How Nutrition, Exercise, Tech & Sex Affect Your Sleep w/Andrew Huberman EP 1219

My guest today is Neuroscientist Andrew Huberman. Andrew is a Professor of Neurobiology and Ophthalmology at Stanford. Andrew runs Stanford's lab that primarily studies brain states - such as fear, courage, anxiety, calm - and how we can better move into and out of them through practices like visual cues, breathwork, movement, and supplementation. We just had Andrew on for episode 1204 where we talked about having the perfect morning routine, eliminating brain fog and managing your dopamine levels.. so make sure to go to lewishowes.com/1204 so you can check that out if you missed it. In this episode we discuss how sleeping poorly negatively affects you, the main things that prevent you from sleeping well and how to fix them, how nutrition and exercise affect sleep, what is happening in the brain when we sleep and so much more! For more go to: www.lewishowes.com/1219Check out the last episode with Andrew Huberman: www.lewishowes.com/1204The Wim Hof Experience: Mindset Training, Power Breathing, and Brotherhood: https://link.chtbl.com/910-podA Scientific Guide to Living Longer, Feeling Happier & Eating Healthier with Dr. Rhonda Patrick: https://link.chtbl.com/967-pod Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

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• 0:00Lewis Howes?

  This is episode number 1,219 with neuroscientist Andrew Huberman. Welcome to the School of Greatness. My name is Lewis Howes, former pro athlete turned lifestyle entrepreneur. And each week we bring you an inspiring person or message to help you discover how to unlock your inner greatness. Thanks for spending some time with me today. Now let the class begin.

• 0:29Lewis Howes?

  Welcome back my friend. Today's guest is Andrew Huberman. And Andrew is a professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology at Stanford. And Andrew also runs Stanford's lab that primarily studies brain states such as fear, courage, anxiety, calm, and how we can better move into and out of them through practices like visual cues, breath work, movement, and supplementation. We just had Andrew on for episode 1,204 where we talked about having the perfect morning routine, eliminating brain fog and managing your dopamine levels. So make sure you go check that out at lewishouse.com/1204 after this and check out what you missed there.

• 1:11Lewis Howes?

  In this episode, we break down how sleeping poorly negatively affects every aspect of your life, the main thing that prevents you from sleeping well and how to fix it, how nutrition and exercise also impacts the quality of your sleep or the lack of sleep that you can get, what is happening in the brain when we sleep, what's actually happening in the neurons and in the mind when we're sleeping, and so much more. I find this information fascinating to me. Anything I can learn about the brain, the mind, and how the body connects with these systems that we have throughout our brain and our mind is just fascinating to me. And if we can improve these areas, then we can improve the quality of our life. So if you're enjoying this at any moment, if you're enjoying what Andrew has to say,

• 1:55Lewis Howes?

  make sure to message him over on social media by linking this episode. You can just copy and paste the link wherever you're listening to this, post it on social media, tag Andrew and myself so we can stay up to date on who is listening and who this is impacting. And I'll give a big shout out to the fan of the week. From Sophie, who left a review over on Apple Podcasts and they said, I loved hearing the positive ideas from Marissa Peer, a previous guest we had on. Thank you for inviting her as a guest. More of this, please. In these dark days, we need all the positivity we can get. Well, Sophie, thank you for leaving a review over on Apple Podcasts. Thank you for being a subscriber and a consistent listener. Our whole intention and mission is to be of service to help people improve. Just like what I'm trying to do when I interview these

• 2:39Lewis Howes?

  guests, I'm trying to learn how to improve my life as well in all different areas. So I'm so glad to hear that it's supporting you as well in yours. And thank you for being the fan of the week. Okay, in just a moment, the one and only Andrew Huberman.

• 2:55Lewis Howes?

  As you can tell by this episode, we can always count on Andrew for science-backed tips and advice on how to optimize ourselves. And after this conversation, I was so inspired myself to actively seek out a product that will help improve my day-to-day life. And today's sponsor is Endel, an award-winning app that harnesses the power of sound to improve your focus, sleep, and overall mental health. Endel takes into account the current amount of outdoor natural light in my location, the weather, my heart rate, my wake-up time, and my activity level to create a soundscape in real time just for me. Now, Endel uses AI technology to understand your exact needs and enhance your state of mind through sound.

• 3:36Lewis Howes?

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• 4:18Lewis Howes?

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• 5:00Lewis Howes?

  you should still check out GoodRx because it can often beat your copay. You can use their site or the GoodRx app, which you can download for free. And GoodRx is free, easy to use, and could instantly save you up to 80%. So for simple, smart savings on your prescriptions, check GoodRx. Go to GoodRx.com/greatness. That is GoodRx.com/greatness. GoodRx.com/greatness. GoodRx is not insurance, but can be used instead of insurance. And in 2021, GoodRx users saved an average of 79% on retail prescription prices.

• 5:41Lewis Howes?

  Welcome back, everyone. In the School of Greatness, we've got the iconic inspirational Andrew Huberman in the house. My man. Good to see you. Sleep is something that I feel like when I grew up, I was told, "Sleep when you're dead." You know, the athlete, the business mentality was like, broke people, you know, sleep a lot. You know, those who are making money are going out and working, burning the midnight oil. But then later in my 30s, I realized how important sleep was for me, to recover, to remember, to have emotional regulation throughout the day and not be reactive and defensive. So can we break this down and your thoughts about sleep? And how you frame this, some of the research and the science that you've studied around this?

• 6:27Lewis Howes?

  And what we should be thinking about around sleep?

• 6:29Speaker 01

  Sure. So, sleep is the fundamental layer of mental and physical health. If there's one thing that we should all be doing is working toward sleeping long enough and deeply enough, 80% of the time. I think that 80% is a good goal. Because things happen. Travel happens, kids happen.

• 6:52Lewis Howes?

  Weekend, you're going out, whatever, yeah.

• 6:54Speaker 01

  Until you are sleeping long enough and deeply enough, 80% of the nights of your life, you are functioning suboptimally.

• 7:03Lewis Howes?

  And what's the biggest risk then if we're not getting enough sleep?

• 7:07Speaker 01

  Okay, so there are a number of risks to not getting enough sleep. Deficits in learning, deficits in the immune system, reduction in testosterone and estrogen in both men and women, so disruption of hormones, disruption of gut microbiome, increased cancer risk, there are a bunch of things. The severity of those things depends on a lot of other things too. Prior health, other health conditions, context, age, occupation. You know, if you're not getting enough sleep and you're a high-rise construction worker, it's different than if you're an office worker. So, we need to sleep enough. Now, what's enough sleep? This is an interesting question. Enough sleep has been argued, it's six hours, other people, it's seven hours, other people, it's eight hours.

• 7:52Speaker 01

  It's basically waking up without an alarm clock and feeling rested. Insomnia is actually a medical term nowadays. And insomnia is essentially diagnosed as falling asleep during the middle of the day due to lack of sleep at nighttime. But many people who are having trouble sleeping at night are not falling asleep during the middle of the day. They're dealing with grogginess, or crankiness, or other effects of having fragmented sleep.

