like, picture that with a mustard stain on it. Do you still like it?

• 57:40Shaan Puri?

  Do you have mannequins with bellies? Cause I'd like to see what this looks like. And so, so then with, with our house, I looked up our old like, like Zillow photos of when the house right before, this same house we're in before we moved in. And I was like, what do you think of this house? And it looks amazing.

• 57:58Sam Parr?

  Oh, that's so funny.

• 57:59Shaan Puri?

  We ruined this. This already was epic. We, we messed it up. And so, you know, you have to kind of like face reality.

• 58:08Sam Parr?

  Yeah, I, it's near and dear to my heart, this whole clutter thing. I argue with my wife about that stuff all the time too. And one of the reasons I like living in New York is I make the excuse, I've got a small apartment. You guys can't get me anything.

• 58:19Shaan Puri?

  Right.

• 58:19Sam Parr?

  Uh, and it's like, not that small. Uh, but dude, the clutter thing bothers me. It kills me.

• 58:25Shaan Puri?

  Dude, when you walked into my house, like the entry, you open the door, it's like, whatever, 30 foot ceiling, cause it should be so beautiful. Instead we had a giant pink, like UFC octagon trampoline just in the middle of the house. And the kids did love it. It was pretty fun, but like, damn, man, like where, where did we go wrong?

• 58:44Sam Parr?

  It's, it's Amazon, man. But being able to buy shit so easily online, I think that like, if I was, um, I don't think this would land as well, but if I was like an influencer in this space, it would be about like consumerism and like, and like showing people, like for example, if I was to get you, if I was going to show you why you should eat healthier, you could do a bunch of like visualizations, but like I could just show you like, look, when you go to the movies and you get popcorn, I could just, I could tell you that they put a hundred grams of butter on it. Or I could just show you a block of fat. And like, that's 100 grams. And that is what is on here. For this, I could be like, here's your bill. Like here's the money that you would have saved not buying this stuff. You know what I mean? Like, uh, that wouldn't land as good, but that's how I think about it.

• 59:29Sam Parr?

  I'm like, oh my God, it's so much waste. Or I'll be like, a kid in China made this. It flew over on an airplane. It got into this factory. It went to this UPS. Like that's where it hurts me. I'm like, all this energy is just wasted. I hate the waste. And so that's what lands with me when I think of like the waste. But that's, that's a significantly less, um, popular emotion.

• 59:50Shaan Puri?

  Right, right.

• 59:51Sam Parr?

  Uh, but this is stuff is fun. If you want to learn more about this stuff, my favorite book on this topic is Made to Stick by Chip Heath. It's two brothers from Stanford. And they do the best job of showing like five ways that you can make ideas stick with people. And I'm kind of like thinking I'm going to reread that.

• 1:00:08Shaan Puri?

  I've read that and I've read positioning, by the way, even though they come highly recommended, I actually did not think either was great. There's some books you read and you're like, holy shit. Every page is like, you want to frame it. That's not how I felt at all about those books. Also, they're pretty old, so the examples they'll give are not as relevant. I think this is something you just have to like actually study the ground truth ads. And you have to notice what resonates. You have to start paying attention and you start to start collecting for yourself. The books can provide some, you know, some general frameworks, but I, I personally didn't think that either of them was like good enough to like, to feel like I actually understood it.

• 1:00:46Sam Parr?

  Um, okay. Well, I agree to disagree.

• 1:00:52Shaan Puri?

  No, well, you do both, right? You're, you have a pretty strong swipe file and an eye for this sort of thing. You know, you've been doing that for 15, 20 years now.

• 1:01:00Sam Parr?

  I thought Made to Stick was cool because it just put frameworks, but like, there's like classic ones that you see and some of them are funny where it's like, this person is this rich. It's like, well, what does a trillion mean? Well, it's, and then you do like the seconds thing. I think I, I told you the story where like a million is like 72 hours. A billion is like 82 weeks. And then a trillion is 32 years. Like there's like ways to like break things down that are far more tangible. Um, and that's what I learned from, um, what's it called? Made to stick.

• 1:01:32Shaan Puri?

  Didn't stick. Almost, almost, almost lost that one.

• 1:01:36Sam Parr?

  That's like my joke when I, it's like, that's a dad joke when people say, I'll say, uh, they could tell I've got bad hearing and they go, do you have bad hearing? I go, huh? It's never funny. No one has ever laughed.

• 1:01:48Shaan Puri?

  I'll give it to you.

• 1:01:50Sam Parr?

  All right, that's it. That's the pod.

• 1:02:02Shaan Puri?

  All right, let's take a quick break to talk about a podcast. Cause if you're listening to this, you like podcasts and what's better than one podcast, another podcast. And let me tell you, another podcast you should check out, it's called Success Story. If you like hearing about different success stories and hearing Q and A sessions with successful business leaders, or hearing keynote presentations, or just checking out conversations about sales and business and marketing tactics is a great podcast for you. So check it out wherever you get your podcasts.