• 8:23Lewis Howes?

  What are the main causes of not being able to fall asleep? Is it rumination? Is it traumas that you're holding on to? Is it arguments? Is it self-doubt or insecurities? Is it you nap too much? Is it the foods you ate too late? Like, what would you say are the main causes? Of not being able to fall asleep.

• 8:42Speaker 01

  All of the above. But the the primary one is a failure to turn off your thoughts.

• 8:50Lewis Howes?

  Okay.

• 8:51Speaker 01

  And I think that might provide a good anchor point for us to talk about some protocols. Really, a excellent night's sleep begins in the morning. I talked about this on the previous episode, so I won't go into detail, but everyone should get as much bright light in their eyes, ideally from sunlight first thing in the morning, ten to thirty minutes outside, depending on how bright it is.

• 9:14Speaker 01

  Eyeglasses or contact lenses are fine. Don't wear sunglasses if you can do it safely. If you wake up before the sun rises, turn on bright lights, then go outside once the sun rises. If you have no access to sunlight, use a daytime simulator or similar, like a ring light and get that light in your eyes.

• 9:29Lewis Howes?

  Okay.

• 9:29Speaker 01

  So that's all of that in a compact form.

• 9:33Speaker 01

  Caffeine. You can inhibit falling asleep with caffeine. You have to figure out when your threshold is for me. I can drink caffeine up until about three, even four o'clock in the afternoon and sleep like a baby.

• 9:43Lewis Howes?

  And still sleep well.

• 9:44Speaker 01

  Yes, and Matt Walker, our good friend Matt Walker, would say that my sleep isn't as good as it would be had I cut caffeine out earlier.

• 9:51Lewis Howes?

  By like eleven or twelve, yeah, AM.

• 9:53Speaker 01

  Right, and and I I want to acknowledge, you know, Matt is the Michael Jordan of sleep science, and so I'm not gonna.

• 9:59Lewis Howes?

  You're the LeBron James.

• 10:01Speaker 01

  Well, no, no, and in fair, thank you for the the compliment, but but no, I'm not. I know a lot of the science and the protocols, but but that's Matt's wheelhouse. And so if he says something, it's true. And if I say something and and our opinions conflict, it's likely to be something that the data are still emerging, or in in that case, default to to Matt.

• 10:25Lewis Howes?

  Gotcha.

• 10:25Speaker 01

  Being correct, because I just out of due respect for his expertise. So caffeine, you know, for some people, they can have a two o'clock espresso, two PM espresso. Some people, it's four PM. Some people can drink caffeine at eight PM and fall asleep. But there, I would say it's problematic because you're disrupting the architecture of sleep and and the brainwaves associated with sleep, the chemicals and so forth. So get that morning light. Cut your caffeine off at the time that allows you to fall asleep. That morning light also sets a timer on your melatonin rhythm. So you have this gland in your brain called the pineal gland. That pineal is the source of melatonin. Melatonin makes you sleepy, but it does not keep you asleep.

• 11:06Lewis Howes?

  Okay.

• 11:07Speaker 01

  Melatonin starts to rise in the late evening and continues into the night and then eventually tapers off. This is naturally occurring melatonin release, not supplemented melatonin release. The fastest way to slam melatonin to the pavement and eliminate it in your system is to look at bright light for, I hate to tell you this, even a few seconds. So.

• 11:30Lewis Howes?

  You mean at night?

• 11:32Speaker 01

  At night is typically when melatonin rises. It's when it's released in the bloodstream and when it has this effect of making us sleepy, it does a number of other things.

• 11:39Lewis Howes?

  You want more melatonin at night, is that right?

• 11:41Speaker 01

  You do. And if you wake up in the middle of the night or it's eight o'clock and you decide you want to go to bed at nine or it's nine o'clock, you want to go to bed at 10, you go into the bathroom and you flip on the bright lights. Your melatonin levels just got crushed down to zero.

• 11:54Lewis Howes?

  Having lights on is the worst thing you can do.

• 11:56Speaker 01

  Yes, and it doesn't matter if it's blue light, red light, purple light, green light. Bright lights inhibit melatonin very acutely. And therefore you want to avoid exposure to bright lights at night if your goal is to be asleep. So the simple rule that governs all this stuff is when you want to be alert, get bright light in your eyes, ideally from sunlight. So that's true in the morning and throughout the day. And when you want to be sleepy or asleep, avoid bright light in your eyes. Now, many home environments don't allow you to have zero lights. And that's not actually necessary. You can just dim the lights in the evening. Ideally, you also avoid overhead lights because the neurons in the eye that trigger this melatonin suppression and so forth.

• 12:40Speaker 01

  They reside in an area of the eye that views upper visual space. So you could have desk lamps or and just dim those down. If you're going to work on a screen, dim it way down. Will blue blockers help? Yes, but if the light is bright enough, they you're still going to inhibit melatonin.

• 12:57Lewis Howes?

  So how bad is watching TV at night?

• 13:00Speaker 01

  If the TV isn't too bright and.

• 13:02Lewis Howes?

  If it's farther away.

• 13:03Speaker 01

  Farther away. Yeah, and you're and maybe you wear blue blockers.

• 13:07Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 13:07Speaker 01

  And or or I mean, some people are go take this to the extreme. They wear sunglasses. I think that's a little extreme. Now, candlelight and moonlight, surprisingly, doesn't seem to block melatonin.

• 13:19Speaker 01

  Now, maybe a really bright moonlit night, full moon. Can, you know, the lunacy associated with the full moon might actually be due to a suppression of melatonin and an increase in alertness. So those are the things as it relates to light. Yes. Then, there's this issue of people who have trouble staying asleep. So they can fall asleep, fine, but they wake up at two or three in the morning. I happen to do this. If I go to bed around 10:30, I tend to wake up around three and I use the restroom. Yeah, I tend to drink a lot of fluids and I have to use the restroom. This is true at every age. This is not just some aging-related thing. Um, that's fine. I just keep the lights dim and use the bathroom and then you go back to sleep. Fall back to sleep. Very normal, very healthy.

• 14:01Speaker 01

  One of the best things I ever did for my sleep was to keep my phone out of the room so that when I wake up at three in the morning, I just didn't start scrolling the newspapers is typically what I would read online. Gotcha. And then you're just waking up your brain, not just by the light, but by the content. And, you know. Activating it again as opposed to going back to sleep. Exactly, and sometimes there's a comment and they're like, why is this, you know, your thinking is not very good in the middle of the night. The other thing is you want to keep the room cool. So in order to fall asleep, your body has to undergo a drop of, in temperature of one to three degrees. There are a couple of ways to accomplish this. One is keeping the room cool. The other is to, um, and that's ideal actually, because you can put a hand or a foot out. We actually lose a lot of our heat through what's called our glabrous skin, so the palms

• 14:45Speaker 01

  of our hands, the bottoms of the feet. I always put my feet out of the sheets and just let them feel the cool air. That's right, and that's a great way to cool off your core body temperature. You're probably doing that unconsciously in your sleep as well. If the room were too warm, the only way for you to cool off would be for you to put your hand in a bucket of cold water and generally people don't have that accessible. And then you're gonna go pee if you're doing that too. Right, exactly. And then, of course, there are all these products nowadays of, you know, things that cover, yeah, that cover, that cool the bed. I'm supposed to try one of these soon. I haven't tried one yet. I tend to just keep the room cool. Cool, yeah. And. What do you keep it at? I keep it around 67, 65? Uh, that's a little cooler than what I do. I put it at about 67, 68. Okay. Um, but I tend to wake up hot in the middle of the night, like, ah, throw the comforter

• 15:30Speaker 01

  off, um, and go put some cold water on my face. Wow. Um, so don't obsess over waking up too much. And if you do, try and stay away from screens. Or if, um, you know, some people will read a book, dim light again. Yeah. Uh, and then falling back asleep. Some people are waking up at two or three because they are going to bed too late. Their melatonin has run out. So imagine that you're naturally somebody who should go to bed early around nine. But we all have this ability to push forward and stay awake if we have to. Much easier to stay awake than to force yourself to go to sleep. Yes. Very hard to force yourself to go to sleep.

• 16:12Speaker 01

  So let's say your system, you start releasing melatonin around nine PM. But you stay up until 11. Then you get into bed, you fall asleep around 11:30 and at three in the morning, you suddenly wake up. Well, that's because your melatonin tapered off and there's a wakefulness that's occurring. And so ideally you would start going to bed earlier. Now, there's a lot of discussion out there about so-called chronotypes. So night owls, morning people, people that follow a more typical schedule. Typical would be going to sleep somewhere between 10:30 and 11:30, waking up somewhere between 6:30 and eight. Then there are the people that like to go to bed at 2 AM, sleep till 10. And then there are people that like to go to bed at eight and wake up at four. Huge variation out there.

• 16:56Speaker 01

  It tends to change across the lifetime. Yeah, your season of life for years. That's right. And adolescents and teenagers tend to stay up later and want to sleep in. And there's actually some evidence that they can learn better if they are allowed to to use that schedule, but most schools won't adhere to that schedule. You gotta wake up at six and go to school at eight or whatever. Once you enter adult life, you're generally somebody who's gonna have to learn how to go to bed early and wake up early or at least wake up early. Now, naps, you should feel comfortable, the data say, naps, you should feel comfortable napping for 90 minutes or less at any point throughout the day. As long as it doesn't interfere with your nighttime sleep. So some people like me, I love naps. But it doesn't interfere with my nighttime sleep. It doesn't. Does not. So you can take a 60-minute nap?

• 17:41Speaker 01

  Generally 20 to 45 minutes. And then you, you fully fall asleep or you're kind of like awake and just resting? I can fall asleep anywhere, anytime. I can fall asleep at a gun range, yeah. It's, um, it's in, it's in. Can we sleep sitting up too like this? Oh, yeah. Plane anywhere.

• 17:58Lewis Howes?

  That's a gift.

• 17:59Speaker 01

  It is, although it could reflect that I'm pushing my system a little too hard.

• 18:03Lewis Howes?

  Oh.

• 18:05Speaker 01

  But it is useful at times.

• 18:08Lewis Howes?

  Incredible.

• 18:09Speaker 01

  It is useful.

• 18:09Lewis Howes?

  You can fall asleep right on a plane or?

• 18:11Speaker 01

  Anywhere, leaning against a.

• 18:12Lewis Howes?

  Oh, my gosh.

• 18:13Speaker 01

  In a subway station, anywhere. If I need to sleep, I'm going down.

• 18:17Lewis Howes?

  That's incredible.

• 18:18Speaker 01

  Yeah. So, the other thing is that during sleep, a number of things happen. And we can talk about slow wave sleep and REM sleep. But one of the most important physiological functions of sleep is to clear out some of the cellular debris that accumulates throughout the day. The cellular debris creates cognitive deficits. It actually may be related to the aggregation of proteins and things that relate to dementia and Alzheimer's. It's the so-called glymphatic system. The lymphatic system is a system of moving through immune cells and clearing out of debris from the body. The glymphatic system is a kind of a equivalent system that exists in the brain that involves

• 18:59Speaker 01

  so-called glial cells, which are support cells, but also do many things actively. They're not just doing support. The glymphatic system is like a washout of the brain's debris. And that system seems to function best when feet are slightly elevated above the brain. There's some interesting data from University of South Carolina coming out now that show that if you can get your ankles elevated a little bit higher than your chin, that's great.

• 19:26Lewis Howes?

  When you're sleeping.

• 19:26Speaker 01

  While you're sleeping.

• 19:27Lewis Howes?

  What's it do for you?

• 19:28Speaker 01

  It increases the glymphatic clearance. And there are some data that it can improve function of the brain. The studies that are happening now that I'm aware of, I'm in touch with that group, are mainly geared towards people that have had head injuries. So concussion and TBI of various kinds. But they also are seeing interesting effects in typical folks that don't have any traumatic brain injury. So I put a pillow underneath my ankles when I fall asleep. And to get a little bit of that elevation. And then during the day, if ever you can't get a nap, or you are going to get a nap, put your ankles up on the couch and lie down on the floor. That that itself can get some of the clearance of the glymphatic system.

• 20:06Lewis Howes?

  And that helps you sleep better or it helps you just clean out the system?

• 20:09Speaker 01

  It helps your brain function better when you wake up from sleep.

• 20:12Lewis Howes?

  Interesting.

• 20:13Speaker 01

  That's what the data are starting to show. You know, some of the things I described, like the light viewing, is baked into the neuroscience literature. Hundreds of papers, published papers. Some of the things like the glymphatic system is kind of cutting edge. It's on the way, but because the safety margins of raising your ankles are so large, I mean, there's nothing dangerous about that.

• 20:33Lewis Howes?

  Sure. How long do you need to do it for to get the benefits?

• 20:37Speaker 01

  Oh, I think these are immediate benefits.

• 20:39Lewis Howes?

  Like two minutes or 10 minutes?

• 20:40Speaker 01

  Oh, no, you're doing this the whole night that you're asleep. Your ankles are elevated. If you wake up and you happen to kick the pillow out, it's not the end of the world. But the idea is that you don't want to be sleeping with your head above your ankles either. There is some evidence that when people travel on planes and they're sleeping in chairs, that that's not equivalent to the kind of sleep they'd get when they're lying flat.

• 20:58Lewis Howes?

  Interesting.

• 20:58Speaker 01

  Independent of all the other things that are happening. And we know this because there are great sleep labs at Stanford, School of Medicine, at UPenn, back east and elsewhere, where people actually go into a clinic and sleep either, you know, upright or at different angles. And they're looking at all this at the level of data.

• 21:15Lewis Howes?

  Okay, so here's one for you. What's the best position to sleep? On your back, on your side, on your stomach?

• 21:24Speaker 01

  Ah, great question, and it really truly depends. And it probably depends on how hot you run. So I tend to run really warm. A lot of the cooling of the body occurs from the palms and bottoms of the feet, but also from the upper back and scapulae, because we accumulate what's called brown fat there. It's not the blubbery fat that's under the skin. It's like a furnace. Actually, you can increase the density of brown fat by going into cold water repeatedly for, you know, one to three minutes several times each week. It means your furnace actually burns hotter. It allows you to be in cold temperatures more comfortably. Some really beautiful data just published on this. So I don't like to sleep on my back because I start heating up.

• 22:03Lewis Howes?

  Start sweating.

• 22:03Speaker 01

  That's right. So I tend to sleep on my side. I sleep in that, what is that? It's like soldier position.

• 22:09Lewis Howes?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 22:09Speaker 01

  But then again, there are some people that have shoulder issues and then they can't do that. I'm relatively flexible through my shoulders, not super flexible, so I can do that. It really depends. Now, of course, if you're sleeping on your stomach, how do you elevate your ankles? You know, this starts becoming a little bit, you know, we are not just science experiments. And so you have to, you have to assume that you're not going to get everything exactly right. But keeping the room cool, keeping the cool being under a warm enough blanket, but then extending a hand or an ankle out so that you could cool off during the middle of the night. That's going to be good. Keep the room dark, although complete pitch black doesn't seem to be as good as having a little bit of light somewhere in the room. But you don't want a bright blue light or red light anywhere in the room.

• 22:54Speaker 01

  That's going to wake you up. Some people like me have very thin eyelids, exceedingly thin eyelids. Some people have very thick eyelids. So some people are more bothered by a light in the room than others. It really varies. So you have to just tune things to your particular environment.

• 23:07Lewis Howes?

  I'm curious about the neuroscience before you go to sleep. How do we set our minds up to? You were saying before about a lot of people, it's hard for them to sleep because they can't shut their mind off.

• 23:18Speaker 01

  Right.

• 23:19Lewis Howes?

  Is there something we should be thinking before we shut it off? To set our sleep up for success mentally? And then to really build into the next day where we wake up feeling like clear minded and without this brain fog, where we have more motivation, where we have more, you know, energy and excitement towards the next day? And then doing that in a pattern every night? Is there any science around that? Is it like listening to a hypnosis?

• 23:45Speaker 01

  That could be very helpful.

• 23:46Lewis Howes?

  Which will help you clean, clean out whatever is going on through the day and get clear and ready for the next day, but also fall asleep so you're not thinking about it? You know, is there anything that can help you have better dreams so that you sleep better? Like, what have you found there in the neuroscience?

• 24:00Speaker 01

  Yeah, so the, I'm so glad you asked this question. There's some really interesting data from a guy named Chuck Charles Zeissler, who is at Harvard Med, sent beautiful studies on sleep in humans for many decades, and a really fantastic physician and researcher. And they observed something interesting, which is that about 90 minutes or so before your natural bedtime, there's a spike in alertness, planning, and almost anxiety that all people undergo, and it's a normal, healthy pattern. The idea, and it's a just-so story, because we don't really know, I nor Chuck Zeissler nor anyone else was consulted at the design phase, as we say,

• 24:42Speaker 01

  but we assume this came about because prior to going to sleep, we need to shore up everything for safety. We need to, you know, lock things down, make sure everything's in its place, because we are very vulnerable in sleep. Nowadays, this would might manifest as, you know, you're, you need to go to bed at 10:30 because you have to get up at 6, etc. And then, right around 8:30 or 9, you start finding yourself running around doing various things. Many people worry about that, and they think, oh, I'm really stressed because I actually need to go to sleep, and here I am wide awake. It tends to subside very quickly. So, just the knowledge that that's a normal, healthy spike in alertness and activity, I think can help a number of people. I'm gonna make sure I mention that.

• 25:22Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 25:23Speaker 01

  The other thing is preparing the mind, as you said, turning thoughts off. Turning thoughts off is a skill. We've talked before, gosh, almost a year or more now ago, about yoga nidra.

• 25:34Lewis Howes?

  Yes.

• 25:35Speaker 01

  Which is, there are many, many yoga nidra scripts available on YouTube, free of cost. The ones I particularly like are the ones by Kamini Desai. K.A.M.I.N.I.D.E.S.A.I. Kamini Desai. I just really like her voice. I don't know Kamini, never met her. These are free scripts. They're yoga nidra scripts that last about 20 minutes. They involve some breathing, some meditation-type stuff. But they teach you to turn your thoughts off, which is really wonderful. Because a lot of people, they just get stuck in this rumination. Now, is there an ideal protocol prior to sleep?

• 26:15Speaker 01

  It depends because some people find they have their greatest clarity after the kids are asleep and they're sitting there. So I wouldn't say don't work or do work. You know, you do want to avoid strong stimuli before sleep. So do you really want to watch, you know, politically charged or a violent movie right before sleep? Well, that depends on how triggered you tend to be by politics or violence. Some people aren't triggered, other people are.

• 26:41Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 26:42Speaker 01

  Uh, but you know, that aside, you, you don't want to go to bed either too hungry or too full because that can inhibit your sleep. So for most people, that's going to be finishing your last bite of food about two hours before bedtime. But I confess there are days when I work, work, work and you know, arrive at a place, a hotel, order some food and you just, you know, eat a massive meal and then pass out.

• 27:06Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 27:06Speaker 01

  Again, eighty, twenty. Try and get it right eighty percent of the time.

• 27:09Lewis Howes?

  What's, what's harmful of being too hungry or being too full before getting to bed?

• 27:15Speaker 01

  You'll have trouble falling asleep and wake, and you'll wake up in the middle of the night.

• 27:17Lewis Howes?

  Both extremes.

• 27:18Speaker 01

  Both extremes. And I, I'm not a nutritionist or nutrition expert, but what I've found works for me personally is I tend to, I fast until about noon-ish each day. And then my lunch is low carb, so I tend to eat, you know, some grass fed meat, some, some veggies, maybe some starches if I trained and a piece of fruit. If I didn't, I don't. And then I also have an afternoon snack, but then in the evening, my meals tend to be relatively low in meat and protein because, and higher in starches, which activate the tryptophan system and the serotonin system, which makes it easier to fall asleep. You can repack glycogen during the night so you can do muscular work the next day.

• 27:55Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 27:55Speaker 01

  Training of any kind, but also thinking, your brain uses glucose.

• 27:58Lewis Howes?

  Sure.

• 27:59Speaker 01

  So at night I tend to eat pastas and vegetables and rice and um, risottos and things like that. Not in huge volumes, but I tend to eat less protein. It's not that I don't eat any, but I don't tend to eat big steaks right before going to sleep. Again, eighty, twenty, eighty percent of the time. So foods, certain foods stimulate the neurotransmitter pathways like serotonin that facilitate the transition to sleep. Now, what could you take? Well, that's it. Some people will drink chamomile tea. Chamomile tea is enriched in something called apigenin. Apigenin is, I take it in supplement form, 50mg of apigenin, but it's really just chamomile extract. And it tends to make you a little drowsy. And many people experience excellent sleep when they take apigenin. And normally, they struggle with it.

• 28:44Speaker 01

  Again, with supplements, I don't have a relationship to an apigenin company or anything like that, I want to be clear. And also, supplements, check with your doctor, of course, all that. But the one thing I don't recommend is that people take melatonin.

• 28:57Lewis Howes?

  Don't take melatonin.

• 28:58Speaker 01

  I am not a fan of melatonin for the following reasons. First of all, melatonin does many more things besides just cause the transition to sleep. It also is involved in regulating some of the other hormones, like testosterone, estrogen, and so on. Most of those studies are animal studies, but some of the data in humans indicate that as well. In kids, melatonin is one of the hormones responsible for suppressing puberty. And then melatonin rhythms change, and then puberty happens. So, you know, if your kid has already been taking melatonin, I wouldn't be alarmed, but just be aware. And if you talk to your physician, most physicians aren't really aware of this. I would talk to an endocrinologist, frankly. Also, most, Matthew, Matt Walker would also support this statement, because I'm lifting it from him.

• 29:42Speaker 01

  So, which is that most melatonin supplements contain anywhere from 15% of what's listed on the bottle to 300% of what's listed on the bottle. The regulation of supplements is an issue. Even from a trusted brand, if you were to take, say, 3mg or 6mg of melatonin, it's a pretty standard dose out there, you are taking supraphysiological levels of melatonin. Your system does not see those levels of melatonin. So.

• 30:08Lewis Howes?

  Chamomile tea is okay.

• 30:10Speaker 01

  Chamomile tea or apigenin, it's a little hard to find, but apigenin is a great, it's chamomile extract, essentially. There are a few other things. Again, margins for safety will depend. Magnesium threonate, which is T-H-R-E-O-N-A-T-E, threonate. You know, 142mg or so of magnesium threonate. Again, you could just shop for cost. I don't want to name brands, even though my podcast is associated with one. I don't want this to become about that. The magnesium threonate, many people take in 30 to 60 minutes before sleep with apigenin. Many people find great benefit.

• 30:48Lewis Howes?

  Yes.

• 30:49Speaker 01

  I am not a fan of taking serotonin or serotonin precursors. 5-HTP, L-tryptophan, prior to sleep for the following reason. The architecture of sleep, as Matt probably discussed here, I need to watch that episode. Um, he's so good. Uh, includes a lot of slow wave sleep early in the night. Pair and recovery of motor circuits in the brain and muscular tissue and connective tissue that might have been worked with or damaged during the day. And the second half of sleep tends to be enriched in so-called REM sleep. Rapid eye movement sleep, more dreams that are very intense, et cetera.

• 31:28Speaker 01

  That architecture is exquisitely controlled by levels of serotonin at one point and not having serotonin at others, having a seat of calling release, being very tuned to particular times in the night. When you start messing with the serotonin system, you disrupt that. So my experience with 5-HTP, I took it to go to sleep or L-tryptophan as I fall asleep. Like I got clubbed over the head by a grizzly bear, but then I wake up an hour and a half later and I cannot fall asleep for me for two days.

• 31:55Lewis Howes?

  Wow.

• 31:55Speaker 01

  Very intense. Now, I'm pretty sensitive to these things, but that's why I'm not a fan of those. And I rely on magnesium, 3-8 apigenin. And some people also take theanine. But for the time being, I think magnesium, 3-8 and apigenin or chamomile are great. If people don't want to take supplements, chamomile tea is a terrific mild sedative to just kind of turn off some of that thinking.

• 32:20Lewis Howes?

  Relax. Okay. And what about working out and sleep?

• 32:25Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 32:26Lewis Howes?

  So you work out in the morning, afternoon, night? How does that affect the sleep when you work out and how you work out?

• 32:33Speaker 01

  Yeah, well, I want to be fair to the fact that people have different schedules and different constraints. And that work, you know, getting that 150 to 180 minutes of zone two cardio per week is essential. People should be doing some resistance training regardless of, of goals or in order to maintain muscle because it's so important to avoid injury and maintain metabolism, et cetera. So you need to get it in somehow, but you then have to ask yourself what's happening around that workout. So are you going into a brightly lit gym at 11 o'clock at night? And blasting music and are you drinking three espresso or an energy drink before you go? You're going to be awake, you're going to have a hard time going to sleep. It's not just the workout, it's the context around the workout.

• 33:16Speaker 01

  My preference is always to work out as early in the day as possible. That's my preference. I don't always accomplish that. We, people should also know that if you work out at the same time for three or four days, your body builds in an anticipatory circuit. You will feel an energy increase a few minutes before that workout. So if you are working out at 10:00 PM at night and you're finding it hard to go to sleep, if you can shift that workout earlier in the day, you will soon become a morning person. You won't, it might not be this as natural as somebody who naturally wakes up at 4:30 or 5:00 in the morning. But let's say you're, you want to get on an earlier schedule. You want to get that morning light, but also force yourself to work out in the morning.

• 34:00Speaker 01

  And then by the second or third day of doing that, you will start to feel more alert as you arrive to the workout because there are these anticipatory circuits. That's cool. Working out late at night, some people say cardio, okay, but not weight. Some people say, I, I think it's highly individual. And I don't think there's ever been a really good study addressing that. Regularity is key. I think for me, the best times to work out are three hours after waking up, 11 hours after waking up, just based on body temperature rhythms. Or immediately, like get up and just put the shoes on and just go. And I don't tend to do that last thing very often these days. I tend to wake up and move through the morning a little bit like a lazy bear. Sunlight and then you wait for my caffeine caffeine.

• 34:44Speaker 01

  But every time I do that early morning workout, I feel much better and more alert all day. You fall asleep probably. And I fall asleep much more easily and there, the other thing you can do to fall asleep is this might seem a little counterintuitive. I said that you need to lower your body temperature by one to three degrees. You can take a hot shower or do a sauna, which you would think, well, it heats you up. But When you actually heat the surface of the body, your brain cools off your core body temperature. Unless you stay in that heat for a very long time. So you take a brief, you know, I don't want to say how long people should shower. Get in the sauna or whatnot and then, or a hot shower and then, you know, maybe rinse off with some cool water for, not cold, but cool water, lukewarm water, for 10 seconds and dry off and get into bed.

• 35:29Speaker 01

  Your body temperature will drop. If you get into an ice bath or a cold shower.

• 35:33Lewis Howes?

  You'll stay awake.

• 35:34Speaker 01

  You are, it's, it's very jolting. So I don't recommend people do that late in the day unless they want to be awake for some reason at night. But the other thing is when, this is a little counterintuitive, but my colleague at Stanford, Craig Heller, works on thermal regulation. If you are, want to cool down and you put a cold towel or ice around your neck, you're cooling the surface of the body, just like you would put a cold pack on a thermostat. What's gonna happen? Your brain's gonna start to heat you up. So I would avoid cold exposure right before sleep. Especially if it's very stimulating, like to the point, cold enough that you get that adrenaline bump.

• 36:09Lewis Howes?

  So cold air is, is key to drop the temperature down.

• 36:14Speaker 01

  Keeping the room cool.

• 36:15Lewis Howes?

  Cool.

• 36:15Speaker 01

  Yeah, but you don't want that really.

• 36:16Lewis Howes?

  Not like an ice box where you're shivering.

• 36:17Speaker 01

  Exactly, the acute cold exposure, as we call it, of an ice bath or something. Rather, a sauna, or a lot of people don't have access to sauna, maybe a warm or hot shower before sleep. But people tend to be very specific about this too. Some people like to shower in the morning, some people in the evening. I, I like to shower whenever I have an opportunity to shower.

• 36:36Lewis Howes?

  Right.

• 36:37Speaker 01

  You know, generally I try and shower after I work out because if I don't, everyone suffers. But the, but I think that the, if people don't have access to a sauna, that, that hot shower or warm shower before sleep can be very beneficial because the body will naturally start to dump heat and cool off as you get into bed.

• 36:56Lewis Howes?

  Gotcha.

• 36:57Speaker 01

  And then, in terms of the actual architecture of sleep and dreams, with, with dreams, you know, the dreams in the beginning of the night tend to be kind of mundane and seem kind of ordinary. And the dreams toward morning tend to be more intense. This is the.

• 37:11Lewis Howes?

  You wake up and you remember like what just happened.

• 37:13Speaker 01

  That's right.

• 37:13Lewis Howes?

  Not what happened hours before.

• 37:16Speaker 01

  Right, and the, the early part of the night, in very broad strokes, the early part of the night tends to be when we release growth hormone, when we tend to repair motor circuits and, and damaged tissues. And. There's a real lack of emotional context to those dreams. Now, the dreams toward morning tend to have much more emotional enrichment and be very intense. Often, if people see visual hallucinations, that's in the so-called REM sleep dreams. Why is that? It's interesting. Great question. Well, two things. You're also paralyzed during REM sleep. You can breathe, but you cannot move. And there's this interesting thing that happens in sleep where when we are in REM, rapid eye movement sleep,

• 38:02Speaker 01

  we have high degree of emotionality of dreams, but we are unable to release adrenaline. This is very much like trauma treatment, where there's a desensitization. You're coupling an intense experience to an inability for your body to move or to have a reaction to that. Now, if you suddenly wake up, which I often do, you'll notice that the adrenaline kicks in. But this is kind of like therapy in your sleep or trauma release in your sleep. And if you deprive people selectively of this rapid eye movement sleep, a number of bad things happen. But one of the primary things that happens that's bad is that when you don't get enough REM sleep, you are more emotionally labile during the day.

• 38:46Speaker 01

  Little things bother you more. You feel more irritable. Yeah, anytime I see a comment on Instagram to me or anyone else and someone seems kind of prickly, like, well, I always just think to myself, I'm not getting enough REM sleep. Yeah, or I tell myself that because I want to have some empathy for them. That they're just not neurologically up to snuff, meaning they're not working as well as they could. Now, there are other reasons why people can be combative. But I think lack of REM sleep is one of the main reasons that we feel irritable, easily set off.

• 39:17Speaker 01

  There are a number of very powerful things that happen in REM sleep that we should all be seeking. So if you wake up in the middle of the night, you really do want to try and get back to sleep. And then, as the night goes on, you're spending more, a greater proportion, excuse me, of your sleep in that rapid eye movement sleep. And those are when you have your very rich dreams and when you wake up oftentimes spending some time with a pad and paper, maybe while you're getting your afternoon, your outdoor sunlight is a great thing because you'll remember components of your dreams. The meaning of dreams has had, you know, has been debated for thousands of years. I would say, and I think you, I think Matt would agree, Matt Walker would agree that

• 40:00Speaker 01

  some dreams do have tremendous significance, others do not. There seems to be a very powerful effect of having a dream that makes people want to tell someone else their dream. Like we have this, I think we just have this need to want to put structure on something that seems very unstructured. It is a way, in a sense, when we're dreaming, we're, we're crazy. Like space and time are completely fluid, everything's, anything could happen. And when we have a dream that feels powerful to us, I think we, we understandably want to put some sort of interpretation on it. Meaning, meaning behind it. Yeah. I've had great insights through dreams. I've also had a lot of dreams that got me nothing. I wake up in the middle of the night and I tend to write things down that come to mind.

• 40:44Speaker 01

  I achieve my greatest clarity for kind of psychological and relational things. When I wake up first, you know, immediately I'll, I'll have a solution in my head or I'll think I'm, you know, the other day this happened, I've been, as we were talking about before the, the recording, I, I've been working through a very complex set of, of personal interactions and these are, these are not traumatic or anything like that, but I've been working with somebody to try and resolve a really hard problem that we have and we were both committed to solving this problem. And I'll chip away at this and chip away at this and they are much smarter than I am. So I'm struggling and then I will go to sleep and I'll wake up at three in the morning and boom, the answer, at least to whatever it is that I'm trying to resolve is right there.

• 41:30Speaker 01

  And I think it's because in sleep, you're trying, you're getting those repeats of the different circuits, they're practicing, you're rehearsing things you learned during the day, you're dumping the emotional load through this trauma release type mechanism of REM sleep, and then answers just kind of geyser up to the top. But again, I'm speculating, what we do know at the neural level is that there's a replay of the neurons that were active during the day in sleep, but at much more rapid rates.

• 41:56Lewis Howes?

  Stuff, a lot of stuff we won't remember, is what you're saying.

• 41:58Speaker 01

  Much of sleep is there, much of the dreaming and sleep is designed to get you to forget things that are meaningless.

• 42:06Lewis Howes?

  What is happening to the brain as you're sleeping? Is it just connecting neurons? Is it flushing? Is it, you know, creating these images for you to remember? What's like the, what's the actual mechanics of it?

• 42:18Speaker 01

  Yeah, so several things are happening. One is this glymphatic washout. There's this literally like a spin cycle on the brain of dumping all the junk. That's why you want your feet elevated, right? That's why you want your sleep, that's why you want your feet elevated. The glymphatic washout is one. The other is adenosine, this molecule that accumulates the longer that we are awake, that actually gets reduced during sleep so that we can wake up feeling rested. In other words, if you've been up for a day and a half, you've got tons of adenosine in your system. Caffeine of any kind is an, blocks adenosine function. I want to be careful because it's not actually an antagonist, it's a competitive agonist for the aficionados. But you're basically reducing adenosine function with caffeine. When you sleep, you reduce adenosine, which is why I delay my caffeine 90 to 120 minutes after waking up.

• 43:04Speaker 01

  So you've got adenosine getting pushed back down, you've got the glymphatic system washout, you have reordering of neurons and creation of new connections so that what you couldn't do previously, you can do the next day and the next day. You're learning. The trigger for learning occurs during wakefulness through focused, alert, motivated states. The actual rewiring of neurons, meaning the changes in the connections occurs during sleep, in particular, deep sleep.

• 43:33Speaker 01

  A lot's happening in there and during rapid eye movement sleep, the brain is incredibly metabolically active. It's just that the body is paralyzed. And some people experience this invasion of that sleep paralysis into into the wakeful period. It's really scary. I've had this happen. You wake up and you're still totally paralyzed and then you jolt out. Terrifying. You can't move. I feel like I'm screaming, but nothing's coming out. It's really terrifying. Terrifying. Terrifying. That's called what? Sleep paralysis? Uh, yes, essentially. But that's an invasion of of sleep paralysis into the waking. Yeah, it's like wake paralysis, yeah. And I know you're not a pot smoker, but many pot smokers experience that more often than non-pot smokers for reasons that probably relate to the serotonin system and the so-called

• 44:16Speaker 01

  atonia, the inability to move during sleep. So there's that. Uh, what else happens during sleep? Well, there's all sorts of interesting resetting of the digestive system, the microbiome. Are your muscles growing or? Muscle growth probably occurs throughout the 24 hour cycle, but a lot of repair of muscles and triggering of muscle growth probably occur during sleep. I, he's passed now, um, he was 11 years old when I had to put him down, but I had this bulldog Costello. He was a 90 pound English bulldog mastiff. When he was a puppy, I would take a picture of him and then the next day I'd take a picture of it when he was larger the next day. That's crazy. Well, they're just growing at such a tremendous rate, right? And that's growth hormone and during puberty, sometimes kids will be kind of locked up

• 45:01Speaker 01

  during sleep. You'll go in and see a kid sleeping, they'll be in some weird position. They'll get growing pains because actually the bones, you know, it's a lot to orchestrate the growth of the bones and the connective tissue and the brain and all that. It's not always perfect. And so sometimes there's a few days where things are a little out of whack. I remember for months, my knees would hurt when I was a teenager. Yeah, and kids, my dad used to come in and push my knees down because he was worried that something was going on. That's the growing, you're growing, you're growing. Bones are like spreading, right? That's right. There are psychological growing pains and there are physical pains. And in your case, there was a lot of growing. A lot of physical. You know, I'm not, I'm not short. I'm, I'm 6'1", but you're. 6'4". Yeah, you're, you're, you're, you're a tower. Maybe 6'5" maybe, yeah. Um, wow. So the, you know, there's a lot of stuff going on in sleep.

• 45:45Speaker 01

  And are you burning a lot of fat too during sleep? Yeah, a lot of metabolism is happening during sleep. There's a beautiful paper that just came out. Gosh, uh, I, I forget all the micro details, so I'm only going to say a little bit about it, but. A lot of the the removal of fat from the body from when we burn fat is actually done through the breath. We exhale it. There's a carbon dioxide component.

• 46:06Lewis Howes?

  Isn't it interesting? It's a sweat in the breath, right? And then what?

• 46:10Speaker 01

  Not so much, not so much fecal elimination, but more that you're breathing out.

• 46:15Lewis Howes?

  Breathing burns more fat than?

• 46:17Speaker 01

  Well, no, no, sorry. Elimination of fat from the body, if it's going to occur, because I have to be careful, because the nutrition crowd online, they have claws, pitchforks, and they come after you. And they're ready, fire, aim type trigger happy.

• 46:30Lewis Howes?

  You said this.

• 46:31Speaker 01

  Exactly. So I want to be very clear. I believe in calories in, calories out as a basic principle. There, you know, there are people out there arguing different, but basically, if you ingest more calories than you burn, you're going to gain weight. If you keep them more or less equal, you're going to maintain. And if you burn more than you ingest, you're going to lose weight. Okay. Whether or not you lose from muscle fat or other body compartments is a different story, but the utilization of fat as an energy source and the elimination of adipose tissue, of body fat, eventually boils down to something where, yes, indeed, you are exhaling the eventual molecules. Okay, but among other, there are some other routes as well.

• 47:12Lewis Howes?

  How much fat are we exhaling a week?

• 47:15Speaker 01

  Well, it depends on whether or not you're in a caloric deficit or not.

• 47:18Lewis Howes?

  If we're in a deficit, are we, then we're exhaling that fat?

• 47:21Speaker 01

  Essentially, well, but it's been broken down into a number of different metabolic components.

• 47:24Lewis Howes?

  That's crazy.

• 47:25Speaker 01

  It's really wild to think about. Well, if you think, yeah, and you might think, well, why not just remove it through the digestive tract? But it's part of a whole lipolysis, meaning the utilization of fat for energy, lipolysis cycle and an energy cycle, you know, if those of you that enjoyed or suffered through college or high school, you know, the Krebs cycle and ATP and ATP production in the mitochondria and cells and so on, there was a whole business there. But so in sleep, this paper shows that, you know, each stage of sleep is actually associated with a different mode of energy utilization and carbon dioxide offloading and so forth. Or in the last episode, we talked about ideally you're you are nose breathing during sleep, you are not mouth breathing. So some people actually will take shut their mouth with a little bit of medical tape.

• 48:11Speaker 01

  Huge benefits to that for getting enhanced oxygenation of the brain and body. You do not want to have sleep apnea. Sleep apnea is associated with sexual side effects in men and women. It's associated with cardiac arrest. It's associated with a number of bad things. A lot of people who are carrying a lot of extra weight, who sleep on their back, or even just who are carrying a lot of extra weight. Unfortunately, they have a buildup of carbon dioxide in their system at night, especially if they're mouth breathing, and they wake up not feeling rested. In all individuals, regardless of, you know, phenotype, as we say, their genotypes and their phenotypes, regardless of phenotype, the kind of droopiness and the bagging of the eyes that can occur from sleep apnea.

• 48:55Speaker 01

  And the effects on, so get, become a nose breather. We talked about that in the last episode, how to become a nose breather. But you want to nose breathe during sleep if you can. And your partner will thank you too, because you're not snoring as much. Are you, do you nose breathe in sleep? I think I do. I think I do. I, I'm told I snore a little bit from time to time. And, you know, a lot of people, even people who aren't carrying a lot of fat, but people who are carrying a lot of muscle, who sleep on their back, oftentimes they are, they're kind of suffocating during sleep. Every time I hear about a bodybuilder or a very large athlete dying, it's almost always a heart attack during sleep. They're on their back. And, or their side, but they're, they're asphyxiating. And there's a beautiful relationship between breathing and heart rate.

• 49:40Speaker 01

  They're very, simply, when you inhale, your heart rate goes up. And when you exhale, your heart rate goes down. And this has to do with the movement of the diaphragm and the change in the shape of the heart and signals from the brain. I won't go into all that. But when you inhale, your heart rate speeds up. And when you exhale, it slows down. And that's respiratory sinus arrhythmia for the, for the aficionados. So, you know, you want to create an environment around your sleep where it's dim lights in the evening. You've had your meal, maybe a cup of chamomile tea towards sleep. Maybe you supplement, maybe you don't. You wake up, get sunlight in your eyes. This is the kind of landscape you want to create. Sure. Cool room. You want to avoid very stimulating stuff, conversations and activity, you know,

• 50:25Speaker 01

  right before sleep.

• 50:26Lewis Howes?

  Yeah.

• 50:26Speaker 01

  Now, some stimulating activities before sleep, we won't go into details, have a rebound effect afterwards. Matthew Walker's actually talked about this, how certain types of activities cause a rebound in relaxed, you know, they're very-

• 50:38Lewis Howes?

  Sexual activities.

• 50:39Speaker 01

  Yes, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not trying to be vague here.

• 50:42Lewis Howes?

  Yes.

• 50:42Speaker 01

  I'm just-

• 50:43Lewis Howes?

  What does that do for sleep if you have sexual activities before sleep?

• 50:47Speaker 01

  So, sexual activity includes a, it's really remarkable at the level of autonomic nervous system. So, sexual activity involves an increase at first in the so-called parasympathetic arm of the autonomic nervous system, the relaxation system. But then it involves increases in the sympathetic arm of the, of the, of the autonomic nervous system. And orgasm in men and women is actually purely driven by the sympathetic nervous system, the stress system.

• 51:15Lewis Howes?

  Huh.

• 51:16Speaker 01

  It's a, and then the post-coital period is when the parasympathetic nervous system kicks back on and there's a deep relaxation.

• 51:26Lewis Howes?

  So, is it good to have sexual activity before bed or, or not that good?

• 51:30Speaker 01

  According to the architecture of what I just described, yes.

• 51:34Lewis Howes?

  Yes, it's good?

• 51:36Speaker 01

  Yes, it's good. Yes, it's good. Yes, it's good. It helps people sleep. And Matt, actually, when Matt Walker came on my podcast, we talked a little bit about some of the data on this. Now, even, then, you know, so there are all sorts of questions about this that are now coming out. Now, the, the interesting thing about studying sex in the laboratory is very hard to do, right? I mean, there are ethical reasons, there are complicated reasons, and good studies have to be done in laboratories or by self-report. And with self-report, people lie, right? They make up stories in one direction or the other. They're doing more of what they would like to be, they're either reporting more of what they'd like to be reporting of, or less of what they would like to be reporting less of. But doing those sorts of studies in the laboratories is very difficult. There are sleep laboratories, but it's not often that couples are coming in and staying

• 52:21Speaker 01

  in those sleep laboratories together, although that does happen from time to time. But yes, after sex, there's a rebound in the parasympathetic nervous system, which is a deeply relaxing component of the nervous system. And the, the reasons for that aren't clear. I mean, one idea is that it's designed to put people in close proximity, not just run off and look for another mate immediately, and to smell each other and pair bond through some of the pheromonal systems.

• 52:45Lewis Howes?

  Hmm.

• 52:47Speaker 01

  Yeah, yes, very powerful. An interesting form of a pre-sleep, you know, biology for sure. And one that, let's be fair, as we were talking about during the break, every species has two main goals, to protect its young and to make more of itself. And while not all sex is designed for reproduction or used for reproduction, I mean, the, the whole architecture of the reproductive axis, as we say, from brain down to genitals is designed for that arc of parasympathetic, sympathetic, and then parasympathetic.

• 53:20Lewis Howes?

  That's interesting.

• 53:23Speaker 01

  Oh, and the duration of that varies between individuals.

• 53:25Lewis Howes?

  Okay.

• 53:25Speaker 01

  That was a joke.

• 53:28Lewis Howes?

  You gotta go at least 10 minutes to get the full effects.

• 53:30Speaker 01

  I'm not setting the parameters that people should or should not follow. That is not my domain.

• 53:36Lewis Howes?

  This is powerful stuff, man. I'm so, I'm so grateful for your wisdom, as always. Huberman Lab, make sure you guys check out the podcast. One of the top podcasts in the world right now. It's incredible. People love the science, they love the neuroscience, what you're teaching over there. You got a lot of great stuff about brain states, around fear, courage, anxiety, calm, how we can better move into and out of them through visual cues, breath work, movement supplementation, and all sorts of great stuff. Amazing research. Hubermanlab.com, Huberman Lab, everywhere on social media. You go live on Instagram, you post on the podcast every week, YouTube, lots of great stuff. We were talking about this before, and I think this could be a good segue about sex at night.

• 54:22Lewis Howes?

  I want to do a whole nother episode on relationships and neuroscience, around relationships and intimacy. I think it'd be a fascinating conversation. Marriage, relationships, dating, all that. So if you guys want that conversation from Andrew, then leave a hashtag in the comments below, #relationships. And we'll see on YouTube if, how many people want to really see that information. And if you're on the podcast, just DM us or post this over on Instagram and tag us both if you want to learn more about. The science and neuroscience behind relationships, intimacy, all that stuff. I think it'd be fascinating. Have you done an episode on this yet?

• 54:59Speaker 01

  I have not, and I think that

• 55:01Lewis Howes?

  Powerful.

• 55:01Speaker 01

  There's a lot of really great biology, both about sex and reproduction and about relationships, parent-child, couple relationships. The biology of breakups is really interesting.

• 55:13Lewis Howes?

  That'd be huge!

• 55:13Speaker 01

  And there's some really interesting data on, you know, how relationships change over time according to changes in biology in individuals.

• 55:24Lewis Howes?

  Oh my goodness.

• 55:25Speaker 01

  Because we all change over time, and not necessarily for the worse. The data, just to throw out a little teaser, you know, there's this idea that testosterone levels drop with age. The data on this say that there are people in their 70s who maintain testosterone levels. And there's men and women both have testosterone. It serves similar roles in both, although different at the level of the body, but at the level of the brain is what I'm referring to. That mimic the levels that were present in their 20s. And so, yep, so it has a lot to do with how people

• 55:58Lewis Howes?

  Sleep, probably.

• 55:58Speaker 01

  Sleep, how they certainly

• 56:00Lewis Howes?

  Stress, the relationships.

• 56:01Speaker 01

  Their behavior, but also there's a strong psychological component related to self-image that's super interesting. So we could talk about that as well.

• 56:09Lewis Howes?

  Dude, this is fascinating. I'm so pumped for this. Yeah, keep this information for the next time.

• 56:15Speaker 01

  Oh yeah, I won't put it out there.

• 56:17Lewis Howes?

  My man, appreciate you.

• 56:18Speaker 01

  Thanks so much.

• 56:18Lewis Howes?

  Thanks, brother.

• 56:19Speaker 01

  Really appreciate you, Louis.

• 56:20Lewis Howes?

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